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making dreams come true There are few days a little girl dreams about more than her wedding day. The perfect princess dress, her best friends by her side, that handsome boy from third period math gazing handsomely down the aisle as she makes her way toward the altar. The colors, scenery and playlist may change through the years as she drafts and rewrites her perfect day, but it’s not until the question has finally been popped that the real planning begins. Whether it’s an intimate affair for 20 on a shoestring or you have an unlimited budget and 200 invitations to send, there is a lot to take in to consideration when it comes to planning the day the little girl once imagined. From photographers and food to venues and bridesmaids gifts, putting all the pieces into place can be challenging for even the most dedicated organizer. Our goal at Bride & Groom is to make that task just a little bit easier for you. You’ll find amidst our pages information on the various elements that come together to create your special day. Learn all right the questions to ask when you interview potential photographers and find out where you can safely trim a little excess off the budget. Not sure where to start? Our planning check list will give you a guide for how far in advance you should begin the process. We will let you know that it’s a good idea to have a wedding day emergency kit and we’ll take a look at the idea of simply running away from it all for an exotic destination wedding. Likewise, the Crystal Coast has a lot to offer as a wedding destination for those looking for the ideal coastal site. Positive that you want to have an outdoor wedding but not sure exactly where it should be held? We’ve got the run down on some of the most popular locations and contact information to help you get connected. In addition, we’ve created a calendar of popular annual events in case you want your guests to share in one of Eastern Carolina’s many festive celebrations while they’re visiting the coast. Grab a binder, fill it with plenty of blank sheets of paper and let’s get started. Keep notes as you go; save colors, fabrics, pictures of that perfect dress. Keep us with you, too, so you can refer back when you have a question. We feel certain that together we can bring all your childhood dreams of a perfect wedding to reality. All it takes is a little planning!

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Table of Contents Planning

At Your Service

Printing

To Plan or Not to Plan

Location, Location, Location

Transportation

Bride’s Organizer

Flowers

Gifts

Fashion & Beauty

Cakes

Picking the Perfect Dress

Catering

Wedding Day Tresses

Photography

Put Your Best Face Forward

Entertainment

Extras

Annual Events

Marriage Licenses

Advertiser’s Index

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26 Budget Brides 101

50 Affordable Honeymoons

Keep a handle on your wedding costs without

Marrying on a budget doesn’t mean there can’t be

losing what is important.

a honeymoon. Are travel agents are full of great

options.

28 Tradition & Lore

Why blue? Why borrowed? And why are there so

56 Let the Web Guide You

many traditions surrounding weddings?

From honeymoon planning to finding the perfect

suit for that perfect fellow, the internet can be

a great resource for wedding planning.

42 Green Wedding Trends

Eco friendly brides and grooms will find ways

to cut waste and reduce their imprint with these

58 Destination Anywhere

timely suggestions.

Destination weddings continue to grow in

popularity.

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PLANNING

When planning, brides and grooms have a variety of options for gathering much needed information. The following is a list of scheduled 2012 bridal fairs in the area, which bring together a variety of vendors under one roof. Browse wedding apparel, price caterers, look at the work of local photographers and discuss options with various vendors with ease and convenience during the annual fairs. If the date for the bridal fair has already passed for this year, chances are good it will be in the same place at the same time next year, so look ahead and plan for next year’s event. Be sure to check out www.nccoast.com for additional 2012 area bridal show dates as they become available.

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tO PL AN OR NOT TO P L AN . . . That is indeed the question. While everyone wants to think they have the time and energy to plan their own wedding, the reality is that it is a huge undertaking. When added to the daily schedule most Americans already keep, it can be a daunting task to remember all the small things that go in to making your wedding day picture perfect. Do you have the time to plan a wedding or do you need to hire someone to do the leg work for you? Whether you’re planning a fundraiser or a wedding, things just seem to run smoother when someone is in charge. Sure, you can turn to a family member or friend. But will they really be able to enjoy your special day with you if they’re too busy retying bows on the dining room chairs and chasing down a safety pin for the bride at the last minute? From finding the perfect location, to renting linens and tracking down bands and DJs with plenty of wedding experience, planners are the ultimate ambassadors for your big day. Not only can they turn to experience to keep the day seamless, by staying busy with caterers and making sure all the chairs are where they should be, but they also give family and friends a chance to enjoy the wedding, rather than stress over it. In turn, the benefits can often make the in-

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vestment well worth it. Planners often provide repeat business for certain vendors, both local and mail order – which can lead to deep discounts for the happy couple. In addition, they’re a wealth of information on how and where you can safely cut corners without anyone noticing your frugality. Most importantly, a wedding planner can remind you of necessities and details that you may have overlooked because they’ve been there time and time again. By seeing things that didn’t quite work in the past or worked perfectly, they have the luxury of learning from others’ decisions (and mistakes) and passing that advice on to you. When it comes to choosing the ideal planner a lot of the decision making has to go by your own impressions. Degrees, credentials and experience mean little if you just don’t like their approach or agree with their vision. So while we recommend that you check their credentials and references, we also suggest that you go with your gut as well. Are they friendly? Do you feel comfortable talking to them about your dream day? Are they organized? Are they within your budget? And can they promise to stick to the budget? Odds are if you answered yes to these questions, you’ll have safe hands to guide you through the process.

Jan. 6-7: Crystal Coast Wedding Salon, Sheraton Hotel, Atlantic Beach. 252-2494992 or crystalcoastweddingsalon.com. Jan. 14: Crystal Coast Bridal Fair, Crystal Coast Civic Center, 3505 Arendell St., Morehead City, 252-247-3883, 888-899-6088. Jan. 22: New Bern Bridal Expo, New Bern Riverfront Convention Center, 203 South Front St., New Bern, 252-635-5658. Feb. 26: Onslow Bridal Gala, Marston Pavilion, Marine Corp Base Camp Lejeune, 252-671-6939, www.onslowbridalgala.com.

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get ti n g ORGANIZ ED

PLANNING

You’re making a list and you’re checking it twice – or at least we hope you are. Wedding planning can be a challenge when added to today’s busy lifestyle. Here’s a simple guide to use as a reminder or timeline for planning purposes.

Six to Twelve Months Before

ceremony and book them.

 Purchase fiancé’s gift, if gifts will be

of your guests in a first-pass list that includes all possible guests on both sides. Then whittle down the numbers you plan to invite with a second-pass guest list.

exchanged.

 Go

over final details with all professional service providers. Inform them of any last-minute changes.

videographer, florist, musicians or DJ and other service providers.

 Choose

wedding colors, begin discussing favors, decorations, stationary.

 Arrange for someone to assist with

last minute errands and to help you dress.

Four Months Before

 Review details and final guest count

with caterer.

 Make

final arrangements for ceremony (deposits should be paid, contracts signed).

 Make sure vows are written, and

practice (if you are writing your own).

 Finalize the guest list and send “save

the date” cards/magnets. If there are no “save the date” mailings, send invitations.

 Write and mail “thank you” notes.

Groom’s Wedding Day Checklist  Allow plenty of time to get dressed

and get to the ceremony location.

 Give the best man the bride’s wedding

ring.

 Place the officiant’s fee in a sealed

envelope and give to the best man to present after the ceremony.

 Bring marriage license to ceremony

or have the best man bring it.

determine the amount of time it will take and to make sure it looks just the way you want it to on your big day.

 Hold

rehearsal dinner with all participants.

with

 Give photographer/videographer a

 Finalize accommodations for out-of-

list of photos/shots desired.

town attendants or guests.

 Review set list with musicians or the

track choices with DJ, along with reception agenda.

Six to Eight Weeks Before  Send invitations to follow “save the

 Pack suitcase for honeymoon.

date.”

 Check all wedding attire has been

 Finalize all decorations, favors, song

lists for musicians or DJ.

picture to newspapers.

 Practice having your hair done to

 Order wedding cake.

One Week Before

After the Ceremony  Send announcement and wedding

all accessories purchased, including goblets, ring pillow, garter, candles, etc.

 Select a caterer, photographer or

officiant.

 Have

 Decide who will stand up for the

details

hours before the ceremony or earlier if pictures are being taken before ceremony.

 Purchase gifts for attendants.

 Start compiling names and addresses

ceremony

 Start dressing one to one-and-a-half

 Get marriage license.

 Select someone to officiate at the

bride and groom, and ask them to commit.

have it done at least three to four hours before the ceremony.

 Have a formal bridal portrait made.

and reception location.

On the Wedding Day  Fix hair or have an appointment to

and bridal attendants’ gowns.

 Determine and reserve your ceremony

 Finalize

 Have a final fitting for your gown

 Select wedding date and time.

One Month Before

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Pickin g t h e perfec t d r e s s At least one website is calling it the Kate Middleton effect – but with such a glamorous wedding making headlines around the world there is no wonder that everyone is clamoring to be just like Kate when they head down the aisle this season. Sleek form-fitting lace sleeves and beaded bodices make the wedding dress a more tactile experience this season with crinkled chiffon, delicate feathers and lace backs adding more than a hint of drama. Skirts are getting fuller still, following the grand princess gowns we saw on last year’s run-

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ways. The fabrics, however, are softer, fuller and richer in texture than ever before, creating a gentle line on any frame. Where stiff taffeta gave the bridal gowns of the past their fullness and femininity, today’s brides will find soft voluminous gathers, frothy ruffles and delicate ruching give dresses not only a softer shape, but are pleasing to the touch as well. Also popular are two-tiered (or more) layered skirts. The three-dimensional effect is a great option for someone who wants to make an entrance while also providing a little extra room in the hip area, making it a flattering option for a variety of body styles. It seems safe to say that while tea length dresses continue to be popular, brides are covering up more than ever before. A variety of necklines have been spotted from the designers, with many boasting a sheer transparent fabric creating a faux high neckline and gently covering skin that is otherwise left bare. Straps are making a return as well, even halters are included in the 2012 offerings. The one shoulder neckline that hit its peak two years ago, has just about disappeared from the line up, with strapless gowns and the variety of creative straps taking the spotlight. Length is popular this year, with most floorlength gowns hitting the floor as you walk. Do remember to keep an eye on the length, especially if you’re having a beach wedding and dreaming of getting your feet wet. A shorter style, at the ankle or higher, is ideal for the beach, allowing you to frolic freely without worrying about your big investment. While it’s always mentioned during when the gown is purchased, don’t feel like you have to purchase your gown, shoes and hairpiece in one sitting. In order to make sure you can accommodate the ‘do of your choice, it may be best to work with your hairdresser to ensure that you pick the perfect veil or headpiece to match the day’s hairstyle Shoes, of course, can be chosen at any juncture. Just make sure you have them in hand when you go to have your dress fitted. Nobody wants to have a floor-sweeping dress up around their ankles, or, worse yet, trip over a too-long gown on their way down the aisle. For the sake of both style and safety, make sure you’re positive about what will be on your feet before you allow anyone near your dress with the scissors.

