January Issue by Baby Buzz Magazine

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Participating in the January reviews are:

Jo Johnson

Welcome I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and New Year and are ready to start the New Year! If you listen to the radio and the listeners who have already broken their New Year’s resolutions, it makes you stop and think that perhaps we should focus on issues that are more relevant to our day to day lives. As long as we remember the important people in our lives and treat people the way we would like to be treated then nothing else matters. So this year, do something that you wouldn’t normally do, go somewhere you wouldn’t normally go and learn something new. Teach your children, your friends, your parents, your loved one that with support anything is achievable. In this issue, one of the things we are looking at is community spirit and how, when everyone comes together, local businesses and people can thrive. Local high street shopping is fast dying out in favour of chain stores, but not everything locally costs a fortune. Also, buying gifts is, as we’ve discovered, fast becoming a thing of the past when you can so easily, and often more cheaply, make it yourself whilst having a huge amount of fun (see our Get Creative feature on page 15 & 16 ). We have also included our regular feature “Parents in Business” who are located all over the UK, so why not visit their websites and see just how they’ve made their mark in the business world. Maybe it will give you an idea on possible career changes for 2013 (if so, drop us a line and, who knows, maybe we can feature you in upcoming issues).

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Let me finish by wishing you all a Prosperous and Happy New Year and I hope it is everything you want it to be…

Nickie Caroline Hawkins

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Parents in Business - Inspirational stories Love Your Doorstep - Bringing a community together Back to Basics - Traditional Toys Organix - The importance of eating properly Mr Mum - Trials and Tribulations

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Getting the right work / mum life balance Putting Safety First Breastfeeding and the workplace Family finances: Working Parents: Look beyond your salary

18 Travel, safety & accessories reviews 19 Product reviews 20 Fun winter clothes for your little one 21 Maternity Essentials

A special thanks to everyone who contributed over the Christmas and New Year break, your help was truly appreciated.

26 Creation Station - All the fun, none of the mess! 27 Love 13 - Classes to take - gifts to make 31 Organix - Yummy delights to tempt your children Brother Max Scoop High Chair Aden & Anais - Colour Block Sleeping Bags Custard & Crumble Welcome Home Gift Box 2 x Halo & Horns Gift Baskets

new beginnings

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Susan Ada Catherine McShane Born 24/12/12 7lb 8oz Congratulations to parents Michael and Angela

Amber Rose Vaughan Born 15/12/12 7lb 1oz Congratulations to parents Alexandra and Chris

Christopher John Haralambous Born 31/12/12 9lbs 3oz Congratulations to parents John & Vania

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Valentine’s Day By Evans On Earth

Bring the nature in this Valentine’s Day and surprise someone with plants that will last. All of our gifts are arranged by hand, with love in mind. Valentine's Day is a time to show love and appreciation to those closest to us – sweethearts, parents, siblings and friends. Flowers are a popular way to spread Valentine joy. Their vibrant cheer is especially appreciated now, in the middle of winter. We have tried to think outside the pot. See our collection of planted pots and miniature gardens at www.evansonearth.co.uk To place your order email us at gardens@evansonearth.co.uk or call us on 07535 667 844. 5

Parents in Business In this issue, we have met with more fantastic people who have launched their own businesses and the secrets to their success. Check out some of the amazing products and services they have on offer.

Inspirational Stories

Who is behind QuackQuackMoo? It was started by me, Leanne Curtis-Cobb, after having my two boys. How did the company get started? After becoming a mum, and with a fashion background, I was frustrated and at my wits end with the lack of good quality, practical clothing and accessories available on the market, so I simply decided to design and make my own for friends and family whilst selling at craft fairs, and it all went from there. What is the company about? The company is based around putting the FUN back into FUNctional. Everything QuackQuackMoo produces has a practical element that makes lives easier for parents, as well as making little ones more comfortable and providing beautifully manufactured and amazing super soft fabrics in all of our designs. What do you hope to achieve? I have a whole hoard of products that I have designed and that are in the pipeline for manufacture. Over the coming months we hope to have all of these available both in-store and on-line. What has been the highlight of starting your own company? The highlight has got to be the positive reaction from parents, the awards we have been nominated for and won and the amazing emails of gratitude we get from parents. It is so nice to hear how much people are loving the quality and the design of our items. What has been the downside to starting your own company? Starting QuackQuackMoo has been hard, really hard. Sometimes a nightmare - mainly when the children are ill and I am trying to juggle being a mum, a wife and a business woman. For the first few months, I wasn't sure I could carry on and that was my darkest moment. But I just had to re-jig my life and work out a routine that works. What would your advice be to any parent wanting to start up their own business? Research, research and more research. Know your audience, know your retail outlets. Make sure you are 100% with who your competitors are and where you sit in the market. Planning is key to anything before jumping in with both feet, but when you do, give it everything you've got.

For more information, please contact: Tel: 020 8777 3226 Email: info@quackquackmooclothing.com Website: www.quackquackmooclothing.com

Parents in Business Who is behind Captain Tortue? Captain Tortue was founded in 2003 by Philippe and Lillian Jacquelinet, a married couple from Aix en Provence, who have a passion for fashion and vision of how they wanted to bring that to the marketplace. How did the company get started? Phillipe and Lillian initially met in Mauritius whilst both on business. They were given the Captain Tortue brand name as a wedding present by Philippe's best man and set about creating the company we now know as Captain Torture, using Philippe's knowledge and contacts in the business and Lillian's skill with textiles. Both Philippe and Lillian are still very much involved in the design of the clothes and day to day running of the business which now operates in Eight countries in Europe including the UK and Ireland. What is the company about? Captain Tortue is the leading direct fashion sales company in the UK and in contrast to struggling high street retailers our sales are increasing year on year. It's a French success story now happening in the UK. The Captain Tortue Group now sells three ranges, Captain Tortue Children's clothing, and two ladies clothing ranges, Miss Captain for the more casual, and Lady Captain for the more chic. Captain Tortue designs are not available on the high street nor on-line and are for sale exclusively through our trained independent consultants who are based from home and are happy to help you shop for what best suits you . What do you hope to achieve? I started this over 7 years ago and now am an Executive Manager of a team of 16 ladies. I'm looking for ladies to do what I did. You don't need any experience in sales or fashion and you will be fully trained and mentored. I have two young children and I found a way of juggling work and looking after my kids which really works for me and could work for other mums. Being able to plan your life and not miss the very special moments like school plays is fantastic and that fact that you work in such a sociable environment was a great attraction for me, meeting new people all the time.

What has been the highlight of starting your own company? Working for myself has given me a great sense of self belief and self worth. Loving fashion as I do and the fact that I have a fantastic ready-made wardrobe every season is a great bonus. Seeing the effect that my enthusiasm for the clothes I sell and wear has on my customers is a great feeling and is very effective when it comes to sales. I must say that I've build some very good relationships and friendships with many of my customers who come back season after season which is very satisfying. What has been the downside of starting your own company? Running my own business has meant that I've had to learn to be organised when it comes to paperwork and administration in general but the Captain Tortue head office is very helpful and always there at the end of the phone to help. What would your advice be to any parent wanting to start up their own business? I would certainly advise someone wanting to start their own business to find something that you're passionate about. It makes it a whole lot easier and more enjoyable. For me it's fashion and my passion helps drive me on to go that extra step for my customers when they have returns or have any issues. Also don't underestimate how much you need to put into a business to make it successful. You get out what you put in so doing something that holds your interest and suits your lifestyle will certainly help here. We are recruiting for new consultants all over the UK now, so if you fancy a new challenge, to earn some money and to get some free clothes then get in touch, please quote ref. baby buzz. Tel. 01403 754040 or www.captaintortuegroup.com.

Parents in Business Who is behind the company? It was started by my father in 1971 and I, Eloise Lloyd, took over the reigns in 2010. How did the company get started? It was started when my mother was pregnant with me after 3 months of marriage. My Dad had been sacked from his job and so he decided to start up on his own and then just never looked back. All members of my family current and past have been involved, so it is a real family business. What is the company about? EDES is a family run business established in 1971 selling a range of electrical products. We have three shops based in Essex, located in Billericay, Wickford and Leigh-on-Sea, selling a range of lamps, wiring accessories, small domestic appliances, lighting, vacuum cleaner bags, spares and batteries. Five years ago we expanded our product range in our Leigh on Sea store selling baking and cookware products from leading brands including Joseph Joseph, Masterclass, Silverwood, Tala, Kenwood, Delonghi, Dualit, Russell Hobbs and many others. Modern day mothers have to juggle work, home and children. You may not be an expert in the kitchen but enjoy having dinner parties, cooking on special family occasions or having fun baking with the children. If you visit our store you will meet our team of friendly and knowledgeable staff who can help you with whatever you are looking for, however, vague the description. If we don't know, we will find out and if we don't stock it, we can always get it for you. What do you hope to achieve? We want to become a recognised brand that ‘modern day yummy mummys / grand mummys’ will purchase from, for anything they need for the kitchen. They do not have to be experts in the kitchen (like is the case with many cookshops). They can browse the site or if they cannot find what they are looking for, they can always contact us. What has been the highlight of starting your own company? It is hardwork but everyday has a different challenge and it is so much more rewarding than working for someone else. What has been the downside of starting your own company? It has tested the relationship with my husband as it has been tiring and sometimes stressful, especially when starting this with a 6 month old baby and we do not have family local to help us but if it had not been for his belief and support I would not have gone this far. What would your advice be to any parent wanting to start up their own business? Go for it! Don’t ever give up because you will regret more what you did not do rather than what you did do.

