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Fun and Full February:
Mardi Gras, the Super Bowl, Valentine’s Day, and Strawberry Fest February! Winter is fast receding, and the weather is getting beautiful again. This February is an especially Photo by James Patterson busy one: on Sunday, February 11, get ready to watch the Kansas City Chiefs take on the San Francisco 49ers at Super Bowl LVIII at the Allegiant Stadium in Las Vegas. (If you can’t see the game in person in Nevada, see page 7 for some easy and delicious appetizers to spice up any football watch party.) On Tuesday, February 13 we celebrate Mardi Gras, the last fling of decadence before Ash Wednesday and the 40-day fast leading up to Easter. February 14 is the celebration of that holiday honoring love, St. Valentine’s Day. Grab some flowers and chocolates for your special someone and be sure to read the great story about the history of Valentine’s symbols on page 19.
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60+ Years of The Beach Boys BY MICHELE D. BAKER
The Beach Boys, with tens of millions of albums sold, have left an indelible mark on the music industry, influencing many artists that followed. Led by Mike Love, alongside longtime member Bruce Johnston, musical director Brian Eichenberger, Christian Love, Tim Bonhomme, Jon Bolton, Keith Hubacher, Randy Leago and John Wedemeyer, the band has reshaped the musical landscape with their iconic sound. Consistently active, The Beach Boys perform around 150 concerts annually, and have performed more concerts than any major rock band in history. Their 2013 release “Sounds of Summer,” witnessed a fresh wave of worldwide Beach Boys fervor. The group’s music encapsulates an eternal youthful spirit, making beaches worldwide a symbol of rejuvenation.
career. Their unparalleled concert presence includes performances at Live Aid and the Super Bowl.
“Kokomo.”
Since 1961 when Mike Love, co-founder, lead singer, and primary songwriter, penned the lyrics to The Beach Boys’ first hit, “Surfin,’” dozens of the band’s chart toppers have become eternal anthems of American youth: “Surfin’ USA,” “Surfer Girl,” “Fun, Fun, Fun,” “I Get Around,” “California Girls,” “Help Me Rhonda,” “Barbara Ann,” “Good Vibrations,” “Wouldn’t It Be Nice,” “Rock and Roll Music” and
The band also released a compilation album and box set honoring the 50th anniversary of their timeless albums “Feel Flows – The Sunflower and Surf’s Up Sessions 19691971.” The expansive 5 CD and digital box set chronicles and explores in depth this metamorphic and highly influential 1969-1971 period of the band’s legendary career. It contains 135 tracks, including 108 previously unreleased tracks, live recordings, radio promos, alternate versions, alternate mixes, isolated backing tracks and a cappella versions, culled from the album sessions.
Despite achieving milestones like the groundbreaking “Pet Sounds” in 1966, the chart-topping “Kokomo” in 1988, an induction into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame, and surpassing 100 million in album sales, the band’s passion remains undiminished. Their 50th Anniversary in 2012 saw a reunion tour and a #3 Billboard-charting album, “That’s Why God Made the Radio.” In 2016, they celebrated the 50th As The Beach Boys mark 60+ years of making music, the anniversary of the masterpiece, “Good Vibrations,” and Mike group continues to ride the crest of a wave unequalled in Love’s memoir, “GOOD VIBRATIONS: My Life as a Beach Boy,” America’s musical history and have become synonymous achieved New York Times Best Seller status. with the California lifestyle and an American icon to fans In 2022, the Beach Boys wrapped the international leg of around the world. Hear The Beach Boys live on March 1 their “Sixty Years of the Sounds of Summer” tour, which at Strawberry Fest in Plant City. For a complete list of tour visited major venues across Europe and the UK featuring dates CD sales information please visit mikelove.com or special guests The Temptations and The Four Tops. In 2023, thebeachboys.com, or visit FLStrawberryFestival.com. a star-studded CBS tribute special honored their legendary
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Movie Preview: “The Taste of Things” BY RANDAL C. HILL
Can food represent both love and nourishment? According to the film “The Taste of Things,” the answer is obviously “yes.” The opening scene of Tran Anh Hung’s quiet little movie runs 38 minutes and involves few words. Never bored, we are instead transfixed by people busily preparing broths, pastries and meats that steam and sizzle and make us drool in anticipation. (The scene takes place in a spacious country kitchen in a time before electricity or plug-in appliances.) Eventually, the appreciative guests each savor every bite, finding no need to talk during the meal. Dodin (French film star Benoit Magimel) is a highly respected gourmet who has overseen today’s meal preparation with the confidence of one who has basically lived in a kitchen for decades. His busy partner is Eugenie (Academy Award® winner Juliette Binoche), who is not simply an accomplished cook but a highly skilled food artist.