Beaut i fu l w e d d i n g day t r e sses What bride doesn’t want to be heads above the rest in terms of her wedding day do? The trouble is many brides-to-be don’t take adequate steps to ensure their wedding day tresses will be up to par, including doing a practice run and being confident with their stylists. While your hair may look picture-perfect in your mind, getting through the wedding day with hair intact takes some time and effort – and the planning process doesn’t start a week before the wedding, either.

1. Start Early

Once you know your wedding date and have the venues booked, start shopdylan ray photo ping around for a stylist that you’ll stick with through your wedding day. You want to make sure this person is in consistent charge of your look, tailoring haircuts and coloring appointments toward the end goal.

2. Set a Schedule

Certain hair tasks should occur at specific times. For example, your final color should be done at least two weeks before the wedding to allow for color blending. A final trim should be around the same time also so that your hair hasn’t just been snipped. You’ll want haircuts at regular intervals even if you’re growing your hair out for the wedding to make sure it looks healthy.

3. Do Your Research

Browse through magazines and make a look book of styles you like. Discuss with your stylist if they will complement your facial structure, style, hair type and wedding gown. Talk about the venue and what will be expected of your hair. If you’ll be on the beach with blowing wind, a tight up-do might not be practical.

4. Have a Hair Rehearsal

Schedule a rehearsal of your wedding day hairdo with your stylist after you come up with a look that’s agreed upon. Not only will this help your stylist get his or her technique down pat, it’ll enable the both of you to fine tune what works and what doesn’t. You can also get a feel for your hair so there won’t be any surprises once you are ready to walk down the aisle. Make sure to bring your veil with you and make-up your face so you’ll get an accurate view of what will be the finished product. Take pictures from all angles to ensure that you’re happy with the look from every direction. Remember, you’ll be photographed coming and going, in action and at rest during the wedding.

5. Pack Reinforcements

Some brides opt to invite their stylist to the reception hall for a few touch-ups between venues. If this isn’t an option, ask what products to bring along and how you can repair any minor flyaways, etc.

6. Put it in Perspective

Remember, just like everything that you’re planning for your wedding, while you hope things go on without a hitch, there may be some snags along the way. Remain calm and go with the flow. Guests are more apt to remember the joyous tone of the day rather than minute details that could frazzle you --like an errant Bobby pin or a pull in your stockings.

Put Yo u r B e s t Fac e F o rwa rd Never will there be a time when all eyes are on the bride like they are on her wedding day. And every bride wants to make sure she puts her best face forward when she takes that first step down the aisle. This means it’s an important time to use cosmetics and lotions that you are already familiar with. Nothing can ruin your day quicker than an unsightly rash or irritation, especially if it’s the direct effect of using a new product. If you’re ready to do something vibrant and different, it’s a good idea to experiment ahead of time and know exactly what you’re going for when the big day arrives. Have fun with it. Invite the bridesmaids over, enjoy a few glasses of wine and play make up just like you did in middle school. If you don’t have the make up skills you’d like, odds are that one of your friends will be happy to jump in and offer suggestions. One of the easiest ways to draw attention to your best facial feature is with some subtly contrasting colors or shades. However, you’ll want the look to hold up over all those tears and kisses, so it’s a good idea to test out all the shades you plan to wear to see how long they’ll hold up. Make waterproof your word of the day, especially when it comes to mascara, and avoid applying too much to the bottom half of your lashes.

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make you look more awake and vibrant. Keep eye shadow light to medium. Dark shades can look harsh in photos. Practice with different amounts and take test photos to see what looks washed out and what looks perfect on you. Go over pencil eyeliner with a matching shade of powder shadow to give the liner staying power. If your wedding is early in the season, try out sunless tanning options months before the wedding to find which looks best and most natural. portraits by angelo Talk to your dentist about whitening treatments or whitening toothpaste for flashing those bright whites at the camera. Make sure waxing appointments are scheduled one or two weeks before the big day. If you’ve never had eyebrows shaped before, practice several months in advance to find the perfect look. www.nccoast.com

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F INDING T H E P ERF ECT LOCATION FOR YOUR PERF ECT DAY With an abundance of historical locales and natural beauty, the Crystal Coast is chock full of options when it comes to choosing a wedding location for those who are stepping outside of the family church and saying their vows in more non-traditional areas. From the wilds of the Outer Banks to the historic setting of the Beaufort Historic Site, the variety of outdoor venues in Carteret County can provide a site for just about every taste. If you choose an outdoor venue, professionals suggest having a back-up plan with a secondary inside location just in case the weather doesn’t cooperate. Some of the area’s venues already have a contingency plan in place, with room to move the festivities indoors in a pinch, while others do not. It’s certainly a good idea to check and see what is available at each location and browse for the ideal space. It’s also important to ask what ABC licenses

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a site has in place and which may need to be obtained for the event at a cost. Beach weddings are always popular in North Carolina because of the unique backdrop an ocean, sound or river provides. Still, there are a few things to keep in mind. Some locations, like Fort Macon, have permit requirements and stipulations on the number of chairs allowed. And, if you’re holding the ceremony on the beach, remember that it can be incredibly hot in the summer and the sound of crashing waves can overpower those speaking at the ceremony. A local tech company would be glad to help you out with that last problem, supplying some wireless microphones and speakers so everyone can hear loud and clear. The size of the location needs to be reasonable for the number of guests you are expecting. Typically about half to two-thirds of the invited guests will attend, so the location

should be large enough to accommodate this number of people, but small enough so that the atmosphere remains intimate. Have questions about how to arrange a wedding at a waterfront location or how to contact a minister or other individual to conduct the ceremony? Wedding planners and visitors centers are the best places to start. Contact the Crystal Coast Tourism Authority at 1800-SUNNYNC or visit www.crystalcoastnc. org. Contact the Craven County Convention and Visitor Center at 1-800-437-5767 or visit www.newbern.com. One of the more convenient options for large gatherings is renting an outdoor tent. If ever there was a blank canvas, this is it. Not only can a tent provide an indoor-outdoor setting, but inside the walls you customize the decorations to match exactly what you want: parquet dance floors, stages for entertain-

Located at the end of Island Road, next to the National Park Service, this newly-completed facility is a virtual clearinghouse of Down East history and memorabilia. Details: 252728-1500, www.coresound.com.

With an influx of summer visitors year after year, the Crystal Coast is also home to a variety of resorts, bed & breakfast inns and restaurants that have extra space to accommodate a wedding, reception or both. Special rental space can be found at:

Fort Macon State Park With a beautiful new visitor’s center, exhibits and plenty of history you can touch, the park encompasses 385 acres of beach, dunes and maritime forest. The pentagonal brick Civil War fortress garrisoned for the Spanish-American War is a favorite among locals and visitors. While some casements have been transformed into museum exhibits, others have been left untouched (except for a few safety precautions) so guests can truly experience what life in the fort was like during the Civil War. Details: 252-726-3775.

Beaufort Inn 101 Ann St., Beaufort 252-728-5347 Carteret County Home Bed & Breakfast 299 Hwy 101, Beaufort 252-728-4611 Country Club of the Crystal Coast 152 Oakleaf Dr., Pine Knoll Shores 252-726-1034 Crystal Coast Civic Center 3505 Arendell St., Morehead City 888-899-6088 Elks Lodge 400 Miller Farm Road, Morehead City 252-726-4472 Leon Mann Jr. Enrichment Center 3820 Galantis Dr., Morehead City 252-247-2626 Morehead City Country Club 2900 Country Club Road, Morehead City 252-726-6666 Morehead City Train Depot 1001 Arendell St., Morehead City 252-808-0440 Ocean Club 1700 Salter Path Road, Indian Beach 252-247-2035 Old Train Depot 614 Broad St., Beaufort 252-728-2141 Trinity Center 618 Salter Path Road, Salter Path 252-247-5600

ers, heating or air conditioning units, custom fabric liners or even ceiling fans. Any color scheme imaginable will look elegant against a wonderful white background. Add a group of friends and family in their wedding best and you’re well on your way to a wonderful day. Whether you plan on getting married in the middle of tourist season, or during the quieter off-season months, most of the area’s favorite attractions are open and ready to greet your family. Here are some of our favorites:

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Beaufort Historic Site Located on Turner Street in the heart of Beaufort, the historic site takes you back to the early days through restored buildings, Living History programs and a full calendar of annual events. See what life was like 300 years ago by browsing the Courthouse of 1796, peeking into the apothecary shop and strolling through the Old Burying Ground. Or use the site as a backdrop for your ideal wedding. Check www.beauforthistoricsite.org for a calendar of major events and rental options. Details: 800-575-SITE Cape Lookout National Seashore Cape Lookout National Seashore is a 56-mile stretch of North Carolina’s Outer Banks featuring a lighthouse and endless stretches of private beach. Park headquarters is located at the end of Island Road on Harkers Island and features regular programming and exhibits. The lighthouse – just a hop, skip and a jump away by water taxi – is open for climbing on select days during the summer months. The secluded beach areas are perfect for shelling, fishing, kayaking, camping and, of course, weddings. Details: 252-728-2250, www.nps.gov/calo. Core Sound Waterfowl Museum & Heritage Center Heritage is a vital thread to the Down East region of Carteret County and since its inception, the Core Sound Waterfowl Museum has been the ringleader in gathering and protecting those ties that bind the communities – fishing, hunting, boat building and decoy carving.

