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Features 27 Making It Legal:

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Real Weddings 219 Retro Country Evan & Bailey Huwa

Nebraska Marriage License Information

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Incredible Cakes: Delicious Creations from Nebraska Cake Artists Dazzling Designs: Local Florists Re-Create Famous Moments in Pop Culture Invitation Inspiration: A Peek at the Brilliant Handiwork of Nebraska’s Best Invitation Designers Fabulous Frocks: Bridesmaid Dresses

DIY Delight Cory & Angie Reiss

224

Carnivàle Matt & Lindsay Nehe

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Color Revival Grant & Leigh Brassette

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Divine Design J.R. & Alison Johnson

Captivating Couture

Business Spotlight 172 Shane and Sunny Photography At-a-Glance Guides 77 Nebraska’s Ultimate Reception Guide 153 Nebraska’s Fashion Guide 214 Nebraska’s Finest Photographer’s Guide

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Outdoor Chic Matt & Joy Rauscher

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Garden Fiesta J. Manuel & Denise Garcia

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Romantic Elegance Tim & Rachel Culwell

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Bridal Fashion 138 I’ve Been There... Finding Your Gown

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Bridal Gown Website Guide Saving The Dress

Bridal Registry 14 Quiz: What’s Your Registry Style 16 15 Professional Tips for Registering Cakes and Catering 92 Sweet Treats 96 What’s Cooking? 99 Pre-Wedding Celebrations Ceremony and Receptions 28 What’s Your Style? 34 Spread the Love 40 Trend Watch 2011:

DIY Brides A Tale of Four Fairy Tale Marriages Top 10 Planning Mistakes You Don’t Want to Make

60 64

Planning the Guest List

Choosing Your Personal Attendant

Required Reading: Books to Help Prepare You for Marriage

Event Planners 18 Ask The Expert Flowers and Design 124 Perfect Petals: Finding the Right Flowers For Your Big Day

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Event Design From the Experts

Guest Accommodations 167 At Home In Nebraska

What’s Hot in Weddings

Calm in The Midst of Chaos

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Health, Beauty and Fitness 162 Weight Loss for the Bride

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Home and Living 252 Finding Your Inner Designer

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Photography 180 I’ve Been There... Choosing a Photographer

Honeymoon and Travel 244 25 Honeymoon Hot Spots

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Intimate Affairs 74 Intimate Affair:

196 206 211

Celebrating On a Smaller Scale

Invitations 132 I’ve Been There... Invitation Do’s & Don’ts

Themed Weddings Road Trip! You Get What You Pay For

Rentals and Decorations 102 Special Touches:

Choosing the Invitations

135

Something to Remember: Destination Photography

10 Trends in Wedding Rentals

109

Putting the Fun in Your Function

Jewelry 10 Ring Shopping 101

Transportation 240 Arrive In Style

Men’s Formal Wear 158 Formal or Casual?

Videography 236 The Scoop on Creating High-Def Memories

Menswear Trends for the Groom

Music and Entertainment 168 Let Us Entertain You!

Wedding Services/Bridal Shows 26 Bridal Fairs 201 1 24 Midwest Bridal Association W W W. N E W E D D I N G D AY. C O M

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April: Photo by Melenbacker Photography Flowers and Design by Blooms N Bouquets Table Settings & Linens by Elite Events Rental Place Card by Porridge Papers

June: 174

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Photo by Geoff Johnson, Photographer Gown by Allure www.AllureBridals.com Style: 8708 Available at: The Bride’s Store

Not to be missed 20 Why You Should Hire A Wedding Planner 21

Favorite Finds

12 Month Countdown: Organization Checklist

Perfect Planning: The Best Blogs to Inspire Your Wedding

August: Photo by Melenbacker Photography

A Classic Toast

201 1 Color Forecast

Reception Timeline

October: 149

Favorite Finds

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Neckline Basics

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Engagements: Prince Charming and His Castle

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Engagements: A Kansas City Scenic Proposal

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Engagements: The Picture Perfect Moment

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Wedding Weather Forecast

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Gleeful Wedding Dance Songs

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Index of Wedding Professionals

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December: Gown by Martina Liana www.MartinaLiana.com Style: 313 Available at: Ellynne Bridal

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Ring Shopping Strohm Photography & Design

101 By Holly Lafferty

If you are a recently engaged bride, you are probably well-informed on the importance of the 4 C’s (cut, color, clarity and carat weight) when it comes to selecting

a diamond engagement or wedding ring. But something that cannot be defined when determining a diamond’s value is how it makes you feel when you are wearing it. The 4 C’s, the price and the emotion…put them all together, and shopping for your engagement and wedding rings can quickly become overwhelming. There are numerous different trends and styles when it comes to engagement and

its wearer, a vintage ring will never look or feel outdated.

wedding rings, and some of the most popular styles right now have real staying

Classic Rings

power. If you’re not sure where to start when

While a classic ring probably doesn’t qual-

buying your engagement and wedding rings,

ify as a trend, classic rings are still all the rage,

consider how some of the recent trends

and for good reason – they’re certainly not

might reflect your own personal style.

going to be going out of style anytime soon. While white gold is increasing in popularity,

Vintage Rings

yellow gold is still a popular element chosen

One extremely popular (and timeless)

for engagement and wedding bands, and it’s

trend is that of vintage-inspired rings. Vin-

a specific characteristic of a classic ring.

tage or antique-inspired rings usually feature

Round solitaires also convey a classic feel.

intricate details, such as gemstone baguettes or floral accents. Because the appeal of a vintage ring is the nostalgic sentiment it gives

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Emerald-Cut Stones Choosing an emerald-cut diamond for

your engagement ring makes a

ing a ring with multiple diamonds

harder and stronger than gold,

statement. Because they are more

– as opposed to a solitaire, where

which makes it a better investment

unique

ever-popular

design options may be more limit-

for the long-term; it is also pricier

princess-cut diamond, wearing an

ed – only add to the appeal of

than gold, which is why some

emerald-cut stone will help you

choosing this style of ring.

brides who love the white-silver

than

the

stand out from the crowd. They are also more affordable than other

color of platinum end up choos-

Modern Styles

ing white gold. White gold offers

shapes (you can generally get a

The modern, streamlined trend

the look of platinum without

larger stone for the same price as

in home decorating has carried over

the expense. However, if durabil-

a smaller stone in a different cut).

into brides’ jewelry selections. Think

ity is very important to you, it’s

An emerald-cut diamond will

probably worth it to pay the

show flaws more than other

extra expense and upgrade

cuts, however, so it’s impor-

to platinum.

tant to pick a top-quality gem

While engagement rings

if you’re going to go with

are still an ideal way to show

this cut.

off your individual style, wedding bands are becoming

Colored Stones

more personalized as well. Once you’ve settled on your

trend in celebrity circles for

dream engagement ring, you

years, it’s now starting to take off among the rest of us. A colored stone is another way to really stand out with your

Monte Evans Photography

While this has been a

and your fiancé should go shopping together for your wedding bands. Here are some tips when it comes to

style of engagement ring. It

selecting them:

also opens up a much wider

• Mix it up. You don’t have to

world of selections. While

get a matching his-and-her

many brides opt to go with a

set (although you will usual-

colored diamond, it’s now

ly save money by doing so).

acceptable to choose an

If you both have different

entirely different type of gem

taste, don’t worry about it.

for your ring. Anything from

Each of you should be able to

rubies to opals is fair game

wear what you love, whether

and will definitely draw attention.

Multiple Diamonds

clean and simple, usually in a plat-

it matches or not. You will learn

inum or white gold setting. Tension-

the art of compromise soon

set diamonds are a characteristic of

enough in marriage; you should-

Solitaires are still extremely

this look. Modern rings have a

n’t have to compromise with your

popular, but more and more brides

sleek appearance that borders on

are choosing a large diamond

plain, but works well for everyday

• Incorporate your personality.

framed with tiny diamonds all

wear. If you’re not looking for a

Consider including a special

around. This gives off a little of the

flashy or ostentatious setting but

engraving on the ring or adding

vintage feel mentioned before; it

still desire something cutting-edge,

other meaningful details. Have

also creates the illusion of a larger

a modern design might be the right

the jeweler design a ring with

stone. Brides also love the look of

style for you.

stones from your great-grand-

three-stone or five-stone settings, which have a traditional yet glam-

wedding bands!

mother’s ring. Designers today

Platinum

orous quality. The different design

Platinum is still the go-to choice

options made available by choos-

of many brides. Platinum is much

can do just about anything you may think of to help make your ring more personal to you.

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jewelry

• Think about what you will be doing every day when you

and your fiancé to decide the

• Get ideas online. You can still make it a special time with your

right number for you.

choose your ring. If you fiancé is

• Think long-term. It’s like getting

fiancé by scheduling it as a

in construction, simple is prob-

a tattoo – are you going to love

“date”: Cook dinner, pour some

ably better because the ring

it as much thirty years from now?

wine and settle down in front of

will endure a lot of wear and tear.

If not, maybe you’d better keep

the computer for a long, roman-

Lots of stones or a less durable

looking.

tic night of perusing.

metal combined with an active

• Take your time. You don’t have

The best advice you can get

lifestyle can diminish the beau-

to buy wedding bands at the first

when shopping for your rings is this:

ty of your ring over time.

jeweler you visit. Visit several jew-

Your engagement and wedding

• Stick to your budget. Decide on

elers, and don’t feel pressured to

rings are an important symbol of the

the maximum amount you’ll

buy anything on your first day of

commitment between you and your

spend before you go shopping

shopping.

husband. Long after your flowers

and don’t sway from that. It’s

• Plan accordingly. Get your rings

have wilted and the strains of

easy to be tempted when you see

two to three months before your

Pachelbel’s “Canon in D” have

the vast offerings your jeweler

wedding to allow for sizing,

faded, your rings will still be on your

may have, so it’s important that

engravings, or any other modifi-

fingers as reminders of the vows

you and your fiancé hold one

cations that will need to be

you made to one another. Remem-

another accountable. One rule of

made. The last thing you want is

bering their significance while

thumb is that the wedding rings

to wait until the last minute and

choosing them will help you make

should account for about 3% of

not have a wedding band on your

the best decision you could possi-

your budget, but it’s up to you

big day!

bly make.

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bridal registry

What’s your

Registry Style? By Holly Lafferty

Your favorite decorating tool is: a. A bold color of paint b. A crystal vase or fine china in a glass display

d. Granite countertops and light birch or maple cab-

cabinet

a. An organic Asian stir-fry on your new stainless

your couch

steel pans, topped off with a glass of red wine

d. A black-and-white matted photograph

b. A roasted garlic chicken with potatoes and car-

What type of couch most appeals to you?

rots in your trusty Crockpot

a. A black leather couch with no embellishments

c. Only the best comfort food – a hearty beef dish,

b. An elegant antique couch with rich colors

buttery mashed potatoes, and green bean

c. A comfy, cushy couch with a plaid or floral

casserole

design

d. Something tasty, quick and easy – grilled

d. A large suede couch in a neutral color topped

chicken with brown rice, steamed veggies and

off with funky pillows How many decorative elements do you think a room needs to make it look fully decorated?

What is the ideal bed for your new bedroom? duvet and linen white sheets

and open space

b. A dark cherry antique bed with a hand-carved

b. It’s not so much the number as the style – they

headboard, a rich colored comforter and dec-

have to be elegant antiques

orative pillows with tassels

c. Several – as long as they’re eclectic and home-

c. A cozy bed with a handmade quilt and pillows

made

of all shapes and sizes

d. A few – enough to make it look lived in and

d. A king or queen with a simple headboard and

comfortable Which kitchen design sounds most appealing to you?

a neutral-colored comforter – ideally with some

a. Pressed concrete countertops with stainless steel

geometrically-designed pillows to add a mod-

cabinets and accessories b. Marble countertops and elaborate dark cherry cabinets c. A large farmhouse sink and painted white oak cabinets

a bottle of imported beer

a. A king-size, of course, with an immaculate white

a. Very few – I like a large room with clean lines

What’s a typical meal you would cook in your new kitchen?

c. A handmade quilt or pillow to add comfort to

inets with a mosaic backsplash

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ern touch Let’s talk bathrooms. What kind of master bath would you like? a. A huge stamped concrete shower, large white tile floor and modern vessel sink

b. A restored Victorian clawfoot tub, rich wood floor and bronzeframed mirrors combo, painted tile floors and a

light and open windows. You want the end result to be sleek and

floral border on the wall

smooth.

floors and a tiled slate shower

What to register for: Find abstract art and chrome or stainless steel lamps, along with hand-blown glass pieces. Also look

What kind of curb appeal would

for art and furniture that features geometric shapes. Use a spot-

draw you in a home?

light on favorite pieces for maximum effect.

modern condo with huge windows to view my city’s skyline. b. A large, sprawling Victorian home with elegant landscaping c. A cozy cottage with a well-tended flower garden and lots of trees d. A newer home with a stone or stucco exterior and a huge deck

Mostly B’s: You’re a Traditional Lady For you, nothing says beautiful like antique pieces and elegant finishes. You want your home to have a formal design and lean towards a more traditional style of separate rooms, wood floors and classic paneled curtains. What to register for: Victorian touches like candlesticks, framed landscapes (particularly if they’re in a bronze frame), tasseled pillows, crystal accents and fine china will help put the finishing touches on any traditional-style room.

for entertaining What’s the most important room in your new home? a. The kitchen/great-room combo – you love the wide-open spaces. b. The dining room – it’s perfect for hosting tons of dinner parties. c. Your warm, comfortable bedroom – there’s nothing better than curling up with a good book. d. The backyard! You love to entertain on your deck and host

10.

You love the look of clean, simple lines and modern finishes like concrete and stainless steel. Your home will have lots of bright

a. What curb appeal? You want a

Mostly A’s: You’re a Modern Woman

c. A traditional shower and tub

d. Definitely double sinks, slate

The Results:

neighborhood barbecues.

Mostly C’s: You’re a Country Gal Home is truly where your heart is. You love painted finishes and handmade accessories. Your ideal fabrics have checked, striped, or floral patterns and are often vintage. Anyone walking in to your home will instantly feel comfortable and welcome. What to register for: The best country pieces don’t come new – they are the pieces you find in Grandma’s attic or at the local flea market. Look for baskets, antique quilts and handcrafted pottery. If you have a talented friend, ask him or her to sew curtains for you or paint something for your bedroom.

Mostly D’s: You’re a Transitional Girl This style is by far the most popular, mainly because it’s a mix

What kind of artwork will you have

of contemporary and traditional looks. Combining these two looks

throughout your home?

can give you a stylish design that will stay relevant for years to

a. Cool black-and-white photo-

come. Big, cushy sofas with geometrically-designed throw pil-

graphs of different city skylines

lows or a sleek, modern kitchen with beautifully upholstered bar

b. Framed copies of paintings by famous Renaissance artists – da Vinci, Botticelli, etc.

stools exemplify the transitional style. What to register for: Don’t go for anything too colorful. The transitional style includes a mostly neutral palette. Choose your

c. You prefer functional pieces of

accessories wisely – this is not a cluttered look. Black-and-white

art – homemade pottery, a quilt

matted photographs, a strategically placed potted plant, a che-

that doubles as a wall hanging,

nille throw…these are all good options.

hand-weaved baskets to hold magazines, etc.

Once you’ve gotten in touch with your inner designer, you can start registering for the home of your dreams. There are plenty

d. Abstract or geometric paint-

of stores out there that offer a plethora of choices. As long as

ings, and personal black-and-

you know the look you’re going for, you can relax and enjoy the

white photos of you and your

experience; because creating your new home is one of the best

loved ones

ways to start your life together!

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bridal registry Tips taken from Dillard’s Wedding Consultants-Westfield Mall

15 Professional Tips for

Registering

Take inventory of what you

When you are planning an

everything you need, while too

have and what you need. You

entire home, you need to pace

few could result in guests pick-

will have to decide what each

yourselves. Don’t stress one

ing out gifts themselves (trans-

of you want to keep and what

another out by trying to get it

lation – duplicate items and

you would like brand new. One

all done in one trip.

many returns!).

or both of you will probably have to get rid of some things.

Select items with a wide range

of prices, remembering to

If you have the time, plan

cover both shower and wed-

your first visit to just look

ding gifts. You will need a vari-

around to determine what your

ety of gifts to cater to the

style is. Looking around first

variety of financial situations

will help you establish your

your guests may be in.

or wedding announcements is a good idea, but also consider the season. For example, if you’re getting married in late winter, you may want to register before the

holidays (in other words – ChristRegister according to your mas gifts!). Also, consider retail wants, tastes and needs. Keep timing – is a clearance season

Remember the basics. Flashy,

in mind who your guests are

trendy items are fun, but you

and the likelihood of receiving

also need everyday things. The

the gifts you have selected.

coming up soon?

inventory sheet you received from your Wedding Consultant will come in handy right about now.

4. 16

Obviously, registering before sending out shower invitations

style without the need to make actual selections.

When should you register?

Some items you may register for are more seasonal than

The number of gifts that you

others. Table linen and bed

select for your registry is gen-

linen styles change more fre-

erally determined by the num-

quently than most other types

ber of guests you have invited

of merchandise, so some cou-

Consider making more than one

to the wedding. Too many items

ples prefer to wait until closer

visit to complete your registry.

could result in your not getting

to the wedding to register for

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these items. On the other hand, if you register for these early,

10.

14.

Choose your stores wisely. Checking into a store’s return

15.

Don’t forget to say “thank you”. Send thoughtful thank-

they may be reduced before

policy is essential. If it has a

you notes to your guests in a

the

your

complicated and difficult return

timely manner. Don’t send a

guests an opportunity to pur-

wedding,

giving

policy, you may want to choose

generic note to everyone; per-

chase them at a lower price.

a more flexible business. Reg-

sonalize each message and

ister with places that make

make sure you name the gift.

Your Wedding Consultant is

customer service the number

Guests will appreciate the extra

there to help you and answer

one priority.

effort.

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any questions you may have. Good communication is the key to staying apprised of specials the store might be running or other important issues you may encounter along the way.

11.

Register together. The gifts are for both of you; so as much as he may prefer to stay home and watch football, he needs to be there to help sort through the process. Plus, you know he’ll want to be in charge of the electronic portion of the registry.

12.

Think about your lifestyle. Those crystal goblets may be gorgeous, but if you and your fiancé don’t typically entertain guests, they’re probably a waste. Nothing is more depressing

than

seeing

beautiful gift gathering dust in storage.

13.

Go online. It’s ideal to have all of your registries available online; it makes it much easier for your guests (especially those from out of town) to select and order your gift – which also increases the likelihood of receiving gifts you requested instead of taking your chances with whatever your guests can find in their hometown.

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event planners

Photos by Corey Rourke Photography

Ask

The Expert

By Vernetta Kosalka, MOL

1. We’re already in danger of going over our budget

to leave the wedding party, but I have no idea how

and we’re trying to figure out ways to cut costs.

to do something like that without creating a lot of

What are some things we can do to trim the spend-

drama that I don’t need. Help!

ing without sacrificing taste?

Communicate with your friend. Ask her to grab a

Have you revisited your guest list? That’s the first

cup of coffee and go wedding shopping. Start the con-

place to cut your costs. 100 invitations that include addi-

versation by thanking her for her meeting up with you

tional guests or a plus 1 could easily turn into 200 guests

and telling her how you’re feeling. Ask her how she’s

attending your nuptials. However, if you decide to send

been feeling and what she thinks of the situation.

out 250 invitations, you’re possibly looking at 500

You never know what may come from her heart.

guests. Trim down the guest list and you’ll trim off some

The idea of a wedding brings about so many emotions

cost – so be sure you really want to invite the lady at

from a bride’s family and friends. Your friend may be

the flower shop who always said you would make a

struggling with her own personal relationships (or lack

beautiful bride!

thereof) and not realize that it’s clouding her judgment.

2. One of my good friends had agreed to be a brides-

Worst case scenario: She may just not be a “friend”

maid, but since then she’s done some things that

anymore. It’s possible you’ve both changed and grown

have hurt my feelings. I’m considering asking her

apart over time. When you think of your bridal party,

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you want strong women next to you that support you

apologize for the delay/We got carried away/With our

and your fiancé’s future. You don’t want to look back

beautiful wedding bliss/We truly missed/An opportu-

at your photos a year from your wedding date and ask,

nity to say thank you. We have enjoyed this lovely gift

“What was I thinking? I haven’t seen or heard from her

of _____. Thank you again, Mr. & Mrs. Jones.”

in ages.” Simply put: Communication, communication, communication. Talk it out!

6. My fiancé and I are having a really small wedding and a lot of our family isn’t even invited. My friend

3. Can you tell us the traditional way of parents pay-

is throwing a bridal shower and I’ve heard I’m not

ing for the wedding? The groom’s parents want to

supposed to invite people to the bridal shower if

contribute but nobody’s really sure who pays for

they’re not invited to the wedding. I don’t want to

what. Thanks!

leave anyone out but I don’t want to be rude, either.

Traditionally, the bride’s family pays for the ceremony

Should I invite people that aren’t invited to the wed-

and reception; the groom’s parents pay for the rehearsal dinner; and the groom pays for the honeymoon, the bride’s rings and other expenses.

ding to the bridal shower? Generally speaking, the answer is no. Only guests attending the wedding should be invited to the

However, many brides and grooms today are con-

engagement party, bridal shower, bachelorette party,

tributing more – or even picking up the cost entirely.

etc. Now, you don’t have to invite everyone to every

Many parents of grooms are also contributing more than

event, but you don’t want to invite guests just for the

in the past.

shower and not the wedding. It is considered rude.

4. I’ve been married before. My mother is telling me

You and your fiancé should work proactively by com-

that I shouldn’t have a big wedding the second time

municating with your families. Tell them that the wed-

around, but for my first marriage we just went to

ding will be small and some family/friends will not be

City Hall and I really want to have my special day

invited. Then give your friend a guest list of those that

as a bride. Is it tacky if I have a big wedding for a second marriage? No, it is never tacky to go BIG for your wedding day. If you feel like wearing the big gown and having the fancy flowers, the gigantic cake and the five-course dinner, go for it! It’s your day! 5. It’s been almost 9 months since my wedding and I still haven’t gotten around to sending out thankyou notes. I keep meaning to, but settling in to married life and a new job has been really stressful and I’ve been very busy. I feel like it would be embarrassing to send them now, but I also feel as if I should. How late is too late to send thank-you notes? It’s never too late to say thank you to someone who gave you a wedding gift. Now, at nine months, your thank you is definitely overdue. It is proper etiquette to send thank you notes no later than three months after your wedding day. If your wedding is approaching, it will help to send thank-you notes as soon as you receive your gift. Another organizing tip is to send 5-10 cards each week starting right after the wedding. If you’re a bride who falls in the “late” category, set aside time to thank those that have given you a gift. Here is an example of a cute poem you could send: “We

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you would like to attend your shower so she knows who

Why You Should Hire

is included. If you still feel that you want to invite someone to a smaller event but not the wedding, call them and genuinely explain the situation; then leave it up to them whether or not they want to attend.

A Wedding Planner By Holly Lafferty

7. My fiancé really wants his sister to be one of my bridesmaids, but we don’t get along. I don’t think she’ll even mind if I don’t ask her, but I don’t want to hurt my fiance’s feelings. How do I tell him I don’t want her to be in the wedding party without upsetting him?

that’s why they do what they do. Your planner will keep everything in order when it comes to planning appointments and signing contracts. ❖ Money, money, money… some brides may lament

As I mentioned before, you want strong bridesmaids as well as groomsmen in your wedding who support you and your fiancé. However, it is also important to think of the long-term.

the expense of a wedding planner, but hiring a planner can actually help you save in some areas. Most wedding planners have been in the business long enough to know where to find the good deals and

Obviously your fiancé values his sister and wants her involvement with his big day. This could be an opportunity for you and your future sister-in law to develop and strengthen your relationship. After all, you will all be family from your wedding day forward.

❖ Organization! Wedding planners are pros at it –

● NWD

Vernetta Kosalka is a licensed wedding planner and the owner of The Wedding Planner-Omaha, an event planning business.

how to finagle special pricing with certain vendors. ❖ Her connections can benefit you in ways other than saving money. Your wedding planner knows who is a delight to work with and who you should steer clear of when hiring your vendors. She can save you a lot of stress by recommending vendors you can trust. ❖ A wedding planner will keep the peace for you. When you have conflict with your future mother-in-law, your own mother, your groom, or anyone else who dares get in your way, your wedding planner can step in and help soothe hurt feelings. Having an objective outsider will calm everyone’s nerves. ❖ She has a practiced eye for design. Your wedding planner has seen many, many weddings, and she knows what will look good and – perhaps more important – what won’t. ❖ Her attention to detail will save you a lot of headaches. On your big day, the last thing you want to be worrying about is whether every groomsman picked up his tux. Your wedding planner will ensure that everyone knows the “who/what/when/where/why” of the big day (and every day before that, as well). ❖ She will be your cheerleader. Everyone will be “oohing” and “aahing” over you on your big day, but your wedding planner will remind you why you’re so awesome during the days that you’re stressed, exhausted and wondering why you agreed to marry your fiancé in the first place!

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Jafix Grafix Design Services Nothing adds that extra flourish to invitations, programs and menus like custom calligraphy; which is why we’re in love with the work from Jenny at Jafix Grafix. She can create a custom lettering style for you and your groom, address your invitations, and take care of all your printing needs as well. Using a professional calligrapher for your wedding will definitely dazzle your guests!

Favorite

Finds

www.Jafix.info 402.709.3458

BridalSigns.com a division of SignIT Today’s weddings are all about personalization; and that’s why we’re infatuated with Sign IT’s monogrammed Swarovski crystal cake toppers, floor decals and wine bottle labels. If you’re looking for special touches to make your wedding unique, these customizable designs are sure to meet your fancy.

www.BridalSigns.com 402.339.8882

Family Favorite Cookies We love the latest trend of serving your guests gourmet cookies for a late-night snack or giving monogrammed cookies as a wedding favor. Family Favorite Cookies Shop also creates large cookie cakes to order – a delicious and affordable alternative to wedding cake! Make a “sweet” impression on your guests with these tasty treats.

www.FamilyFavoriteCookies.com 402.502.1084

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12 month First Things First ...

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countdown

❍ Start the selection process for your wedding professionals: Contact a photographer/videographer early; some are

❍ Before announcing your engagement, inform your famibooked as much as a year in advance. Decide your type lies. Traditionally, the Bride’s parents are told first, then of entertainment and choose the right professional. the Groom’s parents. If they have not yet met, a getChoose your caterer if not included with your reception together should be arranged by the Groom’s family. site. Select your mode of transportation.

Nine to Twelve Months Prior

❍ Begin the selection of your florist, and/or ice sculptor. Determine any party rental needs and select an

❍ Establish your budget early, with maximum amounts for each event/activity. Consider hiring a wedding consultant to help with your plans. Determine expense responsibili-

appropriate professional. ❍ Select your stationer, style of invitations, thank you notes and any other stationery.

ties for specific events. ❍ Consult a travel agent or visit websites for honeymoon ❍ Shop for engagement and wedding rings. If you want cus-

plans.

tom-made rings, plan this early in your schedule. ❍ Decide on the style, formality and size of your wedding, then set your tentative wedding date. ❍ Choose your wedding consultant.

Six to Nine Months Prior ❍ Begin compiling guest list names and addresses. ❍ Locate and choose your gift registry and begin recording your selections.

❍ Prepare your tentative guest list and determine the size of your wedding events.

❍ Get engagement photographs taken by your photographer and set up your engagement announcement with

❍ Choose your attendants; get a firm commitment to each

your local newspaper.

event. Determine all pertinent sizes for each. ❍ Finalize your wedding professional choices and secure with ❍ Select your ceremony location and consult with the officiant who will perform the ceremony, then choose a firm wedding date. Begin planning your ceremony, and determine any pre-marital requirements. ❍ Choose a reception location.

a deposit: ❍ Photographer

❍ Videographer

❍ Caterer

❍ Florist

❍ Ceremony Music

❍ Reception Entertainment

❍ Party Rentals

❍ Stationer

❍ Other ❍ Select your designer to help create the atmosphere of your wedding.

❍ Select Groom’s attire. Set up fittings, alterations and delivery or pick up dates.

❍ Plan rehearsal dates and times with your officiant and location choices.

❍ Select and order the Groom’s attendants attire. Schedule fittings and delivery or pick up dates, and notify the

❍ Choose and reserve the location for your rehearsal dinner.

attendants.

❍ Choose the color scheme and any appropriate style for your ceremony and wedding attire. ❍ Begin shopping for the bridal gown, headpiece, and attendants’ attire.

Four to Six Months Prior ❍ Meet with each of your Nebraska wedding professionals and continue to plan each event. Finalize ordering and reservations for all your event needs.

❍ Schedule fittings, alteration fittings and delivery dates. ❍ Meet with your florist and complete your selections for ❍ Choose your attendant’s dresses and accessories. Schedule fittings and delivery dates, and notify your attendants.

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❍ Finalize guest list. ❍ Choose and reserve accommodations for all of your out-of-town guests. Compile a list of local activities during their stay in Nebraska. ❍ Finalize selection and order your invitations and all

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One to Two Weeks Prior ❍ Confirm all appointments. ❍ Confirm all ceremony and rehearsal details. ❍ Confirm all counts with food and beverage caterers. ❍ Plan seating arrangements.

related stationery. ❍ Finalize all rehearsal dinner details. ❍ Set up and maintain records of gifts and begin sending thank you notes. ❍ Select a baker, order wedding cake, groom’s cake and any other confectionery needs. ❍ Shop for and purchase trousseau. ❍ Help parents select and coordinate their formal attire.

❍ Finalize all song lists and entertainment details. ❍ Finalize photographer and videographer details. ❍ Finalize arrangements for all professional services and transportation needs. Confirm guest acccommodations. ❍ Plan honeymoon wardrobes and luggage needs. Obtain all travel tickets and confirm reservations.

❍ Research all legal requirements – blood tests and marriage license.

❍ Arrange for gowns, bouquet and/or cake preservation.

❍ Don’t forget ... begin your beauty regimen early.

The Last Week

Two to Three Months Prior

❍ Arrange for pickup of bridal ensemble. Best Man should confirm final fittings for the Groom and Ushers; and sched-

❍ Make a list of who you want to speak at each event and

ule return of Groom’s tuxedo and rental equipment.

in what order, and contact each person. ❍ Assign post-wedding tasks to wedding party. ❍ Order favors and gifts. Purchase cake knives, ring pillow, toasting goblets, and other accessories.

❍ Prepare envelopes for payments or donations to ceremony officials and musicians.

❍ Address invitations and announcements and mail out-oftown invitations. Continue writing thank you notes. ❍ Finalize honeymoon and travel plans.

Four to Six Weeks Prior ❍ Reserve wedding day appointments with your hair stylist for you and your attendants. Get any perms, color, cut or new style done early. ❍ Make pre-wedding beauty appointments for you and your attendants for manicure, massage, spa, etc.

❍ Give gifts to wedding party, family and fiancé. ❍ Attend the rehearsal dinner and attendants’ party.

The Day Before ❍ Finish packing for the wedding night and honeymoon. ❍ Gather all wedding day items. Entrust payment envelopes to the Best Man for tomorrow. ❍ Assure that “getaway” car will be at reception site – packed and ready to go.

❍ Select a make-up artist for your wedding day and your bridal portrait session. ❍ Get bridal portrait taken and framed for reception. ❍ Make plans and reservations for an attendants’ party.

Your Wedding Day

(This Is It!)

❍ See hairdresser and make-up artist early. ❍ The Bride should transfer engagement ring to the right hand. Be dressed and ready about two hours before cer-

❍ Address and mail all local invitations. Begin RSVP counts.

emony for picture-taking.

Include maps to all event sites with invitations. ❍ Relax ... if you followed your planned schedule, the ❍ Finalize all attire fittings. Pick up wedding rings.

rest of the day should be easy.

❍ Select and purchase attendants’ gifts and a wedding gift for your new spouse.

After The Wedding

❍ Obtain your marriage license.

❍ Write & mail thank-you notes.

❍ If you are moving finalize all moving details.

❍ Take care of business, banking, change of address, etc.

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Midwest Bridal Association A Trustworthy Source for the Discerning Bride By Holly Lafferty

Planning a wedding can be an overwhelming process. You want every detail

to turn out beautifully, but you also have financial and personality issues to consider when choosing your vendors. What if you find a florist whose work you love, but when it comes to crunch time, they end up arriving at the church two hours late? The caterer that charges an obscene amount of money may be good, but how can you trust that their services are truly worth it?

Thankfully, Glenda Epperson of Omaha

The importance of finding businesses

has anticipated these needs. Epperson has

that operate with a code of ethics should not

formed the Midwest Bridal Association, a pro-

be underestimated. After all, these are types

fessional organization that businesses in the

of businesses that you probably haven’t

bridal industry must apply to join. Once they

dealt with before. Aside from buying a prom

apply, they must be voted in by an Execu-

dress at that bridal shop, when have you ever

tive Committee that consists of their peers.

set foot in one previously? “When putting

“Our businesses are held to a high ethical

together a wedding, a bride will spend more

standard, and are dedicated to providing

money than she’s ever spent, on things she’s

brides and grooms with the best services

never purchased, mostly from businesses she’s

possible,” Epperson says.

never heard of,” Epperson points out. Because

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there are so many companies vying for your business, being wellinformed about the reliable vendors is essential. Epperson still recommends searching for vendors by word of mouth. Ask friends, relatives, and even other professionals. “Caterers, for example, know banquet facilities inside and out,” she says. “They can make recommendations based on firsthand experience with specific facilities.” While referrals are a great way to find reputable vendors (you know a friend who was recently married won’t steer you wrong!), the Midwest Bridal Association has made it even easier to find trustworthy wedding businesses. Their website, www.MWbride.com, gives you access to all members of the organization, complete with their contact information. Think of it as a Better Business Bureau for brides. You can also expect members of the MBA to give you an honest assessment about how to select the best vendor for your wedding. In other words, they won’t say what you want to hear just to get your business. If a vendor is reluctant to answer your questions in a straightforward manner, you should consider that a red flag. Superior vendors will go out of their way to make a bride feel informed and taken care of, and those are the types of vendors that belong to the MBA. The peace of mind that using a network like the Midwest Bridal Association can offer makes it worthwhile. In this day and age, it can be difficult to find reliable businesses to work with, but the MBA is a trustworthy source for the discerning bride. Working with the best ensures you can relax on your wedding day. After all, you won’t get a do-over!

● NWD

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Facelift!

Our new website & blog design is here and we are so excited to share it with you! Here are some of the fabulous features we now have available.

• Interactive Social Media through Facebook and Twitter • Live chat with Local Vendors • Online Streaming Videos available 24/7 Visit NEweddingday.com • Bridal forums to share your stories and NEweddingdayBlog.com • Custom Inspiration Boards to experience all that NWD has to offer! • Personal Wedding Websites

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Bridal Fairs Date

2011

City

Bridal Show Name

Place & Time

9 Jan-11

Lincoln, NE

Wedding Fair 2011

The Cornhusker Marriott, 11AM-4PM

9 Jan-11

Council Bluffs, IA

Omaha Bridal Showcase

Mid-America Center, 10AM – 4PM

16 Jan-11

Omaha, NE

Bridal Fair

Qwest Center, 11AM - 3PM

16 Jan-11

Lincoln, NE

KFOR Bridal Forum

Pershing Center, 12PM - 4PM

23 Jan-11

Columbus, NE

Columbus Bridal Show Event

New World Inn, 12PM - 3:30PM

30 Jan-11

North Platte, NE

Super Bride Sunday

Sandhills Convention Center at Quality Inn & Suites, 12PM - 4PM

York, NE

KAWL/KTMX 2011 Wedding & Prom Expo

York City Auditorium, 1PM - 4PM

20 Feb-11

Norfolk, NE

Norfolk Bridal Show

The DeVent Center at Divots, Time TBA

20 Feb-11

Omaha, NE

DC Centre Bridal & Event Show

DC Centre, 12PM - 4PM

20 Feb-11

La Vista, NE

The Wedding Inspiration Show

Embassy Suites-La Vista, 10AM - 4PM

20 Feb-11

Kearney, NE

Annual Bridal Expo 2011 by KGFW, Hits 106 & Y102 Radio

Ramada Inn, 12:30PM - 5PM

22 May-11

Council Bluffs, IA

The Wedding Inspiration Show

Harrah’s Casino, 10AM - 4PM

17 Jul-11

Lincoln, NE

KFRX Cornhusker Marriott Bridal Show

Cornhusker Marriott, 12PM - 4PM

28 Aug-11

La Vista, NE

The Wedding Inspiration Show

Embassy Suites-La Vista, 10AM - 4PM

25 Sep-11

Lincoln, NE

Wedding Fair Fall 2011

Cornhusker Marriott, 11AM - 4PM

23 Oct-11

Lincoln, NE

10th Annual Suite Memories – A Bridal Affair

Embassy Suites, 1PM - 5PM

Council Bluffs, IA

Omaha Bridal Showcase

Mid-America Center, 10AM – 4PM

6 Feb-11

8 Jan-12

Visit www.NEweddingday.com to view updated information.

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Legal Nebraska Marriage License Information By Tracy Brester

In Nebraska there is no waiting period to receive your marriage license, nor is there a waiting period to apply for it. A couple has one year from the time the license is issued for it to be considered valid, but getting it three to six months in advance is strongly suggested. If one spouse or the other has wed before in the state of Nebraska, you must wait six months and one day from the date the divorce is final before vowing again. This is only applicable if the original marriage license is from Nebraska. Each state has its own stipulations as to the

The following are specific requirements to obtain your marriage license. • To obtain a license the applicant must be 19 years of age or older and must have the proper identification. • A valid Nebraska driver’s license or a passport must be presented at the time of application. • You must apply together and in person at your County Clerk’s office.

waiting period after a divorce to be re-married and

• You need to know your parents’ birthplaces and your mother’s maiden name.

Nebraska adheres to others states’ laws regarding such.

• The cost is $15.00.

WHERE TO GO: Douglas County Register of Deeds

Otoe County Clerk Register of Deeds

1819 Farnham Suite H-09, Omaha

1021 Central Ave., Nebraska City

(402) 444-7143

(402) 873-9505

Lancaster County Register of Deeds

Seward County Clerk

555 South 10th Street, Lincoln

529 Seward Street, Seward

(402) 441-7484

(402) 643-2883

Sarpy County Register of Deeds

York County Clerk

1301 South Washington, Papillion

510 Lincoln Ave., York

(402) 593-2105

(402) 362-7759

To hear the most recent marriage license requirements in Nebraska call the HOTLINE at (402) 441-8448

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What’s Your Style?

By Kristen Castillo

It’s not easy choosing a wedding venue. You need a place that suits your budget, accommodates your guests and suits your wedding style. Whether you’re a nature lover, a modernist or a hopeless romantic, there’s a perfect location just for you.

Melenbacker Photography

Iwen Exposures Monte Evans Photography

Erin Stoll Photography

Sammons Photography

NWD sizes up your style options to see what type of wedding venue is a match.

wedding. Once you have an idea of what style works for you both, you’ll be able to find a venue to match that style.

Finding Your Style

Don’t hold back when considering your style. Get

There’s always a lot to think about when planning your

creative and be honest so you can make your wedding

wedding. Finding your style is one of the more time-con-

fantasy a reality. Here are some of the popular styles

suming decisions you’ll make. One of the best ways to

that brides go for when planning their wedding.

get started figuring out your style is to ask yourself what kind of mood you want to create for your event.

A Classic Style

Take some time to discuss your vision with your

You plan to wear your hair in a simple updo and

fiancé and write out your wants and needs for your

you love a gown with simple lines. For your ceremony

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and reception, you want a space

Creative places to look might be

with your style. Look outdoors for

that’s timeless.

an old warehouse or a loft-style

breathtaking views. Whatever spot

An understated location like a

restaurant. You’ll be married and

you choose, embrace the great out-

traditional ballroom is a perfect fit

partying in the heart of the “it”

doors and share these natural won-

for you and your groom. It’s not that

scene.

ders with your guests.

you’re stuck in the past – it’s more

Don’t forget to modernize your

that you value classic elements like

menu, too. Consider combining the

gorgeous views and amazing archi-

ethnic backgrounds of the bride and

You’ve been planning your

tecture.

groom by serving items like Persian

dream wedding since you were a

kabobs and Mexican fajitas. Think of

little girl. You know exactly what you

it as a delicious way to merge two

want in accessories, flowers, sta-

cultures.

tionery and a gown.

