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WEDDING

SIXTY

BEAUTY

FASHION

2013 TRENDS SECRET TO GLOWING SKIN

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FOUR GORGEOUS REAL

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GREAT GETAWAYS

ART OF SAREE BLOUSES EXCLUSIVE DETAILS FROM WEDDING

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THE ‘KOORAI’ ISSUE




Weddings

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Featuring REAL WEDDINGS

Four couples share the details of their distinctive and exceptional weddings

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BEAUTY TRENDS OF 2013

Beauty Guide

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ART OF SAREE BLOUSES

The season’s most captivating saree blouse designs

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Stanley Kubrick meets Mani Ratnam

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HOW TO MAKE THEM MEMORABLE

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Sweet Escapes

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WHAT’S NEW?

Personalize your nuptials with the latest in wedding trends

The secrets to glowing skin and the guide to selecting the right facial

Behind the scenes look at one of the leading cinematographers, Atrium Pictures

Unique engagement shoot locations

Fashionable makeup and stylish hair for your day of all days

A primer on how to write and prepare for your speech

everything but conventional

For that bride that wants more than a banquet hall

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GREAT GET-AWAYS

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From Wedding Bliss to Marital Stress:

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SELECTING YOUR KOORAI:

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Decades in

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Get swept away with these unforgettable honeymoon destinations

How to cope with post-wedding in laws

Style tips for finding the right koorai

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Koorai

Inspiring looks that epitomize the beauty of 20s, 40s, 60s, 80s, 2013 styles

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Cover on the

DIRECTORS

Waren Balakrishnan Shaji Nadarajalingam Kiruja Waren Kagintha Shaji EDITOR

Thadshiga Jayaseelan ASSISTANT EDITOR

Iqra Azhar COORDINATOR & LEAD GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Karthika Kubeskaran GRAPHIC DESIGNERS

Saida Yunes, Guerrila designs DESIGNS BY AJAY MARKETING

Waren Balakrishnan Sivakami Sivaloganathan Savitri Persaud SALES

Jason thirugnanam Prabaharan Thiagarajah Vineetha Prabaharan MEDIA SPONSORS Photography:

Ovyian Photography Makeup:

iGlow Studios Hairstyling:

DMG Designz Bridal Wear:

Chandan Fashions Headpiece:

Club Monaco necklace

Tamil One Vanakkam 105.9 FM CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS

ovyian photography Pearl Image Photography Renaissance Images ei photography designs by ajay jananie baskaran ramyaj images impressions by annuj paul & will photography trails of memories lovebirdz photography MAKEUP & HAIR

iglow studios dmg designz Angells beauty dimple shah shirley wu beauty concept makeup by narmz kavita suri spa beauty creations aasana artistry captivate muah queen’s creations CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

cristina jaimungal nilo haq tasha nathan, tamil culture Iqra Azhar kavita suri FASHION SHOW COORDINATOR

AMRITA APHAN

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EDITOR’S NOTE

Be Be Bold.

Unforgettable.

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wedding: timeless fete, one that exudes a level of elegance not worthy of any adjective, prepared with bits of personalized details, and showcasing bold attire making for an unforgettable celebration. This issue of Ohm Wedding is devoted to all those distinctive details that will make your day extra special. We take bold to a new level with our front cover that focuses on the beauty of the wedding bridal wear, known as the Koorai. Centuries of culture, heritage and custom is evoked through those six yards of material that beautifully wrap and hug the curves of the many brides that take the journey to the mandap. Over the years, the Koorai has evolved, and, with this issue we encourage our brides to be inspired by our Koorai fashion feature as we take from different eras. A unique way of celebrating your wedding day awaits discovery in these pages. Our real weddings highlight the beauty of tradition, pure and simple; a medley of cultures so rich and vibrant it revives the gracious beauty of it. Find inspirations that are unconventional with the article that maps out unique venues for you. Our expert advice articles offer insights that will guide you through and help turn your dream into a reality.

THADSHIGA JAYASEELAN Editor





WHAT’S NEW? TRENDS of

2013

Staging:

Mint, Anyone? Making an appearance more than once or twice this year on almost every runway is the colour mint. It’s a fresh colour, you can select it for your invitations, bridesmaid dresses, jewellery and even décor. Known to be a vintage colour, mint evokes the classy style and feel of the 1940s and 1950s.

Propping reception tables with one-of-a-kind details like books, figurines and fruits, or any item to pull in the theme of the wedding is a design concept you can expect to see more often. Using mismatched china is also big on the list. Brides and grooms use staging to really personalize their wedding and the bonus is guests can then take home the décor pieces as bonbonnieres.

Sonam Kapoor in designer Manish Malhotra saree

braids: It’s a common style in our culture and it’s thrilling to see how creative makeup artist can get with the braids. We’re seeing it in Hollywood in recent movies and shows like Snow White and the Huntsmen, The Hunger Games and Games of Thrones. There are many different styles out there and for your wedding day you can choose a style that captures the feel of your look and style. For the outdoorsy bride, hair arranged over the head like a halo and entwined with vines is a clean and fresh look. Brides who love chignons can have braids on the sides, leading into the bun. Feminine and classic, braids are versatile and can go with many looks, from glamorous to casual.

Swag: Frieda Pinto at Immortals Premiere

Grooms are focusing more on their attire and choosing cool cufflinks, creative ties, or bowties. Many grooms splurge a little on their watches and even customize their cufflinks. Custom suits are also topping the list the way brides focus on customizing their lenghas and sarees. Why not? It’s their day too.

