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Behind the Name: NURA The name NURA is derived from the Arabic language meaning “the Light.” Light is a metaphor for wisdom, knowledge, and truth. The purpose of light is to give a clear perception of what may not be seen otherwise. The best example is given in Plato’s Allegory of the Cave. The men of the cave thought they knew everything there was to know about life until they were exposed to light. Light in that example was not only a representation of knowledge but truth. NURA Magazine hopes to provide articles that are captivating, yet rich with wisdom.
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Content 6 Beauty : Julianna Corsi 10 Beau: Jibril Ash-Shakoor 14 Leader Notes to Self 18 Saving Our Community 26 Seasonal Depression 28 Winter Beauty Trends 30 Tamika Mallor y (Cover) 42 2020 Must Haves 44 Start your Business 46 Political Visionar y 50 Gala Fashion 58 Relationship Roles
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Peace&Blessings Dear Nuralites, Welcome to the Winter 2020 issue, themed “Leadership.” The term leadership possesses several meanings; however, it’s important to note that it goes beyond one who is in an authoritative position, but one who has the ability to evoke change and enviable results. Our cover Tamika Mallory is an excellent portrayal of what we wish to convey to you within this issue. She is cultivating a new generation of activists. In this issue we hope that you are inspired to take the lead in any capacity of your life which will ultimately and positively impact the lives of others. Change is inevitable whether it be the seasons, people, technology, systems and/or laws. It’s both necessary and unavoidable. If we are seeking change, however, a decision has to be made and an action has to be taken. The choices that we make will either incite or impede change. We have to be willing to put in the work and manifest the change within before it can be manifested externally. A feeling that typically hinders forward movement is fear. Once fear is controlled nothing is impossible. We are quickly approaching the 2020 presidential election and we strongly encourage our readers to make their voices heard. By voting, you are able to voice your support or dissension of issues that are most important to you. Additionally, voting aids in ensuring that we the people of American elect an individual who we believe is most suitable to implement the changes that we want to see. Make sure you are educated on and understand the vision of each presidential candidate as primary ballots open around the country. The time is now! “The second that you take responsibility for the events and current status of your life is the moment that you gain the power to change it.” “Leadership comes in many forms; however, the prominent form is that of your own circumstances.” Crystal & Akilah
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Julianna Corsi What is something that our audience should know about you? Something interesting that not everyone knows about me is that as a small child, I was a toe walker. When I was seven years old, I had Botox injected into my calves and bilateral casting for six weeks to retrain my feet to walk with my heels down. Unfortunately, the procedure did not work, and I continued to walk on my toes throughout elementary and middle school. I was made fun of for it on a regular basis but being able to walk in heels easily really worked to my advantage. The best part of all of this was a few years ago a young girl reached out to me about her toe walking and the bullying she receives in school because of it, and being able to help and encourage her meant so much to me. What do you love most about what you do? I am currently a second-year student at Boston University. My major is Advertising and Business so when a position interning for Hint Water in Boston came up, I was excited to fully immerse myself in it. I am enjoying combining social media, creative marketing, and my college experiences with Hint. In addition to my studies and work, I am competing for Miss Massachusetts USA. This has always been a dream of mine and I am so excited to have this opportunity. What have you experienced in your journey that you had never anticipated? I never thought I would travel as much as I have. Being the USA National Teen in 2018 led me to travel around the country and make a bunch of new friends. I can confidently say I have a friend in nearly every state and even in other countries! I was also able to study abroad in London this past summer. It was an amazing experience and I am extremely grateful for all of the travelling I have been able to do and the experience it has given me with a greater perspective on life. What do you hope to see in years ahead? I have always been extremely ambitious and I create new goals for myself all the time. My goals happen to change often as well. I mainly just hope to be in a career that I love. In addition, winning the Miss USA title would be a dream come true. I hope that I continue to travel and live in new states. I want to live life to the fullest and remain involved with volunteering frequently and giving back. What is something you stand for? Kindness for everyone! Something I would like to see changed looking ahead is the bullying epidemic. This is something that is very near and dear to my heart and as a teenager I was able to use my voice to spread the importance of kindness. With the opportunities I received as a national title holder for UNM I got to share my experiences nationwide to create strategies and helpful tools that teach the power of kindness. I am passionate and committed to continuing the fight against bullying. What’s next for you? Competing in Miss Massachusetts USA! I’m very excited as it will be my first Miss pageant so preparing for this has been very interesting yet fun. I am also excited to keep working on my advertising/ business degree and plan to intern or study abroad again soon! Social Media Site: @jules_corsi
