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March / April

Volume 12, Number 2

Eric Darius

Born into a musical family (his father plays bass, his mother and sister sing, and his older brother plays the drums and trumpet), Darius studied at Blake High School of the Performing Arts in Tampa, Florida, where he was a member of the Blake Jazz Ensemble and many other bands the school offered.

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elebrate is, Jr. C v a D ly and Bil McCoo n y story il r a M arriage. tells the m s f ia o r s o r 40 yea S an di M

Reginald Ballard, host of the seventh annual Onyx Awards shares his story with the publisher of Onyx Magazine.

By Lucia Reid

Denise Mose attends the Grammy Awards and returns home to tell her story.

How Sweet the Sound 19

Presented by the Orlando Chapter of The Links

By Denise Mose

Jameil McWhorter Joins New Law Firm McWhorter interviewed by Denise Mose

DEPARTMENTS

Health Notes (Autism) ........................................................... 18

Life Style ................................................................................ 30

Florida Scope ........................................................................ 34

Photo Gallery ........................................................................ 38

FROM THE EDITORS

Publisher and Managing Editor Lillian Seays

Associate Editor / Operations Manager Lester Seays Director of Information Technology Brian Seays Director of Special Projects Cheryll Daniels

Executive Director of Marketing and Sales George Oliver Northeast Florida Sales David Williams Circulation Manager Kenneth Seays

Welcome to the seventh annual Onyx Awards.

It’s hard to believe that it has actually been seven years, since the first Onyx Awards. Since that time, we have been blessed to establish the Onyx Community Awards in Jacksonville and Brevard County. We anticipate expanding to the Tallahassee area and to the south Florida area. The idea is to maintain a fair representation of the state at the coming together of the statewide event in Orlando. Congratulations to the 2009 honorees.

Beginning on page 10, there is a brief biography of all the competitive honorees––from Pensacola to Miami. They are all phenomenal men and women who, through their on accomplishments, have given back to the community in a big way. For that reason, we are proud to honor them.

This year, we will also honor the presidents of Florida’s Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs). Each president will be present to represent their school––Dr. Trudie Kibbe Reed, of Bethune-Cookman University; Dr. Claudette Williams, Edward Waters College; Dr. James Ammons, Florida A&M University; and Dr. Karl S. Wright, Florida Memorial University.

Having attended the inauguration of President Barack Obama, we are able to publish a photo journal using many of the photos that others have generously shared with Onyx. We have also included excerpts from the President’s inaugural speech.

Do you remember Reginald Ballard, better known as Bro-man from the fifth floor on the Martin Lawrence show? He will join Jolene “JoJo” Philpot in hosting this year’s Onyx Awards show. Learn more about Reginald by reading page 20.

Thanks to Denise Mose who conducted a special interview for the March issue. On page 26, you will see her entire interview with Jameil C. McWhorter, young African American attorney who recently made partner with the law firm of Lowndes, Drosdick, Doster, Kantor & Reed, P.A.

Thank you for your interest in Onyx Magazine we hope that you will find this issue interesting and enlightening. We’ll see you again in May.

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Contributing Writers Sandi Morias Denise Mose Lucia Reid

Graphic Designer Erica Crawford Crawford Designs and Promotions Photographers Rev. Randolph Bracy Ted Hollins Deborah King Juan Lynum Lester Seays

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March / April 2009

BUSINESS

Robert L. Burns, Sr.

A new business has moved into the Parramore neighborhood of Orlando, a welcome sight for the residents of that area. Robert Burns constructed his new headquarters there bringing more than esthetics to the neighborhood, but opportunities as well.

Burns was educated at the Philadelphia College of Art-Furniture/industrial design major, minoring in structures and construction. He also spent four years in the United States Air Force.

As a business man, Burns said, “Providing construction services and solutions to assist in the revitalization efforts of Parramore has helped to benefit this community. We’ve had a hand in the rehabilitation of homes in the area, the Wells’Built Museum, corporate offices, including our own headquarters, which we finished building in March of last year.” Burns said that he wants to continue to work hand in hand with the city to improve the standard of living and this community [Parramore] something the residents can continue to be proud of for many years to come.

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Richard Danford, Jr., Ph.D.

Richard Danford, Jr. is the CEO and president of the Jacksonville Urban Leagues, which has been in existence since 1947. The league oversees, Duval County’s federally funded HeadStart children’s associate through its Education and Youth Empowerment Program. Other existing programs are the Employment and Training Empowerment and the Economic and Community Empowerment Program. Meeting the challenges of today's sagging economy, Danford is currently implementing plans that will keep the Urban League afloat until the economy stabilizes and improves. It is part of a five-year goal. Included in the plan is the social entrepreneurial initiative and public-private partnerships with Anheuser-Busch.

When Danford came on board in 1992, the Jacksonville Urban League had relatively little presence in the community. One of his significant achievements was to relocate it’s headquarters to LaVilla. In doing so, the agency became the catalyst for LaVilla’s revitalization.

Dr. Danford received his bachelor’s and master’s degree from Florida A&M University in 1967 and 1970 respectively, and his Ph.D. degree from the University of Florida. He the former director of equal employment for the City of Jacksonville (1988-1991, dean of students and executive assistant of the president at Edward Waters College from 1976-1988, served as director of Upward Bound at the University of Florida from 1971-1975. Finally, Dr. Danford is an active community leader and successful business man.

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Charles Jackson

Charles W. Jackson was born in Melbourne, Florida and is the third of ten children born to Earl and Ruby Jackson. Early in life, Mr. Jackson developed a strong work ethic that continues to serve him today. As a child he bought his first bicycle himself so that he could deliver newspapers.

In 1954 Jackson graduated salutatorian from Melbourne Vocational High School. Upon graduation, he enlisted in the United States Army and served our country for three years. Following his tour of duty, he returned home and began renovating his grandparent’s home. This project would ultimately inspire his professional career. Jackson’s passion for renovating and wiring homes eventually prevailed and he enrolled at Denmark Technical College in Denmark, South Carolina. Today, he is a Master Electrician, and the owner of Jackson Enterprises of Brevard Inc.

As a successful businessman, Jackson realizes that knowledge gained from hands on experience is invaluable and so he recruited graduates from his alma mater Denmark Technical College to come to Florida and work for him. To date 29 graduates have taken advantage of this employment opportunity. As a result, in 1994, he was voted “Alumni of the Year” at a ceremony in Washington, D.C.

Jackson serves as a member of the Board of Trustees for Edward Waters College he is also the President of the Denmark Technical College Alumni (Melbourne Charter) and is on the Zoning Board of Adjustment for the City of Melbourne. He also has contributed over $75,000.00 to the South Brevard Habitat For Humanity. March / April 2009

COMMUNICATION

Thomas S. Kornegay

Thomas S. Kornegay, resident of Winter Garden, Florida, received his bachelor’s degree in business administration from Florida Metropolitan University and certifications in executive management from Dartmouth College, Tuck School of Business and advanced executive management from the University of Texas, El Paso School of Business Administration.

A United States Navy veteran, Kornegay has served for 24 years in a variety of engineering logistic and maintenance management positions. He established TeKONTROL, Inc. (TKI), and engineering logistics, training, and management consulting firm in 1986. He is also the founder of several successful companies: TeKONTROL-Texas, a telecommunications manufacturing and in 1996 and Paskor Holdings, LLC, a construction services company in 2005. He also founded a non-profit corporation, KTS Management Consultants, Inc., which provided fiscal management and corporate assistance to other non-profit agencies. The corporate headquarters of all of his companies are located in Orlando, with operating locations in Washington, D.C.; Orlando and Pensacola, FL; Kings Bay, Georgia; and Grand Prairie, Texas. TKI has ongoing international projects in Egypt, The Philippines, Republic of Kenya, Democratic Republic of Angola, and Hungary. He has also completed international projects in 30 other countries.

In 1991, Kornegay was one of the founding members of Young Men Emerging, a group of mentors sponsored by Valencia Community College to help minority students bridge the gap between academia and corporate America. In addition, his company, TKI, serves as a mentor to several small businesses including KSB services and Castlewall Construction services by providing financial, management and marketing assistance. March / April 2009

Benjamin Cain

Benjamin T. Cain is the owner/publisher of the Brevard Ebony News, which was founded in 2002. He brings over 22 years of leadership, management and weekly scheduling of staffing and production operations.

