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a cardiac arrest but suffered massive brain damage and was in a coma. Eventually she was diagnosed as being in a persistent vegetative state. Thinking about potential medical issues and The case pitted her husband, who wanted the end-of-life care can be a bit daunting, but it’s feeding tube removed, against her parents, who important. There are legal documents, such as an argued that she was conscious. The legal challenges advance healthcare directive, in which one can involved Florida courts, the state’s legislature, specify one’s preferences. then-Gov. Jeb Bush, the U.S. Congress, President “It’s not just for older people; it’s important for all of us no matter what the age to have an advance George W. Bush, and the U.S. Supreme Court. In the event of death, the document also directive. In my view, it’s part of estate planning, includes preferences regarding organ donation. just like a financial power of attorney and a will,” If donation is chosen, limitations about specific explains David Mills, Esq., Blakey, Yost, Bupp & organs and tissues and uses for them may be Rausch LLP, York. included. It also addresses palliative or He says that an advance healthcare comfort care. directive includes both a living will It’s not Mills says that some preferences and a healthcare power of attorney, just for older may be affected by religious beliefs. or POA. This comprehensive legal He notes that there is a form for those document provides the medical people; it’s of the Catholic faith that allows the community with a clear path for important person to state his or her wishes in treatment. for all of us many areas but indicates that the When a patient is admitted for no matter healthcare agent is to presume in favor hospital care, asking if he or she has of providing nutrition and hydration, an advance medical directive is as what the including medically assisted nutrition much a part of the admissions process age to have and hydration if they are capable of as providing information about an advance sustaining the person’s life. healthcare insurance. directive. “The decisions in the living will are A living will specifies treatments all very personal decisions — there’s no that one may want or not want to right or wrong,” Mills says. sustain life when in an end-stage Similar to a financial power of attorney, in medical condition or in a state of permanent which one appoints someone as their “agent” to act unconsciousness. Treatments include dialysis, on their behalf in financial matters, the healthcare mechanical ventilation, surgery, antibiotics, power of attorney appoints someone to act on their chemotherapy, and radiation treatment. behalf with regard to health and personal care “This makes your wishes known in the event decisions. that you’re in the hospital and are in a coma,” It is invoked if the person can no longer stressed Mills. “The importance of having a living will was demonstrated by the Karen Ann Quinlan speak for himself or herself. It’s used not only at end of life, but also in the event that someone case.” is unconscious or in a coma. The form allows Quinlan was a New Jersey woman who, in the someone to appoint both a healthcare agent and an mid-’70s, mixed an anti-anxiety medication with alternate. alcohol while on a crash diet and lapsed into a Mills says that a living will not only specifies coma and then a persistent vegetative state. one’s wishes for treatment, but it also directs After doctors refused her parents’ request to the agent to act either solely in accordance with disconnect her respirator — which her parents the preferences as set forth in the living will or considered an extraordinary means of prolonging to use the preferences as guidance, allowing the her life and contended that it caused her pain — healthcare agent to make the final decision. they filed suit to have the apparatus removed. He encourages people to review the living will A legal battle ensued and eventually the and their preferences with both the healthcare respirator was removed. The family consented to a agent(s) they have chosen and family members. He feeding tube, and she eventually died in 1985. also said that like a will, it’s a document that can Another clause in the living will focuses on using a feeding tube to supply food and hydration. be changed as one’s preferences change. Another document some may consider is a Mills says that this clause is often called the Terri POLST (Pennsylvania Orders for Life-Sustaining Schiavo clause — named after the landmark endTreatment) form, which is intended to give of-life care case of the 1990s. Schiavo, a Florida resident, was resuscitated after an individual control over end-of-life care and

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includes a directive for resuscitation or non-resuscitation if the individual has no pulse and is not breathing. If the patient has a pulse and/or is breathing, the form indicates if he or she wishes to have comfort measures only; limited interventions, such as cardiac monitor and IV fluids; or full treatment. There are also sections to indicate the patient’s preferences regarding antibiotics and artificially administered hydration and/or nutrition. This form is usually completed by individuals with chronic progressive illness and/or frailty or by anyone of an advanced age that feels strongly about designating their goals and preferences for care, said Regina Cabezas, social worker for Landis Homes in Lititz. “POLST is a voluntary form for individuals throughout the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania,” Cabezas said, “and even though it is highly recommended, completion of the form is not required for admission to post-acute care areas or retirement communities, such as Landis Homes.” At the time it’s completed, any

existing advance healthcare directive should be reviewed. The POLST also includes contact information for the healthcare professional preparing it and the individual’s designated emergency contact or healthcare POA. “I often say that having the POLST takes things ‘up a notch,’ as it moves from the wishes that someone expresses to becoming orders that must be followed,” Cabezas said. Cabezas stressed that the advancecare planning process “should not be a two-minute task” but instead an honest, thoughtful conversation amongst all involved parties. “This may make for some difficult and uncomfortable dialogue between the resident and family members, but ultimately it is the individual’s choice and one that ideally their healthcare power of attorney will follow in what can be a very emotionally charged crisis situation,” Cabezas said. The key element with all of the documents is to ensure that an individual’s wishes for medical treatment measures — in the event they’re in a coma or facing end of life and cannot speak for themselves — are met.

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Fifties Flashback

It’s a Mad World After All Randal C. Hill

In Lewis Carroll’s 1865 classic Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland, Alice remarks to the Cheshire Cat, “I don’t want to go among mad people.” The grinning cat responds, “Oh, you can’t help that. We’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.” “How do you know I’m mad?” asks Alice. “You must be,” explains the cat, “or you wouldn’t have come here.”

