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INSIDE
COLUMNS
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EDITOR’S NOTE
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HEALTH & WELLNESS
DEPARTMENTS
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News from New York Family, including upcoming events, contests and giveaways, and other noteworthy happenings
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FEATURES
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CHANNELING DAD CBS news anchor Maurice DuBois on parenthood, breaking the news, and balancing it all
DADS WE LOVE •From a beloved children’s
author to the chairman of the NYC Housing Authority, we celebrate an inspiring group of dads •Founded by at-home dad Lance Somerfeld, the NYC Dads Group helps local fathers find something they’ve been sorely missing: each other •An interview with author Bruce Feiler, who enlisted six of his friends to serve as dads to his daughters when he was diagnosed with cancer
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Author Elizabeth Hartley-Brewer on the role parents play in nurturing children’s friendships
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ADULTS ONLY Journalist and mom Lori Gottlieb examines what’s important in a partner in a controversial new book
IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD This month’s dream building brings family-friendly luxury living to Jersey City; plus, this month’s three featured dream homes
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IT’S MY PARTY Birthday fun at Chelsea Piers, New York Kids Club, and with Literally Alive Children’s Theater The Children Museum of Manhattan celebrates 20 years with Executive Director Andrew Ackerman at the helm
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BUZZWORTHY Organic baby food delivered to your door; chic and summery nursing covers; how to have a successful lemonade stand, and more
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Tips for men on curbing stress, exercising with yoga and eating well
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10 IDEAS Our monthly roundup of things to do in the city
KID CULTURE This month’s best live performances and museum exhibits for families (page 74); an interview with the bestselling children’s author Laura Numeroff (page 78); and a profile of children’s musician Randy Kaplan (page 80)
TREATS Inspired Father’s Day gift ideas ranging from gizmos to gadgets to grills
ON SECOND THOUGHT As his daughter starts talking, a dad remembers their bond pre-speech
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THE COVER: CBS 2 morning news anchor Maurice DuBois with his wife Andrea and son Brandon. Maurice is wearing a linen shirt from Peter Elliot Blue; Andrea is wearing a white ruffled blouse from Lauren by Ralph Lauren and pants by American Living for J.C. Penney; Brandon is wearing a plaid shirt by Papo D’Anjo. Makeup by Kim Baker for KABartistry.com. Photographed by Michael Jurick (jurick.net). Shot on location at Bethesda Fountain in Central Park. CORRECTIONS:: In the children’s summer fashion feature in our May issue, the photographer credit was not included. The photos were taken by Melissa O’Neal of Classic Kids Photography (classickidsphotography.com).
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DADDY TALK One of this job’s occupational hazards (which I love) is that I often find myself chatting with parents about their kids. Parents learn (often from me) that I’m the editor of New York Family, and the conversation goes on from there, sometimes to new and surprising places. The other day I was sharing an elevator ride in my building with a mom and dad and their big-cheeked, three-month old cutie. As I cooed about the baby, the father mentioned to me that he really liked an item we had in one of our weekly e-newsletters about the NYC Dads Group, a local father’s group (featured in the issue) that does an excellent job of bringing together dads for playgroups and lectures, and really for friendship. I only know my neighbor well enough to say that he’s friendly and burly. But how nice that an item from
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At The New WORLD CLASS LEARNING ACADEMY, NEW YORK, A Dedicated Head Of School And Faculty Aim To Instill Students With A Passion For Education That Rivals Their Own n an overcast Wednesday afternoon in May, a small storefront on Crosby Street bursts with light. It stands out from the older and darker Soho establishments around it due to its modern and minimalist design, floor-to-ceiling glass windows and bright white interior. Inside, a handful of adults chat enthusiastically while, in the background, a little girl plays quietly at a small table surrounded by bright red chairs and shelves of carefully selected toys. On the street, a young boy pauses in front of the space as if to ask, what is that?
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The storefront is the Information Center for the World Class Learning Academy, New York, a new school for children ages 3-11 opening its doors in September 2010 in the heart of the East Village on 2nd Avenue and 2nd Street. It’s currently in the midst of an auspicious renovation, modernizing an existing school building and adding—judging from colorful renderings and the excitement from those behind the project—the very same child-alluring charm that exists at the information center, in addition to an array of state-of-the-art facilities and resources for students, including a private gymnasium, music and art rooms, libraries and more. While its New York zip code may be new, the school is part of the long-established and highly regarded World Class Learning Group (WCL Group), known for its personalized and progressive schools. The World Class Learning Academy, New York is the newest addition to its collection of U.S. schools, known as the British Schools of America, which include locations in Boston, Charlotte, Houston, Chicago and Washington, D.C. WCL Group schools use the International Primary Curriculum (IPC), which offers a challenging and theme-based approach to education, accelerating students’ abilities years ahead of those of their peers. Gradu-
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ates of WCL Group schools and the IPC curriculum regularly continue their education at Ivy League universities like Harvard and Princeton, and top-tier colleges internationally like Oxford and Cambridge. At the helm of the World Class Learning Academy, New York is Head of School John Taylor, a Durham, England native and father of two grown children whose career in international education spans across three continents. He has served as a school principal for 17 years in five prestigious international schools in Shanghai, Istanbul, Buenos Aires, Doha and Dubai. “The opportunity to open a flagship school here in New York was simply too exciting to miss,” Taylor says. “It’s such a vibrant place.” In fact, Taylor intends to use the city’s cultural and historical landscape as a key element in the instruction of his students. As a life-long musician and athlete (Taylor has been a concert pianist, cellist, conductor and choral director, and has also captained rugby teams across the world) the city’s cultural expanse is particularly exciting. “We want to take advantage of the wonderful performing arts opportunities and facilities that already exist here, and use our connections with organizations like the Metropolitan Opera, to allow the children to witness it first hand,” he says. “This is not
just a day trip out, but an integral part of the curriculum.” And though the WCL Group has numerous, far-reaching goals for the school, Taylor says that two are of the highest importance. The first is to personalize every child’s learning experience to suit his or her learning style and abilities. The IPC revolves around thematic units, each of which addresses a different topic (like flowers and insects, rainforests and chocolate) through various studies, including art, history and geography. However, the focus is not only on what the children are learning, but how they are learning, as the WCL Group acknowledges that children, particularly at younger ages, learn in a variety of ways. “Three-year-olds come in at very different levels—some know their sounds, some are ready to start reading, some are not,” says Nursery and Reception teacher Sharon Cox, a Hampshire, England native who has spent the last eight years teaching at the WCL Group’s school in Chicago. “So wherever they are, that’s where we begin, so we’re not repeating any information, there is always something new.” What’s more, the teachers are particularly attuned to the different styles in which young children process information. “We tailor every lesson to all the ways that children learn,” says Cox. “For example, I might be conducting a lesson and say to the class, ‘If you want to watch me do it, please sit here. If you want to hear me do it, please sit here. If you’d like to do it with me, please sit here.’” The second goal of the learning platform is the partnership between the school and the parents. “The way we look after parents and their children is rather unique,” says Taylor. “And because we’re starting out as a small school, we can really concentrate on this at the outset and make sure everyone that walks through our door feels very important.” Parents can play as active a role in their children’s education as they like, with frequent opportunities to read to and contribute to the class, attend outings in the city and to engage in conferences with teachers. “We’re looking for families who have a love for learning, and for parents who want to be involved in their children’s journey,” says Cox. And while the New York landscape will play a substantial role in the school’s identity, the administration is nevertheless eager to maintain its focus on internationality and to give students an awareness of the world around them. “It’s an important issue in this age—people have to learn to relate to each other much more than they ever had to in the past,” Taylor says. “And all these things call for children who have an understanding of world citizenship.”
“We’re looking for families who have a love for learning, and for parents who want to be involved in their children’s journey.”
To learn more about the World Class Learning Academy, New York, visit wclgroup.com. A rendering of the playroom at the World Class Learning Academy, New York. www.newyorkfamily.com
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Though it may be more popular among women, that doesn’t mean yoga is not just as beneficial to men—especially busy dads looking to stay in shape. “Men have been suspicious that it’s not a real workout, but [a lot of them] end up being surprised,” says John Capouya, author of the book, “Real Men Do Yoga: 21 Star Athletes Reveal Their Secrets for Strength, Flexibility and Peak Performance” (Harper Collins, $12.95). Capouya says yoga can be part of an overall fitness routine that includes cardio and weight training. And advantages of doing yoga extend beyond increased strength and flexibility. “You really see improved sports performance and that’s why professional athletes do it,” Capouya says. He also adds that yoga can lower blood pressure and even help you focus at work. “I interviewed a bond trader [who said] he thinks it helps him trade bonds better,” he says. If you’re trying yoga for the first time, Capouya suggests starting with simple postures at home using books or websites like iyogalife. com or yogajournal.com. Or, take a class. A good type for beginners is Hatha, which offers a general introduction to the practice. —Teresa Tobat
Healthy Dad, Happy Family Tips For Men On Curbing Stress, Exercising With Yoga And Eating Well pecial recognition on Father’s Day is nice, but that doesn’t change the fact that the rest of the year many dads—just like moms—often feel anxious and overwhelmed. One of the keys to living a more balanced life? Staying on top of your health—and that starts with your mental well-being. We asked local therapist Clay Cockrell, who uses an innovative “walk and talk” method with his patients, for tips on how dads can better manage stress and balance their work and family lives. BE PRESENT. When you arrive home after a long day of work and are still thinking about the office, “you’re not doing either job well,” says Cockrell. “You can be a really good employee or a really good father— but not at the same time.” Instead, come home, put everything down, give yourself a few moments and take a couple of deep breaths. Once you change your perspective, you will realize that when you are home the priority is your family, not your work. LISTEN. “Sometimes the greatest thing is for a dad to come home and say, ‘Tell me about your day,’” says Cockrell. Laugh at your children’s stories. Share their excitement about their discoveries. Learn about their friends and their latest interests—and use their interests to give you better ideas for things to do with them in the future. MAKE A DATE. Lots of working dads worry about not having enough time to spend with their children. And with electronic devices like Black-
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berrys, business now often seeps into the home. If you need to, try scheduling time with your child. “Rarely is there a time when an e-mail is so important that it has to be answered right away,” Cockrell says. Set aside time each night or create a special day each week or month that will be uninterrupted. “Let [your child] pick what you’re going to do; make them an active participant,” Cockrell suggests. DON’T BE SCARED. New dads (and old!) shouldn’t be afraid to mess up! Parenting isn’t easy. “You’re going to do the wrong thing; we all do,” says Cockrell. He suggests that dads try to “remember what things went really well for your own dad and then the things that didn’t, [and try the] things that you wish maybe he had done.” —Noelia de la Cruz
A Healthy Father’s Day Brunch elsey Banfield, the food blogger behind “The Naptime Chef” and a contributor to New York Family’s blog Yummy Delicious, offers this menu as a nutritious and delicious meal dads will love. For complete recipes, visit newyorkfamily.com.
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LOCKS AND BOLTS: All parents should install cabinet and drawer latches, toilet locks, furniture anchors and stair gates (for both the bottom and top of staircases). Place covers on all outlets and power strips, even those that you think are out of the baby’s reach. Use a one-piece plastic door stop instead of a door stopper with a removable plastic tip, which can be a choking hazard.
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ith the seemingly endless array of childproofing items on the market, preparing your home for a new baby can seem like a daunting undertaking. However, it doesn’t have to be, according to James Hirtenstein, founder of Baby-Safe Inc. (babysafeamerica.com). “Think about what you are looking to accomplish in terms of safety, as well as maintaining the aesthetic of your home,” Hirtenstein says. “There are ways to make your home safe without turning it upside down aesthetically.” Hirtenstein recommends all parents invest in a professional childproofing consultation, which can help you determine exactly what you need for your home. “Every home is different, and every child is different,” says Hirtenstein. “An assessment is extensive and covers anything that could be a potential hazard.” Fred Ilarraza of Brooklyn’s Baby Bodyguards (babybodyguards.com) advises parents to look at their home from a baby’s vantage point. “Get
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down and look around and see the world the way your kid is going to see it,” he says. Once you know what you need, do a bit of research before you hit the stores and sites. Talk to other parents about their favorite products, read customer reviews online, and ask store owners for recommendations. Finally, look for items that are approved by the Juvenile Products Manufacturers Association. If an item is JPMA-approved, “you can rest assured that it will do the job it is advertised for,” says Hirtenstein. Here are some of Hirtenstein and Ilarraza’s best safety tips. BUILDING BASICS: Talk to your landlord or building management about carbon monoxide alarms—every apartment should have one. Also, install a fire alarm in every room in your home, and consider buying a personal fire extinguisher. Older buildings should also be checked for lead paint. If yours was built before 1978, discuss lead poisoning prevention with the owner. Finally, make sure all your windows are equipped with proper window guards, which are recommended until your children are 10-years-old.
