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WE WILL REMEMBER THEM: Reverend Jeremy Ive led the Remembrance service on Sunday at the War Memorial. He was joined by the Mayor (Cllr) Hugh Patterson, members of the Royal British Legion and political parties. For more see page 2
Tudeley campaign victory as development set to be shelved By Grace Corcoran CONTROVERSIAL housing plans for Tudeley Village are set to be withdrawn by Tunbridge Wells Borough Council following recommendations set out by officers in a revised development strategy. On Monday November 13, members of the advisory board unanimously agreed that the 2,800 homes planned for Tudeley Village in Capel Parish be dropped from the Local Plan.
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Meeting Councillor for Capel Ward Hugh Patterson, Mayor and Chair of Capel Parish Council, spoke at the Cabinet meeting in favour of the Inspector’s recommendations to remove Tudeley
Village from the Plan. He told the Times: “I think Tudeley clearly lacked the infrastructure necessary to support 2,800 new homes. The Planning Inspector required more evidence to remove the site from the Green Belt and TWBC was unable to provide it. This represents a victory for a community campaign led by the Save Capel and Capel Parish Council which has fought hard over the last four and a half years to protect the nature of this rural parish.” He added: “I also welcome the reduced numbers of houses planned in East Capel, and I am pleased they will no longer be built in areas vulnerable to fluvial flooding. However, there are still questions to be answered about the remaining allocation.” Inspector Matthew Birkinshaw’s initial findings were received by TWBC in
November 2022, in which concerns surrounding the proposed developments including congestion, flooding and deliverability were raised. The Times has reported extensively on the contentious plans for the development, proposed to help the Council meet the government housing targets of building over 13,000 new homes by 2038. In response to the proposed developments first drafted in 2019, a campaign group ‘Save Capel’ was formed to try block the development. Stewart Gledhill, Chairman of Save Capel, said at the meeting on Monday (November 13): “In 2019 there was an overwhelming objection to the proposal in the unprecedented 8,000 responses to the public consultation. “Despite this, the Council persisted and
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it has become increasingly clear that you had no plan B, ignoring the reasonable alternatives highlighted by Save Caple and many others. Councillors, it is encouraging that you are now being asked to agree with the Inspector’s initial findings a year ago. “We get the need for due diligence, but we are concerned about the time taken and the further costs incurred unnecessarily pursuing the Tudeley option. Crucially, the inspector has not determined that the proposal could ever be made inevitably sound.” The group, which has 2,000 supporters, believes the deletion of Tudeley Village is a ‘significant victory’ for the Parish, who have argued at every stage of the process that the Tudeley development was unsustainable. The plans were also criticised by Tonbridge & Malling Council, as the sites are less than a mile from the border with Tonbridge. Though there will be a reduction of dwellings proposed for Paddock Wood and East Capel along with revised employment and educational provision, the work for the campaigners has not finished as they have ‘serious concerns about the development strategy for East Capel’ where thousands of homes are still planned. Tunbridge Wells MP Greg Clark was unavailable for comment at the time of going to press. Following the recommendations, Prospective Liberal Democrat MP for Tunbridge Wells, Mike Martin, said: “I’m glad that these badly thought-out Conservative housing plans are set
to be scrapped. We need to build houses, but they must have the accompanying infrastructure like roads, GP surgeries and schools. That they planned to build on a flood zone says everything about how irresponsible the previous Conservative administration was. Despite claiming that houses should always be built with infrastructure, the local Conservative MP allowed this to happen on his watch.” The recommended strategy sees additional housing at Hawkhurst of approximately 70
dwellings, a medical centre and school expansion land. Following adoption, the Council will undertake an early review of the Local Plan, which will include further investigation of ways of meeting identified housing needs for the period post 2034. The report will progress to Cabinet on December 7 and then Full Council on December 13 where all Councillors will vote on the recommendations. If successful, the revisions will be subject to a public consultation.
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Tributes paid on Remembrance Sunday By Archie Lawrence REMEMBRANCE SUNDAY saw thousands turn out across the Borough to pay their respects to servicemen and women who lost their lives in wars. Those in attendance gathered at the War Memorial at Town Hall, on Sunday November 12 at the main Remembrance service in Tunbridge Wells. The Reverend Jeremy Ive led the service and he was joined by the Mayor (Cllr) Hugh Patterson, members of the Royal British Legion, Civic leaders, political parties, the RTW Orpheus Male Choir and the Salvation Army Band. The service began at 10.50am, and on the eleventh hour the traditional two-minute silence was observed. More than 1,000 people took part in the parade, including members of Tunbridge Wells Borough Council, the army reserve, the town’s five military cadet units, St John Ambulance, and lots of different town organisations. Heading up the parade were 24 veterans, including members from the town’s former adopted warship HMS Brilliant. This year mention was made of the bench, located outside the Town Hall in Civic Way,
which was funded by the former crew of Brilliant and their supporters to remember those who have served and are no longer with us. Lieutenant Commander (SCC) Jon Vanns told the Times: “It’s an honour to parade with those who have served their country and remember those who have fallen in battle but also those who have now died that took part in conflicts from 1914 to the present.” After the main service, wreaths were laid at the four war memorials at Tunbridge Wells Cemetery.
THE BOROUGH REMEMBERS There were also other Remembrance events across the Borough. Two poignant displays were put together by volunteers in Pembury, on the village green and next to the war memorial. These included handmade silhouettes of soldiers, horses, dogs and pigeons and a soldier mannequin as well as many displays of poppies on trees, railings and benches.
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THE LITTLE Learning Tree Preschool will be closing its site at Showfields on December 15. In a statement, owners Hayley and Alice said: “It is with a heavy heart that we have had to make the very difficult decision to close our Showfields setting. “We have provided exceptional education, care and support to the children and families of the Showfields and Ramslye area for the past seven years.” They added: “However, over the last few years we have amassed a detrimental financial loss due to the gross underfunding from the government. Additionally, as a result of the regeneration of the Showfields area, this academic year we have seen numbers at an all-time low.” The preschool will continue to provide Early Years education and support to families at their other sites in Southborough and Bayhall Road. They said they may return to the Showfields area in the future, after the regeneration is complete.
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Mayor’s Toy Appeal launches By Grace Corcoran LAST week volunteers began filling sacks with presents as The Mayor’s Toy Appeal got underway for 2023. Its aim is to gather and distribute as many new toys and gifts for disadvantaged children in the town and wider Borough. The charity’s temporary headquarters is located on the second floor in Royal Victoria Place and opened last Thursday (November 9). Planning for the appeal, which saw 680 children receive gifts last year, started back in April. Trevor Crawford, who has taken over this year’s appeal from Karen Collins, told the Times: “We work closely with social workers and agencies to create a wishlist of gifts for children based on their interests. “Our volunteers will move around our headquarters, picking gifts for children and placing them into a sack. Our volunteers even ensure that
siblings do not receive the same presents or that one receives more than the other.” There’s a variety of toys for children and teenagers, up to the age of 18. LEGO sets are always popular, Trevor explains, with stacked boxes of construction toys lining a whole wall. Soft toys, puzzles, toiletries, and books are also on offer.
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Demand The Barbie doll is in demand this year, Trevor says, no doubt due to the release of the hit film in July. There are also a number of sensory toys for children with disabilities. Gifts are donated by members of the public, and many presents are donated by local businesses too. Beneficiary families are referred to the appeal, which started in 1987, from Social Services, churches, schools and other agencies.
TWBC Better Streets design workshop
AS PART of its work to enhance the street environment in the St John’s and St James’ areas of Royal Tunbridge Wells, the Council is working closely with the local community. Residents and those interested in the Better Streets schemes in these areas are invited to come along to a Collaborative Design Workshop on Saturday November 18, at The Hub in Grosvenor & Hilbert Park, Tunbridge Wells from 10am to 1pm. Attendees can drop in at any time between those hours. At the drop-in residents can share their ideas for interventions and improvements in their area and contribute to emerging designs. A team of street designers, engineers, and officers will be on hand to listen to your input and showcase examples. The event is open to everyone, and no registration is required.
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VOLUNTEERS: The Mayor’s Toy Appeal team at RVP
This year, Trevor and his team of volunteers will be at RTW Together’s Big Reveal light switch-on events. A large Teddy Mayor bear will also be inflated today (Wednesday November 15) and can be located in the Upper Mall of RVP. The charity is operating from a pop-up shop, lent to them by RVP, opposite Taste of the Wells on the Upper Mall throughout November and early December. Other donation points can be found at Maddisons Residential on The Pantiles, St George’s Childcare on Chilston Road, The Amelia Scott on Mount Pleasant Road, Trinity Theatre, Royal Victoria Place and Barsleys in Paddock Wood. Donated presents must be brand new and appropriate for specific age groups. The Giving Trees at Royal Victoria Place and St George’s Childcare will once again feature in this year’s appeal, giving children the chance to tie their Christmas wishes to the tree to be fulfilled by those wishing to donate a present. Residents can also give gifts via the charity’s Amazon Wish List, details of which can be found on their website. To find out more about the Mayor’s Toy Appeal, visit the website at twmta.co.uk, or follow the charity on Instagram @mayorstoyappealtw.
Pub in the Park festival no longer Male choir puts on concert for hospice ‘viable’ for town organisers say
THE ROYAL Tunbridge Wells Orpheus Male Choir will be playing a concert in aid of Hospice in the Weald on Saturday December 2. The choir, which was founded in 1938, has raised hundreds of thousands of pounds for charities and churches over the decades. Led by Musical Director Kent Lee and Accompanist Adam Crane, the choir have delighted audiences with their wide range of music and four-part harmonies. The event takes place on Saturday December 2, 7:30pm at St Peter and St Paul Church, Tonbridge. Tickets are £10 and available on the door.
The Polygons set to headline Camden gig
A LOCAL indie rock band who played their first-ever gig at The Forum in Tunbridge Wells are headlining the Camden Assembly on Saturday November 18. The Polygons met at Mascalls Academy, Paddock Wood and formed back in 2016 while at the school. Upon their first gig at The Forum Tunbridge Wells, they were invited back to support False Advertising and Toploader on different dates. Catch them in London at the HOT VOX presents event, where emerging artists come together on the underground circuit. Doors open at 6.45pm at The Camden Assembly, Chalk Farm Road. Tickets £11.55 at: hotvox.co.uk
By Ben Cornwell ORGANISERS of Pub in the Park announced last Friday (November 10), that it would not be bringing the ‘good food and grooves’ festival back to the town, deeming it to be ‘not viable’ for 2024. When the Times contacted the event’s press team on Tuesday (November 14) the newspaper was told that the three-day event – which was started by celebrity chef Tom Kerridge in his town of Marlow Buckinghamshire in 2017 would not be returning to the town’s Dunorlan Park. The popular summer food and drink festival was first launched in Tunbridge Wells in 2018.
Focusing Pub in the Park organisers told the Times: “We loved hosting Pub in the Park in Tunbridge Wells, but regrettably it isn’t viable to continue, and therefore we’re focusing on building four of the best events we can in 2024, using learnings from the ten-event tour last year. We appreciate that may be disappointing news but hope you’ll be able to come to your new nearest Pub in the Park event.” The organisers failed to comment on whether there is a chance for Tunbridge Wells to return to the annual Pub in the Park calendar sometime in the future. The new format hasn’t only impacted Tunbridge Wells as previous venues such as Wimbledon,
Bath, Leamington Spa and Brighton have also been chopped from the foodie event’s schedule. In last week’s press statement Pub in the Park said that they had decided to replace their regional touring format – which last year boasted 10 different venues – in favour of creating four ‘bigger and better’ festivals. These will take place over the summer months in Marlow, Chiswick, Reigate and St Albans. The popular event was created by the Michelinstarred Kerridge to ‘celebrate everything there is to love about the glorious British pub’ such as delicious local food and drink, live music, and
the opportunity for people to have a great time with their friends and family. Over the past five years, Pub in the Park has featured cooking demos from some of the best celebrity chefs including James Martin and Matt Tebbutt, pop-up kitchens from the likes of the Tanner Brothers at the Kentish Hare and performances by musical artists such as Craig David, McFly and the Grammy-nominated Sister Sledge. When the Times interviewed Tom Kerridge ahead of him coming here with the event in 2018 he said: “We’re so excited about it, we can’t wait to come to Tunbridge Wells.”
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Tunbridge Wells prepares for its Biggest Reveal yet By Ben Cornwell
THIS Thursday (November 16) The Big Reveal, billed by its organisers as ‘The ultimate Christmas event in Tunbridge Wells’, is returning for its biggest year to date. “There will be lots of festive magic for the whole family to enjoy at this year’s free events which will take place in three different town locations for 2023,” a spokesperson for the Big Reveal told the Times. “There will be carol singing, music, and some delicious festive food and drink. Not to mention an incredibly special visit for the little ones as Santa Claus is coming to town with his magic sleigh!” With the support of the RTW Together BID, this year’s reveal, taking place from 4pm-7pm, will be held across three days (Thursday November 16-Saturday November 18).
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Charity launches winter energy voucher scheme By Jack Thornton NOURISH Community Foodbank is appealing for donations to help them keep their local clients warm during the colder winter months. Nourish is asking pensioners, who are not struggling financially, and have received a winter fuel payment if they would consider donating the money to the charity so their clients can heat their homes throughout the winter. Energy prices across the UK continue to remain high, with energy research and analytics consultants, Cornwell Insight calculating that a typical dual-fuel household now pays £1,923 each year and forecasts that prices will rise further in January 2024. Nourish, which has been running in the local community for more than ten years, previously ran an energy voucher scheme to help reduce some of the financial strain facing residents of Tunbridge Wells. This was initially funded by Central Government and then later by the charity itself. However, they have since had to suspend this scheme due to having to purchase tons of food to meet the huge demand within the community.
