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Look Hot in Cold Weather Cooler temperatures doesn’t mean you have to forgo fashion.

Social Media & Your Career Social media is a part of just about everyone’s life – but what message does it send to employers?

Women in Business We chat with Jamie Dickinson of Jame’s Boutique in Morehead City as we round out our year-long series.

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BEGINNINGS a coastal magazine for women

Vol. 5, Issue #6 November/December 2014 Published by

201 N. 17th St. Morehead City, NC 28557 252.247.7442 - 800.525.1403 www.nccoast.com Publisher

Diane Tyler Managing Editor

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Peggy Barnes Kelli Creelman Dyanne Singler Crystal is a published six times per year and distributed at high traffic sites in Carteret and Craven counties and is available in its entirety at nccoast.com. Entire contents, maps, advertisements and graphic design elements copyright 2014 NCCOAST. Reproduction is strictly prohibited without the publisher’s consent. Though every effort has been made to ensure the accuracy of all advertising and editorial copy contained herein, the publisher may not be held responsible for typographical errors. NCCOAST and its employees, agents or representatives may not be held responsible for any actions or consequences derived as a result of following advice or instructions contained herein. NCCOAST reserves the right to refuse any advertising or editorial content deemed inappropriate, misleading or in violation of the law. Annual subscriptions are available for $18 and can be obtained by calling 252.247.7442.

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Audra Smith-Odum Nccoast’s 2014 Business Woman of the Year (Ted Lewis photo)

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Luncheon & Fashion Show Supports Domestic Violence Program On Sunday, Nov. 23, the Carteret County Domestic Violence Program reaches out to the public for support with its Shop, Savor & Sip Luncheon and Fashion Show – what has become a holiday tradition for many in Carteret County and beyond. Running from 12:303:30pm at the Crystal Coast Civic Center, the program features local boutiques showcasing some of the area’s most popular fashions, both on the runway and in small “shops” set up along the perimeter of the room.

“Adding these small shops on site has been a great help to our guests,” said Glenda Riggs, executive director. “Not only can they see the fashions presented on the runway, but now they can also browse the merchandise from our local stores and make a purchase right there.”

Lunch will be catered by Floyd’s 1921 Restaurant. Tickets for the luncheon and fashion show are $35 per person and can be ordered by calling 252-726-2336.

Serving about 300 women and children per year, the Carteret County Domestic Violence Program provides case management, personal counseling, court advocacy, medical assistance and emergency financial aid as it helps women break the chain of abuse and rebuild their lives.

It also manages Caroline’s House, a residential alternative for women escaping an abusive situation.

The Domestic Violence Resource Center reports that some 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime. Men can also be victims of domestic violence at the hands of their female partners, and abuse can occur between same-sex couples as well. However, the Bureau of Justice Statistics indicates that women ages 20-24 are at the greatest risk of nonfatal intimate partner violence.

Domestic violence comes in many forms, including physical, emotional and verbal abuse.

Many victims of domestic violence are battered into secrecy or are embarrassed that they are being abused and do not share their experiences with others. Others might not even realize that what they are experiencing constitutes abuse. But there are some signs of domestic violence that can be observed, and a third party may be able to intervene.

• A partner who harbors unrealistic expectations: Experts say that those who engage in domestic violence are generally perfectionists and expect those around them to reach unattainable goals and their own perfection.

• A partner who is controlling: When a person insists their victim account for all of his or her time, the relationship may eventually turn abusive. This behavior generally stems from feelings of insecurity and poor self-esteem on the part of the abusive individual.

• Escalating threats: In many cases, domestic violence begins with verbal assaults that may develop into physical threats.

• A noticeable temper: Sometimes a temper goes hand-in-hand with domestic violence. An individual with a short fuse and a propensity for lashing out with minimal patience in areas outside of his or her relationship may be equally short-fused in the relationship.

• A partner who limits access to money, belongings or mobility: You may notice your friend or family member continually having to ask permission to use the car or visit with people. Some friends complain about not having access to the checkbook or being kept on a strict budget. · Hidden bruises or excuses for injuries: Michigan State University’s Safe Place indicates that injuries that are covered up and happen with some frequency could be a sign of domestic violence.

• Conflict avoidance: Usually those who are in abusive relationships try to avoid conflict and rarely speak up or voice their own opinions.

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he magic of autumn has seized the Crystal Coast, Gentle Readers warm days, cool nights and fiery sunsets. Autumn is the mellower season and time to settle in with a great book.

“The Story of Land and Sea,” Katy Simpson Smith, is a haunting historical fiction set in Beaufort during the last years of the American Revolution. It traces three generations of family, a father and his daughter, a mother and her son and a master and his slave. All very different characters with very different circumstances that are dealing with the same difficulties, the devastation of war, lost love and the loneliness of the path we all have to travel in the name of renewal.

“The Whip,” Karen Kondazian, is the fictionalized account of Charlotte “Charley” Parkhurst who lived most of her extraordinary life as a man in the old west. She was left on the doorstep of an orphanage in Massachusetts as an infant and remained there until age 16. As a young women she met and fell in love with a runaway slave and they had a child. It was the slaying of her partner and child by vigilantes that drove her west to California, dressed as a man, to track the killer.