The History Place The History Place focuses on the rich, abundant history of this waterfront county – from Down East’s rich fishing heritage to the tale of the Promise Land in downtown Morehead City. Visit an early school room, peek into a Victorian parlor or touch the wheels of spy Emeline Pigott’s carriage. Civil War memorabilia, furniture, artwork, vintage clothing, glassware and more come together to paint a picture of Carteret County’s history. Details: 252-247-7533, www.thehistoryplace.org.

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pl an n i n g thro u g h t h e ye ar Whether you’re a local looking for the perfect time to plan a wedding at the beach or a visitor wondering when it would be ideal to introduce your friends and family to your favorite vacation spot – there are a lot of reasons throughout the year to bring guests to the Crystal Coast. Planning around major events give guests the option of including a little rest and relaxation into their planned visit and it gives the bridal party the chance to blow off a little steam along the way. Here are a few of the area’s largest annual events. JANUARY Penguin Plunge: Each New Year’s Day these brave souls celebrate the new year and cleanse their souls by taking a dip in the ocean for charity. Atlantic Beach Circle. Details: www.penguin-plunge.org. FEBRUARY Gloucester Mardi Gras: Bringing a little bit of the Mississippi Delta to Down East Carteret County with gumbo, dance and music. Featuring and led by the Cajun/Zydeco musicians of Unknown Tongues, this festive event is free and open to all who want to join in the spirit of the rural Mardi Gras of Southwest Louisiana in a Down East setting. Costumes are welcomed (bring your beads!) and there’s lots of fun for the kids. Held at the Gloucester Community Center. Call 252-729-8021 for information. Carolina Chocolate Festival. From the chocolate spa to decadent dinners and a main event at the Crystal Coast Civic Center, the Chocolate Festival is a great way to kick off February. The event features chocolatiers from

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across the nation offering samples and sales of their tasty treats along with a variety of special events. Details: 877-848-4976, www. carolinachocolatefestival.com. MARCH Emerald Isle St. Patrick’s Festival. Celebrating its 20th anniversary in 2011, the festival has become a tradition along the Crystal Coast. Featuring more than 75 arts and crafts vendors, food, clowns and static displays along with amusement rides, a climbing wall and face painters. Details: 252-354-6350. Swansboro Rotary’s Oyster Roast. This all-you-can-eat and drink event features steamed oysters, flounder, clam chowder, a pig pickin’, hushpuppies, coleslaw, hotdogs with chili, beer, soft drinks and coffee. Details: 910326-6175. APRIL Beaufort Wine and Food Weekend. This annual event thrills the senses, offering festival goers a tantalizing taste of food, wine and art through wine tastings, dinners, gala events

and more with celebrity and regional chefs and a full list of winemakers. Details: www. beaufortwineandfood.com. Newport Pig Cookin’ Contest. Dish up some good times and family fun at the nation’s largest whole hog barbecue. Concession stands, rides, crafts, bake sales and live entertainment, plates of the best barbecue around and some great competition for those interested in participating. Details: www. newportpigcooking.com. MAY Beaufort Music Festival. With an eclectic collection of music in various venues, the Beaufort Music Festival takes over the waterfront street of historic Beaufort Music Festival for two nights each May. This familyfriendly event offers plenty for the youngsters to do as well. Details: www.beaufortmusicfestival. com. Wooden Boat Show. More than 50 wooden boats are on exhibit each year, along with demonstrations and hands-on workshops for professional boat builders, enthusiasts and

new fans of wooden boats round out the event. The event is sponsored by the NC Maritime Museum in Beaufort. Details: 252-728-7317. MCAS Cherry Point Air Show. MCAS Cherry Point in Havelock opens its gates to the public for this annual air show that highlights the latest in Marine Corps war-fighting technology and military aviation along with thrilling acrobatics and historic demonstrations. Details: www.cherrypointairshow.com. JUNE Beaufort Old Homes and Gardens Tour. Explore beautifully-restored historic homes, glorious gardens, churches, artist studios and public buildings throughout Beaufort thanks to the Beaufort Historical Association. The program’s Antique Show & Sale runs concurrently at the Crystal Coast Civic Center. Details: www.beauforthistoricsite.org. Big Rock Blue Marlin Tournament. Fun and excitement come to the Morehead City waterfront with one of the largest sport-fishing tournaments in the country and a purse that has many times topped $1 million. Details: www. thebigrock.com. JULY Buddy Pelletier Memorial Longboard Classic. A local charity competition on Bogue Banks gives spectators a chance to see professional and amateur surfers battle against one another for trophies and bragging rights. Details: 252-727-7917, buddy.pelletier.com. Barta Boys and Girls Club Billfish Tournament. This NC Governor’s Cup Series

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tournament sets up base on the Beaufort waterfront with prizes for marlin releases and weigh-ins for tuna, dolphin and wahoo. Kid-friendly event offers low entry fees and supports the Boys and Girls Clubs of Coastal Carolina. Details: www.bartabillfish.com. Historic Beaufort Road Race. This popular road race takes place on the third Saturday in July and includes a 10K run, a 5K run and walk and a 1-mile run and walk. There are also wheelchair events and a 5K baby-jogger race. Entry fees vary. Details: www.beaufortroadrace. com.

at 10am at Carteret Community College. A cookout is planned after the ride. Door prizes and a 50/50 drawing are offered. The cost is $15-$20 per bike/rider. All proceeds used for scholarships in the memory of Joe Cagley for criminal justice majors. Details: Charles Rice, 631-455-3924. Carteret Numismatic Society Coin Show. Held at the Crystal Coast Civic Center, the annual weekend attracts dealers and collectors who sell and trade coins of all types. Admission is $1, which purchases a raffle ticket. Drawings are held every hour. Details: 252-247-3883.

AUGUST Carolina Shakespeare Festival. Theatrics by the Carolina Shakespeare Festival take to the stage each summer with its own interpretation of a classic work. Details: www.csfest.com. Outer Banks Wildlife Shelter’s Sand Sculpting Contest. Held at The Atlantis Lodge in Pine Knoll Shores, participants are invited to spend a day on the beach playing in the sand to raise money for wildlife rescue. Details: 252240-1200. Beaufort Pirate Invasion. This familyfriendly weekend sees pirates invade the hamlet of Beaufort only to be captured and tried on the grounds of the Beaufort Historic Site. Weekend includes a barbecue, party and parade. Details: 252-728-5225.

OCTOBER Carolina Kite Fest. See and fly colorful kites of every kind at the Sheraton in Atlantic Beach. Activities for the whole family. Details: 252-247-7011, kites-birdstuff.com. Mum Fest. New Bern blossoms with this chrysanthemum-based festival – a weekend celebration of flowers, entertainment, great food and of course, good old-fashioned Southern hospitality. Expect entertainment, amusement rides, arts and crafts vendors, commercial and food vendors, roving dance troupes, street performers and thousands of mums at Tryon Palace Historic Sites and Gardens. Details: www.mumfest.com. NC Seafood Festival. Visitors come from all around to the Morehead City waterfront during the first weekend of October for the state’s second largest and tastiest festival. Enjoy vendors selling seafood specialties

SEPTEMBER Carteret County Officer Down Memorial Ride. The Morehead City Blue Knights sponsor this 80-mile memorial ride. Sign in begins

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trimm i n g b ac k th e w e d d i n g day c oS ts In a recent survey released by Visa, Inc., 88 percent of couples believe they overspent on some aspect of their wedding. Over the years, weddings have become a major financial commitment, in many instances ensuring a couple’s first task as man and wife will be paying off the mountain of bills they accrued to achieved their dream wedding. In today’s economic climate, the cost of weddings is even tougher to swallow, as both the domestic and global economy remains difficult to predict. Next to buying a home and having a child, weddings are one of the largest expenses a couple will incur, averaging some $26,501 in 2011 according to ABC News. That doesn’t mean a fabulous wedding is out of reach, however, it does mean some difficult decisions may have to be made. What is most important to you on your big day? And where can corners be cut to trim much-needed dollars off the final bill. Is a formal rehearsal dinner a must? Or can your bridesmaids pitch in and pull together a great home-cooked spaghetti

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dinner that everyone will appreciate? If having your dream wedding includes a pricey venue, maybe money can be saved in other areas to bring your dream to life. Be ever watchful of the small figures. Large expenditures, like paying $2,000 for a location, are easy to track. It’s often in the smaller costs that make us lose track of how much money is actually being spent. Sure, linen tablecloths may only be $3 a piece to rent for the day, but if you’re renting 100 for two days, the cost can rise quickly without anyone realizing where the money is going. Here are a few other tips for keeping the budget to a minimum: Limit the guest list. Inviting all friends and family members might be a nice gesture, but it’s also an expensive one. Cost-conscious couples can save a good deal of money by only inviting those friends and family members who are closest to them. Sit down as a couple and write out a list of people that you would both

like to invite. Ask your parents to do the same – it’s only fair since parents generally have a financial stake in the wedding as well. Take into consideration who will bring a date or children with them. Switch from Saturday. Saturday weddings are not only the most popular, but also the most expensive, according to the Visa report. Couples with some flexibility can save money by moving their wedding to a Friday or Sunday. Couples who move their weddings to Friday often find they get to spend more time with their friends and families the following day, as guests are more inclined to stay in town an extra day than they are on Sunday afternoons following a wedding. Couples in a tourist-driven economy like Eastern North Carolina can also stand to shave a little bit off the top by having their wedding during off-peak months. November through April are slower months for weddings, so many halls, caterers and other service providers give discounts because they have fewer bookings.

