By Tina Pappas
PFriends of the Little Falls Library Recognized During National Friends of Libraries Week
ublic libraries were honored recently in the Township where Mayor James Damiano issued a proclamation during the Township Council meeting for National Friends of Libraries Week, which celebrates Friends of the Library groups throughout the U.S., by raising awareness and increasing membership.
With the Friends of the Little Falls Library members on-hand, Damiano presented the group with a certificate during a ceremony on Oct. 21 and proudly recalled spending "quite a bit of time at the library while growing up."
"The library has gotten exponentially better in recent years," he said.
During his proclamation, Damiano stated that libraries are essential to the educational, social and cultural fabric of communities, with the right to free access to knowledge, information, and resources that empowers people of all ages and backgrounds.
"The Friends of the Library groups across the nation, including our own Friends of the Little Falls Library, play an indispensable role in supporting, enhancing and advocating for the mission of services at all local libraries," he added.
Damiano also stated that Friends of the Library groups are instrumental in fundraising efforts that provide much needed financial resources, enabling libraries to expand their programming, services and collections beyond the limitations of public funding. He emphasized that the contributions of the Friends of the Libraries not only provide material benefits, but also foster a culture of volunteerism, engagement, and community spirit that strengthens the library's role as a welcoming space.
He also touted National Friends of Libraries Week for offering an opportunity for the Little Falls community to recognize the important work of the
and to encourage others to join them in supporting the library's mission.
"And whereas, the continued success of the Little Falls Public Library is directly tied to the commitment and passion of the Friends of the Library, whose efforts make a lasting difference in the lives of our residents," he further stated.
Damiano also proclaimed the week of Oct. 20 to Oct. 26, 2024 as National Friends of Libraries Week in the Township and encouraged all residents to celebrate the contributions of the Friends of the Little Falls Library and actively support the Little Falls Public Library in any way they can.
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Photo provided by The Township of Little Falls Mayor James Damiano issued a proclamation for National Friends of Libraries Week in Little Falls. Pictured is Damiano and the Township Council, along with members of the Friends of the Little Falls Library at the recent Township Council meeting on Oct. 21. Library,
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Pfred Baumann Library.
“When you walk through the doors of that library, you will not just be walking through an entryway," Mayor Tracy Kallert said. "This library is going to open so many more doors. It's going to open the door of education. We think that everyone must have a laptop at home, must have a computer, must have Internet service. It's not true. They don't. Do you know how many students and adults use the library just for that vital connection?
"The Library also closes doors. It's going to close the door on loneliness and isolation. It's going to take people who are only speaking one language and help them embrace the English language because nothing is more lonely than not being able to communicate with people. It's going to take a family that doesn't have a $100 to go to a movie because that's what it costs these days. And it's going to offer socialization."
Thank you to master of ceremonies Shannon Marren, Ariel Lampley for her renditions of the National Anthem and "God Bless America," and the WP American Legion 238 Women's Auxiliary and the Woodland Park Boy and Girl Scouts leading the Pledge of Allegiance with Councilwoman Christine Tiseo. Other speakers included Phillip Russo, Youth Library Director Lina V., Mayor Kallert, Library Board President Rick Lijoi, Coun -
A huge thank you to the Friends of the Alfred H. Baumann Free Public Library, Pizza HQ, ShopRite of Little Falls, and Starbucks Woodland Park for providing refreshments for the event.
"We had some obstacles, but, we persevered… we got through it and here we are," Hoffman said. "It's such a momentous day for our community, one that will leave a lasting for generations to come. We are not just breaking ground for a new building, we’re here to lead the future, the future of our library, a space that champions the freedom to read, fosters inclusivity, and inspires the exploration of ideas and creativity."
Over the last 10 years of its existence, the Friends of the Library has raised over $100,000 already towards the construction fund. In addition, former and current Library trustees and former Library directors have been instrumental in the support and the depth and the development of this project. They laid the foundation upon and collectively have been able to dedicate $1.4 million toward this project.
"Thank you all for being here today to share in this exciting new beginning," Hoffman said, before the official groundbreaking was held. "We look forward to the next chapter in our library's story!"
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Woodland Park Mayor Tracy Kallert, the Borough Council, and the Woodland Park PBA Local 173 honored and recognized the service and sacrifice of recently retired Pastor Joel La Torre for his vital role in providing critical first responder assistance for 24 years to the Borough police, fire, and EMS.
"Pastor Joel has consistently exhibited compassion, understanding, and professionalism during his exemplary career," Mayor Kallert said. "He has provided much-needed emotional and spiritual support to first responders and their families."
Pastor La Torre moved to Woodland Park in 2000 at which time he joined the Police Department as dispatcher. In 2021, he was named police chaplain of the department. Following serving as associate pastor at Ebenezer Missionary Movement in Paterson, in
New Home for WP Mailbox
The United States Postal Service mailbox that was in front of the Alfred Baumann Library in Woodland Park has been relocated across the parking lot to in front of the Municipal Building due to the start of construction at the library site.
2008 he became lead pastor at Living Water Church in Woodland Park.
Since 2012, Pastor La Torre has served as Police Benevolent Association Local 173 Police Chaplain.
In addition to his service to the Police Department, Pastor La Torre has been an honorary member of the West Paterson First Aid Squad since 2000. He served as EMS captain from 2006-2007 and serves as the EMS squad as chaplain.
Pastor La Torre and his wife Dinora have three children: Alyssa (22), Janessa (17), and Emeli (12).
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Woodland Park Mayor Tracy Kallert and the Borough Council, the Recreation Department, and the Alfred Baumann Library kicked off the new
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By Tina Pappas
Pumpkin spice was in the air during the annual Harvest Moon Dinner Dance in Little Falls. The event is held annually for senior citizens and is sponsored by the Little Falls Senior Citizens Advisory Committee. It was held at the Little Falls Civic Center, located at 19 Warren Street on Oct. 11.
Council President Anthony Sgobba, who chairs the committee, welcomed attendees and said it's been a pleasure to serve the seniors citizens throughout the year. He thanked Councilman Chris Vancheri, Councilwoman Christine Hablitz and Cpl. Jon Vanak for their assistance with the event. He also thanked John Pace of the Recreation Department, longtime resident Donna Murone and new volunteer, cont. on page 14
The annual Harvest Moon Dinner Dance was held in Little Falls on Oct. 11. Pictured is Mayor James Damiano, Council President Anthony Sgobba, Councilman Chris Vancheri, Councilwoman Christine Hablitz, members of the Little Falls Girl Scouts and local volunteers serving food.
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Domenica Campen, also a longtime resident. He also thanked Marie Sgobba for her assistance with reservations for the event.
He then introduced Mayor James Damiano who spoke to attendees.