For more information, please contact Eloise Lloyd at: Telephone: 0844 826 1339 08 Email: customerservices@edeshomewares.co.uk Website: www.edeshomewares.co.uk 8

Parents in Business Who is behind the company? Myself Kelly Hart, and my mum Jacqui. How did the company get started? I started the company in December 2010 having worked as a small business consultant at notonthehighstreet.com. It seemed a waste not to use my expertise. I was working full time at a homeless shelter and would come home and wrap and pack parcels late into the night. By March 2011 it became clear that the I needed help so I called on my mum. What is the company about? I source gifts and homewares, some of which can be found in the Laines in Brighton. We also use Brighton illustrators and designers to create bespoke pieces. What do you hope to achieve? This year we are focusing on the developing and further marketing of our website and to continue growing the business until I can give up my day job and work on it full-time. What has been the highlight of starting your own company? Sourcing new and innovative products, meeting customers (I personally deliver gifts locally to customers), knowing that working really hard will grow the business and that we will benefit. What has been the downside of starting your own company? Working full time and running my own business is tiring. Only in the last couple of months have we hired two members of staff to help with the Christmas orders. What would your advice be to any parent wanting to start up their own business? Believe in your idea and go for it. It will be hard work but the rewards are there. Look at Holly Tucker and Sophie Cornish of notonthehighstreet.com, we did.

For further information, please contact: Email: hello@allthingsbrightonbeautiful.co.uk Website: www.allthingsbrightonbeautiful.co.uk

Parents in Business GLITTERTASTICS Who is behind the company? Myself Chloe, 27 year old a mum of 3 small children. How did the company get started? My children’s school asked if some parents would like to help raise money for the school by running a face painting stall and i volunteered i enjoyed it so much i brought my self a kit and started practicing on friends and families then did some courses and started face painting at fairs festivals and fetes progressing on to parties. What is the company about? Glittertastics is about spreading colour , sparkle , happiness and laughter throughout the world to children and adults of all ages. It’s about making a difference and making people smile. What do you hope to achieve? I hope to achieve to be a recommended household name worldwide and spread as much colour, sparkle and art as possible to as many people as I can. What has been the highlight of starting your own company? There has been a few! One of them was face painting for a lady who had just received an honour by the Queen, face painting for Chicco Salim’s (from X-factor) daughter’s birthday party, and winning paintiopia body painting festival apprentice 2012. I had never body painted before, it was my first time and I had only been face painting for one year at that time. Raising over £2000 with Barclays Bank for Macmillan this year. There is a great sense of achievement watching your little hobby turn into an idea which then turns into your very own business, watching it grow and expand into something big and new. I’ve also met some wonderful people along my journey. What has been the downside of starting your own company? It is very hard to set up your own business especially when you are a mum. A lot of time is consumed, losing precious family time. What would your advice be to any parent wanting to start up their own business? My advice would be that any dream is possible and nothing is to high! Aim high, keep trying and do your research! What is it that you want to do? Make sure you believe in what you are doing and having friends and family support you really is amazing . I would like to thank my friends and family who have supported me along the way, but especially my partner Duane, you helped me make Glittertastics happen xx

For more information, please contact Chloe at: Email: glittertastics@hotmail.co.uk

Parents in Business Who is behind Heidi Products? The people behind Heidi Products are me Thomas Rafferty and my two investors Paul and Nick. I'm currently a construction worker full-time as well as Managing Director. Paul is also in construction and Nick has his own tool making business. How did the company get started? It all started with me forgetting how many scoops of formula I'd put in the bottle. I looked for something on the market but couldn't find anything. I decided it would be simple enough to solve, so after a few designs I came up with the idea of the SCOOPMATE. What is the company about? I named the company after my daughter Heidi. As a company it is still in its infancy, but we aim to create practical products for people to use in their everyday lives. We have a few ideas to follow up with once the Scoopmate is established. What do you hope to achieve? I hope to achieve a better life for myself and my family by creating as many passive incomes as I can. Doing this will hopefully allow me to spend more time with my family which will in turn provide me with inspiration to create more products/business ideas. What has been the highlight of starting your own company? The highlight of starting Heidi products has to be the sense of achievement of seeing the final product. We have received great reviews and feedback from many people which makes me personally very proud, as most of the work has been done in a brew cabin on a building site or in the van. What has been the downside of starting your own company? The downside isâ&#x20AC;Ś If you ask my wife and children and probably my boss they would say that I'm always busy making calls (during the day) or sending e-mails (at night). In my mind I'm doing this for them. The kids get to see that with hard work you can achieve anything you want, and my wife can see that I have ambition and belief in myself. As for the boss, I think he thinks I'm a bit bonkers, but understands that I'm ambitious. For me there is no downside, just lessons to be learnt. What would your advice be to any parent wanting to start up their own business? My advice to anyone starting in business is to RESEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH. The more you know about something the easier you will find it. If you know how things work you can PLAN and put into ACTION the right steps to achieve your goal. Never under estimate how hard you have to work and if itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s something you are passionate about, it becomes ten times easier. Oh yeah, and enjoy it. Its a great way to meet some great people, so why not go for it.

For further information,please contact: Email: sales@heidiproducts.co.uk Website: www.heidiproducts.co.uk 11

family affairs

GETTING THE RIGHT by Sally Overhead

WORK / MUM LIFE BALANCE

If you’ve recently had a baby and are enjoying those precious few months of being a mother, work will be the last thing on your mind. The idea of leaving your new baby behind and re-joining the adult world of work can be a daunting prospect. Sadly due to the massive cost of childcare in the UK and many employers’ inability to see the benefits flexible working can offer them, many women find themselves with no choice but to either go back to work full-time or give up work altogether. Finding the right work/mum life balance is the holy grail many mums are constantly seeking!

Plan a career change? Many women find that becoming a mother is the catalyst they need to make a career change. Some get involved in a franchise, set up their own business from scratch, work from home direct selling or write a novel! You might find that now you’re a mother your current career path doesn’t feel right and you want to explore a change. It’s a good time to reassess things to fit in with your new family, so go for it!

Get ready for work You may not want to face it now, but if you know you will definitely be going back to your job, it’s a good idea to think about how you want it to work as early as you can. That way, Getting some Me-Time you have plenty of time to reach an unrushed arrangement with Finding the right balance between your employer that you’re both happy with. being a mum and remembering who Set aside some uninterrupted time to sit down with your part- you were before you took that giant ner and discuss your routine, what your childcare options are leap is something most of us struggle and if you are thinking of applying for flexible working; what with. Of course you love being a would work best for you. It can take some time to find childcare mum but it’s so important to squeeze that you’re happy with, sometimes there’s a waiting list and you time for yourself and your partner into your busy life too. Book also need to factor in settling in days for you and your child. Be in a regular date night for you both, make a date with yourself prepared well in advance then there’s no need to panic that for some quality me-time involving a bubble bath and a pedicure or get into bed early with a book and a glass of wine. Getting you’re running out of time! adult time with other mums is so important too; sharing your Here are a few things to consider before speaking to your teething problems/tantrums/weaning issues and fussy eating employer: dilemmas can really take a weight off your shoulders and leave you rejuvenated to face it all the next day! - Why you’re working: is it for financial reasons, do you love working and know it will make you a happier mum- If you haven’t worked for a while, we know how this can knock my or do you just feel like you should go back? Assessing your confidence, so for more on these subjects, great blogs, lively what role work plays in your life might help you decide forums, back to work support and flexible, part time jobs visit us at www.mojomums.co.uk what to do, where and for how many days a week. -

What responsibilities/activities do you currently have outside of work? Can you still do these things as well as work? Do these things need to be done, can they be done by someone else?

How much do you actually need to earn? Get a figure you and your partner are happy with down on paper and that way you can work out what your options are if you’re going to speak to your employer about flexible working.

Sally Overhead, founder of Mojomums, is passionate about flexible working for mums and has 5 children (including triplets!) under the age of 7.

What are your childcare options? You’ll also need to deduct the cost of childcare from your monthly wage if

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you’re not lucky enough to have family around to help out. Don’t forget to factor in Childcare Vouchers which can save you around £1000 a year by allowing you to contribute to your childcare costs from your pre-tax salary. Discuss with your employer if they have an existing arrangement and make sure your partner does too.

your local community

by Nickie Evans

hristmas Spirit has hit us all in abundance with plenty of goodwill and festivities all around but did you know that sometimes, all you have to do is look a little closer to home to find your own piece of goodwill right on your doorstep, something that lasts all year round...

I came across Love Your Doorstop purely by accident after visiting my first ever Baby Show at Earls Court. I happened to start talking to a lovely lady who, we discovered after getting carried away in conversation, lived quite close to me in Enfield. I hadn’t even contemplated joining a Facebook Group let alone a local community but whatever prompted me to take the plunge, I am extremely thankful that I did. I’m not trying to sell you anything or tell you how to make the world a better place but if all it took were an idea, design or concept to bring a community together wouldn’t it be worth it…

Emma Rigby Founder of Love Your DoorStep

So who is behind Love Your Doorstep? New Zealand born, wife and mum of 2, Emma Rigby. Having worked in the City for 9 years, Emma always had aspirations of owning her own business. It was as a result of the riots that affected so many of our towns, that Emma came up with the concept of working with the community and local business owners to help promote their businesses and encourage a developed more supported network. Shopping locally seemed to be dying a death in the UK, the economy was in a state of doom with the recession, neighbours had stopped talking and this just became more of an emphasis after the riots. It was the perfect time to launch Love Your DoorStep to try and bring the community back together.

So what is the concept behind Love Your Doorstep? It not only encourages folks to work as a team and build stronger community links and support systems, but it has become the perfect platform for actually bringing together businesses and individuals with a vested interest in supporting each other through job opportunities, charitable causes, networking, business referrals and genuine recommendations. Naturally, these kind of introductions result in more business for those involved, which means money back into the local economy and a deepened sense of community spirit. Love Your DoorStep is an exciting and rapidly growing on and off-line community in Enfield and is rapidly expanding into several other areas of London. Originally set up as a Facebook group, it has evolved into a dynamic new website, created with the intention of allowing more and more local people to have access to all the wonderful things the borough has to offer, with a constant flow of exciting and valuable information, accessible all from one place. Don’t get the wrong idea, it's so much more than just a place to catch up with friends, it’s also a place where local business owners can share information on products and services, offering each other spontaneous help and support.

Emma shares her reasons and inspiration for developing the site adding "When I married my husband, who grew up in this area, it naturally become my home away from home and I knew that this was where we’d raise our children. Neither of us could quite believe it when the riots happened, right here on our doorstep. I had this desperate desire to re-instate some community spirit that just seemed lost, due to our busy lives and damaged images that the riots had induced.”