Before establishing his own company, Cain was an “exceptional education” teacher in the Brevard County School System. He was responsible for 25 students, which included the safety of the students, creating an orderly environment conducive to learning, and maintaining classroom and behavioral management. He also, worked in the capacity of administrator on a day-today basis, during internship for his master’s degree in education leadership.

Cain worked 12 years for Florida Today/USA Today, which is a Gannet owned daily publication. Managing a staff of over 50 employees, his duties were to manage the Production Department including distribution center, mailroom, pre-press, shipping and receiving, ad layout and camera.

Cain received his bachelor’s degree in industrial educational teacher in 1984 from Florida A & M University, and a master’s in education leadership in 2001 from Nova Southeast, Davie, Florida.

Steve January Currie

Presently, Steve “January” Currie is the operation director for WOKB Radio, Orlando. His community involvements, however, are many, and highlights his leadership ability. He is president of All-N-One Media, a Christian advertising agency, president of the Gospel Orlando Inc, a Christian website, chairman of the Steve January Foundation Inc Board of Directors, chairman of Orange County PTA Dads Involvement Committee, member of Valencia Community College Black Advisory Board, co-chairman for the West Oaks Elementary School SAC Committee. He formerly hosted the “Joy in the Morning Radio Program” on WOKB AM 1600 for 14 years. His involvement with other community projects goes on and on. Steve graduated from Edgewater High School in the class of 1977, after which he continued his education at Santa Rosa Jr. College, Santa Rosa, California. In 1981, he enrolled in the San Francisco College of Mortuary Science.

Steve is the son of Steve Currie, Jr. (deceased) and Classie L. Currie. He is married to Shannon Currie. The couple has four children: Anyea, Kamym, Tyson and Taryn Nicole. He has one grandson, Eugene Cole.

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Kimberly Kassis

Kimberly Kassis is president and founder of Black Media Works, Inc. operating three radio stations, which serve 150 miles of the Florida East Coast and central Louisiana.

Today, Black Media Works operates radio stations WJFP in Fort Pierce with translator stations in West Palm Beach, Gifford/Vero Beach, Melbourne/Palm Bay and Cocoa. WJCB-FM operates from Clewiston/Belle Glade; KAYT-FM operates from Jena Louisiana. KAYT has seven translators pending approval through the state of Louisiana.

Significantly, Mrs. Kassis stations provide a voice for and from the community. The stations feature an outreach to the African American community to express the problems, needs and interests as well as education and entertainment. Black Media Works radio stations are formatted gospel and urban, rap and hip-hop.

Kimberly is married to Raymond Kassis, a broadcast consultant. They have one daughter, Rayah age seven. Both Kimberly and her husband were recipients of the Southern Konnection Lifetime Achievement Award for broadcasting. Kimberly was recognized as one of the “Outstanding Women of the Year” by the Fort Pierce Chapter of Women in NAACP (WIN). Mrs. Kassis is very active in her community and in her church.

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Roosevelt Wilson

Publishing a high-quality, award-winning newspaper that tackles and highlights local, state and national issues is the thing that makes Roosevelt Wilson the happiest.

Wilson earned his bachelor’s degree from Bethune-Cookman University and his master’s from Florida State University. He also has an honorary Ph.D. fro Florida A & M University (FAMU).

His professional background is rich, having been a sports writer for the Ocala Star Banner, Sports Information Director for Florida A & M University, A high school teacher for eight years, Direct of Athletics at FAMU, director of publications at FAMU and newspaper publisher and editor at Capital Outlook Newspaper.

In the community, he served on the Boys and Girls Club Board, member of the Kiwanis Club, member of Big Brothers and Big Sisters of Tallahassee, NAACP life member and Inter-racial Council Moderator. FREE!! The National Center for Health Marketing's Global Health Odyssey Museum is pleased to offer the 2009 CDC Disease Detective Camp (DDC). DDC is an academic day camp for students who will be high school juniors and seniors during the 20092010 school year.Campers will take on the roles of disease detectives and learn how CDC safeguards the nation's health. The camp will be offered twice from June 22-26 and July 13-17. For more info and to apply to go WWW.cdc.gov/gcc/exhibit/camp.htm. Deadline is April 20.

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James Evans

Former NFL running back, James Evans, is the author of his own motto, “The greatest essential in life is service, so keep serving others.” And that is exactly what he is doing since ending his football career with the Kansas City Chief and the Tampa Bay Buccaneers. Evans in the organizer of several projects including... • Senior Partner of Eagle Quest Consultant Group Inc., a motivational, consultant, youth development company • Creator of the three-day Youth Conference that is held annually in Tampa called the “Skills of Hope Youth Leadership Conference”, which teaches leadership through education. The conference also includes a formal Self-Esteem Banquet where youth showcase their strengths and talents • Creator of the Harvest of Hope Awards Banquet, a black tie gala that honors “UNSUNG HEROES” in the Tampa Bay area. • Originator and Coordinator of the 21st Century Community Learning Center’s 2001 Educational Olympics which included 19 schools representing 19 different countries • Youth Workshop Facilitator for the 2002 National Organization of Black Law Enforcement Executives’ 26th Annual Training Conference and Exhibition • Workshop Facilitator on single parenting in the Black Family: Restructuring the Village” Most significantly, Evans is the founder and executive director of Tampa Bay Academy of Hope, Inc., a non-profit entity that provides a comprehensive program whereby youth may successfully transition from a life of hopelessness, poverty, and dependence to one of leadership, prosperity and independence. Born in Thomaston, Alabama, the 17th of 21 children of which 12 are alive today. In 1988, Evans married former Gail Elizabeth Branch of Monroe, Louisiana. Today they are the proud parents of Triniti Alexandria Bernice Evans and Destini Evans born May 1, 2002 and 2003, respectively after 14 years of marriage without children. March / April 2009

Andrew D. Gillum

Andrew D. Gillum is City Commissioner / Mayor Pro-Tempore of Tallahassee, the eighth largest city in Florida. As such, creates, debate and pass policy for the Greater Tallahassee area. He directs future city infrastructure, economic, and growth projects, leads the development of community initiative including Landlord Tenant, Mediation Program, the Code Enforcement Amnest Program, Pike-Pedestrian funding, Good Neighbor Energy Assistance Program, Digital Harmony Initiative, Affordable House issues and the creation of the Silver Lake Neighborhood Park. He is chairman of the Long Range Target Issue Committee and of the Blueprint 2000 Intergovernmental Agency. He is the founder and national director of Young Elected Officials Network, Washington, DC and Tallahassee. Commissioner Gillum is a mission oriented leader with a proven track record of success in a highly competitive environment. and is especially talented in reengineering and repositioning organizations to maximize team energy and re-imagine possibilities. Among Gillum’s select honors and awards are Center for Policy Alternatives, National Emerging Leader, Washington, DC (Dec. 2001) – JET Magazine, Feature Story, New York (Nov.2002) – EBONY Magazine, Nation's Top 30 Leaders under 30, New York (Feb. 2004) – Tallahassee Community College, Black History Month Calendar Honoree, Tallahassee (Feb. 2004) – NAACP 2004 Freedom Fund – George W. Conoly Community Service Award (Oct. 2004) – IMPACT Emerging Leader of the Year, Washington, DC (Sept. 2007) – Color Lines Magazine Feature, National (Dec. 2008) – Featured as one of “Top Ten to Watch” in Country by Crisis Magazine, National (Dec. 2008). March / April 2009

Vera McIntyre, Ph.D.

Dr. Vera McIntrye is a graduate of Florida State University (FSU) where she received her bachelor and master’s degrees. Upon completing her tenure at FSU, she entered the Theological Seminary of Jacksonville.

Dr. McIntyre’s employment history includes the Gadsden County School System, Bureau of Statistics Research and Planning, Florida Parole and Probation Commission, and the Department of Labor and Employment Securities.

The collection of 78 awards that Dr. McIntrye has received, speaks volumes about her work in the community. However, she believes that her most significant contribution to the community is her work as Founder/President Emeritus of United Families of America, Inc (UFA). The mission of UFA is to foster an American society that supports diversity, family stability, selfsufficiency and cultural cohesiveness.

