New Orleans Weddings Magazine Fall+Winter 2019/2020 Edition

OCTOBER 2019 DISPLAY UNTIL 10/31/2019

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DECEMBER 2019 DISPLAY UNTIL 1/02/2020

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FEBRUARY 2020 DISPLAY UNTIL 2/29/2020

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FALL 2019 + WINTER 2020 CONTENTS FEATURES 14 MODERN MARIE Classic meets contemporary in this edgy decor and fashion editorial at Le Pavillon Hotel.

48 N.O. CHELLA

Luxe NOLA fest vibes at Republic NOLA

70 ECO-LUXE Going green for your wedding can be luxurious. Alchemy Events shows us how.

86 SURREAL WEDDING Flower girls and rescue pups give us all the feels in this Surreal Art-inspired editorial.

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Justin Small + Kane Honea

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Taylar Major + Vincent Hirstius

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Kelly Hamblin + Michael Benedict

104 Charles Alexander + Travis Watkins 114 Allison Remson + Trevor Young

CREDITS ON LOCATION: Le Pavillon Hotel, lepavillon.com PHOTOGRAPHY: Trent Spann, Images by Robert T., imagesbyrobertt.com WEDDING GOWN: Pearl’s Place, pearlsplace.com HAIR + MAKEUP: Tina Rodosta for Verde Beauty, verdebeautystudio.com MODEL: Tina Rodosta

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90 PLANNING RESOURCES Featured Articles 68 1 0 STEPS TO A SMOOTH WEDDING DAY Advice for setting a realistic budget.

95 B EAUTIFUL BALANCED BRIDE Guidelines for beautiful bride behavior and brainstorms.

113 CONTRACTS 101

The importance of vendor contracts.

120 A GUIDE TO GROUP PHOTOS Tips to make sure everyone looks great in your wedding photos.

Photo by Brian Jarreau Photography

Photo by Sarah Alleman Photography

Photo by Trent Spann, Images by Robert T.

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N.O.W. Wedding Planner 8 To Do Before I Do

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Always A Bridesmaid

12 Wedding Budget Planner

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Let Them Eat Cake

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Charming Charms

What’s Your Style?

36 Style Quiz

108 Your Event Planner

38 Your Rehearsal Dinner

110 Wedding Décor

40 Ceremony Planning

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Wedding Flowers

42 Reception Planning

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The Fine Print

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118 Memories Captured

Bon Appetit

84 Entertainment Planning

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98 Your Gown

125 Your Honeymoon

Transportation

126 Your Day Of Wedding Checklist

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Hi there!

I know planning a wedding can be a tad overwhelming sometimes (and if that isn’t the understatement of the year, I don’t know what is), but have no fear. We’ve got you.

New Orleans Weddings Magazine has more than just pretty photos; we’re a magazine and planner book all rolled into one! In addition to LOTS of ontrend inspiration, we fill each issue with all kinds of planning resources, from a budget worksheet to checklists to lots of great local wedding pros who can help you make your dream wedding a reality. We’re really practical like that.

So be sure to keep this magazine handy as you plan. You may also want to check out our website theNOWBride.com for even more resources - we’ve got a ton of them. Whatever wedding planning questions you have, we probably have the answer, so hit us up (serious offer - my email is on page 6).

Happy planning!

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About The Covers Fall 2019 + Winter 2020 EDITION Look for all three covers of New Orleans Weddings Magazine’s Fall 2019 + Winter 2020 Edition! A new cover will be released every other month!

PUBLISHER JESSICA BURKE JESSICA@THENOWBRIDE.COM

Ellen Kramer CREATIVE DIRECTOR + OPERATIONS DIRECTOR

October 2019

PHOTOGRAPHER: Images by Robert T ON LOCATION: Le Pavillon Hotel HAIR + MAKEUP: Verde Beauty GOWN: Southern Bridal Dreams JEWELRY: Brilliance in Diamonds MODEL: Tina Rodosta

Vikki Reed GRAPHIC DESIGN WRITERS Jessica Burke Tiffany Kavanaugh Holly Lafferty Natalie Pompilio Rena Sweeney CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Sarah Alleman Jessica Burke Brian Jarreau Trent Spann

December 2019

PHOTOGRAPHER: Brian Jarreau Photography ON LOCATION: Republic NOLA SET STYLED BY: Jessica Talazac HAIR + MAKEUP: Tracy Branch Agency GOWN: MaeMe The Bridal Boutique FLORALS: Herbivore Floral Designs ACCESSORIES: Sorella’s MODEL: Rachel Hava

February 2020

PHOTOGRAPHER: The Rylands Photo Co. MENSWEAR: Hugo Boss + Suit Supply BOUTONNIERES: Herbivore Floral Designs GROOMS: Justin Small + Kane Honea (See Justin and Kane’s Real Wedding story on pages 32-33!)

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Our blog is filled with tons of great resources, inspiration, wedding stories and photo editorials that will help you plan an amazing wedding in New Orleans.

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To-Do Before “I DO” DO YOU FEEL AS THOUGH you have a million things to do before you say, “I Do”?

Not to worry. We’ve compiled a time line to help organize all your wedding events. Review the numerous wedding professionals at theNOWbride.com and let them help plan your perfect wedding.

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NINE TO FIFTEEN MONTHS ❏ Announce engagement to family and friends and plan an engagement party ❏ Choose wedding date, preferably more than one in case your preferred venue and/or vendor is booked ❏ Select wedding attendants ❏ Establish budget early, with maximum amounts for each event/vendor/etc. ❏ Decide on the style, formality and guest-list size for the wedding ❏ Select wedding planner ❏ Reserve ceremony and reception location ❏ Secure wedding officiant ❏ Begin compiling guest list and mailing addresses ❏ Start the selection process for wedding professionals, including photographer/videographer, entertainment, ceremony music, caterer, transportation, florist and stationery ❏ Start the wedding gown and wedding attendants’ dress search ❏ Consult travel agent for honeymoon plans. If traveling abroad, you will need valid passports and up-to-date immunizations 8 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

SIX TO NINE MONTHS ❏ Select gift registries ❏ Order wedding gown & accessories, including veil, shoes and undergarments (wear to fittings) ❏ Order menswear for groom and attendants ❏ Take engagement pictures ❏ Select and order bridesmaids dresses, schedule fittings, etc. ❏ Engagement party ❏ Finalize wedding professionals: ❏ Baker ❏ Caterer ❏ Florist ❏ Photographer ❏ Party Rentals ❏ Ceremony Music ❏ Reception Entertainment ❏ Stationery ❏ Videographer ❏ Other __________________________

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FOUR TO SIX MONTHS ❏ Finalize guest list and mail Save-theDate announcement ❏ Reserve rehearsal dinner location and/or caterers ❏ Order wedding invitations and thankyou notes ❏ Hire calligrapher ❏ Create wedding website with directions, accommodations, local attractions and other wedding details ❏ Reserve accommodations for wedding night and out-of-town guests. ❏ Book honeymoon and finalize travel documentations, if necessary ❏ Order wedding cake, groom’s cake and any other confections ❏ Research all legal requirements ­— permits + licenses ❏ Purchase/rent any decor to be used during the ceremony and/or reception

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TWO TO FOUR MONTHS ❏ Purchase wedding bands and have engraved if desired ❏ Order favors and gifts. Purchase cake knives, toasting crystals and other accessories ❏ Mail out-of-town invitations ❏ Reserve wedding day beauty appointments for bride and attendants ❏ Select wedding readings ❏ Confirm menu selection and/or bar with caterer ❏ Book specialty services, including photo booth, ice sculptures, rentals, Second Line, etc. ❏ Continue writing thank you notes for previous bridal parties, couple showers, etc.

FOUR TO SIX WEEKS PRIOR ❏ Mail local invitations ❏ Take bridal portraits and have framed for reception display ❏ Begin addressing wedding announcements ❏ Pick up wedding rings ❏ Complete name-change documents ❏ Print ceremony programs ❏ Remember to update wedding website with any changes ❏ Review banking and insurance information and see what needs to be updated after you’re married ❏ Fill out a Change-of-Address at post office, if necessary

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ONE WEEK BEFORE ❏ Schedule pick-up and return of groom’s and groomsmen’ attire, if rented ❏ Prepare final checks to wedding vendors, as well as donations to ceremony officiants and musicians, if necessary

THE DAY BEFORE

TWO WEEKS PRIOR ❏ Confirm all appointments and finalize professional services: ❏ Baker ❏ Lodging Reservations ❏ Beauty Appointments ❏ Party Rentals ❏ Caterer ❏ Photographer ❏ Ceremony Music ❏ Reception Entertainment ❏ Entertainment ❏ Transportation ❏ Florist ❏ Videographer ❏ Honeymoon Reservation ❏ Other_________________________________ ❏ Arrange for pick-up of wedding gown, if you haven’t done so already ❏ Plan seating arrangements, if necessary ❏ Pick up marriage license ❏ Plan honeymoon wardrobe, obtain travel tickets and confirm reservations ❏ Remember to update wedding website with any event changes N.O.W.

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❏ Welcome family and friends from out-of-town ❏ Have honeymoon bags packed ❏ Gather all wedding day items ❏ Attend rehearsal dinner and give gifts to wedding party and family

YOUR WEDDING DAY ❏ Arrange to see hairstylist and makeup artist BEFORE your attendants ❏ Be dressed and ready about two hours before ceremony for photos

RELAX... saying “I DO” is the easy part!

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N.O.W PLANNER

Your Budget Planner BEFORE YOU SAY “I DO,” you need ask “How Much?” Traditionally, the bride’s family carries the majority of the financial responsibility.

But with the cost of weddings growing as well as the average age of couples increasing, many couples are picking up some of the wedding expenses. Grooms’ families are also chipping in more than just the traditional rehearsal dinner and other small expenses. But no matter how the bill is divided, couples need to decide on a budget and stick with it. Use the worksheet below to decide how your budget will be divided.

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$____________ Ceremony Location $____________ Officiant’s Fee $____________ Marriage License $____________ Reception Venue $____________ Caterer $____________ Bar $____________ Rentals $____________ Cake $____________ Transportation $____________ Wedding Planner

$____________ Save-the-Date $____________ Invitation & Envelopes $____________ Reply Cards & Envelopes $____________ Programs $____________ Seating Cards and/or Menu Cards $____________ Thank-You Notes $____________ Postage $____________ Calligraphy $____________ Announcements $____________ Other

$____________ Photographer’s Fee $____________ Videographer’s Fee $____________ Engagement + Bridal Portrait Sessions $____________ Wedding Album $____________ Additional Album(s) $____________ Additional Prints + Video Copies

$____________ BUDGET $____________ ACTUAL COST

ATTIRE $____________ Wedding Gown $____________ Headpiece/Veil $____________ Shoes $____________ T rousseau/Undergarments $____________ Jewelry $____________ Hair & Makeup $____________ Groom’s Tuxedo/Suit $____________ Groom’s Shoes $____________ Wedding rings $____________ Other $____________ BUDGET $____________ ACTUAL COST

$____________ BUDGET $____________ ACTUAL COST

FLOWERS & DÉCOR $____________ Ceremony Decor $____________ Bridal Bouquet $____________ Attendants’ Bouquets & Boutonnières $____________ Corsages & Boutonnières for Family $____________ Reception Centerpieces/Decor $____________ Delivery Fees $____________ Other $____________ BUDGET $____________ ACTUAL COST

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$____________ BUDGET $____________ ACTUAL COST

ENTERTAINMENT $____________ Ceremony Music $____________ Reception Band/DJ $____________ Second Line $____________ Artists (Live Painters, Photo Booth, Etc) $____________ BUDGET $____________ ACTUAL COST

DETAILS & GIFTS $____________ Attendants’ Gifts $____________ Parents’ Gifts $____________ Guest room Welcome Gifts $____________ Favors $____________ Toasting glasses/Cake Knives $____________ Second Line Umbrellas $____________ Guest Book $____________ Announcements $____________ Other $____________ BUDGET $____________ ACTUAL COST

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MARIE classic luxury marries modern sensibilities

Taking inspiration from history, fairy tales, movies and the decor of the hotel, NOW Creative Director, Ellen Kramer, styled this modern wedding fashion and decor interpretation of one of history’s most decadently famous queens.

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ON LOCATION: Le Pavillon Hotel, lepavillon.com PHOTOGRAPHY: Trent Spann, Images by Robert T., imagesbyrobertt.com WEDDING GOWNS: Linen Jolie Bridal, linenjoliebridal.com | MaeMe The Bridal Boutique, maemebridal.com Pearl’s Place, pearlsplace.com | Southern Bridal Dreams, southernbridal.net Town & Country Bridal, townandcountrybridal.com HAIR + MAKEUP: Tina Rodosta for Verde Beauty, verdebeautystudio.com CAKE + DESSERTS: Gambino’s Bakery, gambinos.com INVITATION SUITE: Amber Leblanc Studio, amberleblancstudio.com FLORALS: Herbivore Floral Designs, herbivorefloraldesigns.com LINENS: Lovestruck Linens, lovestrucklinens.com FINE JEWELRY: Brilliance in Diamonds, brillianceindiamonds.com GLITTER MAKEUP: Elektra Cosmetics, elektracosmetics.com MODELS: Tina Rodosta and Geraldlyn Slack 14 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

This regal gown, available at Town & Country Bridal, features silver nude netting and embellished lace appliques on the bodice. To complete the look from Brilliance in Diamonds, 14k yellow gold diamond bangle bracelets and 4cts total Round Diamond Stud earrings.

