New Orleans Weddings Magazine Spring+Summer 2018 Edition

| NEW ORL E A N S P L A N N E R E D I T I O N |

APRIL 2018 DISPLAY UNTIL 5/3/2018

thenowbride.com

| NEW ORL E AN S P L A N N E R E D I T I O N | JUNE 2018 DISPLAY UNTIL7/05/2018

thenowbride.com

| NEW ORL E A N S P L A N N E R E D I T I O N |

AUaGUST 2018 DISPLAY UNTIL 8/30/2018

thenowbride.com

SPRING + SUMMER 2018 CONTENTS FEATURES 18 ANGELIC BRIDES A Slice of Heaven on Earth

44 FANTASY FOOD

Don’t be afraid to dream big when it comes to designing your fantasy wedding culinary experience.

REAL WEDDINGS 32

Blair Ridgley & Patrick Hennessey

58 BYWATER DELIGHT A picturesque fête set at the Mazant, a hidden gem in the Bywater arts district

38

Kaylan Guzman & Brad Schauer

52

Marie Cupit & Tony Stahlschmidt

74 GILDED ART DECO Golden accents create elegant Art Deco Décor

86 Amanda Klevorn & Dan Chiorean

92 SOUTHERN ROMANCE Sparkle, Lace and Floral Infusions 124 WHAT'S YOUR FANTASY? Whether you’re doing a boudoir shoot for someone special or as an empowering experience just for yourself, embrace the opportunity and have fun.

CREDITS PHOTOGRAPHY: Megan Crawford Photography GOWN: Allure Bridals, available at Southern Bridal Dreams MEN'S FORMALWEAR: John’s Tuxedos LOCATION: The Elms Mansion BOUQUET: Nola Flora HAIR: Tracy Branch for Tracy Branch Agency MAKEUP: Mallory Fitzgerald for Tracy Branch Agency JEWELRY: Kendra Scott MODELS: Jarrel Bowens + Rachel Monteleone

2 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

82 Emily Castro & Jesse Edmondson 90

Brittany Barbier & Vincent Clark

104 Courtney Harper & Adam Turkington 110

Kathryn Hastings & Howie Acosta, Jr.

114

Brandi Fortuné & Michael Bordenave

120

Twila Beasley & Chris McGee

18

Photo by Theresa Elizabeth Photography

Photo by Theresa Elizabeth Photography

Photo by Theresa Elizabeth Photography

Photo by North Photography

74

32

PLANNING RESOURCES 64 S MILE BRIGHT FOR THE WEDDING PAPARAZZI

Say YES to the engagement session

64 P LANNING EVENTS FOR YOUR OUT-OF-TOWN WEDDING GUESTS Ask the Locals can plan everything from your Welcome Party to a Walking Ghost Tour!

68 EARTH TO ENGAGED!

Advice for staying grounded while planning the wedding of your dreams

10 12 66 108

118 PHOTOGRAPHY Q & A Knowing what questions to ask and more importantly, why you’re asking them is crucial when choosing your wedding photographer 122 A BACHELORETTE EXPERIENCE A Trashy Diva Lingerie Party

88 SWEET SELECTIONS You deserve to have a cake that is not only delicious, but one that you both will remember forever.

we're social !

Follow N.O.W. Magazine for daily inspiration.

@nolawedding

STYLE FILES

112 ENGAGING PHOTOS

@neworleansweddings @nowmagazine504

@nowmagazine504

12

Ultraviolet Love Heavy Metal Paper Trail Beauty Essentials

Welcome!

to the Spring+Summer 2018 Edition of New Orleans Weddings Magazine.

Consider this magazine and our website thenowbride.com your personal resources as you plan your own unforgettable event!

Turn to us when you need a timeline to keep you on track and when you need to know the top questions to ask wedding professionals before you hire them.

All of this information and more can be found in the N.O.W. Planner starting on page 135 of this issue!

Of course, we’re here to help you with inspiration too. I’d bet you’ve been dreaming of this day for a while now and can’t wait to see your fantasy wedding happen in real life. We have lots of ideas to inspire you including hot trends for 2018, Ultraviolet inspiration (the color of the year!), and, of course, real New Orleans weddings!

N.O.W. let’s get to planning… Your dream wedding awaits!

Cheers,

JessicaBurke Publisher

4 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 5

About The Covers SPRING + SUMMER 2018 EDITION PUBLISHER Jessica Burke Jessica@thenowbride.com

Look for all THREE covers of New Orleans Weddings Magazine’s Spring + Summer 2018 Edition! A new cover will be released every other month!

| NEW O RLEANS PLANNER EDITIO N |

thenowbride.com

Kim Sayatovic CREATIVE DIRECTOR + BRIDAL EVENT STYLING/COORDINATION

APRIL 2018 PHOTOGRAPHER: Theresa Elizabeth Photography | STYLED BY: Kim Sayatovic, Belladeux Event Design | ON LOCATION: The Orpheum Theater | FLORALS: Nola Flora | CANDLE DÉCOR: Firefly Ambiance Candles & Décor | LED DANCE FLOOR, GHOST CHAIRS: True Value Rental | MAKEUP: Ann Marie White for Dazzle Doll | HAIR: Heidi Poche for Dazzle Doll | GOWN: Eve of Milady, Pearl’s Place | MODEL: Julie Huesman

JUNE 2018 PHOTOGRAPHER: Theresa Elizabeth Photography | ON LOCATION: Morning Call, New Orleans City Park | GOWN: Martina Liana, Town and Country Bridal Salon | BRIDE + GROOM: Fabi and Mark Opelka

Ellen Kramer EDITOR + OPERATIONS DIRECTOR Vikki Reed GRAPHIC DESIGNER WRITERS Jessica Burke Jean Hailey Sofie LeChat Theresa Matherne Katie Minor Natalie Pompilio CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Jessica Burke Megan Crawford Theresa Matherne Ryan North FOR ENGAGED COUPLES

Our blog is filled with tons of great resources, inspiration, wedding stories and photo editorials that will help you plan an amazing wedding in New Orleans. | NEW O R LE A NS P LA NNE R ED IT ION |

FOR THE WEDDING PROFESSIONAL

N.O.W. New Orleans Weddings Magazine offers advertising packages including print, online and bridal shows.

thenowbride.com

FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT ADVERTISING, PLEASE CONTACT: New Orleans Weddings Magazine Phone: 504-832-2775 Email: sales@thenowbride.com www.theNOWBride.com P.O. Box 1148 Metairie, LA 70004

| N EW ORLEANS PLANNER EDITION |

AUGUST 2018 PHOTOGRAPHER: Eau Claire Photographics BRIDE: Courtney Harper See the wedding on page 104!

N.O.W. New Orleans Weddings Magazine is published bi-annually by NOWM, Inc. Copyright 2018. All rights reserved. Reproduction of any part of this publication without the express written consent of the publisher is strictly prohibited. New Orleans Weddings Magazine is a registered trademark of NOWM, Inc. The use of the trademark is strictly prohibited. The information in this publication is believed to be accurate. However, New Orleans WeddingsMagazine cannot and does not guarantee its accuracy. New Orleans Weddings Magazine cannot and will not be held liable for the quality or performance of goods and services provided by advertisers or any other portion of this publication

theNOWBride.com

thenowbride.com

WE’RE SOCIAL N.O.W. Magazine is published twice annually in March and September.

We feature three cover changes per issue.

6 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

@nolawedding

.

@neworleansweddings

@nowmagazine504

@nowmagazine504

Smile Bright for the Wedding Paparazzi YOUR WEDDING DAY WILL BE ONE OF THE MOST PHOTOGRAPHED DAYS OF YOUR ENTIRE LIFE. No seriously, not only will your pro photographer and video team be documenting your every move, but so will every guest in attendance and admit it, there’s probably going to be more than a selfie or two happening as well. Making your smile as bright as your love and enhancing your wedding day “glow” are specialties of our sponsors Canatella Dental. If you’ve ever wondered what cosmetic procedures are possible or just what they involve, read on to learn more!

Who doesn’t want a bright, white smile for their wedding photos? KöR Teeth Whitening is an option if you want perfectly white teeth for the great big smile that you’ll be wearing your entire wedding day. More powerful than at-home teeth whitening options, KöR Whitening not only creates more dramatic results, it’s also faster. Imagine having a dramatically brighter smile in just one hour!

If you’re facing other dental challenges, such as worn enamel, chips or cracks that make you want to improve your smile, Porcelain Veneers may be the perfect solution for you. Canatella offers complimentary consultations in their Lakeview office to help patients determine if veneers are the best option for them. The actual process is easy, quick and usually completed in just two brief office visits. In as little as a few minutes per tooth, patients have a brand new smile!

For the bride who would like a subtle pout (Hello! Who’d like extra kissable lips at the altar?!), Juvéderm increases fullness and lessens the appearance of

8 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

wrinkles around your cheeks and lips, restoring your youthful glow.

A bride favorite and Canatella’s most requested procedure, is BOTOX Cosmetic. You probably have heard of BOTOX Cosmetic for it’s ability to smooth fine lines on your forehead and around your eyes, but did you know the whole procedure takes only about 10 minutes and the results are almost instant? Also since results usually last for a few months, BOTOX Cosmetic is great for looking fresh and well rested for not only your wedding day, but for all the events leading up to it.

Now, just how far in advance should you plan these procedures? Depending on the procedure, you will want to schedule your appointments anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months ahead of your wedding day.

BOTOX Cosmetic should be placed 2-3 weeks prior to your wedding as should Juvéderm Ultra or Ultra Plus. This timeframe, shares Canatella, allows for any additional enhancements needed prior to the big day.

KöR Whitening, Canatella suggests,

should be done at least 2 weeks prior to the wedding, but can be done months in advance so that you have a gorgeous, bright smile from the engagement party all the way through the honeymoon.

If you’re considering Veneers, these can be completed in as little as 4-6 weeks, but it’s always best to get started as early as possible. At Canatella’s complimentary consultation, they’ll discuss all the options they have for you. If you decide Veneers are the right option for you, with just a few photographs and impressions they can have a wax model made for you in no time. This helps to ensure the best results and allows you to visualize exactly what your dream smile will look like before you even start treatment.

Canatella Dental offers all of these procedures and more in their Lakeview office and help not only brides and grooms, but bridal parties and mothers of the occasion to look their best. Canatella treats their patients with comprehensive care and looks to improve not only their smile but their overall health.

Visit CanatellaDental.com or call 504-265-1337 to learn more.

TEETH WHITENING | BOTOX COSMETIC | JUVEDERM

Y G O

L O N

D

E C N

A V D

504.282.0700

N LE

C

101 W. Robert E. Lee Blvd, Ste 305 EL C X New Orleans, Louisiana 70124 E L canatelladental.com TA N E D

A .

E

CH E T

N.O.W.

STYLE

Ultraviolet Love

1

Wedding essentials inspired by Pantone's color of the year.

6

3

5

4

2 1. Lilac chiffon strapless A-line bridesmaid gown, draped crossover neckline, natural waist, gathered skirt by Hayley Paige Occasions. You can find Hayley Paige Occasions at Town & Country Bridal, townandcountrybridal.com.

2. Aurora embellished minaudière clutch in purple silk by Badgley Mischka available at nordstrom.com.

3. Urban Decay Moondust eyeshadow in intergalactic, urbandecay.com. 4. Medallion silk tie by Canali, nordstrom.com. 5. Kiara crystal back open toe pump in purple satin by Badgley Mischka, nordstrom.com.

6. Rose gold and deep violet amethyst BON TON earrings from Pasquale Bruni, pasqualebruni.com.

10 | N.O.W | thenowbride.com

EXQ U I SI TE LY G O W N E D …

DO WN TOW N. Fashionable weddings are always in style at our elegant hotel on St. Charles.

We tailor your day to your exact liking – from petite gatherings to a grand event of up to 700 guests – and all laced up with finely crafted details.

Let us help you design your ideal celebration at (504) 585-4363.

Live the InterContinental® life.

444 Saint Charles Avenue, New Orleans, LA 70130 1 (800) 424-6835 www.icneworleans.com isabella.finnell@icneworleans.com

N.O.W.

STYLE

Heavy Metal

8

Your wedding will shimmer and shine with these mixed metal wedding essentials.

1

2 3

7

4

5

6

12 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

1. Caveena zigzag-strap sandal from Vince Camuto, vincecamuto.com. 2.

Petit Garden rings from Pasquale Bruni, available in white gold, rose gold and yellow gold with diamonds, pasqualebruni.com. 3. Silver glitter LOCKETT minaudière by Jimmy Choo, us.jimmychoo.com. 4. Kate Spade New York Sadie Street Champagne Saucers, Set of 2 available at Williams Sonoma, williams-sonoma.com. 5.

Intensive Age Defying Exfoliator helps restore tired, dull skin. Borghese, borghese.com. 6. Le Vian stacking Bolo diamond bracelets in yellow, white and rose gold, levian.com. 7. Two piece bridesmaid look from THEIA, Blakely top and Penelope skirt in matte gold, bridal.theiacouture.com. 8. Golden A-line gown from Berta Bridal fall 2017 runway collection. Berta gowns can be found locally at Town & Country Bridal, townandcountrybridal.com.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 15

16 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 17

N.O.W.

STYLE

ANGELIC

BRIDES A Slice of Heaven on Earth

CREDITS PHOTOGRAPHY: Theresa Elizabeth Photography | theresaelizabethphoto.com STYLED BY: Kim Sayatovic, Belladeux Event Design | belladeuxevents.com ON LOCATION: The Orpheum Theater FLORALS: Nola Flora | nolaflora.com CANDLE DÉCOR: Firefly Ambiance Candles & Décor | fireflyambiance.com LED DANCE FLOOR, GHOST CHAIRS: True Value Rental | truevaluerentalnola.com MACAROON PYRAMID: Woops! Riverwalk | bywoops.com/riverwalk MAKEUP: Ann Marie White for Dazzle Doll | neworleansmakeupandhair.com HAIR: Heidi Poche for Dazzle Doll | neworleansmakeupandhair.com ATTIRE: Pearl’s Place | pearlsplace.com ~ The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe | mae-me.com ~Town & Country Bridal | townandcountrybridal.com JEWELRY: Mignon Faget MODELS: (brides) Julie Huesman, Helena Koclanes, Ciara Young | (flower girls) Macie Chinchilla, Isabel Higgins, (cherub) Nathan Burke

18 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 19

From the Olga Yermoloff Bridal Collection by Olvi’s, this Haute Couture lace mermaid gown, available at The Bridal Boutique

by Mae-Me, features a scoop neckline and open tulle back with elegant scalloped lace embellishments. The Crescent Tassel Pendant from Mignon Faget’s Crescent Collection and Moonstone Ring complete the look.

20 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

Belladeux Events set the stage for a modern, yet ethereal wedding with this Illuminated LED dance floor and Ghost Chairs from True Value Rental. Black Contemporary Lanterns line the aisle and draw the eye to altar created with Mirror Pedestals, all from Firefly Ambiance Candles and DĂŠcor. Nola Flora added a whimsical touch with gorgeous blooms including tulips, roses and lilies as well as white feather plumes in sleek, white vases.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 21

22 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

This ivory and blush a-line gown by Eve of Milady, available at Pearl’s Place, features a hand beaded Swarovski crystal sheer sculptured bodice and tulle skirt with Italian sequin underneath. This look is paired with the Crescent Cuff and the Double Star, Crescent and Beaded Spacer rings, all in Sterling Silver, from Mignon Faget’s Crescent Collection.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 23

From the Martina Liana Separates Collection, available at The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe, a dramatic and sophisticated black ball gown combining the intricately beaded Blaine bodysuit and the voluminous Stevie skirt in Nightfall. Layers of tulle cut in asymmetrical hemlines create waves of volume that play off of the modern bead work of the bodysuit. Mignon Faget’s Crescent Bib Necklace and Crescent Cuff, both in Sterling Silver, add a touch of shimmer to this dramatic look.

24 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

This alluring look combines the Brody bodysuit, with it’s high neckline and the slim, sexy Sanja skirt, both from the Martina Liana Separates Collection, available at The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe. This look is simply finished with the Double Star, Crescent and Beaded Spacer rings, all in Sterling Silver, from Mignon Faget’s Crescent Collection.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 25

This romantic reception table styled by Belladeux Events features a white tulip and feather center sculpture by Nola Flora surrounded by small beaded-texture vases filled with blooms. Votives staged in Infinity Glass from Firefly Ambiance multiply the glow of the candlelight. Ghost chairs from True Value Rental allow the beauty of the design to be showcased while providing fanciful seating.

26 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

BRIDE'S GOWN: This Champagne tulle fit to flare Lazaro gown, available at Town and Country Bridal, features a V neckline, elongated jewel encrusted bodice and a layered sparkle and pleated tulle skirt. FLOWER GIRLS: Light gold lace and tulle flower girl dresses by Amalee Accessories Couture Flower Girl Collection, available at Pearl’s Place.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 27

This Macaroon Pyramid from Woops! Riverwalk pairs their subtle Vanilla macaroons with their refreshing Mint Chocolate flavor. The large Pyramid pictured includes 200 macaroons and is the perfect statement piece for any dessert table (or as a wedding cake alternative!). Both flower girls are wearing Amalee Accessories Couture flower girl dresses featuring lace bodices and full tulle skirts from Pearl’s Place.

