Jersey Inspires, Educates in Museums and Throughout NJ
by Jeff Garrett
If you’re venturing to the Jersey shore this summer, happen to be around Atlantic City and have a hankering to take in some African-American Culture, then you may want to visit the Noyes Arts Garage at 200 Fairmount Ave.
To celebrate Juneteenth, a night filled with poetry readings from some of the state’s most well-known African-American poets occurred on Wednesday, June 19.
10 well-known poets including Belinda Manning from Atlantic County, Cole Eubanks from Vineland, NJ and from Turiya Abdul-Raheem from Galloway, NJ recited poetry and discussed topics relevant to Juneteeth’s historical significance celebrating when slavery ended in America. Juneteenth was made a federal holiday to be celebrated on June 19 by President Biden in 2021.
While the poetry event on June 19 was memorable there’s a lot more to see and learn about at the Center.
Only 15 years old, the idea for the Center came when Buena Vista resident, Ralph Hunter, decided toshowcase his collection of African-American inspired collectibles from all over in a formal capacity to share with others. The mayor of Buena Vista offered Hunter space where he could showcase his cultural treasures in the mid-2000’s. Hunter, a retired retail worker always had a knack for observing his surroundings and collected things which people left on the card or discarded by any means. He saw significance in these items and just kept collecting.
There are now two locations of African American History – one in Atlantic City and one in Newtonville, located at 661 Jackson Street.
In each location, stories which may be looked upon as flattering or the opposite, unflattering, are told at the museums. The museums hope to shed light on black Americans hard road to freedom, the struggles black American have endured since the Emancipation Proclamation and the continued de-
bate about race relations in modern-day America.
On permanent display at Noyes is an exhibit titled, “Stereotypes: From Little Black Sambo to Aunt Jemima and Beyond.” It recognizes cinematic The Gold Dust Twins, Amos & Andy, Buckwheat — images used widely in advertising and print media to represent black Americans by proxy which influenced the perception of an entire race.
This is critical to today’s youth which did not experience such Media directly. By recognizing it, the museum hopes to ensure that young learners become aware of what their parents, grandparents and those before them had to endure. Its point is to show how negative and wrong such mass marketing was in the hopes that it never occurs again.
Another meaningful exhibit in Atlantic City is titled, “The Northside: The Way We Were,” highlighting the buoyancy of privileged African-American who found success as entertainers in the “Boardwalk Empire” era. The original “Club Harlem” door and sign is displayed too. Two other permanent exhibits titled, “Portraits of a People,” all found pictures of noteworthy African-American found in a crawlspace no less and one display of family furniture from earlier times owned by African-Americans are there for museum-goers to see.
A traveling exhibit sponsored by AAHMSNJ allows communities and schools to learn about African- American history in New Jersey and the rest of America. Exhibits showcasing the protests of organized black American outside Atlantic City’s Convention Hall at the 1964 Democratic National Convention as well as one highlighting the story of baseball-great Jackie Robinson are apart of the traveling exhibit which visits dozens of schools in New Jersey each school year. Admission to the museums are free but donations are strongly suggested. The Museum in Atlantic City is open from Wednesday through Sunday. Several limited-time exhibits and gatherings such as talks and discussions are ongoing and can be found by logging onto www.AAMHSNJ.org.
Wearing eyeglasses is not strictly reserved for adults.
In fact, many children wear eyeglasses, and they may need them for different reasons. The American Association for Pediatric Ophthalmology and Strabismus says children may benefit from glasses while their visual systems are still developing, within the first 12 years of life. Glasses can be important for the normal development of kids’ vision, including providing better vision; straightening
crossed or misaligned eyes; protecting one eye that sees better when the other eye has poor vision; and strengthening a weak (lazy) eye. The University of Rochester Medical Center says a child may get his or her first pair of glasses as young as a few months of age, but health care providers who specialize in pediatric eye care say kids usually become nearsighted or farsighted between the ages of six and 12. It’s recommended children have an eye screening before they
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enter school. In addition, the American Academy of Ophthalmology and the American Optometric Association recommends vision screening for all infants, preschoolers and schoolaged children.
tween the ages of three and 12. Active duty military members are admitted for free as do museum members. U.S. Military Veterans receive a $2.00 discount and dependents must pay regular admission.
NAS Museum Hours are from 10am-4pm daily from March through December and closed on weekends during January and February. It is located at 500 Forrestal Rd, Cape May, NJ 08204.
For more information about the NAS Aviation Museum and in Wildwood, logon to www.usnasw.org.
The Incredible Healing Power of Prayer
By Richard Mabey Jr.
Growing up in the old Mabey Homestead in Lincoln Park, Grandma and Grandpa Mabey lived with us. If you faced the old farmhouse, my bedroom was on the second floor, in the front of the house on the right hand side. Grandma and Grandpa’s bedroom was right behind mine. Both of our bedrooms looked out to West Drive on the side. When I was 12 years old, I had a severe case of Rheumatic Fever. For one full year of my life, my feet never touched the ground. I spent the entire year, except for the times I was in the hospital, in my bedroom. Grandpa would often come into my room to visit with me. He loved to tell me his remembrances of working on the old Morris Canal. For decades, Grandpa served as the Chief Engineer of Incline cont. on page 6
An old, old picture of my dear paternal grandparents, Watson and Bertha Mabey.
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But more than telling me wonderful and colorful tales of life along the old Morris Canal, Grandpa would often pray for me. Grandpa would sit at my old desk chair, on the right hand side of my bed and pray and pray and pray for me. While sitting down, Grandpa would place his right hand upon my right shoulder, close his eyes and most earnestly pray for God to heal me.
The late Dr. Martin Rosenthal was my doctor. He would climb up the 15 steps of the old Mabey Homestead, with his little black bag in one hand and a portable EKG Machine in his other hand. He was a wonderful doctor.
I remember one time, Dr. Rosenthal entered my bedroom while Grandpa was praying for me. Grandpa was so lost in praying for me, that it took him a few seconds to realize that Dr. Rosenthal was in my room with us. I think that Dr. Rosenthal was a little amazed of the sincerity and earnest voice tone of my dear grandfather’s prayer.
I deeply believe, without one iota of doubt, that my grandfather’s prayers greatly helped me to heal. For the strep infection had moved from my throat to the valves of my heart. I was most seriously ill.
My grandfather, Watson Mabey, did not have a lot of formal education, yet he was one of the wisest men I have ever known. He knew the ways of wildlife. He had a great knowledge of wild flowers. He would often leave apples at the end of Mabey Lane, in the forest area, for the deer to enjoy.
Grandpa went Home to be with the Lord in May of 1968. I don’t think a day has gone by that I haven’t thought about that dear, kind, gentle, strong old man. In many ways, he taught me the fine art of story telling.
If there is one thing I can share with you, dear reader, it is this. Never, ever, ever underestimate the incredible healing power of prayer. For God loves you, more than you will ever know.
Richard Mabey Jr. is a freelance writer. He hosts a YouTube Channel titled, “Richard Mabey Presents.” Richard most recently published a book of poetry and short stories. He can be reached at richardmabeyjr@gmail.com.
By Steve Sears
On June 13 at the Dover Sportsplex
in Dover, New Jersey, representatives of the new Entertainment Football Association (ENTFLA), announced at their introductory press conference that Morristown had been awarded a three of four available franchises for the inaugural 2025 summer season.