In addition, Dr. McIntyre has conducted many motivational seminars and conferences on human resource development, career development, management and family empowerment. She hosts a radio/television talk show: “Straight Talk with Vera McIntyre.” This is a family based show reflecting spiritual values. It focuses on individuals overcoming life difficulties. As co-founder of the Straight Talk Empowering gathering, we provide a forum for women to deal with many life issues. This gathering empowers women in all walks of life. We also convene an annual Straight Talk Women Conference.

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Rev. Matthew Payne

Rev. Matthew Payne, II earned his Bachelor of Theology degree from Mobile College, Mobile, Alabama and a master’s degree in family counseling from Luther Rice Seminary in Jacksonville.

Currently, Rev Payne is senior pastor of Mt. Zion Baptist Church in Pensacola, FL after having served 12 years as pastor of Beulah First Baptist Church in Fort Walton Beach, FL

Rev. Payne is the owner of Payne’s Home Repair and Drywall in Pensacola and often offers his service by helping senior citizens with small repairs on their homes.

Pastor Payne has served on committees such as the City of Pensacola Weed & Seed, Committee to Elect the Present Chief of Police and the Belmount & DeVilliers Revitalization Committee. Currently, he is a member of the Progressive District Association, Drug Task Force to reclaim Pensacola neighborhoods from drug dealers, First West Florida District Association, General Baptist Convention of Florida, the National Baptist Convention, USA, the America’s Association of Christian Counseling and the Southern Baptist Convention. He is former dean, Christian Education and teacher Congress of Christian Education.

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EDUCATION

Pearl Smith, Esq.

Attorney Pearl Smith, the first Black attorney to establish an office in Brevard County, received her bachelor’s degree from Howard University and her Juris Doctorate from Seton Hall University School of Law. She is a member of the Florida Bar as well as the New Jersey Bar. In addition to her private law practice, Attorney Smith has further benefited the community by formerly serving as the Cocoa Public Defender, Child Support Enforcement Attorney, General Master of Support Court Lecturer at BCC WENDI program and as Legal Aid volunteer. She is past president of Brevard County Legal Aid, and the Central Florida Legal Services. She is a past member of the Ethics Committee of the 18th Judicial Circuit, past mentor at Rockledge High School and past president of Brevard County Minority Business and Professional Network. Attorney Smith has assisted persons in need to receive justice through the legal system by contributing pro bono legal services, participating in seminars for low income and displaced homemakers, defending those who are unable to afford private legal counsel, and enforcing the child support laws of Florida so that our children will have the support of both parents. She speaks to the public regarding laws that impact lives, she has promoted legislation that will assist the unrepresented and needy through her sorority’s programs such as Delta Days at the Capitol and by serving as a legal rights attorney at election sites. As a result of her services, Attorney Smith has received numerous awards. She is the founder and first president of the Brevard County Minority Business and Professional Network, Inc which was organized to help educate and inform young minority business owners and to help them avoid many of the pitfalls that plague small businesses. 14 Onyx Magazine

Betty S. Burney

Betty Seabrook Burney has a bachelor’s degree from the University of Miami and her MAPA in public administration and urban planning from Northern Illinois University. She has been a member of the Duval County School Board since 2004 having run unopposed for two terms. She provides consultant services for board presidents in urban school districts and for the Tyler Texas School District. Reaching further into the community, executive director of the Project Reach Foundation, Inc.; author of “If These Chains Could Talk”; Owner and Director of Kidsville Learning Center, Inc.; Planning and Human Resource Executive (Florida National Banks of Florida , Mazda Motors of America, Inc. and Jacksonville Planning Department) Burney believes that her most significant contribution to the community is the use her position as an elected official to be an “effective voice for students, parents and educators in order for all students to receive their fundamental right of achieving a high quality public education and thus allowing students to be competitive in this global and technological economy.” My most significant contribution to the State of Florida and to urban schools throughout America – Using the book, “If These Chains Could Talk” as a motivational tool to keep help young people make choices that would keep the out of the criminal justice system. As Executive Director of Project Reach: Designed several innovative programs that assisted students and parents in 33 academically challenged schools. Matched 33 schools with faithbased and business tutors/mentors/motivational speakers. Held monthly parent empowerment conferences; designed an outreach program that ‘took school officials and community leaders’into the community to meet parents and provide information.

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Beecher Whisenant

For 61 years, Ms. Beecher Whisenant has given most of her time and talents to countless students in the Space Coast area.

After having received a bachelor’s degree from Talladega College in Talladega, AL and a master’s in political science from Atlanta University, Mrs. Beecher Whisenant began her career in 1947 when she went to Smith Brown High School as a 10th – 12th grade social studies instructor, basketball coach physical education instructor, baton twirling coach, drill team coach and student government sponsor.

The many years that followed attest to her abounding love for her profession, which led her to Hampton Junior College, Ocala, FL; Carver Junior College, Cocoa; Monroe High School where she taught American history and physical education from 1963-1964. In 1964-68 she became a guidance counselor at Monroe. After leaving Monroe High School, she went to Rockledge High as a guidance counselor and remained until 1994. Upon leaving Rockledge High she went to John F. Kennedy Middle School as a guidance counselor and instructor in special education and social studies where she remains until this day. She is truly a trooper who has given all that she has to the field of education and to the citizens of the community.

Mrs. Whisenant is also active in the community. She has served as chairperson of the Human Relations Committee for the city of Titusville. She is a former member of the Substance Abuse Committee, City of Titusville; former liaison & chairperson of the Youth Human Relations Commission, City of Titusville, and former president of the Democratic Women’s Club of North Brevard. Mrs. Whisenant is also a member of the Saint James AME Church in Titusville. March / April 2009

PERFORMING ARTS

Dr. Bridget B. Williams

Dr. Bridget Williams, principle of Jones High School, Orlando received her bachelors degree in health care administration from Florida A&M Univeersity (FAMU), a masters’s in public administration from FAMU, master’s in school guidance from the University of Central Florida and an Ed.D in educational leadership from Nova Southeastern University, Orlando. While serving as principal of Robinswood Middle School, Dr. Williams was committed to developing a course of action that decreased the achievement gap and increased learning and educational success among its students. In 2005, Robinswood was number five in the district that moved the lowest 25 percent of its reading students and number two in the district for the 2005-2006 school year. As a result, Robinswood became a “Five Star School” which earned a “B” on the 2004-2005 assessment and an “A” on the 2005-2006 assessment.

Bringing that same mindset to Jones High School in 2005, Dr. Williams has been successful in revamping the entire education system of the school by implementing a rigorous academic curriculum that will help the faculty, staff, and students “Pave their way to an ‘A.’” Prior to her tenure, the student body, faced with a variety of different challenges, struggled on a number of fronts. While the obstacles many students struggled to overcome remain, Jones High School has shown significant progress, leading to dramatic increases in their FCAT scores and improvement of morale and personal development among the student body. To mark their accomplishments, Jones High School was recently honored as a semi-finalist for the College Board’s Inspiration High School Award and named to the prestigious Top 1000 schools in the country list for the first time ever by “Newsweek” Magazine. March / April 2009

Maude Storr

Maude Storr has a Bachelor of Arts degree from Tuskegee University, and Master of Arts degree from Northwestern University. She is proud of her service as classroom teacher, curriculum supervisor and special programs administrator for federal and state Compensatory Education for the Broward County School System. She ended her 46year tenure of service in 1992, but not before supervising and/or administered Title I Grants for the school system, serving low achieving students from low-income families. After retirement in 1992, Storr worked with the Friends Group for the neighborhood library to promote and support learning activities for children and to encourage adult participation. She wrote story books about early African-American settlers of Fort Lauderdale and biographies of South Florida residents, Ordinary People Doing Extraordinary Things. The story books have been purchased by the Multicultural Department of the School Board to be used in elementary schools. She also served as co-chair of the community fund raising committee for the new African-American Research Library and Cultural Center (opened in October 2002). This library is the third of its kind in the United States. Storr has received numerous church, civics. social and professional awards including: Broward County Teachers Association Service and Leadership Award. YMCA Distinguished Service Award. First Literacy Day Award presented by the Broward County Reading Council of IRA. Eta Phi Beta Sorority. Educational Service Award. State of Florida Award for Most Effective Language Arts Program. United States Department of Education Award for Most Effective Reading Program, appointed by Congressman Alcee Hastings as a delegate for the 1995 White House Conference onAging.