Local events and networking have never been so well supported and attended because now people are starting to communicate and feel part of something again. What makes Love Your DoorStep so special and unique? Well, that’s the ‘real time’ aspect at which people are able to communicate. The contiguity and convenience that social media has prompted is exactly what Love Your DoorStep fulfils – that need to meet and share ideas from the comfort of your own home - and the strong sense of community that relaxed and informal communication like this naturally brings about. Love Your DoorStep is all about raising awareness and prompts us all to discuss important issues in the area we live in, it’s getting people to talk in a way they’ve never done before.

your local community

Ruby blu is a beautiful vintage style shop offering funky retro gifts, children’s clothes, toys, jewellery, cards, home products, fragrances, books, bags and much more. Gifts for all, or a treat just for you…a shop with soul.

Join in the community spirit for 2013… So what are the benefits of joining Love Your Doorstep:

● We are an interactive directory, we use social media platforms and our website to hand out local products and services direct to the consumers in our local areas. ● We are a community of like minded business owners and residents who want to make Enfield better. ● We aren't just about an online presence, you can also build real friendships and get involved with support networks that have been created via Love Your DoorStep.

FOR FURTHER INFORMATION, PLEASE CONTACT: www.loveyourdoorstep.co.uk Twitter: @loveurdoorstep Email: Emma@loveyourdoorstep Please contact us if you would like the opportunity to set up this exciting venture on your DoorStep

safety awareness

Putting Safety First… by Nickie Evans

When I found out I was pregnant, my first thoughts were probably like most mums-to-be, in that I couldn’t wait to start buying all the “essentials” and admittedly the “not so essential” items. Whether it was the travel system, the cot or the steriliser there was always a never ending list of things I really had to get. Safeguarding my home didn’t really cross my mind with the exception of a stair gate once the little one had started walking. Even that turned into a joke when we realised that the stair gate didn’t fix to the wall properly and promptly fell off (on more than one occasion I have to add!). We’ve all read about companies who promise to “help you” safely prepare your home for your inquisitive child, sadly most are after the commission and just how many products they can sell you that you really don’t need. As is often the case, you stumble across a company or an individual purely by chance and this is what happened to me when I met Chris from Baby Safe Homes at the Baby Show, Earls Court in October of last year. Chris is different to most people you will meet when it comes to talking about his business. He is thoroughly committed and passionate in doing what is right for you as a family. There is no forced

sales pitch telling you what you have to get and how you must cover every tiny inch of your home. Don’t get me wrong, Chris has a genuine interest, but that genuine interest is safeguarding your most precious possessions, your children and their safety. He will recommend everything he honestly believes you should get. You are under no obligation to purchase everything or indeed anything, you can simply choose the items that best fit your requirements and Chris will endeavour to have everything installed immediately. If I had known then what I know now about how much of a daredevil my little one would be, I would have taken the time to look for someone like Chris to lead me in the right direction. If you look at the statistics about how many household accidents are caused by such simple occurrences in the home involving children, you would certainly take the time and heed his advice. After all, what have you got to lose? If you would like more information, please do contact Chris on the following: Email: info@babysafehomes.co.uk Tel: 0207 559 1491 Website: www.babysafehomes.co.uk

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travel, safety & accessories reviews

How easy was it to install? The instructions were very clear and we found it simple and quick to install.

Is it easy to handle / use? Like a dream! The manoeuvrability of the Joolz is amazingly smooth, turns are completely natural and at no point do you feel like you are pushing a heavy travel system.

What car seat is the Joolz Day system compatible with? Maxi Cosi Cabrio(Fix), Maxi-Cosi Pebble, Cybex Aton and BeSafe car seats fit on the Joolz Day with the use of an adapter set. Is it cost effective? It’s not the cheapest pushchair on the market. Ultimately you pay for what you get but what you get is worth every penny! How easy was it to put the Joolz Day together? As I was taking it out of the box, I became a little bit worried putting all the bits together but even with no instructions it took a matter of minutes to assemble. How practical is it? Collapsing the travel system is extremely straight forward and easy to adjust. The system is the ultimate in comfort and you can instantly sense how at ease your child is once they are using it. Will the system fit into the boot of a standard family car? Yes it does fit, admittedly there isn’t space for anything else. What age is it suitable from? Birth and upwards if you purchase the carry cot and the car seat. Does it face forward as well as rearward? Yes, all pieces are dual facing.

Is it easy to handle / use? Very much so. It has a very quick and easy opening and closing mechanism. What is it made from? The textiles closest to the child have been tested and approved in accordance with Oeko-Tex Standard 100, class 1 for baby products. These are guaranteed harmless to children’s sensitive skin and will not trigger allergies. Is it easy to put together? It’s pretty much self assembled, and everything just clicks into place. With a few clicks into place and attaching the strings from the material to the legs, the whole assembly takes just a few moments. What age is it suitable from? The BabyBjorn Light can be used for newborns and up until around the age of three. How practical is it? The Travel Cot comes in a carrying case, which with it’s practical handles makes it as easy to carry as an ordinary bag. Benefits: The travel cot is designed to take up minimal space, this coupled with the sturdy mattress keeps the travel cot firmly on the floor. The cot’s inward sloping sides create a snug and cosy environment. Sleeping away from home with small children has never been easier.

What age is it suitable from? 4-12 years. The seat fully adjusts to grow with your child. Does it have a reclining function? There is no reclining function. We found this to be a problem as the side impact head supports did not allow our five year old son to sleep comfortably in the upright position. The Kiddy Shock Absorber absorbs braking energy to minimise the impact on the child. Our son said the seat was comfortable and only complained when trying to sleep. However, the specific side protection components causing the problem were designed to protect the head and shoulder region in case of a side collision. Hard to argue with an obvious safety feature. How practical are the covers? The covers can be removed and washed on a gentle cycle. Comments: The seat has more side impact safety features than others we have used or seen. However, it should be mentioned that sleeping comfort may have to be sacrificed for safety, and the seat is designed for older (4-12 years) children. Would you recommend it to a friend? Yes, with the above caveats. Price is reasonable when compared to similar seats on the market.

tried & tested

Wallaboo was created in 2006 as a gift for a newborn baby. Cut by hand and sewn, the first product created was a warm suede blanket. Handcraftmanship is something Wallaboo hold dear to their hearts. For over five years the authentic products have been spreading around the globe! These are the products that we tried and this is what we thought.

Newborn Car Set Footmuff The first reaction is just how soft this is and how you just know your baby is going to be content and warm snuggled within. Their are sufficient holes to adjust the straps as your child grows. Prices start from £37.99 (www.babycurls.co.uk) Pushchair Footmuff Just because your baby has outgrown the car seat doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice the comfort you had with the Newborn Footmuff. The pushchair Footmuff has multiple functions and converts into a seat liner for use in warmer weather, elasticised at the back helps secure it in position and it adapts to most harness systems. Prices start from £69.99 (www.boohoobaby.co.uk)

Last month we were given a didicar original and the latest in the didicar range, the Walk n Ride. We tried out the Walk n Ride with an active 18 month old and this is what we found. What is the age bracket? The Walk N Ride is designed for children from 12 months to approximately 3 years old, so its a great option for little ones who want to have a go at scooting about whilst having a little seat to enhance their stability.

Is the Yoomi easy to assemble? Very straight forward as in a regular bottle, the only difference is the heating element which sits in the teat. How easy is the Yoomi to warm up? Simply pop the heating element into the pod and put into the microwave for approximately 2 minutes (depends on the power of your microwave).

How easy is it to assemble? It took less than a minute to put together and it comes with a whole array of decal stickers to dress it up should you wish to do so, certainly fun for the older toddler who likes being arty.

Is it practical? If like me you have a fussy child who refuses to drink cold milk, then this is essential, even if its just cold outside and you want your child to have a warm drink this covers all bases.

Is it easy to use? My baby managed to figure it out immediately and was rolling about within a matter of moments!

Is it easy to clean? As in a regular baby bottle the parts all very simply come apart and you would sterilise as normal.

How practical is it? It has no breaks or way to stop other than using your feet. I wouldn’t recommend allowing a younger child to go too far away from you as they may not be able to stop on their own. If the Walk n Ride is being used at home then its absolutely brilliant.

Would you recommend it to a friend? Absolutely. It’s a great product to have, although perhaps a little pricey. If your child demands a warm feed whilst you are out and about, then this is a must!

Is it good value for money? Fantastic - with a large amount of scooters available on the market, this is the cheapest one we’ve found so far at a now reduced price of £31.95! Make sure if you do decide to buy it that you buy an authentic one as there are many counterfeit ones on the market. Would you recommend it? Absolutely, it’s great value for money and a definite hit with my little one!

There is also a matching bag available with prices starting from £39.99.

If you have a young child who is bottle fed and you go out to eat or to a cafe, more often than not the establishment will refuse to provide you with hot water due to health and safety reasons. We came across Yoomi at The Baby Show, Earls Court and loved the product instantly. We thought we would trial it with some of our Focus Group Mums.

“The instructions are quite easy and it was nice to have the option of having a warm bottle for the baby whilst out and about..”

“I struggled with dismantling it and trying to use it from the outset, I didn’t feel to confident in feeding my son with it.” “I’d heard about these and had always wanted to give one a try. I did find it a bit awkward at first and it takes some getting used to but in general its nice to be able to give my child a warm drink when its cold outside..”

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Maternity Essentials

Sarah, (Mummy to Eva, 4 months) We were extremely lucky to be sent a selection of clothing items for both maternity wear and breastfeeding, each designed for a variety of occasions. We had two of our focus group try out the products, one of whom is 7½ months pregnant and the other is a mummy to Alisa (6 months). Rachel, (Mummy to Alisa, 6 months)

Emily, (7 months pregnant)

What were your initial impressions? Loved the style and designs of the clothing,

What were your initial impressions? The material was very soft but looked like it would 'hug' in all the wrong places, I wouldn't normally wear something that looked so tight but when I put it on it fit like a glove and I loved it - it was really comfortable too.

