Lifestyles After 50 Suncoast Edition, October 2022

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On Our Minds and In Our Hands

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October in the Garden

Ah, finally. We’re moving into fall. I’m sure I’ve said this before, but October seems to be one of those pivotal months of the year. The weather starts changing, we move into holiday season mode, and it’s just generally a great month for finding events and festivals to keep us occupied.

Depending on if you are a gardener, or even if you’re considering getting started with gardening, October is a great month to start. It’s cooler, and there’s plenty to harvest and plant, and you may just be able to enjoy the fruits of your labor with holiday guests around the table.

According to the University of Florida’s Institute of Food and Agricultural Sciences, Floridians are able to garden and harvest all year long, including right now. They recommend creating a gardening plan with strict planting deadlines so you don’t miss your window to plant and harvest at the right time later. Be sure to plant according to your region and zone of the state, which you can find on the UF/IFAS website at gardeningsolutions.ifas.ufl.edu.

In Florida, fall is an excellent time to start a vegetable garden. Cool-season vegetables to plant in October include broccoli, lettuce, carrots, Brussels sprouts and radishes.

If you’re planting in an area already used for spring and summer crops, be careful to remove all dead or diseased plant matter, including roots.

You may want to have your soil re-tested to check the pH level and determine what nutrients you might need to add. Till your soil a few weeks before planting, and then

add organic matter, such as cow manure or compost.

Planting in October means you must heed the climate zones. For instance, central and Southern Floridians can plant the following:

Bedding Plants: Pansy, dianthus, and petunia

Bulbs: See agapanthus, rain lily, and other lily varieties flourish in your garden next spring or summer by planting them now. To really make the bulbs shine, add organic matter to the planting bed.

Herbs: Try planting parsley, sage, cilantro, chives and garlic from seeds or plants this month.

Vegetables: Plant beet, Brussel sprout, carrot and onion, which can grow and last throughout the winter.

If you aren’t a fan of any of the listed vegetables, flowers or herbs suggested, you can always create a gardening operation indoors. Find a grow kit online, including a lamp, and try growing anything you like! It’s not guaranteed that if you plant tomatoes indoors right now that they’ll flourish as they would have in spring, but it can be a fun challenge for those confident in their gardening abilities.

No matter how you decide to celebrate October—gardening or just enjoying local fall festivities, take care, and we’ll see you next month!

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WHY IT’S IMPORTANT TO REPORT LIFE CHANGES TO US WHEN YOU RECEIVE SUPPLEMENTAL SECURITY INCOME (SSI)

Information from the Social Security Administration

Did you know that certain life changes can affect your Supplemental Security Income (SSI) payments? Sometimes your circumstances may change after you apply for or begin to receive SSI. When that happens, it’s important for you to tell us about these changes. This will ensure that you receive the benefits to which you’re eligible.

Here are some common changes you must report if you have applied for or receive SSI:

• Changes in income, wages, or selfemployment income;

• Starting, stopping, or changing jobs;

• Changing your address or persons moving in or out of the household;

• Changes in marital status (including any same-sex relationships);

• Having more than $2,000 if you are single or $3,000 if you are married in resources that you can cash in, sell, or use to pay for food and shelter; and

• Changes in resources, including money in financial accounts and buying or selling extra vehicles, stocks, investments, or property.

For a complete list of reporting responsibilities for all our programs, please read our publication, What You Need to Know When You Get Supplemental Security Income at www.ssa.gov/ pubs/EN-05-11011.pdf.

HOW TO REPORT CHANGES IN WAGES

You can conveniently report your wages using our:

• Free SSA Mobile Wage Reporting app for smartphones.

• Online Wage Reporting Tool using your personal my Social Security account. If you don’t have an account, create one today at www.ssa.gov/myaccount.

Be sure to sign up for monthly SSI wage reporting emails or text reminders, so you never forget.

PROTECTING OUR LOVED ONES FROM ELDER ABUSE

Are you concerned about protecting your older relatives and friends from elder abuse? The pandemic highlighted the disproportionate impact of tragedy on underserved communities, including older adults, who face high rates of elder abuse, fraud, and nursing homes deaths.

It’s important to remember that elder abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of race, ethnicity, gender, or financial status. We are committed to helping and preventing further victimization –especially in underserved communities.