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Trim back the floral arrangements. Flowers for a wedding can prove very expensive, but couples can trim those costs by using more greenery in the floral displays and ordering less expensive, seasonal flowers. When discussing arrangements with the florist, explain your budget limitations clearly to make sure they are understood. Couples may also want to look at candles, shells and other decorative items that can help fill the space left by absent centerpieces. For those who are really creative – loose flowers in a tall slender vase can go a long way. Not everything has to be formal and overpriced and flowers are definitely an area where money can be saved. Eat, drink and be merry, but let them do it on someone else’s dime. In the Visa survey, respondents felt they overspent more on food, drink and cake than any other aspect of their wedding. Save serious money by planning the reception for a time when guests will not need a full, seated meal. If your ceremony is between

one and three in the afternoon, you can have a tea reception. Serve finger sandwiches, scones and mini pastries. For a reception starting at 4 or 5pm, have a cocktail reception. Drinks and hors d’oeuvres are all you need. Make it clear on your invitation – “Tea (or cocktail) reception to follow.” Couples may also choose to limit beverage availability by having one or two drink options instead of a full bar. For those looking to have a much smaller bar tab at the end of the night – having a cash bar for guests is no longer the big etiquette no-no it once was. Location, location, location plays a huge role in how much your wedding is going to cost. If you know anyone with a beautiful home or a large garden, consider the option of having your event there. Private venues may require hiring staff, paying for insurance and a variety of other incendiary costs that leave you wondering if maybe you should have just hit up the justice of the peace in his chambers. During

those off-season weddings, don’t be ashamed to bargain a little bit. Venues that are booked every weekend all summer long are often sitting vacant come November – making it a great opportunity to get a little discount. Don’t overlook all-inclusive venues, such as resorts and hotels, which can hold the wedding and reception all in one place and make the event much easier for out-of-towners to navigate. Forgo a traditional honeymoon. Seventeen percent of male respondents to the Visa survey felt they overspent on their honeymoon. While it’s certainly nice to fly off to the Caribbean and spend your first week as a married couple soaking up some sun, a more local getaway for a couple of days can be just as relaxing and save couples substantial amounts of money. Once the bills have been paid, couples can then enjoy a more traditional honeymoon, possibly in celebration of their first anniversary.

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Something old, something new. Something borrowed, something blue. And a silver sixpence for her shoe.

Steeped in ancient symbolism, there is little about today’s modern wedding ceremony that doesn’t have at least some ties to the ancient services of old. From the white wedding gown to the flowers carried by the bride, the tradition of bonding husband and wife has been passed down through the ages, carrying old historic rituals right through to contemporary services. Why a best man? Ancient weddings often including the kidnapping or capture of a woman, often from a neighboring town or tribe. With that being the case, the best man was the person assigned to helping the groom complete the deed and subsequently hide his bride from her family. Groomsman, all dressed alike in the uniform of the day, would also assist. The bridal party’s tendency to dress alike is also attributed to helping the couple evade evil wishers on their way to the church. Why does the bride stand on the left? Referring to the first answer, it is said that warriors would often have to fight off warriors attempting to steal or save his bride to be. With the bride on the left, he could adequately hold on to his catch with his left hand while clinging tightly to his sword with his right. Why does the bride wear white? Records claim it was Anne of Brittany who popularized the white wedding dress in 1499.

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Prior to that brides simply wore the nicest dress they owned. White, however, was not used to represent purity, which became a popular belief by the early 20th century. Instead, the color was said to symbolize joy and happiness. Why does the bride wear a veil? While some marriages were by capture and some were by purchase, there were also plenty of arranged marriages throughout history. The groom would often be told of his parent’s intent to marry him off, but rarely did he have the opportunity to see the bride prior to saying his vows. Once the ceremony was complete, however, he was allowed to lift the veil and see just how lucky he got for the first time. Why do we feed each other cake? The Romans believed that cake, traditionally made with wheat or barely, was a sign of fertility. Following the ceremony, the guests would crumble the cake over the bride’s head in hopes of blessing the couple with a large family. Later, as the tradition evolved into a tower of small cakes, the couple was tasked with kissing over the dessert without knocking over the tower to earn good fortune as they set out on their life together. Why does the bride carry flowers? The answer to this is two-fold. First, in ancient times, baths were few and far between and historians claim that many a bride and

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groom were brought to the altar with a not-sofresh smell lingering in their wake. The sweet smelling flowers brought a fragrant addition to the day and may have kept many a potential groom from running away at the last minute. Also, in ancient times, herbs and spices were well known to ward off evil spirits. Historical brides would carry a bouquet to keep dark forces from attending their ceremony. Why do we string shoes on the bumper? Ancient Egyptians placed a large amount of power in a person’s shoes. When a father gave his bride in marriage, it is said that he also gave the groom to be his daughter’s shoes to show that the husband was now the man in authority where she was concerned. Later, people would throw shoes at the couple as they left their ceremony, however, we’ve now resorted to simply tying them on the bumper as they drive away. Why seal it with a kiss? The kiss was traditionally thought to be a legal and binding pact between the couple with guests believing that people shared a piece of their soul in the breath of a kiss. Why a guest book? Traditionally, everyone who attended a wedding was thought to be a witness to the event and had to sign the marriage decree. That tradition continues today with the guest book.

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a lit t l e aroma th e r a py If there were ever a day when a little aroma therapy could be useful to stifle your nerves and add a sense of calm, the wedding day is certainly one of them. Flowers have been a traditional part of the wedding since ancient Roman times, bringing a sweet scent to the day and symbolizing the purity and sanctity of the ceremony. Today’s brides are no longer locked in to choosing a flower in a shade that matches the wedding theme. Florists are dying flowers in just about every shade in the rainbow these days – so there is no need to worry if carnations don’t naturally come in lavender to match the bridesmaid’s dresses. Odds are the florists can find them for you. Websites and wedding watchers are predicting two diverse flower trends in 2012. Many brides are opting for a vintage look with dusty shades hand-tied with a variety of greens. Watch for lace, pearls and feathers teamed with ferns and fragrant kitchen herbs along with soft blush pinks, lavenders, grays, antique blues, browns and earth tones in the bridal bouquet. Others are finding their place in a more wild and funky display, with hot pinks, bold plums, lime green and silver. Like all things associated with the wedding, flowers can eat up a large chunk of the wedding day budget. Flowers can range from

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a few hundred dollars to several thousands and beyond. Take stock of your needs carefully, from the bridal party to table arrangements, and have a clear idea of what you want to spend before diving in. A bride’s bouquet ranges from $50 to $300; bridesmaids’ bouquets, $20-$100; centerpieces, $50-$250; a bouquet to toss, $20-$50. You don’t need flowers at the end of each pew for $10-$50 a piece? Perfect, because this is a good place to save a little on the budget if you have other creative ideas for centerpieces and aisle decorations. A nice candle, a plant wrapped in a lace-draped planter or an iced bottle of champagne for the toasts that follow can make superb centerpieces without extending your floral budget. Florists recommend that you have at least a basic idea of what you will need for the wedding and reception as well as an idea of your colors and flower preferences. Wedding websites and magazines are a great place to start. The next step is to meet prospective florists for an initial consultation. Area florists recommend a first visit at least 5-6 months prior to the big day. Make sure you inquire about what flowers are in season and abundant during the period when your wedding will be held. Most flowers are less expensive when in season, helping trim a little off the cost.

For a little seasonal help, traditional Southern seasonal flowers include: Spring – Dogwood, forsythia, foxglove, herbs, larkspur, magnolia, roses, sweet pea, tulips, wisteria Summer – Aster, cosmos, hydrangea, roses, rosemary, sunflower, zinnia Fall – Bittersweet, hydrangea, ornamental berries, roses, salvia, sassafras, sumac Winter – Evergreens, hydrangea, roses With only so much time and so many arrangements to make, it can be hard to remember who needs what on the big day. Here is a little planner to help you decide exactly what you’ll need: •

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One of the greatest ways to enjoy your wedding is to make sure that you are surrounded by the ones you care most about. Each invited guest, bridesmaid and groomsman has special meaning to the couple. It is important to not only share your day with guests, but show your appreciation for their support and dedication to you as a newly married couple with a properly selected gift. Treasured Trinkets for your Bridesmaids Traditionally, the rule is that bridesmaid gifts should correlate with the wedding budget. But, for most girls, cost is a small factor when treating those who help the bride shine with elegance throughout the big day and at all the events leading up to it. Some brides prefer to pamper their bridesmaids with spa retreats. Another classic bridesmaid gift is something that she can wear on the wedding day, but still use later on. According to www.theknot.com each individual maid should be kept in mind and brides should aim to choose imaginative and stylish gifts that come from the heart. From crafty and tasty to just plain indulgent, here are a few ideas for specific personality types to help inspire the bride:  Entertain her with tickets to a musical or sporting event.  Show lavish affection with silk pajamas or a gift certificate to a luxury spa.  Get crafty and make her jewelry, a knitted scarf or personalized scrapbook.  Play off her passion and match her style with a gift for the cook, gardener or ballroom dance hopeful.  Wine and dine the expert entertainer with decadent chocolates for her sweet tooth, deluxe picnic basket for the outdoors girl or an elegant French press for the coffee nut.

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The Best for the Boys Don’t let the groom forget the men who have always had their back. Standing by their side on the big day, these are the guys who the groom has learned to laugh with, trust and lean on throughout all times. “Groomsmen are often overlooked in a wedding party even though they play important roles,” says Mark Walerstein, founder of GroomsOnline. Ensure that you treat these guys right, and Walerstein recommends a few gift ideas that work well with even the tightest budgets:  Hit a homerun: Seemingly since the beginning of time, men have bonded over sports. Choose from groomsonline.com and its extensive personalized sports favorites including MLB, NFL, NHL and NCAA.  Stock the bar: No man cave is complete without a fully stocked bar, and grooms can help their groomsmen transform theirs with a carefully chosen gift that’s sure to prove a proud addition. Grooms can also choose from personalized pewter medallion glass mugs or other similar timeless reminders.  Embrace everyone’s inner executive: For the more established groomsmen, gifts that are sure to meet all business matters include a professional pen set, money clip or business card holder that can all be tailor made and personally engraved.