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Set in the early 1970s Ireland, with the Catholic- Protestant clash as a backdrop, the beautiful, strong-willed, “Nora Webster,” Colm Toiben, is widowed, losing the love of her life at 40 with four children and without prospects in a town of well-meaning busybodies. Clinging to secrecy Nora is drowning in her own sorrow oblivious to the sorrow of her young sons. When she begins to sing again she finds solace and once again herself. Nora s travails are an unforgettable passage of loneliness, longing and finally determination.

The brilliant and erudite Aloysius Pendergast is back in “Blue Labyrinth,” Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child. When his most ruthless enemy is delivered to his doorstep as a corpse, Pendergast surmises the perfect murder has been committed. Then a piece of turquoise is found in the victim s stomach and it leads him on a task that causes him to delve into his own family s disturbing past to save himself from an elusive killer seeking revenge.

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ccording to the Harvard School of Public Health cardiovascular activity is one of the top things you can do to promote good health.

Cardiovascular exercise can lower your risk of developing a chronic disease, most notably heart disease, can lower blood pressure, helps you lose weight or maintain a healthy weight, alleviates stress and can boost your energy and your mood. That said, some cardiovascular exercises are better than others, depending upon your goals.

While high-impact and vigorous cardiovascular exercise, such as running, burns calories at a faster clip, Harvard experts argue that the best cardiovascular exercise is the type you enjoy. So picking an activity that fits into your lifestyle will help you have an easier time sticking to your exercise routine.

One great type of cardio exercise is spinning. Spinning is a group of people riding stationary bicycles with the instructor in the lead. Classes are typically one-hour in length and can result in burning an average of 500 calories in low impacting, fun, and motivating environment.

The instructor will guide the class through a “ride” that includes elements as climbing and descending hills or mountains, sprinting on straight-a-ways and other real-life biking situations. Throughout the class, you will adjust your position on the bike, your speed and the resistance on the bike to accompany the appropriate elements of the ride. The ride is done to motivating music.

There are several benefits to taking a spinning class.

Spinning works well for all fitness levels. Unlike other classes that require at least some coordination and different positions, participants in a spinning class keep the same position the entire time. You can focus more on proper cycling form because you’re not constantly moving from one position to the next. Each participant adjusts the resistance on the bike and the pace based on your fitness level. This means more advanced athletes can challenge themselves with a fast pace and more resistance, while a beginner can go slower with less resistance.

Spinning offers a workout that is lower impact on the body. The low

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impact aspect makes spinning an option for people with joint problems.

Proper set up on the bicycle is very important. Also overdoing it in spinning class can aggravate the joints, so it is important to build up your program over time.

Like most other aerobic exercises, spinning is a great cardiovascular workout. The more intense the workout, the more fat you’ll burn and the more weight you’ll lose. Regular cardiovascular exercise keeps your body healthy by improving heart health and reducing your risk for certain diseases, such as diabetes. Participating in spin classes can also help increase your lung capacity and raise your metabolism.

It is also an excellent way to strengthen your thigh muscles as well as your back and abdominal muscles. Spinning works many different muscles for strengthening and toning benefits. The muscles used in spinning class include the hamstrings, quads and glutes. You also engage the core muscles in order to balance on the bike and maintain the proper riding position.

Strengthening your core muscles can help you with your overall posture and alignment.

Spinning classes are typically high energy with music and other motivating features. The instructor also provides motivation, encouraging you to continue the workout. In a solo stationary bike session, you might be tempted to hold back or cut your workout short. The indoor location also eliminates the concerns with weather you might face while riding an actual bike outdoors.

While there are many ways to get a great cardio workout, give spinning a try and get ready to get into great shape and have fun doing it!

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Lead Celebrating Female Business Leaders (Photos by Ted Lewis)

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f there was a theme for this year’s Business Woman of the Year celebration, held Thursday, Oct. 16, at Jack’s Waterfront Bar in downtown Morehead City, it would have definitely been advocacy. Both Business Woman of the Year Audra Smith-Odum and Nonprofit Director of the Year Glenda Riggs are staunch advocates in the community – one in the fight against cancer, the other raising awareness about domestic violence.

Now in its fifth year, the annual award is presented to a standout in the Carteret County business arena – a woman who not only excels at business, but also exhibits a marked contribution to the community as well.

This year, the panel of judges culled nominations down to five finalists – Gina English of Coconutz Tanning; Mindy Ballou Fitzpatrick of The Friendly Market; Pat Rappaport of Hole in the Wall (who had a schedule conflict and could not be here this evening); Janeen Russell of Promise Land Market; and Audra Smith-Odum of Bella Hair Studio.

Moving away from the traditional lunch format, the awards were presented during an evening reception, allowing guests to network with the five finalists and bid on silent auction items to raise necessary funds for the Carteret County Domestic Violence Program. Master of ceremonies was Jamie Bailey, from the sales department at NCCOAST, with the help of Kim LaChance, creative director. Food was provided by Janeen Russell of Promise Land Market and each guest received a signature cocktail, crafted by the staff at Jack’s. On hand from Jack’s was last year’s Business Woman of the Year Keri McCann and Holly Fletcher, ensuring that the evening flowed smoothly.

