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By Evan Wechman uring the last few months, while New Jersey residents have been scrambling for the Coronavirus vaccine, Chester resident Heather McCarthy has been working non-stop to secure appointments for the elderly.

It began in late January when McCarthy witnessed the long lines on frigid days at the local pharmacies in the area and knew she had to help.

McCarthy, who already has a full time job as a middle school teacher in nearby Madison, realized this would be a worthwhile undertaking, but had no idea at the amount of support she would receive.

McCarthy stressed that though she has received much

recognition, “it’s not all about me. It’s been a team effort.”

The school teacher had recently worked hard to make sure her parents and her brother who is diabetic received the vaccine, but she wanted to help other residents, mainly seniors who did not have access to computers.

McCarthy describes how she put out the word that she was looking for others to assist her, and the response was overwhelming. According to the school teacher and devoted mother of two children, so many people simply said “I want to help.”

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Dental Implants in One Day

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ounds too good to be true? Well, yes and no.

Let’s start with the basics. A “dental implant” is actually the anchor that goes into the jaw bone. It replaces the root of the tooth, and has nothing to do with the tooth you see in your mouth. Think of it like an iceberg: there’s a good portion of it below the water that you can’t see, and then a smaller portion that you do see.

There are many things you can do with this implant.

You can connect a single tooth to it, you can replace multiple non-removableteeth with a “bridge,” you can secure a removable denture to multiple implants (which you still take in-and-out of your mouth), or you can connect a full set of permanent teeth to multiple implants.

OK, so where does the “one day” come into play?

There are times where conditions are ideal so that an implant can be placed into your jawbone, and a tooth (known as a “crown” or “cap”) connected to it. Oftentimes, this is done in the front of the mouth, where esthetics are important. Just note this is a temporary crown, and not your final crown. We usually do not do this for the back of the mouth, where esthetics are not as important. It is also important that you are gentle with this temporary crown: you do not want to use it for biting and chewing while the implant is healing.

However, if conditions are not ideal (such as the presence of an infection, the loss of bone, the need of gum grafting), implants cannot, or should not, be placed. This short-term inconvenience is soon forgotten once you re-

ceive your final crown. If you “push the biological limits,” mother nature can push back, and your implant / crown complex can fail. Oftentimes, you will be in a worse position than when you started.

“Implants In One Day” is most successful when you have “cross-arch stabilization.” This is when implants are utilized to replace a full arch of teeth (meaning the full upper jaw and/or the full lower jaw). The fact you have multiple implants in the front, back, left, and right that are connected with non-removable teeth provides an excellent healing environment for these implants. This is known as “splinting,” and it provides a very strong and rigid situation. In turn, the success rate of the implants and final prosthesis (teeth) is very high.

Caution should be used when applying these principles to a removable denture supported by dental implants.

Removable dentures do not provide the rigidity created by cross-arch stabilization. A removable denture can actually weaken implants during their healing phase, and increase the risk of failure.

In our office, we perform a lot of implant procedures.

Some are “immediate,” where a person receives a tooth on the same day of surgery, and some are “delayed,” where we will wait a period of time for proper healing.

Other people will require bone grafting and/or gum grafting, to allow for a long-term, successful result. Not all situations are created equal, and consideration must be applied to each and every person.

One of the most popular services we perform is when a person receives “Implants In One Day.” In one appointment we can remove failing teeth, install multiple dental implants, and connect teeth (temporary teeth) to these implants. Patients walk out the door with a brand new smile. We perform this procedure regularly in our office, and satisfaction rates are incredibly high.

So, in summary, “Dental Implants In One Day” is a real thing: we do it all the time. However, remember the tooth (or teeth) you go home with will likely not be your final tooth, but rather a temporary one. Also, the other takehome message here is that not all situations are equal: an individual evaluation should be performed to determine if your condition is one that would be conducive towards a “same day tooth.”

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he pinnacle of birthday celebrations, if there’s no piñata to break open, is when the birthday cake comes out and party attendees serenade the guest of honor. The song everyone harmonizes to is among the most widely recognized and well-loved tunes in the world. The “birthday song,” also known as “Happy Birthday to You,” is in the public domain in the United States and the European Union. The song originally was penned as a classroom greeting song titled “Good Morning to All,” written by sisters Mildred J. Hill and Patty Smith Hill. Both were educators and developed unique teaching strategies to assist students. The song was composed by Mildred and the lyrics were written by Patty to be used in kindergarten classrooms.

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copyright of the song. One has The Summy Company registering a copyright in 1935, crediting authors Preston Ware Orem and Mrs. R. R. Forman. The other says Jessica Hill, sister to Mildred and Patty, who was working with publisher Clayton F. Summy Company, copyrighted and published “Happy Birthday to You” in 1935. Eventually Warner Chappell bought the company that was originally The Summy Company, and argued the birthday song was under copyright until 2030, making performances of the song illegal without paying royalties. However, a federal judge ruled in 2015 that Warner Chappell’s claim to a copyright on the song was not valid. The judge ruled its registration only covered a specific piano version, not the melody and lyrics. Therefore, “Happy Birthday to You” can be sung both privately and publicly without being subject to royalties or other restrictions.

teers.” She is also grateful for St. Lawrence Church in Chester who allowed the group to use their hotlines for seniors to connect with them.

McCarthy is aware that though she is proud of all her fellow volunteers, she couldn’t possibly mention every single one.

However, she wanted to be sure to recognize Heather Hearon who helped set up the Facebook page as well as Simone Campbell who created spreadsheets to organize the appointments. These two wonderful women also spent significant time mentoring the other volunteers.

One bit of irony is though these women have gone through a great ordeal to help the community, at the time of this writing they had only seen each other through zoom meetings. The good news is they do plan to get together shortly.

McCarthy also points out that though this started as a local Morris County project, “we don’t turn anyone away.” This includes people from other New Jersey counties such as Bergen. While she tried to name everyone who has helped, she proudly recalled how many in her group drove seniors long distances during the snow filled

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February to ensure they were vaccinated.

Such actions have also garnered the attention of local New Jersey Congressman Tom Malinowski, who has also partnered with the group to ensure his residents’ health.

Many in the community refer to the group as “Covid Angels” for their tireless efforts. Unfortunately, the volunteers realize the fight is not over. According to McCarthy, who has also helped fellow teachers among others receive vaccines “some of the people (who need assistance) are getting younger and younger.” She contends “the more people with shots in their arms, the better.”

McCarthy warmly opened up to our publication when she mentioned that it has been a bitter year for her. She unfortunately lost her father to a non-covid related illness. She is grateful though that because he received the vaccine through her help, she and her children were able to spend time with him, that otherwise might not have been possible.

She concludes “it has been a rough year for me and when I reach out to help people, they are grateful.”

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“Nasty Nellie Is An April Fool”

By Robert Massimi.

Member Dramatists Guild and Drama League. n a rapid fire comedy tempo, Alison Arngrin talks about her life as Nellie Oleson from “Little House on The Prairie”; her growing up with show biz parents : the people she has met along the way in entertainment. Arngrim brings a unique perspective to being cast as the nasty one on the “Prairie” and what that role did too her growing up. What should have been a role of a lifetime, she was instead stereotyped as a “bitch” and was humiliated both in school and at social events. In a paradoxical way Arngrim was liberated by the “bitch” persona that she was given.

In a rapid speech pattern she begins the play by giving us her parents background; her father managed Liberace and her mom was a voice over for many cartoon characters.

“April Fool” is only 30 minutes long with about 45 minutes of material in it. The audience needs to be attentive and aware of who she was growing up to get the comedy routine. Some jokes are very funny; others fall flat, very flat. When it’s good, it’s good, when flat it reminded me of Tom Arnold trying to do comedy: forced jokes with fake expressions. The Liberace skit was hilarious;

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her recollection of him and her father as his manager was great fun to listen to.. The skit then moved to her mothers voice overs, it is here that the jokes fall flat and just aren’t funny (being the voice of Casper, Gumby Davey and Underdog Arngrim’s comedy does not work here).

