Lifestyles After 50 Lake/Marion edition

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Frankie Avalon

Bobby Rydell

Enjoy a Great American Staycation This Summer Dear Readers,

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ur snowbird friends are gone. Summer heat is upon us, and we bless the inventor Janice Doyle, of air conditioning.

Editor Are you the only one left on your street?

It’s interesting where people go.

Your neighbors may have fled to their cabin in North Carolina, a cottage at the beach or the family’s lake camp in upstate New York. Maybe they’ve gone to a villa in France, a casita in Mexico, a pensione in Rome or a condo in Colorado. If they went back to their roots, they may be spending the summer on the family homestead or in a bungalow in small-town Indiana. Many of our neighbors are in motorhomes enjoying cooler climates.

Here are the rest of us, tending our Florida homes. If that describes you, consider taking one or more “staycations” this summer.

What’s a staycation? Staycation: a vacation in which the vacationer stays at or near home while creating the environment of a traditional vacation.

The term first became popular in 2008 when the financial crush caused everyone to take a second (and third) look at spending money. Oh, and gas soared to $3.75 per gallon.

People suddenly planned closeto-home vacations to spend less on fuel. Here we go again.

It’s a good idea. Let’s take a fresh look at Florida and how we can enjoy our own backyard area. I know it’s hot, but I also know it’s nice to sleep in my own bed at night. So how can we make this work?

Look at the definition again.

The secret seems to be this: “Create the environment of a traditional vacation.” Hmmm. I did some research and found a few tips for making that happen.

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For a really sizzling staycation:

1. Plan ahead to unplug from your regular routine. Decide whether you want to stay local only or travel across the state for a few days.

2. Adopt the feeling of splurging even though you’re saving money when compared to a vacation to a distant place. It’s all about getting out of your rut. That means no cleaning out the garage.

Maybe it means eating at a more expensive restaurant than usual.

3. Enjoy the home environs, particularly local places you’ve never visited, ethnic restaurants you’ve never tried.

4. Plan only what you and your spouse/companion can handle without stress—remember it’s hot outside.

5. Think outside the box for ideas. That might mean a behind-the-scenes tour of Disney or a local TV studio, etc.

6. Play tourist in your own hometown. Think small community museums, area winery tastings, historic homes. Maybe stay in a local B&B. 7. Think simple. Go bowling; play miniature golf; explore the local and state parks.

So, don’t stalk your neighbors and suffer from vacation envy as they drive off for the mountains or airport. Pull out the Florida map—how long has it been since you visited Jacksonville? St. Augustine?

Tallahassee? Google your home town places of interest. Reserve a night at a resort on the beach you’ve heard about but never visited.

Getting ready for a vacation was never easier. No shutting off the water, cleaning out the fridge or finding a sitter for your plants. You’ll be home every night or two—or maybe three. Now, isn’t that easy.

Take out your iPhone or iPad and try some travel-related Apps:

• Urban Spoon is a restaurant guide for major cities in North America. Search by neighborhood, cuisine or price.

• Gas Buddy finds the cheapest gas on the go—for free! In one click, locate gas stations near you and see current gas prices.

• Sutro Media has travel apps for cities across the United States; You’ll be amazed at the destinations right within your neighborhood. (Sutro Media is a free app.

Within it are apps for Florida Gardens at $1.99, Florida State Parks at $1.99, etc.)

Have a great summer whatever you decide to do. I’ll be home following staycation advice with a week in the Adirondacks to cool off in July.

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Dulcimer Strings in Lake County

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f that definition of “jam session” is correct, it’s no wonder Ruth Harnden and Carolee Stewart have such a great time playing dulcimers at several area jam sessions.

She says, “A jam session challenges us to hear and learn new tunes and it makes us listen so we all play together. If we end at the same time it is a success. Someone usually brings a new piece of music they are working on (with copies) so we can learn it also. The jam is a good place to ask questions about the music and the theory related to the dulcimer music and chords.”

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Jam Session: Musicians playing together in a spirit of experimentation, innovation, co-operation and friendly competition while sharpening skills and having a great time.

Ruth plays the mountain and Carolee Stewart plays hammered and mountain dulcimer while others may be playing banjo, guitar, autoharp, bowed psaltery, train whistle, etc.

The hammered dulcimer is an instrument with strings stretched over a sounding board and is played by striking the strings with hammers that look like popsicle sticks. The mountain or Appalachian dulcimer is a fretted stringed instrument and is strummed or plucked.

Dulcimers were popular in the Appalachians in the 1800s, but it was violins and guitars which became popular across the U.S because they were offered by Sears, Roebuck in their catalogs. In the ‘50s and ‘60s, the

enormous popularity of “folk” music spread the dulcimer across the country.