The 2,500 seat William G. Mennen Sports Arena will be the Morristown team’s home arena. A coach for the Morristown team has not yet been hired, and the team's name is up to the fans, who can visit he league website at https:// www.goentfla.com/morris-county/ and make suggestions. In September, the franchise will also host an in-school coloring contest for students to design the
Morristown uniforms. National Football League Hall of Famer, Andre Reed, Commissioner of the new Entertainment Football League (ENTFLA), a brand of the Entertainment Football Association, said, “There's nothing better than to see a community come together through sports. Especially in small towns like Morristown, communities feel a sense of pride when there is a strong purpose to uplift all those involved there. Businesses begin to flourish more when everybody is involved. Our communities are an important part to cities being uplifted by the people who live and prosper.”
Dave Helmer, who is in his 21st year as the Executive Director of the Morris County Parks Commission, said of the selection of Morristown, “Just to be consid-
ered, with the history that Morris County has from a youth football perspective, I think it is great. I think this, in a community where people know each other and get to know each other, is just a great opportunity for us.”
The ENTFLA is a unique brand of football. Seven players on each side of the line of scrimmage on a 50-yard field, no huddles, no kicking field goals or punting. You go for it on fourth down, and for a two-point conversion following a touchdown, which translates into high scoring games. There are 12-minute quarters and 20 seconds between each play.
And, should a pass wind up in the stands, the first fan to catch the ball or recover it gets to keep it.
However, the ENTFLA will be much more than
football. Consider that sandwiching the game itself is energetic, pregame activity with live music, and youngsters elevating themselves in bounce houses while sharing the parking lot with barbequing tailgaters. Then, once doors open, an electric atmosphere of in-
door laser lights, smoke and fireworks will greet entering fans. At halftime, America's Got Talent contestants will perform, and once the game is over, the fans are allowed on the field to meet the players, coaches, and cheerleaders.
Finally, a fairly high-level
concert will close the afternoon.
Tommy Benizio of BeniZio Sports, who for about 30 years has either owned or operated professional sports teams, started a consulting firm that works with pro sports teams and leagues on their business
Dr. Frank Plateroti Announces the Release of His Second Book in Historical Fiction Trilogy New Jersey Author’s New Book Now Available on Amazon
Dr. Frank Plateroti released the second book in the East Clifton Avenue book series, “La Prossima Generazione – The Next Generation.” Simultaneously, he launched an expanded 2024 edition of the first book in the series, “East Clifton Avenue, Origins – from Sicily to America,” which features deeper characterization and an enhanced storyline.
The “East Clifton Avenue” series, a fictional saga inspired by true events, traces the journey of the Buonoforte family who immigrated from Sicily to American in the early 20th century. Like many Italian immigrants, family patriarch Enzo Buonoforte, and his wife, Anna, sought a better life and a brighter future for their eight children. This series follows the Buonofortes as they settle in Clifton, New Jersey, capturing their sacrifices, heartbreaks, and the complex familial dynamics that will shape the family for generations to come.
“’East Clifton Avenue’ is a timeless story for all families and all seasons of life,” said Dr. Frank Plateroti. “It reflects the early chapters of my life growing up with my mother’s family. Interwoven throughout the story are a family’s struggles to adapt to a new country while desperately trying to preserve their cultural traditions – a narrative that will evoke every emotion. I am excited to share the second book of the trilogy with the world – a story so near and dear to my heart.”
Dr. Frank Plateroti, a New Jersey native, holds a Doctorate Degree in Education Research with a concentration in psychology and a Master’s Degree in Communication with a concentration in television and film production. For the past two decades, he has been a distinguished professor in the communication department at William Paterson University, teaching courses in television production, media studies, and intrapersonal and interpersonal communication.
Before his teaching career, Dr. Plateroti worked in public relations and television pro -
duction, forming his own international production company. Additionally, Dr. Plateroti is the author of “Speak No Evil: In Search of Out Self-Esteem, Self-Identity, and Self-Worth,” a culmination of his twenty years of teaching experience. An updated second edition of this book is slated for release later this year. “Speak No Evil” addresses all forms of communication, with a special focus on personal, familial, and romantic relationships. Beyond his literary achievement, Dr. Plateroti is active in award-winning home renovations, maintains real estate and financial investments, and is a recording vocalist. For more information, visit www.drfjpesteem.com.
From Plateroti Communication Publishing
EAST CLIFTON AVENUE - A Family Trilogy
Author Dr. Frank Plateroti
Dr. Frank Plateroti earned his Doctorate Degree in Education Research, with a concentration in psychology. He also earned a Master’s Degree in Communication, with a concentration in television and film production. For over twenty years, Dr. Plateroti had taught in the communication department at William Paterson University. Prior to his teaching, he was an international television producer, writer, and director working with network and cable news companies and formed his own international production company.
Today, Dr. Plateroti further established his writing career by republishing the 2024 updated and expanded first book of his trilogy, East Clifton Avenue, and also the simultaneous launch of Book 2. He is also writing the updated, Second Edition of his communication book, Speak No Evil, for the fall of this year.
East Clifton Avenue is a riveting family saga crossing cultures and generations. Nothing is more important to patriarch, Enzo Buonoforte, than family. But when he dies unexpectedly, the family is thrown into chaos. Old jealousies arise, sacrifices must be made, and disappointments ensue. Can the Buonofortes weather the dramatic and heartbreaking aftermath to restore Enzo’s legacy of unconditional love and joy? “Bless the family that stays together.”
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Support a Local Author
Zachary Slater is a resident of Pompton Lakes graduating from PLHS in 2021 and is currently attending college as a marketing major with a minor in creative writing. Zachary wrote the book Hero’s Heart: A Tale of Love and Deception which is now available on Amazon under the books section in paperback and digital formats. Zachary is working on a second book called Knights and Shadows, a sequel to the first book. Zachary is an avid enjoyer of video games where choices impact the game that you play and has taken inspiration from them such as The Witcher, Dragon Age, and Mass Effect.
After surviving a prison escape, Frederick Smith has no recollection of who he is or why he was in prison and must undergo trials and tribulations to rediscover his identity. The only thing that he can remember vaguely is a woman with red hair. Was she his enemy who got him thrown in prison in the first place or was she his lover? Only time will tell. Along the way, Frederick is joined by a former knight and a battle-hardened soldier but are his new friends telling him everything or are they hiding secrets? Will Frederick be able to recover his memory before a sinister plot overtakes his beloved Anglia or will he remain in the dark? And who is the Nightingale?
If you would like to meet with the author and get a signed copy, he works with his family at Family Carpets in Riverdale on 42 NJ-23. Call 973-835-0988 to schedule a time to meet with him and get your in-person copy
HERO’S HEART:
A Tale of Love and Deception
A steel and sorcery adventure novel filled with mystery, deception, and a tale of unbreakable love. Filled with memorable characters and gripping quests.
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Serve Up a Summertime Spread
Few things complement warm weather like a summer spread with everyone's favorite foods. From fresh appetizers and classics like grilled hot dogs to skewered sides and sweet, sugary desserts, these summertime recipes are sure to bring friends, family and neighbors running to get in on the action.
To find more recipe ideas that bring the heat to summer cookouts, visit Culinary.net.
