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October 2021 36 An Allergy-Friendly Halloween

Tricks and treats for keeping kids safe while celebrating the candy-filled holiday.

42 Choose the Best After-School Activity

Take this fun quiz to see which type of program best suits your child!

44 Why Attend an Open House?

10 reasons you should attend these events if your child is applying to a new school for 2022-2023

18 Tips for a Successful IEP Meeting

One mom shares what she does to help meetings run as smooth as possible

20 Celebrating Halloween with a Child with Special Needs Helpful tips to make this holiday special for all kids

24 Special Needs Directory

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6 Editor’s Note 9 News: What’s happening in the community 12 Baby: Car Seat 101 13 Advice: Ask Dad and Buried 46 Just for Moms: It’s Fall, Y’all!

THINGS TO DO 28 Family Activities Calendar 38 Pick Your Own Pumpkins 40 Pumpkin Carving 101

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Falling for Fall

he back-to-school season may be behind us, but you guys really brightened it up with photos of your kids’ smiling faces on the first day of school! We received hundreds of photo submissions and thousands of votes in our First Day Photo Contest last month! Thank you so much to all who participated and congratulations to our well-deserving winners. (Find us on Facebook or Instagram to see who won: @NYMetroParents!) If your family is anything like mine, you’re definitely anxious to start celebrating the spookiest season of all. My kids get so excited for Halloween, they usually have their costumes picked out before the summer is over! Every October we spend a day on the farm, munching apple cider doughnuts, winding through massive corn mazes, and climbing on bales of hay before taking home the heaviest pumpkins in the whole patch to carve into jack-o’-lanterns the next day. It’s a popular family tradition for a good reason! Go to p. 38 for the best pumpkin picking farms in our area, then check out p. 40 for some useful carving tips. Though, I should probably mention that these days, my son isn’t as excited about dressing up for Halloween as he used to be. Can’t blame him, he’s a teenager now. In fact, he’s about to start applying to high schools! Oh, where has the time gone??? If you, too, are in major denial about your child’s upcoming high school entrance, you might need a little help with the process. The best place to start is by attending an open house, of which there are plenty in our area. Flip to p. 44 for more on that. I have to say, our October issue is always my favorite. It’s jam-packed with fall-themed activities and events, but it’s also informational too! Flip through the pages for tips on choosing the right after-school activity, celebrating Halloween with kids who have allergies, and more. Go to p. 15 to peruse our Special Parent section, a resourceful and comprehensive guide on raising a child with special needs on Long Island. And be sure to check out our new “Just for Moms” section on p. 46, where you’ll find awesome products and reviews for moms like us! And if you want to get all the details on upcoming Halloween events and more, make sure to sign up for the Scoop, our family activities newsletter, at nymetroparents.com/register! Happy October!

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See the Holidays in a New Light

One of New York’s most popular events comes to Long Island for the first time ever! The NYC Winter Lantern Festival returns to the New York City area with two new locations: The Nassau County Museum of Art in Roslyn and The Queens County Farm Museum in Queens. The festival, which is known for its breathtaking light displays, initially launched on Staten Island in 2018 and was followed by another successful run in 2019. It was cancelled last year due to the pandemic. With the return of the NYC Winter Lantern Festival, the holiday season is shaping up to be a merry and bright one! Each location will have its own theme and lanterns. Experience A Bug’s Night in Nassau by going on a drive-through adventure to explore the world from a bug’s point of view. Meanwhile, in Queens, see Illuminate the Farm, and meander through a colorful field of farm animals, flowers, and more. In Roslyn, the festival will be held Oct. 22-Jan. 9, 2022, Wednesday-Sunday, 5-10pm. Tickets start at $34.99. The lantern festival at Queens County Farm will be held Nov. 25-Jan. 9, 2022, Thursday-Sunday, 4:30-9:30pm. Tickets start at $24.99 for adults and $16.99 for children ages 3-12. At the peak of the holiday season, all three locations (including Staten Island) will be open nightly, Dec. 24-Jan. 2, 2022. Tickets are on sale now. In celebration of the festival’s return, a special 20-percent discount is available through Oct. 15. Visit nycwinterlanternfestival.com for more information.

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Cheesy Fun Slice up some deliciousness and enjoy National Pizza Month throughout October! We know what you’re thinking: Every month should be pizza month, and we couldn’t agree more! Celebrate this delicious dish by ordering from your favorite local pizza joint, or better yet, make some pizza-inspired dishes at home! Visit nymetroparents.com/pizza-day to get some more inspiration on recognizing, eating, and enjoying all things pizza!

Keeping Families Safe Oct. 3-9 recognizes Fire Prevention Week, serving as an important reminder to check your home’s smoke and carbon monoxide (CO) detectors. Working smoke alarms reduce the risk of dying in a home fire by 55 percent, according to the National Fire Protection Association. TIP: Test your smoke alarms at least once a month. Visit nfpa.org to learn more about keeping your family safe.

Spooky Season Dress Up Halloween is fast approaching, begging the question: What will your kids be this year? From the classic witch to superheroes and so many in between, it’s almost impossible for a kid to choose! Some of the hottest kids’ costumes for 2021 include PAW Patrol pups and Avengers (visit nymetroparents.com/costumes to see others). Whatever your kids decide to be, they’re sure to look spooktacularly adorable! 10

ctober is Bullying Prevention Month, but no matter what time of year, it’s important to recognize the signs of a bullied child. Parents and other trusted adults have an important role to play when it comes to preventing and stopping this unwanted behavior. Here is some advice from child psychologists and other experts on tackling bullying to help ensure your child’s safety and happiness.

Communication is key. When it comes to bullying, one of the best things parents can do is be an active and reflective listener to their teen, says Gregory Fabiano, professor of psychology and director of the Center for Children and Families in Western NY. Adults should listen and provide advice to their teen after asking if it is okay to give some suggestions. This approach will allow the teen more room to talk about something that might be very personal and complicated. Cyberbullying. When it comes to apps, cyberbullying exists, unfortunately. So, what can parents do? Ask around and see what parents, teachers, and other kids say about the apps to get a sense if it’s stirring up trouble, reports Common Sense Media, an organization that works to ensure digital well-being for kids. It’s also helpful to make sure your child knows how to report and block other users. What if your child is the bully? If a parent discovers their child is bullying someone else, they should calmly and clearly define the bullying behavior and what is inappropriate about it, Fabiano says. The parent should also calmly and clearly tell the child that the behavior is not allowed. Most importantly, the parent should help the child or teen with enacting a plan to make amends, whether through a written or verbal apology, to the individual bullied or making restitution in some other positive way. For more information on preventing bullying—specifically cyberbullying—visit nymetroparents.com/cyberbully.

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Great Neck Teen’s Love of Sports Helps Kids in Need

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Creatures of the Night Long Island Aquarium 431 E. Main St., Riverhead longislandaquarium.com 631-208-9200 Hours: Monday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm Admission: $39.99; $27.99 ages 3-12 Halloween season is a great time to visit this exhibit dedicated to nocturnal animals who thrive in darkness! Jared Ohebshalom, 17, is using his love of sports to bring big smiles to kids in need around the world. A senior at Great Neck North High School, Jared launched a sportsthemed fundraiser in April for Operation Smile, a nonprofit organization that provides free reconstructive cleft surgery to areas of the world where it’s needed most. Dubbed The Smile Shot Challenge, the virtual fundraiser challenges participants to post a video of their “best shot” from any sport to social media. After someone posts their best shot, they nominate three others to do the same. As a three-sport varsity athlete, Jared wanted to create a fundraiser that connected his passion for sports with his passion to help kids smile. Also inspired by the ice bucket challenge in 2014 to raise awareness about ALS, Jared wanted his Smile Shot video challenge to make an even closer connection between the physical challenge and the charity. “Whenever you play sports, if you get a cool shot, you smile,” Jared says. “Operation Smile helps people around the world who are born with cleft conditions to express the same reaction.” Over the summer, Jared brought his community together for a basketball game in Great Neck. The challenge was like the game of “HORSE” but instead of getting a letter if a shot was missed, for Jared’s event, a player got a letter when they made a shot, and their opponent missed a shot. The goal was to win by spelling out the word “SMILE.” Between the ongoing virtual fundraiser and the 1-day event, Jared has raised almost $4,000 through his GoFundMe page, which will help 14 children receive reconstructive cleft surgery through Operation Smile. Jared hopes others join the Smile Shot Challenge, even beyond Great Neck, to help support Operation Smile. “It’s something that is so simple that could really go far,” Jared says. “Taking a 10-second video can change a kid’s life.” For more information about Operation Smile, visit operationsmile.org.

