Northeast Ohio Boomer | November December 2022

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An Ill-Fitting Gift of Fitness

My uneasy relationship with physical fitness started in elementary school.

The college cheerleader-turnedphys-ed-teacher lined us up and, with scant instruction, told us to do a handstand over a folded wrestling mat.

Too young to beg out of the class because of menstrual cramps (a flimsy but handy excuse I perfected by middle school) I fell on my shoulder and rolled to the floor. Later phys ed classes were pockmarked with memories of gym suits, cold showers and further humiliations highlighting my unathleticism. I liked to read, not run.

It’s taken me nearly 50 years to return to a gym. My husband and I recently joined a fitness center so we wouldn’t spend winter evenings pre-napping in front of the TV before heading to bed. There may be worse reasons for joining a gym, but I haven’t heard them.

GYM SPIES

Almost immediately, we realized we didn’t know how to do a fitness center. Please don’t judge, but if you’ve never been to one, they’re intimidating places with complicated equipment, shower rooms, mystery soap dispensers and machines that spin-dry bathing suits. Do you get dressed in the curtained area at each shower, or wrap yourself in a towel and go back to the lockers? Do you wear a bathing suit in the steam room? What about the sauna?

We conferred in the car on the way home, reporting our locker room reconnaissance. The place is never crowded, so it took time. I finally saw a woman walk out of a shower stall in a towel provided by the fitness center. So I tried the same thing, except the thin towel didn’t go all the way around me, leaving crucial body parts hanging out like plump, overripe fruit on an unpruned tree.

I’ll spare you details of my new showering system, but I’ll never be a “toweler” unless I can find a stack of towels somewhere that fit people larger than a preschooler. With that problem solved, and because I’m too old for cramps, I’m out of excuses. It looks like I’m sticking with the gym for now.

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ME

The fitness center membership is a gift to ourselves and to our health, initial stumbles aside.

This is NEO Boomer magazine’s Giving issue, and we’ve spotlighted local organizations that need your help, money and donations. But in this holiday season of giving, don’t forget to give yourself a gift or two, as well.

Time is one gift that we can give to ourselves and to others. Carve out a few moments each day to do something that makes you happy. If you’ve got too much time, share it with friends or an organization, join a club, or reach out to a neighbor. It’s not hard to find people who need a connection.

And don’t let my awkward venture into the fitness arena discourage you from exploring gyms, senior centers or rec departments. Most activities are free and some are offered virtually. Many don’t have towels, so you’re ahead of the game there.

Now that I’ve gotten through Showergate, I want to explore the exercise equipment. I saw a young woman on a machine wearing leggings and a top that looked like a bra. I texted our daughter about it, and she says it's a workout shirt. I suspect it would fit me about as well as the gym towel, but she was too polite to say that, plus I usually wear one bra at a time.

I hope you find a fitting way to celebrate this season of giving. Happy holidays.

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Breaking Records at 100

HOWARD TUCKER SHOWS US HOW

Making it into the Guinness World Records could be a dubious achievement, but in Dr. Howard Tucker’s case, it’s a remarkable claim to fame. The Cleveland neurologist has been practicing medicine since 1947, with no plans to quit.

At over 100 years old, Dr. Tucker is officially the oldest practicing physician in the world… seeing patients twice a week and teaching medical residents at St. Vincent Charity Medical Center in downtown Cleveland.

A Cleveland native, Dr. Tucker was born on July 10, 1922. After being raised during the Great Depression, young Howard earned his undergraduate degree from The Ohio State University, then enlisted in the U.S. Navy during WWII. He would serve again in the ‘50s during the Korean

War as the Chief of Neurology for the Atlantic Fleet.

Apparently undeterred by difficult tasks, Dr. Tucker also holds a law degree (passing the Ohio Bar Exam in 1989 at age 67 as possibly the oldest person in the USA to do so). An avid skier and climber, he was once airlifted off a mountaintop in the Alps and has survived both COVID-19 and a broken neck.

But never down for long and ever a man of the moment, he is now an emerging TikTok star and the subject of an upcoming featurelength documentary, “What’s Next?”

When the Guinness World Records asked if he would ever retire, Dr. Tucker’s response was swift: “Gosh, no. I believe retirement is the enemy of longevity. Even in my younger years, I never once contemplated retirement.”

How does he do it? Adaptability is key. Dr. Tucker says he works at mastering technology so he can care for patients and teach medical residents in the modern age.

Dr. Tucker credits his wife (since 1957), four children and 10 grandchildren as the main source of his happiness.

Grateful for his family’s longevity, he bolsters that with good nutrition, limited alcohol consumption, and the avoidance of cigarettes, motorcycles and trampolines. He also believes in treating everyone with respect and kindness.

If we are to follow Dr. Tucker’s example, let’s start with his mindset and perhaps the rest will follow. Check him out on TikTok at whatsnextmovie. He’s got more than 62,300 followers and 2 million likes so far.

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DR.

Peace on Earth

NATIVITIES AS HOLY ART

For more than 2,000 years, people have created nativity scenes using styles and materials as diverse as those who have made them. You can see several hundred examples of that, many on loan from Northeast Ohio residents, at the Historic Kirtland Nativity Event Nov. 27Dec. 31 in Kirtland.

Now in its 19th year, the free event shows the many ways the Holy Family has been depicted by people throughout history and the world.

The nativity display is at the Historic Visitors’ Center of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Get more information at christmasinkirtland.com.

If you like birds and have a spare day, then you’ve got all the qualifications necessary to participate in Audubon’s 123rd annual Christmas Bird Count Dec. 14-Jan. 5.

The count is free. Counts take place within 15-mile circles. If you live within a circle, you can count birds in your back yard. Otherwise, you’ll go outside and count the birds you see there. Go to audubon.org to learn more and to register.

WINTER SKY WONDERS

The good news is that a terrific meteor shower is making its annual return in December. The bad news is that you have to go outside to see it.

Meteor showers are funny that way; they tend to be an outside-only event, unless you find yourself in a disaster movie.

The Geminids are a good one, as meteor showers go, because (aside from the threat of cloud cover) winter skies are clear skies. The Geminids start showing up Dec. 4-17, with the peak viewing from Dec. 14-15. To learn more, go to in-the-sky.org and type in your location to find the best time to see the shooting stars.

A Lifetime of Service HONORS

FOR ULTIMATE GIVERS

They were among 15 outstanding older Ohioans recently inducted into the Hall of Fame during a special ceremony at the Ohio Statehouse to honor their lifelong contributions to their communities, their professions and their vocations.

Dr. McKinney is a licensed independent social worker whose scholarly research and extensive community service have improved the lives of people both here and around the world, according to the Hall of Fame.

The Ohio Senior Citizens Hall of Fame has two new members from Northeast Ohio: Cleveland Heights resident Dr. Edward McKinney and Dr. Greer Glazer of Solon.

With a background in nursing, Dr. Glazer was recognized for promoting diversity, equity and inclusion in health care throughout her storied career. Through her participation in the National Academy of Science, Engineering, and Medicine’s Future of Nursing 20202030 Committee, she remains at the forefront of nursing policymaking, the Hall of Fame committee noted.

Congratulations.

Awe, Heck

Have you heard about flaneuring?

It’s a French word for a stroll that has no specific purpose other than to enjoy the experience, and it’s been gaining traction after researchers published a small study two years ago about the value of mindful strolling as a

mood booster for older adults.

Awe Walks, as they’re more commonly known (and easier to pronounce) are a version of flaneuring. A 15-minute daily ramble that focuses on being awed by what you experience along the way, rather than letting your mind ruminate, can increase contentment, say

researchers at the Memory and Aging Center at the University of California, San Francisco.

Pretend you’re seeing, hearing, smelling and touching things for the first time; look for magnificence in the mundane. In other words, take a walk and clear your head.

Dr. Edward MdKinney Dr. Greer Glazer

Low-income older adults may be eligible for free food through the Greater Cleveland Food Bank. Thirty percent of Cuyahoga County’s older adults live in poverty, the highest among Ohio’s 88 counties. Food Bank officials say Cleveland ranks third in older adult poverty among all major U.S. cities.

The Commodity Supplemental Food Program or Senior Boxes provides non-perishable food monthly that can be picked up at a partner agency or delivered directly to a recipient’s home.

The Food Bank works as one of the administrative arms for the program, storing, packing and sending food to partners in six counties to distribute to clients. To learn more about the Commodity Supplemental Food Program, senior meals and food pantry deliveries, go to greaterclevelandfoodbank.org or call 216-738-7245.

NOTING

College Knowledge

IT’S FREE IF YOU’RE OVER 60

January is registration time for spring semester classes at area colleges. Why are we telling you this? Because all state colleges and universities in Ohio,and some private schools, offer adults 60 and older free college classes. You won’t earn college credit for them, and books and equipment fees are extra, but it’s a great deal, any way you look at it. History, art, economics, foreign languages. It’s a big world out there; why not learn more about it?

University of Akron: 60 Plus (60+) Program 330-972-7111 uakron.edu/60

Cleveland State University: Project 60 216-687-5411 csuohio.edu/project60

HERE’S WHERE TO LEARN MORE ABOUT LEARNING MORE:

Cuyahoga Community College: Program 60 216-987-6000 csuohio.edu/project60

Kent State University: Senior Guest Program 330-672-2002 kent.edu/seniorguest

Lakeland Community College: Senior Citizen Audit 440-525-7116 lakelandcc.edu/ web/about/ continuing-educationdepartments

Lorain County Community College: Senior Citizen Registration 400-366-4148 lorainccc.edu/ community/center-forlifelong-learning

Winter Workouts

Agreat thing about living in Northeast Ohio is the many parks and trails that make for beautiful settings for walks throughout much of the year. As we move into late fall and early winter with its cold — sometimes bitter — weather, those trails can become icy and dangerous.

Fortunately, exercise can be moved inside. If you like to walk, there are indoor malls that provide a safe environment; some even open early to allow walkers a free run of the facility. Likewise, many fitness facilities have indoor tracks; these are usually well-padded and can allow for faster walking than typically experienced outdoors.

If you enjoy racquet sports (tennis, pickleball, etc.), many gyms and community centers have indoor courts. If you’re a swimmer, most areas have indoor pools with convenient hours for doing laps. There is no need to give up our exercise routines just because the weather is changing. It just requires planning and flexibility.

Michael Ungar owns At Home Senior Fitness serving Cleveland’s eastern suburbs. He also offers online coaching. He’s a Certified Personal Trainer, a Functional Aging Specialist and a rabbi. Contact him at athomeseniorfitness.net, 614-579-1336.

FIT & SAFE

What about outdoor exercise or work? Let me answer by addressing a question I often hear: Is it safe for older adults to shovel snow or use a snow blower? According to Cleveland’s MetroHealth: “Shoveling, even pushing a heavy snow blower, can cause a sudden increase in blood pressure and heart rate, and the cold air can cause constriction of the blood vessel and decrease oxygen to the heart. All these work in concert to increase the work of the heart and trigger a potentially fatal heart attack.” Harvard University’s Medical School tempers this by noting that only about 100 people in the U.S. die from shoveling snow each year.

Short of a heart attack, there are other factors to consider. Most injuries from blowing snow or shoveling come from slips or muscle strains. People fall on the ice or simply lift the shovel with too much snow on it or use improper form. Prevent injuries by stretching and warming up first, lifting with the legs rather than the back, using an ergonomically-designed shovel, and being cautious about ice. Everyone knows their own body best. Some people can continue to shovel snow well into older adulthood, while others risk injury or exacerbate medical conditions. Ask your physician if you have concerns about your abilities.

Shoveling snow, for many, is an extreme physical activity. There are other challenging but safer options. Walking outside is still possible in colder weather, as long as the sidewalk or trail is well-maintained and well-lit. Cross-country skiing is also popular and can be practiced at many levels of difficulty.

Snowshoeing provides a good workout and requires less skill. Many of our Cleveland Metroparks have trails, and some have equipment for rent; check their website for more information. Make sure you’re dressed properly to avoid frostbite and hypothermia.

Winter here is a season when many of us just want to snuggle into a warm blanket and watch TV or read a book. Avoid the temptation to be a couch potato. Plan ahead and choose what suits you best. Inside or outside, be safe and stay active.

COLD WEATHER? NO PROBLEM By Michael Ungar

TV Streaming

UNTANGLING

VIDEO

When you hear streaming, what comes to mind?

ON DEMAND By Tak Sato

For many people, it’s Netflix. Others associate streaming with the cut-the-cord movement, a way to combat rising cable and satellite TV costs and get television shows through streaming services or an over-theair antenna.

Changing consumer habits and the ways we get entertainment are clear: many cable and satellite providers are including streaming free for subscribers.

Streaming media content into our homes or devices started with music but has evolved to video on demand (VOD) providers such as Netflix and Amazon Prime Video, which include movies, TV series and more.

The convenience of VOD streaming over the internet was one reason video stores collapsed in 2010.

FUTURE VIEW

All this brings us to the current streaming market. Today, live TV (including regular and premium channels you can traditionally receive through cable or satellite, and local network affiliate channels such as Cleveland’s WKYC, WEWS and PBS and others) can be streamed through the internet for monthly subscription fees.

The confluence of several innovations helped grow the

Live TV with select services offering local TV channels (always check channel lineups and prices before subscribing):

• YouTube TV ($65/month)

• Hulu+Live TV ($70/month)

• SlingTV (starting $35/month)1

Movies, TV series, shows:

Hulu with or without ads ($8 or $15/month respectively)

• Prime Video2 (see footnote) and Paramount+, HBO Max,

• Disney+ … too many to list, so Google them.