Meeting stars as a young woman had a profound effect on Ms. Arngrim; the story of her meeting Eartha Kitt, her impression of her was spot on, as was her impression of Carol Channing. As she describes doing a movie in France, her time with Kitt and Channing might have been the height of the show... jokes were funny, you felt her revel in that period of her life. Arngrim was at her best when she had a detailed recollection of the people she met along the way, when she went into stories about cooking and her cats is when the show became boring and lackluster. The question and answer at the end of the show could have been dropped all together- It would have been a better show without this segment.

Following this actor through her journey had ups and down in the 30 minutes. While Arngrim sheds some fun about her life in a speed run, the show could have been directed better in honing some of the jokes and perfecting its skit.

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Morristown Man Relives Childhood by Writing and Publishing Book

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By Steve Sears am Pagano remembers the good ole days, growing up in East Newark, toeing the line of Harrison, Kearny, and Newark itself. In fact, he’s so fond of it he wrote a book about it.

12 Blocks: Neighborhood Stories of the 60’s is a 265page rapid page turner, the reader traveling along with Pagano and his childhood buddies, Frankie, Charlie, Pete and a few others, as they cause mayhem but also learn about life as they grow.

And jump from roof to roof in their neighborhood. Pagano laughs at the recall. “Actually, back in the day we never really fell off the big roofs, but we kind of fell off the side roof when we got to the end of the block. It was only like 12’ or whatever.” He pauses, then sums it up. “You know, at the time you just think it’s normal stuff; you’re just living your life as a kid. I realized years later on, it’s like, ‘Oh my God - we had so much fun.”

Pagano, who lives in Morris Township, started to put his childhood stories together when the pandemic hit. “The process might have been three or four months. I put the stories together, and I self edited them, and then I basically sent the stories to a bunch of friends of mine who are college educated teachers, and they helped me with the editing.

Then I just went through this company and submitted it to Amazon.”

In addition to the memories, another inspiration for Pagano to write the book came from his best childhood friend, Pete, whose name appears in the book more than any other. “We both kind of retired from the AT&T universe,” Pagano says, “and he then went and became a teacher in Jersey City with autistic kids and special needs kids. So about three years ago, he published a book called, Am I a Teacher?” Pagano then felt if Pete’s words were now between covers, maybe his could be as well.

Pagano served as an altar boy at the neighborhood Catholic church. “And then I got un-altar boyed,” he says with a laugh. “I would always like twiddle my thumbs (while) sitting in the pew. And I just remember ‘Holy Joe’ as we called him - Father Joe – gave me such a hard time. And there was something else going on. I was doing some kind of sportsy thing – and it wasn’t just me, it was me and one or two other kids who stopped being altar boys. We really weren’t enjoying it.”

One of the many places Pagano hung out as a kid was in his dad’s establishment, The Arrow Bar & Pizzeria. He worked there…sort of. “Basically, we hung out there and made pizza boxes and shined shoes and stuff like that.”

Reading Pagano’s book is a fun trip to yesteryear, and it conjures up memories for the reader of his of her own childhood.

Pagano is still in touch with some of his old friends, but there are some he hasn’t seen in over 40 years. This being said, he keeps all the “neighborhood” – trying to dodge Mike the Cop, sneaking into the Warner Theater, playing centerfield in his one and only Little League baseball game, when he left the bench in all his excitement minus his glove! - alive in his book. “Most of them are still around,” he says of his buddies, “and we chat once in a while. When we graduated from St. Anthony’s in 1966, there were 13 of us. About four years ago, we had our 50-year reunion, and one member of the class had died, and one other member didn’t make it, but everybody else was there.”

“11 out of 13. That’s not a bad number.”

Pagano, 69, has started writing another book. “I do want to try to put together a couple of more stories and, if I get there, I’ll try to publish it again.”

12 Blocks: Neighborhood Stories of the ‘60s, is available at www.amazon.com.

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What Everyone Should Know about Melanoma

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Written By, Chris Bauer MD n 2021, an astounding 106,110 people were diagnosed with melanoma in the United States. Melanoma is the deadliest form of skin cancer. It affects men at a greater rate than women and Caucasian people are affected at 20 times the rate of African American people. The average age of someone being diagnosed with melanoma is 65. However, there are significantly larger amounts of younger people getting Melanoma every year. Children and adolescents have also been diagnosed with this deadly form of skin cancer.

The typical appearance of a melanoma is one of a pigmented spot almost resembling a freckle. Many times, that lesion can be raised and have an irregular border. The lesions can be exceedingly small sometimes only a few millimeters wide. If a skin lesion is crusting or bleeding frequently it may be melanoma. Melanomas can develop on nail bed surfaces or on the surface of the cornea in the eye. Most melanomas spread superficially and then invade to deeper layers of tissue. Melanomas that occur on the face, head, and trunk have a worse prognosis then melanomas that are located on the lower parts of the body. Due to its aggressive nature melanoma can spread or metastasize to any organ in the body.

If an abnormal skin lesion is detected, then a person should either go to dermatologist or a primary care physician

to have a full evaluation of the mass. At the doctor’s office, the physician will then do a thorough exam of all the skin areas especially the one in question. A skin biopsy will then be collected if the skin lesion is suspicious for either a cancerous or precancerous condition. Treatment for early-stage melanoma will most likely include removal of the affected area with some surrounding normal tissue around it. More extensive surgical procedures, chemotherapy, immunotherapy, and radiation are other treatments that are used to treat more advanced disease.

People who are more at risk for melanoma should be completing regular self-skin exams. A small portion of melanomas are genetic and are present in one or more members of an extended family. People who have light skin complexion and light eye color are also at a higher risk. Those with many freckles or nevi on their body have increased rates of melanoma too. Use of tanning beds, frequent sun exposure and history of frequent sunburns during childhood and adolescence are other risks associated with developing melanoma.

Prevention of melanoma and skin cancer is one of the many preventative health measures that physicians in New jersey believe in strongly. Melanoma patient education campaigns have been taking place in the US since the 1990’s.

These campaigns have been used to instruct younger people especially in the ways that they can reduce their risk of getting skin cancer and melanoma. Sun protection is one of the biggest ways people can reduce their risk of melanoma.

SPF 15 should be applied to the skin during everyday use and SPF 30 sunscreen should be used during more prolonged sun exposures. Sunscreen should be reapplied every 2 hours and whenever you are going to do an outdoor activity. Use of protective hats, sunglasses and sun protective clothing are other ways to reduce the damaging effects of the sun.

Daily avoidance of the sun’s most damaging rays between 10am and 4pm is also especially important. People should also avoid getting sunburned at all costs. Lastly, indoor tanning bed use should be avoided. Those that have used indoor tanning beds especially in their early adulthood have a significant risk of developing melanomas compared to those who have never used a tanning bed. Spray tans and other cosmetic purchases can be used to create the “suntanned” look without having to take on the significant risk from the tanning beds.

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According to environmental experts, it also affects marine species, accelerates climate change and adversely impacts human health, particularly in low-income communities near plastic production sites, which face greater exposure to toxins and waste and bear the brunt of the impacts of improper plastic disposal and incineration.

A new report highlights the role supermarkets play in the plastic pollution crisis.

The second ranking of 20 U.S. grocery retailers’ efforts to reduce single-use plastics from Greenpeace USA finds that all of the supermarket chains in the report are failing to adequately address the plastic pollution crisis, and that even retailers publicly committed to eliminating single-use plastic could be doing more to prioritize their efforts, engage with suppliers, and offer transparency with customers and the broader public.

“There is not a single place that individuals are confronted with more single-use plastic than in our grocery stores, yet companies continue to move at a snail’s pace on plastic reduction efforts,” says Green-

peace USA oceans campaign director, John Hocevar. “It is time to turn this around with action.”

