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A Time For New Beginnings
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t’s that time of year again: Start a new calendar and think about what we want to accomplish in a new year. Janice Doyle, For me, I’m going Editor to start by trying to lose a few pounds and slow down to more fully enjoy beautiful flowers. Dear Husband has worked hours and hours over the past two years we’ve been married creating a backyard full of beautiful plants. This picture is just one of the twelve colors of hibiscus now in bloom. And, because we also need to laugh, I want to share this poem again.
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The Month After Christmas T’was the month after Christmas, and all through the house, Nothing would fit me, not even a blouse; The cookies I’d nibbled, the eggnog I had to taste, At the holiday parties had gone to my waist; When I got on the scales there arose such a number! When I walked to the store (less a walk than a lumber), I’d remember the marvelous meals I’d prepared, The gravies and sauces and beef nicely rared; The wine and the rum balls; the bread and the cheese, And the way I’d never said, “No thank you, please.” As I dressed myself in my husband’s old shirt, And prepared once again to do battle with dirt, I said to myself, as only I can, “You can’t spend a winter disguised as a man!” So, away with the last of the sour cream dip. Get rid of the fruit cake, every cracker and chip. Every last bit of cheese that I like must be banished, ’Til all the additional ounces have vanished. I won’t have a cookie, not even a lick. I’ll want only to chew on a long celery stick. I won’t have hot biscuits, or corn bread, or pie, I’ll munch on a carrot and quietly cry. I’m hungry, I’m lonesome, and life is a bore, But isn’t that what January is for? Unable to giggle, no longer a riot. Happy New Year to all and to all a good diet!
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hrough 27 Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, drama by Tennessee Williams, performed at Laboratory Theater of Florida, 1634 Woodford, Fort Myers. $20 tickets. (239) 218-0481.
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hrough Feb. 16 Fiddler on the Roof musical production at Broadway Palm Dinner Theater, with songs like “Tradition,” “Matchmaker, Matchmaker” and “Sunrise, Sunset.” Tickets online or at (239) 278-4422.
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– 13 Rumors production by Cultural Park Theater, 528 Cultural Park Blvd., Cape Coral. $18 tickets. $16/seniors. Call (239) 772-5862
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and 6 Estero Fine Art Show at Miromar Outlets. Juried show. Info: (941) 755-3088 or info@hotworks.org.
Afternoon tea 2 to 4 p.m. 25 and Ghost Walks (reservations only) . Koreshan State Also Historic Site. Call (239) 992-0311 or visit floridastateparks.org.
Lee County Community Band toe-tapping concert. 3 p.m. Cape Coral High School, 2300 Santa Barbara Blvd., Cape Coral. Free; donations accepted. Band members are career musicians, amateurs and folks renewing skills from years past. Info: leecountyband.org or (239) 995-2097.
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Kayak Clinic—basic kayak and safety instruction plus paddle time. $40/equipment and lessons. GAEA Guides at Four-Mile Cove Ecological Park in Cape Coral. (239) 549-4606.
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Sunshine Blues Festival. Two stages; beer and barbecue vendor. Centennial Park, 2000 W. First St. $49.50 admission. Information online at sunshinebluesfestival.com.
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“Willie & Company” ventriloquist act by Peggy Miller. 7 p.m. $12. Tara Woods, 19376 U.S. Hwy. 41 N., North Fort Myers. For more info, call Polly at (239) 731-0311.
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“New Technology For You” class at South County Library. Look at and learn about new devices and what and how to buy. 9:45 a.m. Register online at leelibrary.net/ services/programs. (239) 479-4636.
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– 13 and 19 – 20 Medieval Faire by Riverdale Kiwanis Club at Lakes Regional Park. Entertainment, jousting by new Riders of the Golden Age, street entertainers, arts and crafts, Medieval clothing and weapons, food and beverages for purchase. $15 admission. 9 a.m. to 6 p.m. (239) 839-8036.
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Rotino Roadshow—Antique and Collectibles Fair. Appraisals for $5 per item appraised. 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. At Rotino Center, Yacht Club Community Park. Call (239) 574-0807 for information.