Crystal Sponsors for the annual event included Sound Bank, McQueen’s Interiors and Girl Talk & Gynecology and Pearl Sponsors wereBig Rock Blue Marlin Tournament, Carteret-Craven Electric Cooperative, Neapolitan Hair Salon, Transportation Impact, Atlantic Beach Realty, Coastal Countertops, Cottage Home Consignment & Re-Purpose Store, Carteret General Hospital and Atlantic Wealth Management.

In business for 20 years, this year’s Business Woman of the Year has graciously transitioned from renting booth space to perform her craft to recently purchasing and remodeling her own location. Like most business owners, she has faced both the successes and challenges of our local economy – but her positive outlook and her ability to read the market

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has given her the momentum to down size in hard times and expand when the economy allowed.

Smith-Odum’s positive outlook paid off again when she was diagnosed with invasive stage 3 cancer in 2008.

This rare form of breast cancer wasn’t going to stop our winner – if anything, it made her stronger. Battling sickness and fear, she never gave up – continuing to run her business and make sure her employees were taken care of as well as her dedicated clients. It was a time when many people might have lost hope – but not Audra, her nominator Melodie Willis wrote.

In fact, quite the opposite occurred. She turned the negative into a positive by becoming a staunch advocate for cancer awareness by working with the Breast Cancer Foundation, Susan G. Komen Foundation and the American Cancer Society’s Relay for Life. Through her business, she has also contributed to the Hair Ball, Locks of Love, the Boys & Girls Clubs of Coastal Carolina and many others.

“I cannot think of a better candidate to represent Carteret County and receive the Crystal Coast Business Woman of the Year award. Audra is committed, faithful, honest, hard working and generous. She encompasses everything that represents professionalism and loyalty. She is the definition of excellence,” said Willis.

“I think I’m still in shock,” Smith-Odum said, nearly a week after the presentation. “I just feel so honored, not just that I received the award, but that Melodie and my peers said such wonderful things about me. I’m so thankful to everyone. And I feel so blessed to be surrounded by such wonderful people in such a great community.”

Smith-Odum shared that she is also celebrating another milestone – her five year anniversary of being cancer free.

Due to popular demand, a nonprofit award was added three years ago. The criteria for the Business Woman of the Year award specifies that the winner not work in the nonprofit sector – yet nominations continued to flood in for strong women in the community who were definitely making a difference from their nonprofit roles. Prior winners of the nonprofit award include Stephanie McIntyre of the NC Seafood Festival and Crystal Hesmer of the Big Rock Blue Marlin Tournament.

This year, Glenda Riggs, executive director of the

Carteret County Domestic Violence Program was surprised by the honor. Early in her career, Riggs wore several hats before finding her niche in Carteret County. She originally studied nursing before taking a break to open two small restaurants near what is now Elon University. Once she arrived full-time in Carteret County, however, that path would change. She took a job as a victim advocate, supporting women in the area who had been victims of domestic violence – and there, she found her calling, slowly growing into the community leader she is today.

Riggs embraced education, learning as much as she could on the subject – including an associate’s degree in criminal justice to better understand how the law pertains to the victims she protects and a grant writing certification from Duke University to ensure that funds are always available for the program. As the executive director she worked closely with Doris Buffett Bryant and other donors during the purchase of a new shelter.

In 1998, Bryant presented her with a Sunshine Peace Award for her efforts. Additional awards and certifications are too vast to list – including a Distinguished Women’s Award from the Carteret County Council for Women and a special award for her dedication and compassion during the council’s 30th anniversary. Dedicated and tireless, if there is an opportunity to raise awareness – and those necessary funds to keep her organization vibrant, Glenda Riggs will be there.

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GINA ENGLISH Coconutz Tanning Salon 5370-G Hwy 70, Morehead City.

English established Coconutz in 2008 with an emphasis on customer service. The goal, according to the nomination form, has been to not just build business, but to keep business coming back time and time again.

Since 2008, the company has built a client base of more than 3,000 and has added a mobile spray tan booth. The site is currently updating the décor and adding units as it prepares for the 2015 season. Through it all, English has been sure to show her community support in return. During the holidays the site holds a canned food drive, the staff come together to participate in Beach Sweep and it donates to area schools throughout the year.

MINDY BALLOU FITZPATRICK The Friendly Market 205 Friendly Road, Morehead City

Mindy is one of those local girls that just about everyone knows. Either she has taught your child to toss from the free throw line, given them pointers in surfing or she has cooked you dinner – literally.

Her business acumen, however, all started with the tomato pie. The West Carteret High School basketball hall of famer opened The Friendly Market with husband Matt in 2008 on the corner of Friendly and Bridges, slowly growing from a small farmer’s market into a full indoor/outdoor market with industrial kitchen churning out Mindy’s Baked Goods. The site works with everyone from farmers to local craftsmen as they embrace the Buy Local phenomenon. She was the founder of Mindy’s Hoops Clinics and serves on the board of the NC Seafood Festival.

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PAT RAPAPORT Hole in the Wall 1300-A Arendell St., Morehead City

Certified dog trainer, Pat Rapaport has gained a reputation not only for getting the most out of man’s best friend, but for sharing that talent in a therapeutic setting. Rapaport is a member of the Foundation for Pet Therapy and the Intermountain Therapy Animals group. When not training canines, she is visiting area nursing homes with her therapy dogs Lily and Dallas, or using them to participate in reading programs at the Beaufort Library and area classrooms. In addition, she serves as a trainer, eligible to train other dog and handler teams who are interested in providing pet therapy. A constant advocate, Rapaport has presented dog related programs to a variety of organizations, including the hospital, women’s clubs and the Rotary.

