The Northridge Reporter February 2016

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the february 26, 2016

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VOLUME 13 ISSUE 5

Loved ones remember life and legacy of sophomore Ariel Backstrom

REBECCA GRIESBACH & CAMRI MASON practicing all summer. Backstrom flipped into MANAGING & SPORTS EDITORS the water with calculated precision, flexing her or any old day, it would be difficult I know she is. She understood me more than legs into perfect form. She was always cameraready, but what happened later was not so for one to recount what they were anyone... I really miss her.” doing, what they were wearing, what Though hurt and grieving alongside them, graceful, Barnett said. “When we tried to leave, the gates locked they had to eat or what the weather Akl urges her friends to keep their heads up. was like. But for the loved ones of sophomores “I don’t know man,” she said. “It really hurts us in… I can see her now trying to jump Ariel Backstrom and Brianna Hyche, Thursday, without her here, and I miss her ten-minute- them.... And then she got stuck! I remember Jan. 28 was not just any old day. long Snapchat stories every morning. But I her yelling...” she said, laughing. “When we “I put things together and found out at lunch. know she’s happier where she is... Ariel was were finally able to escape and go back to her I was on the phone with Brianna’s mom and I quite literally the life of the party and I know house, we tried to get Chinese food delivered. just burst into tears alongside her other close for a fact that she wouldn’t want us sad for her, But the bill was 80 dollars, so Ariel screamed and hung up.” friends. They announced the passenger later since she’s up there with The Best right now.” Paige shared a similar memory of a notthat day, and I lost it,” sophomore Jer’Howard Like Akl, the rest of Backstrom’s friends so-agile Backstrom, a girl whose “goofy, funPaige said. cling on to their memories. On a bright, sunny January day that sat right Sophomore Kaya Wilkinson was loving” spirit had quickly made her “become at the tail end of a winter warm front, students Backstrom’s best friend. The two met in the his whole world” despite the short amount of time that he knew sitting in class began to catch wind through Rock Quarry Middle her. social media of a fatal three-vehicle collision School band, where “My favorite on Rice Mine Loop. It was later revealed that Backstrom had just memory of Ariel one of the cars was a 2004 Mazda 6, the same taken up clarinet. was when we were car that Hyche picked up Backstrom in every “One day I at [fellow majorette morning before school. brought up to her Sarah Stephens’] “They’re the last people I’d ever see that I was going to old house, and we something like this happening to,” sophomore start taking baton and close friend Emmie Barnett said. twirling lessons and the BAckstrom fAmily would like to thAnk were going to the the community, families, friends, churches, organizations and she was all like, ‘Cool, businesses for your expression of sympathy during the loss of creek behind there,” 7:40 AM: me too! Where are our daughter, Ariel Sharee Backstrom. The outreach of support he said. “...and like, has been greatly appreciated during this difficult time. we had no way of While traveling their normal route, Hyche you going to take rounded a curve and “lost control of the from?’” Wilkinson A speciAl thAnk you to the Northport and Tuscaloosa Communi- crossing over but by ties, Northridge High School, Northridge High School Band, US Pipe, Marvel wheel,” according to a Tuscaloosa News article said. “And it turned City Mini Mill, Alabama Works, Gordo High School Majorettes, Mayor Bob- walking on a log…” Herndon, Wills Funeral Service, Cornerstone Full Gospel Baptist Church, One might guess published later that day. The car was dislodged out that our moms by Olive Garden, Jalapeno’s Mexican Grill, Chik-Fil-A, Tuscaloosa Career and Technology Academy, First Wesleyan Church, Christian Community Church, what happened into oncoming traffic and suffered a direct had signed us up with Zo’s Nu Yu, Capstone Hotel, First Baptist Church of Tuscaloosa, The Church next. of the Highlands, First Wesleyan Church, Porter St. Paul CME Church, Calimpact to the passenger’s side, “leaving both the same instructor.” vary Baptist Church, Forest Lake United Methodist Church, Publix, St. Peter “And so Ariel was girls unconscious.” Hyche was airlifted to UAB By their freshman AME Zion Church, Ebenezer Baptist Church Women’s Ministry, TuscalooAcademy Basketball Team and Coaches, Tuscaloosa County High School trying to walk over hospital to be treated for multiple fractures in year of high school, saBand Paul W. Bryant High School, Tuscaloosa City School System, and all it, and she thought her ribs and pelvis (See page 5). the two would try community persons who donated time, items and visits. things were going Backstrom was pronounced dead just nine out for Northridge’s May God continue to bless good... And then days before her 16th birthday. majorette line each and every one of you for your overwhelming generosity. she fell on the log “Whenever we hear about tragedies in the together, joined at thAnk you. and was like ‘OH news, we never think it’s going to be about the hip and even MY GOSH!!!’” someone so close to us - until it is. Realizing closer than ever. A Paige tried to stifle back a laugh, but he that is just about the worst feeling in the world. photograph taken a year later shows the two I read the texts and the news reports probably friends on the field, side by side with their couldn’t hold it in. “And I fell to the ground laughing, and I was 20-plus times, but I still didn’t think it was batons mid-toss, frozen in time and reflecting right,” sophomore and close friend Nour Akl off of the Friday night sky. Backstrom quickly like ‘Nope! I’m not going over the log. I’m just said. “I thought it was just a coincidence and posted the photo, captioning it, “And in that going to walk through the water.’” Senior and former majorette Dajah Benson that I was going to see Ariel and Brianna in moment, we were infinite.” the halls after class... No amount of guidance “Ariel.. she could make anyone laugh at any agreed that Backstrom was indeed “very goofy,” counselors or pamphlets really prepare you for time,” Wilkinson said. “She pushed me and but she was also “unique, smart and selfless.” “Ariel didn’t have a judgmental bone in her. the loss of such a beautiful soul and friend.” many others to strive and make bigger and Barnett said she wished others would better accomplishments in our lives. She was I could always talk to her about anything,” she understand that closure is something that does a great role model. She was kind to everyone, said. “Even if she was having a bad day, she not come quickly or easily. was very intelligent and had confidence. And always put on a brave face… She had a way of bringing people together.” “Grief can hit you at the most inappropriate we can’t forget - she always slayed.” And that’s exactly what brought Backstrom or inconvenient times,” she said. Barnett said that she finds it easier to cope For Paige, losing his friend is an everyday when she “focuses on what was instead of what and Hyche together; their shared sense of humor and compassion for others is something battle. could’ve been.” “It is still a struggle,” he said. “A piece of my It was just a normal, hot, muggy day, and that their friends said will live on through heart was taken away. There are days where I Barnett, Paige and Wilkinson decided to cool Backstrom’s legacy. “[Brianna and Ariel] are both so, so funny, want to cry, but I know Ariel wouldn’t want off with Backstrom in her neighborhood pool, m e to. I tell myself that she’s where the gymnast-turned-majorette tasked so I’m sure [when they were] together it was a here with me everyday, and Barnett with recording what she had been riot,” Barnett said.