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Jibril Ash-Shakoor Height: 5’10” Education: Bachelor of Science (UNC Charlotte) Occupation: CEO, Trainer, Youtuber Hobbies: Youtubing, Creating (pictures, stories, videos and music) Community Service: 50 + hours University Meadows Elementary; 30+ hours at PAWS at Hertford County
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Jibril Ash-Shakoor What do you love most about your career? I love that I’m able to help so many people with problems in various areas of their lives. As a trainer, I’m able to help a young professional woman achieve her dream body for her upcoming wedding. As a male CEO of a natural hair care brand, I’m able to help a young man get awesome curly hair before his senior prom. As a Youtuber, I’m able to provide a lot of healthy education as well as reckless entertainment for my subscribers. What is your definition of a leader in your industry? Someone who practices what they preach. In the “ Health, Beauty & Fitness” industry you must practice what you preach because if not those following you probably won’t follow you for long. Additionally, since the majority of this industry is based on physical presence, you will be exposed for not being who you say you are. What is something that your audience should know about you? I’m insanely creative. I have so many creative ideas that I find myself having to subdue them sometimes. Whether it be because it deviates from branding plans or because my audience isn’t ready for it. Like earlier this year, I hit 24,000 Subscribers(Youtube) on my 24th Birthday so I wanted to do something special for my subscribers and followers. So I looked up the analytics of my audience to see what other niches they enjoyed following and music was one. So I literally called a DJ, a videographer and a bunch of my hometown friends to Charlotte to make a song and shoot a music video. I AM NOT A RAPPER but that’s where my creative juices took me that day. What have you experienced in your career that you had never anticipated? I never anticipated this amount of trust from my audience. Granted, I know that the things that I teach and share are either proven, well practiced or well researched. Still, it amazes me to have so many others put so much faith and trust in me to have the answers. That is huge to me. What do you stand for? What message(s) do you hope to share with your audience in the years ahead? I stand for improving the quality of life of as many people as possible. Whether it be through fitness, hair advice or living my life in an exemplary nature. What’s next for you? Where do you see yourself in the next 5-10 years? I see myself continually helping and leading others down a productive path as a CEO and Leader who won’t hesitate to educate and who isn’t afraid to entertain his people. Why is community involvement/service important to you? It’s good to help those in need and it’s even better to help those without them even asking. Positive Karma is a thing as well as negative Karma. You would always want someone to help while you’re down so you should help others in that position. Social Media Site: @_KINGBRIL (Instagram) & @KINGBRIL_ (Twitter)
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A LEADERS NOTE TO SELF
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An Interview with Kendal Wade By: Akilah Dia-Amadi
Deputy Sheriff, politician and author, Kendal Wade, is now on a mission to serve and protect his community beyond the badge. After running for Prince George’s County Sheriff at 29 years old, Kendal Wade wasted no time putting pen to paper outlining all that he learned throughout his experiences. In 2019, he released his first publication A Leaders Note to Self: 5 Things Every Leader Under 40 Must Remember. This self-help guide is ideal for all young public servant and leadership professionals. A comprehensive and didactic read, Wade covers nearly every topic that comes to mind for leadership in a political society. Whether you are a millennial running for office, a networking entrepreneur, or up for an executive servitude, A Leader’s Note to Self is bound to highlight an area of development or interest for many. Topics covered include public etiquette, proper dress code, dining, timing, tough conversations, and social media. Wade addresses some of the most provocative subjects prone to leadership. A common mistake, yet seldom prepared for, is yielding to Temptation. We have seen some of our great leaders caught or rumored in scandal from Dr. King to DC’s beloved Marion Barry. With social media and increasing public awareness, momentary decision making in our personal lives can come with a greater cost. Whether a leader’s vice is lust, pleasure or greed, Wade recognizes our human nature while suggesting self-awareness and discipline as a key defense. People are not as forgiving as they used to be. When you are a leader you are judged and looked at in a different light. The higher you go, the greater the attack, especially if you are living in your purpose. There are going to be distractions. Temptation will distract you from accomplishing your goals. Moderation is key. If you don’t have that discipline you can fail. - Kendal Wade The author notes that the last chapter, Leadership Continuity as his favorite. ‘Is it better to be loved or feared’ is a question that has transcended generations. Wade gives perspective to both love and fear in governance. What separates this publication from others like it is the perspective. Evolving among neighborhood that he serves; Wade gives perspective as a young black millennial leader who has learned from some of the nation’s finest leaders such as Lt. General John A. Bradley and Vice Admiral Joycelyn Elders M.D.
