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Hackettstown’s Mike Palko Celebrates a Basketball Life
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By Steve Sears ike Palko has wonderful basketball memories. While a Hackettstown Tiger, in three varsity seasons he had almost 1,000 career points, but did crack the century mark for rebounds. Also, he was a member of the Rutgers Scarlet Knights legendary NCAA Final Four team in 1975 – 76. Palko explains his earlier days playing the sport. “I really had never played competitive basketball until the eighth grade, and a friend of mine told me that Hackettstown had a new recreation director and that he was putting a team in the Lakeland Midget Basketball League, which I think is still in existence today.” Nelson Hoyt was that recreation director, and he had seen Palko and his friend playing basketball, and wanted them to play for the team. When Palko’s friend convinced him to play, he was in. “And Coach Hoyt said to me, ‘Palko, I saw your father. He’s about 6’ 4”, and your mother’s tall, too. You’re going to be about 6’ 7”, and if you work at this game, you could go to college for free.’ He told me that after about a month playing with them, and that hit home with me. I enjoyed playing, I believed what he said, and I made a commitment to basketball, and he turned out to be right. Sometimes people say something to the right kid at the right time, and luckily my ears were hearing what he was saying.” When Palko was a junior, the Don Grant-coached Hackettstown Tigers had a great 1970 – 71 season. “We lost the sectional final championship game at County College of Morris against Mountain Lakes, but here’s the interesting thing about that,” Palko says. “Had we won that game, we would have been playing against East Rutherford High School, and the head coach at East Rutherford High School was Dick Vitale.” Vitale the week before had seen the 6’ 7” Palko in action when the Tigers had defeated a very strong Glen Ridge team.
His concern? Palko’s superb defensive skills, and how he would match up against East Rutherford’s 6’ 10” All-American senior center, Les Cason, if the clubs faced each other. That matchup didn’t happen, but what did occur was Vitale a year later being hired as an assistant coach at Rutgers, and his radar was honed in on Palko, whom he wanted him to play in New Brunswick two seasons later. The Tigers were 22 -3 and Delaware River Conference champs in Palko’s senior campaign, and Vitale recruited Palko and five other freshmen, and it coincided with Rutgers for the first time offering athletic scholarships. “It was also the first year that freshmen were eligible to play varsity basketball,” Palko says. Palko was a Scarlet Knight from 1972 – 1976, and the total won – loss record for those four seasons was 86 – 29. The final season was historic; the club finished the regular season undefeated at 31 – 0 and headed to the NCAA basketball Final Four for the first and only time, where they lost both the semifinal and consolation round games to end up a bittersweet 31 – 2. Rutgers played its home games at the aged and intimidating College Avenue Gymnasium, affectionately called “The Barn,” a place where fans were right at court’s edge and, when the Knights gave them something to cheer about, paint peelings fell from the ceiling. “It was only really just a little more than half of an arena,” Palko states, “because the half behind the benches, there were wooden walls, and there was a swimming pool on the other side of that. Sitting on the bench, you could smell the chlorine through that wooden wall. There was 2,800 people on one side, it was loud because all the sound came at you from one direction. It was amazing.” In the final regular season game at The Barn, Rutgers trailed a very good Saint Bonaventure team by seven points
Mike Palko (rear row, fifth from the left) and the 1975 – 76 Rutgers Scarlet Knights. Photo credit: Rutgers University Athletics.
with a few minutes left. “I think every single guy on the team would tell you the same thing,” Palko says. “I think the whole season was flashing before our eyes.” In fact, a few of the Bonnies had even told Rutgers players that they were rooting for the Knights to stay undefeated, because they wanted to be the ones that came down to New Brunswick and end the Knights undefeated season, which they came very close to doing. “They had us on the ropes, there’s no doubt about it,” Palko says. Rutgers outscored the Bonnies, 17 -6, down the stretch and won, 85 – 80, capping a perfect regular season. Palko, now 68, has been married to his wife, Patty, for 40 years, and the couple has two sons, Mike Jr. and James, and a grandson, Matthew James. And Palko, who has served as an assistant coach at Hackettstown, and head coach at both Randolph and Warren Hills High Schools, is still the only Hackettstown basketball player who has gone to the NCAA Final Four. “It was close to about a decade of fantastic memories with teammates from eighth grade through senior year in college,” Palko says fondly of his basketball career.