“The dulcimer can be a simple instrument to play,” says Ruth. “If you can count, you can play a dulcimer” because of the fretting. The wood an instrument is made of creates different tones – spruce produces a “bright” sound, for example, while walnut has a more mellow tone.

They’re also easy to carry with the mountain dulcimer weighing in at only around five pounds and the hammer dulcimer at about 25 pounds.

Area jam sessions typically play traditional music (“Church in the Wildwood,” “Golden Slippers,” old hymns, children’s songs, etc.) and most of their songs are in the Key of D. One jam session the public can enjoy is held the first Sunday of every month from 4 to 6 p.m. at Tremain’s Tavern in the Lakeside Inn at Mount Dora. Harnden says, “People come in, have a snack, kids can look at the instruments up close; it’s fun.” They also welcome visitors at the library and in Eustis at the LEAD jam.

In October, Harnden and the group can be found in one of the many tents at the Lake County Folk Festival in Eustis. She says, “There’s music playing all over town. You can listen as long as you want to one group and move on to the other venues.”

At the Renaissance Fair in Tavares, Ruth plays with The Psaltrey Harpers led by Ed Tillman. They play jigs, marches, some minor key goodbye songs and more. Three other musicians in the group bring a psaltery, a small harp, mandolin and hammered dulcimer.

Want to hear dulcimers?

Jam sessions: Bland Library, Mount Dora, first Saturdays at 10 a.m.

Carolee Stewart leads the Lake Eustis Dulcimer club (LEAD for short) which jams at the Lake Institute the third Saturday at 1 p.m.

For more information, call Ruth (Harndendulcirah@msn.com) at (352) 735-4907 or Carolee Stewart at (352) 483-3313.

Around Town

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hrough 10 Theatre production of “Fiddler on the Roof” Ocala Civic Theatre, Ocala. (352) 236-2274. hrough June 17 Museum Exhibit: “Art and the Animal.” 45 works from the flagship exhibition of the Society of Animal Artists. Appleton Museum, Ocala. (352) 291-4455.

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“A Day in the Country” at Red Tail Golf Club, Sorrento. 11 a.m.

– 2 p.m. $35. Fashions, lunch sponsored by East Lake County Chamber of Commerce. Fundraiser to assist abused or disadvantaged women and children. Chinese auction, door prizes, more. (352) 383-8801 or email chamber@elcchamber.com.

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through July 1 Theatre production of “Damn Yankees.”

Moonlight Warehouse Theatre, Clermont. (352) 319-1116.

Bring blanket or lawn chairs. No coolers. 7 – 10 p.m. Free; food pantry donations accepted. (800) 556-5016 or email info@lakeside-inn.com.

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Opry Star Series. 7:30 p.m.

“The Legends of Doo Wop” with Tommy Mara. 30 World famous comedian/ventriloquist Alex Houston. Orange Blossom Opry, Weirsdale. (352) 821-1201.

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Sparky’s Strummers. Hits from 1900 to 1950’s performed on banjos, ukeleles, guitars and more.

Church on the Square, The Villages, Lady Lake. (352) 753-3229.

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through 24 22nd Annual Harvest Festival. Arts, crafts, wine, food and live music. Adm. $2 donation to benefit Cornerstone Hospice. Lakeridge Winery, Clermont. Call (352) 394-8627.

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Doo Wop ‘N’ Rock Summer Series. 4 and 8 p.m. Peggy March. $26 to $43. Katie Belles, The Villages, Lady Lake. Details: (352) 750-9411 or (352) 750-5981.

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Free screening of “Soul Surfer.”

Bring lawn chair. Donnelly Park, Mount Dora. (352) 735-7183.

Logan Wells with a tribute to Patsy Cline. 7 p.m. Tickets: $15 to $19. Circle Square Cultural Center, Ocala. (352) 854-3670.

Guitars and Cars Swap Meet and Show. 8 a.m. to 3 p.m.

Features door prizes, awards, vendors, more. Admission: $2. Renningers Twin Markets, Mount Dora. (352) 383-8393.

China Grove—An All Star Tribute to The Doobie Brothers.

Tickets: $19 and $24. Savannah Center, The Villages, Lady Lake.

6 and 8:30 p.m. (352) 753-3229.

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Lakeside Inn Summer Lawn Concert Series, Lakeside Inn, 100 N. Alexander St., Mount Dora.

Taste of the Caribbean and Jerk Festival. Noon to 9 p.m. Steel bands, music, dancing and local talent.

Food from many islands and around the world. Jerk cook-off competition.

Family Christian Center Grounds, Clermont. (352) 978-0813 or caalc.org.

uly 1 Traditional Dulcimer Jam Session at Lakeside Inn, Mount Dora. 4 to 6 p.m. Info: (352) 735-4907.