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ar seat regulations are hard to keep up with and manage, especially because they are constantly changing and differ state to state. Keep this checklist, compiled with the help of Shane Bland, certified car seat safety technician through Safe Kids Worldwide Westchester, and Greg Durocher, CEO and child passenger safety technician instructor at Safe Ride 4 Kids, on your fridge, in your glove compartment, or wherever you will remember to reference it for properly purchasing, installing, and using a car seat.

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When purchasing a car seat, check for recalls DON’T NEGLECT THE on the National Highway Traffic Everything you need to know OWNER’S MANUAL! Safety Administration website, We live in a world where we about purchasing and properly nhsta.gov. The federal government constantly check the Internet for issues crash test performance criinstalling your infant’s car seat. everything. Resist that urge when it teria, and each manufacturer tests By Melissa Wickes comes to car seats. The first thing its own products in accordance to you should do is thoroughly read this criterion. The manufacturer will the owner’s manual, according to Bland. If you have questhen certify the product on its own website. tions, check the owner’s manual. If they still aren’t answered, check the FAQ section on the manufacturer’s website. CHECK THE CAR SEAT’S SECURITY. After you install a car seat, it should move no more than 1 LOCATION IS EVERYTHING. inch in each direction. This is measured at the seatbelt buckle, The safest spot in the car for a child in a car seat is the middle in other words at the child’s feet when rear facing and at rear spot, according to Durocher, who, before coming a child the child’s bottom when forward facing. This test can be passenger safety technician, was a paramedic. This location performed by shaking the seat ‘with the strength of a firm protects the child the most from an impact on any point of handshake,’ Durocher says. the vehicle because it’s the farthest from the left, right, front, and back of the car. ENSURE YOUR CHILD IS PROPERLY BUCKLED. If you have two car seats, the rule of thumb is to put the In a rear-facing, 5-point harness car seat, the hole where the youngest child closest to the driver so they don’t have trouble strap goes through on the back of the car seat should be at getting the child out of the car. An older child can exit the car or below the child’s shoulders, according to Durocher. In a foron their own on the curbside, according to Bland. ward-facing, 5-point harness car seat, the hole should be at or above the child’s shoulders. The difference is, in a forward car FACE THE TRUNK FOR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE. crash, a forward-facing child will lean into the seatbelt when At Safe Kids Worldwide, the recommendation is to keep your it is higher up rather than having it compress their spine. If the child rear facing for as long as they can fit that way comfortchild is rear-facing, a lower seatbelt prevents the child from ably. This allows the car seat to act as a shell in the case of a sliding up the back of the car seat. forward-facing crash, according to Bland. If a car is hit from When determining how tight a harness should be, perform behind, which is the most frequent kind of crash, the child the pinch test. If you can pinch the webbing, but not enough will be propelled toward the front of the car regardless of that the straps completely touch each other, the straps are which way they are facing. If the child is rear-facing, they will secured properly. Since 2006, expecting moms to moms of toddlers visit Mommybites for advice on all things parenting. The Nanny Boards are NY’s only resource for finding exclusively employer-recommended caregivers. Visit Mommybites.com. 12

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5 Tips for a Successful IEP Meeting One mom shares what she does in Individualized Education Program meetings to help them run smoothly. By Dana Greenberg

hose of us who’ve been through it before are very aware how stressful and unpredictable IEP meetings can be. IEP stands for Individualized Education Program, which is the plan created for every child eligible for special-needs services from their public school specifying how the school will meet their specific educational needs. IEP meetings are the yearly get-together at which parents gather with a team of professionals from the school district to discuss their child’s needs for the upcoming school year and develop our child’s plan for the year. We parents know what our children need better than anyone, but, unfortunately, we are not always heard. Here are some of the things I do at my meeting to help ensure that it is a success.

SHOW A PICTURE OF YOUR CHILD. One of the first things I do is hold up a picture of my son and introduce him. Usually there are people at the meeting who have never met him. I would like them to all see the boy we are talking about, to put a face with his name and his needs.

TAKE GOOD NOTES. Ask the professionals to slow down if you need them to. Let them know you don’t want to miss anything. I usually bring a notebook to write in. Be sure to ask who everyone is and what their titles are. Before you leave, ask for a copy of the minutes (that someone should have been taking). You can compare the minutes to your notes to make sure you’re all on the same page.

NEVER SIGN ANYTHING— EXCEPT THE ATTENDANCE SHEET. This is definitely something to remember. If they ask you to sign something else, tell them you want to review it at home; you are allowed to say this. Before you leave the meeting, ask them to give you a copy of the attendance sheet as well.

DON’T LET THEM RUSH YOU. If these meetings are still new to you, you may hear words and terms that are not completely familiar to you. Feel free to ask them to explain everything. That is their job. Remind them, if necessary, that this is your child who is being discussed, not an abstract idea. If time runs out and you feel like you need more time, you can ask for an additional meeting to continue the discussion.

DISCUSS PLACEMENTS. If you have already visited potential schools, let them know. Give them details as to what you saw and why it would not work for your child. Let them know that you have been proactive about the situation. Ask them to discuss their ideas about possible placements for your child. Remember, nothing is set in stone at this time, but this is something that should be discussed. These are some of the things I always do at my son’s IEP meeting, I hope they may help guide you to a smoother, more successful IEP meeting of your own.

Dana Greenberg is a mom of twins living in Manhattan. Her site, TheAutismClub.com, was created to connect moms who have kids with special needs, like her son Jack—who has autism—and offer them a space to tell their stories. This article was originally published in 2017.

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Helping Your Child Succeed in the Classroom Good parent-teacher communication is crucial for any successful school year but being on the same page becomes even more important when your child has a learning disability. There are a few steps you can take to help ensure your child has the best year possible. Know your rights and speak up. Parents are entitled to receive information about special education from their schools and teachers—reading up and staying informed is the best way to advocate for your kid. When attending Committee for Special Education meetings, annual review meetings, or parent-teacher conferences, if you don’t understand something, ask questions. Communicate with teachers frequently. Kathy Devine and Emily Cole, teachers at Waverly Avenue Elementary School in Holtsville, say parents of students with special needs must be extra communicative with teachers. “We would like to know sooner when things might be happening at home, whether it’s medication changes or maybe something in the home life has changed,” Cole says. When it comes to homework, “reach out to us as soon as possible so that we’re not waiting until the end of a trimester to know [kids are]

struggling,” Devine says. Another tip? Write a letter describing your child and their needs at the beginning of the year (you can still do this now, as it will help your child’s teacher get to know them better). Understand Individualized Education Plan goals. Equally important is understanding your child’s IEP goals—which can differ from their classroom goals. This difference often confuses parents who see their student accomplishing goals on one end of the spectrum and not the other. Involve your child. Cassie Reilly, transition coordinator at Northport High School, suggests involving your kid in IEP and parent-teacher conferences. Being open with kids from the time of diagnosis helps them stand up for themselves and understand their learning disability does not make them inferior to others. Be sensitive to difference. Parents should understand their kids might be different at home than at school, Reilly adds. And, even more importantly, their kids might have an atypical path toward success. Communicating with teachers is key to understanding how your kid can progress. — Jacqueline Neber

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Celebrating Halloween with a Child with Special Needs Helpful tips to celebrate Halloween for parents of children with special needs

espite the BOO!-filled nature of Halloween, your child with an anxiety disorder, sensory issues, or other special needs can find a way to partake in the holiday: Preparation is key! Introduce your child to the holiday with fun songs, books, or movies that have a Halloween theme, suggests Debora Thivierge, founder and CEO of ELIJA School and Foundation on Long Island. And refrain from trying new strategies to help your child cope with the sensations of the holiday, cautions Jana Diamond, M.S. Ed., board-certified behavior analyst. Your child can become overwhelmed with new stimuli and new approaches for coping, so use concepts that have worked for your child in the past.