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“More Than a Trifling Affair: The Archeology of the Civil War in Southwest Florida” program by the Florida Public Archaeology Network at North Fort Myers Library. 2 to 3 p.m. (239) 533-4320 for information. PugFest, Cirque du Pug, a fundraiser for the Library System Reading Festival (in March). Admission free;$5 donation/family suggested. Noon to 4 p.m. at Bell Tower Shops, Corner U.S. 41 and Daniels Pkwy, Fort Myers. Information at (239) 337-READ (7323) or readingfestival@leegov.com.
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Gulf Coast Symphony Orchestra plays Hollywood Hits. 7 p.m. $42 and up. Call (239) 277-1700.
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A Few Defining Moments From
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he first disco opened in the Whisky A Go-Go night club in Los Angeles.
The first inductees into the Pro Football Hall of Fame were announced. Travel, financial and commercial transactions by U.S. citizens to Cuba were made illegal NASA’s Mercury program, which put men in space, was completed with the June launch of Mercury 9. Bob Dylan released “Blowin’ in the Wind.”
other things. He delivered his “I Have a Dream” speech on the National Mall, putting civil rights at the top of the political agenda. In August, James Meredith became the first black person to graduate from the University of Mississippi.
In September, CBS Evening news began the first half-hour weeknight news broadcasts.
In Britain, the Beatles recorded “Twist and Shout” and “I Want to Hold Your Hand.”
Flight A members, Mercury Program
The “red telephone” was established between the Soviet Union and the U.S. in June.
LSD was taken for the first time in July, opening the way for the drug culture yet to come.
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
In August, Martin Luther King led a March on Washington, demanding a law prohibiting racial discrimination in unemployment and a $2 per hour minimum wage for all workers among Lifestyles After 50 • January 2013 • page 6
Studebaker ceased production in South Bend.
And finally, the Motor Trend’s Car of the Year choice was the American Motors (AMC) Rambler.
Cost of Living
President John F. Kennedy
of president. It was a difficult time to become president with the mounting troubles in Vietnam where the Viet Cong Guerrillas had killed 80 American Advisers and in the U.S. The continued campaign for civil rights by the black community caused violent reactions from whites including Mississippi, Virginia and Alabama where the black civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr. was arrested.
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1963 was the first year for: • touch tone phones • zip codes • lava lamps • tape cassettes • pull tab cans for sodas
• Yearly Inflation Rate: 1.24% • Year End Close Dow Jones Industrial Average: 762 • Average Cost of new house: $12,650. • Average Income per year: $5,807. • Gas per Gallon: 29 cents • Average Cost of a new car: $3,233. • Loaf of bread: 22 cents • Bedroom Air Conditioner: $149.95
Popular Culture This was the year State Mutual Life Insurance invented the Smiley Face that was soon found on anything and everything around the world.
Popular Musicians • Roy Orbison • Buddy Holly • The Drifters • Jim Reeves Popular TV Programs • The Virginian • Lassie • The Andy Griffith Show • The Flintstones • Mister Ed • The Avengers • The Dick Van Dyke Show Popular Films • The Birds • Cleopatra • The Longest Day • Lawrence of Arabia • Mutiny on the Bounty • To Kill a Mockingbird
News The biggest news from 1963 was the assassination of the U.S. President Kennedy on November 22. This thrust Lyndon Johnson into the role
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Can Seniors Be Safe Drivers? I t’s an ongoing question—can seniors be safe drivers? The answer varies from one person to the next. Here are 8 tips that could save your life: For most Americans, driving is such a regular part of everyday life that we don’t think twice about slipping behind the wheel. Years in the driver’s seat give us a lot of valuable experience, but there’s a downside, too: As we age, our risk of getting in car accidents goes up. Road safety analysts predict that by 2030 when the last of the baby boomers has turned 65, seniors will be responsible for 25 percent of fatal car crashes. Here’s what you can do to stay safe: Listen to your body. Aches and pains can impair your driving ability, but sometimes you can mitigate them with simple adjustments. Do your hands ache from gripping the steering wheel? Try a padded steering wheeel cover. Does you back hurt during longer trips? Get an orthopedic seat cushion. Test your eyes and ears. Today, 6.5 million Americans over age 65 suffer from severe vision loss, according to the CDC. Any changes to vision and hearing can make driving dangerous. Visit your doctor for regular check-ups to make sure your eyes and ears are in tip-top shape. Consider a new car. Many older adults find that a vehicle with large mirrors and dashboard gauges, and that is easy to get in and out of, makes driving a lot more comfortable. Check out carfit.com, a service offered by AAA that tests your vehicle to find out if it’s ideal for you. Stay physically active. Regular exercise can help keep your body performing well behind the wheel. Try yoga to improve your flexibility and sterengthen your core for comfortable long drives and light weight lifting to keep your arms from getting tired.