Up Your Grilling Game with Beloved Toppings
Hot dogs and brats are summer favorites for a reason: the delicious (and personalized) add-ons. Make sure your spread fits everyone's taste buds with an assortment of tasty toppings like these:
* Ketchup * Mustard
* Relish * Hot sauce
* Onions * Pickles
* Sauerkraut * Cole slaw
* Jalapenos * Diced tomatoes
* Guacamole * Nacho cheese
* Shredded cheese
Start Summer Meals with a Bright, Fresh Salad
Bright colors and fresh flavor bring out the best in summer meals, starting with seasonal salads that look as though the ingredients were just picked from a garden. Orange, grapefruit and avocado are perfect accompaniments in this Citrus Spring Mix Salad when paired with Fresh Express Spring Mix. This garden-fresh blend combines carefully selected tender baby butter and red and
green leaf lettuces with baby greens including spinach, arugula and kale that are picked when the tiny leaves are perfect and whole.
With more than 100 varieties of fresh, healthy and convenient ready-to-eat salads, as well as an assortment of salad greens you can use to create your ideal summer dishes, the kits and lettuce blends are available in the refrigerated product department of your favorite grocery store.
Visit freshexpress.com to discover more than 300 fresh recipes and find availability near you.
Citrus Spring Mix Salad
Prep time: 5 minutes
Total time: 10 minutes
Servings: 2
Dressing:
1/4 cup orange juice
1 teaspoon grated orange zest
1 teaspoon white wine vinegar
1/4 teaspoon Dijon mustard
1/2 teaspoon sugar
1/8 teaspoon salt
Salad:
1 package (5 ounces) Fresh Express Spring Mix
1 navel orange, peeled and sectioned
1 red grapefruit, peeled and sectioned
1 avocado, peeled, pitted and sliced
1/4 cup red onion, thinly sliced
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To make dressing: In small bowl, whisk orange juice, orange zest, white wine vinegar, Dijon mustard, sugar and salt. Set aside.
To make salad: In large bowl, toss spring mix with salad dressing. Divide salad evenly among two plates. Top with oranges, grapefruit, avocado and onion.
A Simple, Skewered Side
Keep your summer meals simple by leaning into versatile ingredients that can help you whip up a variety of side dishes.
These Grilled Red Potato Skewers display the delicious, nutritious, versatile qualities of Wisconsin Potatoes. With a multitude of varieties, they're a favorite among world-class chefs, home cooks, large and small supermarkets and even the pickiest of eaters. It can be love at first bite with these 100% gluten-free potatoes that can add a touch of nutrition to summer cookouts. They're a good source of vitamin B6, high in vitamin C, rich in potassium and an excellent source of fiber.
Find more recipe ideas by visiting eatwisconsinpotatoes.com.
Grilled Red Potato Skewers
Recipe courtesy of the Wisconsin Potato & Vegetable Growers Association
Prep time: 10 minutes
Cook time: 20 minutes
Servings: 4
2 medium russet or Yukon gold Wisconsin potatoes or 6 red Wisconsin potatoes
2 medium zucchini
1/2 smoked sausage rope
4 skewers (12 inches each) 1/2 cup Italian dressing
Preheat grill to medium heat. Cut potatoes in half. Cut zucchini and sausage same width as potatoes. Skewer potatoes, zucchini and sausage. Repeat for each skewer.
Place skewers in dish and cover with Italian dressing. Marinate 5 minutes.
Place skewers on grill and cook 5 minutes on each side, or until potatoes are done. Remove from grill and serve.
Cap the Night with a Brown Sugar Delight
Summer meals from small plates to grilled fare may be tasty, but don't fill up entirely on the main course. Remember to save room for your favorite warm-weather sweets. These Brown Sugar Meringues provide bursting summertime flavor in a little, handheld bite. They're ideal for sharing with loved ones after a weekend barbecue or birthday celebration and, with just a few ingredients, they're as easy to make as they are to enjoy.
To help bake this delicious dessert, you can trust Domino to deliver quality, consistency and results that only a century of experience can bring. Its Light Brown Sugar offers a buttery, caramel flavor, making it a perfect choice for sweets of all kinds.
Find more summery sweets at DominoSugar.com.
Time for a Summer BBQ
Fire Up the Grill
Brown Sugar Meringues
Prep time: 20 minutes
Cook time: 1 hour, plus 1 hour rest time
Yield: 3 dozen meringues
Water
6 large egg whites, at room temperature
1 cup Domino Light Brown Sugar
3/4 cup Domino Granulated Sugar Easy Baking Tub
1/8 teaspoon salt
2 tablespoons Domino Turbinado Sugar (optional)
Preheat oven to 225 F. Line three baking sheets with parchment paper. Set aside.
Pour 1 inch of water into medium saucepan and heat it until simmering. In heat-proof bowl, mix egg whites, brown sugar, granulated sugar and salt. Put bowl on top of saucepan and warm mixture until it reaches 125 F. Stir continuously and make sure mixture does not touch water.
Carefully remove from heat. Using electric mixer, beat mixture at high speed 8-10 minutes. Transfer meringue into piping bag fitted with star tip. Pipe 12 meringues per baking sheet.
Sprinkle turbinado sugar on top of meringues, if desired. Bake 1 hour. Turn off oven and allow meringues to rest inside oven 1 hour. Remove from oven and enjoy.
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Bring Loved Ones Together at Mealtime with Protein-Packed Peanuts
Between juggling work, family, friends and social activities, powering through busy day-to-day schedules requires a lot of energy. Building meals around recipes packed with a plant-based protein such as peanuts or peanut butter can help your family come together to refuel.
In fact, at 7 grams per serving, a nutrient-rich powerhouse like peanuts delivers the most protein of any nut and contains six essential vitamins - vitamin E, folate, riboflavin, thiamin, niacin and vitamin B6 - and seven essential minerals - phosphorus, iron, magnesium, potassium, zinc, copper and calcium.
As a versatile ingredient that can be enjoyed as a standalone snack or part of a variety of recipes, peanuts can take center stage at the family table when it's time to recharge. Start with an appetizer like Broccoli and Edamame Salad with Peanut Dressing, which can be on the table in 10 minutes, to hold over hunger ahead of a protein-packed main course like Chicken with Peanut Sauce in Lettuce Wraps.
Find more delicious ideas for keeping your family energized at gapeanuts.com.
Chicken with Peanut Sauce in Lettuce Wraps
Recipe courtesy of Parker's Plate on behalf of the Georgia Peanut Commission
Prep time: 10 minutes
Cook time: 15 minutes
Servings: 4
2 pounds ground chicken
2 tablespoons sesame oil
3/4 cup diced shiitake mushrooms
1 small onion, diced
2 garlic cloves, grated
1 1/2 tablespoons fresh grated ginger
1/2 cup hoisin sauce
1/2 cup water chestnuts, diced
3 green onions (both white and green parts), chopped
2 garlic cloves, grated
1/4 cup cilantro, chopped, for garnish
1/4 cup crushed peanuts, for garnish
iceberg or butter lettuce, for wraps
Peanut Sauce:
3 tablespoons creamy peanut butter
2 teaspoons brown sugar
1 tablespoon fresh lime juice
2 tablespoons chili garlic sauce
1 teaspoon fresh grated ginger
1 tablespoon soy sauce
In pan, saute ground chicken in sesame
oil until cooked through. Drain if mixture is watery.
Add shiitake mushrooms and onion; saute until mushrooms have softened and appear caramel colored.
Add garlic, ginger, hoisin, water chestnuts and green onions. Let chicken mixture simmer on low.