28 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

This moonstone tulle beaded bridal ball gown, Arlo by Hayley Paige, is available at Town and Country Bridal. The gown features a rhinestoneencrusted bodice with alabaster and hologram accent and full-tiered tulle skirt. The look is completed with the Crescent Dangles earrings from Mignon Faget’s Crescent Collection.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 29

Allen by Sottero and Midgley, available at Pearl’s Place, is a show-stopping ballgown featuring a sheer bodice of Swarovski crystals and beading atop a voluminous tulle skirt. The bodice features an elegant illusion bateau over sweetheart neckline. The angelic flower girls are wearing a satin and tulle gown (left) from Pearl’s Place and rose gold sequin and tulle gown from The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe.

30 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

Sloane by Hayley Paige, available at Town and Country Bridal, features an ivory silk crepe bodice with jewel-neck moonstone and alabaster accent. The fitted sheath bridal gown boasts a full, detachable skirt of layered tulle and organza.

Mignon Faget’s Crescent Cuff in Sterling Silver completes the look.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 31

N.O.W.

real wedding

Blair Ridgley & Patrick Hennessey OCTOBER 7, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: Theresa Elizabeth Photography | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

SOMETIMES MOTHERS DO KNOW BEST. Greta and Paula always knew their children would make a good couple.

The problem was convincing Blair, Greta’s daughter, and Patrick, Paula’s son, that it was a good idea.

In June 2010, the stealthy matriarchs came up with a plan. The New Orleans Saints had won their first Super Bowl and one of Greta’s relatives, a Saints employee, planned to show off his championship ring at a party.

Paula knew her son would come to the party just for that. Greta called her daughter that day and encouraged her to come over and to bring the child she was babysitting.

“Like many other 19-year-olds, we were embarrassed that our moms did this. It was a very awkward first meeting,” Blair says. “We talked to each other for about five minutes and Patrick promised to ‘look out for me at LSU.’ We were both at LSU at the time.”

Blair never thought he’d follow up, but he did. Soon, the two were inseparable.

Blair’s a huge fan of Mardi Gras, something Patrick knows well. The pair were watching the Krewe of Thoth parade on Feb. 7, 2016 when float #13, Winged Gods.” came to a dead stop. A voice over a loud speaker called Blair’s name and asked her to come into the middle of the street. Patrick held her hand and walked with her.

That moment, photographed and videotaped by friends and strangers, he took to one knee as cheers and confetti showered over them. Blair said, and nodded, yes. The pair kissed one, two, three, at least six times. The cheers continued.

32 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

About 300 guests were scheduled to attend the couple’s October 7, 2017 ceremony at New Orleans’ St. Joseph Church and reception at Chateau Golf and Country Club in Kenner. Then another mother tried to get involved: Mother Nature.

Hurricane Nate, a category one storm, was whirling towards the city. On Friday, one day before the wedding, Mayor Mitch Landrieu announced a city curfew would begin Saturday at 7 p.m.

Coincidentally, Blair and Patrick’s wedding was scheduled to begin at 7 p.m.

The scramble began. Blair and a few bridesmaids, Patrick and some groomsmen and family members from both sides called every guest to announce the wedding time had been changed to 1 p.m., six hours earlier.

Blair used social media to announce the adjustment, as did the Country Club.

“My family and friends really came through with helping spread the word about the time change,” Blair says. “I never thought I’d be using Facebook to announce the change in time to my wedding.”

The next afternoon, as Blair and her father stepped out of a Rolls Royce to walk into the church, a gust of wind blew off her veil. (It was retrieved by the photographer.) The rain began to fall once the bridal party was inside the church.

The ceremony went off without a hitch. Of course, the rain had completely stopped by 7 p.m., the original wedding start time.

“Hurricane Nate may have tried to stop us, but nothing was going to hold me back from marrying my best friend,” Blair says. “Seeing his face as I walked down the aisle made me forget everything we’d been through.”

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 33

34 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

N.O.W.

FEATURED VENDORS PHOTOGRAPHY Theresa Elizabeth Photography theresaelizabethphoto.com BRIDE’S GOWN The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe mae-me.com BRIDESMAIDS’ GOWNS Pearl’s Place pearlsplace.com

Additional Vendors: CEREMONY LOCATION: St. Joseph Church | RECEPTION LOCATION: Chateau Golf & Country Club | OFFICIANT: Fr. Andrew Taormina | REHEARSAL DINNER: Don’s Seafood | MENSWEAR: Tuxedos To Geaux | VIDEO: Russo Films | FLORIST: Flowers by Kori | BAKERY: Haydel’s | DJ/PHOTOBOOTH/UPLIGHTING: Mobile Beat Entertainment | TRANSPORTATION: Audubon Limousine | HAIR: Natalie Roussel, Salon Bichonee | MAKEUP: Danielle Daray Makeup | TRAVEL AGENT: Sue Diaz, Vacations by Crown | INVITATIONS : Hennessey Graphics

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 35

36 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

get social !

Follow N.O.W. Magazine for daily inspiration.

@nolawedding

@neworleansweddings

@nowmagazine504

@nowmagazine504

SHARE WITH US

#featureme_NOW

By Chef Marlon Alexander

Turning events into occasions

504.603.6601 mangecatering.com theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 37

N.O.W.

real wedding

Kaylan Guzman & Brad Schauer OCTOBER 22, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: North Photography | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

WHEN HARRY MET SALLY” IS ONE OF KAYLAN GUZMAN’S favorite movies, so when boyfriend Brad Schauer suggested they watch it on New Year’s Eve 2016, she readily agreed.

As the movie neared its end, she anxiously awaited her favorite scene – when Harry confesses his love for Sally. Instead, the film cut out and photos of Kaylan and Brad began drifting across the screen.

“There was no malfunction. Brad had inserted our own love story into the movie,” Kaylan says. “I was immediately overwhelmed with emotion.”

And then Harry and Sally were back and Harry was delivering his famous speech that concludes, “I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it’s not because I’m lonely, and it’s not because it’s New Year’s Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible…”

Scrambled letters then danced across the screen to form a message from Brad: “How about now?”

“With tears rolling down my cheeks, I said, ‘Yes!’” Kaylan says.

Forecasters said there was 100 percent chance of rain on October 22, 2017. Instead, the sky was clear as Kaylan and Brad exchanged vows

38 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

before 135 guests on the front lawn of Southern Oaks Plantation.

Faith is an important part of the couple’s life – they met at church and belong to a Bible study group called “Three Strands” – so they incorporated the Biblical scripture from which the group derives its name into their ceremony: “Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not easily broken (Ecclesesiastes 4:12).” After exchanging vows, Kaylan and Brad braided three cords to represent the strong relationship between themselves and God. The night was magical, they say, made even more so with a surprise fireworks display and a mini-Mardi Gras parade complete with jazz band, two Carnival floats with riders tossing glow sticks and beads.

“We screamed and laughed and danced!” Brad says.

Brad’s last name is pronounced like “shower” and couple’s wedding hashtag was #SchaueredWithLove. It couldn’t have been more perfect, he says.

During the course of our relationship and engagement, we felt very much ‘showered by love,’ by each other and by our family and friends,” he says. “It just seemed fitting.”

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 39

40 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

N.O.W.

FEATURED VENDORS PHOTOGRAPHY North Photography northproductions.com BAKERY Gambino’s Bakery gambinos.com

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

Additional Vendors: CEREMONY + RECEPTION LOCATION: Southern Oaks Plantation | OFFICIANT: Conrad Showalter | REHEARSAL DINNER: Drago’s Hilton New Orleans Riverside | BRIDE’S GOWN: Essense of Australia, Wendy’s Bridal (Columbus, OH) | BRIDESMAIDS’ GOWNS: David’s Bridal | MENSWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse | VIDEO: Bella Productions Wedding Films | FLORIST: Thibodeaux’s Floral Studio | TRANSPORTATION: Audubon Limousine | HAIR: Amaris Brady-Willis | MAKEUP: Kaylan Guzman + Amaris Brady Williams | JEWELRY: Blue Nile | WEDDING PLANNER/DÉCOR/FAVORS: Donna M Guzman | INVITATIONS: Zazzle

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 41

theNOWbride.com

Planning your wedding online has never been easier!

REGISTER & RECEIVE THE

NOW

WEDDING PLANNER!

FIND WEDDING PROFESSIONALS Browse through vendor profiles to select your dream wedding team!

BE INSPIRED Follow the N.O.W. blog for fresh local wedding news, local weddings and tons of inspiration!

Browse through real weddings, styled shoots and editorial from the magazine.

GET SOCIAL Follow our social networks for even more daily inspiration.

42 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 43

N.O.W.

STYLE

FANTASY

FOOD

Don’t be afraid to dream big when it comes to designing your fantasy wedding culinary experience.

Delight your guests and your taste buds with fanciful menu combinations and exciting presentations.

44 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

This trio of tall cakes is not only beautiful, but the variety of textures, from Mirror Glaze to fluffy lavender coconut to golden white chocolate drips over butter cream, are sure to delight your taste buds as well as your eyes.

CREDITS PHOTOGRAPHY: Jessica Burke for N.O.W. CUISINE: Chef de Cuisine Amy Constanza for Pigeon Caterers PASTRY: Pastry Chef Camille DiMaggio for Pigeon Caterers FOOD STYLING: Tessa Durbin, Event Producer for Pigeon Caterers pigeoncaterers.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 45

Feathered sugar serves as the backdrop for these light as air meringues.

46 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

Welcome to Southern Paradise.

This “design your own bread pudding bar” is sure to be a hit! Start by choosing a slice of Pigeon’s thin sliced, subtly sweet and super moist bread pudding and then top it off with your choice of fruits, syrups and garnishes.

An artistic presentation of geometrically designed small bites. This presentation includes Irish Porter Cheddar, Bleu, and Muenster Cheeses paired with smoked salmon and caviar, cranberries and almonds, and jalapeño pepper slices respectively. theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 47

Add some fanciful fairy tale fun to your wedding toast!

Serve your favorite bubbly in a non-traditional glass (Sugar-rimmed martini glass anyone?) and garnish with cotton candy for a “Frozen” vibe. Or have your caterer present your flutes with a little extra “sparkle” to introduce the toasts! If fire and ice aren’t your thing, have your bubbly presented under glass, but be sure to kiss your true love before the last rose petal falls!

48 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 49

Images: Dark Roux Photography

610 South Peters Street | NOLA 70130 504-521-8055 | thechicoryvenue.com Brent Bogan | brent.bogan@chicoryvenue.com

50 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 51

N.O.W.

real wedding

Marie Cupit & Tony Stahlschmidt JULY 15, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: Megan Crawford Photography | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

THE HASHTAG FOR TONY STAHLSCHMIDT AND MARIE CUPIT’S July 15, 2017 wedding was #MeetMeInStLouis, a simple sentence with multiple meanings for the couple.

Tony is from St. Louis, where he now lives with native Louisianan Marie.

The French Quarter’s St. Louis Cathedral is where they said their vows.

And saints – more specifically, The New Orleans Saints – brought them together.

In October 2011, Marie was wearing her Black and Gold in the Superdome as the Saints took on the Indianapolis Colts. One of the men sitting near her – Tony, of course -- was a St. Louis Cardinals fan in town on a short-term construction project. He was trying to follow Game 4 of the World Series while following the football game before him but his phone wasn’t cooperating. Marie was happy to help and soon they were sitting side by side.

After one particularly brilliant touchdown pass from quarterback Drew Brees to wide receiver Marques Colston, Marie predicted the play would make ESPN’s SportsCenter weekly top 10 list.

“We made a bet on it and that was how Tony was able to ask for my

52 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

number,” Marie says. “Our conversation that night was sparked by our love of sports.”

And as their best man noted in his wedding speech, their relationship, “Tony loved Marie’s enthusiasm for sports and they started to root for each other and each other’s teams.”

During their five-year long-distance relationship, the couple’s appreciation for each other and the unique cultures of their home states grew. That came through on their wedding day.

“We thought it was important to incorporate both of our family and community traditions,” Marie says.

Nods to St. Louis included replacing a groom’s cake with Ted Drewes Frozen Custard. New Orleans traditions included a Second Line from the Cathedral to the Riverview Room on the top floor of Jax Brewery and traditional fare like gumbo and mini-muffulettas.

“Our St. Louis guests loved how, in true New Orleans fashion, the party started upon arrival and the dance floor was never empty,” Marie says.

“We were so thrilled to return to the city that brought us together for our wedding!”

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 53

54 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

N.O.W.

FEATURED VENDOR PHOTOGRAPHY Megan Crawford Photography megancrawfordphotography.com

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

Additional Vendors: GETTING READY LOCATION: Hotel Monteleone | CEREMONY LOCATION: St. Louis Cathedral | RECEPTION LOCATION: Riverview Room | OFFICIANT: Fr. Matthew Johnston | REHEARSAL DINNER: Tableau | BRIDE’S GOWN: Yvonne LaFleur | BRIDESMAIDS’ GOWNS: David’s Bridal | MENSWEAR: Men’s Wearhouse | VIDEO: Tone Production | FLORIST: Beth’s Flowers | CEREMONY MUSIC: Kesse Reeks | RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT: Party at Joe's | BAKERY: La Louisiane Bakery | TRANSPORTATION: Big Easy Limos | HAIR: Lauren Cockerham, Salon Eden (Baton Rouge)| MAKEUP: Kalie Montz (Bride) + Amanda Wellerman (Bridemaids) | JEWELRY: Roemer Originals (St. Charles, MO) | INVITATIONS: Trista Young

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 55

Photo Credit: 1216 Studio

56 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 57

N.O.W.

STYLE

Bywater Delight WELCOME TO THE MAZANT, a hidden gem in the Bywater arts district, which was the intimate setting of a recent styled shoot designed by Becky Stafford of Spanish Oak Events and photographed by Matthew Diaz of Diaz Nola Photography.

This picturesque fête features lush florals, rustic, yet elegant details and an oh-so-charming ceremony set under the property’s 125 year old oak tree.

The images are aglow not only with soft candlelight from Firefly Ambiance, but a sense of utter delight in the grooms’ gleeful exchanges.

58 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

CREDITS CANDLE DÉCOR: Firefly Ambiance fireflyambiance.com STYLING AND COORDINATING: Spanish Oak Events PHOTOGRAPHER: Diaz Nola Photography VENUE: The Mazant RENTALS: Event Rental GROOMING: TAMED Hair & Beard parlor APPAREL: Tuxedos To Geaux WATCHES: ROOT JEWELRY: Ramsey's Diamond Jewelers MODELS: Wade Smith + Garrett Beard FLORIST: Fat Cat Flowers INVITATION SUITE: Exquisite Events

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 59

60 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 61

62 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 63

N.O.W.

STYLE

WHETHER YOU’RE HAVING A DESTINATION WEDDING IN NEW ORLEANS, or you’re a local who’s lived here your whole life, the odds are – you’re still going to have guests traveling from out of state to celebrate your nuptials. Let’s face it, nobody wants to miss a chance to visit New Orleans. With that said, of course your wedding will be their top priority, but, why shouldn’t your guests use this opportunity to see the city, have some adventure, and learn more about New Orleans’ rich culture and fabulous cuisine?

For these obvious reasons, we recommend you use a company like Ask the Locals, New Orleans, to plan the perfect weekend in New Orleans for your guests! When using a company like Ask the Locals, besides removing an enormous task off on your already overwhelming wedding to-do list, you will also be put at ease knowing that your guests will be totally catered to by a local expert.

Ask the Locals can plan everything from your Welcome Party to a Walking Ghost Tour! Here are some of Ask the Locals’ favorite activities to plan for out-of-town wedding guests: NEIGHBORHOOD HISTORY & COCKTAIL TOUR Each neighborhood in New Orleans is vastly different from one anotherfrom the architecture, to the accents, to the overall way of life. This tour allows you to familiarize yourself with the historical and cultural distinctions of each. This tour will introduce you to Uptown, Downtown, Mid-City, the French Quarter and the Marigny. You'll also get a chance to get out and actually enjoy these neighborhoods as you'll stop off at a few of the most famous (or interesting) bars/restaurants.

WALKING FOOD TOUR OF THE FRENCH QUARTER "A Taste of New Orleans"- enjoying a little bit of all of the classic dishes that have shaped the definition of New Orleans cuisine as we know it today-- this ranges from classic Creole gumbo, to the blue-collar worker's po-boys, to oysters (both traditional: raw, and modern: charbroiled), to the French donut made famous in New Orleans, the beignet.

AIRBOAT SWAMP TOUR Experience the natural Southern landscapes in the most exciting and exhilarating way… by Airboat! This

64 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

2-hour long adventure is just a quick 30-minutes from the French Quarter.

VOODOO & GHOST TOUR There is no better city than New Orleans for a Ghost Tour. New Orleans’ history is unlike any other, rich with tales of Voodoo Queens, paranormal activities and some of the most unsuspecting serial killers!

ARCHITECTURE AND DESIGN TOUR Discover the fascinating history behind the architecture of New Orleans, learn how courtyards developed, why certain cultures had particular design techniques, as well as the story of the various people who lived in these grander-than-life buildings.

To give your guests the Ultimate New Orleans Experience, plan a few activities so they can learn to love the city you already love so much!

