Nubian Message, April 4, 2018 — Healthy is the new sexy

NUBIANMESSAGE NORTH CAROLINA STATE UNIVERSITY | RALEIGH, NC | THENUBIANMESSAGE.COM | wednesday, april 4, 2018

healthy is the new sexy

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THISISSUE 4 Q&A WITH DR. KOSENKO

Sex Communication, Abstinence, and Sexting

5 BETTER ATTITUDES TOWARDS SEX More sex positivity on NC State campus

5 SEXUAL HEALTH RESOURCES On and off campus

6 LGBTQ+ SEX ED

Why sexual education should be inclusive

7 HOOKUP ETIQUETTE Guidelines for hooking up

8 EBONY BELL TOWER: DEAR SASHA Hacking dorm sex

cover illustration and all photo illustrations in this issue by kaydee gawlick

The Sentinel of the African -American Community at N.C. State Since 1992.

Anahzsa Jones

Editor-in-Chief

Keilah Davis

Managing editor

Only with the permission of our elders do we proudly produce each edition of the Nubian Message:

Dr. Yosef ben-Yochannan, Dr. John Henrik Clark, Dr. Leonard Jeffries, The Black Panther Party, Mumia A. Jamal, Geronimo Pratt, Tony Williamson, Dr. Lawrence Clark, Dr. Augustus McIver Witherspoon, Dr. Wandra P. Hill, Mr. Kyran Anderson, Dr. Lathan Turner, Dr. M. Iyailu Moses, Dokta Toni Thorpe and all those who accompany us as we are still on the journey to true consciousness.

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Letter from the editor

sexual assault awareness month events

Hey lovely people!

So this issue is all about healthy sex. Sex communication, sexual health, healthy attitudes about sex and education about sexual health. Sex, sex, sex, sex, sex.

We got to talk to Dr. Kami Kosenko, a professor here at state who taught a special topics class on Sex Communication and does some pretty cool research on the topic. And right next to that, a valuable look at the meaning of sex positivity and how it applies to NC State. After that, you’ll find some interesting opinions, including an advice column by our new resident columnist, Sasha. She may be familiar from some of our childhoods, so I encourage you to give the back page a read.

Now, the real focus of our issue is being healthy about sex, whether you’re having it or not. It’s a way of thinking and responding to sex that we should be moving towards.

With all that being said, some people might wonder where the article on sexual assault is. To that, we answer, it’s not here, because this is a sex issue. Sex happens when consenting adults decide to participate in intimate, physical acts. The key word here is consenting. If there was no consent, that means there was no sex.

I’ll say it again for the people in the back: sexual assault is not sex. It’s a crime. However, the Nubian Message does recognize how serious of an issue sexual assault is, and with April being Sexual Assault Awareness Month, we decided to highlight some on-campus events and provide a list of resources, both on and off campus.

Remember, healthy sex is sexy sex. We’re serious, don’t let the genitalia reminiscent fruit fool you. Keep it healthy, keep it sexy, and keep reading. You’re in for a treat.

Love, Anahzsa

GLBT Center* • LGBTQQ Counseling Group

Sexual assault help resources

Women’s Center* • 24/7 Sexual Assault Helpline: 919-515-4444 • Trained advocates who are available for crisis intervention and emotional support for students who have experienced sexual assault, dating/domestic violence, and stalking • Referrals for legal, medical, emotional, and student conduct resources • Assistance with academic and housing accommodations • Accompaniment to hearings and support services • Support to secondary survivors • The Movement Peer Educators offer a series of workshops on campus, including Supporting Survivors 101, Stalking 101, Healthy Relationships 101, Bystander Behavior 101, Sexual Violence 101, etc.

• Yearlong programs such as Feminist Fridays, Lunch and Learns, Intersectional Film Series, Book Club, the Women of Color Retreat, the Gender and Equity Research Symposium, and Alternative Service Breaks The confidential sources are on campus are: • The Counseling Center • Student Legal Services • Women’s Health Clinic at Student Health *Please note that these centers are obligated to report sexual violence or harassment that occur at NC State.

Wednesday, April 4 Take Back the Night Stafford Commons | 6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

The rally and march will be followed by a survivor speak-out session.

Thursday, April 5 Reclaim the Night Counseling Center | 2 p.m. - 4:30 p.m.