Chic Modernist You read all the latest fashion magazines; you eat at the trendiest restaurants; and you party at the

Hopeless Romantic

Now you need a venue that lives

Nature Lover

up to the one in your dreams – a

hippest clubs – why should your

You’re most comfortable out-

wedding be any less cutting-edge?

doors with the breeze in your hair

You crave a setting that has mod-

and a beautiful view on the horizon.

A historic building or an elegant

ern appeal and all the amenities

Your dream wedding is casual,

hall will be your best bet. A place

you’ve come to expect.

quaint and full of natural elements

that can be dressed up with all the

like water and greenery.

trimmings will ensure that every-

Contemporary brides are attracted to urban venues like high-style

Say “I Do” at a local park or barn.

hotels and one-of-a-kind locales.

A tented event would work great

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place that’s charming and inviting, just like your guy.

thing turns out exactly how you envisioned.

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Off Beat Bride Not every bride wants the fairytale wedding seen on TV and in

donate to charity in lieu of wedding

want: A medley of salads, burger

favors. It’s your wedding, so you call

stations or even an array of deca-

the shots.

dent bite-sized desserts.

movies. That can be a good thing,

Consider a hidden treasure like

because it’s an opportunity to do

a retro 1950s diner or a restored

something different as you say

older home. The key to making one

You look your best at all times

your vows.

of these places work for an off beat

and you’re looking for a spot that

Do your own thing: Wear a vin-

wedding is to let your personal style

matches your impeccable style.

tage gown, serve organic food and

shine through. Serve the foods you

You need a space that has great

Glamour Queen

character, color and location. You may be the center of attention on your big day, but your venue needs to shine as well. Think about a new place that most guests haven’t heard about or visited – that way you’ll seem stylish to everyone attending your wedding. Another option is to celebrate at a specialty venue – a hip club, a private estate or even an open-space site that’s ready for your décor style. When you crave glamour, you need to think big and bold for your event. Guests will count on you to host the party of the year, so make a stellar decision that doesn’t disappoint!

Embrace Your Style Since your venue is the backbone of your wedding celebration, you need to find a ceremony and reception site that works overtime to please you and your groom. Figure out your style and choose a space that meets your needs and your tastes. Then you can sit back, relax and savor every moment of your wedding day. As you plan your big day, look for opportunities to make the most of your personal style. Your wedding venue has style, as do your invitations, your menu and your gown. Embrace these wedding particulars and everything else that makes your event distinctive.

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Spread the

The Moment It Clicks

Love

giving back on your Wedding day By Holly Lafferty

As you plan your wedding, you’ll hear over and over from your loved ones and your vendors that your wedding day is “all about you”.

Of course you want your wedding day to be perfect, but is focusing so much on yourself and this one day really what’s going to matter in the bigger picture? Luckily, NWD is here to offer some sug-

appreciate your generosity (not to men-

gestions to help keep things in perspective.

tion the charity!). Are you passionate about

Your wedding can be a lovely, wonderful

animals? Request that people donate to

event filled with romantic memories and it

the ASPCA. Is poverty and hunger among

can be an opportunity to give back in a vari-

children a big concern for you? Select an

ety of ways to those in need. Here are some

organization like World Vision or The Sal-

ideas for getting your marriage started off

vation Army.

on the right foot by serving others on your

• Select vendors who are passionate about

big day.

volunteering. Many wedding vendors

• Register for a charity. If you and your

donate their time and services to those in

fiancé already have most of the household

need. Select a photographer who has con-

items you need, request that your guests

tributed commercial work for a nonprof-

donate a monetary gift in your name to

it or a florist who donates flowers to

the charity of your choice. People will

hospitals. It’s a nice way to support the

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good work your vendors are

over 300 agencies throughout

reception hall or caterer. The food

doing to aid others less fortunate.

Nebraska. If you anticipate hav-

will be picked up shortly after

The

ing leftover food, inform your

your wedding and reheated and

Nebraska Food Bank Network will

caterer that you would like to

served to people at a shelter,

happily pick up the food that

donate that food to a food bank,

soup kitchen, or other organiza-

wasn’t served at your wedding.

have them package and refrig-

tion in Nebraska. For the NFBN

NFBN distributes nearly seven

erate the food, and be sure to

you can call 402.331.1213.

million pounds of food and

schedule a pick-up time with

• Give charity gifts to your wed-

household products annually to

the food bank closest to your

ding party. Many nonprofits sell

• Donate

leftover

food.

products to help fund their organization. They’re as wideranging as Lance Armstrong’s LiveStrong bracelets to Tiny Hands International’s handmade scarves and bags (made by the women Tiny Hands intercepts from sex trafficking). Your loved ones will receive unique gifts and a worthy charity will receive a little boost as well. • Donate in your guests’ names. An idea that has really taken off in popularity is making a donation to a charity in honor of your guests rather than passing out favors. After all, how many bags of Jordan almonds or Hershey’s Kisses do your guests really need? This is a perfect way to give a larger gift than you would normally be able to afford to the charity of your choice. Announce it on a card at the gift table or have your DJ mention it during the toasts. • Brighten someone’s day. Deliver your centerpieces and floral arrangements to nursing homes or hospitals. Beautiful flowers will make the elderly or sick smile. If you’re able, you and your new husband should do it together before leaving on your honeymoon. It’s a wonderful way to start your marriage by serving someone else. • “Voluntour” on your honeymoon. Voluntourism is a popular idea

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among travelers who take a trip

China and work in an orphanage

somewhere and do humanitar-

for a few days. Not only will it

ian work while there. Why not

help those in need, it will be a

do this for your honeymoon?

brilliant bonding experience for

Plan a two-week vacation to

you and your new husband. Visit

Africa and spend the first week

Voluntourism.org for more infor-

doing missions work. Go to

mation and links to organiza-

India and spend part of the time

tions that will help you get

helping build a school. Visit

started.

Not sure where to begin when selecting a charity to support? Here are some of NWD’s favorite Nebraska-based organizations.

The Nebraska Global Orphan Project This nonprofit is based in Lincoln and works to plant children’s homes in existing churches and community hubs in Haiti. With the devastating effects of the 2010 earthquake still resonating throughout the poverty-stricken country, the NGOP’s work is more vital than ever.

sexual slavery, it is virtually impossible to get them out. By rescuing these women before they are taken over the border, they are stopping the horror before it starts. They also offer homes to these women after they are rescued, where they are given training and tools to create new lives for themselves. Website: TinyHandsInternational.org

Hearts United for Animals

This organization in Lincoln focuses on the needs of urban families and youth in Nebraska’s capital city. Founded in 1997, City Impact is doing great things by offering holistic youth and family programming for Lincoln’s low-income denomination. Website: CityImpact.org

Website: HUA.org

Tiny Hands International

Other local organizations

Tiny Hands focuses on intercepting women and children who are being trafficked for sex over the border from Nepal to India. The Tiny Hands approach is especially effective because once women are trafficked over the border to India and sold into

Many Nebraska towns and cities have nonprofit health centers, Goodwill stores, churches, humane societies, pregnancy counseling services, homeless shelters, and other worthy organizations that would also gladly accept your donations.

TheNebraskaGlobalOrphanProject.org

City Impact

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If you have a soft spot for abused or abandoned animals, this no-kill shelter in Auburn is an ideal choice for you. Not only does HUA have over 300 dogs at any given time (many rescued from puppy mills), they also operate a low-cost spay/neuter program within four states to help keep the pet population down. One look at their website and the stories of their rescued dogs and you’ll probably be tempted to adopt one of these cuties yourself.

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Trend Watch 2011

What’s Hot in Weddings By Kristen Castillo

Your wedding may be a classic affair, but incorporating a few trends will keep the party timely and fun. Pick a few trends or embrace them all – this is your special day to call the shots. Host an Intimate Affair. Many couples are choosing to create smaller guest lists.

of guests on the wedding day.

According to The Wedding Report, the

Go Dark. It may seem anti-wedding, but

average number of guests in 2009 was 128,

dark accent colors like black and blue are all

a decline of 11.7% from 145 in 2008. A small-

the rage. Use the dark hues in moderation

er event means you can focus your budget

for a look that’s striking when paired with

and your energy on what really matters to

stunning white or romantic ivory.

you, like music or catering. Plus, you’ll be able

to spend lots of time with your cozy group

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Create a Wedding Website. Creating

your own wedding website is lots

you’re comfortable with, unleash

lighting. Candles, mood lighting

of fun for you and very helpful

your worries and strike a pose! If the

and strategic spotlights can help

to your guests. NEweddingday.com

idea of sexy photos gives you

you add drama and intrigue to your

offers some great options for cre-

pause, you can still do a sweet and

party. Many times your florist,

ating your own website.

sassy photo shoot for your hubby-

videographer or photographer can

to-be. Give him the images on

help coordinate the glow you’re

your wedding day.

after.

You can track your guest list, add links to your wedding registries and offer up information about accom-

Be Dramatic with Lighting. Help

Do a Good Deed. Make a char-

modations and things to do. It’s also

your wedding shine with superior

itable donation to a worthy cause

a terrific opportunity to display lots of sentimental photos of you and your groom. Build the site early and update it often. Print Menu Cards. Keep guests informed about what’s for dinner. Get the precise menu listing from your caterer and then print out the particulars on menu cards. You don’t need a card for each guest. Simply print out a card or two for each table. Your guests will appreciate knowing the menu, especially if they have allergies or certain food preferences. Choreograph Your First Dance. You’ve seen them on YouTube and on many commercials and TV shows – those amazing wedding dances choreographed to perfection. They look great and now it’s your turn to cut footloose. Give yourselves plenty of time to master a routine. If you need the professional guidance, sign up for lessons at a local dance school. Then practice, practice, practice and live it up on the dance floor like you’re a couple on an episode of Dancing with the Stars. Enjoy a Couple’s Shower. Who says you have to have a bridal shower that’s girls only? A co-ed shower can be less fussy and very cool. Be a model! A boudoir photo shoot allows you to take personal photos for your groom. The sultry images are for your eyes and his eyes only. Find a photographer

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instead of giving guests wedding

your personal style, but don’t be

reception and then give it a great

favors. Spread the good will by ask-

afraid to go bold on your big day.

name – Marvelous Margaritas,

ing guests to donate to the organ-

Embrace Natural Centerpieces.

Romantic Rum & Colas or Sum-

ization as a wedding gift.

Your reception floral style can take

mertime Sangrias. Garnish the

Go Bold! Use your wedding

inspiration from Mother Nature. Go

drinks with fruit, sugar and a drink

jewelry to make a statement. Many

for a look that showcases branch-

umbrella.

brides are showing off bright col-

es, berries and succulents.

Snap Engagement Photos. Of

ored jewels, big earrings and chunky

Serve a Signature Drink. Pick a

course you’re busy prepping for the

necklaces and bracelets. Follow

specialty cocktail to serve at your

big day, but be sure to take time for an engagement photo session. The photos can be used for invitations, scrapbooking and your wedding website. You can also give them to your family as gifts. Plus, the pics give you a chance to spend time with your wedding photographer before the big day. You’ll be glad you took these photos for the memories and for the photography trial session. Dish

Small

Bites.

Wedding

guests don’t always want a full course meal. Instead, serve yummy dishes in appetizer portions. Mashed potato bars are super trendy. The classic comfort food is being reinvented as a reception hit, complete with fixings like cheese, bacon bits and chives. Delish! Hang Out in Lounge Seating. It’s your wedding day and you want to be comfortable. Enjoy your surroundings and your company in a lounge setting. Think cool couches, hip lighting and lots of style. You’ll relish the chance to kick back and savor a few moments of rest and relaxation. Indulge Your Sweet Tooth. Plan a dessert bar featuring candy, cookies and pastries. Guests will love the yummy nibbles and you’ll really please them by offering takeout bags and boxes. They’ll take a treat home and smile, reminiscing about the good time they had at your event. Save the Planet. Eco-friendly

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weddings are very popular these

an after party for you and your

heels. Use paint, nail polish, per-

days, and for good reason. They’re

guests to cut loose. Serve up slid-

manent markers or fun adhesive

a way to reduce waste on your big

ers and tasty milkshakes. Then

jewels to send everyone a bridal

day and call attention to important

crank up the tunes and rock out for

message, like “I Do” or “Kiss Me”.

environmental issues. Throw eco-

the rest of the night.

The message can be split between

confetti, serve organic juices and

Send a Message. Your wedding

the two shoes or you can spell out

garnish tables with reusable cen-

shoes may look sweet or sexy, but

the message on one shoe and use

terpieces like potted plants. Do your

they’ll really turn heads if you write

the other for a cute embellishment

part for the earth and share a worth-

a message on the bottom of your

like a heart or your initials.

while message with your guests. Give Your Bridesmaids Fashion Freedom. Not every bridesmaid gown needs to match the style, color and fabric of the other bridesmaids. Feel free to mix things up by allowing your bridesmaids the freedom to choose their own gowns. The one caveat? You get to pick the color. Give your bridesmaid a bit of direction, such as “Pick a pale yellow dress”, and then trust your wedding party to make good style choices. If that makes you too nervous, just request final approval on whatever dress they end up selecting. Say Cheese! Photo booths are very en vogue at wedding receptions. The strips of photos, which are available in color or black & white, are incredibly silly and sassy at the same time. Photographers are also offering modified photo booth setups, which ensure you’ll get some memorable shots. What’s not to love? Don’t Forget Cocktail Hour Entertainment. Everyone expects a band or a DJ during the reception, but often the cocktail hour is noticeably quiet. Boost the party with the sounds of a good time! Hire a musician or a DJ to entertain the crowd while they sip drinks and settle in to the event. Plan an After Party. The ceremony and the reception are the expected parts of the wedding day. Go one step further by planning

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Pack Swag Bags. Thank out-of-

have to be the same, but modern

card so they know to keep the date

town guests by giving them swag

approaches call for a unified look

open on their calendars.

bags when they get to town. Don’t

that’s not necessarily matchy-

After all, people are busy these

forget to include maps, necessary

matchy. Choose similar flowers,

days. If they know about your cel-

wedding info, transportation infor-

colors and textures – then grant

ebration ahead of time, they’re

mation and anything else you’d like

your florist the freedom to be cre-

more likely not to plan any other

to share with your family and

ative.

activities for that date.

friends. A few snacks and some sun-

Order a Groom’s Cake. Groom’s

Host a Day-After Brunch. This

screen are practical ideas that work

cakes are back and they’re full of

post-wedding event can be a

for all guests.

pizzazz. A groom’s cake can be any-

good time for you, your family and

Include Fido. Your wedding cel-

thing your groom wants, from a

your out-of-town guests to catch

ebration wouldn’t be complete

sports-themed masterpiece (Husker

up after the main event. The menu

without man’s best friend or your

football, anyone?) to a music-

can be simple – pancakes, eggs,

doting cat. There’s no need to shy

themed dessert for your guy’s

fruits, coffee and mimosas – but

away from inviting your family pets

Guitar Hero aspirations.

the real focus is on showing your

to your big day. In fact, some cou-

Send Save-the-Dates. Wedding

appreciation and love to all the

ples incorporate the pets into the

stationery is a must for brides and

people who made your wedding a

main event. Your groom’s pooch can

grooms and it’s never been more

success.

be his best man or your birds can

important to have save-the-date

Entertain the Kids. Your wedding

be the “love birds” at your wedding.

cards. As soon as you set a wedding

is an adult function, but you don’t

Switch up your Centerpieces.

date, send all the people on your

have to have a meltdown if your

Tradition says all your centerpieces

probable guest list a save-the-date

guests want their kids to attend the

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If you’re a party. Hire a babysitter and prepare

fashion-forward bride

kid-friendly activities like drawing

who likes to stay up on the

ors can be whatever you love, but

and watching movies. Serve foods

keep in mind many brides are

kids love such as pizza, burgers and

latest wedding styles, check

mac & cheese. Give each little

out NEweddingday.com and

hues like ivory and champagne.

guest a gift bag with stickers,

visit our blog for

candy or any other items you think

current

trends and plenty of inspiration.

a kid would like to receive. Cap the Party with Snacks. End the late night fun with treats such as cupcakes, cookies and milk.

Get Sophisticated. Wedding col-

choosing soft and sophisticated Be Girly! Your wedding is a fantasy moment, so capitalize on the dream by wearing ruffles and frills on your bridal gown. The look creates a romantic feel that’s sure to impress your guests.

Your guests will like the sweet snack,

of you and your guy on the big day.

Make Creative Wedding Pro-

even if they end up packing the nib-

Your guests will appreciate your

grams. Wedding programs tell

bles for the road.

gesture of gratitude and you know

guests what to expect on the big

they’ll keep the photo for a long

day, but that doesn’t mean the pro-

time.

grams have to be boring or pre-

Get Personal. Write out your thank-you notes by hand and include a personal message. Maybe

Embellish It! One of the trendi-

dictable. Have a good time creating

you’ll mention how much you

est floral styles is all about adding

something to inform guests and

enjoyed seeing them at the wed-

bling to your bouquet. Crystals in

be memorable at the same time.

ding, how much you laughed at their

centerpieces and bouquets will

Here are some fun ideas: A program

jokes or how useful their gift is. Top

add sparkle to your flowers and to

modeled after a social networking

off the note by including an image

your event. Go for the shine!

site like Facebook or one inspired

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by your favorite comic strip – use

Change Things Up! Many trendy

Create Striking Invitations. Go

comic panels to tell guests what will

brides wear one gown for the cere-

for letterpress personalized wedding

happen throughout the event.

mony and another for the reception.

invitations when looking for wed-

Keep the Party Entertained.

This is a great option if you can’t

ding stationery. The letters are

Who says you have to choose

decide between two gowns. It also

arranged, inked and then printed

between a band and a DJ? Why not

works for brides who want two com-

onto the paper of your choice. This

have both at your reception? A band

pletely different looks – sweet at the

old-school approach to printing is

could play the cocktail hour and a

ceremony and sexy at the reception.

timeless and sophisticated.

DJ could play breaks throughout the

Make sure your hair, makeup and

night. The current trend is about

accessories match each look. Then

Guests will always sign in at your

expanding your options, not limit-

enjoy your multiple wedding looks.

wedding and they may even share

ing them.

Spice

Your

Guestbook.

Another option is to go for a two-

a message with you. Follow the

Go Retro! Who says your wed-

in-one dress that converts from one

trends and keep things interesting

ding needs to be traditional? Branch

look for the ceremony into a dif-

with new guestbook options. Con-

out on your big day with a themed

ferent look for the reception.

sider using Polaroid cameras for

party like a retro-inspired wedding.

Capture the Moments. You won’t

instant pics; Post-it notes of well-

Host a throwback reception with

regret hiring a videographer. Your

wishes; personalized videos of your

oldies for music and classic foods

event on video will be a valuable

guests’ thoughts; or even a scrap-

from your childhood.

memento. Sharpen your invest-

book of photos, wedding advice and messages of love and support.

Color Your World. Your gown

ment with high definition, which will

may be white, but your shoes and

have better quality picture and

accessories can have punches of

superior sound.

Weddings are enjoyable to plan, even if they are exhausting. Grab a

color. Be your own guide on what

Book ‘Em! The hot album these

hold of a few trends and use them

color works for your party. Some

days is the coffee table-style wed-

to make the most of your celebra-

brides add a metallic style with gold

ding album, which looks like a pro-

tion. Whatever you choose, remem-

or silver accents; while others go for

fessionally bound book. The album

ber: Trendy brides make their own

blue, green or purple splashes of

showcases your best photos and

style. You may end up setting style

color. Choose a hue and own the

often has captions and special day

trends at your own wedding –

look. You’ll be sure to wow yourself

notes. This is one book you’ll read

trends that other brides will try to

and your wedding guests.

again and again.

emulate next year and beyond.

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Calm in the

Midst of Chaos Stay sane while planning your big day By Leila Kalmbach

It’s not easy preparing for all aspects of an event that you

want to be flawless, so it’s no wonder many brides seem harried and stressed out. Once you get started, there are so many aspects to the wedding that had never even occurred to you before, and it feels like the to-do lists do nothing but grow.

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Don’t worry. With a little bit of foresight,

yourself into a ditch — do some thinking and

a few good people and a dash of humor, you

planning before things get stressful; and later

can get through this. It is possible to plan a

you’ll be grateful you did.

wedding and still stay sane. Here are some

• Start early. It’s all too easy to relax when

tips to keep your stress levels down.

you’ve got months to go before your wedding. However, you likely already

Prevent unnecessary stressors Many brides accidentally walk right into some of the most stressful situations they will encounter during wedding planning. Don’t dig

know the stress that procrastination can bring, and planning a wedding is a huge undertaking. Assume from the start that everything

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will take twice as long as you

over budget for a wedding is a

with plenty of space to write

expect. If it does, you’ll be pre-

huge

for

down appointments and meet-

pared. If it doesn’t, you can later

engaged couples. Do whatever

ings. Put all of your information

relax at a point when most

it takes to stay on track: Consult

about the wedding in this binder

brides are on the verge of pulling

a professional; keep a detailed

— to-do lists, samples, notes,

their hair out.

source

stress

spreadsheet on the computer; or

quotes from vendors, contracts,

• Get help from the professionals.

just force yourself to go without

brochures, ideas and more.

For you, weddings are not an

in certain aspects of the event,

And always put the binder back

everyday occurrence. For some

no matter how nice the extras

in the same spot so you don’t

people, they are. It can be invalu-

would be.

lose it!

able to get advice from those

• Get organized – and stay that

• Prioritize. Decide which ele-

who know what they’re doing

way. There are a lot of tools

ments are the most important

and have done it many times

out there to help you keep track

to you and tackle them first. If

before. These people can also be

of the many different things

your top priority is to have the

objective in ways that you, your

you need to do. Make a binder

perfect wedding dress but the

family and friends cannot.

and put in plenty of blank note-

cake falls low on the list, start

Because so many aspects of

book paper, folders and tabs.

looking for wedding dresses

wedding preparations have to

You can find lists online, through-

before you visit bakeries. If you

be done at the last minute, it

out NWD’s magazine and web-

run low on time in the end, as

takes huge amounts of stress off

site or in wedding planning

often happens, at least you’ll

of you not to be doing every-

books of everything you’ll need

be happy with the aspects of

thing yourself.

to arrange.

your wedding that you care

• Stay within your budget. Going

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Be sure to include a calendar

about the most.

Preventing and handling people problems

• Blame it on the professionals.

things going on in her life. Then

Getting advice is not the only

talk to her about your feelings in

The people make the wedding,

benefit to consulting a wedding

a sympathetic way and really lis-

but sometimes they bring in stress-

professional. You can also use

ten to what she has to say.

ors all their own. Don’t let lazy or

professional opinions to back

You chose her to be involved

overzealous friends and relatives

yourself up when a family mem-

in your wedding for a reason, so

control what matters most to you

ber tries to arrange things in a

let her know that you trust her,

about your wedding.

way you don’t like. It’s easier to

value her opinion and effort and

• Ask for help from people you

say, “Mom, the florist recom-

need her help right now. If she

know you can rely on. Choose

mended against having a differ-

can’t handle all of her responsi-

people who understand the

ent type of flower on each table,”

bilities, find a way to shift some

vision you have for your wedding

than to tell her that you’re the

of them to another bridesmaid,

and who have similar taste to

one who dislikes the idea.

trusted family member or friend.

your own. You’ll save yourself a

• Be compassionate, not con-

However, if after a few tries

lot of stress if you know right

frontational. If your maid of

things aren’t getting better, keep

from the start whom you want to

honor or another important play-

help out…and whom you don’t.

er is slacking in her role, try not

• If you need to replace someone,

Although it can be hard telling

to get angry. Start by putting

do it. It’s never fun to have to tell

your future mother-in-law that you

yourself in her place. Is she

someone you no longer want her

don’t share her ideas about how

stressed out at work or at home?

to be in your wedding, but the

your wedding should look, it’s a lot

Remember that even though the

bridal party bears certain respon-

simpler to tell her at the start than

wedding is all-encompassing for

sibilities. If someone isn’t up to

once she’s put in months of effort.

you right now, she’s got other

the challenge, tell her kindly and

reading.

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gently that you need to relieve

wedding and realize that it won’t

it enters your body and imagine

her of the responsibility but that

be the end of the world if you’re

it traveling downward until it fills

she is still invited to the wedding.

unable to book your first-choice

up the upper part of your lungs.

venue.

With every breath, imagine the air

Calm down when stress arrives

• Be nice to your body. Remember

extending further into your body,

to eat, sleep and exercise. As

until it’s entering even your fin-

No matter how much you pre-

basic as it sounds, many people

gers and toes.

pare, you’re going to get stressed

compound their stress by not

• Go on dates. Spend time with

out while planning your wedding.

treating their body right during

your fiancé without talking about

Knowing how to handle that stress

times of stress. Yoga, in partic-

the wedding. Take this time to

when it arrives will be what keeps

ular, has been shown to relieve

remember what you love about

you from getting worn down.

stress by raising the brain’s lev-

each other and why you want to

• Make time for things you love. If

els of the neurotransmitter GABA.

get married in the first place.

you typically spend a lot of your

• Breathe! Stop, close your eyes

• Leave some stones unturned.

time reading, going for a regular

and take several slow, deep

Depending on where your wed-

massage or having a weekly movie

breaths. No matter how busy you

ding is taking place, you may

night with friends, don’t give up

are, you can take out 30 seconds

have almost unlimited options for

these things just because you’re

to breathe.

wedding vendors, venues and

busy with wedding planning.

If you have more time, con-

bands. Don’t get paralyzed by

Keeping up with your regular

sider lying down on your bed and

activities can be just the break

doing some longer breathing

Narrow your options down to

you need to get your mind off the

exercises. Picture your breath as

just a few by asking for advice from

choice.

friends and family or wedding professionals, who often know which vendors are easy to work with and which to avoid. Then interview only those select few. Remember that in the end, your wedding is just one day in a long life of happiness together. Everyone wants a perfect wedding day, but in life, nothing is ever exactly as you imagine it. You are only human, as is everyone else involved in your wedding. Make sure that you’ve taken care of the big things, but don’t try to micromanage every detail of the day. You’ll go crazy trying, and you’ll set yourself up for disappointment at the drop of a hat. After all, with as much effort as you’ll put into planning your wedding, you owe it to yourself to be loving every minute of it, not thinking about how the music came on a couple of seconds too late at the end of the ceremony. You’ve earned this; enjoy it.

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DIY Brides

Craft Your Way Down the Aisle

By Kristen Castillo

“I love being crafty and making things personal,” says bride Michelle, who married husband James a year ago. “It makes me proud to say ‘I made that!’” Michelle was a “Do It Yourself” (DIY) bride

tomizing their favors helped ensure they

who made many wedding items herself,

had the exact right feel. Some of the inter-

including 200 handmade invitations, hair-

esting favors included in their reception

pieces for the bridesmaids and flower girls,

were lollipops, cinnamon candies and tem-

and bouquets for herself and her bridesmaids.

porary tattoos.

She didn’t stop there. Michelle made her

“We added extra pizzazz to normally

garter belt, guest name cards and signs

bland objects with ribbons, pearls, beads and

directing guests to the wedding site. The

personalization that said our name and the

couple was going for a unique vibe, so cus-

date on them or had the phrase ‘love never

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dies’ on them. We painted items and

She says all the work was worth

why it’s a good idea to start a proj-

‘bejeweled’ them,” explains Michelle.

the effort: “You have a fabulous

ect early and keep it simple. Instead

Michelle had a lot of DIY success

wedding day that not only encom-

of feeling like you have to craft 100

but even she admits not all projects

passes your personality, but is

save-the-date cards, try to make

worked out as expected – she

something you can be truly proud

one and see how it turns out. It may

changed her bouquet three times. “I

of because you made it your own

be too pricey or too much work; or

would have an idea that sounded

with your own two hands!”

maybe you just won’t like how it

great, but didn’t turn out so great once I tried to make it,” she says. “I just rolled with the punches and tried for something else until I liked it.”

looks. That’s okay.

DIY Divas

This is definitely a trial-and-

Being a DIY bride can be cre-

error process, but it can be a lot

atively fulfilling but can also be

of fun as well. Get your family, your

Michelle, who estimates she and

exhausting. Still, many brides are

groom and your wedding party in

her groom saved about $1500 with

trying to get crafty for their wed-

on the crafting. They can all pitch

DIY projects, advises other DIY

ding projects.

in to help create your wedding

brides to get started well before the

Whether you want to create your

big day. “Weddings are an impor-

own stationery, centerpieces or

tant time to personalize your day,”

accessories, you can fashion any-

she says. “Don’t do things ‘by the

thing you imagine.

essentials, from table decorations to favors.

Passionate About Projects

book’; you don’t want to have the

Doing a DIY project takes a lot

When Alicia planned her wed-

same wedding as everyone else. This

of time and a lot of patience. DIY

ding, she chose DIY projects to save

day is all about you and your mate,

brides admit the process often

money. “That way we were able to

so let your wedding scream that.”

takes longer than you’d think. That’s

save on certain aspects; and it allowed us to splurge on other aspects, like photography,” she says. The bride chose to make her own programs for the ceremony and to handle the décor as well. “I made pomanders for along the aisle at the ceremony and I created pretty much all the décor for the reception – centerpieces, a candy buffet, table numbers and other tables,” she says. Alicia admits that not all projects went as planned. “The biggest challenge I faced with my DIY projects was a lack of creativity on my part,” she explains. “Sadly, I just don’t have an ‘eye’ for it and that is where a lot of my projects went awry.” Like Michelle and other DIY brides, Alicia warns fellow brides to plan ahead as much as possible. “Keep ahead of the game, because you don’t want to be stressing out in the days leading up to your wedding with unfinished projects,” she says. “Also, don’t

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give up if something doesn’t go well

simple, DIY projects give brides a

project as well as how much your

the first time.

lot of pride and ownership in all the

supplies will cost. You need to

“If this is not something you do

things that make their big day spe-

know all these factors before you

often, sometimes it takes making a

cial. That can only mean one thing

get started.

few mistakes and re-working your

– it’s time to grab your glue gun and

projects to get your desired out-

get started as a DIY bride!

well when they’re easy and straight-

come. It’s really true that practice makes perfect.”

Keep it simple. DIY projects work forward. If they’re too complicated,

DIY Dos:

you may lose your focus and the

Alicia estimates she spent “sev-

Be realistic. A DIY project can

quality may suffer. Simple tasks like

eral hours” on researching and

take on a life of its own, so before

candy favors are easy to handle;

completing DIY projects. She was

you get the project underway, con-

plus, you’ll still feel pride about the

pleased with the end result. “See-

sider how much time, effort and

finished product.

ing the final results on the wedding

cash the project will cost. You

day and knowing that I was the one

don’t

these

what DIY project you envision, you

who made a lot of it happen only

resources if the project isn’t like-

should probably get started ASAP.

made it sweeter,” she says.

ly to work out.

These projects can be tedious and

want

waste

Get started now. No matter

All that work also saved Alicia

Ask yourself if you’re really

lots of cash. “The pomanders alone

getting a deal. At a glance, your

Get help. DIY projects are a lot

would have cost a few hundred dol-

project may seem to be saving you

of fun and it’s easy to want to han-

lars and I made them for less than

a bundle; but make sure you do

dle the projects by yourself, but it’s

$8 each,” she says.

the math. Figure out how much

far more practical to use the buddy

time you’ll be spending on the

system to help you.

Large or small, elaborate or

time consuming.

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A Tale of Four

Fairy Tale Marriages By Tiffany Kavanaugh, LCSW

Weddings are often linked to fairy tales. When you have the beautiful bride donning her designer dress and the gorgeous groom sporting his stylish suit, you sometimes wonder when the magical white horse and pumpkin will appear. Fairy tale weddings and fairy tale romances are accepted and expected things for which to strive. You can even register to win one at your local bridal fair.

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Fairy tale weddings are fun and fabulous, no doubt. However, maybe a girl could dare to dream about a fairy tale marriage. We cannot look

Your fairy tale.

how to “live on love.” James and Kar-

Your story.

rie Rosa of Lincoln, Nebraska, have

Your life and

to Hollywood to define what a fairy

been married for ten years. They consider the best part of their marriage to be the constant companionship of

commitment are what

a loyal and trusted friend and hav-

the elements of a fairy tale in any big-screen romance or celebrity

make your wedding

share their successes, failures, highs,

magazine….a special beginning/

beginning, not an ending!

tale marriage is. We can find all of

ending, good versus evil, royalty, a little bit of magic, a problem/solution, a feeling that love is in the air and a story that makes us want to

ing someone with whom they can lows and fears. • Biggest challenge: Finances and health crisis of infant son. • Solution: Being secure in their faith, looking to God for guidance

believe.

and accepting help from others.

But what happens after the

whether they agree or disagree with

James and Karrie both admit

“show” or “shoot” is over? What hap-

the thought, “Never go to bed

they have tried going to bed angry

pens when the happy couple’s life

angry.”

and it doesn’t seem to work. They

is no longer posed, poised and

………………………………………………………..

have learned it’s better for them to

playing to music? What happens 5

Let’s start at the very beginning,

take the time they need to process

years…10 years…20 years…even 75

where there is a couple named Dale

what is going on and then “dive into

years later?

and Brandi Kanning of Omaha,

the discussion.” Their advice to

Let’s look to real reality to find

Nebraska, who have been married

newly married couples is to “be con-

an alternative – a non-Hollywood

for five years. The best thing about

tent and be a team.”

version of marriage that makes us

their marriage so far has been the

………………………………………………………..

believe in what marriage can real-

opportunity to form a family, have

Hi-ho, hi-ho, it’s off to work you

ly mean. Let’s look to couples who

two children and establish traditions

go when you wish to stay married

have celebrated over 100 collective

like getting to eat candy for break-

for twenty years like Perry and Gina

years of anniversaries.

fast on birthdays.

Boe of Hickman, Nebraska. Gina

Wedding anniversaries repre-

• Biggest challenge: Trying to

believes that marriage is hard work

sent commitment, perseverance,

learn the balance of home and

but is well worth it. The best part

endurance, acceptance and ro-

work life.

of their marriage is the life they have

mance that doesn’t fade. They rep-

• Solution: “Talking, fighting, yelling

made together enjoying things like

resent the kind of love that is

and then talking some more,”

their four children, concerts, sport-

patient, kind and unfailing. These

along with professional coun -

ing events and serving in their

relationships have lasted, been test-

seling to help them learn the

church together.

ed and then lasted some more.

balance.

• Biggest challenge: Communica-

Now, isn’t that romantic? Isn’t that

Dale and Brandi have different

enchanted, magical, fabulous and

opinions about going to bed angry.

• Solution: Commitment to each

legendary?

Brandi thinks it is okay to go to bed

other and commitment to do bet-

This short storybook of mar-

angry when it helps you cool down

ter, counseling and seeking to

riages contains glimpses of four

and relax. Dale thinks that no mat-

understand.

married couples who have all cele-

ter what, the argument is not worth

Perry and Gina agree that cou-

brated monumental anniversaries in

going to bed angry. Their advice to

ples should strive to avoid going to

the last year. Let’s get a glimpse of

newly married couples is to “take

bed angry. They each give separate

their fairy tales by looking at the

time to enjoy each other.”

advice to newlyweds. Gina’s advice

tion.

best part about their marriage,

………………………………………………………..

is to seek a couple who is further

their biggest challenges, their advice

You know love is in the air when

along in their marriage to provide

to newly married couples and

a couple tells you they have learned

a model for how it’s done. Perry’s

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advice comes from the Bible.

Both Don and Mary agree that

of the house, but rather inviting God

“Ephesians 5:25 says to serve, cher-

couples should never go to bed

into your marriage so that there is

ish, protect and sacrifice for her

angry but rather “kiss and say

always a model of love and sacri-

above all else.”

good-night.” Their advice to couples

fice. The magic will come as you

………………………………………………………..

is to “take your vows seriously and

work through problems you never

In a land far, far away from

live by them.”

dreamed you’d have, as well as

Nebraska live Don and Mary Mohn

…………………………………………………………..

raising children and establishing

of Flaxville, Montana. What a priv-

In the process of planning your

a family.

ilege it is to find Don and Mary, who

wedding, don’t forget about the

Your fairy tale. Your story. Your

have been married for 75 years! The

fairy tale marriage and relationship

life and commitment are what

best thing about their marriage is

you are forming. Unlike movies

make your wedding a beginning,

living long enough to be together

and magazines, the flowers will

not an ending! Imagine where you

for so long and becoming more and

fade, the pictures will get tucked

and your spouse will be in the

more dependent on each other.

away and your dress will spend

years 2016, 2021, 2031 and even

• Biggest challenge: Don thinking

most of its life in a special box

2086! Happily ever after may not

or bag.

be real, but happily married can be

he should make all of the decisions; and trying to make the

Don’t allow the evil of selfish-

a reality when you celebrate 5, 10,

money stretch in the early years

ness to overcome the good of

20 and 75 years of marriage. May

of their marriage.

teamwork, communication, self-

you be blessed with the unusual and

• Solution: Compromising and

lessness and conflict resolution.

enduring happiness of a fairy tale

learning to be a team. Don says,

The royalty in your marriage will not

marriage.

“I learned to lose my authority.”

mean establishing a King or Queen

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Top 10 Planning Mistakes

You Don’t Want to Make

By Holly Lafferty

No matter how

hard you try to keep everything running smoothly, you

will inevitably run into some rough spots while planning your wedding. Try to be aware of some of these common planning problems and you can help ensure the process moves along with relative ease. 1. Refusing help You may not want any of your family members to get too controlling, but by turning down everyone

that most gowns will need alterations, so ordering your gown within 6-9 months of your wedding day is imperative.

who offers help, you could set yourself up for a

3. Going on a crash diet right before your wedding

more-stressful-than-it-needs-to-be event. As long

Many brides purchase their gown with the thought

as you are clear on your boundaries and make sure

in mind that they will lose weight before their wed-

to be gracious to everyone involved, having your

ding day. However, it’s important to maintain your

loved ones step in to address invitations or help

size (or at least close to it) once you’ve had your

make DIY pew decorations can be a huge relief.

first fitting. Alterations at the final fitting can be

2. Waiting too long to order your wedding gown

costly, and if you lose even more weight after the

Chances are, you won’t make this mistake, as many

final fitting, your dress could be a bad fit by your

brides are thrilled about dress-shopping. But if you

wedding day. Who wants to feel like anything less

set a wedding date in the very near future, you may

than a princess in her gown? A well-fitting gown

find yourself stuck paying extra rush fees or (gasp!)

is key to feeling beautiful (not to mention the health

running the risk of not having your gown arrive by

risks of major crash diets – you don’t want to pass

your wedding day. This is especially true if your

out on your way down the aisle).

dress is ordered from overseas. Also keep in mind

4. Losing your temper when things don’t go your way

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You’re probably going to experience some major disappointment when it comes to the wedding planning. Maybe the gown you dreamed of is way out of your budget or the invitations you love have been discontinued. If you let these problems cause major frustration, it’s going to put a damper on the experience of planning your wedding and get things off to a rocky start for your marriage. Learn to roll with the punches and handle being let down with grace and charm. Your wedding vendors and loved ones will appreciate your positive attitude; and your fiancé will remember why he loves you so much. 5. Going over budget It’s a pretty safe bet that you may go a little over budget, but try to factor unexpected costs in by including 5-10% of your budget for those unforeseen miscellaneous expenses. Keep in mind that you will need to tip most vendors (double check your contract to determine if any of them have built-in gratuity). The last thing you want is to bleed your parents dry or start your marriage off in a load of debt. 6. Being too vague When you’re meeting with your vendors, make sure you offer specific suggestions and guidelines. If you have a very particular look in mind for your flowers, bring the florist photos and let her know exactly what you’re thinking. If you want your hair to look a certain way, meet with your stylist beforehand and try a practice run. If you’re not clear with your ideas, how can you blame a vendor for “getting it wrong”? If you’re definite about your expectations with everyone involved (which does NOT translate to being a controlling bridezilla) it will save you a big headache on your wedding day. 7. Speaking of… No one likes a bridezilla. There’s a difference between knowing what you want and acting like a spoiled brat. If you abuse and mistreat the wedding vendors who are trying so hard to make your day perfect, do you think they’re going to put their best foot forward when the time comes? Treating your loved ones poorly is also a bad decision; those bad feelings could sour some of your most important relationships (including your marriage) for a long time in the future. Ask your fiancé or maid of honor to remind you of your attitude when

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they see you losing control (you’ll just have to

guests. If you want to throw a big wedding with

promise not to kill the messenger when they do

500 people but book a venue with a capacity of

point out your irrational behavior).