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STIR UP SOME SUPER BOWL FUN W
hen it’s Super Bowl time— or any party, for that matter —you can stir up some fun with easy-to-make appetizers that are sure to please the whole crowd. These four recipes are a breeze to make and all share one simple secret ingredient—Musselman’s Apple Butter. Here are some delicious ideas for turning these dips and sauces into great party appetizers.
Recipe Quick and Easy BBQ Sauce
Makes: 6 to 8 servings
1 cup Musselman’s Apple Butter 1 cup chili sauce
Mix ingredients. Brush on chicken wings or shrimp during the last few minutes of grilling. It is simple to make BBQ pulled pork, as well as the sauce for a crockpot of meatballs or bacon-wrapped smoked sausages.
Apple Butter Mustard Dip
Kickin’ Horseradish Sandwich Spread
Caramel Apple Dip
1 cup Musselman’s Apple Butter 1/2 cup Dijon mustard
1 cup Musselman’s Apple Butter Creamy horseradish sauce depending on spice level (1/4 cup for light, 1/2 cup for mild, 1 cup for hot)
1 cup Musselman’s Apple Butter 1/2 cup caramel sauce
Makes: 6 to 8 servings
Mix ingredients. Delicious with just hard or soft pretzels. Set out a plate of cheese cubes or mini egg rolls for dipping, and you have easy snacking.
Makes: 6 to 8 servings
Mix apple butter with desired amount of horseradish. This tastes great with roast beef, chicken, or pork—try mini sandwich sliders or pinwheel wraps. Another great idea is to use the spread as a dip for chicken tenders, sweet potato fries or even veggie chips.
Makes: 6 to 8 servings
Mix ingredients. Set a dish of this warm dip on a pretty tray and surround it with freshly sliced apples or pears, and simple gingersnap cookies. For a family fun dessert, dip marshmallows and then roll them in chopped nuts. For more ways to stir up some fun at your party, visit www.musselmans.com. (Family Features)
The Ultimate Burger Super Bowl: Fun Facts
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urger toppings are like football teams—everybody has their favorites, and they swear by ‘em. You could do it Philly-style with melted cheese, onions and green peppers; Chicagostyle with fresh relish and spicy slaw; or throw some barbeque sauce and fried onions on top, Texas-style. Swiss and mushrooms, bleu cheese and cajun spices, even mac and cheese—burger toppings abound; but the secret to the ultimate burger is a juicy, flavorful patty. This recipe for the ultimate patty comes from Kittencal at Food.com: Lifestyles After 50 • January 2013 • page 8
Kittencal’s Juicy Hamburger 2 lbs ground beef 1 egg, slightly beaten 1 ounce envelope dry onion soup mix (can use the whole package if desired) 2 tablespoons fresh minced garlic (or use 1 teaspoon garlic powder) 1/4 cup dry breadcrumbs (or crushed soda cracker crumbs, more if needed) (optional) 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce 1 teaspoon fresh ground black pepper 1 -2 tablespoon Frank’s red hot sauce (or 1-2 teaspoons crushed chili flakes, or can adjust to heat level) (optional) Directions: 1. In a bowl, crumble the ground beef with clean hands. Add in the dry soup mix, egg, garlic, breadcrumbs or crushed soda cracker crumbs, Worcestershire sauce, black pepper and hot sauce (if using).
2. Mix until combined, adding breadcrumbs or cracker crumbs as needed to hold the mixture together (do not overwork the meat or it will be tough). 3. Divide the ground beef into 6 equal patties (or make 8 small patties).