A Tale of Two Hacket(t)stown’s and the Person They Share
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By Elsie Walker ackettstown - Many miles and a “t”. separate them, but sister towns Hackettstown, New Jersey and Hacketstown, Ireland have something in common: Joe Barnes. In the 1990s, the Hacketstown, Ireland resident made his first trip here and later became a familiar figure representing his town in the yearly St. Patrick’s Day Parade. In 2020, Barnes was to be Grand Marshal of that parade, but it was cancelled due to the pandemic. However, this year, the parade took place
on March 13th with Barnes as Grand Marshall. In interviews, Barnes shared some information about his hometown in Ireland and his relationship with its New Jersey sister. One of the first connections made between the two towns was in a history book of the New Jersey Hackettstown. In a 2020 interview, Barnes shared a tale from the 1950s: Author Harold J. Nunn was writing a history called The People of Hackettstown. He decided to include something on the town
in Ireland that bore the same name. He wrote to the mayor of the Ireland town explaining he wanted to include something on it in his book. “But there was no mayor here nor will there ever be, but the postmistress here knowing there was no mayor, she opened the letter and she replied to him giving details of the town at that time. It was the year of 1954 and that letter she wrote is in the book. [Nunn] also included that the first female judge appointed in the U.S.A came continued on page 6
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Hackettstown Boys Basketball Enjoys Yearly Competition in Florida
breakfast, and then everyone meets in a room, By Steve Sears and we all hang out in the morning and eat when or the past seven years, head coach Michael everybody’s just waking up. It’s a good start.” McDonagh and his Hackettstown High School McDonagh also credits his Assistant Coach, boy’s basketball Tigers have headed south to Kevin Silverstein, with the help he provides. “I Florida for a set of games with high school clubs can’t do this trip by myself,” McDonagh says. in that state. “He’s a teacher at the middle school - he’s a pheTheir latest trip, concluded in January, saw nomenal teacher. And he coaches three sports at them beat the Crusaders of Keswick Christian our high school, volleyball, basketball and baseHigh School of Saint Petersburg, 61 – 49 in their ball. And I’ll tell you, he is grade A!” first game, but lose the second contest to the The Hackettstown Tigers during their annual Florida trip. Photo courtesy of Michael After Blume retired and Shorecrest would no Tampa Prep Terrapins, 49 - 35. longer be a holiday tourney opponent, he offered Tampa Prep was a new addition to the sched- McDonagh. advice to McDonagh. “He said, ‘Listen, to keep it ule. The past five years, the Tigers took on Canterbury High School, also of Saint Petersburg. It’s not just about wins and losses on these trips. Per McDonagh, it’s most of all about going, reach out to this lady. She’s a wonderful woman. She’s an athletic director and girls’ life and more about bonding for his players than anything else. “The bonding takes jealousy basketball coach,’” McDonagh recalls. Blume was referring to Karrmayne King of Keswick Christian School. McDonagh emailed out of the equation,” he says. “When these kids bond - when they’re bowling, paintballing, eating and laughing, playing beach volleyball and high fiving - the jealousy kind of starts to her about wanting to be in their Christmas tournament, which is held annually. “We actually go away, and they become more of a team. After we come back, they’re even cheering for had an opening, which was awesome, because I love when him and his team come down,” King says. “They did a great job in that tournament, and then decided afterwards to start each other more.” The idea for a trip first came to McDonagh nine years ago. He laid it out to Athletic Direc- coming down in January instead.” And for McDonagh and his Tigers, it has been a happy marriage. “I make sure all my kids tor, Bob Grauso, who gave it his full support. Once McDonagh got approval from Grauso and the school superintendent for the initial trip, he emailed 50 schools in the Sunshine State, give her a hug,” he says, “and I make sure that I say in front of her, ‘Without Miss King this and one responder told him to contact Daryl Blume of Saint Petersburg’s Shorecrest Prepa- does not happen.’ We give her a nice gift card, and my kids are so respectful. They appreciate ratory School. “He (Blume) hooked me up and we went down here for his Christmas tourna- us being down there, and they know it’s because of her.” And the feeling is reciprocal. “Shakment, which was great. Every year we keep going back, because we’ve never had a hiccup, ing hands with their head coach, who’s a great guy, is wonderful, and they treat us so well. never had a problem,” McDonagh proudly says. “Our kids are great kids, they really are. I’ve They send us emails afterwards thanking us. They’re the nicest people in the world.” “It’s a great thing,” King says, who sees the benefit on the Keswick Christian side as well. never had a discipline problem with a kid, and it makes it easier when you don’t have to deal with those issues. For the kids, it’s become a thing where they love it, they talk about it, and “It’s good for our guys to be able to play against people that aren’t in their area. I love what Mike does with his program; they’re the most respectful guys once they get here. I never they get excited about it. It’s a special thing.’” Three hotel rooms are booked in Florida, one for coaches and two for the players. Mc- have any issues, and Mike’s an outstanding leader. The way he treats officials, coaches, and Donagh and his coaches buy food for the players, and the teens take it from there. “We do everybody, I just love him. He brings a real enthusiasm, always shares some plays with me, breakfast,” McDonagh explains. “That’s our routine. The seniors usually will cook the team so it’s always a great time.”
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Not All Headaches are Created Equal
lmost everyone has experienced a headache, at some point in their life, to varying degrees. In fact, roughly 45 million Americans suffer from Headaches each year. In today’s world, most people reach into the medicine cabinet for one of the various pain relievers to alleviate their head pain. But what happens when that doesn’t work? Or, the headaches become more frequent and more painful? Some get headaches so often and so painful, they even take prescription drugs with side effects and no avail. But have you ever stopped to think, “What is causing my headache?” Headaches and more severe headaches, known as Migraines, can be caused by various triggers including foods, chemicals or preservatives in foods, allergens in the environment, chemicals in cleaning products or herbicides/pesticides, sinus congestion, tension in the neck or jaw, lack of sleep, dehydration, stress, and the list goes on… Sometimes the cause is completely unknown and with no relief the patient can be left hopeless, debilitated and in pain. An assessment by an Acupuncturist can often identify and treat imbalances (that are causing the headaches) that are unknown to the patient previously. In Chinese Medicine not all headaches are created
equally. Rather, during an assessment, we evaluate the individual patient on many levels to determine their exact symptoms (i.e Is the headache frontal? One sided? Behind the eyes? Is there nausea? Frequency and intensity of pain?....) and if there are any triggers. We take a whole body approach and assess the patient’s physical condition as well as their constitution, emotional health, diet and lifestyle. Unlike the blanket treatment western medicine offers which is typically some type of pain reliever, Chinese Medicine finds a specific treatment for each patient based on their individual symptoms. Five patients suffering “headaches” may receive five completely different treatments. By addressing the root cause, Acupuncture can be a safe way to prevent and treat various types of headaches, without the unwanted side effects of medications. Based on the individual assessment and diagnosis, tiny needles are inserted into various points on the body. Depending on the case, small electrodes can be attached to specific needles that elicit a small electrical current. The feeling of the electric stimulation on the needles is a comfortable sensation that generally elicits a feeling of tingling, tapping or heaviness. The electric stimulation en-
hances the release of specific neurochemicals which aids in the treatment of headaches. The needles are typically retained for 20-30 minutes, during which the patient is left to relax and take a nap. Acupuncture is known to be effective and can offer long standing results, but it is not always a quick fix. Especially if the headaches are chronic, several treatments may be required to achieve the full result. Again, this is because it is addressing the root cause and not just covering up symptoms like other treatments. If you suffer from headaches or migraines start getting relief today! Use the following tips to achieve long- lasting results for a healthy life: Be aware, track food and environmental triggers to see if there are any patterns, get adequate sleep, eat a healthy diet rich in vegetables and fruits (limiting sugars and processed foods), drink plenty of water, manage stress with things like meditation and try Acupuncture! For more information about Acupuncture and Headaches contact Mount Olive Acupuncture & Wellness 973527-7978.
