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Chef Eric Wells No Crowd? No Problem.

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Fancy Food, Safe Visits A Light Touch In Fairview Park

Farmers Markets Foul Weather Fare

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Hometown Gifts, Whine Day

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Love Connections

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Grumbles, Gripes, Gratitude

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omplaint-wise, It’s been an unsatisfying year for those of us in the glass-half-empty camp.

Never a stoic, I’ve long grumbled about all sorts of minor irritants: confusing directions, late-arriving friends, unreturned phone calls. Worse yet, I expect them. On the outside, I’m smiling; on the inside, I’m judging.

This year has set a new bar for complaints, and mine don’t even make 2020’s Top 10 list. Complaints lose their punch when everyone you know is complaining, too. And they’re doing it under far more difficult circumstances and considerably more grace than me.

In this season of gratitude, I’m resetting my complaint meter. The year has been awful — tragic for many. Yet for all of the pandemic’s incredible disruptions, it’s led to unexpected benefits and insights for me. The glass is still half-empty, but at least I have a glass.

ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT I’m starting to appreciate the introverts in my life, those for whom socializing means social obligation. It’s their time.

When an event pops up (socially distant, of course), they have a built-in excuse that requires no further explanation.

They may say they’re not comfortable attending for COVID-19 reasons when, in truth, they were never comfortable going at all. I get it now.

Trust is another focus of my gratitude.

As much as possible, I’m only around people whose habits I trust. That whittles down my social circle, and I’m not sure how much of my strategy is based on science. Not only do my friends now need to be fun and loyal and nice, but they also have to wear masks in public and eschew indoor restaurants.

I’m grateful for the clarity that’s resulted from my sparse calendar. I’ll never take an invitation for granted

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again. The need-tos, ought-tos and want-tos are clearer now. Maybe I’m more of an introvert than I realize. In the future, events will need to earn their place on my schedule.

Many of us will celebrate the holidays at home this year, and in far different ways than we could have imagined. In the spirit of the season, I’m tempering my grumbling.

It’s a special season that deserves special treatment, regardless of the background noise and calamity. The good news is, we’ve got you covered with stories about food, safe visits and holiday lights — and a bit of local nostalgia thrown in for fun.

MORE INSIDE Cleveland Chef Eric Wells shows us how to amp up holiday meals, no matter how many are gathered around the table (Page 26). If you want to navigate a holiday visit without creating a super-spreader event, read our story on Page 30. Linda Feagler, a familiar and long-time local writer, profiles a Fairview Park couple who heads up their neighborhood’s elaborate Christmas light extravaganza each year (Page 32). We’ve included a list of other places that light up these long, dark evenings.

This year has brought changes that have changed me along the way.

I’m hanging on for the ride. I’ll still complain — it’s my nature — but I’ll give gratitude a higher priority.

Decent weather... Check. A FaceTime chat... Check. A nice meal... Check.

Baby steps.

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Bring It On SLEEP SOLUTIONS

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WORTH NOTING Compiled by Marie Elium

Winging It The Audubon Bird Count

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f you like watching birds and you can count reasonably well, then sign up for the 121st Audubon Christmas Bird Count Dec. 14-Jan. 5. Groups have formed throughout Northeast Ohio, a prime bird-watching region because of our proximity to Lake Erie.

The Christmas Bird Counts go into a database where scientists use the information to monitor the vitality and range of cardinals, blue jays, dark-eyed juncos and other feathered friends.

Join a local group, count on your own or watch the bird feeder in your back yard, depending on where you live and how many people are counting. Register at audubon.org.

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Food, Cash Feel Good Feeding Others

Whiners, It’s Your Time to Shine Fill in the blank: 2020 has been a ______.

Train wreck? Dumpster fire?

Yes and yes.

Cleveland Clinic and other local physicians have warned about pandemic fatigue, reminded us to wash our hands, and advised mental health counseling for stress.

But what about whining? Certainly, we’re entitled to indulge in self-pity. Good news: there’s a day for that; National Whiner’s Day is Dec. 26. Established by a minister, the day was set aside to let us indulge in whining while also appreciating what we have.

In keeping with the pandemic theme, National Hand Washing Awareness Week is the first week of December. No word yet on National Face Mask Day or Social Distancing Week.

The pandemic has forced many people out of jobs and has led to increased demand on local food programs and the agencies that buy and collect the food. One of those is the Akron-Canton Regional Food Bank, which gets one-third of its food from local donations, according to its website, akroncantonfoodbank.org.

Drop-off hours are 8 a.m.4 p.m. Mondays through Fridays at Akron-Canton Regional Foodbank, 350 Opportunity Pkwy. in Akron.

THEIR SUPER SIX MOST-WANTED ITEMS • boxed cereal • peanut butter • canned tuna • vegetables • beef stew and soup • Money is always appreciated

Explore the Western Reserve From the Comfort of Your Recliner No recliner? No worries. A couch is fine, too.

One of our favorite local websites is from the Western Reserve Historical Society, wrhs.org. The site is packed with interesting stories about the region from its post-Revolutionary War origins and up through the past few decades.

With the exception of special, virtual exhibits, almost everything can be accessed for free. Some of the best content is in the site’s Then & Now Blog. Recent posts have covered the importance of Sokolowski’s University Inn, other restaurants in the former South Side (Tremont) area, politician Stephanie Tubbs Jones, and the spooky Franklin Castle.

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Boom Time

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for Hometown Gifts

ike many of us, Deby Lexow gave locally-milled pancake mix, maple syrup and other Northeast Ohio products to friends and family for the holidays.

Unlike all of us, she created a business out of her generous habit.

Lexow started LOCLE Box six years ago, tracking down Ohio-made products from small-batch artisans so she could assemble ready-made and custom gift boxes.

“I love finding new makers for products that we include in our gift boxes. Before COVID, we traveled to farmers markets to find Ohio-made products and goodies. And now, we

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find new makers mostly through referrals and Etsy,” Lexow says.

“We have pretty strict criteria to be included in the LOCLE Box family. Number one, the product must be outstanding – either a delicious edible or an incredibly well-made bath product or kitchen tool or a beautifully designed card or craft,” she says.

All makers have to be an actual business with a website or an Etsy shop so customers can contact them if they want to buy more items. In addition, all comply with state regulations and food standards. See Deby’s boxes at LOCLEBox.com.

It’s a Date!

NEW YEAR, NEW CALENDAR Just because there’s not much on our calendars lately doesn’t mean we shouldn’t keep track of all those empty days. We’ve found some interesting local calendar options online to help you plan for better, busier days. Road Trip Ohio Wall Calendar (calendars.com) takes you on a quick tour of the state’s most popular destinations.

Landmarks Cleveland Ohio Calendar with artwork by WestCreek, of Cleveland, shows the city in all of its glory (zazzle. com). If you want to look at beaches, woods, wetlands and nature preserves but don’t want to travel right now, the Ohio Nature calendar is a good choice (amazon.com).

Go ahead; plan for a better 2021 and pick up a calendar, whether or not you have something to write in it.

Bookshelf

AN APPETITE FOR READING TOMES WITH TASTE

We asked our favorite foodies — including our cover subject Chef Eric Wells — for book suggestions this time around. Food and the holidays go together like turkey and stuffing, mini-marshmallows and sweet potatoes, fruitcake and… nothing.

You get the point. Enjoy!

Entertaining

By Martha Stewart

It’s the book that launched a thousand pre-dinner party panic attacks.

You may have a tattered copy of this ’80s classic on the bookshelf. Go ahead and page through the super hostess’s iconic first, and some would argue, her best book about food and entertaining. The month-by-month descriptions are both intimidating and inspiring.

(A Chef Wells recommendation).

Animal, Vegetable, Miracle

By Barbara Kingsolver

Another oldie, but it’s so long and so in-depth and so onpoint for today that it’s worth revisiting.

Where you get your food from is as important as what you do with it when you bring it home.

Folksy, informative, practical advice interspersed with recipes (why not make your own cheese?) will make you take another look at that Velveeta log in your refrigerator.

The Complete America’s Test Kitchen TV Show Cookbook 2001-2021: TV Show Cookbook

By America’s Test Kitchen

Like George Foreman Grills and bread machines, it’s tough to justify shelf space for a cookbook with all of the online recipe options available. Make room for this one. The authors explain not only how to make great food but also the reasons behind their techniques. It will turn a good cook into a great cook.

Jubilee: Recipes from Two Centuries of African-American Cooking

By Toni Tipton-Martin

A Chef Wells pick, this celebration of African-American cooks and chefs features more than 100 recipes.

Highlighting the impact and importance of African-American food throughout history, TiptonMartin paints a fascinating portrait with stories, techniques, and dishes that form the basis for our cuisine today.

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The Lager Queen of Minnesota

By J. Ryan Stradal

This book about two sisters, two breweries and two life trajectories offers up a crash course in beermaking and friendship. It’s weighty enough for a book club discussion but light enough for holiday downtime. You’ll never look at beer the same way.

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WINE WITH WANDA

Pour, Sip, Repeat Cheers!

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he holidays certainly will look different this year. Relatives and friends might be on Skype instead of in your living room; the mall Santa may be behind plexiglass and wear a mask.

For those of us choosing to quarantine this holiday season, there still is a lot to enjoy, particularly when it comes to wine. Ordering wine online is a safe way to expand your wine options during the holidays, and there are plenty of websites that deliver to Ohio.

HOME DELIVERY First-time buyers usually receive a discount and incentives on future orders. Some websites offer discounts for referring a friend, and if the friend orders, they offer percentage-off codes to both parties.

Most wine websites, including wine.com, have great customer service. They accept all major credit cards and next-day air is available for an additional fee. As of June, Ohioans must pay taxes on wine shipped from wine websites. And if you send wine to a loved one this holiday season, there will be an additional delivery charge for each address.

Shipped wine comes well packaged. If the seller requires a photo ID, they will tell you via email prior

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to shipping. Hard to believe that a Boomer will be carded for alcohol.

Recently, I left my driver’s license on my outdoor deck and the delivery driver scanned it, without touching it.

I was happy with the service as well as the wines and was able to stay inside and enjoy my favorite pastime.

Be sure to wipe off the bottles with a CDC-approved sanitizer.

Consider trying a remote wine tasting with friends this winter via a Zoom chat or other video conference app.

Everyone participating in the wine tasting should have the same wines, and the same vintage of that wine.

Start with sparkling wines, light white wines, rich whites, rosé, light reds, medium reds, full-bodied reds and then sweet wines.

This is the wine processional and the best way to keep your palette from becoming confused. Take notes of the wine’s characteristics, shortcomings and attributes, and then encourage each person to give an opinion on each sample. Remember to drink plenty of water to prevent headaches from red wine’s histamines and tannins.

Laughing and drinking wine with people that you enjoy is a relaxing way to share holiday cheer. This is a perfect time to remind them how much you care about each one of them, how they make life interesting and meaningful, and to thank them for that soft place to land in the arms of their friendship.

Holiday memories can be created during tough times, with love, joy, gratitude, and, of course, a great bottle of wine.

Wanda Haynes is a Northeast Ohio certified sommelier, wine writer and educator, and host of the award-winning Wine with Wanda on WCTV.

PHOTO:WANDA HAYNES, ETHENICITY URBAN CULTURE AND WINE.