4. Using your large finger or the back of a small spoon, make a shallow dent into the center of each patty (about 1-inch wide).
5. Place the patties onto a large plate or a small cookie sheet; cover with plastic wrap and refrigerate for a minimum of 6 – 24 hours to blend flavors. 6. Grill or pan fry the burgers until cooked through (if desired, sprinkle a small amount of seasoned salt on top while cooking the patties). Serve on toasted buns with choice of condiments.
7. For extra juiciness; shape the hamburger into a ball. Press 1 tablespoon cold butter into the middle and seal the meat around the ball, then flatten into patties.
The first Super Bowl was held in Memorial Coliseum in Los Angeles on Jan. 15, 1967. The Green Bay Packers beat the Kansas City Chiefs, 35 – 10. Super Bowl Sunday is the second biggest day of the year for food consumption in the US. Thanksgiving is first. Every year, more than 700,000 footballs are made for official NFL use. 72 of them are set aside for use during the Super Bowl. Which NFL team has played in the most Super Bowls? The Pittsburgh Steelers and Dallas Cowboys have each played in 8 of them. The Steelers have won six of those games (also a Super Bowl record). The Cowboys have a 5 – 3 record. The Super Bowl is the second most watched sporting event in the world. The first is soccer’s Champions League Final. (From internet sources)
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hursdayx “Ingroov” Big Band Music. 2 – 4 p.m. $3 admission. Caribbean Lunch. 11 a.m. – 1:30 p.m. $13. Jerk Chicken, Roast Pork, Coconut Rice, Mango Salad and more.
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Bedtime Bingo. Party in your pajamas! Up to 2,450 in prizes Dinner included. $35. 4:30 p.m..
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“Greg and the Groovemakers” music and dancing, $10, 7 – 10 p.m. All events at Cultural Center of Charlotte County, 2280 Aaron Street, Port Charlotte. Tickets, times and info: (941) 625-4175.
FEATURED EVENTS • Post Holiday Weight Loss Challenge, Jan. 7 – Apr. 10. A 12-week challenge for two-person teams. $30 per person includes: opening weigh-in dinner party and program on Jan. 7; free week at the fitness salon; weekly weigh-ins, awards reception at the end of the challenge. Top three teams with the highest percent of weight loss will split half the money raised. Register at Charlotte Cultural Center Fitness Salon, 2280 Aaron St., Port Charlotte. (941) 625-4175 ext. 263.
CC Jazz Society presents Arnie Krakowsky with Amanda Carr at The Culture Center of Charlotte County, 2280 Aaron St., Port Charlotte starting at 7 p.m. To learn more. call (941) 766-9422 or visit www.ccjazz.org.
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• R.S.V.P. (Retired & Senior Volunteer Program): (941) 613-2299. • Meals on Wheels/Friendship Cafe Dining Sites: (941) 255-0723. • Elder Helpline of Southwest Florida: 1-800-398-4233.
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Senior Centers and Resources
Charlotte Symphony Orchestra Jazz Ensemble and Taste of the Village, 6 – 8 p.m. Music and Dancing in Center court along with the “flavors” of the Village Eateries! (941) 575-3067.
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Jazz Jam Session Sponsored by the CC Jazz Society. Join in or just listen at the Port Charlotte Golf Club, 22400 Gleneagles Terrace, Port Charlotte. For info, call (941) 766-9422 or visit their website at www.ccjazz.org.
• Let’s Go Fishing! Weds. evenings beginning Jan. 9, 7 – 9 p.m. A six week introductory course in Florida Fishing for beginning anglers. Topics include fishing techniques, tackle selection, rigging, lures, cast nets, fish identification, regulations and more. Register by calling (941) 637-1655.
Fishermen’s Village Fine Arts & Crafts show, 10 a.m. – 8 p.m. Info: (352) 344-0657.
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Home, Health & Wealth Showcase, 10 a.m. – 6 p.m. Meet with leaders in the industry for personal estate planning, wellness and home repair/beautification. Fishermen’s Village is on the waterfront in Punta Gorda. Call (941) 575-3007 for details.