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A Tale of Two Hacket(t)stown’s... continued from front page from here. Her name was Mary O’Toole,” said Barnes. Hacketstown, Ireland is small. In a recent email, Barnes numbered the population at about 900. Although Barnes agreed, “village” might be a more accurate description for Hacketstown, he noted, “it has always been described as town since it was built way back in either the tenth /eleventh century by the Normans. It is called in Gaelic, Baile Haceid, pronounced ‘boilya hackaid’: the town of Hacketts.” The site, Love Hacketstown (www.lovehacketstown.ie/history/) notes that the town is located on the border between County Carlow and County Wicklow. It also noted that singer Elvis Presley has a tie to the town in that one of his ancestors, William Presley, lived there before emigrating to the United States 200 years ago. In recently sharing about his town, Barnes noted a few similarities it has to its New Jersey sister and also what you can find in the town. He noted the things in common have to do with the landscape. “We have a hill that overlooks the town as does your town. We had a cafe known as the Cosy Corner as did your town and we have a river that runs at the bottom of town.” Barnes then gave a run down of what you’d find in the Irish
town. “There are two schools: a primary and secondary. [There are] two churches: Roman Catholic and Church of Ireland. [Also, there’s ] a supermarket, pharmacy, post office, three pubs, a hardware store, filling station, doctors surgery, three garages/repairs tire center, etc., and a slaughter house for cattle. In addition, he noted that it is a “strong agriculture area so [there are] a few agri contractors.” Barnes noted he first found out about the New Jersey Hackettstown in a local bar and first visited it in the late 1990s; from there, the relationship between him and the New Jersey town grew. It was about thirty years ago when he saw a postcard in a bar which had been sent to the bar person from a local who was travelling in the states. The post showed a sign for Hackettstown, New Jersey. Later, Barnes would visit that Hackettstown himself. In a 2020 interview, Barnes shared how his first visit to the New Jersey town came to be. “Back in 1995 when I was the fire chief here in town, I received a note from Mr. Jeff Saunders of the Hackettstown, New Jersey Fire Department informing me that the fire department was holding its 120th anniversary parade in June 1997. I replied to say I was interested in going, and in 1996 got the in-
vitation and accepted. So, in June 1997 was my first visit to Hackettstown. In 2009, I was invited to attend the St Patrick’s parade,” he shared. Barnes has been part of the parade ever since as a special visitor from Hacketstown, Ireland. Reflecting on the parade and on Barnes’ part in it, Laurie Rapisardi shared, “As the Executive Director of the BID [Business Improvement District], I was thrilled to be able to produce our St Patrick’s Day festivities once again after taking a little hiatus due to the pandemic. We were honored and thrilled that Joe Barnes had agreed to
join us once again, traveling from Hacketstown, Ireland to be our 2022 Grand Marshal. As most are aware, Joe Barnes was set to be our 2020 Grand Marshal. He traveled to be here in March of 2020, the Grand Marshal event took place, and the next day, the world shut down due to the pandemic. Joe went back to Ireland without his parade. When it was time to decide who the Grand Marshal for 2022 would be, there was no question...it had to be Joe Barnes. We were honored that he had agreed to come back to Hackettstown, New Jersey once again.”
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What’s Up With the Mask? A Purim Message from Rabbi Yaacov Shusterman Chabad Jewish Center, Mt. Olive urim is here, with its food baskets, Hamantaschen, groggers, and of course- kids dressed in all sorts of costumes and masks.
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These days, there is a lot to say about wearing masks. In the past, we would associate masks with fun and silliness, but now we know they offer protection. And, to be honest, sometimes, we find that there is a certain comfort about wearing masks. They allow us privacy when we want to be concealed. They allow us to become anonymous when we need to be. Of course, the best part is that masks are removable. When we get outside, we have the liberty to pull them off. Purim has many themes, and the mask is one of them. Queen Esther hides her identity. Her very name means a secret. G-d is hidden throughout the story, leading the average reader to assume that it is a story of coincidence and fate. Yet, the scroll we read is called Megillat Esther. The word Megilla comes from the Hebrew root work - Legalot - to re-
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By Steve Sears hen you speak with Jeanne Murphy, the First Lady of Centenary University, you know that she is a person who cares about people and unity. Consider, for example, her opinion on the importance of the Olympic Games. “Sports, especially at the international level can really bring people and countries together - especially during this challenge of the global pandemic,” she says. “There’s something you appreciate about the Olympics every four years. It’s this really great event that you want to be part of and cheering on your country.” Murphy, who sat on the U.S. Olympic and Paralympic Committees, has embraced Centenary University and the Hackettstown community and she is part of a group that has initiated a yearlong lecture series at Centenary University for its students that transcends the Olympic Games. Murphy says, “It’s about the people, and the behind-the-scenes and years of preparation to be their best. “That’s what this lecture series is doing, just bringing in experts with a variety of backgrounds.” Murphy, who is the wife of Centenary University President, Dr. Bruce Murphy, grew up in Saint Louis, Missouri as part of an active family and childhood. A YMCA age group swimmer, she also took part in gymnastics and cheerleading. With a scholarship, she entered the Army Nurse Corps. “I thought that would be an interesting field,” she says. “I liked caring for people, and always had something about sports in my mind, but just wasn’t sure how all that was going to fit together.” Murphy went through nursing school and officer training, and chose to be assigned to Brooke Army Medical Center at