By Wanda Haynes

THE MAGICAL JOURNEY OF

CAPTAIN PENNY’S UNIFORM

By Mike Olszewski

We’ve heard it many times. Pop culture, especially media, tends to be disposable. It’s there when we need it, and it’s gone when we don’t. Few people have the foresight to recognize the importance of those cherished mementos that helped shape our lives. The guys who kept The Beatles’ and Elvis Presley’s demo discs, or Joe Shuster’s drawings of Superman, were visionaries. And, in his own way, so was Bob Seeley.

PHOTO:PROVIDED BY MIK OLSZEWSKI

A CHILDHOOD ICON

Seeley spent his entire career at Cleveland’s WEWS-TV and worked alongside many of the greats: Dorothy Fuldheim, Bill Gordon, Paige Palmer and Ron Penfound, also known as Captain Penny.

Every kid who grew up in Cleveland in the mid-’50s and ’60s remembers Captain Penny, who hosted a popular, locally produced children’s show. In his trademark railroad engineer uniform, Captain Penny introduced his young audience to classic comedy shows like The Three Stooges.

Other regular features were an adoptable pet segment called “Pooch Parade,” Jungle Larry’s exotic animals, and conversations with Mister F.W. Nickelsworth. He encouraged picky eaters to join the Clean Plate Club. Mr. Jingeling stopped by at Christmastime. And who could forget his closing lines -paraphrased from a Little Rascals episode: “You can fool some of the people all of the time, all of the people some of the time, but you can’t fool Mom. She’s pretty nice and she’s pretty smart. If you do what Mom says you won’t go far wrong.”

When Penfound left WEWS-TV in the early ’70s, he gave his classic train uniform to Seeley, who recalls, “We knew the show was disappearing and I kept asking, ‘Can I have this?’ He probably got tired of me asking, but to me he was special. I used to watch him when I came home from school for lunch.”

I’m not a fan of Facebook; I see it as a modern version of a citizen’s band radio, giving voice to people with nothing to say. But it’s an easy way to get family photos. A few months back, I was doing just that when I saw a message from

Seeley saying it was time for Captain Penny’s uniform to find a new home.

That choice seemed obvious. The uniform belonged with the Penfound family.

My wife Janice and I happen to be friends with the late Ron Penfound’s son, Matt Penfound, who lives near Columbus. There were emails and phone calls between Seeley and Matt and it was decided that Janice and I would deliver the iconic memento to the Penfounds.

We met to pick it up from Seeley.

There it was in a Higbee’s box with an autograph on the lid that read, “To Bobby, Keep Smiling! Captain Penny.”

One of the “holy grails” of Cleveland TV history was on its way to the family that made it famous nearly 50 years earlier.

Janice and I get together with Matt and his family every time we visit Columbus, but this time it was really special. On a beautiful autumn Saturday, we met for coffee and Matt opened the box to get reacquainted with an important part of his family history.

As Matt looked over the uniform, he said, “I’ve been thinking about it all day. It’s so amazing to see and to touch something that was such a big part of dad’s career as a Cleveland TV personality. I’m indebted to Bob Seeley for keeping it safe for so long and to you for seeing it made its way home.

Our family will treasure it forever.”

Ron Penfound never got to meet his grandchildren, but in a way, they got to know him a little better. The uniform is back with the Penfounds, thanks in great part to Bob Seeley, a prescient caretaker of TV history.

If you find yourself longing for the golden days of Cleveland kids’ show hosts, you’re in luck. I’m working on a couple of projects that will debut early next year.

As they say in the TV business, stay tuned!

Mike Olszewski is a longtime fan of local TV shows and is Boomer’s popculture columnist.

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TECH TALK

CONNECTED Apart, Yet Together

By Tak Sato

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hen the last Tech Talk column of 2020 hits the streets, we will be at the start of the holiday season, a season that will feel a little different because of COVID-19.

Getting together with family and friends in-person provides emotional connections that everyone needs. Paraphrasing the 17th Century poet John Donne, “No person is an island.” Four centuries later, the expression still rings true.

Current COVID-19 safety protocol promotes physical distancing. But studies have shown that prolonged social distancing can lead to loneliness or clinical depression that can affect physical and mental health.

SAFE VISITS I believe the shot in the arm is digital literacy, using the internet as a 21st Century life skill. For those who use their smartphones, tablets or computers for more than keeping up on social media, I know this is preaching to the choir. For the uninitiated, though, I’ve listed a few of those benefits in the accompanying story.

The single most important benefit of digital literacy is the communication options it provides for maintaining emotional connectedness despite physical distancing.

I’ve been benefiting from such an option, especially the kind that adds real-time connections. For decades, my relationship with my parents in Japan and my in-laws in the Philippines have been healthy, thanks to technology. A trip home every couple of years brought unrivaled emotional connectedness but in-between visits have been buoyed through video conferencing, video chats or video calls.

Even in countries where technology is a luxury, which was the case for my inlaws, it took only a gift of a tablet, internet connection, and a demonstration for my father-in-law to see the benefit of a video call.

He could see his daughter anytime and his grandchildren grow right in front of his eyes.

I consider the process to start/join a video chat session very coachable. Our nonprofit has been successfully helping older adults

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master digital literacy, including using video call apps. I know, however, that the process can be challenging for many people.

Smart Display touch screens that are part of a smart speaker system (such as Amazon Echo) can simplify starting or joining video chats. The chart accompanying this story has examples that you can Google to get more information.

Digital literacy is not only about video calls or social media. Its ability to help us make emotional connections is one very important benefit for the social creatures that we are.

Tak Sato is a founder of the Cleveland-area nonprofit Center for Aging in the Digital World at empoweringseniors.org.

VIDEO CONFERENCING PLATFORMS Application Developer

Application Name

Price for Service?

Google

Duo

Free

Apple

FaceTime

Free

Google

Meet

Free

Facebook

Messenger

Free

Microsoft

Skype

Free

Microsoft

Team

Free, $

Cisco

WebEx

Free, $

Zoom

Zoom

Free, $

PLAYING IT SAFE Pandemic Technology • Do you Duo, FaceTime, Zoom, Meet, Skype, Team or use other video conferencing or chat platforms to keep in touch with your family, friends, and community?

• Do you use your library’s free digital services to stream movies, TV shows, music and to download books, magazines and newspapers?

Refer to the July/ August 2018 issue of Boomer to learn more.

Find back issues at Northeastohioboomer. com.

• Do you order groceries from local supermarkets for delivery or curbside pickup?

• Do you pay your bills with online banking (often free)?

• Do you shop online with local and national stores?

• Do you monitor your credit cards online?

AGE WISE

Fall-Free Habits

THE MARVEL OF MOBILITY

By Dr. Ardeshir Z. Hashmi

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very 20 minutes, someone older dies from fall-related complications in our nation, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). One in four older adults falls each year, with one in five causing serious injury. More than just our pride then, is likely to get hurt when we fall.

With age, many changes occur that cause us to fall frequently.

Frailty is a core physiological feature underpinning falls as we get older.

Though frailty is directly correlated to falls, nursing home placement and death, most clinicians are unaware of how it develops or what to do about it.

FRAILTY FACTORS Physiological factors that contribute to frailty include: • Sarcopenia or weakness when muscle tissue is replaced with fat tissue • Slow walking speed • Weak grip strength • Skeletal changes that lead to spine curvature • Difficulties swallowing and chewing, causing an inability to take in protein-rich foods that counter frailty

• Blood pressure that drops dramatically upon rising from a sitting to standing position, causing dizziness and falls • A reduced ability to recognize thirst, thus losing the warning signal for dehydration • Vision changes and loss of depth perception that impair judgment when stepping off of curbs

Superimposed on top of all these frailty factors are chronic medical conditions and hospitalizations. It is said that with every day spent in the hospital bed, we lose 50% of our function from the previous day.

As well-intentioned hospital care teams force us to stay in that hospital bed, they are unwittingly contributing to increased frailty, the associated risk of falls and longer hospital stays.

Not surprisingly and consequently for most older adults, physical therapy teams often recommend hospital patients transition to short-term physical rehabilitation facilities for more intense physical recuperation rather than go directly home.

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HELP YOURSELF Fractures comprise a third in the triad of frailty and falls. After age 50, half of all women and a quarter of all men suffer a fracture related to osteoporosis (fragility or brittleness of underlying bone).

There are clear guidelines, especially for post-menopausal women, to have a bone density (DEXA) scan every two years to screen for osteoporosis, but this is often a much-neglected preventive health care measure.

To counter the “3 Fs” of Frailty, Falls and Fragility, the best investment in our own health is mobility and its cornerstones of aerobic and weight-bearing exercises.

Regularity rather than intensity of these exercises is integral to preserving mobility and function.

Exercise built into daily routines is a time-tested principle of “Blue Zone” cultures (areas of the world with the most successfully aging populations). The Sardinians, for example, live on rocky terrain and for centuries they’ve visited neighbors and friends by walking or cycling over. Similarly, Tai Chi balance exercises are a mobilitypromoting gift from ancient civilizations.

In the midst of the pandemic and as winter looms, it may be challenging to exercise outdoors.

Indoor exercises can range from home exercise bikes and treadmills all the way to chair yoga.

Prevent falls by installing grab bars, shower benches, walk-in showers and raised toilet seats.

Have adequate lighting; remove throw rugs. Eat enough protein to get the most out of exercise and to strengthen muscles.

Emergency contingency measures such as Life Alert necklaces and bracelets are essential. Mobility holds the keys to preserving functional independence.

Dr. Ardeshir Z. Hashmi is the Endowed Chair for Geriatric Innovation and Director of the Center for Geriatric Medicine at Cleveland Clinic.

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Lessons of

Thanks

Familiar Yet Different

PHOTO & ARTICLE

BY KAREN SHADRACH

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Our Thanksgiving turkeys may be smaller this year, but that doesn’t mean we still cannot continue some of our favorite traditions or add new ones.

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ur holidays certainly will be different, but with a little creativity, we can still celebrate this wonderful Thanksgiving holiday together. So… go ahead and prepare a feast! Cooking favorite family recipes and setting a decorated fall table will keep your Thanksgiving meal a special and memorable occasion.

The grandkids love to help set the table and arrange table decorations.

This keeps them very excited and involved in the celebration. The grandkids enjoy making the cranberry sauce and pumpkin pies. You can prepare smaller portions of everything, or keep the larger versions and share.

Pack a meal to deliver to a family member who is not celebrating with you. Take a meal or dessert to a neighbor or friend who is alone for the holiday.

A MEANINGFUL CELEBRATION Another part of our family tradition includes making native American headbands and Pilgrim hats out of construction paper for the kids to wear. These are worn throughout the day and we explain the story of the first Thanksgiving. We also decorate our house with turkeys made by

tracing your hand on a piece of paper. These can be colored and cut out to hang on walls or used as table place cards.

Older grandkids can draw turkeys and add colorful feathers. Ask them what they are thankful for, and write their responses on the feathers. Or make a thankful pumpkin. On the top by the stem, write in a circular motion with a permanent marker, “I am thankful for…” Then, continuing in a spiral motion down the pumpkin, write their thankful ideas to fill the entire surface. This makes a great table centerpiece.

For dinner, we always light candles (or use battery-operated candles with little ones) and encourage everyone to stay in their seats until everyone has finished their dinner.

Remember to save the turkey wishbone. When completely dried (usually the next day), two kids can pull apart the bone to see whose wish comes true.

Connect with other family and friends with a Zoom meeting before, during or after your meal. If some relatives are unable to join in, be sure to find a way to reach out to those who are close to you and the

grandkids.

