Bride UP NORTH
FALL/WINTER 2011
NORTHERN MICHIGAN’S LONGEST-RUNNING WEDDING GUIDE PUBLICATION
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 1
9/15/11 4:20 PM
inside
Bride UP NORTH
is published by Northern Michigan Review, Inc., 319 State Street, Petoskey, Michigan 49770
6
Editorial Maggie Peterson, Special Publications Coordinator Morgan Sherburne Aebra Coe Mark Lindsay
On the cover The real-life love story of the bride on our cover
Design Wendy Wolfsen (231) 347-2544 wwolfsen@petoskeynews.com
Flowers In-season blooms
10
16
Contributing Photographers North Star Photography Photography by Paquette Scott Breithaupt Photography RJ Scott Photogrpahy Jim Nelson Photography e.c. campbell photography Paul Retherford Photography Shutterbugs Photography AREA PHOTOGRAPHERS: Send us a CD of your best wedding shots to use in the next issue of Up North Bride Send or drop off to: Up North Bride, 319 State St., Petoskey, Michigan 49770
Photography Finding the style for your occasion
Retail Advertising Christy Lyons, advertising director (231) 439-9329 clyons@petoskeynews.com
Dressing up the details Tips on getting cosmetically ready
20
Sticking to the plan Wedding planners for bride and groom
24 28
Beth Flynn, sales representative (231) 439-9328 bflynn@petoskeynews.com
Thinking ahead What to have on hand for the big day
Bride UP NORTH
SPRING/SUMMER 2012
30 32 40
Personal touches Choosing a theme for your wedding
38 2
The dress Alteration and preservation
Reception The role of the DJ
The emcee Making your day flawless
NORTHERN MICHIGAN’S LONGEST-RUNNING WEDDING GUIDE PUBLICATION
SPRING/SUMMER 2012
42
Cakes & desserts Finding the “flavor” of the event
Work begins on our spring issue in February. If you are a wedding-related business, put your message in front of those who are looking for your help — engaged couples in Northern Michigan.
Published: Late March, 2012 Deadline: February 20, 2012
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 2
9/16/11 9:04 AM
Tips and Tricks Make-up tips Spa dos & don’ts Ceremonies Ideas for the non-traditional
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 3
3
9/15/11 4:20 PM
Plan A Farm Wedding Apple Town Brutus Michigan k k k k
Tuxedos & more at
The AClothes T Post Menswear Store
Monday-Saturday 9:30 am - 5:30 pm Evenings by appointment (231) 347-4562 326 E. Mitchell Street • Petoskey, Michigan • theclothespost.com
100 year old Barn Tent area Scenic Creek Bridal Party Hay Ride
Enjoy everything our quaint property has to offer. C Contact our wedding planner 231.347.8203
Preferred vendor Kowalke Photography 231.758.4133 lmkowalke@gmail.com
All things Petoskey Stone & more!
From the engagement ring to the wedding ring Unique one of a kind Petoskey Stone frames for all those special moments. Also available: One of a kind Freshwater Pearl Jewelry Petoskey Stone Serving Pieces Bridesmaids & Groomsmen Gifts
www.lindamichaels.net (231) 347-0261, 313 E. Lake Street, Downtown Petoskey
4
Social & Corporate Event Planning 231.547.5061 merrymkr@chartermi.net www.merrymkr.com
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 4
9/15/11 4:20 PM
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 5
5
9/15/11 4:20 PM
On the Cover
S H U T T E R B U G S PH OTO G R A PH Y
Destiny’s set-up BY M AG G I E P E T E R S O N UP NORTH BRIDE
I
t’s almost out of a movie — two moms put their heads together and set up their children. But so begins the real life love story of Natalie and Jim Cantrell of Alanson. “Our mothers work together, and we were both single at the time. Our mothers conspired
6
and shared our phone numbers,” Natalie said. The pair had never met before, but they weren’t completely unknown to each other. Jim had seen Natalie around town. Natalie knew Jim’s younger brother through her work at Littlefield schools, and had mutual friends with his older
siblings — but she didn’t put it together that he was one of those Cantrells. He gave her a call. “I asked her if she liked football, and she said yes,” Jim recalled. “And I didn’t,” Natalie said with a laugh. But it didn’t matter, as the
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 6
9/15/11 4:20 PM
S H U T T E R B U G S PH OTO G R A PH Y
game wasn’t what kept their interest that first date — it was a connection. Natalie said she was excited at the end and happily surprised at how easy it was to talk to Jim. “We had a lot to talk about, and a lot more in common than we realized, I think,” she noted. It was about a month after that first date that Jim invited Natalie out with his friends after the Littlefield-Alanson Fire Department’s Christmas party. It was the night of their first “I love you,” and the night that Natalie knew Jim was the one for her. She couldn’t quite put into words how she knew, but “There are times you find yourself thinking about that person and have but-
terflies in your stomach.” It was about a bit more than a year before the proposal — and a cover-up — came. “I lied to her,” Jim deadpanned. He told Natalie that he was going downstate to help his brother and sister-in-law hang drywall. Instead, he was on a mission to buy a ring. Natalie was unaware of his intentions, further convinced when Jim’s sister-in-law called her to talk about the construction. “She thanked me for letting him come down to help — shenanigans, I tell you,” she said. Only a few days passed before Jim proposed. “(The ring) was obviously
burning a hole in my pocket,” Jim said. The couple was engaged in February 2010. Natalie said she was trying to take a nap before they both had to head out to work meetings, when she felt Jim nudging her awake. “‘Hey, wake up,’” Natalie quoted, her voiced hushed. “And then he just asked. ‘Hey, will you marry me?’” The Aug. 28, 2010, wedding was planned around the annual visit north by Natalie’s grandparents. The Cantrells were married at the United Methodist Church in Petoskey, with the reception at Holy Childhood community center in Harbor Springs. ➣
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 7
7
9/15/11 4:20 PM
Destiny’s set-up Continued from page 7 The pair has supported each other during important moments — Jim earning the position of fire captain and Natalie leading the varsity volleyball team to a district win. Both cheer on Jim’s children at sporting ventures — 5-year-old J.D. claims he’ll play T-ball for the Detroit Tigers, and 8-year-old Alyvia plays on the soccer team. Maintaining a sense of family is part of what each admires about the other. “Jim is a tremendous father, but he also puts others first always. And his family is very important to him,” Natalie said. Jim added, “She’s caring, loving, and she also puts people way in front of herself ... And she loves my kids, and that’s really important to me.” ■
Classic & Contemporary Photography Packages to fit every need Custom Album Design Custom DVD Slideshows Framing & Finishing Services
Mention This Ad And Receive a 15% Discount
Rachel & Pennie Reid 231.330.5023 info@shutterbugs-photography.net www.shutterbugs-photography.net
S H U T T E R B U G S PH OTO G R A PH Y
See more of our work on the cover of this issue!
" 1
98PÛM@<NÛ@EE 5
&
0
4
,
/ & : 4* - " / , % . " 3
$
&
Intimate and Romantic.
Capture the grace and romance of a bygone era with a wedding at Stafford’s Bay View Inn, located in historic Bay View. Our elegant Victorian décor and beautiful gardens gives you the perfect options, indoors or out. “Buy out” the Inn and have it all! ÝWedding Receptions ÝRehearsal Dinners ÝBridal Showers & Luncheons ÝOn-site Event Coordination For details, contact our Group Sales Department, 231-347-6030 or kristinac@staffords.com.