If you’re in need of help, don’t hesitate to call Ask the Locals at 504-657-0974 or email at contact@askthelocalsneworleans.com.

Find more information on their website, askthelocalsneworleans.com

Image Credits: stock.adobe.com |Beignets: f11photo | Bourbon Street: konoplizkaya | Swamp Shack: f11photo | New Orleans Cemetery: alexmillos | Oyster: laplateresca

Planning Events For Your Out-of-Town Wedding Guests

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 65

N.O.W.

STYLE

Paper Trail

Our favorite trending invitations, save-the-dates, thank you notes and more.

1

4

2

5

3

1. New Orleans City Map Invitation in Sepia Tone from Abbey Printing, abbeyprinting.com. 2.

Wood and Petals Invitation Suite from Abbey Printing, abbeyprinting.com. 3. Oatmeal Cotton Letterpress Invitation Suite by The Little Blue Chair, thelittlebluechair.com. 4. The Swirl Frame Wedding Suite is an elegant design with a fun twist, from Basic Invite, basicinvite.com 5. A delicate, laser cut paper NOLA water meter save the date in a bold, moody purple by Paper Cut Stationery, IG: @papercutnola.

66 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

Get Daily New Orleans Wedding Inspiration on The N.O.W. blog!

theNOWbride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 67

N.O.W.

STYLE

Earth to Engaged!

Advice for Staying Grounded While Planning the Wedding of your Dreams Written by Natalie Pompilio

OLD HOLLYWOOD TELLS US THAT WEDDINGS ARE THE HAPPIEST OF DAYS, seamless transitions into forever coupledom that go off with nary a hitch. All of the tears are of joy. All of the smiles are genuine.

Real life says otherwise. Turn to page 70 read more.

68 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

Image Credit: stock.adobe.com -Photo by bernardbodo

“No matter how hard you try, no matter how small the wedding, stress is an inevitable part of such a major life event,” says Kristen Machado, a licensed and nationally certified professional counselor.

“Any time we go through changes, even positive ones like getting married, our bodies feel the shift and there’s a ripple effect that feels disruptive.”

That stress only intensifies as couples strive to please others while staying true to their own vision, struggle to stay within budget and deal with on-going family dramas. Then there’s creating and culling the guest list, juggling the many moving parts of a modern wedding, and, most importantly, maintaining a happy and healthy relationship with each other.

Planning experts recommend making that last item a focus throughout the planning period. Machado tells couples to write down their reasons for getting married before they find themselves losing hours to Pinterest and Instagram and it all seems overwhelming.

“When having to decide between the cream or the beige napkins feels like the biggest decision in the world, you will want something grounding to come back to,” Machado says. “You aren’t marrying each other for the napkin colors. The reasons are much more long-lasting and much more important.”

Kim Sayatovic, founder and creator of Belladeux Event Design, says even the most in-love couples will have different ideas as to what makes the perfect wedding. She advises couples to share lists of wedding “must-haves” and make efforts to ensure each partner gets at least one item.

“He may not care about anything but the music, and you couldn’t care less about that, but the flowers are super important to you. Then let him plan the music and you plan the flowers,” Sayatovic says. “The more you communicate with each other, the more fun you will have 70 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

bringing it all together.”

Deciding what’s important early on will make dealing with meddling family members and friends all the easier. After all, Donna Accardo of Inner Design, an organization dedicated to supporting individual and collective life purpose, says, this is your wedding and no one else’s.

“Years ago, I was a bridesmaid in my best friend’s wedding. The pink satin dress with roses that she’d chosen for me was NOT something I found beautiful,” Accardo recalls. “But what I did find beautiful was honoring my best friend’s vision. She asked me to stand for her and I wore that dress with grace and respect, explosion of pink satin and all.”

Perhaps one of the biggest wedding planning stressors is budget. Money, Machado notes, is an emotional subject, with individuals having unique backgrounds and experiences with money. She recommends couples share their individual ideas about spending long before the wedding, but even having an honest conversation in the moment is worthwhile.

“What are their expectations regarding the wedding budget and how would they like to approach everything related to spending?” Machado says. “Remember to be honest about your own thoughts and feelings, especially concerns or fears.

By being honest with yourself, you're less likely to project your feelings onto your partner and create additional problems.”

Then there are all the “helpful” family and friends who have lots of great ideas they couldn’t incorporate into their own weddings or that they saw while flipping through a magazine or while watching TV. Instead of curling up and conceding, take a deep breath and speak your mind, tactfully, advises Angie D’Ingianni, Executive Director of Absolutely Nola, a creative wedding planning and design team.

“It's all about how you handle it,” D’Ingianni says. “Be willing to listen, consider and incorporate ideas you’re comfortable with, trying not to hurt

feelings while still keeping yourself happy.”

Making a guest list can be like walking through a minefield. Monetary concerns may mean the list may have to be shorter than a couple would like. Family conflicts can also be a concern.

“The best advice I can give couples is to talk to problem relatives early.

I suggest, ‘I know there is a problem between you and so-and-so and I am asking for you to be cordial for one weekend (or night). If you truly think you can’t do that, then I prefer you not attend the wedding.’ Hurt feelings will happen, but it’s better to deal with the drama ahead of time,” Sayatovic says. “There’s nothing wrong with reminding people that the weekend is about you and your union and not about whatever drama they can’t get over.”

Even those that follow this expert advice may feel overwhelmed. Signs of stress include sleeplessness, eating too much or too little and feeling short– tempered.

Step away from the wedding binder, D’Ingianni advises. The to-do lists can wait a day or two.

“If you are starting to have anxiety on a day-to-day basis, it's time to take a break. Make a list of the things that are consuming you and reach out for help,” D’Ingianni says. “If you find yourself feeling angry with your partner, be sure to go on date nights and to do things you enjoyed before the wedding planning began.”

And remember to talk to your partner.

Be honest about what you want and need. If something doesn’t feel like you, say so now or forever hold your peace.

(And no one likes holding their peace.)

“This is your wedding and will be the beginning of hopefully a lifetime of decisions,” Accardo says. “You will have to know what’s true for you in your marriage, your career, how you raise your children, if you want children. Start the journey with authenticity and truth.”

Image Credit: Theresa Elizabeth Photography

ABOUT THE CONTRIBUTORS DONNA ACCARDO Donna Accardo, of Inner Design, is a trained facilitator and Area Coordinator for The Way of the Heart, an organization dedicated to supporting individual and collective life purpose, discovering our essence and creating a more empowering and beautiful life, in ourselves and those we touch in our lives. Learn more about Donna and her work at nolainnerdesign.com ANGIE D’INGIANNI Angie D’Ingianni is Executive Director of Absolutely Nola, a creative wedding planning and design team in New Orleans. Angie’s unique concept development process

keeps her in the creative zone at all times, while her insight allows her to help you build a great team of wedding vendors to execute the wedding you envision. Visit absolutelynola.com to learn more.

KRISTEN MACHADO Kristen Machado, MA, LPC, NCC is a licensed and nationally certified professional counselor. She offers counseling in person and over video.

If you or someone you know is dealing with wedding stress (or stress of any kind) and is looking for ways to feel better, contact Kristen for a free phone consultation (504-717-9270).

Visit her website kristencousels.com for more information.

KIM SAYATOVIC Kim Sayatovic is the founder and Chief Creative Officer of Belladeux Event Design, a full service wedding and event design firm based in New Orleans. Her background in photography brings a remarkable eye for beauty and what excites the senses. She utilizes this in all of her event designs. Creating stunning tablescapes and memorable parties are what truly get her out of bed in the morning. Kim is one of those rare people who lives for organization.

Designing, planning, and making sure every detail is accounted for is always the most important part of her world. Discover more about Kim at belladeuxevents.com theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 71

72 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

EvENt DEsIGN

Your Event Begins Today

New Orleans Wedding & Event Design and Management info@belladeuxevents.com | 504.323.2100 WWW.bEllaDEuxEvENts.cOM

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 73

N.O.W.

STYLE

GILDED ART DECO

CREDITS PHOTOGRAPHY: North Photography | northproductions.com STYLED BY: Kim Sayatovic, Belladeux Event Design | belladeuxevents.com ON LOCATION: Boucherie Catering + Events CANDLE DECOR: Firefly Ambiance Candles & Décor | fireflyambiance.com FURNITURE: True Value Rental |truevaluerentalnola.com CAKE: Gambino’s Bakery | gambinos.com HAIR + MAKEUP: Tina Rodosta, Verde Beauty | verdebeauty.com ATTIRE: Town and Country Bridal | townandcountrybridal.com LINENS + CHARGERS: BBJ MODEL: Ashley Morand 74 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 75

76 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

TABLE: The gilded reception table with elegant touches of black styled

by Belladeux Event Design features the Entangled abstract gold textural linens and napkins from BBJ Linens and the Florence Gold Cream chargers, also from BBJ. A Trio of gold lamps with intricately designed lamp shades preside over the table while Gold Retro Mercury Stems, Geometric Candleholders and Gold Crown Votives, all from Firefly Ambiance bathe the setting in golden candlelight. Chameleon Fanfare Chairs from True Value Rental provide elegant seating around this sumptuous table.

GOWN: A stunning trumpet bridal gown by Lazaro features champagne shimmer checkered net over cashmere chiffon. The gown, available at Town and Country Bridal, features crisscross crystal straps on the back and a cathedral train.

CAKE: This 3-tier fondant masterpiece by Gambino’s Bakery sits atop a velvet-fringed pedestal. Each layer incorporates textural elements that evoke the Art Deco era.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 77

78 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

ABOVE: A simple, yet dramatic ceremony setting styled by Belladeux Event Design. This uncomplicated golden altar is composed of gold and glass end tables from True Value Rental and Gold Lamps and geometric gold and glass terrariums from Firefly Ambiance. Gold Throne Benches from True Value Rental provide non-traditional, open seating.

GOWN: Fit for a princess, this Theia ball gown Nima, available at Town and Country Bridal, pairs rich Spanish tulle with a bodice encrusted with sequins, glass beads and teardrop pearls.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 79

N.O.W.

STYLE Questions to ask when selecting a

FLORIST

n How many years of professional experience do you have? n Do you have photos or samples of your work? n What type of flowers will be best for the type, time, and duration of our wedding? n What flowers will be in season at the time of my wedding? n Do you have access to out-of-season flowers? n Can you build a flower scheme around fabric swatches? n Can you coordinate the flowers for the wedding party, mothers, and special guests? n Will you show us how to carry the bouquets? n Will you deliver and distribute the flowers at the site and pin on the corsages and boutonnieres? n Do you charge extra for delivery and set-up? n Do you provide take-down service and if so, is it extra? n Do you preserve bouquets? n Do you require a deposit, and is it refundable?

Flower Checklist

Find New Orleans Wedding Vendors All In One Place!

Wedding Party

___ Brides Bouquet ___Tossing Bouquet for Bride ___ Maid of Honor Bouquet ___ Bridesmaid Bouquets ___ Flower Girl ___ Groom’s Boutonniere ___ Best Man’s & Groomsmen’s Boutonnieres ___ Ring Bearer’s Boutonniere ___ Mothers’ Corsages ___ Fathers’ Boutonnieres ___ Flower Girl ___ Corsages for Special Guests ___ Boutonnieres for Special Guests ___Other _______________________________________

Ceremony

___ Aisle Runner ___ Pew or Chair Decorations ___ Altar or Huppa Arrangements ___ Candles and Candle Holders ___Other ___________________________________________

Reception

thenowbride.com

80 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

___ Door or Entry Arrangements ___ Bar Decorations ___ Cake Decorations (if needed) ___Cake Table Decorations ___ Centerpieces ___Chair Decorations ___Other _________________________________________

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 81

N.O.W.

real wedding

Emily Castro & Jesse Edmondson MAY 13, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: G. Chapin Studios | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

AN ARCHITECT BY TRADE, EMILY CASTRO WAS THRILLED to learn her favorite historic home – Race & Religious – needed renovation. On the day she was to meet clients at the site, she excitedly reminded boyfriend Jesse Edmondson of the appointment.

His response? “A quick and simple ‘Cool’ as he ran out the door,” Emily says.

At the property that afternoon, a group of girls met Emily and offered her a tour before the meeting. That’s when she saw Jesse, wearing a suit and tie, waiting for her.

Had he been hired to work on the property too? (He’s a landscape architect.) Why hadn’t he mentioned it? And why was he so well-dressed?

“He looked really nice, too nice to be on a landscape appointment!”

Emily says.

Then Jesse dropped to one knee.

“It was totally unexpected, especially because it was the middle of the day during Jesse’s busiest season and two days before my birthday,” Emily says. “It will forever be the one appointment I will never forget.”

On May 13, 2017, Emily and Jesse stood before 200 guests at St. Louis Cathedral. In a nod to Emily’s Honduran roots, the couple added two Hispanic traditions to their ceremony.

82 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

After exchanging vows, Jesse handed Emily 13 gold coins (Arras), symbolizing his pledge to support her. Emily then returned the coins to Jesse, showing acceptance of his support.

Before the nuptial blessing, a large rosary known as “the Lasso” was placed around Emily and Jesse to symbolize their unity.

“It was very special to incorporate traditions from my culture into our wedding,” Emily says.

Jesse’s traditions were also featured – specifically, his love for the NFL’s Buffalo Bills. Deacon Jeff Tully incorporated Jesse’s rabid fandom into the ceremony.

A Second Line through the French Quarter took guests to The Jaxson, the couple’s reception site. There, Jesse’s sister played a video featuring Bills’ players congratulating the newlyweds.

“If anyone knows Jesse, the first thing they’ll tell you about is his love for the Bills. Jesse was in complete disbelief as he watched the video,” Emily says. “Our wedding day played out better than we could have ever imagined. It really was the best days of our lives.”

The best day of their lives, that is, until the Buffalo Bills finally win a Super Bowl.

N.O.W.

FEATURED VENDORS PHOTOGRAPHY G. Chapin Studios gchapinstudios.com GETTING READY LOCATION Bourbon Orleans Hotel neworleanshotelcollection.com BRIDE’S GOWN The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe mae-me.com

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

Additional Vendors: CEREMONY LOCATION: St. Louis Cathedral | RECEPTION LOCATION: The Jaxson | OFFICIANT: Deacon Jeff Tully | REHEARSAL DINNER: Mr. B’s Bistro | MENSWEAR: Jos A Bank | VIDEO: D. Jones Wedding Films | FLORIST, LIGHTING + CANDLE DÉCOR: Iris Floral | BAKERY: Swiss Confectionery | CEREMONY MUSIC: Brenda Castillo (timpani) + Steve Orejudos (trumpet) | RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Sosa | TRANSPORTATION: Mid City Carriages | HAIR+ MAKEUP: Glam Nola | CATERER: New Orleans Catering | JEWELER: Rothschild Diamonds | INVITATIONS: Lady Adelaide | SECONDLINE BAND: Dr. Jazz

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 83

Follow @neworleansweddings

New Orleans Best Wedding Inspiration #nowbridalshow #nowbehindthescenes #neworleansweddingsmagazine SHARE WITH US #featureme_NOW

84 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 85

N.O.W.

real wedding

Amanda Klevorn & Dan Chiorean FEBRUARY 11, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: Sam Gregory | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

ON THE SAME DAY AS AN ANNUAL EVENT KNOWN FOR its humor and irreverence – Krewe du Vieux Saturday -- Amanda Klevorn and Dan Chiorean married in a ceremony that was humorous and irreverent.

Or, as their wedding hashtag and go-cups attested, #AtKreweduVieuxWeSaidIDo. “We thought it would be fun to expose our family and friends to the most Mardi Gras parade there is, the only one that actually comes with a warning in the description that it’s not family-friendly,” Dan says.

And so, on February 11, 2017, before 120 guests in the courtyard of the W French Quarter Hotel, Dan swore to accept Amanda’s love of the St. Louis Cardinals, no matter how obnoxious she became; to willingly search the attic for an obscure book she suddenly decided she MUST HAVE (emphasis Amanda’s); and to overlook her unusual love of eating spaghetti and beans, sometimes multiple times a week.

Amanda vowed to keep Dan supplied with Nutella and jam; to cheer on his beloved University of Michigan Wolverines; and to welcome at least 50 more rescue dogs into their home. (The latter promise was met with approval from Dex, the couple’s boxer, who served as their ring bearer.)

Then, because these two transplants met at Tulane University Law School, they sealed the deal with a promise that sounded sufficiently lawyer-like: Do each of you vow that there will be no alternative facts to mar or mitigate these vows?

“We do.”

“The vows were meant to be a reflection of who we are and our

86 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

relationship,” Dan says. “We thought they were just kinda fun, but our family and friends were roaring with laughter.”

The wedding was the culmination of a romance that had begun years earlier on Tulane’s Louisiana State Bar Association moot court trial team. Dan, in his third year of law school, was the coach. Amanda, in her second year, was a team member.

His first impression of her? She held her arms awkwardly, like a T-Rex, while presenting a closing argument. (Amanda disputes this description of her arms.)

Her first impression of him? He paid more attention to his computer than to the team. “But I also thought he was cute,” Amanda says. (Dan does not dispute that description of his appearance.)

After the ceremony, the couple and their guests second lined through Jackson Square to their Decatur Street reception venue, B.B. King’s Club.