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Happy Flag Day!

At Age 88, Another Mountain?

June 14 Are you experiencing taxing stressors in your life?

Are you feeling depressed or anxious?

Are you having difficulty talking to your friends or family?

Call Linda S. Lucas Ph.D, LMHC to set up an appointment, because help is closer than you think.

Associates for Clinical Assessment and Psychotherapy Glick Medical Building 1501 N. US. Hwy. 441, St. 1108 The Villages, FL 32159 For an appointment call: 352-205-7676 or e-mail: llucas3@yahoo.com

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red Beckey calls himself an alpinist/author/media presenter/ environmental specialist. At age 88, he’s still mountaineering, always looking for routes to the top that no one else has found—he’s discovered more of them than anyone in the history of the ascensionist sport. He has also written several books about it—the most recent lists his 100 favorite climbs. Age, Beckey allows, has slowed his speed up a mountain, but he sees no reason why it should keep him, or anyone, at sea level.

—“The Old Man, His Mountains” The Wall Street Journal, Nov. 2011 Lifestyles After 50 • June 2012 • page 5

Get Ready for Sock Hops, Prom Night and Beach Parties “A

ll the singers on the Malt Shop Memories Cruise are not just going to be on the stage,” said Frankie Avalon. “You’re going to be rubbing elbows with them. It’s a very unique kind of cruise where you can talk to them and take photos with the performers out and about on the ship.”

Legendary singer Frankie Avalon will return for his second Malt Shop Memories cruise when the ship sets sail October 27.

The luxury liner, Holland America’s luxurious m/s Eurodam, will travel from Fort Lauderdale to Turks & Caicos, San Juan, St. Thomas and Half Moon Cay before it returns on November 3. Avalon, along with many other icons from the ‘50s and ‘60s, will perform and make special appearances throughout the journey.

One of the talented members of the “Philadelphia school” of rock-n-rollers, Frankie Avalon was the reigning teen singing idol from 1958 through 1960. Devotees of American Bandstand hold affectionate memories of such Avalon top-tenners as “Gingerbread” and “Venus” and his later Beach Blanket movies.

In an interview with Cinestar’s Brittany Umar, Avalon said that what is so special about the cruise is that the theme—‘50s and ‘60s music—has to do with a part of his life and that of many others who want to “reminisce, have a good time and hear some great performers.”

Mention “Lifestyles After 50” when booking and receive $100 onboard credit!

He remembered the first Malt Shop Memories cruise as a time when people talked to him about their memories. “They came and told me when they saw the movies I was in or heard me sing,” he said. “It’s unique to work with some of the singers I started out with, like Bobby Rydell and Dion.” Avalon considers this cruise an extension of all those years gone by, a time for the singers “to get together and have fun.”

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Inspired by Time Life’s popular Malt Shop Memories CD series, the voyage “The reviews are will be highlighted by performances in and MSMC (Malt by some of the biggest artists of the Shop Memories Cruise) era. Look for Ronnie Spector and 2011 was the “pick hit” of the Drifters Darlene Love, The Original Drifters, week and has gone platinum.”

The Duprees and many, many more.

—Yahoo Group: doowopcafe.com

of my life...” k c a r t “It was the sound “. . . Frankie Avalon made an appearance at the Sail Away Beach Party and the memories had begun to accumulate by the time the ship sailed under the bridge.”

— Linda Coffman, CruiseDiva.com This 2012 cruise will also celebrate the memory of the King of Rock ‘n Roll, Elvis Presley. The Malt Shop Memories Cruise will host the richest Elvis contest at sea featuring some of the most well-known and talented tribute artists in the world competing for a cash prize of $5,000.

So, ladies, get out the poodle skirt and crinoline and get ready for an incredi“The legendary ble line-up of concerts, parties and ‘50s era of the late 1950s to and ‘60s-themed activities throughout early 1960s boasts some of the ship for the entire length of the the most romantic lyrics and cruise. You’ll grab your blanket for engaging harmonies popular the beach party, kick off your shoes music has ever embraced.” for the sock hop, spin the hula hoop, —Lisa Torem, dress in your finest for Prom Night.

2010 cruise Tickets for the cruise are available at MaltShopCruise.com or call (877) 700-6258 (MALT). The cruise is nearly 80 percent sold but great verandah cabins are still available.

Florida residents who book between now and July 15 will enjoy free deluxe motorcoach transportation between the port in Fort Lauderdale Passenger photos by Rhonda Lane and seven Florida locations..

“No bonding required; we were all of the same mindset and were soulmates before the first doowop note rang out. The fun, the dancin’, singin’, strollin’, twistin’, hoppin’ and boppin’ never stopped.”

