Northeast Ohio Boomer | November December 2024

Coming in 2025

Ihave more in common with my chickens than I’d like to at this stage of life.

Seasons

BUYING EGGS & BUYING TIME

Let me explain. When the days get shorter, chickens slow their egg production. Chicken farmers light their coops at night to encourage laying. We let our hens follow nature’s cue… which means I buy chicken feed and eggs all winter. This is how chickens become pets.

The end of Daylight Saving Time has a similar effect on me, now that nighttime arrives in the afternoon. I’ve accelerated my evening routine, wondering just how early is too early to change into pajamas, although it sounds better if I call it loungewear.

ANIMAL INSTINCT

I used to go kicking and screaming— more accurately, grumbling—into winter. Other than the holidays, I found little to like about the dark and cold, although a bubble bath at 6 p.m. has its appeal.

The chickens and other animals may be onto something. My bees are shifting into winter mode, winding down their frenetic baby bee-making and stockpiling honey to survive the next six months. Even my pond frogs are making themselves scarce, tucking into rock cavities and mud. I hardly see them anymore.

Our cover story, “Winter Your Way,” celebrates the season (look, I’m trying) with the understanding that what we want to do isn’t always what we need to do. It’s okay to wrap up in an afghan and read a trashy novel, but why not try an outdoor adventure, too?

As for all those skiers, winter hikers, and cold-doesn’t-bother-me people, what’s wrong with taking a cue from nature and hunkering down

occasionally? If it’s good enough for my chickens, it’s good enough for the rest of us. Each season has its pace.

All this is a long way of getting to our big news here at Northeast Ohio Boomer. We’re moving into a new season as Northeast Ohio Thrive After 55—Thrive for short— starting in 2025.

Name changes are tough for magazines, especially one that’s been around for nearly 10 years. But it’s time.

“Thrive” reflects the energy and enthusiasm we want to celebrate among our readers while understanding that sometimes we need an afghan and a trashy novel to get by. Boomer served us well, so other than the name, we’re keeping and expanding what you’ve liked about the magazine. Specifically, look for more online content and directory listings. You’ll see the changes starting in January.

Like my chickens, we’ll be back in production with our spring issue of Thrive in March. If you don’t get it already, go to our website— northeastohioboomer.com—and subscribe to our weekly e-newsletter, The Beat, to keep up with news for Northeast Ohio’s 55+ readers.

Outside my window here at home, It looks like midnight and it’s only 6 p.m. I’ve had a bath and have changed into the loungewear/pajamas that I’m going to start calling evening wear to feel better about myself. If my chickens can slow down in the winter, so can I. We’re both taking time to recoup… or should I say re-coop?

VOL. 10, ISSUE 6 Nov/Dec 2024

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Embracing Our New Chapter

NORTHEAST OHIO THRIVE

Brad Mitchell Publisher, Northeast Ohio Thrive

Dear Readers,

Buckle up because we’re about to hit the refresh button in 2025. I’m excited to announce a brandnew version of the magazine you’ve come to love.

As we turn the page to a new chapter in our journey together, I am thrilled to introduce Northeast Ohio Thrive After 55. This transformation from Northeast Ohio Boomer to Thrive next year reflects our commitment to celebrate life after 55 and embrace the vitality and potential that come with this exciting stage.

Over the years, Northeast Ohio Boomer has been a trusted companion for many of you, offering resources, stories and insights tailored to our vibrant community of older adults. We've explored everything from health and wellness to lifestyle and travel, all to enrich your lives. As we transition to Northeast Ohio Thrive, we are expanding our vision to encompass not just surviving, but truly thriving in every aspect of life.

What does it mean to thrive? For us, it’s about more than just age—it’s

about mindset. It’s about cultivating joy, pursuing passions, and fostering connections that empower us to lead fulfilling lives. We recognize that every journey is unique and we aim to provide the inspiration and tools you need to flourish in your own way.

The first issue of Thrive will be the spring issue, debuting in March 2025. A summer issue will follow in June, a fall issue in September, and a holiday issue in November. These four robust issues will be supplemented by an enriched online and social media presence with expanded content coming to you every week.

Many of you have enjoyed our Boomer Bash events over the past eight years. We’re excited to expand into Summit County in 2025 with a Bash in the fall. This new event is in addition to our other events: Bash West in March, Bash Lake in June, and Bash East in November. We can't wait to unveil the fun event themes that make these occasions memorable.

Thank you for being a part of our story. Your support has been invaluable as we evolve, and we are enthused to embark on this new adventure with you. Together, let’s celebrate the limitless possibilities that lie ahead. Here’s to thriving after 55 in Northeast Ohio.

WORTH NOTING

Compiled by Marie Elium

On the Go

IN ICE & SNOW

A half-filled jug of water tied to a rope.

That’s my dad’s winter emergency road kit. The way he sees it, the weighted jug will come in handy if he needs to rescue someone who’s fallen through an icy pond. It’s light enough to throw; water gives it heft. He’s 90 and an Eagle Scout, so his reasoning makes sense.

Dad’s jug on a rope didn’t make the cut in AAA’s list. Maybe they don’t have an Eagle Scout on staff. Their suggestions listed below are good to review, nonetheless.

• Mobile phone pre-programmed with rescue apps and important phone numbers, including family and emergency services, and car charger

• Drinking water

• First-aid kit

• Non-perishable snacks for both human and pet passengers

• Bag of abrasive material (sand, salt, cat litter) or traction mats

• Snow shovel

• Blankets

• Warm clothing (gloves, hats, scarves)

• Flashlight with extra batteries

• Window washer solvent

• Ice scraper with brush

• Cloth or roll of paper towels

• Jumper cables

• Warning devices (flares or triangles)

• Basic toolkit (screwdrivers, pliers, adjustable wrench)

Find more winter driving tips at AAA.com.

A Climb Like No Other

LOCAL MAN CONQUERS EMPIRE STATE BUILDING

Unlike most others his age, 74-yearold Silver Lake resident and business owner Daniel Moneypenny loves climbing stairs. So much so that he recently raced up the 1,576 stairs of the Empire State Building to its 86th Floor Observatory as part of the Empire State Building Run-Up (ESBRU) in New York City.

The 46th annual event in October included more than 1,000 elite and everyday runners as well as athletes with disabilities, with times ranging from 10 to 59 minutes. In his third ESBRU, Moneypenny achieved a personal best, 25:54, beating his 2023 and 2022 times of 26:50 and 29:17.

“I’m getting older and faster,” says the cancer and open-heart surgery survivor who trains year-round in the Cuyahoga Valley National Park. “I’ve been doing steps for 22 years. For this event, I do between 7,000 and

9,000 steps a week at locations such as Kendall Lake, Everett Road Trail and Brandywine Falls. For wintertime training, I have tools for chopping the ice to ensure safe footing.”

Why the commitment to stair climbing?

“I’ve always enjoyed the hills and inclines that challenge runners during road races,” says Moneypenny, who ran the Boston and Cleveland marathons, hundreds of 10k races and cross country at the University of Akron under the GI bill after serving during the Vietnam War as an Army paratrooper stationed in Germany.

Kid Leo ROAD

TRIP

On a recent drive to Pittsburgh, I got reacquainted with a familiar voice from my WMMS/high school radio days: Kid Leo.

The iconic DJ who was the voice of Cleveland rock in the ‘70s at WMMS, popped up on my car radio when I was poking around for a satellite radio station on my SiriusXM account. Kid Leo (Lawrence Travagliante) hosts Little Steven’s Underground Garage on Channel 21. After spending 16 years at WMMS, he took a job at Columbia Records, then formed his own company, and ultimately landed at SiriusXM.

Fifty years in 90 miles. Who knew a road trip could cover that much ground?

There he belonged to the 12-person United States Army Prix LeClerc team, which competed in what is considered to be The Olympics of the Infantrymen.

“Once you’re trained up for an event, it’s all mental,” says Moneypenny, president/chief creative officer of his branding/ ideation firm, Emaginit. “With the ESBRU, all I have to do is endure being extremely uncomfortable for about 25 minutes.”

And in case you’re wondering if Moneypenny plans to do ESBRU again next year, the answer is yes. If you find endurance challenges appealing, contact ESBRU at esbru. com to enter its lottery. That’s right, the event is so popular that a lottery determines who gets to participate. What’s more, the entry fee is $175. Runners can bypass the lottery and run with #TeamCAF after submitting a charity fundraising entry form found online at challengedathletes.org. CAF is short for Challenged Athletes Foundation and serves as the official charity partner of the ESBRU.

— Joe Jancsurak

Daniel Moneypenny, super stair climber.

Alice Cooper with Kid Leo at WMMS in 1987.

Photo by Brian Chalmers, courtesy of Cleveland Public Library’s Photograph Collection.

WORTH NOTING

Compiled by Marie Elium

2025 Milestones

A LOOK BACK TO WHAT’S AHEAD

Next year promises to be a big one for Boomer as we launch Northeast Ohio Thrive After 55 in March and celebrate our 10th anniversary. We thought it would be fun to showcase other 2025 milestones and anniversaries.

Compiled by Estelle Brown and Marie Elium

40 YEARS

Time Travelers

The 1985 film “Back to the Future” celebrates its 40th anniversary on July 3, 2025. The 1990 film “Back to the Future Part III” celebrates its 35th anniversary on May 25, 2025.

200 YEARS

Buzzard Town

Known for its annual Buzzard Day observance around March 15, Hinckley marks its bicentennial on July 19 with a big community celebration.

Rubber City

Not to be outdone by its neighbor to the north, Akron kicks off its bicentennial celebration this December, a year before the actual Dec. 6, 2025 anniversary. Home to the only national park in Ohio, the city will mark its birthday with a downtown festival on July 3- 6.

85 YEARS

A Godfather & A Beatle

Several pop culture icons will celebrate birthday milestones, including actor Al Pacino and former Beatle Ringo Starr; both will turn 85.

75 YEARS

Comic Relief

Charles Schulz's timeless Peanuts comic strip debuted 75 years ago and continues to entertain readers of all ages. Peanuts transcended print with TV specials and a feature film, ensuring that Snoopy, Charlie Brown and the whole Peanuts gang remain relevant for generations.

50 YEARS

A Local Treasure

Wedged between Cleveland and Akron, Cuyahoga Valley National Park is one of the most visited in the country. It turns 50 next year. Find events at nps.gov/cuva/cvnp50.

20 YEARS

He’s Everywhere

This playful Christmas tradition, Elf on the Shelf, was borne from a children's book in 2005. It has since become a global phenomenon, much to many parents’ annoyance.

Page-Turners

COZY WINTER READS

If you want to know what to read, ask a librarian. That’s what we did.

These new books are on Mary Olson’s radar. She’s the readers’ advisory librarian for the Medina County District Library, so she should know page-turners when she sees them. Enjoy!

The Author’s Guide to Murder

By Beatriz Williams, Lauren Willig and Karen White

(November 2024)

This is an atmospheric metamystery set in a Scottish castle. Here, three writers are vacationing together and putting the final touches on their book about the long-ago murder of the castle’s owner. But when the current owner, himself an eccentric superstar novelist, is found dead, the writers find themselves as suspects in the investigation.