since the 1890s. He dubbed him the messages, so be Angels. Howdy Alfred E. Neuman, and Neuman rose Doody. Barbie prepared. to fame as a grinning, jug-eared, gapand Ken. All Along the way, toothed simpleton whose motto was Mad’s clever and suffered the sting “What, me worry?” invaluable lessons of Mad’s gleeful As the Mad mascot, he came to undoubtedly barbs, as did symbolize everything vacuous about helped avid readers highly respected the publication. Neuman’s iconic politicians and develop their portrait often replaced the faces of critical-thinking established world celebrities who were being lampooned skills. leaders. in that particular issue. “If you were Top-flight For a while, Neuman had a lady growing up lonely Mad caricaturists ••• companion, a cartoon character brought easily If something affected the national and isolated in a named Moxie Cowznofski. But Moxie psyche, Mad magazine wanted to poke small town, Mad recognizable popmade only a few appearances in the fun at it. was a revelation,” culture celebrities Cover of first Mad magazine, 1955. late 1950s, possibly because she looked said counterculture to its pages, and Impressionable adolescents who too much like her “significant other.” read Mad were warned constantly cartoonist R. Crumb. “Nothing I read recurring cartoon columns, such Mad kept the chuckles coming as it about society’s half-truths, double anywhere else suggested there was any as the triangle-headed Spy vs. Spy standards, fine print, deceptive absurdity in the culture.” characters, kept young readers amused created a series of nonsensical words, such as furshlugginer (an adjective Everyone and everything were — and on their toes — during the advertisements, and sneaky product expressing contempt), blecch (a term placements. fair game. Superman. The Ku Klux oppressive Cold War of the 1950s. Mad first appeared as a 1952 horror synonymous with disgust), and The world is out to get you, implied Klan. Wonder Woman. The Hell’s comic book that was a satire on (of all potrzebie (a word with no meaning or definition whatsoever). things) other horror comic books. Unique in its controversial social New York funsters and comic-book satire, Mad would eventually influence veterans William Gaines and Harvey such pop-cultural icons as National Kurtzman were Mad’s publisher and •K orean war veterans (of all service Lampoon, The Simpsons, and Saturday editor, respectively, and what their branches) who served anywhere in Night Live. eight-times-a-year periodical brought the world 1950–1955 When the fun-loving William to the nation’s teenagers eventually Gaines died at age 70 in June 1992, morphed into a bible of juvenile• Veterans (of all service branches) appearing blasphemy that took delight the New York Daily News headlined who served in Korea 1945–present his obituary “What, Me Dead?” in flagrantly casting a wide satirical net and laughing at just about every Come and enjoy the camaraderie Although Randal C. Hill’s heart lives rock-solid institution in America. of your fellow veterans at a monthly in the past, the rest of him resides in In 1954, Kurtzman adopted a meeting of the local chapter of the Bandon, Ore. He can be reached at forgotten and unnamed advertising Korean War Veterans Association wryterhill@msn.com. image for Mad that had been around (KWVA). We meet on the second Wednesday of each month at Wood Crest Villa — Eagle Commons, 2001 Harrisburg Pike, Lancaster, PA 17601, starting with lunch at noon. This invitation includes spouses/companions and drivers. There Columbia • Marietta • Wrightsville is no charge for attendance. Dress code is casual. We currently have 90+ registered The mission of the KWVA/USA members. Come join us. Hopefully, you For upcoming events go to is to defend our nation. Care will find it habit forming. for our veterans. Perpetuate our

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Farmers Market Vouchers Soon Available In cooperation with the Pennsylvania Department of Agriculture, Farmers Market Nutrition vouchers will be distributed to eligible individuals in June at all Lancaster County Office of Aging senior centers. Other distribution sites include the Ephrata Recreation Center and New Holland United Methodist Church. The nutrition vouchers, valued at $20, can be exchanged for Pennsylvania-grown fruits and vegetables through November at participating farmers markets and roadside stands. To be eligible, an individual must be at least 60 years of age, reside in Lancaster County, and have an annual household income of less than $23,107 for one person or less than $31,284 for two. Those living in nursing homes or other residential facilities where meals are provided are not eligible for this program.

Those unable to pick up the vouchers may have a proxy or representative go on their behalf but need to have a completed, signed proxy form along with photo ID of the eligible individual presented at the time of distribution. To receive a proxy form by mail prior to distribution, contact any senior center listed below or the Office of Aging at (717) 299-7979. Vouchers will be available from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. on a first-come, first-served basis starting on the following dates at these locations:

• June 12 – Lancaster Neighborhood Senior Center, 33 E. Farnum St., Lancaster, (717) 299-3943 • June 12 – Lancaster Rec Commission Senior Center, 525 Fairview Ave., Lancaster, (717) 3997671 • June 12 – Lititz Senior Center, 201 E. Market St., Lititz, (717) 626-2800 • June 12 – Millersville Senior Center, 222 N. George St., Millersville, (717) 871-9600

• June 5 – SACA Senior Center, 545 Pershing Ave., Lancaster, (717) 295-7989

• June 12 – Next Generations/Solanco Senior Center, 184 S. Lime St., Quarryville, (717) 7864770

• June 12 – Columbia Senior Center, 510 Walnut St., Columbia, (717) 684-4850

• June 19 – Ephrata Rec Center, 130 S. Academy Drive, Ephrata

• June 12 – Elizabethtown Area Senior Center, 70 S. Poplar St., Elizabethtown, (717) 367-7984

• June 20 – New Holland United Methodist Church, 120 W. Main St., New Holland

At Your Fingertips Helpful numbers, hotlines, and local businesses and organizations eager to serve you—all just a phone call away. Cancer care Lancaster Cancer Center Greenfield Corporate Center 1858 Charter Lane, Suite 202 (717) 291-1313 Emergency Numbers Central Pennsylvania Poison Center (800) 521-6110 Office of Aging (717) 299-7979 or (800) 801-3070 Employment Lancaster County Office of Aging (717) 299-7979 Entertainment Dutch Apple Dinner Theatre 510 Centerville Road, Lancaster (717) 898-1900 Financial Services Internal Revenue Service (717) 291-1994 Morgan Stanley Wealth Management (302) 573-4027 U.S. Financial (800) 595-1925, ext. 2122 Health & Medical Services Alzheimer’s Association (717) 651-5020

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Home Care Services Visiting Angels Living Assistance Services Hanover: (717) 630-0067 Lancaster: (717) 393-3450 York: (717) 751-2488

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Health Matters

What’s Next When the Kids Leave the Nest? Lisa M. Petsche

regularly. This is a good time to take that Pilates class or join a gym. In addition to safeguarding your physical health, these measures will also help ward off depression. Keep a positive attitude about life and aging, and associate with people who have a similar outlook.