Dodin and Eugenie have lived together for 20 years in Dodin’s manor house and are partners in every sense of the word. He has often proposed marriage but has always been rejected. One key scene shows them relaxing in their moonlit garden after a tiring day in the kitchen. “We’ve spent more time together than many spouses,” Eugenie remarks. Dodin responds with, “I ask you once again… marry me.” Eugenie, who has been down this road many times before, smiles patiently. “How many times will you ask me?” Undoubtedly, she concerns herself with the changes that would possibly take place if the pair made their alwayscomfortable relationship “official.” The movie will be shown in select theaters February 9 in French with English subtitles, and available on streaming platforms in the future.
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Pimiento Cheese Rolls This year, the Super Bowl will be held in Las Vegas at the Allegiant Stadium. If you aren’t planning to fly cross-country, you can still watch the game on the big screen in your living room with friends.
Ingredients: • Tube of prepared biscuit dough or puff pastry
• Pimiento cheese (about 12 oz.) – store bought or homemade
Method: 1. Preheat the oven to 400F. 2. Roll out the biscuit dough or puff pastry into a large rectangle. (If using crescent roll dough, pinch the seams together to make a single sheet of dough.) 3. In the middle, spread on a layer of pimiento cheese. Leave a margin of about 1/2” around the outside of the dough so when
you roll it, the cheese doesn’t squeeze out. 4. Starting from one of the short ends, carefully roll up the dough into a pinwheel. Cut into half-inch slices and bake on parchment paper lined baking sheet for 1820 minutes until golden brown and bubbly. 5. Serve warm.
Pepper Jelly Meatballs Another simple – but delicious! – recipe for the upcoming Super Bowl. This recipe relies on the faithful crock pot to do all the work.
Ingredients: • Bag of frozen meatballs (fully cooked, about 28 oz. or 56 meatballs) • 1 cup grape jelly • 1 cup yellow mustard • ½ cup pepper jelly • Dash of hot sauce Method: 1. Combine all the ingredients in a crock pot. 2. Cook for 3-4 hours on low, stirring occasionally. 3. Sprinkle with chopped green onion or parsley if desired. Serve warm.
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A Brief History of Mardi Gras and the King Cake By Michele D. Baker The modern American Mardi Gras season (Carnival) officially begins on January 6, the Twelfth Night of Christmas, also known as Epiphany – the day Jesus first showed himself to the three wise men and to the larger world. The festivities last from Epiphany until Lent, with “Fat Tuesday” (Mardi Gras, in French) being the last day of revelry and decadence before the more sober period of Lent begins. Mardi Gras/Fat Tuesday has a moveable date and may occur on any Tuesday from February 3 to March 9, as the date is set according to when Easter falls each year. It’s always the day before Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent, which lasts 46 days (about one and a half months) until the celebration of Easter. This year, Mardi Gras is February 13.
BETTY CROCKER’S KING CAKE
One of the most enduring traditions during Carnival is feasting on “king cake,” again named because of the Biblical story of the three wise kings who brought gifts to Baby Jesus. A ring-shaped blend of coffee cake and cinnamon roll, it is frequently packed with fruit and decadent cream cheese fillings.
This recipe has a lot of steps, but don’t worry… it’s not as hard as it seems, and freshly baked king cake is hard to beat. The brioche style dough is beautiful to work with and offers up a moist, buttery cake.
Most king cakes are traditionally decorated with the royal color purple, which signifies justice; green for growth; and gold, representing prosperity and wealth. These colors resemble a jeweled crown, and in fact, the traditional Spanish version of this cake is called Roscón de Reyes (crown of the king).