Ad-supported (free) streaming services Tak has used:

• Pluto TV (pluto.tv)

• Tubi TV (tubitv.com)

• Puffer (puffer.stanford.edu)3

1 Tak subscribed for several months out of a year during the NBA season.

2 This started out as a benefit to their Amazon Prime service but if you are not interested in expedited shipping or don’t shop at Amazon, you can get only the VOD service for $9/month.

3 Project at Stanford University that “re-transmits free over-the-air broadcast television signals received by an antenna located on the campus of Stanford University.” If you don’t mind the West Coast time zone, this is an interesting project to see the potentials that streaming offers.

streaming market for consumers. One was the commercialization of SmartTV which enables TVs to connect to the internet to receive content (entertainment). The second was the wide use of smartphones and tablets that are always connected to the internet. Third was specific social media platforms that offered short videos (YouTube, TikTok, Instagram).

Below are tips and examples of services. I have cut the cord for over a decade and use a combination of streaming services and OTA for our family entertainment.

Although the number of streaming services may be intimidating, a way to narrow the field is to determine if a company is a live TV streaming service that offers regular and premium channels consumers traditionally received through cable or satellite providers. The others are streaming services offered by movie studios, TV networks or other companies.

Tak Sato is a founder of the Cleveland-area nonprofit Center for Aging in the Digital World (empowerseniors. org) which teaches digital literacy to people 60+ through the free Discover Digital Literacy program.

TAK’S TIPS

• Jump on deals. Look for online coupons, check your credit card issuer’s member benefits, your mobile phone service’s benefits, and other special deals for savings. Apple, for example, has been giving several months of free AppleTV+ services for purchasing Apple products.

• Try trials. If you want to cut the cord to save money, try out the streaming service first. Many offer trial periods. If you don’t like the service, remember to cancel before your trial is up so your credit card isn’t charged. Cutting the cord may not work for your needs.

• Do discounts. Many streaming services have special rates for college students.

• Find free. Don’t forget the library. Many offer digital library cards (available online) that have just an Ohio residency requirement. Free library streaming services include Hoopla and Kanopy.

• Buy a new streamer; not a new TV. SmartTV computer circuitry to connect to the internet can get old. If the picture is still good and the SmartTV has an available HDMI connection, don’t buy a new SmartTV. Instead, buy a streamer for as low as $20 (Walmart’s ONN brand). Others are Chromecast with Google TV, Roku, FireTV, AppleTV, & NVidia Shield.

• Ride on Prime. If you subscribe to Prime Video, you can watch a Prime movie or TV show without paying anything more than your subscription fee. If a movie or TV show you want to stream is not labeled Prime, you can rent it for 48 hours or buy it and stream it anytime by logging into Amazon Prime Video.

A Write Move

MANAGING SIBLING CONFLICT

By Jennifer Beach

Aging comes with uncertainty and challenges. As we help our parents or loved ones through a medical diagnosis, adjust to changes in their abilities or needs, and address finances or care, one issue can make the situation more challenging: siblings.

In my practice over the past 10 years, no caregiving challenge has caused more anger or divisiveness than a neglectful adult sibling.

FAMILY MATTERS

Sarah is furious with her brother. He infrequently visits their mother or offers any assistance. Yet Sarah is at her mother’s house daily, trying to keep everything afloat. Sarah gets aggravated with her brother; he rarely calls, and when he shows up a couple of times a year, he seems indifferent to their mother’s needs.

Oftentimes, caregivers like Sarah eventually and bitterly accept that their siblings won’t help. They vow to end their relationship with the sibling(s) after their parent dies, a threat they often follow through with, leading to a permanent split in the family.

Before deciding to sever a sibling relationship, consider a different way to engage neglectful or disinterested siblings in what should be a united effort to support a common parent. Write them a letter — not a text or an email — but a hand-written letter sent by mail.

In our fast-paced world, we breeze through inboxes, scrolling, browsing and deleting communication in

nanoseconds. Writing a letter, on the other hand, offers valuable benefits to both the composer and the recipient. The process of writing allows an individual to sit, reflect and thoughtfully express their points and the message they hope to convey.

For the recipient, finding a handwritten letter in the mailbox may capture their attention, allowing them to take the time to open the envelope, see their sibling’s handwriting, and realize the effort and time that was put into this message.

Two things to consider:

Try to state your subject content in a factual, nondramatic tone. Sarah might say, “Dave, taking care of Mom is not easy some days. I could use more support. Would you be willing to help in any capacity?” Include a specific and manageable way for the sibling to help. For example, “Dave, may I send you Mom’s recent insurance forms to look over?”

2MAKE IT PERSONAL

As with any invitation to engage, the letter should include a request for a response with a timeline. Any response, even excuses for why a sibling can’t help, is better than no response. Sarah might write, “I’m not asking you to help with the caregiving just for Mom’s sake. I’m asking you to help me. If you decide to help, then I’ll know you value our relationship. If you decide not to help, then I will have my doubts.”

If your sibling does not respond or their response is unsatisfactory, take some solace in knowing that you did your best to express yourself and describe the situation. You may have planted a seed for further discussions and, just maybe, some future help.

If your initial outreach doesn’t bring resolution, consider seeking outside help from an objective, professional mediator. The main thing is to try. Just know when to let go to reduce your own stress, keep your life in balance and provide the best care for your parent.

Jennifer Beach is an Advanced Aging Life Care Professional. She established Advocate for Elders (advocate4elders. com) in Rocky River and has 25 years of experience working with and advocating for older adults and their families.

1MAKE A STRAIGHTFORWARD APPEAL, NOT A DIRECT ATTACK

House Hunters

CLAW-SOME CAT TOYS

By Anna M. van Heeckeren, DVM

It’s gift-giving season and it’s hard to resist the alluring cat toys in store aisles this time of year. But which toys will naturally appeal to your kitty’s hunter instincts while keeping them safe?

Cats and kittens need to play, and as their servants, it is our job to provide safe toys for them. But what are cats doing when they are playing? Why do some cats ignore the fancy toys you buy them and instead play with a paper bag?

HUNTING INSTINCT

Our cats’ wild relatives stalked and chased prey to feed themselves and their families. If people allow their cats to go outdoors, most can and will hunt for food. Many times, they’ll bring “presents” of small rodents or birds into your home and announce their hunting success with loud meowing. They assume their job is to help feed you because

you’re one of their family members. Many domestic cats get their food from humans, but they still have the instinct to stalk, pounce and chase.

Cat toys fall into one of several categories:

• Toys that move

• Toys to chase and fetch

• Toys to bat around

• Places to go (perches)

• Scratchers and other sensory items

• Free (or cheap) stuff (a paper bag, cardboard box, golf balls, cardboard tubes)

• Puzzles and games (battery-operated, motion-sensor)

•●Catnip, found in toys or from the garden (pesticide-free)

Here are great tips that fellow veterinarian Dr. Justine Lee recommendations for feline toys:

• Watch the size. If it’s too

small, it can be swallowed and lead to an unplanned and expensive trip to the vet’s office. That’s why you may not find small sparkly balls at pet stores anymore.

• Check where it was made. Toys from the United States or Canada are more likely to be better made than those manufactured in China.

• Get sturdy toys. Make sure that nothing will break off and get stuck in your kitty’s stomach or intestines. Watch out for string, yarn or dangly parts. If swallowed, it can lead to an emergency trip to the vet’s office.

• Look for healthy, stimulating toys. Many cats are overweight or obese, according to the Association for Pet Obesity Prevention.

Playing with cat toys helps manage their weight while stimulating their predatory drive.

Even though cats are not always as attentionseeking as dogs, many of them do love to snuggle, get groomed, or have the undivided attention of their humans. Look around a pet store, or your own home, and cook up a fun play activity for your cat to keep him feline fine (we couldn’t resist!).

Dr. Anna M. van Heeckeren is a veterinarian and Founder, President & CEO of nonprofit One Health Organization in Cleveland, which works to increase access to veterinary care for people living with dogs and cats in Northeast Ohio. She also is the author of the Northeast Ohio Boomer blog, Aging with Pets.

By Margaret Briller

Charlie, a 90-year-old Korean War veteran, recently started getting $2,050 a month in supplemental government benefits after meeting with a volunteer from the Cleveland American Veterans Association (C.A.V.A.) a nonprofit group that helps those who served receive the benefits they need and deserve.

Supported entirely through donations, C.A.V.A. may not be as well-known as other groups that aid veterans, but its work packs a big economic punch for those who need it, especially here in Northeast Ohio, home to 130,000 veterans, many elderly, disabled or homeless.

“I am so grateful for C.A.V.A.’s help. I never would have been able to complete all the necessary paperwork on my own. This money will go a long way in helping me pay my rent here for assisted living,” says Charlie.

One aspect of C.A.V.A.’s work is helping veterans like Charlie and their families apply for the Aid and Attendance program, part of the needs-based pension supplement through the Department of Veterans Affairs. Its benefits can be used by a veteran or surviving spouse who needs help with daily needs such as bathing, eating and other care.

C.A.V.A. president Molly Carlin has been with the group since 2010. “We cut through the bureaucracy for you. Our job is to first, see if you are eligible, assist in obtaining your military discharge papers if you don’t have your DD214 document, collect supporting documentation, and complete the VA application. If necessary, we supply the VA with further requests for documentation until the final approval.”

She adds, “We help remove that frustration and worry by serving you with the same honor and integrity with which you served our country. And there are no costs associated with these services.”

A veteran, his/her spouse or a

MORE GROUPS THAT HELP VETERANS

• DISABLED AMERICAN VETERANS (D.A.V.)

Created in 1920 by World War I veterans for disabled U.S. vets, the D.A.V. helps more than one million veterans find jobs and access health care, education, disability and other benefits. dav.org

• FISHER HOUSE FOUNDATION

Provides free housing for families of patients receiving medical care at major military and VA medical centers. Ohio has four Fisher Houses, including one in Cleveland. fisherhouse.org

• PURPLE HEART HOMES

Provides housing solutions for service-connected disabled and aging veterans through the Veterans’ Aging In Place and Veterans Home Opportunity Programs. Work ranges from building a ramp for a World War II veteran to providing homeownership opportunities to younger veterans.

Contact the Northeast Ohio chapter at neohiochapter@phhusa.org

surviving spouse can qualify for Aid and Attendance benefits if they reside in an assisted living facility or if they are living at home and require the assistance of a caregiver, Carlin says.

Recipients must: Be a wartime veteran with 90 days of active duty, one day beginning or ending during a Congressionally declared war Be 65 years of age or older Have a medical condition that requires assistance with daily living activities that are not service-connected Meet the income-to-medical expense ratio

Meet Asset requirements (primary residence, one vehicle and personal possessions are not included as assets)

In addition, the eligibility requirements encompass wartime periods: World War II, 12/7/194112/31/1946; Korean Conflict, 6/27/1950-1/31/1955; and Vietnam Era, 8/5/1964-5/7/1975

(for veterans who served “in country,” eligibility begins 2/28/1961).

C.A.V.A.’s long-term goal is to establish housing for veterans and their spouses who are in traditional care or independent care facilities. Organizers want to build new or rehab existing buildings and homes within specific neighborhoods so that veterans can continue to stay close to home.

C.A.V.A. is a private, nonprofit organization. Contributions can be made by check, payable to C.A.V.A. and mailed to Cleveland American Veterans Association, 1440 Rockside Rd., Suite 118A, Parma, OH 44134. Learn more at cava4vets.org.

Margaret Briller is a freelance writer in Northeast Ohio and a proud auxiliary member of the American Legion Post 91 and the Veteran of Foreign Wars Post 3345.

A Village’s History Storehouse

Chagrin Hardware

Article and photography by John Matuszak

Like other customers during the last 165 years, George Richards goes to Chagrin Hardware for two reasons: the people who own it and the things they sell.

It’s a formula that’s bridged decades and cemented friendships in historic Chagrin Falls, weathering wars, the Depression, pandemics and the vagaries of small business ownership.

Recently, Richards popped into the charmingly packed store to catch up with longtime friends Steve and Jack Shutts, co-owners of the Chagrin Falls

business that has been in the same downtown storefront since 1857.

This is a rare place to find the kind of assistance not available anywhere else.

“Rob (Schwind) is an expert at what I need,” says Richards, who stopped in on a rainy Monday to get help with fixing a toilet.

Jack Shutts joked that Richards shows up for another purpose.

“He comes in here for the abuse,” he teases, the humor and camaraderie as evident here as the tools that line their store shelves.

NAILING IT

Chagrin Hardware is an institution in the town, along with the Chagrin Falls Popcorn Shop across the street.

The store has a prominent place in Chagrin Falls history, which has been serving residents since before the Civil War.

The Shutts brothers, along with sister Sue, inherited the business from their late father, Ken Shutts.

Ken began working there in high school and took over in 1965, following the death of his uncle, Jim Bannerman.

Chagrin Hardware has been serving Chagrin Falls and the neighboring region in the same location since 1857.

The business was originally known as Nettleton’s, founded by Daniel Nettleton. Partners over the years included Elias Whitlock, Joseph Stoneman and William Hutchings.

In the early decades of the 20th Century, the business included auto sales and repairs, and even was a Harley-Davidson motorcycle dealership.

When James Bannerman took over in 1940, he changed the name to Chagrin Hardware Company.

