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LIFE-CHANGING ADVENTURE

BY REBECCA FENDING Before setting out on this life-changing adventure into the American Southwest National Parks, I read a biography of legendary Native American Photographer Edward Curtis. This set the stage for my experience with 35 other travelers to a portion of our land I’d never seen, except in photographs.

Our first stop was Mesa Verde National Park, which protects some 5,000 Puebloan sites, including 600 cliff dwellings, dating back to A.D. 550. Impressive Cliff Palace was essentially a city of more than 150 rooms and 20 circular underground kivas used for spiritual ceremonies. All sites were built with bones and rocks as tools and waterproofed with pitch from pinion pine trees.

We continued our breathtaking trip by boarding the Durango and Silverton Narrow Gauge Railroad in Durango, Colorado. The rail, which has been in continuous use since 1882, provides an ideal vantage point to take in the Colorado high country wilderness of the San Juan Mountains. While navigating through winding mountain passes and river rapids, we relished tall aspen forests turning yellow in late September.

Our guide aptly quoted the ancient Indian phrase “Ya at eehi,” meaning, “Everything on the surface of Mother Earth and in my life is good.”

Indeed, the Navajo Bears Ears National Monument was 100% restored and slightly expanded from its original 1.3-million-acre boundaries in early October by President Biden.

Another absolute high point was arriving at Arches National Park. It felt like a playground where one could see over 2,000 red sandstone arches like Delicate Arch, a free-standing 65-foot loop of rock, and Balanced Rock, a 128-foot stone pillar that supports a boulder balanced upon it. Some of these formations conjure up images of people, layer cakes and even cruise ships!

We stopped at Navajo Bridge to appreciate a soaring influx of endangered California condors that have been returned to nature there and in other western locations through a successful breed and release program.

Continuing on to the North Rim of the Grand Canyon, we arrived opportunely with fewer travelers and more colorful trees. It is the wilder side of the famous expansive canyon and a day’s drive from the more frequented South Rim. Passing bighorn sheep nestled in a heavenly habitat, we entered Zion National Park in Southwest Utah. Daunting cliffs of red Navajo sandstone amongst pink, white and vermillion cliffs and blue skies, define this popular hiking and climbing park.

Grand finale: otherworldly Bryce Canyon National Park is most memorable for its six square miles of pillar hoodoos and seemingly endless amphitheaters. Its trails drop 2,000 feet from the 9,000foot Paunsaugunt Plateau. A dramatic backdrop for the changing light and hues which create a glow from within; a photographer’s delight.

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“Peace Train”

by Cat Stevens BY: RANDAL C. HILL Remember Cat Stevens? He came to prominence here in the early Seventies as a singer-songwriter responsible for such ethereal ballads as “Peace Train,” “Wild World,” “Moon Shadow” and “Morning Has Broken.” He was equally popular in his home country of England at the same time, but to his British fans he was probably more like Cat Stevens 2.0, a rocker revamped from the turbulent late Sixties.

“Peace Train” was Stevens’s third entrée into the 1971 American Top Ten, the song being gleaned from his million-selling album “Teaser and the Firecat.”

Arriving at a time of social upheaval (especially concerning the unpopular Vietnam conflict), “Peace Train” brought a message of hope and encouragement to his followers. Infused with a Greek-influenced calypso beat and powered by handclaps, violins and a gospel-tinged chorus, Cat’s hit offered an escape from the country’s malaise and a welcome to a world of tranquility and contentment via a metaphorical train ride. Who wouldn’t want to be on such a conveyance?

Steven set his heart on becoming a songwriter in the same vein as Bob Dylan and Paul Simon. He signed a publishing deal at 17 with a London music company and cut several original demos, including the future Tremeloes hit “Here Comes My Baby” and “The First Cut is the Deepest,” recorded later by Rod Stewart and Sheryl Crow. He changed his stage name to Cat Stevens, in part because a girlfriend claimed he had eyes like a cat. Also, he has said, he couldn’t imagine

anyone going into a record store to ask for a Steven Demetre Georgiou album.

Never a standout student, Stevens Image from CatStevens.com later dropped out of art college to become a velvet-suit-wearing teen idol who placed three rock singles high on the British record charts. What followed for him was a schedule of personal appearances, recording sessions and an indulgence in the seductive (and often destructive) world of the rock star.

He contracted tuberculosis and landed in a London hospital for a year-long recuperation. While taking stock of his life during that time, Stevens meditated, did yoga, became a vegetarian and considered different spiritual paths.