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“The community Christmas lights will be switched on by some incredibly special children put forward by the local charities including Mental Health Resource Tunbridge Wells, Pickering Cancer Drop-In Centre, Imago Community and Tree of Hope,” the spokesperson added. “This year’s lights will be once again provided by the Kent-based company Gala Lights, however for 2023, the three Big Reveal Christmas window trails will take visitors through three unique locations: the Upper Town and Camden Road (November 16), Mount Pleasant, High Street and Chapel Place (November 17) and its original location of The Pantiles (November 18). “Many of the local traders have been hard at work on their creative designs so make sure to remember to vote for all your favourite festive display windows as you wander through the trails.” For this year’s event, RTW Together BID is investing a total of £90,000, including £15,000 provided by Tunbridge Wells Borough Council. This will cover all the main Christmas lights for the town (including contributions to Royal Victoria Place and The Pantiles light decorations), the new Ferris Wheel in Calverley Grounds, donations to the Round Table Santa Sleigh and Hospice in the Weald’s Tree of Light. Alex Green, CEO of RTW Together BID told the Times: “Tunbridge Wells is quite an unusual location in that it spans across a long area, so we
wanted the three-day event to celebrate all the different areas that make up this incredible town. One of our core objectives is to support local and generate footfall into the town, and this is a great way to get many of our local bid members, shops, hospitality and businesses, involved in an event that encourages people to visit them. “We have had a brilliant response from companies wanting to reveal a Christmas window and I have definitely heard rumours of some friendly competition on some streets in the town. We can’t wait to hear who is going to win the public vote for best window in 2023.” As well as the festive trails, there will also be an opportunity to meet the characters from the Once Upon a Wish Princesses on Thursday. Residents will also have the chance to see one of their ‘Frosty Tales’ shows at the pre-Big Reveal entertainment happening at 2pm, 3pm, 4pm and 5.35pm in Royal Victoria Place. There will also be further opportunities to meet cast members from the Assembly Hall Theatre’s Beauty and the Beast pantomime, starring former Eastenders actor Rita Simons, and Trinity Theatre’s Cinderella, on Friday and Saturday respectively. For more information about the Big Reveal, visit the website at: bigrevealrtw.co.uk
Last year, Nourish provided 117,423 meals to help feed residents across Tunbridge Wells with children under the age of 18 making up 45 per cent of the residents impacted by the charity’s work. Dawn Stanford, Operations Director for Nourish Community Foodbank told the Times: “As you may be aware, over the past couple of years, Nourish Community Foodbank has not been receiving enough food donations to support the people in our community that are living in food poverty. Where we used to receive 75 per cent of the food we distribute from community donations, this has now reduced to 25 per cent and we are now having to purchase huge quantities of food to service all our clients. “As a result, we have had to stop purchasing and issuing energy vouchers, just at the time when they are most needed.” Anyone interested in making a cash donation to help those in need stay warm this winter can give via: localgiving.org/charity/nourish, or via PayPal at: paypal.com/gb/fundraiser/ charity/189751.
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Service RTW Civic Society call for Council Ambulance announces plans to roll out new strategy action to save local heritage site Paul Avis, Chair of the Civic Society tells the Times that TWBC risks missing a ‘unique opportunity’ for an invaluable cultural destination in the town… the social history of Tunbridge Wells, which has been fundamentally shaped by Burton’s vision for the town. The museum would provide a valuable educational resource for local children and a cultural asset that would draw visitors to the town. It would provide beautiful Regency period indoor spaces for all to enjoy, including a shop, café and sensory garden. We estimate that the museum could increase the town’s profile and generate at least £750,000 a year for the local economy.
Revenue 9 & 10 CRESCENT ROAD LAST week, Tunbridge Wells Borough Council (TWBC) listed 9 & 10 Crescent Road and the adjoining public car park for sale. The Royal Tunbridge Wells Civic Society (The Civic Society) and the Decimus Burton Society are calling for urgent action to avoid losing a unique opportunity to both save and celebrate Tunbridge Wells’ heritage, while boosting the town’s attractions with a centre of national importance. At the invitation of TWBC, the societies had tabled a proposal for creating a new museum for Tunbridge Wells in the largely vacant 9 & 10 Crescent Road. The plan submitted is to celebrate the nationally important work of the architect Decimus Burton, the huge influence he had on making Tunbridge Wells the town it is today (including designing 9 & 10 Crescent Road), and
The societies have developed a business plan for a not-for-profit museum, for which they would seek funding from grants and generate revenue for the museum, with no request for money from the Council proposed. We are publicly asking for TWBC to withdraw the property’s listing and to urgently speak with us so we can agree a way of securing the buildings for the good of the town. We also welcome any offers of support from other interested parties, whether from those who would like to volunteer their skills in delivering such a project, or any person or organisation that may be able to assist financially. It is unfortunate that despite all the support for the project from residents, national institutions and interest groups, as well as the national press, the Council has so far been unable to back the project – although we understand no final decision has yet been made.
We think it would be an unforgivable shame to let this asset be lost. Please visit the website of either the Royal Tunbridge Wells Civic Society or the Decimus Burton Society to learn more about the project. We urge everyone who supports this idea to let their Councillors know before it’s too late. A spokesperson for TWBC told the Times: “The property is being marketed and offers received as sealed bids. Cabinet are being asked for delegated authority to enable a suitable offer to be accepted and to complete all necessary legal formalities once the sealed bid process has been concluded.”
THE BIDDING PROCESS Last week, it was reported that the 9 & 10 Crescent Road property designed by Burton − previously valued at £1.8million in 2022 − has been listed for sale as an ‘exciting development opportunity’ on commercial property consultants, Lambert Smith Hampton’s website. The sale is expected to go through a process of sealed bids, whereby the potential buyers are invited to submit their offer in a sealed envelope, and like in a blind auction, without prior knowledge of the other bids. Once the deadline has passed, the Council will then assess each bid and make their final decision over the future of the two adjoining 19th-century buildings.
SOUTH East Coast Ambulance Service NHS Foundation Trust (Secamb) is developing a new clinically led strategy which will utilise data to ensure the Trust can continue to meet the requirements of its patients. This comes after their 2022/23 review, published last week, found that just 13 per cent of calls to its 999 service are for critically ill or injured people whilst over half of all calls (54 per cent) come from the over 65s. A spokesperson for Secamb told the Times: “The new strategy is vital for our whole region including Tunbridge Wells, so we are best placed to respond to the changing needs of our population and, by working with our partners, that our patients receive the most appropriate care for their needs.”
Proportion The Trust’s Chief Medical Officer, Rachel Oaten, added: “Our patients have diverse needs, spanning the spectrum from social care to critical care but only a small proportion truly require emergency or critical care. Despite this changing variety and increasing complexity, we typically respond to all patients in an undifferentiated, time-driven way. This one-size-fits-all model does not always meet all our patients’ needs or support our workforce.” Secamb, which is responsible for covering Kent, East Sussex, West Sussex, Surrey, and North East Hampshire are inviting members of the public to help shape its new strategy. The Trust plans to have this in place by early 2024, once this initial engagement stage has been completed. Members of the public who would like to get involved or find out more, are invited to email strategy@secamb.nhs.uk.
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Davina McCall empowers students at new conference You have to keep walking: things happen if you walk. If you sit down and wait for someone to come to you it’s not going to happen.” Davina also discussed her experience with the menopause and Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT). She continued: “When the menopause hit, I lost my enthusiasm. I felt like I’d lost myself. HRT saved my career, my family life, my life. “It’s not ok to have continual problems with accessing your type of HRT, it has profound effects on women.” Davina urged women not to settle for mistreatment from doctors, and not to be afraid to seek out a second opinion, saying, ‘You’ve got to keep going to get the help you need’.
Influence By Elena Percy LAST week, TV personality Davina McCall hosted the inaugural Women and Wellness conference hosted by Benenden School. Davina joined a range of speakers to discuss topics such as the menopause, pensions, investing, nutrition and digital safety. Around 200 Benenden students and members of the local community were in attendance to learn more about the issues that matter to women in the 21st century, with Davina encouraging the audience of students to go after what they want. She said: “I cannot encourage you more to hustle. If you think you don’t have a voice, get someone’s email address and make a noise.
The Women and Wellness conference was designed to inform and empower young women to influence real change for generations to come. It follows the school’s recent global conference Inspiring Future Female Leaders, which saw inspirational alumnae – including former Benenden student HRH The Princess Royal – in attendance. These flagship events form part of Benenden School’s Centenary celebrations, as the school marks 100 years of providing young women with their hallmark ‘Complete Education’. Samantha Price, Headmistress at Benenden School, said: “It is hugely important to educate women at all stages of life about the issues that are relevant to them, something that Benenden has been doing proudly for 100 years.”
Tackling action for women’s rights gains media attention By Grace Corcoran LAST week, Reclaim the Night co-founder Lauren Brook and Tunbridge Wells MP Greg Clark appeared on BBC South East Today to talk about street harassment and intimidation against women. Campaigner Lauren spoke to BBC presenter Chrissie Reidy about her own ‘terrifying’ experience of street harassment and stalking, when she was harassed in broad daylight after work, and the way she, like many other women, have to change their behaviour due to fear. “I have countless times, changed my route home, made sure I have flat shoes on in case I need to run, called someone on the way home,” she said. An investigation by UN Women UK, found 96 per cent of women who had been sexually harassed in a public space did not report because of the
belief that it would not change anything. Earlier this year, Tunbridge Wells MP Greg Clark’s ‘Protection from Sex-based Harassment in Public Bill’ was passed, making it a criminal offence to follow and intimidate women walking through the streets or making explicit, abusive comments at them with a jail term of two years. Mr Clark said: “To harass a woman deliberately to make them feel intimidated and alarmed, that is not a specific offence and therefore a lot of girls and women don’t report such offences and a lot of police forces have not been taking such reports as seriously as they should because it has never been a specific offence”.
Intimidate He added: “The Bill corrects that and that’s why it is such an important milestone”. The Reclaim the Night campaign and walk, organised by Lauren and Cllr Jayne Sharratt (Labour), will return for a second year running. This year the walk will be held on Saturday November 25 to coincide with the United Nation’s International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women and Girls. The march will start at 7.30pm with two starting points – outside One Stop on Rusthall High Street or outside St John’s Church in Tunbridge Wells and both will head down to The Pantiles. The organisers told the Times all are welcome to attend.
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Chain pub to reopen with different name after management buyout By Lauren Brook PITCHER & PIANO, the popular pub chain located at 3-5 Church Road in Tunbridge Wells, is set to become a locally-run and owned bar after its General Manager of 23 years, Shahpur Sherazi, purchased his share of the business. Shahpur – or ‘Shaps’ as he is also known – will be partnering with Marstons Brewery to launch the newly-named Manor House at the end of this month. The revamped venue will boast a brand-new kitchen, first-floor pub and basement club, which will regularly host special entertainment nights. The bar will continue to trade as Pitcher & Piano until the last weekend of November. In a social media post the Pitcher & Piano team praised its long-standing staff, some of whom have worked there since it opened 24 years ago.
The post read: “The last few weeks have been a bit of a whirlwind, but we have some exciting news to share with you all… Today, Shaps has purchased his share & partnered with Marstons to bring the bar into a new era. This means we will be re-branding from a large chain to a locally run business with the people of Tunbridge Wells at the forefront of what we do.” The chain has been trading in Tunbridge Wells for 24 years, having opened in 1999. The post went on to note that since its launch in 1999 the Pitcher & Piano team has stayed ‘consistent’ with a lot of the management, bar staff, chefs and door staff being there since day one. “The scary part is that our children (who actually learnt how to walk on our infamous dance floor) are now a part of the team!” added the Pitcher & Piano spokesperson.
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Newly-qualified solicitor joins team at CooperBurnett A Tunbridge Wellsbased law firm has announced that Natalie Lai, who joined its Corporate and Commercial team earlier this year, has successfully passed her SQE examination and is now qualified as a solicitor in NATALIE LAI England and Wales, in addition to her existing qualification in Hong Kong. “My Hong Kong qualification enables me to pursue legal roles in the UK, as the legal systems in both jurisdictions are highly similar,” said Natalie. “However, I am dedicated to staying and working here, so it made sense to become locally qualified. I’m pleased that all the paperwork has gone through now.” Victoria Sampson, Partner and Head of the Corporate and Commercial team adds: “Here at CooperBurnett, we are seeing members of the team qualify by following a few different routes and we are really happy that Natalie has successfully passed her SQE. She has been a really positive addition to our firm and we are celebrating her success with TeamCB.” Before embarking on her legal career, Natalie trained as a tax assessor and spent over seven years working for the Hong Kong tax authority. She holds non-practising memberships in CPA (HK), ACCA (UK) and ACA (UK). “It has always been my dream to become a lawyer,” Natalie explains, revealing that her
background in accountancy and taxation proves valuable when assisting clients. “I am familiar with examining accounts and can readily identify discrepancies.” Natalie studied part-time to qualify as a solicitor, while working in Hong Kong, and then spent five years in the legal industry there, focusing on corporate and commercial law. She brought with her experience in corporate and commercial law, focusing on private M&A, corporate restructuring, general commercial practice (such as advising on commercial agreements and business transactions), company administration and governance, shareholders’ agreements and T&Cs.