His nephew Ken’s career in hardware was interrupted by World War II. He served in the Army Air Corps as a B-17 gunner in England. His plane was shot down three times, forcing him to bail out.

Ken Shutts may have been lucky in the war, but it was his personal touch, not luck, that made him a well-liked owner of Chagrin Hardware.

Scott Hageman, a volunteer with the Chagrin Falls Historical Society, tells how his father came to town in 1948 to build a house. He didn’t have a truck to haul materials from the hardware store, and Ken Shutts gave the keys to his own truck to the total stranger to use and return.

“That’s the kind of people they all were,” Steve Shutts says of that generation. “The entire country had trust.”

When he took over the business, Ken was ready to modernize, but his wife talked him into going in the opposite direction, maintaining its old-time ambiance and even adding an antiques store that still operates today.

“She was quite a lady,” said Steve Shutts of his late mother, who taught herself bookkeeping to aid the enterprise.

CARRYING THE TORCH

Steve said he just fell into the business, and his brother Jack signed on after teaching high school history for 11 years.

They are still in the original building, including wooden floors that came from a roller rink in 1900. They also use the safe that was installed when the business opened, although the floors had to be reinforced to hold its weight.

History tells a story in each inch of the store, where Civil War veterans regularly met on the third floor of the brick building. Wooden planes from the 1880s are displayed in a case down one aisle. A huge spinning wheel and other artifacts hang from the walls and ceiling. There’s a potbellied stove upstairs.

“Jack and I have been here 40+ years and we still run into stuff we’ve never seen before,” Steve says.

Other artifacts are more recent. One bin holds handwritten notes boys needed from their parents, granting permission to buy pellets for their BB guns. An obvious forgery was signed “Johnny’s mom,” Steve Shutts notes.

A few generations ago, a local boy was more interested in a new phenomenon. Tom Conway walked by the store to school every day, enamored by the black-and-white television sets in the window; he often was late to class.

That young man changed his name to Tim, went to Hollywood and became a TV comedy legend; he never lost his ties to his hometown or to the hardware store.

Hardware, Soft Hearts

The Shutts family has given a lot to the village over the years, and that tradition continues. They sell used DVDs, with proceeds going to the Chagrin Falls Branch of the Cuyahoga County Public Library. Proceeds

from the sale of 1998 National Geographic world maps go to cancer research.

Residents have shown their appreciation in return. In 2012, when business was slow, a customer organized a cash mob, urging everyone to spend at least $20 at the store.

“The whole town showed up,” Steve Shutts says. “We have a very, very loyal customer base.”

After a two-year hiatus due to the pandemic, the hardware store is bringing back its Halloween display featuring 12-foot monsters. It was their mother’s favorite holiday.

What did the brothers learn from their father about keeping the business going?

“Our father taught us that the customer is always right, but I’m not quite sure about that anymore,” Jack says with a laugh.

“Show up, that’s the main thing,” Steve adds. “It’s a lot of hours and a lot of joy. It’s something different every day.”

John Matuszak is a northeast Ohio native and has worked as a journalist for more than 30 years in Ohio and Michigan.

The store's laid-back vibe appeals to all types of visitors.

Lasting & Loving

YOUR GIFT, YOUR LEGACY

By Karen Shadrach

Leaving a legacy to your precious grandchildren is an important responsibility for grandparents. King Solomon told his son (Prov. 13:22), ”A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children.” Grandparenting is a level playing field; the poor and prosperous alike can pass on the greatest inheritances of all: love, wisdom, encouragement, memories and lessons learned.

Grandparents have had more time to process life and are in a stage of life the child’s parents have not yet experienced. This enables them to contribute uniquely to a child’s development.

MEANINGFUL MEMORIES

What can you pass on to your grandchildren? Ask yourself what is important to you and your family. What do you want them to remember and carry with them?

If your faith is important in your life, share your experiences and live out your faith, demonstrating God’s way of life. Teach them to pray and memorize Bible verses that have helped you through difficult times.

Sharing time together is a legacy that bridges generations.

Become as involved as possible in your grandchildren’s lives. Be sure to plan one-on-one time to make gettogethers special. Be present and try to show up for their activities, such as sports, dance recitals, school plays and concerts. Support them through their wins and losses. Encourage good sportsmanship.

Children love stories. Tell them stories from your life. Tell those tales of your childhood — about teachers and friends, pets, places you’ve traveled — all will be interesting to them.

Teach a new skill, share a family recipe and help them prepare it from scratch. Teach them how to sew, knit or play piano. Help them make a small toy from your woodwork bench.

Chronicle your family history. Make a family tree and tell them about

their great- great-grandparents or however far back in the family lines you can trace. They would love to hear of their past grandparents’ lives and when they came over to the United States. I’ve started a genealogy book to collect photos with names and dates, separated into our different family lines. If the grandkids are not interested right now, they may be later when they are older.

Teach the grandkids to volunteer and enjoy the spirit of giving. What can be a better influence than to volunteer with your grandchildren, showing them the value of giving back to their community and caring for others? Serve a meal at a homeless shelter with them, or visit a nursing home together.

Choose a charity that reflects your

FUN WITH THE GRANDKIDS

Family photographs tell a story.

values. Sponsor a child from another country and have your grandchildren correspond with them, sending pictures and small gifts. The grandkids can learn about other lifestyles and become aware that not everyone has all the privileges they have enjoyed.

Leave a legacy of encouragement; give it generously to your grandchildren. Offer a smile and a word of optimism when it’s needed the most. Tell them they are the greatest and have the ability to do anything they want to, if they put their mind to it.

Prepare for your grandchildren the inheritance of a priceless relationship with you — bequeath to them a legacy. After they are grown and long after you are gone, they will continue to draw from your everlasting treasury memories of love, inspiration and wisdom.

Ultimately, a legacy of love is the most important type of legacy you can leave for your grandchildren. You want them to know that, no matter what else happens in life, they and their parents were loved and appreciated by you.

Karen Shadrach is a Northeast Ohio on-the-go, in-theknow grandmother of two sets of twins. Read her grandparenting blog at northeastohioboomer.com

FRIDAYS

Friday Night Lights. The Cleveland Museum of Natural History will keep the lights on until 8 p.m. with special programming. 1 Wade Oval Drive, Cleveland, cmnh.org. $0-17

11/23-1/1

Magic of Lights. Family-friendly drive-through of holiday lights. Cuyahoga County Fairgrounds, 19201 E. Bagley Rd., Middleburg Hts., magicoflights.com, $21-40

11/25-12/18

Elf, The Musical. Buddy, a young orphan, mistakenly crawls into Santa’s bag of gifts and is transported to the North Pole and raised by elves. Weathervane Playhouse, 1301 Weathervane Lane, Akron, weathervaneplayhouse. com. $12-35

Rodgers & Hammerstein’s Cinderella. The classic 1957 version of this beautiful tale. The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, fineartsassociation.org. $17-27

11/26-12/18

Christmas on the Farm. Photos with Santa, Candy Cane Forest, animals and more. Nickajack Farms, 2955 Manchester Ave., Canal Fulton, nickajackfarms.com $12

11/26-12/22

Explore Winterland at the Cleveland Public Library. Free family activities, music and more. 325 Superior Ave., Cleveland, cpl. org. FREE

12/1

Christmas Lighting of the Square. Colorful lights, live music and a visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus. 6:308 p.m. Chardon Square, chardonsquareassociation.org FREE

12/2

The Polar Express at the Canton Palace Theatre. Family movie on Canton’s largest screen. 7 p.m. 605 Market Ave. North, Canton, cantonpalacetheatre.org. $2

12/2-30

Elf, the Musical. This hilarious big-elf-living-in-a-small-world comedy follows Buddy the Elf in his quest to find his true identity in a holiday-bedazzled New York City. Beck Center for the Arts, 17801 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, beckcenter.org. $12-38

12/3

A Bug’s Life. The story of an ant, Flick, who is looking for warriors to save his colony. 10:30 a.m.12:15 p.m. French Creek Theatre, 4530 Colorado Ave., Sheffield Village, loraincountymetroparks. com

12/14-18

Scuba Claus Meet & Greet. Talk to the magical man in red while he’s underwater with sharks, stingrays, eels and angelfish on his “nice” list. Greater Cleveland Aquarium, 2000 Sycamore St., Cleveland, greaterclevelandaquarium.com

Aclassic “Saturday Night Live” sketch from the ‘70s featured Dan Aykroyd as a smarmy, fasttalking toy executive defending his company’s “Bag O’ Glass” holiday toy.

Few of us have given our grandkids anything as dangerous as jagged glass — at least, not on purpose.

Luckily for grandparents and anyone else buying kids’ gifts, the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission has us covered. Their

TOY

Scouting

AGE-WISE GIFTS

By Marie Elium

website has guidelines and recall notifications to aid shoppers. It’s the agency that keeps “Johnny Switchblade Adventure Punk,” (another toy from the Dan Aykroyd sketch) off store shelves.

Choking on small parts is the leading cause of kids’ injuries or deaths from toys. Another big hazard: button batteries. The CPSC’s list is a sobering litany of toy hazards. The best advice: follow the

manufacturer’s age recommendations on the package.

OTHER

TIPS:

• Consider the ages of all the children in the household, as toys with small parts, projectiles, sharp edges and other hazards can harm younger siblings.

• Get safety gear, including helmets, for scooters and other riding toys.

• Keep small balls and toys with small parts away from children younger than age 3. Supervise older children.

• Keep high-powered magnets and button cell or coin batteries away from young children who might swallow them and harm their digestive systems.

• Properly dispose of thin plastic bags and packaging, as children can suffocate.

• Before buying a toy, be sure it has not been banned or recalled. Check cpsc.gov/recalls, or download the CPSC Recalls App at CPSC.gov/ Data. If possible, consumers should register the toy with the company after purchase, so they can receive recall notices directly from the company.

• Shop from stores and online retailers you know and trust.

• Look for a certification mark from an independent testing organization and the manufacturer’s label.

Find more toy safety advice at CPSC.gov.

Marie Elium is making her toddler grandson a set of holiday pillowcases for Christmas.

Happier Holidays for Senior Shut-Ins —

CLE-East Senior Network Sponsors

Cardinal Woods Skilled Nursing & Rehab Care is known for its high quality of care and successful out comes in rehab and long-term care, accepting highly complex patients. Geneva Center for Skilled Nursing & Rehab provides customized care in a home-like setting. Melinda Smith, Area Director of Business Development: mesmith@aomhc.com, 216-409-8140 Both communities are Medicare & Medicaid certified.

Cleveland East Senior Network is celebrating its third year as a volunteer organization that “networks with a heart.” This Network supports colleagues working in senior services while functioning as a community service organization bringing cheerful, practical support to seniors on Cleveland’s East Side.

The Network formed in positive response to the isolating effects of the pandemic. Everyone needs a human connection and the assurance that someone cares… especially during the holiday season and among senior shut-ins who don’t have family members nearby.

Since 2020, the Network has coordinated with 15-20 area community senior centers to visit 5-10 shut-ins per center and give them a holiday gift bag. That first year, the Network gave 100 recipients gift bags containing greeting cards, hats, gloves, back scratchers, puzzle books, healthy snacks and more… plus a tote bag packed with essentials like dish and laundry soaps and PPE. The grateful response was overwhelming, so the number of recipients doubled in 2021.

This season, Network volunteers are preparing to make the holidays special for another 200 senior shut-ins throughout Eastern Cuyahoga, Lake, Summit and Portage counties. If volunteers and donations grow, more than 200 senior shut-ins can experience a happier holiday in 2022, says the Network’s marketing board member Melinda Smith who represents Cardinal Woods and Geneva Center. Volunteers assemble and deliver the gift bags during the first two weeks of December.

“The cheer we spread to make someone’s day brighter and help

them realize there’s someone out there who cares is the reason we do this,” explains Marquita Benn of Benn Insurance Group. “It’s what the Cleveland East Senior Network is all about… giving back to our community.”

Smith adds, “The people are so appreciative that we come to see them and give them a gift. No matter how busy you are and even if you don’t think you can afford the time, once you get there, you can’t replace the smiles, excitement and appreciation with anything. It’s an amazing feeling to know that you have done the right thing with your day.”

“It’s our passion to give back,” comments board member Roberta Brofman of Five Star Clinical Solutions. “If you can help someone else, it actually helps to refuel you, and that kindness spreads. So if someone reads about what we do, maybe they’ll come out and help us spread more kindness to more people. It doesn’t cost a lot or take a lot of time. It’s our commitment to give back… with a heart.”

To get involved in giving back with the Cleveland East Senior Network, contact any of the sponsors listed here to lend your extra hands and cheerful smiles. To make cash or gift bag dona tions, visit the Community Outreach page on cle-eastseniornetwork.com. All are welcome!

