Mature Lifestyles April 2012 Southwest by Lifestyles After 50 Magazine

How I Overcame Zone Denial and Changed to Avant-Gardening

I laughed the first time our lawn here sprouted clover-looking weeds (Oxalis) f you’re a Florida all a-bloom with little purple flowers. transplant, there’s I had paid $6 to have a shamrock plant a good chance like those shipped to my Kansas house you’ve suffered from one winter years ago. The shamrock some sort of Zone bloomed on my kitchen windowsill, Denial as I have. and I thought it was magnificent. Janice Doyle, I first heard of Now, I was in Florida and it was Editor “Zone Denial” in blooming all over the yard! Amazing! Texas. I was in the process of buyA few years after the Kansas shamrock ing some Antique Roses to bring plant, I paid $5 for a straggly little splitback with me when a fellow leaf philodendron plant in late summer. It traveler, an avid gardener herself, had to be re-potted twice that first winter said, “Aren’t you in Zone Denial?” as it thrived in a south-facing window. On It seems Zone Denial is rampant the move to Florida, “Philly,” as we called everywhere gardeners are found. It’s a it, rode in the back of a pickup, roughly malady for Floridians that comes about stuffed inside a wicker clothes hamper. when you live in west central Florida New neighbor Marti advised us to put and deny the fact that, for gardening Philly outside in the ground. Reverse purposes, we are in Hardiness Zones Zone Denial set in—this was a 10, 9a or 9b, but we buy something that houseplant. It couldn’t just be plopped grows best in another growing zone. in the ground and never dug up again! The Hardiness Zone Map by the But, by rough estimate, Philly is 38 USDA is a way for gardeners to years old now and has a lineup of compare their garden climates with 13 siblings across the back fence. the climate where a plant is known to grow well. The antique roses, for example, were for zones four, five and six. I had a bad case of Zone Denial! The 2012 zone map reflects a new reality: Many areas of the U.S. are designated as warmer by about five degrees. For a gardener, that means plants which in the past wouldn’t thrive here (given the 1990 map) might well survive beautifully now. Let the plant-buying begin! It’s the first time since 1990 that the U.S. Department of Agriculture Janice Doyle and the “fast-growing” squash. has revised the official guide for the nation’s 80 million gardeners, Avant-gardening and much has changed. Nearly Only in the last few years have entire states, such as Ohio, Nebraska enough trees been cut from our and Texas, are in warmer zones. one-third acre yard to create sunny spots for vegetable gardening. Zone Denial history Dear Husband asked where I The first year I lived here, I was an wanted a vegetable garden. We picked avid flower and vegetable gardener a spot in summer’s full sun, and he wannabe who, in reality, needed a constructed two 8’ x 8’ garden boxes of support group to report to. “Hello, landscape timbers. Compost, top soil my name is Janice. I just planted and DH’s sweat equity—tomato and tulips.” Or English peas. Or crocuses. broccoli plants went into the ground

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in early February. Then we waited. And waited. And waited. The plants were there, but nothing happened. One day I stood and looked at the pitiful plants and realized that as the sun goes lower on the horizon for the winter (right over there behind the neighbor’s beautiful old live oaks), our garden spot never ever had full sun. Plotting more carefully, DH moved the two garden plots 100 feet across the yard where they now get full sun half the day. And we’re enjoying tomatoes, broccoli, onions and squash. DH is a compostaphile – to rot or not to rot? Rot, of course. An ordinary, overgrown corner of the yard now boasts three piles of matter in various stages of decay. Then he found a “recipe” for gardening which has produced amazing results in a short time. From the St. Pete Times (now Tampa Bay Times), July 10, 2004: “Choose an area 6 feet by 6 feet in full sun; spread a 25 pound bag of cheap dry dog food nuggets, a 20 pound bag of cheap clay cat litter and half of a 50 pound bag of alfalfa pellets. . . Once everything has been applied, use a shovel to turn the soil. Water deeply, then cover the site with overlapping layers of cardboard boxes… Mulch… ripen for two to four weeks…” (You can also find the recipe at baysoundings.com/fall08/stories/grow.asp.) We planted in February, David watered regularly and God gave the increase. Squash plants grew six inches in a week. Tomato and pepper plants shot out of the ground and are full of blooms. No more Zone Denial here. We’ll just accept Florida exactly as it is. You can see the Plant Hardiness Zone Map at planthardiness.ars.usda.gov.