Mmmmm…donuts: Taking the cake for an incredibly fun and delicious 2012/2013 trend are high-priced revolutionized doughnuts. More and more couples are replacing cupcakes and cakes with upscale doughnuts. Chefs have elevated the fried classic and taken it up a notch with unexpected combinations and toppings. It’s the perfect dance floor snack and it certainly adds character.

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Varatha’s Silks

PHOTOGRAPHY: paUL & WILL photography ~ MAKEUP & HAIR: aNgeLLS BeaUty

PHOTOGRAPHY: paUL & WILL photography ~ MAKEUP & HAIR: aNgeLLS BeaUty

Varatha’s Silks

Tel: 416 291 4144

Tel: 416 291 4144

4565 Sheppard Ave E, ON M1S 1V3

4565 Sheppard Ave E, ON M1S 1V3


Varatha’s Silks

PHOTOGRAPHY: paUL & WILL photography ~ MAKEUP & HAIR: aNgeLLS BeaUty

PHOTOGRAPHY: paUL & WILL photography ~ MAKEUP & HAIR: aNgeLLS BeaUty

Varatha’s Silks

Tel: 416 291 4144

Tel: 416 291 4144

4565 Sheppard Ave E, ON M1S 1V3

4565 Sheppard Ave E, ON M1S 1V3


Expert

Skin-Care SOLUTIONS

The first step is to book a consultation with one of our experts to ensure your skin is receiving the right care. Biophora’s ‘Science Made Simple’ is the skin care that we utilize in the clinic; it is a Toronto-based company and it is what it promises - SIMPLE. Last thing we want to do is overwhelm the bride with more ‘to do’ on her list. Top Suggested Facials for our Brides:

It is best you start your skin care program approximately 1 year to six months before your wedding date. To learn more visit: www.kavitasuri.com and www.infusemedspa.com for more information.

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tress, stress and more stress. You would think getting married involves you kicking your feet back and watcing it all fit together like pieces of a puzzle. Truthfully, this is not possible as weddings involve hours and hours of planning to achieve the dream wedding you and your partner hope to bring to life. With the stress, you’ll be sure to get visits from one uninvited guest: zits. This leads the way for dull dry skin...so what do you do?

Mention this article and receive a complimentary skin care consultation and receive 20% off your first treatment or purchase.

Investing in your skin care is as important as investing in your trousseau. I’m certain many makeup artists would agree to the statement, “great skin first.” This will not only help your makeup artist enhance all your features without caking on too much product, it can also make you feel and look like a million dollars on the day you truly want to. Walking into your local drug store skin-care aisle can be overwhelming. Even researching online for the ‘best facial’ available for your skin type could stir the fear and make you wonder: “what if it makes my skin worse?” I’m writing this article to provide you the best advice. Although I’m primarily a makeup artist, I’ve opened a Med Spa to provide the top most skin care solutions for my clients. I have handpicked Medical Grade facials that I fell in love with and envisioned the satisfaction on my clients’ faces when they completed their treatments. I also had the opportunity to introduce Hyrdrafacials and Diamond facials to the program; my clinic also specializes in Painless Laser Hair Removal for all skin types.

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ABOUT THE EXPERT Kavita Suri’s vision of high quality makeup artistry and esthetics, has blossomed to become “Kavita Suri Spa”. In operation for 4 successful years, Kavita Suri Spa’s luxurious environment is located in the heart of Yorkville. Having her own spa has enabled Kavita to better service clients; providing comfort, indulgence and splendor, where one gets the very best.

Photography: EI Photography ~ Makeup & Hair: Kavita Suri ~ Venue: Carlu

Glycolic: Deeply exfoliates the epidermis layer, prevents aging and mild acne Salicylic: Caters to acne-prone skin Hydrafacial: Infuses antioxidants into your skin and extracts impurities

A3-3300 McNicoll Avenue Toronto, ON M1V 5J6 (416) 299-7383 sartajfashion@hotmail.com www.sartajfashions.com


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Stanley Kubrick MEETS MANIRATNAM By: Iqra Azhar

Sida and Gnaneswaran may have been entrepreneurs for only a short while, but already they have quite a load of projects and are expanding every day. While most of their short clips on their website feature couples from the Tamil community, they have started getting calls from other communities. “We just shot some weddings in the Bengali community and we’re slowly reaching out... we don’t really market ourselves...we haven’t gotten around to it,” said Sida. It is important to note that this small start-up has bloomed into a successful entertainment company mostly by word of mouth or through their presence on social media sites like Twitter and You Tube. For more information or to contact Atrium Pictures, please visit their developing website: www.atriumpictures.com

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ver wanted to star in your own music video or feature film opposite your loved one? Jayzen Sida and Thuru Gnaneswaran of Atrium Pictures in Markham can make it happen. Sida and Gnaneswaran, who started the company three years ago in 2009, produce and direct wedding videos in exactly these creative and cinematic styles. Though they are self-taught artists, with Gnanesawaran managing mostly the business, they have done their bit in the film industry and still apply those standard practices to their own company, such as having a team of writers and cameramen on rotation at all times and fully sketching out a production schedule according to customers’ budgets before attempting any project. Visually, their cuts are short and interesting compared to older wedding cinematography that has had the focused, documentary style for decades and their packages are enticing with clever names listing Hollywood visionaries. When asked to describe his personal style, Sida, the creative director, described himself as a disciple of both Stanley Kubrick and Mani Ratnam. Off course, packages vary according to choice and budget and the number of hours it will take in post production to edit the final product. This type of wedding video is slowly becoming more and more popular and not just because of the visuals. “When the client comes in, we get him comfortable, get him to talk about himself so we can get an idea of who they are, how the couple met... we give more importance to their story,” said Sida. It seems like more than a coincidence that the duo decided to name their company, Atrium, around a major functioning organ – the heart.