FRAUD

A recent Federal Bureau of Investigation report showed that elder fraud has increased. Older adults in the United States reported over $1.6 billion in losses in 2021. This includes victims of COVIDrelated scams. Older adults in the U.S, also lose nearly 25 times more money to scammers than other groups –an estimated $113.7 billion a year!

Reporting fraud can be difficult and older adults tend to underreport– especially when money is lost. Many older Americans are unsure about the reporting process or feel too embarrassed to report. Understaffed Adult Protective Services offices can also cause long processing times and underreporting.

We work hard to protect beneficiaries from Social Security and government imposter scams. You can learn more about protecting your loved ones at blog.ssa.gov/slam-the-scam-howto-spot-government-imposters and our Protect Yourself from Social Security Scams webpage at www.ssa.gov/scam.

Please share these important resources with your family and friends.

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World Stroke Day: What You Need to Know

October 29 is World Stroke Day, a day that seeks to emphasize the serious nature and high rates of stroke. According to previous statistics, one in six people are expected to have a stroke during their lifetimes. So, what can you do to prevent a stroke?

• Live healthily. Make healthier decisions when it comes to mealtimes (limiting salt to keep blood pressure regulated) and lifestyle changes in order to be active and at your best for the long haul.

• Get physical. Keep your body moving! Even if it’s just taking a few extra steps around the house, make an effort to use your body as much as you can. This helps keep blood flowing and prevents clots which may cause stroke.

• Keep blood pressure down. Limiting alcohol, salt, tobacco and stress can all help keep hypertension and stroke risk at bay.

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Preparing for Medicare Open Enrollment for 2023

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Medicare open enrollment season (also known as the annual election period (AEP) or annual coordinated election period) begins October 15 and runs until December 7.

Whether it’s Original Medicare with supplemental drug coverage, or Medicare Advantage, learn how you can enroll or make changes to your current plan.

What changes can you make during open enrollment?

If you are already enrolled in Medicare but are looking to change or switch coverages, you can:

• Switch from Original Medicare to Medicare Advantage (as long as you’re enrolled in both Medicare Part A and Part B, and you live in the Medicare Advantage plan’s service area).

• Switch from Medicare Advantage to Original Medicare (plus a Medicare Part D plan, and possibly a Medigap plan, although medical underwriting might be required for Medigap, depending on the state and the person’s circumstances).

• Switch from one Medicare Advantage plan to another.

• Switch from one Medicare Part D prescription drug plan to another.

• Enroll in a Medicare Part D plan if you didn’t enroll when you were first eligible for Medicare. If you haven’t maintained other creditable coverage, a late-enrollment penalty may apply.

How are plan costs changing for 2023 Medicare coverage?

Precise numbers typically aren’t announced until later in the year, but in general:

• The Inflation Reduction Act will cap the cost of insulin products at $35/month in 2023, and ensure that Part D enrollees no longer have to pay for recommended vaccines.

• Part B premiums and deductibles are expected to remain mostly unchanged for 2023.

• Part A premiums (for those who have to pay for Part A), deductible, and coinsurance are expected to increase modestly for 2023.

• Average Part D premiums are expected to decrease slightly for 2023.

• The threshold for having to pay Medicare’s IRMAA (high-income surcharge) for Part D and Part B is expected to increase significantly.

• The maximum allowable cap on out-of-pocket costs for Medicare Advantage plans (not counting prescription costs) will grow to $8,300 for in-network costs. But most plans will continue to have out-of-pocket caps well below this limit.

For specific questions and getting in touch with experts, visit www. medicare.gov for more information.

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Visit Alaska’s Amazing Animals

By Jan Larraine Cox

One of the best-known animal attractions in Alaska is the dog sled competition that predates the American colonization of the state. Dog sledding was originally used as a means of transporting goods across Alaska during its harsh winters. But today, it is mostly for recreation. In fact, the renowned annual Iditarod competition pits the best sled dogs against each other in a 1,000-mile race journey from Anchorage to Nome.

The Alaska Wildlife Conservation Center in Girdwood, Alaska is a sanctuary dedicated to preserving Alaska’s wildlife through education, research and quality care. One of its goals is to rehabilitate wild animals that have been injured. Spread over 200 acres, visitors have walking access to a 1.5-mile loop where they have the opportunity to view animals like moose and brown bears during the summer months, with supervision! These other species which live there may also be visible during a visit through the Center’s Walk on the Wild Side Tours: black bear, bald eagles, lynx, moose, bison, wolves and reindeer.