To make peanut sauce: In saucepan over medium-low heat, mix peanut butter,
brown sugar, lime juice, chili garlic sauce, ginger and soy sauce until smooth, warm and thinned slightly.
Fold into chicken mixture. Stir until combined and simmer on low until peanut sauce is evenly distributed.
Garnish with fresh cilantro and crushed peanuts. Serve in lettuce wraps.
Broccoli and Edamame Salad with Peanut Dressing Recipe courtesy of Parker's Plate on behalf of the Georgia Peanut Commission
Prep time: 10 minutes
Cook time 5 minutes
Servings: 4
Dressing:
1/2 fresh lime, juice only
1/4 cup toasted sesame seed oil
3 tablespoons honey
2 tablespoons tahini
3 tablespoons creamy peanut butter
1 teaspoon chili oil
1 garlic clove, grated
1 teaspoon fresh ginger, grated kosher salt, to taste
1 tablespoon hot water, plus additional for thinner consistency (optional)
Salad:
2 cups broccoli slaw
1 cup shelled edamame, cooked
1 1/2 cups chopped raw broccoli
1/2 cup English cucumber, quartered and chopped
1/4 cup fresh mint, chopped
1/4 cup fresh cilantro, chopped
1/4 cup salted peanuts, roughly chopped toasted sesame seeds, for garnish (optional)
To make dressing: In bowl, whisk lime juice, toasted sesame seed oil, honey, tahini, peanut butter, chili oil, garlic, ginger and salt, to taste. Add hot water, adding additional, if necessary, until dressing reaches desired consistency. Set aside.
To make salad: In large bowl, combine broccoli slaw, edamame, broccoli, cucumber, mint, cilantro and peanuts. Toss with dressing to combine and garnish with toasted sesame seeds, if desired.
Source: Georgia Peanut Commission
Dr. Frank Plateroti Announces the Release of His Second Book in Historical Fiction Trilogy New Jersey Author’s New Book Now Available on Amazon
Dr. Frank Plateroti released the second book in the East Clifton Avenue book series, “La Prossima Generazione – The Next Generation.” Simultaneously, he launched an expanded 2024 edition of the first book in the series, “East Clifton Avenue, Origins – from Sicily to America,” which features deeper characterization and an enhanced storyline.
The “East Clifton Avenue” series, a fictional saga inspired by true events, traces the journey of the Buonoforte family who immigrated from Sicily to American in the early 20th century. Like many Italian immigrants, family patriarch Enzo Buonoforte, and his wife, Anna, sought a better life and a brighter future for their eight children. This series follows the Buonofortes as they settle in Clifton, New Jersey, capturing their sacrifices, heartbreaks, and the complex familial dynamics that will shape the family for generations to come.
“’East Clifton Avenue’ is a timeless story for all families and all seasons of life,” said Dr. Frank Plateroti. “It reflects the early chapters of my life growing up with my mother’s family. Interwoven throughout the story are a family’s struggles to adapt to a new country while desperately trying to preserve their cultural traditions – a narrative that will evoke every emotion. I am excited to share the second book of the trilogy with the world – a story so near and dear to my heart.”
Dr. Frank Plateroti, a New Jersey native, holds a Doctorate Degree in Education Research with a concentration in psychology and a Master’s Degree in Communication with a concentration in television and film production. For the past two decades, he has been a distinguished professor in the communication department at William Paterson University, teaching courses in television production, media studies, and intrapersonal and interpersonal communication.
Before his teaching career, Dr. Plateroti worked in public relations and television pro -
duction, forming his own international production company. Additionally, Dr. Plateroti is the author of “Speak No Evil: In Search of Out Self-Esteem, Self-Identity, and Self-Worth,” a culmination of his twenty years of teaching experience. An updated second edition of this book is slated for release later this year. “Speak No Evil” addresses all forms of communication, with a special focus on personal, familial, and romantic relationships. Beyond his literary achievement, Dr. Plateroti is active in award-winning home renovations, maintains real estate and financial investments, and is a recording vocalist. For more information, visit www.drfjpesteem.com.
From Plateroti Communication Publishing
Author Dr. Frank Plateroti
Dr. Frank Plateroti earned his Doctorate Degree in Education Research, with a concentration in psychology. He also earned a Master’s Degree in Communication, with a concentration in television and film production. For over twenty years, Dr. Plateroti had taught in the communication department at William Paterson University. Prior to his teaching, he was an international television producer, writer, and director working with network and cable news companies and formed his own international production company.
Today, Dr. Plateroti further established his writing career by republishing the 2024 updated and expanded first book of his trilogy, East Clifton Avenue, and also the simultaneous launch of Book 2. He is also writing the updated, Second Edition of his communication book, Speak No Evil, for the fall of this year. East Clifton Avenue is a riveting family saga crossing cultures and generations. Nothing is more important to patriarch, Enzo Buonoforte, than family. But when he dies unexpectedly, the family is thrown into chaos. Old jealousies arise, sacrifices must be made, and disappointments ensue. Can the Buonofortes weather the dramatic and heartbreaking aftermath to restore Enzo’s legacy of unconditional love and joy? “Bless the family that stays together.”
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By Jeff Garrett
Not far from Princeton University in the town itself, there’s a house with tremendous history and mystique with luxurious gardens just waiting to be explored if you haven’t visited yet. Located at 55 Stockton Street, Morven is an operational showcase of New Jersey through means such as special events, educational offerings and wellthemed and well-timed exhibitions to enlighten a visitor’s arrival.
of Independence and has a college named after him in New Jersey among other worldly achievements, Morven was constructed in the 1750’s when Richard was in his 20’s. It gets its name thanks to Richard’s wife Annis who Richard married in the late 1750’s. Annis Boudinnot decided to name the house “Morven” calling out a mythical castle of King Fingal in Scottish writer and poet, James MacPherson’s, “Ossiamic Saga,” which in Gaelic means “big hill.”
Built by well-known historical figure Richard Stockton, who signed the Declaration
Aptly named, the original residence burned a great deal of the massive structure to
1958 with bricks, some of the actual original brick sits on display in the West Wing of the house. Years passed before the Revolutionary War started. The interim years between rebuilding the home saw Richard, Sr and Annie raise their son, Richard, Jr, before the three needed to flee their residence with the British occupation. Decades later in 1840, Robert Stockton inherited Morven where his mother lived until 1837.
ALL ABOUT PETS
What to Know About Sharing a Bed with Pets
Pets provide companionship for thousands of people around the world, so it is understandable that pet owners want to be around their companion animals as much as possible - with many even welcoming them into their beds.
According to PetMd, an online animal healthcare resource, around 80 percent of pet owners allow pets to share beds with human family members. Data from the American Pet Products Association has found at least half of all pet parents allow pets to sleep with them every night. Whether this is safe, healthy, or wise is a matter of debate.
There are pros and cons to sharing a bed with pets. Understanding those pros and cons can help pet owners make more informed decisions.
Pro: Get into a relaxed state. Companion animals can help relieve stress, which may translate into better sleep for their owners. Some people find that the rhythmic breathing of dogs or cats can help lull them to sleep.
Con: Possible transmission of illness or zoonotic agents. Snuggling so close to a pet may put people at risk of acquiring illnesses that are transmitted from animal to human. In the past, MRSA skin infections and H1N1 influenza have been transferred from pets to people.
Pro: Pets are warm. If the goal is to get cozy under the covers, animals can provide a little extra warmth, as their body temperatures run a few degrees warmer than their owners’.