While Hocevar stresses that governmental policy shifts and the actions of major corporations will be necessary to move the needle, individuals can also get involved. Beyond opting for reusable bags and containers at the store, consumers can make their voice heard by talking to their local grocery stores about phasing out single-use plastics, writing to larger companies urging them to move in a better direction and asking their elected officials to support plastic bans. They can also learn more by reading the full report at greenpeace.org.

“Every piece of plastic that comes through a grocery store ends up polluting the environment, and harming our health,” says Hocevar. “We need to see retailers acting now to dramatically reduce their plastic footprints and move from single-use packaging to reuse and package free approaches.” (StatePoint)

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Don’t Let Allergies Get the Best of You this Season

don’t know about you, but I’m thinking spring cannot come soon enough… especially after the unexpected, late season, blizzards! Spring brings longer days, budding flowers, sunshine and warmer weather. Along with the beautiful flowers, spring also brings pollen and allergens! For some, these allergens can wreak havoc. If you’re someone who suffers from allergies, you might dread the spring season. Seasonal allergies can cause a multitude of nagging symptoms including: runny nose, itchy and/or red irritated eyes, stuffy nose/congestion, sneezing, scratchy throat and itchiness. If you suffer from any of the above, I’m here to tell you that there is a solution! Believe it or not, Acupuncture can help you to enjoy the spring again!

So, you might be asking how can Acupuncture help?

Acupuncture relieves symptoms of allergies by diminishing the body’s inflammatory response, without the unwanted side effects. It helps to open nasal passages, reduces sinus pressure, calms itching, decreases throat pain, coughing and sneezing.

Here’s the catch… it’s always best to begin treatment before the season begins. It is better to prevent symptoms then try to tackle them when they are in full effect.

In addition to Acupuncture treatment, you can help yourself at home with these simple tips: Flush out allergens with a Neti pot, keep windows closed to prevent allergens from entering your home, try an air filter, vacuum and dust often to eliminate pollen in your home, eat local

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The 200 Club of Morris County Announces its 50th Golden Celebration

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he 200 Club of Morris County invites the public to celebrate its 50th year of supporting Morris County first responders from Fire, local Police, New Jersey State Police departments and Emergency Medical Technician services on Thursday, September 23rd, 2021 at The Birchwood Manor in Whippany starting at 5:45pm, President Jim Rizzo presiding.

A not-for-profit founded in 1971, the 200 Club’s Mission helps to provide financial support for spouses and dependents of Morris County heroes who have lost their lives in the line of duty while valiantly responding and protecting Morris County citizenry. To date, the Club has disbursed over $5 million dollars for this worthy cause. Scholarships are also awarded to qualified dependents of our Morris County first responders on a merit basis and are anonymously assigned a number for the

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Given events of the past year, our first responder family has tougher jobs than ever before, and their stakes are more real than ever. Join us in acknowledging their daily risks in knowing they may not make it back home. Your ticket purchase, sponsorship and donation will make a world of difference to the spouses and dependent children of Morris County’s finest!

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The USO: A Look Back at 80 Years of Continuous Service

he United Service Organizations (USO), the nation’s leading not-forprofit charity that serves the men and women in the U.S. military and their families, is celebrating its 80th anniversary this year.

Founded just before the U.S. entry into World War II, the USO rapidly expanded from a patchwork of local efforts with a handful of volunteers into a robust international organization. From Bob Hope to Marlene Dietrich to Bing Crosby, the USO offered now-legendary entertainment during World War II, as well as programs and services, quickly becoming an essential part of the war effort.

“Honorably discharged” by President Truman in 1947 after the end of World War II and reactivated for the Korean War in 1949, it is widely believed that the USO was inactive during this time. However, recent findings in USO archives and external sources show that the organization actually never stopped serving.

Though the future of the USO was at

first uncertain after World War II, it quickly became clear that even in peacetime, its contribution to the welfare of armed forces was essential. With hundreds of thousands of returning troops in-transit and new troops headed for occupation duty overseas -- as well as the many thousands of soldiers and sailors recovering in hospitals -- key government officials voiced a belief that the need for an organization such as the USO was just as pressing as it was during the war.

Then-USO president, Lindsey Kimball said in February 1946, “We face a responsibility to stand by during the difficult days of transition from total war to total participation in an achieved peace.” And stand by it did. With only a skeleton headquarters staff, between 1947 and 1949, the USO continued to operate clubs and lounges, as well as sent entertainers to perform for thousands of wounded service members recovering in hospitals.

The USO is still building on its continuous 80-year history today. (StatePoint)

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By: Sally Barmakian ailboxes at the end of the driveway are quite common. A wooden post with a tubular metal mailbox attached on top complete with the little red flag to indicate that there is outgoing mail in the box.

However, have you ever

seen a unique mailbox?

On my walks and observations while driving, I have seen some creative mailboxes. Some are painted with flowers and birds, or have covers which match a holiday but here are my favorites.

On top of one mailbox was a statue of a bear. On

Halloween, it had a mask on, a Santa hat in December, during the winter, a fuzzy wool hat and scarf, and at Easter time - bunny ears! I do hope it got the mail person and neighbors in the spirit of the seasons. Another mailbox was the body of a fish and the open mouth was where the

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mail was inserted. Many mailboxes are the body of an animal. Picture a black mailbox complete with a head and long, floppy ears, tail, and paws dangling.

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Just open the tummy to retrieve your mail.

The most unique and creative “up-cycling” mailbox I ever saw was made from the canister of an old metal vacuum cleaner.

Cleaned out and perched on the wooden post, it was sturdy and workable. I always smiled when I drove by.

Some people plant flowers around the base of the mail post.

A delightful ring of pansies, happy daffodils, and beautiful, red tulip cups.

Usually mail is a pleasant part of the day. (Aside

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“Sister Cities”: Morristown, New Jersey, Meet Morristown, Tennessee

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By Steve Sears ctor Harrison Ford often visits his in-laws in Morristown, Tennessee.

“He and his wife fly down here regularly into our (Morristown Regional) airport,” says Rachel Westra, Public Relations and Social Media Coordinator for the city. “He comes in quietly,” she says with a laugh.

By coincidence, Morristown, New Jersey also has its own airport, and our Morristown can claim a permanent “Ford” - “Ford” Mansion, located at Morristown National Historic Park.

Morristown, Tennessee, established in 1855, is also the home of Davy Crockett. He and his father founded a tavern in 1794, and the Crockett Tavern Museum can be found near the tavern location.

There’s quite a view here as well. Morristown sits in the middle of the Smoky Mountains and Clinch Mountains. “It’s absolutely beautiful here,” says Westra. “And we have a beautiful lake (Lake Cherokee) here, too, so it’s a great recreation area.”

While Routes 124 and 202 run through New Jersey’s Morristown, Route 11 East

bisects its southern “sister,” and the whole downtown area is on the National Register of Historic Places. Morristown, Tennessee has the only elevated sidewalk system in the country. “Coming out of the 60s,” explains Westra, “there were some rejuvenation projects for local economies and Morristown built an elevated sidewalk that goes up to the second floor of downtown businesses. It provided another layer for businesses to be able to open. It’s really neat to walk through our downtown and go up there on the sidewalks as they cross over the street.”

The above may be an obvious good thing. Morristown is the seat of Hamblen County, and the city of 30,000 residents potentially balloons to almost 100,000 daily as people from tiny, very rural outlying areas travel into Morristown for medical services, work, shopping, and for dining, too. Visitors won’t leave hungry, and one person you can thank is Dawn Phillips, a former south Jerseyan who relocated and opened Jersey Girl Diner. It’s Westra’s favorite, she recommending the burgers and onions strings. Phillips has even done ca-

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furniture manufacturing town, but that industry moved out and the automotive and technical manufacturing industries took their place. “A lot of foreign companies have their headquarters here,” says Westra, “and very soon we’re going to be the United States headquarters for Van Hool, which is a coach bus manufacturing company out of Belgium.”