Did you find them within the current fashion trend? Yes, seemed very in keeping with the latest styles. Did they feel comfortable? Unfortunately the tunic style dress seemed very tight fitting even though it was an XL and so it showed every lump and bump. The cropped t-shirt also felt a little restrictive on me but worked for another member of our NCT group who was a different build to me. Were there any negative aspects to the items of clothing given? I don’t feel they really suited my shape but everyone else seemed very keen on the cut and styles and were impressed. Would you purchase these products if you found them on the high street? I would have to try them on to make sure they fitted my body type but they were a success with other mums within the NCT group.

Buzz Rating: 3.5/5

Did you find them within the current fashion trend? Definitely on trend it's like a body con dress for pregnant women! Did they feel comfortable? So comfortable, in fact I'd go as far as to say the most comfy dress I've ever worn. Were there any negative aspects to the items of clothing given? The black dress was far too big whereas the blue dress was perfectperhaps the sizing needs to be adjusted a little. The blue dress, I loved and have no negative comments at all! Would you purchase these products if you found them on the high street? I would definitely buy it and well worth the money - I've had a zillion comments on it every time I've worn it, it's perfect and makes you feel so good when wearing it.

Buzz Rating: 5/5

What were your initial impressions? Love the concept, something different to what is currently available. Did you find them within the current fashion trend? Yes, with the black basic dress you can alternate to suit your needs. Did they feel comfortable? Extremely comfortable. I struggled at first with getting used to the buttons but once you get the hang of how it works it becomes almost second nature. I found it easier to keep the top buttons done up permanently and to just undo the buttons down either side as and when required. Were there any negative aspects to the items of clothing given? Not sure if there are enough colour varieties to choose overall but if you get all of the bibs then you have a staple wardrobe selection instantly. Would you purchase these products if you found them on the high street? I would be a little hesitate only due to the price. They certainly aren’t the cheapest breastfeeding wear available so the price would need to be looked at perhaps. Quality and style were excellent and I would still recommend it to my expecting friends.

Buzz Rating: 4/5 21

a step back in time

By Nickie Evans & Lisa Bryant of Bump PR

In the first issue of Baby Buzz Magazine, we discovered how toy companies, retailers and individuals are reverting back to the old school more traditional toys and whilst we were keen to showcase some of the products on offer, we were also keen to learn why this was happening. We learnt through BUMP PR that this was just the tip of the iceberg and that in fact a serious amount of awareness was being raised to the presence of battery operated plastic toys that in fact distract children with countless, almost pointless, functions and thus the move away from traditional toys. It is the disappearance of the educational abacus, the beautifully crafted wooden toy and the much loved dolls house that encourages creativity and imagination and is very much the issue at the heart of this resurgence. In October of last year the Slow Toy Movement and its awards aimed to recognise the ‘real toys’ on the market, real in the sense that they are well made, inspire the mind and provide children with far more than just noise and flashing lights commonly associated with the toys of today. I am not disillusioned that there are electrical, battery operated toys that can provide a fun, educational aspect, but over the years these have all but replaced the traditional toys that bring so much entertainment, creativity and enjoyment to our children. Surely there must be a happy medium? We have tried and tested some of the latest toys that have hit the market but there are also an amazing array of creative play toys that are about to be released. One of the most innovative brands to hit the UK market is Seedling. Seedling products are imagined, designed and created in New Zealand, encompassing a variety of interests and skills from drawing, gardening, sewing, science, imaginative play, painting, model building and plenty more. With their old-fashioned edge, Seedling products also encourage kids to spend quality time with their parents, learning important communication and relationship building skills. There are Seedling products to appeal to a range of ages from young to old… You can purchase Seedling products from the following retailers: Selfridges, Heels, Liberties or www.kindtoys.co.uk

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your comments & views

How has having children changed your life?

What one thing did you wish you had been told when you were pregnant?

In every way. How I spend my money! I used to look after myself more whether it was going to the gym, getting my nails done, new clothes etc.. Nowadays these are last on my list. I changed my work to ensure I could work from home. I don’t wear designer clothes and I’ve not had a holiday in 5 years! Mum Eve and sons Raphael and Kaiden

After having my daughter, I decided not to go back to work. I was a deputy manager of a nursery school so decided not to return after my maternity leave this completely changed by lifestyle! I was never a party animal (don’t drink or smoke) so in that sense my lifestyle hasn’t changed. However, we no longer go to the cinema etc and our daily routine is now going to different child groups and keeping Lily-Bea entertained!!

That times of feeding are from start of one to the beginning of the next as opposed to inbetween feeds!

To ignore all the "advice" and do what felt right, and I'm including midwives and health visitors in that! Emily Crabtree

Jo Johnson

Why low anabolic fluids occur and how concerns with the baby, that they found out late on in pregnancy, scared me.

I wish I’d been informed more about pre eclampsia and the risks. Oh, that I would be permanently tired and that the baby weight doesn't just fall off!

Mary Tryphona

Agree with the midwives/health visitors. Agree with the weight loss! Also the feeding! That's so true it made me giggle!! More about breast feeding. And I suppose also not to listen to other parents too who preach about breast feeding/natural births etc etc when at an emotional time anyway it may not be natures way for some and can be very upsetting and feel nasty! As long as you are doing your best and the child is thriving and happy why do we have to try and have the perfect birth and breast feed and have a routine immediately?

Mum Jo and daughter Lily-Bea

We used to go out as a couple much more, but this has changed now as we tend to go out more individually. This is a choice that we have made so as not to leave Zoe with people that don’t know her well. I don’t have as much time to do all my craft things but instead have now started to involve Zoe in them more.

Danielle Panteli

Had it not been for the number of twins coming to chat at the ante natal about what its really like to have twins we would have been none the wiser how much hard work baby twins are and how different each baby was to each other. Also to not feel guilty that I physically couldn't breast feed even though I expressed for 6 weeks Rakhee Shah

Mum Lisa and daughter Zoe Danielle Down

Kathryn O’Shea Duffy

The hospital really annoyed me re Breast feeding. They were all breast is best healthy child etc but when showing you they don't have a clue! I fed all mine but only because I was lazy and couldn't keep cleaning bottles!! But you really should not feel guilty. Happy baby is most important and sometimes its a relief to hand baby over to be fed by someone else.

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get creative

Get Creative

Each month we endeavour to find something creative that you can get up to with your children or perhaps something you want to do just for you! There are so many fantastic creative places out there which don’t cost the earth and are rewarding in so many ways. In the January issue we have joined with The Creative Station and Love 13. Full details can also be found on our website: www.babybuzzmagazine.com/GetCreative.

Your View There are many parents who, like me, absolutely hate mess! Yes I know, I have children and subsequently I have learnt to live with messy play - doesn’t mean I have to like it! I was introduced to Jo who owns the Enfield Creation Station franchise and it was if someone had walked over to me and given me a freedom pass to keeping a (relatively) clean and tidy home! So what is The Creation Station all about? Very simply Jo runs a variety of classes that vary in theme each week with materials and pretty much everything you need provided for. On the day that we attended we were making wooden spoon people, which to the delight of my 20 month old daughter involved sticking, painting, colouring and getting very messy indeed. Thankfully at the start of the session each child is provided with an all-in-one red or blue jumpsuit for the duration of the class which protects all clothing. Sadly, this is not provided to the adults and I came out covered in more paint than was on the paper, but after such a fun session, I could deal with that. How the Weekly Sessions and Holiday Activities Work • Sessions cost £7.50 per child and £4.00 per sibling thereafter. • Classes last from 50 minutes. • Child minders receive 50% discount on all children (except the first).

“My 18 month old daughter and I have been attending Creation Station ever since she was old enough to be a Little Explorer, and we absolutely love it! She is so excited by the Magic Box and joining in with the special Creation Station chant while wriggling her fingers to make the magic work and find out what clues are inside the box. The lovely thing about Creation Station is that the children have complete creative control over how they go about their arts and crafts and they are free to select their own materials from the wide variety on offer! If you are a parent who is brave enough to attempt arts and crafts at home, the session also gives you simple but effective ideas for things to make! At the end of the session the children love rushing back to the circle for show and tell, and having photos taken of their finished masterpieces. My daughter loves getting the special creative kids stamp on both hands before leaving the session! Oh and one of the things I love? All of the mess if left behind for someone else to clear away!”

Top Tip: Never wipe glitter up with a wet cloth - it will stick like glue. Try sweeping it with a clean brush on to a piece of paper and either straight into the bin, or back in the glitter jar! Or you could use a glitter tray to catch any spilt glitter before it makes a mess!

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health & wellbeing

Your Allergy Issues… By Lindsey McManus, Allergy UK

Eosinophilic Gastro-Intestinal disorders are a complex and chronic group of disorders that develop when eosinophils, a particular type of white blood cell, are produced in excessive amounts in various parts of the Gastro-Intestinal tract.

condition can be long. However, unlike IgE mediated food allergy where symptoms are immediate, in eosinophillic disease symptoms are nearly always delayed. Although there is no cure for this condition, it is managed by strict dietary control under the supervision of specialist dietitians, gastroenterologists or allergists, who will decide Eosinophils play a role in the body’s immune, but in some which option is best for the child. children they are released in excessive amounts in response to a food allergy and can cause chronic inflammation and Treatment options include: damage to tissues throughout the gut. Although still fairly uncommon we are seeing more children affected by this ● Dietary elimination: of specific foods or disease and this may be down to the increase in food common food triggers; the resulting diet can allergy, as almost half the children with Eosinophilic be complicated and a dietician will generally disorders also have food allergies. advise as to what foods can be eaten, in order to ensure the child’s diet is adequate for their The main areas that are affected are the oesophagus, the growth and development stomach, small intestine and the large intestine (colon). Symptoms can be many and varied, some seen in other ● Special milk feeds: Eosinophilic disorders medical conditions, all adding to the difficulty in obtaining appears to respond to milk feeds known as a proper diagnosis. However there is often a thread that Elemental feeds. Your child will usually need runs through all the symptoms that may indicate to avoid all other foods during this time. Once Eosinophilic disease. Some of the symptoms include: the inflammation is under control, foods can be slowly introduced avoiding certain trigger foods. This process is complicated and lengthy, ● Refusal of food ● Blood or Mucus in stools and a dietician must supervise the process ● Constipation ● Malnutrition ● ● ● ● ●

Joint pain Poor sleep Abdominal or chest pain Reflux Difficulty swallowing

● Poor appetite ● Bloating ● Anaemia ● Nausea and/or Vomiting ● Diarrhoea ● Failure to thrive (poor growth and/or weight loss)

Because it is such a complicated condition to diagnose it can often take many months before a conclusive answer is reached, usually not until a child is referred to an allergy specialist that the condition is picked up. Your child’s doctor may suspect the diagnosis, but the only way to confirm this is for your child to undergo an endoscopy. This is when your child’s oesophagus, stomach or intestine is examined using a special camera and a sample of tissue (biopsy) is taken to check for eosinophils. The procedure is usually under anaesthetic or sedation and should be done by an allergist or gastroenterologist (stomach / bowel specialist). Although linked to food allergy, allergy testing is not always helpful in diagnosing Eosinophilic disease. When food is involved, cows' milk (dairy), wheat, meats, soy and egg seem to be the most common triggers. In more extreme cases the list of foods that affect children suffering from this

● Medication: This is used to suppress the levels of eosinophils and relieve the symptoms, this may include steroids which suppress inflammation, but other medication may be used depending upon the child’s symptoms. At the current time, our understanding of this condition remains limited but new research produces more information. Hopefully this will lead to quicker diagnosis and better management of this disease and avoid potential complications.

