Alabama Chanin’s Homegrown Gowns | The Well-Tailored Groom | Couples Who Work Together
JAN/FEB 2013 $3.95
noalapress.com
Wall Street Rates * Without the Risk Bank Independent’s Smart Growth programs are designed meet your life’s goals by transferring dollars to special FDIC insured accounts paying rates equivalent to Wall Street alternatives.* Ask about our programs including College Express, Home Express, Retirement Express and Rainy Day Express.
Member FDIC | 877-865-5050 | bibank.com *Compare our rates to non-FDIC alternatives by visiting iMoneyNet.com. There you’ll find iMoneyNet Money Fund Averages that reflect the average return of US money market mutual funds. You can also review the top 15 retail funds individually. Either way, you’ll find that our FDIC insured money market accounts and long term growth account provide competitive returns - with the added safety of FDIC insurance. Loans are subject to credit approval.
4»
January/February 2013
14
Some of the most beautiful wedding and engagement photography from the past year—all with a North Alabama connection—captured in images that will touch and inspire you.
BY CLAIRE STEWART
94
72
Our favorite details from 2012’s most unique weddings.
Alabama Chanin has created sustainable and stylish wedding gowns that are heritage-worthy.
BY LAURA ANDERS LEE PHOTOS BY ABRAHAM & SUSAN ROWE
BY JORDYN DEAN
90
It’s not just about the bride, is it? Okay, maybe it is, but that doesn’t mean the groom can’t look his best on his big day.
BY ALLEN TOMLINSON PHOTOS BY PATRICK HOOD
ON THE COVER Michelle Wilder Mattox photographed in Southside, Alabama, by Simply Bloom Photography.
102
Why not have bridesmaids’ dresses they really can wear again?
BY CLAIRE STEWART PHOTOS BY DANNY MITCHELL
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 5
6»
contents HUN TSVILLE ••••• January/February 2013 Volume 2: Issue 1 ••• C. Allen Tomlinson Editor-In-Chief David Sims Creative Director Contributing Writers Frances Adams, Jordyn Dean, Sarah Gaede, Laura Anders Lee, Claire Stewart, Michael Stewart, Allen Tomlinson Contributing Photographers Armosa Studios, Click Photo Designs, David Higginbotham Photography, Erin Lindsey Photography, Glass Jar Photography, Green Tree Photography, Patrick Hood, Leslie Adair Photography, Danny Mitchell, Rylee Hitchner Photography, Simply Bloom Photography, Spindle Photography, White Rabbit Studios
MULTIFACETED Whitney and Bethany Dean are a talented and entrepreneurial power couple.
Marketing Coordinator/Advertising Sales Heidi King Features Manager Claire Stewart Business Manager Roy Hall Graphic Designer Rowan Finnegan Interns Sara Kachelman, Ryan Paine •••
8
Calendar Events for January-February 2013
68
Market The Anniversary Shopping Guide BY CLAIRE STEWART
83
Everybody’s Business These Couples Are Working Together— For Better or Worse BY LAURA ANDERS LEE PHOTOS BY PATRICK HOOD
106
Food for Thought The Couples That Cook Together… BY SARAH GAEDE
108
Back Talk What Was Your Most Unique Wedding Gift? BY CLAIRE STEWART
112
Bless Their Hearts Another Royal Wedding BY MICHAEL STEWART
114
Parting Shot
N O ’A L A H U N T S V I L L E ADV IS ORY B OAR D Jennifer Doss Huntsville Symphony Orchestra Leslie Ecklund Burritt on the Mountain Dan Halcomb Huntsville Symphony Orchestra
No’Ala is published six times annually by No’Ala Press PO Box 2530, Florence, AL 35630 Phone: 800-779-4222 | Fax: 256-766-4106 Web: www.noalapress.com Standard postage paid at Huntsville, AL. A one-year subscription is $19.95 for delivery in the United States. Signed articles reflect only the views of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the views of the editors. Advertisers are solely responsible for the content of their advertisements. © 2008-2013 No’Ala Press, All rights reserved.
Jeff Johnson Terramé Day Spa & Salon Ginger Penney Liles Matthew Liles AIDS Action Coalition Patrick Robbins Alabama Pain Center Charles Vaughn Vaughn Lumber Company Anna Baker Warren Anna Baker Warren Interiors
Send all correspondence to Allen Tomlinson, Editor, at the postal address above, or by e-mail to atomlinson@atsa-usa.com. Letters may be edited for space and style. To advertise, contact us at: 256-766-4222, or sales@noalapress.com. The editor will provide writer’s guidelines upon request. Prospective authors should not submit unsolicited manuscripts; please query the editor first.
No’Ala is printed with vegetable-based inks on 100% recycled paper.
BY DAVID HIGGINBOTHAM Join us on Facebook: No’Ala Huntsville
editor’s letter « Allen Tomlinson « 7
In each person’s life, there is a series of significant events: Birth. Education. Graduation. Wedding. Children. Retirement. Grandchildren. All of these are significant, but none are surrounded with as much joy and pageantry as a wedding—which is why, every year, we dedicate an entire issue to it. We’ve found, over the years, that women who are planning weddings use this issue as a resource. There are tons of ideas here for the bride-to-be, and you’ll see weddings that run the gamut from casual to very formal. But before you put the issue down, wait! There’s even something here for those who aren’t currently in the throes of wedding planning. Have you ever looked at wedding photos and noticed that all too often the brides in these photos look fabulous, but the grooms look like they dressed for a different event? Because of that, we went to Billy Reid’s corporate headquarters here in the Valley for some tips on helping the groom step up his game. Look for the five rules we learned for making sure the groom is dressed appropriately… and these same rules can be applied if you’re just looking for a new business suit. Marriage is about togetherness, but what happens when you are married and you and your spouse also work together? We interview three couples who own and operate businesses together and ask the question: for better, or worse? There’s more, of course. Our retail shopping guide focuses on anniversary gifts, and there are some unique ideas. (Did you know the traditional gift for the 6th anniversary is candy—or iron?) We ask the members of the Junior League what their best wedding gifts were, and Rev. Michael Stewart writes about some of the more unusual weddings he’s officiated. There’s variety here, even for those who are not planning to tie the knot anytime soon! Next issue, we promise something a whole lot different: it’s our “Heart and Soul of the Valley” issue. We’ll introduce you to thirty-five individuals, couples, siblings, and parents who are making major contributions to North Alabama, photographed by the best photographers in the Valley. Until then, enjoy this issue—and congratulations to the young couples who are starting their lives together!
LOVE US? If you like NO’ALA, be sure to check out our Facebook page. We’d love to hear from you! No’Ala Huntsville
8»
calendar
January 1-2 Tree Lighting for the Tinsel Trail 4:30pm-11:30pm; Free; Big Spring Park; (256) 361-9275
January 29
January 1-6 “Tally Ho!” A Journey into Monte Sano’s Past Tues-Sat 9:00am-5:00pm; Sun noon-5:00pm; $8 adults, $7 seniors and military, $5 students, $4 children; 3101 Burritt Dr.; (256) 536-2882; burrittonthemountain.com
Momix presents Botanica
January 1-31 Special Exhibit: MATHALIVE Daily from 9:00am-5:00pm; U.S. Space and Rocket Center; One Tranquility Base; $25 adults, $20 children, and free under 5 years old; (256) 837-3400; rocketcenter.com January 2-6 Exhibit: Art in Clay: Masterworks of North Carolina Earthenware Tues–Sat 11:00am-4:00pm; Thurs 11:00am-8:00pm; Sun 1:00pm-4:00pm; $5-$10; Huntsville Museum of Art; 300 Church St.; (256) 535-4350; hsvmuseum.org January 2-13 Exhibit: Divine Masterpieces from the Collection of Bob Jones University Museum and Gallery Tues–Sat 11:00am-4:00pm; Thurs 11:00am-8:00pm; Sun 1:00pm-4:00pm; $5-$10; Huntsville Museum of Art; 300 Church St.; (256) 535-4350; hsvmuseum.org January 2-20 Exhibit: Objects of Devotion: Medieval English Alabaster Sculpture Tues–Sat 11:00am-4:00pm; Thurs 11:00am-8:00pm; Sun 1:00pm-4:00pm; $5-$10; Huntsville Museum of Art; 300 Church St.; (256) 535-4350; hsvmuseum.org January 4 Monkey Speak Open Mic Night 8:00pm; $5; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; 2211 Seminole Dr.; (256) 533-0399; flyingmonkeyarts.org January 4-6 West Side Story Fri 8:00pm; Sat 2:00pm and 8:00pm; and Sun 2:00pm and 7:30pm; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 N. Monroe St.; From $37; (256) 518-6155; broadwaytheatreleague.org
January 11-13 Huntsville Theatre Presents Prelude to a Kiss Fri and Sat 7:30pm, Sun 2:00pm; Von Braun Center Playhouse; 700 Monroe St.; Admission charged; (256) 536-0807; yourseatiswaiting.com January 12 Artist Market Noon-4:00pm; Free; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; 2211 Seminole Dr.; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net HSO Classical Series: The Cello Sings 7:30pm; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; From $25; (256) 539-4818; hso.org January 18 Sci-Quest Parents’ Night Out 6:00pm-9:00pm; $20 for first child, $15 for additional children ages 4-12; 102 D Wynn Drive; (256) 837-0606; sci-quest.org My Lindy Kraze/Jason and Danielle’s Swing Dance Weekend 7:00pm; Admission charged; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; 2211 Seminole Dr.; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net Southern Nights and Broadway Lights 7:00pm; Admission charged; Princess Theatre; 112 Second Ave., Decatur; (256) 350-1745; princesstheatre.org
January 5 Artist Market Noon-4:00pm; Free; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; 2211 Seminole Dr.; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net