"As always, it's wonderful to see all your faces here tonight. Another year has gone by and I cannot believe we're in the fall season and now the holiday season will be upon us in no time," he said and thanked Sgobba for all his work in putting the senior events together. "Without your help this program would be difficult to continue, so thank you for making this a reality year after year."
Sgobba, Vancheri, Hablitz, Vanak, Murone, Campen, and three eighth grade Little Falls Girl Scouts
volunteers (Olivia, Samantha and Francesca) served food to attendees. Damiano served parmesan cheese to cheese lovers.
Local seniors then kicked up their heels and enjoyed a night of dinner and dancing, with music entertainment by DJ Angelo. The event was complimentary entry for Little Falls seniors and $20 for non-residents.
Sgobba said the senior citizens in town are an important fabric of Little Falls.
"We had 75 seniors laughing and dancing the night away, and they didn't want the night to end," he added.
Local resident Joseph Murone said it was a very enjoyable evening.
"I love these events our town holds for us," he said. "They do a really great job!"
Members of the Township Council and local volunteers serve food to attendees during the annual Harvest Moon Dinner Dance in Little Falls.
Mayor James Damiano sprinkles parmesan on seniors' dinner plates at the annual Harvest Moon Dinner Dance.
Seniors kicked up their heels at the annual Harvest Moon Dinner Dance. Pictured are local residents and dance partners Peter Samp and Loretta Mariani.
Seniors enjoyed food and refreshments at the annual Harvest Moon Dinner Dance.
Little Falls Celebrates Italian-American Heritage and Culture Month
By Tina Pappas
The Township celebrated Italian-American Heritage and Culture Month with a flag-raising ceremony in front of the municipal building on Oct. 7. The national holiday coincides with Columbus Day in October, and honors the achievements and contributions of Italian immigrants and Italian-Americans.
Hosting the ceremony was Councilman Chris Vancheri, who spoke to attendees.
"As we celebrate this month, there are over 26 million Americans of Italian descent," he said. "I'm one of them as well and it's a great way to honor Italian-Americans tonight."
Vancheri also thanked members of Passaic Valley UNICO, including its past-president, Steven Pelonero, for taking part in the ceremony. The non-profit organization is a chapter of UNICO National and is the largest Italian-American service organization in the nation for U.S. citizens of Italian heritage or married to those of Italian heritage. Its mission is to promote Italian heritage and culture by supporting charitable, scientific, cultural, educational and literary projects. Pelonero, who is also a past UNICO National President, spoke after the ceremony.
"We're all volunteers and we're all over the country," Pelonero explained. "You even see thousands of non-Italians line the streets in the cities and towns during the flag-raisings and parades because everybody loves our heritage. We also donate to many charitable causes, such as cancer research, mental health and food banks."
Passaic Valley UNICO Chapter President Carmen Criscione echoed the sentiment.
"It's the spirit of the community, which is what we all want," he said.
Mayor James Damiano, who spoke during the ceremony, also read a proclamation for Italian Heritage and Culture Month for the month of October 2024, which has been celebrated since 1989. He invited Passaic Valley UNICO Chapter and National members to stand beside him as he read his proclamation at the recent council meeting, recounting the early Italian explorers, including the 5.5 million working class immigrants who arrived in the U.S. in the beginning of the 20th Century, helping to shape and develop the nation.
"Italian-Americans have made significant economic and cultural contributions to our nation in the areas of government, science, technology, arts, entertainment, literature, products, design and food," Damiano added. "Italian American Heritage and Culture
Month is a time to celebrate our Italian-American community, and to recognize the many contributions to the growth and prosperity of our nation."
Council President Anthony Sgobba also commented after the ceremony.
"It was a proud moment for me as the son of Italian immigrants to witness the Italian flag being raised," he said.
Photos provided by the Township of Little Falls Little Falls celebrated Italian-American Heritage and Culture Month with a flag-raising ceremony in front of the municipal building on Oct. 7
Mayor James Damiano speaks to attendees during the Little Falls Italian-American Heritage and Culture Month ceremony.
Mayor James Damiano welcomes UNICO National members during his proclamation for Italian-American Heritage and Culture Month in Little Falls.
Councilman Chris Vancheri, who hosted the Little Falls Italian-American Heritage and Culture Month ceremony, speaks to attendees.
The Italian flag was raised during the Italian-American Heritage and Culture Month ceremony in Little Falls.
Annual Oktoberfest Makes For An Enjoyable Sunny Fall Afternoon in Little Falls
By Tina Pappas
The annual Oktoberfest fall festival proved to be a big hit among attendees this year. A sunny, fall afternoon was a perfect day to take a leisurely stroll down Union Avenue next to the Little Falls Municipal Building to attend the event on Oct. 6. It was sponsored by the Little Falls PBA #346.
Patrons enjoyed great food, checked out craft vendors, and browsed through exhibit tents from local businesses. The annual cornhole tournament was also held, where participants took turns throwing fabric bean bags at an angled board to score points. The popular beer garden was enjoyed by beer connoisseurs who tasted an array of eclectic beer beverages, while listening to the live band Shipwreck play a medley of music.
Among the vendors participating this year were The Feisty Pup, My Eternal Blessing, Artwork Studio, IL Panino Pizza, Cruz-Missile Hotdogs & Pinchos, Tommy Scoops, Broadway Dork Designs, Linda's Lemonade, Kona Ice, Jewel Ave. Capizzi Zeppole, Pickle Me, Pink Zebra, Geri Igler Tastefully Simple Consultant, The Squeeze Juice Bar, BR Creations, Donut NV, These Freakin' Empanadas and More, Taxi Cab Burger, Five Star Food Shuttle, G.P. Apparel, Glitter Glam Tattoos and Senior Juans Cigars.
Beer Garden vendors that participated were Shop Rite of Little Falls, Allied Healthcare Diagnostics, Studio 43D, Rare, the Steak House, Toyota Universe, J & M Towing, Prime 94 Steakhouse & Grill, Maggie's Town Tavern, and Lite.
Winners of the cornhole tournament were Little Falls residents Daniel Suarez and Justin Franciose.
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The annual Oktoberfest fall festival was held in Little Falls. Pictured are attendees walking through Union Avenue on Oct. 6.
"It was awesome to win," Suarez said. "This is really an enjoyable event each year."
Little Falls Detective Sgt. John Moncato, a member of the Little Falls PBA #346, who coordinated the cornhole tournament, said the weather couldn't have been better.
"You couldn't ask for more and much of the event was handled by Lindsay Hessenius, who helped out with the
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cornhole tournament," he said. "This year we had 14 teams who participated, with the first place winners receiving a cash prize. Prime 94 Steakhouse & Grill provided gift cards. We also gave out a lot of other fun stuff to participants."
Amill Mescia, Team Mom for the PV Jr. Hornets baseball, set up a booth to help raise funds to help the team go on a trip to Cooperstown, N.Y.
