Mature Lifestyles Southwest July. 2011 by Lifestyles After 50 Magazine

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Marilyn Monroe Tells Her Story BY TRACIE SCHMIDT

ears ago, she serenaded the President; now it’s her turn. Marilyn Monroe—actress, singer, model—would have celebrated her 85th birthday last month. While the pop-culture icon quickly rose to fame and spent most of her adult life in the limelight, her personal life was very different from her screen persona. Affected by a troubled childhood, she yearned to be accepted for who she was. The events that led up to her untimely death at 36—suicide or accidental overdose—are still a mystery. But if she could come back for one more night, what would she say to her audience? Marilyn: Forever Blonde is an award-winning one-woman play that gives Monroe the chance to tell her story in her own words. Actress Sunny Thompson takes on the role, and with music and quotes from the

actress’ life, brings the As an acting project it star back for an intimate interested Thompson, but evening on stage. she was hesitant to play the “It’s a real rollercoaster role herself. “What woman ride,” says Thompson, in her right mind would “There’s comedy, little want to be compared with serious observations, Marilyn Monroe!” she said. poignant things, ‘aha’ Nonetheless, her performoments—the whole mance and her uncanny thing is really a gift for resemblance to the famous an actress to play.” actress made her a shoo-in for Sunny Thompson’s the part. I asked her what it first experience with took to prepare for the role. Monroe was seeing “I spent 14 months in her movies as a child. research,” she said. “Every “I loved all musicals, person that comes up in the not just Marilyn’s— play—Joe DiMaggio, for Actress Sunny Thompson there was Fred Astaire, example—you have to know as Marilyn Monroe. Ginger Rogers—all of your relationship to them.” those I loved, and that was my first All of Monroe’s mannerisms, from the experience with her,” she remembered. way she walked and spoke to the way Thompson was a singer and dancer she dressed and did her makeup—had in Las Vegas when her husband came to be spot-on. Thompson even sought to her with the script for the show, coaching by Jimmy James, a famous asking her to read a few scenes. Monroe impersonator from New York.

Taking on the personality of Monroe was another challenge. “She went from high to low in a second. She’d say something like, ‘Gosh, it’s wonderful isn’t it?’ then, “Life’s just a chore.” She’d go from zero to 90 just like that—and you see it in her movies and in her acting,” Thompson said. Thompson revealed two sides to Monroe; she was terrified of fame, but at the same time, believed that if she could become the most famous woman in the world, she could have the love and affection that she so craved. I asked Thompson what struck her most about the actress. “How terribly funny she was,” she replied. “She could be depressed, but she always saw the bright side of things. Very much so—and she needed to laugh—it was a survival thing for her.” Marilyn: Forever Blonde is playing at the Asolo Theatre in Sarasota through July 10. For tickets or more information, call (941) 351-9010.

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Zip-a-Dee-Doo-Dah-ing Over Gators and Crocs

watched assistants strap David in and do their safety check. I heard “Just take two or three steps and sit down.” hen the grandkids Imagine the scene. He was come, it may be standing harnessed and attached time for you to clip in and to the cable at the top of a ten-foot “zip” off with them on the square bright green platform which all-new Screamin’ Gator Zip Line at Gatorland in Janice Doyle, was tilted at a 30 degree angle. Editor Across the lower edge of said tilted Kissimmee. Even without platform there was nothing but air grandkids, zipping along at 25 miles and tree tops. Without a backward per hour through tree tops sounds look, he took two steps, sat down pretty cool. Or . . . downright stupid? I’m not one to miss a new adventure, in his harness and . . . off he went. Then I was at the top of the green so off my husband David and I went. tilted platform being safety inspected With tree tops and gators and big by Josh as he hooked my own harness crocodiles below, we did indeed straps and carabiners to the pulley. zip line 1,200 feet between towers I said to myself, “They wouldn’t which stand several stories tall. let you up here if wasn’t safe.” Zip lines owners take perfectly good “Take two steps and sit down,” money from people willing to be Josh said. I couldn’t retreat—going thrust off into thin air. That’s the economics. Here’s the physics: You move back down the steps would be too hard on my knees. So, two steps forward by gravity while wearing a down a platform with nothing to stop harness that is attached by belts and a me and I sat down in the harness. pulley to steel cables strung between It was awesome! I soared over tree towers. But it’s way more than an tops to Tower Two. Next I zipped economics and physics lesson!! over a pool where 30 gators sunned I first smelled trouble when we themselves. Then it was on to “de climbed several flights of wooden Nile” over gigantic African crocodiles. stairs to get to the top of the tower The highest and longest section of for launching. The second clue to cable traverses Gatorland’s breeding the truth of the situation was when I

