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3 Million More People Will Get Military Shopping Benefits in 2020
Starting Jan. 1, all service-connected disabled veterans, Purple Heart recipients, former prisoners of war, and primary veteran caregivers will be eligible to shop at commissaries and exchanges, and officials from three federal agencies are preparing the way. The newly eligible customers will also be able to use certain morale, welfare, and recreation activities. It’s the largest patronage expansion in more than 60 years, said Virginia Penrod, principal deputy assistant secretary of defense for manpower and reserve affairs, who spoke at a meeting of the American Logistics Association earlier this year. The departments of Defense, Veterans Affairs, and Homeland Security have been planning for the expansion for more than six months, with four teams totaling about 70 people. The fiscal 2019 National Defense Authorization Act expanded the pool of eligible shoppers. Because the expansion also applies to Coast Guard facilities, the Department of Homeland Security has been involved. The law also included Medal of Honor recipients, but they already had
shopping privileges. Previously, veterans with 100% service-connected disabilities were able to shop; now, all with service-connected disabilities can shop. The benefit extends to Morale, Welfare, and Recreation programs that are “revenue-generating facilities,” according to the law. The expansion is about a 50% increase in customers. Currently, about 6 million total households are eligible for the benefit; this adds 3 million, said Justin Hall, director of the Department of Defense office of MWR and Resale Policy. “That’s a huge lift across the entire system,” he said. The impact assessments generally show there will be a low-to-moderate impact on military stores overall, said Penrod. But she called on representatives of industry for their help to make sure the supply chain “remains responsive to the increased sales volume to ensure no out-of-stock situations occur” at stores in states with high populations of disabled veterans and in states with higher cost of living. please see Benefits page 9
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By Jason J. Tabor “Embrace your age! at WGAL 8 in Lancaster, Nobody wants to talk where she was a morning about how old they are, anchor, talk show host, but I love talking about and assignment reporter. it,” laughs Soni Dimond After establishing on a recent phone herself as a popular conversation discussing and respected local her life, her passions, and personality on TV, her whirlwind career. Dimond was approached She recently celebrated by representatives in nd her 62 birthday and took Harrisburg to oversee the time to reflect on an public relations and media inspiring career trajectory for the newly created that has included stints in Pennsylvania Department television, public relations, of Environmental book authorship, executive Resources. training, and modeling She spent two years and most recently landed working for the state her a job as a producer on government before WHTM 27’s Good Day becoming a producer for PA show. Commonwealth Media A central Pennsylvania Service, working on video native, Dimond has promotional content lived in various places for various government around the country but agencies and providing has called this region public speaking coaching home for close to 25 years for top government Dimond on the set of Good Day PA. with her husband, Kevin officials. Martorana, a video production company owner. She would then move to Washington, D.C., She recalls herself as an outgoing, energetic where she worked as a public affairs specialist for majorette during her high school years, more the labor union AFSCME, doing public relations, interested in the arts than science, and heavily television, and radio ads on the national stage. involved in the school theater when she enrolled at In 1995, Dimond started a new chapter in her life Gettysburg College to study English. when she married her longtime friend and partner, Dimond’s affinity for the growing field of media Kevin Martorana. The couple returned to central studies led to a college internship at local television Pennsylvania, where Dimond served as the manager station WTPA 27 (now ABC affiliate WHTM), of media relations for the Pennsylvania Chamber which would then lead to her becoming one of the of Business and Industry, the largest business first female TV anchors in the area. organization in Pennsylvania. “It was an amazing experience! Here I was going In 2003, Dimond formed her own media to college full-time, getting paid to be on-air as a coaching, public relations, and marketing company weekend anchor, running back and forth between called Soni Dimond Multifaceted. She counts the station and campus … I’m not sure when I among some of her local high-profile clients found time to sleep,” she remembers. former Jeopardy! champion Brad Rutter and High Her experiences as an intern opened doors to an Companies chairman and philanthropist S. Dale industry that had previously been dominated by High. men. She has authored two books in her Life’s a Pitch “I really fell in love with TV during my series about marketing and PR; earned multiple internship, and I learned a lesson that I try to professional awards, including Best 50 Women in impart to people to this day: When you have a Business in Pennsylvania; and served as a board passion for something, you can really become member of the Central Pennsylvania Chapter of the unstoppable,” she says. National Multiple Sclerosis Society. For six years, Dimond worked in local television “One of my favorite things about this business full-time, first at WHTM in Harrisburg and then is it gives me the chance to help people and watch www.50plusLifePA.com
them develop, grow, and reach their full potential,” she says. “I think the biggest lesson I’ve learned since starting my own company is realizing it’s very tough for one person to do everything or to even try to be an expert in every aspect of modern business. We can learn so much from younger people, especially about technology, social media, and the internet! “We’re always taught to respect our elders, but I have also come to respect the younger generations … I love being around them, their energy, and their willingness to share. It’s OK to put younger people in the driver’s seat and let them lead.” Dimond recently entered the world of “mature modeling,” a growing industry that connects with the baby boom generation’s interest in physical, mental, and emotional health as they age into a new era of their lives. “Of course my friends all thought I was crazy, but I was given opportunities to do some modeling for some local boutiques, which I did for free, but one thing led to another, and now I have professional representation from the Reinhard Agency,” she laughs. “I always wanted to be a model, and again, one of the lessons I learned when I was younger that I always took to heart: Always be ready for life’s opportunities and be prepared to accept them.” One such opportunity recently presented itself, and Dimond jumped at the chance. Her most recent position at WHTM abc27 signifies a 40-year career looping back to where
She might find herself negotiating with or for her clients; recording video segments and conducting interviews; judging events, such as the Miss Pennsylvania pageant; doing guest speaking appearances; and continuing advisory work. In her limited free time, she enjoys doing volunteer work, keeping up on trends in art and fashion, and finding ways to exercise and stay healthy. Dimond credits her longevity with never taking herself too seriously and embracing the unique experiences in her life that have allowed her to continuously evolve and redefine herself and her career. “I think it’s common for people over 50 to feel it’s time to manage their expectations about what life has to offer. I’ve always wondered why we do that. Why not raise our expectations as we become older? So that’s what I’ve chosen to do, and I hope to energize and inspire others to find their passions along the way! ” Dimond on the runway at Scene to be Seen: A Runway Art Show by the Naples Art Association in Naples, Fla.
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March 31, 2020 9 a.m. – 2 p.m.
Wyndham Hotel York 2000 Loucks Road, York
This event is FREE to attend. Veterans (of all ages), the military community, and their families are invited to join us!
The Expo brings federal, state, and local agencies together with area businesses to provide information and resources to veterans and their families.
The Job Fair brings veterans and spouses who need jobs together with employers who can benefit from this rich source of talent to aid their organizations.
Residents who are struggling with their home heating bills can apply for assistance from the Low-Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP), a federally funded program that helps individuals and families pay their heating bills through home heating energy assistance grants. It also provides crisis grants to help in the event of an emergency or if a resident is in danger of losing his or her heat due to broken equipment, lack of fuel, or termination of utility service. The income eligibility guidelines for LIHEAP are set at 150% of the federal poverty income level. For example, the income limit for an individual is $18,735; for a couple, the limit is $25,365; and for a family of four, it is $38,625. Residents may apply for LIHEAP online (www.dhs.pa.gov/citizens/ heatingassistanceliheap) or by contacting their county assistance office.