The most unusual Alaskan animal is possibly the musk ox, available for visiting at a musk ox farm in Palmer. Picture a thickly hair-covered ox whose body, head and horns stay close to the earth in a lugubrious silhouette, eliciting a slightly mournful image.

Its qiviut covering is eight times warmer than sheep’s wool by weight. At 12 microns in diameter, qiviut is one of nature’s miraculous fine fibers. It has no barbs or scales, so no itchy feeling. Really a holdover from the last Ice Age, the shaggy and hearty musk ox are clearly adapted to the year-round Alaskan climate.

The last leg of the journey south to Seward stops at Resurrection Bay on the Kenai Peninsula. This picturesque seaside town lined under the horizon

with ice-capped mountains was named after Abraham Lincoln’s Secretary of State, William Seward. He negotiated the purchase of the Alaskan territory from Russia for $7,200,000 in 1867.

Kenai Fjords National Park is 900 square miles of wilderness, home to such diverse wildlife as humpback whales, sea lions and bald eagles.

The park’s cute small mammals such as sea otters are top fishers and speedy swimmers. Endangered in western Alaska, their tasty diet typically consists of shellfish, octopus and crab. Their fur is very dense, with up to one million hairs per square inch. They were hunted to near extinction during the maritime fur trade of the 1700s and 1800s. At that point, the sea otter population was reduced to a few remnant colonies as their pelts were considered more valuable than gold. But today, tribal and conservation leaders of the Elakha Alliance are working to restore them as part of a resilient marine ecosystem.

The largest member of the eared seal family –the Steller sea lion--lives in the park year-round. They stealthily hunt for fish at night and then haul out to rest during the day. Some lucky photographers have even captured them holding hands.

Every summer, Kenai Fjords transforms into a feeding ground for four whale species. Humpback whales spend June to September feeding in Alaska and then migrate to the appealing Hawaiian Islands or to California where they breed and give birth. They eat small schooling fish and animals by filtering them from the water.

Gray whales travel north each spring from Baja, Mexico where they calve in feeding grounds in Russia, showing up in the Kenai Fjords from late March to mid-May, completing the longest migration of any mammal. Surprisingly, they survive by filtering small organisms out of the ocean sediment.

Finally, also be on the lookout for hearty Fin whales and Orca/Killer whales while in Kenai Fjords!

St. Pete Beach, FL - Taste of the Beaches is back! The Tampa Bay Beaches Chamber of Commerce will hold their week-long taste tour from Saturday, October 8th to Friday October 14th. Gather friends and family to visit a variety of restaurants across Pinellas County to try their signature “tastes”.

Patrons can purchase tickets and then visit the participating restaurants of their choice to use throughout the entire week. A portion of the proceeds will be donated to PARC Center for Disabilities.

Here how to join this year’s Taste of the Beaches:

Step 1: Purchase your tickets

Step 2: View Tastes and pick the restaurants you would like to visit Step 3: Visit restaurants from October 8th to October 14th Step 4: Turn in your ticket to receive your Taste

Tickets will be sold by the Tampa Bay Beaches Chamber of Commerce. The cost is $10 per ticket, each ticket provides one (1) taste per participating restaurant. You can order tickets online at www.tampabaybeaches.com/taste or find a Ticket PopUp near you at www.tampabaybeaches.com/taste-pop-up.

Taste of the Beaches is sponsored by the Tampa Bay Times, City of St. Pete Beach, Smith and Associates Real Estate and Valpak.

For more information, please contact Robin Miller at info@tampabaybeaches.com or visit TampaBayBeaches.com/taste.

About the Tampa Bay Beaches Chamber of Commerce:

The Tampa Bay Beaches Chamber of Commerce promotes travel & tourism, educates businesses & individuals, provides a forum of collaboration to enhance the business environment & promote the quality of life for the communities we serve.

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Resources for Selecting a Provider This Open Enrollment Season

From Family Features

Getting health care for yourself or a loved one is a big responsibility, especially if you’re just getting started with Medicare or have health changes in your life. It can be overwhelming if you need services like nursing home care, have to find a new doctor or get home health care. Using online tools like “Find Care Providers” on Medicare.gov can make it easier to make comparisons and help choose doctors, hospitals, nursing homes and more for you or the person you are helping provide care to. Consider these benefits of using the comparison tools to narrow your options.

