No'Ala Magazine Bridal 2011

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Photo of Megan and Merle Stein (and their wedding cake) by Armosa Studios

ON THE COVERS: Who doesn’t love a little variety? For the first time ever, No’Ala is featuring four different covers that give a full-circle perspective of all things dearly beloved from the Shoals. Since many couples become engaged during the holiday season, January and February are significant bridal planning months. This issue celebrates love, commitment, and all of the details required for your special day. Happy planning!

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Contributors Calendar Ten Things You Need to Know to Plan Your Perfect Wedding From Buttonholes to Boutonnieres Engagement Rings A Wedding Checklist Wedding Favors No’Ala Featured Weddings of 2010 Shopping: Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed…

2010 Bridal and Wedding Portraits Engagement Portraits Bless Their Hearts Twenty Questions

January/February 2011 Volume 4: Issue 1 ••• C. Allen Tomlinson Editor-In-Chief David Sims Managing Editor/Design Director Contributing Writers Jeffrey Bibbee Contributing Photographers Donna Berryhill, Christi Britten, Scott Butler, Sallie Cassell, Amanda Chapman, Sharié Crittenden, Bethany and Whitney Dean, Heather Forrester, Sandra and Lee Hollis, Vance James, Susan King, Danny Mitchell, Doug Richardson, Abraham Rowe, Tera and Wes Wages, Shannon Wells, Leslie Willard Business Manager Matthew Liles Frances Adams Marketing Coordinator/Advertising Sales Amy Martin Marketing Assistant Natalie Finley Printing and Distribution Printers and Stationers, Inc. ••• No’Ala is published six times annually by ATSA PO Box 2530, Florence, AL 35630 Phone: 256-766-4222 | Fax: 256-766-4106 Toll-free: 800-779-4222 Web: www.noalamag.com Standard postage paid at Florence, AL. A one-year subscription is $19.95 for delivery in the United States.

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BY

DAVID SIMS

We’re all in the same love boat.

Do any of you remember The Love Boat? It was perhaps one of the cheesiest television shows of the 70’s and 80’s, but I just loved the theme song and its opening line—“Love, exciting and new. Come aboard. We’re expecting you.” Actually, if you think about it, a cruise is a perfect metaphor for marriage: sometimes sunny, sometimes stormy, but always an adventure. If you purchase a ticket, you should be prepared for the journey, because you never know what’s on the horizon—or on the midnight buffet for that matter.

This is our third bridal issue and our biggest magazine to date. We’re so thankful for our advertisers and readers, and we plan to work to make this “marriage” last. This issue is filled with planning calendars, checklists, proper etiquette and advice from north Alabama’s most respected wedding experts. There’s a page of spectacular engagement rings for the future bride, and gift ideas for every member of the wedding party—including some inspired wedding favors for your guests. And we decided to revisit the boutonniere—a rather neglected and misunderstood member of the wedding party—it gets a makeover, courtesy of three very talented Shoals women, and with some beautiful clothes from Billy Reid and Cherry Tree Lane.

But what really makes this issue so special is the breathtaking photos of weddings, both spectacular and simple, sent in by the area’s most talented photographers. We thank them and their brides and grooms for sharing with us some of their most beautiful family moments.

Speaking of planning the perfect wedding, we’ve teamed up with Shoals photographers Tera and Wes Wages of Armosa Studios, and wedding stylist Jordyn Dean (as well as a host of other amazing vendors) to give away the “Perfect Wedding” in the early fall.

Make sure you check out the ad spread in this issue or visit shoalsperfectwedding.com for all the details. Then, enter to win!

As you plan your perfect wedding— or even if you are a guest—remember it’s much more than diamond rings and wedding gowns. No matter our circumstances, I think we all want to share our life with someone special—and there’s no better experience than being able to declare that love surrounded by family and friends. I think that’s something everyone should be able to enjoy, because the Love Boat “promises something for everyone.”

Make sure you check out the ad spread in this issue (page 60) or visit shoalsperfectwedding.com for all the details, and enter to win the Perfect Wedding!

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When Jeffrey Bibbee is not serving as a Best Man or chopping down bamboo, he teaches British History at the University of North Alabama. Jeffrey was raised in Decatur, Alabama, and currently resides in Florence.

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We’re always on the lookout for talented writers in the Shoals area, especially those who have a unique point of view and a great sense of humor about a variety of subjects. If you would like to be considered as a “Bless Their Hearts” guest columnist, send us a sample of something you’ve already written or a link to your writing samples. See our mast for details and addresses.

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Calendar of events January

January 11–February 10 Works by Sam & Amy Collins Kennedy-Douglass Center for the Arts, Florence; 9:00am–4:00pm, Monday–Friday; Free; 256-760-6379 or florenceal.org.

January 18, 2011 Annual Martin Luther King Jr. Breakfast Marriott Shoals Conference Center, Florence; Doors open at 7:30am; Starts at 8:30am; Admission charged; Sponsored by Alpha Phi Kappa; 256-246-3600.

Shoals On Stage Presents: Opole, Philharmonic of Poland Norton Auditorium, UNA Campus, Florence; 7:30pm; $15-35.

One of Poland’s leading Orchestras, the Opole Philharmonic of Poland was founded in 1947 and became the resident Orchestra of Opole. The Opole Philharmonic of Poland has performed with most outstanding piano, violin, and vocal soloists in the world. This is the first transcontinental tour of the U.S. for the Opole Philharmonic of Poland. 256-760-6379 or www.shoalsonstage.com.

January 22, 2011 Miss UNA Pageant Norton Auditorium, UNA Campus, Florence; 7:00pm; Admission charged; Pageant determining who will be crowned the 2011 Miss UNA; 256-765-4658 or www. una.edu.

Chopped Fly Tying Challenge Alabama Outdoors, 468 N. Court St, Florence; Start Time TBA; Free; This is an opportunity to show your skills on the art of fly tying. The same materials will be provided to entrants and a fly must be tied in a time period.The fly will be judged with eliminations, until the fly tying winner is chosen; 256-764-1809.

January 27, 2011 Shoals Community Theatre Presents: The Great American Trailer Park Musical Shoals Theater, 123 N. Seminary St., Florence; 7:30pm; $10-$12 at the door; Storms begin to brew in this comedy. A new tenant in Armadillo Acres is wrecking havoc at Florida’s most exclusive trailer park; 256-764-1700.

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January 29, 2011 Eagle Watch Alabama Outdoors, 468 N. Court St, Florence; 8:00am; Free; Led by Norma Glascock. Meet at Alabama Outdoors and caravan to several areas to view eagles. This is a great way to spend a winter day and experience what our area has to offer; 256-764-1809.

February February 6–Friday, March 11 Joe Romans Wildlife Photography Exhibit Tennessee Valley Museum of Art, 511 N. Water St., Tuscumbia; 9:00am to 5:00pm, Mondays–Fridays and 1:00pm-3:00pm, Sundays; Admission: $5 adults, $3 children; Sundays free; group rates available; Romans will teach a photography workshop introducing students to Adobe Photoshop, 6:00pm–8:00pm, Tuesdays, February 8, 15 and 22 at the museum. Cost is $50 for Tennessee Valley Art Association members and $60 for non-members, ages 16 and up; Call 256-383-0533 or visit tvaa.net.

February 17–March 24 Watercolors by Iain Stewart Kennedy-Douglass Center for the Arts, Florence, 9:00am–4:00pm, Monday–Friday; Free; Details: 256-760-6379 or florenceal.org.

February 24, 2011 Shoals Community Theatre Presents Almost Maine Shoals Theater, 123 N. Seminary St., Florence; 7:30pm; $12 at the door; Hearts are broken, but bruises heal. In this comedy, all is not quite what it seems in Almost, Maine. Residents find themselves falling in and out of love in unexpected, but relatable ways; 256-764-1700.

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Ten Things You Need to Know to Plan Your Perfect Wedding TEXT BY ALLEN TOMLINSON » RESEARCH BY NATALIE FINLEY

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Now, here’s a hard and fast rule that will never, ever change.

If you get a gift, you MUST write a thank you note.

Not only that, you must do it promptly.

