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Wednesday 8 September 2021
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‘Exhausted’ carers need respite Jo Kent Reporter
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Tasman’s full-time carers can finally breathe a sigh of relief after battling exhaustion looking after their loved ones during lockdown. During Level 4, respite home visits from Age Concern’s carer
relief programme had to stop to keep people safe in their bubbles. For some carers, that meant being on call 24/7. From 11.59pm last night, however, we are in Level 2 and help can be given to those who need it most. Julia Reid, whose 84-year-old husband Graham has dementia, said that lockdown had been especially difficult.
“There was no one coming at Level 4. I could cope with the days if I got a reasonable sleep, but a few nights without sleep is really tough going.” She said that Graham never left her side, even for toilet breaks. “Everywhere I go, my shadow is with me. It never stops. He’s waiting at the door when I come out of the bathroom. I don’t get a
minute to myself.” Susan Arrowsmith, registered social worker with Age Concern, said it was a particularly tough time for carers. “Many people will still be getting in-home supports from providers if personal care is something they need help with. That doesn’t stop in lockdown. But the chance to get a bit of a break is gone. So it’s
been hard.” People with advanced dementia, like Graham, become reliant on their carers for every little thing. “I’ll ask him to pass the butter, but he doesn’t know what that is any more. It’s mentally exhausting not to get a break from that level of care.”
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Jenny Nicholson While Allan and Sheena Parker’s wedding went ahead on the scheduled day, it looked very different from earlier plans. Under Level 3, there was just the happy couple, three guests and wedding celebrant Marg Palmer. Sheena was able to have a friend with her, but no family as many of her relatives live in the Philippines. They are planning a celebration with others after lockdown. A venue at Nelson Lakes was the original plan, but they settled on a spot on the grass under a magnolia tree in Washbourn Gardens. Marg said she was very happy to be able to officiate at their wedding on Thursday. While weddings were allowed at Alert Level 3, only a total of 10 people could attend. No refreshments could be served, and physical distancing had to be observed.
Love in lockdown Bride and groom Sheena and Allan Parker had a stunning day to celebrate their wedding last Thursday. Photo: Jenny Nicholson.
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