• 3-1/2 cups all-purpose flour
In the past, such things as coins, beans, pecans, or peas were also hidden in each cake. Today, a tiny plastic baby is the most used item, though chocolate babies or other edibles are sometimes used instead. At a Mardi Gras party, the king cake is sliced and served fresh. Each reveler looks to see if their piece of king cake contains the baby. If so, that person is declared “king for a day” and bound by historical Mardi Gras custom to host the next party, thus sparking an unending round of food and fun. Laissez les bon temps rouler!
• 1 teaspoon salt
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For the cake:
• 1 package (2-1/4 teaspoons) rapid rise yeast • 1 cup milk • 1/4 cup sugar
• 2 eggs • 6 Tablespoons unsalted butter, softened, cut into 12 pieces 1. Mix 2-1/2 cups flour and yeast in mixing bowl of stand mixer, using the paddle attachment, on low for about 30 seconds. 2. Heat milk, sugar, and salt in a small saucepan over medium heat until sugar is dissolved, and milk is between 120°F to 130°F.
A Brief History of Mardi Gras and the King Cake Cont. 3. With mixer on low, pour in liquids and mix until incorporated. Add eggs one at a time. Continue mixing until a shaggy dough forms. Clean off paddle and switch to dough hook. Mix in the remaining 1 cup flour a little at a time, adding more (or less) flour as needed to make a soft dough. Add the softened butter, one piece at a time, kneading until each piece of butter is absorbed. 4. Knead for 8 minutes on low. The dough should completely clear the sides of the bowl. If it is too sticky, add flour 1 Tablespoon at a time, mixing thoroughly before adding more flour. If the dough seems too dry, spritz with water from a spray bottle, mixing in thoroughly before determining if more water is needed. Every 2 minutes, scrape the dough off the hook and continue kneading.
Icing: • 1 cup powdered sugar • 1 Tablespoon milk • 1/2 teaspoon vanilla 1. In a small bowl, mix icing ingredients (add additional milk if mixture is too thick, or powdered sugar if too thin). 2. Spoon icing over top of the cake. Immediately sprinkle on colored sugars, alternating between the three colors: dark green, purple, and yellow or gold.
5. Turn dough out onto a lightly floured surface and knead a few times; form dough into a ball and place into a greased bowl, turning once so greased surface is on top. Cover bowl with plastic wrap and refrigerate for 1 hour. Cinnamon Filling: • 2/3 cup packed light brown sugar • 1-1/2 teaspoons ground cinnamon • 4 Tablespoons unsalted butter, softened • 1 cup chopped pecans (optional) 1. While the dough is chilling, make cinnamon filling. In a small bowl, combine the brown sugar and ground cinnamon. Combine butter with cinnamon mixture and mix well. 2. Roll the chilled dough into a 10” x 20” rectangle. Spread the filling on half of the long side of the dough. Fold in half to cover the filling and pat firmly so the dough will stick. Shape into a ring and press the edges together. 3. Transfer to a greased baking sheet. Cover the ring with plastic wrap and let rise until doubled, about 1 hour. Bake at 350° until golden brown, 20-35 minutes. Remove from oven, let cool for 10 minutes on baking sheet, then place it on a cooling rack to cool completely before icing. To hide the baby in the cake, make a small slit in the bottom of the cake and push miniature plastic baby into cooled cake.
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THE HEALTHY GEEZER Q. I have to have cataract surgery and I’m a little frightened. Should I be? I don’t know anyone who isn’t a little frightened by surgery of any kind, but cataract removal is one of the safest and most effective types of surgery. It’s also one of the most common operations performed in the United States. About 9 out of 10 people who have the surgery have improved vision. A cataract is a clouding of the lens, the clear part of the eye that helps focus images like the lens in a camera. Cataracts can blur images and discolor them. Most cataracts are related to aging. By age 80, more than half of all Americans either have a cataract or have had cataract surgery. Other causes of cataracts are diabetes, excessive exposure to sunlight, smoking, obesity, high blood pressure, eye injury, eye surgery, prolonged use of corticosteroid medications and drinking excessive amounts of alcohol.