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food & recipes

ORGANIX - Wanting the best for your child.. By Abby Ban, Meals Food Developer at Organix:

At six months a baby needs to begin to eat a wider variety of foods and textures to get the energy and nutrition they need for healthy development. Babies who are introduced to a wide selection of tastes and textures during the ‘window of weaning’ are likely to have a greater chance of accepting a wider range of foods later on in life. It will take time for your baby to learn to appreciate lots of different food tastes and textures so don’t worry if your little one often refuses certain foods; it can take up to 14 attempts before they learn to like a new food. Just be patient and keep trying a few days later in smaller servings. In the Organix kitchen we have developed a range of foods especially created to give your baby the very best variety of tastes and textures during the window of weaning, including Fruit Purees, Savoury Meals and Cereals.

We all want the very best for our children, and at Organix we understand the importance of inspiring a lifelong love of real food in your little ones. By helping them to explore a wide variety of tastes and textures from an early age, and adding interesting flavours to their diet while they’re young, you will help them to grow up recognising and enjoying real, good

Developing your babies hand-eye coordination It’s important for us to ensure all of our foods not only help to develop your baby’s and child’s love for food, but also help to develop their essential life skills. For example, when your baby reaches seven months old, it is important to start developing their hand-eye coordination and begin to encourage self-feeding. This is why we have created a variety of tasty finger foods that are great for growing babies to grab on to, but gentle enough to chew on with their delicate gums. Our Multigrain Hearts are also uniquely food, as well as helping to ensure they designed to help your baby’s fine get the right balance of nutrients for motor skills by encouraging them to healthy development. use a pincer grip, picking up small objects with their thumb and The window of weaning forefinger. The type of food offered during the very early weaning stage, known as the Exploring new foods ‘window of weaning’, is a very As your baby advances, we important stage in your baby’s understand that you want to explore development and can influence your as many new foods as possible with little one’s diet later in life. them in the kitchen. However, one thing many parents often talk to us 30

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about is the lack of time to constantly think of new recipes for their children. Because of this we have cooked up a huge variety of delicious and healthy recipes in our Organix kitchen, that are full of goodness, simple to cook, and use real ingredients that you will find in your local stores. As your little one transitions from a baby into a toddler, it becomes more important that they learn to love and recognise chunky, real food. For the days when you’re on the go and want to make sure your toddler has delicious meals with the right balance of nutrients, we have developed Mighty Meals - wholesome meals packed full of chunky, organic ingredients your little one can bite into. Our Mighty Meals are suitable for children aged 1-3 years old and come in a range of recipe choices, including Pork Meatballs in a Tomatoey Chickpea and Sweet Potato Sauce, Beef Stew and Dumplings, and of course we have a vegetarian option too! Healthy snacking Although it is important to ensure you’re your toddler has balanced, nutritious meals, their tummies aren’t

big enough to take on board the energy and nutrients they need from just three meals a day, so regular, healthy snacks also play an essential role in their diet. Each snack should provide about 10% of your child’s daily energy intake although there are no hard and fast rules about how many snacks to give, or when to give them. Experiment with different times of day and don’t be afraid to let your toddler take the lead and rely on their in-built selfregulating appetite sensors as a guide to how much they need to eat! Snacking on the right foods is part of developing healthy food preferences so it’s important to make good choices. This is why we have developed Goodies – snacks for your toddler that are full of tasty goodness with no added junk. The range includes delicious oaty bars, fruit snacks, savoury nibbles and refreshing drinks, to help make sure your little one has all the goodness they need for an action packed day. Our promise to you… At Organix, the most important promise from us to you is that our foods are created by real people in our

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Ratatouille 3-4 portions

Spiced Pork with Plum 3-4 portions

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3 slices of organic ginger 200g organic minced pork 1 clove of organic garlic 1 Organic carrot, grated 3 Organic spring onions, sliced tsp Chinese 5 Spice 4 organic plums, halved, stoned and chopped 3 organic dried prunes, stoned and chopped 250ml water

1 tablespoon organic olive oil 1 organic garlic clove 2 large organic tomatoes 1 organic red onion half organic red pepper half organic yellow pepper half small organic courgette half organic aubergine 1 bay leaf a sprig of fresh thyme

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Chop all the vegetables into small bite size pieces Heat the olive oil in a pan then add the onion and crushed garlic, cook together until softened Add the vegetables with the the thyme and bay leaf and leave to cook until the vegetables being to soften Add the tomatoes and continue to cook until the vegetables are tender. Add a little water if necessary if the dish starts to dry out. Remove the thyme and bay leaf before serving. This recipe is suitable for all ages and you can serve as appropriate to the age of your child.

Puree the ratatouille to a suitable consistency for the development stage of your child - serve with pasta as a finger food Alternatively if your baby is not ready for finger food, simply add the pasta and blend up with the vegetables Once your baby is used to this texture you can just chop it rather than pureeing and serve with chopped (small pasta) or pasta as a finger food For toddlers and the rest of the family - serve the ratatouille as a sauce over organic whole grain pasta with a sprinkling of organic grated cheese or serve with grilled organic chicken and some homemade bread

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Step 1 - Pan fry the ginger for 1 minute, add the minced pork and cook until the pork starts to colour Step 2 - Add the garlic, carrot, spring onion and Chinese 5 spice and fry for a further 2 minutes Step 3 - Add the plums, prunes, and water and simmer for 20 minutes Step 4 - Serve with rice or noodles

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Younger babies: Serve as it is or puree down to the desired consistency for younger ones Over 12 months: You can add 1 tablespoon of honey to the mix in Step 3 for a sweeter option

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Focus Group

Every month we host a Focus Group with mums all coming together to test various products and discuss different topics. This month we tested a wide selection of Organix Products.

Slow Cooked Beef Stew

These little pots are extremely versatile! Not only do they taste great for children, provide the essential quota towards the 5 a day but we have also used them as condiments on meat!

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400g organic beef stewing steak, cut into 2cm cubes 1 organic onion, chopped 1.5 tsp organic cinnamon A few twists of organic black pepper 320ml water 300g (about 2) organic sweet potatoes, peeled and chopped into 2cm cubes 250ml water 2 organic carrots, sliced 2cm thick half organic celeriac, chopped into 3cm cubes 400g (6 medium) organic new potatoes, quartered

Step 1 - Pre-heat the oven 160C/gas mark 3. Choose an ovenproof dish where the beef will fit in no more than 2 layers. Put the diced beef, onions, cinnamon, black pepper and water into the ovenproof dish with a tight fitting lid (or cover with foil) Step 2 - Slow cock for 3 hours. Check and stir the stew half way through the cooking time and make sure there is enough water just covering the beef. Add more water if needed to keep the beef covered. Step 3 - After 3 hours, add the sweet potato and cook for a further 45-55 minutes until the sweet potato is tender Step 4 - The beef stew can be served as it is for adults and toddlers. It should be soft enough to mash for babies from 10 months. Otherwise use a hand blender to smooth the food to the right texture for younger babies from 7 months. Step 1 - Put the potatoes in a pan of water and bring to the boil for 10 minutes. Step 2 - Add the carrots and celeriac to the potatoes and boil for a further 20 minutes or until the vegetables are tender Step 3 - Mash or smooth the vegetables to the required consistency

We just love organics! In fact I'm not totally sure what I would do if they didn't exist any more! Their food is a staple in both my children's diet. We have their Fruit pots and rice cakes every day without fail and when the kids are feeling ill they seem to take over from normal food. We love their crisps and cheese biscuits and banana biccies too!! Brilliant! Not too sure on their ready made food though. My youngest turned his nose up and he will usually eat anything, but maybe I got the wrong one? I've never given my kids ready made food like that before, they have never had a jar of anything other than fruit so maybe that's the problem. But everything else is made and sent from an angel!

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Breastfeeding and The Work Place By Poppy Sheen

of mothers who took part in the survey were still breastfeeding when they returned to work. Worryingly, 50% of the mums who were still feeding said their biggest struggle was the fact there was nowhere they could go to express milk. One participant said ‘I really dreaded it and gave up breastfeeding the first time as the stress of going back to work and expressing was too much.’ Setting up a breastfeeding room is a simple change businesses can make to support new mums. A special place where mums can go and express milk privately will reassure many that they are making the right decision about returning, and will prove that the company values its staff and places great importance on supporting mums who want to breastfeed. Some mothers may want to express, whereas others may prefer to take short breaks throughout the day to feed their baby. Providing flexible working hours and taking the time to really discuss all the options available is something all employers should do as standard. Some businesses are certainly leading the way by going the extra mile, for example one mum said ‘I had an afternoon break to go to the nursery and feed my son which continued for a couple of months which was a gentle introduction back to work.’