350, you’re going to have some rather obvious

8. Booking vendors or hotels too late

problems. Additionally, if you stick one first-class

Photographers and reception halls, in particular,

stamp on your wedding invitations, it may not be

usually book early in Nebraska. Wait too long to

enough and your invitation situation could become

choose a vendor and you run the risk of having to

a giant mess, depending on who’s working at the

go with your second, third, or even fourth choice.

post office that day. Make sure to plan ahead by

While some things are beyond your control, mak-

staying aware of these basic issues and you’ll save

ing decisions and sticking with them in the early planning stages will be good for all involved, espe-

yourself a lot of stress. 10. Focusing on the wedding, not the marriage

cially you. In the case of hotel rooms, you definitely

Yes, your wedding day is a very important day in

don’t want to leave your out-of-town guests strand-

your life. Yes, you’re celebrating your love and start-

ed, so make it a priority to book a block of rooms

ing a life together. Yes, you want to feel like a

early on. It also helps with your chance of getting

princess and enjoy a special day surrounded by

guests a discount for staying at a certain hotel, so

your loved ones. However, don’t lose sight of what

everyone wins!

your wedding day represents: the beginning of a

9. Not doing the math

marriage that will be filled with love, laughter, tears,

We’re not referring to budgeting here, but other

conflict and LOTS of hard work. Marriage is a beau-

simple numbers. If you invite 400 guests and only

tiful blessing, but it’s also a long and difficult road.

order enough food for 200, you’re probably

Remember to treat your groom with love and

going to end up with some very hungry, irritated

respect to start your marriage off right.

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Planning the

Guest List By Sue Durio

Your wedding day is one of the most special moments in your life - and one you’ll want to share with the special people in your life. But, as many couples have learned, creating the guest Attanasio Photography

list can be one of the most complicated aspects of wedding planning. Even with the best planning, the unexpected is sure to arise. You can minimize surprises, unexpected expenses and hurt feelings with some simple planning techniques.

What’s Your Budget?

What’s the Venue?

bride’s parents, groom’s parents

The best way to manage your

If your dream wedding is in the

and the couple. You may find that

budget is to manage your guest list.

small country chapel, inviting sever-

your parents have a larger guest list

Food and drinks are typically the

al hundred people probably is

in mind than your dream location will

most expensive costs of a wedding.

not realistic. You’ll need to decide

accommodate. If they are paying the

A full buffet or plated dinner can run

what is more important – the loca-

bill, try to keep their wishes in mind

$10 to $70 per person, depending on

tion or the number of guests. Keep-

and negotiate a comfortable com-

food selections and location.

ing the wedding small cuts costs and

promise you both can live with.

For an open bar, a good rule of

also gives you the freedom to con-

If you and your fiancé are footing

thumb is approximately 1 1/2 to 2 drinks

sider more non-traditional settings

the tab, it will be easier for you to

per person per hour.

like a small inn, yacht, or elegant

determine the guest list size, but be

Since catering is charged on a per-

restaurant. If your guest list simply

sensitive to your parents’ wishes. In

person basis, it’s easy to see how the

can’t be cut, look for a larger venue

the end, a few extra guests will not

costs of an additional 20 or 30 invi-

rather than trying to pack too many

make a huge difference in the bot-

tations can quickly impact your budg-

people into an uncomfortable space.

tom line and may be worth adding

et, particularly since most invitations

The venue’s event coordinator can

to avoid hurt feelings.

are for a couple. Decide how many

provide estimates for wedding and

people you can afford to invite. If your

reception seating capacity. Be sure

How Do We Estimate RSVPs?

the facility has adequate parking for

The formula commonly used for

budget is tight, keep it small.

your guests as well.

What’s Your Dream Wedding? Have you always dreamed of an

estimating how many people will attend your wedding is to double the

Who’s Paying?

number of invitations that you send

intimate wedding in a small country

Traditionally, the bride’s parents

and subtract 33%. Example: If you

chapel or a big bash with all your

pay for the wedding and determine

issue 120 invitations, expect 161

friends and family? What does your

the number of guests to be invited.

guests to attend. In other words, typ-

fiancé want? Is it more important for

However, many couples today pay

ically about two thirds of your invi-

you to have an expensive meal for 30

part – or all – of their wedding tab

tees will actually attend. However,

or a large event on a tighter budget?

and are more likely to determine the

these are just guidelines.

Once you’ve determined the type of

guest list.

Don’t invite people thinking they

wedding you both envision, you’ll

If your parents are paying, talk to

will never show. Be prepared for sur-

have a better idea of the appropriate

them first about the number of

prises. For one thing, it’s not uncom-

guest list size. Start with your wish list

guests they want and how those invi-

mon for guests to mistakenly RSVP

of guests, but be ready to cut.

tations will be divided between the

for more guests than you invited.

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Most wedding guest lists end up,

If the extra guest is not causing

getting married without them there?

believe it or not, with a few additional

a real problem, the best response is

Until you have your reception and

names added by guests themselves.

no response. Keep in mind that the

ceremony venues finalized, you won’t

Many people mistakenly believe

social faux pas was probably not

know how big your guest list can be.

that because it is up to them to

intentional, and you will be better

However, it’s a good idea at this stage

fill in the response card with the num-

served by graciously ignoring it.

of the game to start counting family and close friends to get a sense of

ber of guests attending, they are allowed to include an additional guest or two. They do this, intending no harm, often entirely unaware that this is any form of social blunder. If that occurs, you’ll have to decide whether adding the guest causes a real problem – for instance, if you are already at your venue’s capacity. If so, the best solution is to

How Do We Create the List?

how many essential invites you have.

Once you have determined how

After all, if you have 60 essential

many guests to invite, divide the num-

invites, you should probably forget

ber in thirds:

about the charming chapel that only

1/3 - Guests of the bride’s parents

seats 50.

1/3 - Guests of the groom’s parents

Remember to send invitations to

1/3 - Guest of the bride and groom

your parents and the wedding party as keepsakes. They don’t have to

Next, prioritize each list into reply. Wedding etiquette experts three separate categories. also say children over the age of 16

call the individual to whom the invitation was sent (or have the groom’s parents call if it involves one of their guests) and politely let them know that while you would like to accommodate the extra guest, your facility already is at capacity.

A-List: Must-Haves - These are the

should receive their own invitation.

people you have to invite. That

B-List: Should-Haves - These are

includes family and close friends. Also

the people you should invite, such as

on this list should be the officiant and

distant family members and good

his or her spouse or guest. Who is so

friends/acquaintances. The B-List

important that you can’t imagine

guests are the ones with which

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most couples struggle the most. Do you really need to invite your mom’s great aunt from Tallahassee? How about her staff from the office? A good rule of thumb: Invite only people you personally know and like. As for friends-in-law you wish you’d never met, start with this crucial connubial ground rule: You are separate people with different tastes. You don’t have to like each other’s friends, but letting them share some champagne with you on your big day is not going to hurt anyone. C-List: Like-To-Haves - These are the ones you’d like to include if there is room. This list might include your first-grade friend (whom you haven’t seen in years), old neighbors, or business associates. If the issue at hand is the potentially hurt feelings of the uninvited, remember that remote cousins often feel as indifferent toward you as you do toward them and may be happy not to come. The same goes for distant friends. A wedding is not an excuse to round up every lost intimate friend you have known since you were 10 – focus on people who matter now.

What About The “No-Way-Are-WeInviting-Them” Guests? If there are ex-girlfriends, exspouses, obnoxious drunks, or estranged family with whom you’d rather not share your special day, now is the time to speak up. Decide together who is not on the guest list.

How Do We Handle “No Children”? For some couples, one of those not-welcome groups is children. You have a few options for letting your guests know not to bring their children. One is simply to leave their

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names off the invitation. You can also

office invites is a simple way to pull

as simple as creating a spreadsheet

rely on family to pass the word that

in the reins on your ever-growing

that tracks names, addresses, RSVPs,

children aren’t invited. Or, you can

guest count.

gifts and thank-you notes. For a low-

take the direct approach so there is

• Limit the number of friends your

tech option, set up a card file. Cre-

no misunderstanding or hurt feelings.

parents invite. If they are inviting

ate a card with each guest’s name

On the invitation reply card, include

friends of their own, especially

and address. Highlight the name

wording such as:

ones you barely know, set a limit

(example, pink for guests of the

• Adult Reception

for both sets of parents and stick

bride’s parents, blue for guests of the

• We hope that the (# of) of you

to it if space and budget are lim-

groom’s parents, and green for your

ited. Wedding announcements

guests) to help in seating arrange-

can be sent to those not on the list

ments. Leave room at the top of

in lieu of invitations.

each card to note RSVPs and provide

will be able to join us. Remember, however, that “no children” means no children. Bend the rules for your favorite niece, and you’ll have a lot of hurt guests.

• Eliminate the “and guest” if a friend

space elsewhere to track gifts

or relative is not in a serious rela-

received and thank-you notes mailed.

tionship. As long as there are famil-

Online tools are also available at

Who Pays For Guests over the Allotted Number?

iar faces at the reception, your solo

NEweddingday.com to help manage

friend will be fine.

the guest list and RSVPs. NEwed-

Once you have established the

• Invite only close family. That third

number of guests each group (par-

cousin or first-grade best friend

ents and couple) may invite, any addi-

you haven’t seen in years won’t

tional guests should be at the

care that he or she is not invited.

expense of the individual initiating the

How Do We Stay Organized?

invitation. If the groom’s parents add

Managing your guest list can be

dingday.com also provides a personal web site for the wedding couple. By following these suggestions, you should be able to overcome the challenges of planning the guest list and start enjoying your big day!

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an extra 50 names to their list, for instance, you should remind them of your budget and ask that they either trim their list or cover the additional costs.

Do Shower Guests have to be Invited to the Wedding? The short answer is yes. Inviting people to a wedding shower but not to the wedding implies that you are only interested in a gift. Avoid hurt feelings by assuming that any guest at a bridal shower will also be on your wedding guest list.

How Can We Trim the List? What if you’ve prioritized the list and made initial cuts, but it is still too large? You may be able to trim the list a bit more with these steps: • Make the reception “adult only”. Caterers charge per person, even little persons. • Don’t invite coworkers. Nixing all

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Required Reading Books to help prepare you for marriage

By Holly Lafferty

It’s not easy to be married. Planning your wedding invokes feelings of sunshine and rainbows, but there will inevitably be storms and trials during your years of wedded

bliss. No paperback can give you a paint-by-numbers approach to the perfect marriage, but there are some very helpful books out there that may offer you guidance as you prepare for the biggest commitment of your life. Here are some of

NWD’s

favorite books on marriage.

The Five Love Languages

A Handbook for Engaged Couples

by Dr. Gary Chapman

by Alice & Robert Fryling

Chances are you have heard of this book before, con-

This is a workbook that NWD highly recommends

sidering it has sold over 5 million copies. There’s a rea-

for any engaged couple. There are important issues and

son for that – it focuses on the different “love languages”

questions that need to be dealt with in every rela-

with which a person may identify and advises couples on

tionship, whether you have been together for 10 years

the best ways to love one another. The five love languages

or 10 months. The book is written from a Christian per-

include Acts of Service, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time,

spective but includes valuable information whether you

Receiving Gifts and Physical Touch. Learning how to love

and your fiancé are religious or not. The Frylings don’t

your spouse in his or her love language can make a huge

sugarcoat marriage; but they also delve into its

difference in a marriage. It seems simple; yet it is some-

rewards.

thing often overlooked by couples.

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Your Money Counts

of Debt”. This book is definitely worth exploring with

by Howard Dayton

your future husband.

Finances and debt may be just about the least

10 Great Dates Before You Say “I Do”

romantic topics on the planet. However, they’re by David & Claudia Arp and Curt & Natalie Brown extremely important, and you and your fiancé need to sit down and hammer out the details of

If you’re more action-oriented, this book is for you.

your financial lives before they merge. The leading

The authors offer several relationship-building dates

cause of divorce in the United States is financial

perfect for seriously dating or newly engaged couples.

problems – don’t become a part of that statistic!

The book provides worksheets and questionnaires

Dayton doesn’t gloss over the many bad money

for you to fill out that are meant to be discussed dur-

decisions Americans are making today; and he

ing specific dates. The dates are a great way to focus

offers practical advice for working through your

on your relationship rather than getting consumed

money issues – good or bad.

by wedding planning.

The Ten Commandments of Marriage

Getting Your Sex Life Off to a Great Start

by Ed Young and Beth Moore

by Clifford & Joyce Penner Also written from a Christian perspective but with a strong dose of humor, this book will help you strength-

Whether you and your fiancé are sexually active or

en your bond with your fiancé and keep you laughing

waiting for your wedding night, your sex life will play

at the same time. Here are a few of the commandments:

a large part in the health of your marriage. It’s some-

“Thou Shalt Not Be a Selfish Pig”, “Thou Shalt Cut the

thing that needs to be talked about openly before you

Apron Strings”, and “Thou Shalt Avoid the Quicksand

commit to one another for life. The authors provide

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advice on keeping the spark in your marriage and deal-

stray; but he presents a lot of useful advice on build-

ing with differing expectations on the role of sex in your

ing trust and keeping romance alive in your relation-

relationship.

ship. No one imagines when they walk down the aisle

Lies at the Altar

that their spouse may someday cheat, and this book’s suggestions will help couples prevent the devastation

by Dr. Robin L. Smith of an affair. Dr. Smith is herself divorced, and from that painful experience comes a thoughtful perspective on the cur-

Love at Last Sight

rent epidemic of couples focusing on the wedding rather

by Kerry & Chris Shook

than the marriage. Dr. Smith combines her professional

The authors begin their book by stating that every-

and personal experience to share the important issues

thing pop culture (TV, movies, websites) teaches us about

that couples should deal with before walking down the

marriage is wrong. Whether or not you believe in “love

aisle. This book is a must-read for anyone who finds

at first sight”, it isn’t what’s important – creating mean-

themselves getting too caught up in the heady rush of

ingful relationships beyond that first glance is what mat-

the big day.

ters. The Shooks share different ways you can make a

His Needs, Her Needs

relationship thrive – by seeing your loved ones as they are and risking awkwardness to gain intimacy.

by Dr. William E. Harley, Jr. This book focuses on the different ways couples should treat one another to “affair-proof” a marriage.

The Love Dare by Steven & Alex Kendrick

There may be some who take offense to Harley’s frank

The hit movie Fireproof focuses on a couple on the

approach to addressing the reasons men (and women!)

verge of divorce until the husband begins a 40-day challenge called The Love Dare. Each day he reads a devotional and is given a task that requires him to perform a simple act of love for his spouse. Throughout the 40 days, their marriage strengthens and grows and they eventually recommit themselves to one another. The Love Dare will not “cure” any relationship, but the exercises in the book will remind you and your fiancé what is important in a marriage. Small acts of affection and respect can strengthen any relationship, whether you’re deeply in love or struggling.

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Preparing for Marriage

focuses on improving your marriage by developing emo-

by David Boehi, Brent Nelson, Jeff Schulte

tional and physical intimacy.

and Lloyd Shadrach

Wild at Heart This book offers 8 helpful sessions that you may

by John Eldredge

complete with your partner on your own, through premarital counseling or with a trusted pastor. The exer-

Every woman should read this book to gain a deeper

cises include each person’s expectations about a variety

understanding of her future husband’s heart. Eldredge

of things as they enter into marriage, from finances to

writes about the importance of men in society and

housework to matters of faith. By addressing these

speaks to their built-in instinct to be heroes, warriors

expectations beforehand, you and your spouse will be

and protectors. These traits are not something for men

well-prepared for conflicts and differences when the

to be ashamed of; they are to be celebrated and

honeymoon is over.

embraced in the way men live their daily lives. Also check out Captivating, by John’s wife Stacy, for a

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woman’s perspective; and Love & War, written by the couple, for more marriage advice.

by Ed Wheat, M.D.

You won’t be able to find step-by-step instructions

Love Life is a popular book for couples who are try-

on how to have the perfect marriage in any book. Mar-

ing to rebuild their marriage after infidelity or separa-

riage is not all sunshine and roses – it can be very chal-

tion, but reading it before the marriage will help you

lenging and difficult. However, the work is definitely

prevent distance from occurring later in your marriage.

worth the reward. Through thoughtful preparation and

Often the word “intimacy” is avoided in a culture of dis-

open communication your chances of a healthy and last-

connect and instant gratification, but Dr. Wheat’s advice

ing union are much greater.

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Choosing Your

Personal Attendant By Holly Lafferty

Every bride needs a â&#x20AC;&#x153;right-hand womanâ&#x20AC;?, someone to help address

invitations and be there on the wedding day to help with the seemingly endless details. While these duties usually fall to the maid of honor, it can be a good idea to spread the duties out among different members of the bridal party; in the process, you can take the oppor tunity to honor another close friend or relative. You can do this by selecting a personal attendant.

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Having a personal attendant is a great way to ensure that certain aspects of your wedding day are taken care of. If you’re having trouble narrowing down your attendants, it’s also a great way to include someone who might otherwise be left out. There are several things to think about when choosing your personal attendant, so make sure you take the following factors into consideration:

How much help will you need? Some brides may select a personal attendant as more of an honorary title. If that is the case, the position is more of a ceremonial one, and personality type may not matter so much. However, if you need someone to help organize more important elements of your big day, the rules change a bit. You want to make sure you choose someone who has great organizational skills, strong leadership skills and the ability to stick to a schedule. For example, if you expect your personal attendant to organize a bridal shower, bark orders to the other attendants and keep track of all the pictures taken, a laidback cousin you haven’t seen in a few years may not be the best choice. Bear in mind that there are options other than asking a loved one to take on the role of personal attendant. If you’re going to need a lot of help and hate the idea of ordering those closest to you around, a new trend is developing that you may find appealing: There are many companies and consultants now offering personal attendant services on the day (or even weekend) of your wedding. This is a great way to ensure that all your friends and family are able to relax and enjoy the day along with you. Bottom-line: If your desire for a personal attendant is more than ceremonial, go with a Type-A personality.

What are the basic duties of a personal attendant? The duties of a personal attendant are vague, which can be a good thing. You can essentially define the role yourself. She may have more of a ceremonial role, or she can have a long list of tasks. Some of the most common responsibilities given to the personal attendant include: • Help address invitations • Help plan/decorate pre-wedding activities

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• Keep an “emergency bag” for the bride • Help decorate the ceremony and reception sites • Keep the bride and other attendants on schedule on the big day • Assist the bride with makeup and other touch-ups during pictures • Pin flowers on wedding party attendants • Transport gifts and other items from the ceremony to the reception site • Learn to bustle the bride’s train • Help clean up the ceremony/reception site • Assist in delivering the gifts The list could be endless, depending on your level of need, but generally these are accepted duties for a personal attendant. However, it’s important to remember that she is your personal attendant, not your personal slave! You don’t want her to end up feeling used instead of appreciated when the whole thing is over.

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What items should you have her bring? The personal attendant is most likely the one who will be in possession of the “emergency kit”, so you want to make sure she includes the following: • Safety pins • Hairspray and bobby pins • Makeup (the same shades and brands you are wearing that day) • Scissors, thread and a needle • Extra pantyhose • Nail polish (clear and colored) • Deodorant • Hairbrush • Perfume • Comfortable outfits for you and herself (to wear during preparation before changing into more formal attire)

Any other tips? To avoid drama and hurt feelings, make sure you clarify what you need from her when you ask her. You may ask a friend because you want to include her, but if your maid of honor is hyper-organized and taking care of everything, make sure you let your personal attendant know that you really just need support and presence on your wedding day. If you need a lot of help with the planning and the details, let her know that in advance, so she doesn’t end up feeling abused and you don’t end up feeling disappointed or stressed. You must have someone that you can rely on. Let her know exactly what you’re going to need on the big day. Do you want her help when you’re getting photos taken? Is she going to be responsible for keeping track of the veil and other accessories? Is she going to help decorate and set up? If you hire a professional, you will want to make sure to convey these requests to her as well. Regardless of whether you choose a loved one or a professional, the most important thing to remember when selecting your personal attendant is how you wish to define the role. Make sure to relay those expectations to her. Keeping the lines of communication open between the two of you will ensure that your wedding day goes smoothly. And it’s a great opportunity to give a special role to someone who is important to you in everyday life.

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Perfect Planning The Best Blogs to Inspire your Wedding By Holly Lafferty

These days, every bride wants a

designer’s touch for her wedding. If you don’t have a creative bone in your body, you can find endless resources online to help with your planning. Wedding blogs have exploded in popularity, and there are several fantastic blogs you can look to for inspiration. Here are NWD’s Top 5 wedding blogs: 1. Nebraska WeddingDay: NEWeddingdayBlog.com You didn’t really think we were going to leave our own blog off the list, did you? NWD’s blog offers something that other wedding blogs don’t – we feature many local vendors on our blog, so you can find inspiration and easily locate a vendor whose work you love. With popular features like “Friday Freebies” and “Things We Love”, you can find out what’s hot locally, not just on the coasts. NWD’s blog also features Nebraska Real Weddings and local bride bloggers who share their adventures in wedding planning. 2. The Classic Bride: ClassicBride.blogspot.com The Classic Bride uses a wonderful mix of vintage and modern details, so your wedding can include oldstyle touches without feeling outdated. They also offer custom inspiration boards for purchase. Another feature we love is “Southern Charm” – you may not be getting married in the South, but that doesn’t mean you can’t steal some of its charm!

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3. The Inspired Bride: InspiredBride.net If you’re searching for the perfect color palette, this is the blog for you. The Inspired Bride features an array of inspiration, all based on unique, breathtaking color palettes (for example, light khaki, lemon and pink lemonade – absolutely perfect for a summer wedding!). 4. Snippet & Ink: SnippetandInk.com Snippet & Ink offers daily inspiration, particularly with its fantastic inspiration boards. Whatever your style, Snippet & Ink probably has a board that will help you flesh out the perfect design for your big day. Some of our faves include “Ragtime Romance” and “Vermillion & Blush”. 5. Style Me Pretty: StyleMePretty.com Style Me Pretty is geared towards the styleobsessed bride, and it definitely delivers! SMP offers real weddings galore to help kick-start your wedding planning. It also offers the coolest features ever with its “From Inspiration to Reality” shoots. SMP takes an inspiration board and turns it into a full-fledged wedding design. Yum!

Other blogs we love: Junebug Weddings: WhatJunebugLoves.com It has a little bit of everything – Real Weddings, fashion trends and even an advice column. Wedding Bee: WeddingBee.com A wedding blog by real brides that's updated over 25 times daily – there's lots to love here! 100 Layer Cake: 100LayerCake.com/blog This blog is dedicated to helping you craft a truly unique wedding with lots of eye candy for inspiration. Brooklyn Bride BklynBrideOnline.com This blog is perfect for the edgy Nebraska bride who is completely uninterested in all things pink for her wedding. DIY Bride: DIYbride.com DIY Bride is chock full of resources and advice for brides who wish to create a one-of-a-kind wedding.

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Intimate Affair Celebrating On a Smaller Scale By Kristen Castillo

Guest lists are always difficult to create. You have to include your family, your friends, your co-workers and often people your parents want you to invite. Nowadays you’ve got to trim back the list even more as weddings get smaller and smaller. It’s not always a bad thing to have an inti-

stressful for you and your guy, especially on

mate wedding. It’s budget-friendly, cozy, and

the big day. You’ll be able you focus your time

a lot easier when it comes to greeting all your

and attention to a core group of guests,

guests. So embrace the trend and prepare

instead of spreading yourself too thin by run-

a party with big style on a small scale!

ning about the reception site saying hello to family and friends. Take a deep breath and

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consider the perks of a pared-down guest list.

Smaller venues and fewer guests allow

You won’t be time-crunched to chat with

you to enjoy an event that’s more intimate

every guest at an overwhelming pace. You

and romantic. A bonus is that it will be less

can be more leisurely as you mingle with

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guests and show them how much you appreciate the opportunity to share your day with them. You can stop to enjoy the moment, tell a story and feel grateful for the cozy feeling of your intimate gathering. At first you may feel like a smaller wedding means a lackluster event, but think again. With a smaller guest list, you’ll be able to have the personalized wedding you’ve always dreamed about. The focus is on quality, not quantity.

Intimate Advantages With an intimate affair, you can definitely prioritize what matters most to you. Lots of couples want intimate nuptials for the chance to spend a special day with a small gathering of family and friends. Some couples have intimate “I Dos” when they’re planning a destination wedding. If that’s the case, it’s usually easier to plan the out-of-town fun with a core group of guests, rather than inviting lots of people. Still, for many couples, the motivation for a small wedding is strictly based on budget. No matter what makes you want wedding intimacy, there are many advantages. Your budget can go farther with a small wedding. You’ll be able to save with fewer guests to accommodate, fewer tables to decorate, and a decrease in the amount of food you’ll need to order. However, just because your guest list is small doesn’t mean your wedding budget has to be small as well. You can definitely spend more money per person by upgrading linens; ordering highend appetizers, meals, and sweets and creating a rich and glamorous ambiance on an intimate scale. Whether your budget is large or small, you can maximize your spending on the things that are important to you and your groom. If flowers make you smile, you can have large, gorgeous arrangements on every table; for a memorable menu, you can treat guests to a savory meal of all your favorite dishes, from salmon to steak to delectable desserts. To capture memories that will last long after the wedding day, hire a photographer and a videographer to shoot photos and video of the people and the event that you want to remember. It’s your day, your guest list and your chance to showcase what matters most to you and your guy.

Size Matters The number of invited guests varies from wedding to wedding. It’s really an estimate – a starting point –

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One of the keys to hosting an

intimate wedding is finding

a venue that suits your party both in

size and style.

for you, your groom and your caterer to start planning your day. Still, it’s always a good idea to keep the list as realistic as possible. Don’t over-invite guests with the hope that many won’t be able to make the event. There’s always a chance that all the guests are available to attend your nuptials. Then you’ll have to accommodate a larger guest list than you originally planned. If you’re not sure how to craft a guest list or pare it down appropriately, ask your coordinator or your venue’s catering manager to help you. These pros know weddings inside and out and they’ll be a valuable resource for you and your groom as you decide between inviting your college sorority sister or your great-aunt.

The Right Space One of the keys to hosting an intimate wedding is finding a venue that suits your party both in size and style. You want a space that’s tasteful but not too large. A large space can overwhelm your event and make it seem sparsely attended. Look for a wedding venue that can accommodate your guests nicely while still allowing room to mingle.

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If your list calls for 90 guests, plan on a site that can comfortably fit about 125 to 150 people. With this strategy, you can always include more guests if the need arises; and you’ll have a space that’s cozy yet has a reasonable amount of extra room. Another bonus of hosting an intimate wedding is the focus on customer service and the feeling that the event staff aims to please. You and your guy craft the guest list, and whether the list is large or small, the important thing is the people you share your special day with. Feel the love and appreciation from all of your best supporters – your

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closest family and your dearest friends. Enjoy the opportunity to greet each guest; share a smile; and make the most of your intimate affair.

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Whether you are having an elegant wedding reception, wedding ceremony, business event or a casual holiday party, 1316 Jones Street can accommodate all of your party and banquet facility needs. This historic part of Downtown Omaha is a landmark that is sure to provide the right mood and perfect ambiance for your next gathering.

1316 Jones Street This invaluable guide to Nebraska’s most exciting reception sites is designed to introduce engaged couples to a variety of great reception possibilities. This guide provides only a glimpse into all that these sites have to offer. Please visit our website www.NEweddingday.com to view virtual tours of many of the facilities listed here.

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712.396.3117 ✦ 2200 River Road ✦ Council Bluffs, IA 51501 Jennifer.chleboun@ameristar.com ✦ www.ameristar.com/Council_Bluffs_Hotel_Weddings.aspx

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With a spacious interior, outdoor garden, and ample parking, Arbor Hall is the perfect venue for your wedding reception and ceremony site. With over 10 years of experience, we specialize in stress free weddings. Let us take care of all your wedding needs, including food, alcohol, cakes, flowers, hair and make up, photography, DJ service, and private dance lessons.

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402.474.1812 ✦ 140 N. 8th Street ✦ Lincoln, NE 68508 www.lincolnhaymarket.com

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402-884-2269 ✦ 14040 Arbor Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68144 joni@sweetcakesandroses.com ✦ www.arborhallomaha.com

The Aspen Room is a new venue and offers a great atmosphere for any type of event – Wedding Ceremonies & Receptions, Rehearsal Dinners, Holiday Parties, Business Luncheons or Dinners. The Aspen Room can accommodate all of your private event needs. The venue features private parking; a large outdoor fenced patio area; and is located close to a number of hotels.

Elegant, Stylish & Affordable…No Additional Tax Here! The Atrium Banquet Facility offers a personal touch you don’t find anymore and the phone is always answered by the owner. We alleviate stress by offering services such as: Wedding Cakes, Catering, DJ, Full Bar, Waiters & Bartenders. Magnificent high ceilings and pillars with natural lighting accompany this spacious banquet hall. Visit our website or call for a private tour today!

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402.331.7575 ✦ 7220 F Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68127 catering@anthonyssteakhouse.com ✦ www.anthonyssteakhouse.com

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Add the “WOW” factor to your wedding memories in Historic Haymarket’s Apothecary Lofts. Whether you host just your wedding reception or book a “wedding package”, you too will say “WOW”! Schedule a tour to discover Lincoln’s best-kept secret, where you can enjoy a complete wedding weekend including your rehearsal dinner, wedding ceremony and reception, wedding overnight, and gift opening brunch. WOW!

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With a reputation for great steaks and Italian cuisine, a wedding reception at Anthony’s is the perfect idea! Anthony’s beautiful 9,000 sq. ft. Grand Ballroom has 3 full-service bars, a spacious dance floor, full audio/ visual capabilities and a private patio complete with a waterfall, gazebo and covered seating. We will provide you with the venue and services to make your wedding reception an event to remember.

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402.415.8222 ✦ 1316 Jones Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68102 www.1316jones.com

Just bring the joy. We’ll supply the rest. Ameristar is committed to creating the wedding of your dreams. Our team of experts will create an unforgettable event, perfect for you. Our luxurious ballroom – a candelit beauty – is pure elegance and will delight your guests. Menus crafted by our award-winning culinary team,160 elegant hotel rooms, Free valet parking, Onsite child center, Whirlpool suites, Outdoor site for receptions and ceremonies, Dedicated staff, start to finish. Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

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402.502.1885 ✦ 9809 M Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68127 www.aspenroomomaha.com

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402.706.8983 ✦ 14333 S. Hwy 31 ✦ Gretna, NE 68028 www.atriumatnecrossings.com

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Elegant gated outdoor setting located on a beautifully landscaped vineyard and tree farm 15 minutes south of Lincoln next to Bluestem Lake. Features outdoor wedding pavilion, indoor reception building, on-site parking, fire pit and a two-bedroom cottage with patio. Personalized wine bottles available. Rent site for the entire weekend for all your family activities, including rehearsal dinners and gift opening brunches. Virtual tours online.

Chez Hay offers a beautiful urban loft-style banquet space located in the heart of downtown Lincoln, only a few blocks from the UNL campus. Our space features large windows overlooking the city, a spacious wood dance floor and exposed brick walls. With full food and beverage service, we promise to keep every guest satisfied, whether it is 2 or 260.

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402.817.8733 ✦ 5895 W Sprague Road ✦ Crete, NE www.bluestemtreefarm.com

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402.289.0900 ✦ 3825 N. 202nd Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68022 www.theclubatindiancreek.com

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402.476.5115 ✦ 5353 N 27th Street ✦ Lincoln, NE 68521 www.countryinns.com/lincolnne ✦ www.beaconhills.com

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When it comes to making your wedding special, Doubletree is committed to making every moment memorable. Our planners will help you create a wedding that is luxurious, personalized and unique. Offering upscale accommodations and amenities at our full-service hotel, Doubletree can accommodate weddings of all sizes. This is the day you have been dreaming of; Doubletree will create the spectacular day you so richly deserve.

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402.393.7431 ✦ 11830 Stonegate Circle ✦ Omaha, NE 68164 www.dccentre.com

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402.280.3545 ✦ 2500 California Plaza ✦ Omaha, NE 68178 www.creighton.edu/harpercenter ✦ www.creighton.edu/skutt

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Creighton University-Skutt & Harper Centers

The DC Centre is where affordability and elegance meet.

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Choose Creighton University’s Harper or Skutt Centers for all of your reception needs. The Harper Center’s 7,000 square foot ballroom, located on the top floor, offers a grand view of Omaha’s skyline through its large east windows, providing a breathtaking backdrop for your event. The Skutt Center also features an elegant grand ballroom to accommodate your wedding reception. Call for details!

Our rental fees are all inclusive; we provide the linens, china, centerpieces, assistance with cake cutting and decorating, bartender, and security at no additional charge. DC Centre’s culinary staff provides exquisite meals at an affordable price. Our employees are trained to provide excellent customer service so we can ensure that each reception is well taken care of.

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402.517.3072 ✦ 3321 South 72nd Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68124 www.cocokeyomaha.com

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We welcome you to celebrate your special day with us and make it a time to remember. Let us help plan details from the rehearsal dinner to the gift opening. Whether planning light hors d’oeuvres or an elegantly served dinner, Beacon Hills offers only the freshest food and friendliest professional service. Your reception will give your guests a taste of “Simple Elegance.” Special sleeping room rates available.

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Details should be your last worry! Make planning simple by taking advantage of all the services and amenities we have to offer. Conveniently located at 72nd Street and I-80, our formal banquet rooms offer the perfect venue for a grandeur wedding for 500+ to an intimate celebration for 50. We’ll take care of all of your ceremony, reception, rehearsal dinner or bridal shower needs!

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402.489.7445 ✦ 210 North 14th Street ✦ Lincoln, NE 68508 www.chezhay.com

The Club at Indian Creek is the perfect choice for your event. Open to the public for wedding receptions and rehearsal dinners, Indian Creek is a wonderful setting. We can accommodate groups from 20 to 365. With beautiful golf course views, an outdoor veranda, classic mahogany décor, and professional event coordinators, Indian Creek will customize your event to make it all you have ever dreamed!

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402.636.4900 ✦ 1616 Dodge Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68102 www.webeventplanner.com/directory/doubletreeomaha

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Discover why there’s no other venue for hosting private events like The Durham Museum in Omaha, Nebraska. The most discerning event planner will revel in this exceptional venue, offering the finest combination of stunning architecture and historic grandeur. Sophisticated enough for the most romantic wedding celebration, the museum offers you an ideal setting that is sure to leave a lasting impression on your event guests.

The Embassy Suites Omaha-LaVista Hotel & Conference Center offers a beautiful setting for grand gala weddings as well as smaller intimate weddings. Available for ceremonies, wedding receptions, bridal showers, and rehearsal dinners, the Embassy SuitesLaVista is conveniently located at I-80 and Giles Road. Contact our professional and experienced catering staff to turn your big day into everything you dream it to be.

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402.444.5071 ✦ 801 South 10th Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68108 www.durhammuseum.org

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Lincoln: 402.474.1111 www.embassysuiteslincoln.com

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Omaha: 402.346.9000 www.embassysuitesomaha.com

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Green Gateau offers amazing food with buffets, plated meals, hors d’ oeuvres and of course our signature desserts. Located downtown with 2 parking lots for your convenience. Rehearsal dinners can also be scheduled in the restaurant, all menus and Wedding Packages are online at greengateau.com. Call Cristi for a tour of both spaces.

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Varies

Your wedding deserves a setting – not just a space. The Grand Manse provides unique rooms rich in character, history and architectural beauty. Built in 1904, the Grand Manse has been artfully renovated to savor the feel and texture of the past while providing every modern amenity. Something old and something new come together beautifully in one of Nebraska’s most elegant event settings.

Grand Manse

Catering Price N Per Person Call for info $16.95 + 67

402.334.5446 ✦ 2440 South 141st Circle ✦ Omaha, NE 68144 www.brandeiscatering.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

250 Y N

402.345.6343 ✦ 3615 Woolworth Ave. ✦ Omaha, NE 68105 www.fcomaha.com

Georgetowne Club 600 N N

$32 +

Field Club of Omaha Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

The Georgetowne Club is a beautiful facility conveniently located in the heart of West Omaha, a perfect location for your memorable wedding reception. Our staff will handle your reception from beginning to end, allowing you to be a guest at your own reception. Let the staff at Brandeis Catering handle all the details, because you have more important things on your mind than the menu!

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

The Field Club of Omaha is dedicated to making your wedding day visions a reality. We offer various banquet rooms that accommodate groups small and large, outdoor veranda seating, a large wood dance floor and spectacular golf course views. Our award-winning chef provides delicious catering selections with an option for you to customize your very own menu. The professional staff is dedicated to assisting with every step of the planning process to create your unforgettable day.

Call individual property for more specific information.

500-800 Y N

Catering Price Per Person

402.331.7400 ✦ 12520 Westport Pkwy ✦ La Vista, NE 68128 www.omahalavista.embassysuites.com

As a full-service on-site catering hotel, the Embassy Suites Hotel offers a lavish menu, all-inclusive packages and wide-ranging décor selections. Both locations offer large ballrooms, and your out-of-town guests will find comfort in our two-room suites. Please call us to hear about our complimentary amenities, including a wedding-night suite for the bridal couple.

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Varies Y

Varies N

Catering Price Per Person

Varies

402.477.3444 ✦ 1024 L Street ✦ Lincoln, NE 68508 www.greengateau.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

125-450 Y Y

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies Y

Catering Price Per Person

N/A

402.476.4560 ✦ 129 N 10th Street ✦ Lincoln, NE 68508 bvanderhart@usproperty.biz ✦ www.grandmanse.com At Havelock Social Hall, we dedicate ourselves to providing you with a worry-free wedding reception. With over 15 years of experience, we can help you with every detail of your special day. We will provide you with quality food, excellent service, and reasonable prices. Seating for up to 400; Large dance floor; Separate stages for DJ & wedding party, and Large private parking lot.

Havelock Social Hall 250 / 400 Room Rental Fee Maximum Capacity N Ceremony Site Outdoor Site N Outside Caterers Welcome Ad Page Number

$550 / $650 Catering Price Per Person N $7 + 46

402.467.3002 ✦ 4538 N. 62nd Street ✦ Lincoln, NE 68507 havelock@havelocksocialhall.com

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nebraska’s ultimate reception guide

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

At Hidden Valley, we are dedicated to making each reception as unique as the couple. We strive to exceed our guests’ every expectation through our attention to details, preparation, professional service, and friendly, helpful staff. With a true passion for coordinating events, we will make every effort to satisfy our guests. Come experience the best place in town to celebrate your marriage!

Hillcrest Country Club…where your dream wedding becomes reality. Built in 1928, Hillcrest offers over 75 years of tradition and excellence. Whether you are planning a casual or formal event, we offer a unique and elegant atmosphere with first-class service. Our experienced staff puts its heart into ensuring your evening will never be forgotten. Rehearsal dinners, bridal showers, and wedding party golf outings are also available.