PREPARE YOUR CHILD» Halloween means scary sights and seeing people dressed up costumes, so it’s a good idea to prepare your child to see: • Spiderwebs, ghouls, shrieking goblins: As decorations begin popping up around town, use social stories that illustrate what children might see, Diamond says. • Superman, monsters, witches: Visit stores that have costumes on display, browse catalogs filled with Halloween characters, and play dress-up at home to help make children comfortable with the notion of seeing people in costume, Diamond says. Explain to your child that costumes are made up of clothing and props, nothing magical or scary. • Masks: These can be especially scary, as they transform even close family members into unrecognizable beings. “Find masks that your child is comfortable with and have her look in the mirror as she puts it in front of her face and yours,” Diamond says. “For some children, a simple game of peeka-boo with a mask can also expose them to the concept.” Participating in an art project that entails making a mask can also help put kids at ease. CHOOSE AN ACCESSIBLE COSTUME» Between sensory overstimulation while trick-or-treating and costumes that just don’t work, Halloween can feel more trick than treat for kids with special needs. However, by shopping one of these accessible costume lines, you can make Halloween a little easier on everyone. These 20

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costumes transform wheelchairs into fantastic props, allow access for feeding tubes and other equipment, and feature tag-free, comfortable materials. • Target’s Adaptive Costume Collection features costumes that are adaptable and accessible for all kids, plus it features wheelchair covers that transform wheelchairs into fire trucks, pirate ships, princess carriages, racecars, and more! • The Magic Wheelchair is a nonprofit that designs and creates Halloween costumes for kids in wheelchairs at no cost to families. Kids and their chairs have been transformed into characters in scenes from Batman, My Little Pony, Harry Potter, and more. • Spirit Halloween offers several accessible Halloween costumes for kids. While they’re more expensive than your typical Halloween garb, they ship for free. • Etsy is a haven for anyone looking to find unique and accessible costumes. Explore the site to find beautiful costumes from sellers, DIY inspiration, costume accessories, and more. • Rolling Buddies’ costumes, which can be found on Amazon, are sheets of durable but light plastic that can be placed over wheelchair wheels. Kids can have trains, planes, pumpkin carriages, police cars, pirate ships, and more as the base of their costumes. Outfits not included. If your child is interested in dressing up for Halloween, have them wear the costume around the house prior to the holiday to grow accustomed to the look and feel of it. If sensory issues prevent this, steer clear of complicated ensembles and stick with a simple T-shirt with a theme, or a Halloween hat or other accessory. Face paint can be a wonderful tactile sensation for sensory seekers, but skip it as well as eye masks, helmets, and other similar accessories for young sensory avoiders.

MAP OUT A TRICK-OR-TREATING PLAN» Is your child daunted by the prospect of going door-to-door asking for candy from strangers? • Role-play with family members to simulate trick-ortreating. “Have a child knock on a door in his house and prompt him on what to say and what appropriate behavior is expected,” Diamond advises.

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• Discuss the language your child may encounter. Especially if she has good verbal abilities, Diamond recommends. After all, we don’t typically say trick-or-treat on any other day. • Create an itinerary beforehand. “Some children respond best to schedules, so parents can map out a schedule of where they will be trick-or-treating and when they will be home,” Diamond says. And keep it short if you’re not sure how your child will respond. • Do a walk-through of the neighborhood ahead of time. Choose the houses you are going to visit and tell your neighbors what to expect and how to approach your child. Make sure there are not any spooky decorations or blinking lights that could upset your child. • Explicitly discuss the difference between Halloween and the rest of the year. Make sure your child understands that at other times, they are not to knock on strangers’ doors.

TRADE IN SUGARY TREATS» Though it centers around candy, you don’t have to let dietary restrictions rule out trick-or-treating. Create a game whereby kids can trade in their sweet Halloween stash for treats they are able to eat or for non-edible prizes your child will love (a LEGO set, books, a movie), Diamond suggests.

LEARN ABOUT BLUE PUMPKIN BUCKETS» Started by a British mom, and supported by the National Autism Association, blue buckets shaped like pumpkins are designed to hold treats, but also indicate that the bucket-holder is on the autism spectrum. It’s a great way for kids with special needs to let others know they may

not communicate in the same ways children without special needs would typically communicate on Halloween.

TAKE NOTES» Notice what upsets your child, which times they enjoyed themselves the most, and how much they itched and squirmed in their costume. The more details you commit to memory (or to a note in your iPhone), the better experience your child will have next Halloween.

CELEBRATE YOUR OWN WAY» If your child doesn’t want to go trick-or-treating, there are other ways to celebrate. • Your child can help pass out candy to trick-or-treaters, Diamond suggests. From this safe remove, they are still participating in the holiday and practicing some social skills along the way. • Host a Halloween party with family and friends at home. Children can help make Halloween cookies or themed foods. • Watch age-appropriate Halloween TV shows or movies. “If you know your children—and how to tailor the experience to their needs—then they can definitely manage it,” Diamond advises. But also consider this: “Halloween is a tradition, but is it a tradition that the parents feel is a priority for their family?” There’s nothing wrong with deciding not to take part in the holiday if it’s not a priority and it causes a lot of anxiety for your child. However, parents should still work on exposing children to Halloween sights and sounds so they’re not shocked when they go out in October.

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Blaze: Long Island WHEN: Through Nov. 7: Wednesday-Sunday and Oct. 11, see website for schedule WHERE: Old Bethpage Restoration Village, 1303 Round Swamp Road, Old Bethpage AGES: All WHAT: Elaborate displays and thousands of pumpkins enchant at this 19th-century village. WANT TO GO? $32-$44; $24-$36 ages 3-17. 914-366-6900. pumpkinblaze.org.

Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the October events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to, including NYC Winter Lantern Festival: A Bug’s Night Drive-Thru Adventure (pictured left). Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month! Long Island Fall Festival WHEN: Oct. 8-11, Friday, 5-10pm; Saturday-Sunday, 11am-9pm; Monday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Heckscher Park, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington AGES: All WHAT: Hundreds of craft vendors, live entertainment, and a carnival will keep everyone more than satisfied throughout the holiday weekend WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for rides and goods. 631-423-6100. lifallfestival.com.

The Dude Perfect 2021 Tour WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 9, 7pm WHERE: NYCB LIVE, Home of The Nassau Veterans Memorial Coliseum, 1255 Hempstead Turnpike, Uniondale AGES: All

WHAT: The Dude Perfect 2021 Tour nationwide tour will give fans an up-close look at their record-breaking sports stunts and hilarious skits. WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 516-231-4848. dudeperfect.com.

45th Annual Riverhead Country Fair WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 10, 10am-5pm WHERE: Downtown Riverhead, Main Street, Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: The fair features rides and games for children, food, competitions, live entertainment, and more. WANT TO GO? Admission is free. 631-440-1350. riverheadcountryfair.com.

Oktoberfest WHEN: Oct. 16-17, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-9pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the end of fall with live music, vendors, pumpkin picking, hayrides, locally brewed beer, and special Oktoberfest Menu. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; $9.95 Fun Fields admission. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Circo Vazquez WHEN: Oct. 15-25, Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday-Sunday, 2pm, 5pm, and 8pm; Monday-Thursday, 7:30pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Mall, 160 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station AGES: All WHAT: The Circus Vazquez performing artists come from different parts of the world. Bringing magic and joy to people of all ages! WANT TO GO? $70; $65 members of the military, seniors, and people with disabilities; $25 children 2-10. 877-829-7839. circovazquez.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 23, 3-6pm WHERE: Belmont Lake State Park, 625 Belmont Road, North Babylon AGES: All WHAT: The Great Jack-O’-Lantern Sail will feature lit carved pumpkins placed on boats pulled around the lake and children’s activities including trick-or-treat stations and a not-so-scary ‘Spooky Den’. WANT TO GO? 631-667-5055. parks.ny.gov.

WHEN: Oct. 8-31, Friday-Sunday, 6:30-9:30pm WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning-Tanglewood Preserve, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: All WHAT: During Spooky Fest you can explore 16 acres of grounds transformed into a family-friendly Halloween event. WANT TO GO? $12-$20. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

35th Annual Rock Hall Country Fair

WHEN: Oct. 22-Jan. 9, 2022, see website for schedule WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: A Bug’s Night will dazzle your friends and family as you roll through more than 20 acres of vivid lanterns and holiday lights! WANT TO GO? $34.99 weekdays; $49.99 weekends; $59.99 Dec. 24-Jan. 2, 2022. nycwinterlanternfestival.com.

WHEN: Oct. 23-24, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Rock Hall Museum, 199 Broadway, Lawrence AGES: All WHAT: Fall fun includes live entertainment, colonial historians, children’s pumpkin patch, animal farm, pony rides, and more. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516239-1157. friendsofrockhall.org.

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Gardening In The Park FREE WHEN: Oct. 2-16, Saturdays, 9am-12pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: All WHAT: Spend the day surrounded by nature and help maintain the gardens. WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com.

The Annual Massapequa Park Village Street Fair WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 2, 10:30am-4:30pm WHERE: Downtown Massapequa Park, Park Boulevard and Front Street, Massapequa Park AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family out for inflatables, towering rock wall, The ‘Pequa Choo-Choo Express, food, vendors, and more. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. lifairs.com.