“I would say we are booming. People are coming here for work. Work is here, and it’s a great place to call home.”

Visitors can also flock to Panther Creek State Park, which offers a great lake and picnic area, and try a game of Disc Golf.

Morristown is the home for this Frisbee-like event. “We hold a State Disc Golf Championship every year, and golfers come from across the country to compete and play. We have four courses, which is a lot to have for a city of our size. It kind of goes with our emphasis of outdoor recreation.”

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According to Westra, Morristown also has a unique aviation history, thanks to a lady nicknamed “Mama Bird.” “A famous pilot who is based out of here, her name is Evelyn Johnson, she has the Guinness World Record for the most flying hours.

Very prolific. I believe she taught the most flight classes of anybody, so she was kind of a local hero.”

And finally, Morristown, New Jersey isn’t the only “Motown” in the United States to have a Green. “We have a city Green in the middle of town that we use for concerts,” says Westra. “It’s adjacent to our farmers market permanent pavilion, which operates pretty much every day during growing season, and it’s a nice gathering place.”

“For a tiny, little mountain Appalachian town, we certainly have a unique history and there’s a lot going on.”

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Spark Scientific Discovery at Home

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cience influences many aspects of daily life in countless ways. It also helps shape the development of life skills from an early age. As children learn to communicate, think critically, make predictions and form opinions based on their observations, they are developing science skills that will last a lifetime.

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In partnership with AdoptAClassroom.org and Emily Calandrelli, an American science communicator, MIT engineer and co-executive producer and host of “Emily’s Wonder Lab” on Netflix, the bread manufacturer is donating $100,000 to provide U.S. middle and high schools with supplies and equipment for science education and presenting an online series of science experiments for students.

Allowing children to put those science-based skills to the test at home can be both simple and fun. Whether you head outside to identify clouds and species of animals or work on crafts indoors, there are plenty of everyday learning scenarios that allow parents to get hands-on with their children’s education.

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Conduct Experiments with Everyday Supplies Special tools and equipment aren’t necessary for discovering and fostering a love of science or conducting your own experiments. By using household items you may already have on hand and following a few simple instructions from Calandrelli, you can create your own homemade rockets or inflate a balloon.

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West Morris Central’s Marisa DiPaolo Garners Bronze Medal in NJSIAA Girl’s State Wrestling Tournament

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By Steve Sears or West Morris Central junior wrestler, Marisa DiPaolo, there were many firsts.

This was her first year ever as a wrestler, she was the Wolfpack’s first ever female wrestler, she was the school’s first female wrestler awarded a state tournament medal, and she also attained the highest placement in the state tourney of any WMC wrestler in 29 years.

DiPaolo won the bronze medal at 215 lbs. “I was very surprised when I read that I was the highest placed wrestler in that long of a time. I am very proud that I was able to place so high for my first year of wrestling,” says DiPaolo, who won the bronze against High Point’s Lacey Hums, whom she had already defeated twice prior this season, by pinning her in 41 seconds.

DiPaolo’s story is a fascinating one.

Also captain of the WMC Fencing team, she gained the opportunity to wrestle because the latter season was delayed this year. Therefore, she got to take part in both sports seasons, which is extremely rare.

Ken Rossi has been WMC wrestling coach for 15 years. “The interesting thing is

she (Marisa) always wanted to wrestle,” he says, “but wrestling is during fencing season. But because wrestling got pushed back this year because of the pandemic, she was able to do both.”

DiPaolo finished with an overall record of 11 wins and 4 losses, 9 of those wins by pin and two by default. 3 of her 4 losses came against eventual state tournament medal winners. “There was a lot of pressure that I put on myself with this being my first year of wrestling,” she admits. “I wanted to make my family, my wrestling coaches, and my Judo club proud, but most of all I wanted to prove to myself and my peers that I had what it takes to make it to the States.”

DiPaolo credits her judo background with aiding her success. “Judo helped me so much with my stand-up and made me able to take down my opponents and pin them so quickly,” she attests. “It is definitely different not being able to grab a girl as I would in Judo. My Judo coach Al Pinto and friend Javon helped me adapt my Judo to use in wrestling.”

Rossi says DiPaolo’s work ethic was top notch from the beginning. “She’s very coachable. I showed her some basic tech-

niques and combined it with her judo background, and she was eager to learn, and that made it a good work-related practice with some of the other workout partners that she had.”

As for next year, if the schedules go back to normal, DiPaolo will have to make a decision. For now, she elects instead to enjoy

the ride. “I really enjoyed fencing this year for WMC, and our team had a great season.

But I have also been wanting to try wrestling and was lucky to have the chance this year. Right now, I am going to focus on ACT prep, but I’d like to continue wrestling in the off season, as well as go to a fencing club, and see where they take me.”

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Preventing the Spread of COVID-19 in America’s Classrooms

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Jessie Frees Celebrates a Long, Glorious Career in Radio

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By Steve Sears lorham Park resident Jessie Frees in 2021 officially celebrates 70 years in radio.

Frees is currently the host of “Ask the Expert” on WMTR AM-1250. “Ask the Expert’ is now 42 years old,” Frees says of the popular show. “It’s the oldest show in the state of New Jersey on air and radio.” Her first guest was William Simon, Secretary of the Treasury.

Although her professional career dates back to 1951 – hence the 70th year festivities - Frees’ first “appearance” on radio was actually in 1947, when at age 13 in the 8th grade she was on the New York Times sponsored station, WQXR, for a show called “Words in the News - What Do They Mean?” “I was chosen to represent northern New Jersey,” Frees says. “There were different students on from New York, I guess, and New Jersey.

It was a panel, and I never forgot it. My principal took me along with my mother to the New York station, and it just started my love of radio.”

After that, she in 1951 as a Caldwell High School student worked for a station owned by the Newark Evening News. “I asked them for a radio show,” she says. “There were three or four of them (men) in the room, and I didn’t think they were listening to me, but

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they were. They said finally ‘Well, if you can sell your own sponsor, we’ll do the show.”

Sandler & Worth rug company sponsored the show, and at age 18, Frees was on the air.

“And I found out about it from my (school) principal that I had the show,” she recalls excitedly. “He called me in (to his office) at the high school and told me I had the show. It

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was really a great time for me.”

Her next on-air spot was for WDVA in Averett College in Virginia. She was sponsored there by a then-unknown, up-and-coming soft drink, Dr. Pepper. “It was in the news that I brought a whole bunch of bottles back from Averett College and then they broke in my suitcase,” she remembers with a laugh.

“Dr. Pepper wasn’t sold in the northeast, then.”

After college, she headed to WMTR. “I had a luncheon interview show from the Governor Morrison Inn and I had a lot of interesting guests. I’ve had thousands of guests, from congressmen to presidents.” continued on page 23

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Long, Glorious Career in Radio... continued from page 22 Celebrities like Bob Hope, Helen Hayes, Liberace, Tony Bennett, Guy Lombardo, The Amazing Kreskin, Tony Randall, Tricia Nixon, and even President George H.W. Bush sat down for a discussion with Frees. She then moved on to WVNJ for 17 years, where she sold airtime as lead salesperson. “I was the first woman in New Jersey to sell airtime in an all-male dominated business,” Frees says. “And I’m still selling airtime. So, from high school until now, I’ve been selling airtime.”

After WVNJ, she was with WPAT from 1981-88 and followed that up with a gig for WXMC in Parsippany. She then entertained an offer from and returned to WMTR in 1994, and for 11 years worked with her daughter, Julie Briggs, who pitch-hit for her mom one evening and was immediately put on

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the air with her after that.

The duo did a call-in show at 6 p.m. for 11 years on the station. Briggs and her mom still call WMTR home.

Frees’ talent isn’t limited to the radio airwaves.