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Robert Naeye
Dead on the Drawing Board: The Controversial ‘Atomic Canal’
Like many young men of military age, Ken Weiler was fully prepared to serve in Vietnam. He had enlisted in the Army, received extensive training in tank warfare, and received orders to be shipped overseas. But while on a two-week leave at home, he and his family received terrible news: Weiler’s older brother Alain had been killed in action in Vietnam. Shortly thereafter, the Army notified Weiler that he was being granted a compassionate reassignment, meaning he was not permitted to enter a combat zone for a full year. This photo of Weiler in uniform Weiler would avoid the risks was taken during his last days of Vietnam, but this did not serving in the U.S. Army. mean his remaining 2 ½ years of service would be dull. Among other things, he became involved in a project to use nuclear explosives to dig a new canal across Central America. Weiler was born in the Bronx in July 1948 to an American father and a French-Canadian mother. He enjoyed a normal childhood on Long Island, playing baseball, football, and war games. His father served in the Marines in World War II and had been wounded during the invasion of Saipan. But like many veterans, he rarely talked about his experiences. An indifferent student, Weiler eventually found his true passion: military history. He devoured books about warfare, especially tank combat. Weiler admits that he was drifting after graduating from Hempstead High School in 1966. He was taking the easiest possible courses at Nassau Community College to boost his grade-point average. Realizing that many of his friends were receiving draft notices, Weiler decided “to beat the Selective Service to the punch” by enlisting in the Army in 1968. “I went into the military rather than getting into trouble. The Army was the best possible thing that happened to me,” he recalls. Better yet, by enlisting for three years instead of being drafted, he could join the branch specialty that fascinated him since childhood: the heavy armor. Weiler was sent to Fort Jackson, South Carolina, for basic training and then to Fort Knox, Kentucky, for armor school. For Weiler, this training was like a childhood fantasy, where stories from his history books turned into reality. “Driving and firing the Army’s main battle tanks, the M-48 and M-60 models, was a lot of fun for a 19-year-old,” he says. Weiler traveled home to Hempstead, Long Island, for a two-week leave before he was scheduled to go to Fort Ord in California, where he would then be shipped to Vietnam. It was in Hempstead that he learned the tragic news about his older brother, whom Weiler looked up to for guidance and inspiration. Weiler says Alain www.50plusLifePA.com
was “very religious.” Alain was thinking of going into the priesthood but joined the Army to save the world from “godless communism.” “I was so numb with all the levels of shock. I would just sit there and stare at the wall,” says Weiler, who is quick to add that despite his sense of trauma and sadness, he never felt helplessness. After the funeral, the Army reassigned Weiler to Fort Belvoir in northern Virginia, not far from Washington, D.C. To Weiler, his new assignment made no sense. He reported to the Department of Engineering & Military Science in the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers. He
Weiler is working on his fourth book on the military history of World War II.
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34. Rap sheet abbr. 35. Stake driver 37. Hideaway 38. Crayola color 40. Compete 42. ___ de France 43. ___ Paulo, Brazil 44. Measures 46. Eyepiece 48. Pass over 51. Craggy peak 52. Waxworks Marie 55. Harem room
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22. He was Tiny 23. Cretan peak 24. Jalousie parts 26. Lolita novelist 27. White House nickname 28. Elevator part 31. Flip response? 32. Steams up 33. Boxing venue 36. Back talk 39. More, in Madrid 41. Banana oil, e.g. 44. Hog haven 45. Corn site 47. Quell
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On Life and Love after 50
Tom Blake
The Importance of Appreciation in Relationships
Recently, a friend, age 72, said to me, “It will be nice to be appreciated by someone rather than be taken for granted. What’s your opinion?” He was referring to a relationship that he had recently terminated. He and I had discussed the relationship three times previously. I felt I had heard enough information about his situation to intelligently respond to his question. His decision had been difficult for him, one he pondered time and time again — because he cared about her — but each time he thought about it, he reached the same conclusion: He wasn’t being appreciated. I said to him: “From what you’ve shared with me, it appears you tried hard to make the relationship work. You were always doing nice things for her. And, you accommodated her expressed wishes to dine in upscale restaurants, drink expensive wine, and stay in pricey hotels when you traveled together. “Expressing appreciation to a mate, or actually, anyone, is a considerate, thoughtful, and kind act. It shows you are grateful for their efforts. “People like to be recognized. When they do something nice for a mate, regardless of how small or minor, it’s good to hear that what they did was appreciated. Appreciation and recognition can go a long way to strengthen relationships. “When people are appreciated, they will keep looking for ways to please their mates, because appreciation and recognition are positive taps on the shoulder. But, with your former woman friend, you didn’t get those shoulder taps. As you said, she was taking your kindness for granted. “When people take their mates for granted, and don’t notice or appreciate
the little things done for them, relationships can be adversely affected. That’s what happened with you. “A lack of appreciation from a mate might be a red flag that the mate doesn’t care enough about the relationship. That doesn’t mean the mate is a bad person; it could be as simple as the mate isn’t in love. “When a mate doesn’t appreciate you, and that behavior repeats itself, you may say to yourself: ‘I won’t take being treated that way anymore.’ “Lack of appreciation creates disappointment and disillusionment. When it happens too often to a person, he or she may slowly stop caring. The relationship suffers. It’s like decay in a tooth. Let it go long enough without remedial action, and you’ll lose it. “I’ve written about new singles making a list of the qualities they require in a mate. High on their lists should be a partner who appreciates them. In return, they must do the same for the new partner. Appreciation works both ways in relationships. “Your decision to move on was, in my opinion, what was best for you. Moving on is always hard, but when it’s the right thing to do, you’ve got to do it. All you wanted was appreciation; it wasn’t forthcoming.” Lesson for all seniors in relationships: If you appreciate receiving appreciation, don’t overlook giving it. It’s a powerful love tool. For dating information, previous articles, or to sign up for Tom’s complimentary, weekly e-newsletter, go to www.findingloveafter50.com.
Benefits from page 3 These new shoppers generally don’t have access to military bases. Officials have decided the best form of identification for these groups: Disabled and other eligible veterans: For access into the installation, and for access to the stores, they’ll use the veterans health ID card, Patrick said. Officials have enabled technology at the front gate to scan those veteran cards, and commissary officials have adjusted their technology to enable systems to read the veterans health ID card. Caregivers: The process will be different, initially, Patrick said, since caregivers are not directly affiliated with DoD or VA other than through their annual appointment to be a caregiver. The benefit applies to the primary caregiver of wounded/injured veterans who are registered in the Department of Veterans Affairs caregiver program. The VA will post a memo to VA.gov for caregivers, to be used for access at the front gate, along with a driver’s license or other authorized form of ID. The VA process will later transition to a caregiver-type ID card, which will have scanning-swipe capability, he said. www.50plusLifePA.com
Currently there are about 30,000 VA caregivers who will qualify for this benefit, but over the next several years the number could potentially grow to about 250,000, Patrick noted. Credit Card Fee These new customers will pay a fee for using a credit card at commissaries, except for the military resale system’s Military Star card. The amount of the fee has not yet been determined. By law, this expansion can’t include extra costs associated with using credit cards in commissaries; the cost must be passed on to the customer. Except for the Military Star card, credit card companies charge transaction fees to retailers when customers use their credit cards. The fee applies only to new patrons using credit cards in commissaries, not to Medal of Honor recipients or others who were previously authorized to shop. New customers can avoid the fee by paying by cash or check or by using the Military Star card. The fee only applies at the commissary, which is funded primarily by taxpayer dollars. Reprinted with permission from MilitaryTimes (www.militarytimes.com).