BOARD MEMBERS

Five Star Clinical Solutions. As Patient Advocates, we ensure you receive the best possible medical care and services. Roberta Brofman: President, Founder: roberta@fivestarclinical.com, fivestarclinical.com, 216-513-9622

Koewler Law Firm. Attorney Jim Koewler helps people who need long-term care, have chronic illness, or have special needs by working with their wishes and needs rather than cost-driven decisions. Jim Koewler, Attorney: jkoewler@ProtectingSeniors.com, 330-659-3579

Residence Home Care. A skilled nursing agency dedicated to providing the highest quality of care and customer service in a patient-focused environment. Tracy Debevits: Community Liaison: tdebevits@ residencehc.com, 440-725-8601

Right at Home. Provides custom personal hygiene, cleaning, driving and pet care for adults in the safety of their own home. Call for the affordable rate. Satisfaction guaranteed. Shalom Plotkin, Owner: OhioSeniorCare.net, 216-752-2222

Benn Insurance Group. Think “BIG" BENN INSURANCE GROUP in Hudson. I represent multiple carriers. Let me help you with your MEDICARE needs for FREE! Marquita Benn, Professional Insurance Advisor: marquita@benninsurancegroup.org, 216-553-8285

Howard Hanna Real Estate Services. Stephanie McFearin, Realtor expert for Northeast Ohio. Call, text or email anytime for info on a free market analysis or buyer consultation. Stephanie McFearin, REALTOR® StephanieMcFearin@HowardHanna.com, 440-554-7712

Medicare Advocates. Licensed Insurance Broker helping clients navigate the "Medicare Maze" for the best benefits and coverage for your individual needs. Review of coverage options provided at no cost. Lawrence Lesiak, Licensed Insurance Broker: larry@MedicareAdvocates.US, 330-523-7002

North Coast Residential advocates for seniors making a move, helping to plan your transition and the sale of your home with unsurpassed service, care and dignity. We provide educational seminars and counsel for seniors and senior living communities. Lee-Ann Spacek, CRB, SRES, President & Broker: LSpacek@NorthCoastRelo.com, 216-513-6800

Rocking Mobility. Repair-Rent-Sales of durable medical equipment from wheelchairs and power mobility devices to hospital beds plus bath and home safety equipment. Marsha Adair, President & Co-Owner: rockingmobility.com, 216-356-698

Benjamin Rose Institute Board member Mary Norris-Pack

Rob Trhlin started Donna's Christmas Trees to honor his late sister who loved Christmas.

Hope & Happiness

ONE TREE AT A TIME

By Marie Elium Photography by Kim Stahnke

The cardboard boxes, rumpled cartons and plastic containers have handwritten descriptions of the onetime-treasures inside. Ornaments. Nativity sets. Santas.

Volunteers with Donna’s Christmas Trees may know what’s inside the donated boxes, but they’ll never know the memories that were once attached to them by someone at some time. They only know — hope — those same items can make new memories for families in need this year.

The Lake County nonprofit is one of hundreds of small Northeast Ohio organizations that do big things with big hearts and little money. Donna’s Christmas Trees, founded by Rob Trhlin to honor his late sister, collects and gives holiday decorations, lavishly decorated trees, lights, ornaments, wreaths and other cheery seasonal chattel.

Now in its fourth year, Donna’s Christmas Trees volunteers will host holiday Deck Your Halls giveaway parties (by invitation), partnering with a group that buys gifts for families with older kids (Erie Street Miracles), Cleveland Rape Crisis Center, schools, businesses and other organizations.

Trhlin has cultivated a supportive and enthusiastic network of supporters and volunteers who lend space, time and muscle. Among partners are Lake Erie College, Forbes House, the Sisters of Notre Dame in Chardon, and Fred Frisco, president of Re-Education Services in Lake County, an alternative school for students with special needs.

JOYFUL & FULL

It’s the latter connection with Frisco that brings volunteers to Room 8 at the school’s Mentor campus. Tables, shelves, closets and corners are jammed with holiday decor — even a couple of menorahs. The classroom is large and sunlit from a wall of windows that lend a mood-brightening lightness to the space.

What appears to be a jumble of stuff is, on closer look, sorted into categories that will make transportation and setup easier later. Strings of lights have been untangled, checked and bundled; clear in one bin, colored in another. Wreaths line closet shelves, waiting for volunteers to custom-decorate them for clients.

It’s a colorful collection of everything Christmas… Garlands, snow globes and elf hats in every style you can imagine and some you’ve never seen. It’s a lot, and it doesn’t even include dozens of artificial trees, which are housed in Trhlin’s house and in a storage unit nearby. Somehow, it all works.

Volunteers have spent hours over the past few months hauling and sorting the donations, most collected throughout the summer. Since it started, over 300 trees and hundreds of decorations have gone to more than 550 families throughout the region.

LIKE CHRISTMAS MORNING

items, they make their choices and the items are packed and carried to their cars. The workers thoughtfully display every item and tree, creating a festive, boutique-like setting for the shoppers. Presentation is vital to the experience, allowing participants to “slip away from a chaotic life and feel special,” as Trhlin describes it.

To Give

Donna’s Christmas Trees announces fundraisers and collection dates throughout the year on its Facebook page and website, donnaschristmastrees.

com. The best way to support the tax-exempt charity’s work is by giving money through Venmo or the website.

Susan Pestello has fun opening donation boxes. Sometimes, an ornament or trinket is a reminder of her own childhood holidays, each box like an early Christmas present. Valuable vintage items are set aside and, with the permission of the owner, sold to raise money for the organization.

“Every time you open a box, you’re opening someone’s memories,” says volunteer John Tomaselli.

Soon, he and other volunteers will transport, set up and decorate Christmas trees for the parties. If someone needs a tree or wants other

“At the events, you think that an item isn’t going to go and then someone falls in love with it,” Trhlin says. “You never know what triggers that memory and special time. And for the kids, we always do a Secret Santa (shopping area) to give kids an opportunity to understand the power of giving.”

Collecting, storing, sorting and transporting trees and decorations is laborintensive. “This is a road show,” Trhlin says. A goal is to get a warehouse so the ‘Deck Your Halls’ parties can have a permanent home without packing and repacking items and carrying them to events. A building would allow people to drop off items at the same place they’re sorted and given away.

Trhlin has discovered that there’s no shortage of nice, used Christmas trees and decor. He relies on word of mouth and Facebook posts to collect

WHO’S DONNA?

Rob Trhlin started Donna’s Christmas Trees to honor the spirit and memory of his sister Donna who was born in 1964 with a rare heart condition called transposition of the great vessels. The two main arteries leaving the heart, the aorta and pulmonary artery, were reversed, starving her organs of oxygen.

Donna became known locally as a miracle girl because she battled through numerous high-risk surgeries. Her dad Don spread the word about Donna’s medical issues and incredible spirit, drawing attention from newspapers, TV stations and organizations throughout the area.

Never knowing if a holiday would be her last, the Trhlin family made sure each Christmas was special for Donna because it was her favorite holiday. Community support, family love and Donna’s positive attitude ultimately were not enough. She died at age 22.

trees and decorations. Money is another matter, as is true for most charities. Cash helps organizers buy what they need, when they need it. For Donna’s Christmas Trees, it’s warehouse space.

Over the years, including this one, trees and decorations are given to families in need, some from shelters who are moving into their own places after a period of upheaval and uncertainty. They have many needs, and Christmas decorations aren’t on the list for most of them.

Trhlin says, “As frivolous as it may be, we give a small slice of hope to people who’ve been taken away from everything they’ve known.”

Marie Elium is editor of Northeast Ohio Boomer magazine.

Volunteers trim trees with donated decorations.

Below: Rob Trhlin and John Tomaselli sort items.

GIVING GUIDE

Tastes Like Home

Food Gifts from Right Here

By Marie Elium

Most of us have too much stuff, and that can complicate holiday gift giving. Where do we put all of those things?

That’s not a problem with a gift of food; not only do people like receiving food, they also eat it. Storage issue solved.

We’ve rounded up a few locally made foods and beverages that are good for giving, either in prepackaged gift boxes available on the product website or purchased individually and put together in a DIY basket.

Happy hunting.

The Pickle People/Cleveland Pickle. Spicy Dill, Sweet & Hot. Pick a pickle. Available at retailers through Northeast Ohio (check the website) and produced in small batches, these got rave reviews from even the pickiest pickle eaters. thepickleco.com

The Cleveland Caramel Corn Co. With flavors like lemon meringue and lasagna & garlic bread, plain old popcorn sounds downright boring. Available online and in grocery stores throughout the region. theclecaramelcornco.com

Hillson Nut Co. Shop in person at their store on 3225 W 71st St. or order online at hillsonnut.com. This family-owned business has been roasting and selling nuts since 1935. The Peterson’s-King Nut Outlet Store is in Solon. kingnut.com

Malley’s Chocolates. Founded in 1935 and still run by members

It's easier than ever to plug into organizations and causes that do good work. Our Giving Guide can start you on your journey to generous giving and meaningful volunteer opportunities.

of the Malley family, you can buy the delectable candies made here in Cleveland at 19 retail stores throughout the region. malleys.com

Rothenbühler Cheese Chalet/ Middlefield Original Cheese Co-Op This Middlefield cheese factory has a retail store near downtown Middlefield in Geauga County, but you can go online and have gifts shipped. rothenbuhler.myshopify.com

J&J Czuchraj Meats. If you're looking for smoked, dried meat, then you’ll like what this long-time West Side Market company is selling. jandjmeats.com

A Northeast Ohio food package is Marie Elium’s go-to hostess gift.

It’s Holiday Season

RIPE FOR RIP-OFFS

By John Matuszak

Around the holidays, and other times when there is an urgent need, greedy people come out of the woodwork to steal the spirit of generosity.

“The Grinch wouldn’t do the things these people do,” Ohio Attorney General Dave Yost says of scammers who set up phony charities to take advantage of unselfish and unwitting donors.

It’s a growing problem in Ohio and across the country, costing citizens and legitimate charities billions of dollars.

The Ohio Attorney General’s office takes this threat seriously. Its charity law division, along with investigating crooked schemes and suing bad charities, maintains an extensive website with registered philanthropic organizations and tips on how to avoid being duped.

Yost says con artists adapt their tactics to pull on people’s heartstrings and loosen their purse strings. Complaints about bogus charities spiked during the COVID-19 pandemic, and unscrupulous solicitations surge during wars, hurricanes and other disasters.

The holiday season is also ripe for rip-offs.

“People are more generous at Christmastime, and the scammers know that,” Yost says.

GIVER BEWARE

Tech-savvy younger people account for a larger percentage of the victims of financial scams than older citizens. But those 60 and older, with more assets, pay a larger penalty, losing over $9,000 on average, compared to around $2,700 lost by people in their 20s, according to a Federal Trade Commission report.

For older adults at the end of their earning years, “There is no reset button” when they take a big hit, Yost notes. “They will be poor for the rest of their lives.”

In addition to the dollars lost, scammers erode public trust in actual charities, studies show. Fortunately, common-sense tips can help anyone avoid becoming a victim.

Like other predators, scam artists camouflage their intentions by adopting names that sound like real charities. If you get an unsolicited contact, call back later and check out the group’s website to learn if it’s legitimate.

High-pressure tactics to donate right away, and a hesitancy or inability to answer questions, are additional red flags. Look out if the solicitor wants to pick up the donation in person, or wants a check written in their name.

Yost recommends avoiding solicitations for gift cards, which is a popular scam. If you do give, it is best to donate via a credit card or check, which can be traced, he says. As with any telephone or online solicitation, never give bank or credit card information.

It is a good idea to create a yearly giving plan to wellresearched charities, rather than succumbing to spur-ofthe-moment pitches.

The AG website includes a list of registered charities and annual reports on those who use professional solicitors, as well as the revenue promised to each cause.

The site offers a Wise Donor card with tips on avoiding scams, along with links to the IRS and watchdog groups. Yost encourages people to take a “hear something, say

something” approach to questionable practices, even if you didn’t lose money. Filing a complaint allows his office to keep track of possible scams.

Being smart about charitable donations doesn’t mean being stingy or cold-hearted, Yost says. It means making sure that your compassion and generosity help those who really need it.

Find worthy charities and avoid scams at charitable.ohioago.gov/Research-Charities/.

For good-giving guidelines, visit charitynavigator.com or Better Business Bureau’s give.org.

Volunteers Needed in Northern Ohio! Learn more at redcross.org/volunteer or scan the QR code below to apply.

John Matuszak is a Northeast Ohio writer.

One of the greatest gifts you can give is your time.

A Map to Great Giving

Most of us want to be generous with our time, talents and money for a great cause, but it’s not always a natural fit to volunteer at your friend’s favorite charity. Follow our map to match your interests and inclinations with a local organization.

Enjoy the do-good journey.

I want to help people with medical issues Greeter, housing assistant for:

• Transplant House of Cleveland Transplanthouseofcleveland.org

I enjoy feeding people

Prepare meals or deliver food for:

• Greater Cleveland Food Bank in Cleveland greaterclevelandfoodbank.org

• Haven of Rest Ministries in Akron havenofrest.org

I want to stay at home

Wellness caller for:

• Benjamin Rose Institute benrose.org

I have Time

I have no clue what to do

• Greater Cleveland Volunteers greaterclevelandvolunteers.org

I’m a theater buff

Take tickets, usher at:

• Playhouse Square playhousesquare.org

I’m an outdoor person

Maintain trails, count birds, reclaim habitats for:

• Cleveland Metroparks clevelandmetroparks.com

• Shaker Lakes shakerlakes.org

akroncf.org • Cleveland

clevelandfoundation.org I want to aid disaster victims Give to the: • American Red Cross Northern Ohio Region redcross.org/local/ohio/northern-ohio

I want to help older adults learn computer skills Give to the: • Center for Aging in the Digital World empowerseniors.org I want to help families affected by cancer Donate to: • The Gathering Place touchedbycancer.org

I’m into art, but I’m not an artist

Docent for school groups:

• Cleveland Art Museum clevelandart.org

I have a background in business, and I want to help other women

Mock interviewer for:

• Dress for Success Cleveland cleveland.dressforsuccess.org

I like to read and I want others to, also Tutor adults for:

I love animals and want to be around them

Walk dogs, clean cages for:

• Cuyahoga County Animal Shelter.cuyahogadogs.com

• Humane Society of Summit County in Twinsburg summithumane.org

Iwant to

I have a Special Interest or Talent

• Seeds of Literacy seedsofliteracy.org

I own tools and know how to use them

Join a local Habitat for Humanity project habitat.org

I respect the Jewish tradition of mitzvah, to serve others

Maintain Jewish cemeteries, teach students about the Holocaust with:

• Jewish Federation of Cleveland jewishcleveland.org

but how

I have a lot of coats I’m not wearing

Give them to:

• Coats for Kids Cleveland coatsforkidscleveland.org

stuff

A loved one benefited from hospice

Give time to:

• Hospice of the Western Reserve hospicewr.org

I want to help others get a fresh start

Donate your furniture to:

• Cleveland Furniture Bank clevelandfurniturebank.org/agencies

The organizations included here are just a few of the many places to exercise your giving muscles. The opportunities to serve and donate to these groups go far beyond the descriptions we've provided.