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Patriotic Duo Brings Betsy Ross and Ben Franklin Back To Life BY BILL STOKES

merican heroes Benjamin Franklin and Betsy Ross never lived together, but their present-day impersonators do. Tavares residents Jeffry Gay and his wife, Connie, met at a high school drama festival in Massachusetts, again the next year at Salem College in Massachusetts and married six years later. They moved to Central Florida and their signature show, MurderWatch Mystery Theatre, was produced at Walt Disney World for 20 years. The couple’s business, Dreamland Productions, is a traveling theatrical troupe that interacts with dinner theatre or various group audiences far and wide. Several years ago, Jeffry looked at himself in the bathroom mirror and exclaimed in horror, “God, I’m getting old! I look like Benjamin Franklin!“ Voila—the character was born! Now, Jeffry transforms himself in one-man performances into the printer, inventor and statesman. His wife, Connie, produces “Tea with Betsy Ross” in her own solo program as the legendary flag maker. She runs music and sound effects for Jeff’s appearances; he is at the board when Connie is the performer. In a matinee enjoyed recently at Lakes of Leesburg, B. Franklin circulated among his audience of 100 residents, chronicling his life, family, friends and enemies made throughout his 84 years. Humor, drama and poignancy unquestionably brought Jeffry’s rendition of B. Franklin’s humanity home to his audience. Perhaps best known for his experiments with the nature of electricity, B. Franklin also invented swim fins, medical catheters and, in 1736, organized Philadelphia’s first volunteer fire department. Franklin also invented a more heat-efficient Mature Lifestyles • July 2011 • page 6

stove (named after him) and because he felt it would help improve society, refused to accept a patent. Moreover, he promoted environmental improvements and published – Born Boston, Jan. 17, 1706. “Poor Richard’s – At 12, apprenticed in brother’s Almanac” under printing shop. an assumed name. – Wrote first article for brother’s newspaper, Mr. Franklin signed it “Mistress Silence Dogwood.” served in such au– Opens own printing shop in Philadelphia. gust political bodies – Married Deborah Read; starts “fire insurance” program. as the Second Con– Writes and publishes “Poor Richard’s Almanac.” tinental Congress. – Invents Franklin stove which works better He was ambassador than fireplaces to heat homes. to France, helped – Begins experiments with electricity. Invents lightning draft the Declaration of Independence and rod to protect homes from catching fire. was one of its signers. In 1790, only two – Becomes postmaster for all 13 colonies. Invents months before his death, he wrote a treaodometer to measure distance between routes. tise advocating the abolition of slavery. – Helps write the Declaration of Independence. Jeffry Gay as Jeff as Ben Franklin scattered laugh- Invents bifocals. Ben Franklin provoking zingers throughout his talk, – Helps write the U.S. Constitution. (above) and notably in his explanation of inventing Connie Gay – Dies at 84; over 20,000 bifocal eyeglasses: “I was enjoying a as Betsy Ross people attend his funeral. book during a voyage to England. My (bottom right). Source: AAA Going Places mission was to represent Pennsylvania /March-April in its fight with descendants of the Penn Connie confesses family over who should represent the Colony. I found I couldn’t see the horizon she cries at points during her interpretation of Betsy Ross, without changing my spectacles. Think“and,” she said, “some of my audience sheds ing it would be easier to have two-lens eyeglasses—one for distance and another a tear, too.” Such is the degree to which this couple’s audiences become involved. for near sight—I invented bifocals.” Jeff MurderWatch Mystery Theatre is a crowd asked for a show of hands from those wearing his innovation. Many hands went pleaser after 20 years, in which group or dinner theatre audiences are ensnared in up. “Ben” quipped, “You’re welcome!” a staged whodunit and follow clues to find the “real” perpetrator. All Dreamland The Rebirth Of Betsy Ross Productions’ shows are scripted, but are Connie Gay continues: “Our clients open enough for performers to ad-lib an began requesting another character to aside with the audience or to take advantage complement Jeff’s Ben Franklin. A close of an unexpected situation. Since all friend of mine had, years ago, taught me productions are enhanced by music, sound to cut a five-pointed star from folded effects and props, set-up takes several hours paper, so Betsy Ross seemed a natural.” for a one-hour show. Props are originals She has two versions of her oneor replicates the couple has acquired hour show: One with full sound and through the years of perfecting their arts. projected photographs, and another A telephone call to (352) 508-5523 or a visit online to www.murderwatch. more intimate presentation featuring com will bring an envelope of informative, colorful brochures explaining the a full service afternoon tea party. She wide scope of Dreamland Productions’ interactive offerings. All their shows enjoys the latter because it allows her are available for hire by communities, clubs, restaurants and hotels. (WSS) more interaction with her audiences.