Supportive Upon deciding to move to Leeds in August 2022 to work for a national law firm, Natalie eventually found herself drawn to CooperBurnett. She recounts her initial impressions: “I felt truly inspired when I first spoke to Victoria. Her positive and supportive attitude gave me the confidence to embrace the new challenges at CooperBurnett.” In terms of her work, she says: “I find it fascinating to assist businesses with transactions that can have a significant impact on their future. I also enjoy the challenge and excitement of analysing complex legal issues and finding practical solutions for our clients. “It’s rewarding to help clients achieve their goals and grow in a competitive market.” Now that she is qualified, Natalie says she’s planning to pursue additional qualifications to enhance her role. “Lawyers are always learning,” she adds.
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Don’t miss your chance to be a Times Business Award sponsor
By Eileen Leahy THE TIMES Business Awards is returning in 2024 to find the best businesses in and around Tunbridge Wells – and local companies now have the chance to sponsor an awards category. The seventh edition of the annual awards ceremony promises to be another showstopper, with two new categories and former Strictly star-turned-business entrepreneur Brendan Cole as the celebrity host. The event is also a fantastic opportunity to network at one of the region’s biggest business socials of the year. Next year’s gala dinner will take place in the Victorian Theatre at Salomons Estate on Thursday March 14, 2024. There are ten categories available to sponsor including two new ones for 2024: Food & Drink Hero and Retailer of the Year. Retailer of the Year recognises outstanding contributions made to the local area by a retailer, while Food and Drink Hero is for the best companies in food and drink, with a focus on those who source locally and sustainably. In a first for the event, these new awards will be voted for by the general public. More details will be announced at the beginning of next month.
Awareness There is an award that’s suitable for every business trading in the town and borough of Tunbridge Wells to sponsor. These include Creative Business of the Year, Green Business of the Year and Charity of the Year, which returns for the second year and honours local charities and not-for-profit organisations who play a positive role in the life of our area. In Best Family Business of the Year, judges will be acknowledging businesses that show how being a family business has had a positive impact on its achievements. Other Times Business Awards celebrate environmental achievements, creativity, and businesses of varying sizes. As and when categories have a new sponsor, the Times will reveal who they are in its business pages. Apart from the aforementioned two new categories being voted for by the public, the winners in all the others will be chosen by a panel of independent judges. These are drawn from a range of sectors, with each selected to bring their unique insight into not only what makes a good company, but also what makes business good for the local area. Launching in 2016, the glitzy awards ceremony showcases the best businesses the area has to offer and welcomes over 200 guests to the gala evening. Over the years celebrity presenters have included former MPs Michael Portillo and Edwina Currie, Radio DJ Ken Bruce and Strictly’s Anton du Beke have overseen the popular awards ceremony. This year we look forward to welcoming Brendan Cole who will host the evening at Salomons Victorian Theatre on March 14. Commenting on his involvement Brendan said last week: “I am pleased to have been asked to present the Times Business Awards for 2024. I’m looking forward to being part of honouring the best businesses that BRENDAN COLE have triumphed over the past year.”
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THE BEST IN LOCAL BUSINESS Each category is available for sponsorship. For details please contact Robin Singer at: robin.singer@onemediauk.co.uk START-UP BUSINESS OF THE YEAR This award recognises companies founded since January 2022, which have been attracting lots of attention. CREATIVE BUSINESS OF THE YEAR This is a very strong sector for Tunbridge Wells, covering the creative, design, marketing and PR sectors which have made our town their home. CHARITY OF THE YEAR For this category, judges will analyse the charities and not-for-profit organisations which play such a positive role in the life of our area. GREEN BUSINESS OF THE YEAR This category will recognise companies for their commitment to the environment, whether through reducing energy usage, ‘localising’ their supply chains or any other green initiatives. BEST FAMILY BUSINESS OF THE YEAR The judges will be looking for the business that best demonstrates how running a family business has added significantly to its competitive advantage. The winner will need to show how being a family business has had a positive impact on its achievements. BEST BUSINESS 1-25 EMPLOYEES This award is for companies with a workforce of up to 25 which have maintained consistent growth and strong financial performance, both meeting customer expectations and supporting employee welfare and growth.
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BEST BUSINESS 26+ EMPLOYEES Consistent growth, financial performance and an engaged, positive workforce are just some of the criteria that set these companies apart from other medium to large businesses in the area. OUTSTANDING BUSINESS OF THE YEAR This award will reveal which company demonstrates the best combination of growth, ambition and quality of management in the area. The ‘outstanding’ company has delivered on a compelling business strategy, while developing its employees’ skills and looking after staff. TWO NEW CATEGORIES: RETAILER OF THE YEAR This new award, nominated by the general public, will recognise outstanding contributions made to the local area by a retailer. Open to retailers large or small, with a local or national presence. FOOD AND DRINK HERO This new category, also voted for by the general public, is for local companies that produce or serve the very best in food and drink, especially those that source locally and sustainably. All kinds of establishments are eligible, from fine-dining restaurants to small-scale producers. For more details, visit the dedicated website: timesbusinessawards.co.uk
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Mother starts business inspired by her daughter By Archie Lawrence A SINGLE mother from Tunbridge Wells who started a business inspired by her adopted daughter wants to raise awareness of adoption. In her forties, Karen Burke decided she wanted a child but ‘faced discrimination’ in the adoption process due to being single. She tried IVF, but after four failed attempts, she chose to try adoption again. Karen told the Times: “Despite my previous negative experience, I tried the adoption route again. Thankfully it was a much smoother, if very intense, process the second time around.” It took nine months in total, following relevant preparations and meetings with social workers, before Erika, aged two-and-a-half, moved in with Karen.
children warm and dry, and parents stress-free with no soggy towels. “My daughter Erika has now been with me for eight years. We have had our ups and downs with attachment issues and an ADHD diagnosis, but she is the best thing that ever happened to me,” Karen said. “I want to show that not only is there always a happy ending to be found, but that adoption can be for anyone, even if like me you still haven’t found your Prince or Princess Charming.” For further details about the range, visit: gogoosey.co.uk.
Experience “Soon after, I decided to take her swimming. I was so excited to introduce her to the fun of the pool, but little did I know that the getting-driedand-dressed part could be so stressful! My normally calm child was having tantrums in the changing room, both of us cold and wet while I was racing to get her into some warm, dry clothes as quickly as possible,” Karen said. The experience led Karen to do some research into a solution, but a busy life as a single mum meant it took her several years to get her idea off the ground. Some years later, she launched Go Goosey – a quick-dry unisex onesie range, inspired by post-swims with her adopted daughter Erika. The products are made with water-repellent fabric that dries quickly, designed to keep
WARM AND COSY: Karen’s Go Goosey swimming onesie
PRIZE FUNDS: Guests at the AV Awards
Awards event raises over £13,000 for local charity
TAYLOR-MADE DREAMS was the recipient charity at the 25th Anniversary AV Awards, held at Evolution in Battersea Park in October. The event celebrates excellence amongst the AV industry’s people, companies, technologies and projects. “The evening, which was hosted by Southborough-based journalist Clive Couldwell, who is Group Editor of AV Magazine, and compered by comedian Rob Beckett, kicked off with a red carpet paparazzi-style arrival and glamorous drinks reception,” a spokesperson for the charity told the Times. Throughout the three-course meal, 1,400 dinner guests were able to bid on lots in aid of the charity. These included afternoon tea with David Walliams, a meet-and-greet with Matt Lucas and a meal for two at Heston Blumenthal’s Fat Duck, with a chauffeured Bentley to take them there. After dinner, representatives from Taylor-Made Dreams arranged casino tables for guests to
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enjoy spending custom-designed ‘funny money’ to play blackjack, dice and roulette, all raising funds for the charity. Speaking after the event, Suzi Mitchell, said: “The AV Awards night not only raised the fantastic sum of £13,200. It also allowed us to raise awareness of Taylor-Made Dreams to a new audience which we will forever be grateful for.
Awareness “Awareness of what Taylor-Made Dreams does is as crucial to us as fundraising, as the more people that know about us, the more support we can offer families in truly difficult and inconceivable circumstances. I’d like to thank all the generous donors and bidders for the auction prizes, those who participated in the casino tables and Clive Couldwell for giving us this incredible opportunity.”
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Bereavement charity gifts hospital special baby cot By Elena Percy
LAST week the maternity bereavement suite at Tunbridge Wells Hospital was presented with a special cot by the Maidstone Lions Club. Peter Hooper and Marion Brooks of Maidstone Lions gifted an Abi Cooling Cot to the hospital’s Hope Butler Suite. The new cot will enable families who suffer the tragedy of stillbirth to spend precious time with their baby. The special cots are designed to keep the baby at a cooler temperature, meaning that their child can stay with their parents for longer, giving families the chance to grieve and say goodbye in their own time. Marion Brooks and Peter Hooper met Specialist Bereavement Midwife, Harriet Whyatt, to officially hand over the cot to
the Maidstone and Tunbridge Wells NHS Trust and see first-hand where the cot would be used to support families bereaved by the loss of a baby. Harriet said: “Thank you to Abigail’s Footsteps and Maidstone Lions for the donation of our new Abi Cooling Cot – the time a family spends with their baby when they have died is so limited and precious. This cot will help make treasured memories for parents who have to go through the most devastating
‘Sadly, stillbirths occur daily, yet many hospitals are not equipped to deal with the parental care required’
DONATION: (L-r) Peter Hooper and Marion Brooks of Maidstone Lions, with Harriet Whyatt at Tunbridge Wells Hospital
experience anyone could imagine.” Abigail’s Footsteps is a Kent-based baby loss charity founded by parents Jo and David Ward 13 years ago following the death of their daughter Abigail Ward who was stillborn at 41 weeks. David, who is the Chief Executive of Abigail’s Footsteps said: “When we had our daughter Abigail, we only had two or three hours with her, and we were determined that parents who go through the same devastating experience as us would not have to say goodbye so quickly. “The Abi Cooling Cot allows families to have two or three days making precious memories with their baby if they wish and we are delighted that yet another hospital will benefit from this important cot, named in memory of our beautiful daughter Abigail.” Abigail’s Footsteps is committed to providing an Abi Cooling Cot for every hospital across the UK. Each special cot costs £2,800 and thanks to the generosity of those who fundraise for the charity they have been able to donate over 140 cots to hospitals. Since 2010, the charity has worked to improve the way bereaved parents are cared for by hospitals and to better educate midwives about how to care for grieving parents. “Sadly, stillbirths occur daily, yet many hospitals are not equipped to deal with the parental care required,” David explained. By working with medical professionals to understand the issues and seek solutions Abigail’s Footsteps has helped many families across the UK. abigailsfootsteps.co.uk
Pub offers local businesses rent-free community space
MAKING A STAND: The unit at The Bell in Ticehurst A PUB is on a mission to strengthen the community with its rent-free stand for local businesses. The Bell in Ticehurst has teamed up with a group of creatives to deliver ‘The Stand’ – a 2.5-metre-kissing-booth style structure which businesses can use. There’s no rental cost and, due to its size, there are no business rates. Conceived and commissioned by a developer and the Commissioner of Historic England Richard Upton, the structure is fashioned out of burnt larch and liquid copper and sits on Ticehurst’s High Street. With town centres falling into decline, The Stand seeks to re-ignite the community.
The concept design was created by Rich Brett and built by master craftsman Chris Baxter in the artist studios of the Old Ambulance Station at Bexhill – another community-led venture by Richard Upton. Mr Upton said: “To retain a thriving space in a declining economic environment requires some vision, investment and a whole lotta love. The Stand is born out of the need to support the vibrancy of our village, with heart and with progressive thinking. It is the living embodiment of taking a Big Idea to offer independent, affordable, artful and purpose-led regeneration and using every inch to move the local
conversation forward. The Stand will be outside of the award-winning pub as of November 16, and hopes to encourage local, sustainable and ethical businesses and suppliers to use the space and bring the community together. “It is not just a small shed but a beacon for community commerce, ideas and wares, street activation and connection. We must double-down to preserve our English icons, sometimes by being playful or whimsical. It is critical to our sense of identity, belonging and to social cohesion – critical when towns are in crisis, and an antidote as economic patterns become less stable. Every village and town in the land needs a Stand,” Mr Upton added. The Stand opens on November 16. To find out more, email sharethelove@
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MY CHILD DOES NOT WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH ME – WHAT DO I DO? By Melissa Gire, Associate Solicitor in the Family & Matrimonial team at CooperBurnett LLP When parents separate, children can be left feeling confused and torn between their parents. Sometimes, your child might even say they do not want to spend time with you. There may be several reasons for this. They may feel guilty about leaving one parent to spend time with the other or they may have heard unkind or negative things about you from the other parent. It is essential to communicate with your child, reassure them of your love and try to maintain a positive relationship, even if it is challenging. If you suspect that your child’s reluctance to see you is because the other parent has been influencing them negatively, and this is affecting your child’s ability to make their own choices and love freely, it is a serious concern. A sign of alienating behaviour might be where one parent makes false allegations against the other parent to the authorities such as social services, the police or the child’s school. This can be damaging for the child, especially when a parent is unable to separate their personal negative feelings towards the other parent from their responsibility to act in their child’s best interests and support a healthy relationship with the other parent. In such situations, prompt legal advice is vital to address suspected alienating behaviours. If early solicitor intervention fails to improve your co-parenting and your child remains reluctant to spend time with you, a court application may need to be considered. The court will assess the allegations and evidence and will decide whether the alleged incidents occurred. If the court identifies issues with the parents’ behaviour, they may initially try and persuade them to take the right course for the child’s sake. Court orders will only be made when it is in the child’s bests interests. Reasons for a child not wanting to spend time with a parent can be a complex and sensitive issue. It is important that your child does not become used to a routine that does not involve spending time with you and it is best to get specialist family law advice if you have any concerns.