I want to help hungry people

Give fabrics and sew for the:

• Socially Responsible Sweatshop in sociallyresponsiblesweatshopohio.orgKent

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ALZHEIMER’S ASSOCIATION

CLEVELAND AREA CHAPTER

Giving your time and talents can be one of the greatest gifts to give. You can make a difference in your community at the Alzheimer’s Association Cleveland Area Chapter as a community educator, support group facilitator or a community outreach representative. Alzheimer’s isn’t easy, but you can make it easier. To find out more and volunteer, contact Mary Ertle, program director, at mertle@alz.org or 216-342-5606. Help create a world without Alzheimer’s and all other dementia.

AMERICAN RED CROSS

Your time can mean everything to a patient waiting for a blood transfusion or a family that just lost their home in a fire. Giving a few hours of your time each week as a Red Cross blood donor ambassador, blood transportation specialist or disaster action team member truly is the ultimate gift. Give the gift of time this holiday season. Volunteer for your community. Visit redcross.org/volunteertoday for more information and to apply.

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CUYAHOGA VALLEY SCENIC RAILROAD

Earn money for your organization of choice by volunteering aboard the Cuyahoga Valley Scenic Railroad. Receive up to $50-$60 per hour during shifts up to 5 hours long. These unique group volunteer opportunities give you the chance to experience the thrill of providing your local community with the experience of riding the Cuyahoga Valley Scenic Railroad while also assisting an organization or cause you care about. For more Info email NPA@cvsr.org or call 234-759-0080

GREATER CLEVELAND VOLUNTEERS

Greater Cleveland Volunteers is celebrating 50 years of recruiting adult volunteers, matching your interests, skills and availability with the needs of Cuyahoga County’s nonprofit groups. We manage AARP Foundation Experience Corps elementary school literacy tutoring; Chat Pals, providing phone and video check-ins with people 55 and older, and the RSVP program, connecting adults 55 and older with critical needs in Cuyahoga County. Follow us on Facebook and Twitter @CLEvolunteers for news, opportunities and stories about volunteering. Greaterclevelandvolunteers.org/support/index.php

HOSPICE OF THE WESTERN RESERVE

We are proud to have cared for over 130,000 of our fellow neighbors and their families since our founding over 40 years ago. Because of the compassion and generosity of neighbors like you, we can provide programs that help each family make the most of every moment. Your gifts support services not often covered by Medicare and Medicaid, such as pediatric hospice,comprehensive grief support, specialized care for veterans and more.

THE JEWISH FEDERATION OF CLEVELAND’S VOLUNTEER NETWORK

The Jewish Federation of Cleveland’s Volunteer Network (JVN) creates meaningful and vital direct service volunteering opportunities that meet the everincreasing needs in the Jewish and general communities. These good deeds (mitzvot) include feeding the hungry, caring for the sick and more. Our volunteer opportunities are tailored to fit the individual interests of the volunteer. Each year, over 1,000 volunteers participate in JVN programs. Together, we are Here for Good to make our community better.

LONG-TERM CARE OMBUDSMAN

Long Term Care Ombudsman (LTCO) supports people who use long-term care services wherever they live. LTCO provides information to help identify, select and connect with appropriate resources. We investigate concerns and complaints related to long-term care services and advocate for a higher quality of care and life for consumers. Our services are free. Help us continue our work as a resource for the LongTerm care community within Northeast Ohio. Visit ltco.org to find out more.

ONE HEALTH ORGANIZATION

At One Health Organization, we know that healthy pets make your home a happier place to be. Our mission is to keep the dogs and cats of Northeast Ohio healthy with their humans at home. Our programs help struggling pet parents with vet bills. This financial assistance means the pets get quality care — and the animals get to stay healthy at home with their families. Learn more at onehealth.org.

THE SALVATION ARMY

The Salvation Army is an evangelical part of the universal Christian church. Nearly 30 million Americans receive assistance from The Salvation Army each year through the broadest array of social services that range from providing food for the hungry, relief for disaster victims, holiday cheer to families at Christmas, assistance for the disabled and outreach programs for youth. For more information, go to SalvationArmyCleveland.org.

YOUR BENEFITS, YOUR WAY

Presented by Michelle Waldron

This year’s annual Medicare Enrollment Period from Oct. 15-Dec. 7 will require more planning than usual. Quality agents can help you review the many Medicare and Part D changes.

An annual review ensures that you won’t overpay and that your needs will be addressed for the upcoming year. There are fewer face-to-face ways to get information. How will you know if the option you're considering is the best for you and that you're receiving all the benefits you're eligible for?

With an Independent Agent Broker, clients can compare nationally recognized insurance companies to find quality, affordable insurance. All plans, prices and evaluations are provided to help identify the best options for your needs. Best of all, this is provided at no cost to you. Choosing insurance plans can be difficult. An agent simplifies the process for easy understanding.

You are always treated like family; your needs, concerns and budgets are matched to the best solutions for your situation. You'll receive additional consulting for expensive medications, multiple agencies, and education on Medicare. Keeping things simple, whether face-to-face, by phone or virtual, you can expect a hands-on approach. If this is how you want to do business and you want help, please contact Michelle Waldron at 216-469-4482.

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PLANS THAT MEET YOUR NEEDS

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CommuniCare Advantage is a Medicare Advantage for residents in Cleveland, Cincinnati, Indianapolis and Baltimore City, Maryland. It offers a Chronic Condition Special (CSNP) needs plan tailored to older adults who are managing their health with the challenge of a chronic condition like diabetes, chronic heart failure and cardiovascular condition.

Our plan serves Medicare-eligible people living with chronic conditions and who reside in the plan’s service area. If eligible, individuals can enroll at any time of the year.

We offer great benefits tailored to meet the needs of those with these health challenges. The plan has extra benefits that original Medicare does

not cover: dental, vision, hearing and case management, low co-pays for cardiologists and endocrinologists and no co-pays for diabetic supplies. Medicare is not one-size-fits-all. The CSNP plan is not for everyone; it is specifically for those managing and living with diabetes, cardiovascular disease and chronic heart failure who reside in the Cleveland area (and other services areas mentioned above). As of January 1, 2023, the service area will include Cuyahoga and Lorain County, no Part D premium and more.

We can help you or your loved ones understand the plan by having a conversation about this plan’s options and tailored benefits

specific to those living with and managing diabetes, cardiovascular disease or chronic heart failure.

CommuniCare Advantage Chronic Condition Special Needs Plan is an HMO with a Medicare contract. It is insured through OH CHS SNP, Inc. (D/B/A CommuniCare Advantage). Enrollment depends on the plan’s contract renewal with Medicare. The plan is available to anyone meeting eligibility requirements. Limitations, copayments and restrictions may apply. Benefits, premiums, and/ or copayments/coinsurance may change on January 1 annually. For more information, call 855969-5869 or visit communicareadvantage.com.

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GOOD THINGS ARE HAPPENING IN 2023

Presented by Laura Mutsko

Watch for significant changes in Medicare and health care coverage coming in 2023. Much of it is good news! While some changes apply only to those with Medicare Advantage and Medicare Part D plans, other changes will impact all Medicare enrollees.

Here is a sneak peek at what’s in store for you next year:

In 2023, most Medicare beneficiaries will pay less for their monthly Part B premiums. The standard premium for Medicare Part B is currently $170.10 a month, but it will decrease to $164.90 monthly in 2023.

The recently enacted Inflation Reduction Act will begin to benefit Medicare Part D enrollees next year, too. Recommended vaccines (including the shingles vaccine) covered under

Part D will be free. All Part D plans will have co-pays of no more than $35 a month for covered insulin products. Historically, Medicare coverage for kidney transplant recipients lasted for 36 months after the transplant. In 2023, this will change. Kidney transplant recipients can continue their limited Medicare Part B coverage for immunosuppressive drugs after 36 months. This will not be full Medicare Part B, but it will cover the medications that transplant recipients must take to prevent rejection of the transplanted kidney. The cost of the Part B coverage for immunosuppressive drugs will be $97.10 a month. Those with incomes above $97,000 for an individual or $194,000 for a couple will pay more.

An increasing number of Medicare

Advantage plans are including flexible supplemental benefits so members will have benefit choices. Other plans are providing comprehensive dental allowances of $2,000 or more. Quarterly overthe-counter allowances will be easier to use, and fitness trackers will be free for many plan members. Finally, $0 premiums make today’s Medicare Advantage plans attractive alternatives to Original Medicare.

During Open Enrollment, compare your current coverage to the plans for next year. You may find a plan that will save you money and/or offer more benefits in 2023. Please contact me, Laura Mutsko, at Mutsko Insurance Services at 440255-5700. Together, we will find the best coverage for you.

SOCIALLY DISTANCED CONSULTATIONS — FIND YOUR FIT FOR A MEDICARE PLAN —

Presented by KAZ Company

Annual enrollment can be a very confusing time to try and decide if the plan that you currently have is the right plan for your medical and/or prescription needs. Kathy Hirko and the KAZ Company team can help you answer that question and any other questions you may have. KAZ Company is an insurance agency focused only on Medicare plans. We work hard to understand all of the plans in order to help you find the plan that best meets your needs.

At no cost or obligation to you and with a team all throughout Northeast Ohio, KAZ Company is here to help. Give us a call at 216-901-9300.

HOSPICE & PALLIATIVE CARE GUIDE

Palliative Care & Hospice

WHAT ARE THE DIFFERENCES?

Palliative care and hospice care both focus on a patient’s needs and their quality of life. Palliative care manages treatment and other needs. Hospice care focuses on the period closest to death. Understanding the differences between the two can help someone decide what level of care is best. The care can change based on health changes.

COMPARING THE TWO

Palliative care focuses on easing pain and discomfort, reducing stress and helping people have the highest quality of life possible. Hospice care

focuses on quality of life when a cure is no longer possible, or the burdens of treatment outweigh the benefits.

CAN I STILL GET TREATMENT FOR MY ILLNESS?

You can receive palliative care while also receiving curative and therapeutic care for an illness, such as chemotherapy, dialysis or surgery. With hospice, you will not receive curative treatment for your specific illness, but you will receive medicine that enhances quality of life, such as treatment for high blood pressure or anxiety.

WHAT DOES THIS TYPE OF CARE INCLUDE?

Palliative care services may include pain and symptom management, care coordination with your health care team, assistance with developing your plan of care, help with insurance forms and options for care and housing, help with advance directives, and spiritual care.

Hospice care includes pain and symptom management, emotional support, medications and medical supplies, coaching for caregivers, grief support, and special services like speech and physical therapy when needed. Medicare-qualified

hospices must provide a 24/7 call service. Hospice care will also make short-term, inpatient care available when pain or symptoms become too difficult to manage at home or when caregivers need respite time.

WHERE CAN I GET THIS TYPE OF CARE?

Palliative care may be provided in any care setting, such as a home, hospital, nursing home or outpatient clinic.

Hospice care can be provided wherever the patient lives, including nursing facilities and long-term care facilities.

WHO PROVIDES THE CARE?

Most palliative care is provided by a specially trained team of doctors, nurses and other specialists. They work with your primary care doctor and specialists.

Hospice care is provided by a team that focuses on the patient’s needs. The team usually includes clergy, home health aides, hospice physicians, nurses, social workers, trained volunteers and other specialized therapists as needed. A patient’s personal physician may also be included.

Although hospice provides a lot of support, if the patient lives at home, the day-to-day care is provided by the inner circle or paid home health aides.

WHO PAYS?

Medicare, Medicaid and many insurance plans cover the medical portions of palliative care. Veterans may be eligible for palliative care through the VA. Check with your doctor and insurance to see what will be covered in your situation.

Hospice care is most often paid for as a benefit of Medicare. Hospice may also be paid for as part of a Medicare Advantage plan, by the state Medicaid plan or by private insurance. Discuss the source of payment and services covered with your hospice team.

HOW LONG CAN I RECEIVE THIS

TYPE OF CARE?

Palliative care can be provided as long as it’s needed. Hospice care can be initiated and continued so long as your doctor believes you likely have fewer than six months to live. You can get hospice care for two 90-day benefit periods, followed by an unlimited number of 60-day benefit periods.