Fall Festival WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 2, 10am-4pm WHERE: St. John’s Lutheran Church-Merrick, 1 Van Roo Ave., Merrick AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family out for vendors, food, bake sale, raffles, bounce house, children’s activities and more. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516-3793858. facebook.com/events/413991296701320.

Bethpage Street Fair WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 3, 10am-5pm WHERE: Downtown Shopping District, 356 Broadway, Bethpage 30

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Sol Y Sombra FREE WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 9, 11am-12pm WHERE: Patchogue-Medford Library, 54-60 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: All WHAT: Come out to a lively concert of Flamenco, Argentine Tango, and Mexican Mariachi music and dance. WANT TO GO? 631-654-4700. pmlib.org.

AGES: All WHAT: Live music, kiddie bounce houses, and plenty of great food! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. nassaucountyfairs.com.

social distancing and wear facemasks for everyone’s health and safety. WANT TO GO? $15; $10 members; $5 children; free for child members. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserveconservancy.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 3, 9am-12pm WHERE: Sagg Main Beach, 1 Sagg Main St., Sagaponack AGES: All WHAT: Run for a good cause! Medals for all, T-shirts, and a fun Chinese Auction. WANT TO GO? $25. 631-779-2835. runsignup.com.

WHEN: Oct. 9-10, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Montauk Village Green, 37 Carl Fisher Plaza, Montauk AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy pumpkin painting, kid crafts, bouncy rides, delicious treats, the annual chowder contest, and more! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. montaukchamber.com.

Malverne Fall Festival WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 3, 10am-4pm WHERE: Malverne Chamber of Commerce, 280 Hempstead Ave., Malverne Train Station, Malverne AGES: All WHAT: Parade, live music, vendors, rides, games, and, of course, classic cars. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516-6445615. malvernechamberofcommerce.com.

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Mineola Street Fair WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 10, 10am-5pm WHERE: Mineola Chamber of Commerce, Jericho Turnpike, between Mineola Boulevard and Willis Avenue, Mineola AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family out for live entertainment, kiddies bounce houses, celebrity dunk tank, and plenty of great fun food! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516-4226000. nassaucountyfairs.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 9, 10am-5pm WHERE: Seventh Street, between Franklin and Hilton avenues, Garden City AGES: All WHAT: The Garden City Street Fair will feature a homecoming parade, live music, vendors, a trackless train, and more! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. nassaucountyfairs.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 9, 10-11am WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: Explore different aspects of the preserve’s environment, encompassing its unique physical features and wildlife, as well as critical conservation issues and helpful practices to create a healthy, sustainable environment. Participants must maintain

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 16, 10am-5pm WHERE: Kiwanis Club of Levittown, 3041 Hempstead Turnpike, municipal parking field behind Tri-County Flea Market, Levittown AGES: All WHAT: This Craft Fair also features food trucks, inflatables, ChooChoo Ride for the kids, plus live music and demonstrations WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. lifairs.com.

WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 16, 9-11am WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: All WHAT: Spend the morning exploring the collection, grounds, gardens, architecture, and the Reichert Planetarium’s “Open Sky”. WANT TO GO? 631-854-5552. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

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Steel Sensation FREE WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 17, 3pm WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, Jeanne Rimsky Theater, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: All WHAT: See this Traditional Trinidadian steel band perform calypso melodies, Broadway show tunes, and contemporary classical pieces. WANT TO GO? 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Scrimshaw Workshop WHEN: Oct. 16-23, Saturdays, 2pm WHERE: The Whaling Museum and Education Center, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Explore scrimshaw then ketch, carve, and ink a “fauxshaw” keepsake box to take home. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members, plus admission: $6; $5 seniors 62 and older and children 4-18; free for children 3 and younger and those with active military with ID. 631-387-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Downtown Riverhead’s Annual Halloween Fest FREE WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 23, 3-8pm WHERE: Downtown Riverhead, Main Street, Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Have a spooktacular time with a spirited shows at the historic Suffolk Theater, Coffin Races, Trick or Treating, Goblin Parade and more! WANT TO GO? 631-4401350. downtownriverhead. org/halloween-fest.

Merrick Fall Festival WHEN: Oct. 22-24, Friday, 6-11pm; Saturday, 11am-11pm; Sunday, 11am-8pm WHERE: The Merrick Chamber of Commerce, Merrick Railroad Station, Sunrise Highway and Merrick Avenue, Merrick AGES: All WHAT: This annual festival features carnival rides, food, games, vendors, and more! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for rides and goods. 516-771-1171. merrickchamber.org.

The West Hempstead Fall Street Fair FREE WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 24, 10am-5pm WHERE: West Hempstead Kiwanis Club, Nassau Blvd., From Hempstead Ave. to Johnson Lane, West Hempstead AGES: All 32

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WHAT: Kids can play on the inflatable rides, rock wall, train ride, and more. Make sure to check out the food trucks and live entertainment! WANT TO GO? facebook.com/events/799765554055207.

Super Family Sunday: Enchanted Forest WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 24, 11am-12:30pm; 1-2:30pm; 3-4:30pm WHERE: Nassau County Museum of Art, 1 Museum Drive, Roslyn Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Join the museum for a day of wonder and magic, art activities, scavenger hunts and more. WANT TO GO? $20; $10 members. 516-484-9337. nassaumuseum.org.

Fall Festival WHEN: Through Oct. 24: Saturday-Sunday and Columbus Day, 10am-6pm (last admission: 4pm); after Oct. 9, gates open at 9am WHERE: White Post Farms, 250 Old Country Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy unlimited hayrides, hay activity, family shows, and more! WANT TO GO? $32.95. 631-351-9373. whitepostfarms.com.

Grist Mill Tours & Country Store WHEN: Through Oct. 24: Sundays, 1-4:30pm WHERE: The Stony Brook Grist Mill (c. 1751), 100 Harbor Road, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Take a tour of Long Island’s most complete working mill and learn about its role in the community over the past 300 years. WANT TO GO? $3; $2 children. 631-751-2244. wmho.org.

The Discovery Pontoon Cruise WHEN: Through Oct. 27: daily, time depends on tide WHERE: Ward Melville Heritage Organization, 51 Shore Road, Stony Brook AGES: All WHAT: Cruise through beautiful West Meadow Creek while a naturalist explains and highlights the wildlife along the 88-acre wetlands preserve! WANT TO GO? $35; $25 children ages 3-6; $5 children ages 2 and younger when purchased in advance. 631-751-2244. wmho.org.

Ghosts, Goblins, and Witches WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 30, 8pm WHERE: Ballet Long Island, 1863 Pond Road, Ronkonkoma AGES: All WHAT: Get in the Halloween spirit with spooky Halloween Dances! WANT TO GO? $18; $9 children and senior citizens. 631-7371964. ballet-long-island.square.site.

Arts In The Plaza FREE WHEN: Through Oct. 30: Saturdays, 10am-3pm WHERE: Kennedy Plaza, 1 W. Chester St., Long Beach AGES: All

Fall at Hicks Nurseries WHEN: Through Oct. 31: see website for schedule WHERE: Hicks Nurseries, 100 Jericho Turnpike, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: See the all-new animated story “Otto’s Sweet Journey,” and on weekends take photos with Otto and try delicious fall favorites! WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516334-0066. hicksnurseries.com.

WHAT: Visit Arts in the Plaza for handcrafted art by Long Island artists, live music, and cultural performances. WANT TO GO? 516-507-8383. artsintheplaza.com.

Pumpkin and Craft Brew Weekends WHEN: Oct. 2-31, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-6pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Have fun with unlimited access to mini pumpkin Field, Family Fun Fields, hayrides, pedal karts, hay tower, farm animals, spider web, and more. WANT TO GO? $9.95; free for children younger than 2. 631-7228777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Pumpkin Patch WHEN: Oct. 2-31, Saturday-Sunday and Oct. 11, 11am-5pm WHERE: Borellas Farm Stand, 485 Edgewood Ave., St. James AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy unlimited hayrides, a corn maze, corn kernel excavation, water duck races, witches hat toss, and more. Plus, for an additional fee, ride the cow train and enjoy the corn cob cannon! WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 3. 631-8627330. borellasfarmstand.com.

Fall Festival WHEN: Through Oct. 31: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Fink’s Country Farm, 6242 Middle Country Road, Wading River AGES: All WHAT: Come out for hayrides, corn maze, U-pick pumpkins, kiddy train ride, combine slide, and much more! WANT TO GO? $18; $15 seniors 65 and older, members of the military, law enforcement, fire department; free for children younger than 3. 631-886-2272. finksfarm.com.