A new survey revealed that one third of mothers are

A third of mothers are returning to work earlier than expected… returning to work earlier than expected because of the current economic climate. Committed to supporting working mums Medela, the world leading breastpump provider, and babyworld.co.uk conducted the report to learn more about the current opinions on maternity leave and what provisions employers put in place to support working mothers. Despite the fact that mothers are going back to work earlier, 67% of them said their employers offered them no general advice or guidance on their return. Readjusting to life in the work place following maternity leave can be a very challenging time with one mother explaining she was so worried about leaving her daughter that she ‘felt physically sick.’

Commenting on the survey Managing Director of Medela UK Paul Furlong said ‘This news should be a great concern for employers, especially in the current climate when it’s difficult to hold onto valued employees. Organisations really should be doing everything they can to support mums. We’ve all heard of Babies in the Office, but a dedicated expressing room is something far easier to implement. It’s a great first step for businesses and will really mark them apart.’

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The report highlighted that on the whole retuning to work was a stressful experience, but it seemed to be particularly hard for those who were still breastfeeding. Thirty percent

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Do I need a Doula? By Jani White

As with most things in our current maternity culture, there is woman began to labour, the most experienced women would simply no straightforward answer to any question to do with be called upon to attend her. how to approach your birthing, it is as individual as each of Well, here we are in our NHS culture, with many hospitals, us is. birthing units and home birth teams to support us, so why We are all designed to give birth, it can and should be a would we need a doula when we are stepping into the completely normal part of our physiologic function, our structured safety net of the medical systems? Well, it is intuition and instincts should help lead us through birthing, completely fair to say that many couples are approaching birth as this is part of every woman’s ‘knowing’, part of every perhaps feeling somewhat nervous in the context of hearing woman’s power. And throughout the history of birthing, so many stories of bad birth experiences. Many couples are women have had attendants, those who stay with her through concerned about what may happen in hospital and may feel a her birthing journey, bringing her support and emotional bit anxious about the potential of ending up on the intervention sustenance, offering her encouragement, keeping vigil as she cascade. Many couples might have had a difficult experience the first time and are wishing for it to be different for their next strives through the arduous hours of bearing her child. birth. This is of course the true meaning of mid-wife, an attendant who is there to ‘wife’ for the mother, to be her helpmeet, Now, I need to offer a caveat about where I am coming from, bringing the unconditional support that a wife brings to her before I go on to tell you more about what a doula does and partner. And it was by no means uncommon, throughout why it may be a good choice for you. I have been involved history, across cultures, for women to have more than one with UK maternity services for over 20 years, and it is always attendant for her birthing. In any given community, when a my wish, my intention, to offer unbiased and considered

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advice. As many of you know, I teach antenatal classes, and interfere with or replace the guiding role of the medical my ambition is always to help to prepare couples to management team. understand the realities of our current birthing culture. Personally, I think it a bit unfair that Dad’s should do a course I am the biggest fan of midwives (Angels, often working in of antenatal classes and ‘hey presto’ be expected to handle all very constrained and difficult circumstances), and I am the complexes of labour and maternity ward management. actually a huge fan of the NHS, for it is still (in principle) a Having a doula that is trained and experienced in understanding medical labour management can be an truly remarkable service, for all (!) its shortcomings. In the UK we have a very low infant or maternal mortality rate. immensely beneficial adjunct to helping you to make the We have evolved a system that is designed to ‘ensure’ the decisions about your labour management that resonate well within your own hearts and minds. safest possible birth outcomes. However, the reality within those protocols and guidelines for safe outcomes is that sometimes the process is sacrificed in favour of the outcome. This is often what is at the nub of what makes a ‘bad’ birth experience – when we feel out of control, when we feel any fear, this will change our perception of feeling in control. Sometimes it feels like the decisions and management of the labour were not all that they could or should have been, and we may feel that we did not truly have a say in those decisions.

A good doula is someone who is all about helping you in all aspects of the safe delivery of your baby, in the context of you feeling secure and happy in your heart. When you are looking for a doula, do be sure to meet with several, feeling what they feel like, finding the person who resonates well with you. Do talk with them about their experience and their training. Do book your doula as early as possible; there are too few doulas in London for the level of demand, so this is something to do sooner than later in your pregnancy.

The current reality is that our maternity service is stretched to the very ‘n’th degree. There is a chronic shortage of midwife staffing on wards that are often seeing double the intake they were originally designed for. The facilities and staffing of our maternity services are truly strained. And, within the context of that, still about 70% of women have a completely normal birth experience, whilst about 30% have a difficult experience.

Here in the UK we have several doula organisations, the largest of which is Doula UK, in which all members adhere to a Code of Practice, have done a requisite training in order to become a member, and adhere to an on-going commitment to training as requirement for membership. Please see their website for a full description of that being a doula is about www.doula.org.uk, with good advice about how to interview a doula http://doula.org.uk/content/questions-ask-prospectivebirth-doula .

So what is a doula? And what does a doula do? In a nutshell, a doula is there to support the mother, and the dad, and the kids and in many cases often helps to support the midwife. The doula ethos is to ‘Mother the Mother’. The doula role is to support at the emotional level. When people ask me ‘what is a doula?’ my reply is always ‘sister-mother-best friend’, that place of unconditional support, knowing you have a person to turn to, to rely upon, who will just let you be yourself – which is the very best place to be in to find the strength for your birth experience. Being calm and centred is what gives you the best birthing energy. A key role of the doula is to bring you a continuity of care, to have someone with you at the labour that you already know and have a bond with. To have somebody with you who will be with you through the whole journey: through your antenatal care, into your labour, at home with you as you begin, on the way to the hospital with you, with you across any shift changes, from beginning to end, and then beyond. Your doula will also be there to support you post-natally, bringing that all important extra perspective of someone who was there, as you share and reflect on your labour experience, and to make the tea, and to hold the baby whilst you have a shower, or to cook you a yummy meal – just to help in any way that is needed. Another key aspect of having doula support is the allimportant role of interpreter and mediator. The doula is NOT there in a clinical capacity, and her role is never in any way to

So do you need a doula? I would certainly advocate that it is a good question to ask yourselves. The extra help and support of doula care can make all the difference to giving you a sense of security; approaching your birth knowing you have a guide and helpmeet to steer you through our protocol driven modern maternity care, and to help bring you into the best of your own power for positive birthing.

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4 Fun Family Things To Do In January A VERY OLD MAN WITH ENORMOUS WINGS ADDRESS: Battersea Arts Centre (BAC), Lavender Hill, Wandsworth, London, SW11 5TN TELEPHONE: 020 7223 6557 DATES: 3�ᵈ to 19ᵗ� January 2013 OPENING TIMES: 7pm (mats 2pm) PRICES: £10 - £15 Gabriel Garcia Marquez's magical tale is brought to life in a spellbinding collaboration between the Little Angel puppet theatre and storytelling masters, Kneehigh. This "rewarding, mature show" is "quietly charming and visually ravishing" (The Guardian), a treat for both children and adults. The beautifully crafted puppets and wondrous design stand out in a modern fable about fame and fortune, miracles that sore, and how quickly everything can come down to earth with a bump.

LONDON BRASS RUBBING CENTRE ADDRESS: The Crypt, St Martins In The Fields, Trafalgar Square, London, WC2N 4JJ TELEPHONE: 020 7766 1122 DATES: All Year. OPENING TIMES: Mon to Wed (10.00am - 6.00pm), Thurs to Sat (10.00am – 8.00pm), Sun (11.30 - 5pm) PRICES: from £4.50 Brass rubbing at St Martin’s is fun for all ages. Our collection of over 100 replica brasses from churches and cathedrals across the UK includes medieval knights in armour, fire-breathing dragons and the bejewelled ladies in waiting of rescue. Or be inspired by people like St George and William Shakespeare. While you or the children are creating your masterpieces why not pop in for a meal or glass of wine in the Café in the Crypt or discover the latest gifts on offer in the Shop. All profits support the work of St Martin-in-the-Fields.

PIRATE FUN DAY AT THE GOLDEN HINDE ADDRESS: The Golden Hinde, St. Mary Overie Dock, Cathedral Street, London, SE1 9DE TELEPHONE: 020 7403 0123 DATES: From 3�ᵈ to 5ᵗ� January 2013 OPENING TIMES: Thu - Sat (11:00am - 1:00pm); 5ᵗ� Jan 2013 (2:00pm - 4:00pm) PRICES: Adult Ticket:From £7.00, Child Ticket: From £5.00, Family Ticket:From £20.00 A Pirate Fun Day for kids to join the crew and raise the anchor and fire the cannons before trying to find the hidden treasure somewhere aboard the ship.

PETER PAN ADDRESS: Peacock Theatre, Kingsway (entrance on Portugal Street), London, WC2A 2HT TELEPHONE: 0844 4124322 DATES:From 24ᵗ� to 26ᵗ� January 2013 OPENING TIMES: 2.30pm & 7.00pm PRICES: £13.00 to £18.00 Wendy, John and Michael Darling are safely tucked up in bed as their mum and dad are having a party downstairs until a boy from a magical place called Neverland sneaks in, with his trusty fairy friend Tinker Bell, to look for his shadow. Soon, Peter Pan and the Darling children are off to Neverland on the greatest adventure of their lives - encountering mermaids, Indians, pirates and their wicked captain, Hook, and a very hungry crocodile.