Paul Retherford Photography
STAFFORDS.COM/WEDDINGS
8
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 8
9/15/11 4:20 PM
Offering you a choice of ministers & ceremonies
Weddings, Vow Renewals & Holy Union Ceremonies
Bella e Dolce
Starting at $250
231-582-2908 email: kenandjudygrimes@aol.com www.northernmichiganministers.com
Cakes
Rev. Ken Grimes Rev. Judy Grimes
& Pastries Wedding Cakes, Pastries and Special Occasion Cakes
tavlastudio.com exemplifying the fine art of wedding photography
231-625-8232
email: bellaedolce@prodigy.net
www.bellaedolce.com t: 231.715.6814 e: info@tavlastudio.com
Kim Sperl, Pastry Chef
Graduate of Le Cordon Bleu Paris, France
with Pedicures and Manicures
“Forget the Limo”
Party Bus
bachelor/bachelorette parties & weddings w w w. b o y n e b u s . c o m • ( 2 3 1 ) 6 7 5 - 4 0 1 6 or tour bus at Boyne City Motel
Tanning... Look Good, Feel Great!
Special Discount Rates (up to a group of 12) • Sunless Airbrushing • Specialty Hair • Facial & Body Waxing
SUNKISSEDSALON&SPA 1407 Standish Avenue (Next to the Football Field) Petoskey • 231-348-8520 2264 M-119 (Clocktower Plaza) Petoskey • 231-348-8292
www.sunkissedsalons.com UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 9
9
9/15/11 4:20 PM
Flowers
PAU L R E T H ER FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
Affordably
in-season BY M O RG A N S H E R B U R N E UP NORTH BRIDE
O
ver the past several years, locavores — those interested in eating food grown locally — have been on the rise. Increasingly, that interest may be transferring to brides and their choice of blooms. Still, many brides concentrate first on a certain look before considering whether the flower is in season, said William Santos, owner of Monarch Garden & Floral Design in Petoskey. “Traditionally, brides always chose white and pink,” said Santos. “Now, they’re willing to
10
go a little outside of the box and want a romantic look, a lush look, and want to add texture to arrangements.” Last year, said Santos, the big color was orange; this year, it’s blue. And when brides settle on a flower too soon, before they know what’s available and in season, they can get a little sticker shock. Peonies are one such example. “Brides like them: they’re fluffy and big,” he said. “When you get local peonies in season at local farmer’s markets, they’re very inexpensive, $3 or $4. When they’re not avail-
able, they jump to a $6, $7 or $8 bloom.” Spring flowers such as tulips increase in cost when out of season, and other seasonal blooms such as hyacinth, peonies, lilacs and fall-colored mums may be entirely unavailable. That could push some brides to think about what flowers are in season and local. “Using local is a great choice, and I think that it appeals to me, and I hope some brides, to use flowers that are in-season,” said Jennifer Haf, owner of BLOOM Floral Design Studio in Bay Harbor. “It can be nostalgic, with the flowers blooming
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 10
9/15/11 4:20 PM
at the same time every year, and costeffective.” Aside from flowers that simply aren’t available out of season — lilacs, for example — Haf said many flowers are attainable year-round, thanks to a global market. “There are some price fluctuations, but they’re not huge,” said Haf. “We get things from Australia, Holland and everywhere in between. ... If we get flowers from within the states, it’s even better, and local is best, if that’s an option. The flower market has really become to be on a global scale.” Flowers available in the summer in Northern Michigan are garden flowers such as zinnias, snap dragons, scabiosa and delphinium. “Willow is a great option for fall, as well as deep, dark calla lilies, deep red roses and seeded eucalyptus, which is a sage green,” said Haf. “Fall-colored mums are available, and it is a great time to tie in your richer earth tons — plums, ambers and burgundies.” Both florists agree that winter presents its own difficulties — not only in finding out-of-season flowers, but the shipping difficulties Northern Michigan winters present. “Winter storms make things complicated,” said Santos. “And sometimes it is so cold, that even if we get next-day delivery, the flowers freeze. ... We have to wrap all our arrangements in plastic to keep them from freezing.” Something wedding parties forget to consider, too, is taking care in getting photos taken outside: the harsh weather can freeze the wedding party’s bouquets. “In the winter, we do a lot of silvery greenery with white — dusty miller and different tones of white,” said Haf. “It’s more of a tranquil, but gorgeous, time of year.” And though brides should keep seasonality of flowers in mind, mainly to keep an eye on their budgets, Santos said brides can be sure florists will work with them to create a look they want. “For us, there is always someone growing something somewhere,” said Santos. “There is always an option to offer to brides that is similar.” ■
EC C A M P B E L L PH OTO G R A PH Y
PAU L R E T H ER FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 11
11
9/15/11 4:21 PM
Celebrating with you
On the Bay
BEAUTY CENTER
Outstanding Little Traverse Bay views Imaginative American cuisine personalized for your special event
Wedding Receptions Rehearsal Dinners Engagement Parties Bridal & Baby Showers Private Meeting Room
231-348-7092 Downtown Petoskey 215 East Lake Street
For menus and more, visit whitecapsrestaurant.com
Instant access to all your favorite AVON products. Now offering a variety of Bridal Jewelry and Accessories. www.youravon.com/ltrombly
989-732-0802 Located in the Wal-Mart Plaza, Gaylord
CALL 231-818-0468 FOR RESERVATIONS & RATES! 12
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 12
9/15/11 4:21 PM
Historic 1914 Church Beautiful Architecture
Centrally located in downtown Harbor Springs
231.445.1793
PASTOR MARY SWEET www.umcharborsprings.com
www.PaulRetherford.com www.Facebook.com/paulphoto
United Methodist Church of Harbor Springs
343 E. Main St. (corner of Main & Gardner) â&#x20AC;˘ Harbor Springs â&#x20AC;˘ 231.526.2414
The Most Memorable
Honeymoons
YEAR AFTER YEAR Weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re rockinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; the party!
Begin at Andrew Kan Travel Service Serving the travel needs of Northern Michigan Since 1939!
The Jelly Roll Blues Band is ready to bring the music (and the fun) to your wedding reception.
Andrew Kan Travel Service
Call Bill at 231-526-2257.
Ask about our Hawaii specials! Petoskey â&#x20AC;˘ 231-347-8122 â&#x20AC;˘ 1-800-748-0305
Have an
jellyrollbluesband@charter.net W W W. J E L LY R O L L B L U E S B A N D . C O M
Island Wedding DRUMMOND ISLAND RESORT
Outdoor Chapel â&#x20AC;˘ Receptions â&#x20AC;˘ Rehearsal Dinners Honeymoons â&#x20AC;˘ Golf Outings â&#x20AC;˘ Romantic Escapes
'FBUVSJOH UIF DVMJOBSZ FYQFSUJTF PG $IFG 3JDI 5SBWJT GPSNFSMZ PG 'PSUĂ? #JSNJOHIBN 5SJCVUF 'BSNJOHUPO )JMMT -BUJUVEF #BZ )BSCPS 5BQBXJOHP &MMTXPSUI
3FIFBSTBM %JOOFST t 8FEEJOH 3FDFQUJPOT H Q #SJEBM 4IPXFST t &OHBHFNFOU 1BSUJFT
0VS CFBVUJGVM WJFXT PG UIF $IFCPZHBO 3JWFS ZH PÄ&#x160; FS B QFSGFDU TFUUJOH GPS ZPVS FWFOU
Drummond Island Resort & Conference Center is an ideal wedding or honeymoon destination. We feature waterfront fine dining, reception venues, outdoor chapel and unique lodging at our 40 room log lodge and 20 individual log cottages. Call for an island wedding planner today. www.drummondisland.com 1-800-999-6343
Jim Nelson Photography
/PSUI . $IFCPZHBO .* 1JFS 0O ÉŠ F $IFCPZHBO UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 13
13
9/15/11 4:21 PM
Join Us! Papa Lou’s welcomes large or small bachelor/ bachelorette parties, rehearsal dinners, bridal/ baby showers and any other special occasion! We offer a full service bar and an eclectic menu ranging from Italian to American cuisine that is sure to please. Coming in October hang out in our NEW Billiard’s hall upstairs! Lunch and Dinner 7 days a week Take out available
317 Lake St., Petoskey • 231-348-3663
WWW.PAPALOUS.US 14
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 14
9/15/11 4:21 PM
R J S C OT T PH OTO G R A PH Y
" 1
G<IIPÛ?FK<C 0
&
5
4
,
/ & : 4* - " / , % . " 3
$
&
Downtown and Elegant.