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A New Year & A Fresh Start For Your Pet By Nancy Moser, DVM Did your pet gain some Holiday weight? Obesity in dogs and cats has become more prevalent and can lead to long term side effects or chronic medical conditions. Some of these conditions include early onset arthritis or other joint disease, respiratory and cardiovascular diseases, Diabetes, and skin problems. Overall, this can lead to a decrease in your pets’ longevity and quality of life. So, what can be done to get your pet to a normal weight? Diet and exercise are the main pillars to weight loss, but diet is more important in pets. As the first step, your veterinarian will determine your pet’s body condition score. This will allow them to determine what your pet’s ideal body weight should be and how much weight needs to be lost to reach that ideal weight. With all the many different breeds, body conformations and individual differences between pets, this is a crucial first step to successful weight loss. Your veterinarian will then calculate how many calories your pet can eat per day to reach their ideal weight. In some cases, your pet can continue eating the same food in smaller amounts but other cases may require a weight loss specific diet. Adding in exercise, like longer and more frequent walks, swimming, playing fetch etc. will also help burn more calories, and build and maintain healthy muscle mass. Your veterinarian can make specific suggestions based on your pet’s demeanor and any pre-existing conditions they may have. Just like in people, your pet’s weight loss should be gradual over several months to be successful in the short term and long term. Many owners that have successfully got their pets to lose weight report an obvious outward improvement in their pet’s energy and overall demeanor. When you’re ready or if you have any questions, reach out to your veterinarian for a weight loss consultation exam!
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Armchair Adventures: South Africa: Dancing with the Zulus By Evelyn Kelly, PhD South Africa is one of the most interesting African countries for geology, beautiful land formations, and culture. We are in Durban, a cosmopolitan city on the east coast of Africa. This diverse city has beautiful unspoiled beaches, and we Floridians are at home in the pleasant sub-tropical land caressed by warm ocean currents. However, we are advised not to walk anywhere at night but to take a taxi for even a short block to the mall. Like all cities in South Africa, after apartheid was dismantled, men from the bush tribes flocked to town to find work, but little is available. South Africa is the richest country on the African continent, but dark clouds of unemployment, lack of education, and health issues are threatening. In each city, lines of men gather along the road waiting for buses or vans to take them to construction sites; most will be disappointed. However, we did not see a spirit of despair; people we speak to have pride about the “New South Africa.” The bus leads us to our next adventure: Zululand. Men dressed in loincloths and with calves covered with shaggy white wool surround us as we step onto the land of the Zulus. Holding tightly to their spears and shields, the men beckon us to meet a charming young woman who speaks flawless English. Her corona-like crimson hat indicates she is married. The men and women sing a haunting melody as they escort us along a rocky path through the village. The plaintive sound is familiar; we have attended many African-American churches in Central Florida.
We move along to a large, thatched beehive hut and are not sure if the role we were playing is that of friend or foe. In the meeting hut, a tribal leader presides over the ceremonies. The dances of Zulu men and women require a high level of fitness that involves gyrations, clapping, and stamping. The rigorous performance is not unlike break dancing. Dances of the Zulu tribe transport us into a time when this tribe of strong, fierce warriors conquered surrounding tribes and fought both the Dutch and English. And then they calm the dance down and bid us to join them. The unmarried girls are topless. We join them shuffling in a circle but with shirts on, of course. We are brought back to reality with a large screen television that runs a video of ShakaZulu, the brilliant warrior who brought the nation together into a great military force. Many of us remember a popular television series “Shaka-Zulu,” set at the time of the Anglo-Zulu War in 1879. Zulus in the village live in traditional grass-thatched huts called beehives. The natives sleep on the floor. However our beehive hut was climate controlled with fine beds, toilets, running water, and all the comforts of home except television. We do hear goats wandering around at night and crowing roosters wake us up. Zulus are renowned weavers of baskets and mats made from palm fronds and other colored grasses. We buy a set of fertility dolls with charming tiny beads although we really don’t need the dolls for fertility. Our visit to Zululand captured the essence of Africa to us.