You know, of course, that there are a million and one details involved in planning the perfect wedding. It all seems so confusing and overwhelming—who pays for what? What’s the best time of year for a wedding? What colors should you pick—and why? And is it really important to write all of those thank-you notes?

travel. Holidays, such as Christmas, might be perfect if your family typically gathers then anyway; on the other hand, if your family tradition involves people going in totally different directions, a Christmas wedding might be an imposition. Labor Day or Memorial Day, though, might be choice dates because your guests are likely to have a three-day weekend.

The reasons why we do some of the things we do, when it comes to weddings, are obscure and hidden in tradition. Some of the rules are hard and unchangeable, and some are a little more flexible. But when you get right to it, there are ten major areas of stress for every bride. Here they are—with some ideas about how to navigate. Relax—and enjoy the process!

Remember that some religions limit weddings during certain times of the year, such as Lent or Passover. Check with your officiant to see if any restrictions apply to the date you have in mind.

(10) Timing is everything.

Choosing the wedding date is more involved than simply finding a date when the church is available. There are months that are more popular than others for weddings, and there are reasons why. If you are planning a wedding on a budget, you may be able to save money by planning for an off-peak wedding.

Discounts might apply—it’s the old rule of supply and demand.

The most popular months for weddings in the Unites States are June, September, August, May, October and July. Because of that, venues book early and can be more expensive. That perfect spot—The Lodge at Doublehead Resort, St. Florian Fiber Farm, Burritt on the Mountain, or the Robert Trent Jones Clubhouse, to name a few—might already be spoken for, or, if they are available, might command a premium price during the high-volume wedding months.

The reason these months are most popular is because they are warm weather months and part, if not all, of the ceremony can be held outdoors. If you select a totally indoor venue, you aren’t limited to the warm weather months; the best months for a budget wedding are January, February and March, because demand for locations is lower and prices are, too.

If you’re planning a destination wedding, weather is definitely a consideration. A beach wedding at the Alabama coast sounds great, but not during the rainy season. A wedding at a more exotic locale, such as the Caribbean, will be more expensive during peak tourist season; you might get a better deal off season. If you’re considering a place like Disney World, check their season and see if an off-peak wedding will fit your schedule and your budget.

Time of day is the next consideration. Late afternoon or early evening weddings are usually more formal and more expensive than morning or early afternoon weddings. An evening wedding also carries the expectation of some sort of meal at the reception, which can add to the cost. If you’re on a strict budget, an early afternoon wedding might be best, since your guests will expect some nice treats but not a full-blown meal at the reception. But don’t worry—you can have an informal affair in the evening, if you’d like, or a formal affair at high noon. That’s one of those flexible things.

(9) I have to pay for what?

A few qualifications before this discussion: these are guidelines and are based on tradition. If you want to pay for everything, it’s certain the groom’s family will be happy to let you. On the other hand, it could be that you and your fiancé have decided to pay for everything yourselves, which is admirable; in that case, skip to the next rule.

Traditionally, the bride’s family pays for: • Wedding dress and accessories • Flowers for the wedding and reception, including the bouquet, bridesmaid’s flowers, and the floral arrangements for the reception. In some cases, the groom will pay for the bouquet, but that is an item for negotiation • Music at the wedding and at the reception • Photographer and videographer • Groom’s wedding ring • The reception. This includes the cost of the food, cake, entertainment, venue, and everything else • Accommodations for the bridesmaids • Transportation for the bridesmaids to the wedding and reception • Bridesmaid’s luncheon and gifts

Another consideration has to do with your guests. Do you have family with school aged children? Take their school year schedule into consideration, especially if they will have to

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Time of day is the next consideration. Late afternoon or early evening weddings are usually more formal and more expensive than morning or early afternoon weddings.

Traditionally, the groom’s family pays for: • Engagement ring and bride’s wedding ring • The bridal bouquet, in some cases; this is an item for negotiation • All costs of the rehearsal dinner • The marriage license • The cost of the officiant • All costs for the honeymoon • Gifts for the groomsmen • Boutonnieres for the groomsmen • Accommodations for the groomsmen Bridesmaids traditionally pay for their dresses and transportation to the wedding. Groomsmen traditionally pay for their suit rental and transportation to the wedding. Out of town guests traditionally pay for their own travel and accommodations.

Does this make you nervous? Throw away this “traditional” list and make some traditions of your own.

(8) Don’t invite trouble.

Once you’ve decided on the date of the wedding, booked your venue, and negotiated your budgets, it’s time to consider the invitations. A good quality printer, like PSI, can help you select the style and typography, but there are a few additional things to consider.

Order extra. It doesn’t matter how well you plan, there will likely be someone you must invite whom you have forgotten to put on the list. At the very least, order extra envelopes, in case you make a mistake in addressing. And remember, you may want to have an extra invitation for your scrapbook.

Give your guests plenty of time. You need time to address and mail the invitations; they need time to respond, so you have an accurate head count. Consider, also, where you want to have the responses sent; is this something you have time to handle yourself, or can your mother or maid of honor help with this part of the process?

Make sure you include the proper postage. Sounds simple, but how embarrassed would you be if all of your beautiful invitations were returned—or delivered with postage due? And for goodness sake, make sure you spell your guests’ names correctly!

The flexible rules have to do with how large your wedding guest list will be. Do you need to invite your third cousinsonce-removed? Do you need to invite everyone in your

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mother’s sewing club? Those are the negotiable items that you and your fiancé get to decide. Budgets will determine much of it; family politics will dictate the rest.

Oh, and please don’t include things in your wedding invitation that are just, well, tacky. Your gift registry, for one; don’t tell people what to wear or whether or not there will be alcohol at the wedding. Putting “no children” on the invitation is unnecessary; the way the invitation is addressed will let the guests know whether or not kids are welcome. And whatever you do, don’t address your invitations using an Avery label and a fancy typeface from your computer. Take the time to hand-address.

Trust us on this one.

(7) Receiving gifts graciously Please don’t be the bride who goes on a registry frenzy and registers for everything currently available anywhere, just because.

Take some time to carefully consider the types of items you really need to set up a household, and make sure to include items in every price range. Some of your guests will be able to give generously; some won’t but they still want to give.

Remember that local specialty shops have wonderful items that are likely to be unique and personal, and most have bridal registries. It’s nice if they have websites for your out of town guests, but you might also consider registering at national chains too, for that reason. Don’t register for the same thing at different stores; you don’t want to encourage duplication. And don’t be offended if your guests don’t use the registry!

Now, here’s a hard and fast rule that will never, ever change. If you get a gift, you MUST write a thank you note. Not only that, you must do it promptly. And please, don’t be the bride who writes a formulaic thank you, as if you’re stamping them out of a mold. Take a moment to reflect on what the gift means to you, or what the giver means; tell the giver how you will think of them when the gift is used, or how much it means to you that you have been thought of. The actual words are not as important as the acknowledgement that this person has taken time and gone to the expense of remembering you on your special occasion. It means a lot, and it cannot be ignored.

There is no excuse for not having your notes written and sent within three months of the wedding. And yes, ladies, it is perfectly acceptable to have the groom share in the task of thank-you note writing. Even more reason not to let this task linger!

(6) Why do brides wear white?

They didn’t always, you know. It used to be that brides just picked out their best dress, pinned flowers on it, and that was the wedding gown. Later, colors were chosen for their symbolism: blue was chosen to symbolize faithfulness; green for youth; red was also a popular color, but yellow, which was thought to represent jealousy, was not. Brides who didn’t have a lot of money would wear white robes to signify that she brought nothing to the wedding and therefore the groom would not be responsible for any of her debts. But when Queen Victoria appeared at her wedding in a white gown, the color white became the most popular color for brides, and the color white began to represent purity, rather than poverty.

Today brides traditionally wear white whether it’s the first, second, third, fourth wedding…or whatever.

The formality of your wedding has more to do with the style of dress than anything. For the most formal weddings, brides traditionally wear long white dresses with trains, and veils and gloves are common. Grooms and groomsmen at these affairs wear gray cutaway coats, white shirts and ascots, and gloves; bridesmaids traditionally wear long dresses in a color of the bride’s choosing. For less formal weddings, grooms and groomsmen wear traditional tuxedos, and at the more informal weddings they wear dark suits. But don’t be bound by these traditional rules—wear what you want and make your own tradition. This is one of those rules that isn’t set in stone and offers plenty of room for the couple’s personality to show.