When the last of your offspring has left home, the adjustment can be difficult. This may be particularly so if you have focused the majority of your time and energy on raising your children or if you’re a single parent and now find yourself alone. Feelings of emptiness may be profound and challenging to overcome. If you find yourself in this situation, here are some suggestions that can help. Be Kind to Yourself Recognize that it will take time to adjust to this new phase of life. Try not to dwell on the past, as it will keep you from moving forward. Prepare a list of things to do when you find yourself feeling lost or blue. Include small indulgences to give you a lift as well as tasks or projects that will give you a sense of satisfaction (decluttering your home, for example). Look after your health. Eat nutritious meals, get adequate rest, and exercise

Nurture Your Spirit Write down your thoughts, feelings, and experiences, chronicling your journey of selfdiscovery and growth. Do things that center you and bring inner peace, such as meditating, listening to music, or spending time in nature. Engage in activities that provide you with meaning and purpose, such as writing a family history, getting a pet, or helping an ill or elderly neighbor. Busy Yourself Think back to former hobbies or practices that fell away once you had a

Job Opportunities LANCASTER COUNTY EMPLOYERS NEED YOU!! Age 55 or over? Unemployed? The 55+ Job Bank is one of three services offered by Employment Unit at the Office of Aging. Jobs are matched with those looking for work. Based on an evaluation of your skills and abilities, we can match you with a position needed by a local employer. Some employers are specifically looking for older workers because of the reliability and experience they bring to the workplace. There is a mix of full-time and part-time jobs covering all shifts, requiring varying levels of skill and experience, and offering a wide range of salaries. The other services available through the Office of Aging are the Senior Community Service Employment Program (SCSEP) and the regularly scheduled Job Search Workshops.

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FOOD SERVICE SUBSTITUTES – PT

County school district needs to staff their full-service cafeterias for the current school term and for the 20192020 school year. Positions include line serving, food prep, cashiering, dish room, and other duties. Need own transport, some bending/lifting involved. SN040033.01

SENIOR MOVERS – PT

Local firm is looking for a few persons to assist their clients with downsizing/decluttering to prepare for moving. Duties include sorting, organizing, packing, inspecting for damage, and unpacking. Must be organized, detail oriented, and able to lift 20-30 pounds. SN040045.02

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We list other jobs on the web at www.co.lancaster.pa.us/ lanco_aging. To learn more about applying for the 55+ Job Bank and these jobs, call the Employment Unit at (717) 299-7979. SN-GEN.03

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— Volunteer Opportunities — One of the available specialized volunteer opportunities at Lancaster County Office of Aging is that of APPRISE counselor. Counselors work with a diverse group of consumers with one commonality: There is some type of connection to Medicare. You may work with a consumer who is receiving Medicare and having problems with secondary coverage, or you may be helping the child of a Medicare consumer who’s trying to help a parent who doesn’t have drug coverage. APPRISE counselors meet with consumers who are new to Medicare, and they screen consumers to determine if they’re eligible for any benefits that help pay for the costs of Medicare. The orientation process includes shadowing experienced APPRISE counselors, working through online training modules, and attending new counselor training provided by the state Department of Aging. This process occurs during weekdays, mostly at the Office of Aging in Lancaster. For more information about this volunteer opportunity, contact Bev Via, volunteer coordinator, at (717) 299-7979 or aging@ co.lancaster.pa.us.

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family, and revive one that still holds appeal. Take up something new — for example, gourmet cooking, sculpting, or modern jazz. Get involved in your community. Volunteer for a neighborhood association, charitable or environmental cause, animal shelter, or political campaign. Along the way you might make new friends. If you miss being around young people, volunteer at a local school or community center. Cultivate some solitary pastimes. Learn to enjoy your own company. If you have been out of the workforce while raising your family, look for a job. Return to school for a certificate or diploma, or perhaps even a degree. Or just take some courses here and there for personal interest. Check out the offerings from the local school board’s adult education center as well as postsecondary institutions. Don’t forget the option of distance education. If you are married, go on regular dates with your spouse. Get creative, trying new activities and types of food, or revisit activities from your courting years. Take turns doing the planning. This is a good chance to step up the intimacy and generate some romance and excitement.

Plan some trips with your spouse or friends, or perhaps on your own or with a tour group, depending on your situation and preferences. Reach Out Keep in touch with your offspring through modern technology. Learn to become comfortable with the communication methods they favor, such as texting and Skyping. Just don’t overdo it. Take the initiative in calling friends and relatives to catch up. Instead of waiting for invitations, extend them. If you don’t feel you’re adjusting well to your new circumstances, seek support from a counselor. Whether or not you anticipated being an empty nester at this point in your life, the reality may initially seem unsettling. But with time, patience, and trust in your resilience, you will successfully adapt and find yourself growing and enjoying life in ways you never imagined. Lisa M. Petsche is a social worker and a freelance writer specializing in boomer and senior health and wellness.

Libraries Lend More than Just Books Your public library just might be one of the most underused resources in your community. That’s because libraries are more than just repositories for books and other media. Libraries in municipalities both large and small are filled with treasures just waiting to be collected or lent out. Here are examples of some of the unusual items you might find: Bakeware. There’s no need to invest in fancy-shaped cake pans that you’ll use once. If you need to bake a Power Ranger cake or one in the shape of Cinderella’s princess carriage, chances are they might be on a shelf in a storage closet of your library, along with other kitchenware.

Toys. Board games, building blocks, and even dolls are waiting to be borrowed and shared. Seeds. Seed libraries are growing in popularity in communities with active gardeners. Libraries offer the seeds free of charge to patrons, who in turn donate seeds at the end of the season from the plants they’ve cultivated.

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Equipment. Depending on the geography in your area, you might find anything from fishing poles to hiking gear to snowshoes, sleds, tennis rackets, and other sports apparatus. Humans. Having a “living library” has been gaining in popularity since the idea was introduced in Denmark in 2000. Nurses, social workers, and knowledgeable people from various fields offer their time and expertise to educate patrons, during operating hours, in the library. Museum passes. Public libraries in Chicago let patrons check out passes that allow for free entry to various museums throughout the city. Musical instruments. If your library has a well-stocked music and arts department, you might be able to borrow a banjo, bongos, dulcimer, kalmia, or mandolin. Local residents can check out all these instruments and others at Forbes Library in Massachusetts. Tools. Libraries in Oakland, California, lend out drills, tape measures, saws, and many other items for quick projects. They also take donations of unwanted tools that are in good shape. www.50plusLifePA.com

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Now booking our Christmas, variety, and specialty shows for 2019. We have many variety shows featuring the music from the 1930s to the 60s. Songs by legendary artists like Bing Crosby, Frank Sinatra, Doris Day, Kay Starr, Dean Martin, Patsy Cline, and the Mills Brothers. Specialty shows include …

Songs from the WWII Years • The Post WWII Years: 1945 – 1955 AMERICA: From Sea to Shining Sea Salute to the Rat Pack (or if you prefer, just Sinatra) Elvis & Patsy • Classic Country Please contact Memory Music to book your next event!

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Nursing & Rehabilitation Centers Bethany Village – The Oaks

325 Wesley Drive • Mechanicsburg, PA 17055 (717) 766-0279 • www.bethanyvillage.org Number of Beds: 69 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes

Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Accreditations/Affiliations: CARF; Eagle, LeadingAge PA Comments: Maplewood Assisted Living also available.