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"My husband John Mescia is a head coach and I'm with our other team moms here today. We're hoping to raise money for this trip," she said, adding for those interested in donating they can email her at afmescia@ gmail.com for sponsorship information and donations.
According to Officer Kevin Sayed, President of the Little Falls PBA #346, the event was a huge success and the great weather made for an enjoyable afternoon.
"We are super happy, excited and grateful for the beautiful weather that we had here today," he said, adding that it's a rain or shine event. "We're always prepared with tents if it does happen to rain but we're blessed today and the weather obviously brought this huge crowd in today. People aren't just coming and going. They're coming, hanging out and enjoying their time here. We love it because it's a good way to connect with the communi-
ty. All of our PBA members and the police are here working this in a different environment, which is really nice. It's a very successful event for us."
BR Creations owner Betty Robertson, said it was a great day to be out this year. Robertson has over 30 years of experience with event
planning and crafting, including making deco pads, coasters and mugs. She also makes bath salts and handmade earrings.
"I really enjoyed myself here today and there were so many people in attendance," he said. "Everyone had fun browsing through festival."
Arthritis Workshop Held At Civic Center
By Tina Pappas
Aworkshop was recently held with the goal of helping people deal with the pain of arthritis. Dr. Jack Zuckerman, PT, DPT, Cert. DN of Total Recovery Physical Therapy, located at 72 Main Street, gave useful information to attendees on Sept. 27 at the Little Falls Civic Center. The event was sponsored by the Little Falls Senior Advisory Board. The session included info on two common types of arthritis and understanding its symptoms, including natural healing techniques to get people moving again. Dr. Zuckerman also talked about successful treatment and permanent relief minus the side effects of unnecessary medications, injections or surgery.
Council President Anthony Sgobba, who chairs the Senior Advisory Board, commended the arthritis program.
"Dr. Zuckerman hosted the session on how to deal with arthritis, and it was well attended and informative," he said.
An attendee gets some fresh pizza from a food truck during the annual Oktoberfest fall festival in Little Falls.
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Event About Local Enslavement and Liberation. Sat., Oct. 26, 1-3 Friendship Hall of First Reformed Church
The Acknowledging the History of Enslavement and Liberation of African Americans in Pequannock Project is a collaborative, community-engaged effort to rebury the displaced remains of at least four Black unfree people in Pequannock Township in the 19th century and to honor the lives and histories of enslaved people in New Jersey.
Led by an advisory council of community leaders and researchers sharing knowledge and contributing diverse perspectives, this project was created to find a final resting place for the remains of these ancestors and to promote community engagement with histories of race, slavery, liberation, and unfreedom in New Jersey.
Upon the recommendation of the advisory council, a peaceful and dignified private reburial ceremony took place on July 13, 2024 in the First Reformed Church of Pompton Plains Cemetery.
The council continues to welcome community feedback and input, especially from people with a shared heritage with nineteenth-century North Jersey and contemporary Morris County and nearby residents. We hope to foster opportunities to speak about the history of enslavement and liberation of the African Americans who lived in Pequannock in the colonial and early national periods in New Jersey.
A public event is scheduled for Saturday, October 26, 2024, at the First Reformed Church of Pompton Plains Friendship Hall from 1-3PM. We welcome participation from people interested in reckoning with these histories in our region.
WP Early Childhood Center Small Groups
Students in Ms. Lambert's PreK-3 class at the Early Childhood Center in Woodland Park had a wonderful experience with their small groups. This particular small group, shaving cream letters, prompts the students to look at a letter and draw them on a shaving cream sensory board.
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United States Army Veteran Publishes First Novel
knew it was time to get words between covers.
Her words.
The Randolph, New Jersey resident – a proud United States Army veteran and Vice Commander of Chester’s American Legion Post 342 - in April published her first novel, “America’s Candidate,” and in October had her first ever book signing in Mendham at Chapter One Book Store.
Ehrenberg said, “I began writing it as my New Year’s resolution in January. That is when I first started typing it, and I finished it in April. I could not believe it; I never thought I would do this or get to this point. I have never written a book before, and I had never really done anything except write a few poems as a kid. The idea of even writing a book, eventually publishing it, and having a physical copy in my hand in itself was unbelievable to me. So, to get to the point where I am actually at a store, and people are purchasing my book and asking me to sign it, is beyond anything I ever could have thought would happen for me.”
Ehrenberg, a graduate of both Rutgers Law School and the Civil Affairs Advanced Course at the JFK Special Warfare Center at Fort Bragg, North Carolina, was a Major in the United States Army (she was in the military for 12 ½ years) Judge Advocate General’s Corp. During deployment in Albania as part of Operation Cornerstone, she served as the advisory liaison between civilian officials and multinational military forces. While in the Army, Ehrenberg was also company commander of the 404th Civil Affairs Battalion and served as an International Law Officer, Command Judge Ad-
vocate, and Trial Defense lawyer. Her civilian career resume lists serving 20 years with the Supervising Deputy Attorney General, and the Deputy Bureau Chief of the Financial and Computer Crimes Bureau of the Attorney General’s Office and the Division of Criminal Justice.
Ehrenberg’s family is well-decorated with military service veterans. She said, “My father was in the Korean War, and my father-in-law received the Distinguished Flying Cross in the Korean War. We also have four uncles who were in the military. We are a real military family, so there is nothing but joy and pride.”
Ehrenberg said that her career, in particular being a defense attorney in the military and then being a prosecutor as a civilian, really helped her understand not how to be a good writer, but just to be a person who sees all sides of everything.
Ehrenberg said, “You really get a perspective to be more sort of well-rounded, and just see things from all perspectives and really view the role, maybe not very narrowly, but really broadly. I really feel like every everything I have done has really lent itself to becoming a writer.”
And Ehrenberg is not finished – and there are folks who are thankful for that. She said, “I am thinking of a sequel. The people who have read the book are almost demanding a sequel, which is wonderful. I love it when they call me up and say, ‘But you have to. You cannot just leave me hanging. You have to write a sequel’ So, I am working on that.”
“America’s Candidate” is available at allauthor.com/ amazon/90735/. For more information, visit https://ehrenberg1.allauthor.com/.
Francine Pozner Ehrenberg and debut novel, “America’s Candidate” (Credit: Francine Pozner Ehrenberg)
Shop Morris County: Teen Entrepreneur Launches Local Business Hub
By Cheryl Conway
Anyone can google a business, but how helpful could it be if all the businesses were found in one search?
Thanks to 15-year-old Giovanni DiDomenico of Parsippany consumers can check out Shop Morris County, the first Morris County guide/resource for finding local events, restaurants, news and more in Morris County. Launched on Instagram on April 1, 2023, the official website launch was June 10.