Hidden Valley Golf Course

Hillcrest Country Club

225 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Call for rates Catering Price Per Person Y $13.95 + 58

402.434.5150 ✦ 10501 Pine Lake Road ✦ Lincoln, NE 68526 www.HiddenValleyLincoln.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Catering Price Per Person

IBC

Varies

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

$15 +

400 N N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies N

Catering Price Per Person

$11 +

402.488.3900 or 402.488.7888 ✦ www.himarkgolf.com 8901 Augusta Drive ✦ Lincoln, NE 68526 The newly renovated Holiday Inn Downtown has two ballrooms; The Lincoln Ballroom, which holds up to 500 people and the Nebraska Ballroom, which holds up to 250 people. We provide you with a dedicated wedding coordinator to personally assist in planning all the aspects of your reception, a professional staff to provide you with uncompromising service and superior food quality. Room Rental Fee: $500 for the Lincoln

Holiday Inn Downtown Omaha

Holiday Inn Downtown Lincoln

200 N Y*

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies N

Catering Price Per Person

Varies** *With approval of on-site caterer **New Menu Coming Beginning 2011

Ballroom/$250 for the Nebraska Ballroom. Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

$500+ N

Catering Price Per Person

$12.95+

2500 Tamarin Ridge Road ✦ Lincoln, NE 68512 402.421.1893 ext. 153 ✦ www.holiday-inn.com/lincoln-sw

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Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

$250-$500 Catering Price Per Person N $17.95 + 39

Lauritzen Gardens offers a breathtaking facility for your wedding or reception. Our unique garden areas offer just the right setting for an outdoor wedding ceremony. There are six garden areas available for you to choose the right location that will be perfect for you. Or, our indoor facility offers a stunning elegance that can be designed for large celebrations or intimate gatherings.

Lauritzen Gardens

Holiday Inn Southwest Lincoln 250 Y N

500 Y N

402.475.4011 ✦ Holiday Inn Downtown, 141 N 9th St. www.holiday-inn.com/lincolnne ✦ Lincoln, NE 68508

There is a new wedding venue in south Lincoln! The Holiday Inn Southwest is a full-service hotel with onsite catering. From light hors d’oeuvres to an elegantly served dinner our culinary team prepares the finest food in Lincoln. We can help you plan your wedding from the rehearsal dinner to the gift opening. You and your guests will love our modern ballroom and guest accommodations.

Be one of the first to celebrate your special day in our Brand New Stylish Ballroom, opening January 2011. The Holiday Inn Downtown Omaha offers planning services, a variety of catering options, romantic suites and more to make your wedding memorable. Overnight guests can take advantage of our indoor water park and on-site Sports Bar. Call today to set up a tour or for more information.

402.341.0124 ✦ 1420 Cuming St ✦ Omaha NE 68102 www.holidayinn.com/omahadowntown

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Catering Price Per Person

HiMark Banquet Facility Varies N

402.998.3400 ✦ 1001 Cass Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68102 www.omaha.hilton.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

$1000 Y

HiMark Banquet Facility features two beautifully decorated Banquet Rooms with scenic Golf Course views. We can accommodate groups of all sizes – perfect for Wedding Receptions and Rehearsal Dinners. Our experienced staff will work with you to customize your event, making it everything you have imagined. Included amenities: Linens, Table Settings, Centerpieces, Dance Floor, Bar Services and beautiful golf course views perfect for your photo backdrop.

Hilton – Omaha 700 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

402.489.7111 ✦ 9401 O St. ✦ Lincoln, NE 68520 www.hillcrestcountryclub.com

Elegance & Style: Your perfect marriage at Hilton Omaha, recognized as the premiere venue for weddings. Hilton Omaha features more than 30,000 square feet of flexible event space, including the dazzling 10,000 square-foot Grand Central Ballroom. We provide a professional coordinator to assist you, a dance floor and staging area, in-house catering by our renowned chefs, ice sculptures, a state-of-the-art sound system, bridal suites and a health club with spa treatment rooms. Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

300 Y N

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

323 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies Y

Catering Price Per Person

Varies

402.346.4002 ✦ 100 Bancroft Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68108 k.knoll@omahabotanicalgardens.org ✦ www.lauritzengardens.org

Lied Lodge & Conference Center at Arbor Day Farm offers a naturally gorgeous backdrop to a day that is uniquely yours. Reception and ceremony venues accommodate groups up to 280 and range from timeless, traditional banquet rooms to historic barns and rustic lodges. Treat your guests to award-winning food and exemplary service while you embrace every moment of your special day.

The Lincoln Firefighter’s Reception Hall has an affordable dynamic entertainment space that can provide an unsurpassed atmosphere for your wedding reception and even the ceremony! Features included are a large kitchen, HD projector/screen, free convenient parking, centerpiece items/decorations; and we are located close to downtown. Our helpful and professional staff would be pleased to be a part of your special day.

Lied Lodge & Conference Center

Lincoln Firefighter’s Reception Hall

at Arbor Day Farm Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

280 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies Y

Catering Price Per Person

$20.95 +

402.873.8705 or 800.546.5433 ✦ www.liedlodge.org/weddings 2700 Sylvan Road ✦ Nebraska City, NE 68410

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Call for rates Catering Price Per Person N N/A 52

402.477.6001 ✦ 241 Victory Lane ✦ Lincoln, NE 68528 www.firefighterhall.com Our grand Yellowstone Ballroom features a fireplace and wrap around veranda. With plenty of room, a dance floor, and accommodations for all of your food and beverage, our spacious Yellowstone Ballroom is sure to impress. The Lodge at Wilderness Ridge has become one of Lincoln’s most coveted locations for wedding ceremonies and receptions.

Livestock Exchange Building

The Lodge at Wilderness Ridge

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Catering Price N Per Person Call for info $16.95 + 67

402.334.5446 ✦ 4920 South 30th Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68105 www.brandeiscatering.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

230 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies Y

Catering Price Per Person

Call for Info

402.434.5121 ✦ www.wildernessridgegolf.com 1800 Wilderness Woods Place ✦ Lincoln, Nebraska 68512

Nestled in one of Omaha’s most treasured landmark buildings, the Omaha Magnolia Hotel creates a perfect blend of historic features, elegance and class. Our renowned outdoor courtyard is the premier space for wedding ceremonies while the chic ballrooms accommodate up to 250 guests. Each wedding includes a personal wedding coordinator, bridal suite, tables, chairs, linens, china and dance floor. Let your memories together begin here.

While being pampered at the salon, our team is at work! While slipping into your wedding gown, our team is at work. While exchanging vows with the love of your life, our team is at work. While walking down the aisle as husband and wife, our team is putting the finishing touches on the wedding reception of your dreams. Relax! We’ll see you when you’re married.

Magnolia Hotels

Millard Plaza Ballroom

225 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies Yes

Catering Price Per Person

Varies

402.231.6099 ✦ 1615 Howard Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68102 www.magnoliahotelomaha.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

$675-$1175 Catering Price Per Person N $15.50 + 63

Make your wedding reception an unforgettable event at the Nebraska Champions Club. Our exclusive caterer, Chances “R”, offers full service catering with an endless selection of delicious menu options to accommodate a variety of tastes and budgets. Located across from Memorial Stadium, the Club provides wedding coordination, complimentary cake cutting services, gift check services, a state-of-the-art audiovisual package, on-site parking, and outstanding service from our team of champions.

Misty’s 200 Y

350 Y N

402.891.0779 ✦ 5339 S. 139th Plaza ✦ Omaha, NE 68137 millardplazaballroom@cox.net ✦ www.millardplazaballroom.com

Misty’s Steakhouse is a favorite of Lincoln residents, and for good reason. With complimentary room rental and the best service in town, Misty’s should be your first choice for hosting an unforgettable event. Your guests will love our trademark menu and relaxing ambiance. Call today to book your date!

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

300 Y Y

The historical Livestock Exchange Building is the ideal location for your elegant wedding reception. Two separate ballrooms located on the 10th floor, with the ambiance of the evening skyline of downtown Omaha, make this a classy choice for your event. Our staff will handle your reception from beginning to end, allowing you to be a guest at your own reception.

150-560 Maximum Capacity N Ceremony Site No Outside Caterers Welcome

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Nebraska Champions Club Always Complimentary

N 70

Catering Price Per Person $13.95 +

200 N. 11th Street ✦ Lincoln, NE 68508 6235 Havelock Ave ✦ Lincoln, NE 68507 402.476.7766 ✦ www.mistyslincoln.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

400+ Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Call for rates Catering Price Per Person Y $11 + 62

402.472.6435 ✦ 707 Stadium Drive ✦ Lincoln, NE 68501 cmyers@huskeralum.org ✦ www.huskeralum.com

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nebraska’s ultimate reception guide

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Located in the heart of the city at the top of the US Bank Building (20th floor), we have panoramic views overlooking the beautiful city of Lincoln. We not only offer the best banquet facility and fabulous gourmet cuisine, but we also offer the best value to our brides. This is truly the perfect place to accommodate your reception, prenuptial dinner, and shower needs.

Catering for all your needs, from big to small, we do it all! We can even accommodate your last minute needs. We offer a free banquet room, specializing in rehearsal dinners, full-service catering, self-service drop off catering, intimate ceremonies of up to 50 people, engagement parties, and bachelor/bachelorette parties.

The Nebraska Club

The Parthenon

250 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies N

Catering Price Per Person

Call for rates

402.476.3228 ✦ 233 S. 13th Street, Ste 2000 ✦ Lincoln, NE 68508

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Catering Price Per Person

Varies

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Catering Price Per Person

$11.95 +

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Call for rates Catering Price Per Person N N/A 73

402.474.1812 ✦ 140 N. 8th Street ✦ Lincoln, NE 68508 www.lincolnhaymarket.com

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$500 Y

Catering Price Per Person

$16.99 +

300 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Call for rates Catering Price Per Person Y Call for rates 37

The Rococo Theatre is the perfect backdrop to the most important day of your life. Whether you plan your whole wedding day here or just the reception, our staff will work with you to create the exact atmosphere you desire. The Rococo Theatre, situated in downtown Lincoln at 13th & P, is a renovated venue featuring 1920's Italian decor with modern amenities. Our dance floor, stage, audio, visual, and lighting capabilities are unmatched in the Midwest.

The Ridnour Room

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

402.397.8000 ✦ 909 South 107th Avenue ✦ Omaha, NE 68114 www.regencylodge.com

Quality at an affordable price! The Ridnour Room provides an extremely elegant atmosphere on the first floor of the Apothecary Building in the Heart of Lincoln’s Historic Haymarket. When you reserve the Ridnour Room, you receive the flexibility to choose your own food and beverage caterers – or host the food and beverages yourself. Call now to see Lincoln’s best kept secret!

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

350 Y N

Regency Lodge

Varies Y

402.944.6004 ✦ 16600 Quarry Oaks Drive ✦ Ashland, NE 68003 www.QuarryOaks.com

285 Y Y

$7 +

Distinctive surroundings…Extraordinary events! From the ceremony to the reception, enjoy exceptional accommodations in a unique atmosphere. Located in west central Omaha, we can accommodate up to 300 guests and provide you with all the amenities necessary to ensure a successful event. Some of these amenities include: professional wedding coordinator; complimentary whirlpool suite for bride and groom; reduced guestroom rates for guests.

Quarry Oaks Golf Club

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

402.963.9950 ✦ 12101 Deer Creek Drive ✦ Omaha NE 68142 www.playersclubomaha.com

Indoor/outdoor ceremonies, rehearsal dinners, wedding receptions, seating for up to 200 guests, and an ideal location between Lincoln & Omaha…we invite you to our unique clubhouse, surrounded by the nature and beauty of our spectacular 18-hole golf course. With fabulous menu choices, exemplary service, and the most beautiful scenery in eastern Nebraska, your wedding event will be a truly unique occasion.

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Catering Price Per Person

The Players Club

Varies N

402.342.1403 ✦ 1403 Farnam Street ✦ Omaha NE 68102 www.paxtonballroom.com

200 Y N

N N

An unforgettable event...The Player’s Club invites you to host your wedding, reception, rehearsal dinner or bridal shower here at our spacious, state-of-the-art, full-service clubhouse. With seating up to 350 in our newly expanded dining room we are pleased to offer you first-rate accommodations with the finest amenities.

The Paxton Ballroom

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

402.423.2222 ✦ 56th & Highway 2 ✦ Lincoln, NE 68516 theparthenon@aol.com ✦ www.theparthenon.net

The elegant Paxton Ballroom is perfectly suited for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, business meetings, holiday parties, social or charitable functions and any type of private event. This historic building was restored to its original grandeur in 2007. Make your next event memorable at the Historic Paxton Ballroom.

300 seated Room Rental Fee Maximum Capacity Y Ceremony Site Outdoor Site N Outside Caterers Welcome Ad Page Number

50-105 Y N

Rococo Theatre Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

500 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Call for rates Catering Price Per Person N Call for rates 72

402.476.6540 ✦ 140 N 13th Street ✦ Lincoln, NE www.rococotheatre.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

The Sandhills Convention Center – it’s simply the best place for your wedding reception. Let us help you create the perfect atmosphere for your special day. We offer an on-site wedding consultant to coordinate all the details, a complimentary Whirlpool Honeymoon Suite with champagne for the bride and groom, and special room rates for guests, along with many other amenities. Call our wedding consultant today!

Your Details… Our Specialty - Scott Conference Center is the ideal backdrop for an unforgettable reception. We’ll handle the details so you can enjoy your special day. Beautiful, versatile space for 50-500 guests; professional staff on-site from planning to cleanup; culinary-trained kitchen professionals; customized packages to fit any budget; specialized customer service and so much more…

Sandhills Convention Center

Scott Conference Center

700 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

$450-$1400 Catering Price Per Person N $14.95 + 48

308.532.9090 ✦ 2102 S. Jeffers Street ✦ North Platte, NE 69101 www.sandhillcc.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

$525-$1050 Catering Price Per Person Y $9.95 + 62

402.554.3368 ✦ 67th and Dodge Streets ✦ Omaha, NE 68182 www.thethompsoncenter.org

Varies

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

400 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

$600 + Y

Catering Price Per Person

$17.95 +

402.896.1323 ✦ 10302 S. 168th Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68136 www.tiburongolf.com

on-site for set up through clean up of your reception; experienced culinary team; complimentary experienced bartenders.

Located 10 minutes from Lincoln, Tower Hall is the perfect place to celebrate your wedding! Offering onsite catering & bartending, plus clean up afterwards, is always our job. Our clean, 450 capacity facility has a large private parking lot. Weekend & winter rates are available. We offer a separate room for food preparation and serving, a large dance floor, linens, and a decorations room.

Tip Top Ballroom

Tower Hall

700 N N

Room Rental Fee Call for rates Catering Price Per Person N Outdoor Site $16.95 + Ad Page Number 67

402.334.5446 ✦ 1502 Cuming Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68102 www.brandeiscatering.com

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

$500-$1250 Catering Price Per Person Y $13.95 + 62

402.472.4237 ✦ 1520 R Street ✦ Lincoln, NE 68501 www.HuskerAlum.com

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies Y

Catering Price Per Person

Call for rates

Yankee Hill Country Club features spacious rooms with beautiful golf course views. We have rooms of all sizes ~ perfect for any of your event needs. Our experienced staff will work with you to customize your event, making it everything you have imagined. Included amenities are linens, table settings, centerpieces, dance floor, bar services, an array of menus; all while overlooking a stunning golf course.

Wick Alumni Center 300 Y N

450 Y N

402.432.3807 or 402.432.9457 ✦ Luke and Karen French-Owners towerhallmalcom@aol.com ✦ www.towerhall.net

Come visit the Pascale Great Hall in the Wick Alumni Center. Our reception hall features stunning, awardwinning architecture, with a 55-foot vaulted ceiling and twin stairways rising to the unique second-level mezzanines. With a capacity of 300, it’s perfect for receptions, dinners, or special events. We feature superb full-service catering and professional event planning.

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Catering Price Per Person

Tiburon Golf Club

The Tip Top Ballroom is located north of downtown on 15th & Cuming in the new “NoDo” area of Omaha. The Grand Ballroom is the perfect location for your memorable wedding reception. Amenities that are part of our wedding package: professional staff

Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

Varies N

Tiburon Golf Club is perfect for wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, bridal showers, and other special occasions. From the time you first enter the grand lobby until the last song of the night, our professional staff will be waiting to assist you. We can customize the perfect menu for your evening, along with bar service to accommodate your needs. Leave the worrying to us so you can enjoy every moment of your special day!

The Thompson Center at UNO 400 Y N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

402.778.6317 ✦ 6450 Pine Street ✦ Omaha, NE 68106 khayes@scott-center.com

Celebrate your special day at Omaha’s premiere wedding and reception site – The Thompson Center at UNO. Our elegant yet affordable facility accommodates as many as 400 guests, is beautifully decorated, is centrally located, and is perfect for outdoor weddings, receptions, and prenuptial dinners. Experienced event planners and caring staff will attend to every detail. Ask about Friday night, Sunday, and UNO alumni discounts! Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

500 Y N

Yankee Hill Golf Course Maximum Capacity Ceremony Site Outside Caterers Welcome

40-350 N N

Room Rental Fee Outdoor Site Ad Page Number

Varies N

Catering Price Per Person

$10.95 +

402.488.3900 ✦ 7600 San Mateo Drive ✦ Lincoln, NE 68516 www.yankeehillcc.com

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A Classic

Your best man just finished his third toddy

Toast By Kelly Krause

Relax. Whether you’re celebrating a traditional wedding or not, wedding speeches and toasts are great ways to set an informal and relaxing tone for the rest of the evening. After all, the ceremony is over and it’s time to cut loose.

Who do I toast? It was once thought that brides and grooms only toasted one another; however, today’s couples are thoughtfully considerate to publicly toasting others that are closely involved in the wedding. The most important people to toast are: Best Man, Groomsman, Groom, Maid of Honor, Bridesmaid, Bride and the parents of the Bride and Groom.

What order should I toast? Traditionally, the order is as follows: 1. Toast to the bride (from the best man, a family member, or friend) 2. Toast to the bride and groom 3. Groom’s response (first to the bride, next to thank the first toaster, then both sets of parents, and finally the bridesmaids) 4. Others (words from ushers or close friends) 5. Father of the bride (he makes the last remarks, thanks everyone for coming, and announces that the festivities are ready to begin). Nontraditionally, the order is as follows: 1. Emcee toasts the newlyweds 2. Groom thanks the Emcee, guests, and the bride

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at dinner and he’s starting to get a little crazy. Right before he eats his cake, he remembers he needs to make his toast. Uh-oh! You’re starting to worry because Aunt Betty and the rest of the family aren’t ready to hear what he may have to say. A best man with a few drinks and a microphone is sure to send the bride and possibly the family into shock. What do you do?

3. Bride thanks the groom, guests, and both sets of parents 4. Father of the bride toasts the bride and thanks everyone for coming, then announces that the festivities are ready to begin

How long is a toast? A classic toast is only about 2 lines and 30 seconds, but if you are really close to the bride or groom or have a great story, go ahead and go longer. But remember that others are waiting to speak too.

Is there a proper way to Toast? First, make sure that all glasses are filled before toasting. Next, raise your glass with your right hand and be sure that the glass is held straight from the shoulder. According to weddingbells.com, when toasting first began, it was not unusual to find a sword, dagger, or other weapon in the right hand or concealed in the clothing, and the traditional toasting position proved that you had come in friendship. Making noise by clinking glasses together was thought to frighten evil spirits away.

mean the most. What better opportunity to thank those who mean the most to you in front of everyone; and what better way to get your audience to laugh, cry, smile, and applaud? Words to the wise: Keep the drinking to a minimum before a toast so you don’t offend anyone or embarrass yourself.

Where do I start? Every great toast should have a good opening and closing. You should think of funny stories or meaningful moments, like the first time you met the person. Before you go through mountains of scratch paper in preparing your speech, here are a few websites to jumpstart your toast writing process: 1. http://quotations.about.com. Need a great quote or a jumpstart to the perfect speech? This website has tons to choose from.

What drinks do you toast with?

2. www.instantweddingtoasts.com. This website offers everything you need, from customized speeches, inspiring speech openers and closers, fill in the blank speech templates, and even a professional speech review of your speech.

Any drink such as wine, champagne, mixed concoctions, or nonalcoholic mixed drinks are suitable for a toast. You should never toast with tea, coffee, or water.

3. www.theperfecttoast.com. This is a custom toast service that is perfect for those who know what they want to say, but can’t think of how to say it.

What should I say? Whether you are the maid of honor, the bride, the groom, or a family member, a heartfelt message will

So sit back and let your best man have a few drinks before he begins to speak. After all, if he’s read this guide to a classic toast, you’ll have nothing to worry about! NWD

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2011

Color Forecast

Whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s hot in 2011? Look for bright hues to make a comeback and earth tones to hit center stage. With the help of PantoneÂŽ, we narrow down some of our favorite colors and combos.

Honeysuckle

Coral Rose

Silver Peony

Peapod

Regatta

Tyrian Purple

Moccasin

Gray Taupe

Brick Red

Olivine Green

Deep Blue

Dark Chocolate

Tyrian Purple

& Oyster Gray

& Olivine Green

& Pear

Silver Peony

Coral Rose

& Silver Cloud

& Beeswax

Geoff Johnson, Photographer

Sammons Photography

Melenbacker Photography

jhd photography

cakes and catering

Sweet Treats

fun Alternatives to Wedding Cake By Holly Lafferty

If the traditional wedding cake isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t your style, fear not â&#x20AC;&#x201C; there are plenty of ideas for desserts and treats to serve your guests, whether you want something fun-sized or something interactive. Here are some tasty trends to get your guests salivating.

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Miniature pies: Have your baker whip up different

this is a great way to feature it. Most Nebraska cake

flavors of mini pies. Make sure to include an option

artists offer cupcakes at prices comparable to cakes,

on your RSVP card (alongside the typical “chicken

so you won’t have to sacrifice taste for price.

or fish” checkbox) for guests to select their favorite

Bite-size (mini) cakes: More and more couples are

flavors. This would fit in perfectly at an outdoor or

choosing this option. It’s a takeoff on the cupcake trend;

rustic wedding.

there are a lot of cool decorative things you can do with

Cupcakes: Who doesn’t love a cupcake? If you have a monogram or other design theme in your wedding,

mini-cakes as well. Have your baker stack them artfully for a striking arrangement.

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Liqueur Cakes: A tasty option for any season, dessert liqueur cakes are a unique and affordable alternative

organized in unique cookie jars and be sure to provide plenty of frosting!

to the traditional wedding cake. Local bakeries like the

Caramel apples: This idea is particularly fun for an

Beatrice Bakery Company specialize in these delicious

outdoor summer wedding. You can go the extra mile

desserts.

of bagging them with a custom monogram, note or Bible

Table cakes: Instead of one big wedding cake, consider having a smaller cake made for each table. Bonus:

verse and then tying them up with a ribbon. Who doesn’t love caramel apples in the summertime?

They can serve as unique centerpieces! Find cool cake

Cornbread: Yes, you read that right. Have mini jars

stands and include flowers so they really become a

of honey available for your guests at their tables and

prominent part of the décor.

serve cornbread for a down-home wedding theme. Com-

Ice cream sundaes or Banana splits: Make sure you

plete the day with square-dancing and a bluegrass band.

have all kinds of candy and other toppings on hand and

Candy: There are tons of different candy options out

let your guests’ inner junk food junkie escape. You can

there. Set up a candy bar filled with Jolly Ranchers and

also get creative with the way the ice cream is

Reese’s Pieces, serve huge sheets of homemade

served–offer it to your guests in old-fashioned soda

peanut brittle or offer personalized bags of M&Ms.

glasses or a Mason jar.

Cheesecake: If your mouth waters just reading that

Cookie decorating: Let your guests use their imag-

word, a cheesecake might be the right choice for your

ination and decorate their own sugar cookie. If you

wedding. Go the table cake route and make a cheese-

really want to make a statement, check out

cake the centerpiece for each table, or serve them by

www.downtowndough.com for a huge selection of

the slice–it’s your call. Be extra-nice and offer a fruit

cookie cutters or to order your own custom cookie

bar (blueberries, cherries, strawberries, yum!) for

cutters. Have a desert table set up with the cookies

your guests to add their favorite topping.

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Reception Timeline You think you have your whole day

the wedding party, the maid of

• This timeline covers a 4-hour time

planned out, down to the last detail.

honor/best man and then the

period with your DJ or band,

Then it happens…the wedding party

bride and groom, in that order.

which is typical. If you want a

is introduced at the reception, followed

(You should plan this time out

longer dance, you may want to

by cheers, followed by an awkward

with your DJ or band ahead of

book your music for 5 hours to

silence. What happens next? You

time – give them a list of names

avoid paying overtime fees the

have a list of things that are supposed

and the song you want playing

night of. Keep this in mind with

when you enter.)

the photographer and caterer as

to happen at some point, but what happens when? Strong communica-

7:10 PM (1-1/2 hours): Dinner or buffet.

tion with your DJ or band is the key

8:25 PM (5 minutes): Toast by best

to how smoothly your reception will

man and maid of honor (this can

well. Make sure everyone is on the same page. • When it comes time to serve the

go. This handy guide will help you plan

come before or after dinner).

food, the wedding party gets

your reception down to the last detail

8:30 PM (15 minutes): Cutting of the

their food first, followed by the

so you can avoid those embarrassing

cake (some photographers ask

bride’s parents’ table, then the

moments.

that you do this prior to dinner,

groom’s parents’ table. Plan

so check with them).

ahead what order you want to

6:00 PM (First hour): One of the most frustrating things for guests

8:45 PM (5 minutes): Bride and

is arriving at a reception and

groom’s first dance.

waiting 2-1/2 hours for the wed-

8:50 PM (5-10 minutes):

ding party to show up. Of course

Father/daughter, mother/son

you may want to drive around in

dances (together or separately).

release the tables in and have someone prepared to release the tables. • Have someone (usually the bride and groom’s parents) designat-

the limo for a bit, celebrating and

9:00 PM (1/2 hour): Open dancing.

ed to gather up the bride and

getting some pictures, but don’t

9:30 PM (15-30 minutes): Bou-

groom’s belongings at the end of

take more than an hour to get to

quet and garter toss, in what-

the reception. During this time,

ever order you prefer.

have hors d’oeuvres and cocktails available for guests. They’ll be a

10:00 PM (55 minutes): Open dancing again.

the night. • Having hors d’oeuvres out after the meal for guests to snack on is always appreciated.

lot happier waiting if there are

10:55 PM (5 minutes): Last dance.

• Keep the guest book in clear view

food and drinks.

11:00 PM: Say your goodbyes, and

at the reception (a good location

7:00 PM (5-10 minutes): Introduce

be on your way!

is usually the gift table).

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What’s Cooking?

Creative Menu Options for Your Event By Kristen Castillo

Wedding food can be predictable and boring, but that’s so passé. You want appetizers, entrees and desserts that are full of interest, texture, taste and style. With so much to plan for your wedding, crafting a custom menu may seem like a lot to consider. But getting creative with your menu is easier than you think.

reverse reception, which features an open bar, tray passed hors d’oeuvres, a food station before the ceremony, and then the cake and champagne toast. How to serve food is becoming a focal point too.

From drinks to food, your reception can show-

Catering professionals say plated dinners still

case your style. One way to be different? Follow the

account for the majority of wedding receptions, with

trend of a couple who wanted a Mobster energy drink

buffets and appetizer receptions filling out the rest

toast instead of a champagne toast at their wedding.

of the requests. Many couples want “mini-entrees”, such as finger

Trends Weddings tend to have a tried-and-true formula – ceremony, cocktails, dinner and reception. Nowadays, that formula is getting mixed up. Consider a

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foods and items that can be eaten just with a fork. Some popular mini-entrees include lobster bisque in a shot glass, crab cakes or miniature pizzas. Another popular food trend is a late night snack,

which is typically served after the

will accommodate those guests

rice pilaf. For trendy vegetable

guests have been dancing. Some ideas

and your meal will be a hit.

side dishes, consider creamed

for this snack: cookies and milk or sliders and milkshakes. Yum!

spinach, grilled asparagus, stuffed

Breaking Tradition Standard wedding fare includes

Vegetarian

Roma tomatoes or grilled vegetable kabobs.

chicken or beef with a salad and a

The willingness to try something

Not everyone craves meat. In

side dish, but brides, grooms and

new can result in a tasty dish

fact, many couples and their guests

caterers want something more

that’s sure to please you and your

want vegetarian and vegan food at

distinctive.

wedding guests.

the wedding. In the past, vegetar-

Whether you punch up the

ian meals were simple dishes, but

décor to kick-start the party or

now that many more guests order

serve up a new take on an old

Whether you serve Mexican fare,

a veggie option, caterers are ready

favorite, you can use your reception

Italian favorites or Asian delicacies,

to prepare amazing meat-free

as a chance to do something dif-

your wedding menu can reflect your

options. Think ravioli with pesto

ferent and wow your taste buds at

food preferences.

sauce, grilled vegetables and bas-

the same time.

mati rice.

Ethnic Eats

Consider foods that will be

For example, side dishes are get-

appealing to your guests even if

Brides and grooms are also

ting lots of attention. Couples are

they’re a bit out of a guest’s com-

more aware of the dietary needs of

opting for delicious accompani-

fort zone. Offer variety and make

their guests, including allergies to

ments, including three-cheese au

sure you have foods with varying

foods like nuts, shellfish and gluten.

gratin potatoes; polenta; red pota-

levels of spiciness. It’s your wedding,

Incorporate menu selections that

toes; mashed potatoes; risotto and

but you don’t want to alienate your

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family and friends over a few food choices. Most cultures enjoy the same basic foods like rice, pasta, meats and vegetables – only the presentation is different. Celebrate these foods in a variety of ways. Consider serving raw sushi as an appetizer and cooked fish like salmon or halibut as an entree. Offer a south-of-theborder dish like chicken fajitas at one food station and roast chicken at separate carving station. Serve penne pasta to honor your Italian heritage or dish out teriyaki noodles as a nod to your Asian culture.

Desserts Wedding cake is a must-have for most brides, but that doesn’t mean the sweet fun ends at the cake table. You can set up another sweets station filled with candies, cookies, chopped fruit and delicious drinks like flavored coffees and teas. Get creative by offering non-traditional treats like crème brulée, puddings, Shane & Sunny Photography

cheesecakes and tarts. Encourage guests to get interactive with chocolate fountains – they can enjoy dipping marshmallows and fruits into white or milk chocolate bliss. Let your sweet tooth and your imagination guide your dessert tastes. Don’t forget presentation counts, so add in flowers, candles and lighting to make your dessert station something special. Remember that while a creative menu is good, it needs to be appealing and recognizable to your wedding guests. Whatever you choose to eat, make sure you love your choice and use menu cards to tell your guests what’s for dinner. They’ll appreciate knowing what to expect and why you chose the foods on the menu.

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Pre-Wedding

Celebrations

Parties & Fun Before the Big Day

By Kristen Castillo

Your big day is your focal point. Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re all about finding the right cake, choosing the perfect invitations, learning your first dances and figuring out which signature drink to serve. Your party planning is very time-consuming. While the wedding day tends to get the most attention, youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve got many other parties to look forward to and enjoy. NWD breaks down what you need to know about each event;

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Engagement Party

informal and all about having a

at this party, which can be girls-only

The Event: It’s probably the

good time. Appetizers and cocktails

or Jack & Jill style (where men and

earliest pre-wedding celebration

are staples of engagement parties;

women attend). If you have a pref-

you’ll enjoy. The engagement party

so order up some hot and cold

erence for one type of party over

is a chance to share the news of

snacks; host an open bar and have

another, tell your maid of honor

your upcoming nuptials. This easy-

a fun evening.

before she makes plans. What’s Included: Bridal showers

going party is relaxed and happy. Host: This one’s a toss-up. Some-

Bridal Shower

can be fairly traditional, which

times brides and grooms pay for the

The Event: This gathering is all

means you and your guests could

party; other times the bride or

about making sure you and your

be playing games for prizes. You’ll

groom’s family hosts the event.

groom are ready to set up house.

open

Styles, menus and prices vary from

For this, you’ve registered for appli-

through the party and all the while

party to party. Prices tend to start

ances, silverware, linens and house-

guests usually have lunch, simple

at about $15-20 a person for dinner.

hold knickknacks. Now kick back

cocktails and nibble a congratula-

Guest List: Invite your social cir-

and enjoy the company of your fam-

tory cake. Menu prices usually start

cle, including family, friends and

ily and friends as you prepare to

at $10-15.

even co-workers. Expect to include

become a Mrs.

about 50 people. This is a night to

Host: The maid or matron of

celebrate, so be sure to include

honor typically hosts the bridal

guests who you know will have a

shower.

great time! What’s Included: The party is

presents

about

halfway

Bachelor & Bachelorette Parties The Event: Men receive bache-

Guest List: You’ll see everyone from

lor parties while women relish

your grandma to your co-workers

bachelorette parties. Both parties are ways to let loose, enjoy your friends and spend a night on the town. Men often go out for drinks, a game of cards or pool, or attend a sporting event. Ladies often pamper themselves with a spa party and cocktails. For guys and girls, things can get rowdy and racy. Chat with your guy about your expectations for his good time and your good time during your respective parties. There’s no need to get upset with each other, especially so close to the wedding. Host: Members of the wedding party usually pay for the bride and groom’s respective parties. Guest List: You’ll hang out with your wedding party, close friends and siblings. The smaller the group, the better time you’re likely to have. What’s Included: Your party is a highly customizable event that can include drinks, dinner and dancing. You may choose to stay in for the

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party – rent a luxurious hotel room

the smaller the lunch, the better –

and rock the night away – or head

you’ll really enjoy spending time

Since the dinner can be informal

out. Take the party on the road to

with a close-knit group of girls

or formal, price ranges vary great-

cut loose at bars and clubs. Don’t

instead of feeling pressured to

ly. Check with your rehearsal dinner

forget to have a designated driver

mingle with a big guest list.

venue for the most up-to-date

and a safe ride home!

Bridal Luncheon

What’s Included: Bridal lunch-

to host the rehearsal dinner.

pricing.

eons are usually informal and fea-

Guest List: A rehearsal dinner is

ture a light meal like salads, fruits

usually a small event with a limited

The Event: This intimate gath-

and sandwiches. Expect to savor a

guest list. The average guest list

ering is all about showing your love

tasty drink or two like champagne,

is under 50 people, but it can be

and appreciation for the ladies in

sangrias or martinis.

larger too.

Rehearsal Dinner

bers of the wedding party and their

your wedding party and all other women in your life whom you

Invite your immediate family, mem-

treasure. The lunch is usually held

The Event: The rehearsal dinner

a few weeks or a few days before

is traditionally celebrated the night

What’s Included: This mellow

the wedding. You’ll enjoy a light

before the big day. In recent times,

party is fun and tasteful. Guests usu-

lunch and lots of girl-time.

there’s been some flexibility with the

ally enjoy yummy food, delicious

guests, and all out-of-town guests.

Host: The bride hosts this lunch-

schedule, allowing the dinner to be

drinks and the opportunity to meet

eon as a way to thank all the mem-

held anytime during the week of the

and greet others, including out-of-

bers of the bridal party. You won’t

wedding. However, most often this

town guests and people from the

break your wedding budget either

dinner is held after the wedding

other side of the wedding party.

– prices for lunches run about $10

rehearsal, the trial run of the cere-

The groom’s guests may be

per person.

mony. Pick the venue you want to

meeting the bride’s guests for the

showcase your style.

first time, so use this dinner as a

Guest List: This “ladies only” luncheon includes all the women

Host: The majority of the time,

who will be a part of your wedding

the groom’s family pays for the

No matter what the pre-wedding

day such as your bridesmaids, your

rehearsal dinner. That’s because tra-

celebration, you’ll be the center of

sister, your mother, your mother-in-

ditionally the bride’s family pays for

attention. So buy a few new outfits;

law and any other females who are

the wedding. These days, many

freshen your hair and lipstick; and get

close family or friends. Once again,

brides and grooms are pitching in

ready to be the life of the party.

chance to forge friendships.

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Special Touches

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10 Trends in Wedding Rentals By Kristen Castillo

Your wedding is your chance to shine. Naturally you want every detail to

be sophisticated and personalized. With a little imagination and help from wedding professionals, your reception plans will shape up quickly. The result? A stylish and special event.

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1. Classic Colors. You can’t go wrong with black and white. This classic look is very streamlined and stylish; it’s also easy to match. Many couples are sticking with timeless wedding colors like black and white, which are ideal when it comes to rentals, since nearly every rental item is available in these two simple colors. This streamlined color combination is particularly dramatic with basic reception décor elements like chairs, tablecloths and napkins. Use flowers for a pop of color amidst the black and white theme. 2. Customization. Not every wedding element is rentable off-therack, so to speak. Some items are custom ordered. Luckily, that’s not the hassle you’d think it might be. Work with a rental company to place an order on a custom project. Remember custom jobs take more time and often cost more than instock rental items. Still, custom items are made-toorder and will fit your specifications so your event can be all you want it to be. In many cases, rental prices for custom items aren’t too expensive if the rental company agrees to rent the items again. That way you’ll be the first client to use a rental product, but you won’t have to pay all the costs that you would if you had to foot the bill for a custom project you had to keep. 3. Lace is back. It’s a classy fabric that’s both traditional and sexy. Now lace is back on the wedding scene. Lace overlays on cream or white are popular looks. Lace helps set the mood for a romantic event. Use it sparingly to create a luxe look without overdoing the trend.

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4. Budget-Conscious Brides. Don’t let finances ruin your wedding plans or your décor. You can be a budgetconscious bride and still pull off a memorable reception. One way to save money but not skimp on style is to use flowers in season, such as tulips in spring. Another idea is to approach your vendors and ask for budget help. Most of the time, your vendors will want to work with you to make your event the best it can be, no matter what the budget dictates. Getting those important elements may mean cutting back on extras like plate chargers or over-thetop centerpieces, but it’s all a balancing act to make sure each couple gets what they want without too much sacrifice. 5. Lounging Around. Not everyone enjoys dancing the night away. Your guests will be happy if you have a lounge area for them to kick back and relax in during the reception. Lounge areas can be large (seating for up to 40 guests) or small (seating for six to eight people). Choose a lounge setup that works for your guest list, but remember you don’t need a comfy chair for every guest. Not everyone will want to sit in the lounge, so a simple setup that offers an opportunity to hang out is all you need. There are many lounge choices to consider, including cabanas for a poolside retreat; a mix and match of sofas and chairs; and benches and ottomans. Pick a style that suits your taste and the mood of your party. 6. Color, Color, Color. You don’t have to be so traditional about color. Go for vibrant tones like purples, greens and even hot pink. Some of the hottest wedding hues are shades of plum, purple and berry. These berry colors work throughout the year, especially during the fall. Jewel tones such as rust, rose and purple are trendy. Luckily, lots of rental items from linens to chair covers are available in these colors. 7. Everything’s Aglow. Glowing furniture like tables, chairs and bars might sound tacky, but think again. Done right, it’s very stylish. So go ahead and go for the glow. Lit centerpieces are a hit, especially if you want to impress your guests. Lights can be added to flower arrangements, tables and other décor elements to add a warm glow to the event. For a bolder look, go for a lighted dance floor, lighted fabric columns and lighted acrylic end tables. A range of color choices are available, including blue,

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green and pink. For example, a rectangular coffee table lit up in blue adds a hip, fresh look. Your guests will feel like they’re hitting a hot club for a night on the town. Other options include lighted mirrors and lit up sculpture pieces such as cubes and pyramids. They’re colorful and certainly a conversation piece for you and your party guests. 8. Sophisticated Chairs. You had never thought so much about chairs until you started planning your wedding. Now you’re overwhelmed with all the chair choices. One of the most popular options is the Chivari chair, which is an elegant-looking framed chair with openings between slats. The chairs come in an array of colors such as gold, white and black. They’re also easy to embellish with cushions and other decorations. 9. A Return to Comfort. Many people are reaching out for touches of home and all things that are comfortable and familiar. Texture on the tables is big. Consider using crushed fabric in the décor and adding chargers to dress up plating. Another comfortable choice involves the wedding venue. Home weddings and park weddings are back because they’re different from standard ceremonies and receptions and they’re cozy for couples and their guests. 10. Small Details. Little touches go a long way. Spending a few extra dollars to dress up your reception tables will be well worth the expense. Embellishments like sparkly gems, fabric and feathers can add interest to table settings. Even peacock feathers and ostrich feathers can be used in moderation in bouquets and centerpieces for a bit of texture. Don’t miss an opportunity to showcase your event. Embracing the little details like napkins and thank-you notes will make a memorable impression on your guests. Chair covers are another way to dress up a simple chair. Check out the chair cover selections rental companies have to offer. Wedding trends come and go, but creating a memorable wedding ceremony and reception has staying power. Look for and use special touches to make your party stand out from others. You won’t regret going big on style with small details like chair covers and centerpieces. It’s these design elements that make or break your wedding, so don’t hold back.