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Colloquial by nature, A Leader’s Note to Self can easily translate to a conversational piece to be shared among leaders and mentees. Wade suggests that some of the best advice comes in the form of pull-to-the-side conversations. Most of us have experienced the seasoned professionals who pulled you over to the side to give you a piece of advice they themselves may have learned the hard way; from a properly tailored suit or speech. This narrative lends to both giving back and paying it forward. “I’ve had an opportunity to know a lot of leaders politically and spiritually. We are all transitioned into these major leadership roles. However, a lot of people take what they know to the grave with them.” - Kendal Wade Wade spends much of his time giving back to the community drawing from personal experiences. He launched the Kendal Wade Foundation to increase public safety awareness and training. Programming of the non-profit is active shooter response training, domestic violence self-defense, youth engagement and scholarship. As a protector of peace, Wade understands that the key to reducing crime is to address the socio-economic factors that contribute to some of the irrational and self-preservation behaviors that result in an arrest, or worse. Wade has surrendered to his calling as a public servant balancing his work in law enforcement, non-profit efforts and funeral services. Wade transparently reveals that as he is constantly growing as a leader, he will continue to share his knowledge to help others along the way. In doing so, Wade finds himself living in his purpose. In his book, Wade encourages others to find their God given purpose. “You have to enter your purpose with a level of selflessness. You have to just surrender,”the author reflects.
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Saving our Community An interview with Sharece Crawford
Walking through Congress Park in SE Washington, DC, Sharece Crawford vividly reminisces her first encounter with trauma. She walks up to her old apartment and fixes her eyes on the stairs that were noticeably discolored. She then points out the window above where she witnessed a homicide as a child. “I watched someone from the stairs over there shoot across the street and blast the person away.” As a child, such experience reinforced to Sharece a notion that life didn’t matter. Unfortunately, a conversation involving “when did you see your first dead body” is not uncommon language for youth in impacted neighborhoods across America. “There is no 9-year-old that should have had that experience. It was nothing my parents could protect me from, as much as they tried,” Sharece explains. That wasn’t the only experience that walking through Congress Street brought to her consciousness. Sharece recalled the apartment where she was electrocuted. It was the same apartment her mom lived in when she was 8 months pregnant with Sharece and badly beaten trying to rescue a friend during a domestic dispute. Just looking at the street itself reminds Sharece of countless fights that she had to participate in though she never wanted to. Sharece continues to fight but for a different purpose these days. “Now I’m fighting to remind myself that our lives matter,” she exclaims. Sharece is often fighting for social justice, health and wellness for her community. One of the major campaigns she is involved in is “Don’t Mute My Health”. Health is very important to Sharece. Growing up, Sharece can’t account for being taught how to take proper care of herself. “I don’t remember a class on drinking the appropriate amount of water, eating the right fruits or vegetables. I now intentionally look up the benefits of certain food,” she explains
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As a health ambassador, Sharece is helping to bring fresh fruits and vegetables to low-income communities. The educational component of the campaign teaches residents about the importance of agriculture. In addition, the campaign helped to secure a nutritionist in the local grocery store, Giant, to provide helpful information to residents about proper food choices its benefits. Unfortunately, these efforts are small steps to improve a larger problem. Parts of the city particularly in SE DC is still considered a food desert; there are not enough food options for a city that has over 148,000 residents. Between 1972 and 1984, DC lost 32% of its supermarkets affecting the neighborhoods east of the Anacostia River. Today there are only three grocery stores between Ward 7 and 8 combined. Many have even proven that the cost of food is higher than in more affluent neighborhoods, attesting to systemic changes that are needed. “Many people are one meal away from making a very bad decision,” affirms Sharece. Known in Congress Park as Reecy, her love for her community is reciprocal. Sharece uses her relationships in the community as a former resident and ANC Commissioner to raise the bar and set a standard of accountability across the board. “Are you staying out of trouble?” she calls out as people interrupt the interview with appreciation for her work in the community. “What are you doing now?” she asked one young man that recognized her from their younger years. Without reservation the gentleman replied, “Nothing, I don’t like college; it’s boring.” Sharece then gave him several options to include trades, urban styling opportunities and other ideas for creating business from passion. Devoted to her community, Sharece is constantly looking for ways to improve it and the people therein. Once a red lined community, South East DC is now designated as an opportunity zone. While this is a positive change it can potentially exclude its longtime residents. Sharece is working with thought leaders around the city to find ways to buy and acquire land that so many African-Americans call home. She understands that financial literacy is another major lift as many do not know how to allocate resources when it is available to them. Recognizing the beauty and talent immersed in what is considered the ‘hood, Sharece believes that the key is awakening the community to reinforce what’s possible. While no one told her how talented she was or revealed her purpose for her, she was fortunate enough to discover it on her own. Sadly, this is not the case for all. Whether it takes bringing whiteboards and educational sessions to street corners or finding resources to create programs, Sharece is determined to make a difference. She believes reparations are tangible by creating an educated, healthy, mentally stable, and debt free society.