The out-of-towners “enjoyed dancing and reveling in the streets,” Dan says.

From the club’s second floor balcony, they watched Krewe du Vieux pass.

Among the items tossed to the marchers: Amanda’s bouquet, which was caught by a woman wearing a unicorn costume. They later learned, thanks to the magic of mutual friends and social media, that the unicorn was engaged to be married a month later.

“It was definitely one of my favorite moments at the wedding,” Amanda says.

Dan agrees, “It was one of the coolest things that happened. We’re forever connected because of that moment.”

N.O.W.

FEATURED VENDORS CEREMONY + GETTING READY LOCATION W New Orleans – French Quarter wfrenchquarter.com BRIDE’S GOWN Pearl’s Place pearlsplace.com

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

Additional Vendors: RECEPTION LOCATION: BB King’s Club | OFFICIANT: Bishop Joe Morris Doss | REHEARSAL DINNER: Arnaud’s| MENSWEAR: Italy Direct Clothing | FLORIST: Rhonda Cooper, floral specialist | BAKERY: Bittersweet Confections | CEREMONY MUSIC: Harry Hardin Quartet | HAIR+ MAKEUP: Flawless Beauty Bar | WEDDING PLANNER/ DESIGNER: Weddings Taylor Made | INVITATIONS : Scriptura

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 87

N.O.W.

STYLE

SWEET Selections Written by Jean Hailey

A WEDDING CAKE IS THE UNIVERSALLY SERVED CREATIVE CONFECTION for all weddings. You deserve to have a cake that is not only delicious, but one that you both will remember forever. Luckily, today, artistic bakers are creating cakes as edible art.

Many couples still go with the traditional-looking wedding cake, but inside this wonderful package might be surprises, such as non-traditional cake flavors and fillings.

You can have whatever kind of cake you want!

CHOOSE A DESIGN The number of wedding cake designs is endless. Almost anything is possible. As you begin your search for the ultimate wedding cake, expect to see creations you never imagined; cakes resembling beautiful geodes, mirror glaze finishes that shine, and just about anything you can imagine. You will see cakes that you can’t envision actually slicing.

Your cake should coordinate with the rest of your wedding. The wedding cake decision should be made after you have made the decisions about the dress style, theme, and reception décor. These basic decisions can serve as a guideline for the design of your wedding cake. Along 88 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

with your baker, create a cake that will be a beautiful part of your wedding, not a sideshow.

IT'S ALL ABOUT FLAVOR One of the hardest decisions can be the selection of the flavor. You might consider a multi-flavored cake. This is a wonderful option if you want to give your guests diversity. Consider seasonal possibilities paired with more traditional flavors. Or even different layers featuring each of your favorite flavors. The texture and flavor of the cake is important so when you’re out shopping don’t hesitate to ask for samples of cake flavors.

ADDITONAL DESSERT OPTIONAL A question often asked is, should you serve dessert in addition to the wedding cake?

Experts will say that there’s no absolute rule. Some brides do serve dessert in addition to their cake, especially if their budget is not an issue. But extra dessert is in no way mandatory. The wedding cake is created to eat, even though you hate to see such a beautiful work of art sliced.

Most couples expect them to be the main dessert. You might even consider serving a small wedding cake as a part of an extravagant dessert rather than as the main dessert. Individual wedding cakes for each guest are in vogue. Non-traditional options like Macaron towers, wedding pies, and more are also available!

THE SEARCH BEGINS Begin shopping for the wedding cake six months to a year before the date, even earlier if you’ve envisioning a truly unique cake, if the bakery you have chosen is very popular, or if you are being married in a peak season. Make sure that you are familiar with the style and quality of the chef’s work before you sign your contract.

When shopping for the perfect cake artist, come prepared. Be sure to bring all the specifics about the size and type of wedding you are having, as well as information about the reception location, room décor, ceiling height, temperature, lighting, linens, and wedding colors. Also have the names and numbers of your caterer, florist, wedding planner, and anyone else the baker may wish to contact in order to consult and coordinate the details and delivery.

Most importantly, interview bakers in person, ask lots of questions, bring photographs of designs that you like, and then determine if they are qualified to create the impression you are looking for. As you check out their portfolio, make sure that you are looking at cakes that they have actually made personally, and

not just pictures in magazines and books. Magazines and books are great for exciting ideas, but you need to see the baker’s actual workmanship and level of proficiency. It is your responsibility to find the perfect cake designer, but it is your designer’s responsibility to grasp your dreams and make them a reality.

GET A PRICE Wedding cakes are usually priced per slice. But the baker determines what the per slice charge will be. When you place your order and make your deposit, get a written agreement or contract that specifies the kind of cake, filling and frosting, the number of people it will serve, the design details you have agreed upon, and the delivery date, time, and procedure. Also, put in writing any additional fees or rental charges, and ask how the final payment is to be made and when.

For many brides, a wedding cake is a major part of their reception. There are hundreds of alternative and fun ideas for wedding cake designs that will surprise and delight all of your guests. Find an expert online at theNOWBride.com to create the perfect wedding cake. The cake may be the only thing that you have a chance to sit down and eat the entire day, so make sure it’s delicious and an amazingly, sweet, sweet selection.

QUESTION FOR YOUR BAKER n How many years have you been in business? n Do you have references? n May I see your portfolio? n Have you made all of the cakes in your portfolio yourself? n Do you charge additional for each layer of the cake being different flavors? n Do you charge additional for fillings? n Is there a delivery fee? n Do you rent cake stands? If so, what is the charge and what options are available? n What type of retainer fee do you require? n When is the balance is due? n How soon do you bake the cake before the wedding? n What time will you deliver the cake on my wedding day? n Do you customize cakes, or do I have to pick a design in your portfolio? n What days are best for me to reach you? n Do you have cake tastings? n Do you specialize in any particular technique or art form?

Custom

Macaron Pyramids

504.321.1579

bywoops.com/riverwalk Visit us at our Macaron Boutique Kiosk in the Outlets Collection at The Riverwalk 500 Port of New Orleans Place, NOLA 70130 theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 89

N.O.W.

real wedding

Brittany Barbier & Vincent Clark SEPTEMBER 16, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: Images by Robert T | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

IT’LL BE HARD TO FIND A WEDDING MORE QUINTESSENTIALLY New Orleans than the September 2017 celebration that joined Brittany Barbier and Vincent Clark.

Full Catholic Mass at St. Louis Cathedral? Check. A cool beverage in a personalized Koozie as guests exited onto Jackson Square? Got it. A wedding program turned second line handkerchief for a joyous parade featuring the bride and groom and led by the Crescent City Soul Brass Band? Of course.

There’s even more, but we’ll get to that later.

Theirs was a love years in the making. They were 11 years old when they met at St. Rosalie Middle School. They were fast friends and stayed that way while attending different high schools and colleges.

“Distance never changed the foundation of our relationship,” Brittany says.

“We always made time to talk and to see one another to maintain what was most important to us: our friendship.”

But it was just that: A friendship. Although each had admitted to having romantic feelings for the other over the years, the timing was never right and there’d been some hurt feelings along the way.

Then, towards the end of their college years, Vinny asked Brittany to join him at a friend’s birthday party. She went, curious to see if this would be the night they took their relationship to another level. It was.

90 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

“We were both extremely nervous because we were such great friends and neither one of us wanted to lose our best friend,” Brittany says. “But we never looked back after that day!”

Five years later, the couple were living in Luling. On a seemingly routine and scheduled date night, Vinny suggested they drive by St. Rosalie, where they’d first met. He parked in front the church where they’d both once attended weekly services. He walked around to the passenger side of the car, opened the door and took Brittany’s hand. He pulled a ring from his pocket.

“I was trembling as he bent down on one knee and asked if I would be his best friend for life,” Brittany says. “It was the most special and romantic way to be proposed to.”

They married on Sept. 16, 2017, exactly six years after that fateful party when they’d moved beyond friendship. After the evening ceremony at St. Louis Cathedral, they and their 180 guests danced a second line to The Jaxson, located in the former Jax Brewery Building. They shared traditional dishes – Eggplant Napoleon, chicken and andouille gumbo, muffalettas – in that landmark setting.

“When I think back to the wedding, there is not one detail that I would change,” Brittany says. “I felt that our wedding perfectly described us as a couple and our love for each other.”

N.O.W.

FEATURED VENDORS PHOTOGRAPHY Images by Robert T imagesbyrobertt.com FLORALS, DÉCOR RENTALS, CANDLES Crystal Vase Flowers crystalvaseflowers.com

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

Additional Vendors: GETTING READY LOCATION: Renaissance Pere Marquette | CEREMONY LOCATION: St. Louis Cathedral | RECEPTION LOCATION: The Jaxson | OFFICIANT: Fr. David Ducote | REHEARSAL DINNER: Tableau| BRIDE’S GOWN: Private Label by G, Bridal Boutique of Baton Rouge | BRIDESMAIDS’ GOWNS: Bill Levkoff, Bridal Boutique of Baton Rouge | MENSWEAR: Rome’s Tuxedos | VIDEO: Filmmaker Weddings | BAKERY: Chez Ru Rene | CEREMONY MUSIC: Catherine Matherne | RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT: Crescent City Soul | TRANSPORTATION: Nicoll’s Limousines Service | HAIR+ MAKEUP: Mandy Kestner, Bleu Salon (Lafayette, LA) | CATERER: New Orleans Catering | JEWELER: Lee Michael’s | FAVORS: Backyard Printing | INVITATIONS: Gem Printing

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 91

N.O.W.

STYLE

SOUTHERN

ROMANCE SPARKLE, LACE AND FLORAL INFUSIONS CREDITS PHOTOGRAPHY: Megan Crawford Photography | megancrawfordphotography.com STYLED BY: Kim Sayatovic, Belladeux Event Design | belladeuxevents.com ON LOCATION: The Elms Mansion | elmsmansion.com FLORALS: Nola Flora | nolaflora.com MARQUEE, CHAIRS, BLUE LINENS: True Value Rental | truevaluerentalnola.com HAIR: Tracy Branch for Tracy Branch Agency | tracybranch.com MAKEUP: Mallory Fitzgerald for Tracy Branch Agency | tracybranch.com ATTIRE: John’s Tuxedos | johnstuxedos.com ~ Pearl’s Place | pearlsplace.com ~ Southern Bridal Dreams | southernbridal.net JEWELRY: Kendra Scott MODELS: Jarrel Bowens, Rachel Monteleone, Alex Nowlin

92 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

WEDDING GOWN: Illusion lining seems to suspend lace appliqués and sparkling beading on the illusion neckline and scoop back of this Allure Bridals gown, available at Southern Bridal Dreams. Leandra shoulder duster earrings in gold and the Cole bracelet in silver and Ivory Mother of Pearl, both by Kendra Scott, add an elegant finishing touch to this bridal gown.

BRIDESMAID GOWN: This classic fit and flare gown Bellamy by Watters, available at Pearl’s Place, features an Ash Leaf lace motif that creates an unforgettable two-toned, textured look. The Ana statement earrings in gold by Kendra Scott complement the gown’s delightful texture.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 93

BRIDESMAID GOWN: This Alfred Sung bridesmaid gown features bold black and white botanicals. The full length, sleeveless sateen twill dress has a v-neckline and open back and features pockets at the side seams of the full a-line skirt. This gown and the black rosebud sinamay hat featured are available at Southern Bridal Dreams. This bold bridesmaid look is completed

by Blossom statement earrings in black granite and the Supak beaded bracelet in black spinel by Kendra Scott. WEDDING GOWN: Available at Southern Bridal Dreams, a whisper of lace accents the bottom of this statuesque silk Mikado sheath gown by Allure Bridals. The gown is paired with a cropped waist bolero with a high neckline and ivory sinamay rosebud hat, also from Southern Bridal Dreams and the Cole bracelet in silver and Ivory Mother of Pearl and Kalina statement earrings in antique silver

by Kendra Scott. MEN'S FORMALWEAR: A classic, formal daytime look, this Jean Yves Modern Essentials Collection Ivory 1 Button Shawl tuxedo paired with black bow tie and cummerbund is available at John’s Tuxedos.

94 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 95

Watters’ wide-leg Jair pants are paired with the Zoe tank in Misty Rose sequins. This look is available at Pearl’s Place.

Adding the finishing touch for this bold look are Olympia statement earrings in rose gold, the Collin cocktail ring in rose gold and Naomi double ring in rose gold, all by Kendra Scott.

96 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

A trending color for 2018, soft blue linens from True Value Rental with floral overlay provided by Belladeux Events, creates a gorgeous backdrop for this antiqued cooper urn overflowing with soft florals by Nola Flora.

This gift table features an enchanting birdcage adorned with lavender and set atop a bed of moss.

A delicate lavender teacup and sachet, available at Nola Flora completes the delightful ensemble.

PURPLE BRIDESMAID GOWN: From designer Hayley Paige, this mauve English Net modified a-line gown, available at Pearl’s Place, features a draped bodice and shimmery mauve caviar beading. Completing the look: Ella drop earrings in gold and iolite by Kendra Scott.

BLUE BRIDESMAID GOWN: Also from Hayley Paige and available at Pearl’s Place, this modified a-line bridesmaid gown features pewter caviar beading, a curved v-neck bodice with cap sleeves and a scoop back. Carinne drop earrings in silver and slate by Kendra Scott perfectly complement this gown.

Take your signature beverage game to a new level by styling a whimsical bar as a gathering place for guests.

Announce your new union in lights! This script “Mr&Mrs” marquee is available from True Value Rental.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 97

Corella by Willowby by Watters, available at Pearl’s Place, is an artistic V-neck featuring complex Penta Embroidery. The back is lined with covered buttons that fade into the fit-and-flare silhouette. Adding just the right amount of sparkle are the Claudia lariat necklace in gold and the Mary Caroline bangle bracelet in gold by Kendra Scott. MEN'S WEAR: Palm Beach Seersucker suit paired with Nola Couture’s Cayenne Red Fleur de Lis bow tie, available at John’s Tuxedos’ Southern Men’s Shop.

98 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

WEDDING GOWN: Cordelia by Sottero and Midley, available at Pearl’s Place, is a vintage-inspired wedding dress featuring allover lace with sheer lace comprising the three-quarters sleeves, bateau neckline and square back. As a finishing touch to this classic bridal look, we’ve added Keely stud earrings in silver and the Nolan adjustable chain bracelet in silver, both from Kendra Scott. MEN'S WEAR: From John’s Tuxedos’ Southern Men’s Shop a Palm Beach Seersucker suit paired with a lavender silk Mardi Gras Masks Tie by Nola Couture.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 99

On the bodice and hemline of this Allure Bridals ball gown, available at Southern Bridal Dreams, delicate floral embroidery creates a bridal bouquet in it’s own right. This look is paired with a Giselle Bridals veil in light gold and rhinestone and pearl shoulder jewelry from Bel Aire Bridals, both also available at Southern Bridal Dreams. Becky drop earrings in silver by Kendra Scott subtly complete this stunning ensemble.

100 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

Papella by Willowby by Watters, available at Pearl’s Place, will take your breath away with it’s softly winged back. The Tillie Chantilly lace gown is edged with uncorded Sarana lace.

Adding sparkle to this lacy look are the Sivan choker necklace in silver and Faye statement earrings in silver, both by Kendra Scott. Men's Wear: Palm Beach Seersucker suit paired with Nola Couture’s Pontchartrain Pink Wetlands Tie, available at John’s Tuxedos’ Southern Men’s Shop.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 101

Get Daily New Orleans Wedding Inspiration on The N.O.W. blog!

theNOWbride.com

102 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 103

N.O.W.

real wedding

Courtney Harper & Adam Turkington NOVEMBER 4, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: Eau Claire Photographics | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

COURTNEY HARPER HAD JUST FINISHED HER first year of law school when boyfriend Adam Turkington made detailed plans for them to take their two miniature dachshunds to Audubon Park the following weekend. He was very specific about which day and at what time this stroll would occur.

“That probably should have alerted me that he had something up his sleeve,” Courtney says. “I’m usually the one scheduling things down to the second.”

On what seemed to be the hottest day of the year, the couple took their beloved dogs, Olive and Gus, to the park.

Adam proposed near the amphitheater.

“In true New Orleans fashion, he asked me to marry him as D.J. Jubilee’s “Get Ready, Ready” played in the background from a nearby party,” Courtney says. “It was wonderful and hilarious – exactly like our relationship.”

The pair exchanged vows before 160 guests at the Audubon Clubhouse on Nov. 4, 2017. One of Courtney’s favorite parts of the wedding was when the officiant – family friend Andy LeBlanc—told the couple to “repeat after me.”

“Adam whispered, ‘Repeat after me,’” she says. “Our wedding day was very us and it was very special.”

Having Andy officiate also meant a lot to the couple: Just six months earlier, Andy and his wife, Jill, lost their four-year-old daughter, Molly Mae, to

104 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

complications following liver and kidney transplant surgery. Because of that devastating loss, Adam and Courtney hesitated before asking Andy to play an active role in their celebration.

“Adam and I really wanted to have someone marry us who knew us very well and who embodied faith, strength and love,” Courtney says, “but we weren’t sure it would be too much to ask of him.“ Then Andy shared a dream he’d had about giving a speech at Courtney and Adam’s wedding. Misgivings gone, the couple asked Andy to lead their ceremony.