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An Atrium Secret: We get the shots of immediate family members first and then have the groom and the bride to walk around the tables to greet the guests while the cinematographers follow along with them in order to focus on the planned vision while still getting the important shots.

5 Tips for Brides and Grooms Looking for Wedding Cinematographers 1.

Determine your budget, how much time you are willing to commit (some cinematographers require the client to do a lot of rough edits), and your vision for your video.

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Browse through various entertainment companies that are available on your date, fit your budget and narrow down to those who can capture your vision.

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Meet with a few cinematographers before making your hiring decision. It’s important to create a relationship with the cinematographer that is comfortable in order to express ideas and nitty witty details of the day.

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Meet again with the chosen cinematographer to finalize ideas and go over particular shots and details before the big day so everyone is aware of the game plan.

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When it finally comes to the day of the wedding, don’t be afraid to express concerns and changes as the day goes along. You can’t predict everything and everyone needs to work as a team to ensure the day is captured beautifully.

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Photography: Pearl Image Photography ~ Makeup & Hair: Shirley Wu Beauty Concept ~ Venue: Grand Empire

107-812 Britannia Rd W, Mississauga, ON L5V 0A6 38-3100 Ridgeway Dr Mississauga, ON L5L 5M5

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Photography: Pearl Image Photography ~ Makeup & Hair: Shirley Wu Beauty Concept ~ Venue: Grand Empire

107-812 Britannia Rd W, Mississauga, ON L5V 0A6 38-3100 Ridgeway Dr Mississauga, ON L5L 5M5

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Photography: Pearl Image Photography ~ Makeup & Hair: Shirley Wu Beauty Concept ~ Venue: Grand Empire

107-812 Britannia Rd W, Mississauga, ON L5V 0A6 38-3100 Ridgeway Dr Mississauga, ON L5L 5M5

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Asiyans

3601 Lawrence Ave E Scarborough, ON M1G 1P5 416-438-6568 www.theasiyans.ca ~ asiyanstex@yahoo.ca Photography by: Trails of Memories Photography Makeup & Hair by: Angells Beauty


Photography: Trails of Memories ~ Makeup & Hair: Angells Beauty ~ Venue: Scarborough Convention Centre

Photography: Trails of Memories ~ Makeup & Hair: Angells Beauty ~ Venue: Scarborough Convention Centre

Asiyans


3601 Lawrence Ave E Scarborough, ON M1G 1P5 416-438-6568 www.theasiyans.ca ~ asiyanstex@yahoo.ca Photography: Trails of Memories ~ Makeup & Hair: Angells Beauty ~ Venue: Scarborough Convention Centre

Photography: Trails of Memories ~ Makeup & Hair: Angells Beauty ~ Venue: Scarborough Convention Centre

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Sweet Escapes: Engagement Sessions

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hinking of doing an engagement session completely different? Consider a destination engagement session and it will open the horizon of options that include Cuba, Florida and New York, all affordable and beautiful. You can cherish a very personalized and intimate engagement session all the while letting your BIG New York Style, or Bohemian California Style seep through your engagement photos. Paul and Will Photography captured the essence of the destination engagement session with this engagement shoot in Cuba.

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unning down the hallways of the same middle school while growing up in the same neighbourhood, Neerajah and Prasanth didn’t have a clue of what was to come. When the stars did align, the two were in high school equally involved in school social clubs and sports. Neerajah was a student council member and Prasanth was heavily engaged in different sports. In being involved in these clubs, they moved in the same circle of friends. Eventually, in grade eleven, Neerajah and Prasanth had an English class together that sparked the relationship in the making since middle school. About nine years after dedicated and committed dating, two of which were long distance, Prasanth convinced Neerajah to dine with him at the Jack Astors he had initially taken her to for their first date. It was there that he proposed to her in a private room with a single table, a bouquet of roses and wine. Neerajah and Prasanth were married at Toronto’s Woodbine Banquet Hall. Close to 600 guests attended the Hindu ceremony. While planning the wedding, Neerajah and Prasanth made the conscious decision to understand the rituals and intricacies of the Hindu ceremony. To maintain the attention of their guests throughout the long ceremony and to provide a clear visual of what was happening, seating was arranged in theatre

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Most Memor able Momen t “Walking down the aisle and looking up at Prasanth: at that moment, I saw the tears of joy slowly stream down his face.” -Neerajah

style. Only immediate family joined the beautiful couple on the mandap through important details of the wedding. The bride walked down the aisle in a stunning, vibrant deep purple Kanchipuram saree and chose the traditional long braid wrapped with jasmine f lowers. The handsome groom awaited his bride at the mandap in a cream-coloured sherwani. Close friends and family accompanied the bride as she walked down the swoon-worthy walkway, lined with white floral pomander balls, to her future husband. Prasanth tied the thali, the auspicious necklace, in front of the beautiful backdrop set up by Diya Décor. The couple embraced the Tamil Hindu culture and enjoyed

