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Dog Days of Summer

Volunteer with Neighborly/Meals on Wheels this season to brighten up your summer

Parents’ Day

Celebrate the parents in your life with great gifts or a cool dessert

Articles in each issue: • Humor • Pop Culture History • Health • Music Flashback • Local news & events

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Celebrating Family This Parents’ Day As with almost every Letter from the Editor that I write, there are celebrations to be had this month. We are currently in the midst of summer and nearly the mid to late end of the season. With that comes balmy temperatures and different occasions and holidays. Of course, there is the Fourth of July, which is always a fun time and a great excuse to stay up late in celebration. However, July also includes Parents’ Day on the 23rd, a little-known and celebrated holiday. Parents’ Day is a day for all parents, young and old, parents-to-be and parents that once were. Though it is not as wildly acknowledged as Mother or Father’s Day, it still warrants a reason to honor the people to who it applies. Growing up, I butted heads with both my mom and dad. I could not help it; the frustration with a lack of freedom (or at least, what I perceived as a lack of freedom) made me the typical angsty teen that was only interested in spending time with my friends, boyfriends or alone in my room. Looking back, I wish I had spent more time at home in the company of my parents. Once I moved into college, it made me realize just how much they meant to me. Mostly, I missed my parents’ contagious laughs. But I also missed my dad’s overdramatic sneezes that caused everyone to burst out laughing or the way he would always jingle the spare change he kept in his front right jean pocket to a random beat. I missed the way my mom would hum while preoccupied with something or the

way she would always ask if I wanted to help with dinner so she could teach me how to cook. It worked because I have made some darn good dishes inspired by her cooking while living on my own. So, if you are looking for small but significant gifts to appreciate or pamper the parents in your family, here are just a few that are sure to be winners. • Framed Picture: I have suggested this before, but only because it is a fabulous idea. Find a picture that mom or dad loves on their Facebook page, or ask someone else in the family if they have any good photos to gift. Parents love this idea! • Family Portrait Session: It is common for a family to skip out on professional portraits, even though they are great to have for memories and décor. Look for a photographer in their area that does family portraits and pay for the session. It’s a great alternative to gifting a framed photograph. • Self-Pamper Kit: Though this may apply more to moms, send or gift them skincare products that they’ll love for their skin type, nice body butter or lotion that they would never buy for themselves or even a gift card to their favorite lunch spot. The goal is for mom or dad to have a reason to indulge in themselves for once.

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MEALS ON WHEELS: BRIGHTEN UP YOUR SUMMER THROUGH VOLUNTEERISM BY DANIEL KILBURN With the dog days of summer upon us, everyone needs something to power through the Florida heat. Volunteering with a local non-forprofit is a great way to brighten up the season. Neighborly, partnered with Meals on Wheels (MOW) of Pinellas County, is currently in need of volunteers and would love your help. The organization specializes in home caregiving and hot meal delivery for seniors in need. Not only do they provide meals and friendly visits from volunteers, but they also offer transportation services to seniors. MOW has dedicated and caring volunteers who have convinced and recruited others to begin their own post-retirement career in volunteering. For example, meet David Cooke. David has volunteered with MOW Pinellas County at the Safety Harbor location for just over a year. Though now retired, he has an extensive background in nonprofit management for organizations that care for handicapped adults. He was drawn to MOW amid the pandemic last year. “I was looking for a good nonprofit organization to put my time into, and Meals on Wheels was perfect.” David helps conduct orientation meetings with Hilary Douglass, the Community Engagement Manager for MOW of Pinellas County. He helps familiarize new volunteers with their duties and explains what to expect as they go about their routes. “I always tell new volunteers, don’t be surprised if you have to make deliveries in the rain—it's Florida, after all. You may also walk up three flights of stairs to deliver a meal, and you’re greeted with a ‘none today, thank you’ note on the client’s door. That’s just a day on the job.” David has come to make many friends with fellow volunteers and clients just over the past year. David told the story of how one woman he regularly delivers meals to recently lost her husband due to a long-term illness. As different memories and anniversaries arise, David has learned more about his friend and become a person of comfort during a difficult time.