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ith the war in Afghanistan set to end in 2014, and the Iraq war having ended two years ago, charities that help veterans and their families may be busier than ever— but without the public awareness generated by an ongoing conflict. Support for the war effort in Afghanistan is on par with the unpopular Vietnam War during the early 1970s, according to a recent Associated Press-GfK poll; only 27 percent of Americans support the effort in Afghanistan. A fundamental difference between then and now, however, is Americans’ nearly unanimous support of U.S. troops, says J. L. Narmi, author of SEAL Team 6, bin Laden and Beyond. “The vitriol expressed toward our Vietnam veterans by many was disgusting, but I think we learned from that injustice, and most Americans think the troops deserve much more support than they’re getting,” says Narmi, who comes from a military family. All proceeds from his book sales will go to support veterans’ charities. “The problem is that funding, whether it’s through government or private charities, doesn’t match the expressed support,” he says. “And I worry that will only get worse as these soldiers move out of the public eye and try to take up peace-time lives.” Narmi cites some good resources for Americans looking for quality charities that support the troops: • The Wounded Warrior Project (woundedwarriorproject.org): With advances in protective gear and life-saving medical technology, fewer troops are coming home in coffins than in previous wars, but more are coming back with lifelong injury. This charity seeks to foster a generation of well-adjusted
wounded service members, and to raise public awareness about their needs and how fellow military men and women can help each other.
• The Navy SEAL Foundation (navyseal foundation.org): As detailed in Narmi’s novel, SEALs are among the most physically and mentally talented individuals in the world. But they, along with their families, endure enormous stressors, many of which are never discussed due to the nature of their duties. This charity supports these elite warriors and their families. • Charity Navigator (charitynavigator.org): Whether or not you think you know about the legitimacy of a charitable organization, it doesn’t hurt to take a few minutes to verify an organization’s status. This site is widely recognized by investigative reporters to be a reliable resource in reporting a nonprofit’s activity. The above two groups, in which Narmi has donated money, have been verified via Charity Navigator.
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Exercise increases the contractions of the wall of the intestine, helping to move things along through the intestinal tract more easily and decreasing the time it takes to pass through the large intestine. Dr. Harry advises waiting an hour or two after eating before exerting yourself since exercising too soon after a meal can divert blood flow away from the gut and toward the muscles, weakening peristaltic contractions (and slowing down the digestion process). Dr. Harry includes the usual caveat for exercising: Talk to your doctor and do not overdo exercising or you won’t see all of these benefits. And research shows that asking a friend to join you in an exercise program increases socialization, a key factor in overall wellbeing and feelings of optimism.
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Medication and Nutrition – Are vitamins and medications administered as prescribed? Are special dietary needs being managed? Do they regularly receive fresh, nutritious meals.
Household Safety – Are the home and yard clean and well-maintained? Are handrails needed in the bathroom? Smoke alarms and security systems working properly? Is the loved one protected from phone or door-to-door fraud? Social Life – Are they engaged with senior centers or church and communicating with friends and family? Financial Affairs – Are insurance policies, bank accounts, and routine bills being managed properly?
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2. Get those stressful thoughts out of your head and say YES to requests for support. Set a 5 – 10 minute time block at least once per week to deal with your stress. Make a list of all the issues rolling through your mind. Put
the items on paper and make plans to address them. When a friend or family member asks how they can help, be prepared with this list of tasks that others can perform to lighten your load. 3. Schedule regular breaks. Seek assistance from friends, relatives or volunteers so you take a class, go to the gym, go on a date with your partner or enjoy other fun recreational activities.
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Proactive Care Helps Prevent Diabetic Retinopathy
People with diabetes increase their chances of lifelong good vision when they control their blood glucose and see a Retina Specialist regularly. For the past 27 years, Dorothy Parkinson has maintained a disciplined approach to her diabetic condition. “By taking good care of myself, I help prevent my diabetic retinopathy from getting worse, she says. Dr. Sunil Malkani, Retina Specialist, explains retinopathy “as a condition that damages the tiny blood vessels in the back of the eye that nourish the retina. This tissue is responsible for capturing light and relaying information to your brain.” Dorothy describes this condition as having spots in your vision that are blurry. “It’s like looking through a windshield with water spots that never go away.” Adds Dr. Malkani, “An eye exam is often the only way to diagnose changes in the vessels of your eyes,” That is why regular exams are extremely important.