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SEASONAL DEPRESSION YES, THAT’S A THING.
By: Chanel W. M. Hicks
What if someone told you that the shorter days, longer nights, and colder temperatures of winter could cause ongoing feelings of sadness, would you believe them? Well, it’s true! Seasonal depression is a real thing, and some of us may not even realize its happening. No, it’s not in your head that today just feels like a drag, and the lack of Vitamin D does not boost your energy. You are happier in the summer with tons of energy, but in the winter, it feels like it’s never going to end, and all the things you love to do just seem like plans that were made by a better version of yourself. When most people think of depression, they think clinical, which can be a long-term version of depression that usually comes with a formal diagnosis or seasonal, which can be dependent on an event or occurrence in a person’s life. There is no ONE reason someone may feel or be depressed. Seasonal depression is based on the abrupt or upcoming changes in weather, lack of sunlight, and the gloom of wintertime. One day you are wearing your favorite outfit and sandals with your cool shades on. Then the next, its boots, sweaters, and scarfs. This change can cause people to feel severe sadness, and their willingness to be a part of society decreases. So how do you ”self-diagnose” seasonal depression? Well, you shouldn’t. You should seek out the help of a Mental Health Professional or even your General Practitioner to help you explore if what you are feeling is, in fact, a form of depression, including seasonal. However, for those of you who may want the fast version just look for some of the most common signs:
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“Happiness makes up in height for what it lacks in length.” -Robert Frost
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Disinterest in completing tasks Disinterest in leaving the house Disinterest in attending social events Using the “cold” weather as an excuse to stay in General lack of motivation on particularly cloudy or darker days Feelings of unexplainable sadness or hopelessness The weather just makes you feel like “Ugh” *insert eye roll emoji*
There are generally many other signs of depression, but if any of these sound like how you feel in the winter, then maybe it’s time to seek out help or utilize tools such as UV Sun Light/Vitamin D lamps to help you overcome that dark day. Find ways to leave the house even when you want to hide under the covers all day. Go for a run, hike, bowling, or hang out with some friends. If that’s too much, invite people over, they may be going through the same thing, and you can help each other feel better. Watch a funny movie or a romantic comedy to help ease the winter blues. You can even embrace the winter and make a snow angel or have a snowball fight. On those days where the sun is peeking through those dark clouds, take at that moment by going for a short walk and being in that moment. Some of the best advice is to take a nice sunny vacation mid-winter to break up the cycle, and then when you get back, you may feel recharged to tackle those feelings headfirst. The good news is that winter will pass, and the sunshine will return to its glory. The hot weather is always just around the corner, and those flip flops are peeking out of your closet, ready to be worn again. Although, the bitterness of the winter may seem like a drag, don’t let it get the best of you and never be afraid to seek out additional support if you are feeling down. Talk to your friends, family, or a professional and take one day at a time. You got this!
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Tips from the Runway to Everyday By: Khilia Chantal
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ombining complexion trends can leave the everyday woman looking youthful, natural, and radiant. Barely there foundation is probably the user-friendliest trend. Using a tinted moisturizer or hydrating liquid foundation, you will obtain this skin-like application. Apply using a beauty sponge or the tips of your fingers. If you do not have these products in your collection, you can create it by mixing your current foundation with your moisturizer and apply with the same techniques. Intensify the dewiness of your foundation by adding a liquid highlighter to the highest points on your face.