A RESOURCE FOR RESEARCH

The website provides a simple search and compare experience that allows you to find providers near you. Simply put in a ZIP code and the type of provider to receive a list of providers, their contact information and a map of locations. The information even includes “star ratings” and services provided. The tool can be used to find all sorts of providers, including doctors, hospitals, home health care agencies, skilled nursing facilities, rehabilitation providers, hospice and dialysis facilities.

You can see how patients rate their care experiences at the hospitals in your area and find home health agencies that offer the services you might need, like nursing care, physical therapy and occupational therapy.

FINDING HEALTH CARE SERVICES

Whether you have referrals or are starting from scratch, you can compare health care providers near you using the Medicare.gov tool, pinpointing which category of services you need, whether it’s doctors and clinicians, hospitals, hospice and home health agencies, dialysis facilities, inpatient rehabilitation centers or nursing homes.

FINDING A DOCTOR WHO FITS

When you’re looking for a new doctor and not sure where to start, the tool makes it quick and easy to find and compare doctors in your area. You can find contact information, practice locations, specialty and hospital affiliation as well as hospital ratings.

Selecting the “compare” button allows you to compare up to three different health care providers at once. When you’re ready to schedule a visit with a new provider, be sure to take time during your scheduling call to verify the office location, whether the office is accepting new patients with Medicare and whether you need a referral to be treated.

Visit Medicare.gov/care-compare to access the tool and find health care providers and services in your area that fit your needs.

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Movie Preview: Ticket to Paradise

BY RANDAL C. HILL

Some movies are all but predictable, but that doesn’t mean that they aren’t good, enjoyable films. Was there ever any doubt about the outcome of the beloved Rocky when we all flocked to theaters nationwide to vigorously cheer on a bloody and battered Sylvester Stallone, who painfully hauled himself off the mat again and again? No. We all knew how that story would end.

Or what about Titanic, the first movie to gross one billion dollars? Never did we hear of any shocked theatergoer exclaiming, “Hey! Wait a minute! The ship is going to sink?”

Image from IMDb

Ticket to Paradise is as predictable as the sun rising tomorrow, but it also looks to be a fun rom-com romp with two of Hollywood’s most bankable names lighting up the big screen. In starring roles, we have George Clooney (once named “the Sexiest Man Alive” by People magazine) and Julia Roberts (People has called her the most beautiful woman in the world five times).

The film fun begins right away, when an overseas jet shows us Clooney and Roberts (at ages 61 and 54, respectively, and both still impossibly good-looking) thrown together on a flight to Bali. (Filming actually took place in Queensland, Australia.) In a clever bit of exposition, an exasperated Roberts asks a passing

Apple Grilled Cheese

If you’re looking for a way to celebrate fall flavors without adding pumpkin puree to everything, you may want to turn to the humble apple. Versatile, delicious and crisp, apples are a great fruit to add to any meal. Chop and add as a salad topper, have an apple as a snack or for your breakfast, or, yes, even add it to your grilled cheese.

Did you know that apple pie was originally meant to be served with a slice of melted cheddar on top?

Right, I didn’t either. However, there’s an old saying that goes, “A slice of

Ingredients:

• Your favorite type of apple, sliced thin

• Two slices of sharp cheddar cheese

apple pie without the cheese is like a kiss without the squeeze.” Clearly, cheese and apples were meant to be together. And we can kind of see that in the way that charcuterie boards are constructed. Typically, these boards feature a variety of cheeses (soft, firm, sharp, mild, etc.) and fruits, including fresh grapes, dried cranberries and apples. Together, these two foods make for the perfect, satisfying bite. So why not as a warm and melty sandwich?

steward to allow her to sit elsewhere, as she and Clooney used to be married. This prompts George to grumble, “The worst 19 years of my life.”

Julia immediately corrects him. “We were only married for five.”

“I’m counting the recovery,” was Clooney’s dour response.

The paper-thin plot revolves around the ex-couple’s concern that their daughter is rushing headfirst into a marriage with a foreign young man she has just met and is in danger of throwing away a promising career. (Apparently this is what Julia’s character did herself 25 years earlier, when she tied the knot with George, a man she barely knew.)