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Tinseltown Talks
A Lassie Christmas with Jon Provost Nick Thomas
During the seven years Jon Provost starred as little Timmy Martin in the CBS TV series Lassie from 1957 to 1964, several end-of-year Christmas episodes aired. Most still stand out in Provost’s mind for one reason. “The crazy thing is we would be filming a Christmas episode Photo provided by Jon Provost. during summer in Provost and Lassie pose for a Christmas episode. Southern California, where it was 90 degrees,” said Provost from his home north of San Francisco. “We were all bundled up like it was 30 degrees and just dying from the heat. But of course, you kept acting and did what had to be done for the
Thank You, Columnists! 50plus LIFE continues to bring important information as well as entertaining articles to the 50+ community. We at On-Line Publishers would like to express our sincere gratitude and appreciation to the editorial contributors of 50plus LIFE: Tom Blake (On Life and Love after 50)
Melinda Myers (Melinda’s Garden)
Suzy Cohen (Dear Pharmacist)
Robert Naeye (Soldier Stories)
Andrea Gross (Traveltizers)
Victor Parachin (Grief Relief)
Randal C. Hill (Fifties Flashback, It Was 50 Years Ago Today The Reel Deal)
Saralee Perel (Such is Life) Mark Rinaudo (Tech Talk) Sy Rosen (Older But Not Wiser)
John Johnston (Social Security News)
Terri Schlichenmeyer (The Bookworm Sez)
Bill Levine (Booming Voice) Clyde McMillan-Gamber (The Beauty in Nature) Jim Miller (The Savvy Senior)
Photo provided by Jon Provost.
Provost, as Timmy Martin, watches crew make artifical snow made on set for a Christmas episode.
episode.” In the 1961 episode “Yochim’s Christmas,” where Timmy, Lassie, and a friend rescue a man trapped under an overturned sleigh, there was plenty of “snow” used for the scene. “It was fake, of course,” explained Provost. “For snow on the ground, a machine almost like a firetruck was used to spray soap suds all over the hillside. We please see Lassie page 17
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Nick Thomas (Tinseltown Talks) Dr. Lori Verderame (Art and Antiques)
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Calendar of Events
Community Programs / Support Groups Free and open to the public Sundays, 6:15 p.m. Food Addicts in Recovery Anonymous Luther Memorial Lutheran Church 1907 Hollywood Drive, York (781) 932-6300 www.foodaddicts.org Mondays, 7:30 p.m. York Nar-Anon Family Group St. Matthew Lutheran Church Second Floor, Room 208/209 839 W. Market St., York (717) 845-2721 Tuesdays, 6:30-7:30 p.m. Dallastown Nar-Anon Family Group Bethlehem United Methodist Church
109 E. Main St., Dallastown (717) 244-1486 Thursdays, 7:30 p.m. Shrewsbury Nar-Anon Family Group Grace Fellowship Church 74 E. Forrest Ave., Shrewsbury (717) 235-8390 Dec. 1, 7 p.m. Glen Rock Carolers New Freedom Community Center 150 E. Main St., New Freedom (717) 235-6060 Dec. 2, 9:30 a.m. Green Thumb Garden Club Meeting Emmanuel Lutheran Church 2650 Freysville Road, Red Lion (717) 235-2823
Dec. 6, 10:30 a.m. Partners in Thyme Herb Club of Southern York County Glenview Alliance Church 10037 Susquehanna Trail Glen Rock (717) 428-2210 Dec. 12, 5:30-7 p.m. Cookies and a Photo Opportunity with Santa Senior Commons at Powder Mill 1775 Powder Mill Road, York (717) 741-0961 Dec. 17, 7-8 p.m. Alzheimer’s Support Group Providence Place 3377 Fox Run Road, Dover (717) 767-4500
Parks & Recreation Dec. 8, 1-3:30 p.m. – Natural Ornaments Drop-in, Nixon County Park Dec. 15, 2-3:30 p.m. – Winter Wildlife Walk, Nixon County Park Dec. 30, 9:30-11 a.m. – Last Hike of the Year, Nixon County Park
Collinsville Community Library, 2632 Delta Road Brogue, (717) 927-9014 Tuesdays, 6-8 p.m. – Purls of Brogue Knitting Club Dec. 5, 4-5:45 p.m. – Tech Time Dec. 10, 11 a.m. to noon and 6-7 p.m. – Yoga for Health Dillsburg Area Public Library, 17 S. Baltimore St. Dillsburg, (717) 432-5613 Dec. 2, 6:30-7:30 p.m. – Pain Management with Natural Healing Dec. 5, 6-8 p.m. – Adult Holiday Card Making Dec. 9, 6:30-7:30 p.m. – Gourd Doodling Dover Area Community Library 3700-3 Davidsburg Road Dover, (717) 292-6814 Dec. 12, 10-11:45 a.m. – Tech Time Glatfelter Memorial Library, 101 Glenview Road Spring Grove, (717) 225-3220 Dec. 26, 1:15-3 p.m. – Tech Time Guthrie Memorial Library, 2 Library Place Hanover, (717) 632-5183 Dec. 10, 1:30-2:30 p.m. – Adult Coloring Dec. 26, 10-11:45 a.m. – Tech Time Kaltreider-Benfer Library, 147 S. Charles St. Red Lion, (717) 244-2032 Dec. 3, 6-8 p.m. – Greeting Card Workshop
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Crispus Attucks Active Living Center (717) 848-3610, www.crispusattucks.org Delta Area Senior Center, Inc. – (717) 456-5753 Dillsburg Senior Activity Center – (717) 432-2216 Eastern Area Senior Center, Inc. – (717) 252-1641 Golden Connections Community Center (717) 244-7229, www.gcccenter.com Weekdays, 9 a.m. – Games Tuesdays and Wednesdays, 10 a.m. – Pinochle Fridays, 9:15 a.m. – Computers 101 Golden Visions Senior Community Center (717) 633-5072, www.goldenvisionspa.com Heritage Senior Center, Inc. (717) 292-7471, www.heritagesrcenter.org Northeastern Senior Community Center (717) 266-1400, www.mtwolf.org/SeniorCenter Red Land Senior Center – (717) 938-4649 www.redlandseniorcenter.org September House (717) 848-4417
Library Programs Arthur Hufnagel Public Library of Glen Rock 32 Main St., Glen Rock, (717) 235-1127 Dec. 19, 1:15-3 p.m. – Tech Time
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Kreutz Creek Valley Library Center 66 Walnut Springs Road Hellam, (717) 252-4080 Nov. 24, 10 a.m. to Dec. 24, 9 p.m. – Friends Five and Below Shopping Event Dec. 7, 14, 21, 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. – Friends Fundraiser at McPherson Tree Farm Dec. 19, 4-5:45 p.m. – Tech Time Martin Library, 159 E. Market St. York, (717) 846-5300 Dec. 15, 2-3 p.m. – York Reads Mason-Dixon Public Library, 250 Bailey Drive Stewartstown, (717) 993-2404 Dec. 5, 1:30-3:15 p.m. – Tech Time Paul Smith Library of Southern York County 80 Constitution Ave., Shrewsbury, (717) 235-4313 Dec. 6, 10:30-11:30 a.m. – Morning Meditation Dec. 18, 4-7 p.m. – Family Game Night Dec. 19, 10-11:45 a.m. – Tech Time Red Land Community Library 48 Robin Hood Drive, Etters, (717) 938-5599 Dec. 12, 4-5:45 p.m. – Tech Time Dec. 5 and 19, 1-2 p.m. – Adult Yoga Dec. 7, 9, 10, 12, 13, 14 – Book Sale Village Library, 35-C N. Main St. Jacobus, (717) 428-1034 Dec. 26, 3:30-5:15 p.m. – Tech Time
South Central Senior Community Center (717) 235-6060 https://southcentralyorkcountysrctr.webs.com Tuesdays, 9:15 a.m. – Hoop-Fit Class Tuesdays, 9:30 a.m. – Watercolor Art Class Thursdays, 9:30 a.m. – Salsa Dancing Class Stewartstown Senior Center (717) 993-3488, www.stewsenior.org Susquehanna Senior Center (717) 244-0340 www.susquehannaseniorcenter.org Mondays, 9:30-10:30 a.m. – Chorus Practice Tuesdays, 6-10 p.m. – Bluegrass/Country Music Jam Session White Rose Senior Center (717) 843-9704, www.whiteroseseniorcenter.org Windy Hill On the Campus (717) 225-0733 https://windyhillonthecampus.org Tuesdays, 1-2 p.m. – Ballroom Dancing Classes Wednesdays, 9:30 a.m. – Exercise Class for Parkinson’s Patients and Caregivers Dec. 17, 12:30 p.m. – Book Club Yorktown Senior Center (717) 854-0693, www.yorktownseniorcenter.org
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Keep Winter Weather, Crowds from Ruining Travel Plans By Chris Holbert November and December tend to be two of the busiest months to travel. It was reported that around 54.3 million people traveled for Thanksgiving, and 112 million people traveled for Christmas last year. Crowded airports, crowded roads, people in a rush, and bad weather all make traveling during the holiday season stressful and potentially dangerous. But, planning ahead, packing the right gear, and having the right travel strategy can help make sure you arrive at your destination safely and still in the holiday spirit. Travel at Off Times – If possible, plan on traveling to your holiday destinations at off-peak times. Build a few extra days into your trip if necessary, or book a flight when the airport is usually less busy, late at night. If you are driving to your destination, map out alternative routes you can take to avoid traffic jams. Don’t always rely on GPS to find you the best route once you’re already in heavy traffic. And, in case you hit bad weather that prevents you from driving any farther, identify hotels along your route that you can stay at, especially if you are traveling with pets.