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JANEEN RUSSELL Promise Land Market 909-B Arendell St., Morehead City

The Promise Land Market has filled a much-needed niche in downtown Morehead City, selling a variety of wine, craft beer and gifts. Toss in a few things to nibble on, outside tables and the downtown destination was a quick hit. In business nearly two years, Promise Land’s rapid embrace by the public is a testament to Russell’s longtime community service. Formerly employed at Jack’s Waterfront Bar, she was involved in the planning and organization for a variety of fundraising events through the years, including the wildly popular Hair Ball. At Promise Land, that tradition continued with the Cook Off for Charity. Most recently, the store sold Mystery 6-Packs with $2 of each sale going to support a private fundraising for an area resident battling cancer.

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It is difficult to look your best when you’re bundled up to protect yourself against cold winter weather. Fashion tends to fall by the wayside when the focus is on keeping warm. However, there are ways to put a fashionable foot forward, even if that well-clad foot is stepping in a puddle of slush.

Scarves

Scarves serve a practical purpose, helping to keep your body warm, and they’re also a fashionable staple of winter wardrobes.

Scarves can be used to dress up an ordinary ensemble, providing a chic or bohemian look as you navigate city streets. Crocheting or knitting scarves is still popular, but you don’t have to be a seasoned craftsman to include scarves in your wardrobe. Scarves come in a variety of styles, sizes and materials, and there are many ways to knot a scarf, so you can create a different look each day.

Bold Colors

Don’t get trapped in a pattern of dressing drab just because it’s gray outside. Embrace some bold splashes of color and they can brighten your day. Patterned dresses in bright hues were seen on the runways at Givenchy, Burberry and Prada shows this fall. Pair such attire with a long, flowing wool coat with a cinched belted waist and you will look on point for winter.

Bold colors, a statement coat, interestingly knotted scarves, and some simple strategies to prevent hat hair can have you looking fashionable no matter how low temperatures dip this winter.

Contrasting Fur

The ‘it’ jacket on many runways this fall featured a contrasting shearling or fur collar. Whether you prefer faux fur or the real thing, a dash of something fuzzy by the neck can keep you warm and instantly add some style to your look. Fur can be used to dress up jeans and a sweater or even add a sophisticated touch to a business ensemble.

Statement Coat

Boring winter coats need not be your only way to stay warm. Invest in a coat with a fun pattern, fabric or embellishments and it won’t matter what you are wearing underneath because the coat will attract all of the attention.

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to smart phone screens, while also keeping your hands cozy when the wind kicks up.

Hats

The prospect of flattened, lifeless locks compels many women to forgo hats on cold days. But a few tricks can give you the best of both worlds: a warm head and nice hair. Begin by going for regular trims that will keep dried-out or split ends from becoming problematic. After washing your hair in the morning, apply a conditioning treatment to prevent fly-aways. Be sure your hair is completely dry before donning a hat, otherwise hair can become matted and look flat all day. Loose-fitting cotton or fleece hats may be less likely to flatten hair than a wool hat, and you can keep the hat slightly off the crown of your head to prevent your hair from flattening. When all else fails, women can pull their hair back into ponytails before putting on a hat, which can help keep a style in place better.

Boot Up

Gone are the days of standard black and brown options – today’s boots come in a range of styles and colors, from traditional cowboy boots to fleece lined brands that feel more like bedroom slippers than a fashion statement. And they’re the perfect footwear to complement today’s continued popularity of skinny jeans and leggings.

Leggings

As children of the 80s, we’re hopeful this trend will continue just a little bit longer. Leggings are the ideal way to keep those dresses and skirts active all year long – regardless of how long or short they are. Not ready to say goodbye to your favorite fall dress, add leggings and boots and it is ready for round two!

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KEEP IT SIMPLE

Time Management for the Holidays

By Peggy Barnes

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t is that time of year. Halloween has passed and now we are propelling into one of the busiest times of the year … Thanksgiving and Christmas. How can you manage your time so you are not stressed out, frustrated and can enjoy this special time of year? In this article I give you tips to get you through the holidays so you can smile instead of snarl your way all the way to 2015.

NO. This two letter word is the most important word in your vocabulary during this season. Just say NO! This time of year it is especially important to pay attention to what you are agreeing to do. The invitations to parties, baking, extra school activities, extra church responsibilities, greeting cards, wrapping, decorating, mailing, shopping and neighborhood get-togethers all add up to a lot of commitment. When filling in your calendar, don’t forget to include these unavoidable holiday tasks. This time of year is busy enough without piling on so many other things therefore it is imperative for you to be very deliberate about scheduling your time. Look at the months as a whole and make decisions based on the entire month’s activities; do not base a decision on the fact you have free time. To really enjoy your family and get the most out of your traditions, it is important for you to not be overscheduled so you have time to prepare for and enjoy the holidays together.