Halloween House Long Island WHEN: Oct. 1-Nov. 4, Monday-Wednesday, 3-9pm; Thursday, 3-10pm; Friday, 3pm-1am; Saturday, 11am-1am; Sunday, 11am-9pm

WHERE: Halloween House Long Island Grounds, 1500 Old Country Road, Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Immerse yourself in different Halloween themed rooms, designed to make every Halloween lover’s experience unforgettable. WANT TO GO? $25-$30; $20-$25 ages 10 and younger. 516-5405282. halloweenhouselongisland.com.

Fairview Farm Maize WHEN: Through Nov. 7: Saturday-Sunday and Columbus Day, 10am-6pm WHERE: Fairview Farm, 69 Horsemill Lane, Bridgehampton (for GPS use Water Mill) AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the beauty of 8 acres of corn 10 feet tall, pick pumpkins, and more. WANT TO GO? $12; $10 ages 11 and younger; free for children 3 and younger. 631-537-6154. fairviewfarmatmecox.com.

Choice for All Presents: Hempstead Youth-Run Farmers’ Market WHEN: Through Nov. 13: Saturdays, 11:30am-4pm WHERE: Village of Hempstead Village Hall Parking Lot, 99 James A. Garner Way, Hempstead AGES: All WHAT: Come out and support this youth run farmers’ market. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 516-4893400. villageofhempstead.org.

Westhampton Beach Farmers’ Market WHEN: Through Nov. 20: Saturdays, 9am-1pm WHERE: The Village Green, Mill Road and Main Street, Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Shop more than 60 vendors, growers, and producers providing locally grown, caught, and homemade items. WANT TO GO? Admission is free; prices vary for goods. 631-2883337. westhamptonchamber.org.

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Younger Kids enjoying a story along the way, and then creating a unique take home craft. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $14; $12 ages 62 and older and full-time students; $8 children 7-17. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Princess Tea Party WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 23, 1pm WHERE: Ballet Long Island, 1863 Pond Road, Ronkonkoma AGES: 3-8 WHAT: See a princess performance, meet them after the show, and have a tea party! WANT TO GO? $20. 631-737-1964. balletlongisland.com.

Play Time, Learn Time FREE Storybook Stroll: ‘Make Way for Ducklings’ by Robert McCloskey WHEN: Monday, Oct. 11, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Bring your little ones for a stroll in the gardens while

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Elementary-Age Kids Sonia de los Santos WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 9, 11am WHERE: Landmark on Main Street, Jeanne Rimsky Theater, 232 Main St., Suite 1, Port Washington AGES: 3-12

WHEN: Sept. 27-Nov. 18, Monday and Thursday, 2-3pm WHERE: Suffolk County Farm, 350 Yaphank Ave., Yaphank AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Bring your little ones to discover an outdoor space that allows for messy play, building, and interactive art exploration, as well as a music and movement area. WANT TO GO? 631-852-4610. ccesuffolk.org.

WHAT: See this Latin Grammy-nominated musician, whose work reflects her experiences growing up in Mexico, moving to another country, learning about other cultures, and, in the process, feeling closer to her own heritage. WANT TO GO? $26. 516-767-6444. landmarkonmainstreet.org.

Kids Creatures of the Night WHEN: Sunday, Oct. 10, 5:30-7pm WHERE: Sweetbriar Nature Center, 62 Eckernkamp Drive, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Meet nighttime animals, hear a story about some nocturnal animals, and take a short walk to see where creatures of the

Halloween Friends & Fun Cookie Decorating Class WHEN: Monday, Oct. 11, 10am WHERE: Celebrations In The Kitchen, 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Participants will detail the most classic shapes of this whimsical holiday with custom colored icing and confectionery blends. WANT TO GO? $69.95. 516-396-2193. celebrationsinthekitchen.com.

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Outdoor Adventure with Ranger Eric WHEN: Saturday, Oct. 30, 10-11:30am WHERE: Sands Point Preserve, 127 Middle Neck Road, Sands Point AGES: All WHAT: Ranger Eric will lead visitors of all ages on monthly exploratory walks across the Preserve’s grounds. Each walk is unique. Register at the Gatehouse and meet at Castle Gould’s Clock Tower. Face masks and social distancing are required. WANT TO GO? $16; $6 per child; $12 members; $2 members per child. 516-571-7901. sandspointpreserveconservancy.org. night make their homes. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children younger than 12. 631-979-6344. sweetbriarnc.org.

Family Workshop: Museum Together FREE WHEN: Monday, Oct. 11, 10am-12pm WHERE: Vanderbilt Museum and Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport AGES: All WHAT: Spend time in the Hall of Fishes learning about marine life and create a work of art together. WANT TO GO? 631-854-5539. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Scavenger Hunt WHEN: Monday, Oct. 11, 10am-5pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Find the clues that will help you discover the secret animal! WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors 65 and older; $5 ages 3-12. 516692-6768. cshfishhatchery.org.

Pumpkin Painting FREE WHEN: Friday, Oct. 15, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Patchogue-Medford Library, 54-60 E. Main St., Patchogue AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Paint your own spooky pumpkin! WANT TO GO? 631-654-4700. pmlib.org.

Halloween Pals Cupcake Baking Class WHEN: Tuesday, Oct. 19, 4pm WHERE: Celebrations In The Kitchen, 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville AGES: 5-17 WHAT: Bake from scratch alongside the pros as they create their own cupcake batter to make 6 cupcakes each. WANT TO GO? $69.95. 516-396-2193. celebrationsinthekitchen.com.

Drop-in Discovery: Pumpkins! WHEN: Thursday, Oct. 28, 2:30-5pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury

AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Children and their families will explore simple science concepts and subjects on the natural world while partaking in fun, kid-friendly projects and crafts. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $14; $12 ages 62 and older and full-time students; $8 children 7-17. 516-252-3392. oldwestburygardens.org.

Rapunzel WHEN: Sept. 25-Oct. 31, Saturday, 11am; Sunday, 10:30am (No performance Oct. 9) WHERE: John W. Engeman Theater, 250 Main St., Northport AGES: All WHAT: See the story of Rapunzel come alive on stage! WANT TO GO? $20. 631-261-2900. engemantheater.com.

Spookley The Square Pumpkin: The Musical WHEN: Sept. 25-Oct. 31, see website for schedule WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts at the Smithtown Historical Society, 239 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Watch as Spookley helps all the pumpkins in the patch learn that the things that make you different make you special. WANT TO GO? $18. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

Wizard of Oz: Theatre for Young Adults WHEN: Oct. 23-31, Saturday-Sunday, 11am WHERE: Madison Theatre at Molloy College, 1000 Hempstead Ave., Rockville Centre AGES: 3-12 WHAT: See this classic live on stage! WANT TO GO? $15. 516-323-4444. madisontheatreny.org.

Egg Taking Demonstration WHEN: Oct. 30-Nov. 28, Saturday-Sundays, 1pm and 3pm (No 3pm demo on Oct. 30) WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Witness the centuries old process of egg taking and fertilization. WANT TO GO? $7; $6 seniors 65 and older; $5 ages 3-12. 516692-6768. cshfishhatchery.org. LongIslandParent 35 LongIsland

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An Allergy-Friendly Halloween

Tricks and treats for keeping kids safe while celebrating the candy-filled holiday By Elizabeth Winchester

or the 1 in 13 U.S. kids with food allergies, Halloween can be the worst day of the year. Running from house to house for treats you can’t eat, and that can even make you really sick, is not exactly fun. It can be nerve-racking for parents, too. Most Halloween candies contain peanuts, tree nuts, milk, egg, soy, or wheat, which are all among the nine most common food allergens. (Fish, shellfish, and sesame account for the remaining three.) While kids with food allergies and their parents are accustomed to reading ingredient labels, Halloween-sized treats usually don’t have them. What are kids with food allergies and their parents to do, and how can friends without this challenge help? Here are our tricks and treats to make Halloween a little less scary for kids with food allergies and their parents.

BE THE GIVER » After a few years of trick-or-treating with friends, or not wanting to try it at all, some children with food allergies may prefer to be the designated person to hand out the treats from home. Handing out the treats can be fun, and it also teaches children to appreciate the value of giving. Plus, kids will be able to see friends when they come to the door. It may not be as tasty of an experience, but for some kids, it’s a heck of a lot safer and even more enjoyable. If you have a child with food allergies who prefers this route, be sure to have safe treats that your child can enjoy.

