NW Kids magazine January 2009

family resource guide

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The Open House Issue Hit the Slopes Outing to Timberline Lodge New Year’s Resolutions

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Listings Birthdays

Beaverton Bakery ..................23 Frills to Fairy tales ................23 The Little Gym ........................3 Penny’s Puppet Productions......15 Pigtails & Crewcuts ..............23 Sit Still Salon .........................23

Books, Toys, Goods, and Clothes

Arbonne Skin Care ...............21 Backyard Adventures . ..........19 Friendship Prints . .................25 Magic Kids USA ...................17 Powell’s Books . ......................16 SpielWerk Toys .....................17 Steiner Storehouse ................17 Violet Boutique . ....................17

Childcare & Schools A Mother’s Love ......................9 Barnes-Miller Child Dev. Center ..........................12

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Bodhi Tree Language Center..12 Child’s View Montessori .....13 Cornerstone Montessori ......13 Escuela Viva .............................7 Fruit & Flower .........................9 German American School . ...7 Goddard School . .....................8 Happy Hollow Children’s Center ...............11 The International School ....13 Learning Matters . .................13 Little Fruit Farm Montessori ....10 Little Wiz Kids . ....................10 Oregon Virtual Academy ....12 Pacific Crest Academy . ........13 Portland Wiz Kids Idea Playground . ...........................7 Sitter Soiree ............................11 Sunshine Montessori School ...11 Taisei Learning Center ........11

Events & Seasonal

Alice in Wonderland ........... 27 Northwest Family and Kids Festival ........................31 Stars on Ice . ............................21 Thomas and Friends Live on Stage!........................15

Horseback Riding

Quiet Rein Riding School ...17

Music, Theatre & Dance

Pigtails and Crewcuts . .........21 Sit Still Salon .........................21

Bennett Suzuki Violin ........ 26 Childbloom Guitar ...............25 Lakewood Theater ................25 Magic Music Studio . ............25 Northwest Children’s Theater ............................... 27 Oregon Music Teachers Association . ..........21 Sound Roots School of Modern Music . ...................25

Health & Fitness

Services

Food & Dining

Hopworks Urban Brewery ......29 New Seasons Market . ............2 Me Too Cafe ...........................15

Haircuts

Barre3 .......................................21 Baby Boot Camp . ..................19 The Little Gym........................ 3 Ruby Sky Sleep Coaching .....9 World of Smiles Family Dentistry ..............................16

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Protect the ones you love “As a Mom, I know that when my clients come to see me, they're not doing it for themselves.

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Editor’s Corner Well, it’s that time of year. Time to think about where to send the little ones to school in the fall. It’s also the time of year for rampant opinions on the topic of school. We all have strong feelings and thoughts about where our little ones should be educated, or cared for, as well we should. And we like to talk about it.

Just last night, my neighbor had barely gotten the words out about her plans to send her son to a local preschool before I launched into my tale of what an awful experience I had with the director at the same school and what I had “heard” about it. And (per usual), I don’t really know what I am talking about. I had a bad reaction; does this mean that no one should send their kid to this school?

I should know better, and I really do. Just recently, another friend of mine told me about all the terrible things she’d heard about our local (and chosen) elementary school. My initial reaction was slight panic - “What? What is wrong with the school? Should I send my kids elsewhere?” Then I really asked why these acquaintances of friends didn’t like the school.

Well, their critiques were not really critiques in my book. They were just not things I gave as much weight to, especially given the options available to our family.

So. We all do it. But I am a little ambivalent about word of mouth and recommendations. They’re a great place to start. They may help you, they may not. But when choosing a school for your child please do your best to ignore what others tell you – you are the best judge of what is best for you and your family.

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contents Education 6 Open House Guide 12 Books 14 Money 16 @home 18 Birthdays 22 Crafts 24 Events Calendar 28

what’s inside...

Focus on Education: Open House Guide, Saturday Academy, Portland Early Learning Project, the International Baccalaureate program ...

New Year’s Resolutions: Get Yourself Organized for Once and For all with the SHEbang; Three documents every family needs; coping with financial change and uncertainty.

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Education Saturday Academy Redefines Weekend Listening to Bridie Harrington describe Saturday Academy’s class offerings, you can’t help but think “this is what all school should be like” and then get sort of envious of the students who get to explore such topics as: • What is string theory?

• How does medicine make you better?

• Could I make a robot to do my homework?

Saturday Academy, a Portland institution that just celebrated its 25th year anniversary, offers a wealth of unique educational opportunities to which kids might not otherwise have access. There are no grades, no credit for the classes. Instead, kids receive the gift of following their interests – or developing new ones.

In the Lego Physics class, for example, students design machines that actually move using gears and cams, levers and pulleys. They learn the fundamentals of physics, structural design and engineering – all while having fun in a no-pressure environment. “They don’t even realize how far they are going in one class,” says Harrington.

“Some students might think that science is maybe not for them. But through a combined course, such as Math & Architecture, kids who think they are only interested in art, see art as a window into another field.”

This term, Saturday Academy is offering a course in Neuroscience. Learning from scientists, not textbooks, students will have the opportunity to watch brain activity during an MRI scan, observe brain cells under a fluorescent microscope, and study how drugs affect brain function. This is the stuff that doctors are made of.