Speaking of traditions, this is another area you need to evaluate. Traditions in families are absolutely priceless and precious. Traditions that don’t really mean anything to anyone are not the best way to use your time and effort. Ask each of your family members what traditions mean the most to them during this holiday season and those traditions are where you want to focus your energy.

Decorating for the holidays can be very time consuming. One way to attack the decorating is to do it in phases. Schedule time on different days for different decorating tasks: outside of the house, tree decorating, and other rooms in your home. Breaking a task, like decorating, into smaller chunks makes it less overwhelming and more manageable. Also, remember to simplify your decorations reminding yourself that the most important thing is your home feels warm and inviting.

Early November is a great time to get ahead on many tasks: • Prepare your menu and delegate dishes for others to bring to Thanksgiving • Prepare extra frozen meals for the busy holiday season (double some recipes you are already making and freeze the extra).

• Prepare mailing labels for Christmas cards • Decide what photo you will be using for the Christmas card or schedule to have photo taken

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• Check out your wrapping supplies. Do you have paper, bags, tissue, tags, scissors and tape?

• Buy, wrap and prepare for mailing any presents that need to be shipped, since shipping needs to be done earlier in the month rather than later • Write out your Christmas shopping list – who you are buying gifts for and ideas of gifts to buy • If you are making any DIY Christmas gifts, now is the time to get ahead on creating those gifts • Why not go ahead and order or buy locally any Christmas gifts you already know you want to buy?

Finally, here are a few random time management tips to help you before, during and after the holidays: 1. Keep all receipts for the holidays in one spot.

2. Buy batteries ahead of time to save time and frustration when that unavoidable battery operated gift or toy arrives.

3. A lot more mail arrives this time of year – greeting cards, catalogs, coupons. Go ahead and decide where these are going to be housed and put them there each and every day. Create a display area for greeting cards, put catalogs in an area where you can quickly look through and decide if you need to keep them and put coupons where you will remember to take them with you or use them online.

4. When you are putting Christmas decorations away, label the boxes.

5. Create a Christmas file that holds information about Christmas gifts given, recipes you like to use, craft ideas you would like to try one year or another and decorating ideas – even pictures of your own home decorated so you don’t have to reinvent the wheel. This file can be digital or a simple school notebook.

Planning ahead and keeping it simple will result in a memorable, joyous and stress free holiday season – a gift that will keep on giving.

Peggy Barnes is the owner of Keep It Simple Girl. She is a certified professional organizer, certified life coach and speaker. Her goal is to help women declutter their lives physically, emotionally and spiritually in order to live life with purpose. Keep It Simple Girl, 252-6702951, keepitsimplegirl.com.

Social media

& Your Career

Social media has become an integral part of modern society. Millions of people around the world use social media to connect with one another. But this valuable tool also can be a detriment, particularly to men and women seeking employment.

What a person says or does on social media can come back to haunt them with regard to the impression they create with prospective employers. Questionable antics and comments may reflect negatively on a person without him or her even realizing it. According to a study by Reppler, a social media monitoring service, 91 percent of employers use social media channels such as Twitter, Facebook and LinkedIn to screen prospective employees.

Many people are completely unaware how others view them through their social media profiles and usage, but social media profiles give away more information about a person’s character and personality than many people would ever imagine. Even seemingly innocent remarks and observations can be misconstrued. Use of profanity or offering commentary on controversial subjects may be a person’s right. However, such comments may not sit well with prospective employers and can quickly limit your options when in the job market. Feel strongly about a controversial topic? Airing your views in a public forum may make employers who do not share your opinion overlook your resume when it crosses their desk.

Some may think the solution is not to have profiles on the popular social media sites. But avoiding social media entirely can send the wrong message to prospective employers also. It may suggest that you are not a person who is current with the latest trends in technology and may give employers the impression that you are not adept at keeping up with the changing times.

The key is finding the right balance with social media. The following are a few tips to ensure your social media usage does not do more harm than good.

• Do not post or tweet information that should be kept private. If you would not tell intimate secrets to another person, especially an employer, do not convey these details to your group of ‘friends.’

• Recognize that it’s not always your comments that can affect perceptions of you. The friends you choose to accept and socialize with via social media can impact how others view you. If friends are prone to vulgarity and off-color commentary, employers may surmise that this type of behavior is acceptable to you. Screen friends and block those who do not meet your standards.

• Know that security features on social media applications change frequently. It’s important to know just how private your information may be. For example, if you are tagged in another

Social media is here to stay, making many details of people’s lives more public, so exercise caution with social media so your career is not negatively affected.

person’s photo, people outside of your friends’ list may be able to see that image.

You have to police your sites and lock down the information as you see fit, only posting what is appropriate for the general public.

Most social media outlets provide an option for your screen photos and posts you’re tagged in before they’re made public.

• Do not complain about a job or boss publicly. Even if your boss is not on your list of friends, he or she may still learn about your comments through gossip. While verbal complaints with others may not be accurately tracked back to you, text is hard evidence to discredit.

• Use social media as a networking tool to find other like-minded individuals in the same fields. Join industry-based groups and organizations so that you can share your ideas. Further expanding your reach through blogs and websites can also help your job hunt.

Social media is here to stay, making many details of people’s lives more public, so exercise caution with social media so your career is not negatively affected.