About The Venue This exquisite, historic downtown New Orleans hotel marries classic elegance with modern design. Featuring a diverse array of event spaces and luxurious accommodations, Le Pavillon can make your dream wedding, no matter how intimate or lavish, a reality.

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Above: The Adeline ring from Brilliance in Diamonds features an 0.80ct light fancy yellow oval shape diamond, 0.12cts transitional cut diamond side stones and 0.30cts baguette diamond side stones set in 14k yellow gold. Paired with this stunning ring, is a 14k yellow gold Art Deco diamond band featuring round brilliant shape diamonds in a milgrain and scalloped setting.

Top left and opposite right: Sheer, floating laces create the bodice of this sexy crepe wedding dress, available at MaeMe The Bridal Boutique.

This dramatic gown features a shaped train extending 110 inches. 14k white gold diamond floral stud earrings and a 14k white gold vintage diamond cocktail ring from Brilliance in Diamonds add the finishing touches to Geraldlyn’s look.

Bottom left and opposite left: Tina is wearing an ivory beaded and embroidered Art Deco inspired slip bridal gown with plunging V-neckline and tiered pleated ruffles accent skirt, available at Linen Jolie Bridal. A 14k yellow and white gold floral ring with 0.58ct European diamond center stone and 0.22cts single cut diamond side stones, 14k yellow gold bangle bracelet with 3.30cts of round brilliant shape diamonds and 14k white gold diamond illusion stud earrings from Brilliance in Diamonds completes her ensemble.

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The Frenchmen St. Suite at Le Pavillon combines contemporary design with inspiring musical aspects.

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Amazing up-dos were a must for this modern interpretation of Marie Antoinette’s lavish style.

Of course, we love color, so Tina Rodosta of Verde Beauty Studio, styled colorful wigs with elaborate feather, floral, and sparkling elements.

Opposite and this page top: This modern princess wedding dress, available at Southern Bridal Dreams features layers of embroidered lace motifs, beading and Swarovski crystals.

Shimmering sequin tulle adds dimension to the ballgown skirt. Adding irresistible sparkle, the Genevieve platinum Art Deco diamond ring from Brilliance in Diamonds features a 0.82ct transitional cut diamond center stone and 0,26cts of round diamond side stones and is paired with a classic diamond band and 14k white gold diamond illusion stud earrings.

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Diamanté and crystal beaded, hand-embroidered floral lace appliqués adorn this elaborate, full tulle ball gown available at Pearl’s Place. From Brilliance in Diamonds, 14k white gold diamond floral stud earrings add the finishing touch. theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 19

Above: This allover beaded long sleeve fit and flare gown, available at MaeMe The Bridal Boutique, features an illusion Sabrina neckline, illusion beaded keyhole back and chapel length train. 4cts total round diamond stud earrings, from Brilliance in Diamonds, pair beautifully with this gown and the “Adeline” Art Deco Gastby ring in 14k yellow gold. Phantom Bolt Bomb, an intense blend of chunky and fine glitters from Elektra Cosmetics, adds sparkle in Geraldlyn’s hair.

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Opposite left and below: Marry classic desserts with modern sensibilities. This sampling of elegant confections by Gambino’s Bakery features hand-decorated cookies, creme-filled puff pastries, macarons, petit fours, white chocolate covered cake truffles, strawberry shooters and shortcake flutes. Dessert displays allow guests to choose their sweet indulgences, but of course, there is always the traditional option to “let them eat cake”, such as this modern carved cake with bold colors and edible gold detailing.

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Both Pages: This gown, available at Town & Country Bridal, features a mix of linear lace and lace motifs, a deep v-neckline and a long, wide tulle train adorned with lace appliques. A 14k rose gold engagement ring with tapered baguette style setting and 2.34cts round diamond center stone, a classic diamond band and 14k white gold diamond illusion stud earrings from Brilliance in Diamonds complete Geraldlyn’s look.

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The Cachette 1907 Bar & Lounge is perfect for your wedding cocktail hour.

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Sometimes dessert can be sweeter! This 14k White Gold Antique Style Emerald Diamond Ring from Brilliance in Diamonds features a 1.53ct center stone and 0.20cts Round Diamond side stones in a halo setting.

We can’t get enough of Elektra Cosmetics Opulent Orchid glittery matte lip wear! P.S. This lip wear is cruelty-free, paraben-free, glutenfree and vegan too - what’s not to love?!

Opposite and bottom right: This stunning ball gown, available at Linen Jolie Bridal, is made of blush burnout print organza creating a shimmering, elegant watercolor effect. “Victoria”, a 14k yellow gold ring reminiscent of jewels worn by royalty, features a 1.50cts oval natural sapphire center stone and 1ct double diamond halo. Paired with this stunning ring are a vintage-inspired sapphire and diamond band in 14k yellow gold with 0.21cts marquise shape sapphires and 0.07cts of round brilliant diamonds from Brilliance in Diamonds. Iridescent and Gold AB Microfine Glitter from Elektra Cosmetics added to the inner corner of Tina’s eyes adds a hint of sparkle to her look!

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FLORALS: Herbivore Floral Designs created the edgy, modern asymmetrical florals with lush, tropical vibes and bold pops of red, orange, pink and purple.

LINENS: Gold lace overlays and shimmering soft golden fabrics from Lovestruck Linens create a lavish groundwork for our modern marie-inspired tea party decor.

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Bijoux Restaurant at Le Pavillon couples classic décor in a historic setting under awe-inspiring sparkling crystal chandeliers

Opposite bottom left: Set the tone for your event with an elegant wedding stationery suite. We’re in love with Amber Leblanc Studio’s signature handmade paper (in beautiful blush!) and custom gold wax seals. Above, left This gown, available at Southern Bridal Dreams, features a sheer bodice, illusion long sleeves, a plunging V-neckline and scoop back, all accented in 3D floral lace motifs. (See this gown in black in our “modern MARIE Style File” on page 28) From Brilliance in Diamonds, a 14k rose gold accented engagement setting with 1.25cts oval shape diamond center stone, two 14k rose gold diamond bands,and a 14k rose gold bezel set milgrain diamond band create an eye-catching sparkle on Tina’s finger. 14k white gold diamond floral stud earrings echo the floral motif of the gown’s floral lace.

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1. "Zander" black ball gown from Soterro and Midgley is a breathtaking choice for the unconventional bride, available locally at Pearl's Place, pearlsplace.com, and Southern Bridal Dreams, southernbridal.net 2. Cupcake crystal embellished clutch by Judith Leiber, nordstrom.com. 3. Atlantis sapphire and diamond Necklace by Beauvince Jewelry, beauvince.com. 4. Feather hairpiece by Giovannio, Giovannio.com 5. Fleurs de Prairie available nationwide, fleursdeprairie.com.

6. Valentino Garvani Rockstud is an edgy patent leather pump with caged triple straps and a comfortable kitten heel by Valentino, valentino.com. 7. Handcrafted three stone diamond engagement ring, Chelsea exclusively

by Jean Dousset, jeandousset.com.

Jessy Herman Photography

Mateo & Company

The Crossing is a beautifully renovated 1820s structure located just steps from the mighty Mississippi in the historic district of Rivertown.

Our rustic yet formal venue boasts an open floor plan, exposed brick, festoon lights, wood floors and a gorgeous patio - perfect for an on-site ceremony. Outside our doors, you’ll find unique photo opps at the notable site of LaSalle’s Landing, the hidden gem that is Heritage Park, and quaint St. Mary’s Chapel, a replica of the first Catholic Church of Kenner.

519 WILLIAMS BLVD, KENNER, LA 70062

504.416.7764

THE-CROSSING.COM CEREMONIES | RECEPTIONS | REHEARSAL DINNERS | BRIDAL SHOWERS | ENGAGEMENT PARTIES Megan Crawford Photography

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their story IT WAS A PROPOSAL THAT JUSTIN SMALL – and British pop star Jessie J -- will never forget.

The singer was on stage at the Troubadour in West Hollywood, Justin and his long-time partner, Kane Honea, were in the audience. Kane and Jessie J locked eyes and the singer leaned down to talk to him. The next thing Justin knew, Kane was on stage, mike in hand, making jokes and winning over the crowd.

“I stood by confused and clueless about what was happening,” Justin recalls. Then “Kane pulled me up on stage with him and asked me to marry him in front of everyone. The crowd went absolutely wild! It was a moment I will never forget.”

Their love story had begun a decade earlier, when both were in college. Despite having grown up in the same small town of 13,000, the pair knew of each other, but they didn’t know each other, until a mutual friend brought them together.

As Kane likes to say, “Justin went to a different high school and was two whole grades ahead of me.”

Although they’d called California home since graduating college, the two Southern men chose New Orleans for their wedding. On May 11, they exchanged personalized vows in front of 170 guests at The Civic Theatre. The celebration that followed included a Second Line which featured both grooms waving gold-fringed black umbrellas.

Justin, the party planner, had designed nearly every detail of their big day. When he couldn’t find a guest book that was up to his standards, he decided to make his own, taking recipes from both men’s families and compiling them in a book illustrated with photos of the couple and the meals. Guests could sign on any page.

“This book is now one of my favorite possessions because each time I use it to cook I get to read a sweet message from one of our wedding guests,” Justin says.

There was one thing that happened on the wedding day that not even Justin the planner expected: Jessie J sent them a video congratulating them and wishing them the best.

“It was a really cool moment,” says Justin, noting he couldn’t choose just one favorite moment from the day. “The most memorable thing of all was the overwhelming love and support we felt being surrounded by our families, friends and loved ones. Looking around the room at our guests’ faces, all the smiles and laughter, was truly one of the most touching things in the world.”

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N.O.W PLANNER

Finding Your Style FIGURING OUT WHERE TO START AND HOW TO CREATE a wedding that’s “your style” can often be intimidating. We’ve compiled a list of questions to help guide you in the early planning stages. Some answers will help you determine what style of event is right for you. Others will help you focus on what’s really important.

grab a pen and paper and answer these questions

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COUPLE BACKGROUND AND STYLE

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1. H ow did you meet?

2. What is your proposal story?

3. Who designed/picked the ring?

What do you love about it?

4. What are 5 adjectives you’d use to describe yourselves as a couple?

5. What are 5 adjectives each of you’d use to describe the other?

6. What type of artwork do you own? What do you love about it?

Describe the style.

7. Where do you like to spend vacation time? What types of activities do you participate in?

8. Who is your favorite clothing and accessory designer?

9. Who will be involved in the wedding planning process?

PAST EXPERIENCE 1. What have you liked about other weddings/events you’ve attended?

2. What have you disliked about weddings/events you’ve attended in the past?

WEDDING EXPERIENCE 1. W hat are 5 adjectives you’d like to describe your wedding?

2. What are your “must haves” for your wedding? Each pick one.

3. Are there any cultural or religious traditions you wish to incorporate?

4. What locations do you love?

Indoors or outdoors?

5. Do you want the ceremony and reception to take place in the same location?

6. Describe your ideal location and your favorite things about it NOTES_____________________________________________ _________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________

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N.O.W STYLE QUIZ

You’ve probably been dreaming of this day for a long time. Is your dream wedding the biggest event of the year or something a little more low-key?

What is the most romantic way your significant other could propose to you?

What are your plans for the wedding party?

a. While you’re snuggling and watching

your “male of honor” –you’ve known each other for years, and you can’t imagine anyone else by your side! b. Your closest friends and family will all have a special role to play. c. Your wedding party is going to be huge. You’ll be lucky if you can keep it down to ten bridesmaids!

your favorite TV show, (s)he casually says, “We should get married.” b. (S)He privately asks your parents for your hand in marriage; then (s)he takes you to a fancy restaurant, where you find a ring in the bottom of your champagne glass. c. (S)He hires a skywriter or has the proposal lit up on a billboard during a baseball game.

Which type of engagement ring would take your breath away?

a. Something nontraditional – maybe a

pearl or a colorful stone like an emerald. b. Your grandmother’s beautiful vintage ring; you’ve always dreamed of wearing it someday. c. A large solitaire (at least 3 carats!) in a platinum setting.

What kind of wedding gown have you always pictured yourself in?

a. Something that isn’t white –

maybe a silver or gold gown. b. An A-line gown with some elegant lace or beading. c. A form-fitting halter with a low back that really shows off your body – you worked hard to look this good!

a. Your best guy friend will be

What’s the worst thing that could happen at your wedding?

a. You find out that the

environmentally-friendly napkins you ordered aren’t recycled after all. b. Several people who never RSVP’d show up at the last minute. c Several family members end up getting drunk and totally ruin the reception.

Where’s your ideal location to exchange vows?

a. Your parent’s backyard or

the neighborhood park where you had your first kiss. b. The church you grew up in. You love the gorgeous stained-glass windows! c. It has to be the grand ballroom of a luxury hotel or the fanciest country club in town.

What’s your beauty regimen going to be like?

a. You won’t do much – you want to look natural.

b. You’ll probably get your hair

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and makeup done the day of. c. You started tanning and dieting the day after the proposal, and you’ve got appointments for practice bridal updos and a morning at the spa set up already!

What kind of music will your guests be dancing to at the reception?

a. You have eclectic taste, so

there’ll be a mix of different genres– classic rock, country, swing music, and a few of the classics thrown in to keep the parents happy. b. Classic jazz and romantic ballads so you can get lots of slow dances with your honey in. c. You want anything that will get people on their feet – Top 40 hits, hiphop, and even some of those cheesy wedding songs like the Electric Slide.