The Jewel of the Blues

By

Monica Chenault-Kilgore (November 2024)

Family drama, romance and suspense combine in this novel set in the Jazz Age, when a young woman’s rise to music fame is threatened by her family’s secrets.

Trouble Island

By Sharon Short (December 2024)

Enjoy this gripping historical mystery based on events in the author’s family during the 1930s on an island in the middle of Lake Erie. Sharon Short will be presenting at Brunswick Library on Feb. 18 at 6:30 p.m.

We All Live Here

By Jojo Moyes (February 2025)

When her father—whom she hasn’t seen or talked to in 35 years—appears on her doorstep, Lily’s complicated life takes a turn for the worse. But this unwelcome development becomes a lesson about the meaning of family.

AND ONE MORE…

Westlake resident and award-winning writer Kristine Meldrum Denholm is out with her first book, “Yesterday’s Song, a Novel.”

Denholm says that it’s the story of a ’70s singer-songwriter whose song holds shadows of a secret remorse from years ago. Is there any hope for a second chance?

“It’s also about the power of good oldfashioned pop music to heal and connect us

Hana is the titular quiet librarian, living a peaceful life in Minnesota until detectives inform her that her best friend has been murdered. Now guardian for her friend’s grandson, Hana knows her dark secret is the reason her friend is dead.

By Rebecca Connolley (February 2025)

Food, romance and mystery combine in this charming novel centered around Britain’s most popular baking show.

with others,” she says.

The author includes a scene that she says Cleveland rock fans will enjoy.

“Yesterday’s Song, a Novel” is available on Amazon, at Barnes & Noble and other bookstores. An e-book version is also available on Kindle, Nook and Kobo.

One more thing: the novel comes with a link to the ‘70s playlist and book club discussion questions.

Kristine Meldrum Denholm

The Quiet Librarian By Allen Eskens (February 2025)

The Crime Brulee Bake-Off

End-of-Life PLANS

(It’s Not What You Think)

By Tak Sato

If you guessed that end-of-life (EOL) planning refers to technology—personal computers, tablets, smartphones, or my favorite—a Chromebook—you nailed it. No doubt, EOL planning for technology is simpler than making EOL plans for our personal lives—no lawyers or legal documents are required. Instead, you need to track down two key EOL components: the physical device (hardware) and the operating system that runs on that device (software or system software).

WHY IT MATTERS

There is exclusive system software for different devices. The most popular operating systems are Microsoft's Windows and Apple's MacOS for personal computers, Google's Android, Apple's iOS for iPhones and iPads, and Google's ChromeOS for Chromebooks.

By the time Boomer's year-end 2024 issue hits the newsstands, you have exactly 333 days to come up with an EOL plan if your computer runs with Windows 10. That’s because it’s going to end after Oct. 14, 2025—not exactly immediately— but soon enough that you’ll need to act. So, what does that mean?

EOL for Windows 10 means Microsoft will stop providing monthly Windows Update fixes for security issues discovered after Oct. 14. Think of the security vulnerabilities as similar to cracks in your home’s foundation that might allow disease-carrying rats to slip into your basement. Windows Updates fix the cracks (security vulnerabilities), much like a homeowner plugs foundation cracks with cement to keep rodents outside.

We want to limit our exposure to security weaknesses to cut our chances of being victimized or hacked. With an unsupported operating system, you have greater risk exposure. The updates are a big deal.

Whether you’re an average computer user with basic needs or a tech geek like me, we’ve both spent thousands of dollars on computers over the years.

NOW WHAT?

Popular media is full of information about Windows 10 and its impending demise. Microsoft has been aggressively trying to upgrade users to Windows 11 as long as the computer running Windows 10 meets Windows 11 requirements.

The primary options mentioned online are to upgrade to Windows 11 on the same hardware as long as the computer can handle the extra load, or to buy a new computer with Windows 11 pre-installed. Some suggest dropping Microsoft altogether and moving to an Apple iMac or Mac Mini (both desktops) or MacBook (laptop).

Tech Talk by Tak takes a different approach, especially if your current computer running Windows 10 can't be upgraded to Windows 11. In short, to replace or not to replace a computer depends on how you’re using it.

If you’re a basic user and your web browser helps you respond to email and use the internet for shopping, banking and streaming entertainment, a new computer purchase may be overkill.

Whether you’re an average computer user with basic needs or a tech geek like me, we’ve both spent thousands of dollars on computers over the years. As personal computers became consumerized, in lock-step with the rising ubiquity of the internet, the use of computers connected to the internet revolutionized how we go about getting things done, from shopping and banking to entertainment and beyond in the digital world instead of or in addition to the real world we live in.

Today, there are many options for the average person to choose from, thanks in large part to the popularity of the Apple iPhone and other devices it spawned with their “always connected to the internet” features.

Touchscreens on smartphones and tablets are more intuitive for users to interact with their devices than the hand-eye coordination needed for a keyboard, mouse and monitor.

The affordable Chromebook and its intuitive user interface, which is the same as the Google Chrome web browser, means there is no steep learning curve; you can hit the ground running with it.

In my opinion, the most valuable feature is the thousands of available apps in their mutually exclusive ecosystems. Smartphones, for example, are phones at the core but an app can turn your device into a communicator (texting, messaging and video chat), digital camera, streaming entertainment system, news source, library and much more.

Ask yourself this before the next 333 days: Do I need another computer or will devices such as a smartphone, tablet or Chromebook be more appropriate? You’ve got options for your Windows EOL plan.

Tak Sato is the founder of the Clevelandarea nonprofit, Center for Aging in the Digital World (empowerseniors.org), which teaches digital literacy to people 60+ through the free Discover Digital Literacy program.

Day & Night

Dressing for the Holidays

By Linda Peavy

Want to dress chic and comfortably for the holidays, whether going to your office party or evening affair? These ideas will make dressing through the holidays a breeze. Show up in style all season

Sexy But Chic

Make the transition from day to evening with exotic fun pairings.

Animal Print Pants: Go wild with a playful animal print on pants paired with a solid oversized blouse.

Go Faux: Wear the hot-trend faux leather and choose a rich green shade to shake things up.

Accessories to Elevate Any Look

Statement Jewelry: Chunky necklaces, elegant earrings or cocktail rings can elevate even the simplest outfits.

Bright Handbag: Ditch the black and go with a bright color to complement your outfit and light up the night.

Footwear and Comfort

Stylish Kitten Heels and Ballet Flats: For those who prioritize comfort but still want a fabulous look, opt for elegant kitten heels, ballet flats, or low-heeled boots in unique colors.

Faux leather trousers, Pia maxi skirt (right).

Handbag and kitten heel shoes.

Sophisticated Daywear

For family gatherings or holiday brunches:

Cashmere Sweaters and Midi-Skirts: Try a soft cashmere sweater paired with a pleated or A-line midi-skirt for warmth and style. Complete the look with knee-high boots.

Structured Blazers: A well-tailored blazer over a festive top, paired with tailored trousers or a pencil skirt, creates a smart-casual look.

For casual meet-ups or holiday shopping:

Stylish Knitwear: A festivepatterned knit sweater or cardigan paired with comfortable leggings looks and feels great. Add a touch of sparkle with a brooch or statement necklace.

Layered Outfits: A colorful shirt under a sweater vest can be paired with dark jeans and ankle boots to provide comfort and holiday flair.

Elegant Evening Wear

Consider luxurious fabrics for formal holiday parties or New Year’s Eve events. Want a change from dresses? Think great blouses and pants.

Sequined Dresses: A long-sleeve, sequined dress in rich colors like burgundy, navy, or emerald is timeless.

Silk Blouses and Wide-Leg Pants: For a chic, comfortable ensemble, combine a silk or satin blouse with a pair of high-waisted, wide-leg trousers. Jumpsuits are also in order.

Linda Peavy is a Cleveland-based fashion influencer with a global reach, providing body positivity presentations internationally as the founder of Cultured Curves (culturedcurves.com). Linda’s Style Stop is your one-stop source of fashion tips to keep you looking sensational at any age.

Tips for Special Sizes

TALL WOMEN: Highlight Vertical Lines and Proportions

Longer Hemlines: Embrace dresses and skirts that showcase your height, such as maxi dresses or long, flowing skirts that hit just above the ankle.

High-Waisted Pants: Try highwaisted trousers or palazzo pants, which can make the legs appear even longer and flatter your frame.

Statement Sleeves: Rock the new statement sleeves, such as bell or bishop styles, which balance the proportions for your taller frame.

PETITE WOMEN: Enhance Proportions and Create Illusions

Monochrome Outfits: Consider wearing monochrome outfits, which create an unbroken line that can visually elongate your stature.

Empire Waists and High-Rise Bottoms: Shop dresses and skirts with empire waists or highrise pants that can make the legs appear longer.

Scaled Accessories: Choose accessories proportionate to your frame—smaller handbags, belts and delicate jewelry can be more flattering than oversized options.

PLUS WOMEN: Dress for your Body Shape to Get a Fabulous Fit

PEAR: Think Fit-n-Flare, A-Line, or Peplum Styles, Straight Cut Pants and Chunky Necklaces

APPLE: Wrap and Ruche Dresses, Tops, Attractive Prints, and Flare or Wide-Leg Pants

HOURGLASS: Fitted Clothes, Bodycon, Mermaid and Pencil Dresses

BANANA: Fit–N–Flare, A-Line, or Peplum Styles and Wide Belts

Red Karen Miller sweater (above) and Anthropologie sequin top.

A Seasonal Delight

Article and Photo By Karen Shadrach

There’s something special about holiday craft shows, with the twinkling lights, scents of pine and cinnamon, laughter and seasonal music filling the air. The experience embodies the magic of the season. What better way to embrace it than by visiting one of those festive arts-and-crafts fairs with your little grand-angels?

DAZZLING DELIGHTS

As you wander through the aisles, you’ll be greeted by colorful stalls showcasing the talents of local artisans. Marvel at the intricate woodworking, the sparkle of handmade jewelry, and the whimsy of unique ornaments.

For grandparents, one of the greatest joys is watching the little ones discover the wonder of shopping for gifts amidst the colorful booths and bustling crowds. Their eyes grow wide as we wander down the aisles, taking in the handmade treasures on display.

There may be knitted scarves in every color of the rainbow, scented soaps and lotions to sample, delicate jewelry sparkling under the lights, and wooden toys that seem plucked straight from a storybook. It’s a great place to shop for something for mom and dad.

As a grandparent, it’s fun to guide them to that just-right item. Some are drawn to booths filled with whimsical gadgets and gizmos, selecting the perfect gifts for their parents and siblings.

The kids ask thoughtful questions about each item, considering their options before making a final choice. I love watching them develop their tastes and styles and seeing them think about what would make their loved ones happy.

LEARNING, TOO

The joy of holiday festivals extends far beyond mere shopping. Many feature interactive workshops where you and the grandkids can get creative together. Try your hand at crafting decorations, from glittering wreaths to personalized stockings. These handmade treasures will become

beloved keepsakes, reminding you of shared special times.