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Putting the

Fun in Your Function Tips From An Expert

By Holly Lafferty

When you’re planning your wedding, no one tells you that all of your hard

work and effort could fall flat with guests when party time comes. However, keeping your guests engaged and entertained during your reception is not an easy feat. It’s truly a fine art best left to the experts. That’s why NWD thought it would be a good idea to get some tricks of the trade from Wedding Entertainment Director™ Peter Merry. Trust us; your guests will thank you! If you really want your reception to be a hit with

social calendar for ideas. “I ask my brides and grooms

guests, consider lightening things up a little. One of the

how they define ‘fun’,” he says. “Do they enjoy taking

most important components of a wedding reception

short, spontaneous vacations; spending their weekends

is also one of the most neglected: FUN. Most brides

by the pool working on their tans; or jumping out of

spend the majority of their time worrying about every-

a plane with a parachute? Inspiration needs to come

thing being coordinated perfectly. In the midst of all

from how they understand fun and how they would pic-

that planning, “fun” can get lost in the mix.

ture their wedding. For some couples, that’s lots of danc-

Merry offers some great tips to help you find the

ing. For other couples, it involves a lot of personal

inspiration to make your wedding fun. “When it

interaction with their guests. When they picture their

comes to inspiration to create the fun in a reception,

personalities, it will help them determine which way they

I point brides toward their families,” he says. “What kind

want to go.”

of things did their families do to have fun? Were there

Merry remembers one couple in particular who did

certain games, movies, or traditions that were special

a great job creating a fun, personal moment at their

memories? That’s one of the first places a bride should

reception. “A couple I worked with who loved board

start, because your family is the core of who you are.”

games decided that when guests were tapping their

Merry also suggests searching through your own

glasses to make them kiss, they would instead choose

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a random person to come up and play an impromptu

the same song whenever they went out. At his recep-

version of Password. If that person guessed the right

tion, the groom and his friends all climbed onto stage

word, the couple would kiss. If that person got it wrong,

and sang a song by the Drop-Kick Murphies. “It was a

he or she would have to do some type of kissing activ-

really funny moment for the guests to see how the groom

ity. Even the words they chose were personal to

and his friends liked to have a good time,” he says.

them…the guests were laughing hysterically!”

Another popular way for brides to find resources

Merry recalls another couple that wanted to do some-

for their reception is through YouTube. Merry suggests

thing a little different for their reception meal. “Their

typing in “best wedding dance”, “best first dance”, “best

favorite restaurant was In-N-Out Burger, a popular

wedding toast”, or a similar phrase to get creative ideas

Southern California burger chain. So after the guests

that you may not have thought of before. Many cou-

had finished their salads, we asked them to guess what

ples these days are putting different snippets of their

the meal was,” he explains.

wedding ceremonies and receptions on YouTube, so you

“Then the In-N-Out burger staff came out in their uni-

should have plenty of examples to help you brainstorm.

forms with the In-N-Out jingle playing in the background.

Once you’ve thought of the personal details you want

We tried to make it a surprise, sort of an ‘Extreme Home

included at your reception, you should focus on find-

Makeover – move that bus’ sort of thing, and it was a huge

ing the right person to help you carry them out. If you

hit with guests! The couple saved a lot of money on their

have a great MC, he or she should be able to help you

food budget; and they also had their favorite meal, so it

pull off just about anything you desire. Merry stresses

was a perfect choice for them,” he says.

the importance of finding a qualified MC, particularly

The bride and groom can even choose to entertain

in the instance that something should go wrong. “The

the guests themselves. Merry remembers a groom with

bride needs to choose someone who has a lot of expe-

several friends that liked to get up as a group and sing

rience in helping to develop an entertainment agenda – someone who will listen to their ideas and what they want to create. That person should go out of their way to create the energy the bride wants,” he says. The importance of having a qualified MC is heightened when something goes wrong, which is usually inevitable even at the best-planned wedding. Merry remembers a wedding where the bride and groom had planned a centerpiece giveaway game. “They had hidden a penny under one plate at each table, and the person who had the penny under their plate would receive the centerpiece as a gift. I was going to play ‘Pennies from Heaven’ by Billie Holiday,” he recalls. “Unfortunately, after everyone ate their salads, they got up and danced before the entree was served. Since everyone was dancing, the staff cleared the bread plates so there was nothing to hide the pennies. “I was trying frantically to think of some way to come up with a new game, and I decided to announce to the guests what had happened. I said I needed a new idea for a centerpiece giveaway and asked them to close their eyes and send me their best thoughts. I turned on ‘Pennies from Heaven’ and when they opened their eyes, they noticed a penny sitting in front of one person at each table. To them, it seemed the pennies had almost appeared by magic, because they hadn’t been looking for them before,” he laughs.

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While not all MCs may be able to think on their feet

• “When you’re watching the video, take note of how

as quickly as Merry, there are plenty of MCs available

the MC is referring to the bride and groom. Is he call-

in Nebraska that should be able to handle any prob-

ing them by their first names, or is he calling them

lems smoothly. Merry suggests you look for the following

the ‘bride and groom’ because he can’t remember

things during consultations with potential MCs:

their names? Is he speaking as though he’s having

• “One of the most important things to ask is if the

a conversation with the guests, or is he speaking as

person you’re meeting with is going to be the same

an ‘over-the-top’ announcer? Looking for these

person on the microphone on your wedding day,”

behaviors will help you determine if this person has

Merry says. “Many entertainment companies have a

the capability to communicate on your behalf to your

stable of entertainers. You may meet someone you

guests,” Merry explains.

feel a good connection with, but if it’s in the con-

• “Look for someone that has the background to help

tract that he can substitute for a different entertainer,

you create the best flow,” Merry offers. “If they have

it can lead to a very generic and disconnected feel-

a lot of experience, they will have learned from their

ing on your wedding day.”

mistakes and will be a better MC for you.

• “Ask to see actual video footage of that person on

“I remember a couple that did a fantastic cho-

the mike making important announcements at the

reographed first dance. It got the energy of the entire

wedding. Focus on what’s being said and how it’s

crowd up, and then I followed it with the mother/son

being said. It shows how that person will carry them-

dance, which was a slow song. Just like that, the ener-

selves at your wedding,” he says. “Don’t let him show

gy of the crowd deflated. I learned from that expe-

you footage of people dancing, because you

rience, so the next time I was in a situation like that,

won’t be able to see how he will behave at your

I started off with the parents’ dances and then did

wedding.”

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song, the energy was so great that the guests couldn’t wait to become a part of it and everyone poured out onto the dance floor.” Merry suggests that a truly qualified MC should be able to get the energy of the crowd going from the very start. “Honestly, 98% of the time, if you’re a good MC, you won’t even have to try to get people on the floor.” One key moment that Merry says can start the reception off right is the grand entrance. “It’s something so simple, but if the MC introduces the couple in a way that is humorous, personal and engaging, it will make the guests sit up and laugh and take notice, and that gets the ball rolling for fun later,” he says. Merry also offers some of his favorite ways to create a great grand entrance. “One idea is to pick a different theme song for each person in the bridal party,” he offers. “The bride and groom can make fun of them a little, or choose a song that kind of matches who they are, and that will usually get the guests laughing as the person comes in. “Another thing I like to do is ask the members of the bridal party to hold a little ‘dance contest’ as they enter. I’ll tell them that as they make their way across the dance floor, they should try to put on their best moves and outdo the previous couple. Guests really get into that,” he says. “Sometimes I will introduce each member of the bridal party in a personal way. I’ll bring the group to a staging point and take about 30 seconds to connect each person to the bride and groom as well as talk about some details from his or her life. It could be details like where he or she works, what his or her hobbies are, what his or her favorite sound bite from a movie is, etc.,” he suggests. “Taking the time to do the grand entrance right can set the whole tone of the reception,” he points out. “If your MC recognizes the importance of that, you’re off to a good start.” In reality, there are endless ways you can make your reception fun; it just takes a little extra thought and care. By staying true to your personalities and hiring an entertainer who connects well with you and your guests, chances are good that everyone will be talking about your wedding long after you and your groom are on a plane to Jamaica.

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Peter Merry has been a Wedding Entertainment Director™ since 1992. A recently updated edition of his popular book The Best Wedding Reception…Ever! is now available at bookstores everywhere.

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Dazzling Designs

Local florists re-create famous moments in pop culture Photographer: Melenbacker Photography, Melenbackerphotography.com Location: The Grand Manse Z Place Cards and Menus: Porridge Papers

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Marie Antoinette Romantic Royalty

Table Design & Flowers: Town & Country Floral TownandCountryFloralGretna.com Linens & Chair Covers: Elite Events Rental

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Under the Tuscan Sun Rustic Renaissance

Table Design & Flowers: Petal Creations PetalCreationsWeddings.com China: Elite Events Rental Table Settings, Linens & Chair Covers: Charlene's Bridal & Event Rentals

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Twilight Eternal Passion

Table Design & Flowers: Petal Creations PetalCreationsWeddings.com Tablecloth: Elite Events Rental Table Settings & Chair Covers: Charlene's Bridal & Event Rentals

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Alice in Wonderland Winning Whimsy

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Gone with the Wind Southern Splendor

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flowers and design

Perfect Petals

Finding the right flowers for your big day Tips taken from Stacy Combs of Petal Creations By Chelsea Amundson

You’ve got the date set, venue booked and gown ordered. Next item on your Wedding Planning To-Do List: FLOWERS! Whether you want to whisk away your guest into a fairytale dreamland or let nature’s simple elegance set the tone of your wedding, you’ll need the perfect colors, best blooms and lots of style. A piece of advice: When you know bet-

Flowers are a universal product – a raw

ter, you do better. So as the bride, educate

material that your florist uses to create an

yourself! Read blogs; explore the depth of

arrangement or bouquet that represents your

wedding websites to unveil endless creative

personality and style. The designs of your flo-

ideas; DVR all the fabulous wedding shows

ral arrangements are an expression of emo-

available and be inspired. This is your big day

tion. What kind of emotion do you want your

– do it right! Dream big and envision the wed-

guests to experience at your wedding?

ding you’ve always imagined…then, share it with your florist.

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This brings us to the topic of color and shape. Would you prefer a white bouquet or

flowers and design

If you’re a one with colored blooms? Discuss with your florist how color can work for you or against you. When searching for a color scheme, collect paint swatches from the nearest hardware store and look at how different colors balance one another. Keep in mind that colors that complement your venue will pho-

fashion-forward bride who likes to stay up on the wedding styles, check out NEweddingday.com and visit our blog for and plenty of

latest

current

trends inspiration.

tograph beautifully.

is a longtime wedding flower favorite. Additionally, red is a timeless color and will still look great in your wedding pictures 30 years from now. • If you’re going for a Garden Party theme, encourage your florist to create a design that is unstructured and free-spirited. Greenery is okay. Incorporate earthy colors

Think of your bouquet as the

• If you’re going for fun & playful,

final piece of jewelry you put on

mix and match a combination of

Allow space for movement

before your wedding ring. It should

vibrant colored long-stemmed

and texture. Use unique greener-

go with your gown, body style and

roses, gerbera daisies and tulips.

ies, herbs, peonies, garden roses,

personality. Do you want a cas-

Color combos like pink and

Queen Anne’s lace and tulips to

cading, asymmetrical or round bou-

orange add a playful splash to all

create a beautiful bouquet of

quet? Discuss with your florist not

things white. Bright yellows and

fresh garden goodness for your

only the specific flowers, but also

lime greens are hot colors in 2011

the color, texture and design of your

and would definitely add some

bouquet and floral arrangements.

sass to your bouquet.

and groupings of flowers.

special day. • If you’re a Fairy Tale Princess Bride who’s been swept off her

So what’s your style? Are you

Also, don’t be afraid to incor-

feet by a handsome prince, con-

playful, elegant, outdoorsy, glam-

porate berries, colorful aluminum

gratulations, Cinderella! A beau-

orous or simple? Bring to life the

wire and other unnatural ele-

tiful bouquet with shades of

wedding of your dreams and let

ments into the design of your

pink and ivory calla lilies, orchids,

your personality shine through your

bouquet.

roses and hydrangeas would be

bouquet and floral designs. From

• If you’re a Black Tie Bride, red

perfect for you. Add a splash of

inspiration to reality – imagine the

roses are perfect for you. Their

whimsical romance by incorpo-

possibilities!

pure elegance, rich color and rep-

rating other components such as

Here are some pretty petal and

resentation of love and beauty

feathers, pearls and rhinestones

design suggestions for your big day…

set the tone. No wonder the rose

to your design.

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• If you’re going for an Old Holly-

orchids and dahlias would also

ers wrapped in burlap or copper

wood Glam style, choose deep

make a great combination for

coil will blend with your theme

rich colors and add some glitz in

your big premiere. You’re the star

beautifully. Add curled willow

your arrangements. Red roses

and all eyes should be on you, so

branches and golden wheat into

intertwined with black and white

make sure your floral arrange-

your floral designs to create an

feathers and jewels would create

ments are complementary and

inviting outdoor atmosphere for

a red carpet-worthy bouquet or

don’t take the spotlight.

your guests.

centerpiece for your wedding. Dark burgundy calla lilies,

• If you’re planning a cozy outdoor

Use small tree trunks as vases

wedding, bouquets of wildflow-

for centerpieces and ceremony décor. One advantage to having an outdoor wedding is the natural beauty of the outside environment. Plant potted flowers and bulbs prior to your big day for a soft touch of color to the natural environment. • When princess bride meets lace, you get Vintage Glam! Use understated

colors

such

mauve tones and soft pinks with shades of champagne and buttercream in your floral arrangements. Plush garden roses and fluffy pink peonies make a beautiful bouquet wrapped up pretty with lace, pearls and a family heirloom. • If you’re going for simple elegance, place a single stem of hydrangeas at the dinner table for a purely effortless design. Hydrangeas are beautiful scentless flower shrubs that can stand alone or be grouped with other flowers. Your bridal bouquets and table centerpieces may showcase white irises, tulips, gardenias and daisies as a lovely yet simple floral grouping. It’s not solely about the types of flowers you choose for your wedding; it’s about the design and architectural elements of your arrangements and bouquets as well. Remain true to yourself and your wedding vision and you’re guaranteed to have floral designs that dazzle.

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Photos by Geoff Johnson, Photographer

Event Design

from the Experts By Holly Lafferty

In the last decade, wedding design has become a whole new ballgame. Gone are the days of pretty flowers and matching bridesmaid

gowns being the sum of your wedding décor. Today there are plenty of resources to help inspire a complete wedding design that will wow your guests.

NWD

takes a look at the methods of some of the nation’s top event designers to help you create the day of your dreams.

Be Unexpected Mindy Weiss is a celebrity event planner

trend of including pets in wedding cere-

known for her elegant style. However, her

monies) and providing double-decker buses

strength and popularity lie with her ability

to transport guests from the ceremony.

to include unusual accents that people

Consider doing something unpredictable

wouldn’t expect. For example, when Weiss

during the reception, like playing your

planned Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale’s

favorite movie on a projector screen or serv-

wedding in 2002, she included special

ing pineapple pizza as a main course. It’s sure

touches by having Rossdale’s sheepdog

to make your event stand out in your

escort him down the aisle (kicking off the

guests’ eyes.

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Pay Attention to Detail

big-time clients like Jennifer Lopez and Elton John.

David Tutera is best known for his WE tv show My

Take a cue from Tutera’s scrupulous management

Fair Wedding. Tutera has a reputation for putting his

and focus on the little things in your wedding. Create

stamp on every single element of an event, all the way

a completely unified design and it will surely be noticed

down to the scent. That attention to detail has led to

and appreciated by your guests. Look at Tutera’s emphasis on smell as an example. If you work on incorporating items that will tantalize your guests’ sense of touch and smell in addition to everything they see, it will elevate your event to a whole new level.

Break it Up Maneesh Goyal got his start by impressing someone who worked for P. Diddy; and an event design giant was born. Goyal’s style focuses on modern touches, particularly patterns. Diddy’s Black and White New Year’s Ball in 2001 was Goyal’s signature event – he used contrast and eye-catching patterns to create a memorable effect. Take a page from Goyal’s book by adding visual texture to your event. Incorporate dashes of leopard or zebra print into your table design or create a damask scheme for items like the programs and the cake. Patterns, prints and stark contrasts in color will earn your guests’ admiration.

Focus on the Flowers No matter which details or other elements you include, flowers are still a hugely important part of your big day. New York City planner David Beahm is famous for incorporating bold floral arrangements into his grand events. His style is unique, non-traditional and over-thetop. His love of feathers and feather boas is well-known.

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The main lesson that can be learned from Beahm

Be Organized

is that sometimes bigger is better, especially when it

If your budget is tight and spending $20,000 on

comes to flowers. If you spend a lot of time and money

ornate centerpieces is an impossibility, look for other

on intricate details and luxurious extras but you have

ways to create a special day. Marcy Blum has

puny centerpieces, the “wow” factor you’re looking for

planned events for clients like Billy Joel and the Rock-

may fizzle. Bigger doesn’t have to mean more expen-

afellers. She has earned respect by focusing less on

sive, though – just be creative and think outside the

grand design and more on the mood and flow of an

box when it comes to your floral design.

event.

Be Personal

is well-organized. Have you ever been to an event

Guests will notice if everything runs smoothly and This may seem a bit contradictory if you want a huge,

where the wedding party didn’t show up for the recep-

splashy event, but the key lies in putting together some-

tion until three hours after the ceremony? That’s not

thing that feels intimate. You don’t want your wedding

a good way to start the evening! Having an upbeat

to feel impersonal; you want it to feel warm and wel-

entertainment director and a reasonable amount of

coming. Jo Gartin is a respected event designer who has

time to serve the hors d’oeuvres is paramount to your

made a name for herself as Vogue’s in-house event plan-

guests’ satisfaction. By being thoughtful, you can

ner. She excels at creating events with a personal touch.

ensure that everyone is impressed no matter how

The point is that it’s okay to be lavish as long as you

much you spent on the buffet.

don’t come across as superior. Make something special for

The key to creating what looks like a profession-

your guests’ favors or incorporate vintage knick-knacks into

ally designed event is to combine elements from the

the wedding design. It’s a difficult balance, so look to Gartin

professionals with your own unique ideas. If you do

as a great example of class and creativity personified.

that, the result will definitely be unforgettable.

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Stationery Courtesy of Inkblot

I’ve Been There...

Choosing the Invitations By Amanda Sullivan

At first, my fiancé and I thought we

didn’t care about our wedding invitations or having heavily themed wedding stationery. We just wanted to give our guests something simple with the needed information and call it good. We knew we didn’t want anything fancy, expensive or involved; and we C&J Photography

also knew we didn’t have the time or patience to put something together ourselves. We figured we could find something chic and inexpensive online and that would be that. Of course, things are never that straightforward. When it came down to it, we did care about our invitations. While we didn’t want to spend a lot of time or money on something that–let’s face it–would end up in the trash Amanda & John Sullivan September 25, 2010

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can, we also didn’t want our invitations to look like we didn’t spend a lot of time or money on them. It’s funny how that

works, isn’t it? As such, it took us a long time to find something we both really liked for a reasonable price. For something that was supposed to be a quick item to check off the to-do list, it wound up being much more time-intensive than I expected. We found our beautiful invitations and also found ways to cut costs by creating a card ourselves with the accommodation information, directions and a map. It did take some time, but it was costeffective and we were able to afford nicer invitations this way. If you’re looking for invitations, be sure to check out the vendors listed here in NWD–there are many fantastic designers and printers in the area! Whether you want an extensive wedding stationery suite or simple invitations, here are a few things to keep in mind: • Proofread everything well–and do it more than once! I did, and I still missed something, but I’ll never tell where it was. • Consider having someone else (a parent, for instance) keep track of your RSVPs. There are many ways to handle keeping everyone in the loop, including online RSVP managers that more than one person can access. My mom entered our RSVPs in a spreadsheet that I could also log into so I was able to check on progress. • One thing I wish we had done was assign each invitation/guest/family a number in our master guest list and then number the RSVP cards discreetly somewhere corresponding to the invitation. That way, when an RSVP came back without a name, we could have tracked who it came from by the numbers.

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• If you’re the crafty or graphic design type, making your own invitations can save a lot of money. But sometimes it doesn’t. When making your own invites, make sure the materials you’re using and skills you have really will save money. Paper, printing and fancy supplies can add up very quickly. Also, consider the time factor–sometimes spending a tad more (and in some cases, the same amount) to have someone else do it for you pays off in spades when you have less stress and more time to focus on other things. • If you happen to have a friend or family member who is good at designing and creating invitations, ask them to help you in lieu of giving you a wedding gift. • It’s not necessary to make your invitations the “color” of your wedding, especially if it is a hard color to match. Our colors were difficult to match perfectly; we also couldn’t find any invitations with the accents we liked. Simple black and white invitations are always elegant and can be modern or more traditional based on design and fonts. • Instead of cramming information into the invitation and inserts, consider setting up a wedding homepage on NWD’s website. Include your web address on your save-the-date or invite and direct your guests there to get more information. • If money is tight, it’s not really necessary to send savethe-dates. If you don’t send out save-the-dates, just send your invitations a little sooner. Traditionally, savethe-dates only need to be sent to out-of-town guests who will need to make travel arrangements well in advance and perhaps those old college friends who might not expect to be invited. • Be sure you have the RSVPs due back in enough time for you to finalize your reception plans. We had our deadline a month before the wedding. That way, even those last-minute responders who missed the deadline still sent theirs in well before we needed a final headcount. Also, remember to factor in your RSVP deadline when figuring out when to send out invites. • Even if you go the inexpensive route, there are ways to make the invitations uniquely yours. For instance, since I’m a former English major, we included a literary quote about love on our invitations. We also embossed our address onto the invitation envelopes. Other things you can do: Add a ribbon in your wedding color; include a fun paper clip to keep things together; or make one of the insert cards yourself and be creative!

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Invitation

Do’s & Don’ts By Holly Lafferty

Your invitation will give guests their very first impression about your wedding day – don’t you want it to be a positive one? NWD offers a handy guide to help you avoid any embarrassing gaffes when addressing your invitations.

Do use proper names. Don’t use inappropriate nicknames. Do include the names of minor children you are inviting on the inside envelope. That way there will be no confusion about who you wish to attend.

Don’t forget to specify the dress code. Encourage your guests to dress appropriately for your affair.

Do print your return address on the back flap of the envelope.

Don’t give too much information – there’s no need

to overwhelm the guest. If you have a lot to say, direct them to your wedding website or blog.

Do use sealing wax. The newer brands hold up well in the mail.

Don’t send invitations via email. It will undermine the formality of your wedding.

Do call guests who haven’t RSVPed a week before

the wedding. This will help ensure that you have an accurate count of how many people will be attending.

Don’t invite more people than you can accommo-

date – there’s always a small chance everyone will be able to attend; and you don’t want to be ten meals

short!

Do choose invitations you love –

there are plenty of

beautiful invitations out there at a wide range of prices. You don’t have to cut corners by printing your invitations at Kinko’s!

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bridal fashion

Sammons Photography

I’ve Been There...

Finding Your Gown By Amanda Sullivan

It’s true what they say about finding your wedding dress – when it’s “the one”, you just know. (I guess the same could be said for your

future husband, but that’s another issue entirely!) I had a pretty painless shopping experience when it came to searching for my wedding dress. I figured I would spend all day between several bridal shops putting on dresses, taking them off, agonizing, putting on more dresses, not finding anything I liked, agonizing some more and then finally walking out with nothing and having to make more appointments to try on more dresses elsewhere. (Continued on page 140)

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bridal fashion

Thankfully, my experience was

searching to find the perfect gown.

the latest trends. However, with

nothing like that. I began my hunt

I blew my budget way out of the

that said, try on dresses you

with a pretty good idea of what I was

water, but this was the one case

think you might not like. A gown

looking for. I had a hopeful budget

where I didn’t feel too badly because

you never thought was your style

and didn’t bother to look at many

I wanted something that I loved. I did-

may look totally different on you

things that were way over what I felt

n’t want to look back on my pictures

than expected. You wouldn’t

comfortable spending. I tried on sev-

and wish I’d gotten something else.

want to pass up your dream

eral dresses and found a few that I

Here are some tips that will

really liked. It helped to keep track

hopefully make the dress-shopping

of my top two dresses so I could

process as enjoyable as possible:

dress, now would you? 3. Take a couple of loved ones with you, but not your whole bridal

compare all other dresses to those

1. If you’re going to shop for

gowns. I thought I knew which

gowns over a weekend, make an

dress I’d end up choosing until one

appointment. Most bridal shops

4. It’s always nice (but not neces-

of the bridal shop ladies pulled a

get very, very busy on the week-

sary) to find a place that will do

dress. It was her favorite recent

ends. You certainly want to

alterations for free if you buy

arrival at the time and was nothing

make sure you have fairly indi-

your dress there. And if the store

like I ever thought I’d want.

vidualized attention when all

doesn’t, it’s okay to go some-

Until I put it on.

the other bridal shoppers start

where else! There are plenty of

Once I was in it, I was hooked! It

meandering in!

seamstresses in the area who will

took me one store, two hours and 15

2. Come with an idea or two in your

dresses to find my dress, but I know

head. Look at pictures; check out

most of the time it takes a lot more

NWD’s magazine and website for

party. That could get overwhelming.

do alterations for a very reasonable price. 5. When trying to determine which size to order, go with your instincts and fit the gown to your body now, not the one you hope to have on your wedding day. However, also keep in mind that it’s easier to move little things like snaps, buttons, hooks, eyes, and other details than it is to take a dress in several inches. If you’re debating between two sizes, the smaller size might be the way to go depending on where the dress is snug and how it could be remedied. I found this out the hard way! 6. Shop early. For certain designer gowns, the wait can be six to eight months for it to arrive. If you figure in alterations, you’re looking at a 9 or 10 month turnaround. Most dresses can be rushed for extra, but the stress of hoping your gown will arrive is completely avoidable if you order it with plenty of time before the wedding.

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Erin Stoll Photography

Bridal Gown

Website Guide By Chelsea Amundson

You’ve got the man of your dreams, the perfect princess-cut diamond ring and the date set! Is it time for dress shopping yet? NWD has put together a list of bridal and bridesmaid gown design-

like? Perfect! Add it your personal

prices. From outdoor and destina-

“My Favorites” tool on the website.

tion wedding gowns to classical

er websites to help you start your

Through the “Sample-on-Loan”

search for the perfect dress! A help-

feature at dessy.com, you can sim-

ful hint is to start shopping for your

ply order a sample dress, try it on

The Eden Size Chart is a great

wedding gown 6 to 9 months in

in the comfort of your own home

tool for brides to look up their bust,

advance. Use the guide below to

and ship it back. Additionally, the

waist and hip sizes and discover

help you begin the hunt for the per-

Pantone Wedding tool at dessy.com

which dress styles complement

fect dress…

is another great feature for brides.

different body sizes. Be sure to read

Define your vision, be inspired and

the Style Guide article that dis-

create personal style boards while

cusses fitting the gown to your

searching for your gown.

body type and buying tips as well.

Found at: Ellynne Bridal

Found at: Bridal Details

EdenBridals.com $

AllureBridals.com $$

Dessy.com $ From flirty and fun to elegant and formal, The Dessy Group offers a lit-

gowns, edenbridals.com has a wide array for browsing.

tle something for everyone. Explore the endless possibilities of bridal gown collections by style, length,

Eden Bridals is focused on the

What’s your bridal style? Allure,

neckline, detailing, fabric, sleeve

finest quality of bridal gowns and

Couture, Exclusive, Far & Away or

length and more. Find a dress you

customer service at affordable

Women’s Plus Size are the diverse

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SophiaTolli.com $$$

collections featured at allure -

popular Dream in Color to Plus Size

bridals.com. This website captures

Bridal and Little White Dress.

the all-embracing styles within

Found at: J’Maries Bridal Shoppe

matic and couture designs, Sophia

each bridal collection and pro-

(signature store), Bridal Gown

Tolli’s craftsmanship and exception-

vides style guides that show the

Outlet and Bridal Details

al fit presents brides with an array of

best fit per body type. Found at: Ellynne Bridal and The Bride’s Store

MaggieSottero.com $$

From classic silhouettes to dra-

show-stopping gowns to choose

CasablancaBridal.com $$

from. Stumble upon your perfect dress

Originality and attention to

through a customized style search

detail is what you’ll find at casablan-

tool; search by size, neckline, waist-

cabridal.com. Browse through the

line, silhouette, length, sleeve style,

Be a Maggie Bride and discov-

various Casablanca collections,

train, fabric and more. Add your

er a new era for bridal gown

bestsellers and couture lines to find

favorites to the Sophia Tolli dressing

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Fabulous Frocks

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Saving The

Dress By Courtney Lockridge Photography by Iwen Exposures

My gown may not be a Vera Wang or even a Maggie Sottero, but it’s still my wedding gown. It was a less expensive gown, but I do like to think it was custom made

for me; when I purchased it eight years ago, the bridal salon owner told me it was “one of a kind” (it was actually a “mistake” gown since the embroidery was a different color than what the gown could typically be ordered in). My own “one of a kind”, I guess you could say!

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My point in sharing this brief story with you is not all sentimental; I really just want to offer my advice to you: Do not do what I did with my gown after my wedding! Fast forward eight days after the wedding and a beautiful honeymoon in the Bahamas: I returned home to my gown still in a rumpled pile on my living room couch where I had disrobed after the reception. Stains had now been well-preserved after soaking in for over a week. I glanced over the gown, did a little bit of spot cleaning, and let it hang in my closet in the garment bag for seven more years! Being in the wedding business myself, I would often think about my beautiful gown and how I wished I had preserved it. But, like every busy working gal, I never moved past the point of wishing I had budgeted gown preservation and actually taking the time to drop it off at the proper place. When Williams Cleaners offered to preserve my gown for me, I jumped at the chance. Finally, the grimy lace and dusty train would be as perfect as it had once been. They assured me that they would inspect the gown thoroughly and treat all of the stains. The process the gown goes through to be preserved is safe and effective. First the oxygen in the Keepsake Box is replaced with inert gas to prevent

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up within 30 days of notification that it is finished. Williams Cleaners “saved” my dress, and I would recommend them to anyone needing gown care.

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Neckline Basics

SWEETHEART This neckline is heartshaped and ends in a point between the breasts, perfect for larger busted brides.

SCOOP A low, curved neckline shaped in a U, cut in either front, back or both. Can be modest or daringly low cut, great for any bride.

ILLUSION YOKE Has transparent fabric, lace or netting fitted at the neckline and shoulders, often extending down to the bust line.

SQUARE Similar to the scoop but with squared edges. Especially flattering for bustier brides but looks great on anyone.

JEWEL NECKLINE Rounded to follow the natural contours of the neck, creates simple background for jewelry.

F L AT T E R YO U R S E L F

OFF -THE - SHOULDER SPAGHETTI This romantic STRAP neckline falls gently A straight-lined neckline off the shoulder. which is held in place Looks best on pear shaped by very thin straps. brides, but not on brides with Looks best on slimmer broad shoulders. shaped brides.

WEDDING BAND COLLAR A traditional stand-up band that circles the neck.

SABRINA NECKLINE A straight neckline beginning two inches from the shoulder edge.

STRAPLESS The most popular style. Boasts no straps at all. Looks great on all shapes, but smaller busted brides could have trouble holding it up.

PORTRAIT COLLAR A neckline fabric that frames the shoulders, often gathered above the bust line with a decorative fabric detail or ornament.

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This page: Silk white gown with organza accent and sweetheart neckline by Martina Liana (Style #296), available at Ellynne Bridal, www.ellynnebridal.com. Opposite page: Satin white lace over dolce gown with Swarovski crystal accents by Essense of Australia (Style #D1074), available at Ellynne Bridal, www.ellynnebridal.com.

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This page: One-shouldered asymmetrical satin gown accented with Swarovski crystals by Allure (Style #8708), available at The Bride’s Store, www.thebridesstoreonline.com. Opposite page: Strapless satin and organza ball gown with full skirt by Lis Simon (Style “Constance”), available at The Brides Store, www.thebridesstoreonline.com.

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Photography: Geoff Johnson, Photographer, www.geoffjohnson.com. Stylist: Ann Luchsinger, www.annluchsinger.com. Models: Select Model Management, www.selectmngmnt.com. Location: Magnolia Hotel, www.magnoliahotelomaha.com. Jewelry and Accessories: Sarah White Jewelry, www.etsy.com/shop/sarahwhitejewelry. Special thanks to Petal Creations & Petal Pushers.

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Formal or Casual? Menswear Trends for the Groom

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Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s your day to shine, but your groom deserves to look amazing as well. Nowadays his look can be Oscar glam, casual cool or simply stylish. He can call the shots and would probably love (a little) help from you, especially when picking colors and suit cuts. (Continued on page 160)

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men’s formal wear

Your guy is most comfortable in

the neck and chest. The peak col-

appeal for work and now for wed-

jeans and a t-shirt, so when it comes

lar is similar to a traditional suit col-

dings as well.

time to choose a formal look for the

lar, but it has a “V” shape that flares

For a casual day wedding, J.

wedding, he might not be com-

towards the shoulders. The Man-

Crew offers a tan Irish linen suit; a

fortable with the idea; at the very

darin-style tuxedo with a standup

“faded black” version that appears

least, he’ll probably want to know

collar without lapel is another

light gray; and more traditional suits

formalwear basics.

choice. This approach looks sharp;

in black, navy and heather charcoal.

Read on as NWD gives you and

plus there’s no need for a tie – the

A vest is a modern approach

your guy a little insight into wed-

top button, which usually is black,

that adds panache to your guy’s

ding day menswear trends.

completes the ensemble.

look even if he’s not wearing his jacket.

Embrace

this

casual style by wearing

Most guys want to

the jacket for the cere-

step up their look for the

mony and rocking just

wedding, which means

the shirt, vest and tie for

they’re game for a tuxe-

the reception.

do or a suit and all the coordinating elements. Local Nebraska shops like Tip Top Tux, Best Styles

Sammons Photography

Dressed to Impress

For the groom who wants a little more formality, J. Crew’s two-button tuxedo jacket with a

Formalwear and Gentle-

double-vented back has

men’s Choice all offer the

a GQ feel that’s pulled

best in men’s tuxedos

together and elegant.

and formalwear.

Finish the look with a col-

is a black tuxedo featur-

square, argyle socks and

ing one row of buttons. A

a military-inspired watch.

variation on this classic is a double breasted jacket with two rows of vertical buttons. Full dress tuxedos fea-

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orful tie, a white pocket

Corey Rourke Photography

The wedding standard

Old Hollywood Grooms aren’t afraid to go retro these days. From classic Hollywoodstyle

as well as Eaton jackets,

(think leading man at the

waist and often have a shawl

collar.

Morning

coats, which are longer in the back and nipped in

bow

ties

hip advertising crowd on Mad Men, your guy is getting lots of inspiration from vintage looks. Consider Leonardo

the front, are a classic for daytime weddings.

black

Academy Awards) to the Iwen Exposures

which are nipped at the

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ture long tails in the back,

Casual Cool

DiCaprio and George Clooney,

A tuxedo’s collar can vary, too.

Wedding looks don’t have to be

actors who know how to take a

Here are a few styles to know: a

formal to be stylish. Just look at J.

classic look and raise it to a wow

notch collar, a shawl collar, a peak

Crew – a company known for every-

level of cool. These guys wear a

collar and a Mandarin collar.

day casual style is in the wedding

bow tie to one event and a straight

The notch collar resembles a

business these days. Plenty of

black tie to the next gala; but on

typical suit collar; while a shawl col-

brides and grooms love the cloth-

every occasion they look crisp and

lar, which is rounded, drapes across

ing line’s comfortable yet classic

timeless.

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Simple, sleek and sexy describe

extra touch of interest to your

these handsome Hollywood types;

groom’s look. He can pump up his

and the same goes for your groom

style by wearing cuff links or color

on your wedding day.

buttons.

Bow ties are very hip these days; but they’re not a wedding must.

Getting Started

There are many other tie styles to

While you have probably already

choose from including the tradi-

picked your color scheme, your guy

tional necktie, which in wedding

still has a lot of things to consider

terms is called the “four-in-hands”

from tux style to accessories.

style.

Don’t leave your guy’s wedding

For a more formal approach,

day attire to the last minute. Sure,

your guy can wear an ascot tie,

he may not check out websites or

which is a wider tie style usually fas-

magazines for fashion tips; but he

tened with a tie tack. Skinny ties are

should visit a few tux shops about

very trendy and will look great now,

five to six months before the wed-

but may be a bit dated when you

ding day to get ideas on what’s

check out your wedding photos in

available.

the future.

Finalize the decision by taking

A cummerbund is a polished fin-

measurements and placing orders

ishing touch for any tuxedo. Sure,

two to five months before the

it’s just a band of fabric around his

big day. Out-of-town groomsmen

waist; but it coordinates with the

should visit a local tux shop to get

color and texture of the tie and

measured professionally so you

tuxedo and it’s a timeless style.

can order their attire right away.

Embrace Color

always the way to go. Your groom

Professional measurements are Black is the most common color

and his groomsmen should leave the

for a groom to wear for his wedding,

tailoring to a pro to make sure they

but it’s not the only option. Gray,

get the best fit.

navy blue and tan are just some of

There’s often a wedding bonus

the colors your guy can sport as you

for your groom. Many shops have

get hitched.

a deal offering the groom a free

This is the place to show your

tux when his groomsmen order

personality and make a statement

their formalwear from the shop too.

by adding color in all the right

Typically, a guy rents his shoes

places. Well chosen accent colors

when he gets his attire, but buy-

can really pop on camera and in

ing a new pair of shoes is always

person, resulting in great style that

an option.

will turn heads.

You love trying on clothes,

Don’t be afraid of bright shades

buying new accessories and hav-

like teal, red or yellow; as well as

ing fun with your look. Your guy

softer colors like light pink and

might not have the same approach

powder blue; and rich tones includ-

to fashion as you; but he does want

ing chocolate brown, jewel green

to look his best on the big day.

and plum.

Step back and watch him transform

Textured fabrics on cummerbunds and even dress shirts add an

from a regular guy into a gorgeous groom.

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health, beauty and fitness

Weight Loss

for the Bride

By Leila Kalmbach

Almost every bride

wants to lose a few pounds before her

big day. But when you’re busy planning a wedding, weight loss can seem next to impossible. All your free time is spent working on the wedding; you’re sampling all sorts of decadent foods for the reception and you’re dealing with tons of stress. Don’t despair. Losing weight doesn’t have to

through the first steps, it’s all downhill from there.

be a losing proposition. In fact, weight loss can

After a month or two of regular exercise, your

even be easier when you’re planning a wedding

body starts to get addicted to it. This is an exam-

than it would be otherwise. Whether it’s 5 pounds

ple of a positive addiction, not like addictions

or 55 pounds you’re after, start early enough and

to cigarettes or alcohol. This is an addiction that

you can get in great shape for your wedding day

you want to cultivate. Once you’re addicted to

and beyond.

exercise, you just won’t feel right if you miss a day. When you do get out there and move your

Getting started It’s so much harder to get started exercising

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body, it’ll feel amazing both during and after your workout.

than it is to continue. If you don’t normally exer-

So if starting is the hardest part, where do

cise, keep this in mind. Those first steps you take,

you begin? You won’t get anywhere without the

those first few times you go out running or

proper motivation to exercise. But as a bride-

biking, those first yoga classes will be the

to-be, you’ve already got a ready-made source

most difficult ones you ever do. If you can get

of motivation: You want to look good on your

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wedding day, both for your guests

that you have time for final dress

to weight loss is that you don’t have

and new husband, and because

alterations. Make a calendar show-

to starve yourself. In fact, you’ll find

you’ll be looking at the photos for

ing exactly where you’d like to be

that weight loss is much easier if

the rest of your life.

each week and keep track of

you keep eating – and your body

whether you’ve accomplished your

will thank you for the nutrients.