Set your special day at Stafford’s Perry Hotel, overlooking Lake Michigan’s Little Traverse Bay. Choose from exquisite indoor facilities year ‘round, or outdoor garden settings seasonally. Located in the heart of Downtown Petoskey. ÝWedding Receptions ÝRehearsal Dinners ÝBridal Showers & Luncheons ÝOn-site Event Coordination
Excellence in Custom Wedding Reception Entertainment
231 348 8185 • www.plu-ent.com
For details, contact our Group Sales Department 231-348-60177 or email angiew@staffords.com.
Loon Lake Photography
STAFFORDS.COM/WEDDINGS UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 15
15
9/15/11 4:21 PM
PH OTO G R A PH Y BY PAQ U E T T E
Photography
It’s all about
style
BY M A R K LI N D S AY UP NORTH BRIDE
D
eciding which photographer to use at a wedding can be a difficult
thing. But knowing what their individual style is can be a big help when choosing. When you pick your photographer you’ll want to have some knowledge on what to look and ask for. But before you even start to interview potentials, sit down and talk about what is important for both of you. “Knowing what you’re looking for will give you a good starting point,” said RJ Scott, of RJ Scott
16
Photography in Cheboygan. Establish whether you want black and whites, color or both. Couples should discuss whether candid shots are more your taste than portraits, or maybe you want a mixture of both. This all leads to the style you’ll be looking for. “There are three main styles for most photographers — photojournalism, traditional and artistic,” Scott noted. A photojournalist or documentary style photographer will typically work in black and white shots, often designed to
tell the story of the wedding. “A photographer that works with natural light in different settings can be the most effective,” Scott said. A traditional or classic photographer will typically work in color and black and white, and concentrate on the milestones of the wedding day and setting up portraits. “Portrait-style shots can be the best way to remember important parts of the wedding and reception,” Scott noted. “It can be good to get some of these shots regardless of the basic
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 16
9/15/11 4:21 PM
style.” An artistic style photographer will typically work in black and white. This approach produces dramatic photos of a specific style. “This type of photographer is good to have in addition to one with style similar to photojournalism and traditional techniques,” Scott noted. When you look at a photographer’s style, make sure to note how many portrait, posed and candid shots they have in their portfolio. “It’s a good idea to sit down and look at one or two wedding packages a potential photographer has done,” Scott said, as this will help you determine their technique and give you an idea of how they’ve shot previous weddings. Another big aspect of choosing the photographer is their fee structure. Before setting a budget, plan for the photography to be about 10 percent of your wedding budget. Every professional will have a different set of fees, depending on what they offer. “The most common trends in photography fall into the categories of traditional or posed photography,” said Michelle Northington, of Northington Photography based in Petoskey. “In most cases the photographer basically is in control of portions of the entire day, directing and leading a series of portraits at each location,” she added. “Understanding the differences is crucial for any bride and groom so that they avoid disappointment with the results that their wedding photographer provides,” Northington noted. “They should have a discussion about shots they must have during the first meeting with a photographer.” Scott noted there can be an overlap between styles. “Often we find ourselves taking many styles of shots to accommodate specific requests from the ➣
R J S C OT T PH OTO G R A PH Y
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 17
17
9/15/11 4:21 PM
It’s all about style Continued from page 17 bride and groom, which is perfectly OK,” he noted. Considering the requests for different styles, there is a tendency for the “hybrid” style photographer to be an expert at meeting the needs of the bride and groom. “If you have seen a photographer’s work and his/her images look perfect and natural looking or like a painting, they can probably manage most shots,” Scott noted. The best wedding photographers find great locations with bright colors, interesting textures and perfect lighting. They will then direct the couple to stand in a position and act like the photographer isn’t there. “There may not be a set style of photographer to capture these shots; rather, it will be a reflection of overall skill and technique,” Scott noted. When the hybrid photographer is not posing and staging couples, he changes his style and approach by capturing candid photographs of the day. If you prefer that your photographer stay out of the way and allow you to spend most of your day interacting with your guests you may choose an artistic style photographer only. “The more artistic shots will be candid and less posed, and may include a mix of guests, not focusing on just the wedding party,” Scott said. If you would rather have perfect images that require your photographer to interact with you, or a mix of both, use the photographer’s expertise in utilizing lighting and settings. “Don’t be afraid to make a list of what you want and work with your photographer to get the shots just as you want them,” Northington said. In order to know for sure that the photographer will capture the wedding as you see it, do the work well beforehand and spend time viewing many photographers’ works. “As you see more and more different photographers’ wedding packages, you’ll get your own eye for styles and have a good idea what to choose,” Northington noted. Regardless of what style is chosen or the specific photographer used, the key to getting exactly the right pictures starts with as knowing what you want and not settling for anything less. ■
18
EC C A M P B E L L PH OTO G R A PH Y
PAU L R E T H ER FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
J I M N E L S O N PH OTO G R A PH Y
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 18
9/15/11 4:21 PM
NORTHERN MICHIGAN’S LEADING
Wedding Gown Specialist
Over the year years we have counted it a privilege involved in hundreds of weddings to have been in and have enjoy enjoyed knowing that on that special played a small part in making the day we play complete and preserving her gown bride’s day com ffor or yyears ears tto o ccome. ome.
TRUSTED T RUSTED | PRO P PROVEN RO | EXPERIENCED Petoskey P etoskey - 2231-347-4600 31-347-4600
Bradford’s B df d’ Master M Dry Cleaners
621 Pleasant St. Across from Big Boy
Gaylord - 989-732-0700
Alpine Cleaners
150 S. Wisconsin Ave. In Glen’s Alpine Plaza
10 off %
Your Environmental Green Earth Cleaner Bring in this ad for B Wedding Gown Cleaning & Wedd Preservation
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 19
19
9/15/11 4:21 PM
Details
PAU L R E T H ER FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
Steps to look your best BY A E B R A C O E UP NORTH BRIDE
B
rides are often concerned with looking their best for their wedding because of the slew of photos and eyes directed their way. There are a few steps brides can take in order to feel confident enough to not spend energy thinking about their appearance and concentrate on more important things on their wedding day.