No visit to a Christmas market would be complete without indulging in seasonal treats. Savor the aroma of roasting chestnuts and the sweetness of hot cocoa. Let the kids delight in candy canes, gingerbread men and other assorted gourmet goodies.

Some fairs include holiday performances. Maybe it’s a chorus of carolers, or a jolly old elf telling tales of the North Pole. Santa Claus himself may pop in.

Check out fairsandfestivals.net to find an event near you. Enter your location information and a month to search for a nearby craft event. The site also lists days, times, admission costs and directions.

A COUPLE FAVORITES

INCLUDE:

• The E. J. Thomas Christmas Arts and Crafts Show in Akron, Dec 6-8, 2024

• The Christmas Connection at the I-X Center in Berea, November 22-24, 2024

A Christmas arts and crafts festival is more than just an outing: it celebrates the season. If you’re a grandparent looking for a tradition to share with your grandkids, a Christmas craft show is great option.

Yes, it may be a bit chaotic at times, and yes, you may end up with a few more knick-knacks than you know what to do with. But it’s a great way to kick off the holiday season and fill your heart with holiday cheer.

Karen Shadrach is a Northeast Ohio on-the-go, in-the-know grandmother of two sets of twins. Read her grandparenting blog at northeastohioboomer.com.

Grand

FUN with the GRANDKIDS

11/16-24

Holiday Tree Festival. More than 200 decorated trees, 85,000 strings of lights and countless other creations. John S. Knight Center, 77 E. Mill Street, Akron, akronchildrens.org/treefestival

11/23-12/23

Cut Your Own Christmas Tree. Heritage Farms, 6050 Riverview Road, Peninsula, heritagefarms.com

11/23-1/1

Candy Land: It’s Wild in Ohio. An indoor magical wonderland brings this favorite family game to life. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Penitentiary Glen Reservation, 8668 Kirtland Chardon Road, Kirtland, lakemetroparks. com. FREE

11/25

Stuffed Animal Friendsgiving. Enjoy a special time listening to stories together followed by dancing, games and snacks. Portage Lakes Branch Library, 4261 Manchester Road, Akron, akronlibrary.org. FREE

A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving. Play games, make crafts and more. Grades 1-3. Twinsburg Public Library, 10050 Ravenna Road, twinsburglibrary.org. FREE

11/29-12/1

Back-in-Time Christmas. Breakfast, pictures with Santa, tours and a craft show. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Century Village Museum, 14653 E. Park St., Burton, centuryvillagemuseum.org

12/13-15, 12/20-22

SCUBA CLAUS MEET-&-GREET

Talk to the magical man in red while he’s underwater with sharks, stingrays, eels and angelfish on his “nice” list. Greater Cleveland Aquarium, 2000 Sycamore St., Cleveland. greatercleveland aquarium.com

11/29-12/30

Wild Lights. Enjoy the wildest lighting display this holiday season. 5-9 p.m. Akron Zoo, 505 Euclid Ave., Akron, akronzoo.org. $5-10

12/7

Santa Claus & Furry Paws. Crafts, activities, photos, stuffed animal hospital and watching animals open gifts from Santa. 5-8 p.m. Sippo Lake Park-North, 5712 12th St. NW, Canton, starkparks.com. FREE

$13.95-19.95 THROUGH 3/2/2025

Garden of Lights: Alice in Wonderland. Dazzling light display inspired by the classic fairy tale, with illuminated character lanterns like Alice, the Mad Hatter, and the Queen of Hearts. The Crawford Barn, 5563 Raiders Road, Frazeysburg, gardenoflights.com. $25

ONGOING

Illusion Rooms & Installations. Engage in astonishing and mindbending installations that will shock your senses and puzzle your perceptions. Museum Of Illusions Cleveland,186 Euclid Ave., Suite 130, Cleveland, moicleveland.com. $20

CAREGIVER CORNER

A Difficult Talk

WITH A LOVED ONE By Jennifer Beach

Michelle was worried about her friend Jane, 57, a wife, mom and working professional. She had not been her usual self for the past two years.

Michelle noticed small changes in her friend; Jane had gained weight and stopped taking care of herself, among other issues.

For example, Jane, just like her mother, had a full head of gray hair at an early age. She had been faithful about keeping up her beautiful brunette-colored hair, but no longer seemed to care how her hair looked, gray or otherwise.

Jane had always been the life of the party and the one who wanted to stay for “just one more.” An avid reader, she had loved playing games, trying new recipes and always texting and planning the next fun thing to do.

In every area of her life, Jane had slowly lost interest and her spunk.

GENTLE INQUIRY

Michelle often had asked Jane over the past year if something was wrong. Jane assured her friend she was fine. Michelle wondered if Jane and her husband were having difficulties in their marriage, or if the changes were related to menopause, her mother’s death or depression.

After some time, Michelle simply decided to back off; Jane said she was fine and wasn’t interested in talking more about the situations that concerned Jane.

The question is: how far do you push when you are concerned about a loved one? When are you crossing boundaries? What if they don’t want to talk about changes, concerns, or problems? What if they choose to do nothing, and ask to be left alone? How far do you push when it seems clear something is wrong, possibly medically?

NO CLEAR ANSWERS

These are difficult questions and, like most things in life, there is not one answer. Consider the following things when bringing up a tough subject with a loved one:

Location—Be aware of your surroundings before starting a difficult conversation. For instance, are you in public, at the doctor’s

office, in front of other people, or at the dinner table? A private, safe, comfortable location may lead to a potentially productive conversation.

Timing—Is the person watching a favorite program, getting ready for an appointment, or not feeling well that day? Talking about difficult subjects can be more productive and meaningful when timed correctly.

State your concern clearly with love—Be clear and direct, especially if their health is fragile. Provide examples of your concerns in a caring way. You may have to repeat this step several times before your loved one considers your suggestions.

Listen—Conversations are a twoway street. We often spend most of our time formulating a response instead of devoting our attention to what someone says. Tune in to their words to understand their point of view. This may help to find the middle ground.

Take a Time-Out—Despite your best intentions, conversations don’t always go smoothly. Take a break if the discussion becomes uncomfortable, then return to the conversation when the situation is calmer.

Work Together—A conversation allows a loved one to hear your concerns. Difficult subjects take time, can be a process, and often involve more than one discussion.

End a Difficult Conversation—

Sometimes conversations stall. When that happens, it may be best to end the discussion and resume it later with another approach. One of the best ways to end a difficult conversation is by agreeing to disagree. Don’t argue or be upset with each other.

Unfortunately, Michelle was correct; something was changing with her friend, Jane. She had a tumor growing on her brain, a very aggressive type of brain cancer. The small signs over the past two years were symptoms related to that diagnosis.

Michelle still struggles with the fact she was not more direct with her dear friend who died seven months after the tumor was discovered at a very late stage. She regrets that she didn’t talk more directly to Jane about the changes she saw and pushed harder for a conversation because she didn’t want to offend her with direct questions about her appearance and other changes. Would it have made a difference? Would Jane have responded if Michelle started the conversation earlier and been more direct? Michelle will never know.

Difficult conversations are hard, but what if that difficult conversation allowed your loved one to address an issue sooner, reducing difficult treatment or discomfort? Live longer?

Always enter a tough conversation with open ears and understand that sometimes a resolution won’t be reached in one conversation or potentially at all. Be respectful when raising sensitive issues with a loved one; let them know it all comes from your love and concern for them.

Jennifer Beach is an Advanced Aging Life Care Professional. She established Advocate for Elders (advocate4elders.com) in Rocky River, where she works with and advocates for older adults and their families.

Fresh & Fantastic

CELEBRATIONS WITH A TWIST

By Traci McBride

Does this sound familiar? We pull out our special-occasion china and serving pieces for a holiday dinner with an eye on tradition. What we end up with is a boring table and predictable place settings. The only thing that changes each year (hopefully) is the centerpiece.

Here are ways to bust out of the holiday entertainment rut with a few layering tricks.

TIP #1

Layer your china with unexpected pieces. Try mixing prints and colors. Buy salad plates in a contrasting color or print at a thrift store to layer on top of your traditional set of dinner plates. Treat yourself to accent chargers from big box stores or online. A charger, which sits on top of the placemat and is slightly larger than the dinner plate, gives your table setting the pop and layering it needs.

TIP #2

Layer tablecloths.

Combine a tablecloth with a runner, then top it with placemats, chargers

and china. Play with the runners; you may want to run a single one lengthwise or try several shorter ones width-wise.

TIP #3

Are you having a buffet?

Use risers to give different heights to food dishes. Varying heights look aesthetically pleasing and make it easier for guests to serve themselves.

Don't have decorative risers? Use shoe boxes, books, and other sturdy pieces covered with a tablecloth, a piece of fabric, or easy-to-wash scarves that fit your theme.

TIP #4

Use items in different ways.

• Cake plates make great risers for casseroles

• Use martini glasses for butter or nuts

• Place ornaments on plates covered with cloths for an unexpected look

• Place evergreen shrub and tree branches in urns

• Place flatware on trays to keep them easy-to-reach

A colorful charcuterie board adds pizzazz.

• Place salad dressings or gravy in small teapots for practical and beautiful serving pieces

• Be creative and avoid serving condiments, syrups and sauces in their original containers.

• Label charcuterie board items with tiny chalkboard signs

• Simple potato chips can be served in a lovely basket or crystal bowl. Borrow or thrift one if you don’t have the right container.

Presentation is key; delicious food tastes even better when served in something interesting and beautiful.

Traci McBride is a Northeast Ohio lifestylist of wardrobes and homes who helps people create spaces that reflect their evolved style. You can find her at Zspaces. TeeMcBee.com or contact her at Traci@TeeMcBee.com.

Intentional Legacies

GREAT GIVING

By Marie Elium

You don’t have to be rich to be generous with money, but you should be savvy. Picking up a veteran’s meal at Applebee’s or dropping cash into the Salvation Army kettle at Christmas are thoughtful gestures. But if you’re crafting an estate plan and want to give a chunk of money to a charity or organization, make sure your donation serves both your intentions and the charity’s needs.

UNPLANNED

Here’s a real-life example: A long-time church member left money to his denomination to build new churches. While that may have been the church’s need when the person made his will, it’s not the situation today. The denomination is consolidating churches, not building them. He has no surviving relatives to request a change in the terms. The money continues growing but is unavailable to the church—not what the donor intended. That example is why potential donors should both understand a charity’s needs before giving money and not place rigid restrictions on the donation, says Laura Lederer, vice president and chief development officer of the Akron Community Foundation.

The biggest misconception Lederer encounters is that ‘only rich people are philanthropic.’ ACF works with people who have $5,000 and more to give. The organization helps them craft multi-generational gifts that grow over the years; enabling subsequent family members to recommend how the money is distributed to the family’s favorite charities.