(5) Get me to the church on time.

The ceremony itself can be highly traditional or highly creative; this is your choice. Much of it will be dictated by how formal the affair, or by the location; as much fun as it looks on television, having your wedding party flash dance down the aisle of a solemn chapel or cathedral might not be as appropriate as having that happen on the beach. Most religious observations have certain things that have to be done—the repeating of the vows, the exchange of rings, and in some cases the celebration of Eucharist, “jumping the broom” or crushing a wine glass for good luck—but even then, there is opportunity for the bridal couple to express their individuality. Perhaps it’s a song, or writing your own vows, or including someone special in the wedding party. This part is up to you.

The rules, here, are to make your guests comfortable. If you are having a traditional service and many of your guests are unfamiliar with the liturgy, you might consider a program so they can follow the order of service. Keep public displays of affection tasteful, of course, and even though this is your special day, remember that keeping the audience there for hours might not be as fully appreciated as you think. Whatever you do, be on time. You don’t want to be late for your own wedding!

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When Queen Victoria appeared at her wedding in a white gown, the color white became the most popular color for brides.

The color began to represent purity, rather than poverty.

(4) To be or not to be (your own wedding planner)

also talk to you about savings and investment strategies. Financial issues can cause stress in a relationship, so it’s smart to go ahead and talk about it on the front end.

If a wedding is really nothing more than a very complicated, multi-faceted party to celebrate the union of two souls, it could be something you can do yourself, right? Or maybe not.

Should you enlist the services of a wedding planner?

You’ll be setting up housekeeping somewhere, so don’t forget to let people know your new address—assuming, of course, that you aren’t going to live in your existing home.

In large cities, wedding planners handle every detail of the event, from the venue to the caterer, musicians, wedding cake and everything in between. If you’re that busy, and have that much additional money in the budget, it’s definitely worth it to use someone who is experienced and known by the vendors who will be involved.

And write those thank-you notes.

(2) It’s all about you, but not really.

If that’s a little too much, or if you really want to do much of it yourself, consider hiring a stylist, such as Jordyn Dean, to give you a cohesive direction. Others are available just to coordinate the actual ceremony; churches typically have a bridal specialist on hand to help rehearse the ceremony and then stand by during the wedding to tell people when to walk down the aisle.

The bottom line depends on the bottom line. If you’re highly organized, planning and executing your own wedding should be a piece of cake. If you’re not, or you just don’t have any extra time, investing in a professional might make the entire process more enjoyable. It’s up to you!

For most brides, a wedding is the opportunity to garner all of the attention. It’s like being Princess for a Day, when all eyes will be upon you, and one rule always applies: every bride is beautiful.

(3) What happens when the ceremony is all over?

It does not make for wonderful memories. Yes, this day is all about the bride, but the smart bride knows it’s all about the guests, too. These are your friends and family, gathered to watch you enter into a legal and spiritual partnership, and they are here because they love you. The wise bride doesn’t take advantage of this fact, and actually performs the role of hostess, making sure the guests are having a good time. Most likely, the weddings you remember most fondly are not the ones where the bride demanded attention; it’s the one where the guests actually had a good time.

The responsibilities of a wedding aren’t completed when the officiant pronounces you husband and wife. There are lots of things left to do!

After the reception and the honeymoon, if the bride has elected to take her husband’s name, there are papers to fill out.

Don’t forget to inform: • Social Security • Credit card companies • Motor Vehicle department • Employer • Credit card companies • School alumni associations • Doctors and dentists • Passport agency • Voter registration Beginning a life together means starting a financial relationship as well. Some banks, such as First Southern Bank, or CB&S Bank are happy to discuss your options with you concerning joint or separate bank accounts; a financial advisor can

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Get used to being introduced as “Mr. and Mrs.”!

Have you ever watched those horrible television shows about “bridezillas”? The reason we are so fascinated with them is that they are all, every last one of them, selfish beyond belief. We watch as ordinary young women morph into monsters and make impossible demands on their spouses, their wedding parties, and their families. It’s narcissism run wild, and it makes great television.

(1) Marry your best friend.

If you do this, the rest will take care of itself. Relax, enjoy the process… and enjoy married life! N

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PHOTOS BY DANNY MITCHELL » MAKEUP BY NATALIE FAGGIONI » HAIR BY JANAE’ BURNSIDE STYLING FOR BILLY REID BY JONATHAN SKAGFIELD

Made with bits of leather, feathers, silk flowers, ribbon, string, buttons—even bullet casings—the boutonniere gets a 21st Century makeover by Dena McClure, Jordyn Dean, and Ashley Morrow.

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Raleigh Green’s outfit by Billy Reid (billyreid.com) Krystina Bole’s dress from Cherry Tree Lane, Florence Boutonniere by Jordyn Dean, Darling Darlings (starting at $15)

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Wedding dress and tuxedos from Cherry Tree Lane, Florence Boutonniere on brown tuxedo by Jordyn Dean, Darling Darlings (starting at $15) Boutonnieres on black and grey tuxedos by Ashley Morrow, Amo Jewelry (Prices vary)

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Suit, shirt, and tie by Billy Reid Boutonniere by Dena McClure, Relique, Urban Boutonnieres (Prices vary)

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Suit and tie from Cherry Tree Lane, Florence Boutonniere on brown tuxedo by Jordyn Dean, Darling Darlings (starting at $15)

Suit, shirt, and tie by Billy Reid

Sport Jacket and shirt by Billy Reid

Boutonniere by Dena McClure, Relique, Urban Boutonnieres (Prices vary)

Boutonniere by Jordyn Dean, Darling Darlings (starting at $15)

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Providing Insurance and Financial Services

Myron Gardner, LUTCF 1819 Darby Drive, Florence, AL 35630 Bus 256-764-2234;Cell 256-335-6080 Email myron.gardner.b17k@statefarm.com

Phil Wiginton 419 Cox Boulevard, Sheffield, AL, 35660 Bus 256-383-4521; Cell 256-762-5859 Email phil@philwiginton.com

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Handle with Care .51 ctw 18kt White Gold Diamond Ring with Round Brilliant Center (Starting at $2,500) Grogan Jewelers

5.08 ctw Royal Asscher Diamond in Platinum setting (Price upon request) Grogan Jewelers (256) 764-4013 www.groganjewelers.com

Kirk Kara 18kt White Gold Semi Mounting Round Diamond Ring (.12 ctw round diamond with .12 ctw marquis sapphires) ($2,720.00) Meffords Jewelers

Kirk Kara 18kt White Gold Semi Mounting Round Diamond Ring (.35 ctw round with .07 ctw diamond baguettes) ($3,130.00) Meffords Jewelers (256) 764-2632 www.meffords.com

.50 ctw 2 Tone Rose and White Gold Diamond Ring ($1,100.00) Jamie Hood Jewelers (256) 381-6889 www.jamiehoodonline.com

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1.20 ctw 18kt White Gold Semi Mounting Diamond Ring ($2,225.00) Jamie Hood Jewelers

Historic Locust Hill, for all of your special events.

Listed on the National Register of Historic Homes.

www.locusthillevents.com Elise Gilchrist ebgil@att.net

256-710-7093

Circa 1823 • 209 S. Cave Street, Tuscumbia, AL

The Hilltop at Glenwood. Assisted living for those who have active minds and just need a little bit of help.

Nationally recognized for the quality of its care, Glenwood Healthcare provides rehabilitation, nursing home facilities...and assisted living at The Hilltop. Assisted, for sure. Living — definitely!