Don’t accept that you’ll always be in the shape you’re currently in.

week’s goal.

You can change your body. Keep imagining how you want to look on your wedding day and use that

The only catch is that you have to eat the right things. In terms

Eat! The good news when it comes

of how much it fills you up, a cal orie is not always the same. For

strong motivating factor to help you take those first steps and say no to empty calories.

Set a realistic goal Another good thing about losing weight for your wedding is that you will have a specific date in mind to accomplish your goal. This is good because it will help you to stay on track. On average, a healthy amount of weight loss is one to two pounds a week for women. This doesn’t sound like much, but remember that extra fat is something of a security blanket for your body – if we encounter a food shortage, this supply could keep us alive. If you lose weight too quickly, your body will panic that its supplies are running out and will slow your metabolism. This means that every calorie you eat will be even harder to burn than before. Figure out what a healthy weight would be for a woman of your height. There are Internet sites that can help you with this; or, if you’re a member of a gym, you may be able to get a free assessment from a personal trainer. From there, look at how soon your wedding date is and determine a realistic amount of weight you’d like to lose, keeping in mind that you should stick to one to two pounds a week. It’s important to start early. Aim to reach your goal weight by a month before your wedding so

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health, beauty and fitness

instance, one full-sized carrot con-

you’re sampling. Compensate by

low-intensity exercise actually pulls

tains the same number of calories

eating a salad full of veggies and

energy from your fat stores.

as two teaspoons of sugar, but

lean protein for dinner and spend-

In other words, if you go for a

which one do you think fills you

ing some extra time moving during

brisk run that keeps your heart rate

up more?

the day. In fact, this is important any

up the whole time, you’ll be so hun-

In general, try to avoid drinking

time: If you eat something unhealthy

gry when you’re done that you’re

your calories. Fruit juice, sugary

one day, don’t give up. Just return

likely to eat back all the calories you

coffees, sodas and alcohol are

to your healthy eating habits and

burned. On the other hand, if you

high in calories but won’t leave you

exercise as soon as you can and

go for an hour-long walk, you’ll be

feeling full. On the other hand,

you’ll be back on track.

able to satisfy your hunger with a

foods high in water content such as fruits, vegetables and broth-based

light snack or your normal dinner,

Exercising right

and wind up with a calorie deficit

soups will often leave you full on

High-intensity exercises like spin-

few calories. For this reason, choose

ning can burn as many as 800

This is good news for brides

fresh rather than dried fruits and

calories per hour, while low- to mod-

because it means you can work on

vegetables.

for the day.

erate-intensity exercises like walk-

your wedding while getting exercise

Foods high in protein also fill you

ing only burn around 250 calories

at the same time. You’re able to walk

up quickly. Choose lean beef, chick-

per hour. Logically, then, the high-

and talk in a way that you couldn’t

en, fish, low-fat cheese, lentils or

intensity exercises are better for

while sweating through a kick-

beans. Accompany this with com-

weight loss, right?

boxing class. Instead of meeting for

plex carbohydrates like whole-grain

Actually, no. While high-intensi-

coffee to talk about wedding

bread or pasta and fresh produce.

ty exercise is very important for

arrangements, go for a walk around

It’s hard to eat right when you’re

cardiovascular health, low- to mod-

the neighborhood to talk things

trying to choose a wedding cake

erate-intensity exercise is better for

over. If it’s possible, try to walk or

and a menu for your reception. But

helping you lose and keep off

ride a bike to your appointments

don’t think that you can’t participate

excess weight. The reason for this

with your caterer, florist or wedding

in this selection just because you’re

is that high-intensity exercise uses

coordinator. Look through wed-

trying to lose weight. Just keep in

easily available energy in your body

ding magazines while you’re on the

mind that you’ll be eating more

that then needs to be replenished

elliptical machine at the gym. Or

calorie-heavy foods on the days

when you’re done exercising, while

take dance classes in preparation for

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your first dance at the wedding

and lower the phone book while

reception.

you’re on the phone with your

Don’t shy away from weight-lift-

vendors.

ing, either. Many women are afraid that lifting weights will bulk them

Fit into your wedding dress You’ve found the perfect dress and you want to get it fitted to your

Don’t stress

body, but you’re not sure what size

up, but because women are built dif-

With so much on your shoulders

you’ll be when the day comes. This

ferently from men, lifting weights

when you’re planning a wedding, it’s

can be a big problem if you don’t

will give you muscle definition

natural that you’re more stressed

get it right.

without extra bulk. Lifting weights

out than normal. Many people turn

Don’t worry, though. Weight loss

may cause you to gain weight at

to food to comfort themselves

is common among brides, so dress

first as your muscles grow, so don’t

during these times, but exercise is

shops and tailors are used to deal-

worry if you’re not making your

one of the best stress-fighting

ing with this issue. Choose the dress

weight-loss goals when you start

techniques there is.

you want ahead of time, but talk to

If you can retrain yourself to

your dress shop about the latest date

Eventually, you’ll see that weight-

think of exercise as stress-reduction

you can order it and still receive it

lifting will help you to lose weight

instead of another item to add onto

in time for your fittings. When you

quickly, and because muscles take

the to-do list, you’ll wind up enjoy-

do put in your order, order the dress

extra calories to maintain, you’ll lose

ing it more and probably doing it

to fit you your size at the time, not

more weight without even doing

more often. And be creative – any

what you hope to be.

anything if you have a few extra

sort of movement burns calories

Make sure that you schedule

pounds of muscle. Try a weight-lift-

and helps you to de-stress, not just

more than one dress fitting. Let the

ing class if you’re not sure what to

the activities we commonly think of

dress shop know that you’re losing

do, as lifting the wrong way can

as exercise.

weight so that they can take this into

lifting.

For instance, gardening is a

consideration when making your

If you’re creative about it, just

great way to keep your body

fittings schedule. If you’ve stuck to

about anything can be weight-

stretching and moving. Even walk-

your weight loss plan and reached

lifting–carrying wedding presents up

ing around potential wedding ven-

your goal weight by a month before

the stairs, lifting up heavy floral

ues will contribute to your weight

your wedding, you should have no

arrangements...you can even lift

loss and stress relief.

problems with your dress.

cause serious injury.

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health, beauty and fitness

Beyond your wedding day The motivation to look good on your wedding day can be a powerful factor to get you moving. But what happens after your wedding is over? Unfortunately, many brides who lose weight for their weddings aren’t able to keep the weight off after the big day. This is why you need to find other motivators to keep you going. Pay attention to how great you feel when your body is in good shape and there are post-exercise endorphins flooding your system. Try to incorporate the changes you made for wedding weight loss into your everyday lifestyle. When you get married, you start a whole new chapter in your life. This is a perfect time to make other changes to your life as well – to become who you’ve always wanted to be. Make your wedding a jumpingoff point for the new you. Even if you started losing weight so that you’d look good, keep up the healthy lifestyle so that you and your husband can spend many happy, healthy years together.

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At Home In...Nebraska getting excited because the RSVP cards are arriving daily. The rooms you have blocked at the chosen hotel are slowly filling up and you begin to wonder: What are your out-oftown guests going to do with all the extra time that is not spent at your wedding and reception?

Sarah Pfeiffer Photography

Your wedding is fast approaching and you’re

Have no fear! We have created a list of some of the most interesting and entertaining attractions that two of Nebraska’s largest cities have to offer. Along with providing a list to your arriving guests, we also have some great suggestions to make them feel welcomed and appreciated. They have traveled many miles to honor you on this day and giving them a gift basket filled with goodies is a great way to say thank you. In this basket, include a map of the surrounding area, along with some suggestions on eating establishments nearby. An itinerary of wedding events is also an appropriate inclusion, especially if they are directly involved. Top it off with some snacks, candy and a couple of water bottles. If you’re feeling especially creative, create your own labels that say “Welcome to Nebraska” or “Thank You”. You can rest assured that your arriving guests will be impressed with your creativity and gratitude; and most importantly, they will feel at home here in Nebraska!

Fun Things to do in and around Omaha Ameristar Casino ............................................712.328.8888 Blue Barn Theatre ..........................................402.345.1576 Botanical Gardens...........................................402.346.4002 Fontenelle Nature Association .........................402.731.3140 Funny Bone Comedy Club..............................402.493.8036 Fun Plex Amusement Park ...............................402.331.8436 Gerald R. Ford Birthplace................................402.444.5900 Great Plains Black Museum .............................402.345.2212 Harrah’s Casino..............................................712.329.6000 Henry Doorly Zoo .........................................402.733.8401 Historic Old Market District ..................www.oldmarket.com Indian Cave State Park ....................................402.883.2575 Joslyn Art Museum .........................................402.342.3300 Lancers Hockey Game....................................712.325.4231 Mahoney State Park ........................................402.944.2523 Omaha Children’s Museum .............................402.342.6164 Omaha Community Playhouse ........................402.553.6288 Omaha Royals Baseball Game .........................402.738.5100 Omaha Symphony Orchestra ..........................402.342.3560 River City Star Boat Excursion .........................402.342.7827 Strategic Air & Space Museum.........................402.944.3100 Vala’s Pumpkin Patch .......................................402.332.4200

Folsom Children’s Zoo and Botanical Gardens ....................................402.475.6741 Governor’s Mansion .......................................402.471.3466 Great Plains Art Collection ..............................402.472.3208 Historic Haymarket in Downtown Lincoln .............www.historichaymarket.com Hyde Observatory..........................................402.441.7895 James Arthur Vineyards ...................................402.783.5255 Lincoln Children’s Museum .............................402.477.4000 Lincoln Community Playhouse ........................402.489.7529 Lincoln Saltdogs Baseball Game .......................402.474.2255 Lincoln Stars Hockey Game ............................402.474.7827 Lincoln Symphony Orchestra ..........................402.476.2211 Museum of Nebraska History..........................402.471.4754 Nebraska State Capitol Building .......................402.471.0448 Pioneer Stables...............................................402.477.5509 Sheldon Memorial Art Gallery and Sculpture Garden .....................................402.472.2461 University of Nebraska State Museum..............402.472.2642

Fun Things to do in and around Lincoln Arbor Day Farm ............................................402.873.9347 Arbor Lodge State Historical Park and Arboretum ........................................402.873.7222 Bluestem Tree Farm and Vineyard ...................402.817.8733 Downtown Lincoln .....................www.downtownlincoln.org

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Entertain You! Trends in Wedding Entertainment for Every Budget By Anne Blankenbiller

Your wedding ceremony is first: a serious, formal and dignified affair. After saying “I Do” and walking back down the aisle on the arm of your Prince Charming, it’s time to breathe a sigh of relief, let your hair down and celebrate at the reception.

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jhd photography

Brighten Photography

Monte Evans Photography

music and entertainment

With family and friends gathered

Let the Music Play

the day. For example, you don’t

in one room to toast your new mar-

From big band to rock-n-roll,

want your first dance song to

riage, the last thing you want to see

music is an all-important choice for

begin playing while you are in the

is your guests sitting at tables star-

your function. Over the last few

bathroom.

ing at each other, texting everyone

years, Brant has seen a rise in the

In general, hiring a good band is

in their contacts list or even being

popularity of the “iPod wedding

more expensive than hiring a DJ.

tempted to leave early (gasp!).

reception”.

Both can provide an upbeat musi-

Today’s receptions are more

Couples download their favorite

cal atmosphere and get guests off

than cake and a cash bar. Couples

tunes to play at the reception and

their chairs and onto the dance

are taking entertainment options

simply plug it in. This is an eco-

floor.

seriously and getting creative to

nomical option and saves the

Brant recommends that couples

ensure that guests of all ages have

expense of hiring a professional DJ

watch a band or DJ perform live

a fun experience.

or band.

before hiring them. Don’t rely on

Angela Brant is a wedding

However, Brant cautions brides

designer and consultant in Omaha.

about relying on an iPod and asks

She advises couples not to skimp on

them to consider questions such as:

If your budget is tight, consid-

their reception entertainment. After

Who is going to be the emcee? How

er renting a jukebox or having a

the wedding, Brant says that peo-

are you going to know when to have

friend act as DJ for the night

ple may not remember some of the

your entrance? How will you know

instead. Make sure your DJ friend

simple details, but they will remem-

when to have your first dance?

has the right equipment needed for

ber if they had a good time dancing, visiting and eating.

demo CDs that can be remixed to sound better.

She says brides should consid-

your venue and has experience at

er the emotions and the timing of

a real event. If choosing this option,

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music and entertainment

take into consideration that you will not have a pro-

guests will have fun and you will have unique photos

fessional guiding the evening’s festivities.

of your guests. Some wedding photographers can provide this serv-

Capture the Moment

ice and set up a professional photo booth complete

Your photographer will capture many great

with props and proper lighting. A more inexpensive

moments during your wedding and reception. Take it

route is to hire someone with a good camera and a

a step further and turn photography into part of your

knack for photography.

entertainment by setting up a photo booth for guests

Many rental companies now offer retro portable

to pose for pictures. Some shots may be silly and oth-

photo booths, so guests can take home a fun party

ers may be valuable family portraits. Either way, your

pic. Or, provide a low-cost portable printer that can download camera phone photos and guests can print pictures on the spot. Be sure to provide a plentiful supply of photo paper and ink and ask them to print a copy for you, as well.

Keeping Kids Corralled If your wedding reception will include children, Brant suggests planning some special entertainment just for them. A popular option is to hire a balloon artist, clown or magician to entertain children during the cocktail hour. Setting up a special kids’ area with games, crafts and a small DVD player can keep the little ones occupied and be a godsend for parents. Ask older tween or teenage cousins to supervise and play with these younger guests. If your reception food isn’t kid-friendly, provide a few kid snacks in this area, such as small crackers, cookies, veggies with dip and juice boxes (white grape or clear in case of spills). When the lights are low, Brant likes to give kids glowin-the-dark necklaces and bracelets for fun in the dark and on the dance floor.

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“We leave the kids’ area set up all night,” she says, “and later in the night it’s fun to watch the adults start playing Twister.”

Fun Alternatives Wedding reception entertainment doesn’t need to be confined to just music and a stage act. Use your entertainment to reflect your personality, background or heritage. Try an interactive approach with guests and turn them into the entertainment. Hire a dance instructor to teach a short group lesson on salsa, swing or polka dancing. This gives guests an extra incentive to get out on the dance floor and practice their new moves. Or, have the DJ play a round of “Name that Tune” with your guests. Be sure to provide a prize for the winner. Fireworks displays can be very entertaining, especially near the end of the festivities or during an outdoor event. Even simple and inexpensive items such as a chocolate fountain or ice sculpture are a form of entertainment. Take the entertainment off the dance floor and into the crowd. Magicians, mimes or jugglers can meander through the room and entertain those who shy away from dancing. Another fun option is to hire a caricaturist to draw pictures of your guests for them to take home. If you are planning a Nebraska fall wedding on the same day as a Big Red football game, consider renting a projection TV. Put it in an out-of-the-way corner so sports fans can keep up with the game and still enjoy the wedding. Go all out in creating a lounge for the area, complete with drinks, couches and lighting. For the whimsical, fun-loving couple, get your guests roaring with this over-the-top trick. Have a group of acquaintances “pretend” to be your band. Allow them to play a couple of songs before encouraging the guests to boo them from the stage. Your real band can then emerge from the crowd and “save the day” with beautiful, professional tunes. Today’s brides and grooms have an endless array of wedding entertainment options, from classical and traditional to quirky and boisterous. Couples should think seriously about their entertainment and find a good balance by reflecting their personality as a couple and ensuring guests of all ages enjoy their wedding celebration.

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BUSINESS SPOTLIGHT...

A Dynamic Duo Behind the Lens

Shane and Sunny Photography By Anne Blankenbiller

Shane and Sunny Dwyer are not just photographers. They are a dynamic duo, each bringing unique talents to beautifully capture the special moments of every wedding they photograph. The Dwyers originally opened a

services offered. This gives the

Shane and Sunny form a unique

studio in Lincoln in 2003, but two

bride and groom an opportunity to

bond with every couple they photo-

years ago the husband and wife

meet Shane and Sunny, which is

graph, and Sunny admits to crying

team rebranded. They changed

very important to them.

at every wedding.

their business philosophy and re-

They want brides to pick them

After the wedding, pictures are

opened as Shane and Sunny Pho-

because of Shane and Sunny, not

quickly provided for online viewing

tography. “We’ve gone from selling

because of the price of a package

and ordering and every couple

the business to selling Shane and

or a special product offered. The

gets a proof book of all pictures

Sunny,” says Sunny. “We want peo-

Dwyers spend significant time with

taken. Sunny uses her design skills

ple to love us, and if they love us

their couples. Their work reflects the

to create a professional one-of-a-

they will love our work.”

comfort level they have with each

kind album for the couple. With an

couple, as well as the confidence

artistic eye, she custom-designs

couples have in them.

each page without using premade

With a major focus on customer service, they have seen their business grow in the last two years.

When a bride and groom hire

Sunny says, “We don’t want to fail

Shane and Sunny, they get a team

Upon setting foot in Shane and

area

that works together on all aspects of

Sunny’s studio, you immediately

because it goes back to our whole

the wedding, including photograph-

notice that their photography has

business philosophy of selling Shane

ing together on the wedding day.

a unique aesthetic. They describe

the

customer

service

and Sunny.”

templates.

Shane is the detailed, organized

their look as “saturation contrast

This attention to the customer

member of the duo who compiles

portrait”. The photographs “pop”

begins with a face-to-face consul-

a file for each wedding, including

off the page, even in black and

tation to discuss every detail of the

notes about the names of family and

white. They strive to give their prints

wedding party members, when the

contrast and depth. Nothing is dull.

vendors are arriving, a printed map

Both have been trained in light-

to the church, etc. He verifies these

ing and exposure. “Even our candid

details with vendors and commits

work is going to be lit well, com-

them to memory.

posed well and shot well,” says

“I’ll sit down with the couple 10

Shane. They are comfortable inte-

days before the wedding and go

grating lighting, flash and natural

over everything again,” he says. This

light.

ensures that there are no surprises on the big day.

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When couples walk away with their final product, Shane wants them

On the day of the wedding, the

to leave feeling like they got an

couple goes into action. Shane

incredible value. “We want them to

does the formal photography, includ-

think of us as friends,” he says, “which

ing portraits of the family, bridal

all goes back to selling Shane and

party, etc. Meanwhile, Sunny is the

Sunny and not a company.”

photojournalist, capturing precious

Sunny sums it up with a smile:

moments with children on the floor,

“If they bring back their kids, I know

detailed shots and candid photos.

I have done my job.”

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ENGAGEMENTS

Story by Anne Blankenbiller Photography by Shane & Sunny Photography

Prince Charming and

His Castle Jon Klipp and Morgan Densberger are both business students at the University of Nebraska-Lincoln; but their story begins in the 8th grade. Jon Klipp and Morgan Densberger Both are from small towns in Nebraska: Morgan is from Malcolm

in the late 1870s on top of a mountain overlooking a village below.

saw Jon down on one knee. “I could

and Jon from Hampton. Although

“I thought that the castle would

not believe it was happening. After

the middle schools they attended

be so magical and romantic,” says

all, it is the moment that every girl

normally do not compete with

Jon. “I knew it would be the perfect

dreams about,” she says. After the

each other, the two met by chance

place.”

initial shock, she finally got the word

at a track meet. Their courtship

The couple rode together in a

began and continued throughout

horse-drawn carriage up the moun-

Jon picked out Morgan’s ring

high school. After graduation, they

tain to the castle. After touring the

and planned the proposal all by him-

both came to Lincoln for college.

monstrous mansion once belonging

self, without Morgan suspecting a

Jon and Morgan recently trav-

to King Ludwig II, they stopped in

thing. He says, “I wasn’t worried

eled to Germany with Jon’s family.

front where it overlooks the valley

about anything; and it all came

Jon had planned to propose to

below. Morgan says the view was

together just right.” Morgan says he

Morgan on the trip, but he didn’t

beautiful and they began taking pic-

couldn’t have planned it better.

know exactly when or where.

tures. “The next thing I knew,” she

Jon and Morgan plan to go back

says, “Jon was down on one knee

to Germany again to visit friends.

asking me to marry him.”

The Neuschwanstein castle will

On the third day of the trip, they visited Neuschwanstein, a famous Romanesque Revival castle near

Morgan says she was over-

Bavaria. The huge palace was built

whelmed with emotion when she

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ENGAGEMENTS

Story by Anne Blankenbiller Photography by L Squared Design & Photography

A Kansas City Scenic Proposal When David Seger asked his girlfriend, Kylie Havranek, if she wanted to take a summer weekend trip to Kansas City to go to Worlds of Fun, she enthusiastically agreed. “I thought it was a great idea because we hadn’t gone anywhere all summer,” says Kylie.

David Seger and Kylie Havranek

Little did she know, the trip put

of the memorial for at least an

David’s secret plan into motion. “I

hour. David says, “I was stalling

Kylie looked down and saw David

knew that it would require some-

because I wanted to propose right

on one knee with a ring box. When

thing very original to catch her off

by the ledge but people kept walk-

he opened the lid she saw the ring

guard,” he says.

ing over and looking at the great

she

scenery.”

sparkling inside.

After their adventure at Worlds

had

always

dreamed

of Fun, David took Kylie out for a

As the sun began to set, they

“I was so surprised; I just start-

romantic Italian dinner in Crown

walked over to the edge to look over

ed to cry because I was so incred-

Center. After dinner, they walked

the city. While standing there,

ibly happy. I couldn’t believe it; that

around downtown Kansas City,

David pointed out a dollar bill on the

was the last thing I had expected

went to Union Station, and then to

ground. He knelt down to pick it up

to happen that weekend,” says

the top of the Liberty Memorial.

and handed it to Kylie. As she began

Kylie. About 10 minutes later, Kylie

The memorial is high on a hill

to unwrinkle it, she realized that

realized she had not even said yes!

with a beautiful view of the city, and

something was written on it. It said,

To David’s relief, she told him she

David knew it would be a great

“Marry me? –David.”

would marry him and they sat and

place to propose. “I wanted to wait

“I had only read the ‘marry me’

talked while overlooking the beau-

until it was late evening when the

part,” admits Kylie, “and I started to

tiful night lights of Kansas City. Kylie

sun was setting,” he says.

say, ‘Oh how cute, someone was

says, “It was definitely the best day

going to propose!’” At that moment,

of my life!”

The two walked around on top

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Photo by Darcy Runyan

Story by Anne Blankenbiller Photography by Sarah Pfeiffer Photography and Darcy Runyan

Moment

Paul Demmel and Darcy Runyan met in college over 10 years ago. “I liked his friend and he liked mine. We even went on a double date - but with other people,” says Darcy.

Photo by Sarah Pfeiffer Photography

The Picture Perfect After college, they remained

Paul lived in Connecticut and

friends and stayed in touch through

then Chicago while Darcy stayed in

a few random e-mails, letters and

Lincoln. For the next four years, the

phone calls. In 2006, Paul invited

couple continued a long distance

silhouette shots and I was doing my

Darcy to visit a mutual friend in

relationship with over 100 flights

usual routine of setting up the cam-

Montana who had recently gotten

between three cities, numerous

era for the perfect shot of us,” says

married. Darcy was very reluc-

letters and phone calls, Skype and

Darcy. “Then, Paul took the camera

tant. “I hadn’t seen him in at least

more romantic road trips.

remote out of my hand, got down

a year,” she says. “It was a long trip;

Darcy is an amateur photogra-

I had just seen my friend at her wed-

pher and works as the office man-

ding; and I had no money.”

Paul Demmel and Darcy Runyan

on one knee and asked me to be his wife.”

ager for Sarah Pfeiffer Photography.

At that moment, Darcy says she

Today, she is thankful she went

With her interest in photography

was very excited and a little sur-

on that trip with Paul. That Labor

and capturing great moments

prised. “It was the most surreal

Day weekend road trip turned into

through a lens, she regularly took

moment; here was this person who

a 10-day romantic journey down the

her camera equipment on trips. She

I had loved and shared so much life

coast of California and back. Darcy

was secretly hoping that Paul would

with finally saying those little words

says that somewhere between Idaho

find a way to get a shot of him pro-

I had been waiting for.”

and Nevada she started to fall for

posing to her when it happened.

Paul and Darcy say that night

him. “We joked about driving back

Darcy brought her camera on a

had the most perfect sunset they

through Las Vegas and finding a

camping trip the two took to the

have ever witnessed; and the pho-

wedding chapel.”

Upper Peninsula of Michigan. “I love

tograph shot by Paul was proof.

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Photos by Geoff Johnson, Photographer

I’ve Been There...

Choosing a Photographer By Amanda Sullivan

At the very beginning of our planning process, my fiancé and I had to decide how to spend our budget. To do so, we had to determine our priorities – that is, which areas were extremely important to us (and worth spending extra money on), which areas we cared about somewhat (but wanted to spend a practical amount of money on), and which areas we didn’t care at all about (and could probably nix altogether). For us, besides our church and reception site, our Number 1 priority was great photography. This area was also the one I got the most advice on, namely, “Whatever you do, don’t skimp on the photos!” (Continued on page 182)

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photography

My fiancé and I agreed. After

that told the story of our day, cap-

tions from friends and brides. We

the vows have been said, the cake

turing candid moments as they

spent a great deal of time looking

eaten, and the dances danced, the

happened. We had pretty specif-

at photographers’ online portfolios.

one thing you have left to docu-

ic ideas, which made picking a pho-

Because we had such a definite idea

ment the event is your photos. And

tographer the hardest decision of

of what we wanted, I knew whether

we weren’t about to trust the

all to make.

I’d like the photography within the

preservation of our day to just any-

First, we scoured the web and

first 30 seconds of being on a web-

one! We knew we wanted mostly

NWD for Omaha area photogra-

site. If it wasn’t what we wanted, we

photojournalistic pictures – photos

phers and asked for recommenda-

moved on. We finally picked three different photographers to meet with, and based on those meetings, we picked one.

My advice when picking out photographers: 1. Decide where photography fits on your priority scale and how much you are willing to spend to get what you want. If you are on a budget and you don’t care particularly about the photos and you’d rather pour your funds into a kick-butt band or a sit-down prime rib dinner, go for it. (If you’re one of those people with a budget large enough to accommodate all your wedding dreams, you probably don’t need this suggestion...lucky you!) Just be 100% sure you won’t regret handing Aunt Mabel your pointand-shoot and having her be the one and only event photographer. 2. Research! Look through NWD’s magazine and website. Ask for suggestions. Look at photographers’ websites and portfolios, and if they don’t have one, request samples of their work. Looking over photographers’ portfolios will really help you determine what kind of pictures you want and generate ideas for your big day. Also, don’t be afraid to ask for former client feedback.

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3. Meet with at least two pho-

equally friendly, and equally

tographers in person. You may

equipped and available to take

feel like you don’t have a lot of

your perfect wedding pictures.

time for personal appoint-

In that case, look at the dollar

ments, but seriously, meet with

signs. What are you going to

a couple to see their work in

get with each package? Who

person and chat with them. You

has the biggest bang for

want to be able to mesh with

your buck? (Hey, even though

the person who’s going to

photography was a budget

have a camera on you for 6-10

priority, that didn’t mean we

hours! You can’t decipher a per-

couldn’t get the best deal out

sonality from a website–and

there!) Packages are usually

personality is more important

based on amount of time (you’ll

than you may think.

need to figure out how long

4. Pick a photographer who has a

you want the photographer

style you admire. Photogra-

there), number/type of prints

phers generally aren’t going to

you want (we knew we want-

change their styles or approach

ed the digital rights to our pho-

based on what you want.

tos so we could use them on

They’re artists, so choose some-

websites, Facebook, and for

one who takes the kind of pic-

printing our own photos) and

tures you would like to have. If

other considerations (guest

you want photojournalism, you’ll

book, engagement session,

want a photographer who spe-

photo album, etc).

cializes in that approach. If you

6. Make selecting a photographer

want a more artsy, avant-garde

one of your first priorities.

feel, pick someone who is great

Many photographers book up

at that style. If you don’t know

a year or more in advance. If

what kind of style you like, see

photography is an area that is

Number 2. If you don’t care what

really important to you, you

kind of style, see Aunt Mabel.

don’t want to have to settle for

5. Compare pricing and package

anything less than your dream

offerings. Sometimes photog-

photographer because you

raphers are equally talented,

called them too late.

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Something to

Geoff Johnson, Photographer

Melenbacker Photography

photography

Remember

Destination Photography

By Renae Blum

Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve probably heard of destination weddings â&#x20AC;&#x201C; couples taking a select group of family and friends to Maui or someplace equally exotic. But lately, destination engagement photos have become a hot commodity as well. (Continued on page 188)

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photography

What are they?

traveling to do so. But only in the

life,” Johnson says. “I’ve gone down

“Destination engagement shoots

past couple of years, he says, have

to St. Louis University and pho-

are a different type of session than

clients been requesting he take

tographed a couple that went to

just shooting in the Omaha Old Mar-

their engagement photos in unique,

school there. They live in Omaha

ket or in my studio,” photographer

very specific places – places where

and we all traveled there together.

Geoff Johnson of Omaha says.

traveling is required.

I flew in; they flew in; we met up and

Johnson has seen a lot over his

“These are places that really

years of shooting weddings and

mean something to the couple and

images for advertisements, often

have some significance in their

I spent my six hours shooting throughout the day. “I have one client that used to spend a lot of time on Capitol Hill in Washington, D.C. They dropped the idea of going there and shooting. We actually went somewhere and made a day of it.” Sometimes, Johnson says, he collaborates. One couple from California planned on marrying in Omaha in January. Johnson suggested they try a different location for their engagement shoot because, as he says of his city, “You’re not going to get a lot of opportunity to shoot great photography outside in the middle of January.” To the couple’s delight, Johnson thought of a place a little closer to home: Napa. “Napa in October is harvest season for grapes, and it’s just beautiful,” he says. “They really turned their engagement portraits into something bigger; and that was a destination for them.”

A photographer’s dream Imagine showing up at a location you’ve never been to before armed only with a camera. Your job is to follow a couple around for four hours, taking impromptu shots you hope will make good engagement photographs before hopping a flight home. Traditional it most definitely is not. But to Erin Melenbacker, who forms Melenbacker Photography with her husband Shane, the differences in destination photography are actually a blessing.

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“I think our favorite place that

great, because I love the ocean,” she

we’ve been to is Los Angeles; and

continues. “It was a blast to be able

we also really enjoyed the Lake of

to take [the couple] out to the

the Ozarks a few years ago,” Melen-

beach and have them run through

backer says. “Both places are like a

the waves. We actually went under

photographer ’s dream because

the pier. The waves were crashing

there are so many places you can

and I had them play under the pier;

go and take pictures.

and it was just a lot of fun. We’ve

“Shooting in Los Angeles was

learned from experience that no matter where you go, there are always going to be opportunities for great photos.” Erin and Shane have spent a lot of time shooting engagement portraits in Nebraska – enough, she says laughingly, that it feels like they’ve been to every town in the state. “Nebraska does have a unique feel. There’s a lot of farmland, so we’ve done things where we’ve taken [couples] to old downtowns; we’ve gone out to people’s farms. Sometimes the dad or future husband is a farmer, so we’ll go out to their property and take pictures in the open field as the sun is setting.” In addition to the freshness of a new landscape, Melenbacker also praises the personal nature of destination photography. “When couples visit a different destination with us – and maybe sometimes it’s even new for them – we’ll all get to explore it at the same time together,” she says. “We get to know each other. That way on the day of the wedding, we’re more like old friends than strangers.”

Who chooses destination portraits? According to Johnson, this generation is visual; and they’re expanding the way they use wedding and engagement photographs. Some put them on Facebook and Twitter. Johnson photographed one couple that made giant canvas prints of

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their photos and hung them down

you’re planning a destination wedding

the hallway at their reception.

photography shoot, you can expect

“It was really powerful, and they

things to be pricier because of the

did it in a very nice way. They used

multiple-day commitment. For Melen-

those prints as gifts to give away to

backer Photography and Geoff John-

family members,” Johnson says.

son Photography, not one but two

“So they were using the photogra-

photographers will be covering the

phy in other ways than just putting

event, which also changes the cost.

a photo in the newspaper.” “I think it’s definitely for couples

ment shoot, simply browse through

that are looking for something

the “packages” available. It’s up to the

new; they’re looking for something

individual photographer to decide

fun,” Melenbacker says. “These ses-

what is or is not included. Sometimes

sions are a great way to get imagery

if the level of package is high enough,

that’s completely original and mean-

a photographer will pay their own trav-

ingful to them.

el expenses as a thank-you. Or if a pho-

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“I would definitely recommend it

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for most couples.”

tographer happens to be in the area anyway for a conference, you might chip off the travel fee that way.

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If you could choose your own destination engagement site, where would you go?

Geoff:

There are many places I’d love to shoot. I think a place like India would be amazing; the culture and history are interesting to me. I would also love to shoot in New Zealand because of the diversity of landscapes there. In the end, I’m open to just about anywhere. I think as long as the location is meaningful to the couple, then I will find something unique to capture.

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Erin: In the US, I would choose Oregon. I love Oregon; I love the coast; I love the ocean. Worldwide, I’d also love to do a session in Rome; it’s known for having some of the most beautiful gardens in the world. Combine that with its Greek-influenced architecture and the imagery would be gorgeous!

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The long and short of it “Photography is something I wake up every morning looking forward to doing,” Johnson says. “I shoot a lot of advertising and commercial work, and I love that work; it’s great, but the wedding and engagement photography is completely different. “What I love about my job is I get to meet really great people; I get to work with really great people; and I get to be creative. That’s the fun part about it. It’s not doing the same thing over and over and over again; it’s always coming up with something new and pushing the limits. And I love working with people.” According to Melenbacker, “The best part is knowing that we’re documenting lasting memories for people; because to me, these are moments that need to last a lifetime. Our memories are faulty and down the road the photographs are all we’re going to have. They’re one of the only ways to remember the things we’ve experienced; and the things we’ve experienced make us who we are. “So to me, it’s just being a part of that.”

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Themed Weddings:

A Unique and Memorable Way to Express Yourself

1) Dousharm wedding: Sarah Pfeiffer Photography 2) Garcia wedding: Colleen Dustin Photography 3) Hoff wedding: A Better Exposure

By Anne Blankenbiller

4) Hardie wedding: Paula Moser Photography

The engagement ring is on your

5) Nesbitt wedding: Douglas Gunder Photographer

finger and the date is set â&#x20AC;&#x201C; let the planning begin! Your head is swirling with decisions

to make about flowers, colors, your dress and where to have your reception. Before diving into the details, consider creating a theme for your wedding. Themed weddings are becoming more popular as couples seek out new ways to make their weddings memorable or to simply incorporate more of their personalities, interests or heritage. There are no rules defining themed weddings, so brides and grooms are free to choose whatever fits their personality and style and how they incorporate

it into their special day. Themed weddings can be anything from simple to elaborate. Many brides are embracing this trend, and the following highlights five unique and distinctly different themed weddings.

Tropical Paradise in Nebraska David and Barb Hoff Photographer: Steve Kowalski, A Better Exposure David and Barb Hoff like to travel to beach destinations and loved the idea of saying their wedding vows along the ocean. But they wanted family and friends to celebrate with them, so they brought the island paradise to their own backyard in Omaha.

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The Hoff’s backyard, with its lush

every year. “I buried my dad on

landscape and serene swimming

the 3rd of July four years ago, so

When planning their wedding,

pool, made a perfect backdrop for

this was sort of a tribute to him,”

William and Leigh decided to blend

this tropical wedding. Colorful trop-

says Barb.

their respective traditions. The cer-

man and lived “across the pond”.

ical flowers floated in the pool while

The evening ended with fire-

emony was held close to Leigh’s

guests dined on Caribbean cuisine

works and many of the guests jump-

home along the border between

such as jerk chicken, grilled pineap-

ing in the pool. Barb’s favorite part

Connecticut and New York; and it

ple and coconut shrimp.

of her tropical-themed wedding was

was steeped in Scottish tradition.

Even the bride and groom

that although everyone was still

The Scottish are very particular

dressed like they were on an island

physically in Nebraska, guests felt

about the details of their tradition-

vacation in a breezy halter beach-

like they had been taken on a beau-

al uniform, even down to the type

style dress and white linen pants

tiful island vacation.

of knife worn in the sock and the

and a gauzy shirt.

animal skin sporran worn around the

The Hoffs were married in July, and

any

outdoor

wedding

Scottish Tradition

waist. Leigh and William worked

William and Leigh Hardie

hard to get every detail correct.

Nebraska comes with weather con-

Photographer: Paula Moser

cerns. “It could have rained and

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The groomsmen and ushers wore the traditional uniform from

ruined everything,” says Barb. The

Leigh and William Hardie’s

the kilt down to the lace-up shoes.

risk was worth it because the 4th

courtship gave new meaning to

Even the 4-year-old ring bearer

of July holiday is special to them

long-distance romance. Leigh has

wore the Scottish outfit. To com-

and they wanted to be able to

lived in America all of her life.

plement her groom, Leigh wore a

celebrate it with their anniversary

William is a full-blooded Scottish

special plaid sash across her gown.

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Leigh admits it was a challenge to convince the men in the wedding

kilts – but Leigh requested they not

tables. Custom-made Mexican paper

go bare on her wedding day.

banners and paper flowers hung

party to wear “skirts” – especially the non-Scottish men. The ceremony continued the tra-

from the ceiling. Manuel is from

Do-It-Yourself Creativity

Mexico and banners are tradition-

J. Manuel and Denise Garcia

al in Latino weddings.

dition with Scottish music and

Photographer: Colleen Dustin

another custom where the bride and

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Denise admits that cutting all the petals for each flower was time-con-

groom formally sign the wedding

Denise Garcia is a creative and

suming. She and her family and

paperwork before the wedding in

“crafty” person who can make

friends (including her husband)

front of the guests.

beautiful things out of paper, scis-

created nearly 100 flowers – daisies

Although it was held in the Unit-

sors and glue. When planning her

containing eight petals and tulips

ed States, the location had stone

wedding, she decided to create her

with five petals, both with a minia-

fences and old brick details that

own wedding invitations rather

ture flower in the center. All of this

made guests feel like they had trav-

than purchase preprinted ones.

cutting, gluing, assembling and

eled to a European countryside.

This sparked other ideas; and soon

drying took 70-80 hours, spread out

For her Scottish wedding, Leigh

Denise and her husband were plan-

over the course of about two

says, “The most important thing was

ning a do-it-yourself (DIY) wedding

weeks.

that we had the nuts and bolts of

featuring paper creations.

With a background in graphic

the uniform for the men.” Howev-

The Garcias’ wedding and recep-

design, Denise added her creative

er, there was one detail they did not

tion included handmade paper

flair to everything from the direc-

follow. Authentic Scotsmen don’t

daisies and tulips decorating the

tional signs for guests to a small

wear undergarments beneath their

aisles and adorning the reception

note by the guestbook.

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The Garcias decided to do a DIY

part of her destination wedding was

wedding to add a personal touch to

getting her wedding dress to Hawaii

their ceremony and reception. “Our

and back in one piece. With the help

favorite part was seeing every-

of a travel agent and local Hawai-

thing come together on our wed-

ian wedding coordinator, all of the

ding day and seeing everyone’s

details were covered with ease.

reaction to all the little details,” says Denise.

One of Corey’s favorite memories of her Hawaiian wedding was

The Garcias’ personal touch

watching family and friends enjoy

extended beyond the wedding and

the true beauty of the island that

reception, as guests took the beau-

she has come to love. Many of her

tiful handmade flowers home as

guests are saving for their next

favors.

Hawaiian vacation.

(For more on this wedding, see page 232.)