Fort Sam Houston military base in San Antonio, Texas. “Not only because I wanted to work at the burn unit,” she says, “but at that time it was the only burn unit in the military and one of the premiere ones in the country. So, I thought this would really get me involved with intensive care, to put all this knowledge to work, but also because I learned that the U.S. Modern Pentathlon team trained in San Antonio and Fort Sam Houston.” Her choice would lead to something significant. When not working, Murphy trained in each of the Modern Pentathlon disciplines (one-touch epée fencing, 200-meter freestyle swimming, equestrian show jumping, and a final combined event of pistol shooting and 3200-meter cross country running). The United States team, which was seeking to get women involved after the sport was for the previous century only open to males. “Every country, not just the United States, was trying to form a women’s team and make an effort to try to get the Olympic movement, the IOC (International Olympic Committee) to recognize this as a sport for women. They had kind of dangled the carrot in front of me. I was already participating in their workouts, the morning swims and all that, so I was a known person, and they said, ‘If you can meet these male standards in the run and in the swim, we will put you on the team, and you will learn the three skill sports: equestrian, epee fencing, and marksmanship.” She achieved the standard in the run and swim, and she made the team. “It was just incredible, but I had to do quite a bit of hustling to get up to speed and learn these other sports and work in the ICU for burns along with that. It was some long days and nights.” continued on page 9
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here’s no doubt: College students are facing an unusually high amount of stress this semester. And it’s not just the winter blues. In a new survey recently released by leading telehealth firm Timely MD, nearly nine out of ten college students report a major mental health crisis across the nation’s college campuses. Mental health experts at Centenary University point to the COVID-19 pandemic, which is entering its third year, as a significant source of stress for college students. In fact, a national survey of almost 1,700 students revealed that 70% of college students feel emotional distress and anxiety resulting from the pandemic and 51% say they are more stressed and anxious than last January. In New
Jersey, 70% of college students report having a higher level of anxiety than a year ago, according to a study by the New Jersey Office of the Secretary of Higher Education. College presidents are equally concerned. In a 2021 survey conducted by Inside Higher Ed, 96% of U.S. college and university presidents surveyed said the mental health of students is a top concern, while 94% reported the same of their employees. Centenary University President Bruce Murphy, Ed.D., a retired lieutenant colonel in the U.S. Army who has studied the effects of stress in the military, said, “There is universal agreement that mental health has to be a top priority on all of our campuses. At Centenary, we’ve seen a definite in-
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continued from page 11 Nynka and Mullins say that colleges need to be proactive about offering a variety of mental health services tailored to student preferences. Nynka explained that while she prefers to see students in person, counseling sessions have been mostly virtual due to COVID-19. The Counseling Center also hosts an online wellness platform, YOU@Centenary, designed to meet the needs of the whole student and tailored specifically to Centenary University and its campus resources. Last semester, the University also invited the Warren County Hope One Initiative to campus. The mobile resource provides lifesaving resources to
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that 100% of the donations go directly to research. “The brain is tricky, and they (Cure Alzheimer’s Fund) are coming to a lot of dead ends, but this is the right organization, and they are coming closer every year,” Mastrangelo said. In 2020, due to COVID there was no race, but the organization still worked hard and raised a significant amount of money for research. This year, the effects of COVID will be closely monitored by Mastrangelo. However, she is confident that this year’s event will be a success because it is not only outside, but she is determined to take any cautionary steps to ensure everyone’s safety. Mastrangelo who has had many dedicated supporters through the years is still looking to add some sponsors to make this event larger. She hopes for the race to expand outside just the immediate area and become a significant race in the state of New Jersey. Since the pandemic has affected many small businesses in the area, Mastrangelo wants local owners to know she remains both flexible and creative in finding partnerships that would work for all involved. However, she is aware every bit of help adds up to having a terrific event and said “I would like people to know that there are so many simple ways to help us: walk, run, donate, fundraise. Even easier than that is just spreading the word to others.” She can be contacted by interested parties through her website, www.Running4Answers.org. Though she is hoping for a big turnout, Mastrangelo, a mother of two daughters wants people to come away with a significant lesson about Alzheimer’s disease. One important fact that Mastrangelo wants people to be aware of is that this disease is more serious than many people think it is. She said, “it is not a key-losing disease.” By this, Mastrangelo emphasized that families should know that Alzheimer’s is more than just misplacing everyday items such as keys. Rather, it robs the whole family of time, memories, and is indeed very painful for all involved. “I don’t want to see anyone else go through this,” she said. “The idea that anyone else can get it is scary.”
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403 Reasons to Run Foundation Looks to Help First Responders
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by Elsie Walker n 2014, a local team of 11 people participated in the Stephen Siller Tunnel to Towers (T2T) Foundation Walk/ Run in New York. (That foundation is named for Siller, an off-duty firefighter who ran from the tunnel to the towers in full gear on 9/11 to help, only to later lose his life on that day.) Little did the group from our area know but their participation would grow and from it, an idea to help first responders in our area. The 403 Reasons to Run Foundation was launched this past January. The name comes from the number of first responders (firefighters, police, and EMS) who gave their lives on 9/11. As the new foundation’s website notes, its vision is, “Modeled after the Stephen Siller, Tunnel to Towers Foundation, our foundation also honors and supports the fire, police and EMS communities, their families and members of our local communities that experience a catastrophic life changing event and are in need of assistance. Our vision is to do good things for good people, by whole heartedly continuing to support T2T and our local heroes.” Co-founder-CEO-President Jacqueline Pelleck, of Byram, was quick to note that though its name says “reasons to run” you don’t have to be a runner to get involved or help. “We’re way more than just running. There is a job for anyone,” she said, giving helping with fundraisers as an example. It all began in 2014, Pelleck and her husband Michael were at the gym and saw something about that year’s Tower to Tunnel Walk/Run. Jacqueline Pelleck remembers saying, “We should do it!” They gathered some others and that year they had a team of 11 participate in the event.
In 2021, a local team of 210 people participated in the Tunnel to Towers Run/Walk in New York, raising $17, 000 for the Stephen Siller Tunnel to Towers Foundation.