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every step of the wedding and ensured everything ran on a prompt schedule. Capturing every detail of the beautiful wedding was photographer Kumari Photo & Cinema and cinematographer Rafael Ziah Franco & Co . When it came down to the reception, Prasanth and Neerajah wanted something intimate so that they could enjoy the company of their guests and take the time to interact with them. With the recent purchase of a new home that was yet to be furnished, they immediately decided to make the house the venue for the reception. Except there was one slight problem: the backyard was not in the best shape. After a quick hunt for a

designer to prime their backyard for their wedding, they found a company that designs backyards. Little did they know that the design company was involved in the HGTV reality show Decked Out. Ecstatic and in disbelief, Prasanth and Neerajah accepted the offer to have their backyard completely redone by the Decked Out experts. The couple dreamed up a homespun Toronto backyard bash and exactly 3 days before their reception, the crew presented the stunning new deck. The Wedding Deck was creatively crafted to entertain the friends and family with ample space for tables and chairs. On the day of the reception the décor was kept minimal and the focus was on great food and an entertaining deejay to start the dance floor and keep it going late into the night. There to capture the beautiful elements of the reception and the heartfelt moments of the family and friends in Prasanth’s and Neerajah’s home was Ramyaj Images.


they  were able to plan all the details of  their  wedding. Shereen’s family belonged to the Hindu religion and Harneet’s family were Sikhs. Bringing the two different cultures and religions would call for two separate ceremonies and that’s exactly how the planning process took lead. The couple was married on August 5, 2011 at Paradise  Banquet Hall. The first ceremony was small and intimate. Close to 150 guests joined them for the Hindu ceremony, which evoked the authentic charm and intricacy of South Indian Hindu traditions.

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hereen and Harneet both worked in the same consulting firm in Toronto, and their first encounter was at a fundraiser that was organized by Shereen. The two then went on to work on a project together. From that moment, their relationship took flight from becoming close friends to becoming a couple. Four years later, Shereen and Harneet’s parents officially met and with their blessing, the wedding planning process kickstarted. Harneet proposed to Shereen at Fenelon Falls, a lake town in Ontario, after a warm and delightful afternoon of horseback riding and a tantalizing lunch. The couple had completed their Masters degrees one month before their wedding and during this hectic time they turned to  wedding planners Harmony Banquet  Services. With their assistance and  knowledge of South Asian weddings,

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Most Memor able Momen t “At the time I was leaving the house for the ceremony, when my father broke the coconut in front of the house – I saw the loving emotions unveil on my father’s face,” - Shereen Programs highlighting all the steps and rituals of the Hindu ceremony were handed out to guests because both Shereen and Harneet wanted guests to understand the significance  of  the  rituals. The bride was carried down the aisle in a gold polki. Colours of the ceremony included gold, rich red, and cream. Perfect Settings captured the true essence of the South Indian Hindu wedding using plush and elaborate textiles as a backdrop. Lined down the pathway to the mandap were white Ganeshs wearing flower garlands. Using rich and deep colours, elaborate textiles and ornate décor  pieces gave off a Morrocan meets traditional and cultural style. In the grand foyer, guests were greeted by a Radha and Krishna statue. To  capture all the beautiful moments as they unfolded, the couple had hired Zaheer from ZMolu  Photography. Guests were invited the next day for the morning Sikh ceremony at the Gurdwara. The bride walked down the aisle in an eye-catching red lengha adorned with lots of intricate details.

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Close to 350 guests were invited out to The Garden Banquet  and  Convention Centre later in the evening and were treated to the full effect wedding celebration, with fist-pumping high energy  Punjabi beats  and a dreamy head table surrounded by crystal cascading  pillars  The meticulous details  of the reception ref lected the

beautiful colour  palettes of the bride’s lengha. Tables were elaborately detailed with towering floral and  crystal lamp style centerpieces.Cakes by Zehra designed a beautiful three tiered  classy white wedding cake. The resulting celebration – complete with candle-lit tables –embodied a modern and  elegant  vibe.

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hat began as an innocent introduction at a mutual friend’s birthday party ended up being a lifetime partnership. Tharshana and Athavan never imagined fate could bring them back together in the hallways of the University of Toronto in Scarborough. Athavan, then a student of Waterloo University, would go to U of T Scarborough to study with his friends when he was home away from Waterloo. It was here Tharshana met him for the second time and the two became good friends. Before long they  were  an item. A s the pla n n i ng process of the wedding began, Tharshana and Athavan knew for certain they wanted a destination wedding. Tharshana always dreamt about a beach wedding, but living in Toronto meant that options of a beach wedding were limited. Tharshana knew it was going to be a difficult task to convince her parents to agree to a destination wedding, especially coming from a large family, But after some convincing, both families agreed. The next difficult task at hand was getting an Ayire (priest) to travel abroad and marry the couple. Following numerous calls to various Ayires, the outcome was that no Ayire was

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okay to fly out for a destination wedding. That was before they found the priest that married Athavan’s mom and dad. This priest went on to explain that Athavan’s father and mother was the first wedding he officiated. He then agreed to marrying Athavan and Tharshana; it was the last wedding he officiated before retiring. Tharshana and Athavan chose the glorious and beautiful Riviera Maya, Mexico as their Hindu wedding location. Tharshana worked with the resort planner and worked out all the details of the wedding through emails, multiple phone calls and faxes. The family had never vacationed together before so this destination wedding meant a whole lot more than just an official ceremony, it would be a memorable lifetime experience with close family members. They tied the knot in a traditional Hindu ceremony on August 17, 2011 on the beach among their 30 closest friends and  family. Tharshana walked down the aisle in a traditional multi-coloured Kanchipuram adorned with beautiful stone details. Her neck and ears were beautifully adorned with jewelry that was elegant and simply stunning. Seated in the dreamy mandap adorned with white and rose garlands was Athavan in a striking white sherwani. The dreamy backdrop to their beautiful wedding was the Riviera Maya white sandy beach. Following the 2 hour ceremony was a mini cocktail party on the beach and the release of sky lanterns into the night by each of their guests bringing the magical evening to a beautiful end. The couple flew out G+H Photography who captured the jawdropping images of the beautiful  ceremony.