During his recovery, he composed numerous songs in an easy-going, folk-pop style, his new works more intimate than the hard-edged rockers that had first brought him fame in the UK. “In the old days, I was more concerned with melody,” Cat said later. “Now it’s what I have to say.”

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National Alzheimer’s Awareness Month: Prevention and Help

BY REBECCA FENDING This month starts National Alzheimer’s Awareness Month, and with it an opportunity to learn more about this disease, how to prevent it and how to help those affected by the condition.

Alzheimer’s is a form of dementia, often impeding the affected person’s daily life and tasks. This disease accounts for 60 to 80% of dementia diagnoses. Although there is no cure, there are ways to promote brain health and healthy aging for you and your loved ones: National Memory Screening Program – Memory screenings are free, simple, quick, noninvasive healthy brain checkups that consist of a series of questions to gauge memory, language, thinking skills and other intellectual functions. Screenings are conducted one-on-one through secure videoconference (i.e., Zoom, Facetime, Skype), and the program is open to everyone; there are no minimum age or insurance requirements.

Improving physical health – Much of what helps promote healthy brain aging has to do with your physical well-being. Eating well, exercising regularly and staying active both physically and mentally helps increase blood flow to the brain. Increasing blood flow directly correlates with a healthy functioning brain. With this, limit your alcohol intake and stop smoking to keep yourself hydrated and keep oxygen flow high.

Learn new things – One way to keep your brain stimulated and active as you age is by challenging yourself to learn new things daily. Whether it be a language, a documentary, a new hobby or sport, or even brushing your teeth with your non-dominant hand, any activity that exercises the brain is wonderful at staving off Alzheimer’s and dementia.

Get enough sleep regularly – Quality sleep also helps the brain to age with grace. Sleep is what allows the body to repair itself, as well as work to store new memories from the day. Rest for the brain is just as important as stimulation.

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Socially stimulate yourself – Push yourself into social situations to help keep your cognitive stimulation high.

For family members looking for help and guidance in handling a member close to them with Alzheimer’s, here are a few resources to best help you: AFA Helpline – Available by phone (866-232-8484), text message (646-586-5283) and webchat (www.alzfdn.org), the AFA Helpline (staffed entirely by licensed social workers specifically trained in dementia care) provides guidance, support, answers and information about local services seven days a week.

Virtual activity programming – To help individuals affected by Alzheimer’s disease and their caregivers stay active and engaged from anywhere, AFA offers free daily activity and therapeutic programs through its website. Activities at “the AFA Teal Room” include music, art, movement, chair yoga, fitness, meditation, virtual tours and more. View programs at www.alzfdn.org/ afatealroom.

Telephone-based support groups – AFA offers free weekly, telephone-based support groups facilitated by AFA’s licensed social workers, designed to give caregivers a place to connect and share from anywhere in the country. Contact AFA’s Helpline at 866-232-8484 for additional information about registering for a caregiver support group.

All information direct from the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America

Spiced Pumpkin Bundt Cake with Maple Glaze

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BY REBECCA FENDING

When I think of November, the tastes and smells of pumpkin, warm spices and rich maple always come to mind. This recipe for Spiced Pumpkin Bundt Cake with Maple Glaze is perfect if you’re looking to serve family and friends a different Thanksgiving dessert. Not only is it a great sweet to have with a cup of joe after dinner, but it also warms up for a delicious breakfast.

For the Cake: • 2 ½ cups allpurpose flour • 1 cup brown sugar • 2 teaspoons cinnamon • 1 ½ teaspoons of pumpkin spice • 1 teaspoon baking soda • 1 teaspoon baking powder • ½ teaspoon salt

• 16 oz. unsweetened pumpkin puree • ¾ cup vegetable oil • ¼ cup water • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract • Butter, for greasing

As always, you can modify this any way you’d like. The cake is wonderful without the glaze, if you or company are conscious about sugar intake. If you like less cinnamon and more pumpkin pie spice, feel free to change the ratios however you like! Either way, this sweet treat is perfect for late fall.

1. Heat oven to 350 F. 2. Sift the flour into a large bowl and add the brown sugar, cinnamon, pumpkin pie spice, baking soda, baking powder and salt. Whisk to combine.

3. In a medium bowl, combine the pumpkin puree, vegetable oil, water and vanilla. Whisk well.

4. Gradually add the wet ingredients to the dry ingredients, folding with a rubber spatula just until combined. Do not overmix the batter.

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5. Generously grease a Bundt pan with butter or nonstick spray.