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Oliver Black

Oliver Black graduated from South Carolina State University in 1994 with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Theatre.

The service that Black has provided in the schools systems has had a significant impact on the students. Having been approached countless times as a result of his presentations lets him know that they remember the message. “I feel I am giving them hope towards their dreams by helping them make positive choices. In my directing and writing, it is always my goal to educate and inform through the arts.” Black said that he wrote the play, The Ties that Bind to educate the African American community about HIV/AIDS. When the show was produced, he was able to partner with the Health Department to hold a question and answer forum and provide anonymously, testing following the show.

Black believes that his most significant contribution to the people of his community is character education and touching lives through the arts. Says he, “I have been blessed with a gift and it is my responsibility to share that gift with others. My way of sharing that gift is through the Arts whether it is with a song, dance, poem or play. All these forms of the arts can heal, educate and stimulate those that it may come in contact with.” Black says that he touches the lives of at least 2000 each year. After the past 14 years, he has impacted tens of thousands of young people.

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LeRoy Darby

Leon Darby received the associate of arts degree from Brevard Community College. Continuing his education, he received a bachelor’s in liberal studies, and a master’s degree in education leadership from the University of Central Florida.

Mr. Darby’s professional development has been extensive to include the Leadership Challenge Program ad Brevard Community College, National Council of Student Development Leadership Program, Leadership Brevard Graduate and Building Excellence Through Supervisory Training.

Mr. Darby’s administrative role at BCC includes… Dean of student Services, Regional Coordinator south Campuses, Academic Dean at Patrick Air Force Base Center, Associate Dean of Student Services, Director of the Learning Lab and Career Center, Coordinator of Minority Recruitment and Retention Programs, which is the College Reach Out Program), adjunct faculty and Student Activities and Student Government Association Advisor/Coordinator. Among Dr. Darby’s professional affiliations are National Council Student Development, Florida Association of Community Colleges, American Association of Community Colleges, and Florida Developmental Education Association

As a result of his volunteerism, he has received the 2008 Florida Association of Community Colleges Student Development Commission Cameron Hall Practitioner Award for highest level of humanitarianism throughout their careers and the Emma Award for best leading actor in a musicalragtime – presented by the Emma Parrish Theater.

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Venus Jones

Venus Jones earned her bachelor’s in business and organizational communications with a minor in voice. Her professional background includes experiences in acting, modeling and as a poet.

Jones' service to the community has been extensive. Her service as a performance poet, actress and workshop instructor has made her a magnet for those who need words that electrify, inform and encourage. She conducts workshops from places as far as the Last Chance Ranch to ACS Bill Duncan. She has traveled to women’s conferences and poetry venues locally and abroad. Her products are centered in empowerment and value love over fear.

Jones says that she wants to help young Black Americans reclaim a new sense of cultural identity with her Kwanzaa book, Poetic Principles. Says Jones, “I want to help oppressed women feel free to speak their minds and hearts with my book She Rose and Venus to Earth, which is a project that I completed that reminds us all to stay connected to Mother Nature. My goal is to become a better artist and to inspire future generations to learn to love research, reading, writing and the Arts.”

Jones considers her most significant contribution to be the donation of her time and my gift of customized poetry to worthy causes. Her work has been donated to existing non-profit organizations during their donation drives from WMNF-88.5 FM, to the Department of Children Services, Studio 620, Community Action Stops Abuse (CASA) to the YWCA. CASA nearly doubled their funding thanks partly to her delivery of a poem entitled, Heavy.

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N.Y. Nathiri

N.Y. Nathiri serves as the executive director of TheAssociation to Preserve the Eatonville Community, Inc. (P.E.C.), a 501 (c) (3) historic preservation organization founded in 1987.The mission of the P.E.C. Organization is to preserve for future generations the heritage that historic Eatonville represents as “the oldest incorporated African American municipality in the United States” and as celebrated by the town's most famous citizen, charismatic twentieth century, writer, anthropologist, and folklorist Zora Neale Hurston (1891 – 1960). In her capacity as executive director, Nathiri is responsible for the day-to-day activities of the organization, whose programs focus on preservation, education, and the cultural arts. During her tenure with P.E.C., the organization has received numerous awards which include: the “Regional Destination Award in the Humanities, 1994 – 1996” from theAtlanta Committee for the Olympic Games, Cultural Olympiad (1995); “One of the 25 Cultural Tourism Success Stories in the United States” from the National Trust for Historic Preservation (2001); and “One of theTop 100 Events in NorthAmerica for 2004” from the American BusAssociation (2004).

Nathiri holds an undergraduate degree in history from Ithaca College (New York) and a master of science degree in library science from Syracuse University. She is the compiler and editor of the award-winning volume, ZORA! Zora Neale Hurston: A Woman and Her Community (Sentinel Communications, 1991). Nathiri is active in the preservation and cultural communities at local, state and national levels. Her most recent awards include: “Hero of Preservation” by the National Trust for Historic Preservation (1996); Honorary doctor of humane letters degree from Rollins College (1998); Women of Distinction Award from Citrus Council of Girl Scouts (1999); Humanitarian of the Year Award (non-profit category) from The National Conference for Community and Justice, NCCJ (2000); and in 2001,the State of Florida's Mary Call Darby CollinsAward which is presented “to a volunteer who has forever changed the course of historic preservation.” March / April 2009

NON COMPETITIVE CATEGORIES HUMANITARIAN Carmen Morris of Miami for the Sanctuary of Moses. ACHIEVEMENT IN SPORTS Nick Anderson CULTURAL DIVERSITY United Space Alliance (Accepting, Marquita Moore)

Marcus Robinson

Say Marcus Robinson, “I have two fulltime careers.” For the past 30 years, he has been employed with the City of Tallahassee; and for over 20 years, he has worked as a dancer, performer, instructor, choreographer and artistic director.

Robinson attended Bethune Cookman College (University), Daytona Beach, FL and Tallahassee Community College. He graduated from Lively Vocational Technical in School (Tallahassee. Robinson founded the African Caribbean Dance Theatre (ACDT) in 1993, because there was very little traditional African dance being taught or performed in the community. For the past 16 years, yearround classes, workshops and performances throughout North Florida and South Georgia have been provided. The launch of the annual Florida African Dance Festival in 1998 has become the only statewide event of its kind, and is rapidly gaining recognition for being one of the best dance conferences in the country.

Says Robinson, “Through our services at countless schools and urban/rural communities, I think we have helped participants gain a greater understanding of African culture, its beauty and richness.” He also add, “I think the most significant contribution that I have made as an artist has been the “face time” and “sweat equity” in communities over the past 20 years. It’s easier to write a check and send to an organization, but when one gets down in the trenches to serve, it speaks volumes. The consistent interaction with youths, adults and their families has been immeasurable. I am also proud that we have been able to support other artists through our efforts.” March / April 2009

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FOR THE FIRST TIME ON STAGE TOGETHER THE PRESIDENTS OF FLORIDA’S HISTORICALLY BLACK COLLEGES (HBCUs) WILL BE HONORED: Dr. James H. Ammons Florida A&M University Tallahassee Dr. Trudie Kibbe Reed Bethune-College Daytona Beach, Florida Dr. Claudette Williams Edward Waters College Jacksonville, Florida

Dr. Karl S. Wright Florida Memorial University Miami, Florida

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One in 150 children is said to have some form of autism/PDD according to the National Institute of Mental Health and the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC.) Autism is described by The Department of Health and Human Services Centers for Disease Control and Prevention as a group of developmental disabilities defined by significant impairments in social interaction and communication with the presence of unusual behaviors and interests. The department further states that Autism occurs in all racial, ethnic, and socioeconomic groups and is four times more likely to occur in boys than girls.

All parents are devastated when they find out that they have an autistic child. Former news reported Jennifer Graham of Orlando, Florida nightmare began when her three year old her son Carlton could no longer utter the words “Mommy” or “Daddy,” and his speech began to slur. Young Carlton also exhibited very bizarre behavior.