They also made their wedding day a tribute to their friends’ child: the groomsmen wore green bracelets with #BLMM (Be Like Molly Mae). Green was Molly Mae’s favorite color.

The speeches during their wedding weekend had a common theme: These two are the real deal.

Best man Mikey Dessauer described the couple as being in their “own little love bubble.” Andy noted that the pair are always together, joking, “We get it! You love each other!”

“Every moment of our wedding day was our favorite,” Courtney says.

“Every detail was absolutely perfect.”

N.O.W.

FEATURED VENDOR PHOTOGRAPHY Eau Claire Photographics eauclairephotographics.com

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

Additional Vendors: CEREMONY + RECEPTION LOCATION: Audubon Clubhouse | OFFICIANT: Andy LeBlanc | REHEARSAL DINNER: Ralph’s on the Park | BRIDE’S GOWN: Amy Kuschel, Wedding Belles | BRIDESMAIDS’ GOWNS: Jenny Yoo + Monique Lhuillier, Wedding Belles | MENSWEAR: Jos. A Bank | FLORIST: Poppy & Mint Floral Company | BAKERY: Bittersweet Confections | CEREMONY MUSIC: New Orleans Fine Arts Ensemble | RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT: Nola Dukes Band | HAIR: Lesley Rogers (Bride) + Christine Erhardt (Bridesmaids) | MAKEUP: Katie Malone Makeup | WEDDING PLANNER/DESIGNER: Catherine Lagarde | CANDLE DÉCOR: Luminous Events | JEWELRY: Lauren B Jewelry (Bride) + Lee Michael’s (Groom) | INVITATIONS + FAVORS: Write Collections

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 105

jewelry inspired by new orleans

RAW oyster pendants + fleur de lis infinity loop

106 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

shop: eternallynola.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 107

N.O.W.

STYLE

+

hair makeup

Beauty Must-Haves Our current bridal beauty favorites.

1

on location

tracybranch.com to book @tracybranchagency

4

3

Life is but a

Dream) RINGLETTS Salon (est 1986) | multicultural wedding hair experts |

Inside Hilton Riverside New Orleans 2 Poydras Street , NOLA 70130 | 504.556.3783 Inquiries: Ringletts.com 108 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

5 6

8

7 2

9

10

1. Jane Iredale GreatShape Contour Kit featuring a trio of warm andcool matte shades for sculpting, contouring and highlighting, janeiredale.com. 2. Jane Iredale blending/contouring brush in rose gold, janeiredale.com. 3. Jane Iredale contour brush in rose gold perfect for creating a beautifully sculpted, contoured look, janeiredale.com. 4. Tan Lux Hydra Mousse is a ultra-hydrating transparent tanning mousse. Availableat tan-luxe.com. 5. Vince Camuto Bella Eau de Parfum, vincecamuto.com 6. Lancôme Grandiôse Extrême Mascara, www.sephora.com. 7. Exuviance DePuffing Eye Serum, ulta.com. 8. Exuviance Glycolic Expert Moisturizer, ulta.com. 9. Anastasia Beverly Hills Mini Duo Brush, anastasiabeverlyhills.com. 10. Anastasia Beverly Hills Dipbrow Pomade for sculpting precise brows, anastasiabeverlyhills.com.

R

Revive wedding up-dos |make-up great lengths extensions cut + color

photo: stacy marks

The Lakeview Hair Salon

504-265-8761 234 W. Harrison Ave | NOLA

/NolaReviveSalon theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 109

N.O.W.

real wedding

Kathryn Hastings & Howie Acosta, Jr. NOVEMBER 18, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: Eau Claire Photographics | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

HOWIE ACOSTA JR. IS A U.S. NAVY LIEUTENANT (junior grade) and pilots the MH-53E “Sea Dragon” helicopter.

Yet he somehow convinced Tulane University classmate Kathryn Hastings that he was the type of guy who routinely forgot to bring pens to their shared Roman History class, forcing him to ask her for extra writing instruments.

“I thought she was cute and it was an attempt to get to know her,” Howie says. “I did this most of the semester; my notes ended up being written in about 10 different colors because sometimes she didn’t have extra pens, but colored markers, pencils or even highlighters. She thought it was funny and I quickly developed a crush on her.”

But Kathryn was taken, at least until the following school year. Learning his dream girl was single, Howie asked her on a date he hoped would be the first of many. He borrowed a Nintendo 64 because Kathryn had said she’d once loved playing Mario Kart, bought some wine and tuned his violin because “that was going to be my main move.”

That night, they played games, talked and laughed. Midway through that bottle of wine, Howie played and sang Old Crow Medicine Show’s “Wagon Wheel” for Kathryn.

110 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

“I’m pretty sure she fell in love with me right there,” Howie says. “It’s hard to say when the moment was that we knew we had found ‘the one,’ because we had already known each other for a year and become really close friends before we got together.”

In 2014, Howie finished his Master’s degree and Kathryn finished her undergraduate year and began her first year at Tulane Law. He proposed on her law school graduation day.

On Nov. 18, 2017, the pair, now split between Texas and Virginia, married at historic Christ Church Cathedral in New Orleans in a ceremony officiated by Kathryn’s family priest from Dallas.

A reception for 120 of their nearest and dearest followed at the French Quarter’s Marché. The newlyweds entered to a traditional sword arch formed by a handful of Howie’s Navy. Guests left with a watercolor of a streetcar sketched by Howie’s father and painted as gifts by his father, mother and mother-in-law.

“The iconography of the street car will always be a part of New Orleans,” Howie says. “Now our family and friends have something that not only will remind them of us and our wedding, but of New Orleans itself.”

N.O.W.

FEATURED VENDOR PHOTOGRAPHY Eau Claire Photographics. eauclairephotographics.com

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

Additional Vendors: GETTING READY LOCATION: Windsor Court Hotel | CEREMONY LOCATION: Christ Church Cathedral | RECEPTION LOCATION: Marché | REHEARSAL DINNER: Tomas Bistro | BRIDE’S GOWN: Martina Liana, Mia Bridal Couture (Houtson, TX) | BRIDESMAIDS’ GOWNS: Dessy, Houston Bridal Gallery | VIDEO: Apercu Films | FLORIST: Iris Floral | RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT: Nola Dukes | WEDDING CAKE: Pure Cake | TRANSPORTATION: Alert Transportation | HAIR+ MAKEUP: Glam Nola | TRAVEL AGENT: Katie Rollins, CSB Travel | WEDDING PLANNER/DESIGNER: Brooke Casey | WEDDING RINGS: Tiffany & Co. | TABLE NOs, PLACE CARDS, SAVE THE DATES: Minted

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 111

N.O.W.

STYLE

Engaging Photos Say YES to the engagement session.

Written by Theresa Matherne, Theresa Elizabeth Photography

THE ENGAGEMENT SESSION ORIGINALLY STARTED AS A WAY to announce your engagement to your family, friends and community. The most common form of this was placing a photograph from your engagement session in the newspaper to spread the exciting news. Fast forward to 2018 and this has incredibly changed. With the help of technology and social media, many couples now can share their engagement instantly with their entire network with just a press of a few buttons. While this is insanely cool, scheduling a professional engagement session with your wedding photographer is seriously needed.

HERE ARE MY TOP REASONS WHY: PRESERVE THE FIANCÉ(E) STATUS! Sounds pretty obvious, right? But as time inches closer to the big day, you start to find yourself getting busier and busier, with less time to just relax and enjoy your engagement. This is why, early in the engagement is the perfect time for an engagement session. It allows you to preserve the excitement of the proposal and that cloud nine feeling you get every time you get to finally say that word... fiancé. While the visions of the future are still fresh in your mind, that emotion will be clearly evident in your engagement session photographs. The actual engagement is a pivotal moment on your journey to marriage, and should be documented just as much as your wedding day!

PRACTICE FOR THE BIG DAY The majority of newly engaged couples have not had photographs taken by a professional before, so it is important to use the engagement session as a way to open up and be comfortable in front 112 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

of the camera. On your wedding day you’ll likely be surrounded by a variety of cameras. The engagement session is a great opportunity to instill confidence and build comfort in front of the camera.

In no time, you’ll stop focusing on the camera and more on each other, which is what this whole journey is about!

Your interactions with each other will become more natural and less stiff.

PRO TIP: If you want to really make it a true dry run, try coordinating your e-shoot with your hair and makeup trials; it will allow you the chance to see how your color palette and style will look in photos.

THE PHOTOGRAPHS CAN BE USED THROUGHOUT YOUR ENTIRE WEDDING PROCESS! The photographs from your engagement session can be utilized in many ways for the actual wedding. Selecting an engagement photo for the save the dates is one of the most common

choices I see, but they can also be used as part of the signage, for your wedding website, place cards, for table markers, for reception fun (think large face cut outs for people to flood the dance floor with) and even as a unique guest book.

LETTING YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER GET TO KNOW YOU AS A COUPLE Not only is an engagement session good practice for you, it’s also a great trial run for your photographer. It allows them to see how you interact; to learn if you are timid or big on the PDA. They will learn about your personalities, whether you are goofy or serious, and how much direction you’ll need or want.

PRO TIP: you will likely see your photographer more than anyone else on your wedding day … including your fiancé! Engagement sessions

are a perfect icebreaker to transform your photographer from a ‘stranger’ taking your photos to a ‘friend’ taking your photos. Establish a relationship with your photographer (and all your vendors for that matter).

Get to know their personality and hobbies to the point where you feel comfortable enough with them that you’ll look forward to spending time with them on your wedding day.

A CHANCE TO LET LOOSE AND GET CREATIVE WITH EACH OTHER You have an opportunity to take some truly unique photos during an engagement session, different from any you might have had before, so make good use of it! Start with the location and pick a place that means something to both of you. It can be where you got engaged, a first date or just a

very memorable date, where you met (maybe your high school/university).

It can be any place that puts you at ease, something familiar to you both that will spark some amazing memories to get you comfortable. Wherever you decide, make it mean something to you.

PRO TIP: If there is an aspect of your wedding day you had to compromise on, (maybe your ideal vision was an outdoor wedding but tradition is pushing you in a more formal direction, like a church) you can use an engagement shoot to experience part of the aesthetic you won’t be able to feature at the actual wedding.

Now get to planning and enjoy every minute of the experience!

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 113

N.O.W.

real wedding

Brandi Fortuné & Michael Bordenave NOVEMBER 11, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: Ashford-Halley Studios | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

FOR BRANDI FORTUNÉ AND MICHAEL BORDENAVE, there’s always been something about the numbers 11-11. Whenever one of them sees that combination – be it on a clock, a license plate, a phone number or an address – he or she immediately wishes for happiness and success.

“Call it superstition, but it seems like we always see that number,” Brandi says.

It could be superstition, or it could be something greater at work.

Because something kept throwing the two together over the years despite multiple false starts.

They first dated in high school. (She attended Xavier Prep, he graduated from McDonough 35.) Michael says he knew Brandi was extraordinary even then – “I believe in love at first sight” -- but they parted ways to attend colleges in different states.

A few years later, both were pursuing music careers. They bumped into each other at an Atlanta hip-hop showcase. They picked up like they’d never been apart, made promises to keep in touch – and then didn’t.

There were other encounters and another three years passed. In 2008, they ran into each other at a New Orleans nightclub, but both dating other people. Michael remembers telling his cousin that night that Brandi was the one who got away.

“Every so often it felt as it the universe would stop and bring us together,” Michael says.

Brandi did get away, for about seven more years. Then in November

114 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

2015, both were living and working in New Orleans. He asked her out on a date.

“She was honestly scared, but I was patient,” Michael says. “It was a whirlwind. We fell in love.”

On a Wednesday afternoon about a year later, Brandi went to Michael’s house.

“She looked stunningly beautiful in her sweatpants, t-shirt, and flip flops,” Michael remembers.

He asked. She accepted, confirming, he says, “what I had felt all along: that we were made for each other. From puppy love to distant friends to best friends then ultimately inseparable.”

They married on November 11, 2017 -- 11/11, of course – at the New Orleans Museum of Art, exchanging personalized vows in a ceremony space lit with purple, red and blue lights “to bring the night sky inside so we can be united under the heavens with God as our witness among family and friends,” Brandi says.

They looked heavenward again during the outdoor cocktail hour, when fireworks were launched in their honor.

During the reception, Brandi pulled out a guitar – a gift from Michael two years earlier – and played the couple’s favorite song, “Say You Won’t Let Go” by James Arthur.

“We danced, we ate, we laughed, and cried tears of joy,” Brandi says.

“That’s what you call a wedding and that’s how you start your fairy tale.”

N.O.W.

FEATURED VENDOR BRIDE’S + BRIDESMAIDS’ GOWNS Pearl’s Place pearlsplace.com

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

Additional Vendors: CEREMONY + RECEPTION LOCATION: The New Orleans Museum of Art | OFFICIANT: Terry Nash | REHEARSAL DINNER: Coaxum Enterprises | MENSWEAR: Tuxedos To Geaux | VIDEO: Lonely Eskimo Productions | FLORIST: Villere’s Florist | BAKERY: Haydel’s | RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Wop Live, R&B Singer Denisia, and the Hot 8 Brass Band | TRANSPORTATION: Riculfy Livery | HAIR: Arrianna Fortuné | MAKEUP: Onya Lafort | WEDDING PLANNER/DESIGNER: Balthazar Bridal and Events | RENTALS: Event Rental | CANDLE DÉCOR/ LIGHTING: Abstract Productions | CATERER: Highly Seasoned Catering | FAVORS: Uncle Keith’s Pralines | INVITATIONS: Gem Printing

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 115

116 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 117

N.O.W.

STYLE clear and there is no confusion.

Photography Q & A

Do I receive a disk or thumb drive of images from my wedding with my package and can I purchase one if not?

While receiving digital copies should not be a deal-breaker if you love the photographer’s work, it is something to consider. Also, if you get image files, ask if you will be able to print images and ask if the files will be “high resolution.”

Written by Sofie LeChat

Image Credit: Eau Claire Photographics

KNOWING WHAT QUESTIONS TO ASK AND MORE IMPORTANTLY, WHY YOU’RE ASKING THEM is crucial when choosing your wedding photographer. Here is a list of questions and their answers to help guide you in the process.

How long have you specialized in wedding photography?

The dynamics and stress level that come with photographing a wedding are vastly different from those associated with other types of photography like portraiture or commercial photography. Just because someone is a photographer does not make them a wedding photographer.

You want someone who knows what to expect and how to handle 118 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

the last minute insanity that occurs with every wedding and not lose their cool or fail to get the shot.

Do you offer packages, and if yes, what is included?

It is important that you know exactly what you are getting for your money.

When you book the photographer make sure that whatever you have discussed is written in the contract.

This way everything is crystal

How much is your retainer fee?

When are payments expected and when is the final balance due?

What is your cancellation policy?

Professional photographers require a retainer fee to reserve your date. This can be a set fee or a percentage of the package you choose. Whichever it is, know that this is likely non-refundable.

The reason is that photographers can only book one event at a time and have only 52 weekends a year when they can book weddings. Once they reserve your date, they turn away all other inquiries and if you cancel, they’ve lost not only your business, but all the other clients they turned away. Most photographers require that the balance be paid in full prior to the wedding. This is a common practice.

If you find yourself worried about paying in full before the wedding, ask for several references and call them!

Do you shoot alone or with a second photographer? Do you have an assistant?

There is really no wrong answer here, but the answer you get will give you some insight. While an assistant isn’t an absolute necessity, they do make it easier for the photographer to focus on what they’re doing (capturing your wedding). Oftentimes, photographers will have a second shooter that

doubles as an assistant. This means that the second photographer helps with logistics and allows the main photographer to focus on your wedding while getting additional angles and shots for you. The main photographer can only be in one place at one place at one time, so a second photographer can be well worth the investment.

How many photographs do you take?

It is important to know what to expect.

“Unlimited” coverage may mean a few hundred photos to one photographer and thousands of photos to another photographer. Make sure you and your photographer are on the same page!

Do you edit your images before we see them? What kind of editing do you do?

Some photographers minimally process your images (this often means you get them faster) and others will intricately

adjust each image. Be aware that the latter usually comes with a higher price tag. Find out what your photographer does and what to expect when you receive your photos. Be aware though that most photographers will not do major retouching like slimming people down and retouching acne on your proofs and that this kind of retouching is usually done at an extra fee.

How long does it take to receive my photos after the wedding?

The answer varies from photographer to photographer, but they should be able to tell you a general time frame before you book. Whether it’s 1-2 weeks or 6-8 months, there is no correct answer; there is only what you are comfortable with. Know up front what to expect, get it in writing, and as a final note of advice, don’t expect your photos to be done any

faster than what the photographer quoted you. You may be pleasantly surprised by an early date for delivery, but most photographers know how long it takes them to finish their work and usually need all of that time!

Will you be the person taking the pictures?

Yes, it happens. Brides have booked with one photographer based on their work only to have a totally different person show up on the wedding day.

Ask up front and write it in on your contract if you are concerned.

Ask these questions when you interview photographers and write down their answers. It’s important that you feel completely comfortable with the person documenting your wedding so that you get the best possible experience.