Con: An extra body in bed can disturb sleep. Just as individuals may have trouble with a spouse or a child being in the bed next to them, pets can bring about the same disturbances. In a study from the Mayo Clinic Sleep Disorders Center, 53% of pet owners surveyed said their pets disturbed their sleep in some way each night. Dogs that snore and cats that chase “prey” around the room can disturb their owners’ sleep.
Pro: A deeper connection forms between pet and owner. Many pets like to be around their owners because it gives them reassurance and comfort that they are loved. Animals that were rescued or are anxiety prone may be especially comforted by snuggling in bed with their owners. Happy pets
often make for happy owners.
Con: It may cause behavioral problems. Dogs in particular may mistake sleeping in their owners’ beds as a sign of dominance. Some veterinarians suggest puppies that are more prone to issues with aggression may fully develop these behaviors if allowed to sleep with humans. At the very least, it is advisable to wait until dogs are trained and exhibiting good behavior for extended periods of time before allowing them to sleep in their owners’ beds.
Pro: It’s a sign of trust. According to Victoria Stilwell, an internationally renowned dog trainer, dogs only sleep with the people or dogs they trust. Therefore, dogs who like sleeping with their owners are exhibiting trust and recognizing the same from their owners.
Whether or not to allow dogs or cats to share personal spaces like beds, is a decision pet owners have to make. It should be based on safety, comfort, and mutual agreement with any other bed partners.
Dr. Matthew Krupnick is the owner of the Pequannock Animal Hospital. He grew up in Kinnelon and is happy to be home – with his wife, three cats, and two dogs – to provide quality and compassionate care for pets in the community. The Pequannock Animal Hospital is located at 591 Newark Pompton Turnpike in Pompton Plains. You can reach the hospital by calling 973-616-0400.
High-ROI Home Projects
Whether you're looking to add value for potential sale or simply create a more comfortable living space, now is the perfect time to breathe new life into your home with projects that provide a high return on investment (ROI).
Consider these top home renovation projects from the experts at Westlake Royal Building Products - a leader in innovation, design and production of exterior and interior building products including siding, trim, mouldings, roofing, stone, windows, outdoor living and more - based on the 2024 Cost vs. Value Report from "Remodeling Magazine."
Remodel the Kitchen and Bathroom
The average seller can expect an 96.1% return on a light touch to the kitchen, according to the report, and 73.7% on a modest bathroom renovation. Because personal preferences can vary widely among buyers, minor upgrades can provide a higher ROI than large, upscale remodels. A few easy ways to refresh your kitchen or bathroom include updating shelving or adding new hardware. Decorative trim and mouldings are also cost-effective ways to add visual interest.
Upgrade with Stone Veneer
As natural and textured home trends continue, homeowners are gravitating toward stone veneer, or manufactured stone, as it can replicate the look of real stone, adding comfort, character and beauty to homes. An option like Versetta Stone from Westlake Royal Building Products offers the authentic, handcrafted look of stone in a panelized format that's easy to install with nails and screws. There's also no need to paint, coat or seal once installed. Ideal for its ability to add texture and dimension throughout both home interior (accent walls and fireplaces) and exterior applications (siding, entryways and walkways), stone veneer - which comes with a 153.2% ROI - can influence mood, emotion and energy levels while serving as a focal point of your home's design.
Install New Windows
Depending on the harshness of winter in your area and the age of your home, you may notice certain windows have developed drafts, allowing cold air to enter and heat to escape. Replacing drafty or outdated windows with modern, energy-efficient models is one of the most effective ways to enhance your home's energy efficiency. Additionally, a vinyl window replacement brings approximately 67.1% ROI.
Replace Siding
In some cases, applying a fresh coat of paint is enough to refresh your home. However, if you're looking to enhance your home's curb appeal while making a long-term impact, consider installing new siding or replacing existing siding. Because vinyl siding serves as an additional layer of insulation, improving the energy efficiency of your heating and cooling systems, it offers a 80.2% ROI. Weather-resistant, low-maintenance siding like Celect Cellular Composite Siding, which is now available in on-trend colors including Imperial Red, a robust shade of red; Deep Pewter, a compellingly modern forest green; and Timberland, a rich, natural brown, won't warp, sag or buckle and is built to withstand even the harshest weather conditions. Its patented interlocking joints provide a seamless look and it's easy to install in small spaces, like along a knee or pony wall.
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Update Decking
If you want to entertain guests outside, it's a perfect time to get your patio or deck ready. While a new coat of stain can update your existing deck's appearance and help protect it, now is also an ideal time to build a deck if your home doesn't currently have one. When choosing a decking material, cost and maintenance are two factors to consider. Composite decking offers a 68.2% ROI and is low maintenance as it's not susceptible to cracking, warping and weather damage.
Find more ideas to update your home at WestlakeRoyalBuildingProducts.com.
Source: Westlake Royal Building Products (Family Features)
New Businesses Join the Community
On June 14th, Bloomingdale welcomed 3D Pets and DIVE to the Borough. These two joint businesses create custom, full-limb prosthetic limbs and carts for pets and 3d printing manufacturing for businesses. Very unique businesses that serve a special purpose which Bloomingdale is thrilled to join their business community. 3D Pets and DIVE are located at 84 Main St.
Pictured: Mayor John D’Amato, Council President John Graziano, Borough Administrator Mike Sondermeyer, co-founders Alex Tholl and Adam Hecht, Lydia Mindek, Kristin Sanger, the Bloomingdale Economic Development Commission’s Michele Reynolds and Leanne Scaturro (not pictured), Shelby Reynolds, and Marea and Gabrielle Scaturro.
7 Ways to Reduce Energy Bills During Summer Heat
With temperatures forecasted to run at least 2 degrees higher than historical averages across more than half the country, according to projections from AccuWeather, heat waves may lead to soaring air-conditioning bills this summer.
"The summer is when we see homeowners strategizing about how to keep their homes cool and comfortable while sticking to their household budgets," said Michael Williford, HVAC service manager at Hiller Plumbing, Heating, Cooling & Electrical. "We work with customers to keep their current HVAC systems running smoothly or upgrade to more efficient systems, which can make a huge difference in their utility bills. In addition, there are many other ways homeowners can keep their energy costs down during the hot summer months."
Consider these smart, practical, cost-cutting tips for dialing down your energy bills.
Service HVAC Systems Regularly
To ensure the best cooling performance and efficiency possible, find a licensed contractor to keep your heating and cooling system well-maintained and serviced throughout the year. There are some tasks many homeowners can handle on their own, like keeping outdoor units free of debris and changing air filters. However, bringing in a professional 1-2 times a year for maintenance and to ensure proper function of ductwork and electrical components is also essential.
Use Appliances During Non-Peak Hours
Rather than using stoves, ovens and clothing dryers in the afternoon hours, consider doing so early in the morning or late in the evening. Peak time for many electricity providers is noon-6 p.m., meaning using appliances that heat up your home outside of this timeframe when conventional heating and cooling systems are likely running full throttle can help lower energy costs.