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Planning Your Big Day–Month by Month 9 to 12 months prior • Establish your wedding budget • Decide on your wedding date • Determine the number of guests and start working on your guest list • Research and book your wedding and reception venues • Choose your wedding theme and colors • Determine and book the officiant for the ceremony • Choose your bridal party and invite them to be a part of your special day • Research, interview and book caterer • Research, interview and book photographer and/or videographer • Research, interview and book florist • Research, interview and book a DJ or band for the reception • Find the perfect dress, veil, accessories and shoes for the big day • Select bridesmaids dresses (this is traditionally done with the help of the maid/matron of honor) • Create your bridal registry • Start planning your honeymoon

Have a budget for everything! Know what you want, but also know what you want to pay. Providing your caterer with this information will tell them everything they need to know to make your day exactly the way you envision it. » Carole Graves, Sweet Basil Café

6 to 8 months prior • Meet with your wedding coordinator • Select and order your announcements, invitations and stationary • Choose your wedding rings • Arrange for engagement photos to be taken • Announce your engagement to the world through the local newspaper • Decide on and make accommodations for out-of-town attendants and guests • Attend your first gown fitting with your maid of honor • Select attire for your flower girl and ring bearer

Stationary rules are not etched in stone. Etiquette is based on common sense and courtesy. There are certain things you must include on your invites (time, date, location) but the purpose is to say it as graciously as possible while incorporating your own personal style and expressing your joy. There isn’t a right or wrong way to complete the task. It all depends on what is best for the ceremony and the couple. » Beth Cox, Printers and Stationers

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Hire a professional! It’s the most important day of your life.

Look through fashion magazines for makeup trends, the same way you would look for your dress and hairstyles. The more ideas you bring to the table, the easier it is for the makeup artist to create your perfect look. » Natalie Faggioni, Professional Makeup Artist

3 to 5 months prior • Start pre-marital counseling • Interview the bakeries or baker designing your cake.

Don’t forget to taste samples • Finalize wedding details with the officiant • Book honeymoon • Address wedding invitations • Schedule your trial run and wedding day hair /makeup with your salon • Make reservations or start planning the rehearsal dinner (the grooms parents traditionally handle this task) • Update your registry (be sure to register in hometowns of both the bride and groom) • Create maps and accommodation lists for out-of-town guests • Pay all deposits and confirm that all wedding vendor contracts have been signed • The couple’s mothers should select their dresses • Make reservations for post-wedding brunch

The dress sets the tone for the entire wedding. If you decide on a satin dress, which is more formal, make sure the fabric for your bridesmaids’ dresses is just as formal. Order your dress as soon as possible—it takes 12 weeks for your dress to arrive and another three weeks for alterations. » Krystina Bole, Cherry Tree Lane

2 months prior • Make sure groomsmen have been fitted for suiting (we recommend making the appointment for them) • Start thinking about bridesmaids/groomsmen gifts • Make reservations for the bridesmaids’ luncheon • Final gown fitting!

• Order stamps from the post office • Attend your showers (the maid of honor should document gift/giver information for thank you notes)

Book a florist nine to twelve months prior to your big day.

Update your registry three to five months prior to the wedding day.

6 weeks prior • Mail invitations • Mail thank you notes for shower gifts • Purchase favors and other wedding accessories

TEXT BY NATALIE FINLEY

the final week 1 week prior

Sample, sample, sample! Be sure to schedule an appointment for your cake tasting and order at least six months in advance for medium to large weddings and four months in advance for smaller, more intimate weddings. It is very important for you to be comfortable with the person or company you’ve entrusted to construct your cake. » Judy Oliver, Victorian Tea Room

• Host bridesmaids’ luncheon. (This is traditionally the occasion you give a gift to your bridesmaids.)

• Start packing for your honeymoon (sooner is always better than later) • Give wedding planner all vendor payments in labeled and sealed envelopes for wedding day distribution

1 month prior • Arrange for bridal portraits to be taken • Make return arrangements for mens formal wear • Make sure all wedding attendants know times for the rehearsal dinner and wedding • Purchase your marriage license • Finalize details with all vendors and venues • Meet with your wedding planner to finalize plans for the rehearsal dinner and wedding • Attend your mock wedding day hair and makeup appointment

When making a decision about event setup, an expandable tent is always the best choice. Bad weather and unexpected guests can’t always be prevented, but you can definitely be prepared for both. » Jackie Hendrix, Party Pros

2 weeks prior • • • •

Confirm honeymoon reservations Confirm rehearsal dinner reservations Confirm final head count with the caterer Confirm dates for final vendor payments (most payments are due 2 weeks prior)

As soon as the date is set, start thinking about your hairstyle and book a consultation to discuss your ideas. Bring as much information about your day as possible. Decide how you want to look, natural or glamorous. Everything should complement everything else—from your hair and makeup to the flow of your gown. » Andy Cagle, Andy’s The Professionals

Choose your wedding rings six to eight months prior to your wedding.

the day before • Finish packing for the honeymoon • Don’t forget to have an emergency kit packed for the ceremony (stain remover, safety pins, aspirin, etc.)

• Have fun at the rehearsal dinner • Make sure the best man and the wedding coordinator have everything for the officiant and the wedding (marriage license) • Stay with family and hit the sack early—you have a big day tomorrow!

the Wedding Day • • • •

Eat breakfast Attend manicure and pedicure appointment Attend Hair/Makeup Appointment Make sure the maid of honor and best man have your rings • Have fun!

After the wedding…

• Arrange for your gifts to be transported from the reception • Make sure all legal documents are updated if you didn’t do so before the wedding (name change forms) • Mail all thank-you notes • Have your gown preserved

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DANNY MITCHELL PHOTOGRAPHY

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Member, Professional Photographers of America

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For parents of the bridal couple, this is your special day, too!

For your special day, you want to look your best. At Oral & Facial Surgery of the Shoals, we have some options that will make you look and feel great, including: • ProFractional treatments to reduce fine lines and wrinkles • MicroLaserPeel to give skin a healthy glow • SkynTyte to improve skin laxity • Photorejuvination to remove sun and age spots • Dental implants for the perfect smile • Botox,™ Restylane™ and Obagi™ products Ask us about other cosmetic procedures to help you look and feel your very best. After all, this is your special day, too!

Call Doctors McIlwain, Nester or Frederick at 256-383-1499 to arrange for an appointment. We’d love to help you look your best!

(256) 383-1499 398 Ashe Boulevard Sheffield AL 35660 www.oralandfacialoftheshoals.com

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{ guess who I saw }

Debbie Overcash, HSO Guild President, and Marie Newberry, Ball Chairman (both center) and The 2010 Symphony Ball Committee

Debs and their fathers get into position for the first dance Virgil and Gerry Schaffer

Ball Chairman Marie Newberry with her Ball Advisory Board

Tom and Sarah Hereford, Sybil Wilkinson, and Nancy and Richard Van Valkenburgh

Above: Huntsville Symphony Orchestra Guild’s Symphony Ball

Below: Hospice of the Shoals Christmas Luncheon DECEMBER 16, 2010  HOSPICE OF THE SHOALS

NOVEMBER 6, 2010  HUNTSVILLE , ALABAMA

Michelle Cooper, Kim Mitchell, and Lisa Chandler

Sylvia Wilmer, Kay Lowery, Ginny McDonald, and Sarah Hereford

Brenda Gooch and Betty Burdine

Dee Mussleman and Betty Wright Janet Port and Judy Long

Vera Schramm and Margie Moore

Tim Corley and Janice Hulsizer

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Brandy Blanton, Debbie Collum, Cathy Camp, Michelle Cooper, and Lisa Chandler

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FABULOUS

Dry-roasted peanuts make a great favor for casual, southern weddings. Peanut brittle or cheese straws are also a good choice.

FAVORS Sending your guests home with something special doesn’t have to be expensive. Here are some of our favorites for southern weddings!

Personalize homemade or store-bought whoopie pies with your initials!

Donut holes make a great take-away after a long night of dancing!

Send your guests away with a night-cap they can enjoy when they get home.

These votives can be customized both in scent and color for a very special favor!

Credits: Ribbon and Fabric from Thread (256) 383-2223 Dog Treats from Pet Depot (256) 760-7000 Votives from Scent-Sations Candles & Gifts (256) 764-8099 Glazed Donut Holes from the Donut Shoppe (256) 768-4198 Clear gift bags, boxes, and tags can all be purchased at local craft stores.

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Couples may make a donation to their favorite charity (like an animal rescue organization) and highlight it at the reception with an appropriate take-away.

These Tiffany-hued Chinese takeout boxes are packed with miniature popcorn balls, but you could also fill them with fortune cookies or jelly beans.

Gourmet cafĂŠ and catering for your special occasion, with a menu that is delicious and distinctly different.