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Thinking Outside of the Wedding Favor Box Favors are one of the best ways to thank guests for being a part of your wedding day. Several couples are hoping to add a little of their personal and creative flare to gift selections. Here are a few classic options tweaked with a little artistic innovation:  Sweet spot: Bored with pastel colored Jordan almonds, why not create a candy bar for guests to fill up their own box? Add color coordinating options or a little rainbow charm with everybody’s favorites including wedding theme colored M&M’s, colorful gummy bears or well targeted and fun Hershey’s kisses.  Personalized creations: Friends will always remember your day, especially when they have a new deck of cards accented with personalized photos of the bride and groom. For a more economical choice, try photo bookmarks.  Useful necessities: Find a gift that guests are sure to use, such as an exquisite wine bottle opener. As you spice up your new love life, you can also choose to share your new joys with hot food seasonings adorned with custom labels, found at www.cajutex.com.  Beach style: Complement your Crystal Coast wedding with a matched gift. Avoid being too cliché, but have fun with it. Choices can be anything from custom mini beach balls or aluminum can koozies to elegant wine stoppers ornamented with starfish or other beauties reminiscent of the sea.

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uniqu e a n d f l avo r f u l wedd i n g c a k e s In recent years, wedding cakes have become more of an artistic centerpiece than just a confectionary treat. Today’s brides and grooms are experimenting with cake flavors and designs so their cake is a unique representation of their persona as a couple. Couples seek out bakers who will amaze the crowd and complete the theme of the wedding. The average couple will spend between $700 and $800 for their wedding cake. Although many catering halls or reception sites will include the wedding cake in a package deal, many couples choose to order their cake from a specialty bakery. Recent television programs such as “Cake Boss,” revolutionized a new trend in customized wedding cakes. These fondant creations are obviously elaborate and will need to be ordered several months in advance. Couples may want to consider these top trends:  3-D accents on the cake, such as graphic appliqués.  A lot of bold color in the cake, instead of plain white or ivory.  Dramatic monograms that can add class to the cake.  Painted cakes featuring beautiful landscapes or a portrait.  Cakes that mirror the style of the

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wedding gown, including fondant ruffles and appliqués. Whatever the case, couples can use their cake as a centerpiece that wows the senses of taste as well as vision. Consider displaying this culinary masterpiece on a table with the seating cards placed around it so that it can be enjoyed the entire night. Some couples still opt for the traditional, and that is always in style. Instead of experimenting with the outside of the cake, couples can also be creative with the cake flavor and fillings. It's no longer necessary to stick with a white cake with butter cream frosting for your wedding day. Think about exploring other flavor and filling combinations that will tempt the guests' taste buds. For those who can't settle on just one flavor, how about having a different flavor for each layer? Couples should sit down with their baker and sample a number of flavor combinations to determine a recipe that works for them. Those who are planning to get married in the fall may want to think about a spice cake that evokes the feelings of sipping a mug of spiced cider. Cream cheese frosting is often a pairing with spice cake, or think about a layer of caramel that will make it taste like you're enjoying a candied Halloween apple. A hummingbird cake may fit the bill for a

spring wedding. This is made with mashed bananas, pineapples and chopped pecans. This cake is perfect when paired with cream cheese frosting. Yellow or white cake are universal favorites for weddings. Some pizzazz can be added through the use of creative fillings. Consider something citrusy and summery for a summer wedding. Raspberry preserves or lemon curd are tart and sweet. For a tropical flair, mangoes or passion fruit can be mixed with touches of coconut. A winter wedding can be accented with rich flavors, like a decadent chocolate cake filled with chocolate ganache and black cherries – in a black forest style. Those toasting to the good life may want an almond cake enhanced with some fine liqueur and simple chocolate butter cream. Pastry companies also may be able to develop a cake that encompasses a couple's favorite flavors or symbolizes a special moment in their lives. A Boston cream pie-inspired cake may liven up the wedding of a couple who became engaged in Boston. Maybe a cannoli cream filled cake will usher in memories of a trip to Italy. Kids at heart can enjoy candy confection cakes filled with gooey chocolate, nuts and marshmallows.

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wedd i n g r e c e p t i o n meal c h o i c e s A wedding reception is often a feast for guests. Be it a buffet-style cocktail hour or a three-course dinner, the food and fun seem to flow all night long. Some catering halls require notice of what guests will be eating prior to the wedding day so that food can be ordered and arranged. Others have a few set options that guests can choose from the night of the party. Couples fretting over how to keep tally of guests’ menu selections may want to add a dinner choice line to their wedding reception response card. Although some etiquette experts frown at this approach, it is one of the easiest ways to count selections and report back to a catering hall. Chances are some guests have already seen this type of checklist on a response card, so there’s no need to add instructions. Due to the varied palates of people, it pays to have two or more options from which guests can choose. Generally a beef dish, a poultry choice and a fish selection are offered. Inquire with the catering director as how to best handle special dietary restrictions, such as serving a vegetarian or someone who is diabetic or is limiting salt intake. There may be accommodations made for guests with certain needs.

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As far as wedding expenses go, your catering or food bill is typically your largest expense (45-50 percent of most wedding budgets). Therefore, choose your caterer carefully and follow these catering tips from www.usabrides.com: Reception Style Spend plenty of time with your caterer talking about your budget, the style of reception you’d like (i.e. buffet, food stations, sit down dinner or cocktail reception) and the types of food that you’d like to serve. Taste Samples If you are unfamiliar with the caterer, always schedule a “tasting” to sample their culinary skills and take note that the food is attractively presented too. Check References Many brides ask for references but never call them. Make at least TWO reference phone calls. Don’t be shy, remember – brides love to talk about their wedding!

Table Setting When hiring your caterer, be sure to ask about the dinnerware or china they will be using. Some caterers will include all the dinnerware in their price – but they may be chipped, scratched and worn out. So, ask to see samples to make sure that the place settings nicely complement the rest of your wedding decor. Service Ratios Service is an extremely important element when choosing your caterer. Be sure to ask about the ratio of servers to guests. Now, this can vary depending on the type of reception you have (seated dinner versus buffet). One good rule of thumb is to have one server for every 8-10 guests. Vendor Meal Preferences When determining a final head count for your caterer, you should include a meal for your entertainer (DJ or band), photographer and wedding day coordinator. Always confirm with these vendors that they do want a meal before you include them in your head count. Make sure to separate these from your guest head count because your caterer will usually

charge you less for “vendor” meals. If your caterer is providing meals for your DJ, band or photographer, be sure to ask your caterer where the meals will be served for them and confirm that they will be eating somewhere “out of sight” from your wedding guests. Leftover Basket Ask your caterer to prepare a “leftover basket,” a sampling of all the food at your reception. It’s likely that the bride and groom will not get a chance to eat and enjoy all of the wonderful food at the reception. Even if you’re leaving the next day on your honeymoon, it makes for a great late night snack. Guaranteed Numbers Be sure to ask your caterer about “guaranteed numbers.” Many caterers will quote prices based upon a minimum or “guaranteed” number of guests. Many base their figures on a minimum of 100 guests. If your final guest count is less than 100, there may be an additional fee. Caterer Décor Find out what decorations (if any) are included in the caterer’s price. Ask to see pictures of their table displays. Some caterers that do buffets or food stations will include floral arrangements and other decorations. As your wedding plans progress, talk to your caterer

about your color theme so that all decorations and floral arrangements will coordinate. Menu Board A recent trend when doing buffets or food stations is to have a menu board. This is where the names of the entrees (and sometimes a brief description) and items served are scrolled elegantly onto a piece of paper displayed on a board or in a picture frame. Proper Food Selections Be careful of how many hors d’oeuvres you order. Do you really need eight different varieties? You’d be surprised – some caterers will suggest this! If you are doing hors d’oeuvres – four different varieties is usually sufficient. Gratuity and Tips Tipping is generally based on the level of care. It is important to thoroughly read the contract since most caterers add the gratuity of 15 to 20 percent on to the bill, often called the service fee or service charge. It is the caterer’s responsibility to ensure their staff is taken care of for any additional services required or requested during the ceremony. Typically, customers are not expected to tip in addition to service fees, but some people choose to do so.

A catering hall typically has a staff working behind the scenes to keep guests happy. These staff members include coat-check personnel, a catering manager, kitchen staff and parking attendants. It can be customary to tip these individuals. One dollar per guest is typically sufficient. Or you can choose to individually tip those who went above and beyond by following this guide: Hostess: Typically receives between 1-2 percent. Waiters and waitresses: Tipped between 15-20 percent of the food bill. Bartenders: Receives between 15-20 percent based on the bar bill. An additional 10 percent above the gratuity is uncommon and a simple note to guests that says “No Tipping Please” can assist covering this issue. Coat check, valet and parking attendants: Ordinarily prepaid and usually tipped between $1 and $2 per coat or car. The calculation may also be based on a per guest tip in the range of 50 cents. It may be to your advantage to arrange a flat fee prior to your event.

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10 T re n d s f o r ‘G reen ’ W e d d i n g s Environmentally friendly ideals are now permeating all aspects of daily living. Many people want to take the concept further and ensure their nuptials – and subsequent reception – are good for the planet as well. Although there are no firm statistics on the number of green weddings being held each year, emerging trends point to the growing interest in eco-conscious weddings. Individuals who already do their best to recycle, reuse and reduce want to employ those same values on their wedding day. There are many ways to employ a green mindset to wedding planning and execution. Largely the carbon footprint of a wedding can be reduced simply by scaling back and avoiding over-consumption. Here are some ideas to think about.