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Spring Fashion Show and Luncheon at Tony Rotino Senior Center. $15/person. 1 p.m. Call for reservations: (239) 574-0807.

First Annual Artists’ Studio Tour sponsored by Alliance for the Arts. Self-guided tour to visit nine area studios and homes of artists from painters to potters and metal workers. 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Tickets $45/ person at 10091 McGregor Blvd., Ft. Myers. Info at (239) 939-2787.

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uccess is counted in different ways by different people. One SCORE volunteer said, “Success is when you help people achieve a lifetime dream to become an independent business owner.” SCORE (Service Corps of Retired Executives) is made up of both retired executives and former (or current) business owners whose backgrounds and experience can help small business owners be successful. Dale Johnson, Chapter Chairman for SCORE Chapter 219, is one of the 22 volunteer counselors who assist area small business owners in starting and continuing their business dreams. “All of the volunteers have different backgrounds. We have CPAs, bankers, engineers, marketing, manufacturing, you name it. We bring knowledge and experience and all of us made a million mistakes.” Mistakes they hope to help others avoid making.

SCORE volunteers may be mentors for clients, working one-on-one with individuals who start and build a business. Some volunteers have full-time jobs and provide workshops or have specialized knowledge in newer technical areas. The volunteers’ expertise is used in different ways. Johnson recognized the need for a task force to bring bankers and small business owners together for more effective financing interaction. Clients coming to SCORE may need to start at the beginning, developing an effective business plan. Others need help creating strategies for business growth. They may have a few specific questions and meet only once with a mentor while other clients are looking for long term mentoring that may last for years. A client may meet with one volunteer—say for initial financing advice—but later with other volunteers who have different areas of expertise.

Free workshops bring the knowledge of volunteers to groups. A recent morning workshop sponsored by Chapter 219 was based on a volunteer’s expertise in the import/export business. An afternoon seminar focused on optimizing the internet for business, a necessity today. Today’s business world is changing. “You can never get ahead of technology so you have to keep growing with it,” said one Florida SCORE volunteer. It has meant adding business technology workshops and counseling on subjects like creating a website, marketing on the internet, using Quickbooks, etc. Johnson said, “I’m bringing in younger people” to help with the technology needed in today’s business world. SCORE can help an older person who wants to sell a business, like an artist for example, which involves pricing the inventory and tools, doing necessary paperwork, etc.

Another area of assistance is for the client who plans to buy out a business he’s been working for. An electrician may not realize that there’s more than just taking care of the trade part, and may think it looks easy to run the business since he knows the work. Asked what the biggest misconception people have about going into business is, Johnson said, “People do not understand basic accounting. I often tell them to buy a high school accounting book and go through it chapter by chapter and learn the basics. They have to know the language of accounting.” If you’re a retired executive or are any age and own or have owned a successful small business, you may want to give back to the community through SCORE. Website: score219.org; Email: score219@embarqmail.com; Phone: (239) 489-2935.

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Follow the I-75 Florida Wine Trail Winemaking is Three Centuries Old in Florida BY DAVID LALMOND

eyond the beaches and amusement parks, Florida’s vineyards and wineries open up an opportunity to learn an interesting part of the state’s agricultural history—and to taste some unique wines. Florida is home to the original American wines—native grapes were used for winemaking three centuries before California became a state. But Florida growers faced hot, humid summers which produced diseases other areas did not have to combat. In 1923 a breeding program was initiated at the University of Florida that has resulted in the development of numerous disease-resistant grape varieties suited to Florida’s soil and climate. And for winemaking. Florida wineries utilize native Muscadines and local fruits for wines. How about orange or mango or blueberry wine? Trivia: In 2009, nearly two million gallons of wine were produced in Florida. Only ﬁve states produced more than Florida.*

Travel Using I-75 as your main path, follow a wine trail through Florida this summer as the harvest season runs from May through September. Enjoy the unique sights, tastes and aromas of Florida vineyards and wines at these locations:

Dakotah Winery near Chieﬂand is a family-run business. Since 1985, the Rittgers family has been cultivating Muscadine grape vines. Today there are over 6,000 vines, including 30-plus varieties of Muscadines which begin ripening in August. Not only can you taste authentic Florida wine, you can also take a therapeutic walk over the grounds and see the vines, sheep (which keep the area mowed) and geese (which help prune the vines). (352) 493-9309.