Where is your fantasy honeymoon?

a. You’d love to go to Disneyworld,

or Six Flags…you have a thing for amusement parks! b. Definitely Europe – Paris, Rome, London, etc. c. You want to go somewhere tropical: Cancun, Hawaii, or the Caribbean would be perfect!

What’s the biggest priority to you while planning the wedding?

a. Finding the right photographer – you

want someone who will best capture the photojournalistic style that you love. b. The flowers and the music – you want everything to look and sound beautiful to set a romantic tone. c. Finding the best caterer in town to pull off the five-course meal you have planned.

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You’re Low-Maintenance! You want to put your own touch on your wedding, even if it breaks with tradition. What’s most important to you are the vows you’re making, not where or how you make them. You want everyone at the event to be comfortable and relaxed, and that means having a calm, casual atmosphere.

As long as you’re with the people you love, your personality will shine through on your big day. Whether this means having guys as your bridesmaids, choosing a White Stripes song for your walk down the aisle, or wearing sneakers under your dress, your wedding will surely be a memorable occasion for every-one involved!

Mostly B’s You’re Romantic! You’ve dreamt of this day since you could say ‘wedding', and you want all of the traditional touches that come with it.

You want something classy and elegant that celebrates the love you and your fiancé(e) have for each other, and that means involving all of your close family and friends on your big day. Including some family, traditions will go a long way in completing the fantasy. When your younger brother performs at the ceremony or your new spouse reads a poem aloud to you, you will treasure those moments forever.

Mostly C’s You love to be in the spotlight! You know what you want, and you expect to get it. Your wedding day is the one day that you can be a little self-indulgent and not feel guilty about it, so you’re going to enjoy it! You’re dreaming of a grand affair, with all of the extras that make a wedding genuinely memorable. From a huge wedding party to an unforgettable reception, you want to celebrate your day in style. You know this day only comes once-in-a-lifetime, so you want to make the most of it. Enjoy your day in the spotlight…you deserve it! theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 37

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Your Rehearsal Dinner THE REHEARSAL DINNER IS THE TIME TO REFLECT and enjoy the company of close friends and family before tomorrow’s big event.

It’s a wonderful time to present gifts to family members and the wedding party and thank them for supporting you during all of your wedding festivities. Restaurants, hotels and other establishments in NEW ORLEANS WEDDINGS MAGAZINE are some of the most beautiful in the country. Visit some of our amazing vendors and sample what they have to offer!

THE BASICS WHO HOSTS Traditionally, the groom’s family hosts and pays for the Rehearsal Dinner.

WHERE There are no rules for location, but ideally it will be somewhere convenient to the ceremony site (if doing an actual rehearsal). Private residences, restaurants or a unique location special to the couple are all great options.

WHO TO INVITE All immediate family (parents, grandparents, siblings and spouses), members of the wedding party (and their plus ones), and out of town guests; other wedding guests may be invited if the budget allows.

LEVEL OF FORMALITY This is entirely dependent upon the couples’ desires and wedding style and the hosts’ budget. Anything from an informal backyard crawfish boil to the most formal 5 course seated dinner at a restaurant may be chosen.

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WHEN TO BOOK Book your rehearsal venue, caterer and other vendors at least 3-6 months prior. If you would like a very popular or specific location, it is wise to reserve your location as far in advance as possible.

ask yourself these questions 1. Will your ideal location be an appropriate size for your expected guest count? ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ 2. Is there convenient and sufficient parking available? ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 3. Will you want to bring in entertainment (Jazz Trio? Piano player?)? ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 4. Do you want a formal, seated rehearsal or something more casual?

What places do you love that might be good locations for this event? ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 5. Will you want to bring in décor and florals? ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 6. Will you want a photographer or videographer to capture this party? ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 7. Will you want to give any formal speeches? ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________

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Your Ceremony YOUR CEREMONY LOCATION IS ONE OF THE FIRST decisions you’ll make when starting the planning process. Availability and location of your preferred ceremony site will often determine your wedding date and many other decisions about the wedding

CEREMONY SITE What To Ask Prospects 1. Is the facility open to non-members (e.g., Church , Synagogue, Private Clubs, etc.)?

2. Are there any restrictions on the day or time of the event?

3. Are there any restrictions for lighting, cameras, audio/video equipment?

4. How far in advance should we reserve this site?

5. Is there a mandatory dress code and/or attendant number?

6. Do you have musicians available? Will we be permitted to use outside musicians?

7. Are we permitted to decorate the site?

8. Are there rest/dressing rooms?

9. Is the site handicap accessible?

10. What are the payment terms?

11. What is the cancellation policy?

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CEREMONY MUSICIANS What To Ask Prospects 1. May we see references and a demo cd/video?

2. Are you performing locally any time soon? May we attend the performance?

3. Can we see a song list? Can you perform particular songs we might want that are not on the list?

4. What instruments/vocalists are available?

5. Are you able to perform in outdoor venues if needed?

6. How far in advance must we book?

7. What are your payment terms?

8. What is your cancellation policy?

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1. Will you perform the ceremony at a non-religious site, such as hotel ballroom, etc.?

2. Is there a standard format? Can we write our own vows and select the music?

3. If we have been divorced, or if we are not of the same faith, will you officiate?

4. Will you file the marriage license after the wedding?

5. What are your payment terms?

6. What is your cancellation policy?

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Your Reception THIS WILL BE ONE OF THE MOST ELABORATE PARTIES you will ever host. It is also the ideal time to thank your family members, friends and guests for being there with you throughout the exciting festivities. Before making your final choice, ask yourself if this location fits your wedding style. Is it within your established budget? If not, are you willing to compromise your budget to secure the location?

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1. May we see references and photographs of other receptions held here?

2. May we tour the area? Are there any specific restrictions?

3. How far in advance must reservations be made? When do you need the final guest count?

4. Are there specific minimums we must meet?

5. What area/rooms are available? How early can we set up? How late can we stay?

6. Is there a dressing room our wedding party will have access to?

7. Are there enough electrical outlets for our entertainers? Do you provide any type of sound system? Are there any lighting or sound restrictions?

8. How large is the dance floor? Can you provide a stage or raised platform?

9. Do you provide tables, chairs, linens and/or table settings?

10. Do you have a caterer on site? Bar service? Are we required to use the on-site caterer or is an off-site caterer permitted? Will they have access to your kitchen?

11. Who will be the main contact for our baker, florist, caterer, event planner, etc.?

12. Will you provide the serving staff? How many and in what capacity?

13. Can you provide parking valets, coat check and/or door attendants?

14. What is the maximum capacity, both seated and standing?

15. Do you have any other events scheduled on the day of our wedding?

16. Are you insured for liability? Will you provide security, including the parking lot?

17. What is your rental fee? For how long? Does that include service, catering and/or clean-up?

18. What are your payment terms?

19. What is your cancellation policy?

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their story TAYLAR MAJOR IS A METICULOUS PLANNER and the 2017 Christmas party was especially important to her: It would be the first event she and her long-time boyfriend, Vincent Hirstius, would be hosting in their new Lakeview home.

Taylar spent four months tending to details, determined to get everything – the invitations, the food, the décor – just right.

On the night of the party, she’d just begun her prepared speech thanking guests for attending when something she hadn’t planned happened: Vincent reached into his jacket pocket and moved to stand in front of her. He dropped to one knee, held up a ring box and looked at her expectantly.

A video of the moment shows Taylar, mouth open, slowly looking turning her head to look at the guests surrounding them.

Then she whispers to her silent, but smiling, future fiancé, “You have to ask me.”

“I was so shocked,” Taylar says. “The moment was magical and surprising in the best way. I had planned my own engagement party!”

Their love story had begun almost a decade earlier when mutual friends introduced Taylar, then a junior at the New Orleans Center for the Creative Arts, to Vincent, a Brother Martin High School senior. Both were shy and introverted.

Still, within weeks the pair’s relationship turned romantic.

“Little did I know then he would be my husband 10 years later,” Taylar says. “When you’re a teenager, you don’t think you’re going to meet the person you’re going to spend the rest of your life with.”

The big date was set: December 22, 2018, exactly one year after Vincent’s surprise proposal.

With the New Orleans Tricentennial being celebrated the same year, “it was important to have all of my events at well-known locations,” Taylar notes.

The bridesmaids’ lunch was at Broussard’s; the rehearsal dinner on the second floor of Ralph’s On The Park. The couple exchanged vows in front of 200 guests in St. Mary’s Church at the Old Ursuline Convent.

The party continued at Il Mercato, a Spanish colonial-style building accented with gas lamps, reclaimed brick and herringbone floors that felt “like we were going back in time, but it was also modern,” Taylar says. The venue was decorated in “French elegance” style, with neutral and pastel colors and the couple’s personalized crest – an intertwined “M” and “H”- on display. Guests took home pralines made by a family friend.

“The reception was magical,” Taylar says. “We had a Second Line band come and play for 45 minutes. It was a ‘You had to be there’ moment.”

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WEDDING RESOURCE GUIDE ::VENUES:: The Court of Two Sisters

$$ 613 Royal Street New Orleans, LA 70130 504-522-7261 courtoftwosisters.com Court of Two Sisters, in the heart of the French Quarter, is available for weddings, rehearsal dinners, welcome receptions, and bridal brunches. Enjoy historic, elegant ambiance for your special occasion!

Elisabeth House

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$$ 4501 Canal Street New Orleans, LA 70119 614-302-8224 Facebook: Elisabeth House A Victorian Doll house sat on Canal Street replete with antiques, Tiffany blue & pastel colors and French decor throughout. Ideal for bridal showers, bachelorette parties, wedding night preparations and engagement parties.

Generations Hall

$$ 310 Andrew Higgins Blvd.

New Orleans, LA 70130 504-568-1700 generationshall.com Originally built as a sugar mill in the 1820s, Generations Hall strives to carry on the tradition of hosting elegant New Orleans style wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, banquets, and other events.

Hotel Storyville

$$ 1261 Esplanade Ave. New Orleans, LA 70116 504-948-4800 hotelstoryville.net Lush garden oasis accommodating up to 300. Covered areas, dance floor, bar.

Full catering or bring your own Food + Beverage. Quaint Inn on property sleeps 26. Two blocks from French Quarter. $ RANKING KEY $ – INEXPENSIVE | $$ – MODERATE | $$$ – EXPENSIVE | $$$$ – LUXURY

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2019 is a milestone year for legacy music festivals with the 50-year celebration of both Jazz Fest and Woodstock. The summer of ‘69 marked the birth of festival culture that has since unified generations of music-goers through it’s bohemian spirit and whimsical nature—a tradition that continues today at modern festivals like Coachella and New Orleans’ own Voodoo Fest, Essence Fest and Buku Music & Arts Project.

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Wedding in a Music Venue For many couples, festivals and concerts have played a significant role in their relationships, making epic entertainment an important item when it comes to planning their big day. If you’re the couple that always opts for the 3-day pass, never misses the chance to be front row for a show, or travels the country following your favorite acts, having your wedding in a music venue might be the perfect choice to celebrate your love of music and each other.

One such music venue, Republic NOLA, is steadily gaining notoriety for more than epic shows & festival after-parties that have spanned their diverse 13+ year history (legends like Mumford & Sons, The Chainsmokers, G-Eazy, George Clinton & The Parliament Funkadelic, Lil Wayne, & Diplo have headlined their stage, just to name a few). Since a change in ownership and major renovation in the fall of 2015, the venue has focused on hosting more weddings and private events than ever before, while also launching an expansive menu of in-house design and coordination services to streamline the planning process. They were recently honored at the 2019 Crescent City Excellence Awards for “Best Wedding Event” and “Best Event Design” and continue to push the envelope to bring every couple’s vision to life in bigger and better ways than they could ever imagine.

Gypsy Jeaux Espresseaux, housed in a repurposed 1960 International Metro Van, makes for an on-theme photo opp outside the front facade while also providing party goers with the caffeinated pick-me-up they’ll need to stay on the dance floor all night!

Get the Look Rachel channels natural boho-chic vibes in this vintage-inspired, ivory lace gown from Pearl’s Place. Floral sunglasses from Sorella’s and a hand-tied bouquet

by Herbivore Floral Designs complete her look as she soaks up the sun and enjoys an afternoon espresso courtesy of Gypsy Jeaux Espresseaux.

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All About The Vibe The expansive 7500 sq.ft. warehouse that houses Republic NOLA boasts plenty of built-in features when it comes to the bars, stage, & furnishings that establish the unique vibe of the venue. The use of real candles is not only permitted, but encouraged to augment the ambiance along with filament-bulb string lights.

The impressive lighting and sound throughout the space effortlessly evokes a high-energy atmosphere.

The venue primarily works with PigĂŠon Catering on creative culinary menus, while bar services are handled

by Republic’s talented team and typically include a clever specialty drink for each member of the happy couple that reflects their personality & taste.

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The Invitation Suite From Amber Leblanc Studios, this simply elegant invitation suite adds “something blue” to the wedding day!

Get the Look Take a turn for the glamorous with this ethereal gown and matching cape from MaeMe The Bridal Boutique.