Reduce travel. Research indicates that more than two-thirds of emissions in the US are produced by energy consumption and transportation. By reducing guests’ need to travel far for a wedding or offering transportation that can accommodate several people at once (like a bus), carbon emissions will be reduced.

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up large amounts of energy to operate. A home wedding also gives couples the opportunity to shop around for locally produced, organic foods.

Shop for floral alternatives. Flowers would seem “green” in themselves. However, many blooms available at florist shops are grown in hothouses with the use of pesticides and chemical fertilizers, something that is not very good for the environment at all. Brides opting for something more eco-conscious could consider alternative options, such as bouquets made of sustainable succulent plants and centerpieces full of organic fruits and wildflowers.

Choose an open registry. Instead of fine china that may never be used, many couples are opting for open registries that enable guests to gift everything from eco-friendly housewares to charitable donations to cash for down payments on a home.

Opt for mixed seating arrangements. Instead of formal escort cards indicating firm seating arrangements, couples are saving paper by allowing guests to choose their own seats from mix-matched options, such as long, communal benches and comfy sofas.

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gowns and gently used items are good alternatives for eco-conscious brides. Many websites will match brides with others looking to swap items at low or no cost.

Skip the paper. Though etiquette experts frown on abandoning paper invitations for electronic ones, many couples are doing just that. For those who still prefer paper, print invitations on recycled paper. Reduce other wedding stationery needs by posting information on a wedding Web site shared with family and friends.

Go small scale. Instead of inviting every last cousin and distant uncle, couples are opting for more intimate affairs, including only the people they are closest to, which saves on cost and helps the environment.

Trim some of the wedding day fat. Some couples opt for an all-you-can-eat buffet and then a subsequent dessert bar later on in the evening. Stuffed guests may end up wasting more food than eating it. Instead of all-you-can, go for a more traditional meal.

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c ap t u r i n g yo u r p e r f e c t day With the whirlwind that surrounds the wedding day, it’s not uncommon for newlyweds to come home from their honeymoon, unpack their bags and wonder exactly how it all went down. Was it the best man or your brother who jumped into the swimming pool? And who was wearing that hat that garnered so much attention from all the bridesmaids? With all the goings on leading up to the wedding and the hectic schedule many couples find themselves saddled with on the big day itself, it’s really no wonder why they can’t remember all the details just a few months later. Once the excitement is over there will only be two ways to bring it all back into focus for curious couples – photos and video. And that means choosing the right photographer may be one of the most important decisions a couple can make during the planning process. Here are a few suggestions to making the right pick for your wedding day: Keep it professional. Yes, just about every family has one – that pseudo photographer who is constantly in control of the camera during family events. For your wedding day, however, a professional will make sure things go off without a hitch. Sure, using a friend or family member can save money, but getting the

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perfect shot will never be as vital as it is on your wedding day. Besides, your friend would probably rather be able to enjoy the wedding and share your day instead of working for you. Do you know the venue? Great formal photos are an important part of wedding day, but they can be challenging for a photographer shooting in unchartered territory. When a professional photographer knows the venue, they may also know great secret spots for snapping photos, the perfect time to grab some great lighting and great vantage points from which to catch all the action as it unfolds around them. Do you prefer candid or posed? The posed shots of the wedding party are the ones that you’ll print and frame for family members – but it’s the candid shots captured during the wedding and reception that capture the true emotion and excitement of the day. Contemporary photographers should offer a good blend of candid and staged shots to your wedding album. Many photographers will share their “shot list” with you. Can I see your portfolio? No, it’s not just a pick up line – it’s a great way to ensure

that you’re going to be happy with the pictures you receive from your wedding day. If you’re wedding is planned for outdoors, make sure you pay extra attention looking at these shots. If it’s planned for a church with low light, make sure you look at plenty of these as well. Ask about rates. It may not feel classy to make money as object – but for just about everyone these days it’s one of the most important factors of all. Does the photographer charge by the hour or a set rate? Why do their photo packages include? Will they provide you with a disk of the photographs so you can make prints by yourself later on or is there an additional charge? Compare the options. The Crystal Coast, like many parts of the country, has a variety of different photographers that can meet your needs. It’s also important, however, that they will fit in with your wedding day scene. The photographer will be there for it all, from zipping up the dress to tossing the bouquet, and while their ability is vital, so is their personality. Nobody wants to feel uncomfortable or intruded upon. A good photographer should be able to blend well into the backdrop of your special day.

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bring i n g d ow n the ho u s e Brides and grooms have a few options when it comes to the music played at their ceremony and reception. Live musicians or deejays are often the entertainment of choice. When hiring the entertainment, there are some important things to keep in mind. The music of the wedding will set the tone for the event and keep guests entertained during key moments of the day. Musicians will often work in conjunction with a maitre d’ or wedding planner to be sure the reception moves along smoothly and sticks to the schedule. Music will be played while guests are dining and when there are opportunities for dancing. It’s essential to listen to musicians or deejays before hiring anyone to ensure what they’re offering will fit in with the wedding. Also, it’s helpful to confirm the person or people being auditioned will be the exact individuals at the wedding. Some entertainment companies hire out contract musicians, meaning the preview musicians may not be the same person who will perform at the ceremony. That can potentially prove disastrous. If a certain musician or deejay is requested, be sure it is put down in writing in the contract. Provide the musical entertainment with some information to further help the wedding go off without a hitch. This may include but not be limited to the following:

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 Names of all wedding party participants so they can be properly introduced.  Name of the married couple, including pronunciation of the last name, if necessary.  The title of the couple's song.  The titles of songs to be danced with mother/son or father/daughter.  A listing of any preferred songs.  The title of a "spotlight dance" song.  Any music that is off-limits at the reception.  Special announcements that should be made, such as mentioning a guest's birthday or another special event involving guests.  Whether a bouquet and garter toss will take place, and which songs should be played during these traditions. In most cases, wedding musicians are professionals who have handled many weddings and are very accustomed to what should be done to make the night a memorable one. Trust in the expertise of the musicians, and provide guidance where necessary.

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Affordable Honeymoon Options By Melissa Jones After all the planning that a wedding requires, the bride and groom truly deserve a relaxing honeymoon to start the marriage off with much needed romantic quality time together. Several internet websites such as Kayak and Expedia promote economical savings and urge people to utilize services offered with just a quick search, but are you really getting a better deal and trip that matches your personalities? Comparing hotels, prices and destinations can become a frustrating and daunting task especially for people who do not frequently travel. One of the best opportunities for a couple is to visit a local travel agency to discuss their honeymoon desires. Even the most experienced traveler will discover that there are many additional perks couples can take advantage of when speaking to industry experts. Most couples want to make the best out of their honeymoon budget and should aim to avoid any unwanted surprises that can occur without proper research or assistance. “A honeymoon should be very relaxing and we typically recommend either a cruise or all-inclusive destinations to keep travel simple,” said Dove Blanton, Sandals Resort specialist and owner of Dove’s travel, Emerald Isle. News reports have contributed to recent anxiety toward traveling to popular honeymoon destinations such as Mexico. Cancun and several other trendy locations offer valuable packages that are so desirable it is difficult to completely exclude them from your options. Blanton agrees that there are great deals in Mexico and travelers should not fear the area. Most domestic travel can be more expensive and she recommends not avoiding such travel deals or destinations. With proper guidance, couples can end up in what she considers safer areas. “Tourist destinations are typically several thousand miles away from the issues that consume some areas in Mexico and it’s almost like avoiding California because there are issues in New York,” said Blanton. Blanton and her staff are experienced and can assist with all types

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of budgets, room categories, personalities and destinations. She ensures that her clients receive a matched price to internet search travel options as well as personalized advice including dinner reservations, transportation, tickets to attractions plus so much more. Couples not only gain valuable tips, such as taking a copy of your wedding certificate, but they are more likely to receive the extra amenities provided to newlyweds. Such tips can take away the stress from travel and instead enhance romantic experiences by ensuring even the little details are covered, the champagne is cooled and flowers and chocolate covered strawberries adorn the couple’s room. Without such assistance, some couples can get overwhelmed with tourist traps and ultimately end up spending a lot more money than they originally anticipated. Proper advice is extremely valuable when traveling to any destination, especially when passports are required. Blanton ensures that clients have all necessary documents and recommends making plans at least a year in advance to make sure all requirements are met. If a passport is necessary and the bride or groom is without, Blanton said the couple can still board a cruise to several Caribbean islands, as long as the cruise leaves and arrives at the same port. One new trend Blanton has noticed is that couples are waiting a while after the wedding before heading out on their honeymoon. Such wait time and proper planning allow the couple time to wind down after the wedding or save up enough to afford the trip of their dreams. Often prices fluctuate depending on time of travel. The wedding might be in June, but couples can enjoy better pricing if they wait to take their trip until off-peak prices are lower in February. For those who are hoping to add a unique experience to their first trip as a couple, there are several alternatives. Seek out a destination that accompanies both of your personalities. Do you prefer a more tranquil or exotic experience or are you both adventure seekers looking to find a new and exciting thrill?