TABLE TOPS: To make your tables baby-friendly, cover corners with corner guards (if you install them upside down they won’t be in the way). However, Ilarraza says that tablecloths are actually the greater danger. “We have at least 10 incidents of this a year in Brooklyn—you put a cup of coffee on a small table and the kid pulls the tablecloth down,” he says. To be safe, remove all tablecloths that hang within the baby’s reach, especially those on tables that might hold a heavy or sharp object. SMALL PIECES: Put away refrigerator magnets that are smaller than business cards, advises Ilarraza. Replace tack message boards with boards made of felt or Velcro. CRIBS: While every parent wants to find the perfect, stylish crib for the nursery, crib safety is the most important factor when making this key purchase. Consumer Reports (consumerreports.org) offers a free online crib buying guide that includes information on mattress, sheet and bedding safety. Keep baby monitors and wires secured to a wall and away from the crib, and never leave the monitor in the crib with the baby. BATHTUBS: Washing your baby in a slippery sink can be unpleasant for the baby and a lot of work for you! Invest in a baby bathtub with a slip-proof interior to make bath time safer and less stressful. In addition, Safety 1st, Munchkin and Especially for Baby all make rubber duck bath thermometers, which can gauge if the bath water is too hot for an infant’s sensitive skin. b Additional reporting by Teresa Tobat. www.newyorkfamily.com
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veryone wants their child to make good friends, but as a parent it can be difficult to understand what your role is in nurturing these relationships. If your 5-yearold has difficulty making friends at school, do you step in and help out? What does it mean if your tween daughter has just one close friend rather than a whole group? In her book, “Making Friends,” author Elizabeth Hartley-Brewer explores the nature of children’s friendships from ages 0 to 12, and the importance they play in their development. She addresses some of parents’ most common concerns here. At what age do children start making their first friends? A very young child can become obviously fond of, and attached to, a special child whom he sees frequently from the age of 1. However, they won’t “make” their first friend until they’re around 5. Before then they may describe or identify someone as a friend, but won’t have much idea of what this label means. How do friendships change and mature from then on? Five to 7-yearolds will choose friends with a similar
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sense of humor and interests, someone who makes them giggle, who they can have fun with and who is kind. They change their friends frequently because they tend to think in the here and now. Eight-to10-year-olds become really hungry for friends, demand more from them, and need to choose their own friends who they think are like them. Friends become the sign of approval and they care deeply what friends think. Tweens’ friendships focus on loyalty, playing fair, sharing, trust and listening respectfully. What role do friendships play in a child’s development and happiness? We now know from recent studies that friends shape children’s lives significantly. Apart from making
life more fun, on a psychological level friends help a child to feel accepted, which aids their confidence and selfesteem. Friends are important on a practical level, too. Children learn how to compromise and manage conflict; when to be straightforward and when to deploy tact; how to give and take; show understanding; and how to share.
Are some children better at making friends than others? It would seem so—or at least some children’s natural personality makes them immediately attractive to a wide range of their peers. There are also helpful skills: As children get older, if they’re able to share, take turns, compromise and accept that they don’t always get their way, they will find it easier both to make and keep friends. We shouldn’t forget that different skills are needed for making and for keeping friends. Children who are more confident may find it easier to make friends, www.newyorkfamily.com
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much as girls and they’re more direct and less manipulative. They may fight and compete with each other, but they can be fiercely loyal, which generally means they don’t tell on friends who’ve done something wrong. Girls form more intense friendships. They huddle together What are signs that a child has trouble making or in smaller groups and are more “cliquey.” They spend far keeping friends? When should a parent be worried? more time talking and discussing rather than doing, espeA younger child may be happy to watch others playing becially once they become tweens. Girls are famously fickle cause he’s building up his confidence and watching how it’s and notoriously nasty, fighting with words rather than with done. And some individuals like to be quiet and alone some fists. Yet they can also be of the time while they recharge or explore extremely sensitive and ideas in their head. However, sometimes a Children who are caring if a close friend has a child wants friends and doesn’t have any, or is more confi dent may personal problem. frequently rejected and will be sad, lonely and fi nd it easier to make sometimes very grouchy as a result. Trouble friends, yet a quieter Should a parent step in may be brewing if your child becomes unusuchild may forge a deeper if they think their child ally tearful, clingy or aggressive; if he develops friendship once he is friends with somestrange aches and pains and tries to avoid one who isn’t good for going to school; if he reverts to nail biting or bonds with someone. them? In general, I’d say bedwetting; or if he wants to spend too much parents should stay well clear of friendship trials and tributime alone. Your first step if you are worried could be to lations. Children choose friends who meet their needs at check with the teacher about what might be happening and ask for some advice. that time and once they reach age 7 or 8 they must be free to choose their own friends, undirected by parents. Even those you consider “undesirable” could be fulfilling some need— What are the key differences between friendships to be naughty because they can’t be naughty at home; to among boys and girls? Boys’ friendships tend to be see what it’s like to take risks and be adventurous because based on action and activities—sports, computer games, they’re feeling bold. Most children will find their own way music. Boys typically form larger groups of friends with no through, learning more about themselves on the way. G one being obviously special. They don’t talk and gossip as yet a quieter child may forge a deeper friendship once he bonds with someone and the friendship may last longer because they understand each other better.
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Mr. Good Enough In A New Book, Mom And Journalist Lori Gottlieb Examines What’s Really Important In A Life Partner Why do you think many women seem to have unrealistic expectations when it comes to finding their potential mate? It’s a lot of things. There used to be a sense of community more so than there is today, and I think that the older generation would talk to the younger generation and give them important information about what actually makes people happy long-term in a relationship. Also, there’s always been fairytales, but I think what’s different is that a lot of women today have added the idea that they deserve something that is [in reality] so unrealistic. So there’s a sense of, “I want the best” and “I deserve the best and compromise is selling my soul.” But compromise is integral to any healthy long-term relationship. And they [unmarried women] forget that someone’s going to have to compromise to be with them as well.
What made you decide to write a book helping single women examine why they weren’t meeting “Mr. Right”? It was a question that I had in my own life. It seemed to me that when I talked to my married friends about what made them happy in their own marriages and what made them fall in love with their own husband, it had very little to do with what my friends and I who were still dating were
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You write that if single women intend to find someone to marry, they should “settle.” What do you really mean when you say that? looking for, and the things we would disqualify guys based on. I started to wonder, “Are we looking for the wrong things? And if so, what should we be looking for?”
The word is really used in the title to get people to think about what that word [settling] means in our culture. I’m not talking about being with somebody that you’re not in love with. I’m saying open up your mind so that you can fall in love. There’s a www.newyorkfamily.com
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survey in the book where men and women were asked if you got 80 % of every ideal quality that you wanted in a partner, would you be happy? And 93% of women said “80%? No, that would be settling. I wouldn’t be happy with that.” And most of the men said, “80%? That’s a catch. I’d be thrilled!” And so the question that I ask in the book is can we be happy with less than everything? The research shows that not only can we be happy but that the people who realize that having less than everything in the fairytale [is enough]—those people are not just happier in their relationships, but also in life in general.
Still, why should women look for Mr. Good Enough instead of Mr. Perfect? If you’re seeking perfection, you’re going to rule out a lot of people who can make you really happy because they didn’t have one thing that you thought was so important. It’s about letting go of the criteria that you have on your list that maybe you need to be a little bit more flexible on. You need to find the perfect partner, not the perfect person.
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How might your concept apply to people who are married or have been married and are looking to start fresh within their current relationship? Married women who have read “Marry Him” have said, “This book has really made me appreciate all the things that I love about my husband even more. I’m always thinking about what’s missing or what could be done differently, and instead it made me realize how lucky I am to be with this person.” I think we have to really appreciate the people we are with, if we are indeed with the right person.
How might “settling” be helpful to a couple who might be contemplating divorce? The thing is, [divorce] depends on if you’re in the wrong marriage, in which case it does make sense go out and find something else. You have to
determine if you’re in the right marriage and if you’re kind of unrealistic on what marriage is. In the “Good Enough Marriage” chapter, it talks in detail about women who thought “Oh well, I still love my husband but I don’t know…I just want something more.” And they would leave [their marriages] and thought they would be happier. This researcher named Paul Amato looked at them over 20 years. Every 5 years, he tested them on scale of depression and marital satisfaction and all these things, if they were remarried. And he found that they were actually less happy after they left their marriages, or as happy, but they were never happier. If they got married again, they basically traded in one set of problems for another. So there’s always going to be compromises to be made and people have to remember that. g
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As Much As He Loves Covering The News Of The Day, Local Morning Anchor Maurice DuBois’ Greatest Joy Is The Unfolding Story Of Fatherhood
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nterviewing a journalist presents its own special challenges because, as Maurice DuBois said to me at the start of our interview, “I know all your tricks.” He was being playful of course, but fortunately for me I didn’t need any. In the course of our interview, DuBois was open, friendly, funny and reflective. You don’t really know a person after spending an hour with them, but I did walk away from our interview feeling like I understood why regular viewers of CBS 2 News This Morning—which airs from 5 am to 7 am weekdays—like starting their mornings with him. DuBois is classy and substantial but also unpretentious and good-humored. I’m not sure how much he has shared about his home life with his show’s viewers but my sense is that his style is more professional than personal, and therefore New York Family readers should consider themselves the lucky ones. For DuBois is as proud and passionate about his two-year-old son Brandon as a dad can be.
Please tell me that you’re a morning person, and that you’re not living a life of torture? I wish I could, but I’m not. I do this because it’s a great gig. The work is fun. The hours are a bit difficult—I wake up at 3:30 am—but you make them work for you. So what time are you going to bed? I go to sleep around 9 o’clock every day. Sometimes I’ll beat Brandon to bed. I’m the only guy I know who actually goes to bed before his two-year-old. Him and mom will tuck me in. Did you always want to be a journalist? My dad suggested in high school that I take a journalism class. Here I was at Port Jefferson High School on Long Island. I never even considered journalism or heard the word to speak of—or maybe I had but I hadn’t absorbed it. But I took a class in 9th grade and loved it. I became enamored with the idea that you can take a notepad and pen and go ask people questions and learn things of any type, come back and put it to paper and go do it again tomorrow.
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I went from this class to becoming sports editor for the high school newspaper to writing for a local newspaper in the community and then ultimately going to college for journalism. What are some of the proudest moments in your career so far? I’m not sure about proudest, but what I find the most exciting is being in the moment of live breaking events when news is happening and no one really knows what to make of it, and you’re on the air and you can talk your way through it and bring it home and make sense of something that’s disjointed or complicated or frightening. I really enjoy live TV. I love the challenge—it’s a bit of a high wire act. How has being a dad impacted you as a journalist? You always try to do as well as you could. But since becoming a parent, what I find is that when you come across stories that involve children, families, loss, and human tragedy, there’s a connection you instantly get, and www.newyorkfamily.com
Photography by Michael Jurick/ www.jurick.net it’s more visceral than it used to be. That might have to do more with maturation but I think it’s more to do with having a family. Anything happening to a child anywhere on this earth, it gets your attention.
Do you have a favorite children’s book? “Goodnight Gorilla.” I can’t get enough of that book. I think the genius is in the minimalist style of writing. They let you tell the story. And I think I’ve told it about 50 times.
Can you tell me about your son, Brandon? Brandon is two years and one month. The thing that surprises me most about him is how funny he is. How much we laugh. He’s basically a very happy little guy. He loves to play, loves to read, loves cars, loves to throw balls, and loves to go to the playground. And he’s very curious. He doesn’t miss a trick. He listens to everything you say. He’ll repeat new words he hasn’t heard yet, and it comes right back at you. So you have to keep it clean, as every parent knows. The other day I was getting ready to leave the house, got him all dressed up and everything, and his mom was in the bathroom. So I said, “Tell Mommy it’s time to leave the house.” So he runs to her—he runs everywhere—and goes “Hey Babe, Daddy’s ready.” That’s typical Brandon.
Did you always know you wanted to be a dad? No question. It wasn’t an accident; it wasn’t a mistake. It’s something I’ve always wanted, absolutely.
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Has the power of being a parent caught you off guard at all? I don’t think anything prepares you for being a parent. It’s just like a switch goes on. One minute he’s not here, the next minute he is and all these instincts that you’ve heard about but never experienced suddenly envelop you—this need to nurture and protect and do the best for this little person. I don’t think anything prepares you for the wonder of it, the joy. As far as frustration goes, I don’t know about that just yet. He’s only two. To me, he lights up when I come home, and there’s nothing like it. I’ve heard about it for years, but when it finally happened to me, it’s been amazing. June 2010 | New York Family
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No “terrible twos”?! I’m not sure what that means just yet. There are moments where he’s running wild, but it’s not anything yet that’s overbearing or overwhelming. Can you compare yourself as a father to your father? I do know that my dad did not change diapers. That’s one thing I know. I’m in there! But I had a great dad. He worked hard and did everything for us. He’s an amazing role model. I hope that I can live up to that standard.
What’s an ideal family Saturday or Sunday for your family? Do you like planning activities or just seeing how the day goes? We do both ways. Let’s say it’s Saturday. I don’t get to wake up with him during the week but he’s a little bit of a slow-to-wake-up kind of kid, and on Saturday I’ll change him, get a bottle, and ease our way into the day and play. I’ll make a big breakfast or something.
Brandon repeats everything. I said, “Tell Mommy it’s time to leave the house.”So he runs to her and goes, “Hey Babe, Daddy’s ready.”
Do you feel like you have any specific challenges right now as a parent? This is really the first inning. He’s two years old, so we’re rookies at this. But you can see where parenting is going to be a challenge because children have minds of their own. What they’re programmed to do is stretch out and test boundaries. And he’s gotta try everything—he’s gotta see, he’s gotta play, he’s gotta pull, he’s gotta check it out. If he wants to run around, he’s gonna run around, and we’re not really at the time-out phase. He’s just starting to get the concept of, “You need to calm down.”
How do you and your wife share parenting duties? She works from home and we’ve got some help three days a week. So it’s mostly Mom during the week, with a little bit of Dad. But the weekends are all about co-parenting. It’s important that we’re there. We both grew up in twoparent households where family is a big deal and still is. Our parents were home all the time, and it was all about the kids and all about the family. Both sets of grandparents are still with us. My parents are on Long Island; hers in Atlanta. Those are our role models. New York City parents can be endearingly and not so endearingly neurotic. How are you handling the craze to get into the right nursery school? My impression is that you don’t want to be too crazy or too laid back about it. I think you want to be thorough. Basically there’s the hype and the reality. If you listen to the hype you think that everyone’s losing their mind and pulling hair about the whole school thing. When in reality you have to be educated about what’s out there and what options are available. So we’re learning. We’re looking for the best match for our little guy, for his disposition and his style of learning.