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TAMIKA D. A Warrior for Justice
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Tamika D. Mallory is cultivating a new generation of activists. Best known as a leader in the Women’s March, which debuted in 2017, Tamika has steadied the course of demanding social justice around the country. Despite several obstacles and challenges that she encountered, Tamika maintained bravery, resilience, and continues to fight for what she believes in. As a mother and a sister to many, she uses her gifts to make a positive impact in the community and encourages others to do the same. The Women’s March in 2017 was so impactful that it mobilized millions to rally around for equal rights for women all over the country and many parts of the world. None of the organizers could have imagined that all of their hard work and endless nights would pay off in such a momentous way. With over 70 national organizers, there were hundreds of people working around the clock and across different time zones to actualize the vision. Tamika reflects that the Women’s March success required her to work harder than she ever did before; she ultimately gives credit to the Highest. To think that our brilliant people, women, their families and allies across the world took seriously, on one day, something that we led was nothing short of a direct blessing from God. People often talk about dreaming big but I don’t know that you can even dream bigger than God’s plan. The 2017 Women’s March was a play out of God’s book. - Tamika D. Mallory Following the initial success of the Women’s March, its organizers were under constant attack and scrutiny. This is especially true for Tamika, who was the target of a media smear campaign after attending an event in Chicago led by Minister Farrakhan. Many do not know or could never relate to the undue stress and turmoil that she experienced as a result. Tamika believes that “the media has a way of hypnotizing people. It’s very strategic in the way that you see articles dripping with misinformation and oversaturation. People don’t even realize how their minds are being taken over by it.” While some support for the March wavered over the years, Tamika stays strong and steadfast. Refusing to step down, she stood on her principles and promise to the mission at hand. Tamika explains, “The best way to destroy the March was to tear down its leadership. If it had not been ‘the Farrakhan issue’, someone would have found another issue. It is not unusual for the Black woman in the room to receive unconscionable threats and aggression from society.” Tamika thanks her family and friends for helping her through such a difficult time.
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“The main role I have in this movement is to be a woman who is a shepherd of new minds, hearts, and souls to ultimately liberate our people.� -Tamika D.Mallory
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Proud feminist and womanist, Tamika is now embarking upon movements that embrace the entire family; men, women, and non-conforming individuals. She believes that no movement, to include the feminist movement, in the African American Community can exist without the whole family at the table. I think that all the people in our community have to be at the table. Other communities may have the luxury of drawing that line in the sand. I think black people particularly have such unique experiences in America. We have such difficulties in terms of survival that we don’t have the ability nor the time to separate our families. We have to grow, develop, and fight together. -Tamika D. Mallory Today you will often see Tamika on the front lines advocating for major issues such as police accountability. We have seen too many unarmed minorities being killed by the very people that are sworn to protect the community they serve. Holding these law enforcers accountable is something that Tamika has taken seriously for quite some time. Tamika has no problem addressing politicians and leaders on their position of such issues to get answers and invoke change. Tamika is often on the street rallying for other social justice matters such as when the Federal prison in Brooklyn, NY lost power in the Winter of 2019 with over 1,600 inmates freezing inside. Aware that she finds herself in considerably dangerous situations, Tamika walks in confidence. She encourages others to get involved in issues that they too are passionate about. For anyone looking to get involved in activism themselves, Tamika is ready to show them the way. She is currently building her organization Until Freedom that will do just that. Until Freedom is an intersectional social justice organization that will focus on cultivating activists. Tamika believes there is a real need to train new organizers in the community. Until Freedom will also serve as a training camp for seasoned organizers and entertainers that come into social justice issues on a regular basis. Tamika finds this to be a great opportunity to give celebrities a safe space to gain knowledge and serve as a clearinghouse to connect them with other organizations and agencies. For those wondering if Tamika will run for political office, it’s a no for now. While she has seriously considered the possibility, she believes that she is in a much better position as an outside agitator. For updates follow Until Freedom on social media @untilfreedom