An Artistic Approach Dan and Laurelin Nesbitt

Aloha Bride and Groom

Photographer: Douglas Gunder,

Jeff and Corey Dousharm

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Photographer: Sarah Pfeiffer Photography

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set out to do a themed wedding,

Kauai, Hawaii has always held a

but it naturally evolved out of the

special place in Corey Dousharm’s

location of their reception venue –

heart. While growing up, she trav-

the Joslyn Art Museum in Omaha.

eled there with her family on a few

As a child, Laurelin visited the

occasions and even proclaimed

Joslyn countless times; and her

that someday she would get mar-

father always talked about having

ried there.

her wedding reception there. When

Corey’s “someday” came when

that dream became a reality, Lau-

she and her husband Jeff were mar-

relin says, “It seemed only natural

ried on the beach in Kauai sur-

to incorporate the art theme into

rounded by family and friends.

the whole reception.” As this theme

The couple’s Hawaiian theme

idea evolved, she says it became

began with a traditional luau

more and more eclectic and trans-

prenuptial dinner in Hawaii and con-

formed from art to art/art deco to

cluded with a reception in Lincoln

art/art deco/vintage 1920s.

that incorporated bright orange and

With a backdrop of the Joslyn

pink flowers reminiscent of her

and its art, fountains and art deco

bouquet in Hawaii and center-

beauty, Dan and Laurelin continued

pieces featuring sand and seashells.

this theme in their decorations.

Corey describes herself as “a laid

Each reception table was named

back bride who loves the quirky

after a famous artist displayed in the

things”. Her fun personality showed

museum, such as Monet, Degas and

as she walked down the wedding

Cassatt. Laurelin bought every

pathway to the beach while a

postcard of paintings and sculptures

Hawaiian musician played “Some-

available in the museum gift shop

where Over the Rainbow” on a

and used them to make the table

ukulele.

centerpieces showcasing each artist.

She says the most challenging

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Dan and Laurelin Nesbitt didn’t

The women in the bridal party

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dressed with a 1920s flair. Brides-

wedding, or even choosing to have

or limited by conventional wedding

maids wore long ropes of faux

a theme, is a personal decision to

themes. Laurelin Nesbitt admits

pearls and instead of a traditional

be made by a bride and groom.

that her theme evolved naturally

veil, Laurelin wore a feather-and-

Couples should consider their mutu-

and she even incorporated more

rhinestone flower with a touch of

al interests, their personalities or

than one theme in her wedding. “As

netting.

even their heritage and determine

long as everything is somewhat

if it is something they want to incor-

related, don’t be afraid to use more

porate into their wedding day.

than one theme,” she says.

“My favorite part of doing a themed wedding,” says Laurelin, “was that it encouraged us to think

When deciding about a theme,

outside the box and get creative.”

Barb Hoff advises brides to carefully

If you have always dreamed of

For guests, it was an evening of

think through their decision. “This

saying “I do” in an exotic location,

memorable moments, like watching

is once-in-a-lifetime, so be 100

then a destination-themed wedding

Dan and Laurelin dance under the

percent sure,” she says. “The pic-

may be for you. Corey Dousharm

25-foot long Glowing Gemstone

tures last forever and there are no

planned a Hawaiian destination

Polyvitro chandelier, a stunning

do-overs!”

wedding and tells brides-to-be,

piece by American artist Dale Chihuly.

Denise Garcia says brides should think about what they are good at

Destination Considerations

“It’s a once-in-a-lifetime experience...do what YOU want.”

and use their strengths. “I’ve always

Some family and friends may not

Tips for Planning Your Themed Wedding

been crafty and have a background

be able to attend. Corey says it is

in design, so it was natural to do a

important that they know they are

To Theme or Not to Theme

DIY wedding,” she says.

invited, but that there is no pressure

Choosing a theme for your

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Brides should not feel trapped

to attend if they are unable to afford

it. One solution is to plan a recep-

as a DIY wedding, assemble a team

tion in your hometown following the

to help. Allow more than enough

wedding.

time to complete any projects. No

Providing guests at least five months advance notice is a must. Many people will jump at the chance to go on a mini-vacation.

one wants to be crafting the night before their wedding. Leigh Hardie kept her Scottish wedding small and simple and cau-

Corey also recommends using a

tions brides to avoid trying to turn

local coordinator to ensure that

their themed wedding into a

all details are covered and to get

“show”.

any special deals and recommen-

“If you think your wedding is

dations for restaurants and other

going to be a show, there are so

services.

many things that can go wrong,” she

Pulling It Off

says. Leigh recommends not try-

Before committing to a theme,

ing to outdo someone who had an

consider how you will incorporate

impressive wedding because it can

it into your wedding, whether it is

lead to disappointment.

clothing, favors, entertainment, dec-

A wedding is a celebration of the

orations, location, etc. Do some ini-

lifelong union of two people. Incor-

tial research to ensure your ideas are

porating a theme is a unique way

feasible and within your budget.

to enhance the day and make it

If your theme involves a significant amount of time and work, such

more personal to the bride and groom.

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Themed Wedding Ideas Holiday – Thanksgiving, Christmas, 4th of July – incorporate the

colors and traditions of the holiday. Green – Use eco-friendly and recycled products. Outdoor – Romantic and scenic…and a little risky. Seasonal – Plan a summer, spring, fall or winter celebration. Wine – Grapes, Tuscany, a vineyard and good vino. Vintage – Plan a throwback to the Victorian era, 1920s or even

the 50s. Ethnic – African, Indian, Spanish, Asian, Scottish – incorporate

the traditions, style and food. Renaissance – Walk down the aisle to your knight in shining armor. Western – Wildflowers, rustic, cowboy hats, picnic food. Birds of a Feather – Peacocks, lovebirds, doves, even flamingoes. You Pick – Whatever you like, from motorcycles to crafts or snowflakes to Mickey Mouse.

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Road Trip!

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Sullivan Photography

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Nearby locales for your wedding and honeymoon travels

By Joy Huber & Anne Blankenbiller

An exciting part of planning your wedding is re-visiting those fun dreams you had as a little girl about your big day. Of course, your carefree childhood daydreams were probably not interrupted with worries about the cost. That reality hits as you reconcile your dreams for your day with a little thing called the wedding budget.

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Fear not…help is here! There is

While enjoying the splendor of

Western history, stop by one of

a treasure trove of vacation hot

the scenery, you will have numer-

many museums and historic build-

spots within driving distance of Big

ous opportunities to view the area’s

ings along the 272-mile byway,

Red country. Here are a few great

wildlife. Each spring, nature lovers,

including the Stuhr Museum of the

wedding-related reasons to go on

photographers and bird enthusiasts

Prairie Pioneer.

a little road trip:

flock to Nebraska to witness the

Take a detour to the Switzer

• You need a fun getaway or a

annual Sandhill Crane migration

Ranch northwest of Burwell and

and the prairie chicken booming.

stay at Calamus Outfitters to expe-

place to regroup with your wedding party as you deal with the

For a look into the region’s rich

rience life on a real cattle ranch.

stress of your wedding planning. • You want to have a bachelor and bachelorette weekend away from home while avoiding the cliché of Vegas. • You’re thinking of having a destination wedding. • You need a great honeymoon spot that’s also affordable and within reasonable traveling distance. No one wants to spend their first few days as newlyweds stuck at an airport unable to get to their sandy beach dream oasis due to flight cancellations at Chicago O’Hare.

Nebraska Sandhills – Natural Beauty and Serenity It isn’t necessary to leave the state of Nebraska to find a great getaway – just head west to the Sandhills. This area is sometimes referred to as one of the last unexplored frontiers. The remote countryside trades busy streets and stoplights for dramatic landscapes of cornfields, rolling hills of cattle, marshes, wetlands and the nation’s largest hand-planted forest. The best way to experience the unique part of the state is to drive along Nebraska Highway 2 from Grand Island to Alliance, known as the Sandhills Scenic Byway. Don’t be in a hurry! You’ll want to slow down to enjoy the peaceful solitude of your surroundings.

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Calamus Outfitters is a source for

The Winding Stream Spa is

outdoor recreational activities to

accessed without setting foot out-

interest anyone of any age. Horse-

side the resort. In addition to an

back riding, river rafting, canoeing,

array of massages, scrubs and

jeep tours, hunting and bird-watch-

wraps, there are also packages for

ing are just some of the activities

your groom or the men on the trip. Meskwaki is certainly not the

offered. The property offers a glimpse of

“only” option in the area. If you’re

the Old West while providing mod-

seeking shopping & wineries, the

ern amenities for comfort.

popular Amana Colonies of Iowa is approximately a one-hour drive

Tama, Iowa – Midwest Oasis You may never have thought of

and features many affordable winerever, you’ll be pleasantly surprised

ies with complimentary tastings, as

to discover this best-kept secret.

well as delightfully diverse options

a typical getaway spot to be as

The quaint town of Tama, IA is

close as a quick drive to Iowa. How-

an approximate 3-4 hour drive from the Lincoln and Omaha area. Outside of Tama is the oasis of the

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Mt. Rushmore – Patriotic Grandeur

Meskwaki Resort. The Meskwaki

You may remember the picture

offers something for everyone –

of Mt. Rushmore in your 5th grade

bingo and casinos for gamers, an

history book, but that is nothing

indoor pool and whirlpool, an exer-

compared to seeing the massive

cise area, live entertainment in the

piece of art up close and in person.

convention center and a spa for a

The stately portraits of four great

little de-stressing.

American Presidents exude patri-

There are five dining choices

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for both shopping & dining.

otism and grandeur.

without leaving the resort. Whether

However, South Dakota offers

you’re craving seafood, a steak buf-

more than just the world’s greatest

fet or breakfast at 9 PM, all are avail-

mountain sculpture. It’s also a great

able at reasonable prices.

location for your getaway.

ed buttes. These areas are full of

heart of the western region of

many different types of wildlife,

South Dakota. This area is also home

including antelope, deer, mountain

to the Black Hills and Badlands

goats and prairie dogs.

areas, known for their expansive

Visitors can also take in the

beauty. The Black Hills are full of

Crazy Horse Memorial, ride in a hot

scenery, adventure and rich his-

air balloon or tour on horseback.

tory. With one of the largest con -

Lodging comes in many forms,

centrations

parks,

including mountain cottages, cozy

monuments and caves in the Mid-

bed and breakfasts, rustic campsites

west, you won’t be lacking for

and affordable hotels.

national

interesting places to go and things

Weston, Missouri – History and Charm

to see. Looking out from Mt. Rushmore

If a quaint, historical town offer-

National Memorial, one can see the

Strohm Photography & Design

Mt. Rushmore is located in the

down the historic streets, you find one-of-a-kind

shops

featuring

ing upscale dining and local wine

lands and its miles of sharply erod-

interests you, a trip to Weston, Mis-

antiques, clothing and unique jew-

souri is the ticket. Weston is locat-

elry. Artisans offer their work,

ed a short jaunt off of I-29 between

including folk, stained glass and tex-

Kansas City and St. Joseph.

tile art, as well as a candle maker

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breathtaking expanse of the Bad-

home furnishings and accessories,

In the mid-nineteenth century,

pouring daily. Most shops are local-

Weston was a bustling Missouri

ly owned and located in buildings

River port community. That historic

that pre-date the Civil War.

charm has been preserved, as a

Don’t plan on having a burger

major portion of the early town was

and fries through the drive-through

designated as a Historic District and

while visiting Weston. Restaurants

placed on the National Register of

are locally owned and operated and

Historic Places.

offer everything from comfort food

Unique shopping is a trade-

to four-star dining. Those with a

mark of Weston. While strolling

taste for vino can sample the wines

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Breckenridge, Colorado – Rocky Mountain High Nothing can be more breathtaking, picturesque, relaxing and invigorating

than

the

Rocky

Mountains of Colorado. Just a day’s drive away and you can be in the heart of this sweeping mountain range among the pines and the aspens

breathing

clean,

crisp

mountain air. Breckenridge began as an old gold mining town and today is a from local wineries, including one

popular ski village. It is also grow-

located in a former German Luther-

ing in popularity as a summer des-

an Evangelical Church built in 1867.

tination, with numerous outdoor

Weston has numerous Bed and

activities, quaint shops and art

many amenities, such as in-house

Breakfast Inns, many of which are

galleries, unending dining options

spas, pools, Jacuzzis and exercise

located in historic Victorian or

and mild weather.

rooms.

antebellum mansions. Laurel Brooke

Hiking, mountain biking and

Vacations and honeymoons do

Farm Bed and Breakfast is in a barn

white water rafting are popular

not have to include oceanside

renovated by Amish craftsmen and

attractions. Some ski lifts and gon-

views or metropolitan cities. If your

is nestled in a grove of trees on 40

dolas even operate in the summer

budget won’t allow for these expen-

acres surrounded by a fruit orchard,

to take tourists to higher spots on

sive destinations, consider the end-

pecan grove and vineyard. The inn

the mountains for scenic views of

less options Nebraska and its

offers tranquility and beauty in this

the town below and beautiful hikes

neighboring states have to offer.

countryside setting, while providing

through the wildflowers.

After all, it’s not all about the des-

beautiful and comfortable accom-

With resort-style lodges, bed

tination, but rather the people (or

modations and a hearty breakfast

and breakfasts and hotels, lodging

one special person) who join us

in the morning.

is not difficult to find and offers

there.

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You Get What You

Pay For By Kristen Castillo

Did you ever buy a blouse that looked worn out after two washes? A shampoo that didn’t leave your hair as shiny as the label promised? A coffee pot that didn’t keep your java hot? We have all made bad purchases to save money or time – or sometimes for reasons we’re not even sure about. However, your wedding day is not the time to cut any corners. After all, you only get this day once and money spent on a bad service or product is just money wasted.

Quality Counts Budget challenges are a reality these days, but that doesn’t mean it makes sense to cut important services like professional photography, which will last a lot longer than the ceremony or the reception.

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You need to choose quality

some key moments – like when the

In addition, professionals have

when you book a vendor. If you

groom and I first saw each other – and

experience, insurance and lots of

don’t do your research before you

she didn’t know much about lighting

references for you to check.

hire someone, you may regret your

or editing, so the color isn’t very good

decision. Hiring an amateur would

in most of the images.”

be a huge disappointment and you could end up risking quality. Imag-

The bottom line? Don’t sacrifice quality.

Connect With Your Vendor You need a wedding pro you like

ine your frustration and dissatis-

Many amateurs or wedding ven-

and can trust. While cheaper ven-

faction with a lopsided cake, dark

dors new to the industry may have

dors may be available to work

photos or bad alterations.

cheaper prices, but they can’t offer

your event, be cautious about find-

If you’re not happy with your

what you really want and need – a

ing the right person. You’ll really

photographer and the resulting

quality product or service. They

benefit if you get along with your

images after the wedding, it’s

offer low prices to get you to hire

planner, photographer, officiant and

already too late. After all, the pho-

them, but they often lack the expe-

every other wedding vendor with

tos can’t be redone.

rience needed to make sure your

whom you work.

Just ask Sarah, a recent bride in Lincoln. “I wish I had hired a more

event shines like it should.

“My fiancé and I weren’t very reli-

By hiring a professional, you

gious, so we just hired someone

she

guarantee that your wedding ven-

who advertised as an officiant on

admits. “I hired a good friend of mine

dor – whether it’s a consultant, a

the internet,” Laura, an Omaha

who had recently started her own pho-

florist, a caterer, a DJ or any other

native, admits. “We met him and

tography business. She had talent, but

pro – has the right skills, experience

spoke with him several times, so we

no training or experience. She missed

and credentials to do the job well.

thought everything would be fine.

experienced

photographer,”

On our wedding day he showed up five minutes after the ceremony was supposed to start – everyone was in panic mode. I wanted to cry!” There are scores of other cautionary tales out there that can be a warning to you as you plan your wedding. Think about it – wouldn’t you rather trust your wedding hair and makeup to a stylist you like and respect? What about your florist – would you prefer someone who has been in business for 10 years or 6 months? Don’t forget about the wedding coordinator – how can a novice planner know how to handle emergencies that crop up during the day if she doesn’t have experience or training? If you hire a budget vendor, you might not have the peace of mind that comes with selecting a knowledgeable professional. Instead, you’ll wish too late that you made the decision to pay a little more money for a quality vendor.

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Price Points Price matters, but it’s not the only concern. Sure, you may save a few hundred dollars with a budget wedding vendor, but you might not be happy with the vendor’s skills or product. Most of the time that means you’ll be out of luck with unsatisfactory wedding services. For many brides, the way to have a dream wedding without cutting costs is to have a longer engagement. You can save money to do things the way you want them done.

• Balance your budget. Decide

customers. Ask the vendor for

what is most important to you

names and phone numbers of

and let that lead you to the areas

recent clients (within the past

where you can cut costs. If you

year).

want breathtaking centerpieces

• If it seems too good to be true,

at your reception but don’t care

it probably is. This adage is true

so much about the favors, adjust

and your wedding is the wrong

your budget accordingly.

time to find out you’re dealing

• Ask to see a business license and

with an amateur. Trust your gut

proof of insurance. These are the

– if something seems off, turn to

basics every professional vendor

a vendor you know you can

should have.

trust!

● NWD

• Find vendors from respected sources. The Midwest Bridal Association (MWbride.com) and

Look for NWD on Facebook and Twitter!

the Better Business Bureau You want to stay on budget and have a wonderful day. That’s a lot to balance, but you can prioritize what matters most to you. You need to do everything the right way from the very beginning so you can

(bbb.com) are reliable ways to find approved vendors, as are NWD’s magazine and website. • Check references. You want a wedding pro who has lots of experience and many satisfied

be happy at the very end. Remember that your wedding is a once-ina-lifetime event – you want it to be everything you imagined, and there’s no room for a do-over.

Things to Consider: • Don’t let price be your only question. Many professional vendors will work with your budget. • Get at least three quotes. Ask for price and service quotes from a few vendors you’re considering hiring. You’ll be able to compare packages to see what you’ll get for your money. • Don’t be lured by a deal. Be wary of discounts offered by so-called wedding vendors that you find advertising online in the classifieds. They may be offering discounts because they’re not professionals. Look for vendors offering specials through credible sources, like NWD’s blog or local bridal shows.

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A BETTER EXPOSURE www.ABetterExposure.com Our Style: This directory will provide you with

fine art, photojournalistic, and portrait

information on Nebraskaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s finest wedding photographers. All information is subject to change without notice.

Phone

402.453.6000

Years in Business

Some features may be available

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

on a limited, seasonal, or

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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by request-only basis.

ATTANASIO PHOTOGRAPHY www.AttanasioPhotography.com

BAUMAN PHOTOGRAPHY www.BaumanPhotography.net

Our Style:

Life. Whim. Art.

Real romantic relaxed fun art

Phone

402.525.2003

Years in Business

Phone

402.476.4905

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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192

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BRIGHTEN PHOTOGRAPHY www.BrightenPhotography.com

CASEY FRITTON PHOTOGRAPHY www.FrittonPhoto.com

Our Style:

AWESOMENESS.

Real, True, Fun

Phone

See our website

Years in Business

Phone Years in Business

402.416.8173 7

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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Yes

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COLLEEN DUSTIN PHOTOGRAPHY www.DustinPhoto.com

COREY ROURKE PHOTOGRAPHY www.CoreyRourkePhotography.com

Our Style:

Documenting Love Stories

Fun, Contemporary, Illustrative

Phone

402.933.7711

Years in Business

Phone

402.466.4644

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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175

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DOUGLAS GUNDER, PHOTOGRAPHER www.DouglasGunder.com

ELIZA PORTRAIT DESIGN www.ElizaPortraits.com

Our Style:

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s about you!

contemporary, artistic, elegant

Phone

402.571.2399

Phone

402.932.1474

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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ELWOOD PHOTOGRAPHY www.ElwoodPhoto.com

ERIN STOLL PHOTOGRAPHY www.ErinStollPhotography.com

Our Style:

creative, memorable, cutting-edge

Contemporary, Artistic & Romantic

Phone

402.770.7458

Years in Business

Phone

402.641.6918

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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GEOFF JOHNSON PHOTOGRAPHER www.GeoffJohnsonPhoto.com

IMAGES BY TLC www.ImagesByTLC.com

Our Style:

Editorial wedding photography

Artistic story-telling memories

Phone

402.214.7366

Phone

402.216.1339

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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IWEN EXPOSURES www.IwenWeddings.com

JHD PHOTOGRAPHY www.jhdphotography.com

Our Style:

Real. Modern. Delightful

simple, lovely, funny

Phone

402.490.3083

Years in Business

Phone

402.235.3182

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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L SQUARED DESIGN & PHOTOGRAPHY STUDIO www.LSquaredDesign.net

LANE WEDDINGS www.LaneWeddings.com

Our Style:

Striking, Tailored, Intimate

Dramatic.

Phone

402.499.8104

Years in Business

Phone

402.677.3096

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Optional

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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MEGAN MARIE PHOTOGRAPHY www.MeganMarieWeddings.com | www.MeganMariePhotography.com

MELENBACKER PHOTOGRAPHY www.MelenbackerPhotography.com

Our Style:

Fresh, Modern, Flair

wedding and lifestyle photojournalism

Phone

402.699.5515

Years in Business

402.440.4937 or 308.234.4556

Phone Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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THE MOMENT IT CLICKS www.MomentItClicksPhotography.com

MONTE EVANS PHOTOGRAPHY www.MonteEvansPhoto.com

Our Style:

Creative Awesome Fun

Elegant, Romantic, Fun

Phone

402.261.0763

Years in Business

Phone Years in Business

402.292.6426 31

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes (Optional)

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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202

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PADDACK PHOTOGRAPHY www.PaddackPhotography.com

PAULA MOSER PHOTOGRAPHY www.PaulaMoser.com

Our Style:

Relaxed, Artistic, Photojournalistic

Photojournalistic, fun, natural

Phone

402.237.8042

Years in Business

Phone

402.884.2998

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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PETERS PHOTOGRAPHY www.PetersPhotography.net

PURPLE SKY PRODUCTIONS www.PurpleSkyProductions.net

Our Style:

Casual, Modern, Relaxed

contemporary, fun, real

Phone

402.742.4122

Years in Business

Phone

402.770.7576

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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199

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RICHMOND PHOTO/VIDEO www.RichmondPhoto.com

SAMMONS PHOTOGRAPHY www.SammonsPhotography.com

Our Style:

Fun & Energetic

Fun, Emotional, Memorable

Phone

402.202.6299

Years in Business

Phone

402.421.6787

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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SARAH PFEIFFER PHOTOGRAPHY www.PfeifferPhotography.com

SHANE & SUNNY PHOTOGRAPHY www.ShaneAndSunny.com

Our Style:

real, pure, unforgettable

Gotta have Shane & Sunny!

Phone Years in Business

402.792.2323 6

Phone Years in Business

402.488.4289 14

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

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Ad Page Number

173

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SOMETHING NEW PRODUCTIONS www.SomethingNewProductions.com

STROHM PHOTOGRAPHY & DESIGN www.StrohmPhotography.com

Our Style:

Personal, Freestyle

Bold, Fresh, Real

Phone

1.888.BRIDE.89

Years in Business

402.203.9489

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Ad Page Number

201

Ad Page Number

203

SULLIVAN PHOTOGRAPHY www.JamySullivanPhotography.com

T. STERBA PHOTOGRAPHY www.SterbaPhoto.com

Our Style:

Joyful, inspired & personal

Fresh, Fun, Fantastic

Phone

402.570.5298

Years in Business

402.551.3456

Years in Business

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Multiple Photographers Per Event

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Online Proofing/Hosting

Yes

Ad Page Number

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Wedding Weather Forecast You and your soon-to-be hubby are all about the outdoors. It’s been your dream to tie the knot under the big oak tree in your parent’s backyard or near the lake where you first locked lips. But you’re planning a Nebraska wedding and the weather here is unpredictable. Thanks to KLKN Chief Meteorologist Kevin Coskren, NWD is able to provide you with several factors to consider when planning an outdoor wedding in Nebraska. Month

Avg. High/Low

May*

75/50

By Chelsea Amundson

• It’s all about averages! Look at the average highs & lows over a period of time, but don’t forget to look at your record highs & lows as well. According to Coskren, “This is what really tells you the temperature extremes, which will be helpful when picking your wedding date.” • Watch out for severe weather! To avoid thunderstorms, plan a late morning wedding and a luncheon reception. Thunderstorms tend to pop up between 3:00 PM and 9:00 PM…and don’t forget about those Nebraska winds that tend to kick up in the afternoon. A tented reception by Lincoln Tent or Midwest Tent & Events is always a good option when planning your outdoor wedding. • What’s your Plan B? You can control your wedding, but you can’t control the weather. Always have a well-thought out backup plan in case the thunderheads decide to roll in on your big day.

Feels Like

Avg. Precipitation

Severe Weather

Wind Conditions

Mild Temperatures

4.25 in

High Possibility of Severe Weather Tornados

High Wind Conditions

An extreme change in temperature from the beginning to the end of the month.

Minimal humidity June*

85/60

Warm & Slightly Humid

3.5 in

Highest Possibility of Severe Weather Tornados

Breezy

July

90/66

Hot & Humid The last two weeks of July are the hottest during the year.

3.5 in

Chance of Thunderstorms

Breezy

August

87/63

Hot & Humid

3.5 in

Chance of Thunderstorms

Low Wind Conditions

September*

77/53

Mild to Moderate Temperatures Less humidity

2.92 in

Severe Weather is Unlikely

High Wind Conditions

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*Recommended months to wed outdoors in Nebraska according to local Chief Meteorologist Kevin Coskren are May, June & September.

real weddings

Photos by Brighten Photography

Retro Country length hair, huge diamond earrings and a bright orange shirt on. I remember seeing Evan and his very unusual style across the room and telling my friend how cute I thought he was.” Favorite detail: “The location. I love huge trees and lots of greenery. The trees with the barn at the Lied Lodge were the perfect combination for our wedding style.” Funniest moment: “My dad dancing – he really cut loose and had the time of his life. All of the groomsmen raised him up in the air on the dance floor and had him crowd surfing. He loved every moment of it and so did we!” Theme: Vintage/ Retro/ Country Special touches: The couple made wooden signs that were scattered throughout the wedding and reception with wood they found on their grandfather’s farm. They also made vases out of aspen tree trunks; used a rotary tool to engrave different things onto them; and then hollowed out a portion of the trunk to put in flowers. Talented groom: Evan, a graphic designer, designed the entire invitation suite (printed by Porridge Papers). Best advice: “Make your wedding YOU.

∏ Evan & Bailey Huwa

5.28.10

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The “unique” way he caught her eye: “He had a very ‘white trash’ mustache, shoulder-

Don’t settle for traditional – step out of the box and do things a little different.”

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~ Local Resources ~ Photographer Brighten Photography Ceremony, Reception & Rehearsal Dinner Location Lied Lodge Catering Lied Lodge Cake Butterfly Bakery Videographer A Sound Impression Music Primetime Music and Entertainment Flowers Petal Creations Rentals Charlene’s Bridal & Event Rentals Lights Country Elegance Invitations/Programs Porridge Papers Spa Services JMISKO Hair Kylie Oswald-Salon K Bridal Gown Galina Men’s Formal Wear J.Crew Custom Clutches 1154 LILL Studio

real weddings

∏ Cory & Angie Reiss

5.29.10

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DIY Delight How they met: The couple dated briefly in high school, but lost touch after that. They reconnected at Angie’s 10-year high school reunion and found themselves looking for more reasons to talk to one another throughout the evening. How he proposed: “We had just returned home from a friend’s wedding in Las Vegas on Easter Sunday and I found an Easter basket on the coffee table. Inside was a cute ceramic egg; and when I opened it the ring was inside and Cory was on one knee.” Number of guests: 200 Theme: Love birds were featured heavily throughout the wedding, including the handmade love birds on the wedding cake and love pheasants on the groom’s cake. Favorite detail: “I love how much of the wedding was homemade, with a lot of help from our family and friends.” Cool details included: Hand-tied bridesmaid peony bouquets, hand-painted walls and signs for the reception hall and boutonnieres made with antique buttons and feathers. What’s Next? “We’re hoping to start a family as soon as we get back from our honeymoon!”

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~ Local Resources ~ Photographer Paddack Photography Ceremony Location Heartland Evangelical Free Church, Central City Reception Location Riverside Dance Pavilion, Central City Cake Sister-in-law & Angie Music Jack Mack Music, Grand Island Rental of Linens AAA Rents, Kearney Hair/Makeup Rejuvenation Salon, Grand Island Bridal Gown d’Anelli Bridal and Tux, Lakewood CO, Designer - Watters Men’s Formal Wear Bridal Collection, Grand Island Flowers Hy-Vee Floral

real weddings

Carnivàle First date: “The horror movie Hostel…what were we thinking???” How he proposed: “Matt sent

∏ Matt & Lindsay Nehe

6.12.10

me on a treasure hunt that started when I walked into our house and ended at Holmes Lake. It was so cute – you could really tell that he put a lot of time and thought into it. The handdrawn map that led me to him was my favorite.” Theme: After choosing to have an outdoor ceremony and reception at the Capitol, the couple decided it would be fitting to have a Summer Fair/Vintage Carnival-inspired wedding. Creative menu: The couple’s food consisted of hot dogs, chicken and veggie skewers, coleslaw and potato salad. Each table also shared a homemade apple pie and ice cream. To top it all off, the late-night snack included a carousel wedding cake, funnel cakes, popcorn, nachos with cheese, saltwater taffy, lemonade and oldfashioned soda. If she could do it over… “It would have been a lot less stressful if we had rented a tent for back-up purposes. It rained up until 1 hour before our pictures began and held off until 30 minutes after the reception was over. Lucky for us the weather cooperated; but we would have been a lot more relaxed knowing that we had the tent just in case.” Favorite memory: “During our ceremony we released one monarch butterfly at a time to

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honor the loved ones whose lives were lost before the celebration of our wedding day.”

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~ Local Resources ~ Photographer Corey Rourke Photography Ceremony & Reception Location Nebraska State Capitol Catering Main St. at the Capitol Rehearsal Dinner Location Lazlo’s Brewery & Grill Wedding Cake & Groom’s Cake Butterfly Bakery Music DJ Romeo with Miracle Entertainment Harpist Harpin’ Heidi Flowers Petal Creations Rentals AAA Rents Favors Rocket Fizz Invitations/Programs Create Art Inspire Design Hair/Makeup Serenity Salon Rings A.T. Thomas Jewelers Bridal Gown 1st dress Ellynne Bridal; 2nd dress handmade by Karen Williams Men’s Formal Wear Men’s Wearhouse

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5.29.10

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Color Revival Instant Attraction: His red hair caught her eye; he liked her personality and smile. Team effort: “Our families came together for months of work to transform a warehouse into a modern ballroom; they helped us make our dreams come true!” Favorite memory: “Seeing all of the flowers for the first time at both the church and the reception – it was great to see everything come together.” Favorite Detail: “My RED shoes!” Design Inspiration: Colorful polka dots Choosing the gown: Leigh’s dad found her gown; and everyone loved the open back. She wanted a 1950s-style party dress for her reception, so she had a second gown made by a vintage gown maker in California. Best advice: “Do as much as you can ahead of time and keep a running checklist.”

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~ Local Resources ~ Photographer Something New Productions Ceremony Location Covenant Presbyterian Church Reception Location Leigh’s father’s office warehouse Catering Patricia’s Catering Cake Lithuanian Torte-The Lithuanian Bakery and Dorene Sillman Rehearsal Dinner Location Regency Clubhouse Videographer The Silver Screen Music Complete Music Flowers D. Damon Samuel Rentals United Rentals Lighting Theatrical Media Services Transportation Omaha Fiesta Bus Invitations/Programs Sarah Carver Hair/Makeup Nicole Bouwens Rings Sartor Hamman Bridal Gown/Bridesmaids’ Gowns Bridal Extraordinaire and Dolly Couture Men’s Formal Wear Tip Top Tux

real weddings

Divine Design

How they met: Through mutual friends at a rooftop barbecue at the Old Market Lofts in downtown Omaha. How he proposed: “J.R. and I were on a ski trip in Aspen, CO. Unbeknownst to me, he had

∏ J.R. & Alison Johnson

10.2.10

put an ad in the local Aspen Times newspaper asking me to marry him. When we were walking out the door to go eat dinner, he grabbed a paper and told me to check out this cool article (which was really the ad asking me to marry him). I was so shocked I had to read it several times. When I finally looked up he was down on one knee with the ring; and I, of course, started screaming, ‘YES!’ He then had a sleigh pick us up and take us on a ride into the mountains and then to dinner at Nobu, a fancy sushi restaurant in downtown Aspen.” Favorite Detail: “Our friends and family – and the lobster bisque!” Thoughtful hosts: At the end of the night, guests were treated to La Casa pizza with bottles of Coca-Cola and Vic’s popcorn. Embarrassing moment: “The bridesmaids’ dresses were a little too form fitted. During the ceremony, one of my bridesmaids was walking down the aisle and as she carefully climbed the stairs to the sanctuary stage, she accidentally tripped. Her dress let out a huge ‘RIP’ and not only did everyone hear it, but she also almost dove head-first onto the stage. She was mortified, but by the end of the night ALL of the bridesmaids’ dresses had ripped somewhere. We joked that unlike most girls, we all ate pizza instead of salad the week before

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the wedding.” If I could do it over… “I would have made it last two days!”

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~ Local Resources ~ Photographer Geoff Johnson, Photographer Ceremony Location Christ Community Church, Omaha Reception, Cake & Catering Happy Hollow Country Club Rehearsal Dinner Location The Flatiron Café Videographer The Wedding Storytellers Music Ceremony-Midland Strings Quartet; Reception-Galaxy Red Flowers Liz Larmore and Aaron Carlson Design Team Rentals & Decorations AAA Rents, Liz Larmore and Aaron Carlson Design Team Transportation VIP Limo Invitations/Programs Carrie Ratcliff, Wedding Invitation Ensemble Designer Hair Blayr Mallory and Ashley Levey-Creative Hair Design; Darcy McGuire-Boss Studio Salon Makeup Christine Danderand-Blush Makeup Rings Scot Caniglia Bridal Gown/Bridesmaids’ Gowns Bridal Traditions Men’s Formal Wear Lindley Clothing Wedding Planner Ann Pitschka-AAA Rents & Nina Roumpf-Uniquely Nina

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9.17.10

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Outdoor Chic First dance song: “Let’s Stay Together” by Al Green Finding the dress: “I knew I wanted something with texture that was different; and frankly, after trying on probably close to 200 dresses over the course of 2 months I was sick of looking!” Inspiration: Peacock feathers – the invitations featured a peacock feather; the bouquets were accented with them; and the boutonnieres were made from peacock feathers. I’m so glad we… “Hired a live band!” Coolest detail: “We had mustaches printed on the back of the programs to add a bit of humor to the day and set the tone for the night.” Oops!: “We had a bonfire and a guest tripped and fell into it. She was okay, though!” Budget bride: “We are living proof that a wedding can be done on a tight budget. Decide from the start what’s most important to you and allocate enough money towards those things. After that, do what you can and know that ultimately it’s about spending the rest of your life with the person you love.”

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~ Local Resources ~ Photographer Strohm Photography & Design Ceremony, Reception & Catering Bellevue Berry Farm & Pumpkin Patch Rehearsal Dinner Location Rick’s Boatyard Café Music The Personics Flowers Leigh Jacobs Brassette Creativeleigh Designed Events Rentals/Decorations/Favors Homemade by Joy’s uncle Transportation Hayrack ride-Bellevue Berry Farm & Pumpkin Patch Invitations/Programs MSM Printing Hair Mod Studios Makeup Blush Makeup Artistry Rings Larry Rosso & Greenberg’s Bridal Gown/Bridesmaids’ Gowns David’s Bridal (bride’s gown); Kohl’s (bridesmaids) Men’s Formal Wear Men’s Wearhouse Dessert Ted & Wally’s Ice Cream

real weddings

Garden Fiesta ∏

How they met: “We met while I was a volunteer teaching ESL classes at a coffee shop and community center in Omaha. We became friends talking for hours after my class. The owner of the coffee shop used to always say that we would get married and we would just laugh. He was so right!” Speaking of… The small neighborhood and coffee shop is no longer in

J. Manuel & Denise Garcia

business, but the former owner – and now friend of the couple – was their wedding officiant. Best decision: “Our photographer, Colleen, was a huge help in coordinating things and keeping us on time. She really made our day easy and the photos are gorgeous!” DIY

5.15.10

Inspiration: “I was inspired to create a DIY Mexican Garden theme with paper flowers after

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me walking down the aisle to one of ‘our songs’ (‘Solo Queria un Café’ by Ricardo Arjona),

we ordered custom papel picado from Ay Mujer! on etsy.com. I even designed and created our invitations in both English and Spanish.” Favorite memory: “My favorite memory was of seeing tears of joy from my husband and wiping them away.” Joined in Harmony: The couple received tons of compliments on the ceremony music by Marcos Mora of Latino Productions and felt privileged to have him play at their ceremony.

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~ Local Resources ~ Photographer Colleen Dustin Photography Ceremony Location Elmwood Park Grotto Reception Location OM Healing Arts Center Catering Avesta Cuisine Cakes La Charlotte & Caniglia Bakery Music Marcos Mora Latino Productions Flowers Garden Flowers Rentals United Rent-All Decorations Custom Papel Picado-Ay Mujer! (etsy.com); Large Hanging Tissue Pom Flowers-Prost to the Host (etsy.com); Paper flowers handmade by the couple Hair The ICON Studio Gowns Bridal gown-David’s Bridal Maid of Honor gownBill Levkoff Men’s Formal Wear Men’s Wearhouse Alterations Diane’sTailoring Local Wine Soaring Wings Vineyard

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Romantic Elegance Husker power: Rachel was a star player on the UNL women’s volleyball team from 2005-2008.

∏ Tim & Rachel Culwell

5.22.10

How they met: “I asked God to send me the man of my dreams… not five minutes had passed and my friend called me and said she had someone that I had to meet!” How he proposed: Rachel is an ice cream fiend, and had always wanted to create her own ice cream flavor. Tim took her to Ivanna Cone, where a new flavor called Wedding Cake was on the menu (previously arranged between him and the owner), and dropped down on one knee. He wanted to make her dreams of getting married and having her own flavor of ice cream both come true. First dance song: “A Night Like This” by David Barnes You just have to laugh: “The bridesmaids’ dresses were discontinued, which made us scramble to find new ones; our transportation was liquidated to another company a month before the wedding (we didn’t find out until about two weeks before); and our flight to Jamaica for our honeymoon was cancelled. Our flower girls and ring bearer took the instructions to walk slowly to heart and walked so slowly that the song had to be started over and over; and my dress was torn twice (once by Tim). Luckily, the way your wedding goes is not an indication of how happy you are in marriage!” Creating the ambiance: “I wanted to have

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classic elegance and a romantic feel. Orange is my favorite color; I think sometimes it gets a bad rap, so I wanted to use it and show how beautiful it can be. I also used a lot of white.”

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videography

The Scoop on Creating

High-Def Memories By Anne Blankenbiller

When newly married couples reflect on their weddings, many say the day passed by in a flash. After months of planning and preparation, the big day arrives; with an “I do” and a toast, it’s over too quickly. Photographs provide snapshots, but video is the best way to preserve the sights, sounds, and emotions of your wedding day.

Do I Need to Hire a Videographer? Consumer video camera technology has improved significantly in recent years, but don’t agree too fast to Uncle Ed’s offer to video your special day. “You hire a professional videographer for the same reason you hire other professionals (photographer, caterer, DJ), rather than entrusting those responsibilities to friends or family members,” says Miriam Moran of Simply Perfect Films. Professional videographers know the best way to capture your wedding memories.

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How Do I Find the Right Videographer?

product and experience of the

day are important considerations.

videographer in mind.