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Are there any places in the city you love to take Brandon? The Children’s Museum of Manhattan is an unbelievable institution. He takes a class there, sort of like a preschool class. We did his second birthday party there. Asphalt Green is also outstanding. Does celebrity get in the way of your ability to go out and about as a family? No. People are friendly. That’s part of the deal, that’s what you sign up for. Do you find your son’s childhood very different from your own? I grew up on Long Island in neighborhoods where people knew everybody’s name. We played out all day and when the streetlight went out it was time to go home. People watched each other’s kids, and there was a community there. In New York, most of us don’t even know our own neighbors next door. But you’re still social and you encounter so many different people. You step out of your apartment, and there’s routine, the relationship with the doorman, the guys in the garage…Brandon’s exposed to a lot of things just living in Manhattan that you just don’t get anywhere else. By the time he’s five he’ll have had access to people, places and institutions that I never would have. That’s just part of living in New York. So you like raising your son in the city? I love it. You’ve got all this social life for a child, all the culture, all the sports, all the parks, world class everything. If you have the ability to provide that for your child, I say go for it. How could you not? n www.newyorkfamily.com
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CELEBRATING DAD From A Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Book Author To An Environmental Advocate To The Chairman Of The NYC Housing Authority, Meet An Amazing Group Of Dads Who, With All Their Professional Accomplishments, Manage To Save Their Best Selves For Their Families www.newyorkfamily.com
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ANDY DARRELL New York Regional Director, Environmental Defense Fund Father to Una, 10, and Kai, 4
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ndy Darrell has a special fondness for Hudson River Park. And why shouldn’t he? After all, he did help create it. Darrell is New York’s Regional Director for the Environmental Defense Fund, and leading an advocacy group to create the park was his first project in New York City. He has also worked on reducing pollution from construction machinery and diesel trucks and financing more eco-friendly transportation alternatives. For his work he was honored as a “Green Hero” by Environmental Advocates of New York this past fall. “I’m thrilled when my work helps create a city that is a world leader on climate change and whose air, water and parks give families a healthy and exciting place to grow up,” says Darrell. “New York can be a leader on climate and health, just as it is a leader in the arts, medicine and business.” Darrell believes New York City’s biggest challenge is to make the transition to a clean-energy economy. “Take the buildings we live and work in,” he says. “The energy used in our buildings is responsible for 80% of the city’s greenhouse gas footprint. And those puffs of black smoke we see all across the skyline in winter? It turns out heating oil creates more local soot pollution than do all the cars and trucks in New York City combined.” When he’s not tackling environmental issues, Darrell has another job. He’s dad to daughter, Una, 10, and son, Kai, 4. “When my wife and I fell in love and got married, we always envisioned our future to include kids,” says Darrell. “Our lives were busy before, so at first it was hard for me to picture how
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Andy Darrell and family in the great outdoors
we’d fit everything together. And now, with two amazing kids, it’s impossible to imagine life any other way.” Darrell says the biggest challenge of fatherhood is finding time during the week to take the kids to school, be home for dinner as much as he likes, and put away his Blackberry. “My daughter tells me that I’m not quite as good as I could be about that Blackberry,” he says. Some of his favorite activities to do with his children? Biking in Hudson River Park, of course, heading to a museum with sketch pads, and meeting other dads and their kids for breakfast at the local diner on the weekend. “It’s easy to schedule every minute of every day in New York City, but the best times are often the unscheduled ones, just walking to the park or relaxing at home with a book or a game,” says Darrell. “Basic, old-fashioned family downtime is especially important in a busy city like New York.” And while being a dad most definitely motivates him in the work he does on behalf of the Environmental Defense Fund, Darrell says that in the end, fatherhood helps him to remember what matters most: “The simple things—just spending time together.” —Brittany McNamara
MICHAEL HIRSCH General Manager, Ripley’s Believe It or Not!, Times Square Father of Alexandra, 5 months
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daughter, Alexandra, grow. “At this age, it’s almost like every day, there’s something new,” Hirsch said. “After her bath, she’s just nonstop talking, chattering, squealing—it’s unbelievable. I can’t get over it.” Balancing work with family life is a welcome challenge for Hirsch, who attributes his professional success to his unfaltering work ethic. Still, Alexandra’s arrival has allowed him to put work and life in perspective, and Hirsch says she is a tremendous source of motivation. “I want to do better because I want to provide anything and everything for her,” Hirsch said. “It’s led me to be smarter and work smarter because I want to spend time with my baby.” Because he grew up so close to Manhattan himself, Hirsch is excited to expose his daughter to everything the city has to offer. And though Alexandra’s first city adventure is yet
ELISHA COOPER
Children’s Book Author Father of Zoë, 7, and Mia, 5
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f you asked Elisha Cooper a decade ago what he saw in his future, fatherhood might not have been his first guess. As an author and illustrator of popular children’s books
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to come, Hirsch is already looking forward to it, and knows exactly which New York attraction they’ll head to first—the Bronx Zoo. “We’ll do a lot of things that I did as a child,” he says. “There’s so much stuff that you can do in the city, especially when she gets older. But I don’t want to rush things either. I’m loving these days right now.” —Teresa Tobat like “Farm” and “Beach,” children were always a part of his professional life, but he feared that having his own kids would force him to give up all the things he loved. “I had that kind of classic, ‘Kids are going to change my life’ fear,” he says. He even documented his apprehension about fatherhood in his book of essays “Crawling: A Father’s First Year” in 2006, which tells the story of the birth of his first daughter (and everything
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Elisha Cooper at a book signing with his daughters
that came after). Now a dad of two girls, Cooper can’t imagine life without them. “I’ve actually been able to keep on doing the things I love,” he says. “My kids have just broadened me.” As a writer, Cooper is able to work from home and spend his afternoons with his daughters. He says that on most days they can be seen at a favorite local cafe, reading and drinking hot chocolate after school. On any given day, the trio might take a trip to Central Park to climb trees, look at turtles in the pond and play frisbee. But Cooper also enjoys doing seemingly mundane or “everyday” activities with his daughters. “For me every day is the best day,” he says. “I like the entire 365 days [of being a father].” As one might expect, having children has also inspired Cooper’s work. Whether he is writing or painting, his girls are constantly looking over his shoulder, and thus are very much a part of the creative process. “I get to run my ideas by the girls,” he says. “I’ll put paintings up on the walls and they’ll say, ‘That looks nothing like a cat.’ It’s also fun to think about what will make them laugh.” As far as his rules of parenting go, Cooper prefers a freestyle approach. “I think I like to make it up as I go along,” he says. “Probably the hardest thing that we can do as parents is to make our kids happy. I think they’re going to be sad at times. I think all we can do is just be there and listen, provide a safe environment [for them] and surround them with things that will inspire them.” —Tanisia Morris June 2010 | New York Family
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LONNY LEVINE
President and Co-Founder, Fastbreak Kids Father of Lauren, 23, and J.D., 13
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fter 25 years of running a successful business in the garment industry, Lonny Levine was looking for a sports program in the city for his son, J.D., now 13, that would be fun and teach him the fundamentals of the sports he wanted to learn. A lifelong athlete and New York City native, Levine couldn’t find the right program for J.D., so he decided to turn his passion into his career and open Fastbreak Kids, an instructional sports facility with basketball, flag football and baseball programs, as well as a multi-sports option that allows kids to try everything. Now in its fourth year, over 1,000 kids have gone through the Fastbreak program. “There’s room for every level of ability, whether it’s the beginners or kids that have the aspirations and the talent to play at a high school, college or professional level,” says Levine. And while many of the kids at Fastbreak are serious players, the program is also great for kids who just want to have some fun. “We want to be able to give those kids some basic fundamentals where they can play for fun and have a good understanding of the game,” he says. While his own passion for athletics has definitely contributed to his professional success, Levine says that having a sports-loving son who has gone through the program is a great advantage. “I’m a dad living in New York, so I have an understanding of the needs and the logistics involved in being a New York City parent.” What’s more, Levine and his son’s shared interest allows them to spend plenty of quality time together. “Our day revolves around sports, so he’s with
Lonny Levine shoots some hoops with his son
me all of the time. He feels part of the program and he’s proud of it. It’s a wonderful dynamic, because we’re best friends like that.” A former kids’ coach, Levine always knew he wanted to be a father. His daughter Lauren, 23, was also raised in the city and now lives and works locally as well, and Levine speaks proudly about her academic and professional accomplishments. “My biggest joy as a dad is probably my friendship with my kids and watching them grow as people,” he says. Levine loves going to the park and playing catch with his son, as well as dinners and movies with his daughter. It’s this passion that unites Levine’s personal and professional ambitions. “The thing I love most at work is watching the kids improve and gain self-esteem and confidence over the course of the program,” he says. “That’s what gives me the most joy.” —Linda Tolkin
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DAVID PLOTKIN Founder, The Max Cure Foundation Father of Max, 7; Alexander, 5; and Ella, 1
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is the largest housing authority in the country, and continues to expand as Rhea implements programs in education, job training and sustainable building and living practices. As one might guess, it’s a demanding job that often keeps Rhea busy from early in the morning to late at night. But despite his packed schedule, Rhea, a single father, always makes time for his two children, Madison, 10 and Janssen, 8. “My family is my first priority,” he says. To ensure that his schedule doesn’t take away time with his kids, Rhea dedicates certain mornings and nights of the week to breakfast and dinner with his kids, and
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regularly walks them to school. “We have great conversations during those times,” he says. “They share what’s going on in their lives and I tell them what’s going on in mine.” Occasionally he brings them to the NYCHA’s community events, and he loves attending his daughter’s plays and his son’s drum recitals. Last spring, Rhea also coached his daughter’s little league baseball team in order to spend more time with her. “The demands are high for my job, but living and working locally has substantial benefits,” he says, noting that his location in the city allows him to support his children’s activities and involvements easily and without losing time in transit. In addition to his responsibilities at home and at work, Rhea also contributes to the Children’s Museum of Manhattan in his Upper West Side neighborhood, where he has served as a board member for almost 10 years. “I try and take the things I’ve been blessed with and ensure that families in New York have the same opportunities,” he says. This Father’s Day, Rhea’s wish is to relax with his children and his parents—who often fly in from his home state of Michigan —and his siblings, who also live in Manhattan. When the family gets together, there is food, celebration and a lot of laughter, Rhea says. “My kids do funny things,” he says. “They keep me grounded.” —Noelia de la Cruz
s a hedge fund manager and a former all-star athlete, David Plotkin is a self-described “aggressive personality.” But nothing could have prepared him for the fight against his son Max’s aggressive cancer, a rare B cell lymphoma. “A fall saved his life,” Plotkin says, as though still in disbelief. When Max fell and hurt his arm while playing ball, Plotkin assumed it just needed some ice. “But when my wife Annemarie touched [Max’s arm], he cried out in pain,” he recalls. “So she took him to the pediatrician and then took him for an x-ray the next day.” After the x-ray, they went to Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Cancer (MSK), where their doctor confirmed that Max had a malignant tumor. The fall had literally popped the tumor out of hiding in Max’s arm. Like any good athlete, Plotkin realized the best offense is a good defense. Within three weeks of Max’s diagnosis, the family established The Max Cure Fund, devoted to helping MSK underwrite a one-of-a-kind lab for research and alternative treatments for lymphoma and other rare cancers. The Max Cure Fund was followed by the creation of The Max Cure Foundation (maxcurefoundation.org), a nonprofit corporation benefiting pediatric cancer research and treatment at MSK and beyond. “With the foundation, we are not just helping Sloan; we have the ability to help other pediatric cancer causes, too,” Plotkin explains. During Max’s treatment, Plotkin took a leave of absence from his job, and ended up getting in touch with his creative side. Struggling to find a way to help his son be brave, he began writing songs. “Over the course of a www.newyorkfamily.com
year and a half I wrote 17 songs, teaching Max how to seek triumph through tragedy,” he says. Now, Plotkin has a media company, Max Media, and is working on producing a Broadway musical, a TV series and a children’s book. “I wanted to build a brand about pediatric cancer that wasn’t sad—instead it would inspire and give people hope,” he says. Taking inspiration from a stuffed lion Max used to bring to the hospital, Plotkin intends to tell his son’s story through the character of a courageous and persevering lion. Three years after his diagnosis, Max is a healthy, happy seven-year-old, and Plotkin is back on Wall Street, “with a new perspective and purpose” and a goal of raising $5 million for The Max Cure Foundation. The enterprising dad’s next venture is launching a children’s class at Sports Club LA and Kidville, which will teach kids how to overcome obstacles through sports, music and play. Proceeds from the class will go to the foundation. —Jean Halloran-Monaco ·
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NETTO Children’s Furniture Designer, Netto Collection Father of Kate, 8 and Madelyn, 4 Being a busy working dad is challenging enough, much less when you live and work on opposite sides of the country. Yet this is David Netto’s reality as he juggles raising his two daughters, who now live in Los Angeles, with his career as a children’s furniture designer in New York City. So how does he maintain balance? In part, by adhering to one self-imposed rule: never be away from the children for more than two weeks at a time. After years working in interior design and founding his own company, David Netto Design, Netto turned his focus to children’s furniture in 2003, www.newyorkfamily.com
David Netto enjoys some family time with his girls