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Veterans Corner

Veterans Conquer a Mountain at All Ages BY JORDAN SCHUPBACH

or 25 years, the National Disabled Veterans Winter Sport Clinic has been helping Veterans find adventure in the mountains of Colorado. And for 25 years, Florida resident Clinton Hale has experienced it. Hale, 62, has been a participant in the Winter Sports Clinic every year since its inception in 1987. “Early on it was just a few of us…maybe 50. Now, it’s huge!” he says. Hale makes the journey to Snowmass from Florida each year, eagerly waiting his turn to hit the slopes. He’s learned a lot during his various Clinics, like the wisdom of waiting inside where it’s warm instead of standing in line in the snow for his gear. When it comes to ski equipment, he prefers the monoski because “it looks cool,” but for him, the trip to the mountains each year isn’t just about the skiing. “When I come here, I make it a goal to impart some of the lessons I learned in life to some of the new guys,” he says. “And I learn from them, too. They know things that I’m still trying to figure out.” He certainly has some life lessons to offer. Hale entered the Air Force as a Combat Controller in 1966, and in 1983, he injured his back while on a training exercise. “Life has inherent risks. You just deal with them as they come.” At an event with participants whose military service spans from World War II to the current conflicts in Iraq and Afghanistan, “new guys” doesn’t just mean “young guys” at the Winter Sports Clinic. One first-timer is Frank Kozel, an 88 year-old WWII Veteran. Kozel, who was injured on a reconnaissance mission during the War, made the trip from Cleveland. Some might

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Tin Can Sailors Get the Crew Back Together BY TRACIE SCHMIDT

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nce you’re in there and you’re operating them, they’re all called ‘tin cans.’ I remember a lot of cartoons that had a sailor riding a tin can like he’s riding a bronco,” retired Navy veteran Bob Schwartz joked. The ‘tin cans’ are U.S. Navy destroyers— heavily armed and armored warships that were used to defend carrier ships during World War II and other military operations. “You usually had four destroyers— tin cans—around a carrier, battleship or cruiser for protection. Our job was to take the torpedoes so they wouldn’t hit the carrier ships, which were full of men, women and supplies.” Schwartz explained. “That was our function— rescue and running interference so the big ships wouldn’t get damaged.”

He had a chance to see a lot of the world and meet new comrades in service. 53 years later, Schwartz and three of his friends decided to start the “Tin Can Sailors” group to bring other veterans together. “I have about 80 members now,” Schwartz said. “I started it to see how many WWII, Korea and Vietnam veterans we had Bob Schwartz (at the podium) with General Wisecup and the Tin Can Sailors. out there. A lot of these guys, all retired, served 21 to 28 years. I Schwartz was a diesel engineer on a was on board with one guy, Joe tin can during the latter part of World Rex—we hadn’t seen each other for War II, and while he was fortunate 50 years.” The two of them now run a enough not to be caught in the heavy poker game at their monthly meetings. fighting, he provided rescue for A typical meeting usually involves a downed pilots at sea via whaleboat and speaker, lunch and a card game or two, took ships into foreign ports for repair. but mostly it’s an excuse to get the “I joined the Navy at 16 years old, crew back together for a few tall tales. got out in 1950, and then I did four “We usually have a bull session more years of Reserve. I’ve been in where we tell sea stories and lie the Pacific, through the Canal and and all that,” he laughed. “We into Norfolk, and at the island of were a very tight group. I don’t Vieques on mock invasions and so care where you go, if a guy was on forth,” Schwartz described his travels. a tin can, we would melt and gel