After dinner, our traditions include playing games at the table. The grandkids’ favorite is Turkey Bingo.

The cards have Thanksgivingthemed pictures, such as Pilgrims, corn stalks and pumpkins. Markers are acorns previously collected from the yard. Young non-reading children love to play, especially if small prizes are awarded for “Bingo!”

If the weather is walk-worthy, a jaunt around the block or a short trip to a nearby park for a hike is always fun and a healthy thing to do.

A great Thanksgiving tradition, the Macy’s Day Parade, is still on this year. The magic of the moment can still be enjoyed, though it’s a television-only event to eliminate large crowds during the usual parade route.

Whatever you decide to do to celebrate this year’s holiday, enjoy it with your own special traditions and have a very blessed Thanksgiving.

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Karen Shadrach is an on-the-go, in-the-know grandmother of two sets of twins. Read her grandparenting blog at northeastohio boomer.com

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Philanthropy

Encouraging the Next Generation

By Deborah Aubert Thomas

n a world where social media and other online sources influence our thoughts and behaviors and permeate our lives, it may seem challenging for grandparents to engage younger generations in family traditions such as philanthropy — giving time, talents and treasure to others.

When parents give to charity, their children are more likely to give to charity, too, and the earlier they become engaged, the more likely they will continue their generosity method for family philanthropy, into adulthood. Ninety percent of technology enables givers to NextGen donors were volunteering find organizations that align with before the age of 21, according individual family member to “Women Give values and interests. Online 2018: Transmitting platforms used every day Generosity to WHAT YOU CAN DO are moving philanthropy Daughters and Sons.”

• O ffer matching from formal giving Intentionality is key. contributions for structures to opportunities your grandchildren’s that incorporate giving RAISING GIVERS donations into everyday routines and Grandparents can •H old family Zoom habits. influence their children meetings to discuss The transfer of family and grandkids by family philanthropic philanthropy responsibility talking about their values and record can be circular, allowing own philanthropy, them for future younger generations to emphasizing the generations help guide the family’s values and passions •C o-create values and philanthropic response to that drive it. And they vision statements the crisis and its effect on can encourage it by for the family’s communities the family including younger philanthropy cares about. And while generations in their self-quarantining and activities. restricted public activities COVID-19 has limited may decrease the opportunities in-person activities, leading to more to volunteer in-person, family reliance on technology. Even prior members may be more inclined to to the pandemic, research indicated pitch in and complete those tasks that increased giving online builds a previously completed by their older broader community and a broader family members — delivering food, definition of philanthropy. collecting and donating basic needs While writing checks to favorite supplies, etc. charities may be the traditional

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Talking to family members about the increased needs in their communities, monitoring how nonprofit organizations are responding and researching where they might contribute to collective funds to have a greater impact than their individual gifts can all be opportunities to strengthen family philanthropic traditions.

Compounding the impact of the pandemic on our communities is heightened awareness and reaction to racial inequity. This presents the opportunity to connect with younger family members to discuss how they are navigating these times and consider how your family philanthropy might be responsive.

Resources, including those on racial equity and social justice as well as other tools, can be found on the National Center for Family Philanthropy website ncfp.org.

When we are on the other side of recovering from the current crises, Philanthropy Ohio, philanthropyohio. org and the Institutes at the Lilly Family School of Philanthropy are excellent resources for following the trends, staying educated and connecting with other family philanthropists in Ohio.

Deborah Aubert Thomas is president and CEO of Philanthropy Ohio that provides the network, tools and knowledge to help people engaged in philanthropy become more effective, powerful change agents in their communities.

Fun With the Grandkids ONGOING Body Worlds Rx. Through the process of Plastination, a complex preservation method that removes the fluids from the body and replaces them with reactive resins and elastomers, the specimens in this special exhibition offer guests inspiration and amazement by the inner workings of the human body. Great Lakes Science Center, 601 Erieside Ave., Cleveland, 216-694-2000, greatscience. com. FREE-$16.95 Schuele Planetarium: Twinkle Tots, Stellar Stars, Family Adventures in Space, Sky Tonight and Full Dome Show. Lake Erie Nature & Science Center, 28728 Wolf Rd., Bay Village, 440-871-2900, lensc.org. FREE Shark Gallery & Seat Tube. With 230,000 gallons of water, this impressive space features three species of sharks, stingrays, eels and many other species of fish. Greater Cleveland Aquarium, 2000 Sycamore St., Cleveland, 216-862-8803, greaterclevelandaquarium.com. $13.95-19.95

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Wild Winter Lights. Cleveland Metroparks Zoo is again transforming into a winter wonderland this holiday season. Experience the all-new lighting display, with more than one million individual lights & unique twists on holiday traditions. Thursday-Sundays.

5:30-9:30 p.m. 3900 Wildlife Way, 216-6353391, futureforwildlife.org

11/27-12/27 Holiday Lights Cruise-Thru. Drive-thru family event. Please bring one nonperishable food item to donate to the Second Harvest Food Bank. 5:30-9:30 p.m.

Carlisle Reservation Equestrian Center, 13630 Diagonal Rd., LaGrange, metroparks. cc. FREE

11/27-12/30 Wild Lights. Come enjoy the wildest lighting display this holiday season. Nearly the entire zoo is decorated and several animals will be out. 5-9 p.m. Akron Zoo, 505 Euclid Ave., Akron, 330-375-2550, akronzoo.org. $6-13

The Magical Santa Experience.

Personalized video invitation from Santa’s head elf, a private Zoom conversation with Santa, plus an oldfashioned letter mailed to your kids from St. Nick. Magical Theatre Co., 565 W. Tuscarawas Ave., Barberton, 330-8483708, magicaltheatre.org. $35

12/4, 12/11-12 & 12/18 Miller Woods Holiday Express. Grab your ticket for a special ride on the Little Green Choo through the woods to Santa’s workshop. 6:30-8:30 p.m. Miller Nature Preserve, 2739 Center Road, Avon, loraincountymetroparks.com. $10

12/6 Holiday CircleFest. A free annual Circle-wide celebration with activities, entertainment and a procession led by community lantern artists, illuminated dancers and giant puppets. 1-7 p.m.

Wade Oval, 10820 East Blvd., Cleveland, universitycircle.org. FREE

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FOOD

Gifts

of the

Season ALWAYS WELCOME

By John Selick

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etting together with friends and family — albeit with limitations — has never been more important than this year. We’ve spent all year staying at home in efforts to maintain social distance, so if you have the opportunity to safely get together and break bread with loved ones, make sure it’s memorable.

There is nothing more special than cooking and sharing that meal with the people you love.

FOOD SEASON Cooking during the holidays is my favorite time to cook. First of all, it is a shift in the seasons. We’ve moved away from zucchini and tomatoes and gotten into butternut squash and root vegetables. In other words, it’s officially mashed potato season.

We are also putting the grill away for the year and bringing out the Dutch oven to make rich stews and pot roasts, perfect partners for mashed potatoes. Is there anything better than a house filled with the aroma of a slowly cooked stew?

The other reason I love to cook during the holidays is because, at least in a typical year, it’s generally for more people. When we serve meals family-style, we lay everything out on the dining room table and we help ourselves to as much as we like. It is truly my favorite way to eat. In fact, a few years ago, I did some chef work at the Culinary Vegetable Institute at the Chef’s Garden in Milan, Ohio, and we would host monthly Earth to Table Dinners that featured a visiting guest chef.

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meals utilizing ingredients from the Chef’s Garden farm and serve it family-style to 80 or more people.

The energy from the dining room of people passing plates and sharing laughter made it the place to be.

It was a recreation of the perfect family dining room.

If you have a chance to travel for the holidays, it is still great to bring something made by you to the gathering. I often like to make a dessert, but if you know the menu your host is preparing, you might want to bring a savory side dish. The host may even appreciate the offer to bring a potato dish, as it would provide a little relief in what they need to prepare.

Side dishes that you can throw in the oven to reheat easily are great choices, especially if you can bring it in an attractive oven-proof dish.

Fresh vegetables are a good idea, too, as much holiday food can be a little heavy. A dish of balsamicroasted Brussels sprouts might be a welcomed addition.

Whatever you decide to bring to share, please keep food safety in mind and take great care to cool the food properly. When you travel with food, it has to stay hot (140° or above) or stay cold (40° or below), not room temperature.

Getting together with family this year could be the most memorable of our lifetime. Surround yourself with food and laughter of loved ones.

John Selick is a Certified Executive Chef and President of the American Culinary Federation Cleveland Chapter.

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We're Home for the

Holidays Ă… Simply Special

By Marie Elium

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Home

It’s got a different feeling this year. Take a deep breath and savor the season right here in Northeast Ohio.

We’ve put a spotlight on holiday dinners that take center stage, regardless of the size of the audience, and have tips to celebrate the season safely. From brilliant light displays to winter farmers markets, and to people who help feed others, we’re here. We’re home.

Let’s make the most of it this year.

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If friends and family are sticking close to home (their home) this holiday season, Cleveland Chef Eric Wells has good news. It is possible to create a small, elegant meal worthy of this food-centric time of year, even if just a few people are gathered around your table. He does it all the time.

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for just a few people. Wells’ specialty is intimate, six-course dinners for two.

Cleveland native Chef Eric Wells is a proponent of locally-sourced foods, a supporter of community food education and a mainstay at Northeast Ohio’s many charity events. He is the culinary instructor at CornUcopia Place on Kinsman Road. The community facility is the home to nutrition education classes and other food-centric activities in an area that has been described as a “food desert” on the city’s near-east side.

Wells started his Skye LaRae’s Culinary Services in 2004. He was the first African American graduate of The International Culinary Arts and Sciences Institute in Chesterland.

He has used his chef skills to help raise money for the Autism Society of Greater Cleveland, Our Lady of the Wayside, the Hunger Network of Greater Cleveland, and many other charitable groups.

“My parents taught me the importance of giving back,” Wells says.

“When I was young, they were both involved in the community; my mother as a PTA leader and my father as the president and business manager of one of the largest unions in Northeast Ohio.

They emphasized the importance of using my God-given gifts to bless and help others.”

Married and the father of four grown children, Wells’ Thanksgiving and

Christmas meals this year are going to be a lot like many of ours... relatively small with just immediate family. He also has a lot of the same issues many of us do when we’re preparing a special holiday dinner: negotiating who eats what. One of his kids is vegan, another doesn’t eat pork and a third doesn’t eat pork or beef. As for Wells, he’s allergic to shellfish.

WHAT’S ON THE MENU? Don’t let a smaller-than-usual gathering dampen your enthusiasm for holiday meal planning. A holiday like Thanksgiving or Christmas is an opportunity to shine, regardless of how many gather around the table.

Wells likes to stick with tradition for Thanksgiving dinner. Downsize with a bone-in turkey breast instead of the usual 18-pound bird. Other traditional foods can be downsized accordingly to offset the too-many-leftovers blues.

For Christmas, a small beef tenderloin, or pork tenderloin (he suggests a panko breadcrumb/Dijon mustard crust to keep it moist), are fancy enough for the holiday, again, without creating too many leftovers.

“I think Thanksgiving is a time to stay traditional; Christmas to try something new,” he says. “I’m big on presentation, I’m big on gorgeous table settings because that’s the first thing you see.

Make sure the table looks amazing,” Wells says.