about two years after the birth of his first daughter. The inspiration for this new venture came from his personal experience setting up his oldest daughter’s nursery. “I was shocked by how little range there was in baby furniture, in style and quality,” he recalls. Netto readied himself to compete with Design Within Reach and Pottery Barn Kids—two early successes in the industry—by launching his own industrychanging line of children’s furniture. Today, Netto Collection is known for its contemporary and stylish children’s furnishings, ranging from cribs to bouncers. Basing his career on his experience as a dad is a reflection of how much Netto enjoys parenting. In fact, Netto credits fatherhood with helping him get through one of the most challenging times in his life. Two months into his first wife’s pregnancy with Kate, Netto’s mother died. Kate’s birth not only helped him survive the grief, but “being a father also made me want to be a better person,” he says. “I learned to focus on the important things in life.” Part of Netto’s role as a dad is
juggling his family life. While his daughter, Kate, 8, is from his first marriage, Madelyn, 4, is from his marriage to his second wife, Liz. Recently, Netto wound down his decorating and architectural design business, David Netto Design, in New York and relocated with his wife Liz and Madelyn to Los Angeles, where Kate lives with her mother, so the families could be closer and he could have more free time for both girls. “Girls need their fathers,” says Netto. For the foreseeable future, Netto’s children’s furniture line requires him to return to New York often. He commutes to New York City at least once a month when the girls are in school, but stays longer when the children can join him during their time off. When asked what three things help him maintain his two-family, bi-coastal balance, he is quick to respond: “Jet Blue, iChat for long-distance goodnights, and Mary Arnold Toys in New York—which makes sure I never show up in LA empty-handed.” —Lanchi Venator June 2010 | New York Family
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MOVING BEYOND
“MR. MOM” How Lance Somerfeld, Founder Of The NYC Dads Group, Helps Fathers Find Something They’ve Been Sorely Missing—Each Other
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illed on its website as “the destination for involved fathers as they navigate parenthood,” NYC Dads Group epitomizes modern fatherhood. But that’s not to say that founder Lance Somerfeld set out to start a movement—he just wanted something social to do with his son. It was November 2008 and Somerfeld, a New York City Teaching Fellow working at a highneed school in the Bronx, was taking time off to be with his newborn son. “It was so important to me and my wife that Jake have one-on-one care,” Somerfield says. “The differential between paying for that kind of childcare and my salary was not that significant, so we decided I would stay home.” Shortly after, Somerfeld founded the NYC Dads Group, an online destination for dads to share ideas, news and city activities, as well as a forum to organize events and outings with other New York City fathers. “I was looking for structure,” Somerfeld says. “I wanted to be able to say, ‘On Wednesday, I have plans.’” Every week, NYC Dads Group meets at a child-friendly destination, like a park or an indoor play space. There are also regular dad-only events such as evening forums with authors and Dads Night Out, like a recent trip the group took
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to The Palm restaurant for steaks and drinks. And judging from the site’s success thus far, Somerfeld has struck a chord with other New York City dads, as the group reached 200 members in May and continues to grow. “Men come from Brooklyn, Staten Island, Jersey City, Long Island—it just shows the lack of resources available to dads,” Somerfeld says. “While the economy is a factor, most of these are men making a choice. Some of them work from home, some just have flexible jobs. The bottom line is that more and more dads are confident and comfortable in their role and want to spend time with their child during the day.” Expectant and brand-new dads are also joining the group, which Somerfeld welcomes. “It helps keep the group evolving. I want us to be an oasis for dads. My reason for starting NYC Dads Group was twofold: play time for the kids, but also for dads to have a forum where they can compare notes and bounce ideas off each other,” he says. In addition, Somerfeld added a blog to the site to provide articles and resources beyond the support offered in the group’s meetings. “I didn’t want to be just a group with a message board. I want to bring them together, start a conversation, introduce other voices on the blog,” he says. There is an unmistakable shift going on in the parenting paradigm, and Somerfeld just might have something to do with it. “We have a long way to go as a society,” he says. “It will take the media a while to capture modern men more accurately and not stereotypically.” What does Somerfeld’s dad think about all of this? “Reactions from family was a mixed bag,” he says, laughing. “There was a lot of shock and apprehension, but they’ve all come around. For my grandparents, though, I think the gender role reversal is quite shocking.” Despite the sometimes quizzical reception he receives—not to mention the challenges of his chosen role—Somerfeld remains hopeful for the future of modern fatherhood. “The job of at-home dad is not for everyone,” he says. “It’s a challenging job, and there is a lot of balancing. There’s isolation at times, and you wonder how to break out of it. I’m hoping NYC Dads Group is part of that answer for parents.” G www.newyorkfamily.com
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He rejected the notion initially because he believed you would be fine? Yes. And there’s this idea in America that you should happy your way through a problem, and that contemplating the unthinkable somehow hastens it, which I reject. One of the valuable things about my experience was that it forced me to sit down with my closest friends and tell them what they really meant to me. I think there is something in this culture that conspires against friendship. How did you arrive at the list of six men who would be your “Council As parents of children, young children of Dads”—the father figures who’d take your place if you weren’t there? in particular, we feel like we’ve got our When I first had the idea, I said to myself that I shouldn’t tell [my wife] Linda, as work, we’ve got our family, we don’t have she’s a very upbeat person—we should focus on the positime for friends. I think tive, we should live in the moment. I kept it quiet for 24 at its heart, what the I feel like a hours and then I couldn’t contain myself. And she quickly Council of Dads has started rejecting my nominees: “I like him, but I would proven to be is a bridge father teaches a never ask him for advice!” We decided we needed a set of between your family girl how to be a rules. We settled on four: 1. No family, only friends: Our and your friends. It’s woman—that a family would already be there. 2. Only men: We were tryan excuse to bring your father is really ing to fill the dad space in the girls’ lives. 3. Intimacy over friends into your kids’ longevity: Some of my newer friends might better capture lives in a way that I the first person the dad I wanted to be. 4. A dad for every side: The idea to try to win his think is very meaningwas to take different parts of my personality and assign it daughter’s heart. ful for everybody. to each figure. How many Which friends made the cut? I ended up with my members of your oldest friend, my camp counselor, my college roommate, my business partner, Council were already fathers my close confidant and my tortured romantic poet friend. themselves? Of the six “dads,” five are dads and one is not. Sure enough, How did the men you asked to form your Council react? Ben Sherwood, it was the one who is not, that when my think dad [and close confidant; see above], who will teach them how to ques- he came over to go trick-or-treating tion, instantly tendered his resignation: “I reject this premise. We’re not going to with our girls, was sneaking them need to exist.” [But then] we had all the dads together a few weeks ago when our chocolate from the bag after Mom and girls turned 5. We went around that night and talked about what the experience Dad had said, “All right, enough with meant to everybody. Ben said he had rejected this notion, but now he realized the candy for today.” He slipped his that he was wrong, that we can’t have too many people who love our kids around hand in and was backhanding them a our families, and that whether we are healthy or sick, men or women, we all need candy bar. So he’s the one we have to our own councils. watch the most! N JULY 2008, Bruce Feiler, the Brooklyn-based bestselling author of “Walking the Bible,” learned he had a tumor in his left femur that threatened his ability to walk, his career as a journalist and travel writer, and even his life. His main concerns, however, were his twin daughters, Eden and Tybee, then 3 years old. How might they grow up without their father’s love, encouragement and advice? Within days of his diagnosis, he decided to ask six friends to keep his voice alive in his daughters’ lives. In his new book, “The Council of Dads: My Daughters, My Illness, and the Men Who Could Be Me,” Feiler, who is now cancer-free, shares what he learned from forging new bonds with the friends he asked to be his daughters’ substitute fathers—and discusses the roles they continue to play in his family’s life.
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Bruce with his daughters and the Council of Dads. Front row, left to right: Joshua Ramo, Tybee Feiler, Bruce Feiler, Eden Feiler, Ben Sherwood. Second row, left to right: Ben Edwards, David Black, Max Stier, Jeff Shumlin.
What made you decide to turn your Council of Dads project into a book? I think it really began the first time I sat down with my travel dad, Jeff, and said, “How would you teach my girls how to take a trip?,” and he said, “Be a traveler and not a tourist,” and “Approach this trip like a kid would approach a mud puddle, right? You could just look into it, or you could jump in and get covered in mud.” After that conversation, I said to my wife that night, “This advice may be meant for our girls, but we need it too.” That’s when I realized I should write this book to capture these lessons for my girls and for anybody else who would want to hear them. What role has your Council played in your daughters’ lives so far? I think what this is in the end is a team of godparents. There are a lot of zombie godparents out there, as the parents who do the asking don’t know what they are asking, and the friends who do the accepting don’t know what they are accepting. One benefit of what ended up happening was that I gave each person a role to play: nature dad, www.newyorkfamily.com
horse dad, music dad, dream dad... I did it for emotional reasons, but it ended up having a practical benefit. They’re men, so maybe somebody slacks off now and then. But there’s always somebody present in the girls’ lives. Do you think others can benefit from forming councils, even if they’re not sick? Certainly, the way people are responding to my book, lots of people who aren’t in that situation are starting councils. Linda, my wife, has a council of moms now with 10 women. I’m seeing single women starting councils of dads because they want father figures for their children. I’m seeing parents of teenagers starting councils because it gives the children someone to talk to who is sort of in the extended family. Can you share a few things you have learned about fatherhood on this journey? I feel that the father’s voice is the forgotten voice in a lot of ways. For boys, I think that the father’s is the voice that teaches the boy to be a man. Speaking as a father of girls, I feel like a father teaches a girl how to be a woman, that a father is really the first person to try to win his daughter’s heart. As I try to constantly win my daughters’ hearts, I feel that what I’m saying to them is, “You’re worthy, make someone fight for you.” We certainly do a lot to celebrate moms, but let’s not forget dads. Do your daughters know about the book and the extent of your illness? They know about the book. They know they have a Council of Dads. They don’t know the shadow that hangs over it. They just love it. They know that these aren’t just daddy’s friends; they are their friends. We took the approach that a lot of parents take in these situations: We were honest, but not too honest. It’s kind of my policy, whether it has to do with illness or God or life or anything. How are you feeling these days? I’m cancer-free now. I am walking without crutches or a crane, and I’m full of hope and walking forward. n June 2010 | New York Family
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trails or enroll in one of the many family education programs. 228-06 Northern Boulevard, Douglaston, Queens, 718-229-4000, alleypond.com.
Pitch A Tent The New York City Department of Parks and Recreation hosts Family Camping nights in July and August at parks in all five boroughs (including Central Park!). It’s a one-night campout (either Friday or Saturday), and they provide you with the tent, the cookout food, and the activities (such as hikes and stargazing)—all for free. All you need is a sleeping bag. Quick tip—you must call the Monday before you want to camp to reserve a spot; call early, because they fill up fast. 212-NEW-YORK or nycgovparks.org. —Alison Lowenstein
Hit The Beach JACOB RIIS PARK, QUEENS. This park offers a mile-long stretch of surf kids can swim in, plus ball courts, miniature golf, a boardwalk, a playground and more. 718-318-4300, nyharborparks.org. MIDLAND BEACH, STATEN ISLAND. This beach is great for swimming and boasts concession stands, a playground, and the Sea Turtle Fountain, which has sprinklers where kids can run around. It’s also close to South Beach, which is popular for its boardwalk. 718-9870709, statenislandusa.com. SANDY HOOK, N.J. It’s technically outside the city on the tip of the Jersey Shore, but it’s only a 40-minute ferry ride from Wall Street. The beautiful, well-kept park includes seven miles of ocean beaches, salt marshes, and hiking trails. Check out Sandy Hook Lighthouse, the oldest surviving lighthouse in the United States, and be sure to bring your bikes, and take advantage of Sandy Hook’s amazing bike trails.
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Jacob Riis Park
732-872-5970, sandy-hook.com. For ferry info: seastreak.com. —Kristin Bankston
Get Back To Nature JAMAICA BAY WILDLIFE REFUGE. Encompassing 9,155 acres, the refuge comprises diverse habitats, including salt marsh, fields and woods, water ponds, and an open expanse of bay and islands. Over 325 species have been recorded here during the last 25 years! Jamaica Bay, Queens, 718-318-4340, nyharborparks.org.
For family-friendly rides around the city, visit the website of Bike New York, a local organization for city bikers which has guides to biking trails and routes (212-932-BIKE, bikenewyork. org). No worries if you don’t own a bike; these companies offer bike rentals near kid-friendly riding areas: Bike and Roll rents bikes in Battery Park, South Street Seaport, Pier 84 in Hudson River Park, and Governors Island (212-260-0400, bikeandroll.com); and Bike Rental Central Park is located on the northwest corner of 58th Street and Seventh Avenue (212-541-8759, centralparkbiketour.com).
Park It Chances are if you live in New York, you live near at least one park— there are more than 1,700 across the five boroughs. Here, David Rivel, executive director of the City Parks Foundation, shares a few of the city’s “hidden gem” parks, as well as a few can’t-miss park events for summer:
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WAVE HILL. A 28-acre public garden filled with strolling lawns shaded by trees, quiet woodland trails, lotus ponds, flower and herb gardens and a dramatic view of the Hudson River. West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx, 718- 549-3200, wavehill.org.
MARCUS GARVEY PARK, MANHATTAN: This Harlem park boasts Mt. Morris, a natural mountain with a staircase leading to the top and a fireman’s watchtower.
ALLEY POND ENVIRONMENTAL CENTER. Rugged forested acreage filled with
ST. MARY’S PARK, THE BRONX: This South Bronx park has great topography with
Water, Water Everywhere FISHING SHEEPSHEAD BAY, BROOKLYN: A great destination for offshore fishing, Sheepshead Bay has a fleet of around 50 boats for rent; prices range from $24-40.
ing, New York Water Taxi offers a variety of sightseeing cruises, including the Audubon eco-cruise and the hop-on/hop-off boat. (nywatertaxi.com)
STEEPLECHASE PIER, CONEY ISLAND: If you’d like to keep your feet on land, head to Coney Island, home to a diverse array of fish all year. If the fish aren’t biting, Nathan’s hot dogs make for a tasty Plan B.
STATEN ISLAND FERRY: The ferry’s breezy, 25-minute trip across the harbor will get you great photos of the Statue of Liberty, Ellis Island and Lower Manhattan, and it won’t cost you a penny! (siferry.com)
DON’T FORGET! If you and your family are first-time fishers, study up on New York fishing regulations before you hit the shores at dec.ny.gov.