together. We were rough riders on the high seas, let me tell you.” Every now and then a high-ranking U.S. Naval officer will make an appearance as a guest speaker— Schwartz and the other Tin Can Sailors invite the public in to share their stories. Funds raised from these meetings have been donated by the group to children’s charities. Schwartz says that the group is planning visits from speakers like Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff – Admiral Mullen, and Chief of Naval Operations – Admiral Roughead, in the near future. “Anybody that’s been in the Navy, on tin cans, DDS or DES, we welcome them as well as anybody who just wants to come in for a meeting and see what we’re doing,” Schwartz said. Monthly meetings are held at the American Legion Post 159, 1770 East Venice Avenue, Venice. For more information, or to join the Tin Can Sailors, call (941) 497-1050.

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God Bless You! BY JIM MCDEVITT

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ooner or later, everyone sneezes. People who hear you sneeze, even in a public place, often automatically ask God to bless you even though they may not know you. They may not even like you. Ever since I can remember, everyone in my vicinity has been saying “God bless you” when I sneeze. I have no clue how this tradition started but I do know I have said “God bless you” all my life to anyone I hear sneezing. It was just the right thing to do, like holding a door open for a lady. Heck, when I was a cop and arrested someone I would say, “God bless you” if the perpetrator sneezed while I was putting him in handcuffs.

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Here’s the thing though. Lately I’ve noticed my wife only gives me one “God bless you” when I sneeze. Sometimes I sneeze four or five times in a row, but I only get one “God bless you.” When did it become fashionable to limit these blessings? Is there some kind of limit on blessings I don’t know about? I’m tempted to say “God bless me,” out loud to make sure I get all my God blesses. If my wife starts sneezing one sneeze after the other, I keep my blessings coming. I don’t have a limit. I was taught if a person is sneezing, you just keep those blessings coming until they stop sneezing. If my dog sneezes, I say “God bless you.” To find out more about these blessings, I did some internet research. Here is what I found out. There are several possible explanations for this tradition. In Eastern Asia, as early as 1000 B.C., there was a belief that a sneeze was a sign someone was talking about you at that very moment. One sneeze meant something being said about you was good, while two sneezes meant something bad was said. I

have discounted this belief because it would mean someone like President Obama would be sneezing all day long, since someone somewhere is always talking about him night and day and he’s not sneezing like that. In Polish tradition, there was a belief that your mother-in-law was talking about you if you sneezed. No explanation was provided if your mother-in-law sneezed. In Pakistan, there is a superstition that if a man sneezes, his wife is thinking fondly of him. I guess if you’re single, it’s just a sneeze. In Christian circles, some attribute the saying, “God bless you” to Pope Gregory the Great (540 – 604 A.D.) who became Pope at the start of the plague. I understand he started blessing people when they sneezed in the hope, no doubt, that they weren’t coming down with the plague. Current science says each sneeze can send 40,000 droplets flying around to spread disease to anyone within reach. Current advice to sneezers is not to use your hands to cover your sneeze, but to use your arms. They say using your hands means you will spread those 40,000 droplets all day long over anything you touch. The best advice I have is that if you are flying and seated next to someone who is sneezing, you should have a blanket handy and throw it over their head and say, “God bless you.”

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e weren’t the biggest, but we were told often that we were the best run games in the state,” declares Randy Fisher, athletics supervisor for the city of Kissimmee’s parks and recreation department. Not at all shy about his enthusiasm for the event, Fisher is one of the chief architects putting building blocks in place for the return of the state-sanctioned Senior Games to Kissimmee and Osceola County, September 10 – 17. Interest is high and things are taking shape quite nicely, according to Fisher. He has fielded upwards of 30 calls a week about the event since it was announced in March. Those calls are coming from seniors throughout the state and from various retirement communities. Most of the callers want to know about the events and how to register, which will officially open after the