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King marks birthday by launching a new Ex-Home Secretary’s initiative to help charities feed the nation broadside at Sunak NEWS IN BRIEF
SUELLA BRAVERMAN has accused Rishi Sunak of “betrayal” over a promise to stop small boat crossings in an incendiary letter after being sacked as home secretary. In a broadside aimed at the Prime Minister, she accused him of having “manifestly and repeatedly failed to deliver” on key policies, and said his “distinctive style of government means you are incapable of doing so”. She said Mr Sunak had not lived up to his promise to do “whatever it takes” to stop small boat crossings by failing to override human rights concerns about the Rwanda plan. Mrs Braverman, one of the leading figures on the right of the Tory party, urged Mr Sunak to “change course urgently”, telling him he has led the Conservatives to “record election defeats” and that his “resets have failed and we are running out of time”.
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ALISTAIR MACROW, CEO of McDonald’s UK & Ireland, told MPs on the Commons Business and Trade Committee on Tuesday that they had received more than 400 complaints from workers since July. The fast-food chain which employs close to 180,000 people has one of the UK’s youngest workforces, with three quarters of their staff aged 16 to 25. Of the 157 complaints that have been investigated, Mr Macrow said 17 complaints were about sexual harassment and had led to disciplinary action.
THE KING has marked his 75th birthday by launching an initiative to support charities feeding the nation with unwanted food – and surprised a Big Issue seller with a generous donation. Charles visited a food distribution hub in Oxfordshire to kick-start his Coronation Food Project with the Queen and found himself twice serenaded with verses of Happy Birthday. The Duke of Sussex, Charles’ estranged son, is expected to ring his father to wish him a happy birthday according to an online BBC article, and the milestone anniversary has already been marked by goodwill messages on the Royal Family’s social media accounts.
Urgent The head of state is the cover star of the latest Big Issue edition after penning a short message about food waste and those in need and he handed seller Kelvin, 61, £10 for the magazine costing £4 at the end of the event. He wrote: “Food need is as real and urgent a problem as food waste – and if a way could be found to bridge the gap between them, then it would address two problems in one. “It is my great hope that this Coronation Food Project will find practical ways to do just that – rescuing more surplus food, and distributing it to those who need it most.” Kelvin, who has been homeless for periods of his life since a teenager, was joined by Big Issue founder Lord Bird and joked afterwards: “He gave me cash, that does prove something – he does carry money.” The 61-year-old, whose pitch is outside Somerset House in central London, added: “He asked if I was in accommodation and about selling the Big Issue. I said it’s got me through the
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bad times and it has a positive social message.” He said about the Coronation Food Project: “I think it goes to show he cares, he’s reaching out to the general public.” Charles and Camilla were given a tour of the South Oxfordshire Food and Education Alliance, part of FareShare, a national network of charitable food redistributors. They met volunteers sorting boxes of produce from avocados and green peppers to soft drinks, others filling delivery vans, and toured a new kitchen where people will be educated about food nutrition and large numbers of meals prepared from food destined for landfill. Dame Martina Milburn, who is leading the
Coronation Food Project with Baroness Louise Casey, said the initiative had three elements – reducing manufacturing and supermarket waste, supporting the expansion of food distribution hubs and awarding grants to organisations working in the sector.
Tsunami She added: “What the foodbanks have been telling us is they’ve seen an increase in people using them over the summer, which is unprecedented. “So we’re expecting a complete Tsunami this winter.”
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Homeless tents crackdown plan ditched - along with Braverman SUELLA BRAVERMAN’S plan for a crackdown on the use of tents by homeless people has been shelved. Mrs Braverman was sacked as home secretary on Monday following a series of controversial comments, including describing homelessness as a ‘lifestyle choice’. The plan will not be included in the new Criminal Justice Bill or other legislation, Downing Street said. Mrs Braverman had pushed for legal changes to stop ‘those who cause
nuisance and distress to other people by pitching tents in public spaces’, warning that ‘unless we step in now to stop this, British cities will go the way of places in the US like San Francisco and Los Angeles’. She had reportedly been calling for a new civil offence to deter charities from giving tents to homeless people if their use could cause a nuisance. But following her exit from Government, Downing Street said there were no plans to implement the
measures. The Prime Minister’s official spokesman said: “It’s not going to be introduced in the Criminal Justice Bill. I’m not aware of any plans for its introduction elsewhere.” Asked why Downing Street had repeatedly said Rishi Sunak had ‘full confidence’ in Mrs Braverman, while he was already planning to sack her, the spokesman said: “The Prime Minister continued to work closely with the former home secretary, not least on the issue of small boats. “Obviously he subsequently took a decision to change his team, that is his prerogative and I think he set out some of the rationale I think at the top of Cabinet.” It was ‘not unusual for the Prime Minister to carry out reshuffles from time to time’. Opening the first meeting of his new-look Cabinet on Tuesday, Mr Sunak said he now had a ‘strong and united team’. A Home Office factsheet said the Criminal Justice Bill would include ‘a package of measures to improve lives and quality of life by tackling nuisance begging and rough sleeping where it causes damage, disruption, harassment or distress to the public, while avoiding criminalising the genuinely vulnerable’. The legislation creates a new offence to tackle ‘organised begging’ and creates new civil notices and orders to prevent nuisance begging and rough sleeping.
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How to manage your finances this Christmas-five crucial steps Keeping your spending in check over the holidays can be challenging. Even when we know we can’t afford to overspend, the thought of letting friends, family and loved ones down can urge us to go beyond our means. The typical household in the UK spends just over £2,500 in a month, but in the run up to Christmas our spending habits change. We spend on average almost £740 more in December, which is 29% more than in a typical month, according to the Bank of England. The Christmas holidays should be a time of creating happy memories with loved ones. However, over a quarter of us feel stressed about the festive season, according to leading market researcher YouGov. As the holidays draw nearer, nearly half (46%) of people find even thinking about what Christmas presents to buy stressful, 45% find the costs to be worrying, and 42% find the general financial impact of Christmas to be stressful, according to their latest 2021 report on Christmas spending. So, how can we prepare for the holidays? Amanda Redman, author and founder of Amanda Redman Financial Planning, reveals five crucial steps to managing your finances well this Christmas. 1. “Use the next few weeks to evaluate your normal saving and spending habits and consider your credit cards and loans when you begin to plan for the festive season. This will help you spot where you can make cutbacks and help you realistically budget for this year’s Christmas spending. 2. Setting a budget is one of the most important things you can do to keep your festive spending in check. Once you know what you need to buy or budget for, it’s time to be realistic about how much you can afford to spend. Write everything down to keep yourself on track and don’t forget to include extra costs, like food, decorations and travel to visit family and friends.
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Teaching less attractive due to limited home working and flexibility, MPs told TEACHING has become less attractive as there are limited opportunities for home working and the profession is not as ‘family-friendly as it once was’, MPs have heard. Recruitment into teacher training is at ‘crisis levels’ and teacher retention is ‘poor’ in England, experts from think tanks have warned. Addressing the education select committee, Philip Nye, a data scientist at the Institute for Government (IfG), said: “Teaching I think, historically, has been seen as quite family-friendly. You get the long summer break which if you have family responsibilities could be very useful. “But now, perhaps compared to other non-public sector roles, it is not as flexible and family-friendly as it once was.” Robin Walker, chair of the education committee, said he had heard anecdotally of supermarkets ‘offering term-time only’ and school hours jobs.
3. Sticking to your budget is just as important as setting it. While it might be tempting to overspend – especially when you’re in the festive spirit – you might regret it in the new year. 4. Spreading the cost over Christmas will help. Buy as much as you can – like gifts and non-perishable food – in the weeks leading up to Christmas. This means everything doesn’t have to rely on one payday. 5. Don’t be tempted by festive spending fever – resist the urge to spend money unnecessarily. It’s much better to live within your means than head into the new year with financial difficulties. That being said, if you do need to borrow a little extra in the form of a loan, make sure you do it responsibly. A loan is not just for Christmas, so make sure you consider what you’ll use the loan for, what you’re committing to and whether you can afford the repayments – not just now but in the future, too. If using a credit card, I would recommend you do this only if you’re confident you can pay the balance in full in January without incurring interest charges. Start thinking ahead to next year now and plan what you can put away each month. The earlier you start, the more time you can spend enjoying the countdown to Christmas, rather than worrying about how you’ll afford it.”
Dr Luke Sibieta, a research fellow at the Institute for Fiscal Studies (IFS), highlighted to MPs that more employees in the private sector have been allowed to work from home since the Covid-19 pandemic. He said: “It makes teaching a bit less competitive because it can’t really offer that kind of work-from-home or flexible options.”
Addressing MPs on Tuesday, Dr Sibieta added: “Teacher recruitment and retention, I think to be blunt, is in quite a poor place in England at the moment.” Figures released by the Department for Education (DfE) last December revealed that just 59 per cent of its target for secondary subject trainees was reached in 2022-23, down from 79 per cent in 2021-22.
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To receive a complimentary guide covering wealth management, retirement planning or Inheritance Tax planning, contact Amanda at amanda.redman@sjpp.co.uk. Sources 1. Bank of England, How much we spend at Christmas. 2. YouGov, What’s the most stressful aspect of Christmas? 2021 incomeandwealth/bulletins/pensionwealthingreatbritain/april2018tomarch2020
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Nancy Warne is Cabinet Member for Communities and Deputy Leader of Tunbridge Wells Borough Council. She is the Alliance Member for Benenden and Cranbrook Ward
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Good behaviour helps us all, especially our youth THERE’S been a lot of noise recently in the local and national press about antisocial behaviour (ASB), and this got me thinking: are we looking at this in the wrong way? Instead of talking about what ‘powers’ we can use to trigger ‘action’ to ‘get on top of’ ASB as if it’s some kind of rugby game, maybe we should be looking more closely at what causes our young people to engage in such disruptive and distressing activity?
not splashed over the headlines. In my role as TWBC’s Cabinet Member for Communities I am privileged to get to learn about it and see some of it first-hand from those working on the ground. In the schools, sports clubs, child centres and community centres there are dedicated staff and volunteers running activities for young people, whether it be boxing or football, or even just providing a space for teenagers to chill. I think we need more of this.
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A worrying trend I’ve noticed in recent years is that adults appear to have become ruder, more impatient and less tolerant of each other. How many of us have been witness to aggressive and dangerous driving, for example? Or experienced unwarranted rudeness and threatening behaviour to shop staff, health-care staff or indeed anywhere where people feel they either have the right to behave in this way, or they think they can get away with it? Bad behaviour online is all too common and well-documented and causes deep distress to those who are subject to it. But, unfortunately, it seems that we are somehow becoming more tolerant of it, and accepting it as normal
We need more places and spaces which young people feel welcome in and can call their own. One of the projects I hope to see flourish over the next few years is the transformation of the Royal Victoria Place complex in the centre of Tunbridge Wells. The Council now has greater control over what can happen here and has engaged the services of Rivington Hark who are experts in turning around the fortunes of struggling shopping centres. In line with the evolving nature of our town centres, this is a fabulous opportunity to create leisure activities for young people and adults of all ages, and where we can re-rediscover our sociability and enjoy each other’s company in safe and welcoming spaces.
behaviour. Not only is this not a good place to be in for the future health and wellbeing of our society, it leads me to ask: what impact is this having on our young people? How can we expect them to behave well if we ourselves are such poor
role models? Have we forgotten how to be sociable, kind and nurturing? However, not all is doom and gloom in the Borough: there is so much positive work going on with young people, largely behind the scenes and
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And another thing… I thank Ian White for his letter (November 1) on the issues faced by pedestrians in Tunbridge Wells. As the Borough’s first Walking & Cycling Champion, I couldn’t agree more with his observations. The first thing I would say in response is that Highways are the responsibility of Kent County Council (KCC). I say this not to pass the buck, but to highlight that it does limit what Tunbridge Wells Borough Council can do in terms of allocating budgets and resources. Put simply, we do not manage our road and pavement spend. Unfortunately, Conservative-run KCC does not have a huge appetite for addressing some of these issues. For example, during last December’s freeze, A-roads were swiftly gritted for cars but not the pavements – the busy section of pavement opposite St John’s church was a death trap. Another missed opportunity was the possible trial earlier this year of reduced waiting times on the Pembury Road pedestrian crossing, which was rejected by KCC and County Councillors. There is not much appetite to ‘grasp the nettle’ either from Westminster. A nationwide
consultation on banning pavement parking (with exemptions where necessary) was launched in 2020, but the report has still not been published, and I sense this is not top of Mr Sunak’s to-do list. Helicopters don’t use pavements, after all. We do work with KCC to secure what resources we can – for example, we received a grant recently from Active Travel England to design a ‘Better Streets’ initiative for St John’s & St James’ which will include improving things for pedestrians. We are also looking into the potential for an online tool to report obstructive parking. In the meantime, please do keep contacting us (Borough and County Councillors) and reporting pavement issues to KCC online, as individual issues such as wonky pavements or overgrown hedges do get resolved. Until more politicians are elected on a mandate of standing up for pedestrians, this is the best we can do. Peter Lidstone Liberal Democrat Councillor for St John’s Walking & Cycling Champion for Tunbridge Wells
PATH TO PROGRESS: Cycling campaigners on Southborough Common in July this year. Picture: Fred Long
Don’t politicise the NHS
Mr Martin, Lib Dem, argued in his article (November 1) that his party is ready to fix the NHS joining a long list of politicians who use it as a political football. What patients want is for party politics to be kept out of it, it’s too important, people’s health and lives are at risk. His piece is replete with platitudes and much ambition but, apart from £2 per hour more for carers and the unachievable target of seeing a GP within 7 days; how, may I ask? I note he is a prospective MP for the town, so he’s got no chance, along with many of his colleagues, when the election comes, so it will be between the other two parties to continue to muck it up. John Ward Moorhouse Tunbridge Wells
TWBC no longer accepts cheques!