—Gay Nagle Myers for Travel Weekly, 2011 cruise

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The Sounds of Freedom

BY PATRICK M. KENNEDY

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am, bang, hiss, sizzle! “Stars and Stripes Forever.” Fireworks, parades, barbeques, carnivals, fairs, picnics, concerts, baseball games, family and friends’ reunions—all celebrating the history and traditions of the U.S.A. What a day!

Make plans to enjoy the 4th of July.

Remember back when the family went together to the local amusement park, probably called Playland, and watched a fireworks display being shot over a small lake? That can happen again for us with a family of old friends gathering on a local hill, watching the sky light up with joyful celebration. We can be kids again by lighting a few sparklers and setting off a string or two of miniature or ladybug firecrackers in the backyard during the barbeque. Just do it outside because they can make the indoors a mess. Ooh!! Ahh!!

“Freedom is nothing else but a chance to be better,” said Albert Camus, the French writer. “The basis of a democratic state is liberty,” said Aristotle the Greek philosopher. So you see, this thing called freedom is older than you and is international.

That’s what we celebrate—our peace of mind and the battles it took to get there here in the good old U.S.A. And Mr. Webster defines freedom as “the quality or state of being free as the absence of necessity, coercion or constraint in choice or action.” Now that doesn’t mean you can become that grumpy old person everyone dislikes and exercise your freedom of speech and say everything that comes to your mind just because you can. But it means you have the freedom to just think it.

And then there is the sitting around back home after the food or fireworks display. “Do you recall when? …

Remember where we used to? … Then there’s the time. … Did you know?

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… Can you recall? … Do you think we’ll ever . . ?” The warm radiance of a slight beverage buzz—or it could be the ambiance of old friends calling to mind memories—fills the room along with the faded sun. Old friends who hadn’t gathered for a while, some for a year, slow down, take the weight off their feet and relax in a comfort zone built by years of experiences together. The distractions of the present are left at the door like muddy boots. The 4th of July is more than just about the past, it is enjoying the good times and friends of the present.

You probably aren’t going to spend the day talking about Paul Revere, Betsy Ross, John Adams or Thomas Jefferson, although they were a big part of the original festivity.

More than likely you will be talking about Pete the barber, or Joe the bartender, or even Gigi the checkout

lady at the market—people of your generation and an important part of the celebration of life all year long.

That’s the real wham bam of freedom’s sound. (SENIOR WIRE)

Enjoy Summer Activities Literary

Band at the Florida Carriage Museum, 3000 Marion County Rd., Weirsdale. No alcohol. Snacks available. 6 to 9 p.m. $5. (352) 536-3689.

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Palm Writers’ Group. Read and critique group.

Poetry Noir.

Read your favorite; listen to others.

At East Lake County Library, 31340 County Road 437, Sorrento.

6:30 p.m. Free.

Call Scott Amey at (352) 383-9980 or email SAmey@lakeline.lib.fl.us.

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ridays: “I Have a Kindle, Now What?” 10 a.m. Personalized help to get you started. Appointment only. Fruitland Park Lib., 205 W. Berckman St., Fruitland Park.

Call Terry at (352) 360-6561.

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uesdays: Live country music and dancing. The Lee Ann Noel

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Wildlife Hike.

8 to 11 a.m. at Ellis Acres Reserve, 25302 County Road 42, Paisley.

Free by reservation. Call David Hansen at (352) 253-4950 or email parksandtrails@lakecountyfl.gov.

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Guided Paddling Adventure at Ramp 52, Ocala National Forest: Alexander Springs. County Road 445, Astor. 8:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.

Info at Trout Lake Nature Center at (352) 357-7536 or Lake County Water Authority at (352) 343-3777.

Questions and Answers About MRI

What is MRI? agnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) is a noninvasive imaging test that uses a powerful magnet and radio frequency to process data and send it to a computer, which in turn creates high-quality images of interior views of the body. MRI’s detailed views have allowed it to replace exploratory surgery in countless cases and save innumerable lives. MRA (Magnetic Resonance Angiography), a type of MRI, is used to examine blood vessels in key areas of the body.

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What is it used for?

Although MRI was first introduced in the late 1970s, it has evolved considerably, being perfected over time and becoming one of the most widely-used technologies to help diagnose everything from cancer and strokes to torn ligaments and tendonitis. The images it creates allow Radiology Associates of Ocala’s (RAO) experienced doctors to spot even tiny abnormalities

practically anywhere in the body, head and extremities, including the spine and vascular system. Among its full line of the latest diagnostic tools, RAO features High Field MRI scanners and a High Performance Open MRI. What is an Open MRI? The introduction of the Open MRI scanner has been an advantage to both patients and doctors for multiple reasons. Unlike the high field construction of a traditional MRI scanner which has a narrow opening, an Open MRI contains a spacious, open design to eliminate patients’ feeling cramped or isolated, making it especially helpful when imaging children, heavier individuals and those who tend to feel claustrophobic.