With more than 100 businesses that have registered on the website so far, Shop Morris County is becoming the one stop spot for googling businesses on one website.
“There’s a huge benefit to businesses and the consumer because anyone can google for businesses when you are on the Shop Morris County site,” says DiDomenico, 10th grader at Morris County School of Technology. “I am not aware of any websites that are Morris County-focused with the core mission of shopping and supporting local.”
DiDomenico and his father came up with his business idea two years ago when he was in eighth grade.
“I was having lunch with my father in Boonton, and my father told me that he’d been thinking of launching a Morris County Guide years ago, and I was thinking, ‘why should I wait, let’s do it!” he explains. “Then at lunch in Boonton I created the Instagram page and posted Al Aqsa Restaurant as the first ever post on Shop Morris County.”
He is very grateful for the collaboration and support by his father.
“My father has helped me a lot along the way,
especially by driving me around to get to local businesses, since I am only 15 years old,” he shares.
“The cost for me to get this going was my time; to this day I put hours in every single day to grow and keep it moving,” he adds.
Hopefully, his work will pay off in other ways as he looks toward his future.
“I’ve made connections with many towns such as Randolph, Dover, Jefferson, Denville, Rockaway,” he shares.
“Over 100+ businesses have been featured either on the Shop Morris County Instagram and/or website,” he adds.
“My career plans are growing Shop Morris County and building more brands,” he says.
“My goal for the Shop Morris County initiative is to make a sig-
nificant community impact and help promote shopping locally,” he says. “I also look forward to growing the Shop Morris County brand and supporting our local communities.”
A value add for visitors is “there is no cost for users/ subscribers to view content on Shop Morris County,” he says. “This is to prioritize an enjoyable experience for the reader.”
Shop Morris County is on Facebook, Instagram and a website. https://www. instagram.com/shopmorriscounty/ https://www. facebook.com/profile.
If This Be My Destiny
By Richard Mabey Jr.
As I write the words for this essay, I have become more and more acutely aware of my physical failing. For it was only two years ago, that I walked and cared for over a dozen wonderful dogs in my little community. It was common for me, to walk five or six miles a day, walking my fur-lined friends, while their mommies and daddies were away visiting their adult children. Now, when I walk around the block, I become all so winded, the chest pains prevail. I am becoming more and more aware that it’s the ninth inning, the last scene of Act III of the play.
I have been blessed beyond my wildest imagination. My father once told me that God had given me a very precious gift, to put words down on paper. He told me that it was my job to develop it, to hone it, to fine tune it. I truly hope that I have not let my father down. When I was two years old, my father built a little desk for me. Dad built a chalkboard onto it. My mother once told me that when I was just two years old, as she would cook supper, I would write down stories on my little desk, drawing stick figures. I never chose to be a writer, God chose for me to be a writer. I have no doubt about that.
There are too many people to thank. Without whom, I would be nothing. I would have been a piece of driftwood, bobbing up and down out in the darkness of the deep blue sea. I started writing articles for the Lincoln Park Herald, when I was 12 years old. I started writing them from a hospital bed at the Barnert Hospital in Paterson, while I was battling a case of full-blown Rheumatic Fever.
In 1971, when my friends were attending prestigious universities, far from Lincoln
Park, I humbly worked at the A&P grocery store, attended County College of Morris and wrote stories and articles for Youngtown Edition.
To Professor John Keeler, wherever you may now be, I earnestly thank you for all your kind advice. You told me to forget about writing about the great white whale, but rather to write about the little town I loved so much, the people I knew, and the old farmhouse that my Great Grandpa built. It’s a debt I can only recognize, but never repay.
In 1977, in a small town in West Virginia, I attempted to be a successful chiropractor. But I failed miserably. I was dirt poor, had only four or five patients, wasn’t eating right and living in tight quarters of a back room of a store front office. The strep throat came and once again, I came down with Rheumatic Fever.
Returning to the old farmhouse on Mabey Lane, I fell into a deep, deep sleep. And in that deep sleep, I felt the unmistakable spiritual presence of Thomas Wolfe. And the endearing Southern gentleman, simply whispered to me, “write the stories of these people, whom you love so much.”
To all of my dear and precious readers, I share these heart-felt words. Do not ever let anyone kill your dreams. Walk away from your harsh critics. Believe in yourself. Dig deep to find your purpose upon this earth. Always give it 110 percent. Never, ever give up. Always remember, failure is not an option. Love, love, love the people in your life. Forgive, forgive, forgive. Never stop forgiving those who have done you wrong. Hold dear this eternal truth, love is the most powerful force in the universe. Love God with all your heart, mind and soul. And, love all, even unto the creatures of the forest. Richard Mabey Jr. is a freelance writer. His second book is presently at the printer. He hosts a YouTube Channel titled, “Richard Mabey Presents.” He can be reached at richardmabeyjr@ gmail.com.
Yours truly at two years old, writing at the desk that my dear, kind father built for me.
By Richard Mabey Jr.
Now, at 71, I find myself dreaming more and more about moments that I shared with my paternal grandfather, Watson Mabey. I walked the forest path with Grandpa, from the end of Mabey Lane to the tow path of the old Morris Canal, over a hundred times in my childhood and youth. During the Summer of 1965, when I was just 11 years old, Grandpa and I came across the Magnificent Buck, on one of our walks to the old Morris Canal. It was a moment that, to this day, holds a dear and precious place in my heart.
I grew up in the old Mabey Homestead, that my great grandfather, William Mabey, built in 1890. On Thanksgiving Day, Dad’s sister and seven brothers, with their spouses and children, would gather at the old farmhouse, to feast and
Grandpa Mabey’s Last Thanksgiving
have heart-felt fellowship. My paternal grandmother, Bertha Mabey, would peel apples for apple pie, very early in the morning. While the women cooked in the kitchen, Dad and his brothers would gather around in the big, enclosed front porch and tell tales of deep sea fishing excursions, grand adventures of hunting, and fond remembrances of growing up together. And, in this mist of all this, Grandpa would sit in his easy chair, in the living room, with all of his grandchildren sitting on the floor at his feet, and tell stories of working on the old Morris Canal.
There was something very different about Grandpa’s tales that he told in the morning of the Thanksgiving of 1967. I was 14 years old at the time and in my freshman year at Boonton High School. I was a sensi-
tive boy and was gifted with a certain amount of intuition about things.
Grandpa had just had a stroke, a few months prior to that Thanksgiving Day. For all practical purposes, the stroke
This picture was taken on Thanksgiving Day of 1967. Grandma and Grandpa with their dog, Little Pixie, seated with their nine children behind them. Standing from left to right: Carl, Gerald, Edward, William, David, Dad, Violet, Earl and Harold.
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left his left arm almost useless. But Grandpa did his best to hide it.