Opera Birmingham 7:30pm; Trinity United Methodist Church; 607 Airport Rd.; $25 adults, $20 seniors, and $15 students; (256) 489-7415; hcmg.us
Sci-Quest Parents’ Night Out 6:00pm-9:00pm; $20 for first child, $15 for additional children ages 4-12; 102 D Wynn Dr.; (256) 837-0606; sci-quest.org
January 19 Artist Market Noon-4:00pm; Free; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net
January 7 HSO Casual Classics Series: Honey I Shrunk the Orchestra 3:30pm; $20; Randolph School of Fine Arts; 4915 Garth Rd.; (256) 539-4818; hso.org
Under the Covers with Victoria Shaw 7:30pm; From $30; Merrimack Hall; 3320 Triana Blvd.; Huntsville; (256) 534-6455; merrimackhall.com Black Jacket Symphony 8:00pm; From $32.95; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 533-1953; ticketmaster.com
January 19-February 28 Botanical Gardens Barkitecture Exhibit Mon-Sat 9:00am-5:00pm and Sunday noon-5:00pm; $8-$12; 4747 Bob Wallace Ave.; (256) 830-4447; hsvbg.org January 23 Art Critique 6:00pm; Free; Lowe Mill; 2211 Seminole Dr.; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net January 25 Susanna Phillips Recital 7:30pm; $25 adults, $20 seniors, and $15 students; Trinity United Methodist Church; 607 Airport Rd.; (256) 489-7415; hcmg.us Classical Blues Cabaret 7:30pm; $15; Princess Theatre; 112 Second Ave., Decatur; (256) 350-1745; princesstheatre.org January 25-27 Blue Man Group Fri 8:00pm, Sat 2:00pm and 8:00pm, and Sun 2:00pm and 7:30pm; From $37; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 518-6155; broadwaytheatre.org January 26 Artist Market Noon-4:00pm; Free; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net January 26-31 Exhibit: Sound & Vision: Monumental Rock & Roll Photography Tues–Sat 11:00am-4:00pm; Thurs 11:00am-8:00pm; Sun 1:00pm-
4:00pm; $5-$10; Huntsville Museum of Art; 300 Church St.; (256) 535-4350; hsvmuseum.org January 29 Bobby Horton’s Songs and Stories of the Civil War 7:00pm; $10-$15; Princess Theatre; 112 Second Ave., Decatur; (256) 350-1745; princesstheatre.org Ballet: Momix Botanica 7:30pm; From $26.50; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 539-0961; communityballet.org February 1 Monkey Speak Open Mic Night 8:00pm; $5; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; (256) 533-0399; flyingmonkeyarts.org February 1-2 Special Exhibit: MATHALIVE Daily from 9:00am-5:00pm; U.S. Space and Rocket Center; One Tranquility Base; $25 adults, $20 children, and free under 5 years old; (256) 837-3400; rocketcenter.com Independent Musical Productions Presents Alexander, Who’s Not, Not, Not, Not, Not Going to Move Fri 7:00pm and Sat 2:00pm and 6:00pm; $13 adults, $11 students/seniors/military and $9 children; Lee High School; 2500 Meridian St.; (256) 415-7469; imphuntsville.org Ricky Nelson Remembered Fri 7:30pm and Sat 2:00pm and 7:30pm; From $30; Merrimack Hall; 3320 Triana Blvd.; Huntsville; (256) 534-6455; merrimackhall.com Continued page 10 JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS.COM | 9
10 »
calendar
February 2 Artist Market Noon-4:00pm; Free; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net Sci-Quest Parents’ Night Out 6:00pm-9:00pm; $20 for first child; $15 for additional children ages 4-12; 102 D Wynn Dr.; (256) 837-0606; sci-quest.org HSO Classical Series: Love Hurts 7:30pm; From $25; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 539-4818; hso.org February 3 Author Event: Irene Latham 2:00pm-4:00pm; Free; Huntsville Madison County Public Library; Second Floor Meeting Room; 915 Monroe St.; (256) 532-5940; hmcpl.org February 8 Les Kerr & The Bayou Band 7:00pm; $20-$25; Princess Theatre; 112 Second Ave., Decatur; (256) 350-1745; princesstheatre.org Dirty Bourbon River 8:00pm; $10; Lowe Mill; 2211 Seminole Dr.; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net February 9 Artist Market Noon-4:00pm; Free; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net Carnegie Carnival: Mardi Gras Style Celebration K9 parade at 11:00am; Prince and Princess Parade at 2:00pm; and Carnegie Carnival Parade at 6:00pm; Free admission for attending parades; Downtown Decatur and Ingalls Harbor; (256) 341-0562; carnegiecarnival.com February 10 Season Special: Jack Hanna’s Into the Wild Life 3:00pm; From $21; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 518-6155; broadwaytheatre.org February 14 Phil Weaver Valentine Show 7:00pm; Admission charged; Lowe Mill; 2211 Seminole Dr.; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net The Del McCoury Band 7:30pm; $25-$33; Princess Theatre; 112 Second Ave., Decatur; (256) 350-1745; princesstheatre.org February 14-16 Jeremy Davis and the Fabulous Equinox Orchestra 7:30pm; From $30; Merrimack Hall; 3320 Triana Blvd.; Huntsville; (256) 534-6455; merrimackhall.com February 15 Third Friday Decatur 5:00pm-8:00pm; Free; Bank Street and Second Avenue in Decatur; (256) 350-2028 Sci-Quest Parents’ Night Out 6:00pm-9:00pm; $20 for first child; $15 for additional children ages 4-12; 102 D Wynn Dr.; (256) 837-0606; sci-quest.org
February 15-17 Fantasy Playhouse Children’s Theatre Presents Dragon of Nitt Fri 7:00pm, Sat and Sun 1:30pm and 5:00pm; $14; Von Braun Center Playhouse; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 539-6829; letthemagicbegin.org February 16 Botanical Gardens Race for Top Dog 5K and Doggie Dash 8:00am runners and 9:00am doggie dash; $15-$20; 4747 Bob Wallace Ave.; (256) 830-4447; hsvbg.org Artist Market Noon-4:00pm; Free; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net Tuxedo Junction sponsored by the Huntsville Swing Dance Society 7:30pm; $10 adults and $7 students; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net HSO Pops Concert: We Will Rock You—The Music of Queen 7:30pm; From $25; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 539-4818; hso.org February 21 New Shanghai Circus 9:30am,12:30pm, and 7:00pm; $15-$25; Princess Theatre; 112 Second Ave., Decatur; (256) 350-1745; princesstheatre.org Elvis Lives 7:30pm; From $38; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 518-6155; broadwaytheatre.org Little Big Town 8:00pm; From $38.80; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 533-1953; ticketmaster.com February 23 Artist Market Noon-4:00pm; Free; Flying Monkey at Lowe Mill; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net Huntsville Community Chorus Spring Concert 7:30pm; Admission charged; Trinity United Methodist Church; 607 Airport Rd; (256) 533-6606; thechorus.org Bill Cosby 8:00pm; From $71.80; Von Braun Center Concert Hall; 700 Monroe St.; (256) 533-1953; ticketmaster.com February 26 Gala: Luncheon 11:30am; $75; Huntsville Museum of Art; 300 Church St.; (256) 535-4350; hsvmuseum.org February 27 Art Critique 6:00pm; Free; Lowe Mill; 2211 Seminole Dr.; (256) 533-0399; lowemill.net February 28 Gala: Black Tie Dinner and Live Auction 6:00pm; $300-$500; Huntsville Museum of Art; 300 Church St.; (256) 535-4350; hsvmuseum.org
10 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
12 »
scene
Joe Newberry, Fred Ecklund, and Charles Vaughn Danny and Deborah Pinkston, Butch Damson, and Marty and Mary Seibert Phylis Baron, Leslie Ecklund, and Bob Baron Bernie Verdier and Linda Spalla
Sumter Park, Susan Park, Bruce Park, Brandon Damson, Deke Damson, Jerry Damson, Danielle Damson, Butch Damson, Ali Damson, and May May Park Allie and Linda Swan, and William Bell
Tina and J.P. Rogers
Above: Major Donor’s Party
Below: Finery Grand Opening
OCTOBER 9, 2012 BURRITT ON THE MOUNTAIN
NOVEMBER 2, 2012 FINERY
Christian Elizer and Madeline Boswell
Catherine Walker, Amy Wellingham, Jackie Walker, and Jeanne Allen
JoLayne and Brandon Hall
Lee Lee Wiginton and Madeline Boswell
Connie West and Lisa Wilson Nancy Self and Marc Sandlin
Stephanie Koesters, Emily Wasylicka, and Heather Reach
Madeline Boswell and Meghan Allen
“ANNIVERSARY”
{translation}
“Happy WIFE, Happy LIFE”
GroganJewelers.com
Florence
Huntsville
256.764.4013
256.838.4808
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 13
THE WEDDING ALBUM
HANNAH BAKER & BRIAN CARTER Fair Weather Farms Monroe, GA May 5, 2012 by Simply Bloom Photography Brian had Hannah’s father as a professor at UGA, but they didn’t meet until they lived in Washington D.C. years later.
16 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 17
THE WEDDING ALBUM » HANNAH BAKER & BRIAN CARTER
18 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
TARA BAKER & TYLER GUIN Capitol Park Tuscaloosa, AL June 23, 2012 by White Rabbit Studios Tyler planned a romantic picnic proposal in Chewacla State Park. He nailed the proposal, but forgot the food!
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 19
THE WEDDING ALBUM
NIKKI DEE R AY & GARRET “HUNTER” SCOTT Destin, FL June 17, 2012 by David Higginbotham Photography Nikki’s maid of honor, Charlie, and Hunter’s groomsman, Paul, met at the wedding and will be getting married this spring!
20 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 21
THE WEDDING ALBUM » NIKKI DEE RAY & GARRET “HUNTER” SCOTT
22 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
L AUREN WATSON & FORD HANDLEY First Methodist Church Huntsville, and Historic Roundhouse Huntsville August 11, 2012 by Spindle Photography The couple first met at an Alabama game in 2006. Lauren was cold, and Ford gave her his jacket.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 23
THE WEDDING ALBUM
ALI GILBERT & BLAKELY SHERROD Gile’s Homestead Gurley, AL June 16, 2012 by Glass Jar Photography Ali wore the same wedding dress her grandmother wore in 1951.