Make your wedding plans unique — at your place or ours.

256.766.2414

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Wedding Band A Musical Couple Lands the Ultimate Gig in Rogersville

JASON AND JAIME

HERNDON •

MAY 22, 2010 BLUEWATER CREEK POLO CLUB • PHOTOS BY

ABRAHAM ROWE & SUSAN KING

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On a beautiful May day at the Bluewater Creek Polo Club, Jaime and Jason exchanged their vows, surrounded by family and friends…with limited electricity and no running water. “Our wedding was unique because we did it all ourselves,” says Jaime. “From my Mom’s homemade Italian dinner, my cocktail-hour hors d’ouvres, the dance floor my Dad built, to the lighting of the tent, which was my husband’s project, it was truly a family affair.”

The bride has family in Connecticut, where they were engaged on the night of her grandmother’s 80th birthday. Even though Jason had never met the family before, he enlisted their help for the proposal, and “once I said yes and we shared the moment together, I looked around to find a dozen googly-eyed cousins looking in on us from the kitchen,” Jaime said. “We celebrated with twenty-five cousins, aunts and uncles—and it was perfect.”

The bride spent months before the wedding scouring thrift stores to put together a unique collection of mismatched vintage china, over 500 pieces in all. The china was one more elegant addition to this unique wedding. The reception dinner was prepared by the family, and friends made the cake and arranged the flowers. It seemed everyone got to play a part in the weddingon-a-budget, but “you don’t have to compromise your vision because of the budget,” says the bride. “Creativity, resourcefulness and hard work are all you need...and when people offer to help, delegate. That’s the hardest part!” The result, in this case, was sheer elegance.

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“From my Mom’s homemade Italian dinner, my cocktail-hour hors d’ouvres, the dance floor my Dad built, to the lighting of the tent, which was my husband’s project, it was truly a family affair.” —Jaime Herndon

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MOLLY AND KEVIN

PARTLOW •

JUNE 19, 2010 BIRMINGHAM, ALABAMA • PHOTOS BY

ARMOSA STUDIOS

After a traditional ceremony at Highlands United Methodist Church in Birmingham, Molly and Kevin Partlow rode to their reception at The Club, a Birmingham landmark, in a vintage Rolls Royce convertible lent to the couple by best friend Janie Dill. Very fitting for a couple who became engaged in London, at Green Park overlooking Buckingham Palace.

“I replied, ‘Are you serious?’ about four times before I finally believed he was and said yes!” said Molly.

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“The engagement goes by so fast,” said Molly. “My advice to other brides-to-be is to relax and enjoy every moment.” It’s clear that the bridal couple worked hard to make sure everyone in attendance had a good time, too.

“I replied, ‘Are you serious?’ about four times before I finally believed he was and said yes!”

—Molly Partlow

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A Shore Thing A Young Couple’s DIY Wedding Proves You Don’t Have to Spend a Lot of Money to Get Big Impact

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DANIELLE AND WES

TODD •

JUNE 19, 2010 SANTA ROSA BEACH. FLORIDA • PHOTOS BY

AMANDA CHAPMAN

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“Remember that this is your day, and your soon-to-be-husband’s day. Don’t get so wrapped up in planning and stress that you forget what the day is really about.”

—Danielle Todd

It was everything a bride dreams of: the day was perfect for a beach wedding, the meticulous planning had resulted in an event that flowed smoothly, and the reception was at the bride’s favorite Mexican restaurant—“not your typical venue, but we love Mexican food!” says the bride. Everything adhered to a strict budget, but nothing suffered because of that; it was an ideal destination wedding.

The wedding dress was from J. Crew; the flowers were purchased at WalMart but reassembled by the mother of the bride into spectacular bouquets. The cake was made by Publix, all of which proves that small budgets don’t have to limit style and creativity.

And the bride’s advice to others? “Remember that this is your day, and your soon-to-be-husband’s day. Don’t get so wrapped up in planning and stress that you forget what the day is really about.”

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Floral Design, Event Planning & Home Accessories • (256) 383-2299 • 214 North Montgomery Avenue, Sheffield, Alabama January/February 2011 | 53

Love in Full Bloom

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“Kevin surprised me with a trip to the North Carolina shore,” said Lauren, “and that night we grabbed a bottle of wine and headed out to the beach for some stargazing.

The night was clear, but there was a lightning storm over the water. Eventually, I got up to leave, but he wouldn’t budge; I held out my hand to pull him to his feet, but he ended up on one knee instead.

That’s when he popped the question!”

Mitchell Plantation is simple, classic, and “seemed to possess everything we love about southern culture,” said Lauren Marcilliat. And who could resist marrying under a natural arch formed by two towering magnolia trees, in full blossom in the May afternoon?

Guests from all over the country gathered in Belle Mina, Alabama, to witness the marriage and take part in a truly southern experience.

LAUREN & KEVIN

MARCILLIAT • MAY 22, 2010 MITCHELL PLANTATION, BELLE MINA, ALABAMA • PHOTOS BY

LESLIE WILLARD

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“This is the day you’ve dreamed of for years,” said Lauren, “and you want to remember it forever. Take time to dance, talk to your friends and family, and, for heaven’s sake, eat something! If you can just relax, you will remember every detail of your special day and cherish those memories for a lifetime.”

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“Who could resist marrying under a natural arch formed by two towering magnolia trees, in full blossom on a May afternoon?”

—Lauren Marcilliat

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Catering, for two or two hundred.

From gourmet catering to fine wines and legendary sweet things, we’d love to help you with your special occasion.

It’s what we do best!

1627 Darby Drive in English Village, Florence (256) 764-5991

Like a Good Neighbor, State Farm is there.

Providing Insurance and Financial Services

Frank Dean, Agent 2001 Florence Blvd Florence AL 35630-2731 256-764-6861 877-286-8440 (toll free) frank.dean.gyyg@statefarm.com

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Can you fill these shoes?

THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO WIN THE SHOALS PERFECT WEDDING! Are you dreaming about a wedding that’s like no other?

Are you looking for that perfect mix of Southern heritage, sophisticated chic, and drop-dead gorgeous style?

We may have just what you’re looking for: it’s the Shoals Perfect Wedding!

No’Ala Magazine, Armosa Studios, and Wedding Stylist Jordyn Dean have teamed together with a selection of the Shoals area’s top wedding experts to give you an experience you will never forget…and neither will your guests.

We’ll help you design and carry off the wedding of your dreams, at little or no cost to you, and then we’ll feature it as the cover story in the 2012 Bridal issue of No’Ala Magazine.

This will be an experience the Shoals will be talking about. This will be the Perfect Wedding.

Here’s what we’re looking for: A bride from the Shoals area or with ties here.

You have to currently live here, or you must have grown up here, have family here, and plan to have your wedding here.

Someone willing to relax and let the experts work their magic.

Someone who will agree to set their wedding date on September 24, 2010.

Someone who will let us document the process, and who is willing to blog about it at www.ShoalsPerfectWedding.com.

Here’s what we’ll offer: Wedding stylist Jordyn Dean will meet with you to learn about your personality and help you create the perfect event.

Armosa Studios will document the major milestones of this event.

Other partners include Andy’s, Cherry Tree Lane, Coker Family Dentistry, Dish Café, First Southern Bank, Grogan Jewelers, Halsey House, Lola’s Gifts & Flowers, Magpie Designs, Meffords Jewelers, Natalie Faggioni, Party Pros, Printers and Stationers, Sweet Basil Café, Side Lines, Table 18, The French Basket, The Sweet Magnolia Café, The Wine Seller, and Thread, with more added every day!

The value of this package exceeds $20,000, but the memories will be priceless.

Interested? Here’s what you do: To apply, brides must submit an inspiration board, by February 1, 2011. Boards must be delivered to the No’Ala office at 250 S. Poplar Street in Florence or Armosa Studios, 222 N. Court Street in Florence. For information about how to produce an inspiration board, please visit www.ShoalsPerfectWedding.com.

Finalists are subject to a personal interview by the Perfect Wedding Team. Finalists will be decided by February 15, 2011, and the winner will be announced at Friday, March 4, 2011.

The wedding will take place on September 24, 2011, and will be featured as the cover story for the Bridal issue of No’Ala Magazine in January of 2012.