“It’s not a transactional relationship. We want to understand what you value as a family to get to the heart of (intentions),” Lederer says. “We want

QUESTIONS TO ASK BEFORE DONATING TO A NONPROFIT ORGANIZATION

• Do you believe in the organization’s mission?

• Does the nonprofit seem to live up to its mission? How do you know?

• Can you find clear information about the impact of its work?

• Does it spend the bulk of its money on programs?

• Does it have a religious or political affiliation? If so, do you mind?

• Is the website secure and up to date?

• Is there anything about the nonprofit that concerns you?

Source: ProPublica

HOW GOOD IS A CHARITY?

• Charity Navigator - charitynavigator.org

• BBB Wise Giving Alliance - BBB’s give.org

Intentional Legacies

to help people feel good about what they’re doing.”

ACF and similar organizations manage Donor-Advised Funds, charitable investment accounts that provide tax-free growth, tax benefits and flexibility to donors. Lederer says DAFs are the fastest-growing vehicle for giving in the United States.

People who want to support a cause often aren’t sure which group is doing a good job and if they’re handling their money responsibly. Researching a charity on your own or working through a group like the Akron Community Foundation can take the guesswork out of charitable giving, providing a lasting and impactful legacy of philanthropy.

“If you’re going to give a gift, try to be more broad in what you want the money to be used for,” she says.

“Northeast Ohio is unique. People grew up here, made money here, raised kids here and want to give back. It’s a very loyal, philanthropic community.”

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Boomer editor Marie Elium’s New Year’s resolution is to be more generous.

Holiday Gift Ideas

PRACTICAL & THOUGHTFUL GIFTS FOR OLDER ADULTS

By Marie Elium

If you’re lucky enough to have older adults in your life—and by older I mean older than you—then holiday giftgiving can be tricky.

Many of us are downsizing, or at least right-sizing. We have what we need, and usually, most of what we want. So what’s a gift-giver to do?

Here are gift ideas gathered from Boomer readers that hit the sweet spot: thoughtful or useful and, occasionally, both. See if any fit your gift-giving needs.

• A digital photo frame. These are great for farflung relatives who enjoy keeping up with family members but aren’t the texting types. Ranging in price from about $50 to $150, you can set it up for someone and give the access code to family members so they can upload photos and videos directly to the device.

• A template for their autobiography. One of the best gifts the grandkids gave my dad a few years ago was StoryWorth. For a year, he wrote a few paragraphs each week (based on prompts) about his life. His entries were turned into a hardcover book with photos. Everyone got a copy. You need to be computer savvy to do StoryWorth or similar programs, but some use typed or spoken transcripts to assemble a book.

• A live wreath for the front door or a seasonal arrangement for indoors are good gifts that can be ordered online, last a few weeks, and make everything cheery. Two places to try: L.L. Bean (llbean.com) for wreaths, and a local florist (if you know one) or UrbanStems (urbanstems.com) for arrangements.

• Gift cards seem like a cop-out, but we got several last Christmas and we’ve enjoyed using them for meals throughout the year. Why not offer to take an older person out for a meal, along with a gift card?

• If you know someone who likes to read, give a hard-copy best seller. They’re popular for a reason, and it’s a nice splurge for library-goers.

• Plan an outing to look at Christmas lights. Driving at night can be difficult for older adults. Grab an early dinner and drive around for an hour or so.

Meditation Moments

CQuiet Your Mind

By Margaret Briller

hecking the calendar daily for doctor appointments has become a habit these days. Aside from the physical checkups, I wonder how my aging mind is handling mental and emotional stresses that can’t readily be detected by a doctor or nurse practitioner.

Worrying, feeling out of control and fretting can work their way into our lives. How we manage these feelings determines our ability to keep our minds engaged and active as we age.

PRACTICAL HELP

Mindfulness and meditation are two ways of coping with these life stressors. That means being fully present and aware of the here and now while keeping our minds quiet, says Kerstin Yoder, Clinical Social Worker and Group Facilitator at Benjamin Rose in Cleveland.

“Mindfulness can be as simple as taking a walk outside, deep breathing, stretching or chair yoga, movement, music, dance or prayer, or just sitting quietly and clearing your mind,” says Yoder.

“For older adults, it means being present in the moment and being aware of what one is thinking and feeling at the time. It’s learning to notice what’s happening in the present moment without judgment and with acceptance.”

Mindfulness is a quality we already possess, using patience to tap into it. The key is being aware of where you are and what you’re doing, not allowing yourself to become overwhelmed by what’s going on around you.

Yoder suggests that beginners practice meditation with simple deep breathing and focusing on a single point or object while listening to relaxing music. Start with books, internet articles, audio scripts and apps like mindful.org.

Learn More

Just like our aging bodies, our aging brains are shrinking.

“Our present world competes for our attention in every area of life,” says Dr. Kathleen Rogers, Geriatric Medicine Specialist at Cleveland Clinic Akron General Hospital. “This leaves us often feeling unproductive, distracted and mentally exhausted. Mindfulness and meditation help to force our minds to slow down, and retrain our distracted minds back to focus on what is important amidst the noise of life. It is simply a tool that helps us create an awareness of our inner and outer environments.

“Studies have shown that mindfulness and meditation tend to promote social health and prosocial behaviors,” Dr. Rogers says. “This practice reduces stress hormones (cortisol) which directly impacts blood pressure, fatigue, mood (anxiety and depression) and sleep for the practicing individual.”

Other benefits include improved memory, increased attention, enhanced willpower, better sleep habits, less pain, lower blood pressure, less anxiety and less depression.

• Cleveland Clinic has the Stress Free App, which is only available for the Apple interface. It can help guided meditation and is good for beginners.

• Benjamin Rose offers group therapy and individual counseling through its Mental Health Day treatment program. Call 216-791-8000.

• If you prefer a group setting, the Mindfulness Club in Cleveland meets weekly to practice meditation. Find them on Facebook at Mindfulness Club Cleveland.

Practice these simple meditation steps daily at the same time, even if it’s just a few minutes to start. Over time, you will build discipline and skill with practice:

• Sit in a calm, quiet place with eyes closed or gazing down.

• Set a time limit of 5-10 minutes to start with.

• Be in a comfortable position you can stay in the whole time.

• Focus your attention on breathing. Once your breath focus is stable, you can shift to noticing thoughts, emotions, sensations and sounds as they rise and dissolve in your mind.

• When your mind wanders, gently return your attention to your breath.

• Close with a simple positive thought, such as “May I and all living beings be well, safe, nourished and healthy.”

Margaret Briller is a freelance writer in Northeast Ohio.

Winter,

COZY, COLD & SIMPLY COOL

By Marie Elium

Your Way Winter,

Life-wise and season-wise, it’s a tricky time.

Our get-up-and-go urge is strong but easily sidelined. Best intentions give way to cranky hips, family obligations and lousy weather.

Plus, what’s there to do, anyway?

We can’t fix bones, relationships or the weather, but we can help with a lack of imagination. Here’s a roundup of things to pass the upcoming winter months: Cozy activities, cold ones and cool stuff. Pop a Tylenol, tell the family you’ll get back to them and grab a coat. It’s time to restart your get-up-and-go.

We reached out to an expert in finding fun things to do: Cleveland Traveler editor Amanda Williams. Her suggestions are in italics.

Explore steamy Rockefeller Park Greenhouse & Botanical Garden

Small but captivating, this Cleveland-owned greenhouse on East 88th St., shakes those gray-day blahs with a stroll around the plants and seasonal displays. Follow up with lunch in Little Italy. One suggestion: Guarino’s. rockerfellergreenhouse.org, guarinoscleveland.com

Heat up at Akron Glass Works

Try your hand at flameworking (sounds hot), glassblowing, glass fusing and other artful endeavors: Akronglassworks.com. Another one to try: Glass Bubble Project in Ohio City.

Play bocce, gawk at Mosaics at Stone Mad Pub

The drinks and food are terrific at this Gordon Square Arts District pub. But what makes it special are the hand-blown chandeliers, bathroom mosaics and indoor bocce court. stonemadpub.com

Wander through Visible Voice Books (Tremont)

Local independent bookstores always give off cozy vibes, but Visible Voice Books also offers a few unique dining/private browsing options. They have a “Brunch and Browse” session on weekends; you can enjoy brunch, mimosas and private shopping time in the store, a dinner version, plus a new afternoon tea version during the week.

A purrfect place: Affogato Cat Cafe

Also in Tremont, Cleveland’s only cat cafe is a fun spot to spend some time in the winter. The cafe is home to adoptable cats, and you can book a timeslot to go and play with them (adoption not required; you can just go in to play with kitties).

Try the Wyne Tasting Bar

There are lots of great wine bars around Northeast Ohio, but we love this one in Cleveland because it has great wine-tasting machines that allow you to taste a bunch of different wines at your own pace in one place.

COZY

Your Way Winter,

COLD

Try snowshoeing at West Woods Nature Center in Geauga County

Bring your own, or borrow snowshoes from the Geauga Park District. Watch its Twitter(X) and Facebook pages for updates. Cleveland Metroparks offers an in-person guide at the South Chagrin Reservation. The best part? No dramatic tumbles. geaugaparkdistrict.org, clevelandmetroparks.com

Measure snow for the National Weather Service

We’re not kidding, and neither are they. The National Weather Service is looking for volunteers to measure and report to the Cleveland NWS each morning and evening when it snows. The data is used to help make forecasts and issue warnings or advisories. Want to learn more? Email rihard.garuckas@noaa.gov

with the subject line “Snow Spotter Volunteer.” Include your name, address and phone number; Rick will give more details. You can find where people are most needed at weather.gov/cle/Snow_Observations_Volunteer

Explore frozen waterfalls

If you’re going to bundle up and take a walk, why not see something interesting when you get there? Brandywine Falls in Cuyahoga Valley National Park drops 60 feet and is accessible via a boardwalk. Brandywine Falls is located at 8176 Brandywine Road. Another good one is in the Cleveland Metroparks Bedford Reservation. Head to Viaduct Park and follow a loop trail to The Great Falls of Tinker’s Creek.

Chill with Igloo dining

While this isn’t an outdoor activity, but outdoor-adjacent, several restaurants across Northeast Ohio put up plastic igloos for dining during the winter. These are usually equipped with a small heater and sometimes seasonal decor and are a fun way to enjoy “outdoor” dining in the winter months. Go to clevelandtraveler. com/heated-patios-cleveland for an updated list.

Feed birds at Brecksville Reservation Nature Center

This Cleveland Metroparks nature center usually has its “Hand Feed a Chickadee” program running on weekends in January and February, where you can hand-feed cute birds with a naturalist.