24 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 25
THE WEDDING ALBUM » ALI GILBERT & BLAKELY SHERROD
26 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
CRYSTAL GALLOWAY & DAN HENRY Grandview, Lookout Mountain, GA June 2, 2012 by David Higginbotham Photography The couple met in a spin class. They are both avid cyclists and race for local teams in Chattanooga. On their honeymoon, they toured Tuscany by bike.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 27
THE WEDDING ALBUM
(Clockwise from left)
NICHOLE MASON & TRENT ALLEGOOD Nichole’s home Huntsville June 23, 2012 by Armosa Studios Nichole’s dad built a pond, a bridge, and a terrace in their backyard for the wedding.
SARA HARNESS & JOSH STINSON Mansion on Forsyth Savannah, GA December 18, 2010 by Click Photo Designs Josh proposed on Valentine’s Day, right before a Mardi Gras parade that both families attended.
JENNY EMMA MERIWETHER HARRIS & MATTHEW EDWARD MIZZELL Church of the Pines Alexander City, AL and Willow Point Yacht Club on Lake Martin June 9, 2012 by David Higginbotham Photography The couple chose Lake Martin for their big day because it is where they shared their first kiss and where Matthew proposed.
COURTNEY GRAY & ANDREW PAUL FERRETTI Christ Covenant Presbyterian Church Cullman, AL and Stone Bridge Farm, Cullman, AL May 19, 2012 by David Higginbotham Photography The couple met at Dauphin Island Sea Lab while both were taking classes there.
28 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 29
THE WEDDING ALBUM
ALEE MORRISON & BEN LINK The Link Family Farm Midland, GA May 5, 2012 by Simply Bloom Photography The couple had a few unusual farm guests that walked through the party, including roosters and peacocks!
30 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 31
THE WEDDING ALBUM » ALEE MORRISON & BEN LINK
32 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
MOLLY WALLACE & ZEKE FERRELL First Methodist Church of Decatur Ingalls Harbor Pavilion Decatur, AL March 24, 2012 by Spindle Photography Floral arrangements included ferns, wildflowers, turkey feathers, and barn wood from Zeke’s hunting camp.
JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS.COM | 33
THE WEDDING ALBUM
ALLISON BAGWELL & BENJAMIN STEINHAUER Gorham’s Bluff Pisgah, AL March 31, 2012 by Glass Jar Photography Ben is from Switzerland and Allison is from Alabama. They met on a plane when Ben was heading to the U.S. on holiday.
34 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 35
THE WEDDING ALBUM » ALLISON BAGWELL & BENJAMIN STEINHAUER
36 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
CHYNA VANDIVER & GARY ECKSTEIN Huntsville Botanical Gardens, Huntsville September 29, 2012 by Erin Lindsey Photography Chyna had laryngitis the day of the wedding. When she attempted to say her vows, she could not let out more than a squeak. Gary and the preacher couldn’t stop laughing.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 37
THE WEDDING ALBUM
(Clockwise from left)
WHITNEY SHELTON & MARCUS ROUTON A.M. Booth’s Lumberyard Huntsville June 16, 2012 by White Rabbit Studio The couple met on an online dating site. Whitney says that, though the commercials are cheesy, they are true—she knew she was going to marry Marcus on their second date.
WHITNEY GREEN & JUSTIN SEXTON Green Hill, AL May 26, 2012 by David Higginbotham Photography Whitney said their wedding day was perfect surrounded by lanterns, flowers, trees, and their closest friends and family.
STEPHANIE KILGRO & DAVID MATTOX Burningtree Country Club Decatur, AL May 19, 2012 by Erin Lindsey Photography David and Stephanie met in Auburn, Alabama, in 2008—he claims love at first sight. He asked for her hand in marriage three and a half years later in Destin, Florida.
38 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 39
THE WEDDING ALBUM
NICOLE ENNIS & JARED WIDNER Ingalls Harbor Pavilion Decatur, AL October 6, 2012 by Leslie Adair Photography Nicole and Jared’s love of music was featured on their big day: the entire wedding party danced down the aisle to the couples favorite songs, and with the dance party that broke out at the reception.
40 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 41
THE WEDDING ALBUM » NICOLE ENNIS & JARED WIDNER
42 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
SARA ANN KRUSE & JOHN WILLIAM PADLEY II Monte Sano Lodge Huntsville November 5, 2011 by Click Photo Designs The couple wanted their favorite foods at the wedding, so they had a buffet of Mexican and Asian cuisine as well as their favorite specialty wine and beer.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 43
THE WEDDING ALBUM
CASEY COLLIER & PAUL WHITTEMORE Children’s Chapel at Lake Martin The Stables at Russell Crossroads at Lake Martin October 29, 2012 by Simply Bloom Photography Casey’s father built all of the tables for the reception using wood from her great-grandfather’s barn.
44 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 45
THE WEDDING ALBUM » CASEY COLLIER & PAUL WHITTEMORE
46 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
REBEKAH WEINBERGER & BRENT HESTER Historic Rucker Place Birmingham, AL June 2, 2012 by White Rabbit Studio For their procession, violinists played some of the couple’s favorite music, like songs from The Grateful Dead, Eric Clapton, Led Zeppelin, and Steve Ray Vaughn.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 47
THE WEDDING ALBUM
LINDSAY O’NEAL & CASE MORTON Terrapin Creek Lodge Piedmont, AL May 5, 2012 by White Rabbit Studios
48 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 49
THE WEDDING ALBUM » LINDSAY O’NEAL & CASE MORTON
50 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
ANNA L ARKIN COFFMAN & JASE CHANDLER Burritt Chapel and Baron Bluff Huntsville,AL October 13, 2012 Rylee Hitchner Photography The couple has always loved to hike on Monte Sano Mountain and that is where Jase asked for Anna’s hand in marriage. Naturally, they couldn’t think of a better place to get married.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 51
THE WEDDING ALBUM
R ACHEL LYNETTE WEAVER & WILLIAM “BILLY” DOUGLAS MCDANIEL, JR . Huntsville First United Methodist Church The Roundhouse Depot Huntsville September 22, 2012 by Green Tree Photography
52 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 53
THE WEDDING ALBUM
MICHELLE WILDER & PAUL MATTOX J&D Farms Southside, AL July 13, 2012 by Simply Bloom Photography The couple started dating, became engaged, and got married all on July 13 of different years.
54 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 55
THE WEDDING ALBUM » MICHELLE WILDER & PAUL MATTOX
56 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
JACLYN ALLEBACH & MICHAEL FLYNN Annabella at Cedar Glenn Huntsville February 25, 2012 by White Rabbit Studios Mike proposed one night beside the Chatahoochie River with a fortune cookie that read, “You will soon be confronted with unlimited opportunities.”
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 57
(This page, and facing page at bottom)
NATALIE PATRICE PITTS & BENJAMIN GLENN BARNES Gorham’s Bluff Pisgah, AL November 10, 2012 by Click Photo Designs If ladybugs are a sign of good luck, Natalie and Ben should have a very happy marriage—unbelievable numbers of ladybugs could be seen by guests at the ceremony on the bluff. (Facing page, at top)
JENNY RUDOLPH & JOSH DAILY Loveless Barn Nashville, TN July 28, 2012 by Armosa Studios Jenny and Josh dated long-distance between Alabama and Illinois for a year, during which they drove six hours every other weekend to see one another.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 59
THE ENGAGEMENTS
(Clockwise from left)
MICHELLE FALLIN & DAVID CHUMBLEY Burritt on the Mountain Huntsville November 3. 2012 by Click Photo Designs Michelle’s and David’s parents share the same wedding anniversary.
AUNDREA KEIMIG & ALEX BLYTHE Rogersville Church of Christ Rogersville, AL July 14, 2012 by White Rabbit Studios The couple chose a Renaissance themed wedding because they love visiting the Renaissance fair every year.
GAYLYN LEACH & CHRIS SHORT Sweet Seasons Farm Valley Head, AL May 18, 2012 by White Rabbit Studios Chris proposed at the Grand Canyon after a three-and-a-half montlong road trip around the U.S.
HOLLEY DEGROAT & PHILIPP WENTER Bolzano, Italy May 25, 2013 by White Rabbit Studios The couple is getting married in Philipp’s hometown in Italy in his family’s church, a 15th century monastery.
60 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 61
THE ENGAGEMENTS
(Clockwise from left)
JENNIFER COKER & DANIEL LOVELL First Methodist Church Huntsville and Lake Forest Clubhouse, Huntsville July 14, 2012 by Erin Lindsey Photography Jennifer and Dan both attended Bob Jones High School, but did not meet until they were both at Auburn University. They both graduated in May.
CHELSEA TURNER & CHANCE MITCHELL Burritt on the Mountain Huntsville May 19, 2013 by Erin Lindsey Photography Chelsea and Chance are the winners of the Alabama Perfect Wedding!
AMIRA AL-DEEB & MIKE WATTS Mooresville, AL March 16, 2013 by Erin Lindsey Photography Mike proposed on Monte Sano Mountain after dating for four years. Amira was so caught off-guard that the first words out of her mouth were, “Wait. Is this a joke?” She then said yes.
62 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 63
THE ENGAGEMENTS
(Clockwise from left)
VALERIE FEATHERS & ADAM JOHNSON Flint River Baptist Church Hazel Green, AL A.M. Booth’s Lumberyard Huntsville October 19, 2012 by Armosa Studios Adam and his father built the church they were married in.
LUCIANA JUNQUEIRA & KYLE FINDLAY Annabella at Cedar Glenn Huntsville July 27, 2012 by White Rabbit Studios Luciana is from Brazil and Kyle is from Huntsville. Both of their cultures were combined in their wedding in everything from the decorations, food, music, and vows.