As one who has been quite vocal about the Mt Pleasant traffic restrictions, I should have known better. Nevertheless, I was surprised to receive a Penalty Notice for my trespass, backed up by photographic evidence on TWBC’s website. In mitigation, we had just got back from abroad and went out to buy a couple of ready meals from Cook in Monson Road (delicious!). I still don’t remember the event so I must be losing my marbles. As a postscript: I sent them a cheque (don’t laugh) and they returned it stating they no longer had the facility to process them – gobbledegook for we won’t accept them. Last week I sold my car and the DoT refunded the unspent road fund licence: they sent me a cheque. Edward Baker Tunbridge Wells
Council knows best
In response to Mike Pearson’s letter (November 1) querying the Borough Council’s competence in ‘land deals’ – ‘what do they know that British Land doesn’t?’ – I’d suggest that the council understands the public benefit of a well-run and fully occupied precinct that is seen as more than an opportunity for unearned income. Michael Walker Tunbridge Wells
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I must applaud Ian White, for a very well-written letter in last week’s Times. My own letter was about the lack of infrastructure in Tunbridge Wells, rather than solely about motorists, whereas the Council seem hell-bent on penalising them. I can add to Ian’s comments about how unattractive the Town looks, with the pavements full of weeds, and junctions where grass verges obstruct the view of traffic coming through. The idea of ‘rewilding’ is misplaced as that is preferable in fields or woods, rather than alongside the King’s Highway. No selfrespecting pollinator will be attracted to weeds by the roadside and be asphyxiated by car fumes. In the past we used to have trucks that came round twice a year to all neighbourhoods, lifting up drain covers and checking that the drains were not clogged up. Now most are, and when it rains the water drains onto the main roads, causing mini lakes. With heavy traffic it affects the integrity of the surface as well as the pavements. This was the responsibility of the Borough Council, whereas the highways were the County Council. Overhanging hedges and shrubs also give the town an unkempt appearance and if one asks the Council to have hedges cut back, they say it
is a ‘problem’. For whom? Just pass the buck to someone else. It was heartening to see that BID make some positive sounds about the town, but it needs to be more welcoming, not just the state of roads and pavements which can be quite a hazard, but across all areas. Will we ever see TW return to its former glory? John Pearce Tunbridge Wells
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We are rapidly approaching the festive period, and children and young people across the South East will be writing their letters to Santa. While their faces will hopefully light up on Christmas Day when the presents arrive, the NSPCC has a way to help brighten them a little earlier, thanks to our Letters from Santa. These are a nice way to make the season as special as possible for little ones, but they are also a fantastic way to help us help children across the country for whom Christmas is not a magical time. On average, a child will contact Childline by phone or web chat every 45 seconds this Christmas, and we are calling for support to ensure the service can continue to be there for children. One way to support the charity is to make a donation when ordering a Letter from Santa for your child. Last year alone saw us raise over £1m from these letters, which were vital for us to continue our work to support young people and families in need, as our charity relies on donations for almost 90 per cent of its funding. To order your letter please visit: nspcc.org. uk/support-us/ways-to-give/letter-from-santa/ Michele Baxter NSPCC Community Fundraising Manager for Kent
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Lessons in why bullying should be looked at and tackled from many different angles It is currently Anti-Bullying Week, so to mark the occasion – which runs until November 17 – the Times spoke to former teacher-turned-author Leonora Langley about why it is so vital to foster self-confidence in children from an early age and to nurture mutual respect THE theme of this year’s Anti-Bullying Week (November 13-17) is ‘Make A Noise About Bullying’. Coordinated in England, Wales and Northern Ireland by The Anti-Bullying Alliance, in consultation with teachers and pupils, the intention of this year’s campaign is ‘to counter the harm and hurt that bullying causes’. As described in her book, ‘Let the Souls of Our Children Sing’, which discusses the importance of nurturing emotional wellbeing in the young, local teacher, counsellor and author, Leonora Langley, believes bullying needs to be tackled from many angles. Here she offers some useful tips to help deal with an issue that is endemic in our society and a rising problem: “Bullying is a common global occurrence at school, online, in the workplace and at home. People are most commonly targeted because of their race, sexual orientation, appearance or disability. Bullying impacts all young people, including those who are bullied, those who bully others and those who witness bullying, with its effects often continuing into adulthood, mostly in the form of mental health issues. “Parents can do much to help their children develop empathy skills and encourage them to stand up for themselves. Strategies might include the introduction of activities that develop assertiveness, teaching them to adopt a zero-tolerance to bullying and early intervention if they start to step into bully or victim mode.
“Another useful strategy is to help young people avoid developing an overly harsh ‘inner critic’, a form of negative self-talk often related to challenge and categorised as self-bullying. Children need to be encouraged to develop greater moment-by-moment self-awareness, e.g. finding time to notice things they like about themselves and observe positive things that go well in their lives as they embark on the lifelong journey of nurturing radical self-love. This can be done through guided meditation to help them build kinder self-talk, gratitude, resilience, compassion and forgiveness towards themselves and others. These emotional building blocks will gradually enable them to develop a greater understanding of others within their own culture and beyond, to choose love over fear and mercy over inhumanity. “As a child matures and they begin to accept that bullying is, sadly, part of everyday life, they need to increase their powers to become more pro-active and self-assertive. These skills need to be taught in specific, targeted lessons and developed as an integral part of mainstream education, woven into the daily fabric of the curriculum. The majority of schools now acknowledge that bullying is not simply part of human nature that kids have to learn to deal with as part of growing up. An integral part of the new paradigm for educating the young is to fully embrace the value of emotional
‘An integral part of the new paradigm is to fully embrace the value of emotional intelligence, where schools help children to nurture values such as tolerance and respect for each other’ intelligence, where schools help children to nurture values such as tolerance and respect for each other, celebrate diversity, as well as provide emotional support for both bullies and victims. “In my observations of the relationship between the bully and the bullied, the victim can be easily overwhelmed with fear: afraid of getting hurt, not being liked and the prospect of becoming socially abandoned. To lessen their fear and need to seek outside counsel, it’s important to help them build internal initiative so that they can deal with adversity and challenges from within, rather than seeking help from an external source of authority which may not always be available. “As for the bully, who also needs help, they would benefit from guidance to change the way they use and exert their power. Learning how to develop problem-solving skills that don’t involve aggression and reinforcement of positive behaviour patterns are other useful lessons.”
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‘Our cast are all fantastic performers… audiences are going to love A Chorus Line’ TWODS will take to the stage at Trinity for the first time in 40 years on November 21 with their production of ‘A Chorus Line’. Running until November 25, the theatrical troupe’s director Rebecca Clow tells Eileen Leahy why they are so excited to be back on stage there and what the audience will enjoy about their latest show…
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unbridge Wells Opera and Dramatic Society – TWODS – is one of the oldest amateur theatre groups in the country. Formed in 1889 as the Tunbridge Wells Dramatic and Musical Society, its first production was of two plays: ‘A Blighted Being’ and ‘My Preserver’, which were performed on a stage built by the actors themselves at the gymnasium on Calverley Road. A large variety of straight plays followed at The Great Hall, while the Tunbridge Wells Operatic Society, formed in 1890, began staging more musical shows at that same venue. The groups eventually merged in 1911 and have performed almost every year since – with the
‘There is nothing small about our production of A Chorus Line! There is a 10-piece live band with 19 performers, plus 119 lights, glittering tailcoat costumes and our usual high standard of performance’ only exceptions being during the two World Wars and the Covid pandemic. For years they have performed at the Assembly Hall but this month – for the first time in nearly 40 years - they are stepping back on stage at Trinity Theatre with their new production of ‘A Chorus Line’. “Traditionally we perform – and will continue to do so – larger shows with huge sets, special effects and big musical numbers,” explains A Chorus Line’s director Rebecca Clow. “But musical theatre as a genre is wonderfully broad and ever-changing, so we thought performing at Trinity Theatre would be an excellent challenge for TWODS, both in style and content. We wanted to do something more intimate and Trinity is the perfect space for that.” Rebecca goes on to say that Trinity Theatre has welcomed TWODS with open arms. “For that we are extremely grateful. But don’t be fooled by the smaller venue, you will still be
SPARKLING PERFORMANCE: The cast of A Chorus Line getting the full TWODS experience – there is nothing small about this production! There is a 10-piece live band with 19 performers, plus 119 lights, glittering tailcoat costumes and our usual high standard of performance.” For those not familiar with the plot of A Chorus Line, it’s set in New York in 1975 and follows the fortunes of a group of performers as they’re put
‘My favourite thing has been working creatively with the cast – especially when they are trying things out, allowing themselves to be vulnerable and taking risks’ through their paces in order to make the cut for a new show. But instead of just dancing, the director asks each performer to open up about their personal lives and what made them want to be involved in theatre. Cue lots of emotional stories told to a backdrop of some of the show’s hit songs such as What I Did For Love and I Hope I Get It. Rebecca reveals that this is her first time directing a show for TWODS and so far she is enjoying the overall challenge of it all. “I’m learning so much about my cast, the production team and how it all works and to be honest I’m loving every bit of it. Both Danny Moulton, our Musical Director and Karen Heaslewood, our Choreographer have been excellent, hardworking and supportive in some of my madcap ideas! “My favourite thing has been
working creatively with the cast – especially when they are trying things out, allowing themselves to be vulnerable and taking risks, with everybody being so fantastically supportive, it results in some fabulous breakthrough performances. I am so proud of every one of them.” In terms of what the show’s audiences will like, Rebecca believes it will be the journey the characters go on and also their relatability. “They are just ordinary people trying to get a job and once they start telling their stories you begin to invest in what makes them who they are. A Chorus Line also taps into the contemporary cultural interest in ‘reality and behind-the-scenes’ shows. Everyone loves a peek into the backstage drama!” As A Chorus Line is about a group of dancers auditioning for a show, Rebecca adds that when it came to the auditions, she started thinking about the show and the wonderful diversity of TWODS’ membership. “Our cast are all fantastic performers, but their strengths are in different disciplines. It’s when they bring that to the rehearsal room and then on to the stage, that those differences make the whole.” And in terms of any challenges that Rebecca has experienced as a first-time director, she says the main one has been keeping sane when everyone is asking questions at the same time. “Oh and also having to sew silver-sequined bow ties on to costumes at one o’clock in the morning!” she laughs. As always, TWODS will be supporting a local charity courtesy of the collection buckets it will be passing around after each show. This time it will be the Hospice in the Weald that will benefit. “We know this community charity is one which many of our membership and audience will have personal connections to,” says Rebecca. “Hospice in the Weald provides care completely free of charge to patients with a terminal illness, and those important to them, in West Kent and northern East Sussex. Its wonderful team of staff and volunteers provide 24-hour support and care for patients with an illness where a cure is no longer possible – whether that’s at home, in the community, or at its sites in Pembury and Five Ashes.” TWODS’ A Chorus Line runs from November 21-25 at Trinity Theatre. To book tickets, visit: twods.org or www.assemblyhalltheatre.co.uk
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“Using a process called photogrammetry, May took hundreds of photos of objects in The Amelia’s collection. “Following this, he digitally pieced together the photographs to create stylised digital versions of the objects. Featuring a series of these, visitors are taken on a journey through immersive environments as a robotic voice ‘speaks’ the reflections of the artist. ‘What do we save in an age of big data, who should make these choices and how will they alter the perception of culture for future generations?” says Edward. Why not go along to find out? Collecting Tomorrow is free to attend and is open daily at The Amelia until November 26. theamelia.co.uk
Preserving the past to enhance our future The Amelia’s Exhibitions Officer, Edward Liddle, tells the Times about its current show, ‘Collecting Tomorrow’ – which is a fascinating insight into how cutting-edge technology is being used to preserve objects but also the chance to do so in new ways…
THE Amelia is currently hosting ‘Collecting Tomorrow’, a unique exhibition exploring how museums are adapting to the digital age. On until Sunday November 26, its aim is to demonstrate how museums are adapting to the digital age; harnessing clever tech to do myriad things, preserving precious historic artefacts, safeguarding cultural reference points and also engaging with audiences in a number of innovative ways in order to stay relevant. The Amelia’s Exhibitions Officer Edward Liddle tells the Times more about this fascinating show: “Collecting Tomorrow is really a journey through time and innovation as we explore how new technology is transforming our museum and sharing untold stories. “The exhibition features historical objects from the collection at The Amelia Scott alongside work by contemporary artists. They include Minne Atairu, Boris Eldagsen (known for an AI-generated image that fooled photography prize judges), Jake Elwes, and Alex May. “Each artist prompts us to question the authenticity of objects and the role of the artist from different viewpoints,” explains Edward. “Collecting Tomorrow helps us to learn more
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about the cutting-edge technologies shaping the future of museums and engage in the challenges and opportunities they present.” He says that other exhibition highlights
‘Each artist prompts us to question the authenticity of objects and the role of the artist from different viewpoints’ include being able to listen to unheard stories from the past with the help of artificial intelligence, having the chance to explore how contemporary artists are questioning the influence of machine learning, discovering how digital scanning can help preserve museum objects and also engaging in debate – tackling questions like: ‘How do you preserve an email?’ Edward goes on to say that objects in the collection vary greatly from one another. “Some objects are hard and robust, made of materials such as metal and wood. Other objects were never meant to last past their original use and are now, even with the use of specialist
LAST month the Assembly Hall put on an immersive horror experience for the first time. Entitled BAIT, it was an ambitious and unique event created to coincide with Halloween. Although it was something completely new for the theatre’s creative team to work on, it managed to sell out all of its sessions almost immediately. A spokesperson told the Times: “The Assembly Hall Theatre team is incredibly proud to have completed a sold-out run of BAIT, its first piece of immersive theatre. Tapping into the horror genre, this hour-long, fully-immersive, experience was created, designed, and operated by in-house members of the Assembly Hall team and has pushed boundaries in multiple areas. “What was created was a unique theatrical horror experience, unlike anything else in Tunbridge Wells, that was designed to engage audiences, both old and young, and especially those who would not normally attend a theatrical production. “BAIT enabled audiences from the local community, and beyond, to experience something that would not normally be available on their doorstep and is a further example of how the theatre is constantly looking to connect with new audiences by producing entertaining events that are both innovative and engaging.”