KAYAKING THE DOWNTOWN BOATHOUSE: Begin your free kayaking adventure from one of the Downtown Boathouse’s three locations (Pier 40, Pier 96 and 72nd Street.) Free lessons are provided on Wednesday nights for first-timers. (downtownboathouse.org)
MANHATTAN KAYAK COMPANY: Located on Pier 66, this school offers safe kayak instruction, a wide variety of tours and even off-season storage. Tours vary in level of difficulty; prices range from $35-$225. (manhattankayak.com) THE NEW YORK KAYAK COMPANY: Another great option for kayak beginners, The New York Kayak Company sells apparel and gear (as well as lessons and tours) at its Pier 40 location. Looking for
a flat space near the street grid and a hill that leads to a stage that showcases plenty of family entertainment. QUEENSBRIDGE PARK, QUEENS: Located under the Queensborough Bridge, this renovated park has a strong community presence. The City Parks Foundation is currently working to improve its waterfront access. CALVERT VAUX PARK, BROOKLYN: Along the water overlooking Coney Island Creek, this park lay fallow for decades, but the City Parks Foundation is currently refurbishing it—Phase 1 of the renovation is expected to be completed this summer. TAPPEN PARK, STATEN ISLAND: On the north shore near the Staten Island ferry, this park and surrounding shops boast a “town square feel.”
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a challenge? Try a stand-up paddle board class. (shop. nykayak.com)
BOATING CIRCLE LINE SIGHTSEEING: Hop on The Beast Speedboat Ride for an exciting 30-minute trip through the New York Harbor. You’ll fly by skyscrapers and the Statue of Liberty at a whopping 45 miles per hour! (circleline42.com) NEW YORK WATER TAXI: For something a bit more relax-
Can’t-Miss Park Happenings
SAILING OFFSHORE SAILING SCHOOL: Offshore Sailing offers lessons (a two-hour excursion on the water) and courses (a 3-5 day course to get your sailing certification) from Chelsea Piers. (offshoresailing.com) HUDSON RIVER SLOOP CLEARWATER: Learn about the Hudson River’s eco-system, enjoy the water, and listen to music on a three-hour public sail. (clearwater.org) —Brittany McNamara
six-hole golf course, a covered driving range, and a clubhouse with classroom space. (Ongoing, Dyker Beach Park, Brooklyn)
FAMILY DAY! AT CENTRAL PARK SUMMERSTAGE: This year’s extravaganza features Ralph’s World, Bethany & Rufus, Cirquetacular and more. (Sunday, July 18; Central Park SummerStage)
CITYPARKS KIDS: Arts and culture for kids—dance, musicals, sing-a-longs, storytelling and poetry reading. (Weekdays throughout July and August; various parks)
SUMMERSTAGE DANCE: High-caliber performances by world-renowned dance companies, plus master classes taught prior to each performance. (June 4-August 14; Central Park SummerStage)
SWEDISH COTTAGE MARIONETTE THEATRE: Through June 25, the theatre presents the fairy tale mishmash “Three,” in which the Big Bad Wolf learns his lesson and is permitted to rejoin the fabled cast as the Big Good Wolf! (Runs daily throughout the year; Central Park at 79th Street and the West Drive) —Rachel Graham
CITYPARKS JUNIOR GOLF CENTER: Kids aged 7-17 can take free golf classes at this state-of-the-art facility that includes a
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help from the experts! Get your face painted as you explore the ancient art of macrame, and head home with the origami you’ll learn to craft. Boston, MA, bostondragonboat.org.
Fairfield County Irish Festival (June 18-20) There’s much to explore during this three-day celebration of all things Irish, featuring non-stop music, pipe bands, dance, cultural exhibits and more. A tent with rides will delight children of all ages, while dads can spend Father’s Day enjoying an outdoor Irish sporting event. Activities tailored specifically to kids are abundant. Fairfield County, CT, irishfestival.org.
Rose Weekend (June 19-20) Take the families on walking tours of flower gardens in full bloom throughout Connecticut’s River Valley, including the Elizabeth Park Rose Garden, which has more than 15,000 rose bushes in bloom. Children’s activities such as crafts, music, and live animals add to the amusement. Hartford, CT, elizabethpark.org.
Clearwater Festival (June 19-20)
Sea Music Festival (June 10-13) Hear the songs and sounds of maritime cultures from around the world! The Mystic Seaport’s Chantey Staff, The Johnson Girls, Barrouallie Whalers and many more will perform during this three-day festival. There will also be several workshops throughout the day. Mystic Seaport, CT, mysticseaport.org.
New Jersey Seafood Festival (June 11-13) Conch fritters, paella, alligator sausage, oh my! Don’t worry, a bounty of traditional favorites, like shrimp and calamari, will also be offered at this
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culinary event, which features chefs, crafts, musicians and a tremendous amount of seafood. Tote fresh sushi along when you board the festival trolley. Arts and crafts, storytellers and musicians will entertain young attendees in the kid-friendly fun tent. Belmar, NJ, belmar.com/seafoodfestival.
Hong Kong Dragon Boat Festival of Boston (June 12-13) Don’t miss the chance to watch Boston’s famed Charles River transform into a racetrack for dragon boats. The surrounding area will overflow with fun challenges for kids and adults. Think you can pick up marbles with chopsticks? Test your skills with
Spend Father’s Day weekend on the shores of the Hudson River at this annual festival, inspired by musician Pete Seeger’s desire to clean up the river. Along with live music by Seeger and other musicians, the event features storytellers and kid-friendly entertainers, a working riverfront, and environmental education sites. Croton Park Point, NY, clearwater.org.
Blueberry Festival (June 26) Did you know that the official state fruit of New Jersey is the blueberry? Explore the place where this tasty fruit was born. This old-fashioned festival includes a pie-eating contest, blueberry picking, historical presentations and tours, arts and country crafts, music, food and more. Brown Mills, NJ, whitesbog.org.
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Fresh, homemade strawberry shortcake will be served up all day at this festival. Visitors will also enjoy chocolate-dipped strawberries, strawberry jam, strawberry milkshakes, strawberry fudge and other Vermont specialties. Besides the food, there will be kid’s games, a petting zoo, pony rides and face painting! Sam Mazza’s, Colchester, VT, sammazzafarms.com.
Get eggy with it at Maine’s 38th annual festival honoring everyone’s favorite breakfast ingredient. An egg breakfast will be cooked in a 300pound frying pan so families can build up their strength before participating in the Egg-lympics. There’s also a pageant, street dance, craft fair and fireworks. Pittsfield, ME, eggfest. craftah.com.
More than 1,000 volunteers work year-round to exceed the previous festival’s success, and 2010 is no exception. Don’t fill up on the all-you-caneat pancakes, because you’ll want to save some room for the 20,000 pounds of lobster available for sampling. A parade, arts and crafts, cooking contests, and kids’ events ensure that the five-day event is chock-full of variety. Rockland, ME, mainelobsterfestival.com.
Sunflower Farm Festival (July 3-4) A fifteen-acre field of sunflowers in full bloom makes the perfect setting for this down-home festival. Browse a craft market under a canopy of oak trees, listen to live bluegrass, enjoy a BBQ sandwich and a tall lemonade, take part in kids’ activities like face painting and pony rides, go on a hayride through the field and cut your own bunch of sunflowers to take home! Rutledge, GA, sunflowerfarmfestival.com.
Michigan Cherry Festival (July 3-10) Everything’s better with a cherry on top, and Michigan is no exception. There’s no shortage of opportunities for your kids to shine, whether they take part in the cherry pie-eating contest, teen golf tournament or sandsculpture competition. Spit a cherry pit the farthest and you may just win a prize to commemorate the fun. Traverse City, MI, cherryfestival.org.
Whaling City Festival (July 9-11) Kids will love Mark Fanelli’s Traveling Amusement Park and food enthusiasts will be in heaven with dozens of international food vendors. Check out the custom car and truck show or scour the craft and flea market with over two hundred vendors. Make sure you don’t miss out on the entertainment, there will be six stages set up for performances! New Bedford, MA, whalingcityfestival.com.
NJ Peach Festival (July 22-25)
Atlantic City Air Show
Be careful the juice doesn’t drip down your chin as you eat fresh juicy peaches! See the crowning of the New Jersey Peach Queen, find out who wins the Governors Cup for the best box of peaches and take the kids to see the educational displays. Stick around for the barbeque dinner and enjoy all the tasty peach desserts. Mullica Hill, NJ, gc4hfair.com.
(August 25) See the heart-stopping feats of military and civilian pilots perform solo routines, formation flying, and many aerobatic maneuvers over the Atlantic City Boardwalk. This year’s show will be headlined by the U.S. Air Force Thunderbirds and the U.S. Army Golden Knights Parachute team. Atlantic City, NJ, atlanticcitynj.com.v
Happy Campers Whether it’s your final destination or a fun-filled stop on the way to your vacation spot, camping is a great way to spend uninterrupted time with your family and explore the outdoors. Here are a few of our favorite campgrounds, all just a few hours from New York City. The Delaware Water Gap The Delaware Water Gap, located just an hour and a half from the city, offers campers spectacular views of the Appalachian Mountains, as well as a wide variety of family-friendly activities like boating, fishing and hiking. Editor’s Pick: The Dingmans Campground, located in Dingmans Ferry, Pennsylvania, offers 133 sites in a variety of settings and with amenities like clean water and electricity. The site has plenty of family packages, and hosts fairs and festivals throughout the summer. (dingmanscampground.com) Bear Mountain State Park Located near the Hudson River on the Appalachian Trail, this park features large fields, picnic areas, biking trails and swimming pools. Editor’s Pick: Black Bear Campground in Orange County, New York, is a pet-friendly family oasis, complete with basketball courts, hayrides and much more. (blackbearcampground.com)
KOA The Catskills The Catskill Mountains offer a diverse range of adventures like hiking, horseback riding, rock climbing and more. For families that crave even more excitement, some areas even include safaris, water parks and scenic train rides! Editor’s Pick: Mongaup Pond, located in Livingston Manor, New York, is a serene campground situated on a 120-acre lake. The remote location, dense forest and lake (perfect for swimming and boating!) are only a few of the area’s attractions. (dec.ny.gov) KOA Kampgrounds of America (KOA) operates campgrounds all over the country (there are 15 sites in New York alone!), and also offers campers a wide variety of housing options, including tent and RV sites, cabins, lodges and luxury condominiums. The site to visit first? Koa.com, which can not only help you pick a destination for your family, but also provides cookout recipes, craft projects, games for the road, safety suggestions and much more. —Noelia de la Cruz
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Empire State Building The city’s most famous skyscraper offers stunning views and yearround fun. After a high-speed elevator ride to the building’s 86th floor Observatory, witness the wonder in your child’s eyes as they gaze across the landscapes of five states! Follow up with an exciting trip on the NYSKYRIDE, a simulated helicopter ride that “flies” guests over 30 of New York’s most popular sites without ever leaving the second floor of the building. 350 Fifth Avenue, esbnyc.com.
Statue of Liberty With the recent reopening of Lady Liberty’s crown, children have the opportunity to see their city skyline from a most unique vantage point. Ferries leave from Battery Park and a round-trip ticket includes stops at both the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island, so be sure to explore the historic immigration museum as well. nps.gov.
Central Park Sure, you know all about the Central Park Zoo and Belvedere Castle. Why not explore some of the park’s hidden gems? Head over to the Chess & Checkers House, which offers free arts and crafts activities; hop over to the Swedish Cottage for a marionette show; or stop by the Harlem Meer, which features catch-and-release fishing through mid-October. Between 5th and 8th Avenues and 59th and 110th Streets, centralparknyc.org.
Bronx Zoo Home to thousands of animals representing hundreds of species, the 265-acre Bronx Zoo is the largest metropolitan zoo in the country. Visit the African Plains to see lions, zebras and gazelles; go to Madagascar to meet lemurs and crocodiles; and see a Siberian tiger in mountainous Eastern Russia. This summer, check out “Animal Tales Extravaganza”— thirteen weeks of book readings and live musical performances at the zoo! 2300 Southern Boulevard, bronxzoo.com.
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Times Square Kids will be amazed by the oddities at Ripley’s Believe It or Not!, which holds 25 themed galleries displaying everything from a six-legged cow to books made from spider webs. Madame Tussauds offers more than just lifelike wax creations of celebrities, sports icons and historical figures—it also has a Cinema 4D theater and “American Idol” stage, where kids can sing and record their very own performances. Afterward, head over to Dave & Buster’s for a kid-friendly meal and a wide selection of games. timessquarenyc.org.
Nintendo World Store With more than 10,000 square feet of hands-on entertainment, kids won’t lack for things to do inside this Nintendo nirvana. Feeling clueless about the Wii phenomenon? Learn the basics with a virtual tour, and then test your new skills on the game stations. And be sure to check out the collection of Nintendo artifacts. 10 Rockefeller Plaza, 646-4590800, nintendoworldstore.com.
South Street Seaport Tall ships and a fabulous view aren’t all this historic seaport has to offer. The South Street Seaport Museum traces the history of New York through this port, and is full of paintings, drawings, models and other sailing-related paraphernalia. Grab a bite to eat and enjoy shopping and strolling the cobblestone streets. Plus, check out the new “Tigers” exhibition, where kids can learn all about their favorite striped felines through high-tech interactive exhibits. Fulton and South Streets, Pier 17, southstreetseaport.com n
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Kristen Duca and family on their Philly vacation.
PHILADELPHIA A New York Foursome Takes On History, Culture And Even A Shark In The City Of Brotherly Love BY KRISTEN J. DUCA
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he challenge: two adults (my husband Ken and I) two young kids (our daughters, Milla, 3 and Arden, 1) and 48 hours to see it all. Here’s how we spent our weekend escape in Philadelphia.