MARL A MEDDERS & SAGER DAVIDSON Mooresville, AL October 13, 2012 by White Rabbit Studios Sager proposed at Joe Wheeler State Park. He then drove MarLa through Madison and Huntsville and reproposed at the sites of different milestones in their relationship.
TARA BAKER & TYLER GUIN Capitol Park Tuscaloosa, AL June 23, 2012 by White Rabbit Studios Tyler planned a romantic picnic proposal in Chewacla State Park. He nailed the proposal, but forgot the food!
64 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 65
You are cordially (and stylishly) invited Your invitations should reflect the style of the wedding, as well as the style of the couple. Make sure the guests know if they are going to an upscale affair or a laid-back celebration.
« TRADITIONAL INVITATIONS Save the Date (not pictured) Because you’re only asking guests to reserve a place on their calendars, all you need here are a few basics: the names of the bride and groom, the wedding date, location, and a casual mention that the invitation will follow. These are typically sent at least four months before the wedding and should use the same look, script, and paper as the wedding invitation.
BY FRANCES ADAMS » PHOTOS BY DANNY MITCHELL
Formal Wedding Invitation Traditional invitations are center aligned and almost always use engraved lettering or thermography. (An even more formal option is to create an original template using handwritten calligraphy.) • Titles like Doctor or Reverend are spelled out. • The bride’s and groom’s first and middle names should be the largest type on the invitation. (No last names are needed here; they’re already included with their parents.) • In the wedding information, spell out times, dates, and states. • Do not include a zip code on a formal invitation. You can include a directions card for that. • Do not include reception to follow. That will be included on a separate card. Formal wedding invitations have two envelopes: An outer envelope, which includes the recipient’s full name and address, and an inner envelope, which includes only the recipient’s name.
« MODERN INVITATIONS Save the Date • Should resemble the theme of the wedding invitation. • Add a pop of color or the use of a pattern in the lining of your envelope. • Remember to keep it simple! Only basic information is needed here. Envelope • Only use one envelope, but use a fun color or embellishments. Always include the return address. Invitation • If including a monogram, try different fonts, sizes, and colors to find what you think will match your wedding theme best. • Alignment can be a fun variation, too. Left or right alignment can make your invitation a little less predictable. • Using all lowercase or all uppercase can give individual sections, like the couple’s names, more emphasis. • Less formal wording is appropriate here. For example, you don’t have to spell out the year or the time. • In a non-traditional invitation, you may include reception to follow.
66 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
For invitations and party supplies for weddings, showers and every kind of celebration, your party source is
Party Works 5000 Whitesburg Drive S., Suite 108 Huntsville, AL 35802
256-881-7780
News, classical music and more 88.7 FM Muscle Shoals • 100.7 FM Huntsville www.apr.org J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 67
68 »
market » Claire Stewart » Photos by Danny Mitchell
HappyAnniversary! 20TH (CHINA) Herend Royal Garden Square Cake Plate ($425) Bernardaud Constance Dinner Plate ($135) Bernardaud Frivole Bread and Butter Plate ($55) Lawren’s (256) 534-4428
15TH (CRYSTAL) William Yeoward Fern Champagne Flute ($270) William Yeoward Corinne Coupe Champagne Glass ($45) Waterford Lismore Vase ($236) Lawren’s (256) 534-4428
2ND (COTTON) Forage Bowties ($72) Finery Bridal Boutique (256) 429-3429 Vineyard Vines Angler Gingham Shirt ($98.50) JAR & Company (256) 768-1004 68 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
70TH (PLATINUM) Platinum Ring with 10pt Diamond ($2,985) Connie Ulrich connieulrich.com 4TH (LINEN) Rhonda Mitchell 12x12 “Waiting” Acrylic on Linen ($90) Artz Studio (256) 489-9463
35TH (CORAL) Two Strand 12mm Black Shell Pearl Necklace ($350) Keshi Black Pearl, Shell Pearl, Italian Coral, and Turquoise Abalone Pendant ($350) Glee Interiors (256) 355-4533
3RD (LEATHER) Billy Reid Moto Boot ($450) Status (256) 585-2232 Gabor Hobo Bag ($254) J. Whitener (256) 885-2006
25TH (SILVER) Sterling Silver Split Chain Monogram Necklace (prices vary) Sterling Silver Cuff with Gold Monogram (prices vary) Side Lines (256) 767-0925
30TH (PEARL) Pearl Ring ($1,750) Jamie Hood Jewelers (256) 686-2852
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 69
70 »
market
11TH (STEEL) Gents Citizen Watch ($500) Jamie Hood Jewelers (256) 686-2852 “Roadkill Series” Pendant with Steel, Reflector, Silver and 18k gold ($485) Connie Ulrich connieulrich.com
45TH (SAPPHIRE) 14kt White Gold Bracelet with Diamonds and Oval Sapphires ($2,900) Grogan Jewelers (256) 837-4808
60TH (DIAMOND) Diamond Engagement Ring ($14,500) Jamie Hood Jewelers (256) 686-2852
1ST (PAPER) Onyx and Gold Stationary ($99 per pack of 25) White and Cornflower Stationary ($97 per pack of 25) Partyworks (256) 881-7780
5TH (WOOD) Vintage Moroccan Carved Hand-Made Table ($725) Miranda Alexander Interiors (256) 355-6941
85TH (WINE) Groth 2008 Reserve-96 Wine Enthusiast Rating ($122.99) Ramey Chardonnay ($41.99) (Grapes from local Huntsville family vineyard) The Wine Cellar (256) 489-9463
7TH (WOOL/COPPER) Marze Penguin Sweater ($131) Status (256) 585-2232 Renuar Patterned Coat ($159.90) J. Whitener (256) 885-2006
13TH (LACE) Camisole with Renaissance Lace Blush ($125) Tap Short with Renaissance Lace Blush ($88) Finery Bridal Boutique (256) 429-3429
Terri Dallrival Copperworx Platter ($99) Kathleen’s (256) 355-7616
10TH (TIN/ALUMINUM) Gents Aluminum Band ($480) Grogan Jewelers (256) 837-4808
9TH (POTTERY) Betty Young Ross Ceramic Bowl ($165) Kathleen’s (256) 355-7616 J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 71
DETAILS WE LOVE TEXT BY JORDYN DEAN
A PICNIC RECEPTION
From the Wilder/Mattox Wedding
72 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
© SIMPLY BLOOM PHOTOGRAPHY
“This couple loved to have picnics when they were dating, so they thought it would be perfect for their reception. Incorporating fun and hands-on details creates a unique experience for your guests—more than just seeing, but feeling, tasting, and being involved in your special day.”
UNIQUE AND CHEAP! DECOR
Wedding details can sometimes be the most overlooked part of a wedding but also the most important part. The possibilities are truly endless with wedding details. They can be as simple or extravagant as you prefer. No matter your budget, never skimp on your details. Many can be inexpensive or even handmade. Your details are what set you apart from every other bride and wedding. Be unique. Be creative. Choose something special to you as a couple that your guests can experience with you—something they can taste, feel, smell, or experience. Add something they’ll always look back and remember fondly among all the other weddings they’ve attended. Details should be the most fun and creative part of your planning process. Have fun and think out of the box!
“I loved this wedding reception! The groom is a pilot so we incorporated his passion in an inexpensive way that really added volume and charm to the reception space. This really took a lot of creativity and time to achieve—but it was worth it!” From the Thompson/Zielike Wedding
© AMANDA CHAPMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
THE ANTIGUESTBOOK
From the Jamerson/Thigpen Wedding
© ARMOSA STUDIOS
“There are endless possibilities for a ‘guestbook’! Come up with something fun for your guests that you will also enjoy re-visiting later on.”
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 73
GILDED MENAGERIE
DETAILS WE LOVE
“Creative details can be simple and inexpensive while still adding charm and personality to your wedding aesthetic.” From the Baker/Carter Wedding
© AMANDA CHAPMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
EDIBLE ART “Adding details through food and desserts is a yummy way for your guests to experience your personalities and passions as a couple.” From the Wade/Ellis Wedding
© SIMPLY BLOOM PHOTOGRAPHY
© ERIN LINDSEY
BROACHES BOUQUET “I am a sucker for fresh flowers, but I also adore the idea of a keepsake bouquet or boutonniere. Also, family jewelry and heirlooms can be showcased in a beautiful way.” From the Vandiver/Eckstein Wedding Bouquet by Anna Sinclair of Atlanta, Georgia
CUSTOM CRESTS
© GLASS JAR PHOTOGRAPHY
“I adore this couple’s family crest idea! No better time to make one than for your wedding day—when you are establishing your new family.” From the Gilbert/Sherrod Wedding
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 75
DETAILS WE LOVE
A PATRIOTIC SENDOFF “Representing the bride’s and groom’s culture and heritage is a wonderful way to add décor and guest involvement. It’s more colorful than bubbles or birdseed, plus the guests can keep them as a wedding favor.” From the Bagwell/Steinhauer Wedding © GLASS JAR PHOTOGRAPHY
76 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
© ARMOSA STUDIOS
ARTSY INVITATIONS The wedding invitation is the guest’s first glance into your wedding. Your stationery sets the tone for the rest of your planning and coordination. Go out of the box and be creative! This couple incorporated their friends’ help and creativity into theirs. From the King/Rowe Wedding Illustration by Chelsea Hollman and lettering by Rowan Finnegan
FAMILY MEMENTOS
© ALABELLA STUDIOS
Incorporating personal touches like family heirlooms really add sweet memories to your wedding. I personally love using these kinds of details because it is usually something sentimental for the couple, and if a loved one is no longer here to celebrate with the family, they are still represented in spirit.” From the Broadfoot/Reiff Wedding
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 77
78 »
scene
Abby Callahan, Mark Bloodgood, and Haley Barnhill Cheryl and Scott Bence, Amy and Ted Henrich Steve and Debbie Weisburg Anita and Mike Kennedy
Christy Bates, Marie Burns, Anita Kennedy, and Jane Hampton
Carrie Pennell, Sharon Blackwell, and Linda Barnhill
Sonya Enfinger and Vivienne Reiss
Robert Salina and Rachel Butler
Above: 2012 Nutcracker Ball
Below: 2012 Symphony Ball
NOVEMBER 30, 2012 VON BRAUN CENTER , E AST HALL
OCTOBER 27, 2012 VON BRAUN CENTER , NORTH HALL
Yvonne Hawkins, Julien McKinney Young, Jean Salter Ashley Marie Alongi and Dr. Kenneth Alan Alongi Herbert Montgomery Taylor and Shelby Jourdan Taylor
Debutante Escorts assemble prior to presentations
A.J. Albert and Ball Chairman Ivy Downs Albert
PHOTOS BY ALEX JOLLY
The Huntsville Symphony Orchestra Guild 2012 Debutante Ball Committee
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 79
Meet the Winners of the Alabama Perfect Wedding Chelsea Turner & Chance Mitchell
LOOKING FOR IDEAS FOR YOUR PERFECT WEDDING? Our winning couple will be blogging about their experience as they plan the perfect wedding. Follow them at alabamaperfectwedding.com and get ideas for your wedding, too!