This set of two workshops will allow primary and secondary survivors of sexual violence to participate in expressive art therapy and trauma-informed yoga. RSVP is required.

Wednesday, April 11 Consent 101 Women’s Center | 6 p.m. - 7 p.m.

The Movement Peer Educators will give an introduction to consent and overview of campus resources related to sexual violence.

Monday, April 16 Bystander Behavior 101 Women’s Center | 6 p.m. - 7 p.m.

Workshop participants will learn strategies for being an effective bystander.

Tuesday, April 17 Unpacking Culture in the Context of Sexual Assault, Intimate Partner Violence and Stalking Witherspoon 356 | 3 p.m. - 4:30 p.m.

SAAM keynote speaker Pierre R. Berastaín will discuss the impact of culture on a survivor’s trauma. RSVP is required.

Tuesday, April 17 Keynote Speaker: Pierre R. Berastaín Talley 4140 | 6:30 p.m. - 8 p.m.

Berastaín will give a lecture entitled, “The Demons in my Sleep: Sexual Assault, the DREAM Act, and Uncertainty.”

Thursday, April 19 Supporting Male Survivors Women’s Center | 5 p.m. - 6:30 p.m.

The Women’s Center and Counseling Center will show the documentary “The Bristlecone Project: Men Overcoming Sexual Abuse” and facilitate a follow-up discussion.

For full details on the Sexual Assault Awareness Month calendar, visit go.ncsu.edu/SAAM.

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features

Q&A: Dr. Kami Kosenko on Sex Communication keilah davis Managing Editor

Dr. Kami Kosenko is an associate professor of communication at NC State. Kosenko has taught courses on human communication theory and sex communication.

Her research focuses on topics like stigma, safer sex communication and STI prevention and management. In this Q&A, Kosenko explains sex communication and her latest work on abstinence and sexting.

Photo contributed by dr. kami kosenko

Q

: For those who don’t know, what is sex communication and what does it include?

A: Sexual communication focuses on the communication processes that occur in sexual situations and relationships.

It includes the study of sexual education programs, sexual media content, sexual harassment and violence, sexual negotiation and the development of sexual relationships (among other topics).

Q: What got you interested in sex communication?

A: During my graduate studies, I worked in an AIDS hospice, and I watched over 50 people die from the disease in my short time there. When I started looking into the factors that impact the transmission and management of sexually transmitted infections, such as HIV, I was surprised and excited to learn that communication played a major role in HIV prevention. So, I decided to focus my studies and research on the communication issues affecting people who have or are particularly at risk for sexually transmitted diseases.

Q: Your faculty page says you’ve done research on women with HPV, among other topics. Is that still your

focus, or are there other topics you’re exploring?

A: Actually, I’ve been doing work in other areas more recently, including abstinence and sexting. With regard to abstinence, students in my course on Sexual Communication noticed that there was very little research on the communicative experiences of individuals who have decided to abstain from sex until marriage. So, with the help of three undergraduates, two of whom were in that course, we completed a study involving interviews with individuals who had decided to abstain. We found that communication helped facilitate the wait. In other words, factors such as having abstinence role models and socializing with others who had made the same decision, helped individuals stay abstinent.

experiences stigma when some part of their identity is negatively evaluated by society. Efforts to avoid stigma can affect all sorts of important sexual health interactions— from disclosing one’s sexual history to reporting sexual violence to seeking necessary medical care.

Q: Based on your research, what advice do you have for college students who may be struggling with talking about sex and sexual health?

A: Take my class! Just kidding. I think the best way to get comfortable talking about sex is through desensitization.

That means exposing yourself to and engaging in sex talk as much as possible. It’s likely that you are more comfortable talking about sex with some people than with others. Try picking the people who and situations that make you feel The Sentinel of the African Another study that was born out of my Sexual comfortable and -American using those opportunities to talk about sex.

Community at N.C. 1992.used to talking about it and will Communication course was a meta-analysis of the literature Over time,State you’llSince get more on sexting. With the help of a graduate student, a colleague, find yourself feeling more confident talking about sex in a Anahzsa Jones Keilah Davis Andrew Binder, and I conducted a systematic review of variety of situations.