“This is a great way for kids to prepare for college. Not just in getting into a university (though SA does offer several college & test prep courses), but in figuring out what they want to study,” says Harrington, a program assistant and instructor with SA. “Whether its animation, or cryptology or chemistry or acting or creative writing or quantum mechanics, these programs are a great way for kids to explore what they want to get out of college. They get to follow their curiosities at an early age.”

In addition to the classes, which are taught by both professional educators and working professionals and which are geared for students in grades 2 through 12, SA offers apprenticeship programs for students in high school, pairing the students with working professionals 6

to provide a hands-on experience in a local workplace.

Most of the classes are very small. All the programs are open to any student in the state, and financial aid is available (in fact, almost 15% of open enrollment students receive some form of tuition assistance).

Saturday Academy is funded through tuition, grants and contributions, and an endowment. Some grants fund SA to deliver classes into the schools – in some cases they’re supplemental to TAG programs, in other cases they’re offered to at-risk students in Title 1 schools.

As adults, we often pursue hobbies as a way to enrich or supplement our work-filled lives. But our children, through the pursuit of curiosity, can learn how best to make their livings out of their hobbies.

About Saturday Academy 830 SW 10th Ave., Ste. 200 Portland, OR 97205 (503) 200-5858 www.saturdayacademy.org

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Escuela Viva Dual Language School Healthy Spirits, Open Hearts, Active Minds Supporting and encouraging children to be successful and happy human beings.

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Education

Learning Language

By Brooke Strickland Christina Webb Schabow and Kara DeGiovanni started an organization to introduce two programs that teach language learning and literacy skills to infants, toddlers, elementary-age kids, and their families. American Sign Language and Spanish are Portland Early Learning Project’s primary focus.

For babies as young as six months, the first sign classes introduce basic signs, such as “mom,” “more,” “all done,” and “please.” Christina Webb Schabow says, “By signing with your baby, you give him or her a way to communicate needs, thoughts and feelings well before he or she is able to speak… having the ability [communicate] will reduce stress and is emotionally satisfying.” She goes on to say that for many parents, trying to discern what their

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baby needs is often difficult. Sign language can help. Communication also forges a stronger, more intimate connection between parent and child.

According to Schabow: “Children who sign often speak earlier and more prolifically than children who have not had the same communication experience early on.” Many educators say these Consider using language in a new way to connect with your child kinds of programs provide lasting benefits for your baby early on in his or her brain development.

The Portland Early Learning Project’s Spanish in Play program uses a multi-faceted approach to improve spoken Spanish and improve native-language communication skills, says Schabow. By incorporating three major components of communication—visual; verbal/auditory; and physical—the classes focus on “total communication.”

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says, “What we really hope families gain from classes is to respect and enjoy the Spanish language, to feel empowered to use it in and outside of class, and to feel good at it so that when they have the opportunity to learn more Spanish…they will.” The organization provides families with support, lesson plan summaries, language explanations, and other helpful ideas for playing and practicing the language at home, which help parents learn the language and support children in learning a second language.

Understanding and embracing the diverse culture that both we and our children live in is important to personal and cognitive development, and using language in a new way is an innovative and effective way to connect with your child.

Portland Early Learning Project www.portlandearlylearning.com 3644 NE 46th Ave Portland, OR 97213 (503) 284-0610

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Education INTERNATIONAL

BACCALAUREATE BASICS

By Brooke Strickland

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arents who are interested in training their children with a challenging, internationally-driven academic program, listen up. The International Baccalaureate (IB) Program has built a reputation in the field of international education since it began in 1968. Its curriculum focuses on integrating subject matter with global awareness. The IB is offered in 2,445 schools in 131 countries.

Currently, many high schools throughout the Portland area off er the IB Diploma Program. Visit www.ibo.org for more details and a list of participating schools.

Th e International Baccalaureate Program not only encourages cultural awareness, but also gives students the tools to embrace new skills that reach beyond the traditional schools subjects. Overall, the goal of this program is to cultivate international awareness in children and promote inquiry while learning and successfully participate in a global society. It can provide lasting rewards – both personally and educationally.

Although offered at both primary and middle years, the most common IB program is the to-year Diploma Program, off ered to students aged 16-19. Many IB courses are recognized as equivalent to college-level courses, and some U.S. universities and colleges award entering students with first-year credit depending on their points totals.

(This is similar to the AP credit awards). The curriculum is standard throughout the world and IB degrees are recognized abroad.

Th e three key activities required to achieve an IB degree are an extended essay (up to 4,000 words), the interdisciplinary Th eory of Knowledge course (exploring the nature of knowledge across disciplines, encouraging an appreciation of other cultural perspectives) and what the IB calls “Creativity, action, service (CAS).” Participation in the school’s CAS programme encourages students to be involved in artistic pursuits, sports and community service work, thus fostering students’ awareness and appreciation of life outside the academic arena.

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“Establishing lasting peace is the work of education; all politics can do is keep us out of war.”

—Maria Montessori

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OpEn HOusEs

Kindergarten Roundups

Portland Public Schools will be hosting roundups over the next few months.

Check www.nwkids.com/kindergarten for the schedule.