This is the time to pull out your best china, make place cards and include a list of courses at each plate. “I love to use chargers; they’re inexpensive, (and) little figurines, trees,” he adds.

The key to hosting any holiday dinner is to make a plan and follow it by preparing as much food as possible ahead of time. For example, two or three weeks in advance, decide what

you’re making and which items can be made early. Desserts are a good place to start; pie fillings and many other types of desserts freeze well and can be put together well before the holiday.

Vegetables can be peeled and chopped and put in storage bags.

The same goes for preparing salad dressings; simplify day-of cooking by getting as much mixing and chopping and other chores done early in the week.

While prep work is a good shortcut, one that Chef Wells is not a fan of is cooking a turkey in a bag. “It’s got too much steam,” Wells says. “A properly cooked turkey should be brined for 24 hours.” A simple brine of salt, sugar, water and herbs ensures a moist turkey. An instant-read meat thermometer eliminates guesswork if you’re anxious about trying to cook a turkey sans baking bag.

Whatever route you take — traditional, daring, bag or no bag — creating a holiday meal that’s special is especially important right now, Wells says.

“With the year that we’ve had, I think there is no better time for people to concentrate on their family, food and fellowship.”

Marie Elium intends to use her husband’s blowtorch to caramelize crème brûlée for Christmas dessert. It will either be the best idea or the worst idea she’s ever had.

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Happy Holidays?

Safer Celebrations with a 2020 Twist

By Estelle Rodis-Brown

If only COVID-19 would take a holiday. Then we could enjoy ours.

Usually at this time of year, tradition would take us and our extended families back to grandma’s house for a fine family reunion, rich with shared spaces, long embraces and fancy feasting.

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ot so in 2020! As COVID-19 cases continue to She also provides at-home acute medical care through surge in Northeast Ohio, this is a time to tamp telemedicine. She offers ideas to help us celebrate the down expectations and proceed with caution. holidays responsibly… offsetting isolation on one extreme Travel and social interaction and a super-spreader event on the other. both increase the odds of getting and You can celebrate under the same TRAVEL TIPS spreading the virus that causes COVID-19. roof with your immediate family and • I f traveling is a must, know So staying home and limiting contact is the anyone already “in your bubble” of weekly the risks involved. Wear best way to protect yourself and others. contacts (close friends and caregivers a mask, wash hands and Older people are more likely to have you have maintained connections with surfaces, and maintain chronic conditions like high blood consistently). social distancing. If pressure, Type 2 diabetes, heart /lung On the other hand, if you have college possible, quarantine for disease, or cancer that could cause severe kids returning home from out of state or several days or get tested a couple of times before complications if infected with COVID-19. other visitors coming in from out of town, you hit the road.

The Centers for Disease Control and try turning your garage into a makeshift Prevention (CDC) reports that, while eight party room, invest in good space heaters, • S hort car trips (two hours or less) with out of 10 COVID-19-related deaths in the and keep the door open for fresh air household members and U.S. have impacted those 65 and older, the circulation. Then you can enjoy a welllimited, short stops are greatest risk for severe illness from COVIDspaced (six-foot social distancing), openconsidered the lowest 19 is among those aged 85+. air feast together with a wider circle of risk. Air and rail travel Meanwhile, White House infectious family and friends. are riskier due to the disease advisor Dr. Anthony Fauci and his Even better, Dr. Hall suggests that large amount of close wife are skipping Thanksgiving festivities everyone you would like to share a feast contact with strangers in terminals as well as in with their adult daughters this year. Friends with should each make their famous planes or trains. are forgoing big family gatherings, opting recipe (one person bakes the pumpkin for low-key get-togethers with a few family pie, another roasts the turkey, yet another • T he CDC says renting a home or staying at members or friends at a time. Many makes their casserole, etc.). Then each a family member’s or co-workers are hibernating through the cook/baker delivers a portion to each friend’s home is less holidays, waiting for a vaccine to release other person’s home. At the appointed risky than staying at them from pandemic-imposed solitary time, everyone can log into the shared a hotel. Consider your confinement. videoconference and you can all partake destination’s infection While it will require vigilance, flexibility of the common feast together, yet safely rate. The more COVID and patience, there is a safe way to pursue at a distance. cases in that region, the more likely you are to get happy holidays in a pandemic. Everyone Ultimately, everyone has to make their infected during travel and needs to avoid unnecessary exposure, but own risk-reward assessment. Dr. Hall spread the virus to others you can determine a well-informed way acknowledges that some families feel when you return home. forward. this might be the last time they can all be According to geriatric physician Ami together, so will choose to celebrate under Hall, D.O., “We must hope for the best but one roof, despite the risks. prepare for the worst this holiday season. Our COVID “We’re all adults here; we make informed decisions,” numbers are going up and this pandemic isn’t blowing over anytime soon. We’ve all got Pandemic Fatigue, but Estelle Rodis-Brown is a freelance writer from Portage County who also serves as digital/assistant editor of we’ve got to Boomer magazine. She is committed to lifelong learning, get creative this year to keep everyone safe.” wellness and pursuit of better living at any age and Dr. Hall practices medicine at the Cleveland Clinic’s during any holiday (even during a pandemic). She can be reached at estelle@northeastohioboomer.com.

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GUIDELINES on GATHERINGS The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) considers large indoor gatherings with people from outside of your household a higher risk activity and suggests enjoying a small dinner party with only your household group.

Similar low-risk celebrations include: • Preparing food for family and neighbors and delivering it in a way that minimizes contact with others • Sharing a virtual Zoom dinner, singalong or giftopening with friends and family • Shopping online rather than in person • Mailing homemade baked goods to friends and family • Watching sports events, parades, religious services and movies from home. (Try online games via game apps or simultaneous movie-watching with Netflix Party.)

If you’ve got your heart set on hosting a small holiday gathering (5-10 guests), keep it short and sweet. Lingering longer increases chances of viral transmission. And remind guests to stay home if they are sick, if they have been exposed to COVID-19 in the last 14 days or if they have COVID-19 symptoms.

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Encourage social distancing. Assuming it’s too cold to host your gathering outdoors, ventilate your indoor space by opening windows or doors. Arrange tables and chairs to allow for social distancing. People from the same household can be seated together – just six feet away from other families.

Hug with caution, if at all. While the CDC recommends avoiding handshakes, elbow bumps and hugs, psychologists know that human touch is vital to emotional health. If you want to hug, Consumer Reports’ On Health newsletter recommends embracing outdoors while wearing a mask, turning your faces away from each other to avoid breathing on one another. Young children can feel free to hug adults at leg or waist height so you can pat their head. Then everyone should wash up.

Wear masks when less than six feet apart from people or indoors. Consider providing fun masks for guests as part of the holiday theme.

Wash & Sanitize. Provide conveniently-placed hand sanitizer stations in addition to hand washing areas.

Wash hands for at least 20 seconds when arriving and leaving social gatherings. Alternatively, use hand sanitizer that’s at least 60% alcohol.

Provide sanitizing wipes so guests can wipe down surfaces before they leave the bathroom or kitchen. Provide paper towels so guests don’t have to share a cloth towel.

Control contact. Limit the number of people handling or serving food while encouraging guests to bring their own food and drinks. Put one person in charge of serving all food to avoid multiple people handling the serving utensils and other sharable items (salad dressings, food containers and condiments).

Use touchless garbage cans, wear gloves when removing garbage bags or handling and disposing trash. Wash your hands after taking off gloves. Clean and disinfect commonly touched surfaces and any shared items between uses. Clean/sanitize reusable shared items (seating covers, tablecloths, linen napkins) after the event.

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A Light Touch Fairview Couple Shines with Holiday Spirit

By Linda Feagler • Photo by Marie Elium

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When newlyweds Diane and Bill McVicker moved into their home on Seabury Avenue in Fairview Park in 1993, they wanted to celebrate their first holiday season together in a special way.

he couple decorated the front lawn with a pair of 4-foot tall, lighted Mr. and Mrs. Snowman figures Bill crafted out of wood and designed so they waved to passersby. Two pintsized versions were added in 1998 and 2000, after their son Andrew and daughter Claire were born.

What began as a cheerful, but simple, holiday tradition 27 years ago has evolved into Sidewalk Garland Lights, an annual half-mile winter wonderland extravaganza of color that begins on Seabury and West 220th Street Thanksgiving weekend and ends New Year’s Day. TUNNEL VISION “The idea for the display began organically,” Bill says. “I have fond memories of the decorations my grandfather built for the holiday season — which included a lighted windmill and an animated eagle. So every year, I put something new in the yard to honor him. In 2010, one of the decorations I added was a sidewalk garland. I began thinking, how great it would look if our neighbors put them up, too.”

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Much to his delight, increasing numbers of residents followed the family’s lead through the seasons.

As of last year, 70 houses on Seabury have joined the celebration, and 900 homes throughout Fairview Park have also created displays, which add to the fun. The couple buys the needed supplies in bulk and sells them at cost to residents.

Bill estimates that 175,000 lights keep the 900 garlands gracing the sidewalks, the 30 arches lining the streets and the 20 twinkling snowflake and snowman motifs adorning yards aglow.

Last season, the couple added a 30-foot-long tunnel lit by 5,000 white lights to their yard, which proved to be a romantic spot for a Christmastime marriage proposal.

After strolling through the light show, visitors are invited to stop by the Elf Tent for hot chocolate, cider, a batch of Diane’s “magic reindeer food;” and a meet-and-greet with Mr. and Mrs. Claus.

Although admission is free, donations are gratefully accepted. Last year, $1,100 in proceeds was donated to the Fairview Park Hunger Center.

Don’t miss these annual light displays that are sure to make your season merry and bright.

• WILD WINTER LIGHTS AT CLEVELAND METROPARKS ZOO features a dazzling light show with a 50-foot tree, walk-through and drive-through displays, carousel rides, ice carvers and live music performed by local choirs. Guests can visit Santa in his workshop and pose for photos.

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Fairview Park residents aren’t the only ones who enjoy their town’s yuletide cheer. Tourists from around the state have made Seabury’s holiday tradition their own.

On a snowy night two years ago, when Bill’s mother Sandy was visiting from Buffalo, she counted 800 cars slowing down to allow occupants to admire the display.

“We see people from all walks of life and all circumstances,” Bill says. “Many are looking for a familyfriendly event that is free. It is a wonderful experience to meet so many people.”

On the Fairview Park Holiday Lights Facebook page, Bill and Diane provide updates about their neighborhood’s annual display.

“We never thought it would grow into something this big,” Diane says.

“Seeing the children’s faces and their eyes light up warms your heart.”

Linda Feagler never fails to embrace the sights and sounds of the season.

• FOR THE 96TH YEAR, NELA PARK IN EAST CLEVELAND — WORLD HEADQUARTERS OF GE LIGHTING — presents its annual holiday display with more than 500,000 LED lights, a giant gingerbread house and eight colorful vignettes. Visitors are invited to take festive, personalized pictures at the selfie station to share with friends and family.

For more information, visit facebook.com/GELighting

• THE HISTORIC MANOR HOUSE AT STAN HYWET HALL & GARDENS IN AKRON is filled with good cheer during Deck the Hall. This year’s theme, “A Very Merry Christmas,” features 14 rooms decorated with nutcrackers, snowmen and playful elves.

The towering Christmas tree in the courtyard casts a cheery glow as do the gardens with one million holiday lights. Santa hosts socially-distanced visits in Rudolph’s Corral, and refreshments, including hot gingerbread, are available.