Atomic Canal from page 7 never saw a tank in his two years there. “Perhaps it was just the Army way of doing things,” he says. Life at Fort Belvoir was much cushier than anything he had previously experienced. The food was good and plentiful, and the living accommodations were comfortable, with modern air conditioning. The officers and enlisted men were highly educated engineers or involved in engineer training. Most were involved in projects such as building bridges and dams. Weiler was assigned to type notes in meetings involving the most interesting and controversial project of all. The Navy was building aircraft carriers and ships that could no longer fit through the Panama Canal. The Department of Defense was considering building a new canal through the small nation of Nicaragua, taking advantage of its large lake (Lake Nicaragua) to minimize construction. What made the project controversial was the idea of detonating nuclear munitions from decommissioned warheads to excavate a trench. “The engineering plan was conceived that the exploding nuclear charge would cause a vacant chamber to be created by the melting soil, which would then collapse, forming a crater. The series of craters would then form the canal,” Weiler recalls. “I thought it was the coolest project in the world.” According to the plan, the liquefied soil would chill to form a hardened shell, which would prevent radiation from leaking to the surface. But the project never really got off the drawing board. “When news of the atomic canal reached public consciousness, the response was overwhelmingly negative, and there were few congressional supporters for the project. As such, the atomic canal died a slow and quiet death,” Weiler says. Six months before his enlistment ended in February 1971, and after being
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Keep Friends and Family Informed – Everyone has a cellphone, but you never know if you might get caught in a situation where you have no signal or the battery dies. It is best to provide friends and family with your travel itinerary before you leave home. And then, if you have to make any changes, update them along the way. A check-in every few hours with an updated location is a good idea when driving so that if anything does go wrong, people know a general area of where to look for you. Call Ahead – Before you hit the road, call the nonemergency number for highway patrol, the local police, or forest service in the areas you’ll be driving through that day. Talking to a real person will give you better insights into road and weather conditions in real time than you will get from searching online. Pack the Right Gear – If you will be driving through freezing temperatures, rain, sleet, or snow during your trip, having the right gear in your car is essential. Blankets, snacks, a shovel, a flashlight, and water are basics. You might also want to consider throwing in some kitty litter if you go please see Travel Plans page 22
promoted to staff sergeant, Weiler was transferred to the Pentagon to serve with the Safeguard Anti-Ballistic Missile Project. He had very little work to do but sometimes helped write reports for congressional aides. But this missile system was never built, mainly because the U.S. and the Soviet Union agreed to reduce their nuclear stockpiles. During his time at Fort Belvoir, Weiler met a woman from Hanover, Pennsylvania, named Sally. They married in 1972, shortly after he left the Army. Sally worked in the intelligence community. Weiler later earned an undergraduate degree from George Mason University and then a graduate degree from the University of Virginia. In 2003, Weiler and his wife moved to their current home just outside Hanover. He worked various jobs, including management, until his retirement in 2008. In recent years, Weiler has fulfilled yet another childhood fantasy: writing three books about World War II. He has taken particular interest in the Soviet-German conflict, by far the largest, deadliest, and most consequential front in the war. Weiler is quick to point out a truth that many Americans fail to realize: the Red Army killed far more German soldiers and destroyed far more Nazi equipment than did their American and British counterparts. Weiler is currently working on his fourth book (https://weilerpublications. com/meet-ken). He is happy to have plenty of spare time to work on his book projects, participate in his local historical society, and volunteer at the Eisenhower National Historic Site in Gettysburg. He also gives lectures on military history. Robert Naeye visited Nicaragua for several days in February 2013 and took a twohour boat ride on Lake Nicaragua. He’s glad no canal was ever built there with atomic bombs.
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Orthopedics & Pain Savvy Senior
Jim Miller
Acupuncture Can Relieve Pain and Many Other Ailments
Dear Savvy Senior, Is acupuncture a proven treatment for arthritis pain? I have a lot of back and neck pain and am wondering if it’s worth trying. What can you tell me about acupuncture? – Afraid of Needles Dear Afraid, Many well-designed studies over the years — funded by the National Institutes of Health — have found acupuncture to be very effective in easing arthritis pain, and it can help with a variety of other ailments too. First used in China more than 2,000 years ago, acupuncture has become increasingly popular in the United States over the past 40 years. While acupuncture isn’t a cure-all treatment, it is a safe, drug-free option for relieving many different types of pain, including osteoarthritis, low back pain, neck pain, migraine headaches, fibromyalgia, postoperative pain, tennis elbow, carpel tunnel syndrome, dental pain, menstrual cramps, and more. Studies have also shown that it can be helpful in treating asthma, depression, digestive disorders, addictions, menopause symptoms like hot flashes, and nausea caused by chemotherapy or anesthesia. Exactly how or why acupuncture works is still not fully understood, but it’s based on the traditional Eastern theory that vital energy flows through pathways in the body, and when any of these pathways gets blocked, pain and illness result. Acupuncture unblocks the pathways to restore health. However, today most U.S. medical doctors tend to believe that acupuncture works because it stimulates the nerves, causing the release of endorphins, which are the body’s natural painkiller hormones. It’s also shown to increase blood circulation, decrease inflammation, and stimulate the immune system. What to Know If the thought of getting needles stuck into your body makes you a little uneasy, you’ll be happy to know that an acupuncture treatment is nothing like getting a shot. In fact, it’s quite relaxing. Here are some additional points you should know: The needles: They’re solid, sterile, and disposable (used only once), and as thin as a cat’s whisker. The number of needles used for each treatment can vary anywhere from a few, up to a dozen or more. And where the needles are actually stuck depends on the condition being treated, but they are typically inserted about one-quarter to 1 inch deep and are left in place for about 20 minutes. After placement, the needles are sometimes twirled or manipulated, www.50plusLifePA.com
or stimulated with electricity or heat. Does it hurt? You may feel a brief, sharp sensation when the needle is inserted, but generally it’s not painful. Once the needle is in place, however, you may feel a tingling sensation, numbness, mild pressure, or warmth. Treatments: How many treatments you’ll please see Acupuncture page 19
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Orthopedics & Pain By Sandra Gordon
Bye-Bye, Back Pain
Count yourself lucky if you’ve never groaned about your back. Fact is, the majority of us — 80% — will deal with back pain at some point. It’s one of the most common reasons for a doctor visit. Deciding how to treat it, though, can be tricky. There’s simply no gold standard. “We have a long history of medical interventions that didn’t work,” says spine surgeon Roger Chou, M.D. But today we know more than ever. Check out the latest ways to avoid and deal with pain and implement easy prevention moves.