Bodhi Tree Language Center

Barnes-Miller Child Dev. Center

Mandarin Chinese programs for Toddlers, Preschoolers, Homeschoolers and Afterschoolers.

Saturday and Summer programs also available.

At Barnes-Miller we strive to provide a loving, caring, and nurturing environment and provide opportunities to build close bonds with peers and caregivers.

Ages infant - 12 years old; full-day kindergarten

Open Houses 12 noon, Jan 24, Feb 21

Open House: Feb. 21, 11am - 1pm Rolling Admissions

All faiths welcome

No/Yes

Varies

N/A; small classes

None

Sibling discounts

6:1 preschool; 10:1 preschoolers

varies depending on age & schedule, call for rates

Mandarin Chinese, Japanese, Vietnamese, Cantonese, Lao, Thai

No, but convenient by bus.

No

3mo-2yr 1:4 / 2-3yr 1:5, 3-5yr 1:10 / 5-12yr 1:15

Tumble bus on site

No

5403 SE Center Street St. • Portland, OR 97206 503.788.0336 www.bodhitreelanguagecenter.org

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7345 SW Barnes Road • Portland, OR 97225 503.292.7847 • barnes-miller@qwestoffice.net www.barnes-millercdc.com

Inside all children are the makings of something special. Given the right start, all kids can stretch to their natural potential.

The Oregon Virtual Academy—a new public charter school authorized by the North Bend School District—ignites minds, bringing learning and possibility alive. As an online public school offering K-8 students across the state the K12 curriculum and the support of Oregon-licensed teachers, the Oregon Virtual Academy is tuition free.

We’re still accepting K-8 enrollments for an immediate start. And with second semester starting soon, now’s the perfect time to make a change in your child's education. Join us at an upcoming Info Session to learn more.

Portland Tuesday, January 6 Wednesday, January 21 7 pm Marriott-Portland City Center 250 SW. Broadway Portland 97205

Oregon City Wednesday, January 7 3 pm Best Western Rivershore Hotel 1900 Clackamette Dr Oregon City 97045

Hillsboro Thursday, January 8 10 am Towneplace Suites 6550 NE Brighton St Hillsboro 97124

For complete enrollment information and a full listing of events near you, visit us at www.oregonva.org.

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Tuition Costs

OpEn HOusEs

Financial Aid available

The International School

SymBoL GuIDE Religious Affiliation

Specialty Programs Before/After School Care Maximum Enrollment Student/Teacher Ratio Transportation Available

The International School provides a multicultural environment where children are fully immersed in Spanish, Japanese or Chinese language and culture, from Pre-K through fifth grade.

Open Houses: Feb. 17, 6–8 pm April 17, 9am–1pm None

Yes/Yes; Full-day kindergarten

$4,300-10,600/yr.

400 7:1

Yes Full immersion Chinese, Japanese & Spanish; cultural dance, music & arts

No

025 SW Sherman Street• Portland, OR 97201 503.226.2496 • admissions@intlschool.org www.intlschool.org

Pacific Crest Academy Pacific Crest Academy is a Catholic School whose mission is to educate the whole child through spiritual and character formation, academic excellence, and apostolic service so every student may transform society through justice and charity.

Open House: Feb. 12, 6:30 pm Application Deadline: 4/1/08 Catholic $2,975-5,750/year

Yes/Yes 20 per class

Yes

20:1 or better

Spiritual Formation Foreign Language

No

Learning Matters Learning Matters Preschool offers a unique education program for children ages 3-5.

Learning Matters focuses on brain-based skills that create pathways for learning.

Open House: Feb. 9, Mar. 1, Apr. 5 10am-12noon None

No/No

$2600/year

18 per class

No

6:1

Kindermusik, Movement, Pre-Kindergarten

No

324 NE Oak • Camas, WA 98607 360.834.9913 • nurella@pacificcrestacademy.org

1400 NE 48th Ave. Ste. 108 • Hillsboro, OR 97124 503.648.8917• info@learningmattersctr.com

Cornerstone Montessori

Child’s View Montessori

Cornerstone offers an individualized program using traditional Montessori materials that provide multisensory and interactive exploration. The school fosters a love for learning that will last a lifetime.

Education for life / Education for peace. A community where children joyfully discover themselves and their world. We provide a nurturing environment where children find the freedom for their full development.

www.pacifi ccrestacademy.org

Open House: Please call for an appt.

January 15th 9-11:30 am and 4-6:00 pm No affiliation

Yes/Yes

16 per class

$575 - $895 / month

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8:1 or better

No

10:1

All-day Montessori; Summer elementary school program

No

Christian

No/No

$275 - $325/month

No Musikgarten incorporated into school day

www.learningmattersctr.com

No

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Books

A Fresh Take on Familiar Fairytales We asked our friends at Powell’s for some recommendations on how we can spice up our collection of fairytales. Some of these are classics with a modern twist; others present the stories with interesting illustrations.