For more information, visit stanhywet.org.

•L ORAIN COUNTY METRO PARKS celebrates the magic of the season with Holiday Lights Cruise-Thru at Carlisle Reservation Equestrian Center. From your vehicle, view lighted trees, penguins and Santa’s Castle along a mile-long route. Admission is free, but please bring a nonperishable food item to be donated to Second Harvest Food Bank. Lights on the Lake drive-through at Lorain’s Lakeview Park highlights classic holiday scenes and thousands of twinkling lights spanning the 26-acre park.

Learn more at loraincountymetroparks.com.

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HAYMAKER FARMERS’ MARKET

Foul-Weather Fare Discover Winter Farmers Markets

By Margaret Briller

As much as I enjoy field-fresh fruits and veggies from summer farmers markets, there’s something to be said for the heartiness of winter market offerings.

When the weather turns, some farmers markets move indoors so you can still enjoy the local produce and goods sold by vendors in the community. Here are a few winter farmers markets to check out. And remember to wear your masks.

Photos: Haymaker Farmers Market (Matt Keffer) Frostville Farmers Market (Nikki Odengray) Photos taken in 2019 and do not reflect current mask requirements.

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haymakermarket.com Kent Saturdays, 10 a.m.-1pm (Closed 12/26) (10-10:30 a.m. for selfidentified vulnerable populations) November - Franklin Ave. under Haymaker Parkway bridge December -March - United Methodist Church of Kent, 1435 E. Main St. April - Franklin Ave under Haymaker Parkway bridge Prepared foods, fruits, vegetables, herbs, cut flowers, garden starts, perennials, jams and jellies, preserves, grass-fed beef, pork, and chicken, eggs, pastured cow milk cheeses, honey and bee products, maple syrup and maple products, baked goods (breads and sweets) including traditional, vegan and glutenfree, locally roasted coffee and whole beans, tea, kettle corn, handmade soaps, lotions and art.

“The Haymaker Farmers’ Market remains open yearround because we know that our customers rely on the market to get the freshest, best quality, healthiest, most delicious, local food available anywhere,” says Andrew Rome, market manager. “This is a producers-only market where you can talk directly with the people making your food and be assured that everything is the best quality.”

COUNTRYSIDE OLD TRAIL SCHOOL FARMERS’ MARKET Storage and high-tunnel crops, pasture-raised meats, breads and baked goods, artisan cheese, eggs, grains and honey.

“The opportunity to have a direct connection with the source of your food, even during the winter, draws people to our market,” says market manager Serena Jones. “This market has a diverse group of vendors who provide a wide array of seasonal goods and an opportunity to support local producers.”

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NORTH UNION FARMERS MARKETS Apples, root vegetables, greens, hydroponic lettuces, winter squash, herbs, frozen fruits, local honey, milk, fresh eggs, pasture-raised meats, local baked goods and artisans.

“Celebrate our 25th year of operating certified producer-only markets in Greater Cleveland.

This winter farmers from 22 counties will bring apples (18 varieties), greens, lettuce squash, herbs, berries (frozen), eggs, pasture-raised meats, artisans and so much more. We accept SNAP and Produce Perks,” says market manager Emma Visnic.

ONE BOX AT A TIME

2315 Ira Road, Bath Select Saturdays, 9 a.m.-noon: Nov. 14, 21; Dec. 5, 12, 19; Jan. 9, 23; Feb. 6, 20; March 6, 20; April 3, 17

By Marie Elium

“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is: ‘What are you doing for others?”

— Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

FROSTVILLE FARMERS’ MARKET Seasonal produce, maple syrup, microgreens, mushrooms, garlic, honey and bee products, pastured meats, eggs, pasta sauces, jam, granola, baked goods, pierogies, soup and cookie mixes, hummus, cheese, breads, alpaca fiber clothing and more.

“Our market has been part of the North Olmsted community for 10 years,” says Angie Obbish, market manager. “Customers can count on us to meet their needs when it comes to having fresh, local food available. Our farmers and vendors truly care about our customers and it shows in their interactions with them.”

Feeding Families...

frostvillefarmersmarket.com 24101 Cedar Point Road, North Olmsted Saturdays, 10 a.m.-1 p.m., Nov. 7-April 24 (9:30-10 a.m. for immunecompromised and seniors)

Saturdays, 9 a.m. – noon, Jan. 2 – March 27 (9-9:30 a.m. - vulnerable population hours) 220 Crocker Park Blvd, Westlake Saturdays, 9 a.m.- 1 p.m., outdoors through Dec. 12 Saturdays, 9 a.m.– noon, Jan. 2 – March 27 (9-9:30 a.m., vulnerable populations hours)

Margaret Briller is a freelance writer in Northeast Ohio.

The quote above is why volunteer Robert Render says he has been distributing boxes of groceries each week through a food program operated by Fairhill Partners in Cleveland.

The pandemic has put a strain on food budgets, farmers and the agencies that help feed people.

Render, Richard Pollard and nearly a dozen other volunteers have been passing out about 330 food boxes each Thursday since May through Farmers to Families, food that came directly from local farmers to the Greater Cleveland Food Bank and then into the hands of volunteers at Fairhill Partners and ultimately to the families that live nearby. Farmers to Families has no age or income restrictions.

The program is slated to end, although Fairhill Partners — the community agency that operates Farmers to Families — hopes it can continue. The agency receives no reimbursement or financial support for the program, says Fairhill’s Leah Rafferty.

Fairhill Partners also runs two income-based food programs specifically aimed at older adults.

One Saturday each month, it hosts the Senior Market for people 55 and older. The food includes fresh fruit, vegetables and bread.

Another Fairhill Partners program is the Commodity Box with canned and boxed food. Participants must be 60 or older.

Both Pollard and Render were volunteers who found Fairhill through Encore Cleveland, which helps match the talents of older adults with community needs.

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HEALTH

2020’s Lessons in

Essential Dentistry

By Dr. Steve Marsh

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e’re approaching the end of 2020 (thank goodness), and one of the things we can be thankful for is that the dental profession and providers have been identified as essential, in recognition of the role that dental health plays in our overall health.

In addition to the mouth being the gateway to nutrition (think chewing, moistening, swallowing), we also know that there is a strong connection between oral health and heart health. Fortunately, the dental profession has risen to the occasion, ensuring that the dental office can be considered a relatively safe place, with PPE (personal protection equipment) used throughout the office.

These include items like forehead thermometers, air filters, masks, shields, gowns, protective eyewear, and decontamination of operatory surfaces.

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Before

After

SAFETY WITH RESULTS Dental care, while being safely provided, can still achieve amazing results. Decay removal should be done painlessly with today’s anesthetics; what many are unaware of is the dentist’s ability to limit the time patients are numb by using Oraverse, which reverses the feeling.

Cosmetic dentistry, including whitening, bonding, veneers and crowns, can improve one’s appearance, whether for meetings on Zoom or in person. Bridges, implants, and partial or full dentures can be used to replace missing teeth without the use of metal, resulting in a natural and beautiful look.

As a reminder, as we approach the end of the year, many people want to take advantage of their insurance or HSA accounts that may be used to take care of any dental problems they may have. These dollars can also be used

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Lower Back Pain

A NON-SURGICAL APPROACH

By Dr. Reuben Gobezie

QUESTION I suffer from constant, dull lower back pain. Is surgery my only option for relief?

ANSWER Back and neck pain are, unfortunately, one of the most common reasons patients visit an orthopedist. There are many causes of neck and back pain, and about 95% of patients can be managed conservatively with physical therapy, cortisone injections, massage, osteopathic or chiropractic manipulation, medications and time.

When these treatments have failed to alleviate the pain, conventional treatment may turn to surgery to take away the pain.

In many cases, however, surgery is not the best answer and sometimes may not even help a patient.

Early research has shown that treatment with non-surgical regenerative therapies such as bone marrow concentrate (stem cell) injections and prolotherapy have been helpful for treating a number of conditions for the spine. Regenerative medicine treatments activate your body’s own adult stem cells and blood platelets to stimulate healing and speed repair for bone, muscle, joint, soft tissue and nerve injuries.

We all have healing stem cells in our bodies. Primarily found in bone marrow and fatty tissue, these cells act as

repairmen and can regenerate into the type of cell that is needed when injected into an injured area. There are several kinds of stem cells. Mesenchymal stem cells (MSC) are the type that many doctors use in orthopedic treatments.

MSCs have the strongest potential to repair muscle, bone, joint and soft tissue injuries. These cells have the ability to self-replicate, reduce inflammation and differentiate into cartilage, bone, muscle and fat cells to help the body regenerate the lost tissue in the injured area. They can activate your body’s ability to heal itself.

HEALING BACK PAIN For example, when these cells are placed in an injured environment, such as a degenerated disc of the back, the cells will recognize that the disc cells have started to break down and will help to regenerate them to give the discs more water content and volume. Also, in the case of degenerative disc disease, stem cells produce anti-inflammatory proteins (cytokines) which help to reduce pain and improve disability related to the spine.

Dr. Gobezie has an orthopedic practice in Beachwood.

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By Jennifer Herron-Underwood

HAVE YOU BEEN THINKING ABOUT DOWNSIZING AND DON’T KNOW WHERE TO START? In this Free one hour session you will learn: • What your house is worth in today’s real estate market • If your home is home inspection ready!

• If you can sell as-is • What to do with your stuff

What you will get: • Lots of valuable information • A list of trusted colleagues to help with the downsizing process • Free guide on downsizing It’s never too early to start thinking about downsizing. The average client meets with me to start the process about 6-12 months in advance.

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oving can be very traumatic for older adults, especially those who have lived in their current home for decades and raised their family there.

Leaving the home behind can be both physically and emotionally difficult, but it is a decision most older adults eventually will make.

Part of the process of downsizing is finding a real estate agent to help with the process.

MAKING A PLAN Some real estate agents specialize in working with clients who are 50 years and older, called Senior Real Estate Specialists or SRES for short.

An SRES has been trained by the National Association of Realtors to handle, not only the financial aspect of selling a home, but also the physical and emotional aspects of selling a longtime family home.

Working closely with you, an SRES will develop a customized and individual plan to sell your home.

For example, an SRES will schedule a time to come to your home to discuss the downsizing. You’re invited to include anyone you choose to involve in the process.

During that consultation, the SRES will help determine if you can sell your home as-is, what projects would make your home more salable, and will identify areas that might need to be addressed before a home inspection.

Most SRES Realtors have a vast team of professionals they can recommend to help you prepare your home for selling, as well as people who can help you with space planning, packing, moving and more.

The process of downsizing can take as little as two months to as long as 18-24 months. Among the decisions the SRES will help you determine are where you are going to move to and what you intend to do with your possessions and furniture.

An SRES agent will support you through each step of the process and guide you through the financial and lifestyle decisions of selling your family’s home. They understand a lot is involved and will help you determine the different types of housing available. They will be patient and do everything they can to make the process as stress-free as possible.

For many homeowners, the thought of strangers walking through their home when it is for sale can be overwhelming.

Your SRES Realtor can tailor the marketing and showing process to meet your needs. They will create a strategy for showing your home that includes protocol for COVID-19.

Moving out of state to a warmer climate or closer to children and grandchildren? An SRES real estate agent can tap into a vast referral network to help you find a trustworthy real estate agent with similar qualifications in every part of the country.