Conestoga View

900 East King Street • Lancaster, PA 17602 (717) 299-7850 • www.conestogaviewnursing.com Number of Beds: 436 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Respiratory, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes

24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes

Homestead Village

1800 Village Circle • Lancaster, PA 17603 (717) 397-4831 • www.homesteadvillage.org Number of Beds: 60 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Short-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: No 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes

Scheduled Entertainment: Yes Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Comments: CARF-CCAC accredited, five-star rating. Small-care households make our community very attractive. Convenient location and quality care.

Pleasant View Communities

544 North Pennryn Road • Manheim, PA 17545 (717) 665-2445 • www.pleasantviewrc.org Number of Beds: 133 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Short-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes

Scheduled Entertainment: Yes Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: No Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Comments: Delivering compassionate care that encompasses physical, emotional, social, and spiritual needs since 1955.

Claremont Nursing & Rehabilitation Center 1000 Claremont Road • Carlisle, PA 17013 (717) 243-2031 • www.ccpa.net/cnrc Number of Beds: 282 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes

Private Rooms Available: No Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Comments: Featuring Transitions at Claremont, a dedicated, 39-bed, shortterm rehab unit. Claremont provides quality skilled nursing and secured dementia care.

Homeland Center

1901 North Fifth Street • Harrisburg, PA 17102-1598 (717) 221-7902 • www.homelandcenter.org Number of Beds: 95 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Short-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes

Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Accreditations/Affiliations: AAHSA, LeadingAge PA (PANPHA), NHPCO, PHN, HPNA Comments: A beautiful, full-service continuing care retirement community with a history of more than 150 years of exemplary care.

Mennonite Home Communities

1520 Harrisburg Pike • Lancaster, PA 17601 (717) 393-1301 • www.mennonitehome.org Number of Beds: 188 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes Scheduled Entertainment: Yes

Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Accreditations/Affiliations: Equal Housing, LeadingAge PA Comments: Person-centered care with reputation for compassion and excellence. Established in 1903. Respite care available w/minimum stay.

Transitions Healthcare – Gettysburg

595 Biglerville Road • Gettysburg, PA 17325 (717) 334-6249 • www.transitionshealthcarellc.com Number of Beds: 135 Rehabilitation Unit: Yes Alzheimer’s Unit: Yes Skilled Licensed Nursing: Yes Therapy: Speech, Occupational, Respiratory, Physical Long-Term Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes 24-Hour Medical Care: Yes Recreational Activities: Yes

Scheduled Entertainment: Yes Private Rooms Available: Yes Semi-Private Rooms Available: Yes Pet Visitation Allowed: Yes Beauty/Barber Shop: Yes Medicare: Yes Medicaid: Yes Accreditations/Affiliations: PHCA, PACA Comments: Fully staffed Transitions Healthcare employees in skilled nursing and sub-acute rehab. Tours are encouraged!

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The Beauty in Nature

Warblers I’ve Enjoyed Clyde McMillan-Gamber

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During winter, they mostly ingest berries, the reason they can winter in the north. These are a few of my favorite warblers. Their relatives, and all life,

have something of interest as well. Life on Earth is quite intriguing, more than anything else. Clyde McMillan-Gamber is a retired Lancaster County Parks naturalist.

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Several kinds of Common warblers, which yellowthroat warblers are small, colorful are olive brown birds that winter in on top and yellow Central and South below. Each male America, nest in also has a black forests and woody mask over his eyes. thickets in North He sings “witchety, America, including witchety, witchety” in southeastern to attract a mate to Yellow warbler Pennsylvania. his nesting territory Often called among shrubbery “feathered jewels,” near ponds and small many kinds of these waterways. lively little birds Blue-winged migrate through warblers hatch young here early in May, in rows of multiflora and some species rose bushes between stay here to raise fields. This species young. is olive above and Photo by Tony Castro All species yellow underneath Blue-winged warbler of warblers eat and has a little light invertebrates during blue on each wing. the warmer months and feed the same Males emit an interesting, buzzy song to their offspring. that sounds like an elf inhaling and All warblers are small, and most exhaling, “beeee-buzzzz.” of them are difficult to see. Use Louisiana waterthrushes “dance field guides or get online to see the and bob” as they walk along beautiful colors and patterns that woodland streams in search of aquatic identify each species. invertebrates. Those extra motions I have fond memories of seven resemble debris bouncing in the kinds of favorite warblers that I current of the stream, which is a form particularly enjoy in southeastern of camouflage. Pennsylvania. Each species has at Waterthrushes rear offspring in least one characteristic that makes it leaf-lined notches behind tree roots in interesting. stream banks. Palm warblers migrate through here Ovenbirds walk on dead-leaf early in April, which is before most forest floors to get invertebrates for warblers do. They inhabit woodland themselves and their young. Brown swamps where they walk, while above and white with rows of dark pumping their tails, along edges of spots below, ovenbirds blend into leafshallow puddles on leafy forest floors carpeted forest floors. to get invertebrates. The usually invisible males ring out This attractive species is brown on “teacher, teacher, teacher” to attract top, which camouflages it, and yellow females to them for raising youngsters below with a rusty cap. on woodland floors. Yellow warblers are yellow all over, Little flocks of yellow-rumped making them striking among the warblers winter in southeastern leaves of willow trees and bushes, Pennsylvania and through much where they nest by ponds and streams. of the eastern United States. They Each male yellow warbler sings lively resemble sparrows to some extent, ditties that attract a female to him in except they are slimmer and have thin his nesting territory. beaks and a yellow rump.

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By Andrea Gross

United by Passion: Baltimore’s Unique Museums

One minute I’m outside the American Visionary Art Museum, gazing at a 55-foot-tall whirligig. It spins, it whirls, it catches light and splatters it onto a nearby wall covered with fragments of mirror and tile. Inside the museum there’s a giant “Bra Ball,” created from the The mosaic wall of the AVAM was built with the bras of nearly 2,000 help of at-risk students as a means of helping them breast cancer survivors. learn valuable job skills. As you can tell, the AVAM is an extremely unusual place, one that celebrates the intuition and ingenuity of self-taught artists. A few hours later I’m at the Baltimore Museum of Art, reveling in the bright colors and exuberant style of paintings by French artist Henri Matisse. In addition to an internationally acclaimed collection of art, the BMA is the proud owner of the world’s largest holding of Matisse paintings.