After the exes deplane and sit together at an outdoor bar, Roberts suggests, “As much as it will pain us both, we need to call a truce to make this work.” Clooney, squelching grumpiness, agrees. In the meantime, daughter Lily (Kaitlyn Dever) is having a blast on the island with her best pal, Wren (Billie Lourd).

It may be worth the price of admission just to see a tipsy Clooney in a nightclub doing what could be filmdom’s dorkiest (and most embarrassing) “dad dance.” This prompts embarrassed Lily to exclaim to her friend, “I’m praying for an asteroid.”

Ticket to Paradise opens on October 21. See it. Have fun.

• Two slices of your favorite bread (sourdough would work great here)

• Butter

1. Heat a pan to medium-low heat and butter one side of a bread slice. Once the pan is hot, lay the slice butter side down and layer one cheese slice with the apple slices. Top the apple with your second cheese slice and cover to let steam for 2-3 minutes.

2. Once the bread is toasted, put the other butter slice on top. Flip and cook for another 2-3 minutes.

3. Let rest on a plate for 1-2 minutes before slicing. Enjoy!

Plenty of Hard Work Went into Creating Downtown Tarpon Springs Coffee Lounge

Information and image from SuncoastNews.com

Annie Appenzeller may have coffee in her veins. Appenzeller opened her coffee lounge Urban Grounds in downtown Tarpon Springs back in June. According to Suncoast News, she said developed a love for coffee and a dream of one day selling it while still in grade school.

“I’ve been drinking coffee since I was 12 years old, and I’ve probably been to a hundred different coffee shops all over the United States,” Appenzeller said. “I’ve always wanted some day to run my own coffee shop.”

To make that happen, Appenzeller, 27, restored the one-story old brick building at 150 E. Tarpon Way that dates to 1909 into a combination of coffee lounge, bakery and luncheon.

Born and raised in Tarpon Springs, Appenzeller graduated from Florida State University in 2017 with a degree in marketing and finance.

Returning home, Appenzeller in 2020 opened up her first retail store — The Wine Society — six stores down from her current location. Two years later, she sold Wine Society this past May and opened Urban Grounds in June.

Appenzeller says her marketing plan behind Urban Grounds is to provide a unique and original locale in contrast to national coffee chains.

“I wanted it to be unique as a coffee lounge — I didn’t want it to be a fast-paced coffee shop,” Appenzeller said. “I didn’t want it to be a drive-thru, turn and burn, I wanted it to be a place where you could come in, hang out and enjoy yourself.”

“I want to be the coffee and bakery spot of Tarpon Springs,” Appenzeller said. “When somebody comes to Tarpon Springs to get a cup of coffee, it will be Urban Grounds. I want to be the spot when somebody asks, ‘Where can I get a pastry at 3 o’clock in the afternoon in Tarpon Springs?’ The answer: Urban Grounds.”

Urban Grounds’ products are also rooted in the Pinellas County area, using locally roasted beans. But it’s more than just coffee, with a line of teas provided by the “Tea & Spice Exchange” located in the Historic Sponge Docks area.

The store’s coffee beverage specialty: Italian espresso made on a state-of-the-art Austrian made espresso machine.

Along with coffee, Urban Grounds is also a bakery, offering a selection of fresh pastries made in-house including muffins, scones and cupcakes hand made by Lolita’s Cup Creations.

Urban Grounds menu can be found on its website at www.urbangroundsfl.

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NASHVILLE COUNTRY CHRISTMAS

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NEW ORLEANS PRE MARDI GRAS

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BOOK REVIEW

Heather Havrilesky, the advice columnist who writes the “Ask Polly” column on Substack, and previously authored “What If This Were Enough?,” “How to Be a Person in the World” and “Disaster Preparedness.” She has written for “The New Yorker,” the “New York Times Magazine,” and APR’s “All Thing Considered.”

“Good Morning America,” “Good Housekeeping” and “Publishers Weekly” all recommend this book because it’s “funny, honest, poignant, sarcastic and illuminating.” One-half of all marriages in America end in divorce, and yet many of us cling to one mate for life. Why? In this book, Heather Havrilesky focuses on the delights and calamities over her 15 years of marriage, a drop in the bucket compared to

“Foreverland: On the Divine Tedium of Marriage” By Heather Havrilesky by Kathy A. Megyeri

my own 52 years. But she eloquently discusses the energy required to keep love aflame. It’s exhausting, it’s taxing, and worst of all, it accompanies one’s own aging.