To learn more about what an SRES does or to find one near you, go to sres.realtor and click on the tab “Work with an SRES.” Jennifer Herron Underwood is a real estate agent and a Senior Real Estate Specialist. She can be reached at 440-371-2862 or jenherronunderwood@ gmail.com.

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Parenting Your Parents Personal and Estate Planning Strategies

By Jennifer E. Peck

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ur children grow and leave the nest. They go off to college or perhaps to start a career and family of their own. After a while, we are often drawn into parenting again, this time with our own aging parents or another family member.

The transition to parenting our parents usually begins slowly. There are four important items to consider as this shift begins.

MAKING ROOM FOR CHANGE • Living Arrangements. Preserving a parent’s independence as long as it is safely possible is critical. It is not easy to leave your home. This loss of independence can feel like a shift in power, and the loss of comforting and familiar surroundings takes adjustment.

If possible, ask a parent where they wish to live, if unable to live at home, and do it well before the situation arises.

When it comes to family harmony, open communication is vital. Let’s say a parent is beginning to show signs of dementia. A family meeting can be helpful to determine who has the time, resources and willingness to provide a place to live. If living with a family member is not appropriate, discuss alternatives for if and when living at home is no longer feasible.

• Who Gets Paid? If a parent will live with a child, it may be appropriate to pay rent to the child or to pay them for caregiving. Agreements for rent and caregiving payments should be put in writing, both to preserve family harmony and for Medicaid planning.

If Medicaid is later needed, those payments might be deemed gifts by the parent, thereby potentially affecting Medicaid eligibility. In addition, these rental and caregiving payments to a child will likely have income tax consequences to the child.

Ensuring that all family members are aware of payments ahead of time can eliminate later grievances.

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• How do you pay for a long-term care stay?

Nursing facilities are paid for with your own money, long-term care insurance and sometimes Medicaid, a needs-based program.

Advance planning is critical to avoid problems with its complicated regulations.

• Decision-making. The final issue is who will assist a parent with health care decisions and finances. If a parent is no longer capable of making their own medical or financial decisions, a child may need to go to court to become a guardian unless a parent has executed a Health Care Power of Attorney and Durable Financial Power of Attorney. The Health Care Power of Attorney allows the parent to appoint a child (or whomever he or she wishes) and successor(s) to make health care decisions for them if their physician determines that they can no longer make informed health care decisions for themselves.

This conversation should not stop with appointing someone to make healthcare decisions. A parent should explain what type of care, including end-of-life care, they want.

A Durable Financial Power of Attorney allows a parent to appoint a child (or any other trusted person) to handle their finances. There are many authorities and powers that can be granted in these documents and they should be reviewed with an attorney.

These conversations are not easy.

Take advantage of the upcoming holidays to discuss these issues with loved ones to help avoid problems later. If you’re trying to decide what documents to use or measures to take, get legal advice. There’s no onesize-fits-all approach; every family is different.

Jennifer E. Peck is a partner at the law firm of Solomon, Steiner & Peck, Ltd. in Mayfield Heights.

She specializes in estate and Medicaid planning, taxation and probate.

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Discover Your Next Chapter Presented by Encore Cleveland

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t’s no secret that the face of retirement is changing due, in large part, to Baby Boomers who are nearing retirement or who have already retired from their primary careers and who have a strong desire to remain active and engaged in the community.

Retirement today isn’t defined by idle time. Rather, it’s an opportunity to experiment with a second act – whether volunteering, working parttime or turning a hobby into a small business.

This is the idea behind Encore Cleveland, launched in 2013 by the Cleveland Foundation, to connect and fund a network of organizations that provide experienced Greater Clevelanders with an array of meaningful opportunities in the community.

HARNESSING TALENT “Looking at the data, 30% of the Cuyahoga County population will be age 55 or older by 2030,” says Kathy Hallissey, Cleveland Foundation Program Director, Leadership Development. “And these people have decades of career experience and knowledge under their belts.

What if we could harness their time and talent to fill needs in the community? That’s what Encore Cleveland aims to do.”

Encore Cleveland comprises 13 nonprofit agencies in both Cuyahoga and Geauga counties. The agencies offer volunteer and employment opportunities and also provide consultants and resources for those starting their own businesses.

One of the nonprofit agencies offering Encore programs and services is Fairhill Partners in Cleveland. Fairhill Partners in Cleveland connects people to opportunities for lifelong learning, intergenerational relationships and successful aging.

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ENCORE CLEVELAND PARTNERS • • • • • • • • • • • • •

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Joe Ferritto, one of their valued longtime Encore Cleveland volunteers, pivoted with the agency this year.

He learned how to deliver remote programs on the phone and on Zoom.

Currently, he’s leading several “Active Living with Diabetes” phone workshops and is preparing to lead “Bingocize,” a new exercise and fall-prevention program Fairhill Partners is offering virtually, over Zoom.

“I started volunteering at Fairhill Partners to give back for all the services they provided when I was a caregiver for my sister. I’ve made new friends through volunteering and helped myself while helping others,” he says.

To sign up for a self-management phone workshop today, or to give

back by volunteering, call 216-4211350 and ask for Leah or Wendy, go to programs@fairhillpartners.org, or fill out a volunteer application on our website – fairhillpartners. org/get-involved/volunteer/ volunteer-application/.

Another person who participates in Encore Cleveland is Ann Hunter.

“I am an Encore person, continuing to do work similar to what I’ve done for more than half of my career – helping people find meaningful employment. When the nonprofit I had co-founded and operated for six years was closing in 2017, I was already familiar with the Encore Cleveland program, both nationally and locally.”

To discover more about employment opportunities from Encore Staffing Network-Vantage Aging, call Simone McNitt at 216-361-9750 or go to smcnitt@ vantageaging.org.

Whether you want a one-day volunteer project, a paid fellowship at a nonprofit organization or training to launch your own business, Encore Cleveland offers options. Learn about the opportunities available through Encore Cleveland and find one that fits your interests and schedule by visiting greaterclevelandvolunteers. org/programs/encore, by calling 216-391-9032 or emailing encore@ greaterclevelandvolunteers.org.

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MEDICARE OPEN ENROLLMENT It’s that time of year again!

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A Perfect Partnership Presented by University Hospitals and Bright Health Cleveland/Akron-area Boomers looking for a Medicare Advantage plan with great benefits and outstanding medical care need look no further. The partnership between Bright Health and University Hospitals means members will have access to nationally recognized hospitals along with a host of rich benefits. Bright Health strives to make healthcare friendlier, simpler and more affordable.

University Hospitals Cleveland Medical Center was recognized as a Best Hospital for 2020-21 by U.S. News & World Report. The center ranked in seven of 12 adult specialties, and third among all hospitals in Ohio. With 150 locations throughout the Greater Cleveland area, University Hospitals Health System encompasses 13 hospitals and numerous outpatient health centers, bringing high-quality care close to home.

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Questions to Ask Yourself

When Choosing a Medicare Advantage Plan Are you ready for this year’s Medicare Annual Enrollment Period from October 15 to December 7? If you need to choose a plan, or are considering switching, here are three important questions to ask yourself to ensure you select the right plan for you.

What is my budget?

Medicare Advantage plans have a monthly premium, sometimes as low as $0. So, while you must continue to pay your Medicare Part B premium, budget-friendly options are available for Medicare Advantage plans.

Before you finalize your choice, make sure you know the full amount you’ll need to pay each month in premiums, as well as estimated costs that could come up over the year — including copays, coinsurance and deductibles — to see what you can afford.

Do I need prescription drug coverage?

If you take prescription medications, your answer to this question will most likely be yes. Look at the formulary, which is the list of covered drugs offered by each plan. You can find formularies on insurance companies’ websites, or you can give them a call to request a formulary or ask to check on a particular medication. Check that the medications you take are on the list so you can get the most out of your prescription drug coverage.

Remember: Standalone Medicare prescription drug plans are known as Medicare Part D plans.

Original Medicare and some other types of plans don’t include Part D coverage, so you would need to buy a standalone Part D plan to get coverage for your medications.

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Medicare Advantage Prescription Drug plans usually include Part D coverage as part of the standard benefit offering.

Is my doctor part of the network?

Medicare Advantage plans have specific networks of covered providers. So, before you make a decision, confirm that your physicians, specialists or other providers such as hospitals and clinics are included in your plan’s network. Again, you can check the insurance company’s website or call its customer service numbers.

Once you’ve considered your answers to these questions, you’ll be in a good position to choose the Medicare Advantage plan that’s right for you. To get the most out of your plan, there are a few other things you may want to consider. For example, you may be wondering how to get care when you’re away from home.

Many Medicare Advantage plans offer coverage for emergency/urgent care outside of the United States — call the insurance company to check. In addition, many plans offer other options for receiving care when you travel, such as making virtual telehealth (telemedicine) appointments.

For help comparing your Medicare Advantage plan options visit MedMutual.com/FreeGuide.

YOUR WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY IS STARTING TO NARROW! The annual Medicare open enrollment period runs from October 15 to December 7, for coverage changes effective starting January 2021. If you're a Medicare plan enrollee, this is the time to reevaluate your coverage — whether it’s Original Medicare with supplemental drug coverage or Medicare Advantage — and make changes, if you so choose.

Our Medicare Guide will help you make the right choices so you can customize the best plan for your needs. Contact the featured advisors and companies that can help you make sense of the details and differences so you’ll lock in the best plan for your particular situation.

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As always, you can find further information at medicare.gov.

Choose well; be well!

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Medicare Fraud Prevention & More Presented by Pro Seniors Ohio Senior Medicare Patrol (SMP) provides information and counseling related to Medicare fraud, errors and abuse. Learn how to protect your medical and personal identity. We provide virtual presentations to groups of all sizes.

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Where are the Holes in Medicare? Presented by Mutsko Insurance Services Medicare is a lot like Swiss cheese — really good, but with a lot of holes.

Unfortunately, many seniors do not realize how many gaps there are in Original Medicare coverage until after they face a major medical event. There are ways to plug these holes, but first let’s look at some areas where Medicare beneficiaries will pay out-of-pocket if their only coverage is Original Medicare Parts A & B.

any Medicare-approved amount for many physicians’ services, including most doctor services while a hospital inpatient, outpatient therapy, tests, x-rays and durable medical equipment.

Hospital Stays While Medicare Part A covers hospital stays, Medicare beneficiaries are responsible for deductibles and copayments. These costs are listed in detail at Medicare.gov.

Annual Cap Unlike Medicare Advantage plans, Original Medicare does not cap your annual out-of-pocket share of medical costs. If you experience an extended stay in the hospital, these costs will add up very quickly.

Here are some other items and services Original Medicare does not cover: • Routine dental care and dentures • Routine eye exams and prescription lenses • Hearing aids and exams for fitting them

Medicare Part B Medicare Part B is the component of Medicare that covers preventative care and doctor visits. As with Medicare Part A, beneficiaries are responsible for deductibles and copayments.

Once the deductible is met, they will typically be responsible for 20% of

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Prescription Drugs Original Medicare does not automatically cover prescription drugs.

Beneficiaries need to purchase a separate Medicare Part D prescription drug plan to get this coverage.

• Routine foot care • Acupuncture • Cosmetic surgery • Long-term care (also called custodial care) There are many cost-effective ways to plug many of the holes in Medicare and keep your medical costs in line.

If you are interested in learning how a Medicare Advantage plan, Medicare Supplement, Prescription Part D plan or other insurance can help bridge the gaps left by Original Medicare, call me at 440-255-5700 or email me at Lmutsko@mutskoinsurance.com.