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An Idealist’s Determination: The American Visionary Art Museum It took Rebecca Hoffberger 10 years to open a museum honoring “outsider art,” a term that’s often used by those on the inside to describe works they don’t understand. This is art that owes nothing to tradition (as does folk art) and little to the surrounding environment (as does most art). Rather it seems to burst forth from the creator’s soul — thoroughly original, often quixotic or quirky. In short, visionary. Most works — like the haunting figure carved by a tuberculosis patient — are accompanied by a story, bringing voice to the oft-anonymous and usually uncelebrated artist. Some elicit tears, other bring laughs, all provoke thought. Today the museum, which has been designated America’s “official national education center, repository, and museum for self-taught, intuitive artistry,” is spread over more than an acre that contains three buildings as well as several outdoor exhibition areas. Yet despite its newfound respectability, it is, says Hoffberger, “a most unmuseumy place” — and this is just the way she likes it. www.avam.org

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Finally, I find myself in front of the Flag House and Star-Spangled Banner Museum, staring at a giant glass replica of the banner that inspired our national anthem. Behind it is the home of the woman who stitched the original flag, now Art at the AVAM ranges from a most unusual auto a National Historic Landmark. to a giant ball created from the bras of breast Here, an overview cancer survivors. of three truly unique museums, none of which would exist were it not for the passion and dedication of some extraordinary folks.

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The Flag Museum features a life-size glass rendition of the giant flag sewn by Mary Pickersgill and her helpers.

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The Sisters’ Fervor: The Baltimore Museum of Art Mary Pickersgill stitched the famous lawyer named Francis Scott Key watched from aboard a small ship. The following morning, “in the dawn’s early The building that houses the BMA is replete with flag, a costumed interpreter relates light,” he saw the giant flag and knew that Baltimore was a portico and classical Greek columns, just the sort of the events of the War of 1812. safe. place where you’d expect to find 90,000 pieces of art and Thus inspired, he wrote the poem that later became the national anthem of artifacts that span continents as well as centuries. the United States, and the giant flag that Mary Pickersgill and her helpers had But it’s the Cone collection that has brought worldwide fame to the museum. Claribel and Etta Cone were Golden Girls from the Gilded Age, rich made became known as the Star-Spangled Banner. We visit Pickersgill’s home and the adjacent Flag Museum. The museum is socialites with an eye for art and the money to indulge. filled with exhibits relating to the War of 1812, but it’s Pickersgill’s home — They traveled the world, and their “souvenirs” were works by some of the th th restored with period furniture — that gives me a tingly feeling. This is where greatest late 19 - and early 20 -century artists, from Matisse and Picasso to Cézanne, Gauguin, and van Gogh. history was made, one stitch at a time. www.flaghouse.org Over the years, their collection reached approximately 3,000 objects, and in Photos ©Irv Green unless otherwise noted; story by Andrea Gross (andreagross.com). 1949 it was donated to the BMA, a gift that catapulted the already excellent museum to even higher levels. There’s no way we can see everything at the BMA in one visit. We feast on the works of Matisse and then go outside to the sculpture gardens, where more than 30 works by acclaimed artists, such as Auguste Rodin and Alexander Calder, are spread across nearly 3 acres. www.artbma.org The Patriots’ Passion: The Flag House and Star-Spangled Banner Museum When, during the War of 1812, Commander George Armistead asked seamstress Mary Pickersgill to create a flag to fly above Baltimore’s Fort McHenry, she may have gulped, but she didn’t hesitate. Instead she enlisted the help of five women and together, working near round-the-clock, they produced a large garrison flag that could be seen for miles around as well as a smaller flag that could be used in inclement weather. As the British pummeled the fort during the Battle of Baltimore, a young

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Art and Antiques

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The art world can be a mysterious one. If you learn a little bit about the various media and materials used, you can take some of the mystery out of collecting art. Here are some easy art terms to aid the novice: Oil: Paint made with natural oils (linseed, walnut, etc.) used as a binder with the color or pigment. Oil paint can be applied onto canvas, paper, wood panel, or linen support. Acrylic: A synthetic (not natural) resin that dries faster than oil paint and binds the resin with the color or pigment. Tempera: An age-old water-based paint using egg yolks as a binding agent. American master Andrew Wyeth was best known for reviving this Renaissance technique during the 1900s. Watercolor: Similar to gouache but without the addition of gum. Water is mixed with ground color or pigment. The result is a lighter-weight surface texture on paper. Gouache: Similar to watercolor but with the addition of gum and water to the ground color or pigment. The result is a heavier surface texture on paper. When it comes to collecting works of art, the material or medium matters, but it is not the only aspect that will affect market interest, collectability, and value. A watercolor can be as costly and as sought-after www.50plusLifePA.com

as an oil on canvas, depending on the work’s artist, age, condition, subject matter, quality, and other factors. While oil paintings are most traditional and oil paint is one of the oldest methods used by studio artists, acrylic has become widely accepted by collectors of 20thcentury paintings and contemporary artists. Acrylic paint enjoyed widespread use in the late 1900s and continues to be used today by artists internationally. Oil paints were introduced in the early 1500s and were used with impressive results by the northern European artists of the time. Tempera paint dates back to the Renaissance period (1400s) and beforehand. It was commonly applied to wooden panels and board and later on canvas and linen supports too. Watercolors and gouaches are difficult to master and attract many artists and collectors. The delicacy with which these compositions are executed remains of interest to many collectors in various subjects. Whatever medium you collect, be sure to review the artist’s credentials, sales records, condition, exhibition record (museum status), and subject matter as you build your collection. Dr. Lori Verderame is an author and award-winning TV personality who appears on History channel’s The Curse of Oak Island. With a Ph.D. from Penn State University and experience appraising 20,000 antiques every year, Dr. Lori presents antique appraisal events nationwide. Visit www.drloriv.com or call (888) 431-1010.

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Better Hearing & Speech Month Quieting the Noise: 5 Ways to Reduce the Effects of Ringing in the Ears By Dr. Leisa Lyles-DeLeon Tinnitus refers to the perception of sound when no external sounds are actually present. Often described as a constant “ringing in the ears,” tinnitus can present itself as a variation of different types of sounds. This may range from sounds of whistling to swooshing to buzzing. Tinnitus is not a disease, but rather a symptom of an underlying problem. Treatment begins with identifying its cause. Common causes of tinnitus include: Auditory trauma – Exposure to loud noises can trigger tinnitus. This is common in situations of occupational noise. Think construction workers, landscapers, or musicians. Workers in these fields can regularly face noise decimals upwards of 95-plus. Hearing is put in harm’s way when constant exposure over 85 decimals occurs.