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volunteering can be. He has been a meal delivery driver with MOW in Gulfport for 17 years. Born and raised in St. Pete, Jack wanted to continue helping his community even in retirement. When asked what the most rewarding part of his volunteer experience, Jack said, “I’ve made so many friends. Sometimes, I’m the only contact clients have all day, so we quickly become friends.” Jack goes above and beyond for the friends he has made. He explained how one of his regular clients often joked, saying, “What’s on the menu today? Steak and lobster?” Jack surprised that same client with a special Christmas dinner that year: freshly cooked filet, lobster tail and a glass of wine. If you would like to begin your Meals on Wheels story, visit neighborly. org for more information, questions or to view different volunteering opportunities.

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Movie Preview: Jungle Cruise BY RANDAL C. HILL

Visually, Disney’s “Jungle Cruise” could be considered a mashup of the Pirates of the Caribbean franchise and stuntfueled Indiana Jones movies, with elements of the 1951 Bogart-Hepburn film classic “The African Queen” thrown in for good measure.

UK-born Blunt is the determined British explorer Doctor Lily Houghton, who is on a unique mission. “Legend has it that there is a tree that possesses unparalleled human power,” she explains to Frank. “It’ll change medicine forever.” But jaded Frank dismisses the tree as being the centerpiece of a long-running jungle rumor and opines with a sneer, “You’re searching for something that can’t be found.”

The idea behind this summer’s probable first blockbuster movie was kicked around the Disney organization for quite a while. It was 15 years ago that Disney’s story creators first came up with an idea structured loosely around Disneyland’s popular Jungle Cruise ride. For various reasons, though, the idea was shelved until 2015, when the “Jungle Cruise” script was finally green-lighted.

He also offers a grim caveat to the brave doctor: “Everything that you see wants to kill you—and can.” In time, “everything” will include a litany of dangers that range from dart-shooting marauders to daunting and deadly creatures to churning holdon-for-dear-life rapids.

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The completed offering has actually been on hold since 2019. The supporting cast features Jack Whitehall as Lily’s brother But with the pandemic easing its grip this summer, Uncle Walt’s McGregor and Paul Giamatti as a crusty harbormaster. Edgar outfit is set to launch the slam-bang action tale—all familyRamirez and Jesse Plemons ramp up the tension as torpedofriendly, of course—nationwide. The film cleverly incorporates some of the launching German intruders determined to find the mystical tree first. standard elements of Disney’s popular Adventureland attraction—the oohing The “Jungle Cruise” script came to life in the deft hands of respected actionand ahhing over the scenery, the constant threat of danger, the appearance of drama director Jaume Collet-Serra (“Non-Stop,” “Run All Night”). potential interlopers. What better way to When help seniors in Pinellas County than by giving them a lift to a it comes to movie settings, a dense, foreboding jungle can offer a wide “Jungle Cruise” stars two of the day’s most bankable actors: Duane “The Rock” much needed medical appointment? two to four hours that a week more, if variety of possibilities.In Of just course, what’s also beyond is the(or right story, the Johnson and Golden Globe-recipient Emily Blunt. Johnson portrays Captain right cast and the right director. With “Jungle Cruise,” Disney has checked all the you’d like!) volunteers deliver clients to and from medical appointments and Frank, the wisecracking owner/guide of a ramshackle river boat headed up the boxes and is on track to release its first post-pandemic movie winner on July 30. mighty Amazon. pharmacies (up to ten miles from the client’s home, one way). We adhere to strict

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Why I Get Up in the Morning BY JAN LARRAINE COX

Since we are mostly vaccinated and moving forward one step at a time, perhaps we can dream new dreams again, investigate new possibilities and move in new directions. Time to let go of regrets and old resentments for a powerful renewal based on hope! Writer Allison Sher suggests creating your own mission statement. Step one is asking what would you like to see be different in the world? Step two is determining how you can use your gifts to contribute to this change. Finally, Sher recommends combining the two steps into an actionable item. She talks about combining reflection and action into the practice of praxis. From medieval Latin, praxis is the process by which a theory or skill is realized or enacted. Environmental activist Greta Thunberg demonstrates just how powerful praxis can be when enacted in today’s world. As she says, “No step is too small. There is no time to wait for new technology to protect the environment: do it now.” Thunberg has been a leading activist despite being born with Asperger’s syndrome, which she considers a gift. She feels we people belong to Earth and must preserve it. Rather than the other way around, she says we don’t have the right to prolong the environmental crisis. We are at a turning point where we have possibly spiraled upward toward opportunity and empowerment, having made it this far through the pandemic. Positive steps not only kept us safe during the pandemic. These steps also kept us from falling back into fear and immobilization. Perhaps we remember the Serenity Prayer which states: “Give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