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A feast in the woods awaits Kingdom in Penshurst has just announced it is bringing its signature candlelit dinners back – just in time for Christmas...
seasonal stress for a few hours – and enjoying a delicious menu that’s all locally sourced and reflective of the time of year? Maybe the evening could give you a little culinary inspiration if you want to give the turkey a miss on December 25? “We have two beautiful three-course candlelit suppers coming up on Thursday December 7 and Friday December 8,” a spokesperson for the popular restaurant, which opened in 2015,
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oasting a beautiful backdrop of ancient woodland and cosy yet stylish interiors, the stunning timber-framed four-story treehouse – also known as The Clubhouse – at Kingdom in Penshurst is always a joy to spend time in. Whether you’re having a quick coffee there after a bike ride, or enjoying a long lunch with friends, the space is very conducive to relaxing and just taking some time out. But to experience one of its special seasonal
candlelit suppers, when the dining area is illuminated only by flickering candles and sparkling fairy lights is truly very special. And the good news is you don’t have long to wait as the venue, which is owned by the I’ll Be Mother Group, has just announced that it is putting on two more of these divine dinners next month. What could be more magical as the Christmas season approaches, than to immerse yourself in this enchanting ambience – switching off the
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‘Kingdom’s upcoming candlelit suppers certainly capture the ethereal essence of this magical place located in an area of outstanding natural beauty near Penshurst’ tells the Times. “Our popular suppers promise an extraordinary culinary journey curated by our talented chefs. Each carefully crafted menu reflects the festive spirit of the season, featuring locally sourced, fresh ingredients prepared to perfection.
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“This December will be an unforgettable blend of culinary delights, festive ambience, and the warm glow of candlelight. We look forward to welcoming you to a truly magical experience.” Every few months Kingdom – which also boasts a Hot Box forest spa, a nature gym, holistic hut, various yoga classes plus lots of great walks – puts on these candlelit suppers in order to further enhance their ‘get away from it all’ offering. The dinners will be hosted in the 9,500 sq ft wooden and glass, uniquely-structured Clubhouse which during the daytime boasts 360-degree views across an area of outstanding natural beauty. It is also available for private hire too and is a very popular local wedding venue. “Kingdom is a naturally picturesque space to unplug, unwind and relax with family and friends,” continues the spokesperson. “We strive to unite communities whilst creating a safe place for people to nourish, flourish and celebrate, surrounded by extraordinary nature. “We wish to create stories and memories for those who visit, providing you with a space to connect with yourself and others.” And by hosting a variety of different classes and events – most recently by launching The Outpost, a dedicated arts space – they say that Kingdom aims to inspire all those within its community. If you haven’t been already why not start by treating yourself to one of the upcoming candlelit suppers which certainly capture the ethereal essence of this magical place that is so wonderful to spend time in – whatever season it might be but especially at Christmas...
INFO: Tickets cost £45pp and include a welcome glass of fizz and delicious canapes ahead of the three-course dinner. Reservations: To secure your spot, please email: Jenny@illbemother.co.uk Instagram: @kingdom_pen Facebook: Kingdom Website: thiskingdom.co.uk
The Hawk & Berry
Festive Menu Two Courses £35 Three Courses £40
Starters
Mains
1 Hour 45 Minutes
Salt & Pepper Squid
Coq Au Vin
£19.50 pp
Crispy Chilli Beef
Pan Fried Halibut
Moules Mariniere
Nut Roast
Smoked Mackerel Pate
Roast Turkey
Prosecco Bloody Mary Porn Star Martini Christmas Margarita
Prawn Cocktail
Pork Tenderloin
Cauliflower & Truffle Velouté
West Country Rump of Beef
Available Weds to Sat this festive period
Christmas Pudding Ice Cream Treacle Tarte
Desserts
MUST BE PRE BOOKED www.thehawkandberry.com 01892 280 240
Chocolate Brownie Dark Chocolate Delice Cheese Board (Supp £4)
BOOKINGS NOW BEING TAKEN
Valid with the purchase of a starter and a main from our a la carte menu or two courses from our festive menu
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The Hawk & Berry, 119 Forest Rd, Tunbridge Wells TN2 5BT
The Hawk & Berry, 119 Forest Rd, Tunbridge Wells TN2 5BT
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Viva Chianti: All you need to know about one of Italy’s most famous and finest wines... This week local wine retailer Paul Adams of Fine Wines of Mayfield, who also has a new shop located in Royal Victoria Place, looks at the history of the classic Chianti “LOVE endeth like the Chianti flask, its drops are bitter,” said the American artist and poet Gelett Burgess. Now, the history of the famous Italian wine, Chianti dates back to at least the 13th century with the earliest incarnations of Chianti as actually being a white wine. Today this Tuscan region produces one of Italy’s most well-known and recognisable wines. Baron Bettino Ricasoli, the future prime minister of the Kingdom of Italy, created the first known ‘Chianti recipe’ in 1872. In 1964 With the creation of the Denominazione di origine controllata (DOC), the ‘Ricasoli formula’ of a Sangiovese-based blend with 10-30% Malvasia and Trebbiano became enshrined in law. Before proper regulation, Chianti expanded significantly as the success of the wine encouraged adjoining villages to want to be a part of the region. In 1967, Chianti was classified DOC and has been classified as DOCG since 1984. At that time, the type was under one appellation and encompassed wine made in seven individual zones with corresponding fields, but that was a lot for the average person to understand. So in 1996, Chianti Classico was separated from Chianti as an independent DOCG. Today, ‘Classico’ is viewed as the original zone. Terroir: Mediterranean climate, warm summers cool winters. Soils vary, which is why there can
the black rooster (Gallo Nero) symbol on the label. Chianti Classico wines often have specific ageing requirements. For example, wines labelled as ‘Riserva’ have undergone longer ageing periods than non-Riserva wines. Chianti Classico wines are known for their complex flavours, including bright cherry notes, high acidity, and well-integrated tannins. Chianti Classico has gained recognition for producing wines of high quality and distinct character within the Chianti region.
‘The history of this famous Italian wine Chianti dates back to at least the 13th century with the earliest incarnations of Chianti as actually being a white wine’
be such varying quality of wine. Chianti grows mostly Sangiovese grapes which thrive on the sunny hillsides in Chianti. Rain washes away the nutrients on the surface, causing the vines to dig deep for the minerals to develop rich fruit.
Siena, Arezzo, Pisa, Pistoia, and Prato. Chianti DOC wines come in various styles, ranging from traditional to more modern interpretations. The regulations provide winemakers with flexibility in grape blending and winemaking techniques.
Chianti DOC: Refers to wines produced in the larger Chianti region which covers a large part of Tuscany, including the provinces of Florence,
Chianti Classico: Encompasses a smaller more specific area in the centre of the Chianti region. Wines labelled as ‘Chianti Classico’ typically carry
Any Occasion. Any Day. The Brasserie. From long, lazy lunches to dinner and drinks, relax and unwind at our table. @thebrasserie_owp 01892 520587 brasserie-owp.co.uk 17 Chapel Place, Tunbridge Wells, TN1 IYQ
Ricasoli: This is still a family-owned winery, at the heart of which is an imposing 11th-century castle, from the battlements of which you can, across the Chianti hills, see the silhouette of the Medieval town of Sienna. They produce the most wonderful examples of Chianti wines from soft fruity Chianti to the 100-pointscoring Ceniprimo. We have them all at Fine Wines of Mayfield, so come and see us in Royal Victoria Place where we have some of their wines to taste…
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Pub revamp brings a club-like atmosphere, and a unique entertainment offering…
The Claremont on Grove Hill Road has recently undergone an impressive and extensive refurbishment making it one of the coolest bars in town right now. Add in its augmented reality darts to the mix and you really have something very special to enjoy right in the heart of Tunbridge wells says one of the pub’s owners, James Savage… 20 on the board will be lit up to tell you. You can also pre-load the games to your skill level. Better players are given smaller targets to hit, while lesser players the opposite. Is there anything similar to this around Tunbridge Wells or are you the only ones offering this? Well as you’d expect we are starting to see a rise in new ideas being rolled out in pubs and bars but there is nothing like One Eight Zero in Tunbridge Wells – or the surrounding areas. We are so excited to be the first on the scene with this type of interactive experience and can’t wait for people from near or far to come and visit us…
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ou’ve done an extensive refurb job at The Claremont. Can you tell us about it? We have been working hard on how the pub looks and what it can offer for a while now. Having created a cosy ambience in the main bar area courtesy of sumptuous sofas and a real fire – and greatly enhanced our alfresco offering, too – we’ve now turned our attention to the upstairs. Over the past few months we’ve totally transformed it – courtesy of the talented designer Merissa Patrick – to create a club-style ambience, which we’ve named One Eight Zero.
So what exactly is augmented reality darts? The system we use is the world’s first and only autoscoring darts system that projects all targets and scores directly onto the board itself. You still use a real dartboard and real darts, but the augmented reality system takes the game to a new level, guiding you through 10 interesting games that are different to regular darts. We project the game by playing graphics and targets directly over the top of the board. This allows us to manipulate the appearance of the board to more clearly display the objectives of the game being played. Oh, and we project some pretty cool graphics around the board, too!
How would you describe the interiors scheme that has been put together? Quite simply it is just amazing! Merissa has created a striking look that is so vibrant and exotic – it also includes a circus-themed room which is perfect for Instagram opportunities! There’s also a funky lounge area – with another coming soon – that allows us to cater for corporate groups or larger bookings. Then we have the One Eight Zero room where we have the augmented reality darts. There are two lanes, which can cater for up to 12 people each, so up to 24 can be playing at one time!
When did you decide to install this at The Claremont and why? We knew we had a great space upstairs that was only occasionally used for functions and we were looking for ways of increasing the revenue of the area. Various ideas were discussed but after experiencing the system our minds were made up. We started the investment about six months ago and the installation and the design of the event space has been ongoing for a few months. It’s taken slightly longer than we had expected but we are thrilled with the result!
What else can visitors to The Claremont enjoy when paying a visit? The Claremont has seen many changes over the past few years but it’s still a great pub that caters for all seasons, and all age ranges. You enter into a warm, cosy traditional-looking pub and are met by a roaring log fire with staff serving a wide variety of drinks and food. There’s some nice sofa seating around the fire, a new lounge at the back of the pub which is a nice spot for those who want a quieter experience or to catch up with friends. In the finer weather you can head out to what we – and many of our clients – call the best pub garden in Tunbridge Wells! We have an outside bar, beautiful decking area and our heated outdoor canopy area with huts that can accommodate over 100 people. Combined with One Eight Zero we believe we cater for large or small groups, young or old. And you’re starting to offer exclusive hire of The Claremont now, too aren’t you? Yes we are starting to welcome larger groups who are booking the entire venue. Some are for corporate team building events and some are for Christmas parties. Please call for details and let us cater for your party – and why not have a few games of augmented reality darts while you’re here?
Is it proving to be popular and have you done away with the more traditional pub games? We feel there is still a space for traditional pub activities – we have some board games in the library area of the pub – but people are now looking for something with more interaction. They are looking for something a little different and something more inclusive and exciting for people of all ages and skill sets. The feedback we have had to date has been so positive, and we are delighted.