Age-related hearing loss – Age is the strongest predictor of hearing loss among adults aged 2069, with the greatest amount of hearing loss in the 60-69 age group. Tinnitus can result directly from hearing loss. Earwax buildup – Excessive wax in the ear can cause tinnitus. The earwax that our bodies naturally produce helps clean, protect, and lubricate our ears. However, when too much wax builds in our ears, our eardrums can become irritated and/or hearing loss may occur, which can lead to tinnitus. If you’re experiencing noise in your ears that extends for a period of time, you should consider the following: An appointment with your physician – While less common, tinnitus can be an early indicator of a serious medical condition. It is best to receive a full please see NOISE page 19

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One of best is GreatCall’s Jitterbug Flip (www. greatcall.com, (800) 918-8543). This custom-designed Samsung flip phone offers a backlit keypad with big buttons, large text on a brightly colored screen, and “yes” and “no” buttons to access the phone’s menu of options versus confusing icons. It also offers voice dialing, a powerful speakerphone, a built-in camera, and a variety of optional health and safety features: • The 5Star medical alert button would let your dad call 24/7 for help and speak to a certified agent who could identify his location and dispatch help as needed. • The Urgent Care service provides access to registered nurses and doctors for advice, diagnoses, and prescription refills. • GreatCall Link is a free app for family members. If your dad calls 5Star from his Jitterbug, app users will receive an alert on their smartphone. If your dad prefers a smartphone, Jitterbug’s Smart2 has a 5.5-inch screen, front-facing speaker, a simplified menu, a voice-typing option, and a 13megapixel camera with flash. As with the flip phone, Smart2 includes the 5Star urgent response button and the safety features listed above. Another excellent option is the Doro PhoneEasy 626 sold through Consumer Cellular (www.consumercellular.com, (888) 345-5509). This flip phone offers a backlit, separated keypad that can speak the numbers as you push them, which is a nice feature for seniors with vision problems. It also has a big, easy-to-read color display screen that offers large text with different color themes. Other handy features include two speed-dial buttons; shortcut buttons to texting and the camera; a powerful, two-way speakerphone; and an ICE (in case of emergency) button on the back of the phone that will automatically dial one preprogrammed number. Another budget-friendly cellphone you should look into is the Snapfon ezTWO for seniors (www.snapfon.com, (800) 937-1532). This is a bar-style phone that provides big buttons, a color screen, enhanced volume with a speakerphone, and a speaking keypad. There is also an SOS emergency alert button on the back of the phone that can sound an alert when pushed and held down for five seconds. It then sends a text message to as many as five emergency contacts and calls those contacts in order until the call is answered. Or, for an additional monthly fee, you can subscribe to their sosPlus monitoring service, which will dispatch help as needed. Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit www.savvysenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of The Savvy Senior book.

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Better Hearing & Speech Month Hearing Loss: How to Cope and How to Help Approximately 1 in 3 people between the ages of 65 and 74 has hearing loss, and nearly half of those older than 75 have difficulty hearing. But, some people may not want to admit they have trouble hearing. Studies have shown that older adults with hearing loss have a greater risk of developing dementia than older adults with normal hearing. Cognitive abilities (including memory and concentration) decline faster in older adults with hearing loss than in older adults with normal hearing. Treating hearing problems may be important for cognitive health. Signs of Hearing Loss Some people have a hearing problem and don’t realize it. You should see your doctor if you: • Have trouble hearing over the telephone • Find it hard to follow conversations when two or more people are talking • Often ask people to repeat what they are saying • Need to turn up the TV volume so loud that others complain • Have a problem hearing because of background noise • Think that others seem to mumble • Can’t understand when women and children speak to you How to Cope with Hearing Loss If you notice signs of hearing loss, talk to your doctor. If you have trouble hearing, you should: • Let people know you have a hearing problem. • A sk people to face you and to speak more slowly and clearly. Also, ask them to speak louder without shouting. • Pay attention to what is being said and to facial expressions or gestures. • Let the person talking know if you do not understand what he or she said.

• A sk the person speaking to reword a sentence and try again. • Find a good location to listen. Place yourself between the speaker and sources of noise and look for quieter places to talk. • The most important thing you can do if you think you have a hearing problem is to seek professional advice. Your family doctor may be able to diagnose and treat your hearing problem. Or, your doctor may refer you to other experts, like an otolaryngologist (ear, nose, and throat doctor) or an audiologist (health professional who can identify and measure hearing loss). How to Talk with Someone with Hearing Loss Here are some tips you can use when talking with someone who has a hearing problem: • In a group, include people with hearing loss in the conversation. • Find a quiet place to talk to help reduce background noise, especially in restaurants and at social gatherings. • Stand in good lighting and use facial expressions or gestures to give clues. • Face the person and speak clearly. Maintain eye contact. • Speak a little more loudly than normal, but don’t shout. Try to speak slowly, but naturally. • Speak at a reasonable speed. • Do not hide your mouth, eat, or chew gum while speaking. • Repeat yourself if necessary, using different words. • Try to make sure only one person talks at a time. • Be patient. Stay positive and relaxed. • A sk how you can help. Source: National Institute on Aging

NOISE from page 16 checkup by your physician to eliminate more serious concerns. Hearing aids – Particularly for those also suffering from hearing loss, hearing aids can reduce the impact of tinnitus. When your actual hearing is improved, your tinnitus may become less noticeable. Tinnitus maskers – If you’re not suffering from hearing loss, an audiologist can fit you with a tinnitus masker. This device looks like a hearing aid but instead produces sounds that “mask” tinnitus. These sounds make the tinnitus more tolerable. White- or pink-noise devices – White noise, such as the steady whir of a fan, can help mask tinnitus. The same is true for pink noise, which refers to a balanced mix of high and low frequencies (e.g., waves crashing or leaves rustling). These devices can be particularly helpful at night while sleeping and can be found for as low as $20. There are also apps that can be streamed on your phone or tablet for as little as $2. www.50plusLifePA.com

Tinnitus retraining therapy – While this can be a more costly option (it’s typically not covered by insurance), tinnitus retraining therapy has shown positive results for those suffering from tinnitus. It uses a combination of sound therapy and counseling to try to reduce a patient’s focus on tinnitus. The objective is to disassociate tinnitus with negative occurrences and associate it with positive occurrences. This can help reduce stress often associated with tinnitus, which can make it worse. Cases of tinnitus vary greatly. In some cases, it’s hardly noticeable until someone brings it up in conversation. On the other end of the spectrum, it can be so disruptive that it interferes with every part of your day. Ultimately, if you are feeling bothered in any way by noise in your ears, you should immediately schedule an appointment with your doctor. Author and licensed audiologist Dr. Leisa Lyles-DeLeon has over a decade of experience in clinical audiology, the hearing aid industry, and education and research. Lyles-DeLeon is a board member of the District of Columbia and a fellow of the American Academy of Audiology and the American Speech Language-Hearing Association.