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 119

N.O.W.

real wedding

Twila Beasley & Chris McGee OCTOBER 9, 2017

PHOTOGRAPHER: Hi Volt Studios | WRITTEN BY: Natalie Pompilio

AS SHAKESPEARE SAID, “THE COURSE OF TRUE LOVE never did run smooth.” But if two people are truly in love – like Twila Beasley-McGee and Chris McGee -- they not only survive those challenges but thrive.

Chris and Twila met at New Orleans’ Xavier Prep High School. Their bond was immediate and they were inseparable for three years – until Hurricane Katrina.

Twila moved to Arkansas. Chris stayed behind. They spent senior year apart, keeping in touch via phone and MySpace, reuniting as freshmen at the University of Arkansas.

Then another major setback: Chris suffered a brain aneurysm. If she survived, she could be permanently changed, perhaps cognitively and definitely physically. Twila learned doctors had amputated Chris’ right hand and multiple toes during a video call.

“She was kind of nervous, but I just started crying because I felt myself fall in love with her all over again,” Twila says. “Her amputations didn’t bother me.”

Chris was determined to return to college – “She’s a nerd who loves research,” Twila jokes – and Twila was determined to help her. Twila put her own education on hold and opened a pet care business with flexible hours.

That allowed her to support the couple while attending Chris’s classes.

120 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

“I never felt like it was difficult or a burden,” Twila says. “I’m not the hero here. I may have taken the notes, but she did all the studying, research and stayed up late typing papers.”

In May 2016, Chris graduated from Our Lady of Holy Cross College with a degree in legal studies.

“Words can’t express how proud and happy I felt to see her walk across the stage on graduation day after witnessing her being given Last Rites at the hospital,” Twila says.

On Oct. 9, 2017, thanks the Supreme Court’s same-sex marriage decision, Chris and Twila made their bond legal as well as emotional, marrying at The Crossing in Kenner. Wish Upon a Wedding, a non-profit that helps couples afford weddings after life-altering situations, helped pay for the event.

They had a masquerade theme, an homage to New Orleans and a reference to how their courtship began.

“We originally had to hide our relationship – we had to wear masks – knowing that we weren’t going to be accepted right away,” Twila says. “But we knew that as some point we could remove those masks and reveal who we are.”

They are two people, deeply in love.

See more N.O.W. Real Wedding Inspiration at:

TheNowBride.com

Additional Vendors: CEREMONY + RECEPTION LOCATION: The Crossing | OFFICIANT: Johnny Adams | COUPLES’ ATTIRE: JJ’s House + Macy’s | VIDEO: Bride Film | FLORIST: Kim Starr Wise Floral Events | BAKERY: Frosted Fantasies by Nikki | CEREMONY MUSIC: Adam Perret | BRASS BAND: Kinfolk Brass Band | TRANSPORTATION: Unique Transportation | HAIR+ MAKEUP: Flawless Beauty Bar | WEDDING PLANNER/DESIGNER/CANDLE DÉCOR/ RENTALS: Unique Weddings in New Orleans | JEWELER: Zales | INVITATIONS : Exquisite Events | FAVORS: Party Oasis | RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT: Yazzies Snow Balls + Photo booth by Tim Alexander Photography

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 121

N.O.W.

STYLE

A Bachelorette Experience A Trashy Diva Lingerie Party CALLING ALL BRIDESMAIDS! PLANNING A BACHELORETTE PARTY FOR YOUR favorite bride-to-be just got so much easier. If a lingerie themed event is in the cards, why not take your bride and the party right to the source?

122 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

Images courtesy of Trashy Diva

From bustiers to burlesque, Trashy Diva offers the ultimate bachelorette party experience. Not only will the bachelorette of honor be able to get fitted for her big day, she’ll also find the right pieces (and novelty items) to heat things up for the honeymoon.

At before and after-hours shopping events, the entire boutique is available for an intimate, private shopping experience, complete with trained stylist. They’ll even curate a collection of lingerie options based on the bride’s personal sizes and preferences.

BUT THERE’S MORE! “While interacting with real brides shopping at Trashy Diva boutiques, we quickly understood the need to give brides the opportunity to check of their to-do lists while letting loose with their favorite girls in an intimate setting,” shares Candice Gwinn, Trashy Diva owner and designer. “We married our favorite parts of lingerie showers and bachelorette parties to create party packages for real brides.”

These parties include private shopping experiences, one-on-one

attention from a trained stylist, complimentary champagne or wine, and they even offer an option for a 30-minute introductory class showcasing the basics of burlesque by a professional burlesque dancer!

Trashy Diva also helps take the stress off the bride and her friends, relieving the oh-so-common giftgiving anxiety. Guests are able to purchase gift certificates before and during the event that the bride can use toward a gift she loves. No more stressing to find the perfect gift in the right size, color and style!

And lets just talk about style, shall we? Trashy Diva sources lingerie from all over the world, often working oneon one with designers to create pieces unique to their brand. They also carry styles from more than 70 of the world’s most luxurious lingerie designers and have an expansive size range from “A” to “H” to even the occasional “J”.

Now, how do you get the party started? Reach out at least 2-4 weeks in advance for all the details regarding booking a party. “We host parties at all three Trashy Diva

Lingerie locations: the French Quarter, Magazine Street and Atlanta, “ says Gwinn. “Party times are generally held before or after usual business hours in the morning or evening.”

Standard packages are available, but customized events are also an option.

When the party is booked, the bride will have the opportunity to submit her personal sizes and preferences that a Trashy Diva stylist will then use to select items from all boutiques just for the event.

As bride Lauren sums it up, “Upon booking the party, Trashy Diva asked for my size, style, and color preferences. A beautiful assortment of pieces of various price points was personally selected for me from both locations based on these specifications. The group was also able to browse the entire store and I left the party with a new collection of lingerie and loungewear I love!”

Contact: customerservice@trashydiva.com or visit online at trashydiva.com/parties for more details. theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 123

N.O.W.

STYLE

WHAT'S

YOUR FANTASY? Whether you’re doing a boudoir shoot for someone special or as an empowering experience just for yourself, embrace the opportunity and have fun! In this editorial we’ve created a sexy homage to some of our favorite fantasy characters.

CREDITS PHOTOGRAPHY: Beausoleil Boudoir | beausoleilboudoir.com HAIR + MAKEUP: Sarah, Bobbi and Alyssa for Verde Beauty | verdebeauty.com ON LOCATION: The Monastery | monasterynola.com STYLED BY: Kim Sayatovic, Belladeux Event Design | belladeuxevents.com THRONE CHAIRS: True Value Rental | truevaluerentalnola.com LINGERIE: Trashy Diva Intimates | trashydiva.com MODELS: Trixie Minx, Roxie Le Rouge, Cherry Bombshell, Mamie Dame and Piper Marie for Burgundy Burlesque with Trixie Minx Productions 124 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

BARELY FLIRTING

Maison Close - "Jardin Imperial" Brief in Chestnut - $115 | Maison Close - "Jardin Imperial" Bra in Chestnut -$160 | Bordelle - "Art Deco" Ouvert Strap Brief in Caramel - $137 | Bordelle - "Art Deco" Harness in Caramel - $127

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 125

Corset - Custom Corset Available at Trashy Diva Intimates | Felina "Harlow" Bra in Lipstick Red - $36 | Felina - "Harlow" Brief in Lipstick Red - $18 | Bijoux Indiscrets - Desir Metallique Collar in Gold - $28 | Bijoux Indiscrets - Magnifique Handcuffs in Gold - $28

126 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

SURELY YOU JEST?

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 127

128 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

ICE PRINCESS

Only Hearts - "Velvet Underground" Bralette in Silver - $71 | Only Hearts - "Velvet Underground" Heart Back Hipster in Silver - $51 | Leaf Cascade Earrings in Crystal - $23 | Leaf Cascade Necklace in Crystal - 68

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 129

Bordelle - "Art Deco" Harness in Black - $127 | Bordelle - "Bondage | Belle" Peep Brief in Black - $176 | Bordelle - "Kendo" Bodice Bra in Black - $279

130 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

MEOW!

LETHAL BEAUTY

Else - "Baroque" Fitted Slip in Emerald - $181 | Emerald Earrings - $18 Floral Shawl - $110 | Leaf Cascade Necklace in Crystal - 68

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 131

Victorian Oval Jewel Necklace in Purple - $45 | Only Hearts - "Cou Cou Lola" Bralette in Deep Purple - $47 | Only Hearts - "Cou Cou Lola" Thong in Deep Purple - $38 | Kiki Riki - Marabou Robe in Black - $242

132 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

ARABIAN NIGHTS

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 133

The N.O.W. WEDDING PLANNER

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 135

You said, “YES!” What do you do N.O.W. ?

FIRST AND FOREMOST, congratulations on your engagement.

What began as a fairy tale you’ve envisioned for so long will soon be a reality.

While you’re flooded with excitement over your new engagement, the list of things to do, vendors to meet and events to plan can be overwhelming.

That’s where we come in.

Our team at NEW ORLEANS MAGAZINE created this planner to aide you with planning your dream wedding.

We broke down everything you need to know about preparing for your big day. From a wedding budget to keep you on track to a handy “To Do” list to keep yourself organized, the N.O.W. PLANNER will make sure everything is coordinated so you’ll have time to enjoy what really matters — your wedding day!

N.O.W. works with the best wedding professionals in New Orleans, Southeast Louisiana and beyond. From gorgeous gowns, fabulous flowers, phenomenal photographers and everything in between, let our talented N.O.W. vendors help your dream wedding become a reality.

N.O.W. let’s plan your wedding...

136 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

LEGAL DETAILS Every wedding needs a license. The requirements are different in every state and parish and are subject to change.

Contact officials before your big day to make sure your wedding goes off without any hitches!

REQUIREMENTS FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE Both parties must go to the Parish Clerk’s Office to obtain the license. If both parties are unable to appear, the application may be signed by one or both before a notary. Military exception: Individual appearing may present a copy of the other applicant’s military ID. Must bring proper identification: a current driver’s license, current state ID or passport.

Both parties must provide Social Security numbers.

Both parties must provide certified copies of a birth certificate or a certified birth card.

If either party has been divorced, a certified copy of the final divorce decree is required. If widowed, a certified copy of the former spouse’s death certificate is required.

There is a 72 hour waiting period between issuing of the license and the ceremony.

The license is valid for 30 days after issued.

AREA COURTHOUSES You can obtain a marriage license at any courthouse in the state. Here are the courthouses in Southeast Louisiana: ORLEANS PARISH (East Bank) (504) 593-5100 Benson Tower 1450 Poydras, Suite 407 New Orleans, LA 70112 $27.50 Cash or Check Hours: M-F, 8:15am-3:15pm (excluding state holidays)

ST. JOHN PARISH

ORLEANS PARISH (West Bank) (504) 407-0436 225 Morgan St. Room 201 (Inside Algiers Court House) New Orleans, LA 70114 • $27.50 Cash Only Hours: M-F, 9am-3pm (excluding state holidays)

ST. TAMMANY PARISH

JEFFERSON PARISH (East Bank)

ST. CHARLES PARISH

(504) 736-6390 marriageinfo@jpclerkofcourt.us Joseph S. Yenni Building 1221 Elmwood Park Blvd., Room 603 Harahan, LA 70123 • $27.50 Cash Only Hours: M-F, 8:30am - 4:30pm (excluding legal holidays)

JEFFERSON PARISH (West Bank)

(504) 364-2922 or (504) 364-2923 Gretna Courthouse 200 Derbigny St., Third Floor Gretna, LA 70053 • $27.50 Cash Only Hours: M-F, 8:30am - 4:30pm (excluding legal holidays)

PLAQUEMINES PARISH (West Bank) (504) 297-5180 301 Main St., Suite 108 Belle Chasse, LA 70037 • $30 Cash Only ST. BERNARD PARISH

(504) 271-3434 1101 West St. Bernard Highway Chalmette, LA 70043 • $30 Cash or Check

(985) 497-3331 2393 Hwy 18 (River Road) Edgard, LA 70049 • $37.50 Cash or Money Order Only Hours: M-F, 8am - 4pm (excluding legal holidays)

(985) 809-8745 701 N. Columbia St. Grand Floor by elevator Covington, La 70433 • $25 - Cash Only

(985) 783-6632 stcharlescoc@bellsouth.net 15045 River Road Hahnville, LA 70057 • $35 Cash, Check or Money Order Hours: M-F, 8:30am - 4:30 pm (excluding legal holidays)

WASHINGTON PARISH

(985) 839-7821 Courthouse Building Corner of Washington and Main Franklinton, LA 70438 • $30 Cash or Check

TANGIPAHOA PARISH

(985) 748-4146 110 N. Bay St. Amite, LA 70422 • $35 Cash, Check and Credit Cards

TERREBONNE PARISH

(985) 873-8376 310 Church St. Houma, LA 70360 • $40 Cash Only

LAFOURCHE PARISH

(985) 447-4841 303 West 3rd St. Thibodaux, LA 70301 • $35 Cash Only

(Above information believed to be accurate at time of printing. Contact your parish officials prior to your visit to assure most up-to-date information.)

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 137

TO-DO BEFORE “I DO” DO YOU FEEL AS THOUGH you have a million things to do before you say, “I Do”? Not to worry. We’ve compiled a time line to help organize all your wedding events. Review the numerous wedding professionals at theNOWbride.com and let them help plan your perfect wedding.

Six to Nine Months Prior Nine to Fifteen Months Prior n Announce engagement to family and friends and plan an engagement party n Choose wedding date, preferably more than one in case your preferred venue and/or vendor is booked n Select wedding attendants n Establish budget early, with maximum amounts for each event/vendor/etc. n Decide on the style, formality and guest-list size for the wedding n Select wedding planner n Reserve ceremony and reception location n Secure wedding officiant n Begin compiling guest list and mailing addresses n Start the selection process for wedding professionals, including photographer/ videographer, entertainment, ceremony music, caterer, transportation, florist and stationery n Start the wedding gown and wedding attendants’ dress search n Consult travel agent for honeymoon plans. If traveling abroad, you will need valid passports and up-to-date immunizations

138 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

n Select gift registries n Order wedding gown & accessories, including veil, shoes and undergarments (wear to fittings) n Order menswear for groom and attendants n Take engagement pictures n Select and order bridesmaids dresses, schedule fittings, etc. n Engagement party n Finalize wedding professionals: Baker Party Rentals Caterer Photographer Ceremony Music Reception Entertainment Florist Stationery Other __________________________ Videographer

Four to Six Months Prior n Finalize guest list and mail Save-the-Date announcement n Reserve rehearsal dinner location and/or caterers n Order wedding invitations and thank-you notes n Hire calligrapher n Create wedding website with directions, accommodations, local attractions and other wedding details n Reserve accommodations for wedding night and out-of-town guests. n Book honeymoon and finalize travel documentations, if necessary n Order wedding cake, groom’s cake and any other confections n Research all legal requirements ­— permits + licenses n Purchase/rent any decor to be used during the ceremony and/ or reception

Two to Four Months Prior n Purchase wedding bands and have engraved if desired n Order favors and gifts. Purchase cake knives, toasting crystals and other accessories n Mail out-of-town invitations n Reserve wedding day beauty appointments for bride and attendants n Select wedding readings n Confirm menu selection and/or bar with caterer n Book specialty services, including photo booth, ice sculptures, rentals, Second Line, etc. n Continue writing thank you notes for previous bridal parties, couple showers, etc.

One Week Before n Schedule pick-up and return of groom’s and groomsmen’ attire, if rented n Prepare final checks to wedding vendors, as well as donations to ceremony officiants and musicians, if necessary

Four to Six Weeks Prior

Te Day Before

n Mail local invitations n Take bridal portraits and have framed for reception display n Begin addressing wedding announcements n Pick up wedding rings n Complete name-change documents n Print ceremony programs n Remember to update wedding website with any changes n Review banking and insurance information and see what needs to be updated after you’re married n Fill out a Change-of-Address at post office, if necessary

n Welcome family and friends from out-of-town n Have honeymoon bags packed n Gather all wedding day items n Attend rehearsal dinner and give gifts to wedding party and family

Two Weeks Prior n Confirm all appointments and finalize professional services: Baker Lodging Reservations Beauty Appointments Party Rentals Caterer Photographer Ceremony Music Reception Entertainment Entertainment Transportation Florist Videographer Honeymoon Reservation Other_________________________________ n Order wedding gown & accessories, including veil, shoes and undergarments (wear to fittings) n Arrange for pick-up of wedding gown, if you haven’t done so already n Plan seating arrangements, if necessary n Pick up marriage license n Plan honeymoon wardrobe, obtain travel tickets and confirm reservations n Remember to update wedding website with any event changes

Your Wedding Day

n Arrange to see hairstylist and make-up artist BEFORE your attendants n Be dressed and ready about two hours before ceremony for photos

Relax...

saying “I DO” is the easy part!

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 139

THE BUCK STOPS HERE BEFORE YOU SAY “I DO,” you need ask “How Much?” Traditionally, the bride’s family carries the majority of the financial responsibility. But with the cost of weddings growing as well as the average age of couples increasing, many couples are picking up some of the wedding expenses. Grooms’ families are also chipping in more than just the traditional rehearsal dinner and other small expenses. But no matter how the bill is divided, couples need to decide on a budget and stick with it.