Strong Tower Vineyard & Winery in Spring Hill is Florida’s newest certiﬁed “Florida Farm Winery.” Here you’ll ﬁnd traditional oak-fermented red wines as well as characteristically Southern wines. They offer tours of the vineyard and processing areas plus tastings. (352) 799-7612.

Tangled Oaks Vineyard in Grandin is just east of Gainesville. Think Italian wine here—the vineyard was started by the DaCasto family with roots in Italian winemaking country. (386) 659-1707. Trivia: Muscadines are a Southern specialty, not found anywhere else in the world. Their tough skins make them wonderful for children to squish with their feet, which they can do on special weekends at Lakeridge Winery. Just 25 miles east of I-75 near Clermont is Lakeridge Winery, Florida’s largest. Its buildings and setting make it look for all the world like a small winery in the south of France or California’s Napa Valley. The winery is popular for its tours, which reveal 5,000-gallon stainless steel tanks, crushers, state of the art harvesters, a large tasting room and much more. Lakeridge Winery is a destination for weekend events, specials on wine, daily complimentary tours and wine tasting. 1-800-768-9463. Florida Orange Groves Winery in St. Pete began with packing and shipping citrus and evolved into Florida’s original tropical fruit winery (garnering numerous awards along the way). If you think you can’t make wine out of oranges, think again! These are not fusion or blended grape wines, but 43 varieties of 100% pure tropical fruit wines. (It can take upwards of nine pounds of fruit to produce enough juice for just one bottle of wine.) Try their Mango Mama, which just won “Best of Show Florida Fruit” contest at the 2012 Florida State Fair. 1-800-338-7923.

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Trivia: Florida Orange Groves Winery has been invited to the EPCOT Wine Festival nine continuous years. Eden Vineyards Keel and Curley and Winery, Winery near Plant City 10 miles east (10 miles east of I-75 Eden Vineyards and Winery of Fort Myers on I-4) began when near Alva, was the owner needed to planted in the ‘70s with cuttings from ﬁnd new ways to use an oversupply the original hybrid vines at University of fresh blueberries. The winery now of Florida research sites. Since 1986 produces three types of blueberry they have produced six wines on wines as well as fusion wines, made this, the furthest south winery on the by blending grapes with fruit juices. west coast of Florida. Tastings are Try their Peach Chardonnay or Key held every day. (239) 728-9463. West Key Lime, for example. (TastTrivia: Eden Winery is the oldest ings: 11 Wines for $6. Weekend vineoperating Florida Farm Winery in yard tours: $5/ person or $10 comthe state. Their wines have been bined with tasting.) (813) 752-9100. featured at Disney’s Grand Floridian, Located near Bradenton, the Rosa the Palm Beach Breakers Hotel and Fiorelli Winery is based on expertise the Ritz Carlton. the family brought with them from For more information and other Sicily. They pride themselves on wineries, see Florida Grape Growers their ten acres of grapes and with Association at fgga.org or individual over 100 awards under their belts, vineyard and winery websites. it’s still a small, friendly family place *(Information from Alcohol & for a vineyard and winery tour and Tobacco Tax and Trade Bureau.) tasting ($10). (941) 322-0976. Mature Lifestyles • April 2012 • page 9

Boomer Women Have Focus on Self-Reliance • As women get older, they indicate they’ve contributed significantly to their children and that the time has come to focus on their own needs for both enjoyment and independence.

others have always been known for their willingness to sacrifice financially if it meant their children could have what they needed. Now, a MetLife Mature Market Institute study shows that boomer women are also placing a strong emphasis on self-reliance and providing for themselves. Here are some results of the study: • Boomer women (in fact women across all generations) desire to be able to give more financially to children or grandchildren. • Boomer women agree that they need to prepare for retirement to avoid depending on family members later in life.