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HOME INTERIORS By Punkin Patch

By Toks Aruoture

Storage Ideas for Children's Room There is little point in having a beautifully designed child’s bedroom with inadequate storage. Storage forms one of mainframes of a child’s bedroom, but tends to be hidden in the background. Contrary to what many think, it does not have to be boring. Storage can be functional yet can add style and character to a child’s bedroom. A place for everything and everything in its place is an adage that holds true. Children however tend to find keeping their rooms tidy a chore so your choice of storage has to be fun and functional. Start by determining what needs to be stored. Wardrobes & Armoires While this seems very obvious, most people don’t think beyond basic clothes storage and toy storage. Choose wardrobes that are flexible and can be adapted to different functions, i.e. folding and hanging. Some double door wardrobes come with hanging rails on both sides with the option of adding shelves. Some even come with drawers at the bottom or on the inside. Think safety when choosing wardrobes. They should be affixed to the wall with a suitable bracket or have an anti-tilt mechanism built in. Most stores sell wardrobes as separate pieces or as part of a bedroom furniture set. Some come hand painted with characters or your child’s name, others are ornate in their design giving it a character all by itself. Still some are available with mirrored doors.

a streamlined look. Others stand out proudly like the traditional wicker baskets, more suitable for stuffed toys. It’s a good idea for your child to be involved with the selection of a happy home for their toys, half the battle of keeping the room tidy is won here. Wall shelves A wall shelf is a great place to display trophies, dolls or any toy that deserves a place of its own. Some wall shelves come with hooks where you can hand bags, baseball caps or even spell out your child’s name using hanging letters. They come in a range of finishes and are predrilled to make installation easy. Keep in mind your child’s height when fixing to the wall. Also be careful not to have heavy items without a flat bottom on wall shelves- especially if it is above the bed or within your child’s height. Wall shelves provide extra storage when placed above a changing dresser in the nursery. Bookshelves & Bookcases We read to know we are not alone" (C.S. Lewis) Your special somebody needs somewhere special for favorite story books. From nursery rhymes to classic novels, they'll all fit perfectly in our beautiful bookcases. Bookcases should also be used for favorite teddies and picture frames. It adds interest thereby making reading synonymous with fun. A lamp placed atop a bookcase serves to introduce soft lighting and a place for the lamp.

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Don’t let bad weather stop play!

Jo Nilsson of Swedish kids brand Polarn O. Pyret shares a few tips and expels some myths about keeping active kids warm on a budget this Winter.

British weather can be so changeable and unpredictable it is often difficult to decide what your child really needs when it comes to budgeting for winter clothing. And if we earned a penny for every time we remind our children to put their coat on…and keep it on, that expensive heavy winter coat might just pay for itself this year! Children need clothes and coats they can play in. Easy to put on and take off, lightweight and flexible, warm yet breathable. Outdoor activity levels vary greatly and good outerwear should accommodate this. Play tag with your kids for 15 minutes and you’ll soon realise that their coat needs to breathe, as well as keep out the wind and rain. Layers By dressing your child in suitable layers you can keep them warm dry and happy in any weather. Layer 1 – next to the skin Avoid cotton when it is cold because it traps moisture next to the skin, making you feel cold. Try the one wool sock versus one cotton sock next time you spend time in the great outdoors – the difference is suprising! Silky polyester and soft merino wool are ideal because they wick moisture away whilst trapping heat. Thermal layers should not be the reserve of skiers – even under school uniform or PE kit children will stay warm outdoors, yet not feel too hot once they are indoors again.

warmth and is so much easier to care for than wool knits. A versatile wardrobe staple, quality fleece should not bobble and will look smart wash after wash. Layer 3 – wind and waterproof Finally to coats and waterproof trousers. The choice on the high street is endless and prices vary wildly. A quality coat designed specifically with children in mind will be worn more often and without too much nagging. Consider wind and water resistance – not just from the fabric, but is it weather tight at the neck, cuffs and hem? Can your child move around freely, and is the coat lightweight yet warm and breathable? Waterproof outerwear has taped seams, water-resistant outerwear should keep you dry in a downpour, but may not survive half a day of driving rain. Insulated, padded coats are important if you will spend over 2 hours in freezing temperatures, but for all other winter weather a quality waterproof worn with the right layers underneath should suffice. Look out for durable fabrics that can stand up to playtime and machine washing, also unisex colours that can be passed from sister to brother. Finally, are the sleeves adjustable and will it last a growing child for 2 winters?

Layer 2 – the middle Add your all-year fleece sweater or fleece jacket when temperatures fall below 10C. Polyester fleece breathes, retains

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Family Finances

Working Parents - Look Beyond Your Salary By Stephanie Forrester charged extra income tax to offset the Child Benefit payments received. For thousands of workers earning a little over the £50,000 threshold, there is a way to reduce the impact on household income from this change. The entitlement to Child Benefit is calculated on the individual’s net income after adjustments such as salary sacrifice benefits have been deducted. So if you are not already taking Childcare Vouchers, now is the time to do so. Higher rate taxpayers can currently sacrifice up to £124 per month (£1,488 per year) in exchange for vouchers to pay for a range of registered childcare up to the age of 16. So if your income is a little over £50,000 a year, taking advantage of Childcare Vouchers could take your net income below the threshold where Child Benefit changes would apply. This is a win-win situation - not only will you maintain the amount of Child Benefit you currently receive, you will also receive the tax benefit from taking Childcare Vouchers, which are non-taxable and National Insurance exempt. As a higher rate taxpayer, you can currently save up to £624 per year if you sacrifice the maximum allowance. Both working parents can join a scheme to increase these savings (up to £933 per year for a basic rate taxpayer). If your employer offers a Childcare Voucher scheme, join it. If not, ask them to provide one – it’s a win-win situation for Last month we looked at how parents can save money on the employer too, decreasing their employer National childcare costs by sacrificing some of their salary in exchange Insurance contributions for every working parent on the for childcare vouchers. This month we look at changes coming scheme and improving staff recruitment, retention and morale. up in 2013 which may affect your family finances and how you If you earn just over £50,000 a year, reducing your net income can get more financial and other benefits from your employer by taking Childcare Vouchers could also mean you avoid if you are a working parent. having to complete a self-assessment tax return. HMRC estimates that around half a million people who previously Firstly, this month sees a change to Child Benefit which will didn’t have to complete a self-assessment form will have to do affect thousands of families. Entitlement to Child Benefit for so as part of the changes to Child Benefit. many higher rate tax payers changed on 7ᵗ� January. Some form of universal Child Benefit has existed since 1946, with These changes are complicated and have been widely criticised Child Benefit as we now know it introduced in 1977. The as being unfair and unworkable. government has now introduced changes to get higher rate taxpayers to pay more and help to address the UK’s deficit. After outcry from parents about the initial plans which would have affected all those in the higher rate tax band, only households where one parent earns over £50,000 will now be affected. If one parent earns over £60,000, you’ll lose the benefit completely. The change is expected to affect over a million families and the average loss in household income from the benefit will be around £1,300. Things are set to become more complicated for those earning between £50,000 and £60,000. If this applies to you, you will receive the full benefit, but will then have to complete a self-assessment form at the end of each tax year and will be

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It is not based on combined household income, so two parents working and both earning just under £50,000 will keep all of their Child Benefit, whereas those with only one parent working and earning just over £50,000 will not.

You could save up to £410, depending on your circumstances. Ask your employer about it…the scheme won’t cost them anything and will add to their green credentials and the overall fitness of staff.

Also the new rules include an expectation that couples disclose to each other whether they claim Child Benefit, or earn above £50,000 a year, undermining the long-held principle of individual taxation.

If you would like to take part in the Cycle to Work scheme or make savings on childcare costs by using childcare vouchers, contact Busy Bees Benefits on 0330 333 9100 and we will contact your employer on your behalf.

Whatever your view, it makes sense to do what you can to For more information about Childcare Vouchers visit maximise your benefits and maintain your household income www.busybeesbenefits.com. Follow Busy Bees Benefits on as far as possible while the changes are in place. Facebook and Twitter for up-to-date information about our Mind the Gap – Raise the Cap campaign and for more Other benefits information about childcare vouchers, Cycle to Work and other employee benefits. Other salary sacrifice benefits such as cycle to work, car leasing schemes and pensions will also help parents to maintain their child benefit. The Cycle to Work scheme is one which any employee can take advantage of. If you are a working parent and one of your New Year’s resolutions is to get fitter, whether you are new to cycling, a regular enthusiast or simply want to reduce transport costs, the scheme could benefit you. Like Childcare Vouchers, this is a government-approved salary sacrifice scheme which allows you to buy a new bike and equipment at a discounted price and also save on tax and National Insurance. Employees save money on new bikes and equipment with up to 50% off retail prices. They then pay for the bike over a 12 or 18-month period. Transfer of ownership of equipment is carried out at the end of the lease agreement.

Mr Mum

dad’s focus

By Lawrence McGrandles Jnr

I was lucky enough to be an window ledge? That’s where OCD lies. Conversely we only child. have seen our son learning some of the rituals of social interaction that we take for granted simply by being That luck, however, ran out exposed to them through having his sister around all the when I was seven and I was time. One such ritual being that is ‘nice’ to give your sister “fortunate” enough to have a kiss goodnight even if it does mean grabbing her in a a baby brother. A baby headlock to do it. brother who stopped us from doing all the great fun The difficulty for all parents is that these learning things we used to do. processes and rivalries can become acute and lead to deep Obviously when I say set long held bitterness or anger unless they are spotted “great fun things” I mean early and remedied. For us, as the parents of a child with whatever I said I wanted to special needs, the idea of a lack of sibling support in the do at the time because pre-baby brother I pretty much had future for our son is too difficult to contemplate. The it all my own way. Karma wise it balanced out a few years difficulty being that the extra attention given to our son later with the arrival of my baby sister, closer in age to my could easily lead to resentment in his sister as she grows brother it was a joy a to watch him suffer the agonies of a older if not carefully monitored and balanced. So how does small annoying limpet shadowing his every move around one address the idea that “your brother is special but so are the house and garden. you, only in a different way, which is why he gets a minicab to school with a minder and you have to walk I mention this because I am now going through all of this with dad.” again but from the other side of the fence, the parent fence (one I sometimes wish were electrified and mounted with It is not only children with special needs where this sibling automatic machine gun emplacements). My eldest is five minefield exists but also children who are ill long term and and a half but as big as a seven year old, his sister is two go from being a normal annoying brother or sister to the going on twenty two! The added fly in this already insect reason why mum or dad spend days at a time at hospital laden ointment is the fact that that my son is on the autistic away from the rest of the family. This is a scenario I have spectrum and so not really able to connect socially with witnessed first hand with the diagnosis of my six year old others in a “neuro-typical” way. What this means in day to nephew, Dean, with Neuroblastoma (N.B.), an insidious day terms is that the usual sibling rivalries don’t really and rare childhood cancer (100 children diagnosed in the register as rivalries to him but rather as annoyances to be UK each year), and yet my sister in law has struck the right crushed under his considerable “death hug,” a rather balance with their older child, Eve, of open discussion and canny substitute for hitting other children which we support for her clubs and activities. managed to train into his responses when we realised how much bigger than the other children he was. These Both children are under eight and having to deal with a annoyances consist of world ending scenarios such as his difficult concepts and demands and yet, thanks to their sister walking in front of the television while he is parents, they maintain that bond and rivalry that all watching it, the refusal to relinquish a favorite car on siblings should have. After all if you can’t count on your demand, mum or dad starting to sing the words to one of brother or sister who can you? the many Cbeebies number raps or a denial of one last go on the current favorite toy. You can donate to Dean's treatment appeal page via The Dean Puplett Appeal Facebook page. It does, of course, work both ways and our daughter http://www.facebook.com/TheDeanPuplettAppealHelpM knows exactly how to push the buttons that will set off her eBeatNeuroblastomaCancer big brother but generally it is simply a case of her wanting to do exactly what he does just because it is him and he is *Stimming is a repetitive body movement, such as hand her big brother. This can be a little worrying when the flapping, body rocking, running back and forth. The term activity being copied is his need to run up and down the is shorthand for self-stimulation. Repetitive movement, or hallway for sensory input or “Stimming”.* Of course all stereotpy, is often referred to as stimming under the children learn from their older siblings but do we want our hypothesis that it has a function related to sensory input. It daughter to learn that once a Lego shape has been built is a common occurrence among those on the Autistic and put on the window ledge it must ALWAYS be on the Spectrum. 47