His pediatrician examined him but could not find any logical reason for his speech impediment. Jennifer and her family endured man years of torture and pain watching Carlton’s meltdown and impulsive behavior. She tried behavior modification but that did not help. At the age of six she decided to have Carlton tested by a physiologist and found out that he had Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD.) A popular drug given to children with ADHD called Strettera was recom18

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mended for Carlton. Unfortunately Strettera did not help to stop his disruptive and impulsive behavior. Jennifer tried other types of medications but none of them helped her son. She was on an emotional roller coaster ride for seven years taking her son to different doctors trying to find out what was wrong with him.

Finally at the age of ten a doctor diagnosed Carlton with Asperger’s Syndrome, a form of autism.

After receiving the diagnosis Jennifer did some extensive research on different methods of treating autism and decided to try an alternative approach to help heal her son. She found a technique called Binaural Beats that use calm soothing music for relaxation and meditation. The technique allowed Carlton to use a headset and listen to one beat of music in one ear, and then a slightly different beat in the other ear. “Binaural Beats helps the brain to synchronize itself in order to interpret the two different tones of music.” Said Jennifer. She used the Binaural Beats technique with Carlton for one year and saw a remarkable improvement in his behavior. Carlton became very calm and less disruptive. She also changed his diet by cutting out foods with artificial coloring and flavoring, and gave him more fresh fruit and vegetables. Carlton is slowly progressing on a daily basis. No one knows the real cause of autism but there has been public speculation regarding the mercury thimerosal that is

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found in childhood vaccine as a link to autism. However, research conducted over the years did not find any link between thimerosal and autism.

In 2007 actress Holly Robinson-Pete and activist Jenny McCarthy appeared on the Larry King Live show and talked about their experience raising an autistic child. Both women are currently fighting the battle to help raise awareness to the world about autism. Jenny McCarthy wrote a book titled Louder than Words, A Mother’s Journey in Healing Autism, and Holly Robinson-Pete started a foundation called HollyRod4Kids to help raise money for autism research. Singer Toni Braxton also appeared on the Larry King Live show and spoke about her experience raising her autistic son. Toni is a Spokeswoman for the charity Autism Speaks. Their stories brought hope to many families facing this crisis. Jennifer and her family are very optimistic that someday in the near future with research and the proper funding there will be a cure for autism, and more children will have a better chance to live a normal healthy life. Sandi Morais writes the Sistah Health column for Wow magazine. She is the author of Tune-up health and fitness book, Recipe for Life vegetarian cookbook, and co-writer on the musical Sacha on Broadway with Philip Michael Thomas. She is also the creator of the Tune-up total body workout and the Golden Workout. March / April 2009

The Orlando Chapter of The Links Presents “…How Sweet the Sound”

“…How Sweet the Sound” is a cultural project presented by the accomplished, dedicated women of the Orlando Chapter of The Links, Incorporated. The project is a musical and educational performance on the etymology of sacred music - hymns, Hellen Dennis, Pres. anthems and spirituals. Orlando Chapter of The Links, Inc. These genres have significant relevance for they represent songs of peace, meditation and gladness for all. The brilliance of their lyrics and melodies that once graced religious services, community gatherings and special occasions is becoming a lost art. It is also noted that public education institutions are reducing music and art curriculums that serve as a vehicle for sustaining such songs. Additionally, faithbased organizations in African American communities are moving away from singing and performing traditional songs. During the music extravaganza, The Orlando Chapter of The Links, Inc. will feature outstanding talent and present the Links’ Lioness Award to Dr. Rebecca Steele for her legendary work in arts and education. Our objective is to share with the community the influence of this tradition that reflects the humanity and heritage of people of color. What better way to contribute to its preservation than to present an afternoon of song that celebrates sacred music. Proceeds from “…How Sweet the Sound” will support Project Haiti and other local charities benefitting children. The event will be held Sunday, April 26, 2009 Mt. Sinai Seventh-Day Adventist Church Orlando, Florida Adults $20.00 • Students $10.00 AMONG THE TALENT ARE THE FOLLOWING:

Born and raised in Miami, Florida, Oni Bryant has been studying and performing music with unstoppable passion. Her style is not limited to just the classical genre, she sings Gospel, R&B, Jazz, Hip-Hop and Broadway tunes. She is presently studying music education at Florida A&M University, while working on two solo albums. Among her musical influences are include Denise Graves, Jessye Norman, Audra McDonald, Ella Fitzgerald, Billy Holiday, Aretha Franklin, Kim Burrell, Melani Daniels, Donny Hathaway,

Stevie Wonder and Lauren Hill. Her endless devotion to music, combined with her radiating spirit and soul powered vocals, makeOni a truly unique voice in American music.

Noirée Patrice, Pascha and Brittany Weaver are the proud daughters of Drew and Lerita Weaver. The Orlando born residents grew up in a talented and spiritual family. Their passion to perform and create music was cultivated in school and in church as well as in private piano and voice lessons. Their musical experiences include teaching private voice and piano lessons, accompanying worship services, conducting church choirs, and as performing artists. The Weavers have performed with gospel artists Bobbie Jones, Hezekiah Walker, and Dottie Peoples.

Jon Territo has been working with instrumental music and worship at the First Baptist Church of Orlando since 1997, where he currently leads the Celebration orchestra, and serves as the Associate Pastor of Instrumental Ministries. Originally from the Detroit area, Jon received a bachelor’s degree from the University of Michigan and a master’s degree from Rollins College, both in music. Employment in entertainment at Walt Disney World brought both he and his wife Michelle to Central Florida in 1989. They both stay active at the in music at the parks. In Central Florida, Jon works as a performer, educator, clinician, and conductor with instrumental and choral ensembles of all ages.

Terrance Lane, director of music for “How Sweet the Sound,” is the minister of music at Macednia Mission Church in Eatonville, Florida. He also conducts Lane and Company, which is a Sacred Music and Negro Spiritual Ensemble.

At the great Bethune-Cookman University (B-CU), one professor stands out as an institution unto herself -Dr. Rebecca Steele. She began her B-CU career 31 years ago. Her titles alone seem a bit overwhelming -- Coordinator of Cultural Affairs for the School of Arts and Humanities, conductor of the BCU Concert Chorale and a professor of music.

The Links, Incorporated founded in 1946, is one of the oldest and largest volunteer service organizations of women. We are committed to enriching, sustaining and ensuring the culture and economic survival of African Americans and other persons of African ancestry. The Orlando Chapter has served this local community for nearly 57 years.

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Return of the Dragon”. He even admitted listening to Richard Pryor, when he mother was not at home.

Reginald is a big fan of black exploitation films. “I think I have seen every black film ever made.” He adds that his den looks like a movie theater from the ‘70s. All of his friends know who to call when trying to recall the name of a ‘70’s movie. What should one expect from a person who, as a youngster, enjoyed spending his Saturdays and Sundays in the movie from 12 noon until 10 at night.

Jackie Gleason was another idol of Reginald’s. It was their style of comedy that caught his attention. Says he, “It was crazy and over the top, but believable.” Like the Bro-man character, it’s stupid coming into someone’s apartment through the window and then going into their refrigerator, but the character really believed that it was okay, and that’s what made it funny.

Reginald Ballard, actor and comedian from Galveston, Texas, is probably best known as "Bro-man from the fifth flo'" in the sitcom, Martin. He has appeared in many different television shows, such as Veronica Mars, The Bernie Mac Show, The Parkers, Sister, Sister, Crumbs, Caroline in the City, Built to Last, True Colors, Dancing in September, Menace to Society, I Love You to Death, and several others. Currently, Ballard is performing stand up comedy and will serve as master of ceremony at the seventh annual Onyx Awards held in Orlando, March 14, 2009. Reginald studied theater at Southern Methodist University in Dallas Texas and the University of Missouri.

Citing Bruce Lee as his greatest inspiration, Reginald said, “Ever since I was in the fourth grade, I knew I wanted to be an actor.” Especially after watching Bruce Lee in The

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“I liked working with Martin and with the Bernie Mack Show. To me, it was like comedy college. I got a chance to work with two of the best in the game. Reginald says that he had more fun on the Bernie Mac show because they could improvise and it really didn’t seem like work. “We had a script, but at times, we could deviate.” Martin was a perfectionist. “He wanted everything to be just right. I really can’t blame for that, because his show was a huge success,” Reginald said. Although Reginald was best known as Bro-man from the fifth floor, he was not on the show as much; however, he worked with Bernie Mac for four seasons. “I was right there out of the gate in the first episode,” he said. Reginald, in his comedic voice said, “I’ll tell you what show had the most food––The Parkers with Monique.” They had smothered chicken, collard greens, beans, rice, and that was just snack. When they left to go out to Roscoe’s they asked, ‘What do you want for lunch?’ I said LUNCH? Yes, we ate very well on The Parkers.”