PARENT UP! » If you have a child with food allergies, purchase candies that your child is allowed to eat. EnjoyLife sells chocolate Halloween-sized treats free of the top allergens. Some gummy or hard candies may be fair game, too.

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TRICK-OR-TREAT SELECTIVELY » Some of your friends may offer to provide safe treats. Carefully discuss with trusted friends what treats your child can eat. If homemade baked goods, make sure to discuss ingredients and steps, including what is used to grease a pan. (For people with certain allergies, this is super important.) You could even supply the treats to friends and make a map for your child to follow, like a scavenger hunt. If it’s your friends who have children with food allergies, offer to do this for their children—it’s something the parents and kids will always remember.

PLAN A SPOOKY SUPPER » Make your Halloween meal the main event! From Spooky Chicken Poppers, Mummy Dogs, and Pumpkin Gnocchi to Pizza Dough Bones and Ghostly Cookies, there are many recipes online. Check out enjoylifefoods.com and weelicious.com for some great options. Many kids’ cookbooks also have ideas, and creative young chefs might come up with their own creepy creations. Be sure to review ingredients and adapt as necessary to accommodate food allergies.

TAKE PART IN THE TEAL PUMPKIN PROJECT » Paint a pumpkin teal, which is the color for food-allergy awareness, and support this initiative that has taken off thanks to Food Allergy Research & Education and mom Becky Basalone, who came up with the idea in 2012. A teal pumpkin displayed at a home signifies that on Halloween, kids can trick-or-treat for non-food items there. Find teal pumpkin posters and other information at foodallergy.org. Elizabeth Winchester is a content director for Davler Parents. Her oldest son has a life-threatening dairy allergy. Share your food allergy experiences with her at lwinchester@davlermedia. com.

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Pick Your Own Pumpkins Choose the perfect gourd to carve into a jack-o’-lantern at one of our favorite pumpkin patches. By Stacey Feintuch

pple cider. Fresh donuts. Pumpkin spice lattes. These are the smells and tastes associated with fall. And of course, what’s more synonymous with fall than pumpkin picking? Fortunately, this area has plenty of spots to spend a fall day in the great outdoors, picking the perfect pumpkin. Here are some of our favorite spots on Long Island.

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September-October, Saturday-Sunday and Oct. 11, 10am-5pm. Check website for details. Admission: Prices are TBA. This farm has been a family business for many decades. It’s more than just pumpkin picking here. Enjoy hayrides, duck races, an animal train ride, and more. Why we love it: It sells roasted corn as well as apple cider and apple cider doughnuts.

Brightwaters Farms 1624 Manatuck Blvd., Bay Shore brightwatersfarms.com 631-665-5411 Hours: Fall harvest usually runs in October. It’s typically open Wednesday-Friday,

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12-5pm; Saturday-Sunday and Oct. 11, 9am-5pm. Check back for details. Admission: Typically, no charge during the week; $10 weekends. Check back for details. Come to Brightwaters Farms with family and friends and experience the warm, serene atmosphere of its more than 12-acre countryside setting. Fall activities include hayrides, magic shows, and farm-animal feeding. Why we love it: Concession menu options galore here! Enjoy roasted corn, jumbo turkey legs, fresh-squeezed lemonade, and more.

Elwood Pumpkin Farm 1500 E. Jericho Turnpike, Huntington

631-368-8626 elwoodpumpkinfarm.com Hours: Sept. 18-19: Saturday-Sunday, 1-5pm. Sept 25-30: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm. Oct. 1-31: Monday-Friday, 3-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm Admission: Pumpkins are priced by size. This farm is Long Island’s most western pumpkin farm. Unlike most other farms in the area, pumpkins are grown in the fields. You’re invited to pick off the vine while supplies last. Enjoy a wagon ride around the farm and a small corn maze perfect for kids (both require a fee). Why we love it: This farm is also Long Island’s western most cut-your-own Christmas tree farm, so come back in the winter.

F&W Schmitt’s Family Farm 26 Pinelawn Road, Melville 631-271-3276 schmittfarms.com Hours: Sept. 18-Oct. 31, Monday-Friday, 12-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm Admission: $10; free for children ages 16 months and younger. Pumpkins are an additional fee. Hayrides, mini golf, photo ops, and access to the playground are all included in your admission at this family farm. On weekends, there’s even more fun, including pony rides, a petting zoo, haunted corn trail, and a haunted house (all require an additional fee). Why we love it: Want a taste of Halloween but your kids aren’t ready for a full haunted house? The farm offers a daytime walkthrough of the haunted house, with the lights turned on and no actors.

Hank’s Pumpkintown 240 Montauk Highway, Watermill 631-726-4667 hankspumpkintown.com Hours: Sept. 11-12, Saturday-Sunday, 9:30am-5:45pm; starting Sept. 16: daily, 9:30am-5:45pm Admission: Pumpkins: $0.74 per pound. Maze Park Wristbands: $18 Saturday-Sunday and holidays; $12 Monday-Friday Get ready for a full day of fall family fun when you head to Hank’s! It features more than 30 acres of attractions and activities, including pumpkin picking, three interac-

tive corn mazes, wagon rides, barrel train rides, a jump pad, gem mining (for an extra fee), pedal karts, play structures, a giant slide, and more. Why we love it: When your kids are done exploring all the fun here, stop by the farm market for apple cider slushies and handdipped candy and caramel apples.

Lewin Farms 812 Sound Ave., Calverton 631-929-4327 lewinfarm.com Hours: daily, 9am-4:40pm; call to confirm availability. Pumpkins are anticipated late September to late October. Admission: Call to confirm pumpkin prices; u-pick is cash only. This fourth-generation family farm was the first Long Island farm to offer

pick-your-own to Long Islanders. It now offers a variety of seasonal you-pick options, including pumpkins and apples, berries, vegetables, and Christmas trees. Why we love it: Before you pick your pumpkins, head over to the farm’s corn maze—the 2021 maze is the most challenging one yet!

Stakey’s Pumpkin Farm 270 West Lane, Riverhead 631-722-3467 stakeyspumpkinfarm.com Hours: Sept. 18-Oct. 30: Monday-Friday, 12-5pm; Saturday-Sunday, plus Oct. 11, 9am-5pm. Call ahead if rain is forecasted. Admission: Pumpkins: $0.79 per pound. Corn maze: $10. Stakey’s Pumpkin Farm is a family-owned and -operated business nestled on the

East End of Long Island. Farmer Jim is a third-generation farmer, but the first in his family to have a pick-your-own pumpkin farm. The farm started in 1976 with just over an acre. It’s grown into a 26-acre field where you can roam and pick from 18 varieties of pumpkins straight off the vine. Why we love it: The farm doesn’t just offer pumpkins. It grows and sells mums, cabbage, kale, cornstalks, straw bales, and more.

White Post Farms 250 Old Country Road, Melville 631-351-9373 whitepostfarms.com Hours: Sept. 18-Oct. 3, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm. Oct. 9-24 (plus Oct. 11), Saturday-Sunday, 9am-6pm. Admission: $32.95 (+tax); free for children younger than 15 months. Pumpkins: $0.69 per pound. Fall Festival weekends at White Post Farms feature pumpkin picking, an animal farm, pony rides and train rides (both require an extra fee), sing-along hayrides, pumpkin painting, a variety of family shows, tasty treats, and more. Why we love it: In addition to getting up close to the farm’s animals, kids can hand- or bottle-feed some of the animals (for an extra fee).

QUEENS Queens County Farm Museum 73-50 Little Neck Parkway, Floral Park queensfarm.org 718-347-3276 Hours: Oct. 1-30, daily, 11am-4:30pm Admission: Pumpkins priced by size. October is pumpkin month at Queens County Farm. Enjoy the crisp fall air as you wander through the patch to scoop up the perfect pumpkin. Walk the farm grounds and soak in some New York history. This farm is one of the longest continually farmed sites in New York State, dating back to 1697. Why we love it: Enjoy on-site hayrides and a 3-acre interactive corn maze.

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Pumpkin Carving 101

Experts share tips and tricks for carving jack-o’-lanterns with kids

lanning to carve a pumpkin with your kids for Halloween but not sure where to start? Follow these easy pumpkin-carving tips from the pros: Michael Natiello, master carver and creative director of The Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze in Westchester County and Long Island, and Thomas Olton, from Rise of the Jack O’Lanterns on Long Island.