6. Bake for 45 minutes, until a toothpick inserted into the cake comes out clean.

7. Remove the cake from the oven and let cool for 15 minutes before inverting to remove from the pan.

For the Maple Glaze: • 2 tablespoons butter • 1/3 cup pure maple syrup • 1 cup sifted confectioners’ sugar

• 1/4 teaspoon maple extract (optional, but recommended)

1. In a small saucepan over low heat, melt the butter and maple syrup together, whisking occasionally.

2. Once the butter has melted, remove from heat and whisk in the sifted confectioners’ sugar and maple extract. Taste.

Add a pinch of salt if desired. Cool for 5-7 minutes, and pour over cake. Top with pecans or walnuts, if desired.

By Mark Grevlding

President Ronald Reagan designated November as National Alzheimer’s Disease Awareness Month in 1983. As we recognize the 38th anniversary, let us also acknowledge the role of exercise in preventing Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia.

Dementia refers to a decline in mental ability severe enough to interfere with daily life. Alzheimer’s is the most common cause of dementia.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), 5.8 million Americans live with Alzheimer’s disease, the majority of them are 65 and older. According to the Alzheimer’s Research and Prevention Foundation, regular physical exercise can reduce your risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease by up to 50 percent. A Swedish study found that women who were in better cardiovascular health had an 88% lower risk of getting dementia than other women, according to the report published in the Medical Journal of Neurology. Research conducted by the University of Madrid shows that exercise can also slow the disease’s progression in those already diagnosed.

Most Alzheimer’s organizations and the World Health Organization (WHO) agree that adults should strive for 150 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise each week. Most studies focus on the benefit of aerobic exercise, but many suggest that strength training could be equally beneficial in preventing

dementia. Maintaining muscle mass, as discussed in last month’s issue, is also crucial for those with Alzheimer's disease. It helps individuals maintain the strength to perform daily activities of living, thus prolonging their independence.

In order to meet the goal of 150 minutes of exercise a week, it is important to choose activities that are enjoyable and sustainable, meaning something you can stick with over a long period of time.

Any activity is good, whether it be walking, water exercise, yoga, tai chi or gardening. It is also important to choose an exercise activity that is suitable for your fitness level and overall health.

Water exercise is always a good choice because it is easy on the joints, and the water’s resistance helps build muscular strength and endurance.

Aging is inevitable, but how we age is within our control. Not only does exercise help you move better and feel better, but it can also help you live better by reducing your risk of Alzheimer’s disease and dementia.

Mark Grevelding is the founder of the PoolFit, a water exercise app and website that includes over 110 water fitness videos, including dozens of moderate aerobic and strength training follow-along pool workouts suitable for older adults.

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Dear Ms. Price, My husband and I have been married for ten years. For the most part, things have been smooth and we are happy. The only time of the year where we have problems is around the holidays.

A Slice of Advice with Ms. Price To submit your questions, email advicemsprice@gmail.com.

Our biggest argument revolves around the family get togethers, traveling, and who gets to see the grandchildren for which holiday. The other problem is once we’re there, we have some toxic family behavior that is difficult to handle.

was always a gathering of loving family, creating memories I cherish to this day. We don’t need to agree on politics to love one another.

My husband and I lean politically moderate to liberal. Both of our families are extremely conservative and a few on my side are very far to the right. Each gathering has become more and more difficult to handle, to the point where I want to skip it altogether and create our own family traditions of having a peaceful holiday.

There is nothing wrong with taking time alone as a family to create your own traditions and own sense of identity as a family unit. And because of the increasing volatility of your holiday visits, that seems to be a wise move.

Holiday Burnout in Safety Harbor

I would sit down with your husband and come up with a plan. Notice I didn’t say sit down with your husband and extended family, but make this a decision that is made just between the two of you. Perhaps one out of every three or four holidays can be spent with just your immediate family, giving you all some peace.

Dear “Burnout,”

Note that you will have push back from family and will most likely face opposition, from benign disappointment to full-out arguments. This is why it’s important that your husband and you show a united front.

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I think it’s interesting that your sign off is located in Safety Harbor. I take it as a sign that you do need to create a feeling of safety and peace for your family.

Isn’t it sad that we can’t leave politics out of the holiday season? When I was growing up, I never heard political talk at the table when visiting family. It

Sending peaceful and happy holiday wishes to all of our readers!