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The exposed wood beams & brick of the historic raw space is stunning as-is, so Special Event Director, Jessica Talazac, encourages couples to focus on a few key areas when it comes to décor:

1. Entrance Table As the first impression, the entrance should be a wow-factor; in this case, a vintage Henry Miller upright piano serves as the guest-book table and sets the tone for the music theme.

2. Cake Area To highlight the 26 hanging chandeliers, Republic has a suspended cake table as one of their many in-house enhancement offerings.

Their hedge wall backdrop makes the gold & ivory ombré cake

by Bittersweet Confections stand out against the bright, bold pops of color of the uplighting, floral topper and iridescent linen.

Get the Look This page: After party approved, this La Maison Talulah ‘Secret Pursuit Mini’ dress features butterfly sleeves and trim detailing.

Stash wedding day essentials in this Mary Frances ‘Keyed Up’ handbag featuring black onyx and glass beadwork.

Get this look at Sorrella’s.

Opposite: Looking for something that’s anything but ordinary? Head-to-toe beaded Thicket lace is topped with Carlo Floral Lace cutouts on this blush and ivory fit-and-flare bridal gown with plunging front from Pearl’s Place.

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3. Entrance Table A head table is a great way to focus your dĂŠcor budget, and the farm tables and antique x-back chairs from Yur Event Rentals blend seamlessly with the wood accents of Republic NOLA while providing a neutral slate for colorful centerpieces, like the boho-inspired arrangements

by Herbivore Floral Design.

Get the Look From Linen Jolie Bridal, this stunning gown features ivory petal embroidered tulle over sparkle net and Chantilly lace. Need yet another reason to love this gown? Try the detachable shimmer tulle skirt with cascading petal appliques. Catch us! We’re swooning!

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4. Photo Opp Whether you opt for a photo booth or not, no event is complete these days without an Instagram-worthy photo moment for your guests. A textile backdrop, like the dreamy peach mod-print pictured, paired with a simple prop like Republic’s vintage jukebox, can make for fun photos with a personal touch.

Get the Look From MaeMe The Bridal Boutique, this shimmering A-line ball gown features a deep plunge and a dramatic train. This look is topped off with the “Olive & Pique” Panama wool felt hat in rust and metallic scarf from Sorella’s.

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A Popcorn Bar by Pigéon Catering + Events makes for a tasty treat during or after the wedding with custom take-home bags, and the chalkboard by Jess-A-Sketch Signs encouraging guests to “Keep Love Poppin’!” adds a playful touch.

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The Fun Factor Inspired by boho festival vibes from 1969-today, Republic’s Director of Special Events, Jessica Talazac, designed this shoot to highlight the duality of the historic space. “Everything about Republic is based in a balanced dichotomy of juxtaposing ideas; vintage character with modern amenities, industrial style with opulent accents, and a concert venue that can be completely transformed to an elegant wedding venue in ways most people would never imagine,” says Talazac. “Above all else, we believe in customization for our clients, but a close second is making sure that FUN is had by all!” The venue achieves the fun factor with a sound system that will knock your socks off, built-in LED wall for custom visuals, tons of moving lights, and curated vendor stations.

To enhance this ‘festive’ theme, Elektra Cosmetic’s Glitter Buffet allows guests to add a little sparkle with their locallymade body glitter products

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Get the Look Rachel adds some extra sparkle to her makeup and hands (hello, glitter “henna” anyone?) at Elektra Cosmetics’ Glitter Buffet. She’s wearing a flocked, dotted netting and tulle gown from Pearl’s Place with rainbow glitter earrings from Sorella’s.

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1. Bright and colorful Nora necklace by Ranjana Khan, ranjanakhan.com. 2. Feminine and distinctive, Aleili wedge sandals offer a touch of twisted charm to your wedding attire, by Jimmy Choo, jimmychoo.com. 3. Large Love 14-karat gold ring is illuminated with light-catching rubies, amethysts, emeralds and rainbow sapphires.

Wear it solo or stack it up with other bands from the LA-based label Sidney Evan, net-aporter.com. 4. Layla Top paired with Rai skirt from Willowby by Watters; A sexy crop top of ivory Dahlia Lace is perfectly paired with the matching skirt, Willowby by Watters can be found locally at Pearl's Place, pearlsplace.com.

5. Arlo from Willowby by Watters was made with the festival-loving boho bride in mind, an embroidered gown of oversized lace is accented with sexy side cutouts and bell sleeves for an unforgettable silhouette, available locally at Pearl's Place, pearlsplace.com. 6. Oversized round sunnies by Alexander McQueen feature a crystal-encrusted creepy-crawly holding the signature skull, purchase at nordstrom.com.

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THE LINE UP The Frenchmen Po-Boy Named after the musically famous street, this Cochin de Lait Po-boy has as much flavor as the Marigny has styles of live music on any given night of the week. This NOLA-style sandwich is dressed with jalapeno, tomato, cilantro, and a spicy Creole aioli. So, yes, this po-boy brings the heat.

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THE LINE UP The Magazine Watermelon Salad Finally, salad even people who don’t eat salad can get excited about! This refreshing starter combines watermelon balls, feta cheese, and fresh basil splashed with a white wine balsamic vinaigrette.

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THE LINE UP The Bienville Bananas Foster Boozy Snowball

Snowball vendors are ubiquitous at NOLA festivals (and in New Orleans in general for that matter), so a boozy snowball is a must for any self-respecting fest-inspired wedding menu.

Here, Pigeon Catering incorporates the flavors of one NOLA native dessert, Bananas Foster, with the shaved ice essentials of Big Easy summers. Grab a spoon and indulge in this banana flavored snowball spiked with white rum and garnished with cinnamon and caramelized chocolate bananas.

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IF THERE IS NO ON-SITE CATERER at your reception location, the catering professionals in NEW ORLEANS WEDDINGS MAGAZINE are among the very best in the business. Do your research, accept recommendations and be sure to taste-test! A full-service caterer provides linen services, waiters and table service. Choose one who will listen to your ideas and help plan a menu for a delightful, memorable event

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What To Ask Prospects 1. May we see a menu and package samples?

2. Will you be at the reception? Who will be assisting? How will your staff be dressed?

3. How many servers do we need for a seated/buffet reception? What is the estimated cost per person for each? What does that include?

4. How much floor space do you need for preparation, serving and bar service?

5. Are you licensed/insured for bar service?

6. What is the bar fee? What does that include? How many bars and bartenders can you provide?

7. What amount of liquor do you recommend based on our guest list?

8. Will we be charged for unopened bottles/ can those be returned?

9. What bar supplies do you provide?

10. Can you provide cash/open bar services?

11. What time will the bars close?

12. When will we need to finalize our menu?

13. When do you need a final guest count?

14. Can you provide special dietary food?

15. What are the taxes and gratuities? Are there any additional fees?

16. How much set up time do you need? Are you full-service?

17. How is the food presented? Do you provide any decor for buffet tables?

18. Are we able to do a tasting? If yes, when?

19. What are your payment terms?

20. What is your cancellation policy?

rget o f t ' don ils a t k c o the c MAKE IT PERSONAL The cocktail hour is a wonderful time for couples to infuse their own unique personalities into the precursor to the more formal reception. Everything from the food to the beverage to the dĂŠcor of the cocktail hour can be customized to reflect the couple and set the stage for the rest of the night.

SERVE A PERSONALIZED SIGNATURE COCKTAIL Signature drinks can encompass anything from a favorite cocktail of the couple to a special concoction with a story attached.

Consider printing the signature cocktail recipe and story behind the featured signature drink right on coasters or beverage napkins!

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BE FLEXIBLE.

10 Steps to a Smooth

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DON’T BE AFRAID TO DELEGATE.

Pass duties on to family and friends – that’s what they’re there for! You don’t have to be a bridezilla to ask for a favor now and then. Ask your mom to help you address invitations and ask your bridesmaids to help decorate the church. Your fiancé(e) can handle some of the details too…ask them to plan the honeymoon or book the DJ for your reception. You may have to give up some control, but in the end, you’ll be glad you did.

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USE YOUR VENDORS.

More than anyone else, your vendors have a wealth of knowledge when it comes to weddings. Ask them for any advice they are willing to give – budget concerns, figuring out the timeline, etc.

Their expertise will help your wedding go off without a hitch!

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BE ORGANIZED.

Come up with a plan and keep it all together in a wedding book or folder. The best way to prevent disaster is to plan for it. It’s not a guarantee, but if you don’t procrastinate, the odds that your wedding day will be a calm one increases.

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BE HEALTHY.

Take care of yourself. Planning a wedding is stressful, but if you’re not sleeping or eating properly, it’s only going to make things worse. Eat healthy, work out regularly, and maintain a consistent sleep schedule. While it takes a time commitment, you’ll feel better in the long run.

It’s important to be open to change. If you find out that the beautiful reception hall you dreamed of won’t hold all the guests at your wedding, don’t let it dash all of your wedding dreams. You may not be able to afford that big bash in Jamaica, but you can still have a wonderful day if you learn to go with the flow.

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TAKE A DAY OFF.

Take some time to pamper yourself; it will help renew your energy. Turn off your phone, grab your maid of honor, and go to a spa. It doesn’t even matter how much money you spend… take a bubble bath at home and give yourself a pedicure.

The important thing is taking some time out to recharge your batteries. Planning a wedding is hard work – you need a little break now and then!

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REMEMBER THE BIG PICTURE.

Of course, your wedding day is important. The most important thing, however, is the marriage. Focus on the future and don’t put all of your eggs in the proverbial “wedding day basket.” At the end of the day, you will have made a commitment to someone to spend the rest of your life with them, for better or for worse.

STAY FOCUSED.

It’s commonly agreed that multitasking doesn’t work. If you overload yourself, you’re only going to increase your stress and make yourself miserable.

Writing out a to-do list will help you keep things moving along smoothly. Focus on one task at a time, and don’t worry about anything else until that one task is taken care of.

HAVE REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS.

It would be nice if everything went perfectly, but that’s not likely to happen. When the flower girl throws a tantrum in the middle of the ceremony or the DJ plays the chicken dance after you explicitly told him not to, don’t get upset. If you don’t set your expectations sky-high, you may even find you’ll be able to laugh it off!

BOND WITH YOUR HONEY-TO-BE.

Preparing for the wedding isn’t nearly as important as preparing for the marriage. Take some time to go on dates with your fiancé(e) and make sure you get pre-marital counseling. Spending time together will remind you why you’re going through all of this in the first place, and it will definitely make that walk down the aisle a happy one.

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ON LOCATION: Audubon Tea Room, audubonnatureinstitute.org/private-events STYLED BY: Rena Sweeney for Alchemy Events, alchemyeventsnola.com PHOTOGRAPHY: Sarah Alleman Photography, sarahallemanphotography.com CUISINE: Executive Chef Molly McLaren, Marie’s Fleur de Lis Catering, fdlcatering.net FLORALS: Berry Blossom Flowers, berryblossomflowers.com STATIONERY + CALLIGRAPHY: Eglantine Rose Letterpress, eglantinerose.com CAKE: Shake Sugary, shakesugary.com MACARONS: Grey Bird Baking Company, greybirdbakingco.com EDIBLE BEVERAGE BRANDING: Quianta Treats LLC, quiantatreats.com RENTALS: Perrier Party Rentals, perrierpartyrentals.com

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ABOUT THE VENUE: Perfectly polished hardwood floors, soaring 45 foot ceilings and a lush private garden setting await you at the Audubon Tea Room. This most prestigious of the Audubon Nature Institute venues can accommodate up to 750 guests reception style.

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growing concern that has become a common question from my clients in the last few years is how they can be more conscientious with their wedding.

Sometimes that means they want to be more environmentally friendly, want to incorporate vegan or gluten-free foods into their menu or make sure they are giving back in some way.

Even if you aren’t sold on doing a fully vegan, eco-friendly wedding, there are still ways you can lessen your environmental impact or give back while still hosting the amazing, luxe wedding of your dreams.

We showcased a wide variety of ways to be conscientious in this Eco-Luxe editorial, however, there are many other easy things that anyone can do to implement small changes to their own wedding.

DON’T BE AFRAID TO ASK As you begin your planning process, don’t feel shy about asking vendors if they are green. This might include using only local produce, tree free paper in your invitations, cleaning with environmentally friendly products, growing their own flowers, etc.

FRIENDLY FLORALS Asking your florist to use traditional arrangement techniques instead of Oasis floral foam is also a phenomenal way to make a change that is beneficial to everyone involved.

Oasis foam contains known carcinogens that are dangerous to breathe in plus are not biodegradable.

RECYCLE You can also commit to waste reduction at your wedding by asking that anything that can be recycled is recycled; food scraps can be composted and left over food or flowers donated to a local shelter or nursing home.

REUSE Delicate and delicious, these macarons created

by Grey Bird Baking Company owner Taylor Moore are not only delightful treats for your guests, they also serve double-duty as escort “cards”. Grey Bird offers macarons in an array of vegan flavors, including our favorite, Pistachio. Calligraphy in edible ink by Jennifer Vencill, Eglantine Rose Letterpress.

ABOUT ALCHEMY EVENTS: Alchemy Events owner Rena Sweeney has been creating exceptional experiences in New Orleans and around the world for two decades. Rena carries her passion for eco-conscious, ethical living into designing events and is the go-to event designer for couples wanting to make a big impact without making an impact on the environment.

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Renting items such as china, natural linens, flatware & glassware are also fantastic for waste reduction as the items are being reused. In New Orleans it is sometimes not possible to use china or glassware, especially in some of our historic buildings and courtyards, and in those cases, there are many eco-conscious items such as bamboo plates to use in place of breakable products. Ask your caterer about these options.