TOTAL BUDGET $

FLOWERS & DÉCOR

CEREMONY & RECEPTION $____________ Ceremony Location $____________ Officiant’s Fee $____________ Marriage License $____________ Reception Venue $____________ Caterer $____________ Bar $____________ Rentals $____________ Cake $____________ Transportation $____________ Wedding Planner $____________ ESTIMATED COST $____________ ACTUAL COST

BUDGET $

ATTIRE $____________ Wedding Gown BUDGET $ $____________ Headpiece/Veil $____________ Shoes $____________ Trousseau/Undergarments $____________ Jewelry $____________ Hair & Makeup $____________ Groom’s Tuxedo/Suit $____________ Groom’s Shoes $____________ Wedding rings $____________ Other $____________ ESTIMATED COST $____________ ACTUAL COST

STATIONERY $____________ Save-the-Date BUDGET $ $____________ Invitation & Envelopes $____________ Reply Cards & Envelopes $____________ Programs $____________ Seating Cards and/or Menu Cards $____________ Thank-You Notes $____________ Postage $____________ Calligraphy $____________ Announcements $____________ Other $____________ ESTIMATED COST $____________ ACTUAL COST 140 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

$____________ Ceremony Decor BUDGET $ $____________ Bridal Bouquet $____________ Attendants’ Bouquets & Boutonnières $____________ Corsages & Boutonnières for Family $____________ Reception Centerpieces/Decor $____________ Delivery Fees $____________ Other $____________ ESTIMATED COST $____________ ACTUAL COST

PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEO $____________ Photographer’s Fee BUDGET $ $____________ Videographer’s Fee $____________ Engagement + Bridal Portrait Sessions $____________ Wedding Album $____________ Additional Album(s) $____________ Additional Prints + Video Copies $____________ ESTIMATED COST $____________ ACTUAL COST

ENTERTAINMENT $____________ Ceremony Music BUDGET $ $____________ Reception Band/DJ $____________ Second Line $____________ Artists (Live Painters, Photo Booth, Etc) $____________ ESTIMATED COST $____________ ACTUAL COST

DETAILS & GIFTS $____________ Attendants’ Gifts BUDGET $ $____________ Parents’ Gifts $____________ Guest room Welcome Gifts $____________ Favors $____________ Toasting glasses/Cake Knives $____________ Second Line Umbrellas $____________ Guest Book $____________ Announcements $____________ Other $____________ ESTIMATED COST $____________ ACTUAL COST

MY VENDORS CEREMONY LOCATION

BRIDAL BOUTIQUE

Venue Name _________________________________________________________________________ Address ________________________________________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________ Contact Name ______________________________________________________________________

Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

RECEPTION LOCATION Venue Name _________________________________________________________________________ Address ________________________________________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________ Contact Name ______________________________________________________________________

REHEARSAL DINNER LOCATION

TUXEDO RENTALS Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

HAIR & MAKEUP Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

Venue Name _________________________________________________________________________ Address ________________________________________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________ Contact Name ______________________________________________________________________

CATERER

WEDDING PLANNER

Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

DÉCOR RENTALS Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

PHOTOGRAPHER Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

VIDEOGRAPHER Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

STATIONIER Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

BAKERY Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

CEREMONY MUSICIANS

RECEPTION BAND/DJ Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

RECEPTION ENTERTAINMENT Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

SECOND LINE Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

TRANSPORTAION Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________

OFFICIANT Co. Name/Contact Person ___________________________________________________ Phone #_________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________ theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 141

WEDDING PLANNER A WEDDING PLANNER will be your new best friend in the months leading up to your wedding day. Meet and interview some of NEW ORLEANS MAGAZINE planners and choose the best fit for you. Discuss everything from design details down to the budget, and let them help make your dream wedding a reality.

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS

MY WEDDING PLANNER

n May we see references and your portfolio? n Tell us about previous weddings you’ve coordinated. n Have you planned weddings similar to ours (size/ traditions/venues/etc)? n Do you base your fees on the total cost or by preset packages? n How can you help my wedding day run smoothly and stay on budget? n What are your terms of payment? n What is your cancellation policy?

Name of Planner_______________________________________________________________ Address_____________________________________________________________________________ Phone _______________________________________________________________________________ Cell____________________________________________________________________________________ Email__________________________________________________________________________________ Website_____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates___________________________________________________________ Notes_________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________

WHAT TO ASK YOURSELF

M

A

S

NE

NS WE LE A DD OR G A Z I N E I

NG

W

n Does this planner “get” my vision? n Have they given me realistic options and advice? n Do I feel comfortable with them? Do our personalities mesh? n Do I like their overall style shown in their portfolio? n Do they understand the religious and/or cultural traditions that are important to us? n Am I comfortable with the cost of hiring them? n What about this planner makes me think they’re “the one”?

PL

AN

O. W.

PLANNING 2015 TIP

N. WEI T H

Interview 3 potentials in each vendor category before making your selection.

WEDDING PLANNER TOTAL COST BUDGET $ DEPOSIT Due On__________________________________________ Paid $__________________________ BALANCE Due On__________________________________________ Paid $__________________________ Estimated Cost $_________________________________________________________________ Actual Cost $_______________________________________________________________________

142 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

THE FINE PRINT MAKE THE RIGHT FIRST IMPRESSION with your guests and wow them with stationery that sets the tone and style of your big day.

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS n May we see references, samples and your portfolio? n What style of invitations do you recommend for our wedding? n How long does it take to process orders? n Does the invitation I’m interested in require additional postage? n Can we get matching thank-you notes and stationery? n How many invitations should I order based on my guest list? n If I need to order additional invitations, what is the cost and how long will this take? n What customizations are available? n Can you recommend a calligrapher? n What are the payment terms

MY STATIONER Company Name ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ Contact Name _________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Address ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Phone ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Email ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Website ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Important Dates ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

DON’T FORGET n Envelopes should be addressed by hand n Record RSVPs to your Master Guest List n Record the dates of each mailing

STATIONERY TOTAL COST

BUDGET $

Save-the-Dates....................................................... $_____________________________ Invitations & Envelopes....................................... $_____________________________ Reply Cards & Envelopes................................... $_____________________________ Programs................................................................... $_____________________________ Seating Cards and/or Menu Cards................. $_____________________________ Thank-You Notes.................................................... $_____________________________ Postage...................................................................... $_____________________________ Calligraphy............................................................... $_____________________________ Announcements..................................................... $_____________________________ Other.......................................................................... $_____________________________

DEPOSIT........................................................... $___________________________ BALANCE........................................................ $___________________________ TOTAL................................................................ $___________________________

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 143

THE BEAUTIFUL BRIDE N.O.W. the fun begins — ­­­ the search for the perfect wedding gown and styling your wedding day look. Be sure to choose a dress that looks and feels like it was made just for you. Be realistic about your budget and let your bridal boutique attendant know both the style and price range you’re looking for. But remember, this is all about you. Don’t let outside opinions get between you and your dream dress! Choose a hair style and makeup that make you feel amazing and complement your gown!

WHAT TO ASK BRIDAL SHOPS

WHAT TO ASK HAIR & MAKEUP ARTISTS

n Do you have any gowns in stock, or must they be ordered? n Can you guarantee a delivery date? How far in advance do I need to place my order? n How many fittings should I schedule? n Do my attendants need to be here in person to order their dresses? n When can you offer alterations and fittings? Can you make last-minute alterations? n What is your return policy? n What are your payment terms?

n Can I see your portfolio? How long have you been doing hair and/or makeup professionally? Are you licensed? n Do you offer both hair + makeup services? n Can you provide services for everyone in my bridal party?

What are the fees? Are there any minimums? n What time will you need to start on the wedding day? n Do you offer on-site applications or in salon only? n Are there any travel fees? n How much is a trial run? When is this scheduled? n What are your payment terms? n What is your cancellation policy?

Name of Boutique _____________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Website _____________________________________________________________________________

MY GOWN DETAILS Designer ____________________________________________________________________________ Size ____________________________________________________________________________________ Style __________________________________________________________________________________ Color _________________________________________________________________________________ Veil/Headpiece Style + Color ____________________________________________ Foundation Wear Style + Size ____________________________________________ Shoe Style + Size ________________________________________________________________ Accessories _______________________________________________________________________

APPOINTMENT DATES Order Date ________________________________________________________________________ Fittings _______________________________________________________________________________ Final Fitting ________________________________________________________________________ Pick-Up ______________________________________________________________________________ Notes _________________________________________________________________________________

Name of Company ___________________________________________________________________ Main Contact ___________________________________________________________________________ Address ____________________________________________________________________________________ Phone _______________________________________________________________________________________ Email__________________________________________________________________________________________ Website ____________________________________________________________________________________ Appointments ___________________________________________________________________________ Notes ________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________

BRIDE’S LOOK TOTAL COST BUDGET $ Gown: Order Number _____________________________________ $______________________ Veil/Headpiece: Order Number______________________ $______________________ Foundation Wear: Order Number____________________ $______________________ Shoes: Order Number______________________________________ $______________________ Accessories: Order Number____________________________ $______________________ Attire Deposit: Due On____________________________________ $______________________ Attire Balance: Due On____________________________________ $______________________ Hair + Makeup Deposit: Due On______________________ $______________________ Hair + Makeup Balance: Due On______________________ $______________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________ 144 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

ALWAYS A BRIDESMAID TRADITIONALLY, ATTENDANTS PAY FOR THEIR OWN attire, but the shopping is usually done in a group with the Bride taking the lead on style, shape and color. It’s important to choose styles and hues that flatter each attendant. And don’t forget to coordinate shoes and accessories.

ATTIRE Name of Boutique ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Main Contact __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Address ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Phone ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Email ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Website ___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

APPOINTMENT DATES Order Date ________________________________________________________ Fittings____________________________________________ Final Fitting ________________________________________________________ Pick-Up____________________________________________ Notes _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

MAID OF HONOR Designer, Style+ Color ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Accessories ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Shoes ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Fitting ________________________________________________________________ Pick-Up____________________________________________

BRIDESMAIDS ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Designer, Style+ Color ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Accessories ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Shoes ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Fitting ________________________________________________________________ Pick-Up____________________________________________

FLOWER GIRL(S) Designer, Style+ Color ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Accessories ____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Shoes ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Fitting ________________________________________________________________ Pick-Up____________________________________________ theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 145

WELL GROOMED THE TASK OF SELECTING THE GROOM’S ATTIRE is his decision. Whether purchased or rented, his attire should complement the time and feel of your wedding as well as your gown and bridal party’s attire!

BASIC MEASUREMENTS

WHAT TO ASK n What type of attire do you suggest based on the time, date, location and formality of our event? n Do you have the attire that we want in stock or does it need to be ordered? n Are shoes and accessories included in the price? n How far in advance do we need to make reservations? n Do the members of the groom’s party need to be fitted in person? Do you offer fittings, pressings and last minute alterations? n When does the attire need to be returned? n What is your damage policy? n What are your payment terms? n What is your cancellation policy?

GROOM’S ATTIRE Name of Company ____________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Order Date_________________________________________________________________________ Fitting ________________________________________________________________________________ Pick-Up_______________________________________________________________________________ Return_________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL COST

BUDGET $

Main Ensemble __________________________ .$ _____________________________________ Accessories:_______________________________ .$ _____________________________________ Deposit: Due On________________________ .$ _____________________________________ Balance: Due On________________________ .$ _____________________________________

Coat Size_____________________________________________________________ S R L XL Pants (waist)_____________________________(out seam)________________________________ Shirt (neck)________________________________(sleeve length)_______________________ Shoe Size__________________________________________________________________________________ Height + Weight_______________________________________________________________________

style & colors ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

M

A

S

NE

NS WE LE A DD OR G A Z I N E I

NG

W

TOTAL $__________________________________________

PL

AN

146 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

O. W.

PLANNING 2015 TIP

N. WEI T H

Select and order menswear 6 months prior to your wedding date.

ALL THE GROOM’S MEN THE GROOM’S ATTENDANTS’ ATTIRE should provide a pleasing addition to the bridal party. Their suits or tuxedos can be purchased or rented along with the Groom’s ensemble. The cost of the suit is usually the responsibility of each attendant.

MEN’S ATTIRE Name of Company _______________________________________________________________________ Main Contact _______________________________________________________________________________ Address ________________________________________________________________________________________ Phone ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Email _____________________________________________________________________________________________ Website ________________________________________________________________________________________

ATTIRE BEST MAN Designer, Style+ Color___________________________________________________ Accessories___________________________________________________________________ Shoes ____________________________________________________________________________ Fitting___________________________ Pick-Up_________________________________

Order Date____________________________________________________________________________________

GROOMSMEN

Fitting ___________________________________________________________________________________________

______________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________ Designer, Style+ Color___________________________________________________ Accessories___________________________________________________________________ Shoes ____________________________________________________________________________ Fitting___________________________ Pick-Up_________________________________

Pick-Up__________________________________________________________________________________________ Return____________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes ____________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________________________

USHERS ______________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________ Designer, Style+ Color___________________________________________________ Accessories___________________________________________________________________ Shoes ____________________________________________________________________________ Fitting___________________________ Pick-Up_________________________________

RING BEARER(S) ______________________________________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________________________________ Designer, Style+ Color___________________________________________________ Accessories___________________________________________________________________ Shoes ____________________________________________________________________________ Fitting___________________________ Pick-Up_________________________________

style & colors _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 147

BON APPÉTIT IF THERE IS NO ON-SITE CATERER at your reception location, the catering professionals in NEW ORLEANS MAGAZINE are among the very best in the business. Do your research, accept recommendations and be sure to taste-test! A full-service caterer provides linen services, waiters and table service. Choose one who will listen to your ideas and help plan a menu for a delightful, memorable event

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS

MENU

n May we see a menu and package samples? n Will you be at the reception? Who will be assisting? How will your staff be dressed? n How many servers do we need for a seated/buffet reception? What is the estimated cost per person for each? What does that include? n How much floor space do you need for preparation, serving and bar service? n Are you licensed/insured for bar service? n What is the bar fee? What does that include? How many bars and bartenders can you provide? n What amount of liquor do you recommend based on our guest list? n Will we be charged for unopened bottles/can it be returned? n What bar supplies do you provide? n Can you provide cash/open bar services? n What time will the bars close? n When will we need to finalize our menu? n When do you need a final guest count? n Can you provide special dietary food? n What are the taxes and gratuities? Are there any additional fees? n How much set up time do you need? Are you fullservice? n How is the food presented? Do you provide any decor for buffet tables? n Are we able to do a tasting? If yes, when? n What are the payment terms? n What is the cancellation policy?

Hors d’oeuvres__________________________________________________________________________

CATERER

__________________________________________________________________________________________________

Name of Company ____________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ Notes__________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ 148 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

__________________________________________________________________________________________________ Salads, Soups____________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Main Entrées_____________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Sides__________________________________________________________________________________________ Carving Station__________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Specialty Station_______________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Dessert______________________________________________________________________________________ Other_________________________________________________________________________________________ Other_________________________________________________________________________________________ Open Bar: Yes (

) No (

)

Cash Bar: Yes (

) No (

)

Signature Cocktail(s)_________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Liquor(s) served________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Wine(s) served__________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Beer(s) served___________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________ Other_________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL COST BUDGET $ DEPOSIT Due On__________________________________________ Paid $__________________________ BALANCE Due On__________________________________________ Paid $__________________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________

LET THEM EAT CAKE NO MATTER HOW BIG, STYLISH or expensive your wedding is, it won’t be complete without a wedding cake. Choosing your pastry chef is an important task that requires some hard work: taste testing! Don’t forget to order a groom’s cake and/or additional sheet cakes for a larger reception.

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS

TASTING NOTES

n May we see your portfolio and hear about your culinary background? Do you offer tastings? n How soon should we order our cake? Are delivery and set-up included? If so, how far in advance before the reception will the cake be delivered? n Can you create a custom wedding and/or groom’s cake from a photograph, fabric swatch, flower, etc.? n Can you make extra sheet cakes, if necessary? n Do you provide cutting instructions for servers? n Do you supply a container to freeze the top layer?

Boxes for left-over cake? n Is there a charge for supports or bases? If so, may we return them and be refunded? n What are your payment terms?

___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

BAKERY Name of Company ____________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ Notes _________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

WEDDING CAKE Description/Flavors ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Number of Servings ___________________________________________________________ Notes _________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

GROOM’S CAKE Description/Flavors ___________________________________________________________ Number of Servings ___________________________________________________________ Notes _________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL COST BUDGET $ DEPOSIT Due On__________________________________________ Paid $__________________________ BALANCE Due On__________________________________________ Paid $__________________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________ PHOTO: IMAGES BY ROBERT T

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 149

FLOWERS & DÉCOR FLOWERS AND OTHER DECOR set the tone for your wedding. Your decor should reflect the season, your personal style, as well as your budget. Before contacting a florist or decor rental company, organize ideas, color palettes and pictures of what you envision for your wedding and let our NEW ORLEANS MAGAZINE vendors help create your vision!