up on your forearms and toes to form a straight line with your back. Hold for 3060 seconds. Sitting on a stability ball for 30 seconds or more each morning helps align ligaments around your disks, says Fine. 5. Quit it. In case you need yet another reason to stop smoking, consider this: Nicotine constricts blood flow to spinal disks, causing them to age faster than normal. Visit www.cancer.org/smokeout or call the national tobacco quit line at (800) 784-8669.
1. Don’t coddle yourself. Whether your back pain is excruciating or merely annoying, you probably won’t feel like doing much. But don’t take it easy for more than a day or two. Doing so can prolong and worsen pain. Instead, take a prescription or over-the-counter pain reliever (acetaminophen or ibuprofen) and start moving, says Daniel J. Mazanec, M.D., associate director of the Center for Spine Health at the Cleveland Clinic. “Low-impact activities, like walking or swimming, boost blood flow to your back muscles and help loosen them up.”
6. Reconfigure your computer setup. Looking down at a screen, what people often do when working on laptops, puts strain on neck and back muscles, says Carneiro. please see Back Pain page 17
2. Avoid the urge to be a weekend warrior. “In general, people who exercise regularly have less back pain than those who don’t,” says Mazanec. But bingeing on exercise over the weekend — to make up for everything you missed during the week — can backfire because your muscles aren’t primed for the activity. Instead, go on a power walk daily. It’s the best prescription for a strong, problem-resistant spine. 3. Stay slim. “Being overweight causes wear and tear on your ankles, knees, and hips that gets transferred to your spine because you limp or favor one side,” says pain specialist Perry G. Fine, M.D. Have a It can also put excess stress on Happy & Safe disks, ligaments, and back joints, causing osteoarthritis of the spine. Holiday Season 4. Work your core. Weak stomach muscles are often linked to back issues. The best exercise to practice regularly is the plank. Lie face down on the ground and push yourself www.50plusLifePA.com
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Orthopedics & Pain Dear Pharmacist
Suzy Cohen
3 Tips to Survive on Hydrocodone and Other Opioids
Vicodin and Lortab are two brand names of one of the most popular drugs in the entire world. Generically, it is called “hydrocodone with apap,” where the “apap” is an abbreviation for acetaminophen (a.k.a., Tylenol). When I worked in a busy retail pharmacy, this medication was on the fast-mover shelf because it was dispensed by the thousands each day. Hydrocodone/apap is a prescription analgesic and in the category of “opioids,” which you’ve been hearing a lot about lately. Opioids are manmade
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drugs intended to work similarly to the naturally produced opiates made in your body. The opioid drug binds to the receptor on your cell’s outer membrane and unlocks a variety of feel-good, numbing compounds that relax your body, increase pleasurable feelings, and suppress pain signals. If you require this medication, there are three important tips you should know about:
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Lassie from page 10 would have to shoot scenes before the suds turned back to liquid. “Knowing that, if you go back and look at the episode again, you’ll notice it’s not really behaving like real snow.” A different technique was Photo provided by Jon Provost. employed for scenes Jon Provost, June Lockhart, Hugh Reilly, depicting snowing. and Lassie pose for a Christmas photo. “They would use little shreds of white plastic dropped from above that would appear like snowflakes coming down or landing on our clothes. That was the magic of Hollywood before computer-generated images.” A frequent guest at autograph shows and classic film/TV events, Provost says he still gets asked the same questions about Lassie. “People have the perception that we had three or four dogs on the set at the same time to do different things, but that was not the case. Rudd Weatherwax, Lassie’s owner and trainer, would only allow one real Lassie on the set at a time, although Lassie did have a double that was used for long shots like running, climbing, or swimming.” Provost worked with three different Lassies during his time on the show, and all were males rather than the females portrayed in the series. Then there’s the running joke of Timmy falling down a well and being rescued by Lassie. It remains one of those Hollywood legends that just don’t seem to die, even after Provost penned his 2009 memoir with its tongue-in-
cheek title Timmy’s in the Well: The Jon Provost Story, disproving the myth that his character ever disappeared down a well (see www.jonprovost. com). “When I wrote my autobiography with my wife, Laurie, I looked Photo provided by Jon Provost. through the Provost displays a copy of his autobiography synopsis of all 249 with the help of a couple of four-legged friends. half-hour episode scripts, and there was no mention of Timmy ever falling into a well,” he said, adding its origin remains a mystery. “But that one will follow me forever!” Although it’s been six decades since the series first aired in 1954, reruns of the adventures of Lassie and Timmy still air in dozens of countries, including in the U.S. on cable. As for the Christmas episodes, stories typically tugged on viewers’ heartstrings, such as “The Christmas Story” from 1960, where Timmy helped a homeless family. “People tell me all the time about growing up with Lassie and the warm feeling they still have about the show,” says Provost. “The stories had morals and values attached to all the episodes, which are lacking in today’s television. I think that’s the reason it has retained its appeal.” Nick Thomas teaches at Auburn University at Montgomery, Ala., and has written features, columns, and interviews for over 750 magazines and newspapers.
Back Pain from page 15 Your monitor should be at eye level, elbows and shoulders at 90 degrees. If you use a laptop, consider getting a separate keyboard to make these ergonomic adjustments. 7. Find pressure points. Studies indicate that acupuncture (the Chinese medicine technique of inserting thin needles into the skin) can help reduce back pain. If you shy away from needles, try shiatsu, which uses massage at acupuncture points. “I typically recommend massage or acupuncture to patients with muscles that won’t relax, even with physical therapy,” says Heidi Prather, D.O. Find an acupuncturist or shiatsu therapist from the National Certification Commission for Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine at www.nccaom.org. 8. Stress less. The neurochemicals that flood your system when you’re dealing with tough times can lead to emotional and physical pain. Reduce anxiety with regular exercise, a healthy diet, psychotherapy, and, if necessary, antianxiety/antidepressant prescription medication.