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WOMEN IN Business This is the sixth and final installment of Crystal Magazine’s yearlong series highlighting women business owners in Eastern North Carolina. In each issue we plan to feature a different woman and her business experience – the good, the bad and the ugly.

Tell us a little bit about Jame’s and how long it has been open Everyone always asks about the name. So to clarify, my name is Jamie but the store is pronounced James. Some of my friends just call me Jame for short. Jame in the possessive form is Jame’s and my dad’s name is James, so it just worked! Jame’s has been open for over seven years. I have always wanted to own my own business. Originally, it was a restaurant/gallery on the water but as my love for clothes grew, my vision changed. In the fall of 2006, we (myself, along with my parents, James & Linda Dickinson) decided to pursue my vision. I worked as a computer graphics technician at that time. I would come home after my day job and work on making my dream job become a reality. Finally on June 1, 2007 it happened. We opened a little trendy clothing boutique and gallery for my artwork. Our goal is to offer something a little different and unique at a reasonable cost. I’ve heard people comment we are a “younger” store but it just depends on your mindset. We have customers of all ages. Most of our customers are looking for everyday casual outfits, game day attire, ladies night out, casual work outfits, homecoming and graduation dresses, wedding or shower attire or just something new and different.

You were pretty young when you opened Jame’s. Do you think that made it more challenging to build your business?

Yes, I was only 24 when we opened the store. I think being that young had some advantages and some disadvantages. At that time social media was really starting to have an impact on our lives. Since I was younger, I was very open to mixing social media and business early on. However, I was young and I didn’t have tons of real world business experience. I had worked in retail, marketing and design but this was “my first business!”

Everything relied on me. I was responsible for the success or failure. I feel like because I didn’t have more experience, I did more trial and errors! I have learned so much over the past seven years.

Do you have a mentor – that one person you can always go to for sound business advice?

I wouldn’t say I have one person specifically; I have a family of people! They all offer a different perspective and varying opinions. My parents (and business partners) are always ready to offer their words of wisdom. My husband, brother, friends… Mom – she can see my visions and explores them. Dad – just wants to make sure I have really thought everything through. My husband – makes my visions come to life. Brother – always knows the latest business trends and statistics. Girlfriends – share what they want, what they think. After all, they are my target customer!

(Photos by Joey Wootten)

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You are quite an accomplished artist. What made you decide to open in a clothing store instead of pursuing a career as a full-time artist? How do the two interests overlap? And how do they differ?

I wanted a little more stability. Most people love art, but they don’t typically buy it as much as they would clothing. I felt the combo would give me some stability and still allow me to love what I do! Fashion is art and a form of expression. Art and business both involve a lot of creativity, trial and error, and problem solving. You need to be creative to run a business!

How important is it to be hands on within the business every day?

VERY!!! I have to say, when I was younger I probably didn’t realize how much time it would consume. You eat, sleep, and dream about your business! You are constantly thinking of ways to improve or change something that may or may not be working to its fullest.

You’ve recently made a move – what new challenges come with that and what did you do to ensure a smooth transition?

We moved to Pelletier Harbor Shops in February of this year. I am not going to lie: everything just kind of fell into place for us. The idea of joining a Women’s Destination Shopping Center was presented and we ran with it. We were very fortunate to be able to make the transition during the off season.

What is your favorite thing about doing business in Carteret County?

The people! Locals and visitors! I enjoy catching up with those I see a couple times a year – women who visit the Crystal Coast with the tradition of a shopping trip to Jame’s. The locals, though, form the backbone of my customer base. Their support is vital throughout the year. In appreciation of that support, we participate in charity fashion show events and fundraising efforts here in Carteret County.

If a young woman told you she had hopes of opening a store of her own, what advice would you give her?

It’s a lot of fun! BUT it’s not easy. It is very time consuming and requires a lot of hard work and dedication. The rewards are so fulfilling. When ladies comment on how beautiful my store is and how much they like my selection of clothes, my heart swells with a sense of success. And when a girl finds just the right outfit for her special occasion, I am as delighted as she is! www.nccoast.com 19

HOLIDAY EVENTS NOVEMBER

Sat. 8: Mistletoe Magic Holiday Gift Show. 9am-4pm. This one day show attracts more than 1,000 visitors to the Crystal Coast Civic Center, Morehead City, to see exhibitors from near and far. Categories include floral, fine art, glass, jewelry, photography, potters, candles, dolls and more.

14-16, 21-23: “Rock ‘N Roll Santa.” The Carteret Community Theatre celebrates the holidays at its downtown Morehead City location. Evening shows begin at 7:30pm and Sunday matinees begin at 2pm Tickets are $8$17. Details: 252-726-1501.

Sun. 23: BHA Community Thanksgiving Feast. 11:30am-1pm. Beaufort restaurants come together to create a true community meal for this Beaufort Historical Association fundraising event. Eat on site or take your ultimate Thanksgiving dinner home with you. Cost is $18 in advance or $20 on the day of the event. Details: 252-728-5225.

28-30: “The Nutcracker Ballet.” Presented by Down East Dance at the New Bern Civic Theatre. Enjoy this year’s ballet production presented as a bedtime story for Marie, as told by her mother. Evening performances begin at 7:30pm and matinees begin at 2pm on Saturday and Sunday. Details: www.newberncivictheatre.org.