Got questions?

Visit www.ShoalsPerfectWedding.com for details. And if you want the picture perfect wedding, get started on your inspiration board today.

You might win the wedding of your dreams!

DEADLINE: Tuesday, February 1, 2011

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BEN AND SARAH BETH

ALEXANDER • JUNE 26, 2010 SEASIDE, FLORIDA • PHOTOS BY

HEATHER FORRESTER

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Seaside Interfaith Chapel in Seaside, Florida, was reason enough to expect that the wedding of Sarah Beth and Ben Alexander would be unique. The beautiful white chapel served as a backdrop for the seashell and starfish details that Sara Beth incorporated throughout the event. “There is no need to stress; if you stay focused on your future husband, your life together and the loved ones who have gathered around you, things will be great,” she said.

“Stay focused on your future husband, your life together and the loved ones who have gathered around you and things will be great.”

—Sarah Beth Alexander

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“I am a huge New Orleans Saints fan,” said Sarah Beth, and the night before the wedding they met the Saints’ Head Coach, Sean Peyton, at a local restaurant. He wished the couple luck on their wedding and their married life, and “it was awesome!” Perhaps that chance meeting was a sign of good things to come for this couple.

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End of life issues are challenging for the entire family...we understand. We are Hospice of the Shoals, the first hospice in the Shoals, and a non-profit organization since the beginning. We provide compassionate care for the entire family— because we understand.

256-767-6699

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Hospice of the Shoals—Share the Love!

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SARABETH & BRAD

PHILLIPS •

JUNE 26, 2010 FLORENCE, ALABAMA • PHOTOS BY

ARMOSA STUDIOS

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“I married my best friend,” said Sarabeth Phillips. “One of the things that made our wedding unique was that all of my bridesmaids wore the same dress, but in a different color. That was because of my flowers. I found the flowers I wanted, mainly white, but with infusions of different colors in them.

Each of the groomsmen’s boutonnieres had baby’s breath that matched the girl he was paired with.”

Sarabeth advises brides-to-be to “be organized. I had a file folder that had a separate section for every aspect of the wedding, from flowers to cake to bridesmaids to my dress, and so on.

Staying organized helped me have a huge wedding without getting stressed out; by the time the day came, everything was taken care of. All I had to do was show up and enjoy the day with my husband.”

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We make your occasions SPECIAL!

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Savannah Belle A Shoals Couple Ties the Knot in the Historic Garden City

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LINDSAY AND DERRICK

BRIGHT •

AUGUST 1, 2010 SAVANNAH, GEORGIA • PHOTOS BY

ARMOSA STUDIOS

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The beautiful Westin Savannah Harbor Golf Resort and Spa in Savannah, Georgia, was the location for Lindsay Michelle Powell’s wedding to Derrick Matthew Bright. After the ceremony, the wedding party and their guests took the “Savannah Belle” water ferry across the river to the reception at Vic’s On The River.

“My advice is to figure out what wedding style fits you best and try not to deter from it,” said Lindsay. “And best of all, you don’t have to break the bank to have a beautiful and unique wedding that fits your personality.”

“My advice is to figure out what wedding style fits you best and try not to deter from it.” —Lindsay Bright

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“All that really matters is that you really do get to marry your prince!”

—Freda Butler

FREDA & DARREN

BUTLER •

OCTOBER 30, 2010 HOME OF DR. JEFFREY BIBBEE •

PHOTOS BY

ABRAHAM ROWE & SUSAN KING

An outdoor wedding on a beautiful fall day, in the backyard of a friend at Spanish Oaks Court in Florence; that was just the beginning of a unique experience for the wedding party and their guests as Freda and Darren pledged their vows.

“Our wedding was vintage, with clothing styles from the 1920’s, 30’s and 40’s,” said Freda. “The guests came dressed in vintage clothing, and our photographer set up a photo booth so the guests could have their pictures taken as party gifts.”

“Enjoy every moment of your day,” is Freda’s advice. “Know that everything won’t go as smoothly as the fairy tales you heard when you were a child…but all that really matters is that you really do get to marry your prince!”

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1311 E. Sixth St Muscle Shoals, AL 35661 (256) 389-0466

Chef Jeff Eubanks invites you to join him at the Shoals Area’s newest restaurant, Table 18.

Conveniently located at Cypress Lakes Country Club in Muscle Shoals. Delicious food in a relaxed atmosphere. Your table is waiting!

Plan your wedding and reception at Cypress Lakes • We cater all special events!

A Family Affair COURTNEY & DAMON

THOMPSON • SEPTEMBER 18, 2010 TUSCUMBIA, ALABAMA • PHOTOS BY

BUTLER STUDIO

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An evening ceremony at Calvary Baptist Church in Tuscumbia was followed by a reception at historic Locust Hill, and everything about the entire event had family— especially children— in mind. It seemed almost everyone in both large families had a role to play, and there was significance in every detail. The minister, Courtney’s first pastor, had married her parents 27 years before!

Courtney, her mother and her grandmother planned the event.

Vintage saucers were used to serve the bride’s cake; Courtney’s grandmother hand-made lace handkerchiefs for the mothers and grandmothers to use during the ceremony, and all four of the bride and groom’s nieces and nephews were included in the wedding party. Cousins and Courtney’s sister sang; Damon’s cousin was the announcer at the reception. This was a family event…and that was significant, too.

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We’ll Make You Shine For all of your special events, count on Party Pros to make it extraordinary. From tents and chairs to tables, lights and china—and now tuxedos!— trust your special event to the event specialists at Party Pros.

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BY SHARIÉ

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At 6:00 p.m. on a beautiful May day, Lindsey and Chase Goode were married in an outdoor ceremony at the Robert Trent Jones Golf Trail. “The most unusual thing about my wedding was my special wedding cake, but it was not white,” said Lindsey. “It was a light honeydew green with ivory piping and ivory roses on top.

It was the cherry on top of the perfect day!”

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Opole: Philharmonic of Poland

Tuesday, January 18, 7:30pm, at Norton Auditorium Tickets available at the door, at the Kennedy-Douglass Center, or online at shoalsonstage.com

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Kid-Friendly Fete A Couple Makes the Children an Important Part of Their Special Day

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KENDALL & ANDREW

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JULY 17, 2010 STONE BRIDGE FARM, ALABAMA • PHOTOS BY

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Kendall and Andrew love kids, and it was important to them that they include as many of their young cousins as they could— including five flower girls! The reception included a kid’s table and an ice cream sundae bar. “I think having everything so geared toward kids made everyone relax and have a good time,” said Kendall.

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The Red Violin Join the Huntsville Symphony Orchestra on Saturday, January 22, 2011, and hear Tchaikovsky’s Romeo and Juliet Overture-Fantasy, Corigliano’s The Red Violin Concerto, and Rimsky-Korsakov’s Scheherezade. This presentation of fiery music is a great way to spend a chilly January evening! Tickets are available at www.hso.org or by calling 256-539-4818.

Upcoming events:

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Eroica, Jan. 22 The Russians Are Coming!, Jan. 30 FREE Family Concert, Feb. 12 Bolcom, Barber and Beethoven, Feb. 26

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Chandeliers from Chrystorama (above) and Weinstock (right)

This year, resolve to brighten your home with elegant choices from SBS!

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{ shopping} Antique Chinese Wedding Box ($94.00) Firenze Antiques & Gifts (256) 760-1963

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Lenora Dame Earrings ($40.00) Sidelines Jewelry (256) 767-0925 Antique Sterling Powder Jars ($55.00-$110.00) Halsey House (256) 764-9294

Pilgrim Bracelets ($24.00 each) Pilgrim Vespa Charms ($38.00 each) Audie Mescal (256) 314-6684

Felted Over Handmade Soaps ($11.00) Relique (256) 767-4810

Monogram for a personal touch!

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Linen Handkerchiefs ($10.00 each) The Yellow Door (256) 766-6950

CP Shades Scarf ($58.00) Marigail Mathis (256) 764-9444

CRKT Knife ($29.99) Alabama Outdoors (256) 764-1809

Glõminerals glõEye Shadow Trio ($29.50 each) Glõminerals glõLiquid Lips ($14.75 each) Osa’s Garden (256) 764-7663

Duval-LeRoy Brut Champagne ($44.99) Duval-LeRoy Lady Rose Champagne ($25.99) Champagne Flute ($9.99) The Wine Seller (256) 766-1568

A perfect gift for the groomsman!