The tone of the book is confessional but also wise, witty and written with a self-deprecating sense of humor. The Associated Press says it’s a wonder that Heather can turn the divine tedium of her marriage into a “rollicking adventure for her readers too.” Havrilesky discusses motherhood, growing older, coping with both boredom and exhilaration, rejoicing in the joys of finding the one and only, and then bearing the woes of putting up with him. She shares anecdotes from her own marriage to make the book a love letter to marriage because the qualities that make us unique are really what we end up loving in our choice of mates. She opens up about her life, marriage and family, and the reader cannot help but compare hers to the reader’s own. But then an epiphany occurs, and the author realizes that “when the end comes, no matter what, it’ll be happy. I feel in every cell how lucky I was, how lucky we were, to have found each other.” And isn’t that the most any of us can ask of a marriage and a life together in Foreverland?

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5 Great Places to Live After 50

By Rebecca Fending

Are you or someone you know looking to move? Whether you’re already in Florida or looking to find your dream Florida home while out of state, here are just a few communities along the Gulf Coast. Make the most of your retirement here!

The Oaks Retirement Community at Waterman Village – Mt Dora, FL

The Oaks is Waterman Village’s flagship retirement community, founded in 1989. Independent living ranch, duplex and quad-plex homes grace the beautiful tree-lined streets in The Oaks neighborhood. It truly looks and feels like a neighborhood, with no two homes exactly alike.

At The Oaks, all 260 independent living residences are one-story ranch, duplex or quad-plex homes with either an enclosed garage or covered carport. Each residence has at least two bedrooms and two baths. It’s a beautiful established, tree-lined campus that will remind you of the Midwest or New England states. Home prices start at a $3,500 entry fee.

On-campus activities range from water aerobics in the clubhouse pool to shuffleboard tournaments, bingo and ice cream socials. The neighborhood has walking trails, an outpatient therapy center and even a woodworking shop.

To learn more, visit www. watermanvillage.com/the-oaks-retirement-community.

Elison Senior Living of Pinecrest – Largo, FL

Life at Elison Senior Living of Pinecrest is vibrant and vivacious, social and comfortable and safe and secure. Elison supplements the exception living options and amenities with community activities meant to build rapport and friendship between residents. After all, you’re never too old to make a new friend.

This community hosts happy hours and holiday celebrations in addition to support groups, hobby groups and so much more. Amenities include Chef-prepared restaurantstyle dining, weekly housekeeping and linen service, outdoor heated pool, three libraries, shuffleboard, fitness center, billiards room and even a private dog park.

Living options at Elison Senior Living include independent living, assisted living and memory care, with the ability to move between the three as needed as you age. Floor plans range from studio apartments for assisted living and memory care to two-bedroom units for independent living.

Find pricing and options at www.elisonpinecrest.com.

Brookdale College Parkway – Fort Myers, FL

It’s time to trade up your senior living. Here you can give up chores, cooking and cleaning, and get a resort-style life of leisure instead. It’s time to let facility specialists handle the hassle and stress of home maintenance, and get more time to live the life you deserve.

This prime Ft. Myers location will give you easy access to shopping malls, markets, the beautiful Gulf beaches and other local attractions. The homelike atmosphere and carefully decorated community will make you feel like our space is your place in no time. And you can have peace of mind knowing we have staff available 24 hours a day, seven days a week to be alerted to an emergency.

Living options at Brookdale include independent living and assisted living. Floor plans range from one to two-bedroom units. Call or visit the community website for more information and pricing.

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THERE WAS A FARMER HAD A DOG, AND “BINGO” WAS HIS NAME-O

B-52’s was an American New Wave Band in the late 70s as well as

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of the above could also garner you a win in a game of bingo.

not grown up in a Catholic household, my last recollection of playing bingo was as a very young kid with my buddies.

I take that back; at my last several jobs, before attending any conference room meetings, I would print out a set of boards from the internet, so I could play “Buzzword Bingo” during the ordeals. In each space were printed buzzwords or Corp-speak phrases of the day such as “reach out,” “safe harbor,” “full plate,” “best practices,” “core values,” “customer-centric,” “multi-tasking,” “results-driven,” “push-back,” “takeaway,” “paradigm shift,” “run it up the flagpole” and the list goes on ad infinitum. Many times, I had to restrain myself from shouting “BINGO!” as a speaker babbled on and on, saying little memorable or valuable.