Š ARMOSA STUDIOS
80 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
Chelsea Turner and Chance Mitchell have been chosen as recipients of the 2013 Alabama Perfect Wedding, to be held in May at Baron Bluff, Burritt on the Mountain's new event center. The announcement was made at a party at Grogan Jewlers, Bridge Street Town Centre. Three other couples, Chancey Praytor and Jacob Barton, Rachel Baggett and Kyle Knight, and Kimberly Moore and Dakota Brown, were given gifts and certificates by Perfect Wedding Partners. Chelsea and Chance will blog about their wedding planning experiences, and brides who are planning their own weddings are invited to follow them at www.alabamaperfectwedding.com to get an idea of the hundreds of decisions that must be made to have a Perfect Wedding. Special thanks to all of our Perfect Wedding Partners, who have banded together to give this special couple something to remember for the rest of their lives. You'll get to see it, too— it will be one of the features in our July/August issue! Congratulations to Chelsea and Chance. Now, the real work begins‌let's have a Perfect Wedding!
Alabama Perfect Wedding Announcing the Winner at Grogan Jewelers, Bridge Street Town Centre, Huntsville Winner Chelsea Turner
Wedding Stylist Jordyn Dean and No’Ala Features Manager Claire Stewart address the crowd.
Finalists Rachel Baggett & Kyle Knight
Finalists Dakota Brown and Kimberly Moore Finalist Jacob Barton (right) with his parents
TEXT BY L AURA ANDERS LEE » PHOTOS BY PATRICK HOOD
BEGINNING A NEW LIFE TOGETHER CAN BE CHALLENGING. There’s a lot of adjustment involved when you are beginning a life together as a couple; you have to learn each other’s habits, preferences and odd quirks, and most couples quickly decide on a division of responsibility so the business of running a home is a smooth one. Sometimes, absence makes the heart grow fonder. For the vast majority of couples, in which both people work outside the home, there is some separation during the day, and the details of the workday are left at the office. But what if you and your new spouse also run a business together? To find out the unique challenges involved when you are wedded to each other and your business, we found three couples to have done just that, and let them tell us the joys and pitfalls of constant interaction. One thing they agree on: if they set the rules at the beginning, it’s mostly for the better—and not the worse!
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 83
BETHANY AND WHITNEY Photographers Whitney and Bethany Dean know how to capture the perfect wedding memory. That’s because they know how it feels to be happily in love, and they share their love for the lens. The newlyweds first had the idea for starting their photography company Glass Jar around three years ago as they were looking at their own wedding pictures. “We thought we could capture what we wish our own photos would have captured—the vision for the wedding day, what it’s like to be in love,” says Whitney. “We already took a lot of pictures, being the Facebook and Twitter generation. We bought a nicer camera and started practicing with our brothers and sisters.” Today, the couple shoots about 30 to 35 weddings a year both locally and out of town. “Ninety percent of people getting married are our age,” says Bethany. “We understand what look they’re going for—not too stuffy or traditional.” Whitney and Bethany, both creative types, specialize in modern vintage fine art photography. While they do portraits and family pictures, they focus on engagements and weddings. “We take the feeling of the picture—whimsical, romantic—to capture the moment,” Whitney describes. Their name, Glass Jar, “fits the vibe of what we’re going for,” says Whitney. Just like a special keepsake in a glass jar, their images preserve a couple’s most special moment. Whitney and Bethany recently expanded their business by purchasing a historic property in New Market called Winchester Manor, which serves as a wedding venue as well as their home and studio. “The house was being foreclosed on, and we just fell into it,” says Bethany. “We went to auctions and antique stores to give the house the right vibe.”
The couple lives upstairs in the 100-year-old house, and they rent out the rest of the property for special events. The home features a gourmet kitchen, immaculate wood flooring, expansive windows, and sweeping ceilings. The property’s picturesque grove, stable-turned-band room, honeymoon cottage, and historic home provide a romantic, nostalgic atmosphere for their clients who wish to celebrate the past while enjoying modern-day luxuries. “Everything we’ve done in business has spiraled from our own wedding,” says Whitney. “Being around people who are happy and in love is cool.” Huntsville area natives, Whitney and Bethany met through their fathers, who are both private pilots. “I checked her out on Facebook first and thought, ‘I have to meet this girl,’” laughs Whitney. When asked the biggest perk of their job, they both agree it’s being in business together. “We get to spend all of our time together,” says Bethany. “It’s not really work because we’re together.” Whitney, who’s also a musician, has spent a lot of time on the road, touring with bands and even appearing on the television show One Tree Hill. “I loved being on tour, but I couldn’t share it with anyone,” he says. Now it seems the couple shares everything, even business responsibilities. “I keep up with the receipts, do the numbers, and take care of the part he’s not the best at,” says Bethany. “We’re the best blend,” adds Whitney. “I’m crazy artsy, and she’s a genius business person.” So the old saying goes, opposites attract.
“We’re the best blend. I’m crazy artsy, and she’s a genius business person.” WHITNEY DEAN
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 85
TRACY AND GEORGE High school sweethearts George and Tracy Jones have been together a long time. Both attended Huntsville High School and the University of Alabama. And since 1989, they have worked side by side at Century Automotive Group, one of Alabama’s premier car dealerships, where Tracy is president and George is general manager. After college, the couple moved to Texas to start their careers, but it didn’t take long for their hometown to lure them back. “We started thinking about having a family, and it made sense to move back and join the family business,” says Tracy, whose father, John Shields II, started the Huntsville dealership in 1969. “It is the best place in the world to raise kids. The quality of life, the community spirit, the size.” For the past 25 years, the couple has been successful in business and in love. But when they first decided to work together, not everyone thought it was such a good idea. When Tracy’s dad retired, she didn’t want to run the company by herself. She asked her husband to join her, but her father initially was opposed. “He said ‘there’s no way y’all can stay married and work together,’” Tracy recalls. But they undoubtedly have proved him wrong. Not only have they juggled a hectic home life that comes with raising four children, but they’ve managed six dealerships including Century BMW, Fisker, Porsche of Huntsville, Century Volvo, Jaguar Huntsville, and Land Rover Huntsville. And in 2007, TIME magazine named them Quality Dealer of the Year among 60,000 dealerships nationwide for their success in the automobile industry and support of the local community. George runs the day-to-day business, including sales and marketing, while Tracy, who is a CPA, oversees the company’s finances. “We both know what each other is good at,” she says. “We have our separate areas, but we make our decisions together. If I don’t agree, I support him, because I trust his judgment. We have to maintain a united front, and we always do.”
The couple has a united front at home, too, managing their household of four children, who are 22, 20, 19, and 14. “You can’t let your kids run back and forth to each parent and give different answers,” says Tracy. “It’s the same at work. Life is about compromising, and with four children we have to learn to compromise. The secret to our success is we have to meet in the middle and respect each other.” “It’s a busy place with 120 employees and six franchises,” says George. “With four kids we kind of have to tag-team everything. Work’s no different.” The Joneses seem never to grow tired of each other or the dealership. “We go to dinner and say ‘it’s date night, we’re not going to talk about business;’ but we always do,” Tracy laughs. They also never grow tired of watching Alabama football and helping the community. The two are constantly supporting local charities and organizations such as the Huntsville Museum of Art, United Way, and Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Foundation. The couple celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary in August. “We spent our anniversary moving Caroline into high school and Garrett into college. It was a bittersweet day.” But the two plan to celebrate their silver anniversary officially by going to Miami to cheer on their alma mater for the national championship. They are best friends and business partners. “I can’t imagine working with anyone else,” Tracy says. “Life is never dull,” George adds. “But some days are better than others.” The two share a knowing glance, as only a seasoned couple can do, and laugh.