She is also an accomplished children’s book author and poet. Her offering, Jackie Winquackey and Her 43 Cats Go to Hollywood, was lauded as a “Best Summer Read-

ing for Children” by a New York book reviewer, and First Lady Laura Bush in 2008 passed along her congratulations to Frees in a kind note.

“I have so many,” she says of her books. Her next book has the felines heading to the fire department.

“Ask the Expert” can be heard on Sunday from 10 a.m. to 11 a.m. on WMTR 1250-AM.

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Raising Big Dreamers

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Ways to Have Career Conversations with Kids

re-pandemic, Take Your Child to Work Day was an opportunity for children to peek behind the mysterious veil of “work” – to see what their parents do all day and begin to dream about the careers they might like to pursue when they grow up.

For some parents, every day might feel like Take Your Child to Work Day. For others, health and safety concerns might make it impossible to bring children to their workplaces. That doesn’t mean it’s any less important to take some time to help your children imagine turning their passions into careers.

“Children need exposure to the possibilities that exist so they can envision themselves doing what inspires them in the future,” said Content Architect Rashelle Chase from KinderCare Learning Centers’ education team. “Learning about different career options also helps children learn about how the world works and the different types of roles and systems that are in place to help society function.”

Consider these tips from the experts at KinderCare to help parents infuse some of the Take Your Child to Work Day spirit into everyday life.

Expose your children to a variety of career options. Young children tend to think of careers in terms of the kinds of jobs they see adults doing, like doctors, firefighters and teachers. Help your children discover careers that are new to them. Talk about essential workers and why they are depended on so heavily. Share details about the work your immediate and extended family members do – perhaps you could arrange a virtual call so your children can see a family member at work. Point out other kinds of workers as your child encounters them, whether that’s during a walk around the neighborhood or while reading a book.

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Help your children imagine turning their passions into careers. Not every block builder turns into an architect. Some go into construction, some into engineering and some pursue other careers entirely. When children express an interest in a specific career or type of work, help them think about the kinds of skills they could work on now to help turn that dream into a reality. Help your children make connections between the things they like to do now and the kinds of careers that could lead to.

Maybe there’s an activity or volunteer experience your children could do, or a club they could join, that would help nurture that passion and expand their skillset.

Break career stereotypes. Point out diverse people doing jobs as you see them in the community or in books or media – like female firefighters, male teachers or biracial female vice presidents – and talk about the diverse viewpoints and experiences each person can bring to his or her career. Be active about squashing gender stereotypes whenever you see or hear them. Encourage your children to pursue their ambitions and let them know you believe in them and their ability to succeed in whatever career they want.

Help your child to see “work” and “jobs” as positive things, especially after rough days.

Be honest about the struggles and successes you have in your own career. Celebrate your successes and talk with your children about how you problem-solve or persevere through tough times. Model coping skills your children can apply to their own “job” – school. It’s important for children to understand one can still find fulfillment and passion in a career even if there are tough moments.

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The Autumn of 1969: The Ford Falcon

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By Richard Mabey Jr. n late August of 1969, a very dear and wonderful blessing came to my life. It was a blessing that was given to me, beyond my wildest imagination. Now, over 50 years later, it still amazes me the sequence of events that was an incredible blessing to my life.

My cousin, Wes Mabey, was about 10 years older than me. Wes lived in Towaco.

Back in late Summer of 1969, Wes got a promotion at his job. He was now the Supervisor of the Machine Shop of a small manufacturing company that was located on Route 202 in Towaco. And, as almost required with a work promotion, there’s the calling to buy a new car. And, that’s just what my Cousin Wes did. He bought himself a new car!

As fate would have it, the Ford Dealer, where Wes was buying his new car, wasn’t willing to give him a really good deal on the trade-in for his 1961 Ford Falcon. So, without thinking twice, before he bought his new car, Wes drove to the old Mabey Homestead.

It was a Saturday in late August. I remember this all so well. We were all eating lunch at the kitchen table, when suddenly we heard a car horn honking in the backyard. It was Cousin Wes in his 1961 Ford Falcon. Dad got up and looked out the back window of the kitchen.

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“It’s Wes,” Dad said to all of us. And with that, Dad proceeded to go outside and I followed him.

“Hey Unca Dick,” Wes called out to my father as Dad and I walked out to the back driveway.

“Hi Wes,” Dad replied. I gave a hearty greeting to my cousin.

“Never guess in a million years!” Wes said to Dad. “What’s that Wes?” Dad replied.

“I got a promotion at work!” Wes said.

“Congratulations Wes!” Dad enthusiastically told his nephew.

“And that ain’t all,” Wes announced.

“Well, don’t keep us in suspense,” Dad replied.

“I’m buying a brand-new car!” Wes proudly announced.

“That’s great, Wes,” Dad cheerily said to his nephew.

“Well, here’s the good part. I figure Richie here’ll be driving soon. So’s I figured I give you the offer of a lifetime!” Wes gleefully announced.

“You’re selling your Ford Falcon?” Dad asked.

“You got it, Unca Dick. I figure I’ll sell it to my favorite cousin here. Say, for a hundred dollars,” Wes announced.

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“What do ya’ say, Richie? How’d you like to be the proud owner of this deluxe Ford Falcon?” Wes asked me.

“I sure would Wes,” I happily replied.

Well, one thing led to another. We all came into the house. Mom offered Wes some lunch, but he said that he just had a hamburger at Moe’s Sweet Shop. We all sat

around the dining room table. Dad went upstairs and came down with five 20-dollar bills. Dad and I agreed that I would pay him 10 dollars a month, till I was all paid up. At the time, I had a little business of my own, where I would mow neighbors’ lawns.

We signed the paperwork of the Bill of continued on page 28

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I Remember Dad: The Winds of Change

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By Richard Mabey Jr. here is a fiber, a weave, a tapestry that often unites families together. And, then there is the pull, the outgoing tide of fate and destiny. It is almost as if there is a marker in time, wherein one chapter closes and another chapter opens in the books of our lives.

Such a time came in early September of 1987. My beloved father turned 60 that year, on Sunday, September 6th. We had a most wonderful and magical birthday party for him, in the afternoon, after church. The backyard of the old Mabey Homestead was filled with family, neighbors, church friends, and friends from scouts. It was a most grand and glorious time.

Beneath the shade of the tall, towering maple tree, Dad cut his large, sheet cake. It was beneath the very maple tree that Dad had climbed as a boy and I had built my tree fort on. Balloons filled the yard. Along with crepe paper strung from tree limb to tree limb. And we even had one of those long chain “Happy Birthday” messages that was strung between two trees. It was truly a happy and joyous time.

At the time, none of us knew that the Autumn of 1987, was going to be such a profound point of events and changes in our lives. My cousin Edward, who lived with us for about seven years, got the courage to propose to the wonderful young lady whom he had been dating for over a year. My sister Patti went back to school to pursue a Master’s Degree in Divinity. Dad retired from the trucking company that he had worked at, for all so many years. Then Dad took on the role of Church Sexton at the Boonton United Methodist Church. Dad also began to attend weekend class-

es at Drew University to prepare himself to become a Lay Leader in the church. Mom began focusing more on her home business of creating craft projects which she sold at flea markets and church bazaars. I discontinued publishing the old Lincoln Park Journal and moved to Indiana, Pennsylvania for about a year to help my elderly cousin with his Christmas Tree farm. It was there that I wrote three stage plays, among them was the very successful “Beyond the North Star.” Sadly, Aunt Helen, who lived with us quite a bit, went Home to be with the Lord in the Autumn of 1987.

There was something in the air, that first Sunday of September of 1987. There was a joy, a feeling of great happiness, as my dad cut his birthday cake. But there was almost an intuitive knowingness that we all felt in our hearts, minds, and inner beings, that changes were in the air. I think that all of us felt a gentle mourning for the loss of a certain lifestyle of family closeness that we swam in for all so many years. How we all tripped over each other’s lives. And now, we were all moving into new territories, the calling of new directions in the Divine purposes of our lives was about to take place.