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9. Consider steroids. When other attempts at relieving pain fail, especially if you have a herniated disc and sciatica (leg pain), steroid injections may provide relief. “A shot of dexamethasone or methylprednisolone in the back can decrease inflammation and keep you moving,” says Wellington Hsu, M.D., an orthopedic surgeon and a spokesperson for the American Academy of Orthopaedic Surgeons. These medications can ease discomfort for months. 10. Give your spine support. Your lower back naturally curves inward, but most chairs cause it to round out, which can throw off alignment. “Cushioning your lumbar is the key to maintaining your spine’s neutral curvature,” says physical therapist Mary Ann Wilmarth. Scoot all the way back in your chair with a roll of paper towels or a lumbar pillow wedged behind your waist. In a car or a public place, stuff your coat behind you. “Once your low back is supported, your neck and upper back will stay in proper position,” Wilmarth says. 50plus LIFE t
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Plan-Change Deadline for Community HealthChoices Approaching Department of Human Services Secretary Teresa Miller and Department of Aging Secretary Robert Torres are reminding Pennsylvania residents about the upcoming rollout of the Community HealthChoices program. CHC, a managed long-term services and supports program, launches on Jan. 1, 2020, for residents of central, northeast, and northwest Pennsylvania and the Lehigh Valley. CHC is Pennsylvania’s managedcare program for individuals who are dually eligible for Medicaid and Medicare and for individuals who are 21 or older with physical disabilities requiring long-term services and supports. CHC was developed to improve access to and coordination of medical and person-centered long-term services and supports with a goal of giving people choice, control, and access to a full array of services. Pennsylvania residents who are eligible for CHC were notified and reminded of this transition, what it means for them, and important deadlines throughout the summer and fall. Eligible participants had until Nov. 13 to select their managed care organization. After this, participants were automatically enrolled in one of the three MCOs providing services for CHC participants. If a participant would like to change their MCO, they are able to do that at any time. Participants have until Dec. 20 to make a plan-selection change in order for it to be effective Jan. 1, 2020. After that point, MCO changes will
take effect beginning later in 2020. The Wolf Administration encourages all future CHC participants to review their MCO selection and make necessary changes before Dec. 20, so they are effective when the new year begins. “CHC is providing options for many eligible Pennsylvanians in their communities,” said Torres. “This is especially noteworthy because we know that the majority of older adults want to age in place. CHC is empowering more seniors to live the way they want, while having access to long-term services they need.” The Wolf Administration launched CHC in Pennsylvania’s southwest region in January 2018 and in the southeast in January 2019; the program now includes about 210,000 participants. Data from the southwest region shows that in CHC’s first year, the rate of individuals served in the community increased from 49.7% to 52.2%. The rollout in the remainder of the commonwealth will include approximately 143,000 individuals. When fully implemented across the state, CHC will include approximately 400,000 Pennsylvanians, 94% of whom are dually eligible for both Medicare and Medicaid. For more information on plan selection, call (844) 824-3655 (TTY (833) 254-0690) or visit www.enrollchc.com. For more information on the CHC program, visit www.healthchoices. pa.gov/info/about/community or call (833) 735-4416.
Hydrocodone from page 16 1. Never stop suddenly. If you’ve been supported on this medication for more than two weeks, do not stop suddenly. It has to be weaned. Your body has already grown tolerant to the medication, and stopping suddenly could produce dangerous withdrawal effects. Step down your dose due to the downregulation of receptors that normally process important neurotransmitters, such as serotonin, acetylcholine, glutamate, GABA, and dopamine. 2. Reduce side effects. Hydrocodone/apap (Vicodin) is known to cause constipation as its No. 1 side effect. You can and should anticipate it, and take a stool softener like docusate. I recommend plenty of water each day and a diet that is rich in fiber, fruits like prunes, and even oatmeal. This may not help, and in that case, an over-the-counter laxative like Miralax (polyethylene glycol 3350) or a fiber supplement like Metamucil could help. For those of you who have been on this medication or a similar one, such as oxycodone/apap (Percocet) or OxyContin, for a long time, be aware of a condition termed “Narcotic Bowel Syndrome,” or NBS.
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This condition causes gastrointestinal hypersensitivity. It’s terribly underrecognized! NBS is characterized by the progressive and somewhat paradoxical increase in abdominal pain despite continued or escalating dosages of narcotics prescribed in an effort to relieve the pain. 3. Never drink alcohol or take sleepers. Opioids are CNS depressant agents that slow everything down, including respiration. Alcohol does that too, and so do Benadryl and a host of benzodiazepine drugs. You should never combine two or more CNS depressants because it could slow your breathing down or stop it completely! This is how unintended deaths occur. By the same token, herbal sedatives are also CNS depressants, so do not combine your opioid medication with magnolia bark, skullcap, lavender, California poppy, lemon balm, valerian root, and others. This information is not intended to diagnose, prevent, or treat your disease. For more information about the author, visit suzycohen.com.
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The Beauty in Nature
North American Jays Clyde McMillan-Gamber
We’ve had blue jays in our yard for the more than 30 years I’ve lived at my home. Having blue feathering with black and white markings, blue jays are attractive and welcome on our lawn. And, related to crows, as all species of jays are, our jays at home are adaptable, Blue jay boisterous, and entertaining, as all jays are. Blue jays are the only kind of jay native to the northeastern United States. But five other species of jays live in North America, most of them in the American West. All species of jays are intelligent and social and have other characteristics in common, demonstrating their common ancestry. Most jays are colorful and all are attractive, each type in its own way. All species are omnivorous, eating invertebrates, birds’ eggs, seeds, fruit, and most everything else, each kind in its own niche. Each kind of jay has its own traits, making it a distinct species. Steller’s jays are 11 inches long and have dark-brown feathering in front and blue jaylike feathering on their wings, backs, and tails. Each Steller’s has a dark crest on its head that makes it taller. Like blue jays, Steller’s imitate bird sounds. But this elegant species lives and nests only in coniferous forests along America’s Pacific Coast from Mexico to Alaska. Ten inches long, scrub jays have long, blue tails and blue wings and heads but have beige-gray feathering elsewhere. This pretty species mostly inhabits pinyon pine-juniper woods in the foothills of the Rocky Mountains in the
American West and Mexico. There, they mostly consume pinyon seeds and juniper cones. Nine inches long, pinyon jays resemble small crows, but these handsome jays have blue-gray feathering all over. This kind of jay is well named because it lives among pinyon pines and relies heavily on those Canada jay pines on mountains in the western United States. These jays have large, stout beaks because their staple food is pinyon seeds. And they nest in pinyon pines. Canada, or gray, jays are the plainest of North American jays. Ten inches long, they have gray feathering all over, except white on their foreheads and necks and black caps, which make them look a little like large chickadees. Their plumages are thick and fluffy for great insulation during cold Canadian winters. Gray jays live in the mixed coniferous/deciduous forests of Canada. They ingest anything edible and store food for winter. Green jays are the most striking of their clan. They are light green all over, except for blue and black on their heads and black on their throats. They also have a few yellow feathers under their tails. Green jays live and nest in brushy habitats from northern Central America to southern Texas. They mimic other birds and use sticks to pry loose tree bark to seize exposed invertebrates. Jays are a colorful, intelligent, and interesting family of birds. They offer joy and intrigue to anyone who spots them.
Acupuncture from page 13 need will depend on the severity of your condition — 12 treatments done weekly or biweekly is very common. It’s also important to know that acupuncture can be used in conjunction with other conventional medical treatments or by itself. Cost and coverage: The cost per treatment typically runs anywhere from $50 to $100 or more. Unfortunately, most private health plans, including Medicare, do not cover acupuncture. To find an acupuncturist in your area, ask your doctor for a referral, or you can do a search online at the National Certification Commission for www.50plusLifePA.com
Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine (www.nccaom.org) and Acufinder.com. Both sites provide a national database of certified and/or licensed practitioners. Or visit the American Academy of Medical Acupuncture (www. medicalacupuncture.org), which offers a directory of M.D.s who are certified to practice acupuncture. Send your senior questions to: Savvy Senior, P.O. Box 5443, Norman, OK 73070, or visit www.savvysenior.org. Jim Miller is a contributor to the NBC Today show and author of The Savvy Senior book.
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Bethany Village — MapleWood
325 Wesley Drive • Mechanicsburg, PA 17055 717-766-0279 • www.BethanyVillage.org Total AL and/or PC Beds: 100 Assisted Living Residence: Yes Personal Care Home: No Private: 100 Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: Yes Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: Yes Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes
Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: One-bedroom suites; secured memory support neighborhood; skilled nursing – The Oaks.