Source: National Hospice and Palliative Care Organization

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HOSPICE OF THE WESTERN RESERVE Hospice of the Western Reserve provides palliative and end-of-life care, caregiver support and bereavement services throughout Northern Ohio. In celebration of the individual worth of each life, we strive to relieve suffering, enhance comfort, promote quality of life, foster choice in end-of-life care and

MERCY HEALTH-NEW LIFE HOSPICE

Mercy Health-New Life Hospice celebrates the circle of life and regards dying as a normal part of this process. Dignity, comfort, family and friends, peace of mind and compassionate care are at the core of New Life Hospice. New Life Hospice care providers manage pain and symptoms while also helping our patients cope with end-of-life decisions. For more information or to refer a patient for hospice care, call 440-934-1458.

VINNEY HOSPICE AND PALLIATIVE CARE

Vinney Hospice and Palliative Care of Menorah Park advocates, supports and provides for patients and their families during a difficult and stressful time. Our diverse team doesn't just manage pain and other symptoms; we tend to all of the physical, spiritual and emotional needs of everyone involved. Our on-staff physician and CNPs make in-person visits as often as desired, and we offer a wide range of integrative therapies. We provide comfort wherever you call home.

Thank You

We're grateful to all who attended Boomer Bash East Oct. 13 at the Bertram Inn in Aurora.

Hundreds of you, many dressed for the '50s Sock Hop theme, met up with old friends, made new ones, visited vendors, danced and sang along with Rick & Sharona, posed at the photo booth, enjoyed appetizers and our signature cocktail. Thanks to all the proceeds from our many raffles, we also made a substantial donation to Transplant House of Cleveland, our charity of choice. A special thanks to our sponsors and vendors for the best Bash yet!

Our story began in 1989 when our family immigrated from Eastern Europe to Columbus, Ohio. We worked the American Dream from morning until night in our Deli Cafe, leaving us little time to help our aging parents.

It was important to us for them to maintain independence and to remain in their own homes, yet we wanted them to have the option of choosing meals based on their ethnic preferences. Our goal was to provide our parents with meals that they had prepared for us when we were young.

In 2006, we turned this desire to provide ethnic meals into a healthy and delicious solution for everyone who needed it. The first route consisted of 16 people, some of whom are still receiving our meals today.

With a team of professional, experienced employees in Columbus and Cleveland, we currently serve over 13,000 customers across Ohio and parts of Indiana. Our menu includes comfort food as well as gourmet, classic, ethnic and kosher dishes.

Global Meals provides homedelivered meals to seniors and adults with disabilities throughout Ohio’s 88 counties and is funded by Medicaid and city levy programs. We understand the

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GLOBAL MEALS

Presented by Global Meals

importance of remaining independent and the role homedelivered meals can play in someone’s life.

With nutritious, delicious meals from around the world, we aim to help our consumers achieve healthy, independent lifestyles.

Whether you’re recovering from an ailment or hospitalization, managing a chronic illness, or enjoying a more independent lifestyle, our home meal delivery service is the perfect solution.

Our frozen, refrigerated and shelf-stable meals include a variety of breakfast, lunch, dinner, delistyle sandwiches, soups, specialty weeks, as well as ethnic meals such as Eastern European, Asian, and Latino. In addition to vegetarian, vegan, and gluten-restricted meals, we also offer sodium-controlled, diabetic-friendly, and kosher meals.

We can deliver meals on a weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly basis in our temperature-controlled vans Monday through Friday. We at Global Meals take pride in having friendly, motivated, highly trained delivery drivers. Our professional and caring customer service representatives will answer your questions regarding delivery or to assist you in placing or changing an order for your next scheduled delivery.

As well as providing tasty and well-balanced meals, we can help find programs and funds that meet

your needs. We are confident you’ll love our meals and are excited to have you as a part of our Global Meals family.

Below are available funding sources to qualify for homedelivered meals in your area

Certified Statewide: PASSPORT, ComCare, MyCare Ohio, Ohio Home Care Waiver Program: 866-243-5678 Ohio DODD: 800-617-6733

Certified by County: Franklin County Office on Aging: 614- 525-6200

Cuyahoga County Division of Senior & Adult Services: 216- 420-6700

McGregor PACE, Cuyahoga County: 216-791-3580

Catholic Social Services of the Miami Valley Northern Counties Office: 937-498-4593

Global Meals

Contact Information:

Columbus: 614- 252-4813 Cleveland: 216- 292-2003 Toll Free: 888-928-2323 Fax: 614-228-1746 Email: help@globalmeals.com Website: globalmeals.com

HOSPICE OF THE WESTERN RESERVE

Western Reserve is here to help.

As Northern Ohio’s Hospice of Choice, we are proud to have cared for over 100,000 of our fellow community members and their families since our founding over 40 years ago. While we provide quality care to patients in their homes, we also have four state-of-the-art inpatient units throughout our service area. With 1,000 employees and 3,000 volunteers, Hospice of the Western Reserve has deep roots in this community.

comprehensive bereavement services, specialized care for veterans, and more. Our innovation is reflected in initiatives like our Death Doula program, as well as A Moment to Remember, which provides patients the opportunity to fulfill a lifelong wish or passion.

Hospice is about celebrating the life in your years. We are proud to hear your life’s passions, your family stories, and what makes your loved one so special to you. Most of our family caregivers tell us they wish they would have called us sooner, as their experience was positive and provided much-needed peace of mind.

Walking with a loved one through their end-of-life journey may be some of the most difficult steps you’ll ever take. Yet you are not alone. With our comprehensive care and compassionate staff, Hospice of the

We celebrate the worth of individual life. This celebration is reflected in our programs, including art and music therapy,

Our purpose is to improve the quality of life for our hospice and palliative care patients. Our certified staff will work with you and your family to make sure each moment is filled with comfort and care.

Your Family. Our Purpose. Together.

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KINETIC

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When Kinetic says #HighSpeedForHere, that means Ohio.

Kinetic is investing $2 billion in a multi-year construction initiative to dramatically expand gigabit internet service by deploying fiber across its 18-state footprint, including Ohio.

Towns like Geneva, Rock Creek, Powhatan Point, Ashtabula, Austinburg, Peninsula, Hudson, Madison, Elyria, Kenton, Newbury, Covington, Russell, Columbia Station, Northfield, Bainbridge, Delta, Paulding and Chardon now have access to gig speeds for homes and businesses. So students have access to online learning, families can stream entertainment options, and telemedicine appointments are more accessible.

But it’s not just broadband. The company is also a community partner in towns where customers are also

neighbors, friends and family.

This summer, the Kinetic team unveiled a community art project in Granville directed by nationallyrecognized artist Paul Hamilton. Hamilton, Mayor Melissa Hartfield and other community leaders, as well as local participants who contributed to the mural, joined state president Susan Schraibman at Kinetic Park to feature the permanent installation of a project that was months in the making.

Then in September, Kinetic made a $5,000 donation to the Ace of Clubs 4-H of Licking County to establish and maintain a butterfly garden in Granville.

Additionally, Kinetic Business

has delivered grants to small Black-owned businesses in Ohio through the Black Business Support Fund. The fund seeks to increase the number and stability of Blackowned businesses located within Kinetic’s service footprint.

Kinetic is a business unit of Windstream Holdings, a privately held communications and software company. Kinetic provides premium broadband, entertainment and security services through an enhanced fiber network to consumers and businesses primarily in rural areas in 18 states.

The company also offers managed communications services, including SD-WAN, UCaaS, and high-capacity bandwidth and transport services to businesses across the U.S. Additional information is available at GoKinetic.com. Follow us on Twitter at @GoKineticHome.

MENORAH PARK

to meet the needs of all of you in our community while honoring a rich legacy.

We provide many choices in health care services and residential options to help you fulfill your goals and continue your personal stories of successful aging, however you define it.

Our dedicated goal is Excellence in Caring® in all that we do. No matter which program or service you engage in on the Menorah Park campuses in Beachwood or Chagrin Falls, you’ll find that our expert teams are invested in a strength-based approach so that, regardless of the circumstance, you are assured opportunities to improve and experience a higher quality of life.

Standards of excellence have been recognized by organizations including Newsweek, U.S. News & World Report, the Mather Lifeways Institute on Aging, the American Society on Aging, the International Council on Active Aging, and the American Health Care Association. We are honored to continue to help our community live empowered, live better, and be inspired.

Locations in Beachwood and Chagrin Falls • MenorahPark.org • 216-831-6500

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TRUEHOLD

For homeowners looking to access their home equity, Truehold’s Sale-Leaseback is a debt-free option that allows them to stay in the home they love.

Ninety-two percent of older adults want to remain in their homes for the long term. Yet many struggle to cover their rising expenses and are forced to sell their homes or use complicated debt products to unlock their equity. Truehold was created to help homeowners unlock their hard-earned wealth so they can stay in their home and community.

Truehold’s Sale-Leaseback program uniquely enables homeowners to sell their home at its full value and receive their home equity in debt-free cash. Residents then stay and rent their home while Truehold covers repairs, property tax and home insurance.

Truehold also offers a care and services program that easily connects residents to services (from landscaping to meal delivery to retirement planning) that ease the burdens of homeownership. This model allows them to continue enjoying what they love about their home without the hassles.

Over 200 residents have used Truehold’s reliable Sale-Leaseback to transform a cumulative $50 million in equity into cash. Their wealth has helped them achieve a wide variety of goals, including paying off debts, optimizing retirement, and diversifying into income-generating assets.

Shawn, a customer since September 2021, says, “For me, it was an investment in our future… We can finally do what we always wanted to.”

The company is passionate about bringing an honest, human and helpful approach to a sometimes predatory industry. “We’re committed to responsibly serving our clients and always putting their interests first,” says Brian Hardecker, founder and CEO.

“We try to only suggest solutions that help improve their wellbeing — whether that be with us or someone else. We’re excited to build a long-term, trusted service for long-time Clevelanders and their families.”

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Cochlear cochlear.com/us/en/home 216.287.2303

HearingLife hearinglife.com 440.614.1039

Insight Clinical Trials LLC insightclinicaltrials.com 216.245.6556

HOME HEALTH CARE BrightStar Care of Hudson/Solon brightstarcare.com/ hudson-solon 330.963.7777

Comfort Ease Home Care, LLC comforteasehomecare.com 216.245.6139

Ohman Family Living at Home ohmanfamilyliving.com/ at-home/ 440.338.2320

Rent A Daughter Senior Care rentadaughter.org 216.633.3604

TheKey thekey.com/cleveland 440.332.0170

HOME IMPROVEMENT

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Bath Fitter bath-fitter.com 800.892.2847

Good Nature Organic Lawn Care whygoodnature.com 216.641.9800

Leaf Guard leafguard.com 856.600.7908

Leaf Pro Gutters leafprogutters.com 216.346.9363

LeafFilter Gutter Protection leaffilter.com 800.726.7703

Ohio State Waterproofing ohiostatewaterproofing.com 330.467.1055

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Cedarwood Place-Legacy Healthcare lhshealth.com 216.371.3600

Danbury Senior Living danburyseniorliving.com 330.495.4108

Foundations Health foundationshealth.net 330.888.8754

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Independence Village of Aurora storypoint.com/community/ aurora-oh 330.548.8272

Inn at the Pines Assisted Living & Memory Care pinesalf.com 440.834.0260

The Kemper Company kemperhouse.com 216.337.1400

Landerbrook Transitional Care atriumlivingcenters. com/community/ohio/ landerbrook-mayfieldheights.aspx 440.226.7421

Maplewood at Twinsburg maplewoodseniorliving. com/twinsburg-ohio 330.840.7404

Richmond Heights Place richmondheightsplace. com 216.291.8585

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PROFESSIONAL SERVICES

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JKM Insurance Group jkminsurance.com 440.221.8399

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Kabb Elder Law and Care Firm kabblaw.com 216.991.5222

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Ohio SMP at Pro Seniors proseniors.org/ohio-smp 800.488.6070

Senior Living Guide seniorlivingneo.com 440.338.5233

The Health Plan healthplan.org 877.847.7915

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SERVICE AGENCIES

The American Red Cross redcross.org 216.431.3010

Transplant House of Cleveland transplanthouseofcleveland.org 216.938.9553

MATURE LIVING SHOWCASE

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DO MORE OF WHAT YOU ENJOY

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Retirement should mean the freedom to do what you want without being weighed down by the responsibilities of daily living. At Concord Reserve, services and amenities that make daily living easier grant you more time to focus on what’s important in life.

Independent lifestyles are ideal for people who can live without assistance. People move to a community for several reasons:

• To free themselves of the burden of maintaining their home and yard

• For the security of having

medical professionals close by

• To plan for the possibility they or their spouse may need additional support later on

• For the convenience of fewer responsibilities so they can enjoy the things they like

• To be in a community of their peers

Designed with active people in mind, apartments at Concord Reserve offer easier living so you can focus on doing what you want. You’ll enjoy:

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If you’re interested in exploring the options in a senior living community and doing more of what you enjoy, come tour our spacious Meadowood floor plan at Concord Reserve, 2116 Dover Center Road, Westlake. lec.org/concord-reserve.

NEW INDEPENDENT LIVING RESIDENCES

Presented by McGregor

McGregor’s campus is a Life Plan Community that accommodates older adults in all seasons of life as their needs change.

Older adults may be unable to maintain their home where they have lived for decades or haven’t had time to reconnect with friends or pursue a hobby. An independent living facility is one solution to those issues.

McGregor residents can enjoy their retirement years with newfound independence while taking part in a vibrant social calendar. They can participate in activities with people

who share similar interests. They can maintain a high quality of life with family and friends close by.