The Princess and the Pea

By Lauren Child and Polly Borland (Photographer) Lauren Child (creator of the Charlie and Lola series) puts a sassy modern spin on “The Princess and the Pea.” A young prince struggles to find a bride, but luckily for him, a wayward princess shows up on his doorstep one rainy night. And though she’s almost too well-mannered to admit how uncomfortable her bed is (what with that pea underneath it), all ends happily ever after. This delightful story is made even more charming by its photographed illustrations -- Child and Borland painstakingly created and photographed a miniature three-dimensional world made out of cereal boxes, dollhouse furniture, and hand-crafted paper dolls.

The Fairy Tales

By Jan Pienkowski

Jan Pienkowski’s The Fairy Tales is a faithful retelling of four classics: “Sleeping Beauty,” “Snow White,” “Hansel and Gretel,” and “Cinderella.” Full of dark magic and gothic atmosphere -- just like the Brothers Grimm intended -- these stories are perfect for kids who like the thrill of a good scare. Plus, The Fairy Tales is gorgeously illustrated, with black wood-cut-style silhouettes against glowing marbleized papers.

Usborne Illustrated Fairy Tales

By Sarah Courtauld and Rosie Dickins (Editors) Usborne Illustrated Fairy Tales contains 10 classic tales from around the world. With plenty of whimsy, gentle 14

humor, and soft watercolor illustrations, these lighthearted renditions are a perfect bedtime read-aloud. Plus, you can’t beat the variety -- this collection mixes old favorites like “Sleeping Beauty” and “Cinderella” with less ubiquitous tales like “Th e Dragon Painter” and “Th e Elves and the Shoemaker.”

Rapunzel’s Revenge

By Shannon and Dean Hale and Nathan Hale (Illustrator) The wild west meets the fairytale realm in Rapunzel’s Revenge, Shannon and Dean Hale’s fresh retelling of Rapunzel’s tale. The young girl is locked in a tower by an evil enchantress, but in this graphic novel, feisty Rapunzel doesn’t wait around to be saved by any prince; she takes matters into her own hands, learning to wield her long braided hair like a lasso and fi ght off outlaws. Illustrator Nathan Hale’s comic-book style lends a fun and updated look to this spunky heroine’s story.

The Stinky Cheese Man and other Fairly Stupid Tales

By Jon Scieszka and Lane Smith (Illustrator) In this hilarious collection, Jon Scieszka and illustrator Lane Smith take classic fairytales like “Little Red Riding Hood” and “The Gingerbread Man” and twist them into delightfully absurd stories like “Little Red Running Shorts” and “Th e Stinky Cheese Man.” These “fairly stupid tales” are a great readaloud -- if you can stop laughing long enough to get through the whole book.

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Trinity Lutheran School

Miminko Apparel Miminko Apparel’s mission is to provide unique, creativelydesigned baby clothing made by local designers. The Miminko line is 100% certified organic cotton in bright colors and with cute designs.

The site also sells handmade limited-edition baby clothes, toys, art, room decorations and accessories from local NW designers (most of whom are moms too.) Check it out! www.miminkoapparel.com

Laurie Berkner’s latest CD, Rocketship Run Kids today.

The great clothing, the neat-o toys. The killer music. They really have it all, don’t they? At least we parents get to share the music - long gone are the days of Barney and Raffi as the only options!

Laurie Berkner is hailed by many as the godmother of the movement, releasing her first “regular” music for kids CD in 1997. It has been five years since her last CD, so for many of us, this is our first taste of Laurie’s greatness. From the first countdown (“5..4..3..2...”) on “Rocketship Run,” you and your kids will be hooked. It’s fun and it’s lovely. Available on itunes, direct from the songstress’s site or wherever CDs are sold. www.laurieberkner.com Call 503.282.2711 for advertising information

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Money

Facing Financial Changes in the New Year

By Chelsea Harper Last fall, news headlines screamed panic about the U.S. and global economy: “Consumer Confidence Plunges to Lowest on Record.” “Central Banks Slashing Rates as Investors Flee.” “Economic Road Crash Spreads to the Developing World.”

Slash. Plunge. Crash. Flee. It sounds like a murder mystery novel. In the face of alarming statistics and a sense of financial doom, how do we face a new year with a sense of renewal and optimism? How can we avoid burying our heads in the sand?

Many of us are facing some kind of change in 2009 because of the economic recession, whether it is dealing with investment losses, eating out less, or cutting back on paid child care. Use the 4-step “Life Support” model to manage change and restore balance.

The first step is to Get Grounded. Before you address the logistics of any change, you need to connect to what keeps you centered. Go back a few years (or more!) and remember what helped you to calm down and relax before your life took on the pace you keep today. Try to integrate even one of these activities into your life right now. A bubble bath before bed? Coffee with a friend? Keep it small and inexpensive. Now is not the time to take on ambitious new projects that will drain your time and energy.

Next, Get Support. Determine which resources you need for the practical aspects of this transition. You are losing investments – do you need to meet with a financial planner? You have to cut back

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on your nanny hours – can you do a swap with a friend? On a personal level, make a point to connect with friends, colleagues, and family members who can offer kind words and a smile.

Get It Together. After you’ve reconnected with yourself and your support system, plan. What literally needs to happen to cope with the economic changes you are facing? Figure out the next step for each of the plans you have made. Brainstorm some solutions now in case a roadblock goes up.

You’re committed to eating out less but have nothing planned for dinner on Tuesday? Have some backup meals in the freezer just in case?