Usually Grandpa would tell stories of his remembrances of working as the Chief Engineer of Incline Plane Ten East, which was located at the Towaco and Lincoln Park border, along the old Morris Canal. But this particular Thanksgiving morning, Grandpa talked a lot about Heaven. He told us that he had a good friend in Jesus. And, he talked a lot about his brother Earl, who was killed in battle in France, during World War I.
Grandpa spoke of angels, how they would visit him at night time. There was a solemn, reverent quality to Grandpa’s stories, during that Thanksgiving monring of 1967. It was mixed with a bit of sadness.
I remember Grandpa spoke of the Majestic Buck, as he called the wonderful, magnificent, mystical buck that walked the forest behind the old Mabey Homestead. He talked of a time, when he was younger and had the giant buck lined up in the scope of his rifle, but could not find it within himself to pull the trigger. Grandpa would often say that the Majestic Buck was a true mystical beast.
We used to eat our big Thanksgiving feast at about two o’clock in the afternoon. Grandpa always sat at the head of the dining room table and the three or four additional folding tables that were set up, from the dining room and onto the formal living room.
I remember that halfway through his Thanksgiving prayer, Grandpa began crying. It was the one and only time that I ever saw my grandfather cry. As tears flowed down his cheeks, he asked God to bless each and every one of us at the table.
On the seventeenth of May of 1968, the angels called Grandpa Home to Heaven’s Gate. That was over 56 years ago. Since the day Grandpa passed, I don’t think a day has gone by that I haven’t thought about him. I loved him with all my heart. Now at 71, I still mourn for my beloved grandfather. I still miss him very much. I would give up my entire collection of antique books and my whole comic book collection, to have just 10 minutes to once again talk with that dear, wonderful, kind old man.
Love those near and dear. Hold them precious in your heart. Forgive them of every wrong they may have ever done to you. Cherish every moment with the people you love and care for. For none of us have a written guarantee for tomorrow.
Richard Mabey Jr. is a freelance writer. He hosts a YouTube Channel titled, “Richard Mabey Presents.” He can be reached at richardmabeyjr@gmail.com.
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Consider These 13 Gratifying Thanksgiving Facts
Thanksgiving is a time to gather with family and friends and reflect on one’s blessings. In 2022, Canadian Thanksgiving takes place on October 10, while Americans celebrate on November 24. In anticipation of these holidays, here are some interesting facts about the Thanksgiving celebration.
1. American Thanksgiving is largely modeled on a 17th century harvest feast shared by the English settlers and the Wampanoag tribe.
2. Canadians celebrate Thanksgiving on the second Monday of October. It is based on European harvest festivals.
3. The National Turkey Federation says around 45 million turkeys will be eaten on Thanksgiving, which equates to about 720 million pounds of turkey being consumed (with the average turkey size being 16 pounds).
4. The Butterball hotline answers roughly 100,000 calls every year on its turkey question hotline.
5. In 1953, the Swanson company overestimated the number of frozen turkeys it would sell for the holiday season by 26 tons. Rather than waste the meat, Swanson sliced it up, repackaged it and created the first frozen TV dinners.
6. Thanksgiving in America may be older than many recognize. While Thanksgiving is largely tied to the 17th century settlers, the National Parks Service says in 1565 Spanish settlers in St. Augustine (now Florida) celebrated by having a meal to which they invited the native Seloy tribe. The Spanish served pork stew, sea biscuits, red wine, and garbanzo beans. Some say
the Seloy contributed turkey, venison and maize.
7. Thanksgiving didn’t become a civic holiday until Abraham Lincoln made it one after the Civil War tragedy. Thanksgiving was declared a national holiday on October 20, 1864.
8. The Pilgrims did not refer to themselves as “pilgrims.” They used the word “separatists” as they were separating themselves from a larger belief system.
9. In addition to Canada and the United States, Grenada, Liberia, the Philippines, Saint Lucia, and the Netherlands celebrate their own versions of Thanksgiving.
10. Each year, the American president “pardons” a turkey from slaughter on Thanksgiving. This tradition dates back to when Abraham Lincoln’s son was upset that his family’s turkey that was going to be killed for Thanksgiving dinner.
11. According to the U.S. Calorie Control Council (CCC), an average American may consume 4,500 calories and 229 grams of fat on Thanksgiving Day.
12. The Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade is an annual tradition. People line the parade route in New York City or tune in to watch the parade on television. It originated in 1924 and the famed balloons were added in 1927.
13. Apple pie is the pie of choice for Thanksgiving, even though pumpkin pie is prevalent this time of year.
Thanksgiving is a popular holiday in Canada and the U.S. Many traditions have been borne of the holiday, and it is a favorite time of year for many people.
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JPioneer Pilot Captain Janis Keown-Blackburn
anis Blackburn flew as the second officer on an Eastern Airlines Airbus A-300. According to the Airbus Corporation, she was the first woman in the world to be a crewmember on that airplane. “I was 36 years old when Eastern Air Lines hired me in 1985. To get hired, and to be the first says something. It was exciting,” she said.
“I was about the same age or just a couple of years younger than the other second officers. I had more in common with them.” Most of them Janis worked with were in their early 20s. “We talked about the same things in the cockpit. My daughter was in college, and many of the second officers had kids in college or just starting. So, we have the same problems, tuition, etc. If you’re single, and 23 as opposed to married with a family then we have different things in common.”
At the age of 14, Janis had her first airplane ride as a civil air patrol cadet and immediately fell in love with flying. “I knew then I wanted to fly.” Two days after her 20th birthday, Janis earned her pilot’s license.
For the next few years, she remained on the edge of the flying community until 1977, when she got her instructors rating. She then taught for 3 1/2 years.
A year earlier, Janis had the opportunity to compete in the last Powder Puff Derby. “I remember hearing about it on the news when I was very small, maybe five or six and I remember the newscaster say, that ‘today is the powder puffers air race.’
“The newscaster began to talk about the race, and it was then that I decided I wanted to be in one. I didn’t know at the time that you had to be a pilot to enter.
“Years later it was exciting to be a contestant in that race. A friend worked for a company that agreed to sponsor us. The company went bankrupt two weeks before we left for California so my copilot, Claire, Korica, and I paid our own way.
“When we began to taxi out, we saw hundreds of spectators and in the front row, I saw my daughter Sandra, who was six at the time. I recognized her in the crowd because she was wearing a Bicentennial dress, her grandmother had made for her.
“We didn’t finish in the top 10 but our objective was to finish the race and we did that. We were flying my Mooney, and I had no intention of damaging anything to try and win an air race. I learned a lot about flying and have a great scrapbook and photo albums for memories.”
Janis began flying in the 1960s, serving as a full-time flight instructor with the airlines at Marlboro Airport during the 1970s.