In the retirement world, the game of bingo is second only to shuffleboard as the most popular sport. Where I live, it is played in the clubhouse every Tuesday. Last week, I joined the line streaming into the building a little after 7 pm. I seated myself next to a lady who had six or eight boards spread out in front of her. I was surprised at how fast-paced it was and she was amazing to watch. Her arms were on fire as she dabbed her marker left and right, up and down, like a well-oiled machine. She never won but came pretty close.

It costs $14 to purchase so many boards each evening, but I lost track of how many $40 prizes I heard given out roughly every 15 minutes.

The highlight of the evening was after new residents, The Humberts arrived, he, stylishly dapper in his tweed jacket, and she, coifed in platinum locks, wearing Mary Janes and heart-shaped sunglasses. They seated themselves, and within minutes, a winner at the adjacent table yelled, “BINGO!” The slap to his face could be heard throughout the room as Mrs. Humbert screamed, “I ain’t no bimbo!”

I hope I don’t experience anything similar as I observe the bocce ball matches next week.

Mike Wright constantly wishes that they would put a ping pong table in the building or on the pool deck. Share your senior skills with him at micwrighthamo@gmailcom.

Better Health. It’s About Time. The VIPcare Patient Experience

Going to see your doctor is probably never on your list of things to do for fun; however, it’s important in maintai ning your health, especially for adults 65 and older. Pa tients who have an ongoing relationship with their pri mary care physician have fewer unnecessary trips to the ER. That’s why you need a doctor that you’re comfortable with and who you trust. One you can turn to 24/7.

Quality over Quantity

It can be hard to find that doctor with whom you truly connect. Healthcare has become so rushed. It’s like doc tors compete to see the most patients. Sadly, that doesn’t leave much time for one-on-one time.

That was the key difference Dan and Tina DiFrancesco noticed with VIPcare after moving from Pennsylva nia. “They make you feel like you’re the only one,” Tina said. “It’s really the first doctor that I’ve had like that.”

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Dan had two doctors before visiting VIPcare. He ad mits they were nice but immediately noticed a different

experience upon switching. “The doctors, they care,” he said. “You get an X-ray or something, they call you, ‘how did you make out.’”

By taking the time to know you and your health his tory, your primary care physician can provide you with the specialized care you need and deserve. No more running around from doctor to doctor for answers. Your doctor is your direct link to comprehensive care.

“The whole office, they follow up,” Tina said about her VIPcare experience. “The next day they’re on the phone with you. It’s great.”

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5532 BEAUTIFUL LADY looking forward to meeting the man of her dreams here. A man between the ages of 49 to 79 yrs. old. I am looking for someone to share with me the simple pleasures of life. I am willing to relocate and enjoy life with that special person that contacts me. Lets meet and have fun.

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5556 – SEEKING SINCERE, HONEST COMPANION. I’m 80yy. B, H, C, F. Like to swim and travel. NS, NDrg, R, P. Seeking male, 65 to 89. Send name and phone number.

5419 - HAVE A NICE DAY. SWF, 75 yo, 5’5”, slender, brunette, green eyes, adventurous, love walks, parks, outdoors, healthy food. Am happy, loving, kind. LTR, intimacy? Have photo. Tampa.

5557 – I’M TRYING! I’m looking for someone who doesn’t think he’s better than everyone else. I’m 79yy, 5’5”, blue eyes, white hair. NS, ND, NDrg, SOH, HWP. I’m told I look younger than I am but looks aren’t everything. It’s what’s in the heart & soul. I like to dance to the 50’s & 60’s & country music. I’d like to meet a man in his late 70’s to early 80’s and healthy. SOH, HWP, and a good heart & soul. Please send phone number. Good luck & GOD bless.

4119 - Seeking Honest gentleman. Former airline stewardess and model, 5’4”, 104 lbs., slender, white with Ph.D. in healthcare. Fulbright scholar, eats healthy and exercises. Likes sports and animals. WW. Loves the Lord. Florida.

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5558 – SEEKING INTELLECTUAL not afraid to voice opinions. SM 75 to 85 who is not intimidated by educated female, who likes to learn. Must love dogs, have a tongue in cheek sense of humor & likes touch.