Aunt Helen was failing. It was becoming more and more difficult for her to get around. Her heart was not good at all. The doctors offered little hope. I remember it all, as if it were yesterday. Aunt Helen sat at the table, in the shade of the towering maple, and smiled as she ate a piece of Dad’s birthday cake. I believe it would be the last piece of birthday cake that she would ever have. continued on page 28

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I Remember Dad... continued from page 27 There are times when we fear changes. We want so much to hold onto the way things are. But all so often, the good Lord calls us and our loved ones into new directions, new goals, new purposes to serve Him. Sometimes we try desperately to fight the changes. But it is like a man trying to stop the ocean tide from departing the sands when the moon calls upon its love for the deep blue sea.

Love knows no boundaries. Love cannot be limited. I live in Central Florida now. I don’t think a day goes by that I don’t think about some little moment of those wonderful, magical years of living in the old Mabey Homestead. How we all tripped upon each other’s lives. And, all the people who came

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continued from page 26 Sale at the kitchen table of the old Mabey Homestead. I was now the proud owner of white, 1961 Ford Falcon. Dad and I went to the Ford Dealer with Wes. I remember that at the Ford Dealer, Wes bought a shiny, red Ford Galaxie 500. It was a sharp looking car.

Outside the Ford Dealer, Dad and I said our goodbyes to Wes. We both wished him good luck with his new car. Dad drove us

and stayed at the old family farmhouse.

Some for a week’s visits, some stayed with us for years.

Please do know this, the psychologists, the scientists, the academicians, the spiritual leaders, really and truly have no idea just how far-reaching and how powerful this mystical, wonderful, and mysterious thing we call love really is. Love can transcend physical distances, the passing of time, and the transition from the physical plane to the heavenly worlds. Love is the key to all human understanding.

Richard Mabey Jr. is a freelance writer. He can be reached at richardmabeyjr@hotmail. com. Please put on the subject line: My Life Publications.

home. I wouldn’t get my driver’s license for another year, but I felt like I was walking on air, being the new owner of this great, classic 1961 Ford Falcon. A new era of my life was dawning.

To be continued.

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5 Surprising Ways Clean Technology is Improving Daily Life

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limate-related crises like rising sea levels, severe weather events and longer drought seasons are challenging the global economy. They’re also driving the launch of new clean technologies.

Here are five examples of how these new technologies are changing and improving daily life: 1. Making clean energy easier to access: With the renewable energy sector experiencing tremendous growth, solar energy is becoming a more affordable solution for Americans who were previously left out of the solar revolution. Projects like the Tribal Solar Accelerator Fund are putting solar on homes and tribal buildings in rural parts of Indian Country to reduce energy costs and advance Energy Sovereignty.

2. Creating new jobs when they’re needed most. In addition to cleaner air and reducing carbon, the renewable energy sector is creating thousands of clean energy jobs in communities across the U.S. 3. Improving buildings like hospitals, schools and offices. With commercial buildings accounting for about 40% of all electricity use in the U.S., and heightened concern around safety and indoor air quality, the founders of startup 75F are using inter-

net-of-things-powered building management systems and cloud-based software to improve heating and cooling efficiencies, maintain occupant comfort and improve air quality in commercial buildings.

4. Helping farmers become more productive and resilient. Agriculture currently accounts for 70% of the world’s water usage and 14% of its energy usage. Startup Pluton Biosciences is using microbes to help identify and address soil imbalances and diseases before they become a larger problem on particular parcels of land. This is helping farmers remain productive and efficient in the face of unpredictable weather patterns, pollution and crop infestations. The company CoverCress is working on a new cash crop for the Midwest that farmers can plant during winter months in between corn and soybean seasons. The crop sequesters carbon and can be harvested as a low-carbon feed for livestock.

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Programs like the Wells Fargo Innovation Incubator, which works with the U.S. Department of Energy’s National Renewable Energy Laboratory, are investing in new clean energy startups, helping them bring game-changing climate solutions to market. Experts say that such investments will be critical in the

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Tips to Keep Kids’ Rooms Clean and Organized

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or the past year, many of us have lived, played, worked and gone to school right at home, making clutter inevitable – especially when it comes to kids’ bedrooms and playrooms.

No matter how many times parents tell their children to clean their rooms, the collection of clothes, schoolwork and toys seems to build endlessly. Take charge of the mess with these tips to create a space that’s fun and functional for kids of all ages.

1. Prioritize Belongings. Start by considering what needs to go, what can stay and how much storage space you have available. Make it a family project by working with your kids to identify which items they love most and which things they could do without. Once you know what will be kept, prioritize space accordingly, keeping beloved items easily accessible.

2. Organize the Stuff. Find everything a home. Bins and baskets are ideal for small toys and games with tiny pieces, while drawers and shelves are perfect for larger items. For excess items, especially young children’s toys, use clear bins to store them in closets or under beds. Not only does this help tidy the room, but it can also make old things appear new again when they are pulled out of storage.

3. Create Labels. Getting belongings organized is one thing, but keeping them that way is another. A great way to ensure your hard work doesn’t go to waste is to label the bins or baskets. Labels make things easy to find when you need them and keep items organized when cleaning up. Creating labels with colorful Duck Tape is a kid-friendly DIY project that can help your kids feel in charge of the process.

4. File Away Papers. For older kids, schoolwork should be separated from games and toys, which can be difficult when learning from home and space is limited.

Important assignments and documents should be put in folders and binders to prevent them from getting lost and help keep the room looking neat.

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How to Combat Social Isolation

ven before COVID-19 limited social contact with friends, family and colleagues, many adults experienced loneliness and depression due to limited contact with others. Now, a year after the pandemic forced many people into even greater levels of isolation, the issue of social isolation is especially prevalent in Americans over the age of 50.

Despite the physical implications of a global pandemic, research shows the mental health stakes are high, too. A nationwide survey, commissioned by Barclays, found that half of Americans over the age of 50 said the isolation from their friends and family has been more challenging than concerns over health risks they may face.

Social isolation has provided plenty of time for Americans to reflect on their priorities. The majority of Americans surveyed (90%) have re-evaluated their post age-50 goals and put spending more time with family at the top of their lists. In fact, the most common first thing 50-plus Americans will do once COVID-19 is over is to see and spend time with their families (41%).

“While restrictions are beginning to ease, many older adults are still isolated from friends and family, and that takes a toll on their mental well-being” said Lisa Marsh Ryerson, president of the AARP Foundation. “We must do all we can to help older adults, who have suffered greatly during COVID-19, strengthen the social connections that are so essential to their ability to lead longer, healthier lives.”

For example, AARP Foundation’s Connect2Affect platform equips older adults with the tools they need to stay

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physically and mentally healthy and connected to their communities. The AARP Essential Rewards Mastercard from Barclays is helping fund the foundation’s work to increase social connection with donations based on new accounts and eligible purchases, up to $1 million annually.

A little creativity and a commitment to filling time productively can help reduce the strain of being alone until it’s safer to resume social activities.

Use technology to connect with loved ones. Video chats and traditional phone calls can help you feel connected even when you can’t be together in person. While a dropin call can be fun, consider arranging regular visits with kids and grandkids. If you schedule calls throughout the week, you’ll have something regular to look forward to and can

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Make time for physical activity. Staying closer to home may mean you’re not getting the exercise you once did, but it’s important for your health to stay active. Regularly using your muscles helps keep your body strong, and even light physical activity a few times each week can help keep your cardiovascular system fit for better heart health. Regular exercise can also provide a range of positive mental health outcomes, including reduced stress, anxiety and depression, and improved memory.