And then, Get On With Your Life! Take action on your next steps. Use your resources and your supports. Don’t forget to ground yourself… and even if the big picture is still gloomy, recognize any progress (even just one little bit) you have made in coping with these changes. By focusing on actions instead of being overwhelmed you can face the new year feeling more balanced and hopeful.

As my financial planner recently reminded me as we were reviewing my family’s finances, “The best way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time.”

Chelsea Harper, MA, provides counseling and consulting services to support people facing change and transition, as the founder of Moving to Balance. www. movingtobalance.com

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The SHEbang keeps you on task

How are you doing on your New Year’s resolution? You know, the one to get it all together, to get organized, to stop living in a mess?

If you’re having problems getting it together, you should check out the SHEbang. This is a handy-dandy membership-based program that helps you get it - and keep it - together.

How does this work? Members receive weekly newsletters with information about monthly projects and weekly to-do lists. sheVIP members will have full access to the shebang website, where you will find all the templates, documents and discounts on products to tackle your project. Th e VIP site has a place where you can ask questions, rant, rave and get inspired.

Each month will focus on a different area of your life beginning with SHEbang 101 (the project where you put together your routines and schedules) then you will rotate through Self | Home | Endeavor projects.

What are the monthly projects? S-H-E = Self - Home - Endeavors. S is all about you, from your personal style to your schedule. You’ll make time for yourself to be queen of your castle, master of your domain!

Self projects month may include but are certainly not limited to the master bedroom, meal planning, handbag systems, and organizing your clothes closet.

H is where you will tackle your biggest organizing projects. You’ll learn how to get creative and clever to tackle the spots that give us the most grief: the mail

center, the in-and-out of the door areas, closets, and of course, all things KIDS! Endeavors range from tackling that baby book to getting your tax documents in order, with a few volunteer projects tossed in for good measure. Take on those projects that you just never get to—updating your files, sorting all that paper, all those computer files, storing small keepsakes from your children’s school. Basically, conquer all that stuff that drives you nuts.—JD Sample SHEbang Project: SHEbang 101: ROUTINES morning |evening | weekly. approx. 1 hour needed Life sometimes isn’t as overwhelming as we make it out to be.... When those little things seem overwhelming it’s time to get back on your routine... get your groove back.

Your first SHEbang assignment is to create morning, evening, and weekly routines.

These are those piddly little tasks that we do every day or should do every day. If done at the correct time, these little buggers become well, less buggable. For example: my evening routine includes prepping the dishwasher and reviewing my planner (so that I don’t lie in bed wondering about it!) Not rocket science, yet.... those little tasks written down, in order, somehow magically take the overwhelm out of it.

Before we dive in.... you need to view the sample doc so you know what the heck I’m talking about! (download this from the nwkids site at www.nwkids. com/shebang101/routinetemplate). Now you can get to work!

Tip: Close your eyes and mentally walk through your day. As you think of each task you can either write each task on a post-it note, handwrite them on your worksheet, or type it.

1. Brainstorm all the things you can do in the evening that will make your morning easier.

2. Brainstorm all the things you can do in the morning to make you day smoother.

3. Brainstorm all the things you can do weekly to make your life a bit less hectic.

4. Place items in order of importance.

When you feel pretty good about it...walk away, test out your routines for a couple of days. As you notice missing tasks; add here and there to perfect it.

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Parenting

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Planning Documents Every Parent

Needs to Protect Their Children

By Candice Aiston Estate planning is usually on a parent’s mental “to-do” list, and now is the time of year when parents vow to get all of their ducks in a row. If this is the year that you will be planning for the care and protection of your family, should the unthinkable happen to you, do not make the mistake of thinking that you simply need a will. Although parents need comprehensive plans that protect their kids, protect their assets, and plan for a prosperous future, most parents have one main concern: making sure that their kids are going to be safe. To address this main concern, there are three documents that every parent absolutely needs.

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A Will That Names Guardians and Trustees Every parent should have a will that names guardians for their children, sets up a “testamentary” trust so that they can make sure the child’s inheritance is spent properly, and names a trustee to handle the assets. If you do not have a will, the court will appoint a guardian for you, and your child will get a check for his inheritance on his eighteenth birthday.

Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA) A Durable Power of Attorney allows you to name someone who can handle your financial matters, should you become incapacitated. This is helpful for spouses, since sometimes partners cannot access one another’s accounts without permission. It is also helpful if your child’s guardian needs access to finances to support your child. It saves time and money because court proceedings are not necessary.

Power of Attorney for a Minor The most common mistake that parents make in estate planning is failing to provide for their child’s immediate care. A Power of Attorney for a Minor allows you to give legal authority to someone who can immediately take custody of your child if something happens to you. A police officer coming to take your kids into foster custody is not going to look at your will and try to interpret it, but he will honor a Power of Attorney that your chosen short-term guardian holds. These documents are only effective for 180 days, so using them in estate planning does require some maintenance, but the right attorney will send you a new one to execute each time you need one.

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These are not the only documents a parent needs. Parents should not rely on documents to keep their kids safe. They should have a comprehensive plan. The Plan should include a written document with instructions to short- and longterm guardians, letters to everyone involved so that everyone is on the same page, and emergency wallet cards so that officials know you have kids and who should be called to come and get them. There should also be discussion. You want to find out if there will be any problems or objections before it is too late to address them.