Discuss how intrusive a videographer will be while filming. You don’t

A good place to start when looking for a videographer is referrals from married friends and family or vendors you are working with,

What Do I Need to Consider with Videography?

want your guests to feel like the Duggar family in 19 Kids and Counting, with a camera in their faces the

such as your photographer, caterer,

When planning a wedding video,

entire day. A skilled and profes-

reception hall manager, or florist.

choosing a video style is an important

sional videographer can capture

Brides and grooms can also research

first step. Moran describes some

great footage and memories with-

videographers through their Web

common styles as: cinematic – a clas-

out being noticed.

sites and online video samples. Cali

sic, romantic, movie-style; journalis-

Hlavac of A Sound Impression advis-

tic – a more modern, straightforward

es couples to review 20-30 minutes

video style; and documentary –

of a prospective videographer’s

telling the story of the day without

There are two basic digital formats:

edited footage to evaluate the qual-

much editing or enhancement. Watch-

high definition (HD) and standard def-

ity of the work.

ing sample videos can help determine

inition (SD). Simply put, HD means a

what you prefer.

higher quality picture with superior

It is also important to meet the

What Do I Need to Know About HD?

videographer in person. “You will be

Videographers can also offer

resolution. The most common way

spending a lot of time with the

other services, such as special

HD video is distributed is on BluRay

videographers on your wedding day

videos to be shown at the wedding

DVDs, which require a BluRay player

– be sure you are comfortable and

reception, photo montages, and

and HD television to view them. It is

at ease with them,” notes Moran.

“same day edits”. Specialty videos

becoming standard for videogra-

can include extended preparations,

phers to offer HD with their packages.

Don’t be afraid to ask questions offered,

rehearsal and rehearsal dinner cov-

According to The Silver Screen’s

price, extra services, DVD comple-

erage, bridal spotlight videos, and

Aaron and Molly Zavitz, “With BluRay

tion time, and filming plan on the

the bride and groom’s love story.

players becoming more affordable

about

the

packages

day of the wedding. Couples should

The number of videographers

every day, the demand for high defi-

consider the packages and prices

and cameras used to film your wed-

nition is becoming increasingly pop-

offered by various companies, while

ding and the amount of time they

ular and that means higher quality

keeping the quality of the final

will spend with you on the wedding

picture resolution.”

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A videographer can use an HD camera to film a wedding and then provide the end result in both HD (to be played on BluRay DVDs), and SD, which can be played on any DVD player. Brides and grooms can expect to pay more for HD video, and some videographers still film in SD, which is still good quality. Couples should think long term when considering HD versus SD. With technol ogy changing, using HD can help “future-proof’ your wedding video.

What Are the Latest Trends? “Same day edits”, where the videographer creates a quick video showing preparations and ceremony highlights, are becoming a popular option for entertaining guests during the reception. Another fun trend is creating a music video where the wedding party lip syncs to a selected song. Aside from these extra video options, brides and grooms today are looking for a well-edited mix of cinematic and documentary. “Today’s brides and grooms are looking for something that’s a cross between the epic movies like Pearl Harbor and the best reality shows on TV,” the Zavitzes say. “They want a video that is emotionally cinematic yet also spontaneous and fun.”

What is Becoming Outdated? As HD becomes more affordable, SD will become less available. While all companies may not shoot 100% of their videos in HD yet, the option should still be available. Wireless microphones are also becoming more common to capture audio. Hlavac advises brides to avoid videographers who use too many over-the-top effects in their video. “The standards of black and white, slow motion, fades, etc. will always stand, but overusing crazy transitions and colors will make the video look outdated a few years down the road.”

Lights, Camera, Action! Your big day will only happen once. You picked the dress, the perfect colors and flowers, the beautiful music, and invited those you love to share the day with you. Through professional video, you (and someday your grandchildren) can relive those special sights, sounds, and walks down the aisle for many years to come.

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Gleeful

Wedding Dance Songs

The show’s best covers for your big day By Holly Lafferty

Here at NWD, we’re Glee-obsessed like many others in the nation right now, so we thought we would get in on the craze and offer our Top 20 song choices to liven up your reception. Some are goofy and tongue-in-cheek; others will work perfectly for a romantic first dance; but all are great options.

First Dance Songs: “Lucky” (Dianna Agron & Chord Overstreet - Colbie Caillat & Jason Mraz) “Faithfully” (Glee cast - Journey) “The Only Exception” (Lea Michele - Paramore) “Don’t Go Breakin’ My Heart” (Cory Monteith & Lea Michele - Elton John & Kiki Dee) “River Deep-Mountain High” (Amber Riley & Naya Rivera - Ike & Tina Turner)

Mother/Son & Father/Daughter Songs: “Over the Rainbow” (Matthew Morrison & Mark Salling - Israel Kamakawiwo’ole) “To Sir, With Love” (Glee cast – Lulu) “I Say a Little Prayer” (Dianna Agron, Naya Rivera & Heather Morris – Dionne Warwick) “Bridge Over Troubled Water” (Amber Riley – Aretha Franklin)

“Lean on Me” (Glee cast – Bill Withers)

Choreographed Songs: (Bride & Groom or Wedding Party): “Gold Digger” (Glee cast – Kanye West & Jamie Foxx) “Safety Dance” (Glee cast – Men without Hats) “Vogue” (Jane Lynch – Madonna) “Toxic” (Glee cast – Britney Spears) “You’re the One That I Want” (Lea Michele & Cory Monteith – Grease)

Crowd-Pleasers: “Only the Good Die Young” (Mark Salling – Billy Joel) “Jump” (Glee cast – Van Halen) “Don’t Stop Believin’” (Glee cast – Journey) “Halo/Walkin’ on Sunshine” (Glee cast – Beyoncé Knowles/Katrina and the Waves) “Bust a Move” (Glee cast – Young MC) NWD

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Shane & Sunny Photography

Arrive

in Style

A Guide to Transportation Options By Kristen Castillo

Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve never had so many transportation choices to get you to and from your ceremony and reception. These days you can book a Rolls Royce, a Hummer, a standard limousine, a classic car or a horse and carriage. Howâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s that for options?

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With help from popular rental company Luxury Limousine, NWD

style. Plus, these cars always look amazing in photos.

has come up with some essential information to consider before you book your wedding transportation.

Modern Style In a very modern twist, many wedding parties get underway in

The Red Carpet Experience The traditional option for wed-

stretch Cadillac Escalades and stretch Lincoln Navigators, which can usually seat 12 to 20 people.

ding transportation is a limousine.

Stretch vehicles are a wedding

These elegant vehicles get you to

trend across the industry because

the ceremony in high fashion, as

wedding parties are getting so large.

though you’re a celebrity arriving at

Thinking big often means Hum-

a red carpet event. Your wedding is

mer limousines, which have been

your premiere, so make the most of

very popular in the past few years.

the moment.

These showy vehicles, which can

A typical wedding transportation

accommodate 14 to 20 people, are

package may include red carpet

all about drawing attention. From

service, napkins, glasses, ice, dec-

the scissor doors to fiber optic lights

orations for the vehicle and a

inside the car to the colorful under-

bottle of champagne or sparkling

carriage lighting, the Hummer is one

cider.

flashy way to travel!

Most limousine companies also

Popular vehicles available in

offer standard luxury sedans for

Nebraska include trolleys, the H2

rentals. This may be a good option

Hummer, the Cadillac Escalade and

if you are looking for a smaller, more

Party buses.

private vehicle.

Party buses can accommodate large groups and are ideal to trans-

Vintage Luxury

port your wedding party. The bus’s

Vintage cars are top-notch

exterior may look standard, but take

choices for elegant wedding day

a peek inside and you’ll know

transportation. If you choose a

where the party is. Most party buses

classic vehicle like a Rolls Royce

are decked out with amenities like

from the 1940s or 1950s, you’ll be

colored lights, music, satellite TV, air

arriving at your ceremony in high

conditioning and bathrooms.

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to pay a higher hourly rate for a one-hour rental. Generally, when you rent a vehicle for several hours, your hourly rate will be lower. Also keep in mind that Party buses and Hummer limos will be higher in price than a regular limousine. Many businesses will also provide a “getaway car” after your reception for an additional fee. Always remember to ask about deals or discounts, especially if you’re renting multiple vehicles With so many transportation

You can think of a carriage ride

for your event. Most companies

choices, you aren’t limited to one

as a Cinderella touch to your big

offer specials at bridal shows as

kind of vehicle. You can cruise to the

day. Many carriages are white in

long as you’re prepared to pay

ceremony in a limo while your

color and decorated with silk flow-

at the show. This is a great way to

groom pulls up in a luxury sports

ers, garland and a “Just Married”

save money.

car. In the meantime, members of

sign. It’s definitely a fairy-tale way

your

to get to the ceremony.

wedding

party

can

get

pumped up for the celebration inside a party bus.

Classy Carriages A far different option is to hire

wedding day transportation, you

When booking a horse and car-

need to act quickly if your cele-

riage, you must consider the weath-

bration is on a very popular day.

er. Is there a canopy covering in case

Most transportation services advise

of rain? Are the horses able to with-

booking within at least six months

stand extreme heat or cold?

of the big day. Book your date as soon as you have your details

a horse-drawn carriage, which is definitely a throw-back to an era of

When it comes to booking your

Pricing

ironed out, especially if you have a larger wedding party.

romance. Used as wedding trans-

Prices vary by packages. Many

portation, a carriage is very classy

companies in Nebraska offer a

Make sure you’re working with a

and refined.

one-hour service; but be prepared

reputable company. Ask questions

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Whether you’re renting a limo, a

in business, whether or not they’re

classic car or a horse and carriage,

insured (if they aren’t insured, they

remember to steal a few minutes of

aren’t running legally) and what

privacy on the way to the reception.

type of backup plan they have in

Take some time alone with your

case the vehicle you reserve isn’t

groom to savor the moment and

available at the last minute. A

the day. Treat yourselves well on

breakdown in communication may

your big day by traveling in luxury

happen, but a good company will

and style.

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like how long the company has been

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do its best to work with you. Don’t forget to research the transportation company’s credentials. Check the company’s history with a phone call or Internet search of the Better Business Bureau. See if they are approved members of the Midwest Bridal Association. Visit their website or Facebook page and look for comments from brides about their services. Ask for referrals from other brides. As with all wedding services, get a contract and read it carefully. Many transportation contracts have “no cancellation” policies, so if you change your mind or your plans, you could lose your deposit. Some companies will also allow you to roll over the amount you paid to another event with no penalty.

Etiquette On your special day, you want everyone to look their best, so find out how your drivers will be dressed. Drivers may wear tuxedos, black suits, or in the case of classic cars, a British chauffeur’s attire. With Nebraska winters, most will wear a wool or leather dress coat that is pre-approved by the company. Don’t forget gratuity. You should reward your driver for good service with a tip. The industry standard is a 15% - 20% tip. Be generous to these professionals who are helping make your wedding day so special.

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honeymoon and travel

Your honeymoon is supposed to be a relaxing, romantic start

25 Honeymoon

Hot Spots

to your marriage... but the planning can become ultra stressful when you’re trying to plan a wedding

By Holly Lafferty

at the same time. Never fear, because NWD has done the work for you! With the help of TripAdvisor.com, we’ve scoured the best honeymoon spots for whatever you’re looking for – whether it’s a European vacation or a more affordable trip in the US. Read on to see which locales make our list.

BEST BEACHES

Hanalei Bay Beach, Island of Kauai, Hawaii This beach is less traveled than the ultra-popular

Waikiki Beach in Oahu and offers the same gorgeous sand and surf. On top of that, Hanalei has a beautiful backdrop of waterfalls and mountain peaks. Water activities are numerous here, from surfing to snorkeling to sailing. Stay here: The Hanalei Colony Resort’s beachfront location offers the best setting you could hope for. $$$-$$$$

Grace Bay, Turks & Caicos Not only is Grace Bay a tropical paradise, it’s also

considered one of the best beaches in the world. With almost 12 miles of coastline, romantic strolls on the beach are a must. Plus, it’s less crowded than counterpart Parrot Cay (a celebrity hot spot), so you’ll be able to enjoy more privacy with your new husband. Stay here: The Somerset on Grace Bay is known for its

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luxury and matchless customer service. $$$$-$$$$$

honeymoon and travel

gettable diving…the options are as

breathtaking. This is the perfect

plentiful as they are unique. Bora

location if you and your hubby are

Bora’s famous turquoise lagoon is

social butterflies (while Ipanema is

a must-see.

beautiful, secluded it is not). Its

Stay here: Sofitu Bora Bora

bustling nightlife and vibrant culture

Motu Private Island offers privacy

will keep you and your man enter-

and first-class customer service

tained for as long as you desire. Take

at more affordable rates than many

a Cook in Rio cooking class for an

Anse Source D’Argent, La

of the other resorts on the island.

authentic Brazilian experience.

Digue Island, Seychelles

$$-$$$

This beach is one of the most pho-

Stay here: Promenade Viscon-

tographed in the world – for good reason. You’ll be hard-pressed to

ti is known for its customer service and cleanliness and is just a block from the beach. $$$-$$$$

find a more lovely setting for your

STATESIDE TREASURES

honeymoon. La Digue also offers some of the best privacy you’ll find

with a beach vacation, as it has not reached Cancun levels of popularity. Stay here: Le Domaine de l’Orangeraie has picturesque villas with oceanfront views. $$$$-$$$$$

Playa Mismaloya, Puerto Vallarta, Mexico

You don’t have to travel across sev-

eral oceans to reach paradise. Playa Mismaloya is situated in a beautiful

best water for snorkeling and a top-

notch resort and restaurant are also

close to home, there’s no better

located on the beach. Tony’s La

place than Estes Park. You don’t

Choza restaurant is a local and

have to be an outdoor lover to

tourist favorite.

appreciate the glorious backdrop of

cove about 6 miles south of Puerto Vallarta. It features some of the

Country superstar Carrie Underwood and NHL hockey player Mike Fisher spent their 2010 honeymoon enjoying the beautiful sand and surf of Bora Bora.

Estes Park, Colorado If you’re looking for romance,

adventure and breathtaking scenery

Stay here: La Jolla De Mismaloya,

the Rocky Mountains; and there are

which offers you seclusion from the

plenty of quaint shops on Elkhorn

hustle and bustle of Puerto Vallar-

Avenue to keep you occupied if

ta, is just a short walk to the Playa

horseback riding or hiking isn’t

Mismaloya beach. $$$-$$$$

your cup of tea. Stay here: RiverWood on Fall

River offers luxury cottages along Fall River and is just 2 short miles to the entrance of Rocky Mountain National Park. $$-$$$

Ipanema Beach, Rio de

Janeiro, Brazil

Charleston is an ideal honeymoon

Motu Piti Uu’Uta, Bora Bora, French Polynesia

Charleston, South Carolina If you’re looking for history,

meet. Sunbathing, 4x4 safaris, a

There’s a reason this beach’s name

spot for you and your honey. Wit-

natural underwater park for unfor-

has a 1960s song named after it: It’s

ness the very spot where the Civil

Bora Bora is one of the rare places where tranquility and adventure

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culture and beautiful beaches,

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8 11 food in the country (Cajun), as well as some of the best music (jazz). Aside from Mardi Gras, New Orleans has plenty of other festivals and celebrations throughout the year to keep visitors entertained, while War began at the Fort Sumter National Monument; stroll down historic downtown Charleston to admire the 19th century architecture; and top it all off with a trip to

also offering plenty of romance for

NYC eateries that live up to their

newlyweds.

reputation).

Stay here: The Omni Royal

Stay here: The Bowery Hotel

Orleans is an opulent, romantic hotel

stands out for its quirky, boho rep-

with a prime location in the French

utation – perfect for young couples.

Quarter. $$$-$$$$

Its proximity to the excellent shop-

Folly Beach. Stay here: Kings Courtyard Inn

ping in the East Village is an added

bonus. $$$-$$$$

is located in the heart of downtown

Charleston and offers modern amenities in a historic building. $$$$$$$

Sedona, Arizona Sedona is renowned for its

spectacular scenery and its firstclass spas. Take a hike along the famed Cathedral Rock trail; book a ride on the Pink Jeep Tour; and then wind down with some of the best pampering in the US at one of Sedona’s many top-notch spas.

A-list actress Reese Witherspoon was born in New Orleans and has been a champion of its revitalization in the wake of Hurricane Katrina.

Disney World & Universal Studios, Orlando, Florida

Forget the rest of Orlando – these parks are an experience unto themselves. You don’t have to be a child to love the various attractions and sites. The main parks are fabulous,

Stay here: Southwest Inn at

jo Suite for a great location and

find it in the biggest city in the

Wizarding World of Harry Potter. It’s

privacy. $$-$$$

US. Take a romantic carriage ride

best to go in the early spring or late

in Central Park; visit the Museum of

fall to avoid the summer heat and

New Orleans, Louisiana

Modern Art; take in a few Broadway

crowds.

Katrina may have done its

shows; and make sure to sample

Stay here: The Parc Soleil by

damage, but New Orleans is still a

some of the finest dining the US

Hilton is affordable, luxurious and

thriving city with history and culture

has to offer (try the Grammercy

in close proximity to both Disney

galore. Experience some of the best

Tavern or Lombardi’s – beloved

World and Universal Studios. $$-$$$

Sedona offers 5-star views and service at a 2-star price. Book the Nava-

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New York City, New York

but be sure to check out the Epcot

You name it and you can

Center, Adventure Island and the

to the private island resort. Matangi Island is the home of Horseshoe Bay and the ultimate location for seclusion, romance and luxury. You will not find a more private or intimate spot for your honeymoon any-

where in the world. Stay here: Matangi Island Resort

UNDISCOVERED HIDEAWAYS

offers endless activities and the ultimate pampering experience. $$$$$$$$$

Shanghai, China Shanghai is admittedly a

pretty packed tourist area, but it’s not often considered a popular honeymoon spot. There are tons of amazing cultural sites to see in this

the Yu Yuan Garden, the Shanghai

Museum and the Shanghai Acro-

possibilities are endless in this sea-

batic Troupe on your list for a trip

side city. It has a beautiful beach

that’s full of beautiful scenery,

setting in one of the most histori-

engaging history and amazing

cal countries in the world. Book a

entertainment.

stay that includes Cairo and Giza to

vibrant city. Make sure to put The Bund waterfront, the Jin Mao Tower,

Sharm El Sheikh, Egypt Go diving, take a scooter

tour or take kite flying lessons…the

Stay here: If you’re traveling all

experience other fantastic cul-

the way to Shanghai, chances are

tural phenomenons (including the

you’re not pinching pennies, so go

Pyramids of Giza and the Sphinx)

the distance and stay at the flashy

but be assured that if you stay put

highest point of Shanghai. $$$$-

View the beauty of the landscape

Stay here: The Iberotel Palace is

$$$$$

made famous in the Lord of the

reasonably priced and receives top

Rings films while enjoying the

ratings from past patrons. The

romance and adventure avail-

hotel and its magnificent beach are

able. Revel in both the mountains

a perfect location for a newlywed

and the beach by visiting the

couple. $$-$$$

Park Hyatt Shanghai. It offers every luxury and a fantastic view at the

Queenstown,

in Sharm El Sheikh, you won’t be

New Zealand

disappointed.

Onsen Hot Pools and taking a guided snowshoeing tour. New Zealand offers breathtaking views

Matangi Island, Fiji

Cape Town, South Africa Experience the cultural

and romance as well as invigorat-

activities of a large city, the beau-

ing outdoor activities.

ty of a seaside town, the soaring

Stay here: Queenstown Park

heights of a mountain range and

Hotel receives the #1 ranking on

exotic nature – all in one location.

undiscovered hideaway. After a

TripAdvisor.com, and for good rea-

Be sure to take a guided tour

Matangi Island is a truly

flight to Fiji, you will take a mini-bus

son. Besides being affordable, it is

up Table Mountain or go skydiv-

to a dock and wade (yes, you read

known for its excellent customer

ing with Skydive Cape Town – the

that correctly – it’s a “wet landing”)

service, modern amenities and idyl-

ultimate

to a boat for a scenic water taxi ride

lic scenery. $$$-$$$$

adrenaline junkies. Boulders Beach

scenic

adventure

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EUROPEAN CULTURE

Letterkenny, Ireland Letterkenny is only a 2-

hour drive from Dublin and mixes small-town charm with numerous tourist amenities. Shop on Main Street and check out the local offer-

Famed chef Gordon Ramsay’s Maze Restaurant pays tribute to Cape Town produce with a cold seafood bar featuring Cape crayfish and Mozambique prawns.

ings – Letterkenny is full of talented artists displaying and selling their work. Visit the Letterkenny Town Park, which features a tea room and

rience just as satisfying (if not more so) than the Louvre. The Palace of Versailles is just a short distance

the Garden of Remembrance. Stay here: The Mount Errigal Hotel is spacious and full of historical details

from Paris (about 30 minutes by train) and is a must-see. Stay here: Hotels in Europe are

for guests to enjoy. $$-$$$

much more modest than America,

so unless you’re prepared to spend

is famous for its penguins, so make

closer to 4 figures a night, choose

that a priority as well.

the Hotel Relais Bosquet for its

Stay here: Blackheath Lodge

prime location near the Eiffel Tower,

gets high marks for affordability as

as well as modern amenities in an

well as comfort. $$-$$$

affordable package. $$$-$$$$

Phuket, Thailand If you go to Thailand, an

elephant tour will offer you one of the most memorable times of your life. There are many places that don’t offer the kindest treatment of these gentle animals, but the remote Kok Chang is well-reviewed for its treatment of elephants and also its

Sarah Jessica Parker and Matthew Broderick vacationed at the Mount Errigal Hotel for their honeymoon in 1997.

private, scenic location. Other fun tourist activities include scuba diving and sailing. Stay here: Boomerang Village is romantic, secluded and provides a stunning backdrop for your trip. $-$$

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Budapest, Hungary When you think of a

European vacation, Hungary may

Paris, France

not be the first country that comes

There are numerous other

to mind. However, Budapest has

picturesque places in France that

a history full of colorful details

would make an ideal honeymoon

that are guaranteed to fascinate.

(Cannes, Nice, Provence, etc.) but

Budapest’s turbulent political past

they all come up short in compar-

is depicted through monuments in

ison to romantic Paris. Full of his-

the famous Heroes’ Square, while

tory, outdoor cafes and scenic

locations like the Opera House and

bridges along the Seine, Paris is a

Buda Castle represent the vibrant

shopping mecca and home to some

culture of Budapest that preceded

of the most famed landmarks in the

communism.

world. Among them: The Eiffel

Stay here: The Corinthia Hotel

Tower, the Arc de Triomphe and the

Budapest is a favorite among Euro-

Notre Dame. Visit the less-traveled

pean travelers and is priced reason-

Musée D’Orsay for an artistic expe-

ably for an upscale hotel. $$-$$$

Corfu, Greece At h e n s i s t h e p o p u l a r

choice, but Corfu offers the best of historic Greece with the bonus of a gorgeous island feel. Located off the Albanian coast, Corfu is known for its vibrant nightlife and intimate cobbled streets as well as the numerous

Venetian fortresses and Byzantine

churches. Be sure to visit the tiny vil-

Rome, Italy W h a t s h o u l d yo u p a c k

lage of Kassiopi, which dates back to

Amsterdam, The Netherlands

Known for its friendly locals, Amster-

ancient Roman times. dam is one of the most inviting Euro-

for a vacation to Rome? For starters,

Stay here: The Oceanis Rooms

bring your appetite, because you’ll

Apartments are tucked away from

be hard-pressed to find any other

the action and situated right on the

place with food that compares to

coast, so you are guaranteed priva-

that of Italy. In addition to delicious

cy and breathtaking views. $$-$$$

pean cities. It’s filled with romantic bridges and canals for you to enjoy. Amsterdam teems with cultural experiences as well, from the Anne Frank House to the Van Gogh Museum to the

fare from can’t-miss restaurants

like La Taverna dei Fori Imperiali, be

Waterlloplein flea market. Be sure to check out their famous flower markets

sure to visit some of the world’s

while you’re there, too.

most famous sights, like the Colos-

Stay here: The Seven Bridges

seum and the Trevi Fountain. Rome

Hotel has it all: spacious rooms, gor-

is one of the most important cities

geous views and a prime location.

in world history and you’ll want to

$$-$$$

take it all in.

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Stay here: The Welrome Hotel gets raves from visitors for its warm, welcoming atmosphere and its prime location. $$-$$$

The Cotswolds, England Located in Gloucestershire, the Cotswolds

make up England’s prime romantic location. Known for

small villages and lush landscape, you’ll have no trouble creating sweet moments with your new hubby here. Take a drive down one of the designated “Romantic Roads” and tour the charming towns and beautiful countryside. Pubs and historic gardens abound in the area to keep you entertained. Stay here: The Byfield House in Painswick is a delightful bed and breakfast that is lovingly decorated with distinctive antiques. $$-$$$

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Finding

Your Inner Designer By Holly Lafferty

You’ve said your vows, jetted off on your honeymoon, and now you’re returning home…what décor awaits you? While you’re busy registering for pots and pans, it’s easy to overlook the details that will help you make a home with your new husband. However, the significance of creating a comfortable place for both of you to live should not be ignored. Home decorating is effortless for some and a little more difficult for others. Not everyone is a natural at putting a room together. If you don’t have the faintest idea where to begin, start small and work your way up. Here are some tips to help you get started.

Look for dual purpose furniture Find a beautiful cedar chest to put at the foot of your bed. This will give you a deco-

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Paint a room Painting can change the entire feel of a room, and it’s an inexpensive option. It’s also an easy fix if you don’t like the color you end up with. There are a few things you can do to lessen the likelihood of repainting. If you’re choosing a bold shade, go one shade lighter than you planned. Likewise, if you prefer a lighter or more neutral shade, go one shade darker.

rative piece of furniture that doubles as stor-

If you’re uncertain about how the color

age space. Or, look for an armoire for your

is going to look in the room, paint an accent

living room that can act as your entertain-

wall instead. You can do this with especial-

ment center as well.

ly intense colors to avoid overkill (there is

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such a thing as too much purple!)

trash and turn it into treasure,

made curtains, you may have trou-

but still make a statement.

even if you don’t have a creative

ble finding something that fits in

bone in your body. If you’re not

with the vision you have for your

Go to Target

comfortable designing something

home. You also run the risk of pay-

If you’re not sure how you’re

yourself, ask an artistic friend to

ing a significant amount more for

going to feel about the pieces

make something for you as a wed-

pre-made curtains.

you’ve chosen once you have them

ding gift.

home, don’t spend a lot of money on them! Stores like Target, Kohl’s

Use your wedding

Rearrange your furniture

and Gordman’s have increasingly

All of those votive candles need-

For a quick and easy update to

large home décor sections. You

n’t go to waste. Find some votive

a room, rearranging your furniture

don’t always have to sacrifice style

holders and place them strategically

can make a big difference. Keep the

for value – a lot of the pieces in

throughout the house. Candles are

room’s purpose in mind – if you use

these stores fit right in with today’s

ideal for adding a special touch to

it for entertaining, keep the couch-

designs.

a room.

es and chairs closer together. If it’s your bedroom, place your

Add a shelf

bed at an angle that won’t

Shelves are a great

have sunlight streaming

way to add decorative

directly into your face at

touches. You can put

6:30 AM every day.

framed photos, candles,

Recycle!

decorative figurines or items

If your grandmother

on display. On a budget?

offers you her old bar -

Buy an unfinished shelf,

stools with the Navajo

sand it down and stain or

upholstery and you swoon

paint it yourself. This

for modern pieces, don’t

ensures it will comple-

cringe and try to think of

ment the colors you have

a tactful way to turn her

in the room. It also saves

down. Instead, find fabric

you a little money (buying

that works with your style

an unfinished shelf is con-

and

siderably cheaper than

barstools (you can find

buying one pre-finished).

simple

countless

other

re-upholster

the

instructions

DIYnetwork.com).

Be an artist Don’t decorate a room all at once

This may be intimidating, but

Another option is to get a large

depending on your style, you can

print of your favorite photograph

create a piece of art that will look

from your wedding day, frame it and

If you feel you have to buy

perfect in your home. Head to

display it in highly visible area. It will

everything for a room at the same

your local arts and crafts store and

be a piece of artwork that you can

time, you will undoubtedly end up

pick up a big canvas, some differ-

treasure for a lifetime.

with pieces you hate. Save an allotted amount of money for decorat-

ent paint colors and geometric stencils. Or, find scraps of wood, cut

Learn to sew

ing a specific room and keep an eye

them into a variety of shapes and

If you already know how to sew,

out whenever you’re shopping.

sizes, paint them and glue them to

you’re even better off! Fabric stores

That way you’ll be prepared to buy

a canvas.

offer a huge variety of different pat-

when you find something you can’t

terns and styles. If you buy ready-

live without. It may take a year, but

There are countless ways to take

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the finished product will feel more like home than if you throw everything together in a week.

Don’t skimp on the important things There are plenty of budget items that will serve well for decorating purposes, but the big pieces are not part of that category. Your couch, bed and other furniture need to last a long time. After all, these pieces are going to be a lot more costly to replace than that $5 lamp you found at a rummage sale.

Listen to the pros Home decorating has exploded in popularity, and there are plenty of websites and television shows to reflect that. HGTV and HGTV.com are great resources. Martha Stewart and Real Simple are beautiful magazines and websites for your reference. Use their photos to get inspiration for your own style.

Listen to your hubby It can be tempting to nix that request for a neon Budweiser sign in the den, but it’s not a bad idea to compromise with your man on a few things. Give him a “man cave” – a room he can call his own – or try to find a way to factor in some of the pieces he loves in a way that doesn’t take away from the atmosphere of the room. Your marriage will be off to a much better start if you include him in the process.

Add the finishing touches If your kitchen is driving you nuts but you can’t afford a remodel, do something simple like a tile backsplash. You can find tiles that are relatively inexpensive; and even if you have to hire someone to do the tiling, it’s still much cheaper than gutting the whole thing. Re-facing cabinets has also become a popular update and is usually about half the cost of new cabinets. You’d be surprised at how much the little touches can transform a room. Whether you are changing small details or making a monumental transformation to your home, the most important thing to consider is your personal comfort. Fill your home with pieces and styles that fit your personality as a couple. You’re the ones that will be living there, so don’t worry about the latest trends. If you follow your own personal tastes, your home will be a place where you can truly enjoy your happily-ever-after.

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Index Of

Wedding Professionals Alterations and Cleaners Omaha Lace Cleaners ...........................402.330.1812 ..........152 Williams Cleaners..................................402.464.7447 ..........151

Bridal Fashion Bridal Details & Tuxedo Guy.................402.502.0099 ..........145 Bridal Gown Outlet ...............................402.464.5040 ..........140 The Bride’s Store ...................................402.564.4331 ..........143 Ellynne Bridal ........................................402.489.7770 ..........141 J’Maries Bridal Shoppe .........................402.488.8048 ..........139

Bridal Registry The Pampered Chef .............................402.420.6866 ............17 Royal Prestige.....................................1.877.270.8664 ............13

Cakes and Catering 9 South Chargrill ...................................402.613-8244 ..........101 Attitude on Food ..................................402.341.3663 ............98 Beatrice Bakery Co................................800.228.4030 ............94 Brandeis Catering .................................402.334.5446 ............67 Butterfly Bakery .....................................402.499.0620 ............95 Catering Creations ................................402.558.3202 ............97 Pettit’s Pastry ..................................................See Ad ............94 Russ’s Market.........................................402.326.9821 ............98 Sweet Art Wedding Cakes .............................See Ad ............93 The Venue Restaurant & Lounge ...................See Ad ..........100

Ceremony and Receptions The Apothecary Lofts/Ridnour Room ...402.474.1812 ............73 Ameristar Casino and Hotel...........................See Ad ............44 Anthony’s Steakhouse ...........................402.331.7575 ............58 Arbor Hall ..............................................402.884.2269 ............53 Atrium Banquet Facility ........................402.706.8983 ............43 Bluestem Tree Farm & Vineyard ....................See Ad ............75 Brandeis Catering .................................402.334.5446 ............67 Chez Hay ...............................................402.489.7445 ............36 The Club at Indian Creek ......................402.289.0900 ............49 CoCo Key ..............................................402.517.3072 ..............3 Country Inn & Suites and Beacon Hills Catering.......................402.476.5353 ............32 Creighton University .............................402.280.3545 ............50 DC Centre .............................................402.393.7431 ............41 DoubleTree Hotel & EMC .....................402.636.4994 ............31 The Durham Museum............................402.444.5071 ............61 Embassy Suites - La Vista...............................See Ad ............35 Embassy Suites - Lincoln & Omaha ...............See Ad ..........IFC Field Club of Omaha.............................402.345.6343 ............65 Grand Manse .........................................402.476.4560 ............38 The Green Gâteau ................................402.477.3444 ............72 Hap Abraham Catering ..................................See Ad ............42

Havelock Social Hall..............................402.467.3002 ............46 Hidden Valley ........................................402.434.5150 ............58 Hillcrest Country Club...........................402.489.7111 ............65 Hilton - Omaha......................................402.998.3400 ..........IBC HiMark Banquets/Yankee Hill Golf Club ..402.488.3900 ............45 Holiday Inn Downtown Omaha.............402.341-0124 ............70 Holiday Inn Downtown Lincoln .............402.475.4011 ............39 Holiday Inn Southwest Lincoln .............402.421.1893 ............69 Lauritzen Gardens, Omaha’s Botanical Center................402.346.4002 x261 ...71 Lied Lodge & Conference Center ........402.873.8733 ............69 Lincoln Firefighter’s Reception Hall ......402.477.6001 ............52 The Lodge at Wilderness Ridge ...........402.434.5121 ............73 Magnolia Hotels ....................................402.341.2500 ............33 Millard Plaza Ballroom ..........................402.891.0779 ............63 Misty’s .............................................................See Ad ............70 The Nebraska Club ...............................402.476.3228 ............71 Parthenon ..............................................402.423.2222 ............75 The Players Club ...................................402.963.9950 ............66 Quarry Oaks ..........................................402.944.6004 ............30 Regency Lodge .....................................402.397.8971 ............37 Rococo Theatre .....................................402.476.6540 ............72 Sandhills Convention Center ................308.532.9090 ............48 Scott Conference Center ......................402.778.6317 ............59 Tiburon Golf Club .................................402.896.1323 ..............1 The Thompson Center at UNO.............402.554.3368 ............62 Tower Hall Banquet Facility ..................402.432.3807 ............56 Wick Alumni Center/ Nebraska Champions Club........................See Ad ............62

Event Planners Events Refined ......................................402.486.3793 ............20 The Wedding Planner Omaha ..............402.510.2241 ............19

Favorite Finds BridalSigns.com ....................................402.339.8882 ............21 Family Favorite Cookies........................402.502.1084 ............21 Jafix Grafix Design Services..................402.709.3458 ............21 Kerried Away Couture ....................................See Ad ..........149 Stella & Dot ...........................................402.682.1296 ..........149

Flowers and Design Blooms & Bouquets ..............................402.730.2640 ..........127 Florals, Etc.............................................402.598.7912 ..........126 Elegant Design by Beth ........................402.677.0306 ..........130 Memories Bi-Design..............................402.341.3363 ..........128 Petal Creations ......................................402.423.6500 ..........125 Petal Pushers .........................................402.304.2000 ..........131 Town & Country Floral ..........................402.916.9400 ..........130

Guest Accommodations Chase Suite Hotels................................402.483.4900 ..........167

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index of wedding professionals

Health, Beauty and Fitness Farrell’s Extreme Body Shaping ............402.421.2392 ..........164 JMISKO..................................................402.484.5144 ..........165 Max Muscle ....................................................See Ad ..........163 Physician’s Weight Loss Centers ....................See Ad ..........166 Salon K ...........................................................See Ad ..........166 Tan World .......................................................See Ad ..........166 Tiger Rock Academy .............................402.483.1011 ..........166 Triba Health & Wellness Clinic..............402.330.1652 ..........166

Home and Living Primerica Financial Services ..........................See Ad. ..........254 Vinnie Krikac Agency - State Farm Ins..402.474.1173 ..........254

Honeymoon and Travel AAA Travel..........................................1.800.222.6327 ..........245 Beach Bum on a Budget .......................402.261.8477 ..........251 Enchanted Honeymoons .......................402.390.9291 ..........247

Intimate Settings James Arthur Vineyards ........................402.783.5255 ............76 Noodle Zoo ...........................................402.932.9971 ............76 Billy’s Restaurant ...................................402.474.0084 ............76

Invitations A to Z Printing .......................................402.477.0815 ..........134 Cornhusker Beverage & Bridal .............402.331.5404 ..........135 Diane’s Stationery & Invitations ............402.895.0879 ..........135 Inkblot Paper Designs ...........................402.312.4852 ..........133 Porridge Papers ....................................402.742.5415 ..........133 Simply Chic............................................402.450.4476 ..........134

Jewelry Sartor Hamann Jewelers ................................See Ad ..............9

Men’s Formal Wear Savvi Formalwear ...........................................See Ad ..........161 Tip Top Tux.....................................................See Ad ...BC, 159

Music and Entertainment Complete Music ...................................402.434.2466 ..........171 Harpin Heidi ..........................................402.730.4525 ..........170 Harris Music Studio ...............................402.423.7121 ..........170 Primetime Music & Entertainment ........402.817.4159 ..........171 Zenyam Studios .....................................402.488.0707 ..........169

Photography A Better Exposure .................................402.453.6000 ..........209 Attanasio Photography ..................................See Ad ..........208 Bauman Photography............................402.476.4905 ..........192 Brighten Photography ....................................See Ad ..........197 Casey Fritton Photography ...................402.416.8173 ..........184 Colleen Dustin Photography.................402.933.7711 ..........213 Corey Rourke Photography...................402.466.4644 ..........175

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Douglas Gunder Photographer ............402.571.2399 ..........183 Eliza Portrait Design..............................402.932.1474 ..........185 Elwood Photography.............................402.770.7458 ..........189 Erin Stoll Photography ..........................402.641.6918 ..........188 Geoff Johnson Photographer ...............402.214.7366 ..........181 Images by TLC ......................................402.216.1339 ..........205 Iwen Exposures .....................................402.490.3083 ..........187 jhd photography ...................................402.235.3182 ..........200 L Squared Design & Photography ........402.499.8104 ..........198 Lane Weddings .....................................402.677.3096 ..........193 Megan Marie Photography ...................402.699.5515 ..........194 Melenbacker Photography....................402.440.4937 ..........177 The Moment It Clicks .....................................See Ad ..........204 Monte Evans Photography....................402.292.6426 ..........202 Paddack Photography ....................................See Ad ..........190 Paula Moser Photography.....................402.884.2998 ..........191 Peters Photography ..............................402.742.4122 ..........212 Purple Sky Productions .........................402.770.7576 ..........199 Richmond Photography ........................402.202.6299 ..........207 Sammons Photography .........................402.421.6787 ..........195 Sarah Pfeiffer Photography ...................402.792.2323 ..........179 Shane & Sunny Photography ................402.488.4289 ..........173 Something New Productions ............1.888.BRIDE-89 ..........201 Strohm Photography & Design .............402.203.9489 ..........203 Sullivan Photography ............................402.570.5298 ..........182 T. Sterba Photography ..........................402.551.3456 ..........210

Rentals and Decorations AAA Rents ......................................................See Ad ..........111 Chair Cover Elegance ...........................800.959.1934 ..........103 Country Elegance..................................402.414.1132 ..........112 Crete True Value....................................402.826.3397 ..........105 The Dove Barn ......................................402.484.7012 ..........112 Elite Events Rental ................................402.489.7000 ..........106 Grand Illusions ......................................402.228.3070 ..........108 Honeyman Rent-All ...............................402.333.2882 ..........110 Lincoln Tent, Inc. ...................................402.467.4559 ..........104 Mangelsen’s...........................................402.391.6225 ..........108 Midwest Tent & Events..........................402.261.6784 ..........106 Theatrical Media Services .....................402.592.5522 ..........104 Weddings Across America ....................402.965.8300 ..........107

Transportation Extreme Limousine................................402.393.5466 ..........241 Gross’ Belgians .....................................402.435.3137 ..........242 Luxury Limousine ..................................402.269.3737 ..........243

Videography A Sound Impression ..............................402.464.2274 ..........239 Advanced American Technologies (AAT)..402.298.8389 ..........238 Chris Moravec Cinematography ...........402.730.4084 ..........237 Cue Motion ...........................................402.476.0167 ..............5 The Silver Screen ..................................402.305.0939 ..........238

Wedding Services Midwest Bridal Association ............................See Ad ............25 The Wedding Inspiration Show......................See Ad ............26