2012 August

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AUGUST 2012

the newsletter for Nuçi’s Space, a nonprofit musicians’ support/resource center

What’s the Emotional Arrangement? July 21st—I’m writing this just a couple of hours after the Grand Finale performance of our second session of Camp Amped. Another batch of extremely talented kids performed a great show before a large, energetic crowd. By now everyone has filtered out of the building and Henry and I have agreed to stay and finish cleaning up and preparing the Space for tomorrow morning. Henry quickly steps behind the counter to queue-up some “cleaning music” on the stereo for us. Unprepared for his music selection, I hear the first few notes of “Pain Reduction Center,” the first song on Nuçi’s posthumously released record, Right Side Glows. I thought to myself, “Perfect choice.” Today would have been Nuçi’s 38th birthday. The moment is bittersweet. Just a few hours ago the room was filled with broad smiles of satisfied young musicians, parents beaming with pride and older musicians, playfully envious of the talent displayed by musicians half their age. When I think back to just two weeks prior, when many of these kids were walking through the door into Nuçi’s Space for the first time, I’m amazed by some of their transformations. My favorite part of Camp Amped occurs within the first couple of hours on the first day. In most settings when a group of strangers gather to meet for the first time, participants are usually asked to introduce themselves by standing, sharing their name and maybe a few details about their life. Well, this exercise is facilitated a little differently at Camp Amped. Within the first couple of hours, just as the kids are starting to get their bearings and get comfortable, the instructors pass around a hat with little, numbered pieces of paper. Each

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Bob Sleppy

of the 20 students and 8 instructors are asked to take a number. By design, an instructor is usually accepts “#1.” After all the numbers are chosen, it is explained that when their number is drawn they will step up on stage, introduce themselves and play a little music on their chosen instrument in front of their peers. This sounds horrifying doesn’t it? At least that’s what I felt as I watched this unfold for the first time several years ago. However, I quickly realized that this exercise was about trust and asking each participant to invest in building a safe and secure environment for one another. It wasn’t about finding out who the best players were or distinguishing the introverts from the extroverts. Subtly, without anyone knowing, these kids were drafting and signing a contract. The agreement was simple; the person on stage would let their guard down and do the best they could and in return, those watching would support, encourage and protect the person standing alone on that stage. It is quite an amazing thing to witness. The experience the campers have is not dissimilar to what a person seeking mental health treatment at Nuçi’s Space feels. Often times that person is anxious and uncertain about reaching out for help. In some cases they are alone, in search of a support system. Then… subtly, without anyone realizing, we are entering into an agreement. The agreement is simple; the person seeking help agrees to ask for help, let us into their lives and do the work necessary to improve their health. Nuçi’s Space agrees to support, encourage and advocate for that person in need. It is quite an amazing thing to witness— and experience.

nuçi’s space 396 Oconee Street Athens, GA 30601 706.227.1515 space@nuci.org www.nuci.org www.facebook.com/ nucisspace Newsletter Contributors

Bob Sleppy Will Kiser Laura Ford Chris Byron Lesley Cobbs Jackie Burson Photos

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