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5407 - ISO BF, 50+, slender build who likes to read, go out to eat, movies, laid back, enjoys laughter & is drama free. Look forward to hearing from you. I am a WM, 5’11”, 155 lbs, NS and drama free.

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5427 - SEEKING SINCERE, HONEST GENTLEMAN. I’m 70s, HWP, NS, ND, like to meet SWM with same interest for LTR. Laid back, no drama. Like animals. Hillsborough & Pasco.

5544 – ACTIVE - ADVENTUROUS - PHYSICALLY FIT. W, WW, HWP. Passionate, fun-loving, easy-going, straight forward. I like bowling and exploring the outdoors. What’s your story? Seeking male 65-89. St. Petersburg.

5425 - SINCERE CHRISTIAN WOMAN desires C-man who really loves God and is active, lives a healthy life, helps his neighbor, enjoys nature (including picnics), canoeing and a friend to all animals. I’m all of the above. I’m a W ,etite lady with long hair and chearful. Age 60’s, Age preferred: Mid 50’s and up. I live in Hillsborough County. Please write me, tell me about yourself.

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5431 – LONELY WWF, looking for love & companion. Man should be 70 to 80 yrs old. I am nancially secure, have a car & condo. I live in N. St. Pete.

5549 – SEEKING FUN, FRIVOLITY, FANTASY freely with a fantastic man. Not necessarily of my dreams. Definitely NOT from my nightmares. Me over 60, eclectic interests, OM, smart and sassy.

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5413 - WW ISO BUDDY, FRIEND to pal around with who’s about my age, 80’s, gal or guy with SOH. Good health, nancially secure to have fun & enjoy life. No Trumpers or religious zealots please. Let the good times roll.

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5537 DSWM A YOUNG 81 attractive looks 70. Looking for a gal to share my life with. Love travel, dining, dance. Has a nice family. Lives in Nokomis. Will move.

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5424 - HI, Lonely guy, WM, 5’8”, 160 lbs, a young mid-seventies, NS, NS, t, active and adventuresome. Seeks lady, mid-sixties to early seventies, HWP, exercises, possible romance, LTR. Let’s be happy and celebrate life.

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5428 - M, WW, NS, SD, HWP, R, TLC, 70’s. Likes sharing many activities together, quiet evenings; be adventurous.

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5369 – Looking For Ms Right. Retired New York Attorney, former New York Police O cer, looking for loving relationship with kind and sincere, self-caring lady. 65 – 75. Widow preferred. Clearwater area.

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“Garden Party” by Rick Nelson

BY: RANDAL C. HILL

I went to a garden party

To reminisce with

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That’s what Rick Nelson expected when he signed on as a “special added attraction” at a New York oldies concert at Madison Square Garden on October 15, 1971. But a tactical error by Rick led to his storming offstage, his set cut short by several tunes. A year later, via “Garden Party,” his 19th—and final—Top Ten hit, he told the world his story behind that long-ago Friday night.

Chuck Berry was the show’s headliner, with supporting acts that included Bobby Rydell, Bo Diddley, the Shirelles, the Coasters and Gary U. S. Bonds. Each of the performers—Nelson included—had been hitless since 1964, the year that a Liverpool, England, quartet swept Americans off the charts overnight.

That evening, Rick strolled onstage with ultra-long hair, bell-bottom jeans, a velvet shirt and cowboy boots. His long-time fans were aghast. Nelson would later recount to Rolling Stone, “They kept looking at me and my long hair as if they couldn’t believe I was the same person. But I couldn’t have done it any differently, except by getting my hair cut and putting braces on my teeth.”

He opened with “Be-Bop Baby,” one of his early hits, and for a while Rick’s classics brought screams of recognition and appreciation. But later in his set he offered a

cover version of Bob Dylan’s “She Belongs to Me,” and the mood of the audience instantly dampened. To make matters worse, Nelson set down his guitar, seated himself at an onstage piano and launched into the Rolling Stones’ “Honky Tonk Women.” What followed was a tsunami of boos.

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Concert promoter Richard Nader later explained, “The people that were in Madison Square Garden were not there to hear contemporary music; they were there to escape it.”

Rick played one more number before exiting the stage to seek refuge in a dressing room that night.

Rick would eventually create his story song about that disastrous 1971 night. In doing so, Nelson’s “Garden Party” served notice to the world that he would never again be part of any strictly “oldies” gig.

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