Following the breathtaking beach Hindu ceremony and the family vacation, the couple held a grand reception back in Toronto at the Embassy Grand Convention Centre on August 20, 2011. Close to 500 guests joined the newlyweds for a night of da nci ng a nd celebration. K a r m a Design worked with the couple to create the glam and glitzy reception they desired. Keeping it very modern and trendy, the colours included purple and pink with lots of crystals. Set in the center of each table was a crystal ball centerpiece with more hanging crystals. With a small family ceremony complete, the reception included all extended families and friends for a night of great fun and dancing.

Most Memor able Momen t “The most memorable moment for me was when Athavan put the thali on me, and at that moment, tears welled up in my eyes… I was very happy to be married to the love of my life.” - Tharshana

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he first time Tasha Jeyanathan was briefly introduced to Thileep Kandasamy, through mutual friends, was while attending different universities during their undergraduate careers. At that moment, little did she know that she was going to marry this young man. They had met only that once and gone their separate ways. Thileep completed medical school at Western University in London while Tasha remained in Toronto to attend the University of Toronto’s medical school. Five years later, Thileep moved back to Toronto to complete his residency at Sunnybrook Hospital. Destiny stepped in and brought Tasha to Sunnybrook Hospital as well where the two finally took to each other. On New Year’s Eve in 2010, Thileep captured Tasha’s heart in more than one way by planning a day of ice skating, hot chocolates, rejuvenating spas and fine dining. Following the memorable and beautiful time spent together relaxing and serenading in the warmth of that day, Thileep brought Tasha back home. He brought out a written journal compiled of all the conversations the two had shared over Facebook, and under the date December 31, 2010 were the written details of the proposal and, with that, the engagement ring. With a clear idea of how they wanted their celebration to unfold, Tasha and Thileep tied the knot on September 9, 2011 at the Mississauga Convention Centre.

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from Fancy Florists, the two were married. The cultural and religious customs of a Hindu ceremony were followed to a ‘T’ and

everyone was happy to see one another and enjoy the harmonious celebration. For the reception, with the two of them being doctors, it only made sense to get married somewhere where the venue was a reflection of science or medicine. They also wanted a venue that was different and unique – so they chose the Ontario Science Centre. Approximately 250 guests were invited to the Ontario Science Centre for a fun and relaxed night. The stunning bride wore a CTC West saree while the dashing groom walked in with a Harry Rosen three-piece suit. The night started with a cocktail-hour where guests were invited to play the interactive games at the educational institution. The night evoked elegance and class through the

Both Tasha and Thileep’s parents wanted their children to receive the blessings of all friends, family and extended family on the joyous day. With that in mind, Tasha and Thileep planned for a grand ceremony which included 700 guests. Tasha wanted simplicity and elegance to shine through her wedding, so her mother brought back her manavara saree from India. It was a pure Kanchipuram saree and it radiated with rich vibrant pink. The bride also wore gold wedding jewelry -- her mother’s from her wedding day. The groom looked handsome in his tasteful white sherwani, rich with small details. For her Koorai, the bride wore a soft pink Kanchipuram saree, which worked well with the skin of the blushing bride. Under the beautiful fresh flower mandap

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beautiful creative design work of Nisha Chandra Events. Capturing the beauty as it unfolded was Dave Abreu Photography and Jana Digital Dreams who took care of the videography. Table centerpieces included manzanita trees with beautiful orchids. The stunning event was every bit detailed with place cards, table numbers, a sweet table from Dessert Trendz and, in place of a cake, there were cupcakes from Eini & Co. It was a night of celebration that included only speeches, a slide show and a whole lot of dancing.

Most Memor able Momen t “There was a period before the reception started where Thileep and I were seated upstairs waiting for our big entrance and we could see the room beautifully decorated and through the big windows you can see the sun setting while the guests moved in from the cocktail area...that was a great moment. Just seeing everyone coming together for our special day.” - Tasha

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Bridal Trend #3

Bridal Makeup Trends of

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our wedding day is one of the most important days in your life. It’s crucial your bridal makeup is nothing less then perfect considering you will be the star of the show the entire day. Choosing the perfect makeup artist for your wedding can be a daunting task – so be a smart bride and know what you want. Your bridal makeup, your wedding dress and your personal style should match. Read our list of the key bridal makeup trends for 2013 to help you choose the perfect look for your big day.

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Bridal Trend #2 Smokey Eyes

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mokey eyes are a hot trend for 2012, which continues into 2013. Smokey eyes is a contemporary bridal look, which is totally smoking hot! The great part about smokey eyes is that you can pair it with pretty much any lip color! Smokey eye looks particularly pretty with nude, pink or red lips. If your afraid to go black on your eyes remember you can still go smokey with any deep shade of eye shadow your comfortable with like bronze, purple or even navy blue! Experiment to find the smokey eye that suits you.

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bride isn’t a bride without that special glow. Keep your makeup simple and allow your skin to be the main focus of your bridal makeup look. A key trend for 2013 bridal makeup is glowing skin. Glowing skin can be achieved from a combination of factors. Firstly, it’s essential you begin taking care of your skin months in advance by getting regular skin treatments, drinking lots of water, eating well and taking the right supplements. Having good skin will make your makeup artist’s job a lot easier when creating that special glow and flawless complexion. It’s important to know good skin = less foundation which will result in a more natural looking bridal makeup look! So take care as 2013’s bride is all about the GLOW.