“I began flying for the airlines in 1981 — first with Princeton Airways in Princeton, followed by Summit Airlines, in Philadelphia, and then with Sun Country Airlines in Minneapolis.”
Janis flew for Princeton Airways for 15 months until they went out of business. Then for a year and a half she flew charters until Summit Airlines hired her to fly freight from Philadelphia. “When I flew freight I was away a lot. When I was home, it was not quality time with my family since flying freight is a night job, and my body clock was totally messed up.”
Janis stayed for 18 months until Sun Country Airlines offered her a job in Minneapolis as a second officer on a Boeing 727. When she arrived at their headquarters they decided to train her as a standby first officer riding both the back seat and the right seat.”
Janis always wanted to fly for Eastern Air Lines. She grew up just outside of Philadelphia and TV advertising always featured. “I applied to Eastern for eight years before they called. The personnel officer said, ‘I’ve been reading your name for eight years and I’m getting tired of it” Janis replied, “Then you’re going to have to hire me because I’m going to keep on writing.”
When Janis first applied to Eastern Airlines she had about 1,500 hours in the cockpit and they are looking for pilots with 2,5o0 to 3,000 hours. Vietnam was beginning to shut down and the Air Force was discharging pilots. The airline could hold out for pilots with jet experience, and Janis didn’t have any back then.
There were also some personal struggles. In those days, a flight engineer’s ticket was $7,000 and then it was seven weeks away from her family.
One Christmas Janis got all the flight attendants together for a small celebration with Christmas presents for everybody in the crew. “We were like a family. None of us were with our real families. It was just nine of us together, just enjoying each other’s company.”
Janis joined Spirit Airlines in 1999, retiring in 2013 as an A-320 airbus captain with more than 22,000 hours. During her flying career she handled a few non-routine situations. On one occasion challenged with a cracked windshield at 39,000 feet. On another occasion she had to make an emergency landing at Southwest Florida International Airport in Ft. Myers, A passenger in the forward cabin was having difficulty breathing, while a flight attendant in the aft cabin appeared to be having a heart attack. Once on the ground, both people survived. In September 2015, Janis was inducted
into the Aviation Hall of Fame and Museum of New Jersey, in Teterboro.
Janis recently wrote a children’s cook, “Teddy, the Airplane” a story of a little air -
plane listening to his friends adventures and deciding to create his own adventures. (available on Amazon).
By Henry M Hoden
Slavery and the slave trade was an American institution as far back as the Durch occupation in the 1600s. It stretched as far north as New England with New Jersey holding many enslaved people and harboring the lucky few in a Friends Meeting House, and likely other Quaker locations. Quakers became critical and central to the launch of the movement to abolish the slave trade in the 1780s.
They were the first religious movement to condemn slavery and would not allow their members to own slaves.
The Religious Society of Friends, also known as the Quakers, played a major role in the abolition movement against slavery in the United States. Quakers were among the first white people to denounce slavery and the Quaker’s Society
The Quakers and the Abolitionists
of Friends became the first organization to take a collective stand against both slavery and the slave trade. Slavery was encouraged by the Concessions and
Agreements of Feb. 10, 1664. It rewarded slavery by granting land to settlers
according to the number of enslaved people they had. Settlers could receive up to
150 acres for each adult enslaved person, creating the potential for larger farms to be amassed by those with the most enslaved.
Keeping enslaved people was not part of the Quaker belief system. The Quakers tried to eliminate the problem of racism by persuasion, petitions, and active and passive means such as boycotting products made by slave labor. Those who defied the organization were late banned from the Quakers.
In 1776, Quakers were prohibited from owning slaves, and 14 years later they petitioned the U.S. Congress for the abolition of slavery.
There were many Quakers who opposed slavery totally. However, some Quakers refused to free their enslaved people and when they did there were often serious outbreaks of cont. on page 32
This typical Quaker Meeting House in Randolph, was used primarily for meetings and reportedly as a station on the Underground Rail Road. (Photo credit: Henry M. Holden)
violence.
By 1861, on the eve of a potential Civil War there was a serious division between the Quaker slave holders and the abolitionists Quakers who wanted freedom for all enslaved people.
While there are no prescribed or mandatory set beliefs in Quakerism, one will often see a common group of goals, called testimonies; simplicity, peace, integrity, community, equality, and stewardship (SPICES).
One tactic used was Quaker stores selling only. goods produced by the labor of free people. It had little impact on the issue.
By 1840, there were several serious outbreaks of violence against anti-slavery agitators and leaders. The atmosphere was such that violence came to the Friends in Boonton, N.J. and likely other Friends location as well.
The drive among the Abolitionist to end slavery, especially among their own ranks became more heated as time went by.
The idea was to not only free the enslaved people but try to establish ways of keeping them free. There were secondary issues that arose when trying to secure a meaningful freedom. Many Quakers enslaved people were re-enslaved or were not treated well after being released and declared free.
Sadly, many white Quakers did not believe that Blacks were genuine equals, spiritually. There was a lot of criticism from the more vocal Quaker abolitionists. There was a race problem within the Quaker organization, and the general public, and it grew worse with time. There were some Quakers who were trying to promote freedom for all enslaved but soon the divide grew larger and more dangerous for the Abolitionists..
It was difficult for white Christians, even people who were in the vanguard of the white conscience to envision Blacks as equals spiritually, in their own meeting houses.
So, what were the Quakers to do? Was it more important to be spiritually and theologically clean, or was it more important to live in the world and to try to achieve change in their world? The dilemma was such that the unwillingness of some white Quakers to accept the Black Quakers created a racial divide. And the Black children soon found themselves in inadequate Black schools.
The contradiction was the violence that slavery delivered and was not going to end peacefully. At some point Americans realized there was going to be a civil war. So, Quakers were always concerned about the means and ends. Unfortunately, their pacifism became more conservative because they understood that their beliefs might be used to foment insurrection.
The real dilemma was whites were never enslaved themselves, but here they are telling free Blacks not to use violence, and not to use weapons to defend themselves, or their freedom. How violent should one become to abolish another kind of violence - slavery?
The Quakers had an internal, unsolvable struggle over the best way to fight the injustice of slavery.
Slavery is not the same issue in the United States today, although, one can debate ways in which it still exists. What are some of the causes of issues that most engage the Friends today?
Basically, peace continues to be one of those. The Quakers were concerned about being drawn into European wars and they struggled hard for people to understand the costs of war, both materially and in terms of its loss of human lives.
Second would be economic justice issues, trying to ensure that every person has an opportunity to earn a living wage that would support a family.
And, there was always that hope that one might be able to win over their oppressors by being humble and being meek in trying to change things, one person at a time. That did not work out but that was the Quaker’s hope in the 19th century.
There were some incredible racial challenges in the 19th century and that peaceful vision did not play out.