By 2030, one in every five Americans will be 65 years old and older. McGregor is adapting to the times by adding an Independent Living facility made possible by a grant from the Department of Housing and Urban Development. In 2020, McGregor was awarded a $3 million grant to finish building and renovating 80 units. New construction is set to be completed next summer.

This grant not only supports the construction of 54 Independent Living apartments but also the renovation

of 26 Assisted Living Apartments.

According to Lee Ann O’Brien, McGregor’s Chief Marketing Officer, these units contain all the amenities residents need, including refrigerators, microwaves, stovetops, ovens, plenty of counter space, and cupboards. The project includes money to help residents pay rent.

You have planned for your living needs as you age, and so has McGregor, with five levels of care on one campus. We have heard younger family members say McGregor is a place they would like to live someday; and after 145 years of dedicated caregiving, it’s safe to say we will be here for you, too.

LIVABLE CUYAHOGA

Cuyahoga County’s Division of Senior and Adult Services (DSAS) recently hosted forums and conducted surveys around Cuyahoga County to hear from older adults about how we can improve our services. This outreach was conducted with support from the Center for Community Solutions.

Since becoming an AARP “Age-Friendly Community” earlier this year, we have been happy to hear from you to learn how we can work together to make Cuyahoga County a livable community that is a lifelong home for residents of all ages.

The county launched “Livable Cuyahoga: A Community for

All Ages” in September. This initiative is designed to help identify ways Cuyahoga County can work to improve the quality of life and livability for county residents of all ages.

What to Expect From Us in 2023: We will share the survey results at our annual Division of

Senior and Adult Services Advisory Board meeting on Feb. 3. Next year, we intend to begin the planning phase with our partners at the Centers for Community Solutions. We will focus on projects that will improve the lives of our residents, based on the feedback we received this fall.

To learn more about Livable Cuyahoga, visit /hhs. cuyahogacounty.us/departments/ dsas/community-office-on-aging/ livable-cuyahoga. You can also use the photo app on your cell phone to scan the QR code and visit our website.

We look forward to making sure Cuyahoga County is a Livable Community for all.

Presented by Cuyahoga County Division of Senior and Adult Services

EXPERIENCE THE BEST OF CARE

Presented by Eliza Jennings

The Renaissance Retirement Campus, Eliza Jennings’ premier life care community in historic Olmsted Township, will soon open its new assisted living residence. The Absolute Center for Assisted Living at the Renaissance is near completion and features 48 units – 30 traditional assisted living apartments and 18 dedicated to memory care.

The unique senior living community completes Phase 2 of a multi-year Master Facilities Plan to renovate and expand amenities and services at the Renaissance, located at 26376 John Road. The Plan has generated tremendous anticipation and outlines a dynamic and vibrant Campus designed to improve the satisfaction and comfort of current

and future residents.

The 41,000-square-foot assisted living residence features state-of-theart contemporary design, including stylish finishes and scenic views of the surrounding landscape, gardens and ponds. Inviting living and dining spaces — pub, courtyards, indoor/ outdoor fireplace — are designed for residents to engage and socialize with each other. Additional amenities include a salon, game room, library, spacious one- and two-bedroom suites and studio apartments.

Eliza Jennings offers additional assisted living options at Devon Oaks in Westlake. A private courtyard and newly renovated spaces are perfect for visits with family, and Devon Oaks is pet-friendly.

Assisted living at Eliza Jennings

communities is designed for older adults who are no longer able to manage living on their own without support. Residents enjoy a safe, comfortable home that promotes independence and provides individualized personal care services. Families experience peace of mind, knowing that 24hour assistance is provided for dressing, bathing, meals, mobility and hygiene. Life enrichment opportunities are also provided for your loved one to enjoy meaningful pastimes and new friendships, supported by caring and dedicated staff members.

To learn more about assisted living at Eliza Jennings, call the Renaissance at 440-235-7100, or Devon Oaks at 440-250-2300.

A RANGE OF CARE With the Comforts of Home

At Fairmont Senior Living of Westlake, we offer our residents a continuum of care. This approach allows them to avoid the stress of changing where they live as their needs change. We have a range of care, from Assisted Living to Memory Care, providing residents the opportunity to enjoy the consistency and comforts of aging in place in a friendly, community environment with our helpful and attentive staff present to assist them along the way.

Residents at Fairmont of Westlake enjoy a variety of engaging activities as well as a seasonally rotating menu designed to appeal to a wide range of tastes and diets. The attractive room options and relaxing community spaces at Fairmont of Westlake are

designed with our residents in mind to help them stay active and vital while enjoying all the comforts of home.

Aging adults with Alzheimer’s or other memory issues often require heightened levels of support and

specialized care. At Fairmont Senior Living of Westlake, residents of our Memory Care Neighborhood receive Montessori-Based Memory Care that focuses on the current levels of function of each resident, meeting them where they are and empowering each to live purposeful lives. Our memory care staff focuses on a resident’s strengths, rather than their weaknesses, fostering dignity and well-being for all those who choose to make Fairmont of Westlake their home.

We encourage families looking for support and guidance to schedule a visit to learn how our dedicated team members can provide a loving and caring environment for your loved one. For more information, go to fairmontwestlake.com.

Presented by Fairmont Senior Living of Westlake

VOLUNTEERS NEEDED TO FIGHT FRAUD

Presented by Pro Seniors

In an effort to help STOP fraudsters in their tracks, Ohio Senior Medicare Patrol (SMP) Fraud Fighter volunteers help educate and empower Ohioans to recognize and prevent Medicare fraud.

In 2020, nationwide SMPs, with 5,720 active team members, played a key role in the expected Medicare recoveries of $16.8 million. Ohio SMP volunteers have the opportunity to learn new skills, meet new people, and most importantly, help keep their peers and community members safe from Medicare scammers.

Contact Jenni Espay, Ohio SMP Volunteer Coordinator at 513-458-5522 or jespay@ proseniors.org to become an SMP Fraud Fighter. Learn more at proseniors.org/ohio-smp.

UTILITY HELP Stay Warm

It’s cold outside; it shouldn’t be that way inside. Worried about paying your utility bills this winter? You may qualify for help through the federally funded HEAP, the Home Energy Assistance Program.

Ohioans with a household income 175 percent below the federal poverty level will qualify for HEAP assistance. If you live alone, your annual income has to be under $23,782.50. For two people it’s $32,042.50.

One application covers assistance for utilities, home winterization and threatened emergency utility shut-offs. HEAP clients also are notified about other places to get assistance through local agencies. Learn more by going to development. ohio.gov and looking for the Energy Assistance tab, or call 800-282-0880.

Our Dental Legacy

As we mature and enter into the last half of our lives, there are few things more important than our health and appearance — and that’s where our teeth and smile come in.That’s why it’s crucial that we take care of our dental needs.

When we are younger, we often take our teeth and ability to chew for granted. Children and teenagers in general may not brush and floss as they should; in combination with a diet that may include sugars, they often have a number of cavities that may lead to extensive decay. As adults, this neglect can cause pain and/or extraction of teeth, requiring partial or even full dentures, with or without the use of implants.

The consequence of this may be an inability to eat and enjoy certain foods, including things like nuts and meats;

Presented by Dr. Steve Marsh

the ability to get quality nutrition will be affected. This is a common complaint that dentists hear as their dental population ages.

With the changes in our teeth, our appearance may also suffer. The first thing we see in meeting one another is our smile, or in many cases, the lack of a smile. Chief complaints among patients include “I hide my teeth when my picture is being taken,” and “I don’t smile when I’m with other people,” or even, “My grandchildren ask me why my teeth are so brown or missing.”

These comments are related to both tooth color and tooth loss. Fortunately, the shade may be modified by a dentist using Zoom whitening or

custom-made whitening trays and gel. In more involved situations, porcelain veneers or crowns can be used to refresh a smile. With tooth extraction, permanent bridgework with zirconium (a strong porcelain) can replace the missing tooth or teeth in a beautiful and secure manner.

Our legacy is not limited to the value we have brought to others’ lives, though that may be most critical. It is also how we are remembered, by what we’ve done and also how we looked. Of primary importance in our nutrition and appearance are our teeth and smile; most fortunately, today’s dentistry — with first-rate materials and techniques — can help us stay healthy and look our best.

What’s Happening

12/3

HOLIDAY WREATH MAKING

Join a naturalist to make holiday wreaths with native plants. 1-3 p.m. Liberty Park Nature Center, 9999 Liberty Road, Twinsburg, summitmetroparks.org. FREE

CLASSES

MONDAYS

Pickleball 101. Learn rules, terminology and basic stroke fundamentals. 9-10 a.m. NR Racket & Paddle, 5475 Mills Creek Lane, North Ridgeville, nrrackets. com. $15-20

TUESDAYS & THURSDAYS

WEDNESDAYS

Beginner Beekeeping. Learn what gear to buy, how to set up the bees and more. 1/11-1/25. Middlefield Branch Library, 16167 E. High St., Middlefield, divi. geaugalibrary.net. FREE

FRIDAYS

Cleveland Elders, Tell Your Story in Poetry. Workshop for adults 55 and above on the first Friday of the month. 10:3011:30 a.m. South EuclidLyndhurst Branch Library, 1876 S. Green Road, cuyahogalibrary.org. FREE

Seated Yoga Flow. Learn breathing techniques to clear the mind as you go through movements to stretch and strengthen muscles. 1-2 p.m. Amherst Public Library, 221 Spring St., amherst.lib.oh.us FREE

SATURDAYS

Poem for Cleveland Workshops. Add your voice to the mosaic of Cleveland voices to tell the story of our city. 10:30 a.m.-noon. 12/3-2/4. Cleveland Main Library, 325 Superior Ave., 216623-2800, cpl.org. FREE

12/1

Art Therapy Workshop. Learn art therapy to help relieve some stress. 6-7 p.m. Reed Memorial Library, 167 E. Main St., Ravenna, reedlibrary.org. FREE

Sip in the Studio: Screen Print Custom Gift Wrap. Class includes a complimentary glass of wine, hors d’oeuvres and plenty of personalized gift wrap to bring home. 6-7:30 p.m. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., akronartmuseum.org $30-40

Bingocize. An evidencebased health series of classes combining exercise, health education and bingo. Through 12/22. Noon-1 p.m. Goodyear Branch Library, 60 Goodyear Blvd., Akron, akronlibrary.org. FREE Submit an event listing to Calendar@NortheastOhioBoomer.com or go to NortheastOhioBoomer.com

Photo Exhibit Highlights Democracy

Presented by Maltz Museum

As relevant today as they were half a century ago, more than 150 black-and-white images chronicling the Southern Freedom Movement are featured in This Light of Ours: Activist Photographers of the Civil Rights Movement, on view now, through April 2, 2023, at the Maltz Museum.

This Light of Ours is based on a book of the same name edited by Leslie G. Kelen and features works by nine activist photographers who documented the clash between institutionalized discrimination and determined resistance by activists and volunteers during the mid-1960s. The stunning black-and-white photographs chronicle a pivotal time in American history that can be explored through interrelated sections: Black Life in the Deep South, Organizing for Freedom, State and Local Terror, Marching Against Fear, and Black Power. The Maltz Museum added video footage, life-size installations, and material about voter suppression today.

The exhibition originally premiered in Cleveland in 2016, traveled the country, and now returns home for its final showing in 2022.

“We added a new section for this run,” explains David Schafer, the Museum’s Managing Director. “We are in a voting year, and this exhibition is about Americans participating in democracy. That’s why we chose to add a new section on voter suppression, then and now. What happened 50 years ago is highly relevant to what is happening today.”

Learn more at maltzmuseum.org.

12/3

Upcycled Art. Transform discarded and thrifted materials into something creative and new. Community Arts Center, 2937 West 25th St., Cleveland, clevelandart. org. FREE

12/4

Light Illusion Photography Workshop. Learn a variety of tricks and techniques utilizing light and reflections to create unique optical illusions. 1:15-5 p.m. Canton Museum of Art, 1001 Market Ave. N., Canton, cantonart.org. $41-51

12/5

Beach Glass Ornament Class. Create a one-ofkind ornament with Lake Erie beach glass. 7 p.m. Kirtland Public Library, 9267 Chillicothe Road, Kirtland, kirtland.lib.oh.us. $10

1/10

Photographing 2-D Artworks. Learn to photograph your twodimensional work. 6-9 p.m. The Peninsula Art Academy, 1600 Mill St. W., peninsulaartacademy.com $50

CLUBS

MONDAYS

Lakeshore Writers Group. Writer Tina Bartish welcomes aspiring writers and authors to meet and share work. 7-8:30 p.m. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., alpl.org. FREE

Sketchbook Club. Bring your sketchbook for creative drawing exercises on the last Monday of each month. 2-3 p.m. Gates Mills Branch Library, 1491 Chagrin River Road, cuyahogalibrary.org. FREE

Delicious Discussions. Join on the 4th Monday at downtown Willoughby establishments to discuss new releases. 7-8 p.m. Willoughby Public Library, we247.org. FREE

TUESDAYS

Writers Group: Virtual. Have your work critiqued and give constructive feedback to others in a friendly environment. Third Tuesdays. 7 p.m.