What We Did:
The Philadelphia Trolley Works Tour
The trolley tour enabled our family to see the city’s main attractions in just 90 minutes. The tour is narrated by knowledgeable and cheerful tour guides, and you can hop off at any of the 20 stops to customize the day to your family’s interests. We enjoyed visiting attractions like the Betsy Ross House, the Rodin Museum and the iconic
“Rocky Steps” at the Philadelphia Museum of Art. (phillytour.com)
Please Touch Museum A perfect place for kids to learn and play! Our girls perused the aisles of the mini ShopRite supermarket, played with water currents in “River Adventures” and learned about transportation in “Roadside Attractions.” The museum also houses the century-old refurbished Woodside Park Dentzel Carousel. (pleasetouchmuseum.org)
Adventure Aquarium This incredible 200,000 square-foot aquarium boasts
PLUS…4 Great Out-Of-The-Box Family Getaways... THE GRAND OLD FAMILY HOTEL: WOODSTOCK INN, VT For a relaxing getaway offering natural beauty and outdoor fun (think hiking, biking, swimming, kayaking, golf, tennis, and more), visit The Woodstock Inn & Resort. Built by Laurance Rockefeller, the stately inn graces the picturesque village of Woodstock in Vermont’s Upper Connecticut River Valley, and even features an on-site spa. For more information, visit woodstockinn.com. PARKS AND RECREATION: ACADIA NATIONAL PARK, ME Acadia offers great outdoor activities like tidepooling, bicycling, climbing and more. Families can join park rangers for a campfire program, boat cruise, guided walk or hike—there’s even a Junior Ranger
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Program. Campers can choose from two main campgrounds, Blackwoods and Seawall Campgrounds. All sites are wooded and within a 10-minute walk to the beach. For more information, visit nps.gov/acad/ index.htm. CITYSCAPES: SAN DIEGO, CA San Diego’s gorgeous weather, 70 miles of sandy beaches and dozens of family-friendly attractions make it an ideal location for an action-packed trip. No stay is complete without a day (or two) at Balboa Park, a 1200-acre urban cultural park that’s home to the famous San Diego Zoo, as well as the Balboa Park Carousel, the Marie Hitchcock Puppet Theater and eight lush gardens. Mission Bay is another must-see stop, a 4300-acre aquatic playground with activities like sailing,
power boating and waterskiing. For more information visit sandiego.org. AN ECO-ADVENTURE: EVERGREEN LODGE, YOSEMITE NATIONAL PARK, CA Nestled in the woods bordering Yosemite National Park, Evergreen Lodge offers a variety of cabins, cottages and houses for rent; it even has large “fully-furnished” tents for campers. The lodge also offers guided tours in fly-fishing, biking and hiking as well as an adventure program for kids. Finally, Camp Mather, a nearby 350-acre family camp, offers the lodge’s visitors access to a lake, swimming pool and tennis courts for a modest day fee. For more information on Yosemite National Park, visit nps.gov/yose/index.htm; explore the Evergreen Lodge at evergreenlodge. com.
so many exciting exhibits, shows and adventures. Our family loved the 40-foot shark tunnel, which features over 30 sharks and 850 other sea creatures. The “Touch-AShark” exhibit is great for those who are brave, like Milla. (adventureaquarium.com)
the Performing Arts and the Academy of Music, the Pennsylvania Convention Center, the Liberty Bell and other family-friendly attractions. The rooms are chic but comfortable and offer beautiful views of the city. The hotel also has an indoor pool and whirlpool, high-speed internet access, and a warm and gracious staff that greeted us with smiles and high fives (to Arden’s delight!). (philadelphia. doubletree.com) For more info: visitphilly.com. Kristen J. Duca blogs at ultimatemama.com.
Where We Stayed: The newly renovated Doubletree Hotel Philadelphia is located in the center of the city’s cultural district. Families will love the hotel’s proximity to the Kimmel Center for
...And One Great Education Vacation By Sam Chapnick Headed back in time to COLONIAL WILLIAMSBURG this summer? These kid-friendly experiences will add up to one revolutionary vacation! COSTUME RENTAL Let kids get a visceral sense of colonial times by stepping into someone else’s shoes, almost literally. Girls sport simple white lawn dresses (dyes were expensive) while boys get a haversack and imitation rifle. APPRENTICE PROGRAM Kids spend 90 minutes learning trades
like blacksmithing, printing and tailoring by doing them alongside master craftspeople. ABBIE ALDRICH ROCKEFELLER FOLK ART MUSEUM Participate in a hands-on family workshop, then visit the galleries filled with objects like toys, games and old-fashioned signs. BRICKYARD Get muddy feet and hands by making bricks, which will be baked in October and then used for all building done in Colonial Williamsburg.
BENJAMIN POWELL HOUSE Experience what life was like for an actual 18th century family. Do chores, play 18th century games and tour the kitchens and farm in this preserved colonial home. WILLIAMSBURG LODGE With less than a five-minute walk to the heart of the historic area, spacious rooms, four gorgeous pools and reasonable rates (breakfast included!), this is our family’s preferred value hotel. For more info: colonialwilliamsburg.com. A travel writer and local mom, Sam Chapnick blogs about kid-friendly things to do in NYC and beyond at kidcityny.com.
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The Best Kid-Friendly Gear For Outings To The Park, Beach And Beyond BY ROBIN SAKS FRANKEL
Skin Protector: Getting all the nooks and crannies of your infant’s skin covered with sunscreen can be a challenge. Baby Blanket’s Tender Scalp Sunblock Spray ($6.50) and SPF 45+ Sunscreen Spray Lotion For Babies ($10) help make your job easier. Both products offer broad spectrum YVA/UVB protection, are hypoallergenic, non-stinging, water-resistant and are SPF 45. (babyblanketsuncare.com) Hat Heads: Finally, a
six pounds, folds to just 24 inches, has a three-way tilting canopy and an SPF of 100. Equally as useful for the beach or an afternoon picnic in the park, it takes just a few minutes to set up and disassemble. (Starts at $29.95; shadeusa.com)
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kids’ sun protection hat that doesn’t make them look like tourists. Tuga Wear’s UV protective hats for kids come in cool styles for boys and girls that will leave them summering in style while protecting their skin. ($18; tugasunwear.com)
Little Feet: Even the tiniest family members can keep their toes cool in infant and toddler Havaianas. A miniaturized version of the popular Brazilian rubber thongs, kids’ Havaianas have the same cushioned rubber footbed as the adult ones but also have a removable soft elastic back strap to keep little feet in place. (Start at $16.95; us.havaianas.com) Thirst Quencher:
With BornFree’s new Twist’nPop toddler cup, your tot can stay Twist’nPop hydrated without spills. The 14 oz. ergonomic design is easy to hold with a unique pop-up soft silicone straw that twists back into the cap when done. And like Seaside Sidekicks Sand Cookie Set all BornFree products, the cup is BPA- and Beach Bake: The beachphthalate-free. ($8.99; toysrus.com) side answer to an Easy Bake oven is Melissa & Doug’s Seaside Sidekicks Sand Cookie Bag It: Skip Hop’s new Set. Budding mini-chefs will Central Park Outdoor spend hours forming their own Blanket Cooler Bag makes sand cookies while you kick back everything from family in your beach chair with a book. picnics to beach outings ($14.87; amazon.com) convenient and stylish. It includes an insulated area Cool Treats: Nothing beats to keep snacks and drinks the heat like a cool treat. With cool. It also unfolds into a the Zoku Quick Pop Maker you Central Park Outdoor Blanket Cooler Bag 5x5 water-resistant blanket can make your own popsicles in Zoku Quick Pop Maker (available in two designs). Or, detach the ice pack and it’s a as little as seven minutes. Chooscompact messenger bag! ($45; skiphop.com) b ing what flavor to make, however, might take you a bit longer. ($49.95; williams-sonoma.com)
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The Hermit Crab Hotel At The Beach, A Little Crustacean Can Be A Family’s Best Friend BY CATHERINE NEWMAN
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n a beach in Cape Cod, in a hole dug into the sand, the hermit crabs are shimmying out of their shells. The kids scream with delight, and it really is wonderful. “I can’t believe we’re getting to see this,” I keep saying, like a taped message of my own amazement, and my son, Ben, says, “I know!” every time. We’ve been collecting hermit crabs in a bucket, which itself makes for an inexplicably good time. But this year I’m having more fun than usual: maybe it’s because I trust more that Ben and my daughter, Birdy, will not suddenly be—How do I put this?—dead. This is the first year I can zip Birdy into a life vest without her shrieking what sounds like a demented version of the Hallelujah chorus with “Hallelujah” swapped out for the words “Boo hoo hoo.” When the tide is out, the water here is knee deep for miles, and the hermit crabs scuttle along the sandy bottom, darting from seaweed clump to seaweed clump like spies in an action movie. Part of the thrill of picking them up is the possibility that they will pinch you with their tiny claws; this makes the children scream a lot, although Birdy is fond of reassuring Ben: “Hermit crabs really like to be so, so gentle.” She’s always been fearless about them, while Ben starts out every new summer a little crab shy. Sometimes I’ve been inexplicably exasperated by his skittishness: “Just pick it up,” I have been known to sigh. “It can’t exactly lop your finger off with a claw the size of dollhouse tweezers.” In a lifetime of stupidly picked battles, this may be one of the stupider—but Ben is always glad when he overcomes his fear. We’ve dug a wide, shallow hole in the sand, which has filled with water, and dumped in the dozens of crabs—Ben always names this particular configuration of sand, sea, and crustacean “The Hermit Crab Hotel”—and now watch them, rapt, while they rest and mingle, wrestle and escape in an effort to find bigger and better homes. Ben notices that one of them is dragging around a real monstrosity. We look closely: at some point, the shell-less crab attached itself to a giant white clam half, which now pokes up into the air like a graceless sail. Ben is filled with pity. He splashes off into the bay, returns with an empty spiral, and places it near our afflicted friend. “Go ahead,” he coaxes. “Try it on.” “Oh honey,” I say. “That’s so sweet, but I don’t think it works like that.” But I’m wrong. The little crab reaches a tentative claw into the shell’s empty hole, pats the shell all over, then pops out of his beleaguering house—he’s just a tiny thing, as naked as a boiled shrimp!—and, with his two claws braced against the opening, lowers his bare heinie gingerly into the new shell. He reaches back now to pat himself all over, then cranes his tiny head around to look. “Does this shell make my butt look big?” my husband, Michael says, and I laugh, but it’s such a dear thing we’re watching—this vulnerable little animal and the children so peachy and fascinated—that there are tears in my eyes. Not a minute later, another crab is checking out the abandoned shell, and even as we’re shouting “Don’t do it! That shell stinks!” he’s plopping himself inside, feeling around. And suddenly it’s the fitting room at a sample sale; there’s an epidemic of shell swapping. “Um, no—I’m not sure I’m done with that one,” we imagine them saying. “Wait a sec, I may still be getting that one.” The crabs pat and pat themselves, crane their heads around, try on one shell and another, return to their original shells, pop out again. And Ben and Birdy cheer them on, their enthusiasm as pure and bright as a shooting star. b
“Just pick it up,” I have been known to sigh. “It can’t exactly lop your finger off with a claw the size of dollhouse tweezers.”
Catherine Newman is the author of the award-winning memoir, “Waiting for Birdy.” Follow her on her blog at benandbirdy.blogspot.com.
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n the other side of the Hudson River sits The Beacon, a towering condominium community atop Jersey City’s Palisades Ridge. Formerly a medical center, the complex comprises ten art deco buildings that will include about 1,200 homes, making it the largest historic residential restoration in the United States. What’s more, The Beacon was designed specifically with families in mind: Its host of amenities includes a movie screening room, children’s playroom, rooftop sundeck, barbeque pit, private park with a community garden, outdoor playground, indoor pool, saunas, fitness room, and more. Of the residential buildings, perhaps the most attractive to families is Mercury Lofts—25 half- and full-floor lofts featuring 13-foot ceilings, gourmet kitchens and 3,0007,000 square feet of space. But the plans for Mercury Lofts weren’t always this family-friendly. “[The building] was supposed to have 103 condos, but mid-
stream we decided to change the project dramatically,” says George Filopoulos, president of Metrovest Equities. “Now, instead of 103 residences, we have 25 residences in a 17-story building.” Midway through the project, Filopoulos also began to think about how they could use the complex’s expansive commercial and retail space to meet families’ needs. After all, he says, “We had 32 sales over a ten-month period, and 21 of those were to young families.” So in addition to revamping their plans for Mercury Lofts, Filopoulos and his team added BeKids at The Beacon, “an entire building dedicated to entertainment, education and athletics for children.” Once finished, the 66,000-square foot space will house an early childhood education center and a variety of kid-pleasing destinations—there’s talk of bringing in everything from sports camps to dance studios to an indoor skate park. Additionally, The Beacon’s complex will eventually house a K-5 school as well as a Mandarin Chinese immersion school serving grades 6-12. Residents of The Beacon also enjoy valet parking, shuttle service to PATH trains and ferries across the river—that is, when they can bring themselves to leave their homes, which afford unparalleled views of the Manhattan skyline. —Katie Main
Address: 4 Beacon Way, Jersey City, NJ 07304 | Prices: Starting at $885,000 Developer: Metrovest Equities | Sales Office: 201-716-3000 | Website: thebeaconjc.com
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This Upper East Side co-op with top-of-the-line renovations is ideal for family living. A sprawling 35-foot dining and living area is excellent for kicking back with the kids, while perks like a separate laundry room and master bedroom with walk-in closet and windowed spa are sure to make parents happy! The open kitchen features granite counters, custom cabinets, a Viking six-burner stove, a Sub-Zero wine cooler, and other high-end touches. Zoned for P.S 290, the doorman building is steps away from Carl Schurz Park, shopping and public transportation.
Conveniently located steps from Riverside Park, delicious eateries, and public transportation, this charming prewar cooperative built in 1905 offers a spacious living room and dining room with beautiful built-ins. Its refined and renovated open chef’s kitchen is complemented by a ceramic tile backsplash and granite countertops along with a Viking stainless stove and microwave, a Bosch dishwasher, and a SubZero refrigerator. The master bedroom features an ensuite windowed home office and renovated bath while the second bedroom offers plenty of sunlight and California Closets with crown moldings throughout.