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Paige described Hyche as his “twin,” explaining that the two are often mistaken for siblings. “My favorite memory of Brianna was when we were at play rehearsal and this girl was supposed to read the line, ‘When I look in the mirror, I don’t see beauty at all.’ But instead she said, ‘When I look in the mirror, I don’t see booty at all.’ We fell out laughing!” he said, his cheeks sore from chuckling. Paige said that their independent spirits made Hyche and Backstrom friends that he could lean on. “Brianna is a strong, intelligent young woman and she taught me how to never let anyone take away who I am... Ariel lived a beautiful, strong life… she taught me to appreciate the small things and the people around us… she told me my purpose here is something special, so I will find it and live by it,” he said. “Every day I live, it’s for these two special girls in my life. I love them with all my heart and will do anything for them. “Live life while you still have it, people, because every time you breathe, someone is taking their last breath. Stop hating each other and learn to love! Can we be more like Brianna? Can we live more like Ariel? Yes we can, people. Never forget that.”

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tephanie Backstrom, Ariel’s mother, will most certainly never forget that. The outpouring of love from Backstrom’s friends and classmates, along with the memories that they hold so dearly, have shown her what it means to live like her daughter. “That’s what me and her father are trying to do right now,” she said. “We’re trying our best to live like Ariel.” Stephanie stood in the family room, now dotted with flower bouquets from local bands, schools, churches and the like, and smiled as she remembered the girl that they were for. There are no words, Stephanie said, that could begin to describe how she felt about her daughter. There was nothing, no novel she could write, that could ever explain the connection, the relationship that she had with her “best friend” and her “one true love.” But a single word written on Backstrom’s mirror did the talking for her. “...Ariel,” she found her words, “...Ariel was flawless... “I feel so blessed to have been honored by God for the last 15 years with an angel. I miss her with all my heart. She brought me joy every day. Nothing will ever replace the love, the friendship, and the care that she showed for me every day. I’m so happy to know that she is in a much better place…. I will always miss her from the bottom of my heart.” Photos from the Backstrom family & friends

Don’t worry babes, life is just a coloring book.

Love, Ariel


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