• Boomer women generally would be reluctant to accept financial help from their children. • Boomers feel that they are more financially secure than the other generations of women today. • If given the choice between spending money to enjoy retirement versus saving with the intent to leave an inheritance, boomer women feel it is important to stay focused on enjoying retirement and giving small gifts to children.

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• Although they felt they would give financial help to parents and/or inlaws in times of financial difficulty, most boomer women wouldn’t want to accept financial help from their adult children, even if they needed it. • Among women, life insurance is viewed as a key component to

ensuring their family’s financial security. As one respondent to the study said, “I couldn’t imagine not having life insurance. I just can’t imagine there being that added stress for my family.”

• Over half of boomer women said life insurance is to support their spouse if they die prematurely, followed by having money to cover funeral costs. • Few boomer women feel a responsibility to support a grandchild’s education. “What’s apparent from this study is that having a plan for independence is important for family financial security, especially for women as they age; many clearly don’t want to rely on their families,” said Sandra Timmermann, Ed.D., director of the MetLife Mature Market Institute.

Senior Hunger at Crisis Level in Southwest Florida

here are now 10,000 baby boomers turning 65 every single day, and this will continue to occur for the next 15 years. Baby boomers were planning to spend their golden years in Florida at the beach or playing golf, but many are unable to do so. Not only are they not swinging clubs, but many do not have enough money for food. In October 2011, Senior Friendship Centers in partnership with the Harry Chapin Food Bank and Comfort Keepers In-home care had the first of its kind—Senior Hunger Summit at Florida Gulf Coast University. Over 100 organizations throughout Southwest Florida that provide senior services were in attendance and agreed that they were seeing more and more seniors that had to choose between rent, medication and food. Many, especially homebound seniors, are isolated and either do not

know of resources available or do not want to become a burden on the community; so they remain hidden. Seniors who are hungry are likely to have poor overall health and more limitations in activity levels, concentration and social life. If these elders do not receive help, they will begin a downward spiral through depression and increased Edna Baker, 90, is one of many seniors illness, and most likely end up in aided by DeSoto County Dining Sites. hospitals and nursing homes. are two more of the needs that are Armed with this information, the being addressed. With our community Senior Hunger Task Force was formed with volunteer representatives of many coming together, we will be prepared for the future and will be able to face in attendance that day. Strategic planning has begun with goals of increasing this epidemic head on with solutions. For more information on being a “senior friendly” food options to part of the Senior Hunger Task Force homebound seniors and improving or providing resources, including senior access to food pantries and donations for food, please contact to SNAP (Food Stamp Program). Nancy Green-Irwin at (239) 275-1881 Community collaboration and comor ngi@friendshipcenters.org. munity awareness through education

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How Do Flea Markets Do in This Economy? Quite Well!

Don Esbenshade (79) has been a vendor at Wagon Wheel Flea Market for 35 years. His specialty now is colorful Murano glassware although, like many long-time flea market vendors, over the years he has followed several trends in products.

flea market fan could make an entire vacation—summer or winter—right here in west central Florida flea markets and probably never visit the same booth twice. In fact, the combination of the weak economy and television programs that showcase auctions, pickers and re-sellers have driven the public’s interest in flea markets to their highest level ever as people look for both great deals and hidden treasures. Whether it’s a roadside table full of a family’s castoffs or a covered building with lighting and concrete floors; whether it’s a man’s second job to feed the family or the retiree’s hobby, flea market outings can provide unlimited wandering and maybe, just maybe, the big “find.”