From original concrete floors to low VOC paint, ceiling fans, and bamboo and recycled house planks, this consciously renovated apartment in Brooklyn Heights is a delight for families with eco-friendly values. The modern kitchen opens right into the large living and dining area good—for entertaining or overseeing children at play. There’s also a home office with separate entrance. Other perks include a slate master bath with deep soaking tub, abundant closets and storage, and two additional loft spaces. The apartment is located in a full-service building with a common roof deck and laundry room.
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for Kids Culture Guide
JUNE 13th
June 5
ON THEIR TOES [Ages 4-12] Introduce your children to the magic of dance with American Ballet Theatre’s kid-friendly performance “ABTKids” at Lincoln Center’s Metropolitan Opera House. The hour-long performance, narrated by a member of ABT’s artistic staff, features family-friendly highlights from the company’s extensive repertoire. Reservations are recommended. 11:30 a.m.; $25. American Ballet Theatre, 140 West 65th Street, 212-3626000, abt.org.
June 6
A GLASS GARDEN PARTY [All Ages] Immerse your kids in the great outdoors without ever leaving the city at the NYU Langone Medical Center’s 12th Annual Glass Garden Community Festival. The Glass Garden, which opened in 1958 as part of the Rusk Institute of Rehabilitation Medicine, features an array of plants and water birds and serves as a serene escape for patients and visitors alike. Attendants of the festival can look forward to a fun-filled day of gardening, nature-inspired arts and crafts and encounters with some friendly farm animals. 11 a.m.-3 p.m.; free. Glass Garden, Rusk Institute, 400 East 34th Street, 212-263-6058, med. nyu.edu/rusk/glassgardens.
June 6
A CULTURAL “EGGS”TRAVAGANZA
10 Great Ideas for June
By parentsconnect.com and newyorkfamily.com
[All Ages] The Museum at Eldridge Street hosts the 10th
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annual Egg Rolls and Egg Creams Festival to celebrate Jewish and Chinese culture on the Lower East Side. The restored 1887 synagogue and National Historic Landmark will play host to musicians, dancers and Chinese and Yiddish language teachers who will present their culture’s customs and traditions. Don’t miss the delicious kosher egg rolls and egg creams! 12-4 p.m.; free. Museum at Eldridge Street, 12 Eldridge Street, 212-219-0888, eldridgestreet.org.
June 9
GARDEN CARNIVAL [ALL AGES] Join NYC’s Coalition for the Homeless at their Carnival Night for Kids in Central Park’s Victorian Gardens, featuring amusement park rides, carnival games, magic shows, readings by children’s authors and yummy bar-be-que. All proceeds benefit the Coalition’s Youth Service Programs. 5:30-8 p.m.; ticket prices start at $100 per child, $150 per adult. Victorian Gardens in Central Park, 212-776-2056, coalitionforthehomeless.org.
June 12 [AGES 4+] Join groundbreaking film company Little Creatures Films for a fundraiser to benefit the making of “Spirit Ship,” a short film set in Red Hook that follows the imaginative journeys of several Brooklyn children. The afternoon will include a shipboard treasure hunt, an interactive video storytelling booth, a mystery drawing station and healthy snacks, along with sneak preview screenings of scenes from “Spirit Ship” and the chance to meet the film’s cast and crew. 3-5 p.m.; free. Waterfront Museum & Showboat Barge, 290 Conover Street, Red Hook, Brooklyn, 347-564-0213, waterfrontmuseum.org, littlecreaturesfilms.org.
June 13
THE ROYAL TREATMENT [All Ages] Catch a glimpse of King Tut before he leaves the country for good! The Discovery Times Square Exposition’s King Tut Family Day boasts a variety of exciting and educational activities, including Egyptian-themed face painting, mummy wrapping and family-friendly tours of the exhibit. Family pack (2 adults, 2 children ages 4-12) $93 on weekends. Adults $27.50, Seniors (65 & up) $25.50, Children (4-12) $17.50. Children under 4 are free. Discovery Times Square Exposition, 226 West 44th Street, 888-9888692, kingtut.org.
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PARTY ANIMALS [All Ages] Join the live music sensation The Shushybyes for a wild concert as part of The Bronx Zoo’s Animal Extravaganza. Critically acclaimed singer Michael North and his bandmates The Shushies will wow kids, parents and animals alike with their mix of rock n’ roll, blues, jazz, R&B and country. 11:30 a.m., 2 p.m.; free with zoo admission (Adult, $15, Child (ages 3-12) $11, Senior (65 and up) $13. Astor Court, Bronx Zoo, 2300 Southern Boulevard, 718-3671010, bronxzoo.com.
June 20
CENTRAL PARK SECRETS [Ages 7+] Children become miniature sleuths at The Secrets of Central Park Family Scavenger Hunt, sponsored by Watson Adventures. Kids who embark on this unique educational scavenger hunt score points by finding Stuart Little, deciphering a secret code, unscrambling a message in the sky and more. Adults must accompany their children; ordering tickets in advance is recommended. 1 p.m.; adults $22, children (7 to 17) $18. Hunt begins at the Arsenal at 5th Avenue and 64th St., Central Park, 877-946-4868, watsonadventures.com.
June 22
Erin Lee and Marci. The duo will perform songs about softball, sprinklers and other joys of summer. Head to the Oval Lawn to listen. 10:30 a.m.-11:15 a.m.; free. Madison Square Park, Broadway to Madison Avenue, East 23 to East 26 Street, 212-538-5058, madisonsquarepark.com.
June 25
SWEDISH SUMMER SOLSTICE [All Ages] Rejoice in the longest day of the year and learn about Swedish culture at the Swedish Midsummer Festival. Dance until dark, feast on Swedish treats, make flower headdresses and hear traditional tunes on a “nyckelharpa,” a Swedish zither or key fiddle. From 6:30 p.m.-8 p.m. there will be a traditional family dance accompanied by music from fiddler Daniel Dahlin. 5 p.m.-8 p.m.; free, food is available for purchase. Robert F. Wagner, Jr. Park, West of Battery Place, 212-267-9700, bpcparks.org. n To submit an event listing, please email newyorkfamily@manhattanmedia.com.
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THEATER & PERFORMANCE
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and small, to create a dazzling production. For tickets, call 212-239-6200. New World Stages Theatre, 340 West 50th Street, gazillionbubbleshow.com.
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A live black light puppet show chronicles the undersea adventures of aquatic friends Tank, Bubbles and Dorsel. For tickets, call 212239-6200 or visit telecharge.com. New World Stages Theatre, 340 West 50th Street.
THE LION KING Disney’s blockbuster movie on Broadway is a combination of puppetry, actors, and special effects–a truly magical experience. For tickets, call 212-307-4747 or visit ticketmaster.com. Minskoff Theatre, 200 West 45th Street.
MARY POPPINS The Supernanny takes to the stage in this hit musical by Disney. For tickets, call 212-3074747 or visit ticketmaster.com. New Amsterdam Theatre, 214 West 42nd Street.
FOR AGES 8 AND UP
WICKED
Cirque Du Soleil presents the highly anticipated New York production of “Banana Shpeel,” an old-fashioned, vaudevillestyle performance that is sure to have your family on its feet. Blending dance styles like tap and hip-hop with slapstick comedy and acrobatics, Banana Shpeel is recommended for children ages 8 and up. Running through August 29. 2124 Broadway at 74th St, 866-858-0008, cirquedusoleil.com/ bananashpeel —Darcy Newell
The Wicked Witch of the West finally commands the spotlight. For tickets, call 212-307-4100 or visit ticketmaster.com. Gershwin Theatre, 222 West 51st Street.
MAMMA MIA! There’s not much to the simple plot about a woman finding her real father as she prepares to wed, but ABBA’s tunes keep the feet tapping. For tickets, call 212-239-6200 or visit telecharge.com. Winter Garden Theatre, 1634 Broadway.
FOR TWEENS
IN THE HEIGHTS 92YTRIBECA The community center’s BYOK (Bring Your Own Kid) Sunday music series invites families to enjoy some of the coolest kid-friendly music around. On June 6, 92YTribeca hosts New York-based singer songwriter Joanie Leeds. 200 Hudson Street, 212-601-1000, 92ytribeca.com.
COBBLE HILL CINEMAS Every other Monday, Cobble Hill Cinemas hosts the children’s film series “Big Movies for Little Kids.” This month, the theater will show “E.T.: The Extra Terrestrial” on June 7 and three famous episodes of “I Love Lucy” on June 21. 265 Court Street, Brooklyn, NY 11231, 718596-9113, cobblehilltheatre.com.
LITERALLY ALIVE CHILDREN’S THEATER Through June 27, Literally Alive presents a musical spin on Robert Louis Stevenson’s classic tale, “Treasure Island.” Arts workshops precede every performance. The Players Theater, 115 MacDougal Street, 212-866-5170, literallyalive.com.
TADA! YOUTH THEATER TADA! Youth Theater is a non-profit, awardwinning theater that produces original familyfriendly musicals—all performed by kids ages 8-18. Reserve tickets now for its summer show,
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“Magic Pot: Three Tales from China,” which will begin in July. 15 West 28th Street, 212-2521619, tadatheater.com
This salsa- and Latin pop-infused musical is a portrait of life in Washington Heights. For tickets, call 212-307-4100 or visit ticketmaster. com. Richard Rodgers Theatre, 226 West 46th Street.
NEW VICTORY THEATER
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This summer, let your kids step into the spotlight with the New Victory Theater’s Summer Weeks program—a week long session of tumbling, improv, theater games and more taught by the company’s teaching artists. The sessions will take place in professional rehearsal studios June 21-26, as well as July 12-16; for ages 8-11. 209 West 42nd Street, 646-223-3010, newvictory.org.
A fast-paced, high-energy murder mystery blending elements of Alfred Hitchcock, a spy novel, and even Monty Python. For tickets, call 212-239-6200 or visit telecharge.com. Helen Hayes Theatre, 240 West 44th Street.
SKIRBALL CENTER FOR THE PERFORMING ARTS This NYU-based cultural center presents a re-imagining of Brian Greene’s children’s book “Icarus at the Edge of Time” as part of the city’s World Science Festival on June 6. The 40-minute show will combine orchestral music with Greek mythology and Einstein’s theories in child-friendly form. 566 LaGuardia Place, 212352-3101, skirballcenter.nyu.edu.
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GAZILLION BUBBLE SHOW This high-impact show features light effects, lasers and, of course, millions of bubbles, large
BILLY ELLIOT A funny and heart-warming musical about a boy with a dream and a talent for dance. Based on the film, with a musical score written by Elton John. For tickets, call 212-239-6200, or visit telecharge.com. Imperial Theatre, 249 West 45th Street.
THE PHANTOM OF THE OPERA The longest-running show in Broadway history delivers mystery, love and heartbreak. For tickets, call 212-239-6200 or visit telecharge. com. Majestic Theatre, 247 West 44th Street.
WEST SIDE STORY The timeless story of star-crossed lovers, Tony and Maria, caught in the rivalry between teenage gangs in 1950s New York returns to Broadway. For tickets, call 212-307-4100 or visit ticketmaster.com. Palace Theatre, 1564 Broadway. www.newyorkfamily.com
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AMERICAN MUSEUM OF NATURAL HISTORY The AMNH’s exhaustive collections span human culture, the natural world, and the universe. On June 19 and 25, families can attend the “Wild, Wild World: Snakes and Lizards” exhibit to learn about these amazing animals and get an up-close look at a Gila monster, cobra and boa constrictor. Central Park West at 79th Street, 212-769-5100, amnh.org.
BROOKLYN HISTORICAL SOCIETY Opening June 3 is “Home Base: Memories of the Brooklyn Dodgers at Ebbets Field,” an exhibit curated by 20 local teens exploring the connection between Ebbets Field, the Dodgers and the Brooklyn community. 128 Pierrepont Street, Brooklyn, NY, 718-222-1241, brooklynhistory.org.
CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF THE ARTS This museum showcases art by children and adult artists, employing an artist-in-residence format in which teaching artists work directly with children and their families. Starting June 9, families can attend the “Public Display,” a celebration of children’s artwork from CMA Public School Partnerships, and view its permanent collection of over 2,000 drawings and paintings. 182 Lafayette Street, 212-2740986, cmany.org.
CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF MANHATTAN This museum offers arts-based educational exhibits and programs in a variety of subjects, as well as extensive offsite outreach. On June 13, families can attend “The Remarkable Helen Keller,” which features a short video about Helen Keller’s teacher, Anne Sullivan, as well as activities for kids like learning to sign their names and write in Braille. 212 West 83rd Street, 212-721-1234, cmom.org.
GUGGENHEIM MUSEUM The museum offers family-oriented tours and drop-in workshops every Sunday, and families can drop by anytime to explore the museum’s exhibitions using a free activity pack. “A Year With Children 2010,” a collection of artwork by local public school students, is on display through June 20. 1071 Fifth Avenue at 89th Street, 212-423-3500, guggenheim.org.
INTREPID SEA, AIR & SPACE MUSEUM Centered on the World War II aircraft carrier Intrepid, the museum features a range of interactive exhibits. On June 12, “27 Seconds,” a new exhibit that tells the story of the 1967 Apollo 1 tragic fire, will open to the public, featuring artifacts from the expedition as well as information about the U.S.’s race to the moon. Pier 86, 12th Avenue and 46th Street, 877957-SHIP, intrepidmuseum.org.
On June 8, families are invited to stroll the 32nd Annual Museum Mile. Besides free access to nine of the city’s top museums (including the Met, the Smithsonian, and the Guggenheim) the mile-long block party features music, food and events like drawing classes for kids and performances by clowns, jugglers and magicians. The event begins on the steps of El Museo del Barrio, 1230 Fifth Avenue (at 104th Street), 212606-2296, museummilefestival.org. —Darcy Newell
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JEWISH MUSEUM The Jewish Museum features a permanent collection of more than 28,000 objects— paintings, sculpture, photographs, archaeological artifacts, coins, ceremonial objects and more— relating to Jewish heritage and history. Until August 1, families can explore the exhibition “Curious George Saves the Day: The Art of Margaret and H.A. Rey,” which draws parallels
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between the famous children’s book and the trials of its creators during World War II. 109 Fifth Avenue at 92nd Street, 212-423-3200, thejewishmuseum.org.