Native Americans considered power, wealth and status a kind of mind virus they called wetiko. They saw it in the European colonists when they landed on the East Coast of North America. Like a cultural epidemic, while under the spell of wetiko and its symptom of narcissism, one cannot see that others’ lives are as important as one’s own life. Because our actions have consequences, we must find the balance between giving and taking in our lives and communities. And so, we are on a journey where we can rethink and reimagine life from here. The Japanese call it ikigai, or why I get up in the morning. From infant to toddler to elderhood, we can create a space for play, passion and purpose. On this path, we continue to learn how each of us is capable of living life with more meaning.

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Ageless Women, Timeless Wisdom BY KATHY A. MEGYERI

Psychotherapist, life coach, speaker and author Doctor Lois Frankel has a sign in her office that states, “Entrance to another’s soul is a sacred honor.” It epitomizes the search she took to write this beautiful, insightful and compassionate book called “Ageless Women, Timeless Wisdom: Witty, Wicked, and Wise Reflections on Well-Lived Lives.” She focused on women who ranged in age from 70 to 100 to gather a cross section of women’s most treasured possessions— their memories. She proved that their existence and wisdom is essential to our very survival as their unique life experiences reflected differences in interests, backgrounds, temperaments and experiences.

their level of education, religions, ethnicities and backgrounds. Singer and songwriter Rita Coolidge summed it up best: “For too long, the wisdom of older women has gone unnoticed, unappreciated and undervalued, but this collection is sure to put a smile on your face and the faces of the women you share it with.”

When a customer in a Palm Springs pet boutique is asked what she knew to be true after all her years of living, she responded, “If life gives you lemons, look for the vodka.” When a woman in Scottsdale was asked the same question, she replied, “Don’t trust men. If they don’t treat you well, leave them. They don’t change.” Without exception, these women don’t see themselves as the stereotypical old age crones. They want others to acknowledge their relevance, vitality and wisdom.

These “seasoned women” knew that each possessed kindness and caring, independence, intelligence, sacrifice, grace, determination, confidence and love. They had learned life lessons and could teach them well. They were models for well-lived lives and in these short quotes and longer interviews, you will recognize their voices, you will laugh, you will think and you will cry but you’ll feel even better about joining their ranks because you’ll realize all that you too have to offer because you also will be a positive role model for aging. This book contains lessons to be learned, lessons to be taught and lessons that provide a model for a well-lived life. The photos, artwork and calligraphy enhance each page of this coffee table book. Frankel definitely knows what us women want and need, and after reading the book, you’ll want to go to the women in your life and ask for their contributions and listen to their stories.

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Once July rolls around, that’s typically when the summer heat settles into Florida. As wonderful as the season is for celebrations, sunshine and enjoying a cool drink at sunset, summer makes it difficult to want to cook. Having the oven or stove on heats up the kitchen, if not the whole house, making it nearly impossible to

host guests. If you’re looking for a quick, no heat needed dessert recipe for company, this s’more icebox cake is just what you need—because what’s more “summer” than a s’more? Make the night before for best results, or make the morning of guests’ arrival. 1. Line a loaf pan (preferably 9”x5”) with plastic wrap. Leave overhang at the top.

Ingredients and supplies: • 1 cup heavy cream • 1/2 to 1 cup of mini milk chocolate chips (or two chopped chocolate bars) • 1 1/2 cups mini marshmallows • One 7 oz. jar of marshmallow puff

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Three New Horse Statues Being Added to Ocala, Marion Public Art Landscape Information from Ocala-News Online

Hutchinson Auditorium Florida College 119 N. Glen Arven Ave. Temple Terrace, FL

July 16: 7 p.m. July 17: 11 a.m. 7 p.m.

ENJOY AN EVENING OUT! JOIN US FOR A GREAT SHOW! Bring your friends…bring a group…enjoy this timeless, fun musical.

According to Ocala-News online, three new Horse Fever statues were recently raffled off and will now move to new homes for public display across Ocala and Marion County.

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The drawing was held on June 4 at the Brick City Center for the Arts during the center’s opening of the “Art in Bloom” exhibit.