HOW TO PICK THE PERFECT PUMPKIN

There are two ways to approach it. You either have a design in mind and find a pumpkin that suits the design, or you choose your favorite pumpkin and let it ‘speak’ to you. For example, if it looks like Frankenstein’s monster, carve it into Frankenstein’s monster. • When choosing your pumpkin, look for one that is without bruises, is evenly colored, and isn’t moldy or rotten. Check the bottom for rot and tap gently to hear a firm, hollow sound. • The lighter the pumpkin’s skin, the softer the pumpkin will be, thus the easier to carve. However, lighter-skinned pumpkins may not last as long after carving. • Choose a pumpkin with a smooth, flat face, with shallow ridges and few of them. Never carry your pumpkin by the stem. • If it’s heavy, that’s a good sign. If it’s light, it’s probably been sitting around a while, so it will be shriveled up or dried out. It’s like picking an apple—you want the freshest fruit.

DESIGNING YOUR JACK-O’-LANTERN

A good rule of thumb is larger and simpler shapes are best for younger kids. As the shapes get smaller and more complicated, it’s going to take someone a little older with a little more skill. With just a quick Internet search, you can find numerous stencils 40

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that will help bring your child’s favorite characters to life on a pumpkin. If you decide you want to create your own image, you’ll still want to draw it on paper first. You can then transfer your drawing onto the pumpkin and ensure it looks good before carving. Most people will tape a picture onto the pumpkin and trace it out by making tiny holes in the skin of the pumpkin with a small pin along the outlines. When you peel the paper off, you will have dotted lines that make up your image. Another method is to rub the back of the piece of paper with a piece of charcoal to make it completely black. Tape the paper on the pumpkin, charcoal-side down, and then trace the image with a ballpoint pen. That will leave a pencil copy of your image.

PUMPKIN CARVING TOOLS

Exacto knives are great for carving pumpkins. A lot of people think it’s too dangerous to use very sharp knives, but a sharp knife used carefully is a lot safer than a dull knife you must force through the pumpkin. You can also use commercially available pumpkin saws, which are found in pumpkin carving tool kits in stores this time of year. If small children are going to take part in the carving, you’ll want to find some of these tools.

Want to get a little more creative? Go through your junk drawer. Anything that can make a dent or a divot in the pumpkin is fair game. Think: screwdrivers, old keys, melon ballers, anything metal.

HOW TO CARVE PUMPKINS WITH KIDS

Once you’ve picked out the perfect pumpkin, you’ll want to: • Wash the pumpkin with soapy water, then dry it. • Cut a hole in the bottom of the pumpkin. This helps to keep the pumpkin stable. If you prefer the more traditional look of a hole in the top, cut it with a slanted edge, which will keep the top from falling inside. • Give your child a spoon and let them go to town ripping the guts out of it. That’s the messy and the fun part! • Scrape the inside flesh clean and smooth until it’s approximately 1-inch thick. • Transfer or draw your pattern onto the chosen side of the pumpkin. • Make cutouts. » Think about your cut before you make it. » Start in the middle and work your way out (this helps keep the pumpkin structurally sound). » Leave large areas to cut out for last and cut them into smaller pieces for easier removal. As you begin removing pieces, the pumpkin will get increasingly delicate. You will find it much easier to cut out the small details first, when the pumpkin is most stable. » Hold the cutting tool perpendicular to the surface.

» Cut with gentle, steady sawing motions. » Point the cutting tool toward the pumpkin’s center. » Resist the urge to poke the cut out into the pumpkin. Instead, push it out toward you from the inside. » On corners or if changing directions, remove the carving tool then reinsert it in the new direction. • Cut a vent or chimney in the back top of the pumpkin. • Once complete, wash under cold water and pat dry with paper towels. • Once your pumpkin is completely dry, add a candle or electric tea light inside!

PRESERVING A CARVED PUMPKIN

How long your pumpkin lasts outdoors will depend on weather and the elements. But here are a few tips to lengthen your jacko’-lantern’s lifespan: • Make sure it’s wrapped in plastic and stored in a cool environment when not in use. Some people put it in their fridge or a cool, dark place. You don’t want it baking in the blazing sun because it turns into rot and mush. • After carving, clean your jack-o’-lantern with soapy water or disinfect it with a mild bleach solution (a little bleach and water or any bleach-based bathroom cleanser). That’ll kill all the bacteria that’ll break your pumpkin down and will help your pumpkin to survive a few days longer. • You also can coat any openings with petroleum jelly or commercially available pumpkin preservatives.

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Choose the Best After-School Activity for Your Child With myriad activities available to children these days, it’s easy to get bogged down with all the options. Take this fun quiz to see which activity best suits your child. ››

Your child is a...

Social butterfly

Lone wolf

On the weekends your kid is...

Outside

Is he a picky eater?

Yes

Does he love being physical?

Yes

Your child’s dream job is...

Watching TV

Astronaut

Is she the leader of the pack?

Yes

Her favorite subject is...

Science

What’s the first thing she does in the car?

Roll down window

Turn on radio

President

Your child’s room is...

English

Is he smarter than you?

Yes

Grades

Clean

Messy

What’s more important?

Experience

Sports

The Arts

Academic Enrichment

Art Class

Your child is a ball of energy, so make sure you put it to good use. Team sports, such as basketball or soccer, are a great way to learn team work while also staying fit and active.

Dance, drama, or a music class would be a great fit for your kid. She is creative and has a zest for life that just can’t be contained. You might have a potential triple-threat on your hands!

Your smarty pants can’t get enough of reading, writing, and arithmetic. Many tutoring centers also offer enrichment classes, espeically during the summer. Get your Einstein learning all year long.

If your child is constantly drawing or painting at home, save yourself the mess and get him into an art class. Art is a great way for your little Picasso to express himself.

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After-School Programs DIRECTORY

Advanced Academic Programs

55 Northern Blvd., Greenvale 516-484-1789 advancedacademicprograms.com info@roslynacademicprograms.com We offer enrichment programs for school-age children in mathematics, physics, robotics, programming, engineering, languages, and art. We also offer standardized test (ACT, SAT) and subject test preparation for high school students. We teach children to quickly and easily master new skills in problem-solving, engineering, coding, and design.

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Further Music School

1180 Northern Blvd., Suite C1, Manhasset 516-743-3544 110-06 72nd Ave., Suite MD2, Forest Hills 718-544-8886 furthermusic.com info@furthermusic.com Founded in 2007, Further Music School is one of the largest and well-recognized music schools in New York, with more than 5,000 students currently enrolled. Our locations in Queens, Long Island, and Manhattan provide music lessons in piano, violin, guitar, and vocal to all ages and levels.

Hofstra University Continuing Education: Saturday Classes for Young People and Precollegiate Career Discovery Institute 516-463-7400, Jessica Dease, program director ce.hofstra.edu/youth jessica.dease@hofstra.edu Saturday Classes for Young People wants your child to love learning. Our small classes provide individual attention and help encourage students’ curiosity. There are many classes to choose, including reading, math, writing, STEM/STEAM, cartooning, theater, art, video game development, Minecraft, and swimming.

Huntington Learning Centers

Baldwin, Bay Shore, Carle Place, East Northport, Flushing, Lynbrook, Manhasset, Massapequa, Miller Place, Patchogue, Plainview, Smithtown huntingtonhelps.com Huntington is the premier tutoring and test prep provider, including SAT/ACT and state tests, for kindergarten to 12th grades. The company prides itself on personalized attention and proven results. Founded in 1977, Huntington’s mission is to give every student the best education possible. Tutoring is available in-center and online.

Music Institute of Long Island

90 Plandome Road, Manhasset 516-627-7052 milimusic.com miligirls@gmail.com Celebrating our 31st year, consistently voted No. 1 Best Music School on Long Island and the North Shore. Programs include violin, viola, cello, guitar, piano, voice, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, and tuba. Instructions in Traditional, Suzuki, and ABRSM methods for ages 3-99, beginner-college level.

Soccer Shots

171 Eileen Way, Syosset 516-558-2266 soccershots.com/longislandwest liwest@soccershots.com Soccer Shots is the premier intro to soccer program in the United States and Canada. Our caring team positively impacts children’s lives through best-in-class coaching, communication, and curriculum. Our expert-approved curriculum is age-appropriate and aligns with New York state’s early childhood education standards, visit us at soccershots.com/liwest.

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Why Attend an Open House? 10 reasons you should attend these events if your child is applying to a new school for the 2022-2023 year By Jeannine Cintron

f your child is in the process of applying for enrollment in a new school for the 2022-2023 academic year, attending as many open house events as possible at prospective schools is extremely important—even if they are being held virtually. Here’s why these open houses are essential.