Discover the quirky & delightful Castle Noel

Trust us, leave the little ones at home for this place; it’s geared to the nostalgia-loving crowd. From Cousin Eddie’s camper to Cindy Lou Who’s bedroom set, plus every childhood toy you can remember, Castle Noel off Medina’s Square is just plain fun. Go ahead and take the slide at the end if your knees can manage it; splurge for the photo and create a Christmas memory. castlenoel.com Then walk down the block and eat at The Farmer’s Table. Don’t forget to visit the market there, too. thefarmerstablemedina.com

Step back in time at Lehman’s

Here’s a good way to spend a couple of hours (plus travel time to Kidron): Wander around sprawling Lehman’s hardware store in Amish Country. Family-owned, the store carries “products you probably thought they quit making years ago.” To get an idea of what you’re in for, visit lehmans.com

SIMPLY COOL

See the best rock art in Ohio at Hartman Rock Garden

We stumbled across this fabulous and free (donations welcome) rock garden, a visionary art environment by selftaught artist Ben Hartman in Springfield near Dayton (yes, that Springfield). Every intricate building was constructed between 1932 and 1944 with concrete, metal and other found objects. Open year-round, his creations fill the backyard of a house in a quiet neighborhood. Read about the garden and the artist at hartmanrocks.org

James A. Garfield National Historic Site (Mentor)

Visit the home of President James A Garfield, which also houses the first presidential library established in the United States. Free guided tours are offered daily.

Visit a unique museum

We know about the Rock Hall and our excellent art museum, but Cleveland has some cool small museums, too. Try the Buckland Museum of Witchcraft & Magick (Old Brooklyn), House from A Christmas Story (Tremont), and Museum of Illusions (downtown Cleveland).

Marie Elium is Boomer’s editor and prefers cozy over cold activities.

YOUR MONEY

MONEY-SAVING, Year-End

Tax Tips By Bill DeMarco

The holidays bring the joy and warmth of family and friends, and also an opportunity for smart financial planning.

To make this season even brighter, here are important tips to help you navigate potential tax moves before the year ends.

1. DEFER INCOME TO NEXT YEAR

Consider opportunities to defer income to 2025, if you think you may be in a lower tax bracket then. For example, consider deferring a year-end bonus or delay the collection of business debts, rents and payments for services. This may enable you to postpone paying tax on the income until next year.

2. ACCELERATE DEDUCTIONS

Find ways to accelerate deductions into the current tax year. If you itemize deductions, making payments for deductible expenses (qualifying interest, state taxes, medical expenses) before the end of the year (instead of paying them in early 2025) could affect your 2024 return.

3. MAKE DEDUCTIBLE CHARITABLE CONTRIBUTIONS

If you itemize deductions on your federal income tax return, you can generally deduct charitable contributions, but the deduction is

limited to 50% (currently increased to 60% for cash contributions to public charities), 30%, or 20% of your adjusted gross income (AGI), depending on the type of property you give and the type of organization to which you contribute. (Excess amounts can be carried over for up to five years.)

4. BUMP UP WITHHOLDING TO COVER A TAX SHORTFALL

If it looks as though you will owe federal income tax for the year, consider increasing your withholding on Form W-4 for the remainder of the year to cover the shortfall. Time may be limited for employees to request a Form W-4 change and for their employers to implement it in time for 2024. The biggest advantage is that withholding is considered as having been paid evenly throughout the year instead of when the dollars are actually taken from your paycheck. This strategy can be used to make up for low or missing quarterly estimated tax payments.

5. SAVE MORE FOR RETIREMENT

Deductible contributions to a traditional IRA and pretax contributions to an employer-sponsored retirement plan such as a 401(k) can reduce your 2024 taxable income. If you haven't

already contributed up to the maximum amount allowed, consider doing so. For 2024, you can contribute up to $23,000 to a 401(k) plan ($30,500 if you're age 50 or older) and up to $7,000 to traditional and Roth IRAs combined ($8,000 if you're age 50 or older).

The window to make 2024 contributions to an employer plan closes at the end of the year, while you have until April 15, 2025, to make 2024 IRA contributions. (Roth contributions are not deductible, but Roth-qualified distributions are not taxable.)

6. TAKE THE REQUIRED MINIMUM DISTRIBUTIONS

If you are age 73 or older, you must take required minimum distributions (RMDs) from traditional IRAs and employer-sponsored retirement plans (special rules may apply if you're still working and participating in your employer's retirement plan). You must make the withdrawals by the date required—the end of the year for most individuals. The penalty for failing to do so is substantial: 25% of any amount that you failed to distribute as required (10% if corrected promptly).

7. WEIGH YEAR-END INVESTMENT MOVES

You shouldn't let tax considerations drive your investment decisions. However, it's worth considering the tax implications of any year-end investment moves you make. For example, if you have realized net capital gains from selling securities at a profit, you might avoid being taxed on some or all of those gains by selling losing positions. Any losses beyond the amount of your gains can be used to offset up to $3,000 of ordinary income ($1,500 if your filing status is married filing separately) or carried forward to reduce your taxes in future years.

Bill DeMarco is an investment advisor representative with A&M Financial Group in Westlake. You can reach him at 440-249-0397, ext. 106 or go to amfinancialgroup.com. Advisory Services are offered through AMFG Wealth Management LLC, a Registered Investment Advisor. Note: You should not decide which investment options are appropriate for you based on tax considerations alone. Nor should you decide when (or if) to sell an asset solely based on the tax consequence. A financial or tax professional can help you decide what choices are right for your specific situation.

FAMILY Time

HOW’S EVERYONE DOING?

By Meg Pauken

Ilove the holidays, especially catching up with family members I don’t see often. It’s delightful to hear about the busy lives of college students and newlyweds and to hold the babies. It is also the perfect time to check in on older relatives: parents, aunts, uncles and others.

TALK AND OBSERVE

If you pay attention, you can get an idea of how they are doing during a conversation. Here are some key indicators that your older relative may need additional support:

• Observe physical and mental changes. Have they gained or lost weight? Are they having balance issues? Is their hygiene consistent with their normal? Do you see bruises or other signs of falls? Can they participate in conversations?

• Ask about doctor appointments. Are they keeping up with physician, dentist and eye doctor appointments? How are they getting there? What about vaccinations? Are they able to pick up prescriptions?

• Socialization. Are they active? Do they see friends and attend religious services? Are they up on current events?

If you see red flags, what should you do? In my experience, approaching the issue with respect

and a problem-solving mindset accomplishes more than simply taking charge of the situation. Give them a way to preserve their pride and independence by working with them to find a solution or support.

ASK THEM:

• Have you thought about who could help you manage your mail and pay your bills when you are unable to do that anymore? Do you have a power of attorney in place?

• Have you started to think about when to stop driving? Let's look at other transportation options for your doctor appointments and other errands.

• Health issues are no joke. Do you have health care directives, so that we know what kind of care you want? If you cannot make your own care decisions, who is your health care agent?

• I recently met with an attorney to review my estate planning. Do you have an attorney? Have you had a

will or trust set up for yourself?

• Home care is expensive, but we will help you find it if you need it. Did you know that Medicaid can cover some in-home services?

There is a golden window of time when an older person begins to lose memory but still has the necessary capacity to sign legal documents, like powers of attorney, healthcare directives, wills and trusts. It is crucial to make sure those things are done before that window closes. The alternative, if there are no planning documents in place, is usually guardianship.

The aunts and uncles who doted on you as a child may need your support at this time in their lives. Your parents may be reluctant to ask for help because they don’t want to be a bother. With some observation and an open conversation, you can ease them toward a safer holiday season, and put your mind at ease by helping them set necessary planning in place.

Meg Pauken is an attorney and owner of Pauken Legal Services in Chagrin Falls. She specializes in estate planning, elder law and special needs planning. You can reach her at paukenlegal. com or 440-468-0003.

MEDICARE

MEDICARE

Social Security and Medicare GETTING CONNECTED

What do Social Security benefits have to do with getting Medicare? That’s a great question that has several answers, depending on your age.

BEFORE YOU TURN 65

If you apply to start getting retirement benefits from Social Security (or the Railroad Retirement Board) at least 4 months before you turn 65, you’ll automatically get Part A (Hospital Insurance) and Part B (Medical Insurance) when you turn 65.

You’ll still need to make important decisions about how you get your coverage, including adding drug coverage.

If you want to get Medicare when you turn 65 but aren’t planning to take retirement benefits at that time, you’ll need to sign up for Medicare.

AFTER YOU TURN 65

Contact Social Security when you’re ready to sign up for Medicare.

Depending on your work situation and if you have health coverage through your employer, you may want to wait to sign up for Medicare.

Learn more at ssa.gov/medicare

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What Does Medicare Cost? THAT DEPENDS

Afriend and I were talking about Medicare the other day because we’re both at the age when that’s a legitimate conversation topic. We wondered, “When is Medicare free and when do we pay for it?

Here’s the lowdown from medicare.gov, a terrific website that spells out the ins and outs of the government health plan: Generally, you pay a monthly premium for Medicare coverage and part of the costs each time you get a covered service. There’s no yearly limit on what you pay out-ofpocket, unless you have supplemental coverage like a Medicare Supplement Insurance (Medigap) policy, or you join a Medicare Advantage Plan.

WHAT’S A PREMIUM, DEDUCTIBLE, COINSURANCE, OR COPAYMENT?

Costs for Part A (Hospital Insurance)

Costs: What you pay in 2024: Part A Premium

$0 for most people (because they paid Medicare taxes long enough while working - generally at least 10 years). This is sometimes called “premium-free Part A.”

DO I QUALIFY?

If you don’t qualify for a premium-free Part A, you might be able to buy it. In 2024, the premium is either $278 or $505 each month, depending on how long you or your spouse worked and paid Medicare taxes.

YOU ALSO HAVE TO SIGN UP FOR PART B TO BUY PART A

If you don’t buy Part A when you’re first eligible for Medicare (usually when you turn 65), you might pay a penalty.

Part A Deductible: $1,632 for each time you’re admitted to the hospital per benefit period before Original Medicare starts to pay. There's no limit to the number of benefit periods you can have.

Inpatient stays (copayments)

Days 1-60: $0 after you pay your Part A deductible

Days 61-90: $408 each day

Days 91-150: $816 each day while using your 60 lifetime reserve days

After day 150: You pay all costs

Margaritaville Magic at Boomer Bash East

We hate to pick favorites, but our Boomer Bash East in October was one for the record books.

Maybe it was the lovely setting at Signature of Solon, maybe we were just ready for a good party, but no matter the reason, we had a terrific time and hundreds of you were there to share it with us.

Boomer Bash East, presented by Northeast Ohio Boomer and Spry Senior Healthcare, brought together tropical island-style live entertainment (The Island Doctor), free appetizers, a sketch artist, photo booth shenanigans and more than 50 vendors with products and services geared to the 50+ audience.

The parrotheads embraced the Margaritaville theme and showed up in Hawaiian shirts, leis and other costumes to celebrate the popular event. In short, it was just plain fun.

If you missed this one, don’t worry; we’re coming back in 2025 with four more: Bash West in March, Bash Lake in June, Bash Summit in the fall, and Bash East in November. We’ll give you plenty of notice. Watch our website, northeastohioboomer.com, and weekly e-newsletter, The Beat, for updates.

See you in a few months.

Healthcare For This Season of Life

Presented by Spry Senior

As you age, your healthcare needs change—and you want a doctor who knows that and can help you address this stage of life.