METROPOLITAN MUSEUM OF ART The Met’s friendly, interactive programs help children grow an appreciation for the treasures inside this world-renowned museum. Check out the new Picasso exhibition, on view through until August 1. On June 6 and 13, kids ages 3 to 7 and their adult companions can take part in the Art Plus Show—they will begin by making art inspired by the exhibition “An Italian Journey: Drawings from the Tobey Collection, Correggio to Tiepolo,” and then look at works of art in the galleries. 1000 Fifth Avenue, 212-535-7710, metmuseum.org.
NEW YORK TRANSIT MUSEUM Dedicated to the history of urban transportation, this museum caters to children. On June 10, the museum hosts KidsDay, in which kids (and their accompanying adults) can explore all the exhibits and programs for free. Corner of Boerum Place and Schermerhorn Street, 718694-1600, mta.info/museum.
MORGAN LIBRARY & MUSEUM Join the Morgan on June 12 for the family program “Story In The Garden”—tour the exhibition “Romantic Gardens: Nature, Art, and Landscape Design,” then create use task board, foam board, mosses and lichen to create your own model inspired by a storybook park or garden. Bring a favorite book for inspiration! recommended for ages 6-12. 225 madison avenue, 212-685-0008, themorgan.org.
EL MUSEO DEL BARRIO One of the city’s leading Latino cultural institutions, the museum recently reopened after extensive renovations. Young adults can visit the museum every Tuesday from 4:30 to 6:30 p.m. for Espacio Free, an interactive and free program that uses hip-hop, Spoken Word and poetry to create a relaxed environment for self expression. 1230 Fifth Avenue, 212-8317272, elmuseo.org.
MUSEUM OF MODERN ART The foremost modern art museum in the world, MoMA aims to make its collections accessible to scholars and young children alike. The museum’s popular ongoing family programs include “Tours For Fours,” “A Closer Look For Kids,” and “Tours for Tweens.” Plus, stop by the interactive “Shape Lab” to build, draw, read and explore the role shape plays in art. 11 West 53rd Street, 212-708-9400, moma.org.
MUSEUM OF THE CITY OF NEW YORK Explores the history, present and future of the five boroughs. On Sunday, June 6, the museum hosts “Japan Day,” inviting guests to celebrate the Japanese influence on New York with familyfriendly activities in the museum’s courtyard. The event is free with museum admission. 1220 Fifth Avenue at 103rd Street, 212-534-1672, mcny.org.
NEW YORK HALL OF SCIENCE The Hall features the largest collection of hands-on science exhibits in New York City, and holds a variety of family programs every
weekend. Kids can learn about the animals that call the Amazon home at the exhibition “Amazon Voyage: Vicious Fishes,” and will love exploring The Science Playground, which features slides, sandpits, fog machines and more. 47-01 111th Street, Queens, 718-699-0005, nyscience.org.
RIPLEY’S BELIEVE IT OR NOT! Kids will be amazed at the eccentricities inside this famous “odditorium,” which features 25 themed galleries displaying everything from a six-legged cow to books made from spider webs. 234 West 42nd Street, 212-398-3133, ripleysnewyork.com.
RUBIN MUSEUM OF ART Home to an extensive collection of art from the Himalayas and surrounding regions, the Rubin offers programs and events for families throughout the year. On June 12, kids ages 9-12 can partake in the “Ultimate Sleepover Adventure,” in which they will spend a night at the museum to learn about Mt. Everest, from the perils of the climb to Tibetan culture. 150 West 17th Street, 212-620-5000, rmanyc.org.
WHITNEY MUSEUM OF AMERICAN ART The world-renowned Whitney houses a spectacular collection of 20th century American art. On select Fridays, new parents can bring their babies (up to 18 months) to visit the museum for “Stroller Tours”—in which tour guides will lead moms, dads and babies through current exhibits that are otherwise closed to the public. 945 Madison Avenue, 1-800-WHITNEY, whitney.org.b
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Books
Bestselling Children’s Author Laura Numeroff On Writing, Rodents And Reading To Kids
BY MEREDITH LOPEZ
rooklyn native Laura Numeroff is the author of more than two dozen children’s books, including the beloved “If You Give A Mouse A Cookie” series. Her books have been translated and sold in countries all over the world. Here, she talks about her new book, “The Jellybeans and the Big Book Bonanza,” growing up in Brooklyn, and her passion for children’s literacy. Your latest book, “The Jellybeans and the Big Book Bonanza,” is about a love of reading. What inspired you to write it? It’s actually the second in a
series about four little girls, and each of the girls has her own favorite thing to do—one of them is a reader, like I was. I wanted to write a book about a little girl who loves to read and actually gets her little friends, who don’t, to enjoy reading. Your books “If You Give A Mouse A Cookie,” “If You Give A Pig A Pancake” and the like have become staples of many children’s libraries. Where did your inspiration come from? The inspiration came when I was antsy on a long, boring car trip. I came up with this vision in my head of a mouse nibbling on a cookie. I actually had the
Plus, This Month’s Highlights In Books, Music And DVDs BOOKS
Frankly, Frannie Written by A.J. Stern, Illustrated by Doreen Mulryan Marts This new series follows the life of a spunky, ambitious first grade girl. Desperate to grow up, Frannie is determined to one day have an office and a personal assistant—and tries to act grown-up “as oftenly as possible” in an attempt to realize her goal! (Available now; Grosset & Dunlap) MUSIC
Rock N’ Roll Playground Putumayo Kids puts a classic rock twist on
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familiar songs like “Row, Row, Row Your Boat” and “Oh Susanna.” Celebrate the CD’s release on June 19 at a performance by kiddie rock band StarFish (they’re featured on the album) at the Scholastic Auditorium! (Available June 15; Putumayo Kids)
Where in Brooklyn did you grow up, and what did you enjoy about your childhood there? I grew up about ten minutes from Sheepshead Bay in Flatbush, and I am so proud to have grown up in a borough that was so ethnically mixed. We used to roller skate in the street. My parents would take me into Manhattan to do all kinds of wonderful things, like go to all the great museums, the Statue of Liberty, Chinatown. For me it was a great place to grow up. Tell me about First Book, the program you’ve partnered with to promote children’s literacy. First Book is a non-profit that gives brand-new books to kids that would never have otherwise had them. They told me a story about a little boy who received a book from the program and said, “When do I have to give it back?” They’re just about to donate their 6 millionth book. Recently, First Book teamed up with the mattress manufacturer Sleepy’s to launch the reading campaign Sleepy’s Bedtime Stories. What’s that all about? It’s really important for parents to read to their children for 20 minutes each night. Studies have shown that doing so not only creates a wonderful bond between parents and children, but it also increases intelligence in school. Parents could go online and promise to read to their child, and then Sleepy’s donated money to First Book. So it was a winwin situation.
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One last question: Have you, in fact, ever given a mouse a cookie? Yes! It was in my house. I’m an animal lover, I wasn’t afraid of it. I didn’t have much in the house; I just had cookies, so I crumbled one! G www.newyorkfamily.com
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r. Jody Levine understands the busy lives of Manhattan parents better than most. A mom to four children ranging in age from 12 to two-and-a-half, she specializes in medical and surgical dermatology for children and adults as part of the Upper East Side practice Plastic Surgery & Dermatology of NYC, PLLC, where she works with her husband, plastic surgeon Dr. Elie Levine. After two years of working in separate practices, the doctors Levine found themselves referring patients back and forth on a regular basis. They realized that they could provide more efficient treatment by combining their respective expertise and offering complete skin care services for the whole family. “I think we can truly give patients what they need—the two specialties compliment each other in many ways,” says Dr. Jody Levine. Her interest in pediatric dermatology evolved from her initial training as a pediatrician. While working in the emergency room during her www.newyorkfamily.com
Together, HusbandAnd-Wife Doctors Elie And Jody Levine Offer Families A Holistic Approach To Skin Care BY ROBIN SAKS FRANKEL
pediatric training, she noticed that few were able to treat skin issues, and they often had to call a dermatologist for diagnosis. “I thought that understanding the skin was an amazing skill and I decided I wanted to specialize,” she says. As a mother and board certified pediatrician, Dr. Jody Levine has a special fondness for seeing families. “I love when I can show things to parents in front of their children—when it comes to sun safety, for example, it’s very helpful for children to see their parents do the same things they have to do, and to see that sun safety is in vogue,” she says. Her clientele is evenly split between children and adults. Parents seek her expertise in treating their children’s hemangiomas, port wine stains and acne as well as to “I think we can truly help manage their own skin care regimens. give patients what Whether it’s for birthmarks they need—the or breakouts, kids visiting Plastic two specialties Surgery & Dermatology of NYC, compliment each PLLC love having their own other in many ways,” televisions in each room, and harried parents appreciate the says Dr. Jody Levine. convenience. Instead of multiple visits between different offices to diagnose and then treat an issue, the process is streamlined, with both doctors in one place. “It’s a hassle to go to three appointments,” says Dr. Elie Levine. “I may be the best person to excise a skin lesion, but not the best person to make the diagnosis. Together we can give patients optimal care.” In fact, moms can even receive cosmetic services while their children are being treated for a skin issue. From basic skin checks to brow lifts, adult patients seeking any number of ways to maintain, improve or correct their appearance can find it all in one office. Plastic Surgery & Dermatology of NYC, PLLC even has their own accredited operating room on-site. The practice’s multi-faceted approach brings a clientele that spans the generations. “We’re treating a larger number of entire families—grandparents, parents and their children—for everything from skin cancer prevention to cosmetic treatments,” says Dr. Elie Levine. And, adds Dr. Jody Levine, having a dermatologist and an aesthetic surgeon available in the same office makes for satisfied families. “People love what we can do,” she says. Plastic Surgery & Dermatology of NYC, PLLC, 35A East 84th Street, 212-988-1800, plasticsandderm.com June 2010 | New York Family
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In Rhythm With Randy Randy Kaplan’s Quirky, Whimsical Repertoire Enchants Parents and Kids Alike
Randy Kaplan with his nephew, Sam.
By Brittany McNamara
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iven a typical CD of children’s music, many parents are ready to toss it, pull their hair out—or both—after just an hour or two. But roots rocker Randy Kaplan offers parents a welcome break from the monotony of so many children’s albums. Drawing inspiration from blues, folk, alternative and pop, Kaplan boasts a musical repertoire that adults will love as much their kids do. Between the records his father kept from the old record shop he owned and his mother’s expansive Elvis Presley collection, music was always a big part of Kaplan’s life. His Long Island childhood was influenced by rock, pop, folk and Broadway musicals. “My mother brought us to see [singer/ songwriter] Harry Chapin all the time—to the point where we would go backstage and talk with him,” Kaplan says. He began playing music at age 10, and by junior high, he had his own band. As a professional musician, Kaplan
had already produced several adult records when he agreed to play for a Beansprouts Nursery School class in Brooklyn at the request of his girlfriend. The teacher liked it so much she suggested he apply to teach music at the school. Kaplan auditioned, playing some of his old folk songs and changing the words to make it kid-friendly. “They hired me, and it turned out to be great; I totally loved it,” Kaplan says. From there, Kaplan’s children’s music career took off. His album “Loquat Rooftop” was included in National Public Radio’s list of Top Ten Children’s albums of 2008, and his music continues to be recognized by publications like New York Magazine and Time Out. As someone with experience in both adult and children’s music, Kaplan appreciates a key difference between the two genres. “Kids are so honest, and they’re so real and present that you have a more immediate link with your audience than with adults,” he says. He notes that music plays an integral role in children’s intellectual and emotional development; after all, kids often sing as they play. Many of Kaplan’s songs, like “Clothes Dryer,” are inspired by his life experiences. “I used to walk my ex-girlfriend’s son, Joe, to school every day, and right next door was this laundromat,” he says. “I would pretend to be sending him into the laundromat and I’d say, ‘You’re going to laundry school today, I’ll see you later!’” Other tunes were improvised while he was teaching classes at Beansprouts Nursery School, like “No Nothing”—a song about a cat named “Muffin,” a cat named “Nothing” and a Monkey named “Kqxhc.” Kaplan’s latest album, “The Kids Are All Id,” will be released this month, and should be a fresh dose of brassy, folksy fun for moms, dads and kids alike: “This album, even more than the other two, succeeds in speaking to both adults and children,” Kaplan says. For more info, visit randykaplan.com.
“Kids are so honest, and they’re so real and present…you have an immediate link with your audience.”
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Kaplan In Concert Randy Kaplan’s live shows are always full of fun surprises—in addition to playing original songs, he’s been known to spontaneously burst out in timeless Broadway numbers and Delta Blues tunes! Catch Kaplan at a free outdoor concert in Carroll Park on July 18. President Street and Smith Street, Carroll Gardens, Brooklyn. www.newyorkfamily.com
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AS HIS DAUGHTER STARTS TALKING, A DAD WAXES NOSTALGIC OVER THEIR BOND PRE-SPEECH BY DAVE HOLLANDER
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You see, up until now, until Lola started finding words, there were no words between us. There was just us. What we had was something no one can really tell you about until you get there. It’s a love that resides inside you; the love a parent has for a child that only manifests once there is a child to love. It’s a dormant emotion (Query: Is love an emotion, a state of mind, a state of being?) that alters your very essence. And it’s totally wordless, yet completely felt and completely understood between parent and child. That’s what Lola and I have been experiencing for the past 20 months. And we’ve been just fine. We’ve been indulging in a full range of non-syntactical fare: funny faces, the five S’s, touches, tears, tickles, colors, music, monosyllabic banter and basically everything else the world has to offer. We know each other well. It takes little but profound gestures to let each other know what we need, what we feel and that we love each other. And most of the time I watch her do whatever she’s doing and it leaves me speechless. This is not for long, I guess. But for now, I’m so good with it. G
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