BE DELIGHTFUL Another opportunity to think green includes candle decor. Obviously many of our historic facilities do not allow open flames, including candles, so in those cases, battery operated ones will be your only choice. However, if possible, try to use unscented candles made from soy, coconut wax or hemp oil instead of paraffin which is made from fossil fuels (a non-renewable resource). If open flames are allowed, you can also ask your caterer to make sure they are using an eco-friendly chaffing dish fuel such as Sterno Green Heat or Greenscapes BioFuel.

GIVE BACK Finally, as couples are often combining households, there has also been a rise in “charity registries” where your guests can donate to a charity instead of purchasing home goods which many couples already have an abundance of. Couples may also choose to donate to their favorite charity in lieu of traditional favors. Guests won’t miss receiving a favor & will love the sentiment of having helped others in need instead. One of my personal favorite charities is the Humane Society of Louisiana who we spotlighted in the Eco-Luxe editorial!

If you are fully on board with this concept and want to explore further options, make sure to follow our blog series: The Ultimate Guide to Eco-Friendly, Ethical Weddings at www.alchemyeventsnola.com and sign up for our mailing list for updates as we continue to bring you more information on this topic.

“Letterpress...is very eco-friendly,” shares Eglantine Rose Letterpress owner Jennifer Vencill. “It’s printed on antique cast iron presses: each piece is placed into the press one at a time, by an artisan printer. Because the volume is small, and the level of care is very high, it doesn’t have a lot of waste of materials or resources.

I use about a teaspoon of ink for an invitation suite, and clean up with soy based solvents. My presses are treadle-powered, so they use no electricity. I also love that the presses were manufactured in the 1890s and are still going strong. They are environmentally-friendly by virtue of having been built to last forever.”

“Handmade paper is also great for eco-conscious brides. It’s made by small studios, one sheet at a time, from cotton scraps which are offcuts from the garment industry. It’s tree-free, and is made using what would otherwise be waste. And cotton papers can be recycled right along with wood pulp papers.

The ribbon we used was cotton muslin, torn into strips. For the pink color, I hand-dyed it with watercolor. Muslin is frequently used in fitting clothing patterns, so if a bride is having a dress made from scratch, the seamstress might have scraps of muslin left over.”

Vintage handkerchiefs for tears of joy or a spontaneous Second Line can be sourced from family or at thrift stores and are a beautiful option for eco-conscious couples.

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tablescape details.

Incorporating real china and flatware with elegant linens is a great way to be eco-conscious. Here Harmony White linen and napkins from Perrier Party Rentals are the perfect contrast for Perrier’s ivory and gold banded china and gold plated flatware. Gold Infinity Chairs, also from Perrier, are the perfect accent for this elegant table design.

With a degree in Marine Biology and previous experience teaching Environmental Science, Berry Blossom Flowers owner Amy Marshall has a strong affinity for taking care of the environment. “I have spent most of my life having a soft spot for environmentally friendly living,” she shares.

ld school” “o s se u ll a sh r a we love that M ing her floral designs. reat methods in c Instead of using Oasis foam, which is bad for the environment and health, Marshall uses chicken wire to help structure her arrangements. The featured orchids were all potted and cleverly disguised with sheet moss so they could be later repurposed. She also repurposed containers for the plants from recycled materials in addition to using containers sourced from antique stores.

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free, vegan y t l e u r c se e h Enjoy t r next event! u o y t a s e l nibb VEGAN “CHARCUTERIE” BOARD: Cavi-art Black and Orange Vegan Caviar Alternative: This unique alternative to caviar is made from seaweed, but looks and tastes like real caviar.

Orange Zest + Aleppo Pepper Fig Salami by Hellenic Farms: This vegan salami is made with premium dried figs, Aleppo peppers and dried fruits and nuts to mimic the taste and texture of traditional salami.

Vegan Smoked Salmon by Sophie’s Kitchen: Made with konjac root, an ancient superfood, this vegan smoked salmon has all the flavor of traditional smoked salmon but in plant-based form!

Strawberry Balsamic Artisan Cheese by Reine Royal Vegan Cuisine: Try this seasonal, artisan cashew cheese and experience all the flavor you’re expecting from a traditional white cheddar, but without soy, diary, gluten or GMO ingredients! This cheese is blended with a strawberry balsamic reduction and accented with black pepper.

Cracked Pepper Dill Artisan Cheese by Reine Royal Vegan Cuisine: Perfect as a spread on crackers or crispy bread, this vegan cheese has notes of chives, dill and cracked black peppercorns with the tangy flavor you expect from aged dairy cheesebreadsticks and a selection of dried fruits and nuts.

Complete your vegan “charcuterie” board with crisp breadsticks and a selection of dried fruits and nuts.

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Find all these vegan alternatives at veganessentials.com

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SEARED “SCALLOPS” King oyster mushrooms stand in for traditional scallops in this delightful vegan appetizer by Marie’s Fleur de Lis Catering. Chef Molly plated the “scallops” atop pickled julienned vegetables with a spicy soy glaze. Green pea tendrils are a delightful finishing touch.

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HARISSA CAULIFLOWER STEAK WITH TOMATO BASIL FARRO Herb crusted and roasted cauliflower steak is topped with spicy harissa, a smoky, spicy sauce, and served over farro, a nutty flavored grain, with grape tomatoes and fresh basil.

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Shake Sugary lead pastry chef Dawn Snead, creates beautiful, delicious vegan confections in her unconventional Bywater bakery.

Some of the vegan flavors Chef Dawn creates include chocolate raspberry ganache, raspberry buttercream and homemade lemon curd - all flavors you’d expect from a high-end bakery but vegan!

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Quianta Treats creates these edible wafer “floaters” branded with your wedding’s logo or other image of your choice.

These are the perfect addition to a foamy drink such as this Pink Lady drink. Substitute aquafaba for egg white in a traditional Pink Lady recipe to make this cocktail vegan!

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ABOUT MARIE’S FLEUR DE LIS CATERING: Marie’s Fleur de Lis Catering is a 3-star Certified Green and Woman Owned caterer. With their extensive resources and experience Marie’s Fleur de Lis Catering creates delightful menus for fabulous events in the finest locations New Orleans has to offer

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1. Stellium Diamond with Champagne Halo Ring in 14k Yellow Gold by Bario Neal, bario-neal.com. 2. Malta textured vegan leather box clutch with metallic gold finish, top snap closure and chain shoulder strap, by Urban Expressions, urbanexpressions.net. 3. Billie is a luxurious French crepe body hugging gown that caresses your curves beautifully, by Made With Love Bridal. Made With Love Bridal gowns can be found locally at Unbridaled, unbridaled.com.

4. Victoria floral crown by les Couronnes De Victorire is hand-made of preserved flowers which will last forever, you can order this flower crown online only at lescouronnesdevictoire.com.

5. Stevie, by Made With Love Bridal features a deep V-neck figure hugging gown made of exclusive hand-made lace and nude underlay, Made With Love Gowns are available locally at Unbridaled, unbridled.com. 6. ALTR™ Created diamond earring in 18k White Gold with 5.55 CT TW, find out more about ALTR diamonds at alto.nyc.com. 7. Brie pale nude satin rhinestone pointed-toe ankle-strap heels in luxe satin is made from all vegan friendly, man made materials by Blue by Betsy Johnson, available at lulus.com. theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 81

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their story KELLY HAMBLIN AND MICHAEL BENEDICT met while living in Washington, D.C., but they didn’t truly connect until a few years later when they both took international development jobs in East Africa, she in Rwanda, he in Uganda.

“We had both just moved away from all of our friends and family and the only people we knew online at the same time in the same time zone was each other,” says Michael, who with Kelly, now lives in Seattle. “We weren’t as far away as that sounds, maybe four or five hours apart.”

She visited him. He visited her. He took work in Kenya. She transferred to Tanzania. But love knows no borders.

In 2017, the couple were spending December holidays in South Africa, where Michael lived.

They decided to celebrate New Year’s Eve at Reverie Social Table, a Cape Town restaurant owned by close friend Julia Hattingh. The chef was introducing the upcoming courses and sparkling wine pairings when, as planned, Michael cut in, standing and saying, “Excuse me, everybody. May I have your attention please?”

He went down on one knee and offered Kelly a ring with a Tanzanite stone, the blue-violet gem found only in Tanzania, set in platinum shaped like a protea, South Africa’s national flower. An airplane was etched inside the band.

Kelly said yes to Michael’s proposal. She wasn’t the only one.

“A guy in the other corner had already had some wine and he also accepted,” Michael says.

They chose to marry in New Orleans, a city Kelly knew well from growing up in Lafourche Parish. The event would coincide with Jazz Fest.

“We wanted to attract friends who lived abroad to a city they might not have visited otherwise,” Kelly says. “Jazz Fest would highlight the amazing food and music the city has to offer.”

About 70 guests from around the world came together in May 2019 for festivities that included a crawfish boil managed by Kelly’s childhood friends and live music on Frenchmen Street.

The couple exchanged vows on May 4, the second Jazz Fest Saturday, at City Park’s Popp Bandstand. After toasting with Champagne and enjoying beignets from Café du Monde, the party moved to the Fair Grounds.

Everyone scattered during the festival but at the end of the day, somehow, without any planning, the couple and many of their guests were together at the Gentilly Stage as Diana Ross began the day’s final set. The day, which had started with heavy rains and been mostly cloudy, was now clear. Under a warm sun, with Ross singing “Endless Love,” Kelly and Michael had their first dance as a married couple.

“It was a great way to end the day,” Kelly says.

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BAND OR DJ PROSPECTS 1. Are you performing locally any time soon? May we attend the performance?

2. Can we see a song list? Can you perform particular songs we want that are not on the list?

3. How will you be dressed?

4. Do you provide lighting/special effects?

5. How far in advance must we book?

6. Will you be the master of ceremonies at the reception?

7. How many breaks do you take and for how long? Do you require a break room and/or food to be provided?

8. How many sets do you play and how long is each set?

9. Do you charge a total rate or by the hour?

10. When do you start overtime rates?

How much?

11. What are your payment terms?

12. What is your cancellation policy? your location as far in advance as possible.

OTHER PROSPECTS n What is included with your service? n How many hours are included? n How much space do you require for setup? When will you arrive to set up? n How will you be dressed? n How far in advance must we book? n Do you charge a total rate or by the hour? n When do you start overtime rates?

How much? n What are your payment terms? n What is the cancellation policy?

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WHETHER YOU’RE “A LITTLE BIT COUNTRY” or he’s “a little bit rock ‘n’ roll,” the entertainment needs to be accommodating to please you, your family and guests. New Orleans musicians can provide that versatility from classical music ensembles to funk bands. You might also choose to have additional entertainment, such as a photo booth or live event painter at your wedding! Choose your entertainment with as much care as you would with other items for your wedding

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ON LOCATION: Royal Frenchmen Hotel, royalfrenchmenhotel.com PHOTOGRAPHY: Trent Spann, Images by Robert T., imagesbyrobertt.com DRESSES: Pearl’s Place, pearlsplace.com | Town & Country Bridal townandcountrybridal.com JEWELRY: The Bead Shop, beadshopneworleans.com FLORALS: Herbivore Floral Designs, herbivorefloraldesigns.com CAKE: Gambino’s Bakery, gambinos.com COTTON CANDY: Poof Cotton Candy, poofcottoncandy.com GLITTER: Elektra Cosmetics, elektracosmetics.com PARASOLS: Nola Fabiola, nolafabiola.com FLOWER GIRLS: Amelia-Grace Harper, Makenzie Smith, Tinley Smith and Corinne Zeller

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(Left to right) Corinne is wearing an alabaster tulle mini-ball gown with illusion bateau neckline and cascading tulle skirt, available at Town & Country Bridal. Makenzie is wearing a blush flower girl dress with glitter tulle skirt, available at Pearl’s Place. Tinley is wearing an ivory flower girl dress with rhinestone embellished bodice and tulle skirt from Pearl’s Place. Amelia-Grace is wearing an ivory bodice and ivory sparkle skirt flower girl dress from Town & Country Bridal. Herbivore Floral Designs imagined these colorful pink flamingo flower girl basket alternatives. All the girls are wearing hand-made jewelry from The Bead Shop. theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 87

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the venue

Located in New Orleans’ famous Frenchmen Street Entertainment District across from Washington Square Park, the Royal Frenchmen Hotel is a chic boutique hotel featuring 16 guest rooms and suites and a beautiful courtyard that’s perfect for intimate weddings of up to 150 guests.

the decor

Inspired by the Surreal art showcased at the Royal Frenchmen Hotel, we created this fanciful courtyard wedding theme. Tables and chairs became “lawn furniture” complete with colorful “gardens” by Herbivore Floral Designs. Fluffy faux clouds float under umbrellas and an “overflowing” fountain becomes an aisle runner.

the pups

Top: Who’s a good girl? Tiffany is! This sweet little pup from Kismet Pet Adoptions is looking for her forever home.

Bottom: This dapper fellow is named Alvar and he’s a Beagle and Hound mix. Alvar is a sweet, gentle soul and you can learn more about him through Kismet Pet Adoptions.

the dress

Makenzie is wearing a blush flower girl dress with glitter tulle skirt, available at Pearl’s Place. She is wearing hand-made jewelry from The Bead Shop.