Bernie Mac’s passing was hard for Reginald to believe. His sister had just died in ‘07 from a rare form of cancer. So the memories of her ordeal came rushing back to back to him. But as far as Bernie is conMarch / April 2009

“I liked working with Martin and with the Bernie Mac Show. to me, it was like comedy college.” cerned, he can’t help but imagine walking on the set, and seeing Bernie Mac there.

Reginald and his wife, Edith, have two children: a son, Ahmad age 17 and a daughter, Mahlia, age 13. His son is a jazz pianist, and loves all of the old jazz musicians such as Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Thelonious Monk. He wears brims, long sleeve shirts and pants, “He thinks he’s straight out of the 40s,” Reginald said laughingly.

Sam Ballard and Joyce Harris, Reginald’s parents, separated when he was six years old. His mother remarried and he did not see his father again until he moved to California at the age of 23.

Says Reg, “My mother is the best woman in the world behind my wife.” One of five children, she is the only one of her brothers and sisters who did not finish h i g h s c h o o l . “But,” says Reg, “she owns three houses, a car and has a bank account––all of that with a limited education.”

Reginald could not think of ending the interview without the mention of his grandmother, Mary V. Curry. He said, “My mother, my uncles, my aunts, all the kid and I lived with her in this one house. But not a day went by when she did not have a hot meal waiting for us when we came from school. I still don’t know how all of us lived in that house.” My grand mother always told me that the key of life is to have confidence in yourself. That carried me a long way. I was a blue chip athlete in high school, went to college, played football and majored in theater.” March / April 2009

Jokingly, Reginald said, “My wife’s 86 year old father lives with us. That means that when we argue, we have to do it quitely. I think that’s what made our relationship stronger. “My wife has old genes” her father’s sister is 94, and his uncle died at 104. That means she’s going to go on and on and on.” Edith is currently working on a master’s degree in social work. Reginald says he looks forward to hosting the 2009 Onyx Awards. See you on the red carpet, Reg.

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JoJo Dancer studied Radio/Television Broadcasting at the University of Central Florida. She’s been a radio personality for 25 years. She’s hosted radio programs via satellite, in several states around the country including Alaska. JoJo also spent several years as a Television Production Assistant at ABC affiliate, WFTV Channel 9, Orlando. She does TV and Radio voiceovers nationwide. JoJo is also a dancer. She recently coordinated a Praise Dance Ministry at her church. She enjoys helping people in her community, and is the Midday Personality on a very community oriented radio station….Orlando’s Number 1 for Today’s R&B and Classic Soul, Star 94.5.

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From playing at local clubs and hotspots in his native Tampa to wowing the crowds at the JazzTrax Catalina Island Jazz Festival, life for this 23year college student has changed dramatically in just a few years. Yet, Darius' approach to his music remains as sincere as the day he first discovered jazz as a child. "I'd been playing the saxophone for about one year, before I joined America's Youngest Jazz Band, which was led by renown trumpeter, Sonny LaRosa.

In 2001, Darius released CRUISIN' independently at the age of 17. "I started writing music for this CD since I was 13. One of the major things that inspired me to make this album was the thought of “cruisin” in my own car!" Darius goes on to mention that, since then, composing is his most personal expression. "I love to write my own music because that is something that comes from deeply within, and I want my listeners to really be able to feel what I felt when I wrote it. I love playing my instrument because it allows me to communicate with others on a personal level, and I intend on doing this for the rest of my life."

“The thing that excites me the most about my music and my career is that I am just getting started. I am very anxious to see where my music takes me throughout the next several years. I think that this CD is the beginning of omething great!”

From touring the country, to being named the Smooth Jazz Debut Artist of the Year, to making a global impact, hold on to your seats ladies and gentlemen because Eric Darius is JUST GETTING STARTED!!! Darius took the contemporary jazz world by storm with his 2004 Narada Jazz debut, NIGHT ON THE TOWN.

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The critics raved! Fans clamored! Darius' awesome talent and unjaded enthusiasm for his music and where it was taking him made him an instant favorite everywhere he weJUST GETTING STARTED pairs Darius with one of his long-time musical inspirations, Brian Culbertson, with the composer/arranger/keyboardist/trombonist taking the producing reins as well as guest performing on several tracks. Narada Jazz labelmate, Euge Groove, lends his talents on his own composition, “Back At Cha”. Paul Brown, one of the most sought after producers in smooth jazz, adds his producing and guitar skills to tracks like “Right Here, Right Now” and Alicia Keys’ “If I Aint’ Got You”. The stylish Fender Rhodes on ”Steppin' Up” and “Groove On” comes courtesy of the Grammy(s)-nominated multi-instrumentalist, Jeff Lorber. Adding the talents of multi-intrumentalist and producer Darren Rahn, JUST GETTING STARTED is a bold statement by a jazz star well on his way to the top. “I have to admit, but this was by far the most incredible recording experience I’ve ever had. Working with Brian Culbertson, Paul Brown, Euge Groove, and Darren Rahn, was a dream come true for me. Each producer brought his own unique flavor to my music and the music we created speaks for itself.” “Speaking of the new CD, I feel that this new CD is definitely a notch above my last album in many aspects. Throughout the past year, I have progressed as a songwriter and a player, and in my opinion, this project clearly reflects that.

In addition to this, I was able to bring that same level of energy and intensity that I play with on stage in the studio. This CD was very fun and exciting to make. Before I even started recording, my goal was to try to do something a little different this time around. In my opinion, the beauty of this CD is that every song has a different feel and evokes a different mood.

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Marilyn McCoo and Billy Davis Jr. Celebrate Forty Years of Marriage

Wow! It was such an honor to interview Marilyn McCoo and Billy Davis Jr. lead singers of the legendary group the 5th Dimension. This iconic group of the late 60’s and 70’s sang some of the most beautiful and memorable music. Their hits continue to live on in the hearts of people all over the world. Songs such as; “Aquarius/Let The Sunshine In,” “Up, Up and Away,” “Wedding Bells Blues,” “Stone Soul Picnic,” “ Never My Love,” “Last Night I Didn’t Get To Sleep At All,” and “One Less Bell To Answer,” has left an indelible mark in the history of music as some of the greatest songs that came out of that era.

Marilyn and Billy spent an entire decade with the 5th Dimension enjoying tremendous success singing to sold-out concerts all over the world. They have received seven Grammy Awards and earned fifteen gold and three platinum records. After they left the 5th Dimension they went on to establish a successful career as a duo. They released their first single “You Don’t Have To Be A Star (To Be In My Show).” The song immediately went to number one on the charts and won them a Grammy Award for Best R&B Vocal Performance by a Duo or Group. In addition to their success as a duo they also had solo careers. Marilyn cohosted the 1980’s television music series “Solid Gold” for five years, and Billy fulfilled his lifelong dream and recorded a religious album with Rev. James Cleveland. Billy also starred in the regional production of Dreamgirls as James “Thunder” Early, and Marilyn had her chance to star in the 90’s Broadway revival of the musical Show Boat as Julie. Even though the famous couple had a success career in the entertainment indus24

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try, their road to success was not easy. They faced turbulent times during their marriage. Sometimes the challenges were so overwhelming that they often thought about calling it quits. In 2004 they wrote a book titled Up, Up And Away how we Found Love, Faith and Lasting Marriage in the Entertainment World, a story about their love, tragedy, triumphs and spiritual journey. In the book Billy stated. “We went into this marriage like everyone else – we loved each other, we were friends, we fought, and we had emotional problems. But our commitment to each other was so strong that we just didn’t want to do it without each other. Plus we have the Lord in our lives, and that’s an important part of our relationship.” I read Up, Up And Away how we Found Love, Faith and Lasting Marriage in the Entertainment World and went on the emotional journey with Marilyn and Billy. They wrote so honestly about their challenges and their success. The book speaks to the heart by showing the true meaning of love. The two elements that created alchemy in Marilyn and Billy’s marriage are their everlasting friendship and fact that they made Jesus Christ the real Super Star in their lives.