I’ d also recommend using whatever Editor-in-Chief Managing editor the research on sexting and sexual behavior. We found that language comes naturally to you. If clinical sex terms sound there is a link between participating in sexting and in risky too cold, then use more colloquial terms. And, it’s okay to sexual practices but that we don’t have enough information laugh! Sex is funny! to determine if one causes the other or which one is the cause and which is the effect. Some worry that sexting will lead to unsafe sexual practices, but it’s just as likely that people who already engage in unsafe sexual practices arethe permission of our elders do we proudly Only with now engaging in sexting, too. produce each edition of the Nubian Message: Dr. Yosef ben-Yochannan, Dr. John Henrik Clark, Dr. Leonard Jeffries,

Q: What have you discovered about the stigma Therole Blackof Panther Party, Mumia A. Jamal, Geronimo Pratt, Tony Williamson, in sex communication?

Dr. Lawrence Clark, Dr. Augustus McIver Witherspoon, Dr. Wandra P. Hill, A: Stigma is closely linked to identity,Mr. which a Dr. Lathan Turner, Dr. M. Iyailu Moses, Dokta Toni Thorpe Kyranplays Anderson, and all those who accompany us as we are still on the journey to true consciousness. role in all sexual situations and relationships.

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Features

The need for more Sexual positivity on Campus shawn fredericks Staff Writer Sex positivity is a term that carries different connotations and definitions, making it difficult to accurately describe what sex positivity actually is. The Feminist Campus, the world’s largest pro-choice student network, defines sex positivity as “the belief that consensual sexual expression is both healthy and important in contributing to a safe and inclusive campus climate.”

The International Society for Sexual Medicine adds on, saying, “The term ‘sex positive’ can be interpreted in different ways. For most, it involves having positive attitudes about sex and feeling comfortable with one’s own sexual identity and with the sexual behaviors of others.”

Sex positivity is not just about having an abundant amount of sex; it is about the power of choice.

Omise’eke Tinsley, professor of African and African Diaspora Studies at the University of Texas, wrote in HuffPost, “Being sex positive isn’t just about saying yes to sex all the time. It’s about championing black women’s right to make sexual choices that leave us feeling positive about our sexuality and our lives. So I’m a sex-positive black feminist saying: respecting black women’s celibacy is also part of loving black women’s beauty, self-definition and sexuality.”

NC State University’s campus has made progress in the realm of sex positivity, but there is always room for improvement. Sexual expression should not be stigmatized and NC State campus should affirm all sexulaties and sexual choices.

Andy DeRoin, program coordinator for the GLBT center, said,

Sexual health resources ON CAMPUS

“I would like to have that type of conversation with organizations that offer sexual resources. Is it sex-positive to limit the number of condoms that someone can get? Are we promoting sex positivity by not having condoms freely accessible on campus?”

Maria Tudela, graduate assistant for the Women’s Center, articulated what a more sex-positive campus would look like at NC State: “It would be centred around having discussions about sexual assault, sexual violence and interpersonal violence,” Tudela said. “It would also incorporate workshops [that] the Women’s Center hosts and facilitates talking about consent, what consent looks like in its various different forms and sex positivity. This is something that needs to be talked about, and the sex positivity movement’s ideas should be embraced.”

Education plays a huge role in making campus more sex-positive.

Eileen Kelly, creator of Killer and the Sweet Thang, a sexual education blog, said, “With education comes understanding and ultimately breaking down the barrier of ignorance and shame. People don’t naturally hate. They hate things they don’t understand.

“However,” Kelly continued, “if you can humanize actions, if you can give examples that pertain to real people, well how can you hate on that? You may not agree with it and that’s fine!

I believe in exposure. When we are open to topics under the sexuality or gender umbrella, we have a greater understanding for those who are different than us and more acceptance overall.”

NC State’s student body as a community would benefit greatly by the incorporation of more sex positivity.

However, individual students also stand to benefit from sex positivity.

DeRoin said, “A sex-positive perspective can not only increase our community response to sexual violence and prevention of sexual violence, but it can also boost positive aspects of existing relationships. It’s really cool if people who are sexual partners talk about how are we showing up in our sexual relationship together and are we embodying sex positivity and, if not, how could we be?”