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Ultimate Adventurer: Raft the Grand Canyon, hike the Appalachian Trail or see the hidden treasure of Las Vegas with the assistance of the Red Rock Resort adventure spa activity specialists. Eco-Traveler: Become intimate with Corcovado National Park at La Leona Eco Lodge Tent Camp in Coasta Rica or escape to the Singita Pamushana Lodge located within the Malilangwe Wildlife Reserve in south eastern Zimbabwe. Wine & Food Connoisseur: Overlook Lake Como and the rolling fields of Tuscan sunflowers from your terrace, a perk to this couples cooking vacation featuring hands-on romantic cooking classes hosted by www.cooking-vacations.com. Try fresh wild Alaskan North Pacific seafood at the Sadie Cove Wilderness Lodge or head over to Napa Valley to discover the area California is richly famous for. History Buff: Stroll through the streets of Charleston or explore your roots and visit the country of your ancestry. Health Nut/Spa Seeker: Combine fitness with ultimate relax-

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g e t t i n g t h e wo r d o u t There are several options for wedding printing needs. Brides can choose from modern invitations that boast creative bright colors and unique designs, contemporary selections that reflect the ambiance of the wedding or classic white and elegant ecru invitations designed with traditional borders and simple elements. Recent trends have led brides and grooms to choose matching prints that complement their wedding theme or style. There are options to reflect everything from seasonal weddings that incorporate matching color schemes, snowflakes, flowers, leaves and Christmas trees to destination wedding invitations reminiscent of scenes from the Caribbean or Las Vegas. To further accent invitations, you can choose embellishments such as ribbons, layers and jackets, embossed paper or foil or monograms. Design considerations can become overwhelming and it is best to seek assistance from a printing specialist to help regulate budget requirements while ensuring all printing materials are ordered. Some companies offer samples for a small fee and couples should order to ensure the quality is what they are expecting. Once you have selected the invitation, submit all text to the designer and order a proof prior to printing the entire order.

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A simple budget friendly alternative that still allows a bride and groom to show off their creativity is with photo wedding invitations. Some may even choose to design and print their own. Pre-packaged cards are another great way to save money on printing needs and can be found at most craft or party supply stores. Common printed items that a wedding may require include wedding announcements, engagement party invitations, save the date cards, bridal shower invitations, programs, menus, place cards, direction cards, post wedding brunch invitations, accommodation cards and of course, invitations to the main event. You may also want to order coordinating thank you cards with invitations at the same time. Having thank you cards on hand makes it easier for the bride and groom to get a head start on sending out appreciation, which can become a daunting task considering how much there is to give when inviting more than 100 guests. Thank you cards are often forgotten, but are truly one of the most important parts of a shower or wedding. It is important to let guests and vendors know how appreciative you are that they shared or assisted in your event

according to www.weddingpaperdivas.com. There are certain thank you card etiquette that couples should keep in mind: Response time: Brides and grooms should wait no more than 6-8 weeks after the ceremony to send thank you cards. The contents: All thank you cards should be handwritten, body and address. The basic formula to remember is to greet the guest, express gratitude, be specific about the gift and thank them for attending (or for thinking of you if they could not attend). Include a specific reference to the gift such as how you plan to use the item. For monetary gifts, thank them for their generosity without mentioning a specific amount. A great way to add a personal touch, is to send a photo that was taken with you and the attendee at the wedding. Addressing: You should address each card to the individual who attended or the individual who signed your gift card. For families, you should address the envelope to â&#x20AC;&#x153;Mr. and Mrs.â&#x20AC;? In the body, mention your gratitude for all the family members who attended. Dedicating a little bit of time each day after your wedding to write out cards the process can become significantly easier so you can enjoy your life as a newlywed.

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wedd i n g day t r a n s p o rtat i on optio n s a b o u n d Couples have many decisions to make regarding their wedding ceremony and reception. One of those decisions concerns transportation to and from the special event. There are many options in wedding transportation. The more traditional options include renting a car or limousine. The Bridal Association of America reports that the average couple spends $400 to $500 for an automotive rental, however, prices may vary depending on geography and the type of vehicle rented. Wedding transportation is perhaps something grooms-to-be can get excited about. After all, we’re talking about cars – some fancy, some large, and many decked out with different features. Plus, it’s traditionally the responsibility of the groom to arrange transportation to and from the ceremony, reception and the hotel or honeymoon destination.

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Grooms responsible for arranging transportation can consider the following options.  Limousine: A limo is one of the most traditional methods of transport on a couple's wedding day.  Classic car: Sports car enthusiasts may want to make an entrance - and exit - behind the wheel of a sporty vehicle.

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Because of their high purchase price, sports car rentals may carry a premium. Stretch SUV: The traditional limo has morphed into the stretch SUV of popular models, such as a stretch Hummer. Party Bus: Many couples are leaning toward a party bus rental. These are particularly attractive to couples with a very large bridal party, or those who hope to begin the celebration even before reaching the reception hall. Horse-drawn carriage: Some couples truly want the fairytale feel on their wedding day. The carriage tends to be best suited to warm weather. Motorcycle: Thrilling couples may want to ride off into the sunset on the back of a roadster or sports bike. (cont. on page 60)

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LET THE WEB LEAD THE WAY When it’s time to literally taste the food, try on dresses and smell the flowers, nothing beats going to a bridal fair. It’s also a great chance to make connections with local business owners that may have inside tracks on bringing everything together with as few problems as possible. However, there are a few planning steps you can take in the virtual world too – keeping your service providers local and your options more global. Spreading the Word You’ve made a guest list, checked it twice and now you’re ready to get those invitations printed. Chances are good that those invites will list who’s getting married, when and where … but what about parking, directions to the wedding site and the best place to find a registry. Like most events in the world these days, you’re going to need a website. Sound complicated? Not as much as you might think. Sites like eWedding.com offer couples a chance to build their own site based on a few basic layouts. You can go the free route or chip in around $5 a month to add details like naming the wedding party (with photos), area hotels, maps and registries – if you want to add it, you can. Plus, you can get a customized address like GaryandAngie.com and tack it to the bottom of your invitation, giving all your guests the resources they’ll need to travel here for your big day.

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Building the Tux Brides spend so much time thinking about their dress, bridesmaid dresses and picking out colors that the groom is often left in the shadows, patiently waiting to be told what he’s wearing. Most guys don’t enjoy shopping for clothes anyway, but he is still going to want to look his best … which can be a matter of differing opinions when it’s time to make a decision. So how do you both get on board and make your first of many compromises to come? Get online. Because tuxedos and suits have so many styles, sizes and colors, it’s nearly impossible for most formal wear shops to have all your options in stock. However, many of these shops are also partnered with larger networks of clothing providers and they all share a single database of options that’s available online at any time. Many sites will let you choose the entire ensemble one piece at a time by switching out colors, designers, shoes, vests, ties, jackets and more. You can actually see the entire suit on your screen as it would look while being worn, and save some of your favorites. Once the bride and groom agree on a suit, the groom can email the ensemble to the groomsmen and to a local formalwear store (make sure to call them for a follow-up). This way the groom only needs to get measured (usually 90 days before the wedding) and gets to do all that pesky shopping from the comfort of his recliner.

A Little Honey Money Money is tight and nothing makes your wallet even thinner than a wedding. Sure, the bride’s parents usually pick up all or most of the wedding bills, but when it comes to the honeymoon that’s not always a definite. Sometimes you need a little help from your friends. A website called honeyfund.com has opened the digital door to that help by letting couples post items from their upcoming trip as wedding gifts. For example, if you want to go to New York City for a week, you can break down the hotel costs into 10 gifts of $100, taxi fare as three gifts of $20, a Broadway show as two gifts of $50, tickets to the Empire State Building as two gifts of $25 and so on. Guests can pledge to give you cash, gift cards or checks at the reception or go ahead and pay you right then via a PayPal account. This way, instead of a gift from the registry that may end up collecting dust, wedding guests will know that their gift allowed you to not only go on a honeymoon, but actually experience specific parts of the trip that you may not have done otherwise. You can also link your honeyfund account to your personalized website and social networking sites for friends and family that can’t make the trip but still want to give you a gift. And the best part? It’s free to sign up for a honeyfund!

{ M a k i n g i t L e g al } It may be the ceremony that takes all the planning, but it’s the government who will ultimately bless your union and make it official. Just like driving a car, couples are required to have a license before they can legally marry in the US. Marriage licenses may be obtained at the register of deeds in each county. Current fees are $60 (cash only in Carteret and Craven counties; cash, credit or debit cards accepted in Onslow). All applicants must provide their Social Security card (or documentary proof, i.e. W-2 form, payroll stub) along with proper identification (certified copy of birth certificate accompanied by a driver’s license or picture ID, a passport or military ID. In Craven County, the couple must be present from 8am-4pm, Monday-Friday, with the exception of holidays. If either party is age 18-21, they must also present a certified copy of their birth certificate, unless they were born in Craven County. If either party is under 18, they should call the Craven Register of Deeds at 252-636-6617 for more details. Applicants divorced or widowed within

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six months preceding the application date must present a filed copy of their final divorce decree or a copy of the death certificate. If the divorce was more than six months ago, applicants must know the month, day and year of the filed document, however, it isn’t necessary to bring a copy with you. Prior to completing the marriage license application, parties will need to know their parents’ full names, including mother’s maiden name, state of birth and current address (if possible). Marriage licenses are good for 60 days and there is no waiting period after issuance. In Onslow County, both parties must be present between the hours 8am-4:30pm and

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have valid identification (driver’s license, military ID, birth certificate). Both parties must provide typed proof of their social security number. If either applicant is 16-17 years of age they must have at least one parent or legal guardian present (documentation of guardianship required). The license is valid for 60 days from the date of purchase and is only valid in the state of North Carolina. The magistrate’s office is open 24 hours a day, where no appointment is necessary but two witnesses are required. Marriage licenses in Carteret County may be obtained at the register of deeds, located at the Carteret County Courthouse, 302 Courthouse Square, Beaufort, 252-7288474. Marriage licenses in Craven County may be obtained at the register of deeds, located at the Craven County Courthouse, 406 Craven Street in New Bern, 252-636-6617. Marriage licenses in Onslow County may be obtained at the register of deeds, located at 4024 Richlands Hwy, Jacksonville, 910-3473451. Information is as accurate as possible at press time.