At Spry Senior, everything we do is focused on older adults ages 58 and older. The care we provide extends beyond the normal primary care experience. With physicians and a care team dedicated solely to the healthcare of mature adults, Spry Senior has a unique perspective and level of expertise to offer you.

In addition to your physical health, we’re focused on your mental and social needs. So whether you need care for a chronic condition, help keeping your mind sharp or a community to keep you company, we’ve got you covered. Bonus: We accept most major insurance plans, including Medicare.

For starters, we offer longer appointment times because we know that older adults have specific healthcare needs that often require more time and attention. Older adults experience physical changes, such as a slowing metabolism, endurance and cognition/mental understanding—as well as losses of bone density and muscle mass.

Many are also dealing with the long-term effects and impact of chronic health conditions such as hypertension, heart disease, cancer, stroke and diabetes. This is also a time of many life changes and transitions, which can bring about anxiety, depression and even social isolation. That’s why, on average, your

appointment lasts about 30-45 minutes—and even longer the first time you visit us. We see you a minimum of four to five times a year, so we can help you stay on top of your health.

In addition to more time with your doctor, we provide a hub of services, including:

Comprehensive care coordination: We know that sometimes you may need care not provided at our facilities. If you need to have diagnostic tests done or see a specialist, we’ll coordinate your care—wherever you choose. We’re here for you, from making your appointment to providing directions, to ensuring you have insurance preapprovals and more.

Same-day appointments for urgent care: When you have an acute illness or injury, we’ll get you treated quickly by a provider.

Onsite lab and point-of-care testing: By having these services in the same building, we give you a one-stop shop that eases both your time and travel.

Free transportation to and from appointments: Some of our patients can’t or no longer drive. We offer this free service to remove this stressor and provide a little extra TLC!

ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS

Best of all, we’re accepting new patients. We have three locations in Greater Cleveland: Brook Park, Solon and Strongsville. Strategically placed in communities throughout the city, all locations have free and convenient parking, and they are all on one level, so you can walk right in. You can view the locations at sprysenior.com/ locations.

If you want to learn more about Spry Senior, you can get to know us one of two ways:

Schedule a tour: We give personalized tours at each of our three locations. Simply call 440-5926200 to find a time that is convenient for you.

Come to an open house: Open houses are hosted monthly at our Brook Park and Strongsville locations. During these events, you can meet our care team, take a tour of our facility, and hear all about how primary care, fitness, health education and social events come together under one roof!

And if you’re ready to get started with Spry Senior, then your first step is scheduling a new patient appointment between 8 a.m. and 4:30 p.m., Monday through Friday. You can either call 440-592-6200 or, if you are a MyChart user, sign in to MyChart to schedule an appointment.

Everything we do at Spry Senior is designed to keep your mind and body active and help you thrive! Whether we’re treating a chronic condition, holding fitness classes, providing transportation to appointments, helping you navigate the healthcare system, or hosting gatherings to build social connections, we’re focused on you.

We’re focused on more than just your health because we know that being your best involves a lot more. We also offer fitness classes, educational classes and fun social events to help you find your passions and your people. Some of our offerings include:

FITNESS ACTIVITIES

Cardio Drumming

Chair Yoga

Line Dancing

SilverSneakers Classic

Bingosize

EDUCATIONAL CLASSES

Brain Games

Grief Support Group

Chronic Disease Management

Diabetes Self-Management

Understanding Medicare

SOCIAL EVENTS

Bingo and Birthday Celebrations

Open Cornhole Play

Guided Painting Team Trivia

EXPERT CARE for ages 58+

As you age, your healthcare needs change. And you want a provider who gets that—and you. At Spry Senior, we‘ve designed a healthcare experience just for those ages 58+.

■ Primary health and wellness care

■ Comprehensive care coordination

■ Same-day appointments for urgent care

■ Onsite lab and point-of-care testing

■ Free transportation to/from appointments

■ Fitness, social and education activities

Visit us 8 am – 4:30 pm Monday through Friday, call 440-592-6200, or sign into MyChart.

Choices & Quality with Global Meals

Presented by Global Meals

Global Meals has been the premier leader in providing home-delivered meals since the summer of 2006. Our first delivery route consisted of 16 people who are still relying on our services today.

Eighteen years later, we proudly serve more than 17,000 consumers across all 88 counties in Ohio and parts of Indiana. Our focus is steadfast in providing nutritious and delicious meals for seniors and adults with disabilities. Certified by ODA & Medicaid, we provide meals to individuals enrolled in Medicaid Waiver, MyCare Ohio, DODD, and local city levy programs.

We understand that people have diverse dietary needs; we offer meals tailored to Kosher, vegetarian, vegan, sodiumcontrolled, and gluten-restricted diets. Our menu includes frozen, refrigerated and shelf-stable meals for breakfast, lunch and dinner. We have flexible delivery options, whether customers require weekly, biweekly or monthly meals.

Our executive chefs design menus that are approved by licensed dietitians. We take great pride in providing meals that not only taste great but also meet our consumers’ nutritional needs. Whether someone is recovering from an illness, managing a chronic disease, or desires independence, Global Meals is here to provide convenient and nutritious meal solutions.

We offer a complete nutritional solution, ensuring our consumers receive top-quality meals and exceptional service. We serve our customers with dedication and compassion, understanding the significance of a healthy and balanced diet in maintaining overall well-being. Thank you for allowing us to be part of your journey towards better health and independence. Choose Global Meals for the best meal delivery experience.

Making a Difference with Meaningful Care

Presented by Home Instead

Home Instead is a trusted provider of compassionate, in-home care for seniors, dedicated to enhancing the quality of life for aging adults and their families.

Our mission is to empower seniors to live independently in the comfort of their own homes while receiving the personalized care and support they deserve.

We stand for dignity, respect and compassionate care, ensuring that each senior feels valued and cared for as if they were our family.

We offer a wide range of services tailored to meet each client’s

unique needs, including personal care, companionship, meal preparation, light housekeeping, medication reminders and assistance with activities of daily living.

Our caregivers are trained to provide specialized support for conditions like Alzheimer’s, dementia and chronic illnesses, ensuring comfort and safety at every step.

It is our honor and privilege to provide such meaningful care, and we take pride in making a difference in the lives of seniors.

Our recent credentialing as a VA provider expands our ability to serve veterans, which fills us with excitement and pride. We are committed to ensuring that those who have served our country receive the compassionate, high-quality care they deserve.

At Home Instead, every senior and veteran is treated with the utmost care and respect, as part of our commitment to enriching lives.

In-Home Senior Care: Friendly, Professional Help

Presented by Seniors Helping Seniors Chagrin Valley

Seniors Helping Seniors Chagrin Valley (SHS) is delighted to serve the east side of Cleveland’s suburban area. We are an in-home senior care company that provides services for seniors who may need assistance to age with dignity and grace in their homes. We’re proud to hire mature, older caregivers who provide this service so it’s like getting help from a friend, and it opens the door for mutual understanding and respect between the two adults.

Our services range from companionship and a helping hand around the house, to ensuring our clients get to appointments safely and on time, and assistance with bathing, dressing and memory care. We meet our clients where they are to help them make the most of their

day and stay active as they age. Care can be provided in the senior’s home, or we visit our clients at their independent or assisted living community to augment services provided by the facility.

We often work with family members seeking assistance for a loved one. Knowing there is a caregiver you can trust and rely on to provide care for a family member can provide peace of mind and alleviate the stress of worrying if everyone is safe and sound.

Curious about where we find our caregivers? Some have been providing support and serving

as caregivers for others most of their careers, and as they get older, they want to work with a team that appreciates their experience. Others have the heart of a volunteer and want to stay active themselves while making new friends and trying something new. Check out our website or give us a call to learn more.

SHS is owned by Heather L. M. Maver, an Army veteran and business owner with a passion for building great teams that provide excellent service.

Thank You to Our Exhibitors

Advanced Functional Chiropractic Center

440.708.6643 advfunctionalchiro.com

Advocare Clinic

All American Gutter Protection 216.346.9363 allamericangutterprotection.com

Anna Maria of Aurora 330.562.0600 annamariaofaurora.com

Apex Skin 330.607.1454 apexskin.com

Asset Protection 814.860.3101 assetprotectionltd.com

Balance Solutions Physical Therapy 440.449.3400 balancesolutions.com

Bath Fitter 440.926.6331 bathfitter.com

Berson-Sokol Agency 216.464.1542 berson-sokol.com/

Better Business Bureau 216.241.7678 BBB.org

BrightStar Care of Hudson/Solon 330.963.7777 brightstarcare.com/hudson-solon

CapTel Outreach 216.556.4070 oeius.org

Cleveland Senior Network 216.409.8140 clevelandseniornetwork.org

Devoted Health Plans 800.338.6833 devoted.com

Echo Hospice 216.703.7704

Edward Jones 440.248.7734 edwardjones.com/us-en/ financial-advisor/russel-kendall

Eliza at Chagrin Falls 440.543.4221 elizajennings.org

Engel & Völkers

Distinct Real Estate

440.568.0400 clevelandevrealestate.com

The Health Plan

HearingLife 440.600.7151 hearinglife.com

Hines Hill Senior Living 330.653.2059 hineshillliving.com/ Humana 216.816.5645 humana.com

Institute for Learning in Retirement - East 440.826.2400 bw.edu/ilr-east

It’s Just Lunch Cleveland 216.328.9026

itsjustlunchcleveland.com

Jennings 216.581.2900 jenningsohio.org

The Junkluggers of Cleveland, Mentor & Solon 440.299.8711 junkluggers.com

Kabb Law Firm 216.991.5222

kabblaw.com

La Danse Cleveland 216.464.5325 ladansecleveland.com

Laurels of Chagrin Falls 440.313.3768

cienahealthcare.com/locations/ laurels-of-chagrin-falls/ LeafGuard 330.304.5828 leafguard.com

Long Term Care Ombudsman 216.696.2719 ltco.org

Maltz Performing Arts Center 216.368.0295 case.edu/maltzcenter

Michael Roy’s PAPER MAGIC 330.678.3362 michaelroysfold.com

Murphy Funeral Home 440.247.3400 murphyfamilyfuneralhome.com

Neptune Society 216.573.0852 neptunesociety.com/locations/ohio/ cleveland-cremation-5499

Ohio Senior Medicare Patrol 800.293.4767 proseniors.org/ohio-smp/

Rent a Daughter Senior Care, Inc. 216.364.1111 rentadaughter.org

Reserve Hearing Center 440.376.5405 reservehearing.com

Road Scholar 800.454.5768 roadscholar.org

Senior Lifestyle Solutions of Ohio 440.665.2156

Solon Pointe Healthcare 440.498.3000 solonpointehc.com

Spa Lavender 440.394.8633 spalavendermassage.com

Stocker Arts Center - Lorain County Community College 440.366.4140 stockerartscenter.com

StretchLab Pinecrest 216.342.4740 stretchlab.com/location/pinecrest Thrivent 440.534.0222 connect.thrivent.com/ abundance-financial-group

Unique Home Solutions 330.460.6950 uniquehomesolutions.org

United Healthcare 216.407.2406

MyuhcAgent.com/CharlesJennings

Unity Catholic Federal Credit Union 440.886.2558 unitycatholiccu.org

Vector Security 330.233.4727 rickcarnahan.com

Wellcare 844.917.0175 wellcare.com

IMATURE LIVING SHOWCASE

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HEALTHCARE FOCUS: HOSPICE & PALLIATIVE CARE

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Shared Commitment

To a Life Well-Lived

Presented by Lee Ann O’Brien of McGregor

McGregor has been caring for seniors for almost 150 years. During that time, historic milestones have shaped our legacy today to support seniors and those who care for them.