Webster—an early tourist attraction Flea markets—”swap meets” they’re called out west—actually have a long history in Florida. In the ‘70s, before Disney and Busch Gardenstype attractions, Sumter Farmer’s Market, or Webster Flea Market as it is commonly called, was the 8th biggest tourist attraction in Florida. Mature Lifestyles • April 2012 • page 12

According to Webster Flea Market’s General Manager, Mark Harrell, the original farmers market started in 1937 when local farmers needed a place to sell their surplus produce. And it’s done nothing but grow ever since. During the winter months, as many as 50,000 people make their way through the flea market every Monday. Bus groups come from as far away as Orlando to check out the merchandise. Besides being so huge, Webster Flea Market has made a name for itself because it’s only open on Mondays, while most flea markets are weekends only. New merchandise, used items, an entire wholesale area and every specialty market imaginable fill building after building of stalls. One entire building is for produce. Across the street from the flea and farmers market area is Webster WestSide which showcases antique and collectible dealers. Want a 1920’s Lone Ranger lunch box? Coke collectibles? Militaria? All the many other things your mom threw away? They’re there! Many vendors have spent decades selling at Webster on Mondays, changing their merchandise to meet new needs. Harrell said one mistake novice vendors make is not finding a “niche” market. “If you sell what too many others are selling you won’t last long.”

Wagon Wheel Flea Market Harold Huntley started the Wagon Wheel Flea Market in Pinellas Park 43 years ago and has over 2,000 vendors in winter and 1,000 in summer. Huntley understands both his vendors and his customers. “A good vendor has to use common sense, have a good product and be friendly with the customers.” Internet sites and trade magazines also help vendors know what’s hot and what’s not. “When I started 43 years ago, most everything people brought to sell was used,” Huntley said. “Gradually there was less and less used stuff out there and more new, overstock merchandise. Our customers didn’t like it. They wanted to see the used stuff, so for a few years in the ‘70s or ‘80s, I gave free space to people who would sell used items.”

He continued, “It’s funny because if there’s a table that has disorganized used stuff on it, people will buy because they think it’s a bargain.” Do flea market owners become shoppers? “I love the shopping part of being here,” admitted Huntley who has turned most of the management of Wagon Wheel over to his son. Babe Wright has been a part of the Oldsmar Flea Market since 1980. Have flea markets lost their popularity, I asked. “We have been busy, very busy, all winter. I don’t know if it has anything to do with the economy, but I’m glad.” She helped get it started, she said, “Because a lot of people in this area like to have a little business, something to do, but if they pay big rent they don’t have much left. Here they don’t have utilities or upkeep to worry about either.” She encourages people to visit Oldsmar Flea Market. “Here you can have a beer and look around until you find what you want.” Some area flea markets:

Belleview: The Market of Marion, 12888 SE. U.S. Hwy 441 (352) 245-6766 Belleview: Flea City USA, 12180 Hwy. 441 (352) 245-3532 Bonita Springs: Flamingo Island Flea Market, 1902 Bonita Beach Rd. (941) 948-7799 Bradenton: Red Barn Flea Market, 1707 First St. E. (941) 747-3794 Bradenton: Roma Flea Market, 5715 15th St. E. (941) 756-9036 Clearwater: Forty Niner Flea Market. 10525 – 49th St. N. (813) 473-3367 Dade City: Old Timers Flea Market. N. Hwy. 301 (352) 567-5085 Fort Myers: Fleamasters, MLK Hwy., exit 138 (239) 334-7001 Ft. Myers: Ortiz Avenue Flea Market, I-75 mile marker #24 (941) 694-5019 Oldsmar Flea Market, 180 N. Racetrack Rd. (813) 855-5306 Palmetto: The Country Market, Hwy. 301 & 41 (941) 723-6000 Pinellas Park: Wagon Wheel Flea Market, 7801 Park Blvd. (727) 544-5319 Port Charlotte: Sun Flea Market, U.S. Hwy. 41 & 776 (941) 255-3532 Tampa: Big Top Flea Market, 9250 E. Fowler Ave. (813) 986-4004 Webster Farmers Flea Market, Hwy. 47 N. (352) 793-2021

How to shop at a ﬂea market: If you know what you want, locate the office and ask the staff. They’ll know who sells what you want, from canvas awnings to wooden zebras. No specific item on your radar? Wander and enjoy!