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Dream Big BECOME AN ENTREPRENUER IN 2020
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Do you want to start a new business the right way? DC Small Business Development Center (DCSBDC) is a one-stop-shop for everything related to your up and coming business. While there is one in nearly every city, the DC office is beautifully situated on the campus of Howard University, where business ideas are emerging every day. Carl Brown is the state director of the DC office. As a Howard University alum, he calls this area home, offering sound advice for aspiring and newly incorporated businesses. He encourages everyone to come in for a consultation when they first think of business ownership. DCSBDC hires experienced consultants to meet with individuals regarding business plans, financial plans, strategic plans, marketing, branding, and even human resources. Often prestigious board members like Marcus Johnson will come to work with customers as well. The best part is that all services provided by the office are free. Make your appointment with the nearest SBDC. Until then, here is some sound advice from DC Small Business Development Center’s State Director Carl Brown: 1. Be Responsible: It’s all about responsibility and accountability. That’s the reason why some businesses thrive over others. They are responsible, accountable, and they are ready to service their customers. 2. Write a sound Business Plan: The business plan is the autobiography of your business. Be sure to include all those important sections, such as financial projections, marketing, sales, and how you are going to pay back a loan. 3. Update Your Plan: You have to update your business plan as you change directions. It’s a living document, not a dead document like a history book that was written 20 years ago you put on the shelf and forget about it. It works both ways. Information that you neglected to put in needs to go in there. Information that is old and outdated needs to be taken out. 4. Don’t Forget to Advertise: Friends and family won’t take you far. They will not continue to patronize you. You must expand your market by getting the word out. People don’t know about you; they are busy. 5. Know the Areas of Opportunities: Some of the Opportunities include Medical Research to include contributions to advancements in Drug Research, Opioids, Aids, Cancer, Lupus, and other ailments with no cures. Anything dealing with Geriatrics is a big opportunity, such as assisted living and daycare centers for the elderly. 6. Find the Money to Get Started: Come into an SBDC. We know where the money is. We know some Community Development Financial Institutions that can lend you between $500-$50,000. Other banks are business-friendly, and they will get the money to you by the end of the week. There are also Angel Investors and others that are making decisions daily. The days of the 8-inch application process is over. In addition to heading the DCSBDC office, Carl Brown also hosts the Small Business Report on SiriusXM channel 141. Tune in for more business and professional advice. “I am very fortunate to get that opportunity. We promote small business. We bring in experts HR, Legal, and more to help small businesses understand how to prosper, grow, become sustainable, and generate wealth” - Carl Brown.
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HASHIM WALTERS Interviewed by: Crystal Davis
Hashim Walters first set his eye on the Mayor’s seat at the tender age of 6 years old and he began his trek into politics as he was elected SGA president in high school. It was during this time that his drive towards politics grew stronger. “There were a lot of things going on in my community. I lost a lot of friends to gun violence and the adults weren’t necessarily seeing the issues from a young person’s perspective. They didn’t know how the issues were affecting us personally,” he exclaimed. From this point forward Walters decided to dedicate his life to the world of politics and pledged to have a profound impact on his generation for years to come. In 2017, the 22-year-old Walters was the youngest Mayoral candidate to run for the Mayor’s seat in New Orleans, holding firm his pledge to impact his generation. Although he was defeated in the election, his attitude is of a true future potentate. He stated that the campaign “definitely humbled me!” He recalled engaging with
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people from various socioeconomic backgrounds and how their experiences affected his mentality. He credits that experience for his development beyond politics; however, solidifying his membership within the New Orleans community. Hashim reflects, “No matter how much money we have, no matter how many degrees we all have, we all are human.” It was from those interactions that Walters realized that the people of New Orleans, no matter their status, shared a common goal. “Everybody wants to see New Orleans at its best and they really want to provide a pathway for the youth that they never had.” Presently, you can find Hashim Walters working under the Vice President of the New Orleans City Council, Jason Williams. As Williams’ right-hand, Walters has his hands tied up with empowerment projects and of course legislation. Walters is active in several community-based groups and serves as a board member of a nonprofit which purposely raises money to donate laptops to inner-city youth.