When you meet with your attorney, remember that parents need more than a will. Make sure that your attorney offers a comprehensive plan that really works.

Candice is Mom to two amazing girls, and she is an estate planning attorney for families in Portland. If you would like to attend her free seminar, Getting Your Ducks in a RowTM, call (503) 235-5150 or visit www.candiceaistonlaw. com and see “Events.”

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Birthday Bowling Parties at Sunset Lanes Offer Fun at Great Value The Deal Bowling is one of those activities that you probably don’t think you like but once you do it, you actually have tons of fun. Bowling birthday parties offer everyone easy entertainment and activity for all skill levels, and are great for kids of all ages. Sunset Lanes underwent a renovation last summer and is now an even better spot for your celebration. Each party lasts 90 minutes, about enough time for everyone to bowl two games plus eat cake. The most popular package, “the no. 1” is offered daily at noon, 2pm, and 4 pm. On Saturdays, the 2 and 4 parties are “cosmic,” with laser lights, a DJ, and videos playing on the alley’s new huge LCD video screens. Kids can eat cake and (optional food and pizza) in the lane so there is no interruption to the games.

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Parental Fun Factor The parental fun factor at Sunset Lanes is high.

Most parents of the guests opt to hang around the lanes, watching the action, sipping soda and noshing appetizers. They may even throw a few strikes in an adjacent lane (watching is free). No separate party room means parents are part of the party at all times and welcome to assist the smaller bowlers with their throws.

The Fine Print The No. 1 party package is $12.95 per person (10 kids = $130 roughly). There is no minimum number required. Each lane holds five kids – something to consider when planning your guest list.

Cosmic bowling on Saturday is an additional $2 per person. These are wildly popular so book in advance to reserve your preferred day and time.

Cake and ice cream may be brought in but that’s it. All other food must be purchased on premises.

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By Dawn Sorem

Winter break may be over, but winter has just gotten started.

Even if it isn’t snowing outside you can still enjoy snow inside with your very own crystallized snowfl akes! Th is project is fun to do with an adult over a cold winter weekend.

Materials

• Boiled water • Cup or mug that can hold hot water • Salt (Table salt works) • Black Cardstock (construction paper doesn’t work) • Paintbrush (non-expensive)

Steps (Adult supervision is required for this project.)

• Boil water.

• Pour boiled water into cup.

• Add a teaspoon of salt at a time until it forms crystals at bottom of cup that do not dissolve after stirring.

• Dip paintbrush into salt water and

paint snowfl akes onto black paper.

• Make sure you stir salt water each time you dip paintbrush into mixture, so that the crystals do not settle to the bottom of the cup.

• When you fi nish let snowfl akes dry fl at over night.

• Th en hang up and enjoy the snow!

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Outings Timberline Lodge

By Vince Schreck This could easily turn into another generic article on the iconic Timberline Lodge, a mythical getaway perched up on the flanks of Mt. Hood. Even folks disinterested in the history or craftsmanship of the lodge are genuinely moved as they enter the lobby. However mythical it might seem, this is not an “exclusive” resort. A visit to the lodge provides plenty of things to do for free, or at reasonable cost for the whole family.

In addition to the stunning views of Mt. Hood, there is much to enjoy while visiting Timberline Lodge, both inside and out. This is one of those destinations that will satisfy practically everyone in the whole family. Just keep in mind that Timberline isn’t a Disney-style resort.

This is a place to take the family to relax!

Inside the lodge, take a tour of the “Ski Museum,” which has some delightful artifacts from the early pioneers of skiing. All kids will have fun exploring the lodge, hanging out with some Uno or board games by the fireplaces and playing with the many amusements available in the “Barlow Room,” right off the main lobby. The front desk has ping pong gear… also, ask them for a little salt/sand for the killer shuffleboard table!

Outdoors, of course, there is snowshoeing right from the lobby, tons of hiking, and of course, skiing. Kids aged 6 and under ski for free at Timberline! If you’re planning on teaching your young kids to ski, get a ticket just for the “Bruno” ski lift, which is the bunny hill ($23). For an infinite number of runs, this is very reasonable, and it will provide a low-stress environment to teach and learn. If you’re not into skiing but still want to experience the mountain, buy a ticket for the “magic mile” chair lift – a ride all the way UP on the mountain that provides spectacular views.

Hungry? Settle in for a casual snack, lunch or dinner at the Ram’s Head Bar (my personal favorite - I love sitting on the couches and admiring the view.) If you want pizza and beer, head to the Blue Ox Bar right off the main lobby. Expect good food at prices that are about 25% - 50% higher than what you might pay in Portland. For more ro26

bust budgets, the Cascade Dining Room is fine dining at its best and it has a great breakfast buffet (adults $12.95, ages 4-12 $7.95, and kids ages 3 and under are free!).

If you’d like to spend the night, there are some reasonable options. Some of the lower-end-rooms (chalets, starting at $105 - $115) do not have TVs or phones, and certainly not video games. But they do have bunk beds and can sleep up to 10 people. Caution: the rooms have hardwood floors, so make sure you bring your pack and play for your little babies. Also the noise from the hallways is significant.