My goal is to help you find a plan that works for you.

Laura Mutsko is a licensed insurance broker offering a complete line of health and life insurance products, including Individual, Group and Family Health, Annuities, Long Term Care Insurance, Medicare Advantage, Medicare Supplement Plans, Medicare Part D Prescription Coverage, Vision, Dental and Life Insurance. Mutsko Insurance Services, LLC is located at 6982 Spinach Drive in Mentor. For more information, visit mutskoinsurance.com.

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VIRTUAL BOOK FESTIVAL UNDERWAY Presented by Mandel Jewish Community Center

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he Mandel Jewish Community Center has opened its 21st Annual Mandel JCC Cleveland Jewish Book Festival — the virtual edition.

As one of the premier Jewish book festivals in the country, the 2020-2021 festival features a lineup of 19 nationally and internationally acclaimed authors, plus five authors with local ties. The festival lasts now through April 2021 and is structured in three clusters.

“The J is excited to share a stellar lineup of authors for the community that is yearning for ways to gather

and share thought-provoking experiences in physically safe ways,” said Mandel JCC Director of Arts and Culture, Deborah Bobrow. “The Book Festival has always been a highly anticipated community event, and we are committed to providing this experience, even during these unusual times. We are thrilled to introduce local audiences to authors who otherwise wouldn’t be able to travel to Cleveland due to time constraints.

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All events are open to the public and many are free of charge.

Registration is required to gain access to Zoom links. Festival author books are for sale via Mac’s Backs-Books on Coventry. To purchase tickets or for more information, visit mandeljcc.org/bookfest, 26001 S. Woodland Road, Beachwood, 216-831-0700.

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A FOCUS ON HEALTH & WELLNESS Presented by Laurel Lake Life Plan Community

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s one of the region’s most respected Life Plan Communities – also known as a Continuing Care Retirement Community – Laurel Lake offers an intentional lifestyle of health and well-being that can boost vitality and longevity for older adults.

The 150-acre Hudson community is designed to exercise all of the Seven Dimensions of Wellness — emotional, environmental, intellectual, occupational, physical, social and spiritual.

There are spaces dedicated for health care, lifelong learning, healthy dining, social and spiritual engagement, arts and cultural programs, fitness training and salon services, while also offering toprated skilled nursing and therapy on-site to help residents recuperate after illness or surgery.

Residents are actively enjoying the community’s recently

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revitalized Town Center, with its Bistro and Pub, Fireside Lounge, Colony Shop, Library, Artist’s Studio and state-of-the-art Fitness & Aquatic Center, salon and more.

Although the global pandemic has required Laurel Lake to modify how some services are provided – including daily delivery of meals to resident homes, small group (socially distanced) activities and virtual programs instead of large gatherings, using the Fitness & Aquatic Center by appointment rather than walk-in,

delivery of groceries, and other creative adaptations – residents have greatly appreciated the sense of safety, teamwork and caring community that they have experienced at Laurel Lake during these uncertain times.

Phase 4 of Laurel Lake’s Town Center expansion project is currently in progress. The project includes the creation of a new 4,500 sq. ft. Community Room with Mixing Place Classrooms 1 & 2; the construction of a new Pat’s Patio dining/meeting space; and the complete renovation of the Lakeside Dining Room, Private Dining Room and former Pub. Laurel Lake is a not-for-profit Life Plan Community for adults 62+, offering independent living, assisted living and skilled nursing care, located on 150 acres in Hudson, Ohio. For more information, call 330650-2100 or visit laurellake.org.

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HOME—THINKING ABOUT WHAT’S NEXT Presented By Rose Senior Living

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t’s a conversation many of us delay: “When should Mom and Dad consider moving out of their house?” or “How do we tell the kids we want to move?” As holidays approach, now is a perfect time to discuss together.

According to Schonda Grays, executive director of Rose Senior Living Beachwood,

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it’s an emotional conversation that’s best to not put off. “Families should have these conversations early and often.” Her best advice: ask yourselves, “What does ‘home’ look like for you and your parents in the future?”

Find more information, visit beachwood. roseseniorliving.com, or call 877-222-9724.

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RENAISSANCE RETIREMENT CAMPUS Design the Premier Lifestyle You Deserve

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he Renaissance Retirement Campus, Eliza Jennings’ premier retirement community, offers a variety of options to design your unique, personalized lifestyle.

Located on 100 pristine acres, the Renaissance offers spacious villas and apartments with amenities designed for independent, maintenance-free living. Exciting renovations, including a new fitness and aquatics center, are underway that will enhance options for residents to achieve the fulfilling lifestyle they envision and deserve.

AMENITIES The Renaissance is the ideal choice for those wishing to enjoy all that retirement living has to offer. A newly expanded patio, renovated living room, and newly appointed taproom

provide the perfect setting to relax and socialize with family, friends and neighbors. The Renaissance also offers countless cultural, recreational and educational programs and outings designed to enhance your individual lifestyle experience.

The culinary staff at the Renaissance is second to none and offers a variety of choices for fine dining and casual fare. Residents enjoy world-class cuisine, including healthy dining options, traditional family favorites, and consideration for individual dietary needs and preferences, all prepared by executive chefs. A newly renovated Bistro dining area will soon offer a relaxing dining experience with expanded seating and carryout options and a venue for private gatherings and celebrations.

Located in historic Olmsted Township,

the Renaissance offers a tranquil setting with convenient access to Northeast Ohio’s finest cultural venues, entertainment, parks and recreation, restaurants, shopping, world-class healthcare, highways and Cleveland Hopkins International Airport.

Once you’ve made the Renaissance your home, you will enjoy peace of mind knowing that, as a Continuing Care Retirement Community (CCRC), the Renaissance provides the full continuum of care for residents who may need to choose options for additional services and support, including assisted living, skilled nursing and rehabilitation services.

Schedule an exclusive, personalized visit and experience for yourself, all the Renaissance Retirement Campus has to offer. Call 440-235-7112.

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A SPECIAL KIND OF CARING Presented by McGregor Bridge Program

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ur focus is on improving the quality of life for patients by clarifying their goals of care. The Bridge program is aptly named: it works to provide a bridge between the last phases of medical treatment for a life-limiting illness and the palliative interdisciplinary focus of hospice. In practice, this means patients not yet ready for the idea and reality of hospice are eased in. Family members who are in conflict over goals of care may benefit from the conversations with their loved one and our Bridge program team.

Those who do not yet medically qualify for hospice but who want to receive the full benefit of hospice services as soon as they are eligible often benefit from the Bridge program.

McGregor will assist the individual in making his/her wishes known to their physician who can monitor them for hospice eligibility.

The Bridge team also helps the patient and family proactively consider next steps. In many cases, patients may need assistance with wills, advance directives, DNR or other documents. They may not have considered or started the planning process for funerals.

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We are here for you every step of the way, providing support for the individual and the family, wherever the individual is in their health journey with a focus on living your best life!

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TIMES OF CRISIS DRIVE CREATIVITY AND INNOVATION Presented by Menorah Park

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Menorah Park is honored that our teams have gained local, state and national attention by ensuring proper PPE and testing, guaranteeing ongoing social and enriching experiences, following all stringent safety guidelines, and demonstrating our commitment to Excellence in Caring® in all that we do.

“Our award-winning strategies give testament to our dedicated caregiving team and collective staff. We’re proud to receive recognition from various sources, demonstrating Menorah Park’s focus on each individual as part of our extended family, honoring our collective mothers and fathers, and the community we serve,” stated Jim Newbrough, Menorah Park President and CEO.

Newsweek Magazine reported Menorah Park among America’s Best Nursing Homes 2021, and again rated it #1 Nursing Home in Ohio. According to their website, “America’s Best Nursing Homes 2021 highlights the nation’s top nursing homes (in 20 states compared to others in the same state) based on performance data, peer recommendations and the facility’s handling of the COVID-19 threat…” recognized as having put in place the best possible responses and protocols.

They examined Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) data and reporting metrics and engaged 46,000 medical experts for recommendations.

Cleveland Magazine also again named Menorah Park “Best of the East” in the Senior Living Category. Menorah Park has heartfelt gratitude for the positive feedback and is humbled by the trust you place in the community, fueling innovation and creating endless possibilities.

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WHAT’S

Happening

Please visit northeastohioboomer.com for the most up-to-date calendar listings.

HOLIDAY ORIGAMI FRIDAYS Jenn Cline of the Ohio Paper Folders will host a series of weekly videos where she will teach you how to make some festive creations.

Supplies available at the reference desk.11/27-12/25. 4:15 p.m.

Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., 440-255-8811, mentorpl.org. FREE

CLASSES

TUESDAYS Modified Tai-Chi Steps. Beginning 12/1 for 8 weeks. 7-8 p.m. Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 6220 Broadview Rd., Parma. For more information, call Jackie at 440-546- 7531. $6 donation.

SATURDAYS Turning Your Art Into a Business. A series of online webinars designed to empower creative artists in animation, film, journalism, publishing, theater and marketing to monetize their artistic pursuits. Professionals educate artists on the legal and business aspects.11/28-12/12. 10:30 a.m.-noon.

Cleveland Main Library, 325 Superior Ave., 216-623-2800, cpl.org. FREE 11/23 The Science of Well-Being and Happiness. Explore how to become a happier person during this four-part

series. Peer-to-Peer learning circles are interactive study groups for people who want to learn new content together. 2-4 p.m. Richfield Branch Library, 3761 S. Grant St., 330-659-4343, akronlibrary. org. FREE 11/23-25, 11/27 & 11/30 Group Music Therapy for Individuals with Memory Loss. Virtual event by the Cleveland Clinic Lou Ruvo Center for Brain Health in Las Vegas. 3-4:30 p.m wellmar@ccforg, 702-701-7895, events. clevelandclinic.org. FREE Registe 11/30 Virtual Balloflex. Get fit while you sit.

Enjoy an exercise session with a certified BalloFlex instructed in this seated workout that incorporates the elements of dance and fitness together in a safe, low-impact and fun system. 12:30-1 p.m.

Summitmetroparks, us02web.zoom. us/j/83471972423. FREE

12/3 Biblio Bistro. Learn how to make a delicious traditional Hungarian pastry layered with raspberry and apricot preserves and topped with ganache.

Owner of Wild Flour Bakery will lead via ZOOM. 6:30-8 p.m. Rocky River Public Library, 1600 Hampton Rd., 440-333-7610, rrpl.org. FREE Virtual Poetry Writing Workshop. Share your poetry with amateur and seasoned poets in a comfortable setting. Engage in friendly discussion and receive instant feedback on your craft. 6:30-8:30 p.m.

Cuyahoga Library, attend.cuyahogalibrary. org/event/4195819 12/4 Holiday Card Making. Create homemade, nature-themed holiday cards to spread some cheer this season. 6:30-8 p.m. F. A. Seiberling Nature Realm, 1828 Smith Rd., Akron, 330865-8065, summitmetroparks.org. FREE

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12/5 Intro to Belly Dance. Join on Zoom as Roxi DellaDonna leads a beginner’s belly dance class, teaching how to add movement to your life and connect with your body. 4-5:30 p.m. Westlake Porter Public Library, 27333 Center Ridge Rd., 440-871-2600, westlakelibrary.org.