Basic treatment
Pam Gardner, owner of Fiji Salon and Spa in Petoskey, offers some simple, relatively inexpensive options for looking beautiful for a wedding. Services offered by her salon that are useful to brides and bridal parties include tanning
20
beds, teeth whitening, spray tans, skin treatments, massage therapy, a dry sauna and haircuts and styling. Gardner suggested bridal parties come in for a relaxing massage and detoxifying sauna treatment before getting their hair styled and makeup done at the salon. “We offer complimentary tea, coffee and snacks to wedding parties and have special deals when groups come in,” she said. Teresa Marie, one of the stylists at the salon, said she offers services to the bride for free when an entire bridal party comes in for hair and makeup. “We try to provide a stressfree, relaxing environment for the bride — that is our primary goal,” said Gardner.
A cosmetic approach
There are more extensive measures that can be taken by brides to enhance their appearance before their wedding. Courtney Sumpter, PA-C, clinical director at Cosmetic Skin and Laser Center in Petoskey, said, “It’s a special day in their lives, so brides want to feel their best, and they want to look as good as they feel.” Sumpter said before the wedding, brides are often interested in skin rejuvenation, eyelash extensions and body sculpting services provided at the center. Skin rejuvenation procedures available include chemical peels, microdermabrasion, acne treatments and Botox. Sumpter suggests brides and mothers of brides interested in these treatments plan on getting them a
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 20
9/15/11 4:21 PM
month or two before the wedding. Positive outcomes of these treatments, according to Sumpter, include smoother skin that is more even and toned with microdermabrasion and chemical peels, and reduction of crow’s feet with Botox use. A few days to two weeks before the wedding, many of Sumpter’s clients opt for a “red carpet treatment,” an oxygen infusion facial which can increase skin hydration, firmness and reduce fine lines, according to Sumpter.
Pearly whites
For a more drastic smile restoration than simple whitening treatments, cosmetic dentist Dr. David Ellsworth of Harbor Pointe Dental in Petoskey provides several options. Ellsworth said the most popular service he provides for brides is composite veneers, where a layer of tooth-colored composite is used to straighten and shape teeth. He said these veneers are very strong and require minimal drilling. “Added self-confidence is the biggest advantage to the cosmetic enhancement of teeth. It’s nice to be able to smile for photos and feel confident about the way you look,” said Ellsworth. He said that depending on the extent of the work that needs to be done and number of teeth that are altered, this process takes about four or five hours. He suggested clients do the procedure three to six months before their wedding so alterations can be made to the veneers as needed before the event. Another popular procedure at Harbor Pointe is Smart Moves invisible braces. This is similar to Invisalign braces, but
less expensive, according to Ellsworth. He said they take six months to two years to make major changes. The office also offers several different priced options for clinical teeth whitening.
Getting fit
One of the biggest ways women choose to make changes in their appearance before a wedding involves diet and exercise to improve fitness. Sara Kessler, certified personal trainer for Solace Spa at Boyne Mountain in Boyne Falls, has been in the field for four years. Her advice for soon-tobe brides or recently engaged women is to begin training right away. “It usually takes about six months to see substantial results with a workout or diet program,” she said. Kessler suggested those who are less familiar with exercise and diet consult a professional for a plan leading up to their wedding. “If you’re only working out
and not focusing on a healthy diet, you will not see much in the way of results,” she said. She suggested brides contact a nutritionist to ensure they get the right nutrition for their body. “Finding a workout partner is a great way to stay motivated,” she commented, noting pairing up with the maid of honor for exercise sessions as an idea. Kessler recommended brides try a mix of different exercises and activities to keep their body and mind challenged and prevent burnout. According to the trainer, a realistic goal for women is to lose one to two pounds per week. She said crash dieting can be harmful and doesn’t contribute to an overall healthy lifestyle. “If you’re dedicated to your exercise and diet plans, you should see a difference in about six weeks,” she said. “That weight was probably put on over the course of 10, 15 or 20 years, so it’s unrealistic to expect it to go away in a month.” ■
PAU L R E T H E R FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 21
21
9/15/11 4:21 PM
Fabulous flowers for your wedding
By
Christiansâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Renolda 692 East Lake Street Harbor Springs
231-526-2851 www.christiansgreenhouses.com christiansfloral@aol.com
The Knights of Columbus and Sweetwater Catering can make your special event a time to remember. Two Rooms Available: Little Bay Room up to 125 people Big Bay Room up to 500 people
Air Conditioned All Occasions Any Event Petoskey
KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS HALL Call for details 347-4461
1106 Charlevoix Ave., Petoskey, MI 49770 www.knightsofcolumbushallrentalpetoskey.com
22
From weddings, rehearsal dinners and other family events to corporate functions, we have the menu to accomodate the range of reasons 6563 Indian Garden Rd. Petoskey, MI 49770 to Celebrate. Find out how we can www.sweetwatercateringcompany.com Tastefully prepare & present your next special occasion.
231.347.5998
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 22
9/15/11 4:21 PM
Historic Banks
Jim Nelson Photography
Township Hall
Tucked cked away awa in the quiet q iet village ill llage l of Ellsworth
Please consider us for your wedding reception. Call 231.588.7361 for 2011 Rental Rates & Available Dates www.bankstownship.net
PB
PETOSKEY BRIDAL S I N C E 1 9 6 8 Bridals • Tuxedos Mothers • Maids • Flowergirls Shoes • Jewelry • Accessories 1391 LEARS ROAD PETOSKEY, MI 49770 • WWW.PETOSKEYBRIDAL.COM PHONE: 231-347-6922 • FAX: 231-347-0243 • PETOSKEYBRIDAL@YAHOO.COM
Classic & Contemporary Photography Wedding Packages for Elopements to All Day Weddings Own a DVD of your wedding photos www.JimNelsonPhotography.biz
877-537-2925 I 231-537-2925
Invitations
That Say Something... Your wedding invitations should reflect your personality as a couple. We have a wide variety of styles for every budget. Let us help you find the invitation that’s right for you. • Specializing in Wedding Packages • Lakeview Rooms & Suites • Complimentary Super Start Hot & Cold Breakfast
Save the Date Cards, Invitations, Envelopes, Announcements, Response Cards, Wedding Programs, Thank You Notes & Napkins!
• 24/7 Pool& Spa • Conveniently located to restaurants & shopping • Look For Us On Face Book
We look forward to you staying with us! WE ARE HERE TO SERVE
231.439.8000 • 2645 Charlevoix Ave. • Petoskey super8ofpetoskey@yahoo.com
The Print Shop 324 Michigan Street, Petoskey, MI (231)347-2000 • fax: (231)347-3124
email: printshoppetoskey@sbcglobal.net
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 23
23
9/15/11 4:21 PM
BRIDE’S PL ANNER Planner
A wedding should be planned in stages with every decision made as early as possible. Begin by setting deadlines, then check off each task as you complete it. 6-12 MONTHS BEFORE
Choose wedding bands and engraving.
C hoose the bridesmaids, groomsmen, ushers and honored roles.
P lan rehearsal dinner and bridesmaids’ luncheon.
Have formal black/white photo sitting for announcements.
Complete guest list and address invitations.
M eet with the florist, photographer, caterer, videographer and DJ or entertainment to discuss budgets and options.
Purchase gifts for attendants and groom.
Draw up guest list with fiancé and families.
Arrange for time off work if necessary.
Choose the kind of wedding you will have, date and time. Discuss the budget, and who will pay for what. Make arrangements with the officiator. Reserve the wedding and reception locations. Select your wedding dress, veil and accessories.
S end announcements of your engagement to bride’s and groom’s local and hometown newspapers.