Frequently Asked Questions About Diabetes and Eye Disease Q. What is diabetic retinopathy? A."Diabetic retinopathy is a condition in which high blood sugar causes a weakening of the blood vessels that supply the retina,” explains Sunil M. Malkani, M.D., Retina Specialist. This weakening causes the blood vessels to swell and form balloon-like sacs that may leak or hemorrhage. Q. What are the warning signs? A. Diabetic retinopathy is usually silent, however some people experience: • Blurred vision • Vision that worsens, improves, and then worsens again • Sudden loss of vision, • Seeing "cobwebs" or "spots" Q. How is diabetic retinopathy treated? A. Laser surgery may be used to seal leaking vessels. If the vitreous is clouded with blood, a vitrectomy must be performed whereby the clouded or diseased vitreous is removed and replaced with a clear artificial solution. Sometimes painless injections are also needed to treat the abnormal vessels in the retina.
Sunil M. Malkani M.D., a fellowship trained retina specialist, treats patients at Malkani Retina Center with three locations throughout Southwest Florida. During your appointment, he will take into consideration your age, medical history, lifestyle and overall retinal health so he can provide you with the best possible treatment options. Dr. Malkani, a renowned vitreoretinal specialist, is a graduate of Wake Forest School of Medicine and a former Assistant Professor of Ophthalmology at the University of Florida. His surgical expertise includes treating Diabetic Retinopathy, Macular Degeneration, Retinal Detachments, Macular Holes, Epiretinal Membranes and other diseases of the retina. He is currently involved in Macular Degeneration and Diabetic Retinopathy Research and has had his work published in many Sunil M. Malkani, M.D. ophthalmic journals and presented at the American Academy of Vitreoretinal Diseases & Surgery. Ophthalmology as well as other national conferences. Malkani Retina Center’s Fort Myers’ office is located at 9201 Cypress Lake Drive. Their Naples office is at 875 105th Avenue North and the Punta Gorda office is located at 2825 Tamiami Trail, Building B, Suite #1. For additional information or to schedule an appointment, please call (239) 324-4888 (Lee and Collier Counties) or (941) 404-4606 (Charlotte County), or visit them online at www.mrcmd.com. Lifestyles After 50 • January 2013 • page 19
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loridians shopping at their neighborhood Publix grocery store are aware of the diversity of ages in the employees. “Not many folks can say that they have four different generations working with and for them,” says Shannon Patten, Media & Community Relations Manager at Publix headquarters in Lakeland. “We hire associates as young as 14 years of age and our eldest, active associate is 96 years young.” She continues, “We find that mature workers come to Publix looking for a second career at a place where they can interact and give back to their communities. Our associates, regardless of age, recognize our family-oriented values and find our track record appealing—in our 82 year history, we’ve never had a lay-off.”
That is not true in many companies today, even though 75 percent of Americans 50 and older expect to work well into the traditional period of retirement—many because they must, and others by choice. Not every company is able to adapt its workplace and job descriptions to accommodate older workers like Publix can. Frank McVay, a registered nurse with WellStar Health Systems in Marrietta, Georgia, thought he would work into his seventies. Nursing, his second career, was his dream. Injured on the job four years ago, Frank called it quits last year when 12-hour shifts and lifting and moving heavy patients became too much. “I just couldn’t keep up with the demands of the job,” he says. He was 58 years old. His story proves nothing is easy. Despite expectations, people continue to retire early—at age 64 for men; 62 for women. For occupations involving work that is physically demanding and mentally taxing, it’s
even earlier. Most nurses, for example, retire at age 55, fully 40 percent of them for health reasons. Karen Mathews, the Director of Work Life Services for WellStar’s 12,000 employees, says she sees too many Franks: “Some of our best people are aging out of the jobs we rely on for quality service.” WellStar’s nurses average 42 years of age, and that’s a big group heading into retirement at the same time that an aging population will increase demand for health services. According to Spiva, the company estimates that replacing an experienced nurse costs between $75,000 and $100,000. “So yes,” she says, “we’d like to hang on to the older worker.” What companies do Harley-Davidson has a gym at its Menomonee Falls, Wis., factory where workers get exercise routines tailored to their jobs. The company also has trainers ready to ice down inflammations between shifts at one of its engine plants.