Independence Day holiday. Other callers have said: “Thanks for bringing it back” and “It’s about time.” Such comments confirm what Fisher came to realize in 1993 when the concept of the games was first introduced as part of a statewide initiative from the Governor’s Council on Physical Fitness. Fisher knew then and now that seniors want and

actively participate in carefully structured athletic activities. He’s been at the front line of offering those activities. For 13 straight years beginning in October 1994, he helped coordinate the activities that would attract hundreds of athletes to the Kissimmee-St. Cloud Senior Games. During that period, Fisher estimates more than 7000 seniors made the trek to Kissimmee to compete in events such as archery, billiards, swimming, basketball shooting, bowling, horseshoes, track and field, shuffleboard, golf, cycling, race walking, 5k run, pickle ball, tennis, table tennis and more. That was before the economic downturn forced budget cuts and a three-year suspension of the games. Now, the event is poised for a triumphant return, thanks to a goldmedal team Fisher says is committed to bringing the glory back to the

Kissimmee-St. Cloud Senior Games. The team includes elements of Osceola County government, the city of St. Cloud, the town of Celebration as well as the Good Samaritan Village and the Osceola County Council on Aging. Together, they’re putting together a week-long slate of competitions that will be jointly promoted by the city of Kissimmee and the Kissimmee Convention & Visitors Bureau, Osceola County’s tourism promotion department. Information on the events and how to register will be available on www. Kissimmeeparks.org as well as on www.SRGames and VisitKissimmee. com. Callers may also get more information at (407) 518-2504. All qualifiers at the Kissimmee-St. Cloud Senior Games will be eligible to compete at the Florida State Senior Games Championship, to be held in Polk County, December 3 – 11.

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3. Plan ahead and be extra prepared if you have a relative or friend who has special needs. Check early for hurricane shelters that meet their needs. 4. Establish an out-of-town phone number with family and friends to relay messages about your whereabouts and safety after the storm. 5. Put shutters, window and door protection in place when instructed by local weather and law enforcement officials. Do not put them up too soon due to safety and fire hazards. 6. Begin creating your hurricane emergency kit. Have at least 3 to 5 days of food and water per person, along with other important items such as a flashlight, can opener, battery-operated radio or television and a corded phone. To learn more, contact your Crime Prevention Specialist to arrange for them to come out and talk to your group or neighborhood: (239) 477-1400.

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oday’s boomers are well-connected online, describe themselves as “full of life” and say retirement is a time to reinvent and discover themselves, according to Trilogy by Shea Homes’ online survey of boomers. The survey drew over 85 percent of participants from Trilogy’s Facebook pages and Twitter feeds. It also found boomers are not only focused on connecting with others and staying near loved ones but also on making a difference, and they are not slowing down anytime soon. Boomers ranked traveling (58%), having a balanced lifestyle (51%), being more active (46%) and having more “me” time (46%) as priorities in retirement.

Having a home to support all of their passions also ranked high—boomers primarily want it to be easy to take care of (59%), followed by the foundation for a vibrant future (40%). But making the leap to a new home is not always an easy decision, especially in the current economy with owners sometimes unable to get as much as desired for an existing home. Though home sales may be down across the country 15 percent year over year, not every development or area is following this trend. Sunshine and beautiful weather are limited, commanding higher prices for homes in areas like Florida. Many boomers, including Terri and Ron Fraser, recent Trilogy homebuyers in the Orlando area, are putting a priority on living the active, engaged life they’ve always wanted. “No one has the crystal ball to know when the best time is, but for us, we

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residence, boomers rank green features (which can save as much as 40 percent on energy usage) high on their list of priorities. Today’s boomers are also considering factors many have not before—such as having a space for a home office—as many transition into retirement. Boomers should ask themselves what is important in retirement: Location? Having access to amenities/ activities? Maintaining connectedness with family, friends, others? What do I want to be doing? How important is customizing my home? Have I always had a specific dream or ideal in mind? All of these questions weigh in on determining the best environment to pursue one’s retirement dreams. For info, contact jeff.gersh@ sheahomes.com, or see trilogylife.com.

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In Sickness and in Health How one long-married spouse fares emotionally and physically can greatly impact the other, a study conducted by the University of British Columbia and Pennsylvania State University reveals. The research looked at 1,700 couples ages 76 – 90 married more than 40 years over a 15-year span. Researchers discovered a strong association between such depressive symptoms as loneliness, unhappiness and restlessness, and physical limitations (i.e., cooking, climbing stairs). The link has been found among individuals, but never before to spouses, and suggests practitioners consider the health of the other spouse when treating their patient. “Physical and Emotional Health of Older Couples Linked for Better or Worse, Study Finds,” Science Daily.