Plan reception music and reserve band or orchestra. Contact rental coordinator for equipment reservations. D iscuss honeymoon and reservations. (Traditionally the groom makes all the honeymoon arrangements.) Buy a good, sturdy notebook to store brochures and notes. D evelop record-keeping system for invitations, RSVPs, gifts and thank-you notes.
4-6 MONTHS BEFORE
24
2 MONTHS BEFORE
Plan new living arrangements and home furnishings. Select and register wedding gifts and patterns.
M ake arrangements for lodging for out-of-town guests. Plan reception seating if necessary.
Confirm all arrangements and contracts.
Pick up wedding rings.
Attend final fittings.
Schedule any tanning, manicures, etc.
Open joint checking and savings accounts.
Write thank-you notes as gifts are received.
Order bridesmaids’ dresses, shoes and accessories.
O rder invitations, announcements, programs, napkins, matchbooks and thank-you notes.
P lan ceremony, reception, menus, master of ceremonies and music.
Order dress and accessories.
Have parents select attire.
Check marriage license requirements.
1 MONTH BEFORE
Select color scheme.
Contact men’s formalwear specialist for men’s attire.
Order wedding cake.
M ail invitations so they will arrive three weeks before the wedding. A rrange for transportation to ceremony and from ceremony to reception. H ave your hair and makeup done as your would like to have it on your wedding. Purchase guest book and keepsake album. C ontact your insurance agent about naming your fiancé as beneficiary on your life insurance, will and auto policies, and about buying homeowners’ and floater insurances to protect wedding fits. D ecide on a budget and savings program. Discuss them with your financial representatives.
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 24
9/15/11 4:21 PM
2 WEEKS BEFORE
Get marriage license.
Arrange to have your own gown pressed and delivered.
Make arrangements for moving into your new home.
G ive caterer final guest count. Don’t forget the wedding party, photographer and DJ. A rrange to change your name on driver’s license, Social Security card, credit cards, bank accounts, insurance, etc.
1 WEEK BEFORE
Pack for honeymoon. Give bridesmaids’ luncheon/party, give attendant gifts. Confirm directions, housing, timetables with attendants. Brief head usher of any special seating arrangements. Arrange for rental returns.
1 DAY BEFORE
Pack the “going-to-church” bag and “emergency” bag. Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. F ind a quiet moment to give your fiancé his wedding gift.
THE WEDDING DAY
Have a nice, relaxed breakfast. Have hair and makeup done. Relax, and let the planning take care of itself.
PAU L R E T H E R FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 25
25
9/15/11 4:21 PM
GROOM’S PL ANNER Planner
12 MONTHS BEFORE
Select engagement ring.
S elect attendants and at least one usher for every 50 guests.
Decide on ceremony and reception with fiancée.
D iscuss wedding plans and budget with fiancée and all parents.
9 MONTHS BEFORE
A rrange a visit with clergymember or justice of the peace to discuss ceremony.
Start compiling your guest list. D iscuss honeymoon destinations with fiancée; consult travel agent.
6 MONTHS BEFORE
A rrange to pay for bride’s bouquet; order boutonnieres and corsages.
Visit gift registry with fiancée.
A rrange transportation to ceremony and reception for wedding party.
Complete honeymoon plans. F or travel abroad, update passports, visas and inoculations.
3 MONTHS BEFORE
Complete guest list; give to fiancée.
Shop for honeymoon clothes.
Plan rehearsal dinner with parents.
A fter consulting fiancée, order wedding attire for yourself and ushers. Order wedding rings. A fter consulting fiancée, reserve a block of hotel rooms for out-of-town guests.
6-8 WEEKS BEFORE
26
Help fiancée with thank-you notes for gifts.
J I M N E L S O N PH OTO G R A PH Y
2 WEEKS BEFORE
Go with fiancée to get marriage license.
Attend bachelor party.
Buy gifts for fiancée and ushers.
Double-check honeymoon reservations. Arrange to move belongings to new home.
1 WEEK BEFORE
R emind ushers of rehearsal dinner details (give them the gifts that night).
P ut officiant’s fee in a sealed envelope and give it to best man to deliver after the ceremony.
E xplain any special seating arrangements for family members, etc., to ushers.
Purchase traveler’s checks.
Get legal and religious papers in order. Pick up wedding rings; check engraving.
A rrange for transportation from the reception to the airport, if applicable.
Pack for honeymoon.
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 26
9/15/11 4:21 PM
Get that picture perfect smile with: Keep it white with Chic-Flic to go whitening pen & lip plumper.
Full Salon Services:
• High Quality Spray Tans • 4 Levels of tanning - monthly packages available • Massage - Walk-ins welcome • Infra Red Sauna - great for weight loss • Red Light Therapy - good for acne, scars and age spots • Hairstyling - Updo’s & More
Custom Salon Parties
Have your own private party! Special packages available... call the Salon for more details or to set up an appointment.
Glens North Plaza • 1143 US 31 N., Petoskey • 231.622.8665 • fijisalonandspa.com
We enjoy helping you with the details of your wedding! WEDDINGS • BANQUETS • PARTIES
No one helps you say
‘I do’ like we do
.
From large to small … Taylor Rental has it all: • Fine China - several patterns • Linen Tablecloths • Stemware & Flatware • Tents - Assorted colors & sizes • Lighting • Crystal & Glassware • Chafing Dishes • Banquet & Round Tables • Chairs - white wooden, chivari • Dance Floors
We’re more than just products at work.®
1888 E. Mitchell Street, Petoskey
(231) 347-1840
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 27
27
9/15/11 4:21 PM
Planning ahead
Packing for the
big day
BY M O RG A N S H E R B U R N E UP NORTH BRIDE
T
here is a law — Murphy’s Law — which dictates that anything that can go wrong, will. Chances are, a bride’s wedding day is not immune to this phenomenon. Often, said Kris Rundblad, owner of MerryMakers Wedding, Social and Corporate Event Planning in Charlevoix, last-minute glitches ranging from a button that has popped off to a forgotten wine key can sometimes complicate an otherwise potentially stressful day. “In general, we hope not to have stressed-out brides or grooms or parents,” she said. “Planning ahead is the ticket and being prepared, sort of like a Scout.” To alleviate the stress, and to add a level of damage control to situations that might require it, Rundblad recommends a multi-part emergency bag. For the jitters and stress, remember antacid and pain relievers, and shoes not entirely broken in might require
28
bandages or blister protection. Though a bride’s significant other may not notice a hair out of place or smudged lipstick, for perfect pictures, pack tissues, blotting papers, tweezers, cotton swabs, deodorant, sunscreen, an emery board, lip balm or a small makeup kit, bobby pins, a comb, lotion, powder, a mirror and nail polish in case of chipping. And if you’re truly accident prone, you might just skiff your dress with lipstick as you’re touching up. In that case, white chalk can be used as a stain masker. Other clothing must-haves include a sewing kit with needles, thread, buttons and safety pins. Double-sided tape can keep clothes in place, instant hemming tape can fix a tear in a dress, clear nail polish will stop a stocking run in its tracks and scissors can snip trailing threads. Finally, Rundblad often sees a more nuts-and-bolts side of weddings, concerned with glitches that might happen with decorations. She has a
toolbox filled with scissors, tape (both regular and duct tape), utility knives, a staple gun, ribbon, corsage pins and wrist converters, wine opener, pens, plastic bags and cloth and paper towels. She finds tie wraps — those plastic zip ties whose end you thread through the head of the wrap and cinch tightly — especially helpful. In particular, Rundblad uses tie wraps when she wants a table linen to have a gathered or flower effect. To alleviate stress on the bride, assign this toolbox out to someone else, especially if you don’t have a wedding planner. This list has come in handy, Rundblad said: once, she had to make a toss bouquet out of her ribbon and the flowers that decorated the wedding cake. No one was the wiser. Just call Rundblad the McGyver of weddings, and brides, with their own go-to bag of personal items and tools, might also be able to be their own personal McGyvers. ■
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 28
9/15/11 4:21 PM
❁
PAU L R E T H ER FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
❁
Weddings • Custom Fresh Flower Designs Recycled Art Delivering to Mackinac Island • Petoskey • Charlevoix Gaylord • Traverse City
...Where Imagination Meets Creativity...