Upgrade Your Systems to an Energy-Saving Heat Pump
The Inflation Reduction Act (IRA) incentivizes homeowners who opt for energy-effi-
cient HVAC upgrades, including qualified heat pumps, which can boost seasonal energy efficiency ratios and increase efficiencies. For example, Mitsubishi Electric heat pumps provide more energy-efficient cooling that may equal cost and energy savings as well as a reduced carbon footprint for homeowners. These systems are equipped with inverter or variable-speed technology that allows systems to automatically ramp up or down the required amount of energy depending on the room's capacity. Although annual savings vary, some homeowners can save as much as $1,000 per year by switching to an all-electric heat pump.
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Fire Up the Grill
When temperatures soar, use the grill for cooking to help lower energy usage and save on air-conditioning costs. Alternatively, toaster ovens, air fryers and slow cookers use less energy than larger conventional stoves or ovens. Get creative by cooking a pizza in a chiminea or smoking favorite meats as alternatives to using your oven.
Stop Cooling Empty Rooms
One mistake many homeowners make is forgetting to adjust their temperature settings when leaving the house. Whether you're headed to the beach for the weekend or just headed to work for the day, blasting the air conditioner in an empty house can result in unnecessarily high utility bills. Multi-zone, all-electric heat pumps like those from Mitsubishi Electric allow homeowners to set the comfort level and adjust the temperature in each room, so you don't have to waste energy cooling unoccupied rooms. With a smartphone app, you can even adjust the settings remotely.
Install a Smart Electric Panel
Installing a smart electrical panel alongside an all-electric heat pump enables homeowners to monitor and control energy consumption on-site or remotely using a smartphone for better overall efficiency and utility cost savings.
Harness the Sun's Energy with Solar Panels
According to the Office of Energy Efficiency & Renewable Energy, the amount of sunlight that strikes the Earth's surface in 90 minutes could power the world's total energy usage for a full year. Investing in solar panels can help decrease energy bills and increase your home's sustainability. Additionally, some utility providers and government entities, including the IRA, offer incentives to help reduce installation costs. Plus, solar-sourced power pairs well with all-climate heat pumps, which require minimal electricity to operate.
Find more ideas to dial down energy usage (and bills) this summer at MitsubishiComfort.com.
Source: Mitsubishi Electric (Family Features)
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DNJ Starz: The Semonski Sisters Hometown: Hackettstown
uring a recent, beautiful spring Tuesday, two of the original six Semonski Sisters of Great Meadows, Audrey and Michelle, paid a visit the New Jersey home of their mom, Roberta “Rusty” Semonski.
When the time was right, the duo got together and sang for their mom.
If you closed your eyes, you could envision the remaining Semonski Sisters – Joanne, Donna, Valerie, and Diane – joining in and transporting you back to 1974 – 1978 when as young women they performed on The Lawrence Welk Show.
Joanne said, “They (Lawrence Welk and those who worked on his show) were wonderful people.”
Audrey added, “They were like a family.”
Later that afternoon, Audrey and Michelle headed back to their roots, a 150-acre farm property the ladies lived on in the early 1970s. They hiked the land they had run on as children, as the lake installed by their dad reflected the many surrounding trees.
Via Facebook, Michelle aptly described the day. “So many memories of my dad and family. Gosh…. I got teared up!”
You cannot tell The Semonski Sisters story in just 1,500 words. There is too much history and music, and so much love.
So, consider this August 2024 feature – the first NJ Starz article ever to highlight an entire family – just an introduction. There are plenty of videos on You Tube for further exploration and enjoyment.
Raised by their loving parents, Joseph and Roberta “Rusty” Semonski, the birth order of the talented sisters is as follows: Diane (1956), Donna (1958), Joanne (1960), Valerie (1962, who passed away in 2022), Audrey (1963) and Michelle (1967). Diane and Michelle are Hackettstown High School graduates. The other four sisters graduated from high schools either in Flori-
da or California.
The Semonski Sisters first performed on The Lawrence Welk Show during Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas specials prior to appearing regularly starting in 1975. Diane left the group in 1976 to pursue her own career in music and songwriting, while her five cont. on page 27
The Semonski Sisters on The Lawrence Welk Show (courtesy of The Semonski Sisters)
sisters remained with the show until 1978.
The Semonski Sisters started singing in the Garden State, but their big break came in Florida.
Donna explained. “My dad saw that we had talent, and he showcased us in different things, because my mother and dad had a band that they used to perform in for weddings and banquets.”
Joseph also owned a music store in Dover called Tempo Music Center, and he would bring musical instruments home and saw that his daughters could also play instruments in addition to their singing. Realizing the young Semonski six needed a bigger stage to display their talent, he moved his family to Florida.
The east coast’s southernmost state would prove fertile ground for their dis-
covery. Two months into their new home, “Rusty” saw in a local newspaper that Donald O'Connor was going to be performing at the Top of the World restaurant at Walt Disney World. “It was a big, huge restaurant which had this huge elevator all the way up to the top, and it overlooked all of Disneyworld,”
Donna recalled. “We got tickets, and we all rode the elevator up and off. It was eight of us, and because there was so many of usGod had his hand in it, of course - the maître d’ sat us at a table right off the dance floor. We sat there watching Donald O'Connor perform and, in his act, he came off the stage and he would get someone to sing and dance with him.”
Youngest sister, Michelle, was the one to initially draw O’Connor’s attention, and
that led to her and her sisters performing with him that evening. This encouraged a meeting between Joseph and Harry Weist, Disneyworld’s band leader. Aware that Welk was heading to Orlando to do the popular show, Dining for Dollars, Weist thought the girls should audition for him. This then led to an introduction to Walter Windsor, who was producer of Channel 9 WFTV in Orlando, the Dining for Dollars network.
Joanne recalled, “Walter Windsor set up a live, on-air audition on Dialing for Dollars. And it was hysterical because my dad and mom had to go out with us, and we had to get all these outfits. We looked like the Partridge Family!”
Audrey said, “We were rushed into the studio and sang, and he loved us, and
he said, ‘Ladies and gentlemen, I just found one of the finest acts - The Semonski Sisters - and I am going to take them all to California with us.’ And he did just that.”
Floridians for just under six months, the Semonskis packed up their station wagon and headed almost 2,500 miles to Welk’s mobile home resort in Escondido, California.
“It was a whirlwind,” Audrey added with a laugh, “and it was with our dog.”
Michele, who was seven when the sisters first appeared on the show and 10 when they departed, said, “He (Welk) was very good to us. He was very professional in that way. He wanted us to be pure and wholesome. He took us so many places and gave us this beautiful opportunity.”
While performing at the
Welcome Inn Restaurant, Welk’s eatery in Escondido, the older Semonski sisters served as hosts and servers, but eventually all the sisters would sing while their dad would walk the restaurant playing his accordion. They were being groomed for their four seasons on the show.
It got to be hectic at times, and California was much different from their humble beginnings.
Joanne said, “Were very naive to the Hollywood thing. There was a lot of things that we saw, that were so absurd compared to where we came from. We were in this laid-back town, and then there was this hustle and bustle and everything.”
And there was the demand to perform, a commitment they had to make.
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Joanne added, “We had to really be serious about what venture we were on. It was overwhelming. There were times when we would just really want to pack it in. But we knew this was what we wanted to do.”
When it came to the songs they had to sing, Jimmie Rogers’ “Honeycomb” was the most difficult. Audrey said, “It was so many
Donna said, “Every week, there was an arrangement that we had to learn and memorize. There were no words in front of you. You had to memorize the words to the song, and fortunately we were singing all the old-time standards which The Lawrence Welk Show always performed. We were accustomed to these songs because of our dad and mom, and we heard these songs a lot. We did not know the words, but we heard the melodies.”