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Destination

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No two couples are the same, and as a result, no two weddings are ever the same. One increasingly popular style is the destination wedding. When a couple decides to have a destination wedding, a walk down the aisle often takes place in a tropical locale. There are a host of factors to consider before choosing a destination wedding. Guest attendance is a factor when choosing the location of any wedding. Most destination weddings are typically more intimate affairs with far fewer guests. Couples should determine how much they are willing to spend to assist guests in paying for travel arrangements. It is also necessary to make sure all invited guests have enough advance notice. Many couples about to get married are choosing to celebrate their nuptials abroad in an effort to have a unique experience or to save money. Doing so requires knowledge of the legalities of getting hitched in a particular locale. Wedding expenses can vary greatly, but many couples expect to spend in the neighborhood of $30,000 for their big day. Couples looking to save money on their wedding ceremony and celebration are often turning to getting married internationally where the costs may be lower. Others say “I

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do” overseas because of the distinct memories this type of wedding can provide. Getting married abroad requires a lot of planning and research. There are certain steps to take to ensure the ceremony is valid and successful.  Contact the US embassy in the country in which you'd like to be married to find out about any requirements they may have.  Secure your passports and bring your original birth certificates, divorce papers, etc. when you travel.  You may need to have documents translated into the destination country's native language to receive a marriage license. Some countries require a minimum residency of several days before they will issue a license for marriage.  Investigate whether the country requires blood tests or immunization records.  Work with a wedding planner or an all-inclusive resort that specializes in weddings to arrange for all the details, such as florists, musicians, officiates, food and more.  Recognize that just because your

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marriage is valid in the country in which you were married it may not be considered valid in your native country. You may need to apply for a marriage license in your home country and undergo an official ceremony at home. Generally weddings abroad have a smaller guest list than those you would have closer to home because the majority of people simply won't be able to travel. For those who will be joining you, secure discounted accommodations, or arrange to have some travel expenses paid for guests. Plan travel arrangements so that you arrive a few days earlier than your ceremony. This will help provide security if your flight is delayed or if there is another unforeseen delay. Pack essential items, such as the wedding gown and important documents in a carry-on bag so they will always be in your sight. Arrange for translations for guests so that they – and you – will understand the ceremony.

Destination: Las Vegas

When faced with the prospect of a long planning process, high expenses and all of the other goodies that go along with planning a wedding, many couples forgo tradition and book a round-trip ticket to Las Vegas. Las Vegas is affectionately known as “The Wedding Capital of the World.” That’s because more than 100,000 weddings take place in this city each and every year. Individuals flock to Vegas for the ease and affordability of getting hitched. Though it might seem as though Vegas weddings are more spur of the moment affairs, couples who think that a Vegas wedding will suit them can prepare for their trip down the aisle.  Marriage license: A marriage license is necessary to get hitched in Sin City. It takes only about 10 minutes to apply for and receive a marriage license in Las Vegas, and the license costs roughly $60. In addition, the Marriage License Bureau is open until midnight each and every day of the week, and 24 hours on weekends and holidays. The bureau is located in the Justice Center at 201 Clark Ave. in downtown Las Vegas.

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Location: There are scores of wedding chapels available to couples. Some are drive-through chapels that make getting married as easy as picking up a burger. Some chapels are themed, while others are more elaborate. The majority of the chapels are located just north of The Strip in an area called "Wedding Row." Casino: Couples who don't want a quickie wedding can elect to have a more lavish affair in one of the casinos. Most casinos boast their own wedding chapels and have wedding coordinators who can work with couples to create a magical wedding. Having a wedding in the middle of the summer, when the local

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temperatures can exceed 100° F, is one way to keep costs down. Hotels may discount rooms and packages could be less expensive. Plan ahead: Just because it's Vegas doesn't mean some planning shouldn't go into the event. This is especially true if the guest list stretches beyond just the happy couple. Arrange to have tuxedos and dresses set up. Bring essentials in a carry-on bag so they're not lost in flight. A honeymoon at the Grand Canyon is a way to round out a trip to the desert.

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NC Aquarium at Pine Knoll Shores Widely acclaimed across the state and around the country, the aquarium lets guests get up close and personal with shipwrecks without getting wet, stare down a 350-pound sand tiger shark, watch river otters play and touch a stingray. Explore North Carolina’s aquatic environments “from the mountains to the sea” through the site’s eclectic exhibits. Always a favorite, the 306,000-gallon Living Shipwreck features fierce-looking sand tiger sharks, hundreds of colorful fish, sea turtles and more surrounding three-quarter-scale replica of a German U-boat shipwrecked off the coast. Educational programs are offered daily. Details: 252-2474003, www.ncaquariums.com. NC Maritime Museum This state run museum focuses on the area’s rich maritime history and its longstanding relationship with the sea. The past is researched, preserved and presented through exhibits, hands-on programs and field trips. Learn to sail, tour the port, or just gather for lunch to talk about the wild Spanish Mustangs that dot the adjacent island. The museum features artifacts from the local shipwreck believed to be Blackbeard’s flagship, the Queen Anne’s Revenge. Details: 252-728-7317, www.ncmaritimemuseums.com.

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in his house in Bear Plaza, listen to the NC Symphony and other holiday concerts and even get a tree from the Christmas Tree Ship. Details: www.newbernchamber.com.

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of every kind imaginable, arts and crafts, souvenirs and even lottery tickets. Details: www.ncseafoodfestival.org. NOVEMBER A Dickens of a Christmas in downtown New Bern. Enjoy a Celebration throughout the Christmas season with luminaries throughout the business district, theme Fridays in the shops and illuminated trolley tours. Visit Santa

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 Boat: Individuals getting married by the sea or another body of water may want to consider attending the festivities via boat, be it a large vessel or a more intimate canoe or rowboat. Wedding day transportation varies depending on each couple's preference. Here are a few local transportation companies that offer a variety of choices:  Carolina Express, 7 and 14-passanger vans, airport pickup and limousine services, Emerald Isle, 910-353-3300.  Celebrity Services, Inc., Morehead City, 252-726-8109.  Diamond Limousine Service, fully uniformed chauffeur with red carpet limousine, airport, antique car and party shuttle bus services, Morehead City, 252-240-1680.  Country Carriage Stables & Tours, Beaufort, 252-8085703.  Twilight Limousine Company, classic color and pink limousines, party shuttle and Hummer H2 stretch fleet options, New Bern, 252-633-0027.

DECEMBER Core Sound Decoy Festival. More than 90 exhibitors display and sell decoys and waterfowl artifacts at Harkers Island Elementary School in Harkers Island. The decoy competition consists of both decorative and nondecorative (floating) contemporary carvings. Details: 252-838-8818, www.decoyguild.com. Waterfowl Weekend. The Core Sound Waterfowl Museum and Heritage Center opens its doors the first weekend in December with a full slate of traditional, down-home fun. Expect decoy carvers with their wares, educational exhibits, competitions, arts and crafts and plenty of food. Details: 252-7281500. Holiday Flotilla. Each Christmas, the residents along the Crystal Coast like to celebrate the season with their own personal style. Boats decked out in Christmas finery cruise past the Morehead City and Beaufort waterfronts at sunset. Details: 252-728-1638.

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Accommodations

Hampton Inn – Atlantic Beach..................... 62 Hampton Inn – Morehead City...................... 5 Holiday Inn Express..................................... 23 Sheraton Atlantic Beach............................... 19 Whaler Inn.................................................... 49

Cakes & Catering American Dream Cakes............................... 37 Beaufort Grocery.......................................... 32 Bistro by the Sea ........................................... 5 Catered Affair, A........................................... 29 Channel Marker Waterfront Restaurant ..... 18 Chelsea Restaurant ...................................... 15 Class Act Catering ......................................... 3 Clawson’s 1905 Restaurant ........................... 6 Crab’s Claw.................................................. 62 Floyd’s 1921................................................... 8 Kathryn’s...................................................... 38 New York Deli.............................................. 37 Piccata’s........................................................ 43 Village Market.............................................. 49 White Oak River Bistro................................ 37

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Dee’s Flowers............................................... 31 Flowers & Designs by Ernest......................... 6 Petal Pushers................................................. 35

Cynthia Rose Photography........................... 45 Portraits by Angelo....................................... 46 Scott Taylor Photography............................... 2

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Shopping & Gifts

The Palms Hair Studio................................. 55 Making Faces................................................ 55

Dee Gee’s Gifts & Books............................. 35 ICW Gifts......................................................11 Pic Frame & Gallery.................................... 23 Tassels Shoes, Gifts & Accessories ............ 31

Jewelry JR Dunn........................................................ 29 Marsh Harbor Studio.................................... 55 Stamper’s Jewelers ...................................... 31

Limousines Diamond Limousine Service ...................... 54 Twilight Limousine Co................................... 6

Planning Services Bridal by the Sea ......................................... 14 Rev. Paula Bradley....................................... 37 Total Package Events.................................... 23 Village Travel Shop...................................... 57

Printing

Classics Bridal & Formal Wear...................... 7 Margolis Men’s Store................................... 55 Sunshine Cleaners........................................ 23

NCCOAST Communications....................... 53

Flowers

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Brighter Dayz Flowers................................. 31

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INDEX

The following is an alphabetical listing of 2012 Bride & Groom advertisers and the page number of their advertisements. Make sure to let these fine area businesses know you saw them in Bride & Groom.

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Sites, Supplies, Rentals Beaufort Historical Association............. 47, 57 Bluewater Rentals.......................... Back Cover The Boathouse...............................................11 Country Aire Rentals.................................... 43 Country Club of the Crystal Coast . ............ 22 Crystal Coast Civic Center . .......................... 2 Crystal Coast Tent & Event Rentals............ 29 Edgewater Linen........................................... 29 Emerald Isle Realty .................................... 33 Flash Box Photo Booth Company............... 45 Havelock Tourist & Event Center ............... 14 Island Essentials........................................... 63 Morehead City Country Club ..................... 39 Nancy’s Nannies Childcare Service . .......... 49 NC Aquarium at Pine Knoll Shores............... 9 Party Place, The . ........................................... 6 Summer Winds Condominiums................... 49

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