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mericans love their pets to the tune of spending $60 billion (Yes, Billion!) per year, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. So you get a pet. There are the adoption fees, spaying/neutering, collars, litter boxes, cages, carrier

bags, aquariums, training classes, etc. Those are the initial setup costs. What happens after those costs? The ASPCA (American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals) breaks down the annual costs of pets this way. Cost per year by pet:

Fish: $35

Small dog: $355

Medium dog: $470

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The Many Faces of Depression epression isn’t a one-size-fits-all about taking medication or keeping D illness. Just like a rash or heart therapy appointments. Don’t ignore disease, depression can take many comments about suicide. If you forms. As you’ll see, there’s a cluster of symptoms that are typically present, but one person’s experience of depression often differs from another’s. Definitions of depression—and the therapies designed to ease this disease’s grip—also continue to evolve. What is major depression? Major depression may make you feel as though work, school, relationships and other aspects of your life have been derailed or put on hold indefinitely. You feel constantly sad or burdened, or you lose interest in all activities, even those you previously enjoyed. This holds true nearly all day, on most days, and lasts at least two weeks. Signs of depression include changes in appetite and/ or sleep, slowdown in activities or heightened restlessness, feeling tired and/or worthless, feelings of guilt and thoughts of suicide.

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In the Mouth, Smoking Zaps Healthy Bacteria

“The smoker’s mouth kicks out the good ccording to a February 2012 study bacteria, and the by Ohio State University, smokpathogens are called in,” ing causes the body to turn against its said Kumar. “So they’re own helpful bacteria, leaving smokallowed to proliferate ers more vulnerable to disease. much more quickly than Despite the daily disturbance of they would in a nonbrushing and flossing, the mouth of smoking environment.” a healthy person contains a stable The results suggest that ecosystem of healthy bacteria. New dentists may have to offer research shows that the mouth of a more aggressive treatment smoker is a much more chaotic, diverse for smokers and would have good reason ecosystem—and is much more suscep- to suggest quitting smoking, Kumar said. tible to invasion by harmful bacteria. She likens a healthy biofilm to a lush, green lawn of grass. “When you change the dynamics of what goes into the lawn, like too much water or too little fertilizer,” she said, “you get some of As a group, smokers suffer from the grass dying, and weeds moving in.” higher rates of oral diseases— For smokers, the “weeds” are problem especially gum disease—than do bacteria known to cause disease. nonsmokers, which is a challenge for “When you compare a smoker and dentists, according to Purnima Kumar, nonsmoker, there’s a distinct differassistant professor of periodontology ence,” said Kumar. “The first thing you at Ohio State University. notice is that the basic ‘lawn,’ which BY MAUREEN LANGLOIS

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would normally contain thriving populations made of just a few types of helpful bacteria, is absent in smokers.” The team found that for nonsmokers, bacterial communities regain a similar balance of species to the communities that were scraped away during cleaning. Disease-associated bacteria are largely absent, and low levels of cytokines show that the body is not treating the helpful biofilms as a threat. “By contrast,” said Kumar, “smokers start getting colonized by pathogens—bacteria that we know are harmful—within 24 hours. It takes longer for smokers to form a stable microbial community, and when they do, it’s a pathogen-rich community.” Smokers also have higher levels of cytokines, indicating that the body is mounting defenses against infection.

Clinically, this immune response takes the form of red, swollen gums—called gingivitis—that can lead to the irreversible bone loss of periodontitis. In smokers, however, the body is not just trying to fight off harmful bacteria. The types of cytokines in smokers’ gum swabs showed the researchers that smokers’ bodies were treating even healthy bacteria as threatening. Although they do not yet understand the mechanisms behind these results, Kumar and her team suspect that smoking is confusing the normal communication that goes on between healthy bacterial communities and their human hosts. Practically speaking, these findings have clear implications for patient care, according to Kumar. “It has to drive how we treat the smoking population,” she said. “They need a more aggressive form of treatment, because even after a professional cleaning, they’re still at a very high risk for getting these pathogens back in their mouths right away.” (From Newswise)

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hen it’s time to get away for a luxury experience with some pleasant and innovative twists, make your reservations at the Grande Lakes Orlando. Two properties comprise Grande Lakes—a JW Marriott and The Ritz-Carlton. The two hotels are connected by an enclosed walkway and guests are free to take advantage of both properties. For example, if you enjoy art and antiques, stroll through the Ritz public areas even though you may be staying at the JW Marriott. Ritz Carlton guests can enjoy phenomenal breakfast buffets at the Marriott’s Citron restaurant.