There is something that was said about winning people over one by one and knowing that the tough issues are not going to be resolved easily. They’re not going to be solved rapidly. And realistically, they certainly are not going to be settled through violence. That was proven by an estimated 800, 000 Americans who thought their side was righteous and were willing to die for that belief’.
In hindsight, the American Civil War was not the solution to what started out to be an issue between Quakers and abolitionists owning humans. It was a slavery issue, and it had
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The Quakers.. cont. from page 32
spread t0 other parts of the country.
Many think that slavery ended with the Emancipation Proclamation, issued by President Lincoln on January 1, 1863. However, this document freed only slaves held in the eleven Confederate states that had seceded, and only in the portion of those states not already under Union control.
The 13th Amendment passed on January 31, 1865, was meant to abolish slavery and involuntary servitude except as punishment for a. “Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States…” And “Congress shall have power to enforce this article by appropriate legislation.”
More than thirty years later another attempt did not end slavery. In 1899, in ‘Plessy vs Ferguson” the Supreme Court ruled that separate but equal educational facilities were ruled Constitutional,
Racial justice had to wait another 50 years. On May 17, 1954, the Supreme Court ruled unanimously in Brown v. Board of Education of Topeka that racial segregation in educational facilities was unconstitutional. This was the cornerstone to ending all racial segregation.
For years, Thurgood Marschal had argued civil rights cases before the U,S. Supreme Court. Piece by piece he took down Plessey vs Ferguson.
Under escort from the U.S. Army’s 101st Airborne Division, nine Black students enter the all-white Central High School in Little Rock, Arkansas.
This was the first permanent change in the makeup of American society. More legislation would come. Under this legislation Black Quaker schools and churches were closed and the children integrated into white society.
The Civil Rights Act of 1964 followed and was backed up by National Guard troops with loaded weapons. Four students were shot dead and nine were wounded. at Kent State University in 1970 during the riots.
Thurgood Marshal became the first African American to serve as a judge on the United States Supreme Court in, 1967.
Little Falls Passes Resolution Opposing New Mandates for Affordable Housing
By Tina Pappas
The Township Council adopted a resolution opposing a new law that would reconfigure the number of affordable housing units that municipalities are required to have. The original bill, A-4/S-50, was signed by Governor Phil Murphy earlier this year with the intent of developing a new system allowing affordable housing obligations. It would overhaul the current process that is done through the courts.
The legislation amended the 1985 Fair Housing Act and aims to implement the Mount Laurel doctrine, a constitutional case law requiring municipalities to provide the creation of affordable housing units. The push to oppose the legislation stems from the uncertainty that municipalities might have unrealistic affordable housing requirements imposed.
Mayor James Damiano referred to a letter received from Montvale Mayor Michael N. Ghassali during the Sept. 23 council meeting, informing that several municipalities are part of a class action law suit against the state. The suit claims the new law violates the Fair Housing Act (FHA's) and requests the return of its Council on Affordable Housing (COAH), saying that it protects municipalities from rushed development to meet those requirements. However, affordable housing advocates said the previous process via COAH was not effective because many towns often blocked measures to meet their housing obligations and stalled the construction of units for years.
Damiano weighed the potential of costs associated with the Township when joining in on the lawsuit. He requested the Township Council adopt a resolution opposing the legislation because of the potential for "unrealistic" requirements and felt the number set for Little Falls was an unrealistic number. He also stressed that even if the municipality decided to join the fight along with other municipalities to lower the obligation, that a substantial cost would be sustained. This would create a deficit for the Township when going up against future rounds of potential mandates.
Damiano said that in the past, the Township opted to take reasonable steps towards meeting the obligations instead of incurring substantial costs to challenge the numbers.
"At this time, I don't know if it's worthwhile to to join the class action suit because there is a significant expense associated with it," he added, stating that there would be a $10,000 obligation from the onset, with another $10,000 obligation in 2025. "I think we should all do our due diligence and continue to monitor on a regular basis to determine if it is something that we should ultimately join in the future."
He also gave some background on the FHA pertaining to the case in Mount Laurel, where the obligation imposed upon the town, and eventually other municipalities, was to reach an affordable housing goal by a future date. Under COAH, developers that built five or more units were required to include anywhere between a 15 and 20 percent portion of affordable units. The new legislation would formally replace COAH, which has been inactive for the past decade, and would increase affordability production over the next decade.
"Each round of FHA needs to reflect an effort to find areas where affordable housing may be available for a developer," Damiano explained. "We've seen in town that any time there are five or more units, whether it's apartment or housing-style, that the obligation include affordable housing."
He also explained that affordable housing is not subsidized, but allows qualified applicants who meet a certain income criteria to pay a reduction in payment that would be sustained by the developer. It would exclude the municipality or state from having any financial impact. He also noted that the assumption municipalities have with the new law is that the number of unit requirements would increase and "it's this uncertainty causing concern for many municipalities."
"I believe this municipality should put its foot down and ask that the burden of the Fair Share Housing obligation be spread across every town and city in this state in a more fair fashion," he explained. "That it becomes a realistic thing that towns can accomplish without always feeling they're 'behind the eight ball' or that they're never going to catch that number, which would continue to require us to have this obligation moving forward."
Damiano also said having a fair and equitable resolution in the future is what the Township will ask for, including having more realistic obligations.
By: Megan Roche
DNJ Starz: David Tyree
Hometown: Montclair
avid Tyree is most notably known for his legendary fourth quarter Super Bowl catch that put the New York Giants ahead of the New England Patriots in February 2008. But, the superstar is far more than just a former football star.
Tyree, who was born in nearby Livingston, recalls moving to the area and seeing what a football town Montclair really was.
“I moved here in fifth grade and it was abundantly clear that Montclair football was deeply embedded into the social construct and community. It was really just the next thing to do, it was a really neat thing. I just got the sense that football was a big part of this town,” Tyree said.
Tyree headed to Montclair High School as a member of the Class of 1998. During his years on the gridiron at MHS, Tyree came to the realization through the help of his sister that football might lead the way to a college education.
“My sister really showed me the potential that playing high school football could lead to a college scholarship. After my young and dumb run ins with the law, I had to really make a decision about changing the crowd I was with. That was when I really decided to lock in and focus on that next step,” Tyree admits.
After graduating and leaving the halls of Montclair High School, Tyree did indeed end up with a football scholarship. He headed up to Syracuse University, where he was a member of the special teams unit and played wide receiver for the college.
“Syracuse was tough. It was awesome, but it was tough. I think it was awesome because I endured it and I grew from it, I let the adversity cultivate and shape the player and the person that I became from a standpoint of mindset. That was the greatest reward, I became a person who didn’t believe in excuses. I was always looking for the opportunity to make an impact, I never saw a less-than-ideal situation as a loss,” Tyree said.