Open MRI is more comfortable for the patient and helpful to doctors when they require specific patient positioning. At RAO, they offer High Performance Open MRI. Its benefits include higher resolution images and

an ideal combination of quality and patient comfort. Other features offered

by RAO include same-day appointments and 24-hour report turnaround.

How long does an MRI take?

The scan itself takes only minutes, but some cases require preparation before the exam. Depending on your case, you may be given contrast material to assist in imaging and/or you may be required to fast 8 – 12 hours beforehand. You will always be required to remove any metal objects you may be wearing, including glasses, jewelry, watches, removable dental work, etc. In most cases, an MRI appointment will take approximately 30 – 60 minutes from start to finish.

Which RAO location is right for me?

RAO offers MRI services at three locations. Which one is right for you will depend on the type of MRI ordered by your doctor and which site is most convenient for you. Each RAO

location utilizes the expertise of our team of 17 Board Certified radiologists with specialized training in breast imaging, musculoskeletal radiology, nuclear medicine, neuroradiology and vascular and interventional radiology.

• Medical Imaging Center: High Field MRI. • Medical Imaging Center at Windsor Oaks: High Field MRI. • TimberRidge Imaging Center: High Performance Open MRI. Whichever center is right for you, RAO is committed to both your physical heath and emotional well-being. We vow to do our utmost to guide you through the process quickly and comfortably.

For the very best in MRI services, discover the difference at Radiology Associates of Ocala. Please call (352) 671-4300 for more information.

MAGNETIC RESONANCE IMAGING

Precise, close-up views without surgery or radiation MRI uses radio waves and magnetic fields to generate images of the brain, internal organs and other soft tissue structures that are significantly sharper and more detailed than those created by other imaging exams – without surgery, x-rays or exposure to radiation.

RAO features the latest, most advanced systems, including high field MRI and open MRI, which is roomier and airier than traditional MRI. RAO’s board certified radiologists are so experienced in MRI technology that they can act as a valuable collaborator with your doctor in your diagnosis and treatment program.

We provide more than medical imaging – we provide added expertise.

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The Healthy Pleasure of Their Company—the Pets Among Us

BY JANICE DOYLE

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udy Elliott spends her afternoons at the Pinellas County Animal Services facility matching senior pets (over age 6) with senior citizens who want to adopt a pet. She says most of the seniors who adopt senior pets have had pets before and know the benefits of pets in the house.

Life occurs in stages, and as we move from infancy to adulthood—and eventually into our senior years—our needs and wants change.

A 50-year-old may choose a different breed of dog than he got when his children were small. An 88-year-old woman won’t want to worry with having to step carefully because of a Labrador dog that flops down in the middle of the floor or a kitten darting out from behind the chair.

Why get a pet in the first place?

While the primary benefits to animals are obvious—to place them in loving homes and keep them from being destroyed—the benefits to seniors of all ages are ten-fold (versus non-pet owners).

A person who has a pet usually has: • Lower blood pressure and pulse rate • 21 percent fewer visits to the doctor • Less depression • Enhanced ease in making friends • More active lifestyle with something to nurture and care for • Affection and unconditional love • Ease in the loss of a loved one • Less feeling of loneliness • Higher level of taking care of themselves • Sense of security Lifestyles After 50 • June 2012 • page 10

Why get an older pet?

Puppies and kittens may be cute, but they also have high energy levels and can require almost constant attention. Adopting an older pet may be the best idea.

Think about an older pet because: • Older animals love to sleep and cuddle. They are happy for you to join them in a nap.

What to consider before getting a pet Beware of making a decision based on “going down memory lane.” Just because you once loved a German shepherd doesn’t mean that breed is best for you at this point in life. If well trained, of course, it might be, but it might be too big for your surroundings or for the care you are able to give it.

Go for your present comfort level so it’s a good fit for both you and the pet.

Maybe, instead of adopting a pet, yours would make a good foster home for a pet. Sometimes animals need transition time and space (such as when they’re taking a round of heart worm medicine) and rescue facilities need temporary spaces.

You might also work with pet therapy dogs which are specially trained to be taken into nursing homes and schools.

Many financial accommodations can be made if having a pet is beyond your means. Most local agencies have ways to help. (For example, Purina®Pets for People in Sarasota County qualifies anyone 60 years and over for reimbursement of adoption fees.)

Besides county-run facilities, also look for smaller groups that adopt out pets.