Seniors’ needs have changed, and McGregor has accommodated those needs. This began with the Home for Aged Women, formed in 1877 by capitalist and philanthropist Amasa Stone, and his wife Julia. The Home for Aged Women served “Protestant Gentlewomen” 65 and older.

Three decades later, the A.M. McGregor Home was built to include men, as well. Both homes accommodated the elderly who had experienced financial hardship.

As the senior population grows, so does McGregor. When the Home opened, it only had availability for 25 residents, later merging with the Home for Aged Women, renamed

the Amasa Stone House, in 1987. Supporting the rising senior population, the Amasa Stone House began to open its doors to men for the first time. The two homes for the elderly were combined into one facility in 2004 to increase efficiency.

These unprecedented changes led to the creation of the A.M. McGregor Group, which developed a strategic plan to continue extending its resources beyond the campus. Additionally, The McGregor Foundation, formed in 2002, awards nearly $1 million per year in grants to organizations supporting its mission of education, services and resources to older adults.

Fast forward to today; McGregor offers a continuum of care options for seniors in all seasons of retirement, including independent living, assisted living, nursing care, rehabilitation and hospice. This ensures our residents

PALLIATIVE CARE OR HOSPICE?

Many people confuse palliative and hospice care. Both focus on the comfort, care and quality of life of seriously ill people.

HOSPICE is a type of palliative care that is provided in the final weeks or months of life.

PALLIATIVE CARE can be provided along with treatment with the hope that someone can be cured. Palliative care could transition to hospice care if the doctor believes the person is likely to die within six months.

Source: National Institute on Aging

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compassionate, comfort-focused care tailored to each patient’s needs. Our services are available in the home, a chosen facility, or our general inpatient units. Our dedicated hospice team focuses on relieving physical, emotional, and spiritual discomfort, offering a truly supportive experience. To learn more about O’Neill Healthcare’s palliative and hospice care services, please visit our website or call us at (440) 328-8141. A nurse is always available to speak directly with you (not an answering service), and we can arrange an informational visit or begin care within 24 hours.

can stay on our campus as their needs change. As more seniors are aging in place, McGregor PACE, or Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly, allows them to maintain independence in their homes while immersing themselves in the community, expanding throughout Lorain and Summit counties.

At McGregor, we celebrate the history that has shaped who we are today, enhancing our services along the way. We are here to help you through life transitions to improve the experience of aging for years to come. Your journey is personal. We help you get there. Secure your place in the senior living community that brings together lifelong care. McGregor, a name greater Clevelanders have lived by for more than 148 years.

11/29-12/22

HOLIDAY LIGHTS

5:30-9

p.m. Wednesday-Sunday. Carlisle Equestrian Center,13630 Diagonal Road (drive-through), and Carlisle Visitor Center,12882 Diagonal Road (in person) in LaGrange. loraincountymetroparks.com. FREE loraincountymetroparks.com

11/29-12/30

DECK THE HALL

Come see the estate illuminated with over one million lights on select evenings. Stan Hywet Hall & Gardens, 714 N. Portage Path, Akron, stanhywet. org. $9-24

What’s Happening

CLASSES

MONDAYS

Dream Circle. Learn the importance and meaning of your dreams in a group setting led by a psychologist. 1st and 3rd Mondays. 6-7:15. Shaw JCC of Akron, 750 White Pond Dr., shawjcc.org. $10/month

TUESDAYS

Realism in Watercolor. Learn to paint

the fruit that looks good enough to eat, or a flower that you can almost smell. 11/19-12/17. 4-6 p.m. Bay Arts, 28795 Lake Road, Bay Village, bayarts.net. $200

SATURDAYS

Loom Weaving. Learn how to calculate your warp, dress the loom and weave the sampler. 2-4:30 p.m. The Peninsula Art Academy, 1600

Mill St. W., peninsulaartacademy. org. $35

SUNDAYS

Songwriting Workshop. This 7-week workshop will focus on elements in a collaborative setting with the goal of developing songwriting skills. 1/12-2/23. University Heights Branch Library, 13866 Cedar Road, heightslibrary.org. FREE

11/19

Creative Aging Institute: Art Glass. Designed exclusively for adults 55+, this program offers in-depth, quality art-making experiences taught by contemporary artists.1-4 p.m. Akron Art Museum, 1 S. High St., akronartmuseum.org. $5

12/5

Wellness Through Art. This Splatter Canvas class begins and ends with brief relaxation or easy meditation. 6:30 p.m. Akron ArtWorks, 1684 Merriman Road, Akron, akronartworks. com. $27.50

12/7

Brunchtime Clay. A time of relaxation and socialization around the potter’s wheel. 11 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Valley Art Center, 155 Bell St., Chagrin Falls, valleyartcenter.org. $55

12/15

Kayak Skills: Capsize Recovery. Learn how to exit a capsized kayak, perform a self-rescue and more. 9-11:30 a.m. Amherst HealthPlex, 47160 Hollstein Dr., Amherst, loraincountymetroparks.com. $15

1/6

Estate Planning for Digital Assets. Learn how to ensure that your estate plans deal with your digital assets according to your wishes. 7-8 p.m. Westlake Porter Public Library, 27333 Center Ridge Road, westlakelibrary.org

1/9

Craft & Laugh - Frida Sangria

An enjoyable, enlightening evening exploring one of our most famous artists of the past and splashing paint around on a canvas in their honor. Bay Arts, 28795 Lake Road, Bay Village, bayarts.net. $65

FITNESS

TUESDAYS

Pickleball. Designed for players with limited experience. Class will consist of drills, strategy, game and more. 9-10 a.m. 12/3-12/17. Mentor Community Recreation Ctr., 6000 Heisley Road, cityofmentor.com $36-60

THROUGH 11/30

Trekking Through Autumn. Hike eight or more designated trails and

receive an award. Medina County Park District, medinacountyparks. com. FREE

Fall Hiking Spree. Explore the colors while enjoying the fall colors. Firstyear hikers earn a staff and shield. summitmetroparks.org

THROUGH 12/31

Wild Hikes Challenge. Walk, hike, skip, jog, run or stroll on eight designated trails before Dec. 31 to earn a hiking staff (first year) and/ or a 2024 Wild Hikes medallion. portgageparkdistrict.org. FREE

11/21

Senior Hike. Enjoy a slower-paced group hike for all ages on an ADAaccessible trail. Noon. Portage Hike & Bike, 535 Cleveland Road, Ravenna, portagecounty-oh.gov. FREE

11/28

Cleveland Turkey Trot. A Thanksgiving morning tradition for the entire family. 7 a.m. Public Hall, 500 Lakeside Ave., Cleveland, turkeytrotcleveland.com. $30-35

WHAT´S HAPPENING

12/4

Strength Training. Exercising with weights increases muscle mass and strength, while benefiting balance, bone density and overall wellness. 1-2 p.m. Cleveland Heights Senior Activity Center, 1 Monticello Blvd., chparks.com, $40-45

12/9

Sound Bath. This ful- body relaxation experience will help with stress, tension, sleeplessness, anxiety, depression, grief, physical pain, addiction and more. North Ridgeville Senior Center, 7327 Avon Belden Road, North Ridgeville, nridgeville. org/SeniorCenter.aspx. $20-30

12/21

Winter Hike-a-Thon. Ring in the winter season with the shortest day of the year, by hiking all day at several Stark Park locations. 7:30 a.m.-5 p.m. starkparks.com

1/7

Balance & Strength. Try this simple class to boost strength and balance. 2-3 p.m. Berea Branch Library, 7 Berea Commons, cuyahogalibrary. org. FREE

1/13

Full Moon Snowshoe Hike.

Moonlight and moon shadows accompany us on this evening snowshoe adventure. 7-8:30 p.m.

Penitentiary Glen Reservation, 8668 Kirtland-Chardon Road, Kirtland, lakemetroparks.com. $5

MUSIC, THEATER & ARTS

TUESDAYS

Martinis & Music. Live music and $10 martinis. 6-9 p.m. Sapphire Creek Winery & Gardens, 16965 Park Circle Dr., Chagrin Falls, sapphirecreek.com and Orchid House Winery, 155 Treat Road, Aurora, orchidhousewinery.com. FREE

11/21-12/22

Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat. An irresistible family-friendly musical about family! Go on the journey of the trials and triumphs of Joseph, the 11/23

Bird Feeder Buffet

Get information about bird feeders you can buy or make yourself this season to keep visitors and year-round residents well-fed. 2-4 p.m. Furnace Run Metro Park, Brushwood Area, 4955 Townsend Road, Richfield, summitmetroparks.org. FREE

favorite son of Israel. Beck Center for the Arts, 17801 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, beckcenter.org. $18-44

11/29-12/22

Matilda The Musical. Captivating masterpiece that revels in the anarchy of childhood, the power of imagination and the inspiring story of a girl who dreams of a better life. The Fine Arts Association, 38660 Mentor Ave., Willoughby, fineartsassociation.org

$19-29

11/30-12/22

A Christmas Story. The record-breaking show returns in all its pink-bunnysuit, glowing-leg-lamp, triple-dog-daring glory. Allen Theatre at Playhouse Square, 1407 Euclid Ave, Cleveland, playhousesquare.org

$37.50-85

12/7

Vegas After Dark. From Sinatra to Bennett to Prima to Darin, with a mix of Barbara, Peggy and more, experience Vegas like you’ve never heard it before. 7:30 p.m. The Lorain Palace Theater, 617 Broadway, Lorain, lorainpalace.com. $20-40

12/12

The Frank & Dean Show. What better way to celebrate Frank Sinatra than singing along to his music than on his birthday? French Creek Theatre, 4530 Colorado Ave., Sheffield Village, loraincountymetroparks. com/theatre. $15

12/22

Chestnuts Roasting: A Cozy Christmas Concert

with Bryan Eng. 7-9 p.m. The Music Settlement at the Bop Stop, 2920 Detroit Ave., Cleveland, themusicsettlement.org $20

2/23

Tour Severance Music Center. Learn the history

and legends as patrons visit the Jack, Joseph, and Morton Mandel Concert Hall, Bogomolny-Kozerefski Grand Foyer, and more. 1 p.m. Severance Music Center, 11001 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, clevelandorchestra.com

WHAT´S HAPPENING

SPECIAL EVENTS

11/22-24

Medina Candlelight Walk. Shops and restaurants of the nine-block Medina historic district will be open later to welcome local residents and visiting guests. Medina Public Square, mainstreetmedina.com. FREE