Cross Keys Village The Brethren Home Community
1901 North Fifth Street • Harrisburg, PA 17102 717-221-7901 • www.homelandcenter.org Total AL and/or PC Beds: 56 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes
Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: Providing exemplary care in a beautiful environment for more than 150 years. Our continuum of care includes therapy services, skilled rehab, 24-hour medical staffing, plus Hospice, HomeHealth, and HomeCare outreach programs. All-private rooms include a full bath and kitchenette.
Homestead Village
2990 Carlisle Pike • New Oxford, PA 17350 717-624-5436 • www.crosskeysvillage.org Total AL and/or PC Beds: 123 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: No Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes
Homeland Center
Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: No Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: No Comments: A regional leader in all aspects of memory care and a program designed for optimal engagement and socialization.
1800 Village Circle • Lancaster, PA 17603 717-397-4831 • www.homesteadvillage.org Total AL and/or PC Beds: 100 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: No Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: Yes Part/Totally Refundable: Yes Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes
Harrison House of Chester County
Homewood at Plum Creek
Total AL and/or PC Beds: 80 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: No Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: Yes Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: Yes Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes
Total AL and/or PC Beds: 92 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: No Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: Yes Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes
300 Strode Avenue • Coatesville, PA 19320 610-384-6310 • www.harrisonseniorliving.com Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes Alzheimer’s Care: No Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: Located in western Chester County, Harrison House provides an array of amenities with nursing care.
425 Westminster Avenue • Hanover, PA 17331 717-637-4166 • www.homewoodplumcreek.org
The Hickman Friends Senior Community
Mennonite Home Communities
Total AL and/or PC Beds: 114 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: Yes Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: Yes Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes
Total AL and/or PC Beds: 150 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: Yes Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes
400 North Walnut Street • West Chester, PA 19380 484-760-6300 • www.TheHickman.org Health Fee-for-Service Available: No Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: Nonprofit personal care community in downtown West Chester. Includes secure dementia care neighborhood. Call to schedule a personal tour.
Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: Yes Comments: One-bedroom deluxe and studio apartments available! New Harvest House Memory Support now available.
Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: No Comments: Excellent care in a lovely environment. Call to schedule a visit.
1520 Harrisburg Pike • Lancaster, PA 17601 717-393-1301 • www.mennonitehome.org Health Fee-for-Service Available: No Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: No Comments: Supportive, encouraging environment. Various room types and suites available. Secure memory care offered.
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Pleasant View Communities
1700 Normandie Drive • York, PA 17408 717-764-6262 • https://normandieridge.org Total AL and/or PC Beds: 27 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: No Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: No Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes
544 North Penryn Road • Manheim, PA 17545 717-664-6237 • www.pvcommunities.org
Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: No Comments: Our dementia care residence features the Kaleidoscope therapeutic engagement program designed for our residents.
Total AL and/or PC Beds: 96 Assisted Living Residence: No Personal Care Home: Yes Private: Yes Semi-private: Yes Private Pay: Yes SSI Accepted: Yes* Short-term Lease: No Entrance Fee/Security Deposit: Yes Part/Totally Refundable: No Outdoor Areas/Fitness Center: Yes Medication Management: Yes On-call Medical Service: Yes
Health Fee-for-Service Available: Yes Alzheimer’s Care: Yes Respite Care: Yes Social Programs: Yes Housekeeping/Laundry Service: Yes Transportation (Scheduled): Yes Personal Car Permitted: Yes Pets Permitted: No Comments: *Three-year private pay spending. Maintain independence in an enriching and supportive environment.
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At Your Fingertips Helpful numbers, hotlines, and local businesses and organizations eager to serve you—all just a phone call away. Animal Hospitals Community Animal Hospital Donald A. Sloat, D.V.M. 400 S. Pine St., York (717) 845-5669
Alzheimer’s Information Clearinghouse (800) 367-5115
Automobile Sales/Service Gordon’s Body Shop, Inc. 10 Mill St., Stewartstown (717) 993-2263
CONTACT Helpline (717) 652-4400
Energy Assistance Low-Income Energy Assistance (717) 787-8750 Entertainment Dutch Apple Dinner Theatre 510 Centerville Road, Lancaster (717) 898-1900 Funeral preplanning Mount Rose Cemetery (717) 845-6618 Susquehanna Memorial Gardens (717) 244-7674 Health & Medical Services Alzheimer’s Association (717) 651-5020
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American Diabetes Association (800) 342-2383
The National Kidney Foundation (800) 697-7007 or (717) 757-0604 Social Security Information (800) 772-1213 Healthcare Information Pennsylvania HealthCare Cost Containment (717) 232-6787 Hearing Services Pennsylvania Office for the Deaf and Hard of Hearing (800) 233-3008 V/TTY Home Care Services Homeland at Home Serving all of York County (717) 221-7892 Visiting Angels Living Assistance Services Hanover: (717) 630-0067
Lancaster: (717) 393-3450 York: (717) 751-2488 HOME IMPROVEMENT West Shore Home 5024 Simpson Ferry Road Mechanicsburg (717) 937-1148
Orthopedics OSS Health 1855 Powder Mill Road, York (717) 848-4800 PERSONAL CARE HOMES Family Care Personal Care Home (717) 373-5205 Pharmacies CVS/pharmacy www.cvs.com
Hospice Services Homeland at Home Serving all of York County (717) 221-7890 Housing Assistance Housing Authority of York (717) 845-2601 Property Tax/Rent Rebate (888) 728-2937
real estate Berkshire Hathaway Paula Musselman (717) 793-9678 (Office) (717) 309-6921 (Cell) Services York County Area Agency on Aging (717) 771-9610
Insurance Medicare (800) 633-4227 Vibra Health Plan (844) 660-2961 (TTY: 711) Insurance – Long-Term Care Apprise Insurance Counseling (717) 771-9610 or (800) 632-9073
Veterans Services Lebanon VA Medical Center 1700 S. Lincoln Ave., Lebanon (717) 228-6000 or (800) 409-8771 Volunteer opportunities RSVP of the Capital Region (443) 619-3842
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Grief Relief
You Can Grieve and Remain Optimistic Victor M. Parachin
Though you are grieving the death of someone greatly loved, try to remember that you can grieve and, at the same time, you can remain optimistic about life. Dealing with loss skillfully means grieving fully while continuing to be positive, hopeful, and optimistic. Here are eight things optimists do regularly. 1. They express gratitude. When people were told to write and then personally deliver a letter of gratitude to someone who had been especially kind to them, but whom they had never thanked properly, they experienced a huge increase in happiness, according to a study at the University of Pennsylvania. Even more, that happiness boost lasted an entire month. 2. They smile more. Smiling does more than
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make us look happy — it makes us feel happy, too. Studies have found that smiling provides a variety of psychological and physical benefits including: lowering stress levels, improving your mood, and helping you make more friends. Researchers believe this is because smiling reduces stress hormones and makes you appear more approachable. 3. They forgive. Although it may be easier said than done, learning to forgive instead of holding a grudge leads to a more positive lifestyle, says David Mezzapelle, author of Contagious Optimism. “Make peace with your past so that it won’t spoil the present. Once you accomplish this, you will close those chapters and live a more positive and happy life.” please see Grieve page 26
Travel Plans from page 12 off the road and need traction. And extra bottles of windshield wiper fluid; there’s nothing worse than running out while on a wet, slushy road with trucks driving past. For air travel, make sure that you put any cellphone chargers, medication, travel paperwork, identification, etc., in your personal item instead of a checked bag or carryon. This way there is no chance of you being separated from them if luggage is lost or overhead bins are full and your bag must be checked. Rely on Technology – Portable power is a must for the road or air travel to ensure your phone is always powered. And, keep any mobile personal emergency-response devices, or SOS button, you may have in an accessible garment pocket. This way, if you have an emergency and cannot dial your phone, it is within easy reach to call for help. Consider downloading helpful weather, route guidance, gas station finders, and airline or airport apps to your phone. These can give you alerts about bad weather, where to find gas, if your flight is delayed, or let you check how long lines are at security checkpoints. There is always a lot to get done during the holiday season. Between holiday get-togethers, endless trips to the grocery store, and holiday shopping, taking the extra time to prepare for travel can help to make the process a little easier. While you cannot completely avoid heavy traffic and long lines this winter, you can minimize the frustrations of dealing with them by being ready ahead of time. Chris Holbert is the CEO of SecuraTrac. As the CEO, he is responsible for leading the company’s vision of developing, marketing, and selling a suite of mobile health and safety solutions that bring families closer together and improve employee safety through state-of-the-art location-based services and mobile health technology.