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the pups

This page top: Gracie, from DREAM Dachshund Rescue, looks beautiful in her floral collar designed by Herbivore Floral Designs.

This page middle: Mikey, a senior Chihuahua and Pomeranian mix from Animal Rescue New Orleans, struts his stuff down the aisle with Corrine.

He loves squeaky toys and flaying fetch!

This page bottom: Roxie is such a sweet little lady. She’s a Wirehaired Terrier and Chihuahua mix known for snuggling.

Find out more about Roxie from Kismet Pet Adoptions.

the cake

This 3-tier buttercream cake by Gambino’s Bakery “floats” on a cloud and is wrapped in poofs of purple and blue ombre cotton candy by Poof Cotton Candy. A pair of miniature balloon dog statuettes top the cake.

the dresses

THIS PAGE Top: Amelia-Grace is wearing an ivory bodice and ivory sparkle skirt flower girl dress from Town & Country Bridal, along with hand-made jewelry from The Bead Shop.

Middle: Corinne is wearing an alabaster tulle miniball gown with illusion bateau neckline and cascading tulle skirt, available at Town & Country Bridal. She is wearing hand-made jewelry from The Bead Shop.

Bottom: Tinley is wearing an ivory flower girl dress with rhinestone embellished bodice and tulle skirt from Pearl’s Place. and hand-made jewelry from The Bead Shop.

OPPOSITE PAGE Top: Amelia-Grace is wearing an “I’m here for the cake” silver sparkle tee paired with an alabaster tulle tutu, available at Town & Country Bridal.

Bottom: Corinne is wearing a stripe organza flower girl dress, available at Town & Country Bridal with a hand-made necklace and bracelet custom designed by The Bead Shop.

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the gowns

This page top: Makenzie looks like a princess wearing this ivory/cashmere sugar rose caviar mini-ball gown from Town & Country Bridal and hand-made necklace from The Bead Shop. Her orange and hot pink scalloped edge parasol from Nola Fabiola.

Flower girls Makenzie and Tinley have some fun showing off their gold sequin flower girl dresses from Pearl’s Place that are the perfect complement for their teal and gold and red and gold scalloped edge parasols from Nola Fabiola. They are wearing handmade jewelry from The Bead Shop.

the pups

Ring dog, Cash, (left) from Take Paws Rescue, is just a sweetheart! He’s professionally trained and looking for his forever family. Flower dog, Junebugg, from Kismet Pet Adoptions, is an American Staffordshire Terrier mix and gets along great with kids and other dogs.

Say “I Do” to forever love.

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FEATURED ADOPTABLE DOGS: Cash - Take Paws Rescue, takepawsrescue.org Mikey - Animal Rescue New Orleans (ARNO), animalrescueneworleans.org Gracie - DREAM Dachshund Rescue, dreamdachs.org Roxie, Alvar, Tiffany and Junebugg - Kismet Pet Adoptions, kismetpetadoptions.com We’d like to say a special thank you to Rena Sweeney of Alchemy Events for coordinating the efforts to bring together the adoptable dogs who are featured in this editorial. Rena serves on the board of the Humane Society of Louisiana and works tirelessly to help all animals in need.

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Elle Filigree Drop Earrings by Kendra Scott in dichroic glass and silver available at nordstrom.com. 3. Crafted from Italian satin, the two-tone Eliana exudes femininity, a Crystal Farfalla butterfly finishes this pointed toe re-imagination of the ballerina by Aruna Seth, arunaseth.com. 4. 14K Pink Sapphire & Diamond Flamingo Pendant Necklace by Sydney Evan, sydneyevan.com. 5. Viva La Juicy is made for any occasion, day or night, when you want to be unforgettable, Juicy Couture, juicycouturebeauty.com. 6. A garden of colorpop spikes along with logo insignia and mixed studs shine on Zoompouch calfskin leather clutch by Christian Louboutin, nordstrom.com.

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BEAUTIFUL

BALANCED BRIDE WRITTEN BY: Tiffany Kavanaugh

EVERY BRIDE WANTS TO BE BEAUTIFUL ON HER WEDDING DAY. Brides that aren’t beautiful are extremely rare (and I have never personally seen one), but there is one sure beauty-buster that can loom during every bride-to-be’s engagement period.

It can jilt joy, manifest moodiness, foster forgetfulness, harbor headaches, induce insomnia, exhaust excitement, annex appetites, aggravate attitudes, and nearly ruin relationships. Its name is STRESS. Every bride feels it at some point, and when it comes in small doses it usually serves as a healthy catalyst. However, if and when it starts to get severe, people may start to mutter the word Bridezilla under their breath.

Nobody wants to be a Bridezilla, but just in case you are feeling frazzled, frizzled, fretful, or fearful that you are a Bridezilla in the making (or worse yet, someone has handed you this article), read on about the different kinds of stressed-out brides.

Follow the tips for “Beautiful Bride Behavior” (Guidelines for What to Do) and “Beautiful Bride Brainstorms” (Guidelines for How to Think). By the time you reach your wedding day, you will be nothing less than a Beautiful AND Balanced Bride – both inside and out!

BANKRUPT BRIDE

Described as planning a wedding out of your means. The credit score slips and payment plans stack up while the tears of worry are falling down.

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Beautiful Bride Behavior – Create and stick to a budget. Can you live without chair covers and live butterflies? The answer is yes. At the end of the day, you will be married no matter how much or how little you spend. Figure out where it makes the most sense to spend your cents.

Beautiful Bride Brainstorm – Understand that weddings don’t have to be expensive to be beautiful. Smiles are free and beautiful, but drowning in mega-debt is not.

BARBIE BRIDE

Described as wanting perfection at all costs. Sometimes this desire for perfection can lead to procrastination because nothing seems good enough

to even get you started. This stress also comes from the idea that the purpose of your wedding is to impress your guests.

Beautiful Bride Behavior – Evaluate and prioritize which details are the most important to you, then focus on those.

Give details with the lowest priority the least attention. Make a decision on these and then shift your focus back to your favorite, high-priority details. For instance, put your energy into the “old and new” and refuse to dwell on the “borrowed and blue”.

Beautiful Bride Brainstorm – Learn to let go of idealistic thinking. Take the word perfect out of your vocabulary and substitute it with words like special, meaningful, memorable, beautiful, or even practical. See how becoming more open-minded creates a lot less stress. Remember that if Barbie were a real person, she would be terribly disproportioned and a candidate for breast reduction.

BLUE BRIDE

Described as the bride who may get the blahs, which tend to be triggered by high stress, anxiety, and lonel iness.

If you start to consider adding your wedding coordinator to your wedding party, you are spending way too much time with this person, and it may be at the expense of other, more lasting relationships.

Beautiful Bride Behavior – Stay connected to your support system. Just talking over your stress can help alleviate it. Also, make it a point to remember that there may be other noteworthy occasions in the lives of your fiancé, friends, and family. Talk to them about their lives, not just your wedding.

Beautiful Bride Brainstorm – Remember that stress and emotions are temporary.

Concentrate on the celebration of your loving commitment. Excite yourself with the eternity of your everlasting love.

Focus on your faith lasting forever.

BOSSY BRIDE (a.k.a. Control Freak)

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Beautiful Bride Behavior – It is a good idea to let people know your expectations ahead of time. Maintain your sense of humor as you realize that sometimes the unplanned and impromptu moments become your most treasured memories.

Allow people to do the jobs that you previously (back when you were sane) determined they were capable of.

Beautiful Bride Brainstorm – Pray the Serenity Prayer. Repeat as often as needed. Also, ask yourself, “Will this matter five years from now?” Chances are it won’t. Even your wedding photos eventually find their way to storage that rarely sees daylight.

BURNED-OUT BRIDE

Described as “desperate to get this over with”. Whether you have had years of planning or perhaps years of abstinence, you are ready to reach the culmination and/or the consummation.

Beautiful Bride Behavior – Take your

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mind off of the wedding. Purposefully go do something else. Grant yourself and your fiancé permission to take a break. Having a balance of activities is a good way to prevent moodiness that may be associated with intolerance and impatience.

Beautiful Bride Brainstorm – Remind yourself to keep your eye on the prize. Patience is a character builder.

Remember that whatever doesn’t kill you will make you stronger.

BUSY BRIDE

Described as a bride whose schedule causes head-spinning and tail-chasing.

This bride is so confused she is rapidly losing track of her deadlines, hemlines, to-do’s, I-do’s, party favors, cake flavors, bridal showers, and selection of flowers.

Beautiful Bride Behavior – Slow down by getting off of the pre-marital merrygo-round. It’s okay to not let the wedding plans become the consuming activity in your life. Be deliberate about getting

plenty of rest (8 hours), exercise (3-4 times per week), and proper nutrition.

Trade your wedding planner and caffeine for some cardio, a bottle of water, and some Zzzzzz’s.

Beautiful Bride Brainstorm – Remember that it’s okay to set limits and boundaries with yourself and others. Ask for help.

Avoid excessive people pleasing. Assert your right to say no. Busy brides need to find a way to “stop and smell the bouquet”.

If you are a bride who does not see yourself as a Busy, Bossy, Burned-out, Blue, Bankrupt Barbie, congratulations!

You have managed to avoid any hints of becoming a Bridezilla. If you do see yourself in any of these or other stressful situations, the main thing to do is to maintain perspective. Your wedding is undoubtedly one of the most important days of your life, but in the big picture, it is just one day. When you look back, it will seem like the blink of an eye. Blessed be the Beautiful, Balanced Bride!

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Your Gown

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ask yourself these questions

CONSIDERATIONS 1. Where are you getting married? Your dress should be appropriate for the level of formality of your event and also the time of year.

2. Do you want to wear a veil or other headpiece?

3. Does your ceremony site have any restrictions pertaining to clothing?

4. What style gowns are you most drawn to?

Bring photos of gowns that catch your eye to give your bridal boutique attendant an idea of what you like.

5. Are you planning any major body transformations before the wedding?

Ask when the latest you can order is so that your gown will fit as comfortably as possible.

6. Will you need any particular foundation garments with the gown you choose?

Be sure to bring these and your wedding shoes with you to all alteration appointments!

7. Are there any special accessories you wish to wear?

8. When shopping for your dress, a small group of trusted friends who know your style is best. Resist the urge to bring everyone you know shopping.

Bridal Salon WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS 1. Do you have any gowns in stock, or must they be ordered?

2. Can you guarantee a delivery date?

How far in advance do I need to place my order?

3. How many fittings should I schedule?

4. Do my attendants need to be here in person to order their dresses?

5. When can you offer alterations and fittings? Can you make last-minute alterations?

6. What is your return policy?

7. What are your payment terms?

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N.O.W. the fun begins - the search for the perfect wedding gown and styling your wedding day look. Be sure to choose a dress that looks and feels like it was made just for you. Be realistic about your budget and let your bridal boutique attendant know both the style and price range you’re looking for. But remember, this is all about you. Don’t let outside opinions get between you and your dream dress!

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Always a Bridesmaid BEING ASKED TO BE A BRIDESMAID OR MAID OF HONOR is a huge honor! When you accept, you’re signing on for certain responsibilities. Be sure to consider if you have the time and finances to make the commitment before saying yes!

BRIDESMAID RESPONSIBILITIES

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n Help plan and pay for bridal shower n Help plan and attend the bachelorette party (consider travel costs if applicable) n Attend as many pre-wedding events as possible n Go dress shopping with the bride (if she asks) n Get fitted for and order your dress on time n Help with wedding projects (if the bride asks and you can commit the time) n Be there for the bride

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n Your own dress, shoes, jewelry n Your own hair and makeup n Travel costs to the wedding and overnight accommodations on the wedding day n A shower and wedding gift (may be group gifts from all the bridesmaids)

things for the b ride to think about BUDGET 1. Consider your bridesmaids’ budgets when selecting the gown, shoes and accessories you’d like them to wear. If your maids have limited budgets you might consider allowing them to select their own dresses (with color and style parameters you provide) that work within their budget.

2. If you’re expecting your bridesmaids to have their hair and makeup professionally done, consider offering to pay for this or allow them to do their own hair and makeup if they prefer.

SAY THANKS 3. Think of unique gifts for each of your bridesmaids to say thank you – remember – they’re all individuals and don’t have to have matching gifts!

4. Consider treating your maids to a bridesmaid’s brunch before the wedding as a fun treat and a way to say thank you for everything they’ve done for you.

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Well Groomed THE TASK OF SELECTING the groom’s attire is his decision. Whether purchased or rented, his attire should complement the time and feel of your wedding as well as your gown and bridal party’s attire!

FORMAL WEAR Choosing a tux might just be the easiest wedding-related decision you’ll make. After all, it’s hard to go wrong with a suit that has changed so modestly in the past 120 years. In fact, if you compare today’s tuxedo with the one your father wore at his wedding, you’ll likely see only slight variations (provided dad didn’t wear a ruffled shirt). The single-breasted notch lapel tuxedo, is a classic look that never goes out of style. Searching for your own take on the traditional tux? From ties and vests to buttons and shoes, here’s the straight talk on your options, along with styles that best suit your groom’s silhouette.

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When it comes to ties there’s standard, and then there’s spectacular. While the classic bow tie will always be a perennial favorite, there are other options for grooms who choose to venture outside the norm.

One of the most popular styles, the fourin-hand, is similar to a standard business tie.

Paired with a matching full-backed vest in a subtle pattern, a four-in-hand is the top choice.