11/26

Project Evergreen: Working to Create Healthy Green Spaces. A low-power Happy Hour Event. 5-7 p.m. The Conservancy for CVNP, Happy Days Lodge, 500 W. Streetsboro St., Peninsula, conservancyforcvnp.org. $10

11/30-12/29

Country Lights Drive-Thru. Enjoy the festivities from the warmth of your own vehicles. 6-8:30 p.m. Lake Metroparks Farmpark, 8800 Euclid Chardon Road, Kirtland, lakemetroparks.com. $27.50/car

12/7

Light Up Lakewood. The most joyous of Lakewood traditions is returning to Downtown Lakewood for the 16th annual celebration. 4-8 p.m. 14701 Detroit Ave., Lakewood, lakewoodalive.com. FREE

Greens for Giving. Help create evergreen decorations to be given to older adults. 2-3 p.m. The West Woods, 9465 Kinsman Road, Russell, geaugaparkdistrict.org. FREE

12/8

Hudson Holiday Walk. Join the Merchants of Hudson as they welcome shoppers and diners with activities for the entire family. 12-4 p.m. firstandmainhudson.com. FREE

12/12

Stan Hywet Hall and Gardens Holiday Tour with Hartville. Enjoy lunch at Hartville Kitchen and tour Stan Hywet mansion and decorated gardens. Great Day Tours, 375 Treeworth Blvd., Cleveland, greatdaytours.com. $119

12/15

Birrrrding Big Day Bus Tour. Push your idea of birding to new frontiers on this winter birding bus trip. 7 a.m.4 p.m. North Chagrin Reservation Nature Center, 401 Buttermilk Falls Pkwy., Mayfield Village, clevelandmetroparks.com. $55

12/17

Winter Spree. Relish in a joyful cocktail reception, wrap up your holiday shopping in the boutique marketplace. Then, enjoy a private holiday concert followed by an exquisite three-course dinner. 5:30 p.m. Severance Music Center, 11001 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, clevelandorchestra.com. $200+

ONGOING

Funny Bus Comedy City Tour. These tours feature a special route and combine comedy, history, holiday music and games, and Christmas lights to provide a unique entertainment experience. funnybus. net/cleveland. $29

TALKS

THURSDAYS

University Hospital HOT Health Topics. Be informed about hot topics for seniors. 11/21 & 12/19. 1:30 p.m. Ehrnfelt Recreation & Senior Center, 18100 Royalton Road, Strongsville, ehrnfeltrecreationcenter.com. FREE

11/18

The Financial Fatigue of Caregiving: Virtual. Learn practical strategies and resources to help you navigate these challenges effectively. Noon-1 p.m. Benjamin Rose, benrose.org. FREE

12/2

Grandparenting Today. Lively discussion for grandparents-to-be and new grandparents about the changes in birthing and infant care practices. 6-9 p.m. Fairview Hospital Wellness Ctr., 3035 Wooster Road, Rocky River, clevelandclinic.org. $15

12/4

10 Warning Signs of Alzheimers. Learn the difference between normal aging and Alzheimer’s,

common warning signs, the importance of early detection, and more. 6:30 p.m. Green Branch Library, 4046 Massillon Road, Uniontown, akronlibrary.org FREE

12/5

Diabetes and Food. Designed for individuals at all stages of diabetes, the workshop aims to empower you with the skills and knowledge to effectively manage your health through clean eating. 6:30 p.m. Strongsville Branch Library, cuyahogalibrary.org. FREE

12/8

The Care and Handling of Treasures at Home. Discussion on how to handle, care for, and eventually pass on your family treasures. 3-4 p.m. Fairmount Center for the Arts, 8400 Fairmount Road,

Novelty, fairmountcenter. org. FREE

1/16

Backyard Habitat: Winter Sowing. Learn about this outdoor seed-starting technique that requires just two things: miniature greenhouses and Mother Nature. 6-7:30 p.m. Sippo Lake Park-North, 5712 12th St. NW, Canton, starkparks. com. FREE

3/13

Beekeeping 101. Are you curious what all the buzz with beekeeping is about? Find out how you can get started with just a few supplies and a can-bee spirit. 6-7:30 p.m. Quail Hollow Park Manor House, 13480 Congress Lake Ave., Hartville, starkparks.com FREE

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WEDNESDAYS

Siegal Lifelong Learning: Pablo Picasso. Look at Picasso’s early works, blue-and-rose periods, cubism, sculpture, masterpieces, and more. 10-11:30 a.m. 1/8-29. 25700 Science Park Dr., Beachwood, case.edu/ lifelonglearning. $90

ONGOING

Program 60. Ages 60+ may register for regularly scheduled credit and noncredit classes on an audit, tuition and fee-free, space-available basis. Cuyahoga Community College, tri-c. edu/program-60

Institute for Learning in Retirement. Winter classes begin Jan. 6. Baldwin Wallace University, 325 Front St., Berea, ilrbw.org. $25

Thrive in ‘25

Course Audit Program for Senior Citizens (CAPSC). Classes begin January 13. Case Western Reserve University, 10900 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, case.edu

GIVE

ONGOING

Become a SCORE Business Mentor. Receive training and resources to mentor any client. SCORE volunteers are successful business owners, executives or experts with real-world experience in every sector. score.org

Retired and Senior Volunteer Program (RSVP). RSVP is more than just a connection—it’s a bridge for volunteers aged 55 and older to actively engage and make a meaningful impact in their communities. vantageaging.org

Volunteer with Greater Cleveland Volunteers. Be a Meals on Wheels driver, a hiking club assistant, a blood drive volunteer and much more. greaterclevelandvolunteers.org

Volunteer with the Salvation Army

By lending a helping hand, you’ll have the chance to uplift individuals and families facing adversity, offering them hope, resources and a pathway to a better future. salvationarmyusa.org

ENJOY THE ARTS

WEDNESDAYS

Chamber Music in the Galleries. A concert series featuring young artists and faculty from CWRU on the first Wednesday of the month between December and May. 6-7 p.m. The Cleveland Museum of Art, 11150 East Blvd., clevelandart.org. FREE

SATURDAYS

Playhouse Square Public Tours. See the largest theater restoration project in the world and find out how these gems were saved from the wrecking ball. Third Saturday of each month. 10-11:30 a.m. 1519 Euclid Ave., Cleveland, playhousesquare. org. FREE

SUNDAYS

Reggae Sundays. A different Reggae group will perform each week. 4 p.m. Music Box Supper Club, 1148 Main Ave., Cleveland, musicboxcle.com FREE

2/1-23

Fat Ham. Shakespeare’s Hamlet has been invited to the backyard barbecue. Get your plate ready for a slab of smokin’ hot revenge, served with a hefty scoop of vengeance, and a side of karaoke. Cleveland Play House, Allen Theatre, 1407 Euclid Ave., playhousesquare.org. $37.50-85

2/7-3/30

Jersey Boys. Follow the fascinating evolution of four blue-collar kids who became one of the greatest successes in pop music history. Weathervane Playhouse, 1301 Weathervane Lane, Akron, weathervaneplayhouse.com. $16-36

GET FIT

MONDAYS

Tai Chi for Health. Specially designed, flowing movements and practices have been shown to improve muscle strength, reduced pain and stiffness, and joint flexibility. 9:30 a.m. Lyndhurst Community Center and 10:45 a.m. Richmond Hts. Kiwanis Lodge, communitypartnershiponaging. org. FREE-$4

TUESDAYS

Geauga Walkers. Join other active older adults on the second and fourth Tuesdays of the month for hikes. 1-2:30 p.m. geaugaparkdistrict.org FREE

Adult Ballroom. This class is the perfect introduction to ballroom dancing, including American Smooth, American Rhythm, and Latin social dance. 1/7-2/11. BW Community Arts School, 611 W. Bagley Road, Berea, community. bw.edu. $95

WEDNESDAYS

Lake Erie Wheelers Weekly Ride

Make friends with a great group of cycling enthusiasts and attend annual parties and gatherings. 6:30 p.m. Berea Library Commons, lakeeriewheelers.org. FREE

TUESDAYS & THURSDAYS

Movin’ and Groovin’. Move to upbeat music through a variety of exercises designed to increase muscle strength, range of motion, and balance. Tuesday at noon, Thursdays at 11:30 a.m. 129 W. Pioneer Trail, Aurora, auroraoh. com. $2

Holidays are Easier Now…

ON THE MAILMAN By Mike Olszewski

For many of us who grew up during the golden age of television, our holiday wish lists were filled with toys we saw on our black-and-white TVs. When ad executives realized the powerful influence of commercials, advertising took a dramatic turn; the electronic babysitter doubled as a salesperson.

PERSUASIVE JINGLES

On television, WEWS-TV spun a daily yarn about some adventure that used the day’s featured toy to resolve the situation. It was followed by the familiar: “Available on Halle’s seventh floor.”

Old local commercials can be found on YouTube and are fun—yet uncomfortable—to watch. Young girls were encouraged to prepare food in their Easy-Bake Ovens and to master baby’s hygiene needs with Betsy Wetsy, a doll that wet itself. The boys were directed to Alpha Male Land with G.I. Joe, phony machine guns, helmets and hand grenades. Robots directed us into a macho-fueled future. Remco’s Whirlybird helicopter came under fire from angry parents who had to explain to distraught children that the helicopter didn’t fly as shown in the commercial.

It wasn’t only phony military weapons we were pitched. No home should be without “The Untouchables” toy replica of the Thompson M1 submachine gun. Mob boss Frank Nitti might come knocking on your door. His kids had the same guns he did.

TV ads aside, the tradition of the department-store catalog had staying power. TV ads were over in a minute, but the catalogs from Montgomery Ward, Sears, The May Company and others were huge. Each weighed two to three pounds and had color photos you could moon over until you were disappointed on Christmas morning. What a bummer. My parents bought the toys but not the batteries to run them; batteries were a luxury that wasn’t part of our holiday plan. Anything that ran on batteries just sat there; my “Lost in Space” B-9 robot became a statuette.

Surprisingly, many of those catalogs are being reprinted for nostalgia fans. Years back, they were mailed free to your home, later tossed during spring cleaning. Now we’re paying to put them on our bookshelves.

While we welcomed the annual Christmas catalogs, mail carriers had a different view. I had the same mailman for many years and heard plenty of stories about the backbreaking work, especially during the holiday card crush.

I commented to him one time, “I bet you loved the catalog season.” There was a pause, his eyes glassed over and his face sported an uneasy look. Let’s just say, his reaction didn’t match the spirit of the holidays.

Mike Olszewski is a veteran award-winning radio, TV and print journalist. Contact him at janmike1978@gmail.com.

Last issue, I asked about an actress who grew up in Lakewood and was best known for her role in a TV series about a character who could fly. Some folks contacted me with possible answers and I would only say they were close. They were right that it was “The Flying Nun,” but not Sally Field. It was Marge Redmond who played Sister Jacqueline.

Next time, according to legend, this Ohio-born performer turned down an offer to sing the final song at the Woodstock festival.