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e learn to count in first and second grade, but somehow this basic skill deserts many bridge players in the heat of battle.

West leads a low Heart and East (correctly) inserts the Jack. Two more Hearts are cashed, followed by a trump shift. “Rats!” mutters Declarer, who had been planning to cross-ruff the entire hand, scoring all nine trumps separately. Those ruffs, plus the ♦A, would be enough to fulfill the contract. But, after the trump return, the cross-ruff leaves Declarer a trick short, so it’s time for Plan B.

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Our Declarer’s (faulty) Plan B was to set up Dummy’s Diamonds. He won the trump return in hand, cashed the ♦A, then Club ruff, Diamond ruff, Club ruff, Diamond ruff. This line of play required good breaks (such as Spades 2-2 and Diamonds 3-3, or failing that the doubleton ♦K). But Declarer’s luck was out and, as the cards lie, it was impossible to enjoy those long Diamonds. Our second-graders need no luck, instead they’ll do some counting: N-S have 23 HCP, so the other guys have 17. In the Heart suit East showed up with five of those 17 missing HCP. West opened the bidding and surely has the remaining 12 HCP. Once Declarer realizes that West has the missing high cards (obviously including the ♣A and ♣Q), it’s routine to win the trump return in hand, and take ruffing finesses against West’s high Clubs. Declarer leads the ♣K which is covered by the Ace and ruffed. Back to hand with a trump. Then the ♣J is led, and run around if West declines to cover. When the dust has cleared, Declarer will have scored five trumps in his hand, plus two Club ruffs in Dummy, plus two Club tricks, and the ♦A. Ten easy tricks for the second-graders! Visit acbl.org for more about the fascinating game of bridge or email marketing@acbl.org. To find a bridge club in Florida, go to district9acbl.org/D9Clubsmap.htm. Bridge article provided courtesy of St. Petersburg Bridge Club: stpetebridge.org.

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“bad egg” is not necessarily a bad egg any more. Twenty years ago, we were told to avoid eggs if keeping our cholesterol in check was a health concern. Guess what? Read this statement: Recent nutritional data from USDA researchers indicates the yolk of a large egg contains 41 IU of Vitamin D which is 64 percent more than in 2002. Cholesterol is down 14 percent to 185 milligrams from a previous level of 220 milligrams.

Recipe It really does say that eggs have changed over the years. And here’s the latest from the 2010 Dietary Guidelines for Americans: Independent of other dietary factors, evidence suggests that one egg (i.e., egg yolk) per day does not result in increased blood cholesterol levels, nor does it increase the risk of cardiovascular disease in healthy people. Consuming less than

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Divide spinach evenly among four greased 6-oz. ramekins or custard cups. Press an indentation (about 2-inch diameter) into center of spinach with back of spoon. Break and slip an egg into each indentation. Top evenly with salsa, then cheese. Bake in 325°F oven until whites are completely set and yolks begin to thicken but are not hard, 20 to 25 minutes. From incredibleegg.com

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riendships forged at church seem to play a major role in people’s religious activities and beliefs—even when it comes to their views about how exclusive heaven is, according to a national study from Baylor University. “Although church-based friendship networks seem to bolster religiosity across the board, the effect of how enmeshed people are in congregational friendships is stronger on their religious behavior than on their beliefs. “This makes sense—church-goers may not necessarily chat about the finer points of theological beliefs, such as the existence of demons, but they do seem to talk about things like prayer requests or upcoming church events, things that

more directly lead to an effect on religious behavior,” said Samuel Stroope at Baylor. “Also, friends at church can see behavior. Beliefs are harder to monitor.” The study also found a weaker but consistent link between church friends and various religious beliefs. People with no friends at church held fewer supernatural beliefs than people who reported that some or more of their friends attended their church. Meanwhile, when it came to the view of the Bible, drawing a greater proportion of one’s friends from church was associated with increased odds of affirming that the Bible “should be taken literally, word for word on all subjects,” Stroope said. (Newswise) Mature Lifestyles • April 2012 • page 27

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