“It was the most moving event I’ve ever done,” she said. Inspired by the “do good” feel which permeated the event, the couple decided to do it again in 2015, spreading the word, and the team grew. It also got sponsors and did fundraisers. Every year, the team got larger as people saw what it was about. Phil Savarin, of Byram, is part of the team and noted how moving it is “when you come out of the tunnel and see the pictures of the fallen.” Last year, the group chartered four buses to carry a team of 210 people to the event. The team raised $17,000 which went directly to the Stephen Siller Tunnel to Towers Foundation. However, the Pelleck’s wanted to do more, something for the local
community. With the assistance of one of their sponsors, Wayne Deitz of Skylands Risk Management to connect them with attorneys to help them, the non-profit 403 Reasons to Run Foundation was born. “It is a chance to give back to the first responders in a meaningful way,” said Savarin, vice president of the new foundation. To help that giving back, the foundation will be holding fundraisers, two of which are coming up in June. On June 3rd, Psychic Medium Catherine McCall will be at the Byram Firehouse. McCall talks to people who have passed away, continued on page 15
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continued from page 14 and shares messages from some with loved ones in the audience. Jacqueline Pelleck notes that McCall is “pretty amazing” as she asks questions and zeroes in on the recipient of a message. The other fundraiser is on June 10th. It is a golf outing at the Farmstead Golf and Country Club in Lafayette. People can sign up to play or to sponsor a hole, donate a door prize, etc. Information on both events can be found on the foundation’s website: www.403reasonstorun.org. The foundation has a seven-member board which draws on people from a variety of career backgrounds. Jacqueline Pelleck has been a teacher for over 30 years and teaches in the Mount Olive school system; her husband, Michael, the Co-FounderCFO, has spent his life in the fire safety field and is currently Fire Official/Safety Officer for the Township of Roxbury. Vice President Savarin is a Process Management Analyst for Prudential Financial. Other board members include Jamie Caravaggio, of Hopatcong, who has been a law enforcement officer for 16 years; Emily Mason, of Byram, an elementary special education teacher in the Byram School District, Jeri Quirk, of
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The History and Mythology of St. Patrick’s Day
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By Henry M. Holden here is one day a year when people of all ethnic groups can claim to be Irish. Saint Patrick’s Day, (or from Gaelic: Lá Fhéile Pádraig, “Day of the Feastday of Patrick”), is a cultural and religious celebration held on March 17, the assumed death date of Saint Patrick (385 – 461). The original reason for the celebration was the arrival of Christianity in Ireland. More countries celebrate Saint Patrick’s Day than any other national festival. It is a public holiday in seven countries and is widely celebrated in the United Kingdom, Canada, United States, Argentina, Australia and New Zealand. The Potato Famine that struck Ireland (1845-52) led to the immigration of over one-million Irish to the United States, in one decade, although it continued to a lesser extent into the early 20th century. When Irish immigrants brought St. Patrick’s Day traditions to the United States, the day evolved into a secular celebration of Irish heritage and culture. Saint Patrick’s Day became an official Christian feast day in the early 17th century. Celebrations involve parades, céilís, a social event at which there is Irish folk
music, traditional dancing, shared folklore, leprechauns, and all things Irish. Pubs served green beer and the folks in Chicago dye the river green (a tradition dating back to 1962). Modern celebrations are still influenced by the Irish diaspora, the ethnic Irish and their descendants who live outside the island of Ireland and influenced by those that developed in North America. What we know about Patrick is he wrote his own autobiography in the form of a Declaration. He was born in Roman Britain in the fourth century, into a wealthy RomanoBritish family, and became a fifth-century Romano-British Christian missionary and bishop in Ireland. The shamrock, a three-leafed clover is not only a feature of Celtic mythology, but it was also especially important in Irish legend in the spread of Christianity. The shamrock, aka the “seamroy” was a sacred plant in ancient Ireland. It symbolized the rebirth of spring. By the seventeenth century, the shamrock had become a symbol of emerging Irish nationalism. Saint Patrick tried to inform the Celts on the Holy Trinity, but they could not understand what he was saying. Patrick saw a clover and decided to use
it to explain the Holy Trinity, the Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit as one. The Celts realized what he meant, and that’s how the shamrock became so important in Irish history and social tradition. Spirited music is often associated with St. Patrick’s Day—and Irish culture in general. From earliest days of the Celts, music has been an important part of Irish life. The Celts had an oral culture, where religion, legend and history were passed from one generation to the next by way of stories and songs. The English began to seize land and make laws against the use of the Irish language and the practice of Catholicism. The first British Law specifically banned the use of the Irish language was Article III of The Statute of Kilkenny in 1367. As a result, Irish began to wear the shamrock as a symbol of their pride in their heritage, and their anger with English rule. After being conquered by the English, and forbidden to speak their own language, the Irish, like other oppressed peoples, turned to music to help them remember notable events and retain their heritage and history, as it often stirred emotion and helped to galvanize the people. One of the most lasting folklore stories
Leprechauns stem from the Celtic belief in fairies, tiny people who could use their magical powers to serve good or evil. (Public Domain)
is the legend that during his mission in Ireland, Patrick once stood on a hilltop (which is now called Croagh Patrick), and with only a shepard’s staff, banished all the snakes from Ireland. The “banishing of the snakes” was a metaphor for the suppression of pagan ideologies from Ireland and the triumph of Christianity. Within two hundred years continued on page 20
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An Irish Story
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By Richard Mabey Jr. hat force of nature could possibly bring a proud Protestant Dutchman and a shy Irish Catholic girl together, especially being that the lass from the Emerald Isle was 18 years younger than the gentleman from the land of windmills and wooden shoes? That magical and mystical force, of course, is love. In 1883, Catherine Cavanaugh, my great grandmother, came to America with her parents when she was only five years old. They first took up residence in Clifton. A few
months later, the Cavanaugh family moved to Paterson. At the age of 16, Catherine worked in a silk mill in Paterson. Both of her parents also worked in the same silk mill. It was tough labor, requiring hard work for long hours. Somehow and someway, Catherine Cavanaugh met a Dutchman named Wesley Storms, who lived in a small farming town known as Beavertown. Wesley was a very shy, lonely widower, who lived alone in a very small home at the foothills of Hook Mountain. Wesley, my great grandfather,
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was 18 years older than Catherine, my great grandmother. Now at 68, I deeply regret that I did not ask my grandmother, Bertha Storms Mabey, more about her mom and dad. However, I am ever so appreciative for the information that Grandma did share with me about her parents. Wesley Storms never did know his father. Wesley was born in 1860. Shortly after he was born, his father, William Storms, signed up with the Union Army. My great-great grandfather served in the 15th New Jersey Regiment. Sadly, he was killed in the Battle of Salem Church in May of 1863. It was a scar that was left upon Wesley’s heart, never to be healed for his entire lifetime. For Catherine Cavanaugh, working in a silk mill was very hard work. The men and women who worked in the silk mills in Paterson worked long hours for little pay. It was a tough life. Most of the people who worked in Paterson’s silk mills were immigrants. The Irish immigrants did not have it easy in the latter part of the nineteenth century. Celebrating 50 Years
The prejudice against the Irish was very real in America. It’s painful to admit, but none-the-less, there was very real prejudice against the Irish. In factories, stores, and other places of business, during the nineteenth century, it was not uncommon to see signs reading, “Irish need not apply.” Wesley Storms had a little farm in Beavertown. The greatest mystery is how it came to be that my great grandmother met my great grandfather. I remember my grandmother, Bertha Storms, told me that her father had close friends, who were also friends with her mother’s parents. In light of their age difference, and the fact that Wesley Storms was Protestant and Catherine Cavanaugh was a devoted Catholic, it is truly a miracle that they fell in love and married. As a boy, growing up in Lincoln Park (formerly known as Beavertown) one of my best friends lived in the very home that my great grandmother and great grandfather once lived in. The very home that my paternal grandmother grew up in. I was only in the home one time. It was a hot summer continued on page 20
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St. Patrick’s Day...