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Movie Preview: Ghostbusters: Afterlife

BY RANDAL C. HILL

In 1984, “Ghostbusters” was unleashed in theaters throughout the USA. The supernatural comedy generated rave reviews and became a cultural phenomenon as one of the most successful laughfests of the Eighties. A sequel—“Ghostbusters II”—followed five years later but saw fewer ticket sales and a tsunami of negative reviews.

Now, more than three decades later, comes “Ghostbuster: Afterlife.” The story this time focuses on Callie (Carrie Coon), a single mother, and her children Trevor (Finn Wolfhard) and Phoebe (Mckenna Grace). Evicted from their home, they move into a rundown Oklahoma farmhouse that they have inherited from Callie’s father.

They soon discover that the dilapidated building houses an assortment of Ghostbuster gear, and unsettling occurrences soon become commonplace. In time, the children learn of their mysterious grandfather’s secret legacy and his involvement with the original Ghostbuster gang.

earlier offerings—in occasional conflict with Stephen King scariness in the form of CGI monsters that could come roaring out of the darkness at any moment and conjure moments from the 1984 original.

This is a sequel that understands how to pay adequate homage to the original while also being able to stand alone as its own film. There are enough iconic “Ghostbusters” moments here to satisfy the long-time fans, as well as fresh and unique twists and turns that a new moviegoing generation will enjoy. It’s the done-right follow-up that sci-fi fans have been waiting for.

To wit: Movie critic James Preston Poole seemed to be barely able to contain his enthusiasm when he recently proclaimed, “It’s the best of the series… Stupendously well written, not leaning too hard on nostalgia, and telling a story better than even the original could muster. A winner in every sense.”

Nearly all of the key players from the 1984 classic return here—Bill Murray, Dan Aykroyd, Sigourney Weaver, Ernie Hudson, Annie Potts. The movie, which was shot mostly in Image from Slash Film “Ghostbusters: Afterlife”—the third offering—is directed Calgary, Alberta, was scheduled for a summer 2020 release,

by Jason Reitman, the son of Ivan Reitman, who brought but the ongoing pandemic forced schedule changes until now. the original blockbuster to life. (The younger Reitman also joined forces with It’s rated PG-13 for some scary images and a bit of suggestive language, but Dan Aykroyd and Gil Kenan to create the “Afterlife” script.) This time, the kids overall, this should be a great choice for everyone from tweens to seniors. move about in a world of childhood innocence—think Steven Speilberg’s The movie is currently set to release November 19.

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AROUND TOWN 5-6TH - COUNTRY ROAD QUILTER OF OCALA PRESENTS THEIR 35TH ANNIVERSARY QUILT SHOW: 9am-4pm at Circle Square Cultural Center, 8395 SW 80th Street, Ocala, FL 34481.

Admission $8. Over 200 quilts on display. Opportunity quilt, raffle baskets, challenge quilts, door prizes. Visit our website at https://www.crqocala.org

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24TH ANNUAL SPANISH SPRINGS ART & CRAFT FESTIVAL With a quaint, Southwestern look and feel, Spanish Springs Town Square, in The Villages® community is a grand community offering something for everyone.

From shopping and dining, both indoors and out, to movie theaters special events, houses of worship, and live entertainment daily, Spanish Springs provides the ultimate weekend of adventure.

Join us at Spanish Springs for another fantastic craft festival in The Villages® community. Shop handcrafted leather goods, paintings, photography, personalized products, glassworks, and much more-- all made in the USA! Stroll along beautiful Spanish Springs and visit with the nation’s best crafters, at this free weekend event. Please be mindful and follow CDC guidelines.

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Spanish Springs Art and Craft Festival When: Saturday, November 6 Where: Spanish Springs Town Square, 1120 Main Street, The Villages Cost: Free

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9TH - ANNUAL CELEBRATION OF VETERAN BRUNCH: Salute the men & women of the armed forces who have served our country during times of war & peace. Full breakfast & entertainment included and is FREE for veteran & one guest. Largo Community Center, 400 Alt. Keene Rd., Largo.