David & Mickey Dunlop • (231) 525-8594 12972 S. Straits Highway, Wolverine, MI 49799
Eco-friendly business
www.dunlopsflowers.com
Nub’s award-winning lodge is... ...just right for your wedding, banquet or any “special” occasion. • Able to accommodate any size event • Complete catering and kitchen facilities • Patio & bar • Lounge with fireplace • Fully carpeted & paved parking
500 Nubs Nob Road | Harbor Springs, MI 49740 Snowline: 800-SKI-NUBS | 231-526-2131
www.nubsnob.com
S C OT T B R EI T H AU P T PH OTO G R A PH Y
Custom Designed Handcrafted Jewelry
310 Howard St. • Downtown Petoskey • 348-7034
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 29
29
9/15/11 4:21 PM
Reception
The role of the
DJ BY M A R K LI N D S AY UP NORTH BRIDE
W
edding music can set the pace and mood for a wedding recep-
tion. Knowing the role a DJ can play in the reception may make the music decision easier. “A DJ’s talent should reach far beyond just motivating the crowd or making the announcements at the right time,” said Tom Pluister of Pluister Entertainment, based in Charlevoix. The DJ should be involved in making the itinerary and know everything that is going on. The only way this can happen is when they have a good working relationship with the venue staff. The first step in establishing the role of a DJ in a wedding is to choose the right one for you. The best resource in finding the
30
PAU L R E T H E R FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
perfect wedding DJ is word of mouth. “Some people moonlight as wedding disc jockeys and are good at it,” Pluister noted. “We devote our full-time work to providing professional service for weddings, which makes a difference.” Talk to recent newlyweds, or
ask your wedding reception hotel or resort as they may have a list of preferred vendors for you to call who are DJs they trust. They also see the horror stories and know who to avoid. “Don’t rush to pick your wedding DJ; they all have different personalities,” Pluister noted. Ask to see videos from previ-
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 30
9/15/11 4:21 PM
J I M N E L S O N PH OTO G R A PH Y
ous weddings so you can view a few minutes of their work. Pluister recommended meeting with the proposed DJ to view their work and spending the time to get to know them. If you have the opportunity to do so, when attending other weddings, pay attention to the things the DJ is in charge of. “If you see things being done that you like or dislike, make a note of that and keep a list of requests for your event,” Pluister said. If your reception is complex, and in a big well-known resort or hotel, you want a professional who works in the big places. “The DJ should be in charge of arranging things like lighting, stage needs and other needs beforehand,” Pluister noted. Ask your DJ if he/she has done weddings at your reception site before. It helps if they know the wedding venue, how to get there and have a familiarity
with the staff. Your DJ may also then be better prepared to deal with issues with the venue or staff. It’s also important to know who will be the actual DJ of the wedding when interviewing candidates. If there is a preference for who you want to be there, be sure it’s in the contract. Some DJs will have a list of songs they typically play and except for the bride and groom’s first dance, do not give you much choice. “It is the role of the DJ to establish a playlist, but it should be primarily approved by the bride and groom,” Pluister noted. Couples will commonly allow the DJ to choose at least 50 percent of the music. “A good disc jockey reads the crowd and knows what to play at what times,” Pluister said. Ask if they will accept requests from wedding guests.
Your wedding disc jockey should be flexible with a wide selection, so requests from your wedding guests can be fulfilled. You want a wedding DJ who can adapt to any crowd. “For much of the reception the DJ should perform as emcee for the event, directing the action and encouraging people to participate,” Pluister said. A DJ with a wireless headset is a plus. With the headset mic, the DJ can easily roam around hands free, or even blend in with the crowd during group effort dances. “With the right DJ, they’ll become a part of the reception and everything should run smoothly and on time,” Pluister noted. Regardless of what the music is, it’s apparent that spending the time to choose a DJ that matches your vision for the event can be the key to a day to remember. ■
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 31
31
9/15/11 4:21 PM
The emcee
R J S C OT T PH OTO G R A PH Y
Master of
ceremonies A
master of ceremonies can mean a few different things, according to Danielle Vogelheim of NM Designs in Bay Harbor. “An emcee can just be a DJ, a voice, or it can be a person who coordinates the entire day,” she said. The latter option is what Vogelheim suggests most weddings would benefit from. “The emcee should be someone who aligns the flow of events,” she said. “They are in charge of the microphone and make announcements, introductions, plan how many speeches there will be and how long they will last.” She added they also announce when the first dances are to occur and, if there’s a buffet, they let the guests know when to go up.
32
BY A E B R A C O E UP NORTH BRIDE
“It’s nice when the person doing these announcements is a friendly face, even a close friend of the bride or groom, instead of a hired DJ,” she remarked. Vogelheim has been planning weddings for more than seven years. She worked in Chicago after college and returned to the area in January 2010 with the goal of starting her own event planning business. She opened NM Designs in Bay Harbor as soon as she returned to Northern Michigan. She is an event designer and works in the same location as a florist and stationery designer. Vogelheim said her role is either designing the event — securing rentals, creating the physical environment, making a time line for the event — or she can also coordinate everything as the master of ceremonies.
If the person performing the emcee duties is also helping plan the wedding, she said they should be at the rehearsal and should hand out a time line to everyone who will play a part in the wedding describing to them what their role will be. She went on to suggest that if a friend is doing the emceeing, but didn’t plan the time line, ensure they have access to it well before the wedding so they can prepare for their responsibilities. Some mistakes people make in creating a smooth flow at the reception usually include not sticking to their time line, Vogelheim said. “You should leave an extra cushion of time between events so that there’s time to relax,” she noted. If planning your own wedding, another way to create a smooth
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 32
9/15/11 4:21 PM
flow for the reception is by choosing local vendors, said Vogelheim. Photographers, DJs and videographers who are from the area in which you’re getting married will know one another, know the roads and how to get where they need to go, and, chances are, they will work well together because they have done so previously. She said it’s also important to pick the right venue. “Some will have the basic amenities there already,” she said. Others will not have chairs, tables, a dance floor or a bar. Vogelheim noted that it simplifies the process to choose a venue that has those things in place, but if you want to have more creativity in the setting you may want a place where you can plan from scratch. Another mistake the wedding planner sees people make is they don’t enlist the help of friends and family as much as they could. “The biggest way friends and family can help out is through setting up and tearing down the venue,” she said. She went on to advise the couple getting married to ask volunteers for their help when they first begin planning the wedding and then a month before the date, to send them a letter with more specific ideas of how they could assist. “Other than that, the bride will need help with small details the day of the wedding, last-minute tasks that might not have been thought of,” she noted. Vogelheim said being there to help with those tasks and for moral support are extremely helpful to keep stress levels low. “Brides need to let go of their worries and allow the emcee to handle everything. They need to relax and be there in the moment with family and friends,” Vogelheim said. ■
PH OTO G R A PH Y BY PAQ U E T T E
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 33
33
9/15/11 4:21 PM
PAU L R E T H E R FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
YACHT CLUB & MARINA
Nothing makes a wedding more beautiful than the emotion in it. However, it is unique design & charming details that make it unforgettable. Pink Trillium Photography delights in preserving your
www.sommersetpointeyachtclub.com
231 582.9900
A beautiful bride deserves beautiful
FLOWERS
Flowers from
34
S
KYâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S THE LIMIT
Downtown Petoskey 231-347-7770
Jackie Burrell AIFD, Michigan Certified Florist
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 34
9/15/11 4:22 PM
Savings of $300!