WHAT TO ASK FLORAL PROSPECTS

WHAT TO ASK DÉCOR PROSPECTS

n May we see pictures from past weddings you’ve done? n Are any of our flower choices restricted by season? n Do you suggest any particular flowers based on the time of year and/or location? n Will you be present to set up on the wedding day? Will someone assist you? n Do you provide decorations and equipment, like arches, trellises, candles, etc? n How fresh will the flowers be on the wedding day? n What are your delivery/setup/breakdown fees? n What are your payment terms? n What is your policy for cancellation?

n May we see pictures from past weddings you’ve done? n What are your delivery/setup/breakdown fees? n What rental items do you suggest to help us create our vision while staying within budget? n Will you be present to oversee set up on the wedding day? n Are you insured? What are your policies for damages? n How early do you need to arrive for setup? n When should we expect to receive a quote and decor plan? n What are your payment terms? n What is your policy for cancellation?

FLORISTS

Name of Company ____________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________

Name of Company ____________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________

M

A

S

NE

NS WE LE A DD OR G A Z I N E I

NG

W

Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes _________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

PL

AN

O. W.

PLANNING 2015 TIP

N. WEI T H

Keep the season in mind when choosing your wedding flowers. Often, in season blooms may be less expensive than those that are not in season.

150 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

DÉCOR

Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes _________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL FLORAL & DÉCOR COST BUDGET $ Floral Deposit: Due On____________________________________ $______________________ Floral Balance: Due On____________________________________ $______________________ Décor Deposit: Due On____________________________________ $______________________ Décor Balance: Due On___________________________________ $______________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________

MEMORIES CAPTURED CAPTURE THOSE ONCE-IN-A-LIFETIME MEMORIES with professional photography and video! Make sure your photographer and videographer will catch all the important aspects of your wedding. You need to decide on this service as soon as possible in the planning phase to be sure you get the best available.

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS n May we see your references, portfolio and past wedding samples? n Will you be the one photographing/videoing my wedding? n What style do you specialize in (candid, portraits, etc.)? n Have you ever worked in our wedding venue before? n Will someone assist you on the wedding day? n Are you familiar with the lighting and layout at our venue(s)? n What are your packages and what do they include (number and size of photos, albums, additional costs)? n For videographer, what is the price for additional copies? Do we need to provide a song list to be played along with the video? n Do you offer overtime? What is the rate? n Can we purchase the negatives/digital files? If not, how long do you keep them on file? n What are your payment terms? Are there any additional charges we should know about? n What is your cancellation policy?

PHOTOGRAPHER Name of Company ____________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ Notes _________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

VIDEOGRAPHER Name of Company ____________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes _________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

MUST-HAVE SHOTS ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL PHOTO & VIDEO COST BUDGET $ Photography Deposit: Due On_________________________ $______________________ Photography Balance: Due On_________________________ $______________________ Videography Deposit: Due On_________________________ $______________________ Videography Balance: Due On_________________________ $______________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________ theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 151

REHEARSAL DINNER THE REHEARSAL NORMALLY TAKES PLACE THE DAY BEFORE THE WEDDING. The Rehearsal Dinner is the time to reflect and enjoy the company of close friends and family before tomorrow’s big event. It’s a wonderful time to present gifts to family members and the wedding party and thank them for supporting you during all of your wedding festivities. Restaurants, hotels and other establishments in NEW ORLEANS MAGAZINE are some of the most beautiful in the country. Visit some of our amazing vendors and sample what they have to offer!

REHEARSAL

MENU

Date ___________________________________________________________________________________ Location _____________________________________________________________________________ Time _____________________________________ To _____________________________________ Confirmed with location coordinator ________________________________ On____________________________________________________________________________________ Confirmed with officiant ____________________________________________________ On____________________________________________________________________________________

Cocktails/Bar ____________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

REHEARSAL DINNER Location _____________________________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment date(s) _________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Cocktail Hour Time _______________________ To ___________________________ Dinner begins at _______________________ Ends at ___________________________ Notes__________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL COST

BUDGET $

Cost Per Head $____________________________ Total $_________________________ Bar (if applicable) $_____________________________________________________________ DEPOSIT Due On__________________________________________ $__________________________________ BALANCE Due On__________________________________________ $__________________________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________ 152 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

Appetizers__________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Salad + Soup_______________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Entrées ______________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Desserts ____________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

THE CEREMONY THIS IS THE DAY THE TWO OF YOU have been waiting for ­— today is the reason for all of your hard work. After you walk down the aisle as a married couple, you’ll know that all of your planning was worth it!

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS n Is the facility open to non-members (e.g., Church , Synagogue, etc.) n Are there any restrictions on the day or time of the event? n Are there any restrictions for lighting, cameras, audio/ video equipment? n How far in advance should we reserve this site? n Is there a mandatory dress code and/or attendant number? n Do you have musicians available? Will we be permitted to use outside musicians? n Are we permitted to decorate the site? n Are there rest/dressing rooms? n Is the site handicap accessible? n What are the payment terms? n What is the cancellation policy?

OUR CEREMONY LOCATION Name _________________________________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes__________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL COST

BUDGET $

Ceremony Site Deposit: Due On___________________ $_________________ Ceremony Site Balance: Due On___________________ $_________________ Officiant Deposit: Due On_____________________________ $_________________ Officiant Balance: Due On_____________________________ $_________________ Musicians Deposit: Due On____________________________ $_________________ Musicians Balance: Due On___________________________ $_________________

TOTAL $_____________________________________

OFFICIANT Name _________________________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ n Will you perform the ceremony at a non-religious site, such as hotel ballroom, etc.? n Is there a standard format? Can we write our own vows and select the music? n If we have been divorced, or if we are not of the same faith, will you officiate? n Will you file the marriage license after the wedding? n What are the payment terms? n What is the cancellation policy?

MUSICIANS Name _________________________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ SONG CHOICES Processional ______________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Recessional ________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Presentation of Gifts/Religious _________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ n May we see references and a demo cd/video? n Are you performing locally any time soon? May we attend the performance? n Can we see a song list? Can you perform particular songs we might want that are not on the list? n What instruments/vocalists are available? n Are you able to perform in outdoor venues if needed? n How far in advance must we book? n What are the payment terms? n What is the cancellation policy? theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 153

THE THE BEAUTIFUL RECEPTION BRIDE THIS WILL BE ONE OF THE MOST ELABORATE PARTIES you will ever host. It is also the ideal time to thank your family members, friends and guests for being there with you throughout the exciting festivities. Before making your final choice, ask yourself if this location fits your wedding style. Is it within your established budget? If not, are you willing to compromise your budget to secure the location?

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS n Is this location easily reached from our ceremony venue? n Is there an outdoor reception area available? n Is this location handicap accessible? Is parking available? n Will there be any changes to the location between now and the reception? n What are the menus/prices/packages available? n What are your payment terms? n What is your cancellation policy

VENUE Name of Venue __________________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________ Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Hours of Operation ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Dates Available___________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes__________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL COST

BUDGET $

Deposit: Due On_______________________________ $_____________________________ Balance: Due On_______________________________ $_____________________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________

154 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

WHAT TO ASK THE LOCATION’S COORDINATOR/MANAGER n May we see references and photographs of other receptions held here? n May we tour the area? Are there any specific restrictions? n How far in advance must reservations be made? When do you need the final guest count? n What area/rooms are available? How early can we set up?

How late can we stay? n Is there a dressing room our wedding party will have access to? n Are there enough electrical outlets for our entertainers?

Do you provide any type of sound system? Are there any lighting or sound restrictions? n How large is the dance floor? Can you provide a stage or raised platform? n Do you provide tables, chairs, linens and/or table settings? n Do you have a caterer on site? Bar service? Are we required to use the on-site caterer or is an off-site caterer permitted? Will they have access to your kitchen? n Who will be the main contact for our baker, florist, caterer, decorator, etc.? n Will you provide the serving staff? How many and in what capacity? n Can you provide parking valets, coat check and/or door attendants? n What is the maximum capacity, both seated and standing? n Do you have any other events scheduled on the day of the wedding? n Are you insured for liability? Will you provide security, including the parking lot? n What is your rental fee? For how long? Does that include service, catering and/or clean-up? n What are your payment terms? n What is your cancellation policy?

ALWAYS ENTERTAINMENT A BRIDESMAID WHETHER YOU’RE “A LITTLE BIT COUNTRY” or he’s “a little bit rock ‘n’ roll,” the entertainment needs to be accommodating to please you, your family and guests. New Orleans musicians can provide that versatility from classical-music ensembles to funk bands. You might also choose to have additional entertainment, such as a photo booth or live event painter at your wedding!

Choose your entertainment with as much care as you would do with other items in your wedding.

WHAT TO ASK BAND/DJ PROSPECTS

WHAT TO ASK OTHER PROSPECTS

n May we see references and a demo cd/video? n Are you performing locally any time soon? May we attend the performance? n Can we see a song list? Can you perform particular songs we want that are not on the list? n How will you be dressed? n Do you provide lighting/special effects? n How far in advance must we book? n Will you be the master of ceremonies at the reception? n How many breaks do you take and for how long? Do you require a break room and/or food to be provided? n How many sets do you play and how long is each set? n Do you charge a total rate or by the hour? n When do you start overtime rates? How much? n What are the payment terms? n What is the cancellation policy

n What is included with your service? n How many hours are included? n How much space do you require for setup? When will you arrive to set up? n How will you be dressed? n How far in advance must we book? n Do you charge a total rate or by the hour? n When do you start overtime rates? How much? n What are the payment terms? n What is the cancellation policy?

Name _________________________________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________

Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes _________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

Website _____________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Dates ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ Set Time ____________________________________________________________________________ Break Time_________________________________________________________________________ Hourly/Flat Rate_________________________________________________________________ Overtime/Tips____________________________________________________________________ Notes__________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ SPECIAL SONGS First Dance_________________________________________________________________________ Parents’ Dance___________________________________________________________________ Bridal Party Dance_____________________________________________________________ Special Requests________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________________

Name _________________________________________________________________________________ Main Contact ____________________________________________________________________ Address _____________________________________________________________________________ Phone ________________________________________________________________________________ Email __________________________________________________________________________________

___________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL COST

BUDGET $

Band/DJ Deposit: Due On__________________________________ $____________________ Band/DJ Balance: Due On__________________________________ $____________________ Add’l Entertainment Deposit: Due On________________ $____________________ Add’l Entertainment Balance: Due On________________ $____________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 155

TRANSPORTATION MANY OF YOUR OUT-OF-TOWN GUESTS will need transportation for all of the wedding events. New Orleans has a variety of luxurious limousine services. Be sure to sign a contract and establish a complete schedule of pick-up and drops-off times and locations.

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS n May we see references and showroom/portfolio of vehicles offered? n What types of vehicles do you offer? n What special features do the vehicles come with? n What are the prices and what does that include? n What is your city-license number? n What does your insurance cover? n What is the minimum rental time? Do you charge for overtime?

When does that begin and how much? n Do you offer special wedding rates and/or packages? n How far in advance should we reserve your services? n Can you guarantee certain vehicles for the wedding day? n Are food and beverages allowed in the vehicles? n How will the driver(s) be dressed? n What are your payment terms? n What is your cancellation policy Name of Company ___________________________________________________________________________ Main Contact ___________________________________________________________________________________ Address ____________________________________________________________________________________________ Phone _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Email _________________________________________________________________________________________________

NOTES __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________

Website ____________________________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Date(s) ________________________________________________________________________ Hours of Operation __________________________________________________________________________ Notes_________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________________ __________________________________________________________________________________________________________

TRANSPORTATION CHOSEN Bride ___________________________________________________________________$_____________________________ Bridal Party_________________________________________________________$_____________________________ Groom and Groom’s attendants__________________________$_____________________________ Parents________________________________________________________________$_____________________________ Newlyweds to Reception____________________________________$_____________________________ Newlyweds’ exit vehicle______________________________________$_____________________________ Other___________________________________________________________________$_____________________________

156 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

TOTAL COST

BUDGET $

Deposit: Due On_______________________________ $_____________________________ Balance: Due On_______________________________ $_____________________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________

HONEYMOON DON’T WAIT UNTIL THE LAST MINUTE to decide where, when and how long your honeymoon will be. If you don’t have a “dream” location in mind, consult a travel agency to help plan your romantic excursion.

WHAT TO ASK PROSPECTS

HONEYMOON ITINERARY

n How long have you been in business? n What special packages and rates can you offer for our honeymoon? n Do you have a Honeymoon Registry? n How far in advance must we make reservations and arrangements? n Do you offer cruises, air travel, car rental and other types of reservations as well? n What paper work will we need for specific travel plans? n Do you notify the manager of the hotel that we are newly weds? n Do you offer traveler’s insurance? n What are your payment terms? n What is your cancellation policy?

Name of Company ________________________________________________________________ Main Contact ________________________________________________________________________ Address _________________________________________________________________________________ Phone ____________________________________________________________________________________ Email ______________________________________________________________________________________ Website _________________________________________________________________________________ Appointment Date(s) _____________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Hours of Operation _______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________

M

A

S

NE

NS WE LE A DD OR G A Z I N E I

NG

W

_______________________________________________________________________________________________

PL

AN

O. W.

PLANNING 2015 TIP

Hotel_______________________________________________________________________________________ Confirmation Number____________________________________________________________ Address__________________________________________________________________________________ Phone ____________________________________________________________________________________ Email ______________________________________________________________________________________ Website _________________________________________________________________________________ Check-in Date/Time ______________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Check-out Date/Time ____________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Transportation________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Other______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ Notes______________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________ _______________________________________________________________________________________________

TOTAL COST

BUDGET $

Deposit: Due On_______________________________ $_____________________________ Balance: Due On_______________________________ $_____________________________

TOTAL $__________________________________________

Names on travel reservations must match what is on your government issued ID

N. WEI T H

theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 157

N.O.W. SPRING+SUMMER 2018

ADVERTISER INDEX BAKERIES:

Maison Dupuy Hotel................................................................14

VENUES:

Gambino’s Bakery....................................................................89

New Orleans Hotel Collection............................................15

Felicity Church......................................................................... 57

Woops!.........................................................................................89

NOPSI Hotel...............................................................................61

Generations Hall.......................................................................51

Royal Sonesta............................................................................56

Intercontinental New Orleans..............................................11

The Columns Hotel.................................................................42

Le Meridien New Orleans.................................................... 62

W New Orleans French Quarter...................................... 62

Maison Dupuy Hotel................................................................14

BRIDAL FASHION + ACCESSORIES: John’s Tuxedos........................................................................ 107 Pearl’s Place............................................................................. 102 Southern Bridal Dreams..................................................... 102

HAIR, MAKEUP, BEAUTY:

The Bridal Boutique by MaeMe...................................... 102

Canatella Dental........................................................................ 9

Town & Country Bridal........................................................103

Dazzle Doll................................................................................109 Revive The Lakeview Hair Salon......................................109

CATERERS: Café Royale................................................................................ 37 Mangé Catering........................................................................ 37 Messina’s Catering..................................................................36 Pigeon Caterers.......................................................................43

DÉCOR RENTALS: Firefly Ambiance......................................................................84

Ringletts Salon........................................................................108 Tracy Branch Agency............................................................108 Verde Beauty...........................................................................109

INVITATIONS, GIFTS, STATIONERY:

Messina’s at the Terminal......................................................36 New Orleans Board of Trade..............................................43 New Orleans Hotel Collection............................................15 New Orleans City Park..........................................................13 NOPSI Hotel...............................................................................61 Pat O’s on the River............................................................... 60 Petite Bourbon.........................................................................43 Republic NOLA........................................................................56 River City Venues................................................................16-17

Abbey Printing.......................................................................... 67

Royal Sonesta............................................................................56

Eternally Nola..........................................................................106

Steamboat Natchez................................................................63 The Chicory.............................................................................. 50

Royal Events............................................................................... 72

PHOTOGRAPHERS + VIDEOGRAPHERS:

True Value Rentals....................................................................81

Dyle Films...................................................................................... 1

The Elms Mansion.................................................................. 60

Eau Claire Photographics.....................................................116

The Federal Ballroom............................................................ 37

G. Chapin Studios...................................................................116

The Monastery..........................................................................43

Images by Robert T.................................................................117

W New Orleans French Quarter...................................... 62

ENTERTAINMENT : The Phunky Monkeys.............................................................65

FLORISTS:

The Columns Hotel.................................................................42

Megan Crawford Photography..............................................7

Crystal Vase.............................................................................. 80

North Photography & HD Cinema................................. IFC

Grow with Us.............................................................................84

Rob Fanguy Photography.....................................................119

WEDDING PLANNERS + EVENT DESIGNERS:

Nola Flora................................................................................... 72

Theresa Elizabeth Photography.........................................113

Absolutely NOLA....................................................................85

Your Day Production..............................................................116

Belladeux Event Design........................................................ 73

Intercontinental New Orleans..............................................11

PUBLICATIONS:

TRAVEL:

Le Meridien New Orleans.................................................... 62

Clarion Herald.......................................................................IBC

Paradise Vacation Escapes..................................................42

GUEST ACCOMMODATIONS:

we're social !

Follow N.O.W. Magazine for daily inspiration.

@nolawedding

158 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com

@neworleansweddings

@nowmagazine504

@nowmagazine504

join our

bride tribe

thenowbride.com theNOWBride.com | N.O.W | 159

Photo Credit: Images by Robert T

happily ever after.

“Now my life, my happiness truly begins�

- Brian Kramer

160 | N.O.W | theNOWBride.com