Despite the many storms that Marilyn and Billy encountered in their marriage, they were able to navigate their way through them because of their love for each other. Today the dynamic couple celebrates forty years of marriage, which is quite an incredible achievement for a high profile successful Hollywood couple. Often we get bombarded from the media with the latest Hollywood divorces but we never hear about the successful marriages that stand the test of time like Marilyn and Billy. Forty years of marriage is truly a milestone and deserves to be celebrated. Marilyn and

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Billy’s love story would make a wonderful motion picture, television sitcom, or a made for television movie of the week. On November 4th, 2008 Americans voted for the first African American President Barack Obama. History was made in America. President Obama and the First Lady Michelle Obama’s loving relationship became a role model for many Americans. The world needs more examples of positive relationships to inspire this generation and the generation yet unborn. Dionne Warwick once sang. “What the world needs now is love, sweet love. It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of.”

Marilyn and Billy are still using their God given talent to make beautiful music. Together they perform a touring show that they created titled It Takes Two featuring many of their love songs. In April 2008 they released a music CD titled The Faces of Love. The CD features songs to help encourage people not to give up when things are difficult, but to try and work things out together as a team. In closing my interview, I asked Marilyn and Billy what was their prayer for the world, and they said. “For peace and understanding, and that the world will become more spiritual.” For more information on Marilyn and Billy visit: www.mccoodavis.com

Sandi Morais writes the Sistah Health column for Wow magazine. She is the author of Tune-up. Recipe for Life and co-writer on the musical Sacha on Broadway with Philip Michael Thomas. She is also the creator of the Tune-up 30 minute total body workout and the Golden Workout. www.sandimorais.net www.myspace.com/celebratelifewithsandi

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Tall, dark and handsome…

Yes, this sounds a lot like Denzel. However, this famous Academy Award winner has some serious competition with the subject of this month’s feature story. Ladies and gentlemen, sit back, relax and allow me to introduce you to Central Florida’s best-kept secret. Thursday, February 19, 2009 was another beautiful day in the sunshine state. I grabbed my laptop, jumped in my car and headed out on my assignment from my publisher, Lillian Brown Seays. I was going to interview this young African American attorney who had just made partner with the law firm of Lowndes, Drosdick, Doster, Kantor & Reed, P.A. I knew then that I was in for a special time.

Jameil C. McWhorter is a force to be reckoned with. His rather large 6’2 frame is at first intimidating, but don’t let that scare you. He is really a gentle giant.

I arrived promptly at 10:00 a.m. at the law firm’s Lake Eola location. The receptionist buzzed his office and soon Attorney McWhorter was there. I followed him to the fourth floor and after a few pleasantries, I got out my notebook to begin. He offered me some juice while he had a CocaCola Zero soda. I soon realized that he was not the ‘typical’ attorney. Our interview went a little something like this…

Dr. Mose: Of all the career choices that you could have chosen, you became an attorney. You have a very interesting story as to how you matriculated here so fast. Tell me why.

Attorney McWhorter: I have always had an appreciation and passion for the law. As a youngster, my grandmother and I always enjoyed watching the television series Matlock. That guy never lost a case! I wanted to be just like him!

In college, I envisioned becoming an attorney after working for a few years after college. As it turned out, a female friend of mine during graduate school at U.C.F. was nervous about taking the Law School Aptitude Test (“LSAT”), so I decided to take it with her for moral support. At the time, I never intended to actually utilize this score for law school admission. However, when I got my LSAT scores back, I scored well so I decided to submit a few applications to various law schools in Florida. A few months later, I received a phone call from the University of Florida Levin College of Law and the person on the phone suggested that I apply for a scholarship named the Minority Participation in Legal Education Scholarship (“MPLE”) which was intended to assist minority law students with law school to increase minority representation amongst lawyers in Florida. I applied for and was awarded the MPLE. The MPLE was a huge help as it covered my law school tuition, books, several bar review courses and it also provided me with a monthly living stipend of $1,000 for two and a half years, as I graduated law school a semester early. So, here I am thirtythree (33) years old and a partner at this wonderful law firm. God is good! Dr. Mose: What is the hardest part about your job?

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Attorney McWhorter: The hardest part of being an attorney is not becoming emotionally involved with a case or taking unkind gestures from opposing counsel personally. We meet the clients and you really want to help them as best as you can. I counsel them on every opportunity to make their situation better and sometimes it doesn’t work in their favor as much as they would like. I see this mostly in family law cases. It can be hard; I take that home with me sometimes. Dr. Mose: How do you relax?

Attorney McWhorter: I work out at the Lake Nona YMCA. I run and do a lot of cardio to release some stress and tension. Also, I enjoy going over to my mom’s house to be around family. Family is a very calming influence for me.

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Dr. Mose: Attorneys get stressed out? I never knew that!

Attorney McWhorter: Very funny. You know, being an attorney is an amazing career. I really enjoy what I do. But yes, like every job, it can be stressful at times.

Dr. Mose: Who were some early influences in your life?

Attorney McWhorter: My mother and my family have always been there for me. My maternal grandfather taught me how to work hard. He wanted everyone around him to have a skill and be able to do it well. My mom’s brothers Artis, Anthony, Alvin, Rodney, Jessie and Jeff were great guys who stayed in my life and helped me to become a man. In fact, my Uncle Alvin McWhorter, a minister, was the first person on my maternal side of the family to go to college and graduate. That was huge for our family. I thought, since he did it, I could do it, too.

Non-family influences have been the people who really got me interested and involved in sports. Coach Arthur Jackson, who coached me in little league football and basketball, was a big influence on my life. Coach Jackson was someone that told me, “Don’t let society tell you who you are or what you cannot achieve in life.” Those words meant a lot to me. Coach Herb Washington, one of the assistant coaches for Coach Jackson was also very positive and a great role model.

From the legal world, Judge Theotis Bronson (also an assistant coach for Coach Jackson) was and still is a great mentor to me. All of these people had a passion for inner city children and/or were from similar neighborhoods like mine. So, even though it was hard at times, it was great to see and be associated with African American men who made it and who were very successful. This showed me that if you work hard and keep God first, you can do anything.

Dr. Mose: How do you handle obstacles with clients being an attorney?

Attorney McWhorter: I pray everyday. I have to; it keeps me centered. The good thing is that I can be very persuasive. Charisma has always worked for me, so I exercise that with my clients and opposing counsel. Being well-rounded doesn’t hurt either. Through sports and at UCF, I had the opportunity to work with individuals from various backgrounds and ethnicities, so I appreciate people’s individual talents and diversity. I often look to Greg McNeill, my legal Team Captain for advice. He has shown me “the ropes” since I joined the firm seven (7) years ago. Other people who have truly helped me are Michael Elsberry, March / April 2009

Terry Young and all the partners on my team and throughout the law firm. In addition, my friends and colleagues offer incredible support to me as well. I don’t know everything. So, it’s important that I can go to people who can offer sound guidance and advice or lend a helping hand.

Dr. Mose: You mentioned that your mother is your “She-Ro.” Explain that to me. Attorney McWhorter: Phyllis McWhorter is the best! She always put my sister and me first. Growing up, she would constantly challenge me by saying “You are someone and you will not be a sorry man.” I never forgot that. I also had strong maternal grandparents. We all went to church every Sunday and spent tons of time together. This is why I love going home to see my family. If I could describe her in one word, it would be “awesome!” She never ceases to amaze me. We are very close and I love her dearly. There is nothing that I wouldn’t do for her.

Dr. Mose: You grew up in Orange Center, which tends to be a rather rough neighborhood. Despite that, here you are a partner in your law firm! Yet, you still go back to your old “stomping grounds” to see family and friends. Why?

Attorney McWhorter: Because I think giving back and helping others are very important. Also, who I am hasn’t changed. I’m still Jameil. I still take out the trash when I go to my mom’s house! My family doesn’t treat me any differently just because I’m an attorney. Yes, I have gone to college, played football, and done well for myself, but that doesn’t change who I am as a person. I am grateful for the people who helped to raise me, but at the end of the day, I’m still ”Jameil from Orange Center” as my eight (8) year old niece Breezae loves to say.

Dr. Mose: Describe yourself in three words.

Attorney McWhorter: Humble, driven and grateful. Dr. Mose: You were very involved with the community in various programs as a child. Do you volunteer with any local organizations?