Yves Delorme Heirloom Linens ($190.00-$350.00) David Christopher’s (256) 764-7008

I Wish by Katherine Marris ($18.95) Dragonfly Boutique (256) 386-5242

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{ shopping} Jr. Suites (Starting at $250.00) Marriott Shoals Hotel and Spa (256) 246-3600

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Photo Booth (4 hours unlimited photos $675.00) Candid Memories (256) 766-8861

1965 Rolls Royce Silver Cloud III (call Grogan Jewelers for rates) Grogan Jewelers (256) 764-4013

Juliska Place Setting ($27.00-$66.00) The French Basket (256) 764-1237

Entertainers Karen Gruber (256) 710-3956 Ken Shepski (256) 310-770-4583

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Ganz Initial Keychain ($9.99) Vera Bradley Please Hold ($24.00) Village Shoppe (256) 383-1133

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Crane & Co. Stationary ($34.00) Printers & Stationers (256) 764-8061

Dyeables Ballet Flats ($60.00) Cherry Tree Lane (256) 767-4262

La Vie Necklace ($95.00) Sidelines Jewelry (256) 767-0925

Sarah Beth Alexander wore these in her wedding (see page 66)

Jon Hart ID Wallet ($39.00) Jon Hart Business Card Holder ($29.00) Printers & Stationers (256) 764-8061

Skinny Tie ($68.00) Bowtie ($85.00-$95.00) Billy Reid (256) 767-4692

Infiniti G Convertible, shown in Athens Blue Martin Gordan at Smith Infiniti of Huntsville (256) 417-1884

Better than black tie!

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Sarabeth Phillips Married June 26, 2010 Photographed by Armosa Studios (See her wedding on page 68)

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Jennifer Drake Married February 6, 2010 Photographed by Sallie Cassell

Kara and Jay McLain Married May 22, 2010 Photographed by Hollis Studios

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Melissa DeFoor Married October 10, 2010 Photographed by Amanda Chapman

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Audrey and Will Newton Married November 5, 2010 Photographed by Donna Berryhill

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Katy Hines Married July 31, 2010 Photographed by Leslie Willard

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Melissa Bain Married November 6, 2010 Photographed by Abraham Rowe

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Megan Stein Married August 21, 2010 Photographed by Armosa Studios

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Martha Frances and Kevin Graham Wedding Married October 16, 2010 Photographed by Doug Richardson

Irma Wilson Married March 28, 2010 Photographed by Shannon Wells

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Our favorite engagement photos We’re definitely seeing a trend toward a more journalistic style of portrait—one that captures the personalities and interests of the future couple. Many of the area’s best photographers are providing not only exceptional photography but also professional makeup and hairstyling help to create a truly memorable portrait.

Morgan Hamm and Robbins Williams Photographed by Glass Jar Photography

Freda and Darren Butler Photographed by Abraham Rowe (See their wedding on page 76)

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Britney Lolley and Corey Cooper Photographed by Glass Jar Photography

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Lindsay and Derrick Bright Photographed by Armosa Studios (See their wedding on page 72)

Melissa and Heath Bain Photographed by Abraham Rowe (See a photo from Melissa’s wedding on page 100)

Brooke Browning and Chuck Watwood Photographed by Leslie Willard

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Kendall and Andrew Neill Photographed by Christi Britten (See their wedding on page 86)

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{ bless their hearts } “Always a bridesmaid, never a bride.”

These words are uttered so often at weddings. Through a thick layer of make-up, under badly styled hair and wearing a dress that will never be out of the closet again, countless pitiable woman endure this commentary from the assembled guests. Bridesmaids are seen as the wedding workhorses shuttling the bride around, fixing her veil and dress for each photograph and reassuring her that she has met the man of her dreams.

While I would never dispute that bridesmaids work hard, there is one person who works harder—the best man. Most people think that a best man has three jobs: get the groom drunk the night before, get the groom to the church the next day, and hold onto the ring. If only

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ding at a swanky hotel overlooking the Hudson River. The location alone made the job worth it but when I heard I had a “co-best man” I was even more pleased to take on the role. I was even told that I had only one job—not to worry about the ring or even the bachelor party—just take care of the groom’s parents for the weekend. While this should not be too difficult—a quick spin around Manhattan, Fifth Avenue shopping, a trip to the Empire State Building, Times Square at

MAY THE BEST MAN WIN it were that simple. Three times I have been given the duties of best man and each time I have learned a bit more about this thankless job (well thankless to everyone but the guy you are supporting…for he is the only one that tells you thank you).

My first time as best man was for my brother. I was a kid in college and basically left most of the work to my mother.

Her freakish need to make lists kept me from losing the ring and made sure that I came in the right tux and dark colored socks. Of course being under 21 absolved me of many of the traditional responsibilities of the best man as those fell to his college buddies. I pretty much just had to show up and shed a few genuine tears while my grandmothers told me I was handsome. The speech was a bit terrifying but thankfully being young gave me some latitude and the David Letterman style “Top Ten” list went over perfectly. It was a punch and cake reception so not even an awkward dance with Aunt Marge or having the do the Macarena or the hokey pokey. That experience was a cakewalk.

The second time as best man was for my best friend from graduate school. It was a stylish New York City New Year’s wed-

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night—the situation became far more complicated when I learned they had not spoken a civil word to each other in nearly a decade. I was not in charge of “taking care” of them as much as keeping them apart or worse killing each other. I planned two tourist experiences in the Big Apple and was run ragged trying to keep both of them on schedule. I was exhausted well before the wedding.

As the champagne flowed, so did the insults across the room. I had more than one dance with the mother of the groom—it is hard to throw a good punch when dancing the cha-cha in stilettos (that was the mother of the groom…not me) and I took the father of the groom to the open bar a few too many times. “Oh what a lovely view!” while quickly directing one’s attention in the other way works just so many times.

By the end of the weekend I had told so many stories of the history of New York City’s subways that I was considering throwing myself onto the tracks.

By the third stab at best man I thought I was a pro. This job could not be any more difficult than the last time. All of the parties were on speaking terms and the bride and groom wanted an uncomplicated family affair in a garden. Sadly I complicated this go around by being

JEFFREY BIBBEE

much more than the chief supporter of my best friend, I also played host. Having a wedding in your backyard is never easy. Having a wedding in your backyard when you are also the best man is practically impossible. Of course most people who have weddings at their home have homes that are suited for weddings—stately rooms and large terraces. My small two bedroom Florence cottage was in no shape to be a venue for a dog’s birthday party let alone a wedding for 120 guests. Never shying away from a challenge I saw this as a chance to do some work around the house.

After cutting a thousand stalks of bamboo from my yard, clearing five tractor trailer loads of brush and spreading more pine straw than trees in the Bankhead Forest, I realized I had taken on a bit more than I could handle. But the most challenging day was yet to come. As guests assembled in my yard, I waited patiently to get into the one bathroom behind the sixteen others who had to change into formal wear. I had to keep the bride and groom from seeing each other despite the constantly opening doors and countless children running around—not to mention the caterer preparing dinner in the one car garage.

When the locomotive arrived I thought I had started to hallucinate. Turns out it was not an actual locomotive but really a converted pickup truck that was ferrying people from the parking lot to my house. I had flashbacks of New York and thought maybe it was a sign that I should jump.

I did not jump. I went on to enjoy the wedding and was so happy to see my best friend enjoy the day. While I am still finding plastic dinner forks amongst the returning bamboo shoots in my yard and get a cold chill down my spine every time I hear a train whistle, see a shot of tequila or glimpse an old lady who looks like she wants to pinch my cheeks, I have to say that I have found great enjoyment in being best man to three great men.