Adopting a senior pet can often open a new world for seniors. To find out how to adopt senior animals in our area, contact your local animal shelter.

Adoption information by county: Charlotte (941) 833-5690 Hillsborough (813) 744-5660 Lee County (239) 533-7387 Lake County (352) 343-9688 Manatee County (941) 742-5933 Pasco (813) 929-1212 Pinellas (727) 595-5822 Sarasota (941) 955-4131

• Adult dogs have learned many life lessons. They know “shoes are for walking and bones are for chewing.”

• They are mostly housebroken or litter box trained.

• Adult pets require less time than a puppy or kitten.

• What you see is what you get; senior pets tend to settle into the household more easily.

In Sarasota County, Kristi Dorman, Executive Director of the Humane Society of Sarasota County, says a staff behaviorist assesses all incoming dogs “for temperament, likes and dislikes, how the animal responds to children.

Do they play well with others? Are they aggressive or not?” Volunteers also walk the dogs and note behaviors, making matchmaking easier when a senior comes looking for a pet.

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ig dogs are hardest to find homes for. John Diehl walks his Great Danes Macy, 8, and Simon, 3, through his neighborhood. He and his wife, Michelle, found both dogs through Big Dog Rescue Ranch (BDRR) two years ago. John says, “Having the two of them is amazing. They are very affectionate dogs. Macy lives to be petted.”

They “foster” Macy, which means BDRR covers all her medical bills including routine care. John and Michelle adopted Simon, who is still somewhat skittish from previous abuse, and fully expect to have him around for many years to come. BDRR is at (561) 791-6465 or online at bdrr.org.

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ttention Earthlings: Its never too late to help save our natural resources, time and money. Start here: 1. Sign up for the “no solicitation” registry.

2. Shop online to reduce your carbon footprint and save money.

3. Get out of the gym and exercise outdoors.

4. Save on utility bills – close blinds on hot days.

5. Send an e-gift certificate for special occasions.

6. Eliminate paper invites and digitize your event announcement.

7. Use an irrigation controller to manage watering.

8. Swap your stuff on Swap.com.

9. Walk or bike to save on fuel.

10. Wash clothes with cold water if possible.

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11. Use mobile coupons to cut paper clutter (Coupon Sherpa app).

12. Go paperless wherever possible.

13. Hang-dry your clothes.

14. Shop garage and estate sales for clothes and home goods.

15. Put the blow dryer down.

16. Take short showers.

17. Wash dishes the old fashioned way in a sink full of water instead of with the tap on. .

18. Get a water filter and reusable water bottle.

19. Plant native shrubs and plants.

20. Use an eco-friendly shower head. (For example, an Oxygenics PowerMassage Handheld Shower Head can save up to 70 percent in water and energy consumption.)

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aregivers often face tough questions from patients. Questions that fall into this category may include “Am I going home?” (especially when the answer is “No, nor will things ever be the same again”)…“Will I recover from this condition?”…“And oh, by the way: Is there an afterlife?”

“Winging it isn’t a good idea,” says Walter St. John, Ed.D., author of Solace: How Caregivers and Others Can Relate, Listen, and Respond Effectively to a Chronically Ill Person.

Here’s a tip from the book: Don’t hesitate to call in spiritual help. Even for people who weren’t very spiritual or religious in their lives, it’s natural to experience spiritual anxiety during a serious illness. And it’s also natural for this anxiety to lead to questions that caregivers might find

difficult or even overwhelming. If your loved one asks, for instance, ‘What’s next? Will prayer help? Why did God let this happen to me?’ it’s best to call in a qualified cleric.

“If you attempt to help with these complex issues when you don’t possess the knowledge or skills to do so helpfully, you’ll do more harm than good regardless of how well intentioned you are,” St. John explains.

“You don’t want to inadvertently increase your loved one’s confusion or anxiety. When spiritual needs and questions arise, don’t be afraid to admit that you aren’t qualified to handle them. In this instance, please call in a rabbi, priest, or other spiritual leader.

And know that no matter how little spiritual training you may have, you can always be a confidant and source of support.”

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Almost a third of the employers said that parents had handed in their children’s resumes, sometimes without their children’s knowledge. A quarter of the employers said that parents had been in touch with them to plead their children’s cause. In some cases, parents sat in on their children’s job interviews.

Enterprise, the car rental company, has adapted to the trend by mailing parents the same recruitment materials it sends their children and inviting parents to hear their children present their final projects as Enterprise interns.