Call our office about our New Custom Whitening Trays
Check out our new ZOOM! Professional Whitening System, the #1 light activated whitening system. Zoom! safely whitens discolored teeth in under 1 hour. Stop in or call for more information!
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 35
35
9/15/11 4:22 PM
♦ ♦
DUNMAGLAS CAN PROVIDE THE MOST UNIQUE VENUE FOR YOUR WEDDING & RECEPTION NEEDS.
Call for detail 231.547.4653 or dunmaglas.com 9031 BOYNE CITY RD., CHARLEVOIX, MI 49720
♦
Bridal Registry
♦
Bridesmaid/ Groomsman Gifts
♦
Wedding Favors & Petoskey Stones
♦
Hand-Crafted Dinner Sets & Glassware Unique Picture Frames Gift Wrapping, Shipping & Local Delivery
Petoskey, Mi ♦ sturgeonriver.com
( 231) 347-0590 ♦ Open All Year
BRING THE WHOLE FAMILY!
Tents, Tables & Chairs Party Tents Dance Floors China Glassware Linens
Photobooth Large Grills Tent Heaters 5’ Round Tables 8’ Banquet Tables
White Folding Chairs White Padded Chairs Fill N’ Chill Tables 30” Cocktail Tables Restroom Trailers
Wedding packages for all your needs! Call for more information.
Charlevoix
RENTALS • SALES • SERVICE
INN & SUITES
WWW.RENTALTIME.COM
(231) 547-547-0300 • 1-888-252-2050 800 Petoskey Avenue • Charlevoix
1430 S. Straits Highway • Indian River • 231.238.9696
36
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 36
9/15/11 4:22 PM
231.347.5858 I 224 Park Ave. I Petoskey talulubeautylounge.com
talulubeautylounge@yahoo.com
On the most important day of your life we are here to make you more beautiful than you already are! We offer a full line of cosmetics, skin and hair care products to help you prepare for your big day. Bring the whole wedding party for a day of pampering from head to toe! On Location Services Available I Also Servicing Mackinac Island UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 37
37
9/16/11 4:34 PM
The Dress
R J S C OT T PH OTO G R A PH Y
The dress BY A E B R A C O E UP NORTH BRIDE
P
Making it fit, making it last
urchasing the perfect gown is only one step involved in readying yourself for wearing it at your wedding. There are several other considerations to keep in mind in the months leading up to the big day. Cindy Whitley has owned Petoskey Bridal in Petoskey with her mother, Theresa Robinson, for 18 years and has been sewing for more than 30 years. She said in the thousands of brides she has served, the biggest issue women run into is buying their dress several sizes too small. “It’s easier to make alterations for a dress to be made smaller that is too big, rather
38
than attempting to make a dress bigger that’s too small,” said Whitley. She said many women would like to lose several dress sizes before their wedding, but Whitley advises women buy a dress that fits perfectly the day they buy it. “It is important to remember that the dress can easily be altered if you lose weight,” she said. There are alterations that will need to be made for almost everyone after purchasing their dress. When budgeting for a wedding, it is important to remember to factor in the price of alterations, and cleaning and preserving the dress after the wedding.
Whitley said the most common alterations include hemming, which ranges from $65 to $150 depending on lace and beading details, and the addition of bustles with costs varying depending on the number of bustles. She said dresses can have anywhere from one to 12 bustles. “There’s always going to be some changes involved when you’re buying a wedding dress,” said Whitley. She commented that some brides also opt to customize a basic dress they have bought. Whitley said her store offers customization services to their customers. Some changes that might be made include changing the neckline, adding straps,
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 38
9/15/11 4:22 PM
adding a flower to the shoulder or changing the hemline. “If a girl can dream it, we’ve pretty much done it,” she said. After the wedding is over, many women choose to have their dress cleaned and preserved. Jeff Bradford, who has owned Bradford’s Master Dry Cleaners in Petoskey since 1977, said his store comes in contact with more than 200 wedding dresses each year. “People come in with so many different emotions. Wedding gowns are an extended part of their world; they’re a treasure,” said Bradford. He went on to say that many women like to preserve the gowns to pass on to their family or keep as a memento. Others get the dress cleaned so they can alter it and use it for other occasions such as anniversaries. He said with the struggling economy he has seen more women wear their dress, come in to get it cleaned and resell it over the Internet. When a dress comes in, it is important to first examine it thoroughly, said Bradford. “Was the dress worn on the back of a Harley? Are there bullet holes? Tears? Stains?” He said he has seen everything in the 40 years he’s been in the business. Bradford added that some people think it’s safe to put their dress in a plastic bag and throw it in storage. He said they are usually saddened when they pull it out years later to discover it has turned yellow because of improper storage of the unclean dress. The cleaners offers wedding chests which use acid-free paper and are a box sealed inside another box. This prevents yellowing and can keep a dress preserved for many years. Rates are $125 and up for cleaning and about $250 to get a dress fully cleaned, boxed and preserved. ■
N O R T H STA R PH OTO G R A PH Y
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 39
39
9/15/11 4:22 PM
Theme
R J S C OT T PH OTO G R A PH Y
day
Theme for a BY M A R K LI N D S AY UP NORTH BRIDE
W
hile there is an endless variety of options for a couple planning a wedding, choosing an overall theme can set the pace for the entire affair. Choosing a theme for your wedding is one of the most important decisions you’ll make for the big day. To choose a wedding theme that matches the bride and groom’s vision for the day can be difficult. “I always recommend that the couple stays in line with their personal style and avoid trends,” said Janelle Langmaack, a wedding coordinator with Castle Farms in Charlevoix. Some couples mistakenly think that they need to be planning a huge wedding for a theme to be necessary. But in fact, for
40
any sized wedding, a theme becomes a very useful tool from which to narrow down the vast array of choices you’ll be presented with. “Couples will often pick different ideas out of magazines and with technology today, also the Internet,” Langmaack noted. Where many couples begin when brainstorming for a wedding theme idea is something as simple as color. Sit down and designate one of you to keep track of your ideas on a sheet of paper. Start with the basics like favorite colors or whether you want an indoor or outdoor wedding. Other deciding influences can be things you have in common, such as hobbies that you share, favorite songs and poems.