“Life is about compromising. The secret to our success is we have to meet in the middle and respect each other.” T R AC Y J O N E S
86 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
88 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
NANCY AND RICHARD When it comes to business, it’s a family affair for the Van Valkenburghs. Richard and Nancy have worked together in real estate for the past 25 years, which is half of their married life. They also work with Nancy’s mother and sister and two of their three daughters at their firm, Van Valkenburgh & Wilkinson Properties. “I work in the business with my mother-in-law, sister-in-law, two daughters, and wife; I say ‘yes, dear’ to everyone,” laughs Richard. The couple has more than a dozen employees, and they treat everyone like family. It’s that family atmosphere that has made them successful. They enjoy working together, their employees are loyal, and their clients catch on. Richard says the perk of running a family business is “people are truly looking out for you and will try to do the very best for you—somebody’s got your back.” The couple has the perfect cute meeting story. When Nancy, a Georgia native, was a student at Emory, she worked a summer job in Huntsville at NASA. She didn’t have security clearance, and it was Richard’s job as guard to escort her. They soon dated, married, and attended Auburn University together. “Her father told me to love, honor, cherish, and let her finish college,” says Richard. After college, they returned to Richard’s hometown of Huntsville. Richard worked in financial planning, and Nancy worked in real estate. In 1985, they decided to go into business together and established their firm. The couple has always shared a love for real estate and historic properties. In fact, an entire division of their company is dedicated to selling historic homes. Richard and Nancy live in an 1835 home on Adams Street in downtown’s Twickenham district. “You can stand on the porch and be a block from where
my father was born, a half a block from my grandfather, and a block from my great grandfather,” says Richard. In 2000, the couple bought a historic home on Gates Avenue dating back to 1883 to serve as their offices. During the closing, they got a big surprise. When they reviewed the deed, they discovered part of the property had once been owned by Richard’s great, great, great grandfather. Richard and Nancy have attended several real estate classes together sponsored by the National Trust for Historic Preservation, and they often tour historic homes while on vacation or on business trips. In September, Richard was installed as president of the Alabama Association of REALTORS. And in January, their daughter Julie will be installed as president of the Huntsville Area Association of REALTORS. “It wasn’t planned this way, but Richard will get to install her,” says Nancy. “It’s really special.” It’s no wonder Julie is following in her father’s footsteps. “She was born in Huntsville but raised in real estate,” says Richard. “Sitting at the dinner table the girls heard it all the time.” With the market improving and their daughters Sarah and Julie behind the steering wheel, the Van Valkenburghs say the future looks bright for their real estate business. After all these years, they still love waking up together and helping families find a home. “A home is more than a house or a dwelling,” says Richard. “It’s the memories—it’s where a child took their first step—that’s what makes a home. Home is where the heart is.” And for the Van Valkenburghs, who celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary this year, home—and work—are certainly where their hearts are.
“I work in the business with my mother-in-law, sister-in-law, two daughters, and wife; I say, ‘yes, dear’ to everyone.” R I C H A R D VA N VA L K E N B U R G H
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 89
TEXT BY ALLEN TOMLINSON » PHOTOS BY PATRICK HOOD
Ten years after your big wedding day, as you look at photographs of the big event, you’ll probably marvel at how young you both look. You’ll smile as you remember the fun you and your guests had, and you’ll remember just about every detail. But unfortunately, many bridal couples will look at the photographs of the groom in an ill-fitting rented tuxedo and the common reaction will be “what was he thinking?” The reality is that the most confusing part of the entire wedding, for the groom, has nothing to do with the caterer, the music, the location, or the day itself. It’s what he will wear, and most grooms are so baffled—or disinterested—by the entire process they ignore it completely or simply go to the nearest tuxedo shop and rent something in a color their bride won’t object to. Ten years later, that leads to laughter or embarrassment at pants that are too long, coats that don’t fit (or no coats at all), or photos of a bride dressed in finery that cost thousands of dollars standing next to a groom who looks like he dressed for an entirely different event. That doesn’t mean grooms shouldn’t rent a tuxedo for the big day, but with a little knowledge of what constitutes a good fit you can save some red-faced moments later. And, according to Brandon Capps of Billy Reid, a wedding can also be an opportunity for a groom to invest in clothing that will last for years, if chosen correctly. “There are five basic rules to follow that can make a tremendous difference,” said Brandon. “The goal is to have people look at the couple and think that they are beautiful together, without being distracted by how ill-fitting the groom’s suit is. There’s no disputing that the wedding is the bride’s day, but that doesn’t mean the groom doesn’t need to pay attention.” So, in order to help the groom make better decisions, here are the five rules for dressing for your wedding day.
THIS IS THE BRIDE’S DAY, BUT IT’S YOUR WEDDING, TOO. SHE IS THE FOCAL POINT, AND IF YOU DRESS APPROPRIATELY, YOU’RE THE EXCLAMATION POINT. —BRANDON CAPPS
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 91
D The key components of a suit that you need to know.
Shoulders The suit’s shoulders should hug yours, and its shoulder pads should not extend beyond your own shoulders.
D
E A Chest You should be able to easily button the jacket without it pulling or straining. There should be no more than a fist’s worth of space between the button and your chest.
Lapels A notch lapel is the standard, and you really can’t go wrong with this option. A peak lapel (at left) is an elegant option that is enjoying a comeback. It makes a statement.
E
A
F B
B Buttons One, two, three? A three-button suit is a trendy look, and if you’re purchasing your first suit, you may opt to go with a more classic look like a two-button suit (it’s a more conservative style). The one-button suit conveys a sleek, high-style look.
C Sleeves Sleeves that drop below the thumb or come midway down the hand are too long; if your wrist bone is showing, the jacket is too short. Trousers Cuff or no cuff? Pleats or no pleats? Brandon recommends going without both, because cuffs and pleats tend to be trendy.
92 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
C
F
Jacket Length You should discuss the length of your suit with your tailor. Shorter suits are in style, but by no means should you cling to any trend. As a general rule you should be able to cup your fingers under the sides of your suit jacket. Vents (not shown) A vent is the split in the back of the suit jacket, at the seat. One center vent is all-purpose and is both modern and traditional. Side vents (two splits) is more European and some say more comfortable.
RULE NUMBER 1: D ON’T PICK ANYTHING THAT WILL DATE YOU
You’ve done it—looked at pictures and immediately said, “oh, that’s so eighties,” simply because of the width of the lapels or the width of the shoulders. “Go for classic and not trendy,” said Brandon. That goes for color as well. Remember baby blue tuxedos and light green leisure suits? How dated do they look now, when you see them in photographs? “Gray or black is a safe choice,” said Brandon, “because you can go with a lighter gray for a spring or summer wedding and a darker gray or black for fall or winter. It’s the most versatile color, and it’s timeless.” “You have to follow the bride’s lead when it comes to formality,” he said. “She will determine whether you’ll wear a tuxedo or a classic business suit. But play it safe and conservative—classic always works, and trendy might look good at the moment but you might regret it years later.” And what is it with bridal parties in which the groom wears a tuxedo and his groomsmen are in suits or aren’t wearing jackets at all? “It has to make sense,” said Brandon. Ask your bride what she envisions and plan accordingly. RULE NUMBER 2: FOCUS ON THE TROUSERS
“It’s about proportions,” said Brandon. “Your trousers should not be tight, but they shouldn’t be baggy, either. They need to be comfortable at the waist, but not baggy. As for length, there is room for your personal preference; a classic break is where the pant folds slightly at the top of the shoe. You can make it slightly longer, and you can make it slightly shorter—in fact, the trend right now is toward shorter. But you should never let your trousers puddle on the ground or on your shoe, and it’s never acceptable to show your ankles.” Remember that pants can be altered. A good seamstress can let out or take in the waist, and the length of the pants can also be altered. That’s good to know if you’re investing in a suit for your wedding that will also be used later for business or formal occasions. Waistlines change; so can the dimensions of your pants, within reason. Many times, when men go to a
rental store, they concentrate on how the pants feel in the waist and just live with the length that’s in stock. Ask the store to find another pair that fits in both areas, or ask them to alter to make the fit look better. Remember, one thing people might point and laugh at, when they look at the pictures, is a groom whose pants are so long they puddle on the ground. Cuff or no cuff? Pleats or no pleats? Brandon recommends going without both, because cuffs and pleats tend to be trendy. A cuff-less, pleat-less pant is a more classic look and gives the suit a longer life. “A more streamlined and clean look is timeless,” he said.
and cuff links make the suit more formal. The tie and pocket square can be matched to the bridesmaids’ dresses or the color theme of the wedding, within reason, but pay attention to proportions. You don’t want to wear a skinny tie with a wide lapel, for example, and for a larger guy, a skinny lapel doesn’t work.“ Brandon says the season will also dictate what you can do. “If it’s a November wedding, consider a wool tie,” he said, “and in June, you could bring in pastels, greens, pinks, and spring colors. Just make sure the fabric and style of the suit are appropriate to the season and the overall look of the wedding.” RULE NUMBER 5: RELAX. THIS IS
RULE NUMBER 3: YOUR ARMS
NOT BRAIN SURGERY
MIGHT NOT BE THE SAME LENGTH. PAY ATTENTION TO THE JACKET!
The reality of a wedding is this: the groom is not the focal point of the day. The goal, therefore, is not to detract from the event, and, in fact, to add to it. “Look at movies and magazines and pay attention to what the men are wearing,” said Brandon. “Find a store or a brand that looks good and look at the details that make it look so good. Notice the length of the pants, the length of the sleeve, the accessories and how they all come together to create a look.” If you’re renting, the more educated you are when you walk in the door, the more likely that you will look great on the big day. If you are investing, plan to spend upwards of $900—the average cost of a Billy Reid Heirloom suit is $1,395, and Heirloom Collection suits that are made in the USA start at around $2,000. “Remember, your bride has spent that much or more on her dress, and she’ll only wear it once,” said Brandon. “You’re investing in clothing that you can wear for years to come.” “This is the bride’s day, but it’s your wedding, too,” said Brandon. “She is the focal point, and if you dress appropriately, you’re the exclamation point. One of the goals will be to look at these pictures years from now and take pride in the fact that you are really a beautiful couple, with a perfect sense of style.”