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Traveltizers
An Unlikely Place for Miracles By Andrea Gross
Alabama is not a place where I normally expect to find miracles. Bushes may burn, but angels don’t appear from the flames. Flowers are abundant, but they don’t rain from the sky. And although the Tennessee River Northwest Alabama is known for water sports and has less water some hiking trails as well as for music and miracles. years than others, it has never parted to make way for an exodus of 5 million people. Yet here I was, in northwest Alabama, witnessing the recreation of a miracle that happened more than 125 years ago, and in the next few days, I would witness miracles that have happened here more recently.
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While these may not have been messages from a deity, they were at least miracles in an earthly sense. Amazing Grace in Tuscumbia The small, black pump stands in front of a modest clapboard house. Helen Keller was born in the house that A 7-year-old girl was built by her grandparents in 1820. reaches out and feels the cool water as it flows into her hands. The audience is absolutely silent. We’ve all seen The Miracle Worker, the play and movie that tell the story of Helen Keller. We know what’s going to happen, but we want to see it portrayed here, on the grounds of Ivy Green, the home where she grew up. The house in the background is the one in which she and her teacher, Annie Sullivan, struggled; the gardens are the ones through which they walked, and the pump is the very same pump that spilled out the water that awakened Helen’s brain. With a frenzied cry, the young actress begins to fingerspell into the hand of the woman standing next to her. W … A … T … E … R. Helen Keller has learned to communicate. A miracle has occurred. For those in the audience, many who are deaf or blind, the moment is electric. After the play several of them walk over to a life-size statue of Keller and the pump. A woman looks with her eyes, but asks questions with her hands. Her companion fingerspells the answers. A man who sees with his hands runs his fingers over the statue. “I wish I could have met her,” he says. Helen Keller still serves as an inspiration to everyone, but especially to those who need her most. Chalk it up to another miracle. Resurrection in Muscle Shoals The word “resurrection” is always tinged with the miraculous, whether it’s used in the biblical sense or simply as a synonym for “restoration,” as when I speak of resurrecting my vintage bathtub from the garbage bin. But here in Muscle Shoals, it’s an entire tradition that is being resurrected. Back in the ’60s and ’70s, Muscle Shoals was a musical mecca, luring the country’s greatest artists to its small production studios. The Allman Brothers, Aretha Franklin, Otis Redding, and the Rolling Stones were among the many who made pilgrimages to Alabama to record songs that personified America. But by the 1990s, technological advances had nearly decimated the recording business. Music was no longer produced, distributed, or listened to in the same way, and Muscle Shoals was in danger of losing its identity as www.50plusLifePA.com
well as its industry. Then in 2013 a documentary celebrating the town’s musical legacy was released to critical acclaim at the Sundance Film Festival, and folks began clamoring to see the old sound studio at 3614 Jackson Highway. The Muscle Shoals Music Foundation has restored it to look like it did during its glory days, and it serves as a museum as well as a studio and gathering place for musicians. The rebirth of the Muscle Shoals sound as well as the Muscle Shoals town has begun.
As her teacher, Annie Sullivan, watches, Helen connects the word “water,” which Annie has been fingerspelling into her hand, with the reality of the liquid flowing from the pump.
Renewal in Florence Tom Hendrix used 8.5 million pounds of stone Tom Hendrix to honor his great-great-grandmother. had heard stories about his great-great-grandmother all his life. He knew how she, along with other Indians from the Southeast, had been relocated to Oklahoma in the 1830s, how she was determined to find her way back to nunnushae, the “singing river” that flowed near her Alabama home, and how she walked more than 700 miles to do so, guided only by her dreams. When he told this story to a tribal elder, her answer changed his life. “You too will follow your path and sing your song,” she said.
Hendrix — who passed away in 2017 — set forth on his path more than 30 years ago, and it resulted in the longest unmortared wall in America, one that winds 1.5 miles through the north Alabama countryside. It contains 8.5 million pounds A man who is blind discusses the statue of stone — all of Helen Keller with a woman who is deaf. put into place by Hendrix, without help, without heavy machinery, and without complaint. “We shall all pass through this earth. Only the stones remain,” he said. “We honor our ancestors with stone.” Part of the wall is straight, as was his great-greatgrandmother’s mandatory march Hendrix’s wall runs 1.5 miles through along the Trail of the north Alabama countryside. Tears. Another part, which represents her return, is full of twists and turns. In between are stone prayer circles, where visitors can sit, reflect, and dream. Hendrix found his miracle in stones, and through his wall, he helped countless others find their miracles as well. (www.visitflorenceal.com) Photos ©Irv Green unless otherwise noted; story by Andrea Gross (andreagross.com). www.traveltizers.com
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Grieve from page 22 4. They write down good things that come into their lives. Those who pay attention to the positive and write down the good that comes their way tend to be happier, notes psychologist Amy Przeworski, Ph.D. Even if it wasn’t a particularly great day, try to find something positive to say about it, she advises. “Most situations can be seen in both a positive and negative light. You just have to find the positive one and keep reminding yourself of it in order to eventually believe it.” Taking time to write down positive experiences is a way of training the brain to be more optimistic in general. And, the benefits of being a positive person extend far beyond the writing exercise. A study of Catholic nuns who journaled regularly found that those who focused on more uplifting content ended up living longer. 5. They spend time around positive people. One study reported that 48% of the women surveyed strongly agreed they are happier when around optimistic people. Good moods are contagious, as are bad ones. Associating with positive people breeds more positivity in your own life. It’s an upward spiral rather than a downward one when spending too much time with negative individuals. 6. They cultivate resilience. According to University of Miami psychologist Charles S. Carver, Ph.D., who has written extensively about optimism, when compared with pessimists, optimists are far more resilient.
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7. They are persistent. No matter what storms enter their lives, optimists keep their focus on getting through. Inch by inch, they tap into inner strengths and find a way through the challenge. Optimists find ways to selfmotivate themselves day after day. Their guiding credo is based on this wisdom from U.S. president Calvin Coolidge: “Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not: Nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not: Unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not: The world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.” 8. They remain confident. That means they are able to deal with challenges following their own intuitive sense rather than be directed by other voices that say “yes, no, maybe; do this, not that; go in this direction, not that one.” They know that always following the opinion of others creates uncertainty, erodes individuality, and results in confusion. Victor M. Parachin, M.Div., is a grief counselor, bereavement educator, and author of several books, including Healing Grief.
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Optimists bounce back from painful experiences faster than pessimists do, says Carver. “They stay in the struggle because they expect the ship to right itself.”
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