To avoid the early retirement of key workers, some employers have redesigned work areas to minimize kneeling or awkward twisting of muscles and joints. Others have gone even further. Duke Energy Corp. offers a special stretching program for its line technicians (people who make repairs on power lines) before they start a shift. That’s a skill requiring about eight years of training. And right now, the average age of line technicians at Duke Energy is 50 to 55. Shannon Patton of Publix cites camaraderie, stability and great benefits for having over 25 percent of their workforce composed of associates 50 and over (of 153,500 associates).
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Yellowstone “Lodging & Learning” The Yellowstone Association Institute (YAI) offers five “Lodging and Learning” sessions in the winter. Sponsored in part by the Yellowstone National Park Lodges and Xanterra Parks & Resorts (the managing company of park lodging, restaurants and activities), vacation packages offer accommodations in either Old Faithful Snow Lodge or Mammoth Hot Springs Hotel. Rick Hoeninghausen, a director for the program, says, “Our wildlife viewing, cross-country skiing and geology all stand alone as worldclass, but combined they create an unparalleled experience.” Each program includes accommodations, some meals and a “Snow Card” good for 10 percent off meals, in-park transportation, tours, ski shop services and most retail items. Some Lodging & Learning package components vary based on location. Choose from the following:
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Money DOES Grow On Trees I f you’re wondering about adding some landscaping to your property this winter, consider these facts, because it’s possible that money really DOES grow on trees. Landscaping can add between 7 and 15 percent to a home’s value. Mature trees can bring a recovery value of 100 to 200 percent at selling time. (Kitchen remodeling brings a 75 to 125 percent recovery rate, bathroom remodeling a 20 to 120 percent recovery rate, and the addition of a swimming pool a 20 to 50 percent recovery rate.) Landscaping can reduce temperatures by as much as 9 degrees Fahrenheit and can lower air conditioning costs by up to 50 percent by shading the windows and wall of a home. Trees can reduce bothersome noise by up to 50 percent and can mask unwanted noises with pleasant sounds. How much does landscaping add if you’re planning to sell your house? • Manicured, fancy gardens which will require time and money to tend usually won’t add to the offering price. (Landscaping like that is for your own enjoyment.) It may be a $40,000 investment, but it won’t add $40,000 to the value of your house. The same goes for expensive fences and stone walls. They look nice, but buyers don’t pay up for them. • A house with no landscaping is unappealing. Conversely, you don’t have to spend a fortune on plants, either. Just keep it “typical with the neighborhood” say realtors.
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erhaps East should have tried 5♦ over 4♠; that would be a cheap sacrifice if 4♠ is making. Instead, she guesses to defend and must find a nice defensive play if she is to justify her shyness in the bidding. You are that shy East, so try looking at only the N-E hands. West leads the ♦K, won by Declarer’s Ace. A Diamond is ruffed in Dummy, followed by a Spade to Declarer’s Ace. Then a Club to Dummy’s Jack and your Queen. What next? At this point, you cannot play a Club or a Diamond without blowing a trick, so you must shift to a Heart. Which Heart? It seems routine to play a low Heart, but let’s stop and think.
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If Declarer has the ♥K it won’t matter what you do, so let’s assume that West has the King. If West has the ♥J to go along with that King, then you can shift to any old Heart; again, it won’t matter. So the case to worry about is the one you see looking at all four hands. Look what happens if you shift to a low Heart. Dummy plays low, West must play the King, losing to the Ace. That’s only one Heart loser for Declarer. The required shift is the Heart Ten! Your Ten and Eight have Dummy’s Nine “surrounded” and that’s what makes the surprising shift to the Ten the winning play. The Ten is covered by the Jack, King and Ace, after which East’s Q8 sits over Dummy’s 92, providing two Heart tricks for the defense. Surrounding plays don’t happen every day, and are easy to miss in the heat of battle. But now that you are an expert on the subject you will no doubt spot this one right away:
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