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7TH & 9TH - THE TAMPA BAY SYMPHONY FALL CONCERT SERIES: November 7th, at 2:30 pm at the Straz Performing Arts Center in Tampa, and on Tuesday November 9th, at 8:00 pm at the Palladium Theater in St. Petersburg. $20. For more information, call 727-827-8087 or go to our website, https://www.tampabaysymphony.org 12TH - THE BUDDY HOLLY STORY: Experience the true story of Buddy Holly’s meteoric rise to fame, from “That’ll Be the Day” hitting the airwaves in 1957 to “The Day The Music Died” two years later. 8pm. $49 Florida Studio Theatre, 1241 N. Palm Ave., Sarasota, 34236. 941-366-9000 https://floridastudiotheatre.org 13TH - BEE GEES NOW. CLOSE YOUR EYES & YOU WILL SWEAR THE REAL GIBB BROTHERS WERE PERFORMING!: Open your eyes & experience the illusion that they’re standing in front of you! $25 - $59. Doors open 6pm. Showtime 7-9pm. Riverview Performing Arts Center, 1 Ram Way, Sarasota 34231. https://riverviewperformingarts.com/ 14TH - MARION CIVIC CHORALE VETERANS DAY CONCERT: Featuring patriotic selections and songs about hope, gratitude, triumph, and perseverance. FREE to the public. Donations greatly appreciated. 3pm. Countryside Presbyterian Church, 7768 SW Hwy 200, Ocala. https://www. facebook.com/groups/marioncivicchorale/.

14TH - STRIKE UP THE BAND!: The legendary Lee County Community Band will begin its 136th year with a lively, fun-filled, free concert (donations accepted), and open to the public.on November 14 at 3 p.m. at Cape Coral High School, 2300 Santa Barbara Blvd, one block North of Veterans Pkwy. 239-945-2554. https://www.leecountyband.org 14TH - BAYSIDE ESTATES MEN’S CLUB HOSTS ITS MONTHLY PANCAKE BREAKFAST: Every 2nd Sunday, 8 to 11 am., in the Bayside Recreation Hall-and all are invited to attend. Enjoy scrambled eggs, sausages, coffee, orange juice and all-you-can-eat pancakes for the cost of $6. For only $1 more, get a made to order omelet. Bayside Estates is just off San Carlos Blvd., south of Pine Ridge Road. Ft. Myers Beach. Call Ken 609-226-9955 for more information.

17TH - BRANDON NEWCOMERS CLUB: A club for new or existing residents. 3rd Wednesday, 9:30am, September to May. Brandon Community Center, 502 E. Sadie St., Brandon. Activities include card games, book club, arts & crafts, flick chicks, gal’s night out and more. $20 year dues.

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27TH - THE UNITED METHODIST CHURCH OF SUN CITY CENTER: 1210 Del Webb Blvd. W., is seeking vendors for its Gift & Craft Fair on Nov 27th from 9:00am to 2:00pm. Preference will be given to handmade and one-of-a-kind crafts; however, direct sales vendors are welcome to a limited extent if space is available. Booth fees range from $15 - $30. Indoor and outdoor spaces available. For more information, email holliefx@gmail.com DEC 10TH - BONITA SPRINGS – ESTERO CHRISTIAN WOMEN’S CONNECTION LUNCHEON: Reservations must be received by Dec 3. Luncheon cost: $30 inclusive. Seating begins at 11am.

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November has descended upon us, and like most months, this one is fraught with special holidays and celebrations, aside from NANOWRIMO, and the end of Hurricane Season.

One such special day is on November 5, Guy Fawkes Day (as if you didn’t know). Guy Fawkes is famous/infamous for being part of a group of provincial English Catholics who failed in the Gunpowder Plot of 1605, a conspiracy to assassinate King James VI and members of the Houses of Parliament.

He joined in this plot in retaliation for King James’ increased persecution of Roman Catholics. Fawkes had enlisted in the Spanish Army in the Netherlands and won a reputation for great courage and cool determination.

The instigator of the plot and his small band agreed that they needed the help of a military man who would not be as readily recognizable as they were. They dispatched a man to the Netherlands to recruit Fawkes, who, without knowledge of the precise details of the plot, returned to England and joined them.

The plotters rented a cellar that extended under the palace, and Fawkes planted 36 camouflaged barrels of gunpowder there. But the plot was discovered, and Fawkes was arrested. After being tortured on the rack, he revealed the names of his accomplices. He was tried, found guilty and was to be executed opposite the Parliament building, but he fell or jumped from the gallows ladders and died from a broken neck. Following his death, he was quartered.

Guy Fawkes Day is celebrated annually, with fireworks and bonfires where small effigies of Guy are burned.

Guy Fawkes is even more famous because of the Guy Fawkes masks, as popularized by Hugo Weaving in the movie “V” for Vendetta. The mask has come to represent “Anonymous,” “The Occupy Movement” and other antiestablishment protests around the world.

I believe that if there were no Guy Fawkes masks, there would be no more protests and no more wars; everyone would live together in peace, love and harmony worldwide and sing “Kumbaya.”