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Soft Eyes with Bold Lips

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old lips are classic and is the perfect look for brides who don’t want the emphasize to be on their eyes. The vintage bride is making a comeback for 2013 where the eyes are dusted with a neutral shade of eyeshadow with black eyeliner as the focus and a strong lip color. Get lip shades in classic red, deep red or crimson depending on your skin tone and the shade of your dress. Remember don’t match your lip color to your dress, instead choose a lip color that compliments your outfit.

ude lips are a sexy trend that totally breaks the boundaries of being Asian. Traditionally being a bride is all about caking on the makeup. If you don’t wear a strong lip color your mother will scold you saying you don’t look like a bride. Well, its 2012 and times have definitely changed. Nude lips are modern, look totally sexy and are very bridal if done correctly. If you want to keep your lips looking bare on your big, try pairing it with strong eyes with heavy eyeliner and a contouring face to avoid looking like a plain Jane.

ABOUT THE EXPERT A highly skilled Canadian makeup artist, Nilo Haq, founder of iGlow Studios, is also the Beauty Editor for Destination Jeddah Magazine and JeddahBeautyBlog.com. With her devoted love of makeup and deep passion for fashion, you’d often find this artist searching for faces to use as canvases to color on with her impressive collection of brushes and makeup.

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Art of Saree Blouses

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he era of revolutionizing saree blouses is a growing trend and the creativity behind them, is extremely praiseworthy. Dressing for a wedding is no longer a simple process; in the past we would pick a beautiful saree and stitch the cookie cutter style saree blouse using the saree blouse material that comes along with the saree. In today’s times, it’s best to browse through many blogs and online resources in search for a style that is distinctive and creative. With that being said, here are some incredibly chic designs.

Breaking down the art of saree blouses.

Full Sleeves:

Open Backs: Saree blouses that hook at the back is a common style used by everyone and it can promise to sit as snuggly as a saree blouse that closes in the front or even better. With the option of having open backs, the choices on the different designs you can create are countless.

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Looking back at 50s and 60s Kollywood films, loved dearly by many, Vanisri and Saroja Devi mastered the beauty of long sleeve saree blouses. They scream elegance and class all the while making a fashion statement.

Sleeveless: Not particularly the option most brides dare to try, this style is usually worn by those looking for something a little ultra-glamorous and bold. The sleeveless saree blouse brings out the incredibly sexy and alluring appeal of the saree and will surely turn heads.


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Speeches:

How to make them memorable

If there’s a microphone in sight and alcohol has been consumed, it’s hard to get people to cease giving their two cents.

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It’s safe to say. We can all attest to experiencing ill-prepared hours long speeches. Heads drop in embarrassment and guests cringe in seats listening to the awkward speech that seems to get worse by the minute. Truthfully, bad speeches can ruin an event. It appears that once the mic is in the hands of the speaker, he/she gets incredibly comfortable or nervous and the same adjectives are thrown out repeatedly. Adding alcohol to that mixture certainly doesn’t help. If there’s a microphone in sight and alcohol has been consumed, it’s hard to get people to cease giving their two cents. Guests love the bride and groom, truly and dearly, and that’s why they attend their special day and share the joy and experience of the beautiful day with the two. But in all honesty, we don’t want to hear hours of stories after stories. Most of the room didn’t go to high school with the bride and groom or watch the bride and groom grow up. Speeches can be witty and raunchy. They can make guests laugh, cry or yawn. Preparing a speech is nerve-wracking, so make clear notes and stick to it. As you sit and prepare your speech, as a father, mother, bride, groom, best friend, or other, here are some basic speech tips, hints and pointers.

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Don’t wing it. Have a direction and pick a style: humor or sentimental. Keep it simple and actually take the time to prepare a speech. Failing to do so has many people providing information they’d never, ever want in the speech.

The speech should be warm, personal and brief. Touch on special moments and keep it short The speech should be focused on the audience, not the speaker. Don’t get carried away with stories and forget that they may not be relevant or make sense to half the wedding guests.

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Cut off at two minutes. Other people have different opinions but if the plan is to have 4-5 speeches, the speeches can’t be longer than 2 minutes. Speak slow and clear and don’t rush through it.

Perhaps, focus on one story that truly describes your relationship with the bride and/or groom. Your speech can include the romantic history of the couple, your wishes or your personal experience (if it’s good).



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DESIGNER DINESH RAMSAY

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Amala Paul in saree at Palam Silks Fashion Show - Image by Kollytalk

Selecting Your

‘Koorai’

Unique to Tamil weddings, the bride’s wedding saree, the ‘Koorai’, has definitely evolved from the time of our grandmother’s marriage to what we’re seeing in saree stores now. Looking back about 50 years, our grandmothers used to wear red or even mustard Kanchipuram silk sarees. Flash forward twenty years, our mother can remember walking down the aisle in different shades of red Banarsi sarees. These extraordinary saris are heavily embroidered with silk threading, and known for their gold and silver brocade. Today’s Tamil or South Indian brides can be seen walking down in either sarees beautifully adorned with stones and kundan designs or simple thread woven Kanchipuram sarees. Koorai sarees in shades of pink, red, orange, purple and maroon can often be found on the beautiful stages of the mandap. As you flip through Facebook, magazines and blogs in search of your dream wedding saree, keep in mind the five following tips:

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Koorai sarees are required to be in colors that are vibrant and bright. It’s not a must that this sari you select has to be red. It can also be pink, purple, mustard, yellow, or orange. Select a color that complements your skin, in keeping that in mind - online shopping is certainly not the way to go. Soundarya Rajinikanth married to Ashwin Ram Kumar

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Visit a saree store during the day and have the staff wrap the saree, and have a look outside in the daylight; this is where you can see the true color of the saree and how it looks against your skin.