—Jennifer Ludden, “Helicopter Parents Hover in the Workplace” NPR, March 1, 2012

They question: “As boomers we raised our kids to have the things we didn’t. Our parents came from the World War era and they wanted us to have the life they didn’t have. We in turn gave just about everything to our children and I think this made a lot of them lazy and added

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They support: Many boomers are helping to financially support both their parents and their adult children. Almost a third (31 percent) of relatively wealthy Americans are supporting older and younger immediate family members at the same time, according to a new Merrill Lynch Wealth Management survey of 1,000 people with investable assets of $250,000 or more.

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his deal continues the theme of counting the opponents’ HCP.

to the “entitled” generation we see today. Of course, there are always exceptions to the rule. Is it our job to keep supporting our adult children no matter where the economy is? Every family has to decide this question.

—From the blog sweetiesreviews.com “Supporting their Adult Children.”

They spend: According to a Vibrant Nation survey, a dramatic 84 percent of boomer women are paying more of their over-18-year-old children’s expenses than their parents did for them: • 59 percent pay for an adult child’s cell phone.

• 53 percent pay for insurance • Over 1/3 are paying for everyday expenses like rent, clothes, cars and computers.

And these expenses add up quickly.

56 percent of boomer women respondents report that they pay more than $5,000 in annual expenses, not including tuition/education expenses, for each adult child, and 17 percent spend more than $10,000.

They advise: Over 40 percent of boomer mom respondents report that their children consult them about financial services (including loans and banking relationships) and insurance.

Over 1/3 influence their children’s purchase decision for car buying, small/large appliances and food.

This is not the most swashbuckling auction ever to appear in Bridge Bites but the deal does provide a test for Declarer’s powers of deduction.

Cover up the E-W hands if you would like to test your own powers.

West leads the ♣J won by East’s Ace and it takes half a nano-second for East to find the ♥Q shift. You could duck Hearts twice, hoping that West has the doubleton ♥A, but that would give East 5 Hearts and he would be unlikely to sell out to 1♠ in that case. So, you hopefully play the ♥K, taken by West’s Ace. Two more

The Power of Deduction

Hearts are won by East’s ♥JT, then a Club which you win. The ♠A and ♠K are cashed, followed by the ♠J to East’s Queen (West following).

Back comes East’s last trump, and decision time has arrived! You’ve already lost 5 tricks, and must avoid the loss of two Diamonds if you are to make your contract. A Diamond to the Jack? Or a Diamond to the King?

Do you have your guessing shoes on?

Guess? What guess? Let’s reflect upon East’s bidding. Oh, that’s right, he didn’t bid—which is the whole point of this hand. So far East has shown up with ♣A, ♥QJ, and ♠Q. That’s 9 High Card Points (HCP). Can East also have the ♦A? Absolutely not! He passed originally, that ♦A would give him 13 HCP and too much for said Pass. So, you lead a Diamond towards the board, West smoothly plays low, and you rise majestically with the ♦K. Making 7 tricks thanks to a little deduction.

Post Script: Upon winning the ♥A, West would have done better to shift fiendishly to a low Diamond, putting Declarer to the test in that suit before all the clues had been collected!

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state residence. However, each state has an office of Veterans Services that may provide benefits separately. If your father was receiving or entitled to VA Benefits, dependent on his status, your mother may be eligible for DIC.

Q: How can I force the VA to give me a disability rating? The VA has been delaying my claim for asinine excuses for more than 454 days.

passed away 10 years ago. My mom has never filed a claim for veterans benefits. Now she needs surgery and after care. Might she be qualified for some benefits?

A: Anyone at the VA helping your

mother will need more information.

Be prepared to furnish the following: What were the dates of your father’s service, branch and type of discharge.

Did your father ever apply for Benefits from the Dept. of Veteran’s Affairs?

Q: I am receiving DIC (dependency and indemnity compensation) payments right now. Will it continue after I file for social security? Do I pay taxes on this?

A: DIC should not affect your SSI. VA benefits are non-taxable, and your DIC will continue unless you re-marry. It also should not be affected by any other SS income you may be eligible for.

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War of 1812 Remembered J

une is a good month to visit Baltimore and the 200th anniversary of the War of 1812. It was the war that brought “The Star-Spangled Banner.” They’re hosting Star-Spangled Sailabration June 13 – 19 to celebrate. Experience these:

Tall and U.S. Navy ships, patriotic fireworks, memorial ceremonies, Baltimore Symphony Orchestra concert, commemorative coins. There’ll be reenactments, home and fort tours.

Experience history!

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Social Security Numbers Down

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hree-quarters of eligible adults 62+ postponed Social Security in 2011. The Social Security retirement benefit take-up rate was lower in 2011 than any year since 1976. It has declined to 26.9 percent in 2011, from 30.8 percent in 2009,

according to a 2012 Urban Institute analysis of Social Security data.

The take-up rate is defined as the number of new retirement awards in the year divided by the number of adults age 62 and older who had not yet begun collecting benefits at the start of the year.