The lodge is about 60 miles from downtown Portland, but you’ll want to give yourself 90 minutes to get up there. With the spectacular snow-covered views comes rough driving conditions, especially on Timberline Highway (the access road off highway 26), which can be steep enough to cause cars to turn around on their way up.

Putting on tire chains is absolutely necessary if the warning signs are litup. You can always wait until summer, which is another perfect time to visit Timberline Lodge. Regardless of what time of the year or no matter what you’re doing, Timberline Lodge is an incredible community resource for your family.

Timberline Lodge 27500 E Timberline Rd, Government Camp, OR 503.282.1118; www.timberlinelodge.com

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Get Your Kids Out on The Slopes Thinking about getting the little ones out skiing for their first time can throw any parent into a tizzy. What do they really need? Rent or Buy? Where do I need to splurge and where can I go bargain?

We asked a few local parent experts and got the skinny: Clothing is important. Kids have to be comfortable. It’s definitely worth the money and a priority to buy good clothing because if they aren’t warm and dry, they will be miserable!

• Choose waterproof mittens over gloves and make sure they have a good cuff. (Look for Dakine brand - they’re the best.)

• The outside layer should be an insulated waterproof, wind-resistant material.

Many parents prefer bibs/pants and a coat as opposed to a one-piece outfit; it’s easier in the bathroom and kids can strip down if they get hot.

• One pair of good quality wool or synthetic material socks to keep feet warm is all you need.

• Resale and consignment shops are always full of snow wear, but be careful about the quality. Ski shops are the best place to start to familiarize yourself with brands and fabrics.

• Goggles and sunscreen are must-haves.

Helmets are recommended. Even though the risk of injury is rather minimal, the head is very vulnerable in collisions.

Gear is less of a priority.

• Renting skis and boots is generally affordable in combination with a lesson and ensures your kids have the newest equipment.

• You might find some good quality equipment bargains on craigslist.

• Beginners do not need poles.

Where to begin?

Timberline Lodge (see left) has good rates if you want to ski with your kids or teach them yourself.

Also consider Cooper Spur (see below); this is a great option for families who aren’t as concerned about the terrain.

COOPER SPUR MOUNTAIN RESORT Ski rates- Day: $25 (adult); $20 (Kids under 14); check online for night rates and season passes Tubing: a fun alternative, $10 per person 10755 Cooper Spur Rd, Mt. Hood Parkdale, OR 23 miles south of Hood River, 2.5 miles west of Highway 35 on Cooper Spur Road.

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January CALENDAR Performances Jan 12 ANANSI THE SPIDER The FREE noontime showcases put on by the Tears of Joy Theatre will take place at noon in the Antoinette Hatfield Hall Rotunda Lobby at 1111 SW Broadway. Kids will love the tale of mischievous but loveable spider who embarks on an exciting adventure to triumph over foes. www.pcpa.com Jan 19,23 & 27 THE MYSTERY OF THE MISSING MAGIC HAT Penny’s Puppets have put together yet another fun puppet performance that will be showing at three locations in January. Ticket prices are $5 each or $17 for four people.

Kids under 1 year old are free. Show times are at 10am and 11am and locations vary so check online at www.pennypuppets.com Jan 23 – Feb 15 ALICE IN WONDERLAND Both Kiddos and their parents will love to get lost with Alice in her world of wonder during the Northwest Children’s Theater’s performance of Alice in Wonderland. Show dates and times vary so check online. Adult tickets are $20 and youths are $16. 503-222-4480 or www.nwcts.org Jan 24-Feb 15 CLICK CLACK MOO: COWS THAT TYPE Coined as a “Broadway-style Barnyard Blockbuster”, Click Clack Moo, Oregon Children’s Theatre’s most recent production is sure to be lots of funny and fun farmyard comedy fit for the whole family. Newmark Theatre, 1111 SW Broadway. Prices range from $17-29 and times and dates vary. 503-228-9571 or www.octc.org Jan 30 PLAYHOUSE DISNEY LIVE The Mickey Mouse Clubhouse is coming to the Rose Garden for two performances with all your kids’ favorite characters like Little Einstein, Winnie the Pooh, Tiger and Handy Manny.

There will be lots of singing and tons of fun on January 30th at both 3:30pm and 6:30pm. Ticket prices range from $22-55. Rose Garden Arena, One Center Court, Portland. www.rosequarter.com Events Jan 3 & 4 PAWS TO FREEDOM Paws to Freedom will help to wrap up the World Forestry Center’s Woof to Wolf: the Story of Dogs series this month. The

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Paws to Freedom event from 11am-4pm will have lots of information and demonstrations about service dogs and the outstanding things they accomplish. World Forestry Center, 4033 SW Canyon Rd. 503-228-1367 or www.worldforestrycenter.org Jan 14-18 OLD TIME MUSIC GATHERING There will be lots of good times to be had at the 10th Annual Portland Old Time Music Gathering including a family dance and a kids’ concert. There are lots of events, most of which are free. Locations and times vary so be sure to check their schedule online. www.bubbaguitar.com/festival.