C O U R T ESY TA B L E AU EVENTS
Location also plays a big part in what theme options might be available. Where you want to get married will have a lot of impact on how you plan out the details. But to narrow it down a bit, start out by answering a few questions such as traditional or modern, casual or formal, rustic or chic. “Your theme can be specific or general,” said Debbie Norris of Stafford’s Hospitality based in Petoskey. “We most often do Michigan themed weddings due
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 40
9/15/11 4:22 PM
PAU L R E T H ER FO R D W E D D I N G PH OTO G R A PH Y
J I M N E L S O N PH OTO G R A PH Y
to the nature of our business.” Stafford’s commonly provides wedding events for couples and guests from out of the area. Guests might not even be aware of what the wedding theme idea is, unless it’s made apparent to them. “Even if the theme isn’t the first thing your guests notice, they will feel a sense of it in what you provide,” Norris said. Whatever theme you decide on, it should be chosen carefully and thought over for several days or weeks while you consider how it will be incorporated into your wedding. “Our Michigan themed weddings will often use a large variety of local products from cherries to whitefish and morels,” Norris noted. Don’t hesitate to change your
mind if your original idea doesn’t quite fit your needs. Perhaps you’ll find the theme you chose is too narrow and you expand it, or maybe you’ll go in the opposite direction. Most importantly, make sure the unique wedding theme idea you choose reflects both of your personalities. “You can’t over-emphasize the importance of going with something that matches your personal style rather then a current trend,” Langmaack said. “Your theme should create a mood or feeling so try to envision how you would like your guests to remember your wedding day and build off of that,” said Sheila Dodson-Wright, owner of Tableau Events in Bay Harbor. Her business specializes in custom invitations and papery,
specialty rentals and exclusive wedding and event decor. “Whether it is playful, elegant, festive or formal, your event should truly reflect your personality and style. Incorporate elements such as custom papery and linens into your design to pull together a personalized environment that is truly distinctive,” Dodson-Wright said. Another popular option is to let someone else take over. Wedding planners are very popular and will assist the bridal pair in every aspect of the wedding. In the end, the spirit of your wedding is going to be set by you and your guests, even if there aren’t any words to describe it. The theme will just be the template it starts with and something that can make planning the rest of the wedding a little bit easier. ■ UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 41
41
9/15/11 4:22 PM
Dessert42
Dessert
Cakes BY M AG G I E PE T E R S O N UP NORTH BRIDE
What’s your flavor?
T
he flavor options for wedding cakes are seemingly endless, from traditional to trendy. Those seeking an established route may find taste bud shelter in chocolate or vanilla, but the range is vast for those with a wish for distinct morsels.
Traditional route
Theresa Sirvaitis of Dutch Oven Shops in Alanson said many of the couples she works with seek traditional flavor combinations. “A lot of people still rely on the white cake, chocolate cake,” she noted. As for frost-
42
J I M N E L S O N PH OTO G R A PH Y
ing, “A lot of people stay with buttercream because their perspective on fondant is that it doesn’t taste good.”
Fruit (and vegetable) forward
Nickole Cox of Up North Cakes in Charlevoix noted she recently made a banana cake with chocolate buttercream, as well as a white cake jazzed up with raspberry and lemon filling. She noted that when it comes to flavor, couples fall into two categories — those who know exactly what they want, and those who have no idea what they want.
“Couples should stay away from things they haven’t tried, like orange cake with key lime filling,” Cox noted. Sampling helps give a better idea of flavor preferences, or if you’re talking with the baker who made a cake you liked, to reference that cake. “The funny thing for me this year is carrot cake,” noted Sharon Mascow of Kitchen Angel in Boyne City, who said she’s had several orders placed recently. She said the favorite frosting flavors are buttercream or cream cheese buttercream, but she also uses a vanilla bean frosting.
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 42
9/15/11 4:22 PM
J I M N E L S O N PH OTO G R A PH Y
Levels of flavor
Mascow said it’s not extremely common, but for those who want a variety for their guests and themselves, she has made cakes with each tier a different flavor. For example, one cake she has worked on had one level of chocolate velvet, one of lemon and one of apple. While the flavors wouldn’t work well as one level, and therefore mixing into each other, the tiered approach keeps them separated. This type of cake often works best served from a table.
Serving suggestions
When it comes to figuring
out cake service, it’s really the couple’s choice. There’s the traditional tiered cake that, once cut, can be served or offered as self-service. For others, cupcakes are often the answer — but with a small cake for the bride and groom. “The bride and groom want a smaller cake to cut. They don’t want to get away from the cutting of the cake,” Mascow noted. She added that cupcakes are especially liked for outdoor weddings, and she’s noticed a trend toward mini, one-bite cupcakes. ■
PAU L RETH ERFO RD WED DING PHOTOG R A PH Y
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 43
43
9/15/11 4:22 PM
PH OTO G R A PH Y BY PAQ U E T T E
Experience INN THE WOODS
• Weddings, Rehearsal Dinners, Receptions • We can accommodate 2 to 200 guests • As simple or elegant as you desire • Personal One-on-One Service 1535 Opal Lake Road Gaylord MI 49735 989-939-8919 or 989-939-8800 groupsales@michaywe.com www.michaywe.com
44
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 44
9/15/11 4:22 PM
Certified in Glasgow, Scotland by the Piping & Drumming Qualifications Board.
Bay Area
Bridal
Choose from hundreds of traditional, religious or contemporary selections
Wedding Bagpipe Music
Full Service Bridal Salon
Gregor MacGregor
231.348.8629 I 866.792.7290
Tuxedos
Fittings & Rental Prom & Pagent Wear Communion & Christening Gowns
www.bagpipesnorth.com
(906) 458-0999
gmacg@chartermi.net
Dianne Hanel I Indian River
From traditional ceremonies to dancing at the reception... ...and everything in between 231.645.5370 00313223
231.439.9948 www.arkstudioonline.com
bobossa.com
BLISSWOOD UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 45
45
9/15/11 4:22 PM
* The Headlands, voted a 2011 Best of Weddings venue by TheKnot.com!
Emmet County Weddings
The full-service rental company you can rely on.
The Headlands
Community Building
PETOSKEY 231.348.0114
MACKINAW CITY 231.436.4051
Camp Pet-O-Se-Ga
TENTS, TABLES, CHAIRS & MORE
ALANSON 231.347.6536
P a r t y & W e d d i n g Te n t s Te n t H e a t e r s Va r i e t y o f Ta b l e s & C h a i r s Fine Linens Lighting & Fixtures Barbecue Grills D.J. & Dance Floors Catering & More!
C a l l ( 2 3 1 ) 5 4 7 - 9 7 3 3 To d a y !
www.emmetcounty.org info@emmetcounty.org
THE PREMIER CHOICE OF NORTHERN MICHIGAN BRIDES HAIR, MAKE-UP, NAILS, FACIALS & MASSAGES FOR THE ENTIRE WEDDING PARTY
Now Booking 2012 & 2013 Weddings LaDolceVitaSalonAndSpa.com
46
����Visit
417 Howard St., Petoskey 231-348-3962
Our Bridal Gallery on Facebook Today
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 46
9/15/11 4:22 PM
UP NORTH BRIDE
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 47
47
9/15/11 4:22 PM
A Spectacular Setting. A Perfect Day. Three incredible northern Michigan resorts and two award-winning spas, each an achievement of grace and style.
Whether you are seeking the destination for your special day, for an unforgettable honeymoon, or for a setting to relax and have fun with girlfriends, BOYNEâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s resorts are the perfect choice. And with two spectacular spas, our experienced staff can delight you from head to toe... feeling refreshed and beautiful for your wedding day.
Boyne Highlands | Boyne Mountain The Inn At Bay Harbor - A Renaissance Golf Resort
BOYNEWEDDINGS.COM | 800.862.6963
48
UPNORTHBRIDE.COM
BRIDE-2011 0930 AXX.indd 48
9/15/11 4:22 PM