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aby boomers stand to inherit $10 trillion in the next few years and women will get the bulk of it, according to a Cornell University study, because they outlive men an average of seven years.

“Women already control 60 percent of the nation’s personal wealth. They outnumber men and they are traditionally the shoppers,” says financial expert Scott T. Schultz, author of Scott Schultz’s Guide to Closed-End Funds.

“It’s sad that, despite the fact that nearly a third make more money than their husbands and they’re starting businesses at twice the rate men are, 38 percent of women ages 30 to 55 worry they’ll eventually live in poverty because they can’t adequately save for retirement,” he says.

With boomers hitting 65 at a steady pace, the nation will see an even greater number of retirement-aged women holding the country’s purse strings.

“Many will inherit money and property from their parents and/or their husbands, and many will live another 30 to 40 years,” Schultz says, citing the Cornell study. “They’ll need to invest their money to ensure they have enough to avoid that impoverished retirement they fear.”

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Make this the anniversary to remember.

New Attractions at Universal Orlando Celebrate 100 Years of Movie Memories

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The new experiences are the latest in Universal Orlando’s “Year to be Here”—during which Universal is creating more new entertainment experiences across its entire destination than any other year in its history.

“We are creating special moments for the entire family,” said Jim Timon, Senior Vice President of Entertainment for Universal Orlando Resort. “You can laugh and dance with your children and their favorite characters and then be completely moved as you watch the most powerful tribute to film you could imagine—all in the same day.”

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Universal’s Superstar Parade The streets of Universal Studios will transform into a theme-park-wide performance stage as today’s most beloved stories and characters bring new adventure and excitement to guests everywhere. It will feature elaborately themed floats that tower above guests, hundreds of energetic street performers and spectacular music and dance performances.

Unforgettable moments include Gru, his daughters and Vector from the blockbuster animated adventure Despicable Me dancing to “Boogie Fever,” Nickelodeon’s SpongeBob arriving in his pineapple home from under the sea with his friends from Bikini Bottom, E.B. from the hit comedy Hop playing the drums and acrobatic performances by characters from

Nickelodeon’s Dora the Explorer and Go, Diego, Go! Throughout the day, guests will be able to sing and dance with their favorite characters from the parade during special performances at select locations.

Universal’s Cinematic Spectacular —100 Years of Movie Memories The new show is a tribute to Universal’s 100 years of film-making history, highlighting some of the most fun, dramatic, awe-inspiring moments from Universal Pictures’ most iconic films. These moments are shown in crystal-clear clarity on huge waterfall screens within the Universal Studios Lagoon, surrounded by colorful fountains and pyrotechnics, all against an incredible musical score and a powerful narration by Academy Award-winning actor Morgan Freeman. The show will take guests on a journey of epic cinematic moments filled with heroes, horror, laughter, good versus evil and triumph—all against a backdrop of light, sound and special effects.

Everyone can remember powerful film moments such as Elliott and E.T. riding across the moon in E.T: The Extra Terrestrial, the heroic struggle of the crew from Apollo 13 or the terror of watching the famed shower scene in Psycho. Universal’s Cinematic Spectacular captures these moments—and so many more.

Universal’s Cinematic Spectacular —100 Years of Movie Memories and Universal’s Superstar Parade will run year-round except during annual and special events. For more information about both experiences, visit www.universalorlando.com.

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4118 CHRISTIAN DWF (63) NS, ND, honest, sincere, born again Christian, loves the Lord, FF. I pray that the Lord would have the right person to reply to this ad. Umatilla or Eustis.

4119 SEEKING CHRISTIAN GENTLEMAN Former airline stewardess and model, 5’4”, 104 lbs., widow, slender, white with Ph.D. in healthcare. Fulbright scholar, eats healthy and exercises. Likes sports and animals. Loves the Lord. Florida.

4131 SEEKING COMPATIBLE GENTLEMAN 65 – 78 I am 70 yo, 5’3”, 140 lbs.

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4141 ENJOY LIFE WITH ME DWF active, 83 years young, slender. NS, ND, sense of humor.

Wishes to meet SWM, NS, ND who likes TV, garage sales and good companionship and is tired of being alone. Wildwood or that area.

MEN SEEKING WOMEN 4116 SEEKING RETIRED FEMALE COMPANION I am a recent widower. M/W age 81. I’m 6’2”, 225 lbs. Seeking W/F tall, any age.

LTR. SD, NS, NDrg. Will treat as lady should be – with respect. Tavares.

4120 WANTED SLIM ROMANTIC FEMALE nonsmoker who’s tired of being alone to relocate to new home, share new life, love, companionship, each other. I’m 68, 5’8”, 150 lbs. Send photo with description.

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