On November 22, I will be gathering a group of rebels at downtown Lakeland’s Munn Park, where we will put on Guy Fawkes masks prior to protesting the international overuse of Guy Fawkes masks.

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Mental Health Part of Overall Health “We have to bring out the human inside our patients and focus on the person sitting in front of us.”

Mental health might not be at the top of your list of issues to discuss with your primary-care provider during your next appointment, but that could be a big mistake. Successful treatment for emotional conditions and mental health issues often begins in the primary-care provider’s office and leads to the most successful outcomes.

“It’s part of our training in medical school,” explains Millennium Physician Group Family Medicine Physician Nasser Kazmouz, M.D. “We explore all aspects of mental health. I can prescribe medications for many common mental health issues and can also coordinate additional care; most importantly integrating in-depth counseling into the clinic visit if necessary, offering solutions and many options for available community resources along with a problem-focused therapist if needed.”

With years of experience as a primary-care provider and in emergency departments, Dr. Kazmouz says he’s done more than just read about treating mental health issues in patients, he’s seen it firsthand. How it starts and how it ends. He adds it’s is very important to get involved emotionally with patients to better understand their overall health, build trust, and improve outcomes.

“Being genuine,” he admits is how he connects with patients. “I’m open and truthful with them so they’ll be honest with me and build the bridges in that clinical encounter and future ones, adhere to treatment, and succeed in achieving their goals.”

The mental-physical health connection is perhaps the most important one.

Research has shown chronic conditions, including diabetes and heart disease, can make depression or anxiety worse and vice versa. Addressing mental health concerns starts with having a trusting relationship with your healthcare provider.

“Everyone needs support. It’s no secret. We should not be ashamed of it and we all need it in various degrees,” admits Dr. Kazmouz. “It’s okay to ask for emotional support. We have to bring out the human inside our patients and focus on the person sitting in front of us truthfully and genuinely. Your primary-care provider’s office is one of the safest places to do that.”

Dr. Kazmouz says taking the extra time to really get to know his patients makes all the difference, “I focus on working with them not only as a doctor, but as a friend.”

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Thanks to Vintage Paws Sanctuary, “Speedy” Finds His Silver Lining

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“I cannot imagine life without Speedy,” says Victor Baut, who has provided a foster home for Speedy since 2013. Displaced and sent to an animal shelter in Desoto County, this senior dog became a lucky dog when he was rescued by Vintage Paws Sanctuary and connected to his “happily ever after” home.

“We are a safe haven that rescues, rehabilitates and cares for displaced senior dogs, and we do whatever it takes to restore their comfort and dignity,” says Jennifer Hummel, Vintage Paws Sanctuary President and CEO. “That includes veterinary care and any needed surgeries, finding the dogs loving homes through foster or adoption or caring for them for the rest of their lives here at Vintage Paws Sanctuary.”

Speedy’s care began with patient, specific training to keep him safe. “He loves to run. With about two weeks of working with Speedy, he was much better about that,” recalls Baut. “Then, he showed us his other superpower. When new arrivals [at Vintage Paws Sanctuary] were scared, Speedy welcomed them, stuck by them, and introduced them to ‘rescue life.’ One “The pandemic affected the dog named Duke spent lives of a great many senior most of his life in a crate dogs in our community,” and was unsure about says Hummel. “The Louis grass and trees — until Speedy showed Duke & Gloria Flanzer Matching what it’s like to be a dog Gift Program has made it again.”

possible for us to continue The consensus among this our mission. Every day, every gift makes a difference.” volunteer-based nonprofit is that old dogs rock and deserve to be loved and cared for as they age. Now 18 years old, Speedy still loves to run in the yard and go for rides in the truck.

Baut advises anyone considering fostering or adopting a senior dog to, “Say YES! Be patient, help the dog adjust, give them time and love. You will soon see the wagging tail.”

Giving opportunities come in all shapes and sizes at Vintage Paws and this year, you will be able to double your contribution up to $500 when you make your donation to Vintage Paws through The Louis & Gloria Flanzer Philanthropic Trust at FlanzerTrust. org.

Speedy in his happily ever after home with Victor Baut.

About Vintage Paws Sanctuary: Vintage Paws Sanctuary is dedicated to saving senior dogs…four paws at a time by providing a sanctuary for displaced senior dogs to live out their lives with dignity surrounded by the loving care they deserve.

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“Speedy’s zest for life proves that old dogs do rock,” says Baut.

“He’s done wonders for me, making me smile and laugh…I watch him sleep knowing he’s content and feeling loved.” Victor

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