During the 2003 National Football League (NFL) Draft, Tyree was selected by the New York Giants in the sixth round. Hailing from Montclair, Tyree’s commute to Giants Stadium was just a mere ride down Route 3.
“It was like a Cinderella story for me. To be getting that call, late in the sixth round, I’m pretty much falling asleep, dozing off watching the draft, not really expecting anything but hopeful that something was coming. The phone rings and it’s the Giants. I hang up the phone and I realize that in order for me to report, all I have to do is drive down the road, there’s no flight, no train, it was surreal,” Tyree shared.
During his career in the NFL, Tyree had 54 receptions, 650 receiving yards, and 4 receiving touchdowns. He was a Super Bowl Champion, part of the 2005 First-team All-Pro, selected to the Pro Bowl in 2005, and was part of the 2003 PFWA All-Rookie Team.
In his 2007-2008 season with the New York Giants, Tyree was able to secure a place on the Super Bowl roster.
“For me, there was a lot of preparation leading up to the week of the Super Bowl. You get a week to kind of get your affairs in order, so it’s pretty strategic in relation to trying to maintain a sense of normalcy and routine while all the excitement and fanfare is going around in that once in a lifetime moment,” Tyree recalled.
It was during that game that Tyree earned his rightful place in football history. Late in the fourth quarter, with the New England Patriots leading the game, Eli Manning and the New York Giants took to the field to attempt to drive for one last touchdown. With 2:42 left on the clock, the Giants knew they had work to do.
After converting on a fourth down, the clock showed 1:15 left in the game. On the next set of downs, the Giants ended up with a 3rd and 5. The play to come would help seal the deal.
Tyree’s website explains it perfectly, “On third down, Manning snapped the ball at his own 44-yard line and immediately found himself in trouble. With a heavy Patriots pass rush in his face, Manning somehow eluded pressure from Adalius Thomas and evaded the grasp of Jarvis Green and Richard Seymour as the pocket collapsed. Manning then rolled out before dropping back and setting his feet to launch a ball down the field to Tyree, who was surrounded by defenders and had safety Rodney Harrison draped all over his back.
With the ball in the air, Tyree perfectly timed his jump to catch it at the peak of its arc. Harrison immediately attempted to knock the ball from his possession as he came down with it, but Tyree locked it onto his helmet with incredible strength from his right hand before hitting the ground and securing it with both hands. Somehow, Tyree maintained control the entire time, and the ball never hit the ground.”
Shortly after that play, Manning found Plaxico Burress in the endzone to put the Giants ahead with 35 seconds left in the game. When the clock hit zero, the Giants were World Champions by a score of 17-14.
Helmet catch was Tyree’s last ever career catch in the NFL.
“That play is a culmination of my entire body of work. I feel like I was the little engine that could. I was always a guy who earned opportunities to never really see them come to fulfillment, I was always a guy who was not desired but able and qualified. Helmet Catch for me was when I realized that I wasn’t just a special teams player, it was when I realized that I was a pretty good receiver, and that was my moment of fulfillment,” Tyree shared.
After retiring from the NFL in 2010 as a New York Giant, Tyree has now made it his mission to talk to young people about the dangers of addiction, a place he found himself in early on in his life.
“Life is all about the journey and it’s about overcoming the hurdles, the obstacles, the problems. These kids today need to know that all things are possible. I have definitely dragged my knees through the mud and made all kinds of poor decisions but I had to learn how to take ownership and accountability for my actions, while growing and not being paralyzed by gripping circumstances or situations,” Tyree shared.
Tyree has also recently launched the Catch the Moment podcast series.
“Being a person with a platform, I know how it feels to be someone who has a moment but where there was so much that it took to get to that moment of success. I wanted to give others a platform to identify their pinnacle moment of success and to be able to talk about what it took for them to get there. The whole meaning behind the podcast is to celebrate and elevate,” Tyree said.
For all those young people he mentors, his advice stays the same.
“Get off the sidelines. The worst thing we can do is mull an opportunity out of fear. My lord said you do and then you’ll know. The more that you, the better you’ll get. At the end of the day, you’ll find out exactly who you are if you hurry up and get involved and when you do make that commitment, make the necessary sacrifices to be the best,” Tyree says.
To learn more about Tyree, visit www.davidtyree85.com.
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Little Falls Raises the Flag for Domestic Violence Awareness Month
By Tina Pappas
Purple was the color highlighted at the Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) ceremony in Little Falls, as the flag was raised in front of the Little Falls Municipal Building on Oct. 1. Coordinated by the Domestic Violence Prevention Committee, the annual event aims to spread awareness and information for those experiencing domestic violence.
DVAM was launched nationwide in October 1987 with the goal of connecting and uniting individuals in order to raise awareness for domestic violence issues, according to the Domestic Violence Awareness Month website. The Township's initiative is to spread public awareness, including information and resources for those who may be experiencing domestic violence in their lives. Awareness is also being spread visibly through purple ribbons that are hung throughout town.
Mayor James Damiano and the Township Council came together with committee members, advocates and local residents to emphasize the ongoing societal problem. Councilman Michael Murphy welcomed attendees, and spoke about the placement of the ribbons.
“We raise this flag to spread awareness," he said, adding that the ribbons will be visible throughout the town in support of victims of domestic violence, and to let them know resources available for them.
He also said that domestic violence isn't just physical, but can be also verbal and financial abuse.
"There is so much that goes along with it and there are so many cases that are silent," he explained. "That's why we raise the flag and we put the ribbons up so that people know even if they may not come forward, they're aware that there's somebody there to help and it's available if they need it."
Damiano also spoke during the ceremony and said domestic violence is an issue that many people are reluctant to come forward about, so they continue to remain silent.
"They don't even want to talk to their friends about it because it has as much of a stigma as addiction or mental health issues," he said. "It's unfortunate because it is a real problem and there are real resources for it. People need to be aware that those resources are out there for them, and the purple ribbons throughout town are helping to bring awareness to domestic violence."
He also acknowledged Murphy and the committee's efforts towards spreading awareness because "there are a lot more people than any of us are aware of that are impacted by domestic violence."
Local resident Marianne Holzach, who started the committee in 2010 with fellow advocates, said it's the small steps taken that make a real impact for those experiencing domestic violence through awareness initiatives.
"I think we're one of the few towns who does this," she said, referring to the annual ceremony. "The victims are there and they see we're not forgetting them, so that's important because even the littlest efforts can make a big difference. They know we're here for them and there are resources available."
According to the National Domestic Violence Hotline, 1 in 4 women (24.3 percent) and 1 in 7 men (13.6 percent) ages 18 and older in the U.S. have been the victim of severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime. Each year, intimate partner violence alone affects more than 12 million people.
Photos provided by The Township of Little Falls The Township of Little Falls held its annual Domestic Violence Awareness Month ceremony in front of the municipal building on Oct. 1.