Fri. 28: Santa Arrives in Beaufort. 1pm. Each year, old St. Nick makes his way to Beaufort like many of its visitors – by boat. He sets up shop on the waterfront, next to the Dockhouse, to greet youngsters throughout the season.

Sat. 29: Emerald Isle Christmas Parade. 3pm. Sponsored by the Emerald Isle Business Association and the town of Emerald Isle. Guests are asked to join the town following the parade for the lighting of the Christmas tree at Merchant’s Park. Details: Diane Schools, 252-354-2916.

Holiday Arts and Crafts Fair. 8am-6pm. Emerald Isle Parks and Recreation host its annual Holiday Arts and Crafts Fair in the gymnasium.

The fair features all handmade or hand-authenticated items from local artisans and crafters. Interested vendors should register soon as space is limited. Details: 252-354-6350 or lgottuso@emeraldisle-nc.org.

DECEMBER

Thur. 4: “A Christmas Carol.” 7pm. Ring in the holiday season with Legacy Theater’s annual production of this classic Charles Dickens tale with the Seaside Arts Council. Tickets are $15 for nonmembers, $10 for members and are available at the Swansboro Area Chamber of Commerce, Swansboro Recreation Center, Emerald Isle Wine Market and online.

Details: seasideartscouncil.com.

Embers Christmas. The legendary beach music band brings holiday classics to the Carteret Community Theatre stage. Tickets begin at $20.

Details: 252-726-1501.

5-7 & 12-14: “Dashing Through the Snow.” RiverTowne Players, New Bern, present this Christmas comedy set in the town of Tinsel, Texas, where a colorful parade of eccentric guests arrive at the Snowflake Inn and deck the halls with holiday hilarity. Evening shows begin at 8pm and matinees begin at 3pm on Dec. 7 and 14. Tickets are $13 in advance, $16 at the door and $10 for students. Details: www.rivertowneplayers.com.

5-7: “The Nutcracker Ballet.” Presented by Down East Dance at the New Bern Civic Theatre. Enjoy this year’s ballet production presented as a bedtime story for Marie, as told by her mother. Evening performances begin at 7:30pm on Dec. 5-6 and matinees begin at 2pm on Dec. 6-7. Details: www.newberncivictheatre.org.

Model Train Show. The Carteret County Model Railroad Buffs and the Town of Beaufort organize this annual holiday show at the Beaufort Old Train Depot. Runs from 4-8pm on Friday; 9am-6pm on Saturday and 11am4pm on Sunday. Admission is free. Children under 12 must be accompanied by an adult. Details: 252-728-2259.

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Fri. 5: Christmas ArtWalk. 4-7pm. Downtown Morehead City art galleries open their doors for visitors for a night of demonstrations, art and great deals. Non-gallery businesses offer specials as well. Details: 252-8080440.

Morehead City Tree Lighting. 5-6pm. Santa and Mrs. Claus welcome friends at Katherine Davis Park prior to the annual Morehead City Christmas tree lighting at 6pm. Enjoy carols and hot chocolate with the Broad Creek Middle School Chorus. Details: 252-808-0440 or www. downtownmoreheadcity.com.

Sat. 6: Morehead City/Beaufort Flotilla. 5:30pm. The boat parade begins in Morehead City and arrives in Beaufort about 6:15pm. Awards follow in the NC Maritime Museum’s watercraft center. Details: 252-7287318 or www.ncmaritimemuseums.org.

Beaufort Christmas Parade. 3pm. The town of Beaufort celebrates the holidays with a traditional parade. Santa will be on hand at his waterfront hut, with extended hours during the day.

Holiday Craft Fair. 9am-4pm. The History Place, Morehead City, welcomes an array of regional crafters just in time for holiday shopping.

Vendors will feature hand painted wood, sculptures, jewelry, birdhouses, ornaments, pottery, etched glass and more. Details: 252-247-7533.

Gingerbread Houses. 1:30pm. Ragan and Gina at Carolina Home and Garden, Newport, help children (and adults) create their own gingerbread house. Cost is $5. Details: 252-393-9004.

Breakfast with Santa. 8:30am-12:30pm. Floyd’s 1921 and the Downtown Morehead City Revitalization Association host Santa and friends during three seating times. Cost is $12, adults; $8, children. Reservations are required. Details: 252-808-0440 or www.downtownmoreheadcity.com.

Chowder & Cheer Crawl. 1-5pm. More than 14 downtown Morehead City businesses open their doors for this special event. In addition to the chowder, guests can expect live demonstrations by artists, musical performances and more. Tickets are $20. Details: 252-808-0440 or www. downtownmoreheadcity.com.

Santa & Mrs. Claus. 4:30pm. The most popular folks of the season visit with guests at Jaycee Park, Morehead City, thanks to the Downtown Morehead City Revitalization Association.

Fri. 12: Santa and a Movie. 6pm. Children of all ages are welcome to join Santa at the Emerald Isle Recreation Center for a story and a short Christmas classic. Kids are encouraged to come in their pajamas and may bring a blanket to cozy up with. Admission is one unwrapped gift per child.

Preregistration is required. Details: 252-354-6350.

13 & 20: Eve of Revolution – A Candlelight Christmas Celebration.