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Political Visionary As far as education in the state of Louisiana, it has mostly ranked in the bottom percentile of the country. Walters seeks to change this and speaks to the importance. Within the last three years the state has managed to rank in the 50th percentile. Walters “realized that a lot of youth just needed the resources to actually receive the information that they want to seek,” he exclaimed. Having access to information serves as a bridge and an educational lifeline for youth. This ultimately will allow innercity youth to have an edge and/or provide them another step towards receiving more educational experiences. Walters strongly advocates for the youth in his community by bringing the necessary conversations to the forefront. Additionally, Walters believes early childhood education is the first step in eradicating poverty in New Orleans. “Before kids get into the educational world, we need to lay their foundation because education is definitely the key to success.” It appears that Williams along with the City Council, worked to allocate an estimated $1.5 million into the city’s budget that will go towards early childhood education. A good educational background affords the opportunity for higher education such as college, trade
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schools, and greater economic opportunities. This will ultimately, initiate a change in the community by increasing public safety; therefore, also sparking a decrease in violence. Communities throughout America are currently and futurally will go through gentrification. Walters notes the positives and negatives of that notion. Gentrification definitely brings reviatization to communities of lower socioeconomic status and therefore, “pretty much revalizes the community that has been in shambles for some years,” he stated. Over the years, citizens of New Orleans have seen communities “refurbished” and “rejuvenated.” However, the downside to gentrification includes rising taxes, individuals being priced out of their homes and out of the area. Additionally, those individuals who were priced out of the inner-city now have to adjust to the extended commute for work. Walters suggests that to curb the negatives of gentrification, the city needs to have a significant amount of affordable housing options. The number one economic impact in New Orleans is tourism. If the workforce is unable to live in the city, tourism will be negatively impacted.
Important Messages from Hashim On the Upcoming Election. “We have a lot of candidates; however, I think it’s time for us to bear together. Right now Generation Z makes up roughly 30% of votership in the upcoming election in 2020. We deathly need to get out and vote! If we don’t, we’re going to have four more years of detrimental effects. We have to do something to shake the system up! You’re never too young to have an impact on the world.” On the Achieving Goals. “If you have anything that you want to do in this world, do it with a sense of sincerity, do it with a genuine attitude and put in the hard work. Eventually your dreams will come true.”
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Leadership in Relationships: Role Reversal Strains By: Shea McGee
The times are indeed changing, in the great words of Bob Dylan, and with it, the way in which human relationships are evolving. Evolution is the cornerstone of our world, pointing to natural selection; how the weak are left behind while the strong survive, and how flexible creatures can be at adapting to these changes. Changes, however, are neverending. To survive, you either adapt or your species dies out. The same goes for romantic relationships and how men and women have adapted to the changes over the decades. Human relationships have always been complicated while our animal counterparts all seem to have a running theme: females rule the family. From the great lionesses who not only bear the fruits of her mate’s “labor” but is also in charge of meals more often than not, as well as if she wants to mate with that lion or not. Female lions are not the only creatures to make the final decisions as Black Widows and Praying Mantis always have the last word, due to the male sacrificing their seed and themselves. As for humans, men took hold of the reigns as head of the family and pretty much everything else. They had no desire of letting women have any say in matters ranging from religion to business, but as the decades trailed by, women have taken on larger roles in the society. Women are now running Fortune 500 companies, winning arduous competitions in the Olympics and creating new moves (we see you, Simone Biles), whilst still making time for raising children. Even so, some men are still having a very difficult time in making sure women are seen and heard for their many contributions. There is an underlying need for control to remain in the hands of the male gender, as if women are not capable when that’s clearly not the case.
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In our romantic lives, women still deal with many facets of the patriarchal rule, even while quickly becoming the breadwinners at home. Women face having unhappy lives with their partners if they are the breadwinners in the relationship—leaving some women to feel resentment toward their partner should they make less than them, but unfulfilled if they aren’t winning in their professional lives. We’ve definitely broken ground, but there are still many societal norms that we must overcome as it relates to gender roles being reversed in our romantic relationships. Although there are over 35% of married Black women earning more than their mate, they are still in the group of 43% of married couples who still feel men should be top-earners in their family. The message is that even with all of the progress we’ve made with women taking on larger roles in society— most notably in the workplace and home—we are still battling with the shift that’s taken place. Humans are fighting against societal evolution. We still believe that men should be “in charge” at home, and that we should focus on taking care of our family. Women are still having a hard time taking on a leadership role, but the key is to not see it as being the head of home, but instead having an ally—a partner. We should change the conversation to that of not one or the other of us being in charge, but a partnership, a joining of two powerful people working together for the same goal. Couples who can do that find great satisfaction in their relationships, and fret less over who is cooking dinner, who is making more money than the other, and who is staying home with the kids. Only through a healthy partnership as man and woman can the reversal of roles seem less a challenge and more of a melding of two souls becoming one.
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