NC State needs to embrace sex positivity in order to progress on issues such as sexual violence. When people, especially women, are empowered in their ability to make decisions about their sexuality without being impeded, people can be equally liberated to make any choice they want to make our society as a whole a better place to live.

Student Health Center • Contraceptives, including female and male condoms • Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) • HIV/STI testing • STI treatment GLBT Center • Supplies like dental dams, lube, female and male condoms, and non-latex gloves • HIV/STI testing (free, once a month) • Informational brochures OFF CAMPUS LGBT Center of Raleigh • Female and male condoms • HIV/STI testing (free, twice weekly) Wake County Human Services • HIV/STI testing (free, twice a month) Planned Parenthood • Contraceptives • HIV/STI testing • STI treatment For more information about resources and HIV/STI testing dates, visit healthypack. dasa.ncsu.edu.

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opinion

Sex Ed Must Include Non-Hetero Information

Aditi Dholakia

Guest Columnist

My first ever comprehensive sexual education class was in the eighth grade, taught by my science-teacher-andsometimes-basketball coach at a nonreligious private school. The details from the class are fuzzy, but I do remember, with startling clarity, the demonstration of how to roll a condom onto a banana, largely because of how uncomfortable my older white male science teacher looked while performing the act.

In the state of North Carolina, sexual education that goes beyond the fear mongering of abstinence-only programs is a fairly recent development with the passage of the Healthy Youth Act in 2009. Although the law requires certain “essential standards” be met, such as providing information on STIs, effective contraception, abstinence and sexual assault/abuse risk reduction, there is also an option for parents to opt their children out of any programs that schools may offer.

Regardless of whatever education is offered in NC, there is something to be said about how much students are expected to teach themselves when it comes to practicing safe sex while also never talking

about it, to anyone, ever. Moreover, if cisgender, heterosexual children are being sent blind and fumbling into the world of sex and sexuality, then LGBTQ+ children have no hope at all. For them, not only is sex not something that is talked about, but in many cases, any kind of sex or sexuality outside of the cis-hetero norm is not only ignored with contempt, but also criminalized.

Despite the Supreme Court ruling in the case of Lawrence v. Texas in 2003, which ruled that homosexuality is not a crime, North Carolina is still one of 13 states that still have laws on the books that outlaw anal and oral sex. In NC, the law falls within the confines of a “crime against nature,” which is used situationally in cases regarding sexual acts. Although it is unclear to what extent these laws are still enforced today, the fact that lawmakers have yet to officially renounce anti-sodomy laws in this state is a problem.

In an ideal world, college would be a place where students could go to safely experiment and learn about sex and their own sexuality. In some ways, this is true — theoretically, college offers much more freedom to develop one’s own sense of self, including whatever role sex and sexuality play in one’s life. However, experimentation with sex and sexuality without a foundation of anatomically and socially accurate education can lead to dissatisfying and even unsafe experiences.

Furthermore, while the stereotype of burgeoning sexualities and fumbling sexual experiences in college supposedly applies to everyone, the fact remains that there are still societal lines drawn between what is and isn’t taboo to talk about openly. That is, there is still a distinct lack of attention, both in an educational sense, but also in a social sense, given to LGBTQ+ individuals

and their experiences with discovering the ever-present stigma surrounding LGBTQ+ spectrum of sexuality as it applies to them. sex and sexuality, paired with a lack of Where cisgender, heterosexual normalized, comprehensive education in individuals are given better access to middle and high school, means that we still information, more resources, and more have a long way to go. understanding, LGBTQ+ individuals face Sitting in my eighth-grade sex-ed class, I the stigma of their own identities before never imagined that a world existed outside they can even move toward looking for of awkward condom-covered bananas, information and education. This divide basic human reproductive anatomy and may not be as intentional today, but the possibility of heterosexual sex, perhaps internalized heteronormativity and the resulting in gonorrhea. Comprehensive dregs of homophobia contribute to a whole sexual education is important for everyone community receiving little to no help in — this much is true. It’s especially discovering sex and sexuality. important, however, for people whose LGBTQ+ individuals also face a identities are stigmatized in a way that disproportionate amount of fear mongering denies them recognition of their sexuality, regarding HIV and STIs within the let alone any access to resources and community. According to the CDC, gay information. and bisexual men, as well as transgender women — particularly those of color — Editor’’s note: Aditi Dholakia is the opinion are at a higher risk of being infected with editor for Technician.