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Mondays, 10 a.m.; Thursdays, 2 p.m. Our Journey Together Cancer Support Group Lancaster Cancer Center Greenfield Corporate Center 1858 Charter Lane, Suite 202, Lancaster (717) 291-1313, ext. 143

May 21, 10:30-11:30 a.m. Dementia Caregiver Support and Education Group Masonic Village Health Care Center Courtyard Conference Room 1 Masonic Drive, Elizabethtown (717) 367-1121, ext. 33764

Columbia Senior Center – (717) 684-4850 May 10, 9:30 a.m. – Patricia Anderson, Storyteller May 16, 10 a.m. – Health Talk: Hypertension and Nutrition May 28, 9:30 a.m. – Marie Monville, Wife of Amish Schoolhouse Shooter

May 1, 7-8:15 p.m. Alzheimer’s Caregivers Support Group Willow Lakes Outpatient Center 212 Willow Valley Lakes Drive, Willow Street (717) 464-9365

May 27, 2-3 p.m. Parkinson’s Support Group Garden Spot Village Theater 433 S. Kinzer Ave., New Holland (717) 355-6259 slapp@gardenspotvillage.org

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May 13, 10-11 a.m. Alzheimer’s Caregivers Support Group Garden Spot Village Concord Room 433 S. Kinzer Ave., New Holland (717) 355-6076 jmorton@gardenspotvillage.org May 16, 10-11:30 a.m. Bereavement Support Group Masonic Village Sycamore North Recreation Room 1 Masonic Drive, Elizabethtown (717) 367-1121, ext. 33576 May 16, noon Brain Tumor Support Group Lancaster General Health Campus Wellness Center 2100 Harrisburg Pike, Lancaster (717) 626-2894

May 28, 6-8 p.m. Epilepsy Foundation of Eastern Pennsylvania Support Group Community Meeting Room – Kohl’s Wing 142 Park City Center, Lancaster (800) 887-7165, ext. 104 May 28, 7 p.m. Memory Loss Support Group Landis Homes The Heritage – Warwick Room 1001 E. Oregon Road, Lititz (717) 581-3939 supportgroups@landishomes.org If you have an event you would like to include, please email information to mjoyce@onlinepub.com for consideration.

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May 21, 2-3:30 p.m. Willow Valley Genealogy Club Willow Valley Communities – Orr Auditorium 211 Willow Valley Square, Lancaster www.genealogyclubwv.com (717) 397-0439

May 8, noon Korean War Veterans Association Meeting Woodcrest Villa – Eagle Commons Room 2001 Harrisburg Pike, Lancaster (717) 299-1990 pcunningham1841@verizon.net

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The Bookworm Sez

The Lost Girls of Paris Terri Schlichenmeyer

The frame was beautiful. The picture inside it was of a stranger. Who would give away that lovely piece of workmanship with a loved one’s portrait displayed? Who didn’t cherish it enough to keep it? And in the new novel, The Lost Girls of Paris by Pam Jenoff, who were the women in the picture? Grace was running late. That was unusual, and so was the reason: She’d spent the night in a hotel room with her late husband’s best friend. Head down, embarrassed at such uncharacteristic behavior, she was surprised to spot a suitcase that had obviously been abandoned beneath a bench in Grand Central Station. She’d opened the suitcase and, in yet another unordinary action, took a handful of pictures that were inside. It was a morning filled with uniqueness: Grace then barely missed witnessing an accident in which a woman was killed — the same woman, as it happened, to whom the suitcase belonged. Eleanor was very protective of her girls. She’d hand-picked each one of them, some for their fluent French and others for their dexterity. When they signed on with the British Special Operations Executive (SOE), it was she who made sure they were physically fit and highly trained for the jobs they’d do to help with the resistance in German-occupied France. She was

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the one responsible for bringing them home at the end of World War II. In the meantime, Eleanor’s girls would do dangerous work. They’d be as prepared as possible for their tasks. She’d personally see to that. Marie wasn’t entirely sure why she stayed with the SOE. Eleanor had given her ample opportunity to quit. She knew how much Marie missed her daughter, how much she hated training, and how unconfident Marie was in herself. And yet, despite Eleanor’s offers and the danger involved, Marie couldn’t bring herself to quit. When her deployment within the SOE placed her in a flat above The Lost Girls of Paris a tavern that was known to entertain By Pam Jenoff Germans, her determination doubled. c. 2019, Park Row Books It increased again when her very 377 pages survival was in question … If you’re looking for something to carry around with you every day this week, check this out: The Lost Girls of Paris is a novel as thrilling as every espionage story you’ve ever read, as soft as every war romance you’ve ever heard, and as brutal as every war movie you’ve ever seen. Yep, that good. Set at the end of and just after World War II, this novel captures readers’ imaginations from the outset, with the death of one of its main characters. The intrigue never lets up from there, Photo credit Mindy Schwartz Sorasky as author Pam Jenoff takes a heroic Author Pam Jenoff. true story from the war and novelizes it without prettifying it; indeed, people die in this book — a lot. Further small details make this story, and they’ll sometimes make you forget it’s fiction. For Jenoff fans, loving this book is a certainty. Anyone who enjoys spy stories will want to uncover it. Readers of all stripes, really, will find The Lost Girls of Paris to be picture-perfect. The Bookworm is Terri Schlichenmeyer. Terri has been reading since she was 3 years old, and she never goes anywhere without a book. She lives on a hill in Wisconsin with two dogs and 14,000 books.

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Older But Not Wiser

To Tell or Not to Tell Sy Rosen

through the line four or five times. And the meal always ended with me being the lookout and my mom stuffing dinner rolls into her purse. We didn’t think of it as cheating or being dishonest. We thought of it as survival. But my folks acted this way because they lived through the Depression … through bread lines and soup kitchens. Maybe it was time for me to change. After all, I didn’t live through those hard times. I decided to ask some of my friends how they would act if they were undercharged. A few of them quickly said they would tell. They were very proud of themselves, but I wasn’t sure if I believed them. I then asked my buddy Larry. Larry and I have similar qualities (we are both very cheap). “It depends,” he told me. “On what?” I asked. “Well, if it’s a small mom-and-pop store, I usually tell. But if it’s a large department store, I don’t tell.” “Suppose it’s a large mom-and-pop store?” I asked. “Then I don’t tell, but I feel guilty about it.” My cousin Carl said he doesn’t tell because people are always trying to take advantage of him, so it’s his way of getting even. “It’s the way of the world,” he told me. After listening to my cynical cousin Carl, I decided to let my daughter be my role model. It’s best to be honest. After all, these places are trying to make a living. And from now on, if I am undercharged, I will always tell. I will usually tell. Sometimes I will tell. Once in a while I will tell. And I am very proud of my decision. Sy Rosen has written for many TV shows, including The Bob Newhart Show, Taxi, M.A.S.H., Maude, The Jeffersons, Rhoda, Frasier, Northern Exposure, and The Wonder Years. He now spends much of his time telling jokes to his grandkids and trying to convince his wife that he’s funny.