Volunteer in your community or consider virtual volunteering. Helping others is a way to release feel-good endorphins for yourself. While your limited social calendar may afford you some extra time, inquire with local nonprofits about how you can contribute to their causes. Especially as funding for charitable organizations has dropped, volunteers are still essential to most nonprofit organizations, whether the help comes in person or virtually. Even from a distance, you may be able to help with tasks like making calls to donors, assisting with mailings or planning fundraising campaigns.

Learn a new hobby or skill. Another way to fill your free time, and reap some positive energy, is to explore a new hobby or skill. The personal satisfaction of learning and focusing your mental energy on something that interests you can help offset the disappointment of being away from those you love.

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Simple Tips for a Better Wedding Registry

or some couples, the idea of registering for wedding gifts is an exciting way to start planning for the home they’ll be sharing as newlyweds.

For others, the registry is just one more chore to check off the wedding to-do list.

Regardless of where you fall on the love-it-or-hate-it spectrum, most experts agree a registry is a good idea, especially for couples who will be setting up a home together for the first time.

Keep these tips and etiquette guidelines in mind to get the most out of your registry.

Take inventory of what you have and what you need. For couples who’ve lived alone or together, the registry may be a way to fill in gaps for necessities neither of you already have. It’s also a good way to begin upgrading the less Photos courtesy of Getty Images expensive kitchen items and furnishings you had as college students or singles. Make a list of your needs and wants so you don’t forget any essentials. If you’re still in doubt, request a checklist from the store where you’ll be registering so you can do some planning.

Register for things at a wide range of price points. The whole purpose of a registry is to make it easy for your guests to get you things you’ll like and need. Part of making it easy is recognizing your guests have diverse financial situations. While it’s customary to gift the bride and groom, not everyone can afford an extravagant gift, especially if they’ve spent

money on travel and attire to attend.

While it’s a good idea to offer modest options, don’t shy away from bigger ticket items that a small group might chip in on together.

Keep access in mind when you choose where to register. Avoid stores that are local or regional if you have many guests who live out of the area.

Also avoid the temptation to choose online only options, as some guests will prefer to see what they’re buying. Aim for a mix of large national stores and online retailers.

Plan to block off at least a few hours for an in-person registry. It will take time to get everything set up. Traveling through the store, debating options and making your selections could take longer than expected. Also be sure to ask how you can add to or edit your registry after your initial visit.

Get your partner involved. There are bound to be some parts of the registry your partner may not care about, but asking for input and making decisions together lets you both share in the excitement. Focus on things you’ll each find useful as you settle into your new home. For example, the person who will be responsible for taking out the trash should get to pick the new kitchen trash can.

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A Brunch Spread Fit for Spring

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rom tasty small bites to a filling feast and even dessert for breakfast, brunch options are nearly endless. Take your spring brunch to the next level with recipes that appease appetites of all kinds.

First, start with portioned pastry cups perfect for appetizers. Bring out the protein-packed breakfast burritos for the main course then, for a final touch of sweet deliciousness, offer up lemony doughnuts to cap off the feast.

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Bite-Sized Breakfast Appetizer-sized portions and small bites of all sorts are ideal for breakfast spreads, and these Pastry Brunch Cups are perfect for starting a morning meal with loved ones. Or, if a busy schedule looms, try baking a batch and separating into appropriate serving sizes for a simple way to meal prep heading into a new week.

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Pastry Brunch Cups Servings: 18 2 tablespoons butter 2 tablespoons flour

1 1/2 cups milk 1 cup shredded Swiss cheese 2 sheets puff pastry 18 eggs 2 cups diced ham chopped fresh green onions Heat oven 375 F. In small saucepan, melt butter. Whisk flour with butter. Gradually pour in milk, whisking each time. Bring to simmer, whisking until mixture starts to thicken. Remove from heat; stir in Swiss cheese. Set aside.

Use rolling pin to thin out puff pastries.

Cut each into nine squares. Line pastry squares in muffin cups, pressing bottoms down firmly and moving pastries up sides for edges to come up just over muffin tins.

Fill each cup with 1 teaspoon cheese sauce.

Crack one egg into each cup and sprinkle each with diced ham.

Bake 10-15 minutes until eggs set. Sprinkle with chopped green onions.

Power Brunch with a Protein-Packed Burrito A well-rounded brunch calls for a multitude of dishes and beverages, but it wouldn’t be complete without a protein-packed recipe to get the day started.

This delicious Breakfast Burrito is loaded with colorful veggies and Silver Fern Farms 100% grass-fed strip steak. Hailing from New Zealand, home to some of the world’s most natural tasting beef and lamb, this premium cut of beef is aged 21 days and minimally processed with no added growth hormones or antibiotics. The animals are grass-fed year-round and allowed to roam and graze freely, so the beef offers a lean, flavorful texture that tastes just as nature intended.

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continued from page 34 1 1/2 ounces feta cheese, crumbled 1/4 cup cilantro 1 avocado lime wedges (optional) hot sauce (optional) Remove steak from packaging and set aside 10 minutes. Once steak reaches room temperature, heat pan over medium-high heat.

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Lakeside Tavern Set to Re-Open in Mount Olive

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By Megan Roche akeside Tavern “Your Neighborhood Bar and Grill “will is once again open for business. Lakeside Tavern will be the new go to spot. It’s convenient location on Route 46 will offer easy access to Route 80, Route 206, and Route 46. The family friendly location will have some incredible sunsets and houses picture windows for all to enjoy. Stop in for a game of pool, Darts while listening to some great music or just enjoy the neighborhood setting with a great selection of your favorite bar foods and drinks.

Budd Lake has been a staple in the Mount Olive community for decades. Budd Lake is the largest natural lake in New Jersey at 374 acres. Formerly known as Hattacawanna Lake, the lake was named for Lt. John Budd who was the first military officer to train a home guard to protect the community against threats. Lt. Budd also owned 1300 acres of land in the area back in 1714. The lake has been home to many families throughout the years but was an extremely popular summer vacation destination in the 1920’s. Hotels graced the area around the lake, with the most popular ones being the Greene Inn and the Budd Lake Hotel.

As time has passed, the lake has still been a source of recreation for many in the greater

Mount Olive communities. The lake is also the source for the south branch of the Raritan River. Budd Lake has a depth of seven to 12 feet and was created by thousands of years of decaying plant material such as black spruce and tamarack. Budd Lake Beach is a great place to bring family and friends during the summer months.

For Lakeside Tavern and Restaurant Village Hospitality Group owners, Steve and Andrea Bussel, opening and operating a restaurant is no new game for them.

The couple also own Long Valley Brew Pub, OMG Burger and Brew, Bea McNally’s in Hackettstown, and White Birch, with Chef Sam Freund.

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NJStarz Jessielyn Palumbo Hometown: Wayne, NJ

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By Steve Sears ot much has eluded professional photographer, Jessielyn Palumbo, in her 29 years.

She, like many, has had challenges, but the biggest one she stared right in the eye and met it head on. “I think maybe the biggest challenge faced would be when I opened my own business (Jessielyn Palumbo Studio LLC), because you never know how that’s going to go,” she says, “You’re always taking a leap of faith with opening your business. And so, for me that was probably the biggest challenge because you have to get clientele and get your business name out there and know how to focus on really expanding your business.”

“I took that leap of faith that worked out for me.”

Palumbo’s work has appeared in Maxim Magazine and in other publications, and has been seen on Bravo and FOX TV as well.

Specializing in beauty, fashion, and pageant photography, her professional life is a busy and exciting one.

Then there’s the personal, close-to-home stuff. May 2021 is a wonderful month for the former Wayne resident: she’s marrying her Wayne Hills High School sweetheart, Sean. “We met sophomore year in Spanish class, which was great,” she recalls. “I didn’t really know him before that. He was soccer captain and I was cheerleading captain. Totally different: he was into athletics and I was into the arts. And then we just met and we clicked. And then we ended up winning, I guess in our senior year, ‘Cutest Couple,” which is great, now that we’re getting married. We kind of grew up together, from 16 to 29 now.”