HIV/AIDS than any other community.

A contributing factor to this is a distinct lack of education regarding safe sex and recognizing symptoms of HIV/AIDS and other STIs within the LGBTQ+ community, which stems from deeply ingrained homophobia, racism The and Sentinel classism.of the African -American The GLBT Center atCommunity NC State does offer State Since 1992. at N.C. a number of resources that are helpful in having a safe, enjoyable experience Anahzsa Jones with sex Keilah Davis from start to finish.Editor-in-Chief Supplies like condoms, Managing editor lube, dental dams and informational brochures are available at the center. The center also partners with Alliance of AIDS Services-Carolina to offer free, confidential HIV and STI testing every month of the academic year. In an emergency, Student Only the permission Health Services alsowith provide confidentialof our elders do we proudly produce each edition of the Nubian Message: HIV and STI testing by appointment, Yosef ben-Yochannan, although its Dr. service is not free. Dr. John Henrik Clark, Dr. Leonard Jeffries, The Black Panther Party, Mumia A. Jamal, Geronimo Pratt, Tony Williamson, While these resources are more Dr. Lawrence Clark, Dr. Augustus McIver Witherspoon, Dr. Wandra P. Hill, comprehensive and accessible than many Mr. Kyran Anderson, Dr.the Lathan Turner, Dr. M. Iyailu Moses, Dokta Toni Thorpe surrounding communities, reality of an and all those who accompany us as we are still on the journey to true consciousness.

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Hookup etiquette Hookup culture is a term every college student who has not been hiding under a rock has heard.

Culturally-speaking, hooking up is more prevalent than ever, and the norms and shawn pressures of hooking up constantly affect fredericks students.

Staff Writer Hookups, as defined by researchers Justin R. Garcia, Chris Reiber, Sean G. Massey and Ann M. Merriwether in the article “Sexual Hookup Culture: A Review,” are “brief uncommitted sexual encounters between individuals who are not romantic partners or dating each other.”

Hookups, like any social encounter, have their ups and downs. On one hand, a hookup can be amazing, sharing a passionate moment with a person that you have a strong desire to be with. Or it could a fun stress reliever. Hooking up can also be terrible. It can be filled with awkward moments, such as people forgetting names, lack of communication leading to uncomfortable positions, lack of sexual satisfaction, etc.

Navigating a hookup can be treacherous, but do not fear dear reader, for I will put you on game. Or in more academic terms, I shall share the rules of proper hookup etiquette.

When hooking up with someone, there are certain rules that people should abide by in order to have a positive experience.

However, it should be noted I am writing this from a cisgender, heterosexual black male perspective, meaning I understand my perspective is limited.

Also note: this etiquette guide is not an endorsement of hooking up. You should not feel pressured to hookup. I am just sharing this knowledge so that as young adults, we can be more informed and better responsible when hooking up.

Communication is key. Both people, or however many people are involved, should be upfront and honest about their intentions. This was an important thing for Marriah Decosta, a second-year studying sociology. When describing an ideal hookup situation Decosta said, “An ideal situation is one where both people have a mutual understanding as to what the situation is like. Even though it is not a relationship, you should still have guidelines. Both people should know it is not… exclusive. It is not a long-term relationship, but it [is] something for the night and both people should be safe about it.”

No Glove, No Lube, No Love. People should bring the right supplies to engage in sexual activity. Nothing ruins the moment more than not being prepared, and unsafe sex is for one thing unhealthy, and another thing, disrespectful. Protection should be used at all times. For example, a man should not take off the condom and risk a woman’s health for a cheap thrill. Safety is paramount, people need to adhere to caution when having sex, especially in a hookup situation.

Understand that sex must always be consensual, NO EXCEPTIONS. Trevor Jenkins, a fourth-year studying business administration, discussed consent in his ideal hookup situation. Jenkins said, “For me, [I’d] rather be friends beforehand. It just makes things more comfortable. Consent is a big thing, and I feel like consent is more easily asked for or [obtained] when two people have a prior relationship. And what I mean by easily obtained is people are more comfortable asking for consent, and that is always a big thing, when it comes to hookups. I would like to preface this by saying I am in a committed relationship and I am completely faithful, but this how I feel about the matter. It is a better situation when they’re friends before because they’re more comfortable talking about consent.”