‘We have created a striking look to our new upstairs area, One Eight Zero. It is so vibrant and exotic – and includes a circus themed room and a cool area where you can have a game of augmented reality darts!’ Are there any differences to this digital version compared to regular darts? In a word, YES! The screens light up, the board talks to you, there’s a variety of games already loaded up and the best bit is the screen tells you what to do. If you need to hit 20, then
The Claremont 18 Grove Hill Rd, Tunbridge Wells TN1 1RZ 01892 726457 theclaremontpub.co.uk @theclaremonttw @oneeightzerortw
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Books
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Three new books to read this week
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This week’s bookcase includes ‘A Child Of The Ruins’ by Kate Furnivall and ‘The Exchange’ – John Grisham’s follow-up to the ‘The Firm’ Child Of The Ruins by Kate Furnivall
Published in hardback by Hodder & Stoughton, priced £20 (ebook £6.99). Available now
Shot With Crimson by Nicola Upson Published in hardback by Faber & Faber, priced £16.99 (ebook £9.99). Available now
‘Child Of The Ruins’ is set in Berlin after the end of World War II, where devastation and poverty is commonplace for those still surviving under Russian rule. Two women, Anna and Ingrid – divided by East and West – are brought together in their search for a baby boy. This historical novel highlights the brutality of war, and draws you into the characters as they struggle to survive day-to-day. At times the hardship is unimaginable, yet what shines through is a love story, showing the strength and power of these strong, heroic characters. This is a beautiful and poignant novel that will leave you gripped to the very end.
In this latest instalment of the Josephine Tey detective series, fans will see another beautifully crafted novel in the style of classic Golden Age crime novels. It can be read as a standalone, but will likely be more enriching if you’re familiar with the previous mystery novels. In it, Josephine heads to Hollywood – immersing herself into filmmaker Alfred Hitchcock’s glamorous world as he shoots the 1940 film Rebecca. History buffs will like the regular occurrences of real figures – like Laurence Olivier – and there’s an impressive eye for detail. However, it’s such a character-driven story that it ultimately feels a bit light on pacing and tension – the crime which is the centre of the novel takes a bit too long to happen. While the resolution might feel a little unsatisfying, it’s a well-written story that fans of the series – and the era – will enjoy.
Review by Jacqueline Ling
Review by Prudence Wade
The Exchange: After The Firm by John Grisham
Published in hardback by Hodder & Stoughton, priced £22 (ebook £12.99). Available now Fans of John Grisham will be keen to read ‘The Exchange’ – a 30-yearslater follow-up to ‘The Firm’. While not quite up to the gritty standards of his earlier books, it still packs a fair punch. It follows lawyer Mitch McDeere, who has rebuilt himself after entanglements with the mafia, and now has a new case that takes him to Libya. The masterful writing immerses you in the Middle Eastern setting, where Mitch is involved with negotiations after hostages have been taken by a terrorist group. It gives an insight into the depths a lawyer like Mitch might have to sink to to get the job done – and while the ending might feel like a bit of an anti-climax compared to Grisham’s other thrillers, it’s an enjoyable read you won’t be able to put down.
Review by Oyinda Bishi
“Visiting Angels has a different approach to home care” Maxine Maters and Gillian Douglass from private at-home care provider Visiting Angels tell the Times why their approach to looking after an elderly relative in their own home is so different… Most people want to stay in their own homes for as long as possible. “They can take me out in a wooden box,” is a phrase often heard. Say, you, or your mother or father are getting a bit forgetful, but you’ve got everything set up on direct debit and you can pop a ready meal in the microwave, your next-door neighbour will get you some milk or bread while they’re at the shops and your son or daughter comes around with a weekly shop. That’s all well and good but what happens when you find the only company you have is the TV and the odd friend who used to call you has health issues of their own? It may be the time to think about Visiting Angels. Our Registered Care Manager will come over and do a comprehensive assessment around your needs and goals, whether that be getting out to the theatre, walking the dog, taking a shower, or changing the sheets on your bed. Visiting Angels offers companionship, home help and personal care. We are even happy to play a game of cards or help you complete a puzzle. The principal difference between Visiting Angels and most home care companies is that we take care of our people and, in particular, our angels. We pay them a reasonable wage, offer regular pay rises, do in-person training to care certificate level and beyond, and pay travel time and mileage in between visits. Moreover, we organise family events for our angels and their families at least twice a year. We also recognise our angel of the month. By hiring, training and looking after our people to the best of our ability, we are able to offer you superior care.
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Gig Guide
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BLAZIN’ FIDDLES
In his fortnightly guide, Times Music Editor Paul Dunton selects his must-see concerts, which include trip-hoppers Red Snapper, an early Christmas party and the ever-popular Carradine’s Cockney Sing-a-Long… OWEN DONOVAN
Sherbets + The Act + Ash Dodd 28/11 PET NEEDS + Glitchers + Bones Ate Arfa + Squangey Bobbins THE GREY LADY, THE PANTILES All event information and tickets available at www.thegreylady.co.uk 24/11 Fiesta Latina Night SQUERRYES WINERY RESTAURANT, WESTERHAM Dining and live Jazz music experience booking advised via 01959 562345 or www.squerryes.co.uk Live music from 7.30pm 24/11 Gianna Duo
Photo Nigel Martin
THE TUNBRIDGE WELLS FORUM Event information and tickets at www.twforum.co.uk 15/11 Red Snapper + Dread FM 16/11 BILK + Another Day + SOFT 17/11 Back To The 80s: Disco Vibes Edition 18/11 Focus 19/11 Twin Atlantic + From Inside 21/11 The Stable: AUSTINANDTHEBADBOYZ + Dead Deer + Energy Vampyres + Sombre Chairs 22/11 Beans on Toast + Bassie Gracie + Tensheds 23/11 Kosheen + Frankie Knight + Sian Evans 24/11 Mad Dog Mcrea + Year Of The Dog 25/11 TW Indies Christmas Makers Market (daytime) 25/11 Winter Boogie Wonderland Boogie Nights - Christmas Party (evening) 26/11 Give us Your Sunday Best! (2pm) The Fiery Lights + The Breaks + Mint
TN1 BAR & KITCHEN, MONSON ROAD Open all day live music usually from 8pm booking advised Via 01892 513900 or visit www.tn1barkitchen.co.uk 16/11 Andreas Jensen (7.30pm) 17/11 Owen Donovan (8.30pm) 18/11 Owen Donovan (8.30pm) 23/11 Guy Watson (7.30pm) 24/11 The Masqueraders Duo (8.30pm) 25/11 Paul Turvey Duo (8.30pm) ST EDITH FOLK SESSIONS, OTFORD MEMORIAL HALL, THE VESTRY HALL AND QUEEN’S HALL AT CRANBROOK All event information and tickets available at www.stedithfolk.co.uk/ what-s-on 17/11 Martin Simpson (Otford Hall) 18/11 Show of Hands + Miranda Sykes (Queen’s Hall) 24/11 Robb Johnson & The Irregulars (Vestry Hall) TRINITY THEATRE, CHURCH ROAD all event information and tickets at www.trinitytheatre.net 15/11 Blazin’ Fiddles 17/11 G2 Definitive Genesis THE GREEN DUCK EMPORIUM, GROSVENOR ROAD all event information and tickets available from www.emporiumeventsltd.co.uk/ box-office-tickets 24/11 Carradine’s Cockney Sing-along!
THE FIERY LIGHTS
GEOGRAPHY WINEBAR, HIGH STREET Open all day, free entry live music from 3.30pm 19/11 Alex Parker
26/11 Isabella Coulstock
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THE BLACK HORSE PUB, CAMDEN ROAD Open all day, music events - free entry (unless stated) music from 8pm – live music every Friday night TYBER’S REGGAE BAR, 9 NEVILL STREET All event information and tickets available at www.tybersreggaebar. com/events 17/11 The Syndicate 18/11 The Accelerators 24/11 Richie Campbell (UB40 Tribute) 25/11 Jack Curtis & Empress Dem THE ASSEMBLY HALL THEATRE, CRESCENT ROAD All event information and tickets available at www.assemblyhalltheatre.co.uk 19/11 RTWCS: Faure’s Requiem 20/11 Steeleye Span 23/11 Maximum Rhythm And Blues With The Manfreds 26/11 RTWSO: Mozart, Haydn & Mendelssohn KING CHARLES THE MARTYR CHURCH All event information and tickets available at: kcmtw.org/events/ concerts/ 25/11 Decimus Ensemble performing Vilvaldi – A Winter’s Vespers THE BOTTLE HOUSE INN, PENSHURST Open all day, free entry music from 6pm booking advised on 01892 870306 or online at www. thebottlehouseinnpenshurst.co.uk 17/11 Sarajane Hassell 24/11 David Mumford THE BUZZ, 7 THE PANTILES Open all day, free entry, music from 7pm (unless stated) booking advised on 080002119333 17/11 Café Society with vocalist Lauren Hynes 18/11 Gian & Hannah 24/11 Act tbc THE COMPASSES INN, 45 LITTLE MOUNT SION
Open all day, free entry live music normally from 7.30pm unless stated 25/11 Phat Gandalf THE ROYAL OAK PUB, PROSPECT ROAD Open all day, free entry live music normally from 8pm unless stated 16/11 The Americana Sessions (7pm) 18/11 Smashed 25/11 Pistol Whippets SANKEYS BAR & RESTAURANT, 39 MT EPHRAIM Open all day, free entry, live music normally from 7.30pm 16/11 Gez Gold 23/11 Stuart Evans RYAN WEEKS
EVEN FLOW CAFE, ST JOHN’S ROAD All event information and tickets available at www.evenflowuk.com 24/11 Record Store Day 30/11 Open Mic Night THE GEORGE & DRAGON, LAMBERHURST Open all day, free entry, music from 8pm 15/11 Open Mic / Jam session all welcome 22/11 Open Mic / Jam session all welcome If you are a venue local to Tunbridge Wells that hosts regular live music or even if it’s a one-off event, concert or festival, contact Paul at least six weeks in advance of your event date with the following details: • Name and address of venue • Date and time of event • Name of event and name of act(s) • Ticket link and/or website (please state if free entry) • 1 x high resolution (300 dpi) landscape jpeg (performer only, no posters) • Please state photo credit if required paul@paulduntonandguests.com
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Grand opening of ‘Christmas at Bewl Water’ By Sally Cranham The rumours are true! Santa has landed ahead of this year’s grand opening of ‘Christmas at Bewl Water’ on November 19. Situated in Lamberhurst, southeast England’s largest reservoir now resembles an Enchanted Woodland created with meticulous detail and has something for everyone. With peak-time tickets selling out fast you won’t want to wait much longer to secure your family adventure this festive season.
Running until Christmas Eve, tickets are available from £40 per child and £15 per adult, which includes parking. The experience is perfect for young families, where visitors will enter via a twinkling light tunnel and immersive soundscapes before exploring various wonderlands, each with a unique theme. Narnia’s wardrobe doors open to a magical journey through make-believe lands and every twist and turn has been designed to capture the imagination. Bewl Water is nestled in a famously breathtaking landscape and as part of our ongoing commitment to supporting our community, we are dedicating an exclusive day to a number of local charities and their workers by way of giving back. We feel honoured to welcome so many who help out and serve others all year round, and there is nothing like the magic of the season to inspire people forward in the work that they do. We believe that we all benefit when the community works together and it is important to us to show those who knit our communities together through their acts of kindness just how much they are appreciated.
Wonderland From a life-size gingerbread house to the wonder of Fairytale Land, Santa and his hard-working elves are making sure that the grotto is packed full of presents, that every twinkling light is in top working order, and that the oversized gingerbread men know their positions. They have also been making sure that Candy Land is stacked to the roof with sweet treats, and the Winter Warmers Cabin is overflowing with hot chocolate and marshmallows to toast. The stage truly has been set to see children and adults alike be captivated by Bewl Water’s wonderland. After exploring the Enchanted
Woodland, and being swept up in Fairytale Land, children will be welcomed into Mrs Claus’ bakery, the Elves’ Workshop, and Santa’s Post Office, where at each stop they will be guaranteed a creative and fully interactive experience. To make the most of everything there is to enjoy, guests must arrive at least two hours ahead of their scheduled session. This is because their booking time marks their visit to meet Santa in his enchanting grotto – the grand finale of the Christmas adventure. If all this sounds like the Christmas magic you have been looking for, we are urging parents and caregivers to secure their spot leading up to December 24, especially as tickets are selling fast. The easiest way to do this is by booking online at christmas.bewlwater.co.uk. You can also keep up with us over on Instagram (@Bewlwater) where you will get an exclusive behind-the-scenes look at this
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VALUATION ROADSHOW by TV’s Clive Attrell from ITV and BBC Television Clive Attrell has a well-established and successful antiques warehouse on the High Street in Hastings Old Town. You may also recognise him from Dickinson’s Real Deal, on which he was an appraiser for over two years, and numerous other television productions.
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High Street Tonbridge TN11 8BP 9.00am - 12.00pm
Tue 14th Nov (PM) CROWBOROUGH
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59 Mount Ephraim Tunbridge Wells TN4 8BE 1.00pm - 4.00pm
Clive Attrell and his experienced team ensures waiting times are kept to a minimum
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For general enquiries call Polly on: 07824 359169 Clive Attrell is Kent County Council Trading Standards Approved: Reg No 15618
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Style
Timeless luxury designs
Wednesday November 15 | 2023
Charlotte Newman, founder of Kitch fashion boutique celebrates Dea Kudibal’s 20th anniversary collection which she describes as a love letter to festive elegance
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ea Kudibal, a Danish luxury fashion brand, is celebrating its twentieth anniversary in style with the release of a collection that is nothing short of spectacular. This remarkable collection speaks of celebration and exuberance, drawing inspiration from the glitz and glamour of the legendary F. Scott Fitzgerald and his wife, Zelda. Their party-filled journey through the 1920s and 1930s serves as the muse for Dea Kudibal’s latest collection, making it a love letter to the allure and elegance of festive dressing. For two decades, Dea Kudibal has been at the forefront of the fashion industry, consistently pushing the boundaries of creativity and innovation. One of the most remarkable aspects
intricate embellishments and delicate fabrics. The pieces from this period exude an air of rebellion and freedom, making them perfect for those who wish to dance their way through this festive season in style. The 1930s was an era of Hollywood glamour, epitomised by bias-cut gowns and luxurious fabrics. Dea Kudibal’s tribute to this period features sophisticated silhouettes, draped designs and an opulent use of shimmering textiles. The collection encapsulates the grace and extravagance that defined the 1930s, offering a contemporary take on that timeless allure.