GAS INSERTS

MUSIC, THEATER & ARTS

WEDNESDAYS

Solo At Sarah’s. Live music every Wednesday 6-8:30 p.m.Sarah’s Vineyard, 1204 W. Steels Corners Road, Cuyahoga Falls, 330-929-8057, sarahsvineyardwinery.com. FREE

FRIDAYS

Third Fridays at 78th Street Studios. Join the creative businesses as they open their doors for you to explore the arts complex every third Friday. 5-9 p.m. 1300 W. 78th St., Cleveland, 78thstreetstudios.com FREE

12/1

Ukulele Jammers. Jam on various songs and have fun. 7-8 p.m. Avon Lake Public Library, 32649 Electric Blvd., alpl.org. FREE

12/1-23

Black Nativity by Langston Hughes. This thrilling holiday piece will have audiences on their feet. Karamu House, 2355 E. 89th St., Cleveland, karamuhouse.org. $25

12/2

Jazz Jam Session. Bring your instrument and call a tune. 10 p.m.1 a.m. BOP STOP at The Music Settlement, 2920 Detroit Ave., Cleveland, themusicsettlement.org. FREE

12/8-18

Cleveland Orchestra Holiday Concerts. An unforgettable experience that will fill Mandel Concert Hall with the sounds of the holiday season. Severance Hall, 11001 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, clevelandorchestra.com. $58-128

12/11

Dave Koz and Friends 25th Anniversary Christmas Tour. A special holiday treat with saxophonist Dave Koz and friends. 7:30 p.m. Connor Palace at Playhouse Square, 1615 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, playhousesquare.org. $45-85

Polka Night Before Christmas

Modern polka band bringing polka music to a new generation. 6 p.m. Music Box Supper Club, 1148 Main Ave., Cleveland, musicboxcle.com. $10-20

12/17-18

Jim Brickman: A Very Merry Christmas. Multiple Grammynominated piano sensation is back this festive season with his holiday tour. Hanna Theatre at Playhouse Square, 2067 E. 14th St., Cleveland, playhousesquare.org. $50-75

12/18

Christmas Comedy Show. Ring in your Christmas cheer with a lineup of comics. 6-7:30 p.m. Funny Stop Comedy Club, Smith Centre, 1757 State Road, Cuyahoga Falls, funnystop.com

1/27

The 5th Dimension. While remaining true to their original, five-part harmonic sound, The 5th Dimension remains versatile, attracting audiences of all ages and nationalities. Goodyear Theater, 1201 E. Market St., Akron, goodyeartheater.com. $35-55

OUTDOORS

TUESDAYS

Geauga Walkers. Join other active seniors on the second and fourth Tuesdays of the month for hikes in Geauga County and the surrounding area. Hikes are typically 1 to 1.5 miles. 1-2:30 p.m. geaugaparkdistrict.org. FREE

Hiking Seniority. Folks aged 55 and older meet year-round every Tuesday at nearby parks for nature appreciation, exercise and camaraderie. 10 a.m.-noon. lakemetroparks. com. FREE

WEDNESDAYS

Wednesday Walkers. Join this ambitious group of walkers in staying active and healthy on North Olmsted Parks’s walking path. Call to register by 4:30 p.m. each Tuesday at 440-7778100. 28114 Lorain Road, northolmsted.com/senior-center/ FREE

THROUGH 11/30

Trekking Through Autumn. Get out and explore the Medina County Parks through this selfguided hiking program. Firstyear hikers earn a backpack; veteran hikers earn a pin. Medinacountyparks.com. FREE

59th Annual Fall Hiking Spree. Get out and explore; complete at least eight designated hikes to earn hiking staff (first year hikers) and shield. Summitmetroparks.org FREE

THROUGH 12/31

Wild Hikes Challenge. Walk, hike, skip, jog, run or stroll on eight designated trails before Dec. 31 to earn a hiking staff (first year) and/or a 2022 Wild Hikes medallion. Portgageparkdistrict.org. FREE

12/9

Senior Saunter. Whether you’re a senior by age or just want to enjoy the outdoors at a leisurely pace, join this short walk. Noon-1 p.m. Liberty Park Nature Center, 9999 Liberty Road, Twinsburg, summitmetroparks.org. FREE

12/21

Winter Solstice Celebration.

Celebrate the longest night of the year with music, crafts, a candlelit route through the forest and more. 7:309:30 p.m. The West Woods, 9465 Kinsman Road, Russell, geaugaparkdistrict.org. FREE

SPECIAL EVENTS

THROUGH 12/30

Wild Lights: Cleveland Metroparks Zoo. Over 1.5 million lights across holidaythemed areas, including Candyland, Enchanted Forest, Starry Skies and more. 5:3010:30 p.m. $57-66/drivethrough and $19-22/walkthrough. clevelandmetroparks. com/zoo

11/19-12/31

Cleveland Botanical Garden Holiday Show. The indoor and outdoor gardens pay a festive holiday homage to the beautiful blocks that knit neighborhoods, people and plants together. 11030 East Blvd., cbgarden.org. $13-19

11/25-12/23

Holiday Lights CruiseThru. Drive-thru family event featuring classic lighted features. Carlisle Equestrian Ctr., 13630 Diagonal Road, Lagrange, loraincountymetroparks.com

11/25-12/29

Nature’s A-Glow. The beautiful botanical garden turns it into a winter wonderland. FridaySunday. 5-9 p.m. Beech Creek Botanical Garden, 11929 Beech St. NE, Alliance, beechcreekgardens.org. $8

11/25-12/30

Deck the Hall 2022: Gracious Gathering! Come see the estate illuminated with over one million lights. Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens, 714 N. Portage Path, Akron, stanhywet.org. $7-24

Wild Lights: Akron Zoo. Enjoy the wildest lighting display this holiday season. 5-9 p.m. 505 Euclid Ave., Akron, akronzoo. org. $8-18

11/26-12/4

Ballet Theatre of Ohio presents “The Nutcracker.” This classic has become a treasured holiday tradition for families of all ages. Akron Civic Theatre, 182 S. Main St., akroncivic.com. $40-50

11/30-12/23

Country Lights Drive-Thru. Enjoy the festivities from the warmth of your own vehicles. 6-8:30 p.m. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, lakemetroparks.com. $27.50

12/3

Light Up Lakewood. The most joyous of Lakewood traditions is returning to Downtown Lakewood for the 16th annual celebration. 4-8 p.m. 14701 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, lakewoodalive.com. FREE

12/3-22

Festival of Trees. You will be surrounded by beautiful trees decorated by talented artists and designers. Allen Theatre, 1407 Euclid Ave, Cleveland, clevelandplayhouse.com. FREE

12/4

Hudson Holiday Walk. Join the Merchants of Hudson as they welcome shoppers and diners with activities for the entire family. Noon-5 p.m. firstandmainhudson.com. FREE

12/11

Holiday Happiness: A Multicultural Celebration. Explore the universal message of joy and peace across all faiths, cultures and backgrounds. 1:30 p.m. Maltz Museum of Jewish Heritage, maltzmuseum.org. FREE

12/8

Brew at the Zoo. Enjoy a beer or glass of wine while exploring the zoo after hours. 6:30-9:30 p.m. Akron Zoo, 505 Euclid Ave., Akron, akronzoo.org. $19-25

TALKS

TUESDAYS

Lunchtime Lecture at The Cleveland Museum of Art. First Tuesday of the month, join curators, scholars, and other museum staff for a talk on objects currently on display. Noon. 11150 East Blvd., 216-421-7350, clevelandart.org. FREE

Senior Programming. Games, history, art, music and more. 10 a.m.-3 p.m. North Canton Civic Center, 845 W. Maple St., ncantonlibrary.com. FREE

11/28

Improve Your Wine Vocabulary. Learn the basics and vocabulary for tasting wine. 7-8 p.m. Strongsville

Branch Library, 18700 Westwood Drive, cuyahogalibrary.org. FREE

11/29

American Sign Language Basics

Learn about the deaf culture and community and basic signs. 7 p.m. Kent Free Library, 312 W. Main St., kentfreelibrary.org. FREE

Eat Healthy on a Budget. Learn from the Greater Cleveland Food Banks’ nutrition team. 6:30-7:30 p.m. Mentor Public Library, 8215 Mentor Ave., mentorpl.org. FREE

11/30

Meet the Author: “Because I Could Not Stop for Death.” Meet Amanda Flower, a USA Today bestselling and Agatha Award-winning author. 7 p.m. Lakewood Library, 15425 Detroit Ave., lakewoodpubliclibrary.org. FREE

12/12

Become a Dementia Friend. Learn what it’s like to live with dementia and how to support people in the

community. 6:30-7:30 p.m. Stow-Munroe Falls Public Library, 3512 Darrow Road, smfpl.org. FREE

Grandparenting Today. Learn how to transition into your new role of grandparent in this Zoom interaction session. 5:30-8:30 p.m. uhhospitals.org. $15

12/19

Investor Interest Group. Learn about issues relevant to today’s economic climate. 7-8:30 p.m. Westlake Porter Public Library, 27333 Center Ridge Road, westlakelibrary. org. FREE

12/27

Tonics That Warm and Heal. Try tasty tonics and broths that use ingredients often used to heal and

soothe. 6-7 p.m. Lorain Public Library, 351 W. Sixth St., lorainpubliclibrary.org

FREE

1/11

Medicaid, Estate Planning & Probate. Learn the basics of Medicaid and how to use that information to assist with estate planning and probate avoidance goals. 6-7:30 p.m. Barberton Public Library, 602 W. Park Ave., barberton.lib.oh.us

FREE

1/17

Monitor Your Health with Tech. 6-7:30 p.m. Euclid Public Library, 631 E. 222nd St., euclidlibrary. org. FREE

Tell Us a Story By Kathleen Kilpatrick

Memory gaps are frustrating. A friend or loved one may not remember what he ate for dinner last night but recalls childhood stories in detail. If you’re visiting someone with a memory challenge, these simple strategies can help them remember their stories:

Put together a small album with one picture per page that spurs positive memories. This gives the person something familiar to them rather than relying on lessfamiliar images.

Print a description of the photo as a cue but make sure the print is large enough for the person to see. Do not provide too much information. Giving the name of the person or place may be sufficient. Put more information on the back to help develop more conversation and storytelling.

Looking for a gift that keeps on giving? Make mini albums. If your friend or loved one shares information, write those details on the back of the photo or on a page opposite the picture.

“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new ideas.”

— Marcel Proust

Holiday Traditions

PICKLES & KILLER REINDEER

By Mike Olszewski

Cold weather has returned, and in our neighborhood, that means two things: drones and holiday traditions.

The kids down the street fly their drones most nights and spy in our windows. I called the cops and they said, “Tell them to stay there until we arrive; we can’t do anything.” Turns out, neither can we, or we’d end up on YouTube. If you’re boring, they tend to fly away, so we try to be as vanilla as possible.

Our holiday traditions can be difficult to explain. There’s always the glass pickle that kids try to find on the Christmas tree, usually for an extra little gift. That almost always ends up in an argument, but it’s something we’ve always done. I know a guy whose family serves Jack

Daniels and root beer. Years back, his dad asked his sister-in-law for a “Jack and Coke,” but there was no cola so she substituted root beer, thinking he wouldn’t notice. They’ve celebrated that mistake every year since.

GRANDMA & THE REINDEER

My wife Janice and I have an unusual, decade-long Christmas tradition involving a grandma, Michael Stanley and a bottle of Jagermeister alcohol. Eric Sosinski is an accomplished local musician. He played with Michael Stanley and is part of the Pink Floyd tribute band, Wish You Were Here. Northeast Ohio has a tight music community. Back in 2009, I got a call from “Eroc,” as he’s known, telling me about a charity Christmas

CD that local musicians were collaborating on, involving Michael Stanley, Marc Lee Shannon, Alex Bevan and Tommy Dobecka.

It was a long list of contributors and each sang a carol for the CD. A few months later, Sosinski said he needed background singers for a carol and invited Janice and me to a studio on Cleveland’s west side. “What song are we doing?” I asked him. “You’ll find out when you get here,” is all he’d say.

When we arrived, we saw members of Wish You Were Here and a studio decorated to set the mood — red Santa hats and green bottles of Jagermeister. “We’re doing 'Grandma Got Run over by a Reindeer,'” he announced. Janice’s eyebrows shot into her scalp. These are real musicians. What are we doing here? I assured her that no one was going to hear it, so let’s just do our best.

The spirits flowed, voices rang out and, as the afternoon wore on, we’re pretty sure Sosinski started making up verses. No one remembered how the session ended.

Later that year, “Tis the Season: A Heartland Holiday Sampler” was released. Sure enough, there’s “Eroc and Friends” with our raucous version of “Grandma.” The lyrics have improvised references to Jagermeister. And my prediction that no one would hear it? The CD sold out immediately. When it was re-released, it sold out again. The song is on YouTube, so feel free to listen.

BOOM TRIVIA

Last time, I asked about the local novelist who was a long-time columnist at the Cleveland Press and a favorite of author Stephen King. His name was Don Robertson, and King wrote the foreword for his book, “The Ideal Genuine Man.” King traveled to Cleveland for a joint book signing; a copy recently sold for $950.

For next time, a Northeast Ohio suburb’s very elaborate Christmas display was in a Hallmark Movie. Name the town. I’ll give you a couple of hints: It has no connection to the film, “A Christmas Story” and it’s not Chagrin Falls. Answer in the next issue!

Every year since, after Janice and I attend Christmas Eve services, we race home to toast the holiday and have a huge, decadent meal. But first in our annual ritual? We slip the CD into the player, crank up “Grandma” and dance in front of our kitchen window like we’re punishing the floor. And the drones? Hey, if you can find us, you’re welcome to post online. It’s our holiday tradition and we don’t care who sees it.

Mike Olszewski is a veteran award-winning radio, TV and print journalist, and a college instructor. Contact him at janmike1978@gmail.com