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verses, so many words, and it was fast.”
And then there were the favorites. Donna added, “We always wanted to copy the Andrews Sisters. We would sing “Boogie Woogie Bugle Boy,” and “Apple Blossom Time,” and Lawrence had the Lennon Sisters on for many years, and he wanted us to sing those songs, too, which we liked.”
"Chim Chim Cher-ee" from Mary Poppins was perhaps the highlight, and with good reason. In addition to singing, the sisters got to act while dressed as chimney sweepers.
Around the time The Semonski Sisters were preparing to leave The Lawrence Welk Show, Joseph in 1977 bought an inn and restaurant in Pennsylvania in the Pocono Mountains, which he called the Semonski Sisters Country Inn & Lodge, a venue of music, dance and food, offering entertainment every Saturday night in the main dining area as well as in the lounge.
The Semonski Sisters waited tables and, of course, sang for the guests.
Donna said, “It was nonstop Monday through Sunday. It never stopped, and it was overwhelming. It was a very difficult life, but we enjoyed it.”
Joseph Semonski has passed away, but Roberta “Rusty” Semonski is healthy and well at age 86.
Michelle said, “I miss my dad. If you had to look back at the way God placed everything in our path, it really had a lot to do with my father. He groomed us from the time that we were babies to be musical. And if I had to reminisce for five minutes, all of us - including Valerie - would all be in one spot at one time singing, and seeing that proud look that he always had on his face.”
For Audrey, her wish would be to have to family return to their first days in Escondido, when the family ascended a mountain and sang “He,” a 1954 song about God written by Richard Mullan and Jack Richards.
“If we can all sing that together with daddy and mommy standing there with us,” Audrey said, “that would be something. That was such a beautiful song.”
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“Rusty” Semonski (credit Tom Mareschal photography)
By Richard Mabey Jr.
Iconfess, when I recently visited my Cardiologist at University of Florida Medical Center and saw the scans of my Left Ventricle, a part of me felt a degree of anger, a part of me felt sad, and a part of me felt a great calling to get closer to God. I have Apical Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy.
In a most simplistic way of looking at it, my Cardiologist told me that Apical HCM is essentially “cancer of the heart.” The heart muscle tissue grows at a very rapid rate. So much so, that they begin filling up a heart ventricle, so that the ventricle no longer has full capacity for blood. Thus, the heart has to work all so much harder. Eventually, the overabundance of heart muscle tissue fills the heart ventricle and sadly, the patient passes.
In many ways, I consider having Apical HCM as a blessing. First of all, it has inspired me to get the word out about Apical HCM. Basically, one in 500 people have HCM. Considerably less have Apical HCM, which means that the heart muscle tissues are filling up the bottom of the heart ventricle. HCM gets very little educational publicity. I am working on changing that.
Secondly, it has forced me to get my personal affairs in order. I’m a bit of a pack rat, and in the past few months, I have thrown out a lot of old calendars, broken scissors, instruction manuals, left-handed smoke shifters and dozens of old computer wires. I’ve given a lot of my clothes to thrift shops. Along with an assortment of bric-a-brac, old ceramic horses and old
Facing A Terminal Illness
vases.
And most importantly it has been a time of focusing, and I mean laser focusing, on getting right with God. Reading scripture, praying and meditating have taken on a new vitality of importance to me.
One thing I have noticed, since being diagnosed with Apical HCM, is that a lot of my relatives, friends, neighbors and fellow church members have backed away from me. There is an unspoken awkwardness in them, when they talk to me. It’s almost as if they don’t know what to say to me. It’s so ironic, dealing with a terminal illness is the time when a person needs the support of others, but all so many people end up retreating from the terminally ill individual. O. Henry himself would be in awe of the iro-
ny of it all.
If you know of a terminally ill individual, please do reach out to them with kindness and a loving spirit. Please, please, please do not say things like, “well, we all have to go sometime.”
Leave the past behind, in talking with a terminally ill person. There’s no need to bring up the time your terminally ill friend or relative broke Aunt Melinda’s favorite, incredibly expensive vase.
Please do not say that you are praying for the terminally ill person. Rather, instead, ask your friend or relative if you can pray for them, right then and there. The words of comfort and assurance will mean the moon and the stars to that person.
If you visit a terminally ill person, give them a
gift. It could be a very inexpensive gift. Maybe even something that you bought in a dollar store. It can even be something as simple as a rock or a leaf. Something that the terminally ill person can look at and hold in hand, long after your visit with them is over.
And finally, mail them (using good old fashioned U. S. Mail) a little card. In your own hand writing, share a little memory that was near and dear to your heart, about your terminally ill friend or relative.
Life is short. None of us are going to live forever, upon this third rock from the sun. Love one another. Forgive, forgive and forgive people for the wrongs they may have done to you. Be kind to strangers. Give a couple of dollars to a homeless person. Support animal shelters. Rescue a
dog or cat from a shelter. Love one another. For truly, love is the single most positive powerful force in the universe. To thine own self, be true.
Richard Mabey Jr. is a freelance writer. He hosts a YouTube Channel titled, “Richard Mabey Presents.” Richard most recently published a book of poetry and short stories. He can be reached at richardmabeyjr@gmail.com.
Yours truly with Yodie. One of the many pups, I took care of, when I had my little dog walking business.
Be Kind To One Another
By Henry M. Holden
The Appalachian region of the northeastern United States is home to many proud Americans, but it is also home to some of the poorest regions of our nation. They survive from donations of monetary gifts, nutritious food, warm clothing and safe housing all provided by like-minded people.
Many people in Appalachia live in unsafe and deteriorating homes. Project Appalachia and other programs provide repair services to keep children, their families, and seniors safe. Crews consist of industry professionals, volunteers, and anyone willing to donate some time, treasure or talent.
Each year the Appalachia Service Project (ASP) comes up with a theme for their work. This year it is: “And be ye kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” Ephesians 4:32
Since 1969, more than 440,000 volunteers from across the nation have repaired more than 19,000 homes and, in the process, Appalachian families, volunteers, and staff have been immeasurably blessed.
This year, a team of 35 volunteer/parishioners from Resurrection Parish and the Morristown United Methodist Church, helped the people of Jonesville, Virgina, with more than six different homes throughout the week from June 29 to July 6.
“My daughter started with ASP around 2013,” said Eileen Tarnacki. “She invited me to join her in this experience saying that I would enjoy it. She was so right. I’ve done this about eight times now. We missed a few during Covid.”
Today, with the help of more than 15,000 volunteers each year, Appalachia Service Project (ASP) goal remains to make homes warmer, safer and drier for families in need. ASP provides one of the most rewarding structured service opportunities in the nation.
Yet ASP is more than a home repair and replacement program. It also provides a unique framework that fosters transformational experiences for volunteers, families served, and staff — by building relationships with each other that break down cultural, social and economic barriers.
We often hear of significant life changes resulting from the ASP experience: of families renewing their faith in the goodness of others, of people newly motivated to continue their education, of young adults choosing careers of service. No one walks away from the Appalachia Service Project experience unchanged.
Since 1969, ASP made homes warmer, safer, and drier for families and provided transformational service experiences for volunteers. Each year, more than 15,000 volunteers serve with ASP, providing critical repairs for more than 350 families.
Appalachia Service Project is a Christian ministry, open to all people, that rouses hope and service through volunteer home repair and replacement in Central Appalachia.