4:30-9:45pm. Merriment, drama and romance fill the air this holiday season when Tryon Palace, New Bern, reaches the Eve of Revolution. Celebrate 300 years of Christmas past through costumed performers, magicians, dancing and a rare glimpse of the Governor’s Palace by candlelight. Cost is $20 per adult; $10 for students. Details: www.tryonpalace.org.

Sat. 13: Beaufort Holiday ArtWalk. 1-5pm. Enjoy a festive day in historic Beaufort, celebrating the season with a variety of receptions and open houses at a variety of downtown locations. Regional artists will be showcased. Maps are available at participating locations at the Beaufort Historic Site. Details: 252-728-5225 or www.beauforthistoricsite.org Historic Beaufort Candlelight Homes Tour. 5-8pm. Tour private homes in Beaufort and ride on the double-decker bus with carolers from local churches. Homeowners open their doors so the public can delight in their festive décor. Details: 252-728-5225.

Morehead City Christmas Parade. 11am. The sights and sounds of the holidays parade down Arendell Street in downtown Morehead City.

Tue. 16: NC Symphony – Holiday Pops. 7pm. A North Carolina tradition, the symphony’s holiday show brings all the joy and excitement of the season straight to the Riverfront Convention Center in New Bern. Cost is $47. Details: 877-627-6724 or www.ncsymphony.org.

29-31: Holiday Camp. The NC Aquarium is offering one-day holiday camp programs for grades 2-5. Camp runs from 8:30am-2:30pm. Cost is $40 per camper. Advance registration and deposit are required. Details: 252-2474003 or www.ncaquariums.com.

SOUTHERN

Hospitality

Welcome Guests with a Down Home Favorite!

With the autumn in the air, foodies are starting to think about the bevy of fresh foods that seem to symbolize the season. From squash to apples to aromatic seasonings, foods cooked in the fall are awash in flavor.

Autumn can be the perfect time to handpick foods from a nearby farmer’s market or orchard. Pumpkin picking is a favorite this time of year, and those impressive orange spheres are more than just jack-o-lanterns.

Freshly picked pumpkins can be used to make muffins, breads and, of course, the ubiquitous pumpkin pie.

The following recipe for Ultimate Pumpkin Pie with Rum Whipped Cream from Ina Garten’s “Barefoot Contessa Foolproof” (Clarkson Potter) is a spirit-infused take on the classic pumpkin pie recipe. The recipe can be prepared with fresh pumpkin puree or the canned variety found at stores.

Ultimate Pumpkin Pie with Rum Whipped Cream 1 unbaked Perfect Pie Crust (recipe follows) Dried beans for baking Filling: 1 15-ounce can pumpkin puree (not pie filling) 1/2 cup light brown sugar, lightly packed 1/4 cup granulated sugar 1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon 1/4 teaspoon ground ginger 1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt 2 teaspoons grated orange zest 3 extra-large eggs, lightly beaten 1 cup heavy cream 1/2 cup whole milk 2 tablespoons dark rum, such as Mount Gay Rum Whipped Cream (recipe follows) Preheat the oven to 425° F. Line an 11-inch pie pan with the unbaked pie crust and place it on a sheet pan. Line the crust with parchment paper. Fill the paper three-quarters full with the beans and bake the crust for 15 minutes, until the edges start to brown. Remove the beans and paper

(save the beans for another time), prick the crust all over with the tines of a fork, and bake for another 5 minutes.

Reduce the oven temperature to 350 F. Meanwhile, in a large bowl, whisk together the pumpkin, brown sugar, granulated sugar, cinnamon, ginger, nutmeg, salt, orange zest, eggs, cream, milk, and rum. Pour the filling into the baked pie shell. Bake for 55 to 65 minutes, until the filling is just set in the middle and knife inserted in the center comes out clean.

Set as side to cool completely. Serve with the rum whipped cream.

Rum Whipped Cream 1 cup cold heavy cream 3 tablespoons sugar 1 tablespoon creme fraiche 1 tablespoon good dark rum, such as Mount Gay 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract Place the cream in the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the whisk attachment and beat on medium speed for 1 minute. Add the sugar, mascarpone, rum, and vanilla and beat on medium-high until it forms soft peaks. Serve with the pumpkin pie.

Perfect Pie Crust 12 tablespoons (11/2 sticks) very cold unsalted butter 3 cups all-purpose flour 1 teaspoon kosher salt 1 tablespoon sugar 1/3 cup very cold vegetable shortening 6 to 8 tablespoons (about 1/2 cup) ice water Dice the butter and return it to the refrigerator while you prepare the flour mixture. Place the flour, salt, and sugar in the bowl of a food processor fitted with a steel blade and pulse a few times to mix. Add the butter and shortening. Pulse 8 to 12 times, until the butter is the size of peas.

With the machine running, pour the ice water down the feed tube and pulse the machine until the dough begins to form a ball. Dump out on a floured board and roll into a ball. Wrap in plastic wrap and refrigerate for 30 minutes.

Cut the dough in half. Roll each piece on a well-floured board into a circle, rolling from the center to the edge, turning and flouring the dough to make sure it doesn’t stick to the board. Fold the dough in half, place in a pie pan, and unfold to fit the pan. Repeat with the top crust. www.nccoast.com 21

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