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PUTTING SAFETY FIRST AT HOME Information from the Royal Society for the Prevention of Preventing accidents to children General safety advice Accidents (ROSPA) - http://www.rospa.com/childsafety Children should be supervised at all times Accidents are the major cause of death for children up to Keep floors free of toys and obstructions that can be tripped 15 years old. A million children attend casualty over departments due to home accidents throughout the UK. Always use a securely fitted safety harness in a pram, pushchair or highchair Accidents to Children Never leave babies unattended on raised surfaces Those most at risk from a home accident are the 0-4 years Do not place baby bouncers on raised surfaces - they could age group. Falls account for the majority of non-fatal fall off with the movement of the baby accidents while the highest number of deaths are due to The use of baby-walkers and table-mounted high chairs is fire. Most of these accidents are preventable through not recommended. increased awareness, improvements in the home environment and greater product safety. What injuries occur? The most severe injuries are associated with heat-related accidents and falls from a height. Older children are more likely to sustain fractures than younger counterparts. Younger children have a higher percentage of burns and scalds as well as poisoning and ingestion accidents. Where do accidents happen? The largest number of accidents happen in the living/dining room. However, the most serious accidents happen in the kitchen and on the stairs. Every year more than 67,000 children experience an accident in the kitchen - 43,000 of these are aged between 0-4 years; 58,000 children have accidents on the stairs. Safety and child development: Children differ in their rate of development but the information below is a guide to development stages:

Age

Development

Advice

0-6 months

Wriggle and kick, grasp, suck, roll over

Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t leave on a raised surface

6mths - 1yr

Stand, sit, crawl, put things in mouth

Keep small objects and dangerous substances out of reach

1-2 years

Move about, reach things high up, and find hidden objects, walk and climb.

Never leave alone, place hot drinks out of reach, use a fireguard and stairgates.

2-3 years

Be adventurous, climb higher, pull and twist Be a good role model and be watchful. Place things, watch and copy. matches and lighters out of sight and reach.

3-4 years

Use grown-up things, be helpful, understand instructions, be adventurous, explore, walk downstairs alone.

Continue to be a good role model, keep being watchful but start safety training.

4-5 years

Play exciting games, can be independent, ride a bike, enjoy stories.

They can actually plan to do things and carry it out. Rules are very important to them, as long as everybody keeps to the same ones. They enjoy learning. Continue safe training.

5-8 years

Will be subject to peer pressure and will still forget things.

Still need supervision, guidance and support. 48

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Falls Around 10 children die as a result of falls each year - some from windows and balconies and the remainder mostly from stairs. Falls are by far the most common causes of accidents in the home; they account for 44 per cent of all children’s accidents. Most falls involve tripping over on the same level. However, the most serious consequences result from falls between two levels, such as falling out of a pram or highchair or falling from a bed. Children have also died or have been seriously injured by heavy objects such as furniture and televisions being pushed or pulled over them. Sets of drawers, in a child’s eyes, make ideal climbing frames but, if unsecured, they pull over easily. Stairs and windows Prevention Fit a safety gate at the top and bottom of stairs Never leave tripping hazards on the stairs Stairs should be carefully maintained - damaged or worn carpet should be repaired or removed Make sure balustrades are strong and do not have any footholds for climbing Stairs should always be well lit Fit child resistant window restrictors but make sure you can get out easily in an emergency Do not put anything under the window that can be climbed on Furniture and tall kitchen appliance, at risk from being pulled over, should be secured to the wall.

Extinguish and dispose of cigarettes properly Have an escape route planned, and practise it, in case of fire Fit a smoke alarm and check it regularly The incidence of burns and scalds in young children is much higher than that of older children and adults.

Scalds and burns Hot drinks cause most scalds to children under the age of five. A child’s skin is much more sensitive than an adult’s and a hot drink can still scald a child 15 minutes after being made. Young children are also very vulnerable to sunburn. Hot bath water is responsible for the highest number of fatal Fires and severe scalding injuries among young children. Around Domestic fires pose one of the greatest risks to children. 500 children, mainly under fives, are admitted to hospital Children playing with matches and lighters frequently start and a further 2000 attend A and E departments every year as house fires. a result of bath water scalds. Prevention Children can also suffer burns after contact with open fires, a Keep matches and lighters out of sight and reach of children cooker, irons, curling tongs and hair straighteners, cigarettes, matches, cigarette lighters and many other hot surfaces. Always use a fireguard and secure it to the wall Prevention Never hold a hot drink and a child at the same time Never leave young children alone in the bathroom Put hot drinks out of reach and away from the edges of tables and worktops Encourage the use of a coiled flex or a cordless kettle Keep small children out of the kitchen whenever possible Run the domestic hot water system at 46°C or fit a thermostatic mixing valve to taps When running a bath turn the cold water on first and always test the water temperature with your elbow before letting a child get into the bath or shower Always use rear hotplates and turn the panhandles away from the front of the cooker Keep hot irons, curling tongs and hair-straighteners out of reach even when cooling down.

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Parents and carers are generally aware of the dangers posed by plastic bags, but may not make the link to nappy sacks posing similar risks. Prevention Choose toys appropriate to the age of the child Ensure that small objects such as marbles and peanuts and small toys are kept out of reach of children under three years old Encourage older children to keep their toys away from their younger playmates Pull cords on curtains and blinds should be kept short and Glass-related accidents The increased use of glass in the home has led to more kept out of reach glass related accidents. Every year children die following Keep animals, especially cats, out of the bedroom and use an accident with architectural glass. Many children are a net on a pram Keep nappy sacks out of the reach of babies and young also injured when glass tumblers and bottles break. children Prevention Never store nappy sacks in or around the cot or pram. Use safety glass to (laminated, toughened or glass which passes the impact test) in all replacement windows and Strangulation including blind cords doors - especially at low level. Laminated glass is good for safety and security To reduce the risk posed by looped cords, including blind Make existing glass safer by applying shatter resistant film cords, cords should be kept out of the reach of children. When buying furniture which incorporates glass, look for Install blinds that do not have a cord, particularly in a the appropriate British Standard approval. Always clear up broken glass quickly and dispose of it child's bedroom Do not place a child's cot, bed, playpen or highchair near a safely Buy a greenhouse or cold frame with special safety glazing window Pull cords on curtains and blinds should be kept short and features or isolate with fencing. kept out of reach Poisoning Tie up the cords or use one of the many cleats, cord tidies, Most poisoning accidents involve medicines, household clips or ties that are available products and cosmetics. Do not hang toys or objects that could be a hazard on the More than 28,000 children receive treatment for poisoning, cot or bed or suspected poisoning accidents every year. Don't hang drawstring bags where a small child could get Prevention their head through the loop of the drawstring. Keep medicines and chemicals out of sight and reach of children, preferably in a locked cupboard Wherever possible, buy products in child resistant containers Always store chemicals in their original containers Dispose of unwanted medicines and chemicals safely Avoid buying plants with poisonous leaves or berries or those that can irritate the skin. Suffocating and choking Children can swallow, inhale or choke on items such as small toys, peanuts and marbles. Nappy sacks, used to dispose of soiled nappies, can also pose a risk to babies and young children. We are aware of at least 12 deaths involving these items since 2001, where babies have suffocated after a nappy sack covered their mouth and nose, or have choked after putting a nappy sack in their mouth.

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window Pull cords on curtains and blinds should be kept short and kept out of reach Tie up the cords or use one of the many cleats, cord tidies, clips or ties that are available Do not hang toys or objects that could be a hazard, on the cot or bed. RoSPA does not recommend that cords are cut, even as a short-term solution. Cutting the cord in the wrong place can make the blind inoperable; and it may also lead to one cord becoming a lot longer which increases the risk of entanglement. Cut cords can also become tangled up resulting in the reformation of a loop.

Prevention Typically, we hear about one or two children dying after becoming tangled in blind cords in the UK each year and, of course, there are many more near misses. Research indicates that most accidental deaths involving blind cords happen in the bedroom and occur in children between 16 months and 36 months old, with the majority (more than half) happening at around 23 months.

Drowning Children can drown in less than 3cm of water. They should be under constant supervision when in or near any water. Prevention

Never leave children or babies in the bath unsupervised, even for a moment Never leave uncovered bowls or buckets of water around the home Paddling pools should be emptied and stored away when not in use Don’t hang drawstring bags where a small child could get Garden ponds should be filled in while children are small or securely fenced off. Take special care when visiting other their head through the loop of the drawstring Install blinds that do not have a cord, particularly in a people’s gardens. child’s bedroom Do not place a child’s cot, bed, playpen or highchair near a