Jacket required The key to a flattering tuxedo often lies in the jacket. The right one can whittle the waist, lengthen the torso, or add the appearance of broader shoulders. The most common jacket is single breasted with a shawl lapel. This look is perfect for both short and tall men with more of a stocky or husky appearance. The same jacket with a notched lapel would flatter a short, thin groom because the notch in the lapel gives the

appearance of broader shoulders.

A double-breasted jacket is great for thinner men because the eyes are drawn to the two rows of buttons at the midsection and gives the illusion of girth. With a double-breasted jacket, the shoulders can also be padded a bit to give the wearer the appearance of broader shoulders while still retaining the look of his trim waistline.

Somewhere between black & white The color of your groom’s tuxedo is up to the two of you. Take into account the formality of your celebration, along with the time of day. If you’re planning an afternoon ceremony, a gray tuxedo with a stroller jacket is the standard look. A more casual celebration closer to evening might call for a white dinner jacket with black trousers and tie. A formal evening affair warrants the classic black tuxedo. Keep in mind, however, that traditions are just that and the two of you should choose the style and color that you want, no matter the time of day or the formality of the occasion.

Finish the look Finally, complete the formal look with matching socks and shoes. The guys’ socks should either be the same color as their shoes, or show some personality and match the colors in your wedding, which make for some great photo ops.

Nowadays men are choosing less formal shoes and also showing personality with matching “Chucks” or “Toms.” But if needed, formal shoes can be rented from your formalwear company.

Styles vary from slip-on versions with a parade shine to mock wingtips in classic black.

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their story AFTER THE WEDDING CEREMONY IN THE library of the Ritz-Carlton; the reception in the hotel penthouse complete with four ballerinas; the second line led by a brass band and the Zulu Tramps and Indians; the amazing food prepared

by Chef Edgar “Dooky” Chase IV; and the fireworks show, newlyweds Charles Alexander and Travis Watson had the same words run through their minds, “Who would have ever thought?”

“It’s something we always say,” says Charles, who grew up in New Orleans. “What was supposed to be a night of fun turned into eight years and a wedding.”

The couple had met in a Biloxi casino in 2011.

Travis was playing the slots. Charles noticed the handsome man and went over to make conversation, opening with the line, “Are you winning?”

Thus began their long distance relationship, with Charles in Louisiana and Travis in Florida.

Over the next 18 months, they saw each other for at least two weekends every month, traveling between their homes and visiting new places together.

Then Charles, a pharmaceutical representative, found work in Florida and the pair moved into an apartment in Miramar Beach, the same city where they now live. At some point in their fifth or sixth year of dating, Charles casually asked Travis to marry him while driving back to Florida after a stay in New Orleans.

“He said, ‘I need a real proposal,’” Charles recalls, laughing. “’ If you’re going to ask me, don’t ask me when we’re driving across the toll bridge.’”

He did and the wedding planning began.

Charles wanted to have both ceremony and reception at the Ritz-Carlton on Canal Street.

“That was one of my fairy tale dreams,” he says. “You’re in a hotel, but you’re not. It feels like home.”

On May 11, in the hotel’s elegant woodpaneled library, each man and his mother walked through 100 guests seated on leather chairs and couches to stand before Rev. Philip Brockett of the Central St. Matthew United Church of Christ.

The couple exchanged self-written vows. Travis promised to let Charles win an occasional fight.

Charles told Trevor he was eternally grateful for his steadfast support.

“I’m the crazy one, the more social one,” Charles says. “Trevor has never asked me to change. That means a lot to me.”

From there, they moved to the Stewart Junneau residence on the hotel’s 15th - and top – floor. There, the terrace provided a view of the city from the Mississippi River to Lake Pontchartrain, from the French Quarter to the Crescent City Connection.

Their relationship had begun in 2011 when Charles asked Trevor if he was winning in a Biloxi casino. Eight years later, surrounded by loving friends and family and forever bound, both men felt like they’d won the jackpot.

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Let Them Eat Cake NO MATTER HOW BIG, STYLISH or expensive your wedding is, it won’t be complete without a wedding dessert.

Traditionally this dessert is in the form of a wedding cake, but don’t feel like this is your only option. Have some fun! Wedding pie anyone? Milk and Cookies bar? Your options are limitless and oh so sweet!

DRAGEES Hard little sugar balls are painted with edible gold or silver paint.

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PULLED SUGAR Boiled sugar, water, and corn syrup used to create beautiful designs like roses and bows

Anatomy of a Wedding Cake Frostings BUTTER CREAM A creamy, spreadable icing that’s made from butter and sugar.

FONDANT A thick concoction made from sugar and gelatin that is rolled out flat and then draped over the cake to provide a completely smooth, firm surface for decorating.

ROYAL A frosting made by beating together sugar and egg whites. It hardens when dried, so it is great for dots, lace or lattice work.

GANACHE This fancy term is simply chocolate melted with heavy cream. This frosting makes a beautiful shiny glaze on cakes and cookies. If you chill a ganache, beat it until it’s fluffy and stiff, then form it into balls, you’ll end up with truffles. You can also chill and beat a ganache

Icings MARZIPAN a rolled paste of ground almonds, egg whites and sugar that can be draped and shaped.

SUGARPASTE Also called gum paste, it is used like marzipan to make beautiful flowers and decorations.

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Filling The filling is what really gives a wedding cake its personality.

Filling separates the layers of a cake, adding additional flavor and richness. Filling is usually fruit or cream based and depending on the number of tiers, many couples choose two or three different fillings.

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2. How soon should we order our cake? Are delivery and setup included? If so, how far in advance before the reception will the cake be delivered?

3. How do you price your cakes?

4. Can you create a custom wedding and/or groom’s cake from a photograph, fabric swatch, flower, etc.?

5. Do you specialize in certain styles or flavors?

6. Can you accommodate special dietary needs?

7. Can you make extra sheet cakes if necessary?

8. How far in advance will you make my cake?

7. Do you provide cutting instructions for servers?

8. Do you supply a container to freeze the top layer? Boxes for left-over cake?

9. Is there a charge for supports or bases? If so, may we return them and be refunded?

10. Do you rent cake stands?

11. How far in advance do I need to get my cake pulls to you?

12. What are your payment terms?

13. What is your cancellation policy?

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Your Event Planner AN EVENT PLANNER will be your new best friend in the months leading up to your wedding day. Meet and interview some of NEW ORLEANS WEDDINGS MAGAZINE planners and choose the best fit for you. Discuss everything from design details down to the budget, and let them help make your dream wedding a reality.

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WELL PLANNED Consultants aren’t just for the rich and famous. Their services run the gamut from day of planning help to full on coordination packages. There’s a plan of action for every bride and every wedding. Here are 5 reasons to hire a planner 1. REFERRALS. Working with a consultant means you get hooked up with the best people and the best plans.

2. EXPERIENCE. Your planner’s experience coordinating previous events will benefit you in a big way.

3. Efficiency. Most weddings take at least 200 hours to plan. Why waste time trying to figure out what to do when a planner can help you get your game plan on track?

4. READY FOR ANYTHING. Tissues?

Check. Backup plan? Check. Your coordinator thinks of everything and that’s a major plus when you’re stressed out, confused or just plain scared of what to do next in the planning process.

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5. STAY ON BUDGET. Whether you’re spending $20,000 or $500,000 on your wedding, you don’t want to waste money. A seasoned planner will connect you with vendor discounts and tell you what items are wastes of money and which ones are solid investments.

ask yourself these questions 1. Does this planner “get” my vision?

2. Have they given me realistic options and advice?

3. Do I feel comfortable with them? Do our personalities mesh?

4. Do I like their overall style shown in their portfolio?

5. Do they understand the religious and/ or cultural traditions that are important to us?

6. Am I comfortable with the cost of hiring them?

7. What about this planner makes me think they’re “the one”?

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS 1. May we see references and your portfolio?

2. Tell us about previous weddings you’ve coordinated.

3. Have you planned weddings similar to ours (size/traditions/venues/etc)?

4. How much or how little are you willing to handle?

5. What services do you offer?

Planning? Design?

6. Do you have a recommended vendor list?

7. Do you base your fees on the total cost or by preset packages?

8. How can you help my wedding day run smoothly and stay on budget?

9. What are your payment terms?

10. What is your cancellation policy?

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Your Wedding Décor

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YOU’RE PLANNING YOUR wedding at a “blank canvas” site, you’ll definitely need to make use of rental services. Even if you hold your event at an all-inclusive venue, you may find that you want to personalize the space with specialty linen or furniture. Décor rental companies have so much to offer from practical items like tables and chairs to fanciful thrones, ambiance creating lighting and special effects and more!

Getting Started

Rental and Décor

Before you try and select a party rental company, you’ll want to sit down with your wedding coordinator or the event planners for your ceremony and reception sites to determine exactly what you’ll need. Venues often offer linens and tableware, so you’ll want to be certain of what you’ll be receiving from your wedding venues.

Once you determine what you already have, you’ll then know what you’ll still need to make your celebration complete. No matter how big or small, it’s likely a party rental company can help you find it. From lounge furniture, roulette tables, mirrored disco balls, portable restrooms, and photo booths, party rental companys can find just about anything – all you have to do is ask.

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After determining what type of items you’re looking for, it’s time to shop.

To find a reputable party rental company, consult with your wedding coordinator, the event planners for your ceremony and reception sites for recommendations. Once you’ve narrowed your selections to a few rental companies, make appointments so you can check out each company’s inventory.

1. May we see pictures from past weddings you’ve done?

2. Have you worked at our location before?

3. What are your delivery/setup/ breakdown fees?

4. What type of lighting options are available?

5 . How can you help us create the ambiance we are envisioning?

6. What rental items do you suggest to help us create our vision while staying within budget?

7. What type of specialty items do you offer?

8. Will you be present to oversee set up on the wedding day?

9. Are you insured? What are your policies for damages/missing items?

10. How early do you need to arrive for setup?

11. When should we expect to receive a quote and decor plan?

12. Do you secure necessary permits for tenting?

13. What are your payment terms?

14. What is your policy for cancellation?

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Your flowers should reflect the personalities and tastes of the “complete” couple and create a fragrant and beautiful treat for everyone.

Get your ideas together, along with a picture of your wedding dress, style and colors of your wedding and a maximum budget figure.

Confirm deliveries and pick-up times and as with all things, sign a contract and secure your preferred floral artist with a deposit!

FLOWER CHECKLIST ___ Bride’s Bouquet ___ Toss Bouquet ___ Maid of Honor’s bouquet ___ Bridesmaid’s bouquets ___ Flower Girl bouquet/basket ___ Groom’s boutonniere ___ Groomsmens’ boutonnieres ___ Mothers + grandmothers’ corsages ___ Fathers + grandfathers’ boutonnieres ___ Ceremony Arrangements (Altar, pew markers, gifts) ___ Reception Arrangements (Guest Tables, Buffet Tables, Cake Table) ___ Other _______________________________________

Favorite Flowers __________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________

ask florists these questions n May we see pictures from past weddings you’ve done? n Are any of our flower choices restricted by season? n Do you suggest any particular flowers based on the time of year and/or location? n Will you be present to set up on the wedding day? Will someone assist you? n Will you deliver personal flowers to our getting ready location? Transfer arrangements from the ceremony site to the reception? n Do you provide decorations and equipment, like arches, trellises, candles, etc? n How fresh will the flowers be on the wedding day? n What are your delivery/setup/ breakdown fees? n What are your payment terms? n What is your policy for cancellation?

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Contracts 101 WEDDING PLANNING IS FUN AND EXCITING, but it’s also a business. As a bride, you need to be business savvy as you finalize all the details of your big day. One of the most crucial things to consider is having a clear and solid contract for every wedding vendor and service. example, may want to substitute Chilean n Get everything in writing and make salmon with Alaskan salmon because of sure you’re clear on all the terms. A what’s in season or pricing differences. It verbal agreement may seem like a good may not be a big deal for you and you deal at the time, but without a written and your fiancé(e), but it’s fair that you agreement, your spoken understanding should know about the possible changes. doesn’t have much merit. It may seem uncomfortable to ask for every detail in writing, but it’s worth it in the long run, CONTRACT TIMELINES especially if you need to reference the n To make sure you’re getting good written agreement in the future. service, a good product and a good n A contract should also cover payment contract, get quotes from two to three timelines. An industry standard in other vendors in each category. catering is to pay the estimated food n Once you’ve found a vendor you and beverage costs 30 days prior to the like, make sure you seal the deal in event, which is non-refundable. a reasonable amount of time. The n Check with your vendors about their timeline for signing a contract can vary, but typically contract timelines can be substitution policies too. A caterer for

as short as 24 hours or as long as two weeks. n Most of the time, a contract is considered final once it’s signed by both parties. Still you may have some flexibility if you need it. n Ask your vendors if they allow changes or modifications to a contract. They may allow it, but they may charge extra for the courtesy.

For liability reasons, most vendors want to make sure they’re covered in case of an accident or wedding day mishap. With all vendors, make sure you have a backup plan in case of an emergency and always try to be calm and fair. Remember having a contract is a good thing. It protects you and your vendors on your special day.

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their story TREVOR YOUNG HAD IT ALL PLANNED OUT. First, dinner with his beloved, Allison Remson, and her parents at a favorite restaurant in downtown Baton Rouge. Then a walk to the Mississippi River levee where, as fireworks burst in the air above, Trevor would ask the big question.

Most of that didn’t happen.