“The mark of a good suit is that it’s tailorable,” said Brandon. “Not only can you let out waistlines and leg lengths in the pant, you can adjust sleeve length and the fit in the shoulders for the coat.” And an ill-fitting jacket makes the groom look awkward and uncomfortable. Sleeves that drop below the thumb or come midway down the hand are too long; if your wrist bone is showing, the jacket is too short. Shoulders that droop or a jacket that’s too tight is also not very good looking. Surprisingly, your arms may not be the same length. “It’s important for a good tailor to measure both arms,” said Brandon, “and sleeve length can be adjusted accordingly. You also want to watch the roll in the back of the jacket, to make sure it doesn’t bunch up.” What about all of those buttons? When do you button and when do you not? “You should unbutton when you sit, but otherwise you should stay buttoned,” said Brandon. “You should especially be buttoned during the wedding itself. It’s much more formal to button, and the ceremony calls for it.” RULE NUMBER 4: YOU CAN TAKE LIBERTIES WITH THE ACCESSORIES
“If you are wearing a gray or black suit, you can add some color to it,” said Brandon. That doesn’t mean a pink or blue shirt, but it does mean that you can add color in the tie or the pocket square. “To be safe, we always recommend a white shirt,” he said, “and French cuffs
Brandon Capps is the Made-to-Measure director for Billy Reid, and is based at the Billy Reid office in New York City. For more information about Billy Reid Heirloom Collection suits, visit www.billyreid.com.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 93
TEXT BY L AURA ANDERS LEE » PHOTOS BY ABRAHAM ROWE PHOTOGRAPHY/ABRAHAM & SUSAN ROWE
HAIR AND M AKEUP: JESSICA ROTHSTEIN, SAFARI HAIR SALON » MODELS: LILY HOLLY (FACING) AND KIMI SAMSON (PAGE 8)
“I love working with all of our clients, no matter what the occasion, but there’s something about a bride’s enthusiasm that is rather contagious.” —Natalie Chanin
It’s not the flowers; it’s not the location. It’s not the food, and it’s not the guest list. If you ask a bride-to-be the most important single element of her wedding, next to the groom, you’ll get the same answer every time: it’s all about the dress. No one understands this better than designer Natalie Chanin. Alabama Chanin wedding garments are considered modern heirlooms; made with 100 percent organic cotton jersey and the strongest of thread, they are extremely wearable and durable. Yet with their intricate designs, they are distinctively elegant; it’s like wearing a work of art. And there are many other reasons to choose a wedding gown from Alabama Chanin, too: There’s the glamour of wearing a designer who has received accolades from Vogue, Town & Country, and the Wall Street Journal; the craftsmanship of artisans honoring age-old techniques; the pride of supporting a North Alabama business; and the environmental responsibility of a garment made with a low carbon footprint. But perhaps the best reason of all is that each bride who slips on a wedding gown from Alabama Chanin feels absolutely special. Since each dress is handmade to order, it’s literally one of a kind. Natalie has been highly acclaimed for her fresh, Americana designs, intricate stencils, artful appliqués, dedication to local artisans, and commitment to the environment. No products are made until an order is confirmed, preserving natural resources and ensuring nothing goes to waste. Scraps are even saved and
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 95
“There’s something about a handmade dress that feels so good on your body and makes you look wonderful.” —Susan Rowe, Bride
recycled for future projects. By consolidating the manufacturing process in-studio, they have narrowed delivery times, have more control over the end product, and have closer relationships with suppliers and customers. The business model may be simplified, but the bride has the difficult task of selecting just one of countless options for her wedding day. First comes the consultation. Natalie or Lyndsie McClure, who handles press, sales, and special projects for Alabama Chanin, sits down with each of the customers to get a sense of their vision and style. Some brides come in with a few ideas sketched out, or Natalie can walk them through a
96 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
library of patterns—there are literally hundreds. The style featured is an a-line long skirt with slight train. “Most brides know exactly what they want; they just need some help expressing and fine tuning,” says Natalie. “Sometimes pouring a couple of glasses of bubbly and really listening is the best way to get started. I love working with all of our clients, no matter what the occasion, but there’s something about a bride’s enthusiasm that is rather contagious.” Next comes choosing the color. The Factory, as it’s called by the staff, contains two large racks of fabrics in numerous shades. The fabric is made from 100 per-
cent organic cotton grown in Texas. The cotton is spun in North Carolina before the fiber is knit into jersey fabric in South Carolina. Then, it’s sent to Tennessee, North Carolina, or New York to be dyed. Brides can select from a dozen or so color combinations from White to Doeskin, Tea, and Blush. The color of the skirt featured is White on White. Then, brides determine the design and the appliqué from some 25 swatch books that hold hundreds of sample blocks, each grouped by color. In the skirt featured, the daisies in the Facets pattern are worked in a negative reverse appliqué with threads and knots exposed on the outside for a three-dimensional effect.
Clockwise from left: Carra-Ellen Russell carefully stitches a work in progress; Carra-Ellen marking and cutting a new gown; An employee’s sketch of two gowns.
“Most brides know exactly what they want; they just need some help expressing and fine tuning.
98 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
Sometimes pouring a couple of glasses of bubbly and really listening is the best way to get started.” —Natalie Chanin
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 99
Other design choices incorporate relief appliqués, reverse appliqués, and procession, where loose threads dangle like fringe in a 1920s fashion, and more. Brides can even add beading, backstitching, or embroidery floss. “I designed most of the stencils and appliqués,” says Natalie. “They sometimes start as scribbles in my notebook margins, or they are adapted for a specific purpose. We make samples, adjust if needed, and repeat.” Once the elements of the gown are chosen, Diane, the master seamstress, measures the bride before Carra-Ellen cuts the fabric and prepares the pattern. Steven, the production manager, applies the stencil to the fabric using an airbrush technique. And with Natalie’s stamp of approval, Olivia prepares the kits for the artisans. The artisans, who are all from the North Alabama area, are independent contractors, who charge per square inch, depending upon the intricacy of the stitching. This cottage industry-style production model allows artisans to work from their own homes and set their own wages. When it’s all said and done, gowns range from a few hundred dollars to several thousand dollars. However, brides who want the Alabama Chanin design at a lower cost can purchase a Do-It-Yourself kit so that they or a family member can make the gown with their own two hands. Brides should allow three weeks for online orders and several months for a custom gown. “It’s a slow process,” says Lyndsie, but it’s well worth the wait. “Some items out there on the market are well designed but use cheap thread that falls apart,” says Lyndsie. “Natalie’s pieces are considered heirloom quality. She uses only the best material and strongest thread so you can pass the dress down from generation to generation.”
100 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
The dresses can even be machine washed or sent back to the Factory to be custom dyed for no extra charge so brides can wear them again. How’s that for practical? “Natalie’s gowns are feminine, romantic, and have the comfort of wearing your favorite t-shirt in a couture gown,” says Lyndsie. “There’s something about a handmade dress that feels so good on your body and makes you look wonderful,” says Susan Rowe, a local photographer, musician, and newlywed who wore an Alabama Chanin gown on her wedding day last fall. So what did Natalie wear on her wedding day? “A handmade silk slip underneath a silk brocade, baby blue fur-collared evening coat from Anna Molinari, heels, and a diamond choker,” says Natalie. “Totally 1996.” Alabama Chanin’s bridal collection features hundreds of combinations for an array of tastes, styles, and budgets. But even with all of those options, Natalie and her many bridal customers agree on one thing: when it comes to their wedding day, it’s all about the dress. A Florence native, Natalie Chanin started her business in 2006 and in a short time has created an impressive brand known throughout the country. She could do business anywhere but she chooses to live and work in her hometown because of “the wealth of artistic talent, incredible family, and the most amazing tomatoes in the world.”
Opposite, clockwise from top left: Fabric in numerous shades fill large shelves a the “factory;” various threads, trims, and beads will add texture and sparkle to a future dress; helping a bride choose the perfect combinations; one of many stencils designed by Alabama Chanin is positioned over the fabric and then airbrushed. This page: One of 25 swatch books that hold hundreds of sample blocks, each grouped by color.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 101
BY CLAIRE STEWART » PHOTOS BY DANNY MITCHELL
Gone are the days of shiny, identical, ill-fitting bridesmaid dresses! Instead, today’s brides are saying “no” to the traditional taffeta messes and letting each bridesmaid’s personality shine. Make sure your girls look just as fabulous as you on your big day by letting them pick dresses they will wear over and over again.
{ Same Dress, Different Color } Allison Parris Swag Dresses ($375) Finery (256) 429-3429
102 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
{ Same Dress, Dierent Accessories }
Ya Plum Pleated Dress ($39) Earrings and Necklace ($28) Bracelets ($18 each) J. Whitener (256) 885-2006
Ya Plum Pleated Dress ($39) Earrings and Necklace ($24) Bracelet ($18) J. Whitener (256) 885-2006
Ya Plum Pleated Dress ($39) Earrings and Necklace ($24) Bracelets ($12), Headband ($7) J. Whitener (256) 885-2006
Models: Courtney Bishop, Chandler Richey, Erica Gholson
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 103
{ Different Dresses, Same Color Palette }
Printed Tulle Dress ($69.95) Market House (256) 606-7888
104 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
A’reve Lace Dress ($54.95) Market House (256) 606-7888
Ryne Tulle Dress ($64.95) Market House (256) 606-7888
Your BizHub Watchdog If you’re interested in controlling costs with office equipment solutions for almost any business challenge, call me. We’re the specialists, because we’re the watchdogs. —J.T. Ray
(256) 464-0010 450 Production Avenue, Madison, AL 35758
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 105
106 »
food for thought » Sarah Gaede
HAVING BEEN BOTH A CATERER AND A CLERGY PERSON, I know a lot about weddings. Having been married for 39 of my 61 years (to two husbands), I also know a lot about being married. The two are not remotely synonymous. Weddings are about one special day. Marriage is about building a life together, day after day, year after year. I am convinced that one of the most important elements of a successful marriage is preparing and eating meals together, first as a couple, and then as a family. Eating meals together won’t absolutely guarantee a life-long union (see first husband) or a harmonious relationship with your children, but it surely does help. It’s a ritual that builds family ties, and, as a bonus, provides an opportunity to teach your children table manners. Over our 31 years of marriage, my husband Henry and I have found the division of labor that works for us. I plan the menus, shop, and cook, all of which I enjoy doing. (I really should have majored in home economics, as we called it in the dark ages, instead of comparative literature.) Henry cleans up, makes coffee at breakfast, grills, fries an occasional egg (beyond me, for some reason), and mixes my martinis.