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Open Mic Night presented by Peace River Center for Writers, 6:30 – 8:30 p.m. July’s program will be a unique tribute to America and its veterans. Michael Haymans, local attorney, poet and musician, will moderate this patriotic program and introduce local artists, musicians, veterans, and poets who will share their vision, reality, and experience of what it means to be an American. Free admission; public is invited to attend. 1200 West Retta Esplanade # 57A. Punta Gorda. Detais at (941) 639-8721.

FEATURED EVENTS • Muscle Car City’s Monthly Car Show. July 16 and every third Saturday. 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. at 3811 Tamiami Trail, Punta Gorda. Car show and musical entertainment. Free. For details, visit musclecarcity.net or call (941) 575-5959 • Peace River Audubon Society Field Trip. July 16 and every third Saturday. Explore birding destinations in southwest Florida and have fun with neighbors who share your interests. 7 a.m. Visit peaceriveraudubon.org/field_trips.htm or call (941) 613-6753. • Downtown Punta Gorda Gallery Walk. July 21 and every third Thursday. 5 p.m. – 8 p.m. A lively gathering of artists and musicians plus shops and eateries in the charming Punta Gorda Historic District. Call (941) 639-3720 for more info. • Flatsmasters Fishing Tournament. July 23. Start time, safe light, 6:30 – 7 a.m. Weigh in at 3:30 p.m., Harpoon Harry’s. Information: visit flatsmasters.com or contact Jerry Cleffi at (941) 628-0702.

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2. Updated list of all medications. Keep a list of all medications and their dosage information with you at all times. Take a current copy with you to every doctor’s appointment and keep a copy in every possible place where you may need it at a moment’s notice (or in case you leave the house without it by mistake) like your purse, coat pockets, and vehicles. Tack a copy by the phone and the patient’s bed for easy access.

4. Over-the-counter oral antihistamine. Mild allergic reactions usually respond to non-prescription allergy medications such as diphenhydramine (Benadryl). A liquid or “fast-melt” type of Benadryl can be better than pills, if the reaction is in their mouth or if there’s stomach upset. And

always call for medical assistance before the problem becomes severe.

5. Latex or non-latex gloves. Gloves that are the right size are necessary to protect both the patient and the caregiver from harmful germs, and they can be used for protection in a variety of situations—from serving food to cleaning up messes. 6. Hydrogen peroxide. Peroxide is good for cleaning wounds, getting bloodstains out of clothing and bedding and being used like a mouthwash for mouth sores.

7. Rubbing alcohol. Now for the big guns! Alcohol is a wound sterilizer as well as a good cleaning agent for places like handrails and doorknobs. 8. Digital thermometer (with covers). Digital thermometers with plastic covers are fast, accurate, user-friendly and easy to read.

9. Good blood pressure monitor. There are plenty of fully automatic, accurate

digital machines available for purchase for in-home use. Look for versions that measure blood pressure correctly on the upper arm at heart level with readings given on a digital display.

10. Plenty of paperwork. You’ll need to have a calendar for organizing appointments, tests and a schedule of caregiving help. Keep a three-ring binder for storing medical test results and patient notes in one place. Have all pertinent phone numbers posted near every phone. The note that doesn’t get documented or the question that doesn’t get answered may be the one that gets you into the most trouble. “While being a caregiver is one of the most challenging experiences of my life, it has also been one of the most rewarding,” Aldrich concludes. “Having the support and help of others who have been there can be a huge help. The peace of mind you’ll get from being prepared is one of the most precious gifts you can give yourself as a caregiver.”

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The Gift of Time is Priceless!

ave you heard the buzz words “time philanthropy”? This is the latest lingo for the word “Volunteerism.” But ask yourself—what does “group volunteerism” mean to you and how can you or a group you are a member of really make a difference locally in the lives of our seniors? As you can see from the example below, all it takes is a little effort… Over the past three years, alumni from the Notre Dame Club of SWFL have teamed up with Senior Friendship Centers and “adopted” various projects. Each year, this communityminded club has undertaken projects such as visiting our Adult Day Services program clients. Last year they painted and refurbished one of our Friendship Cafés/ Community Centers, and this year their volunteer commitment helped launch an exciting new program within the Nutrition Department in Lee County: “Friendship Food Bags.” Through volunteerism and vision, this alumni group helped launch this small but significant food program for our area seniors. Friendship Food Bags were created in direct response to