“I ruined my husband’s perfect proposal,” Allison admits. “After a long day at work, I asked for a rain check … Clearly, I had no idea what I was missing out on.”

But Trevor persisted. As they headed to bed after a quiet night at home, Trevor asked if they had any Rosé or Champagne. Even though Allison knew they did not, Trevor rolled out of bed, left the room, then quickly returned and, in the dark, walked to Allison’s side of the bed.

“I leaned over to turn on my bedside lamp and there he was, down on knee, in the bedroom of our first house,” Allison says. “It may not have been what he had planned, but to me, it was perfect.”

They’d met at the House of Blues in New Orleans in 2011. Allison, in college in Lafayette, was there to see the reggae band SOJA. Trevor was one of the band’s guitar technicians.

“I assumed he worked for the House for Blues, not the band,” Allison says. “I thought to myself, ‘This guy is just far enough away to not have to make a commitment to a relationship.’”

But “this guy” wanted a relationship and the pair began dating. When it was time to plan their wedding, they chose Houmas House Plantation as the setting.

On March 23, 2019 guests watched as the couple stood together under a canopy of live oaks and prepared for happily ever after. A close friend who had been there on the night they’d first met served as officiant. No one else stood nearby, Allison says, “which allowed us to completely focus on one another and the vows we were making for the rest of our lives.”

“The ceremony itself was my favorite part of the day,” Allison says. “It was right at sunset and the light was flooding through the trees, putting a spotlight on our love.”

A traditional reception at the Houmas House Pavilion followed. And then another party followed that. All of the Houmas House cabins had been rented out by the couple’s family and friends, so Allison and Trevor hired a DJ and set up a bar in the cabins’ central courtyard.

“The wedding party didn’t officially end until five in the morning,” Allison says.

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The Fine Print MAKE THE RIGHT FIRST IMPRESSION with your guests and wow them with stationery that sets the tone and style of your big day.

Stationery Checklist ___ Save-the-Dates

ask your stationier these questions

___ Invitations + Envelopes ___ Reply Cards + Envelopes ___ Programs ___ Seating Cards and/or Menu Cards ___ Thank You Notes ___ Postage ___ Calligraphy ___ Announcements ___ Other _______________________________________ __________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________

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don't forget n Envelopes should be addressed by hand n Record RSVPS to your Master Guest List n Record the dates of each mailing

1. May we see references, samples and your portfolio? ____________________________________________________________ 2. What style of invitations do you recommend for our wedding? ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 3. How long does it take to process orders? ___________________________________________________________ 4. Does the invitation I’m interested in require additional postage? ____________________________________________________________ 5. Can we get matching thank-you notes and stationery? ____________________________________________________________ 6. How many invitations should I order based on my guest list? ____________________________________________________________ 7. If I need to order additional invitations, what is the cost and how long will this take? ____________________________________________________________ 8. What customizations are available? ___________________________________________________________ 9. Can you recommend a calligrapher? ____________________________________________________________ 1o. What are the payment terms? __________________________________________________________

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Memories Captured CAPTURE THOSE ONCE-IN-A-LIFETIME memories with professional photography and video! Make sure your photographer and videographer will catch all the important aspects of your wedding. You need to decide on this service as soon as possible in the planning phase to be sure you get the best available

Photographers and Videographers

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This may seem easy, but there’s often more to consider about a photographer than his or her website. You need to work with a professional photographer who shoots in a style that suits you. If you’re a really unstructured couple, you may love a fly-on-the-wall approach to shooting a wedding; but for a more traditional look, you’ll want a photographer who shoots a mix of portraits and candids so you can fill your album with posed pictures and still have the benefit of getting some fun candids. The best way to gauge a photographer’s style? Ask to check out an entire wedding the photographer recently shot. Look for photos that convey an overall sense of the day in a style that you love.

Do a Dress Rehearsal.

Get to know your photographer by shooting some engagement photos.

You’ll get some great shots and you’ll get a sense of how your photographer works. You can also run through your wedding photos ahead of time. Many couples dress up in their wedding attire before the big day to shoot photos in a relaxed setting without time restrictions.

ask potential photographers these questions 1. May we see your references, portfolio and past wedding samples?

2. Will you be the one photographing/ filming my wedding?

3. What style do you specialize in (candid, portraits, etc.)?

4. Have you ever worked in our wedding venue before?

5. Will someone assist you on the wedding day?

6. Are you familiar with the lighting and layout at our venue(s)?

7. What are your packages and what do they include (number and size of photos, albums, additional costs)?

8. For videographer, what is the price for additional copies? Do we need to provide a song list to be played along with the video?

9. Do you offer overtime? What is the rate?

10. Can we purchase the negatives/ digital files/raw footage? If not, how long do you keep them on file?

11. What are your payment terms? Are there any additional charges we should know about?

12. What is your cancellation policy?

A Guide to Group Photos

WEDDINGS ARE THE PERFECT CHANCE TO SCORE SOME GREAT FAMILY PHOTOS – SERIOUSLY, HOW OFTEN DOES YOUR whole family get together while they’re all dressed up AND a professional photographer is on hand? Since weddings can be very fast paced here in The Big Easy, we’ve put together some suggestions to make this process run smoothly.

n Create a list of photos you want to take, who needs to be in them and the time frame they’ll be done (Before or after the ceremony? During the reception?). n Be sure to tell anyone you’d like to be in formal photos well in advance about when and where they’ll need to be for pictures. n Consider appointing a “photo coordinator” who knows who everyone is (you know Aunt Sally would just love this job!). Have them be responsible for reminding everyone of the schedule the day before and be on hand to make sure no one is missing when the photographer snaps the picture. n Keep in mind that a good photographer will need an average of 3 minutes to pose and photograph each grouping. This means 10 groups could take 30 minutes or more to photograph. Be sure to allot enough time for the number of photos you want to take or pare down the list to fit the time you have available. n Try to schedule your photos as early as possible before everyone starts partying.

It can take much longer to collect a large group once they’ve scattered at the wedding reception.

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NOW: Are there any special considerations for transportation in the French Quarter?

AL: No 55 passenger buses are allowed on the inner streets of the French Quarter, but 55 passenger coaches can pick up and drop off on the perimeter of the French Quarter. Additionally, no buses at all are allowed on Bourbon Street at any time and no bus larger than a 29 passenger is allowed through the French Quarter.

NOW: What are the most popular vehicle types this season?

AL: We’re seeing requests for MercedesBenz Sprinter Vans, Grech shuttle buses, limousine party buses, and luxury SUVs NOW: What details do you need about

the wedding day as a transportation provider?

AL: We need set up details, times and exact locations of wedding events, who the point person is and their contact info along with any special requests or needs.

NOW: What should clients expect from a driver/chauffeur?

AL: Clients should expect complete professionalism, a friendly and warm demeanor, very clean and smart dress, as well as knowledge of the city.

NOW: What are the most important questions you should ask your transportation provider before you hire them?

AL: What is the difference between a

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charter and a transfer? Can I BYOB? Can alcohol be stocked in the vehicle and included in the cost? Will I receive contact info for my driver? Is there a cancellation fee?

NOW: How far in advance should wedding transportation be booked?

AL: We suggest 4-6 months in advance typically, or longer if the wedding day is near Mardi Gras.

NOW: Are there any times of year in New Orleans that book up faster than others?

AL: Yes! Mardi Gras, Festival Season, and holidays all book up quickly.

NOW: What are the benefits of providing transportation for your guests for the wedding? Is there any situation that the couple *should* always provide transportation?

AL: Transportation should be provided if the venue is outside walking distance from the place where you or your guests are staying. Providing transportation allows your wedding party to get that extra special treatment and feeling of appreciation. For guests, it allows everyone to get to the same location at the same time, without getting lost, or arriving late.

Audubon Limousine provides transportation for all types of weddings and events. They have an impressive fleet of vehicles to accommodate events of all sizes. Learn more at audubonlimousine.com

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Your Honeymoon DON’T WAIT UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE to decide where, when and how long your honeymoon will be. If you don’t have a “dream” location in mind, consult a travel agent to help you find the perfect romantic locale!

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Your Day of Wedding Planner Getting to the ceremony on time may not be enough! You also need to have everything you will need for the day with you. Here is a list of items you will be glad you have on hand. Depend on your Maid of Honor and Best Man to help you remember these items. Better yet, make your own “Emergency Kit” to have at the ready.

BRIDE'S ATTIRE n Dress n Accessories n Shoes n Foundation garments n Headpiece/Veil n Iron/Steamer n Pins/Tape/Sewing Kit n Makeup n Jewelry n Hair Products/Styling Tools

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n Tissues/Handkerchief n Written Vows n Ring Pillow n Garter n Lucky Coin/Something Blue n Groom’s Ring + Gift n Glasses/Contacts n Medications/Pain Reliever/Antacids n Perfume n Deodorant n Mints (no gum please!) n Tweezers n Nail File, Clippers, Polish

n Give the groom’s ring to your Maid of Honor n Switch your engagement ring to your right hand n Put your hotel room key in your purse

GROOM'S ATTIRE n Suit or Tuxedo n Accessories, Shoes n Undergarments/Socks n Iron/Steamer n Pins/Tape/Sewing Kit n Hair Products n Shaving Kit

MISCELLANEOUS NECESSITIES n Bride’s Ring + Gift n Written Vows n Medications/Pain Relievers/ Antacids n Glasses/Contacts n Tissues/Handkerchief n Deodorant n Cologne n Nail clippers

groom remember to n Give the bride’s ring to the Best Man n Give the officiant’s fee and tips for other service providers to the Best Man

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ADVERTISER INDEX BAKERIES:

InterContinental New Orleans...........................................41

Calcasieu.............................................................................. 43, 67

Gambino’s Bakery.................................................................. 107

Le Pavillon Hotel.........................................................................7

Court of Two Sisters............................................................... 47

Kimbla’s Cakes........................................................................ 107

Royal Frenchmen Hotel......................................................... 47

Dickie Brennan’s Steakhouse..............................................69

The Columns Hotel................................................................. 47

Elisabeth House....................................................................... 47

The J Collection...................................................................... 30

Federal Ballroom.....................................................................35

The Jung Hotel & Residences.............................................31

Generations Hall............................................................... 39, 47

BRIDAL FASHION + ACCESSORIES: John’s Tuxedos........................................................................103 Linen Jolie Bridal.....................................................................99

Higgins Hotel.............................................................................29

MaeMe, The Bridal Boutique.............................................101

HAIR, MAKEUP, BEAUTY:

Pearl’s Place..............................................................................101

BLEU, a Blowdry Bar.............................................................. 97

Southern Bridal Dreams......................................................101

Dazzle Doll Salon & Glam Bar............................................ 97

Town & Country Bridal..........................................................99

Mary Kay Ind. Consultant Jessica Burke........................96

Le Pavillon Hotel.........................................................................7

Revive The Lakeview Hair Salon........................................ 97

New Orleans Board of Trade..............................................65

Tracy Branch Agency.............................................................. 97

New Orleans City Park..........................................................13

CATERERS: Calcasieu.............................................................................. 43, 67 Dickie Brennan and Company............................................69

Verde Beauty............................................................................. 97

Marie’s Fleur de Lis Catering.............................................. 67

INVITATIONS, GIFTS, STATIONERY:

Pigeon Catering & Events....................................................65

Abbey Printing..........................................................................117

Tap Truck NOLA...................................................................... 67

Amber LeBlanc Studio..........................................................117

The Joint BBQ.......................................................................... 67

InvitoBella, LLC........................................................................117

Toulouse Gourmet.................................................................. 10

Put It On Paper Stationery..................................................117 Roxygs Etsy Store.................................................................. 107

DÉCOR RENTALS:

Hotel Storyville......................................................................... 47 InterContinental New Orleans...........................................41

Palace Café................................................................................69 Pat O’s on the River................................................................35 Republic NOLA........................................................................43 Royal Frenchmen Hotel......................................................... 47 Royal Palm..................................................................................69 Tableau.........................................................................................69 The Cannery................................................................................11 The Chicory...............................................................................46

Big Easy Events..........................................................................111

PHOTOGRAPHERS + VIDEOGRAPHERS:

The Columns Hotel................................................................. 47

Royal Events, Candles & Décor.........................................113

Brian Jarreau Photography..................................................121

The Crossing..............................................................................29

Images by Robert T.................................................................119

The J Collection...................................................................... 30

ENTERTAINMENT:

Jessica The Photographer..................................................122

The Jung Hotel & Residences.............................................31

Aaron Lane Pro DJ Entertainment...................................84

North Photography & HD Cinema................................. IFC

The Phunky Monkeys.............................................................85

Sarah Alleman Photography.............................................. 120

FLORISTS: Fabulous Flowers, LLC..........................................................113 Grow With Us............................................................................113

Studio Vieux Carre................................................................123

WEDDING PLANNERS + EVENT DESIGNERS:

The Swansons......................................................................... 120

Alchemy Events......................................................................109

Your Day Video....................................................................... 120

TRAVEL:

PUBLICATIONS:

Paradise Vacation Escapes.................................................125

Clarion Herald.......................................................................IBC

Perspectives Travel................................................................125

Higgins Hotel.............................................................................29

VENUES:

TRANSPORTATION:

Hotel Storyville......................................................................... 47

Bourbon House........................................................................69

Audubon Limousine...............................................................124

GUEST ACCOMMODATIONS: Elisabeth House....................................................................... 47

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