continued from page 18 of Patrick’s arrival, most of Ireland was converted. Each year, thousands of Irish Americans gather with their loved ones on St. Patrick’s Day to share a “traditional” meal of corned beef and cabbage. Cabbage has long been in the Irish diet, but it was at the turn of the 20th century that corned beef became popular. Irish immigrants living on New York City’s Lower East Side substituted corned beef for their traditional dish of Irish bacon to save money. They learned about this inexpensive alternative from their Jewish neighbors. One icon of St. Patrick’s Day is the Leprechaun. The original Irish name for these figures of folklore is “lobaircin,” meaning “small-bodied fellow.” They have appeared for centuries in Irish folklore. Belief in leprechauns stem from Celtic belief in fairies, tiny people who could use their magical powers to serve good or evil. In Celtic folktales, leprechauns mended the shoes of the other fairies. Though only minor figures in Celtic folklore, leprechauns were known for their trickery, which they often used to protect their mythical pot of gold. According to Irish mythology, butterflies move between worlds and bring messages
An Irish Story... and warnings. They are souls, waiting to be reborn on earth. Leprechauns are the cultural symbol of Ireland, with their names translated from ‘shoemaker’. They were said to roam Ireland before humans, with a unique hat and red hair. In oral folklore, you can find their pot of gold at the end of a rainbow, so if you visit Ireland, be sure to look for a rainbow. The harp became cemented in the folk music tradition, everyday life, and popular culture of Ireland. The Harp of Daghda is a national icon in Ireland. Folklore says that evil gods stole the first harp from the Daghda, a king in Irish/ Celtic mythology. Daghda’s music made people feel transformed. The absence of music caused sadness to pass over the country. Eventually the evil gods gave it back to them, and joy returned to the land. Now that you know some of the myths and legends from Irish folklore, you are safe to wander through the most rural parts of Ireland. And if you visit, don’t forget to visit, and kiss the Blarney Stone. According to this author’s mother who was born in County Cork, if you hang upside down by your knees and kiss the Blarney Stone you will be given the “gift of gab” or a talkative streak.
continued from page 19 day and my friend, Robert, invited me in to have a glass of lemonade. I was about 10 years old at the time. I had only been in the kitchen of that dear old home, for about 20 minutes. But in that short time, I could feel the presence of my great grandparents. I was a very sensitive child, with a vivid imagination. As I sat at Robert’s kitchen table, as his mom poured cold lemonade in glasses for us, I could imagine my grandmother sitting in that very same kitchen as a little girl, eating supper with her mom and dad. I live in Central Florida now. I don’t travel up to New Jersey that often any more. But when I do visit Lincoln Park, I always take time to take a walk by the home that my grandmother, Bertha Storms Mabey, grew up in. From the sidewalk, I look up to that modest home, atop
The signs, “Irish need not apply,” were not uncommon to be seen in factories and stores during the nineteenth century.
a hill, and feel the presence of the ghosts of my great grandparents. All in all, I deeply regret that I didn’t ask my grandmother more about her childhood days. I regret that I didn’t ask her more questions about her parents, specifically the details of how they met and fell in love. Sadly, those questions will never be answered. If you are blessed to
have even one of your grandparents, alive on this side of Heaven’s Gate, please do consider talking to them about their childhood, their history, their legacy, their heritage. Truly, it will be time well spent. Richard Mabey Jr. is a freelance writer. He can be reached at richardmabeyjr@ hotmail.com. Please put on the subject line: An Irish Story.
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NJ Based Kiwimbi Liberates Kenyan Children with Powerful Knowledge
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By Jillian Risberg he power of education drives Kiwimbi’s potent partnership with underserved communities, vital for the future of children in rural Kenya. “It’s an opportunity to support incredibly underserved people and make a difference in the lives of (those) who live with so few opportunities,” says Lisa Connell, director of development and communications. Kiwimbi’s mission is to partner with underserved communities to create educational opportunities through locally run libraries and community learning centers. According to Connell, the educational system in Kenya was such that grade eight students had to pass the KCPE (Kenyan Certificate of Primary Education) with at least 250 out of 500 points on this national exam (given in English, not their native tongue) — otherwise they didn’t go to high school, it was the end of the road educationally. Then recently the government made secondary school a requirement, and everybody had the opportunity to attend high school. But the test now determines the quality of the secondary school where they can enroll. The secondary school system In Kenya is divided into levels: National, Extra-county, Sun-county and County. “Quality goes down, with each,” Connell says. “So a Sub-county school might have nothing more than an under-prepared teacher, 100 students and a blackboard. There are National schools, equivalent to good high schools in the US,” she says. Connell says one of Kiwimbi’s Kenyan supporters shared that some high school’s don’t even have a science
lab, so when they take the mandatory test at the end of secondary school and it was time to use a microscope in the exam, there were schools where kids had never seen one because their schools didn’t have science labs. To be offered a university spot they must pass another exam at the culmination of high school. Most of the secondary schools are boarding schools, crucial for girls especially, so they have the opportunity to focus on their education and not be required to devote time for chores and housekeeping. Kiwimbi runs many programs to support education in rural Kenyan, including an intensive program at 3 schools where small group tutoring, one-on-one mentoring and a daily lunch are the main components. If students walk 45 minutes to school and 45 minutes home for lunch that may or may not be there and have to walk back for afternoon classes, many of the kids… (i.e., girls) would not return for afternoon classes. So in preparation for their first national exam, Kiwimbi provides nutritious lunch for Grade Eight students. “Feeding not only gives them brain power and nutrition, the ability to concentrate throughout their day — it keeps them there so they can focus on their education,” says the director of development and communications. The students in these 3 schools passed the 2020 KCPE at a rate of 63 percent, “Instead of the three percent average, usually achieved by similarily situated rural children, leaving a lot of 14-year-olds with no options,” she says. They are excited to see what March’s test will unveil.