ASP believes all people should be able to live in affordable, safe, and sanitary housing. Shelter is a basic human need impacting all areas of life for families. ASP addresses this basic need, so families no longer need to worry about leaky roofs, soft floors, or unsafe porches and stairs.
Appalachia Service Project envisions the eradication of substandard housing in Central Appalachia and the transformation of everyone who encounters this ministry.
“I started with no experience said Tarnacki. I did not know how to handle tools. Today I can spackle, put up drywall, and I even climbed up on a roof. I’ve been under a house, and
I’ve helped people repair a bathroom and put up a deck. I’ve used all the tools that go into repairing a house. It wound up being a great experience for me. Overall, I underestimated my capabilities with housing and repair of homes.
“By summer’s end, six families will have safe, warm homes for the winter and their lives have been changed forever.
“We have young people and sometimes we will show them how to do something. Then we will turn it over to them and let them do it. We encourage them to build up that skill and feel comfortable with that. We had six different homes that we were interacting with and helping to repair.
“What is probably one of the most important things that stand out from the repair work is the interaction with the families.”
A 2018 census data shows 11.8 percent of families living in the United States are living in poverty. However, Appalachian families experience poverty at a rate of 16 percent according to the Appalachian Regional. Commission.
It is important that we have the three SSS to follow, sensitivity, safety, and stewardship.
“We need to be sensitive to their surroundings and thank them for allowing us to come into their homes. We must be respectful to them, and not use derogatory words or actions that would be offensive to them.
“We interact with the families and hope we can make them feel better.
There were 35 total people who attended this year nine people from Resurrection Parish.
There were three other groups that were working in the area probably over 100 people, there. I think the total number of families that are eligible for our repair is about 600.
In 1969, the late Rev. Glenn “Tex” Evans — a United Methodist minister — became one of the first people to connect the energy of youth with the deep needs of the poor.
During Tex’s 13 years as director at Henderson Settlement in Frakes, Kentucky, he witnessed the great need for home repair assistance. So as part of his already-thriving outreach to the people of Appalachia, he recruited 50 teens and adult volunteers to repair homes in Barbourville, Kentucky. They worked on-site during the day and worshipped in the evenings.— and a longstanding legacy was born.
But Tex was more than a leader; he was a born motivator. A true student of Appalachian culture and a legendary storyteller, he set the tone for what ASP is today: an extended family where laughter is king. Where relationships matter. And where changing the lives of families and volunteers alike is the highest priority of all.
Eileen Tarnacki says the Book of Matthew best sums it up “For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, …whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.” —Matthew 25:35-40
With gratitude for your service to those in need: Megan Barry, Vivian Barry, Lindsey Bona, Kirstina Harth, Elizabeth Olechowski, Olivia Olechowski, Sophia Olechowski, Victoria Olechowski, and Eileen Tarnacki.
The nine people from Resurrection Parish who helped transform deteriorating homes into livable dwellings. (Photo credit Eileen Tarnacki)
This young girl will have a warm bed and a safe home thanks to ASP. (Photo Credit ASP)
Starting school for the first time or simply returning to campus after another summer break can lead to mixed feelings.
Kids may be excited to see their friends every day, but that comes at the price of the end of lazy summer days.
The first day of school is on the horizon, and parents may discover their children seem a bit despondent that vacation is coming to a close. Such feelings may stem from more than the end of summer vacation. Some students may be nervous about going to school. New faces, new experiences and new teachers can lead to a little anxiety. Here are some ways to tame the nerves.
• Do a trial run. Before school starts, do a test run to the drop-off location, bus stop or pick up whomever will be carpooling together.
Calm first-day-of-school jitters
Getting into that routine can help reduce nervousness.
• Participate in meetand-greets. Some schools offer certain events designed to introduce students even before classes begin.
Schools may host ice cream socials or picnic lunches on school grounds, particularly for younger grades. These events give children an opportunity to get to know their classmates before the first school bell rings.
• Take a school tour. If a student is about to start in a new school or will be attending school for the first time, families will want to see if they can get tours of the school and facilities. Just one glance inside can be enough to familiarize students with the lay of the land, which might make things less scary on the first day.
• Check the class list.
Some schools do not provide a list of all students in particular classes, but increasingly those that rely on programs like Google Classroom or Canvas may enable students to see who will be in their class. Children also can use social apps like Instagram and Snapchat to locate school-associated groups to find other students. Parents and their children can brainstorm how to deal with other students who may have been difficult in the past, while also perusing lists for friendly faces.
• Practice conversation skills. Many modern kids have their eyes locked on devices. They may be a little rusty with ice breakers and initiating conversation. Role playing at home can give kids some ideas of how to forge new relationships in the classroom.
• Recognize and take
concerns seriously. Parents and other caregivers can be receptive to conversation with children regarding their concerns about starting school. Talking about
feelings can help kids tame their nervousness, especially when adults take them seriously.
Children may be nervous about starting school. Parents, caregivers and teachers can work together to help students overcome these jitters quickly.
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Ms. Kim Boon and her Shih Tzu Dog, Cory will help your child in learning how to read or to practice reading aloud. Cory is the best listener. Sign up for a 15 minute session by calling the Butler Library at: 973-838-3262. This program is free. Come join us at the Butler Library with Cory and Ms. Kim and practice reading aloud when you can read a story to Cory.
Story Time
Tuesdays at 10:30am
July 9 – August 20
For ages 3 – 5 yrs.
Register on Google Forms or visit the Library to sign up. Story time offers 30-minute sessions with a story and other fun activities. Parents must remain in the Library. This free program is limited to 12 children. Registration is required on Google Forms. If you are no longer able to attend after you sign up for this program, please call the library and let us know. If you need help registering, please call the library at 973-838-3262.
Toddler Time
Thursdays at 10:30am
July 11 – August 22
For ages 2 – 3 yrs.
Register on Google Forms or visit the Library to sign up.
Toddler time offers a 30-minute session with a story and a small craft for children and caretakers. This free program is limited to 8 children and 8 caretakers. Butler residents only. Registration is required on Google Forms. If you are no longer able to attend after you sign up for this program, please call the library and let us know. If you need help registering, please call the library at 973-838-3262.
Rainy Day Crafts
When: Month of July & August. Drop in any rainy day in July and August and complete a small craft in the library.
Time: Stop in anytime between 11:00am – 1:00pm on rainy days.
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Ages: 3 – 8 yrs.
The library is closed on Saturdays throughout the summer.
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Work together with a Caregiver
When: Monday, August 12
Time: 6:00 – 6:45 pm
Ages: 7 – 13 Years
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Learn how to use Diamond Dots to create your very own sparkly bookmark. Caregivers and children can work together on their very own own bookmark. This class is limited to 10 children and 10 caregivers. All supplies are provided by the library, so register on google forms and join in on the fun. If you are no longer able to attend after you sign up for this program, please call the library and let us know. If you need help registering, please call the library at 973-838-3262.
August Scavenger Hunt
When: August 19 – September 6.
Ages: 5 – 10 Years
Stop at the Circulation Desk and pick up a form and a pencil and begin your journey searching the library for pictures of Back to School items hidden in various locations. When you locate the picture, write the number in the empty square next to the picture and bring it back to the Circulation Desk for a chance to win a $10.00 gift card for TARGET. Have fun!
Butler Public Library 1 Ace Road, Butler, NJ 07405 973-838-3262
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