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TUESDAYS Geauga Walkers. Join other active seniors on the second and fourth Tuesdays of the month for hikes in Geauga County and the surrounding area. Hikes are typically 1-1.5 miles. 1-2:30 p.m. 440-279-2137, geaugaparkdistrict.org. FREE

12/8 Grandparenting Today. Join a lively discussion from your home for grandparents-to-be and new grandparents about the changes in birthing and infant-care practices.

Fairview Hospital Wellness Center, 2025 Wooster Rd., Rocky River, events. clevelandclinic.org. $15

THROUGH 11/30 Fall Hiking Spree. Get out and explore; complete at least eight designated hikes to earn a hiking staff (first-year hikers) and shield. Summit Metroparks. org. FREE Trekking Through Autumn: Hiker’s Choice. Call it hiking, walking, strolling, rambling, wandering or trekking; it’s good for body, mind and spirit. Get out and explore the Medina County parks through this self-guided hiking program. First-year hikers earn a backpack; veteran hikers earn a pin.

Medinacountyparks.com. FREE

EXHIBITS AKRON ART MUSEUM THROUGH 2/21/21 Akron Art Mail. Aimed to put art and writing into people’s hands, this project has three main components: commissioned art cards offered free for patrons; a community exhibition of art cards and an e-book catalog of the project. 1 S. High St., 330-376-9185, akronartmuseum.org. FREE THE CLEVELAND MUSEUM OF ART THROUGH 3/14/21 Second Careers: Two Tributaries in African Art. Explore the connections between historical African art and contemporary practices through a selection of exemplary highlights from the museum’s African collection and loaned works. 11150 East Blvd., clevelandart.org. FREE CLEVELAND PUBLIC LIBRARY ONGOING Cleveland 20/20: A Photographic Exploration. In honor of Cleveland Public Library’s 150th anniversary year, library staff, community partners, patrons and Cleveland residents are helping to document Cleveland.

A diverse range of local and teen photographers snapped photos throughout the city to ensure Cleveland was documented like never before. 325 Superior Ave., cpl.org. FREE MUSEUM OF CONTEMPORARY ART THROUGH 8/29/21 Martin Creed: Work No. 3398 EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. One of his most iconic works, variations of the site-responsive neon continue to appear in different sizes and colors throughout the world. 11400 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, mocacleveland. org. FREE

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2/6 Mandel JCC's Virtual Cleveland Jewish Book Festival - Eat Something: A Wise Sons Cookbook for Jews Who Like Food and Food Lovers Who Like Jews.

Taking a scrapbook approach, this book layers food photography illustration by artist George McCalman, and Jewish cultural memorabilia sourced from Wise Sons customers and the Contemporary Jewish Museum. 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. mandeljc.org, dbobro@madejcc.org. $0-10

12/14 Menorah Lighting Ceremony.

Family and friends are welcome to this special Chanukah celebration which will include the traditional foods including latkes, jelly donuts, activities and much more. 6-8 p.m. 28699 Chagrin Blvd., Woodmere, etonchagrinblvd.com. FREE

ROCK & ROLL HALL OF FAME ONGOING Class of 2020 Inductees. Explore artifacts, instruments and a collaborative installation featuring items from each 2020 Inductee, including The Doobie Brothers, Depeche Mode, Whitney Houston, Nine Inch Nails, The Notorious B.I.G. and more. 1100 Rock and Roll Blvd., Cleveland, 216-781-7625, rockhall.com. $18-28

11/23 Sunset Hike. The sunset from the top of Gildersleeve Mountain is stunning!

Come and enjoy a leisurely hike to see for yourself. 4-5:30 p.m. Chapin Forest Reservation, Hobart Rd., Kirtland, lakemetroparks.com. FREE 12/19-21 Candle Light on the Longest Nights.

Register for a time slot to drop by and enjoy a self-guided walk along a beautiful, candlelit trail through the forest while discovering cultural traditions associated with the Winter Solstice. 6-8 p.m. & 8-10 p.m. The West Woods, 9465 Kinsman Rd., Russell, 440-286-9516, geaugaparkdistrict.org.

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SPECIAL EVENTS ONGOING Polar Bear Club. Walk into this immersive environment with six full-size polar bears, icicle tables and totem poles from Alaska... an incredible destination for all ages over 21.

Castle Noel, 260 S. Court St., Medina, castlenoel.com 11/20-22 Medina Candlelight Walk. Shops and restaurants of the nine-block Medina historic district will be open later into the evening. Medina Public Square, mainstreetmedina.com. FREE

11/20-21 Virtual Holiday Tree Festival. Kick off the holiday season at this festival featuring more than 200 decorated trees, 85,000 strings of lights and countless other holiday creations. htfmary@yahoo.com, akronchildrens.org/treefestival. FREE 11/22-2/15 Winter Wonderland. Both the inside and outside mall will be decorated with beautiful artwork made by Monarch’s students using inspiration from winter animals and imagery. Eton Chagrin Blvd., 28601 Chagrin Blvd., Woodmere, etonchagrinblvd.com. FREE 11/27-12/30 Deck the Hall. Come see the estate illuminated inside and out with over one million lights. The Manor House interiors aredecorated to reflect the theme of “We Wish You a Merry Christmas.” Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens, 714 N. Portage Path, Akron, 330-863-5533, stanhywet.org 12/1-22 Country Lights Drive-Thru. Experience both new and familiar lighting displays throughout the Farmpark as you enjoy the festivities from the warmth of your own vehicles. 5-9 p.m. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Rd., Kirtland, 440-256-2122, lakemetroparks. com. $27.50 per car 12/5 Light Up Lakewood. Glittering lights illuminate the city, fireworks sparkle overhead and an aura of merriment puts smiles on faces. You’re invited to partake in the festive cheer. 4-8 p.m. 14701 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, lakewoodalive. com. FREE Cleveland Dance Club. Dance the night away from 7:30-11:30pm. Holy Trinity Lutheran Church, 6220 Broadview Rd., Parma. For more info, call Jackie at 440546- 7531. $10 donation.

Greens for Giving. Please register for a one-hour session at this annual event where you will help make evergreen decorations for Geauga County Department on Aging’s home-delivered meals for seniors. 9:30 a.m.-4:30 p.m. Big Creek Park, Meyer Center, Big Creek Park, 9160 Robinson Rd., Chardon, 440-2869516, geaguaparkdistrict.org. FREE 12/5-12/23 Holiday Lantern Tours. Take a lantern-lit tour of the village and visit historic homes, bustling with holiday preparations. Experience the sights and sounds of the season through a series of charming holiday vignettes. Hale Farm & Village, 2686 Oak Hill Rd., Bath, 330-6663711, wrhs.org November/December 2020

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12/2 Virtual Alzheimer’s Support Group.

This Caregiver Support Group is presented by The Greater East Ohio Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association.

6:30 p.m. Barberton Public Library, 602 W. Park Ave., 330-745-1194, barberton.lib.oh.us. FREE 12/5 Poinsettias and Christmas Cacti.

Join Master Gardener Susan Cowling for a talk on how to buy holiday plants and get them to rebloom. 3-4 p.m.

Willoughby Public Library, 30 Public Square, 440-942-3200, we247.org.

FREE 12/7 Understanding Alzheimer’s and Dementia. Learn about the impact of Alzheimer’s; the difference between Alzheimer’s and dementia; stages and risk factors; current research and treatments available for some symptoms; and Alzheimer’s Association resources. 10-11 a.m.

Alzheimer’s Association, 800-2723900, alz.org. FREE

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12/9 Socrates Cafe. A monthly gathering of adults engaging in conversation, exploring current events, thoughtful ideas, and reasoned debates. Come and take part, or just listen to the

discussion. Nordonia Hills Branch Library, 9458 Olde Eight Rd., Northfield, 330-467-8595, akronlibrary.org. FREE 12/13 Behind The Scenes with Steven Litt. Live-streamed event. Steven Litt has been the art and architecture critic of The Plain Dealer since 1991, covering art museums and galleries, plus architecture, urban design, and city and regional planning. 3-4 p.m. Fairmount Center for the Arts, fairmountcenter.org/special-events 12/17 Virtual Health Chats: Nutrition/ Diet/Healthy Living. Local experts from the Western Reserve Hospital inform and educate you on the latest health and wellness trends, answer questions about specific care topics and provide you with helpful, trustworthy resourcest. 10-11 a.m. Cuyahoga Falls Library, 2015 Third St., 330-928-2117, cuyahogafallslibrary.org. FREE 1/6 Managing Stress and Uncertainty.

Join Don Schiffbauer, Chief Executive Officer at The Nord Center, as he discusses ways to manage change, anxiety, and worry in a time of uncertainty. This program will take place on Zoom. 7-8 p.m. Lorain Public Library, lorainpubliclibrary.org

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WHY DO WE RUSH THE SEASONS?

he weekend before Labor Day, we were in one of those warehouse clubs and they were putting out Christmas trees and decorations. This isn’t the first time we’ve seen it, but it’s still rushing the season.

The holiday season used to start on Thanksgiving. Kids would see a new episode of Mr. Jingeling every day on WEWS in a thinly veiled commercial based on some new toy.

Oh, and don’t forget to stop in at Halle’s seventh floor downtown to see the “Keeper of the Keys” himself and get a paper souvenir key (that now commands huge prices on eBay.) A few years later, WUAB joined stations around the country in

showing the original “King Kong” on Thanksgiving night. That went on for several years; what it had to do with the holiday season is anyone’s guess, but hey… it was tradition.

Christmas music now starts on the radio in October. What is this? Radio Free Frankenmuth?

AND THEN THERE’S THANKSGIVING Thanksgiving was one of only three edible meals to come out of my mother’s kitchen every year. She was a terrible cook. Meat was boiled and served gray and flavorless. We called breakfast “morning sickness.”

Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter were three holidays where mom was banned from cooking. It

Desi Arnaz was the only main cast member from “I Love Lucy” that did not appear on “The Lucy Show.” Vivian Vance costarred on “The Lucy Show” and after Vance left, William Frawley made a brief guest appearance as a horse trainer. Lucy says in the episode, “‘You know, he reminds me of somebody I used to know.” Vance and Frawley hated each other and turned down an “I Love Lucy” spin-off because they couldn’t work together. Richard Keith, who played Little Ricky, also did a brief walk-on but was almost edited out.

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didn’t make any sense because her mother was a great cook and so was my father. He would conspire with my grandmother to keep her daughter out of the kitchen.

Another Christmas tradition was to head downtown for a photo with one of a dozen or so Santas and then visit Higbee’s “Twigbee” shop, a kids-only section where we shopped for mom and dad. The door was just four feet high and there were dozens of tables with overpriced trinkets.

Twigbee’s didn’t sell cartons of Lucky Strikes so the old man would settle for what I got him. My wife Janice and I kept up that tradition with our nephews and Godchildren, but we would send in each kid with cash and a note that said, “No soaps or coffee mugs.” If you were lucky, you also got lunch at Higbee’s Silver Grill where they served kids’ meals in little wooden stoves.

HO. HO. HO. Holiday decorations stay up in my neighborhood until it’s warm enough to take them down, so the season runs from September to April, but not in the stores. We walked into a drugstore on Christmas and saw Valentine’s Day cards. I’ll admit I get tired of winter early and look forward to seeing bathing suits on store racks in January for kids heading to spring break, but that doesn’t appear likely in the next few months.

At least the holiday food I’m eating these days is food I can identify.

Mike Olszewski is a veteran award-winning radio, TV and print journalist and college instructor. Contact him at janmike1978@ gmail.com.

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