A continuation of her very nice life, which has also included being named Miss New Jersey USA 2016. More to come.

Palumbo says hers was a very enjoyable childhood. “I have two older sisters (Tanya and Carissa) who were very close to me. One was a year older than me, and one, three years older than me. So, we got along so well. Basically, they’re your best friends growing up, and we’re all a little different, too. My one sister is, I guess, a little classier,” she says with a laugh, “and the other sister is more like the big sis protector. We had a blast growing up in Wayne.” The Palumbo siblings, raised by their parents Robert and Dorothy, grew up in the shadow of William Paterson University. “We

had a great time growing up because there were so many kids in the neighborhood, going outside and playing. And I’m still friends with those kids to this day; they’re going to my wedding next month. It’s like 20 years of friendship.”

While at Wayne Hills High School, Palumbo was a member of the National Honor Society and served as President of the National Arts Honor Society, apropos for her creative personality. Membership in the group and her activity therein would fuel her eventual career. From there, she moved on to the College of New Jersey in Trenton, from where she graduated Cum Laude in 2014. Palumbo received her BFA in Digital Arts, and a minor in Fine Arts while at TCNJ, and was inducted in the Phi Kappa Phi Honor Society for her academic achievements, as was named to the Kappa Pi Art Honor Society.

Also in her graduating year, Palumbo was the only recipient chosen for the “Dean’s Purchase Award,” a grand achievement where a student’s art piece resides in the Dean’s private collection. She explains the process.

“When you’re a senior, every senior Art major does a thesis.

And within that senior thesis you have an exposition of your work, and basically the Dean of the college will go through all the work and techniques and pick his favorite, called the ‘Dean’s Purchase Award.’ So, he picked my photography work, which at the time was a Doppelganger series, meaning I had pageant girls with their crowns on interacting with themselves and whatever they do in real life. So, I had myself actually in there interacting with myself with a crown on, and then myself as a painter. I photoshopped them both interacting together.”

While at TCNJ, she interned with Fadil Berisha, a celebrity photographer, as well as with Maxim Magazine, with whom she worked as a photo editor after graduation. She lauds the internship method as a way of getting yourself and your talents noticed, but also as an obvious learning tool. “In general, any internship actually helps you get a grasp of real-life stuff,” she says. “You learn something in college, but to actually be in the working field you learn way more. Interning with Maxim, I actually learned more so the business side of things, and also with photography as well, learning copyright licensing, you have to make phone calls, connections, networking – all this is business and recontinued on page 38

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al-life stuff. I always recommend internships, because you don’t really understand how the job is, or if you actually want to do that job without experiencing it.”

Speaking of “crowns,” that’s a subject Palumbo is also familiar with, she a veteran in pageant competitions. In 2016, when she was 23, after claiming runner-up and semifinalist awards in prior Miss Teen and Miss New Jersey USA competitions, the crown and runway walk of the winner was finally hers alone. “I didn’t start doing pageants until I was 17. I started with the New Jersey Teen USA pageant, which is the teen version of the Miss major USA pageant,” In the Teen category, in 2010 she finished as 3rd runner up, and in 2011 1st runner up. She then moved up to the higher level, where she was 3rd runner-up in 2012 and a semi-finalist in 2015. “I never won until 2016. And it was a great experience because I had never done pageants before, but it really does kind of open your eyes to what you can really gain from pageants. For myself, I gained more confidence with going onstage in front of random people, and also with interview skills. You’re more comfortable speaking, which helps with college interviews and job interviews.”

She speaks about the “crowning” (pun intended) moment at the Parsippany Hilton, when outgoing Miss New Jersey USA 2015, Vanessa Oriolo, adorned her head with the glittering silver. “At the time, my director didn’t know if I was happy or not because I was competing so many times and - always not hearing my name called (as a winner) when they called my name, my face was kind of blank.”

When a microphone was placed in front of her and they

asked how she felt about winning, Palumbo said, “Are you sure you called the right name?” She learned they had, and the tears of happiness started to fall. “They (the tears) were delayed, but they were there.”

Palumbo, who has also done modeling in the past, no longer models as often as she did, choosing instead to focus on photography. However, she uses her picture taking skill and past posing experience in the realm to help the women needing guidance.

Along with her career, Palumbo has also done charitable work in various areas. She provides details. “With the (Metropolitan) USO, when I won the pageant, basically we would have a dress designer who would donate dresses to either military children or spouses of people in the military, or even service women themselves. Any dress for their prom or special occasion. What we do is put on a fashion show, and then after the fashion show, we would help personally, one on one, with these ladies and girls to find a dress, and we’d donate the dress to them.”

Her grandparents on her mom’s side passed away with heart disease related illnesses, so she and her family have donated time in that area, and Palumbo has also advocated for Breast Cancer Awareness. “Just knowing people that have family members that have died from breast cancer encouraged me to help with breast cancer awareness,” she states.

Palumbo is a goal-setter, raising the bar to achieve higher. Speaking with her, you know no doubt she’ll attain what continued on page 40

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she desires. “(As for goals) I think I’m always business related,” she says. “I’m always setting goals for myself and you’re never fully there. A huge goal with me would be a photographer covering Vogue or Bazaar or anything like that. That’s my goal, career-wise.”

And yes, there’s that dream photo shoot out there – somewhere, and with top name “someones.” “Oh definitely,” she says with a chuckle. “There’s probably tons. I obviously want to work more with celebrities I would say even going on more on location

photoshoots, let’s say in Italy or Greece or something that’s an amazing location. But right now, I do everything down the Jersey Shore.”

That 117-mile Garden State coastline isn’t a bad place to be or work. And her ultimate goal is pretty good, too.

“My ultimate goal is to have a beautiful family, a happy personal life.”

To learn more about Jessielyn Palumbo and to view her work, visit www.jessielynpalumbo.com.

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Launch Your Boat into a New Season

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hether you’re racing against the waves or quietly floating with a pole in hand, a day on the water is hard to beat. However, before you can enjoy the excitement of a new season, there are several steps you need to take to make sure your boat is ready for the ride.

System Check Your boat’s fuel and electric systems need an experienced eye to determine potential problems. Cracked or damaged hoses and connections need to be replaced, and all fittings and clamps should be checked to ensure they’re tight and secure. Test exhaust and ventilation systems, and replace worn or lose belts and cables, giving special attention to the steering and throttle cables. If you didn’t change the oil and filter before putting your boat in storage, do so before the season begins. Also be sure to check oil, power steering fluid and coolant levels as well as running Photos courtesy of Getty Images lights and emergency features such as horns.

Battery Function A reliable power source is essential for powering your trolling motor and operating accessories like fish finders when your engine isn’t running. You’ll need to test your battery before heading out on the water. If it’s time for a replacement, look for a powerful and cost-efficient option like Interstate Batteries’ Enhanced Flooded Deep-Cycle Marine Battery. The battery features a durable design with extended battery life and includes a two-year, free replacement warranty.

Visual Inspection

After several months in storage, it’s a good idea to give your boat a thorough inspection so you can identify any holes, cracks or dings that may impact its performance or safety.

Scan the hull closely to for any abnormalities and check the propeller, as even minor dings and scratches can affect its operation.

Careful Cleaning Depending on the security of your storage space and how you covered your boat, you may not have much heavy cleaning to do.

However, it’s a good idea to start the season fresh by giving everything a thorough wipe down. This can help illuminate any problems you may have overlooked during your visual inspection. In addition, using UV protectant on exposed surfaces can help prevent damage such as cracks and fading caused by harsh sunlight.

Safety Supplies Before you hitch the trailer, take inventory of your on-board safety supplies. Be sure your life jackets are in good condition and that you have options to appropriately fit all passengers. Check fire extinguishers to ensure they’re in good working order and test the carbon monoxide detector (or add one if there’s not already a detector installed). Also scan your safety kit; update any expired items and replenish your supply of bandages or other items that may be running low.

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