We will begin by selling every other row, distancing each group from other groups. As restrictions are lifted, we will sell the other rows. Visit our website for updates on any required Covid restrictions. broadwaycomestocamp.com We hope that by mid-July most or all restrictions will be lifted.

Reserved: $20 Senior Reserved (65+): $16 General Admission: $12

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The three horses that were raffled off included “Critters” by local artist Bonnie Eades, “Home Sweet Home” by Ocala artist Carlynne Hershberger, and “Sunny Daze.” Katherine Guida, who won “Critters,” will display her horse in the prestigious Ocala Downs community. Rick Rowan, who won “Home Sweet Home,” will display the horse at the Ocala Preserve. The final winner was lifetime Marion Cultural Alliance member Irene McCracken, who is still deciding on where to place her horse. “It is so heart-filling to see the love this community has for Horse Fever. And it’s wonderful that these three horses will remain in Ocala,” read a press release from the Marion Cultural Alliance. For more information on the Horse Fever 20/20 program or other initiative and events hosted by the center, visit mcaocala.org.

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As the COVID vaccine is available to all who want it, and as the Governor removed all mask restrictions, we do not plan to social distance…use masks at your own discretion. Visit our website for any needed updates: broadwaycomestocamp.com Thank you, Royce Chandler Chandler Family Corp. for Fine Arts | Broadway Comes to Camp broadwaycomestocamp@gmail.com

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Lilly's on the Lake The Sound Machines Information from LakeridgeWinery.com If you’re a fan of alternative music from every area, Lilly’s on the Lake is your place to enjoy this summer. On July 10, The Sound Machines, an alternative band that plays hits from the 60s until now, will perform in the evening at Lilly’s restaurant. Live music nights offer you the chance to discover great local talent, get to know the band, all while enjoying food and drinks on the lake. Lilly’s is a Caribbean-themed bar and grill serving casual meals on a lake setting. The restaurant has both indoor and outdoor seating where you can enjoy both lake views and live music entertainment. Apart from the great menu items, 6-person surreys, 10-speed bikes, beach cruisers and tri-decks are available during business hours for rent. Experience the water, views and food to the fullest! The Sound Machines are an alternative band hailing from Orlando that performs all over the state. They perform Top 40s hits from the 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s and today. Learn more about the band at their website, thesoundmachines.biz. Lilly’s on the Lake – The Sound Machines Where: Lilly’s on the Lake, 846 W Osceola St, Clermont, FL When: Saturday, July 10 from 5 – 9 pm Lifestyles After 50 • July 2021 • 14

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A Strange Way to Make Big Money BY RANDAL C. HILL

Have you ever heard of musician Billy Strange? Born William Everett Strange in 1930 in Long Beach, California, he became an in-demand session guitarist/arranger in Hollywood who recorded with such top-drawer artists as Elvis Presley, the Beach Boys, Cher and Nancy Sinatra. One afternoon in the early ‘60s, Billy received a huge royalty check for a throwaway ditty he had created previously on a whim. He felt certain that a mistake was made and called the issuing office. That’s when he was told, “Mr. Strange, the money is all yours.” His quirky tale began at an all-night Hollywood diner, where he and a musician pal gulped black coffee in attempts to become sober enough to drive home. Eventually, they climbed into their car and cautiously motored off. Fighting to stay awake, Strange twirled the car radio dial for a while before settling on a local country station playing a tune that he detested. “Man, I can write a song better than that in five minutes,” he boasted with a slur. That’s when his equally inebriated companion slapped a hundred-dollar bill on the seat between them and said, “Okay, Billy, you’re on!”

With a chortle, Strange reached into the car’s back seat for a blank score pad, which he used to sketch out arrangements for his session-musician work. He quickly came up with a catchy song that he laughingly dubbed “Monotonous Melody.” He then sang it, tossed the pad back and—unchallenged—stuck the money into his pocket. A few weeks later, Billy found himself at work in a recording studio. A friend there, a music composer named Basil “Buzz” Adlam, had just started a small-time music company and announced that he was on the lookout for some fresh material to record. “Buzz, you know, I might have one,” Strange responded half-seriously as he recalled his silly “Monotonous Melody” tune. Billy and some other session pals tried a few different tempos and styles before settling on a calypso approach to the foolish work. By the time the musicians had repeatedly sung “What a monotonous melody,” they were all in hysterics. After hearing the playback tape, Strange himself admitted, “That’s just about the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard.” A few weeks later, Billy got a phone call from Dave Burgess, who led the instrumental group the Champs (of “Tequila” fame). Burgess wanted to put “Monotonous Melody” out as the next Champs 45, but with a title change. Strange didn’t care, saying, “It never really had a name anyway.” Only later did the musician find his tune had become a Top 40 instrumental under the name “Limbo Rock.” (Dancing under a limbo bar was a popular party activity back then.) Then Chubby Checker’s manager, Jon Sheldon, phoned to ask permission to add lyrics to “Limbo Rock” and release it as hitmaker Chubby’s next 45.