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Music Flashback: “The Way We Were” BY: RANDAL C. HILL Marvin Hamlisch, who was responsible for writing the music to Barbra Streisand’s “The Way We Were,” used to utter an unusual prayer. Starting in 1964, when he was 20 years of age, he would privately plead, “Please, God, let Barbra Streisand sing one of my songs.” The first job he landed soon after graduating from New York’s Queens College was as a rehearsal pianist for “Funny Girl” with—of all people—Barbra Streisand. One day years later, Marvin got a phone call from a friend about possibly writing a song for a film that would star Robert Redford and Barbra Streisand. Thrilled by the possibility of his prayer actually paying off, Hamlisch resolved to capture the movie script in a single song. “I wanted to reflect all of the sorrow and despondency and pain of their relationship, the star-crossed nature of it,” he explained later. Enter the lyric-writing couple Alan and Marilyn Bergman. As a fitting complement to Marvin’s work, they created poignant word images that succinctly captured the essence of the Redford-Streisand tale:
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Memories light the corners of my mind Misty watercolor memories of the way we were Scattered pictures of the smiles we left behind Smiles we gave to one another for the way we were But all of Marvin’s creativity, inspiration and hard work almost didn’t matter, as Streisand’s song was omitted from the original film version of the “The Way We Were.” The determined Hamlisch, however, convinced Columbia’s reluctant studio moguls to hold two test screenings. The first audience sat unmoved by the final scene (with no song), where Streisand and Redford realize they have no future together. The next screening included Barbra’s tune. Hamlisch recalled, “I heard a woman start to cry. And then another. And within minutes, there wasn’t a dry eye left. I knew I was right.” One assumes that, from that moment onward, Marvin Hamlisch became a proponent for prayer.
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For the perfect weekend, we’d leave there for nearby Inverness to spend the night at The Crown Hotel, a three-story, British-themed facility, which was transformed into an assisted-living facility in 2001, sadly for us. Until next time, “Cheers!” (as I dry my eyes). If February has special meaning for you, please share your thoughts with Mike at micwrighthamo@gmail.com.
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Rick Steves narrates his travels live onstage, paired with selections by composers such as Beethoven, Elgar, Verdi and more.
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Symbols of Valentine’s Day - by Kathy A. Megyeri
“Hearts, Cupids, and Red Roses, the Story of Valentine Symbols,” by Edna Barth and illustrated by Ursula Arndt Cupids, heart shapes, turtle doves or love birds, clusters of rosebuds, hearts of paper lace—all are symbols of Valentine’s Day, a time when people express friendship, affection and love, especially for someone special. Edna Barth’s study of legends and symbols traced to their early beginnings in various countries is a treasure for all who celebrate love. Barth (1900-1981) was a librarian, teacher and editor of books for young people before becoming a children’s book author. Legends of St. Valentine abound. The most prevalent is the legend of a Valentine who was seized for helping Christians being persecuted by Claudius II. During Valentine’s time in prison, the jailer and his family were so impressed with his sincerity that they became Christians themselves. After Valentine miraculously restored the sight of the blind jailer’s daughter, he sent her a farewell message on February 14, the date of his execution, and signed it “From your Valentine.” From his burial site, a pink almond tree burst into bloom. The oldest known valentine in letter form was written in 1477 by Margery Brews and sent to John Paston, Margery’s “right worshipful and well-beloved Valentine.” For the next hundred years, some of England’s finest writers – including Robert Herrick and Samuel Pepys – wrote valentine poems. Lacy valentines reached their peak during the Victorian era (1840-1860) and were enhanced with silk, satin, chiffon, and real
lace. In 1845, the machine age brought new printing methods and the sending of valentines became very popular. In 1848, Esther Howland of Massachusetts imported lace colored paper and flowers and became the premier maker of lacy valentines which today are collectors’ items. During the Civil War, valentines often included a lock of hair. During WWI, valentines had patriotic themes. Card companies like Norcross and Hallmark promoted the true-love knot in addition to hearts, birds, flowers, and hands. Germans who settled in Pennsylvania created love tokens of single and double hearts. Sailors at sea created designs on scrimshaw. Kate Greenaway sold her first design of charming children dressed in quaint costumes for $15 and sales spiked to 25,000. In 1925, Lady Jeanetta Tuck suggested to her husband who owned a greeting card business that the firm’s Diamond Jubilee should be celebrated by sending valentines. Today, in addition to cards, candy, flowers, jewelry or perfume are the preferred gifts. This exhaustive history, beautifully presented with drawings, continues with a discussion of love birds, hearts, classroom Valentine boxes, the growth of the heart motif, Cupid, the rose, paper lace and the colors of red, pink and white. All suggest that despite wars and world problems, romance lives on and expresses something vital. The book concludes: ”….. human beings will continue to fall in love and marry. To be alive and a part of all this is truly delightful.”