1. MEET THE FACULTY This is your opportunity for you and your child to meet their potential future teachers and principal. The principal plays a major role in the school and, consequently, in the lives of the students. It is very important that you feel comfortable with this person being at the forefront of your child’s education.

2. LET THE SCHOOL KNOW YOU’RE INTERESTED Schools often take note of which students attend their open house events and that could be factor in their decision to offer your child a spot. Always be sure to neatly write your child’s name on the attendance sheet so the school knows they were there.

3. GET A FEEL FOR THE SURROUNDINGS Ever hear of good vibes? That’s exactly what you should feel for a prospective school. The atmosphere, the staff, the location, the students—all of it should just feel right. If it doesn’t, trust your gut and cross that school off your list.

4. ASSESS YOUR COMMUTE If the event is being held in person, it’s a good chance to do a practice run on the commute. You can see how far the school is from your home, how long it takes to get there, and what the surrounding neighborhood is like. At the open house you’ll also learn what transportation options are available for your child.

5. LEARN ABOUT PROGRAMS OFFERED This is often one of the most important deciding factors when selecting a school. At the open house event, you’ll be given an in44

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depth look at the programs and courses offered at the school. You can ask questions, meet the teachers heading up each program, and learn about your child’s academic options.

6. VOICE SAFETY CONCERNS Your child’s safety is crucial. At the open house, the school will address any questions or concerns you have about security measures, emergency procedures, possible crime statistics, health and safety precautions, and more. This is your chance to express any concerns you have.

7. LEARN ABOUT THE SCHOOL DAY You’ll find out what time school starts and ends, when your child will eat lunch, what their day might look like, how the periods are structured, and other information about the school day.

8. SEE WHAT EXTRACURRICULARS ARE AVAILABLE Most schools offer after-school sports, academic clubs, and other programs your child might be interested in joining. A school that offers a wide variety of extracurricular activities might play a large role in your decision to apply.

9. MEET CURRENT STUDENTS One of the best ways to learn about a school is from current students. In fact, current students are often on-hand at open houses to help describe the programs in which they are involved and what student life is like at the school.

10. LEARN ABOUT THE APPLICATION PROCESS Some schools require tests or auditions, other schools screen applicants based on grades or other factors, and some select students entirely at random. At the open house, you’ll learn what is required to apply to the school and estimate your child’s odds of receiving an offer. You can also ask questions or voice your concerns about the process to ensure you have all the information you need to help your child apply for enrollment.

Education DIRECTORY Countryside Montessori School

354 Lakeville Road, Lower Level, Great Neck 516-466-8422 cmsgn.com info@cmsgn.com Countryside Montessori School offers children, 18 months to 6 years, a well-balanced and enriched curriculum that includes traditional subjects, art, and music. It is located on an estate-like setting with an outdoor playground and nature walks. Classrooms are fully equipped and spacious.

The Hagedorn Little Village School, Jack Joel Center for Special Children

Temple Sinai Early Childhood Center

425 Roslyn Road, Roslyn Heights 516-621-8708 mysinai.org/ecc ldayan@mysinai.org Temple Sinai Early Childhood Center is a safe, supportive, and positive environment for play-based learning and exploration. Inspired by Jewish values, our curriculum fosters curiosity, confidence, and growth. Our team is dedicated to helping each child reach their greatest potential. Most importantly, our classrooms are filled with learning, laughter, and love.

Variety Child Learning Center

Vincent Smith School

Winston Preparatory School

index CAMPS

Helping Hands Family......................... 19

HEALTH

Path 2 Potential.................................. 23

Countryside Montessori School............. 3

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center

Advantage Care Health Center........... 17

The Law Offices of Susan J. Deedy....... 27

Music Institute of Long Island............. 37

CHILD CARE / DAY CARE Temple Sinai of Roslyn.......................... 7 Variety Child Care................................ 8

for Speech....................................... 5 Path 2 Potential.................................. 23

LEGAL

Vincent Smith School.......................... 23

Law Offices of Brad H Rosken............. 22

Winston Preparatory School -

The Law Offices of Susan J. Deedy....... 27

Long Island................................... 25

CLASSES

Yellow Bus ABA.................................. 14

Advanced Academic Programs............ 37

EDUCATION

Further Music and Media Group Inc...... 7

Countryside Montessori School............. 3

Hofstra University Continuing

SPORTS

RETAIL

Jones Beach Adventure

Once Upon a Child............................. 13

Huntington Learning Center................. 5

ABA Psychological Services P.C........... 25

Soccer Shots......................................... 8

Variety Child Learning Center............. 16

Advantage Care Health Center........... 17

Temple Sinai of Roslyn.......................... 7

Vincent Smith School ......................... 23

Applied Behavior Health

DEVELOPMENTAL ABA Psychological Services P.C........... 25

FAMILY ENTERTAINMENT / EVENTS / OUTINGS

Advantage Care Health Center........... 17

Gazillion Bubble Show.......................... 2

Applied Behavior Health

Jones Beach Adventure Madison Theatre at Molloy College..... 20

Long Island................................... 25

Further Music and Media Group Inc...... 7

Music Institute of Long Island............. 37

Hagedorn Little Village School............ 21

Winston Preparatory School Yellow Bus ABA.................................. 14

Education........................................ 3

Excursions LLC............................... 48

Vincent Smith School ......................... 23

MUSIC

Education........................................ 3

Management LLC.......................... 26

Variety Child Learning Center............. 16

SPECIAL NEEDS

Management LLC.......................... 26

Excursions LLC............................... 48 Soccer Shots......................................... 8

THEATRE Madison Theatre at Molloy College......................................... 20

TUTORS

Hagedorn Little Village School............ 21

Advanced Academic Programs............ 37

Helping Hands Family......................... 19

Huntington Learning Center................. 5

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech....................................... 5 Law Offices of Brad H Rosken............. 22

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just for moms

It’s Fall, Y’all! By Zlata Faerman

all happens to be my favorite season of the year. There’s something special about the changing colors of leaves, cozier outfits, crisp fresh air, and the multitude of outdoor activities available to choose from. All that, and my hair doesn’t frizz as much as it does in the summer! Brands like Starbucks, Bath and Body Works, and even Budweiser notoriously offer up pumpkin-spiced flavors before the season even begins. Truth be told, I’ve never tried pumpkin, let alone anything pumpkin-spiced, but, hey, crowds go wild for the flavor. There’s plenty of other fall-themed products to try outside of just pumpkin, so here are some of my picks:

As fall progresses and the days get shorter, the mornings feel harder. I love simple and quick breakfast options because chances are I’m tired and groggy from a Real Housewives binge on Bravo from the night before. Purely Elizabeth’s oatmeal options are crafted with a plant-based protein and superfood ingredients, like chia and flax, to fuel the start of your day. Fall flavors include Classic Cinnamon and Apple Cinnamon Pecan. purelyelizabeth.com.

No matter what season, Mamas ain’t making it without coffee. Recently, I’ve been living on Lucky Jack Coffee. It’s a handcrafted, sustainable coffee that’s roasted in small batches with a slow cold-steep brew process. They come in great flavors, all of which are certified organic: Caramel, Mocha, Vanilla, and the seasonal Pumpkin Spice. Plus, Lucky Jack also offers nitro oat milk lattes. luckyjackcoffee.com.

Decocrated is an award-winning home decor box that offers seasonal pieces delivered right to your door four times a year. Items can be decorative trays, tabletop decor, throw pillow covers, DIY projects, and more. The curated collection lets you seamlessly transition your home each season and complements any existing decor you already have. decocrated.com.

Creating a calming candle at home is possible with Siblings, a DIY candle kit that uses eco-friendly materials to encourage the reuse of its awesome vessels. Not only do the candles smell delicious, but it’s a fun and easy activity to do with the family. Just microwave the bag to melt the wax, add the wick to the vessel, and pour the wax. Genius! siblings.co.

Little Bridges provides a set of funfilled activities that are designed to inspire meaningful conversations and connections between kids and adults. I was a huge fan of its Grandma & Me: In the Kitchen Activity Kit (well, my mom was!), and I’m really pumped for the newest activity kit called Family Time Fun. It offers more than 45 boredom-busting ideas for fun and memorable play, perfect for those rainy, cold fall days when you can’t go hiking or apple picking! littlebridges.com.

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Another easy breakfast option? Ellenos, my favorite yogurt ever, is a cult-favorite Greek yogurt brand. It recently launched a seasonal Pumpkin Pie flavor made with its iconic base and enhanced with a swirl of pumpkin puree and a pumpkin crumble on top. ellenos.com.

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