Kiwimbi also provides access to books, newspapers and other resources in their library, in satellite libraries they established and through regular delivery of books to the three schools they work with in the intensive program, as continued on page 22
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Kenyan Children... continued from page 21 well as 72 schools in nearby villages. “Some of them come to us, either the class or the kids. Sometimes a teacher might get the books and bring them back,” the director of development and communications says the service is efficient. The Kiwimbi Community Centre was a rundown building owned by the county, now borrowed by Kiwimbi. They cleaned and painted the space, which houses the county’s (more than a million people) lone free public library. According to Connell, people come to charge their phones, read the newspapers, visit the museum, where they work on cultural preservation, and tailor and carpentry vocational programs. “We do outreach to three schools; an intense program includes daily lunch for the eighth-grade students, small group tutoring and one-on-one mentoring,” she says. “A government official named Kiwimbi as an Innovation Hub and installed fiber optic cable for more reliable Internet and a local NJ church (St. Luke’s in Gladstone) donated the money for us to put in solar panels. So we have reliable Internet,
reliable electricity, which is hard to come by (and) great, safe drinking water, which is also hard to come by.” Video of a 45-minute walk two kids took from their home hut to the Kiwimbi Library introduced Connell to the incredible experience. Her time at Kiwimbi since February 2020 has been transformative. “I find it fulfilling and challenging in all the right ways to work towards supporting the efforts of the students,” the director of development and communications says they’re hard workers. She was attracted to this cause because of her commitment to education, years as a third-grade (and preschool) teacher. “I was a Big Sister in college, taught Sunday school with my kids and was a Brownie leader,” says Connell. “I started at Kiwimbi in more of an administrative capacity; the position grew over the last two years. I like the people I work with, our organization, Kenyan culture is fascinating and enriching to me.” In 2010 Lynne Rathgeber, Board Chair of Kiwimbi International reached out to Prof. Olubayi Olubayi as a friend to help become more involved with non-profit work for the most underserved.
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Over the course of their chat, Olubayi told her of his move back to Kenya after years as an American student and teacher. “Early education he was at risk of not proceeding to secondary school because of having trouble with math, and Kenya’s exam system weeded out children like him,” Rathgeber says. “He was fortunate and got help, earning a Ph.D. in microbiology.” The professor explained back then children in rural Kenya faced the same door-die exams. “Rural children, even the brightest, could not move ahead academically because their schools were too poor to teach them,” the Board Chair says Olubayi wanted to share educational opportunities with a new generation of children, and she wanted to help. So Rathgeber and the professor gathered a group of like-minded friends to develop the concept that became Kiwimbi — a Community Learning Center serves as a source of academic and vocational training, free to all and separate from, but complementary to, the public school system. “Kiwimbi” is a Swahili word meaning ripple. “That person will be able to earn a
better living, support their family and benefit the wider community, spreading like a ripple through water,” she says, of the effect. It was a massive pursuit. Rathgeber had never been to Kenya, so in 2012 she, husband John and daughter Natalie took their first trip to witness it firsthand, engage with the people to understand if the Kiwimbi concept made sense and would be welcome, and learn about the communities benefiting from their educational opportunity. She calls it a diverse and beautiful country. “We didn’t see it all, but did see the big city (Nairobi), a bit of the largest slum in Africa (Kibera), high mountains (Mt. Kenya), vast plains (Masai Mara), spectacular game (lions, hippos, giraffes, elephants, hyenas, antelope, zebra, wildebeest… so many); industrious people walking everywhere, and smiling children thrilled to see their first white people,” the Board Chair says they fell in love. Seeing people make do on tiny farmsteads with mud huts, water from the river, no electricity, reliant on a changing climate Rathgeber calls an eye-opener. continued on page 24
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CúChullain Pipe Band of Morris County Celebrates 45 Years
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By Steve Sears t all began with Michael J. Smith 45 years ago. A.J. McCann, Pipe Major and 26-year member of the CúChullain (koo-hull-in) Pipe Band, gives the details in brief. “It was Saint Patrick’s Day, and he (Smith) was sitting in a bar in Mine Hill, New Jersey. He was a piper and he said, ‘You know, I think we should have a parade!’ He went out, got his pipes out of the car, and he walked down to the end of Main Street in Mine Hill - just him and a bunch of people behind him. That was the first parade, and that’s how he decided he was going to form a band.” That march of a dozen people was the beginning of the CúChullain Pipe Band, an organization dedicated to preserving traditional Celtic music. It still is the first pipe band ever established in Morris County. The CúChullain Pipe Band is a familyoriented group, which is the way Smith wanted it. “He didn’t want a band with a lot of tensions and rivalries because, over the course of years, you see bands come and go and a lot of it is due to infighting
amongst members,” McCann says. “He was really big on making sure this stayed a family event. Since then, we’ve had people come, they joined the band at a young age, they go to college, they get married, they have kids, and now their kids are in the band.” Mike Houston is in his seventh year as a CúChullain Pipe Band member. He started piping at age 48, and now serves as the organization’s secretary. He says of his role, “It’s really just a matter of keeping communication going, doing what I can to recruit new members. Most of the members of the band have been around a long, long time. You become a member of the band, and you stay a member of the band; there’s not a lot of moving around. And I also like that it’s been in Morris County since 1977, it has a lot of history, and it’s also family-oriented.” McCann’s family is a perfect example. His two sons, Alexander and Matthew, now ages 18 and 14 respectively, have marched with him in the band since they were able to walk. “At three years old, they were marching down the street with me, but now they march beside me. My son is