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{ 20 questions }

20 Questions for Four Grooms

Most people think a wedding is all about the bride. We know that the groom plays an important role, too, so we wanted to interview some young men who had recently gone through the wedding process. Four men whose weddings have been profiled in earlier issues of No’Ala agreed to talk to us and answer our Twenty Questions about what was their big day, too. Here’s what Huston Kennedy, Chad Hess, Parker Poag and Paul Hanson had to say:

I could not have gotten through the day without... …Laughing. If you aren’t laughing on your wedding day, then maybe you’re not ready or you have the wrong people there. (Chad) …Diet Mt. Dew (Huston) …Knowing that at the end of the day all the chaos would be over and I would be married to Mareth. (Parker) …Being very flexible. It’s worth it! (Paul)

The most difficult part about being the groom is... …Knowing that your future wife has been dreaming of this day for her entire life, and there is one person who has more opportunities than anyone to mess this day up…and it’s the groom! The pressure is on! (Chad) …Doing as you are told and getting out of the way. (Paul) …Understanding details. (Huston) …Having to wear the tux and take ALL those pictures.

(Parker)

Picking a best man was easy; I just... …Asked my Dad. (Huston) …Flipped a coin. Ok, ok, not true, it was a very tough decision and any man standing with me that day was worthy, but in the end I chose my fraternity brother Jed. He and I have been through so much together and couldn’t imagine him not being there, and on top of that I was his best man two weeks before! (Paul) …Looked at my brother and knew that we had been through so many things together. (Chad) …Always wanted my dad to be my best man. (Parker)

On my wedding day, the smartest thing I did was... …Taking pictures with the wedding party before the ceremony. (Huston) …Did as I was told and got out of the way. (Paul) …Surround myself with lifelong friends who were my groomsmen who constantly encouraged me and kept me focused! (Chad) …Not forget where I put the ring! (Parker) The biggest surprise about the wedding was... …How unusually smooth everything went. (Paul) …When the ringbearer would not come off stage, so I carried him off. (Huston) …The fact that it stopped raining right before the wedding and began again just as we were driving away. (Parker) …The fact that once it is over you can’t really remember anything about it, it goes by so fast! (Chad)

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I will never forget... …Allyson’s glow; she was beaming that day! She was like a kid during Christmas. (Paul) …The moment I saw her in her wedding dress that day…INCREDIBLE! (Chad) …We had the best time with family and friends at the reception. A lot of people worked very hard for Mareth and me to make sure everything would be great! From the music to the Chinese lanterns—it was definitely memorable. (Parker) …The smile of my beautiful bride! (Huston) When the day was finally over, I felt... …Like I had been photographed 5,000 times (Chad) …Proud. Everything we had planned went perfectly!

(Huston) …Relieved and tired, and my feet hurt. (Parker) …Relief, excitement and I was very HUNGRY! We didn’t

“You’re here because you asked and she said yes. There will be a moment, maybe when you first see her during the ceremony, or at the reception she’ll look at you and you’ll realize, ‘I have found the one God knew I needed, but do not deserve.’ My advice, always remember that moment.”

—Paul Hanson

have time to eat during the reception, and the food was incredible or so I was told. (Paul) The best advice I got was... …Effort in a relationship should be 100% and 100% not 50/50. (Huston) …Never go to sleep mad! (Parker) …“The rest of the world knows that you don’t deserve your wife, treat her like you know that!” (Chad) …Drink Gatorade! Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate because NOOObody wants a cramp on the wedding night!

(Paul) Never, ever forget to... …Bend your knees on stage. (Huston) …Show your appreciation for those that are with you on that day! (Chad) …Let your parents know how much you appreciate them and thank them for all their help and everything they have done. (Parker) …Make sure she has her birth control with her! P.S. We’re expecting on December 25, 2010. (Paul) In my opinion, the strangest wedding tradition is... …The pressure to speak at the rehearsal dinner; I was so nervous that everything I said was so jumbled and confusing. I ended up comparing my wife to WalMart because she has everything I need….crazy! (Chad) …There are too many! (Parker) …Waiting till the actual wedding to see the bride. It was so nice to have a few moments by ourselves before the actual craziness of the wedding. It was very much like the calm before the storm. (Paul) When we planned our wedding, we didn’t take into consideration... …The church’s audio/video equipment. (Huston) …The length of our invitation list and the process we would have to use to help make it smaller. (Chad) …Oh, she considered everything (Ha ha!) (Parker) …The massive amount of people willing to come to a 4th of July weekend wedding. (Paul) To relieve the stress, my bride and I... …Would walk together and talk; there are times when the bride just needs time to vent or honestly get your opinion about something important to her. (Chad) …Went to Hawaii (Kona Village) (Huston) …I’m pretty sure I was not stressed but she spent time with her close friends doing whatever girls do! (Parker) …Had “T cubed” or “Tiki Torch Time” We would sit in my backyard to complain, talk, and get our frustrations out

about the wedding and other things. We still do this and I believe we always will. Communication is the cornerstone of any great relationship. (Paul) If you have to cut corners... …The invitations. (Huston) …Cut some cost by having the wedding in the afternoon instead of the evening. This can cut down on the food that is served and the amount of food and time people will want from you on the special day! (Chad) …Don’t! You only think about getting married once.

(Parker) The most overrated part of a wedding is... …The color of the table cloths (too stressful)! (Huston) …The food. It looks great and there is so much of it, but you don’t really have time to eat anything as a groom.

However, Turtle Point did make sure we had plenty to eat once we got time by ourselves. (Chad) …The idea that “everything” has to be perfect… Nothing is ever perfect but that’s what makes memories. (Parker) …The location. Who cares where, it’s about two crazy people in love. I would have married Allyson at the I-HOP. (Paul) And the most under-rated part is... …The life that follows the wedding; some say it’s like a ball-and-chain but it’s really incredible and you fall more in love every day! (Chad) …The pictures; it’s all you have after the day is over.

(Huston) …It all goes by so fast and before you know it the night is over and it’s hard to remember the really special moments. (Parker) …Duh...The groom! (Paul) Looking back, in percentages, I planned about... …I planned the entire wedding myself and just wanted my wife to relax and enjoy her day….That was a lie! I planned maybe 10% of the wedding at the most! She had her ideas since she had been thinking and dreaming about this so long, plus she had great friends that are creative. There were some big decisions like the number of groomsmen/bridesmaids, things we wanted said in the ceremony, and communicating with my side of the wedding party was essential. (Chad) …10%. (Huston) …That thing was planned? I assumed Allyson and Mrs. Linda (Ally’s mom) clicked their heels together and it just happened, so that’s a 0% for the groom. Seriously, those two did an amazing job planning our wedding because everyone had a blast! Now, they did ask my

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opinion and I gave it, and you should give yours when asked, and even then choose your words VERY wisely.

Otherwise SHUT UP. (Paul) …0% (Parker) I’m really glad she insisted on... …Having an evening wedding with all our friends and family. (Parker) …Taking the wedding pictures right before the ceremony.

It was a HUGE time savings. (Paul) …Splurging on pictures; when the day is over, you really want all the pictures you can have to remember everything and look back and enjoy your lives coming together forever. (Chad) If I could change one thing about that day... …I really don’t think I would change anything because at the end of the day it all worked out perfectly…the rain held off and I got married to a great girl. (Parker) …Cooler weather (Huston) …I would have to say I wish I could have been better looking so it wouldn’t have looked like Beauty and the Beast up there! (Chad) …Nothing. Perfect weather, awesome guests, and a stunning bride. Well one thing, make certain the A/C can handle the amount of guests coming! (Paul) The biggest help that day was... …Delegating responsibilities to others and knowing that the problems/jobs would be solved. (Huston) …Laughter and Vince Vaughn quotes. (Paul) …Having everything out of our hands and knowing other people were in control. This frees you up to enjoy the day. (Chad) …Being around my dad and brother to laugh and “cut up” with. (Parker) My advice to the prospective groom is... …Be interested in even the small details because it is so important to her—and treat her like a queen even through the things that aren’t fun at all! (Chad) …If you want something, make sure you work to get it in the wedding or reception. (Huston) …Be laid back, don’t stress (that’s what they do) and go with the flow because at the end of the day it’s all about you and your bride. (Parker) …In the end it’s about your bride and you (in that order by the way). You’re here because you asked and she said yes. There will be a moment, maybe when you first see her during the ceremony, or at the reception she’ll look at you and you’ll realize, “I have found the one God knew I needed, but do not deserve.” My advice, always remember that moment. (Paul) N

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