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7 Ways to Say I Love You Based on the work of Elizabeth Rider, www.elizabethrider.com Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to reach out and celebrate love in all its forms and guises. Here are seven wonderful ways to say, “I Love You!” EROS – ROMANTIC, PASSIONATE LOVE
and wish them a “Happy Valentine’s Day.”
On Valentine’s Day, this is the most well-known type of love: erotic and full of passion. It’s love of the body, and though it can be fleeting, it burns like the sun while it lasts. Look deeply into your partner eyes and say, “I want you!” (Use your sexy voice for extra impact.)
LUDUS – PLAYFUL, FLIRTATIOUS LOVE
PHILIA – AFFECTIONATE, FRIENDLY LOVE Philia is characterized by loyalty and trust. It is encouraging, kind, affectionate, and everything that makes up a true friendship. It is entirely platonic, yet both meaningful and sweet. You simply want the best for another person. Call up your best friend and tell her, “I miss you!” STORGE – UNCONDITIONAL, FAMILIAL LOVE Storge refers to the unconditional love that parents have for their children. It is a protective, kinship-based love that embodies approval, sacrifice, and acceptance. Think of it as the love a parent has for a child – a strong bond and fondness that is built out of familiarity and need. Have coffee with your (grown up) child and say, “I am so proud to be your mother!”
Ludus is easy-breezy love. Playful, flirtatious, and non-committal, Ludus is a crush. It’s a fling, a nostrings-attached sort of conquest and butterflies in your stomach. It’s all about having fun, so think of whatever that means for you — flirting, dancing, teasing. Invite a friend to go out dancing, to a movie, or for coffee. PRAGMA – COMMITTED, LONGLASTING LOVE In the simplest of terms, it’s long-term love. Pragma is a love that is seen in many long-term marriages and friendships. It is built on commitment, endurance, companionship, and sharing similar hopes for the future. A lot of people (married folks, especially) will understand pragma as “making it work.” Tell your friend, partner, or spouse: “I accept you just as you are, and I look forward to spending the next 50 years together.” PHILAUTIA – SELF LOVE
Of all the different kinds of love, this is often the most challenging. However, it’s foundational to the other types. AGAPE – SELFLESS, UNIVERSAL LOVE Philautia is self-love, which makes it possible to give and receive love from other people. (Haven’t we all heard about not being Agape is an empathetic, selfless love for others that includes a able to pour from an empty cup?) Philautia goes hand in hand love for God, nature, strangers, and the less fortunate. It has links with self-worth, confidence, and the boost of self-esteem that to an unselfish, genuine concern for the welfare of others. Agape is necessary for a sense of one’s purpose. Look in the mirror, is spiritual love expressed through meditation, nature, intuition, smile widely at your reflection, and say, “I love you, you gorgeous and spirituality. Agape expects absolutely nothing in return and creature!” just makes you feel good. Surprise a neighbor with a good deed
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Question: Will my Medicare premiums be higher because of my higher income? Answer: Some people with higher income may pay a larger percentage of their monthly Medicare Part B and prescription drug costs based on their income. We call the additional amount the income-related monthly adjustment amount. Visit Medicare Premiums: Rules For Higher-Income Beneficiaries to see if the adjustment amount applies to you. Question: I am receiving Supplemental Security Income (SSI) and I just started to work part-time. Do I have to report my earnings to Social Security? Answer: Yes. When you receive SSI, the law requires you to report your wages. Question: I had additional earnings after I retired; will my monthly Social Security retirement benefit increase? Answer: Each year we review the records for every working Social Security beneficiary to see if the additional earnings will increase their monthly benefit amounts. If an increase is due, we calculate your new benefit amount and pay the increase retroactive to January following the year of earnings. For example, if you have earnings in 2024 that will increase your monthly benefit amount, we will increase your benefit amount retroactive to January 2024 once we review your record.