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the Pipe Sergeant, he just got promoted this past year. For the people in the band, it’s a huge family that never ends. It just keeps on growing. Somebody can come back who’s been with the band and gone for 20 years can step right in and, boom, you’re back in the family again. We have a lot of fun doing what we do.” McCann’s wife of 26 years, Pam, also plays a major role. “She’s been very supportive,” her husband says. “She actually was a drummer in the band many years ago, a tenor drummer. She’s had her hands in it too, and now she got elected to be the band manager. She runs the band now.” John Garrity has served as President of the CúChullain Pipe Band for five years and has been a member for 15 years. He also arranges the band’s music. “I have access to bagpipe music writing software. Really, at this point in time, I’m also the piping instructor, so I try to keep the music interesting. I’ll find stuff on the internet, I’ll transpose it into the software, make a bunch of copies, and then we’ll go on Thursday night and have fun.” Garrity also enjoys the family element of the band. “That’s the thing I’ve always loved about this band and why I would never think of leaving,” he says. “It is because of that whole family quality, and it’s absolutely true. When we go to parades, we’ll bring grills and just pick a side street, and we’ll just cook up some
hamburgers or something. And when you go to practice, you’re not going just to practice. You’re going to practice to see these people. It’s just a beautiful thing.” As Pipe Major, McCann is in charge of the music execution, practices, conducting, and leading the band in parades – and there are quite a few during this busiest part of the year for the CúChullain Pipe Band. “I think we have four parades in March to do,” McCann says. The band either leads or participates in the annual Morristown Saint Patrick’s Day Parade, and also marches in parades in Denville, Hackettstown, West Orange, and East Stroudsburg, Pennsylvania during the year. The CúChullain Pipe Band is always looking for new members, and training is provided. “You’re never too old to pick it up,” Houston says. “We meet every Thursday night (at the Rainbow Lakes clubhouse in Denville), and John is the instructor. He put together this curriculum that everybody uses, so we really keep on the same page, learning the same things at the same pace. But we take new members at any time during the year.” Perhaps Garrity puts it best. “I love to play the pipes,” he says, “but the reason I go is just for the people I’m playing the pipes with.” For more information about the CúChullain Pipe Band, visit their website at www.cuchullainpipeband.com.
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Kenyan Children... continued from page 22 The children spread the word about the visiting “wazungu” (white people), wanted to hold their hands and tried to converse (on a limited basis), as well as see photos on their phones and ask questions. “When we sat with them with Olubayi and other adults and asked about their aspirations, they were hopeful (which) we encouraged,” she says. “The sad truth is without access to better education, for the vast majority those might be pipe dreams, and limited in vision by the world around them. If you have never seen or known of a scientist, mathematician, engineer, writer, a painter… how can you aspire to become one?” After visiting this distant world Rathgeber says they knew they were doing the right thing in establishing Kiwimbi there. COVID hits marginalized and underserved students hardest. Kiwimbi continued its impactful work throughout the pandemic, while Kenya closed down. Travel was restricted, schools closed the better part of a year, masks were mandated, the country was cautious. Kenya was fortunate to not have the number of first-year infections of other nations. “But with schools closed, children could not access what few resources they might have had, education came to a standstill for the majority of Kenyan children, especially in rural areas where books were scarce and other services non-existent,” says the Board Chair, adding Kiwimbi worked within the restrictions and met with most of the children who depended on them.
They met in small groups outside and a limited number had access to enter and borrow library books, which they took to various small-group meetings around the countryside. The months’ long break did not result in a setback; it provided many a chance to catch up with students from more affluent areas. The path to liberation is knowledge and Rathgeber says Kiwimbi takes this route. Rather than give “things” to their beneficiaries, they share knowledge. “This is empowerment, not handouts,” she adds if a young person is educated, they have the power to earn a livelihood, ensure their siblings education, get a job off the tiny farm or create a successful business. “They can make educated decisions about who to elect to power and envision a village, county or country serving the best interests of their families, determine how to accomplish that, and make it happen.” With knowledge they can mold their own world. Thousands of children with access to books and other resources they didn’t have before — in Busia County (western Kenya) impacted, Kiwimbi sees the program as one to develop. “Having implemented the idea successfully there, we plan to replicate the model so we can expand our geographic impact to other underserved areas,” Rathgeber says. To learn more, visit www.kiwimbi. org or text KIWIMBI to 41444 and donate. Volunteering is also welcome.
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guide?” asked Barak Steenlage, co-owner of Anchor Builders. “The difference is worth the investment.” Beware of low estimates. When evaluating companies for your project, remember estimates you may find online don’t typically account for regional variations, the cost of various types of labor and necessary permits. “Cost estimates you find may be national averages that are lower than the costs in your city,” said Bjorn Freudenthal, homeowner advisor at New Spaces. “Also, they may only account for the cost of the replacement materials, not other costs like changing the floor plan or updating electrical, plumbing and HVAC systems. They might also be missing the costs of removal of hazardous materials like asbestos and lead paint.” The COVID-19 pandemic has also caused some materials to rise in cost, so it’s important to account for these increases. “Bad contractor stories come from people cutting corners and hiring unqualified people,” Anschel said. “When you’re paying bottom of the barrel, there’s no bandwidth for the contractor to solve problems.” Ensure you have proper permits. Not all projects require permits, but it is important to determine if your project requires one from your city or county. Make sure you (or your contractor) obtain one, if necessary, to ensure the safety of the work and its compliance with building, construction and zoning codes. “If a homeowner or contractor doesn’t pull permits and something goes wrong, the homeowner is liable to fix the problem,” Anschel said. “This additional cost could be
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