the growing hunger and food insecurity that our local senior population continues to struggle against. Senior Friendship Centers will continue to coordinate this ongoing project and will be seeking volunteer local businesses who can offer to hold food drives each month and collect “senior friendly” food items. We will also be seeking volunteer groups (like our friends at the Notre Dame Alumni Club of SWFL) to assist with the delivery of these Friendship Food Bags. This is just one way that local volunteers can help resolve the senior hunger issues in the area. So you see, time philanthropy is basically one person, one group and one agency combining efforts and time to make a huge impact to positively change the lives of our local seniors. If you or your group would be interested in local individual or group volunteer opportunities to meet the needs of our local seniors, please contact us at (239) 275-1881. Submitted by: Kristina Rodriguez, Director of Nutrition & Community Engagement.

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. When deciding how much insurance to buy, how many years will I need this? A. According to some recently published statistics, the average stay in an assisted living facility is 21 months. 10 percent of people in nursing homes will stay there ﬁve years or longer.* As for staying at home with home care, unfortunately since it is so difﬁcult to monitor, (family helping, agency hiring, etc.), there are no published stats. Please keep in mind that the policies sold today are comprehensive. That means you can use them for a variety/ combination of services. Oftentimes, people begin care at home for a couple of years and then move to assisted living, and then usually go to a nursing home for very serious care. Using 5+ years of your policy is very easy to do, given that natural progression.

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Depending on the circumstances that arise with living with family, and the added physical and emotional stress that can be involved, the outcomes can surprise most people. The demands of having to work, the extra living space and maintaining harmony in the home have much to do with the success of living with family. I will also mention that many people prefer having their own furniture, developing friends and enjoying a social life outside of the family. Sometimes the ﬂexibility of maintaining independence goes a long way to make life as an older senior more satisfying and richer. Of course, it depends on the person. *Medicare.gov **Dept. of Health and Human Services National Center for Health Statistics ***AALTCI.org

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• Colorectal cancer every 10 years by colonoscopy, then a yearly fecal occult blood test (which can find blood in the stool) or, every five years, a fecal blood test combined with a sigmoidoscopy.

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Travel Since there’s often a long wait to get in, you can put your name on the list and take The Fountain of Youth Eco/ History Tour boat tour next door. Narrated boat tours run from DeLeon Springs to Lake Woodruff in the Woodruff Federal Wildlife Refuge and operate 10 and 11 a.m. trips and 12 and 1 p.m. trips (minimum of 8 passengers must go). This is a great way to see the delicately preserved eco-system of the St. John’s River. Also available here are kayaks, canoes and paddleboats to rent. Call (386) 837-5537 for the Eco-tour. Mature Lifestyles • July 2011 • page 22

Orlando – After Hours! Casual Elegance So you say you’ve “done Orlando”, Jupiter Beach eh? Experienced Disney, outlet Resort & Spa is ofmalls and the ubiquitous souvenir fering wonderful specials shops? But hey, we’re not kids this summer in Jupiter, Florida. anymore—so what’s there to Ah, the beach setting. For our daily do after the sun goes down? walk, we enjoyed stepping from As it turns out, the Orlando area the boardwalk and patio area is loaded with after-hours right to a tranquil stretch fun. For starters, there’s Jupiter Beach of beach. And one night the Sleuth’s Mystery Resort and Spa. we stretched out in one Dinner Theater on of the hammocks and International Drive listened to the waves in Orlando. At hitting the beach Sleuth’s, you step as we watched a into a world of full moon rise comedy where over the ocean. you become Dinner at the detective as Sinclair’s was a you try to solve seafood lover’s the night’s treat. (A don’tmiss menu item is the lobster crabcake appetizer at dinner.) Choose white tablecloth service or patio casual three meals a day. Resort amenities include the luxurious spa, where you can enjoy a massage and then their hot liquid chocolate (wow!). There’s a billiards room, an outdoor ﬁrepit and lounge area, ﬁtness room, lighted tennis courts and a business center for checking e-mails. The Beach Boomers package, starting at just $169 per night, includes daily gourmet breakfast for two, two-for-one bike rentals and discounts at Sinclair’s. Take the

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Sleuths (Above) and Treasure Tavern (Below).

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