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If you want to appear a little taller, look for sarees with small patterns that are vertical. Stay away from horizontal prints. If you want to appear a little shorter, find sarees with double side borders or thick borders.

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Based on the daily style of your wardrobe, find out if you are a more glitz and glamour girl or if you’re into the classy and elegant style. This can inch you closer to distinguishing if it is stones or kundan you would like to see on your saree or no stone work at all. If you’re the latter, keep it strictly Kanchipuram with gold thread work. Every Kanchipuram silk saree is amongst the most superior silks in the world. Thanks to its double warp and double weft. Besides, the gold in the motifs is incorporated by dipping the silk thread into liquid gold and silver. This enhances the beauty and the value of the silk.

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If you’re planning on wearing lots of jewellery, stay away from the busybody saree, it takes away from the adornments.

Remember, you want to be wearing this saree again, maybe even at your son or daugther’s wedding, so spend a little and get something to your liking.


Decades in

Koorai

20s Chandan Fashion Koorai Saree with Black Corset

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Asiyans Koorai Saree & Jewellery

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Everything but Conventional

BERKELEY EVENTS

For the bride that wants more than a banquet hall

Always unforgettable, always special—the Berkeley Events is the epitome of urban charm, riveting with history, energy, and inspiration. Expect three diverse venues, each resonating with eclectic brilliance in architecture.

By: Cristina Jaimungal

Pssst….just admit it. You’re not really a fan of conventional banquet halls, are you? You’re tired of being promised a “traditional” hall that pledges perfection and convenience but under-delivers on bringing together exceptional service, meticulous attention-to-detail, and your personal style.

Berkeley Church & Field House The Berkeley Church’s cathedral entrance, original wooden floors, and 19th century stained-glass windows pay homage to antiquity, while the Field House’s antique white walls, glass French-doors, and scenic garden echo urban sophistication.

Think outside of the banquet hall box, and bring your event to life in an extraordinary way. From stunningly bold architecture to a subtle romantic ambiance, these trendsetting venues radiate with elegance, taste, and beauty. Most importantly, they are everything but conventional.

seating capacity: Berkeley 150-400 Field House 150

Airship 37 prides itself in being the most versatile space in Toronto. This freshly renovated warehouse can transform into anything you want it to be—it screams cutting-edge. And yes, this airy space will leave your heart beating as though you were in flight. seating capacity: 150

Trump International Hotel & Tower

THE CARLU Dramatic & Daring—The Carlu offers clients the ultimate in sophistication and service. With a mix of modern elegance and historic charm, this extravagant venue hosts four unrivalled event spaces, each offering a unique atmosphere that exudes classic romance:

Where bold elegance and luxury mingle— Trump is masterfully designed lavishness at its best. This premier venue boasts decadence and opulent extravagance. From the lush velvety entrance to the crystal dazzle of the iridescent chandeliers in the Grand Ballroom, this luxe-hotel is Toronto’s newest hot spot. Pamper yourself in luxury at the Quartz Crystal Spa, indulge in a Madras Pumpkin “shot”, and let the beauty of Toronto’s elite cityscape lure you in.

The Concert Hall is superbly breathtaking— it boasts a grand stage that makes this space distinctively bold. Contrasting the honey and walnut-coloured hardwood, the sleek metal trussing above is designed not only to suspend professional lighting for your dance floor but also to add flair to your décor. Sheets of lavish fabric can be draped through the trussing, effortlessly encompassing your guests in an enchanting canopy of soft opulence.

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The Round Room features an impressive high-ceiling dome centered perfectly over a classic Lalique fountain. The Lalique chandelier and ambient lighting around the dome glows beautifully as it cascades over hand-painted masterpieces.

The Royal Conservatory of Music

The Sky Room has a sharp modern appeal. With gallery-style lighting and wall embellishments, this contemporary room is ideal for a chic reception or ceremony. Displaying photographs of you and your loved ones will truly make your guests feel as though they are treasured pieces of artwork. seating capacity: 150-450

The Royal Conservatory of Music flirts with crisp modern elegance and natural warmth, making this space more than a prominent performance venue. Towering glass windows, blonde wooden walls, and sleek slate-coloured bricks blend harmoniously, as your eyes catch glimpses of the crystalline ROM, lively downtown, and serene Philosopher’s Walk. This venue masterfully unites the bright openness of the contemporary with light musical ambiance. seating capacity: 200

Atlantis Surrounded by deep waves and gleaming glass walls, Atlantis is the place for a magical wedding. The setting alone has instant visual appeal. The spectacular lights of the Toronto skyline will shimmer as you dance on the water. Atlantis is Toronto’s gem on the waterfront.

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Vividly inspiring and stylishly alluring, these five top venues boldly challenge the limits of a cookie-cutter banquet hall and throw convention out the window. Everything you wanted and more—all you have to do is choose one.

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Hara Traders

416.291.4464

2250 Midland Ave Toronto, ON 755 Morningside Ave Toronto, ON 2-2250 Markham Rd Toronto, ON www.haratrends.com arthi.anandane@gmail.com

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lue Peacock offers the flexibility of custom designed formal & bridal wear, with a delightful in-store collection of bridal lehengas, sherwanis, saris, exclusive suits in Punjabi styles, Bollywood styles and Karachi styles. We complete the look with absolutely stunning accessories, jewellery, sandals and clutches.