The Couple That Cooks Together… Henry and I may be old-school, but cooking transcends traditional gender roles. I asked some of my long-time married or partnered friends how they divide the dinner chores, and what their spouse’s favorite dishes are. It occurs to me that they are all Episcopalians, which makes sense. We are all about ritual, and finding holiness in the ordinary, and good food and wine—I think we are imprinted by weekly communion. My friend Stephen Moore, judge and priest in Washington state, has been married for more than 20 years. He writes, “I cook roughly six nights a week, depending upon what is happening in our crazy schedule. This is not work for me; it is often the most fun I have all day. It is also a gift of love to my darling bride, who works hard at her job… I often use food to express love and this is one of those ways.” (I couldn’t have put it better myself, which is why I quoted him.) As for favorites, “she can’t really choose just one thing. When fresh corn is in season, it would be my corn-andpotato chowder. She waxes rhapsodic about my smashed potatoes. And she loves the four-cheese macn-cheese I make her.” The Rev. Dr. Lee Crawford and Anne Brown of Vermont have been together for 22 years. Because they work in different towns, and Lee travels a lot with her ministry, meals together are precious. They have arrived at an interesting division of labor. Lee does veggies and salad, and Anne cooks the fish, chicken, and red meat. Lee loves Anne’s sautéed chicken
with vermouth, lemon, mushrooms, and a side of artichokes. Anne is partial to Lee’s homemade salsa. My dear friends Zac Abramson and Barry Baker (who vehemently does not cook) have been together almost 30 years. Barry is on the road most of the time, so Zac enjoys cooking for him when he comes home. Barry’s current favorite supper is fried eggplant slices on baby lettuce with vinaigrette, and cheese soufflé. But his all-time favorite is the peanut butter pie from the long-defunct Relay House in Birmingham. When I asked Henry to pick a recipe, to my surprise he chose the lamb stew I have been making since I was in seminary in the early 1990s. It’s the ultimate in comfort food, good for Sunday suppers and casual dinner parties. Serve with crusty bread and salad. Henry would add, “and custard for dessert.” But not his mama’s rice pudding, which I won’t attempt, and not just because I hate rice pudding. That would be treading on dangerous ground. An important piece of advice to newlyweds: You will never be able to cook your spouse’s favorites as well as his or her mama or daddy did, so don’t even try!
Easy Irish Stew • • • • • • • • • • • •
1 pound lamb stew meat (or cut-up leg of lamb) 2-1/4 cups low-sodium beef broth, divided 1/4 cup (4 tablespoons) tomato paste 3 cloves garlic, minced 1 bay leaf 1/2 teaspoon black pepper 1 cup frozen pearl onions (available at Publix, hallelujah) 1 pound small red or Yukon gold potatoes, halved or quartered 1/2 pound baby carrots 2 tablespoons cornstarch 1 cup frozen baby peas Salt and more pepper to taste
Bring 2 cups broth, tomato paste, garlic, bay leaf, and pepper to a boil in a Dutch oven. Add lamb, lower heat, and simmer covered for 30 minutes. Add pearl onions and continue cooking covered for 10 minutes. Add carrots and potatoes and cook covered until tender, about 20 minutes. In a small bowl, combine the remaining 1/4 cup broth with the cornstarch. Increase heat to a boil, stir in cornstarch mixture and peas, and cook, stirring constantly, until stew thickens, about 1 minute. Serve in big bowls with soup spoons. Serves 4. You can substitute stew beef, but cook it for 60 minutes before adding vegetables. This doubles easily, in which case just use a one quart box of beef broth, and dissolve the cornstarch in water.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 107
108 »
back talk » Claire Stewart
What was your most unique wedding gift? “We were newly married and broke, and a gift card to a five-star restaurant made a great, extraordinary date night.” —Margo Alford Margo
“My grandmother gave me all-clad pots and pans and a set of Wusthof knives. They were my favorite gift because I use them everyday.” —Olivia Reed Olivia
“A pair of glass Christmas swan vases that we definitely didn’t register for, and we were not married anywhere near Christmas time.” —Lindsay Rice Lindsay
“A lifetime of Alabama season tickets” —Vicki Grimes Vicki
“My mom’s hippie friends gave us a turtle lamp. It has stayed on our bookshelf ever since we got married.” —Audra Lockwood Audra
Kelly
“An old trunk from my husband’s family. My brother and I had fought over an almost identical trunk from my family. I was so mad when he got it, until I got one of my own!” —Kelly Hudson
“A beautiful plate from Italy from our close friends who travel around the world.” —Lacey Nelson Lacey
“We were fortunate enough to receive a nice gift of money—we were able to spend half on our reception and half on our furniture.” —Melissa Fowler Melissa
“The most unique thing I got on my wedding day— my husband.” —Emily Stone Emily
“My wedding invitation made into a candle. I started making them myself after I got it. It is such a special gift!” —Erin Bloxham Curtis Erin
“A set of wooden ducks. One has a pink bow so you know it is a girl. Their heads turn all the way around to signify if we are mad at each other or not.” —Joan Smith
Joan
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 109
110 »
back talk » What was your most unique wedding gift? “We were 24 and 25 and broke, and my aunt and uncle gave us our honeymoon!” —Courtenay Simmons Courtenay
Michelle
“Pink Towels. Friends gave them to us with a note that said they received ugly pink towels on their wedding day—now they give the same gift to the newly married couples they know.” —Michelle Newberry Epling
“A box with multi-colored clothespins and a butterfly necklace” —Kelly Davis Kelly
“A beautiful antique box that goes perfectly with our home décor. It was something I didn’t register for but I really appreciated” —Helen Shores Helen
“A monogrammed sheet set that we use every day. It was a perfect gift and wasn’t something you keep in a closet like china.” —Jana Broughton Jana
“My best friend catering my wedding was the best and most unique wedding gift I could ask for” —Christy Johnson Christy
All respondents are members of the Junior League of Huntsville. 110 | NOALAPRESS . COM | J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013
Now booking for weddings and special events! www.burrittonthemountain.com 256-536-2882 You could win The Perfect Wedding - details in this issue of No’Ala!
PHOTOS: Darla Hall, Authentic Photography, 256-651-8479; Liss Sterling, Liss Sterling Photography, 256-520-2167
It’s not too early to begin planning for your wedding at Baron Bluff at Burritt on the Mountain. Come look us over and let us show you how we can help you have an event of a lifetime with a fabulous view—at Burritt.
Memorable Weddings Deserve Memorable Locations J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 111
112 »
bless their hearts » Michael Stewart
Another Royal Wedding WE ARE WAITING IN THE NARTHEX OF THE OLD CHURCH FOR THE WEDDING PARTY TO ARRIVE FOR THE REHEARSAL. The gray-haired, 60-something groom pulls me aside, and says, “Preacher, there is something you need to know about my son.” The bride and groom had been first-grade sweethearts. But she moved away that same year. Sixty years later they met again at a church homecoming. Each had lost their spouse of decades in the previous year. A cup of coffee together led to a dinner which led to a supper. The meals led to taking each other on cemetery dates to visit their former spouses’ graves. Before long they were picking out wedding invitations, remodeling her house, and upgrading his wardrobe. “I was bracing myself to explain to the King how ‘A Hunk-a Hunk-a Burning Love’ might not fall within the sacred music guidelines outlined in the Methodist Church’s Altar Guild wedding policy.” In premarital counseling sessions I always asked formerly married persons what they had learned about themselves and life from their previous marriages. This couple, old enough to be my parents, had no hesitancy in answering the question. She said, “I learned how fragile and brief life is, so don’t waste a day of it.” He said, “I learned what the Bible says in Genesis is true; ‘It is not good for the man to be alone’.” The couple’s children and grandchildren were delighted for them. They knew how accomplished their parents had been in their first marriages. They also knew how lonely they each had been in their widowhood. In our final premarital counseling session the bride told me her son was a minister, and she would like for him to escort her down the aisle, and share in officiating. They also agreed they wanted the groom’s son to be involved in the wedding, in some way. So on Friday evening at the rehearsal, just as the groom is telling me there is something I needed to know about his son, the sanctuary door behind him opens and in
walks…Elvis. A mature Elvis, to be sure, with many fried peanut butter banana sandwiches under his belt. But there is no mistaking the man in the gold-templed sunglasses, and black pompadour. As he enters, his dad says, “My son works at a bar in Birmingham as the security man and house Elvis impersonator. And we have figured out what he can do in our wedding.” My mind flashes to some of the awful karaoke vocals I have endured at weddings. More than once this Christian minister has had to maintain the smile of the Buddha while waiting for the tortured solo to end. So frequently they were rendered by the bride’s cousin, who “does not read music, but just sings by ear”. I was bracing myself to explain to the King how “A Hunk-a Hunk-a Burning Love” might not fall within the sacred music guidelines outlined in the Methodist Church’s Altar Guild wedding policy. But a smiling King put his arm around his dad’s neck and embraced him. He shook my hand warmly and introduced himself to me, just like a regular commoner might. Dad said, “I want you to be my best man, son.” They hugged again and both teared up. The wedding the next day was beautiful. The late afternoon sun filtering through the hundred-year-old stained glass windows set the room aglowing. The organ filled the room with Altar Guild-approved Bach. The bride was radiant as she walked the aisle on the arm of her preacher-robed son. And the dad beamed as he stood beside his son, took the hand of his bride, and said, “ ‘Til death do us part.” In nearly 40 years of officiating at weddings, I have never seen a more poised and attentive best man. Elvis was well-turned out in his charcoal business suit and gray-striped tie. He kept his hands at his side during the service, as he had been instructed by the wedding director. He did not slouch. He kept his eyes focused on the couple. He gracefully presented the ring to his father at the appropriate time. But then one would not expect anything less regal from royalty. At the reception, I sidled up to the best man and remarked that I thought he might be providing some of the entertainment. He said, “Oh, no. Not tonight. All the attention should be on the new couple.” But he did cordially invite me to see him perform on Thursday nights in Birmingham. “No cover charge for preachers,” he promised.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 113
114 Âť
parting shot Âť David Higginbotham
Matthew and Jenny Mizzell cruise Lake Martin on their wedding day.
J ANUARY /F EBRUARY 2013 | NOALAPRESS . COM | 115