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Strange’s check was for $63,000— about $450,000 today. Not a bad payday for five minutes’ work from a tipsy tunesmith trying only to win a bet.

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CREATIVE CORNER The “Little Tyke” - A Short Story By Ann Marie Stenhouse of Englewood, FL I’m just a little tyke. That’s what my gram calls me. My mom says Gram spoils me too much. On sunny Sundays, Gram takes me for a ride on a big blue bus. She says to bring a pillow to sit on so I can see better out the windows. My favorite place to go is the city park. I can see my friend the “angel” when we ride by.

Sometimes we get off the bus and walk over to where my angel is sitting. His wings are folded up on his back and he looks like he’s praying. I guess that’s what angels do. I sit next to him and pray. My gram says this makes her very happy and that makes me happy, too.

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“Take Me Home, Country Roads” by John Denver BY: RANDAL C. HILL Near the end of 1970, musicians Bill Danoff and his girlfriend/future wife Taffy Nivert motored along a picturesque two-lane Maryland highway called Clopper Road. To pass the time, they batted about some lyrics that they felt might fit into a melancholy ode for Johnny Cash. When they got to “almost heaven,” Bill injected the word Massachusetts. And while Massachusetts did contain four syllables—what Danoff wanted—he thought the state’s name somehow wasn’t “musical” enough. Back home in Washington, DC that night, he and Nivert chose a better-flowing four-syllable state name: West Virginia, a place neither had ever been. On December 29, 1970, the 163-seat Cellar Door music club in the Georgetown area of Washington, DC, offered two relatively unknown acts on stage that evening—Bill and Taffy (who performed as Fat City) and a struggling folkie friend named John Denver. After Fat City and Denver had finished their Cellar Door sets that night, they agreed to rendezvous at Bill and Taffy’s place for an impromptu jam. Nivert said to her partner, “Get out that song you’re writing for Johnny Cash.” Danoff showed Denver the tune that, at the time, consisted only of one chorus and one verse. John was bowled over by what he heard and asked to have the first crack at recording it. The three worked throughout the night, John adding the bridge and more words of wistful nostalgia.

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The next night, Denver played his entire set and an encore, but the enthusiastic crowd demanded one more tune. When the applause died down, he told the audience, “We just finished a brand-new song, and I haven’t even learned the Image from John Denver words yet.” He then unfolded a sheet of YouTube Channel paper and taped it below the mic head. Danoff joined Denver on stage, along with John’s lead guitarist and his bass player, and the foursome launched into the first public performance of “Take Me Home, Country Roads.” The audience rose collectively for a thunderous five-minute standing ovation when the tune ended. That verified to Denver what he had felt since the night before when he had first heard the unfinished song: this one—for sure—is a winner. One month later, John recorded it as an RCA Victor single, with his Fat City friends providing backup. Upon release, the 45 rocketed to Number Two on the “Billboard” Hot 100 chart and finally gave Denver the breakout hit for which he had spent years searching.