Thou shall not receive what thou does not ask for. Basically, closed mouths don’t

get fed. If you want to do something, or to have something done to you, just ask. The person can say no, and that is always okay.

For example, if a man desires oral sex, he should ask his partner. He should not push her head down and try to force her to “give it up.” This also applies to ladies as well. Y’all should not expect oral from a dude either.

Speak up if you want a sexual act done to you.

This for the fellas: Always be a gentleman. I cannot stress this etiquette rule hard enough. Being a gentleman means being courteous. Just because it’s a hookup does not give you license to treat the women however you want. She is a human being trying to get herself some pleasure, so be respectful. Additionally, do not, and I repeat do not, speak of other situations you have going on with the person you are hooking up with. It is just plain disrespectful. Wait until the person leaves. Adding to that, after the person leaves make sure to text them later saying that you had a good time (even if you didn’t), so they do not feel like an object. While a hookup is a sexual relationship it is still a relationship.

Hooking up can be scary. Use these

principles and rules wisely and always make sure to stay safe. Be blessed. Be safe out there.

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opinion

DISCLAMER: THE EBONY BELLTOWER IS PURELY SATIRICAL.

Ask Sasha: dorm sex Dear Sasha, I’m in a new relationship and me and my significant other are struggling in the intimacy department. It’s not a communication issue with us; we’re completely on the same page. We both really want to have sex. The problem is our location. We both live in dorms and we both have roommates, and we both feel kind of awkward about it. We walked in on my roommate once and it was not fun. Even worse was imagining it being me. I feel like there are just so many things that can go wrong in a dorm. How can we take some of the awkward out of it and just enjoy each other’s company? Thanks Sasha.

From, Hot and Bothered Hey Hot and Bothered, I get it, dorm sex is not ideal, and can come with a whole slew of awkward situations, not the least of which is being walked in on. But hey, let’s start with the bright side; if you do get walked in on, it won’t be your parents! That being said, you mentioned how it’s not a communication issue, but in one way, it is. Not between you and your SO, you two seem to have that covered, but you and your roommate. Now I don’t know what kind of friendship you guys have, but if you’ve walked in on them, they’ll get the need for clarity. Just rip the band-aid off and talk about it. But you’re right; there are a bunch of things that could go wrong. To that end, I’ve written out ten hacks for successful dorm sex.

Hope this helps!

XOXO, Sasha

1. Try to schedule ahead; work out times when your roommate won’t be around, or when it’s easier for them to be elsewhere. And be courteous; don’t expect to have the room to yourself every weekend. It’s their room too, and your sex life is not their problem. And I know, I know, scheduling sex isn’t the sexiest, but it takes away some of the anxiety about when your roommate might show up, so you can focus on the fun stuff.

2. Establish a code word or signal with your roommate. Try as you might to fit your sex into a tidy schedule. Ish happens. When it does, take two seconds to warn your roomie. The era of the sock on the doorknob is over. Have a quick, non-awkward way to signal to your roommate that sexy time will be underway. A few emoji’s will do, or a phrase like “Studying anatomy.” It works best if you’re a CHASS major.

sex happens. But no one wants to hear sex that doesn’t involve them.

5. On that conscientious note, maybe move your bed slightly away from the wall to avoid bothering your neighbors. Nothing is more annoying than hearing wood hitting brick over and over while you’re trying to sleep or work. (Except someone else’s sex sounds, but we covered that already.)

6. While you’re moving the bed, maybe de-loft it a few notches. Nothing kills the mood like a trip to the ER. Falling is never cute, and Humpty Dumpty’s not a sex icon for a reason.

7. You say you and your SO have good communication, and I hope this includes test results. Your whole sexual history isn’t anyone’s business, but both you and they should know if either of you kept some souvenirs from your last trip to Sexy Town.

Don’t forget to use protection!

The Sentinel of the African8.-American 3. If you’re feeling a little adventurCommunity at N.C. State Since 1992. ous and want to move things outside 9. Baby fever isn’t real and honey, the Anahzsa Keilah Davis the bed, that’s cool. But just Jones keep the condom is big enough; use protection.

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