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thursday Ladybug Theater Library Storytimes Indoor Play Park Ladybug Theater Storytime at A Children’s Place

Fridays Story & Stroll at Tryon Creek Ladybug Nature Walks Library Storytimes Indoor Play Parks Friday evening fun, often with visits from popular characters, at Pump It Up Jr.

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Beaverton location: 14767 SW Teal Blvd. Beaverton, (503) 579-0859. Lake Oswego location: 17890 SW McEwan Road, Lake Oswego, (503) 595-9702 or www.TheLittleGym.com jan 16-20 WALKING WITH THE Dinosaurs What kid (of adult for that matter) isn’t fascinated by dinosaurs and wouldn’t love to watch them practically come to life right before their eyes. State-of-the-art technology will bring 15 life-size dinosaurs to life on the arena floor. Prices range from $32-70 and show times vary so be sure to check online. www.rosequarter.com Jan 24 SITTER SOIREE We all know that finding a good sitter can be tough. That’s why Sitter Soiree has combed the Portland area in order to find the best of the best when it comes to babysitters. The party fee is $45 and goes from 78:30pm. In addition to having a good time, you’ll get the allimportant “Sitter Book” with bios, rates, photos, references and contact info. 6-7:30pm at Barre 3, 1000 NW Marshall, Portland. www.sittersoiree.org Jan 31 SUPER BALL Way more fun for little ones than the Super Bowl is the Super Ball! Kidlets can dress up as their favorite superhero and dance at the supernatural disco dance party. There will be galaxy games and lots of fun stories and other activities. The Portland Children’s Museum, 4015 SW Canyon Rd. 503-223-6500 or www.portlandcm.org Jan 31 2ND ANNUAL CHILI FEED Join the Friends of Tryon Creek State Park for their 2nd Annual Chili Feed where volunteer chefs will be donating pots of chili in order to compete for the title of ‘Chili Master.’ The event will have live music, fun door

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Please check online for details and times on all these and other events in Portland. www.nwkids.com/calendar has listings and links to the many organizations entertaining and enriching children in Portland.

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prizes and will go from 5-7:30pm and the prices are $12 for members, $15 for non-members and $8 for children under 12 years old. Pre-registration is required. 503-6364398 or www.tryonfriends.org Jan 31-Feb 1 CHOCOLATEFEST This indulgent and delicious Chocolate event from 10am-5pm at the World Forestry Center. There will be Choco-Talks, demonstrations and lots and lots of yummy samples. Members are free and non-member prices are the following: adults are $8, seniors are $7 and children are $5. 503-228-1367 or www.worldforestrycenter.org Jan 17 LITTLE KIDS’ JAMBOREE A fun, music-filled, interactive event for both kids and their parent’s, grandparent’s or any of the like, Lorna Miller’s Little Kids’ Jamboree is simply a great time. This month she will be hosting an even at the Airplay café, 701 E Burnside. The cost is $5 for each walking guest or $10 for a family. 503-808-7908 or www.airplaycafe.com

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Mama Says What I Learned at Co-Op

By Emily James If your child is nearing preschool age, you have inevitably been told many times what preschool is appropriate for your child. The number of options can be overwhelming. My decision was made for me back in 1968, when my oldest sister headed to co-op preschool. I followed in 1974, and despite lots of hand-wringing and anxiety about whether or not he would get in, my oldest son started at the same co-op in 2005.

A co-op preschool is operated by a community of parents. One advantage of a co-op is that you have the chance to meet like-minded families who live nearby. You also have a say in your child’s educational experience. Parents hire the teachers, pay the bills, and help in the classroom. Everything you do for the preschool is greatly appreciated, no matter how small it seems. (For the record, I DO clean the bathrooms on my parent help days and those of you who don’t, I consider that a dereliction of duty.

And I know who you are.)

An important hurdle for the parent-helper is snack. Our parent handbook has a list of acceptable healthy snacks. However, what actually shows up at school for snack is another thing altogether. I’ve slaved away on homemade banana bread, yet my single most successful snack was Cheez-Its and Go-Gurts that I had snagged at the last minute. Not a crumb was left from the Cheez-its. Happy Go-Gurt eaters dumped their empty tubes in the garbage and gave me a big thank you. As I beamed proudly, I thought to myself, “I am never making anything again.”

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these are not my children and my usual shrieks of “KNOCK IT OFF” aren’t really appropriate in a school setting) and convincing recalcitrant hand-washers that Speed Racer really does wash his hands after using the restroom.

And what have my children learned at co-op?

They’ve learned to share. They’ve learned that when the bell rings, it’s time to clean up. They’ve learned to politely decline the snack if they don’t like it and toss their garbage when they’re done.

They’ve adapted to a routine. They’ve learned that even if they have a bad day, the next one can and will be better. Every situation is a chance to educate. I am continually amazed at the patience shown by our teachers each day in preparing our children for kindergarten.

As a parent, it’s hard to carve out the time to help at school or with a project when I have other children at home or at other schools all demanding my attention. But the benefits of a co-op far outweigh the occasional demands on our time.

It has afforded us the opportunity to be an active presence in our child’s first educational experience; the chance to set the tone for the years of school that lie ahead.

Emily James graduated from the University of Arizona with a degree in Creative Writing in 1993. A Portland native, she now lives in SW Portland with her husband and three sons.

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