Dramatic Each garment is a work of art, ensuring that you not only look impeccable but feel good about your choice. A must-have from the collection, the Flornette dress features one dramatic ruffled sleeve on a fitted bodice. The sleek flared skirt and silk taffeta add to the silhouette. If you are feeling more dramatic, the Tulippi dress was created for you. The oversized sculptural sleeves create a striking silhouette, while the metallic jacquard material adds a luxurious quality that is perfect for parties. An understated piece from the collection, the Bianca dress is both elegant and stylish. This silk maxi dress has a high neck, voluminous sleeves and a sophisticated print of lilies on a black background. Raise a toast to Dea Kudibal’s journey and celebrate the holiday in style, adorned in the epitome of glamour and sophistication. As we
‘Each garment is a work of art, ensuring that you not only look impeccable but feel good about your choice’ of this collection is its ability to seamlessly blend vintage glamour with modern sophistication. While drawing inspiration from the past, the designs are tailored for the present, offering versatility that allows you to transition from day to night effortlessly. The ‘Roaring Twenties’ was an era marked by dramatic social and cultural change. This collection pays homage to that period, embodying the essence of the 1920s with
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Health & Wellbeing
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Why now is the time to find out what you want to achieve in life and make it happen This week Lucy Parker, from Flow Tunbridge Wells teaches us how to GROW…
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round this time of year, as the days get darker and the year draws to a close, we have a unique opportunity to ask ourselves the powerful question, ‘What do I want?’ It might sound like a simple question but dig a little deeper and you may find it surprisingly hard to answer. What do you want, truly? Superficially, we could answer with something quick, easy, and tangible, such as a cup of tea or a biscuit. Then we might step into the optimistic or opportunistic, thinking that a sports car or trip to Bali would be nice. Then slowly it might dawn on us that what we truly want is more of a feeling, a sense of purpose or meaning that creeps over us and makes our eyes sparkle bright. Sir John Whitmore knew all of this when he formulated his world-famous coaching model GROW in the mid-1980s. He saw the advantages that tennis coaches gave their players and the winning formula woven
out of knowing what you want and going in to get it. He studied the 1974 book, ‘The Inner Game of Tennis’, and soon devised the GROW model to expand the wisdom of sports coaching into the everyday lives of people and the businesses they run. Over the next few weeks I will be looking at each element of this model.
weight loss targets per week for example, makes the whole thing far more manageable, and therefore achievable. My recommendation this week is to give yourself time to sit with the question, what do I want? Write down everything that pops into your mind, from the sublime to the ridiculous. Jot it all down until you can’t think of anything more and then ask yourself again, ‘What do I want?’ Keep doing this, feel into everything you notice and write it all down. Then step away for a while, take a break so that when you return with fresh eyes you might find some things that jump out at you. You may notice a theme or pattern emerge. Highlight these, and bundle them into groups – travel, health or fun for example. Then finally, when you’re ready, set your heart and mind on one, two or three goals that feel the most important to you. Next week we’ll explore what to do next to help you achieve your goals and become the captain of your own destiny! Next week we will look at part two – R (Reality) – asking, ‘Where are you now?’
So, what is GROW? G – Goal (What do you want?) R – Reality (Where are you now?) O – Options (What could you do?) W – Will (What will you do?) Essentially, coaching is all about unlocking a person’s potential to maximise their outcome. The word unlocking here is interesting, as it suggests that without a plan, and a specific goal, we’re locked and unable to move forward or grow as we could. So, for the next four weeks, we’re going to take a good hard look at what you want within the framework of GROW so that by January you’ll be ready to grab the new year by the horns and achieve exactly what you want to! Let’s begin with your goal. In the GROW way, goals are set out as two distinct aims, ultimate goals, the long-term BIG picture, and performance goals, the small, or even tiny steps you can make to achieve the ultimate or dream goals. Imagine for example your ultimate goal is to lose two stone in weight. It’s going to take a huge amount of commitment and discipline to
LUCY PARKER reach that goal, let alone time. So, making a performance goal that divides that ultimate goal up into more manageable chucks, certain
“When I want to, I perform better than when I have to. I want to for me. I have to for you. Self-motivation is a matter of choice” Sir John Whitmore Lucy Parker, coach, counsellor, and senior yoga teacher Flow Tunbridge Wells flowtunbridgewells.com
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Antiques
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Pushkin Antiques has a beautiful selection of exquisitely-crafted vintage games sets – and they make very special, timeless gifts, says Rudolph Hamilton… This holiday season, Pushkin Antiques is redefining the art of gift-giving by bringing friends and family together with a delightful collection of entertainment treasures. From elegant roulette tables RUDOLPH to intricate chess sets HAMILTON and comprehensive games compendiums, these extraordinary items promise to infuse your festive gatherings with excitement, laughter, and cherished moments that will last a lifetime. At Pushkin Antiques, you can transform your living room into a mini casino with an exquisite roulette table. This timeless classic is perfect
for adding a touch of glamour to your holiday festivities. As the wheel spins and the ball bounces, the thrill of the game will keep everyone on the edge of their seats, creating unforgettable memories. For those who appreciate strategy and intellect, Pushkin Antiques offers a selection of chess sets that are not only functional but also exquisite works of art. The intricate detailing and craftsmanship of these sets are sure to impress both enthusiasts and beginners alike.
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CHRISTMAS CASINO: A roulette table at Pushkin Antiques
If variety is what you seek, look no further than the games compendiums available at Pushkin Antiques. These comprehensive sets are packed with classic games like backgammon, dominos, playing cards, and more. They are designed to provide endless hours of entertainment for all ages, making them the ideal choice for family and friends to come together and share in the joy of play. These unique gifts from Pushkin Antiques are more than just games – they are catalysts for bonding and creating beautiful memories during the festive season. With exquisite craftsmanship and attention to detail, these items serve as a testament to the art of quality entertainment. Make this Christmas a time for shared laughter, friendly competition, and heartwarming conversations with these remarkable gifts from Pushkin Antiques. Visit the gallery to explore the collection and find the perfect gifts to bring your loved ones together in the spirit of joy and togetherness this holiday season.
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Travel
Wednesday November 15 | 2023
St Lucia: the perfect year-round destination
The Caribbean island offers an idyllic mix of adventure and relaxation at any time of the year, say the experts at Tunbridge Wells-based travel agency, Simply Luxury Escapes…
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f you’re seeking a destination that’s sunny and warm all year round, St Lucia ticks all the right boxes. This past October half term, we chose St Lucia as we wanted the warm sun, plus we only had nine days available. The direct flight from London takes just eight hours, making the journey very manageable. With two teens accompanying me, I wanted to ensure we had plenty of beach time plus find some interesting activities to keep everyone always entertained. We started in the North of St Lucia, staying at Windjammer Landing, a wonderful villa-style hotel complex with a large range of water sports and restaurants to choose from. Windjammer Landing is also located in a great area to be able to venture out to nearby interesting places. We spent an afternoon having a St Lucian picnic at the historical Pigeon Island. We picked up local rotis on the drive up, which were delicious. We also went for a hike and learned about St Lucia’s history, which the girls really enjoyed. We finished at Pigeon Island beach – a hidden gem and with its crystal clear waters, possibly
one of the best beaches in St Lucia. Another day was spent at Cap Maison Boutique Hotel to have lunch at the beach club. The girls loved the vibe and enjoyed a day of chilling out. We stayed in the north of St Lucia for five nights, before heading over to the south of the island for the second part of our stay. St Lucia is such an amazing island for a twin-centre holiday as the two sides of the island are completely different.
Landscapes On checking out of Windjammer Landing, we made our way to Hotel Chocolat (Rabot Hotel) in the southern town of Soufriere. The journey gave us an opportunity to take in the scenic beauty of St Lucia, with its lush landscapes and majestic volcanic spires – the ‘Pitons’. We were staying in the unique and luxurious surroundings of Hotel Chocolat, where all the recipes in the restaurant have a chocolate twist – fabulous! It’s located close to the ‘drive-in volcano’ and mud baths, which made for a wonderful fun afternoon. On day two in the south, we spent the day quad-biking off the
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beaten track, driving through the rainforest and exploring more hidden beaches. This was a fantastic trip – the teenagers loved it. For our final day, we did the ‘bean-to-bar’ activity at the hotel, where we picked our own cocoa beans and made our own chocolate bar. We didn’t have time to do the zip-wiring in the rainforest – but maybe next time! Nine days just sped by, but we had the most amazing time together, enjoying beach time and all the activities. St Lucia has so much to offer for couples, families and the solo traveller. St Lucia you were a blast, and we will be back.
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Motors
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Porsche shows off new Panamera interior ahead of full reveal PORSCHE has given a closer look at the interior of its new Panamera prior to the car’s official unveiling on November 24. The new generation of Panamera will take many cues from the current Taycan electric vehicle, which is being reflected in its interior. It has a far more digital-focused feel than the previous generation, with one of the key new features being larger screens. There’s now a 12.6-inch screen ahead of the driver, coupled with a 12.3-inch infotainment setup and a separate 10.9-inch touchscreen ahead of the passenger, where they’ll be able to access media and nav functions. The digital display itself also features a clearer layout than before, with all the key elements grouped together to make them easier to access. Porsche says that this ‘simplifies the operation of the Panamera’. Some additional space has been created by
replacing the old gear stick with a new toggle-style control at the side of the steering wheel, while the old starter ‘key’ has been replaced by a more modern stop/start button. It means there’s now a larger storage area in between the driver and passenger, with two large cupholders also available there.
Dashboard Porsche has kitted the Panamera out with continuous ambient lighting along the entire centre dashboard, while extra foam padding has been added to the seats to make them more comfortable. For the first time, Porsche will also be offering the Panamera with a leather-free upholstery option, combining animal-free materials such as Race-Tex and Pepita – with the latter incorporating Porsche’s classic houndstooth print.
Mercedes announces UK pricing for new CLE Coupe THE new Mercedes CLE Coupe has gone on sale in the UK, with prices starting from £46,605. Blending together features from the C-Class and E-Class, the new CLE Coupe will be available with a range of engines from launch including four- and six-cylinder petrol units alongside a four-cylinder diesel, while a plug-in hybrid will be added ‘at a later date’, according to Mercedes. All versions get plenty of standard equipment, however, with highlights including an 11.9-inch central display and a 12.3-inch digital instrument cluster. All of them run the third generation of the Mercedes MBUX infotainment system, too, which adds greater functionality and improved voice control features. Plus, both Apple CarPlay and Android Auto can be accessed wirelessly.
Automatic The range of specifications available with the CLE Coupe kicks off with AMG Line, which adds 18-inch alloy wheels, automatic climate control and LED headlights with adaptive high-beam assist. Move to the AMG Line Premium – priced from £50,355 – and this adds 19-inch AMG alloy wheels, an augmented-reality satellite
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navigation system and a panoramic sunroof, while AMG Line Premium Plus – priced from £54,355 – adds in 20-inch multi-spoke alloy wheels, a heads-up display and a 17-speaker Burmester sound system. At the top of the range sits the Premier Edition, which has black 20-inch AMG multi-spoke alloy wheels, a heated steering wheel and Nappa leather upholstery. It’s priced from £56,855. There are eight exterior colours to choose from, too, while all versions get leather upholstery as standard with Premier Editions upgrading this to a higher-quality Nappa leather finish.
New Skoda Superb boasts style and real practicality SKODA has unveiled its fourth-generation Superb, which aims to bring even more comfort and spaciousness than the outgoing version. Available in both hatchback and estate layouts as before, the new Superb can be specified with a choice between six engines. The petrol range kicks off with a 1.5-litre unit with mild-hybrid assistance, followed by a 2.0-litre available in two versions. The 2.0-litre diesel is available in both two- and four-wheeldrive with the latter bringing more power.
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The top-of-the-range, 1.5-litre turbocharged plug-in hybrid develops 201bhp and drives through a six-speed DSG automatic gearbox, with a 25.7kWh battery pack. The hybrid will only be available in estate form for now, says Skoda. The whole car is longer and taller than the one it replaces, which means that it’s able to offer even more space than the outgoing Superb. Boot space has risen by 20 litres to 645 litres in the hatchback and by 30 litres to 690 litres in the estate. The exterior design represents an evolution of the older Superb’s. The estate, in particular, has a more rounded aesthetic towards the back of the car. Inside, the new Superb mirrors the latest Kodiaq with its adoption of Skoda’s configurable ‘smart dials’ which can be customised to give quick access to the driver’s favourite functions. Skoda has also included a number of physical controls for features such as the volume control to make things easier to use on the move. Skoda is expected to announce pricing shortly.
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