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From Wedding Bliss to Marital Stress: How to Cope

with Post-Wedding In Laws

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t’s official. You have finally taken that step. Family and friends surround both of you, all smiles and showering you with many blessings. You have tied the knot, literally, and now you’re embarking on a new chapter with your husband, trying to create your own fairy tale, your own happily ever after, your own adventure as life partners. After allowing yourself to be saturated in the rosy bubble that surrounded the wedding and the honeymoon, you come back to the harsh reality. Hit with that realization that the bubble of happiness in which you hoped to only include you and your husband, needs to now and forever more be expanded to include the in-laws....what do you do? It’s not uncommon for the bride to leave the comfort of her own independence and her own family to take that bold step into unknown grounds. She can do her best to try and formulate a co-operative and, (maybe naively) hope for a harmonious relationship with the parents of her better half. Possibility? Maybe. But mostly the answer is no. The saying, “distance makes the heart grow fonder” holds more truth in a couple’s relationship with their in-laws than any other relationship. Mamas of grooms, especially South Asian mothers, still retain that little boy image of their sons, an image that postulates them to still nurture, care for and feed their grown male offspring, without the rationality or belief that he is probably capable of doing those things himself after all these years. Especially in a culture where boys hold more value than girls, there is a sense of pride within the mother as well as a greater expectation put forth on the wife to take on the role of the nurturer. As soon as the bride comes in, there is an unconscious power struggle, comparisons made, actions criticized and frustrations mount. So where does the heart grow fonder? To be able to maintain a positive and harmonious relationship with the in-laws, there has to be a distance. Couples need to take a few steps away from the parents to be able to build a strong foundation of marriage for their future. The couple as well as the in-laws have to have a clear grasp on the understanding that the marriage was tied

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between one man and one woman, not the family. Boundaries have to be set by the couple to figure out in what capacity the in-laws would take part and influence their marriage. Easier said than done I’m sure. In any relationship, whether it is with partner or parents, clear communication is imperative in maintaining a congenial bond. To be able to set those boundaries, you need to know who you are and be open and honest with your spouse as to what you can and cannot accept. However having said that, as much as it is important for a woman to be able to assert her place as the wife within the family, there also has to be a level of flexibility and maturity within both spouses to take into account the views and the desires of the other person as well as the inlaws. Being able to do this effectively, without any confusion or drama, can help build a supportive, interdependent relationship. Once that can be done, maybe the rosy bubble of marital bliss that you only thought included you and your spouse, can cheerfully expand to include the family, without contrite or fear of getting a possible migraine. One can dream.

By Tasha Nathan


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DREAMY HONEYMOON DESTINATIONS Pack your bags and grab your partner for some romance, relaxation and for anything but the ordinary.

British Columbia, Canada: If you love being one with nature and enjoy activities like hiking and kayaking, consider the Canadian Rocky Mountains. Whether you and your partner are ardent outdoor enthusiasts, hopeless romantics, or both, you will be sure to appreciate this spectacular natural setting of lush forests, snowcapped peaks, and a crystal clear mountain lake. Take your loved one on romantic paddle around Griffin Lake, enjoy the outdoors under the clear star-filled skies, embark on one of the short wilderness trails, try your hand at fishing or relax with a good book by the lake.

Here are 5 adventures worth taking whether that means heading for the sea, land or a combination.

Cape Town, South Africa: Experience the beautiful city of Cape town, the game reserves of Kruger Park or the dream-like beaches because South Africa is a world in one country. In addition to this, the ‘Rainbow Nation’ is home to a large number of different cultures with a deep rooted and interesting history. With a favourable exchange rate, this means you can truly spoil yourselves on spa treatments, romantic meals, adventure activities and shopping sprees. Take in the sights with a safari. With pleasant year-round climate, you can explore the vivid plains to seek out the world’s most dramatic wildlife.

Dublin, Ireland: The Emerald Isle is plush with greenery and rolling mountains – especially the breathtaking west coast, with its quaint villages, and wind-swept scenery. It’s the ideal spot for brides and grooms looking to explore castles, get cozy by the fireplace and wander in that green that seems to stretch forever. The average price of a hotel per night has been falling over the past two years, so it can be an affordable honeymoon after all the wedding expenses. Tip: Skip Dublin and fly straight into Shannon Airport, and you’ll save both money and time (it’s an hour closer to the United States than Dublin), without sacrificing the attractions for which Ireland is known — welcoming locals, thriving musical culture and rugged natural beauty.

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North Male Atoll, Maldives: Set over the turquoise lagoon, this destination is the ideal retreat for newlywed couples looking to relax and kick back. Offering a harmony between spectacular natural beauty, honeymooners can enjoy sun kissed days and moonlit nights. Embrace the beautiful, tranquil atmosphere of this delightful tropical island that seems designed exclusively for couples in love.

Los Cabos, Mexico: A verdant oasis on the tip of the Baja Peninsula, Los Cabos is the window to paradise where azure waters greet the mountainous desert and the Pacific Ocean merges with the Sea of Cortez. Los Cabos is also where grey whales can be seen rising majestically in the distance. There is something for everyone: big game fishing, world-class golf, scuba diving, snorkeling and kayaking, quiet coves and inlets, taking to the outback on ATVs, bikes and horseback, relaxing and rejuvenating in high-end spas and luxury resorts, or dancing ‘til dawn.




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