AROUND TOWN FEBRUARY 7: VALENTINE GALA, DINNER, & A CONCERT FROM THE HEART The Howey Mansion, 1001 Citrus Ave., Howey-in-The-Hills FEBRUARY 3 - 19: EPCOT INTERNATIONAL FESTIVAL OF THE ARTS EPCOT, 200 Epcot Center Dr., Lake Buena Vista FEBRUARY 8: CENTRAL FLORIDA DULCIMER FESTIVAL First Baptist Church, 1000 E. 1st Ave, Mt. Dora FEBRUARY 10: ONE LOVE REGGAE MUSIC FESTIVAL Lake David Park, N. Lake Ave. & Hwy 50, Groveland FEBRUARY 10: LIVE MUSIC Prime 3, 610 W. Main St., Leesburg FEBRUARY 13: IRISH NIGHT Savannah Center, 1545 N. Buena Vista Blvd., The Villages FEBRUARY 14: GHOST TOWN BLUES BAND: THE VILLAGES BLUES SOCIETY Rohan Regional Recreation Center, 850 Kristine Way, Wildwood FEBRUARY 17: MT. DORA SCOTTISH FESTIVAL Mt. Dora Parks & Recreation, 900 N. Donnelly St., Mt. Dora FEBRUARY 17: FLORIDA HORSE PULL L Cross Equestrian Center, 40812 Grays Airport Rd., Lady Lake FEBRUARY 17: RUMOURS: A FLEETWOOD MAC TRIBUTE Circle Square Cultural Center, 8395 S.W. 80th St., Ocala FEBRUARY: 21, 28: RHYTHM & HUES PIANO & DANCING The Rose Plantation, 150 Rose Ave., Fruitland Park FEBRUARY 22: GRANDVIEW CLYDESDALES HORSE FARM & STUMPKNOCKERS Rohan Regional Recreation Center, 850 Kristine Way, Wildwood FEBRUARY 25: OCALA SYMPHONY ORCHESTRA Reilly Arts Center, 500 N.E. 9th St., Ocala FEBRUARY 25: GARY LEWIS AND THE PLAYBOYS Savannah Center, 1545 N. Buena Vista Blvd., The Villages FEBRUARY 27: THE CELTIC TENORS Savannah Center, 1545 N. Buena Vista Blvd., The Villages
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The Power of Kindness for Better Health In a world often marked by chaos and division, it’s essential to celebrate and encourage kindness whenever we can. One simple act of kindness can make a world of difference. Kindness is a universal language that transcends borders, cultures, and generations. It’s the simple act of showing empathy, compassion, and consideration toward others. These seemingly small acts can have a profound impact on our well-being and the well-being of those around us.
Be Kind for Better Mental and Physical Health Kindness is a natural mood booster. Engaging in acts of kindness, such as complimenting someone, can enhance your overall mood and sense of well-being. One of the biggest health benefits of being kind is that it helps reduce inflammation. The positive emotions associated with kindness trigger the release of anti-inflammatory substances in the body.
The Ripple Effect of Being Kind Kindness is contagious. When you are kind to someone, they are more likely to be kind to others in turn. This ripple effect can create a more compassionate and empathetic society.
Ways to Show Kindness Perform Random Acts of Kindness: Surprise a colleague with a coffee, hold the door open for someone, or offer a kind word to a friend in need. These small gestures can have a bigger impact than you might think. Volunteer: Spend your time helping others through volunteering. Whether it’s at a local food bank or animal shelter, giving back is a powerful way to spread kindness. Practice Self-Kindness: Don’t forget to be kind to yourself. Self-compassion is just as important as compassion for others. Let’s embrace the spirit of kindness, making the world a better place for ourselves, others, and future generations. Call today to schedule a FREE consultation with a primary care doctor at your neighborhood VIPcare clinic! 352-656-6061
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