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IT’S GREEK TO ME

Back in our younger, romantic AND fully-employed days, we did crazy, spontaneous things. For example, while lying in bed together it was not unusual for my bride to occasionally say, “I’m hungry!” To which I’d reply, “Want a salad?” Then we’d get up, jump into the car (often a convertible), and buzz on over to US-19 for the forty-minute drive from Tampa to Tarpon Springs. Our destination was the legendary Louis Pappas Restaurant, where we’d order a large Greek Salad with two forks. We usually had coffee and an occasional baklava for dessert. Tarpon Springs was always kind of a romantic getaway for us. One of the best times we had was simply walking along the Sponge Docks during a light summer drizzle. We’d window shop and observe the community superstitions such as crosses burned by candle onto the top doorframes of the shops, bags of garlic nailed to the doors and the plethora of “evil eyes” found in most gift shops. However, we never played tourist by taking a boat out to watch the deep-sea divers harvest live sponges from the bottom of the Gulf of Mexico. I always surmised that some enterprising diver probably makes a lucrative living by diving at night to replant the sponges that were gathered the day before. We would visit the occasional gift shop, but we always preferred going downtown to visit stores and eateries frequented by the locals. Sadly, the 1000-seat Pappas restaurant closed its doors in 2005. However, it ultimately spawned a number of offshoots named “Louis Pappas Fresh Greek” in several cities. We rejoiced when one opened in Tampa, and we split many a small chopped Greek Salad there. Yesterday, during a trip to the mall where Joy could weigh in at WW (she was sure she’d gained, but she lost 3 pounds, as I accurately predicted) and I could quickly visit Books-a-Million, we realized we were hungry, so we checked out the nearby Pappas Fresh Greek here in Lakeland. We’re not sure what possessed us to get two salads, the small ones are huge. We were stuffed in no time and ended up carrying the equivalent of what we already ate home in Styrofoam cartons, to enjoy later.

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We may disagree on a number of things, but my husband and I are in accord when it comes to dogs. We love them and can’t live without them. Over the years there’s been a succession of large dogs with whom we’ve shared our lives. But not our bed. Enter Sam, a 17-pound rough coat Russell Terrier. To equal the size of one of our Labradors would require five Sams.

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our house while he finds new work and gets back on his feet. It’s been going well and my son has been respectful, polite and considerate and pays some rent. However, I am shocked at how much my new husband is bullying my son. He criticizes everything he does. If he brings groceries, he complains. If he doesn’t, he complains. It is ruining my relationship with my husband. Sincerely, Working My Last Nerve

Dear “Camper,” I would begin by making an appointment with whoever serves in this role, and let them know what is happening. Make sure your approach and communications are professional. Make your boundaries clear and make sure that you are consistent in making sure that these boundaries are being respected. If you truly want to stay in this job, you will have to stand up to these bullies and make sure your boundaries are being respected.

Dear “Empty Nest,” I would sit down with your husband and discuss this issue as soon as possible. Make sure to use nonaccusatory language, show understanding. Make sure your husband has a voice in the process. Ask him to provide a list of rules so that the expectations are clear and can be followed by all involved. After you come to some agreement, sit with the three of you and have a discussion.

My son from my first marriage is out of work due to COVID. After going through most of his savings, my new husband and I offered him a room at

If this doesn’t help, then see a therapist ASAP. If your husband or son refuses to participate, go alone because you absolutely need someone to help you during this time.

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When we think of our overall well-being, many of us forget the importance of our eye health. Our relationship to the world around us is created by how and what we perceive through our environment. This includes everything from meals to travel, or even our evening walk. Our eyes also help protect us from potential dangers like predators, rotted food or even while driving. When our ocular health is compromised, so is our quality of life.

slow cognitive decline, according to Medical News Today.

July is Eye Injury Prevention Month, and while this may sound like a month dedicated to the importance of safety goggles (which it can be), this also means awareness of what we can do to preserve our eyes’ function and prevent injury or deterioration.

If you like to read before bedtime, be sure to do so in a well-lit room. Experts recommend that light sources be placed and illuminated all around you while reading. This strategy helps keep your eyes from straining to read the page as complete light helps both eliminate shadows. A well-lit room also eliminates eye stress as the muscles do not need to adjust from a bright white page to complete darkness in the rest of your house or bedroom.

Firstly, the best way to protect your eye health is through a diet balanced with vitamin A and beta carotene-rich fresh vegetables. Beta carotene is the pigment which gives produce a bright red or orange color. Once ingested, the body converts this pigment into vitamin A, which is crucial for our eye health. Beta carotene is in fresh vegetables such as carrots, bell peppers, sweet potatoes and fruits such as cantaloupe and apricots. You can find large amounts of vitamin A in leafy greens such as spinach, kale and collard greens. Not only are vitamin A and beta carotene great for eye health, but they also

Preventing eye injury can also be proactive by respecting your eyes’ stamina. For instance, if you feel your eyes straining while looking at electronic screens, a book or a newspaper for an extended amount of time, be sure to step away and give your eyes at least a half hour rest.

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