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I was having breakfast with my daughter Ann and my two granddaughters, Summer and Sienna. There was a Sunday buffet at a neighborhood restaurant and my daughter was treating, which is great for two reasons: it shows she’s a mature, responsible grown-up, and secondly, I’m kind of cheap. The bill came, and the waiter said he didn’t charge for Summer and Sienna because children under 5 get the buffet for free. Ann quickly corrected the waiter, telling him that Sienna was 2 but Summer was already 5. And so the waiter added an additional $7.99 to the bill — the cost of a child’s buffet. OK, it wasn’t my role to say anything, and I knew I shouldn’t overstep my boundaries as a grandfather. However, the first words out of my mouth were, “Ann, why did you tell him? Summer wouldn’t have been charged.” “Dad, she’s 5 ½, and I can’t lie about that.” My instinct was to give a very reasonable, logical response, and so I asked, “Why not?!” “Because I want to teach Summer to be honest.” At this point I lowered my voice so Summer wouldn’t hear me. She wasn’t really listening anyway because on her last trip to the buffet line she had discovered the pastry section, and she was now thoroughly engrossed in the messiest ways to eat a chocolate éclair. “OK,” I whispered, “but 5 ½ is very close to being under 5. Your Aunt Esther is 70 and she tells everyone she’s 48.” “Dad, that’s different.” I decided not to go into how my parents acted when I was growing up. Back then, if I was under 12, I could get into the movies for a quarter, and therefore I was under 12 until I had to shave. If we did go to a buffet, it wasn’t considered a success unless we went

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How to Make Philanthropy Fit into Your Financial Plans By John Hagensen One of the universal truths is that, while money can help meet your needs and provide you with the basic necessities of life, it can’t make you happy. However, it can be a powerful weapon of self-satisfaction when used the right way — such as through philanthropic endeavors. “Money can be an incredible tool when you align it with your values,” says John Hagensen, founder and managing director of Keystone Wealth Partners. “It enables you to feel a sense of contentment that your money is working hard for you to help you accomplish goals that match your values.” And if you value giving back to others — to your community, to your favorite cause, or to planet Earth — then money will enable you to accomplish that goal. But as you look at your budget for 2019, you may not know where the money will come from to give to your favorite charity or cause. The answer is that it is probably sitting right underneath your nose, Hagensen says. But it will take discipline to find it. Hagensen practices what he preaches; his company has made a commitment to donate up to $10,000 to help create clean-water projects in Africa. That aligns with his values because he adopted two children from Ethiopia and wanted to give something back to their native homeland. Hagensen has three tips for those who want to give to their favorite charities in 2019 but aren’t sure where the money will come from: Write down your values. Spend a few minutes to really examine what is important to you. Make sure all your monetary decisions support your values. If you have older children or grandchildren, include them in the discussion so you can create a teachable moment for them. www.50plusLifePA.com

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Growing Your Own Cut Flowers Melinda Myers

faded in the heat of late summer. Keep your flower vases filled all summer long with The flower-packed spikes of gladiolas are available in a beautiful blossoms picked right from your own garden and containers. rainbow of colors that will inspire your creativity. These inexpensive bulbs are easy to plant and take up very little Growing seeds, plants, and tender bulbs that can double space. as cut flowers makes it easy to create casual, fresh-cut Pop them into containers, flowerbeds, or even your bouquets for your dinner table, guest room, or to share with vegetable garden. Start planting in mid-spring and continue family and friends. For early spring flowers, look to spring-blooming bulbs every two weeks until midsummer for months of colorful flower spikes. like tulips and daffodils and cool-weather annuals like With dahlias, you can choose from dozens of different pansies and snapdragons. Clipping branches from trees and flower sizes, styles, and colors. For easy, eye-catching shrubs such as forsythia, quince, and daphne is another good bouquets, plant a color-themed blend. Another option is to way to bring spring into your home. select colors that will harmonize with flowers that are already Your perennial garden can provide bleeding heart, iris, in your gardens, such as phlox, sunflowers, asters, and lilies. hellebores, peonies, and much more. If the selection in your own spring garden is limited, Hybrid lilies are perennial garden favorites as well as fabulous cut flowers. Plant the bulbs of Asiatic lilies, Oriental strike up a trade with a friend. Pick some of theirs in the lilies, and Oriental-trumpet lilies in spring for color and spring and share some of yours in the summer. Then make Photo credit Longfield Gardens fragrance that lasts all summer long. To ensure months of a note to add more spring-blooming bulbs and perennials to For easy bouquets, plant a colorflowers, be sure to plant a few bulbs of each type of lily. your landscape. themed blend such as the Sugar Gladiolas and dahlias add pizazz to summer and fall Annuals play an essential role in any cut-flower garden. Plum Mix from Longfield Gardens. Extend your budget by starting zinnias, sunflowers, larkspur, bouquets. These spring-planted bulbs combine nicely with and cosmos from seed, and supplement with greenhouse-grown transplants of other summer flowers, and they continue to bloom well after other flowers have snapdragons, celosia, amaranth, and statice. Foliage can elevate an ordinary homegrown bouquet from good to great, and your garden can provide all sorts of interesting options. Incorporate the leaves of perennials such as hosta, baptisia, artemesia, and sage as well as flower farmer favorites such as bells of Ireland, bupleurum, and dusty miller. Shrubs such as ninebark, boxwood, viburnum, and holly are another source of attractive foliage and some offer colorful berries as well. Cutting and arranging flowers is a fun way to exercise your creativity and bring the beauty of your garden indoors. The more you do it, the easier it gets, and you’ll soon be sharing your flowers with friends, neighbors, family, coworkers, and everyone who stops by. Melinda Myers has written more than 20 gardening books, including Small Space Gardening. She hosts The Great Courses’ How to Grow Anything DVD series and the nationally syndicated Melinda’s Garden Moment TV and radio program. www. melindamyers.com, www.longfield-gardens.com

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