Attorney McWhorter: Yes, I do. I work with quite a few students at the Florida Agricultural and Mechanical University (“FAMU”) Law School. The students have the opportunity to interact with someone with the same ethnicity, who went to law school, studied hard for the Florida Bar, passed the Florida Bar on the first attempt and now is a partner at one of the largest and

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most prestigious law firms in the Central Florida area. Also, I volunteer with Florida Citrus Sports, Howard Middle School, Junior Achievement, Lake Nona YMCA (Board of Directors), UCF Alumni Association, University of Central Florida Lettermen’s Club and the United Negro College Fund (Orlando Advisory Board). No matter where I am, I want to serve as a positive role model and inspiration to others. Dr. Mose: What’s in your IPOD right now?

Attorney McWhorter: Oh wow! Quite a bit of everything. I love gospel music. When I work out I listen to Kirk Franklin. Let’s see, Mary Mary! Of course, Mr. “Never Would Have Made It”, Marvin Sapp. But, I can also appreciate gospel classics like the Jackson Southerners and Mighty Clouds of Joy. As for as non-gospel music, Plies, Anthony Hamilton, Babyface, Keith Sweat, Gerald Levert and others.

Dr. Mose: What are some of your long-term goals?

Attorney McWhorter: Long term? Let’s start with the professional side. I want to always be known as a well-respected attorney who does a great job for my clients. It is important to have a good name and I want mine to be associated with high standards and morals. My mother told me that a good name would get you in many doors. Personally, I want to become a better Christian by getting closer to God and I would also love to have a family one day. Dr. Mose: What is your advice to young attorneys?

Attorney McWhorter: Hang in there! I know what they are going through. Trust me! It can be hard, but the rewards are worth it. My advice is to really read the material, stay focused on doing well on the tests in law school and associate yourself with a partner and/or a older lawyer for guidance and support once you commence the practice of law. You may not see the light at the end of the tunnel while you are in law school, but the personal satisfaction makes all the difference. Prayer is always a good way to find clarity when you are unsure. God will never lead you wrong! There you have it! Attorney Jameil C. McWhorter. Not bad for a guy who use to be a young barber cutting hair on his back porch in Orange Center.

And to think, he’s just getting started! Attorney McWhorter, we can’t wait to see what you do next. Onyx Magazine

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THE GRAMMYS Pass Port? Check. Trail Mix? Check. Business Cards? Check. Danielle’s DVD’s? Check. Laptop? Check. Lip Gloss? Check.

Ticket to the 51st Annual Grammy Awards in Los Angeles, California? Most definitely checked!

Ladies and gentlemen, February 8, 2009 was a night that I will NEVER forget. Hip & Happening, my Talk Show was invited to travel to Los Angeles, California to serve as a host on the coveted Red Carpet and interview celebrities as they arrived for the biggest night in music! But, that ain’t all folks…I got a ticket to the best concert of the year, too!

I arrived in L.A. on Friday and decided to the get the basics out of the way. I booked some of the tours so that I could enjoy the city. After exploring the Hollywood Walk of Fame, walking through Beverly Hills, taking pictures by the celebrated Rodeo Drive sign, I headed back to my hotel. After my day of fun, I mentally prepared for the Grammy’s. After all, I was here to work.

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Those were the best words I had ever heard! After starring at my press pass, I went back to my hotel.

Sunday! After a big breakfast and a quick shopping excursion, I put on my outfit accented with my emerald jacket so I could stand out. To compliment my look, I christened my newest pair of 4 _ Stilleto black heels. Before I grabbed my room keys, I called my Identical Twin Danielle to calm me down. She does this with no effort. Calling her always makes my events go that much better. Once the bus arrived and took us to the Grammy’s, all of the press/media were ushered into one of several white tents. What happened next, caught me off guard. We had to sign several confidentiality agreements, take a picture I.D., get our thumbprint, and turn in our phones and cameras. Luckily, after the red carpet, we got those things back. Whew!

n’t there to stalk Ne-Yo.

The Staples Center in Los Angeles served as the Host for the Grammy Awards. It was huge and filled with every AList celebrity in Hollywood. After interviewing the likes of Lil Wayne, T.I, and Jay-Z, my head was spinning. I realized that I was there for a job; I was-

On Saturday, I picked up my Press Pass from the Wilshire Sir Paul McCartney, Icon Smokey Robinson, Legends U2, AcGrand Hotel. Grand is not the word! I waited in the long line of tress Miley Cyrus, Academy Award Winner Jamie Foxx, Music other Press people. Each one walked away with the precious pass group Coldplay, Singer Justin Timberlake, The Jonas Brothers (very that would read: Red Carpet! Soon it became my turn. As I apcute), Ne-Yo (who’s very nice by the way), Singers Boyz II Men, proached the desk, my hands were getting sweaty, my knees were The Blind Boys of Alabama, Carrie Underwood and Producer Kanye shaking and my feet went completely numb. She went through West were just a few of the celebrities that I was humbled to meet on each stack of papers (which heightened by anxiety) and produced the Red Carpet. a small envelope. She smiled and said, “Enjoy the Grammy’s.” 28 Onyx Magazine March / April 2009 www.onyxmagazine.com

After the pre-party, they released us to enjoy the show! I was seated in Section 310, Row 7, Seat 7! This was the press/media section. Rock legends U2 opened the show and the rest is history!

To pinch myself I had to call my best friends (Ron, Monique, Marvia, LaWanda, Sandra, Angela, and John) just to make sure I wasn’t dreaming. I don’t think they appreciated me calling them at 5:00 a.m. (West Coast Time) in the morning, though. But hey, it was the Grammy Awards! Don’t kill me guys!

After the Grammy’s, we were invited to attend several parties. That was another humbling experience. After surveying the crowd, I realized that these artists were everyday people who just happened to share a love of music. It was breathtaking. I caught my bus back to my hotel and sat in awe about the last nine hours of my life. The flight back to Orlando on February 9, 2009 was filled with excitement, shock, heartbreak and utter disbelief. Did I really meet Sir Paul McCartney? From…The Beatles? And Stevie Wonder? I am always thankful and somewhat amazed at the unique opportunities in which I seem to always find myself. My Publisher, Lillian B. Seays, Dr. LaVon W. Bracy and Bishop Julia Whitehurst-Wade were the first to call me when I got back from the Grammy’s. That’s typical of them. They are extremely cool ladies.

The Kentucky Derby 2009 in Louisville will be the next stop for Hip & Happening! I will be interviewing on the Red Carpet for the Grand Gala. Hey, it’s dirty job, but somebody’s got to do it! Denise Y. Mose, Ph.D is a licensed Life/Etiquette Coach, Professional Writer, Author, Professional Fashion Model, Avid Traveler and Entrepreneur. Her Talk Show has covered national events such as: The Stellar Awards, The Kentucky Derby, and The Taste of Chicago. She is the President of DYM, LLC, a conglomerate that houses her Beauty Business. You may email her at denise@dymbeauty.com You can visit her Beauty Business at www.dymbeauty.com or through her Publicist/Agent Monique Mason: 407-924-5389

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The Cabinet in Order of S uccession to the Presidency:

Vice President of the United States Joseph R. Biden Department of State Secretary Hillary Rodham Clinton http://www.state.gov

Department of Veterans Affairs Secretary Eric K. Shinseki http://www.va.gov

Department of Defense Secretary Robert M. Gates http://www.defenselink.mil

THE FOLLOWING POSITIONS

Department of the Treasury Secretary Timothy F. Geithner http://www.treasury.gov

Department of Justice Attorney General Eric H. Holder, Jr. http://www.usdoj.gov Secretary Kenneth L. Salazar http://www.doi.gov

Department of Agriculture Secretary Thomas J. Vilsack http://www.usda.gov

Department of Commerce http://www.commerce.gov

Department of Labor Secretary-designate: Hilda L. Solis http://www.dol.gov

Department of Health and Human Services http://www.hhs.gov

Department of Housing and Urban Development Secretary Shaun L.S. Donovan http://www.hud.gov

Department of Transportation Secretary Raymond L. LaHood http://www.dot.gov

Department of Homeland Security Secretary Janet A. Napolitano http://www.dhs.gov

HAVE THE STATUS OF

CABINET-RANK:

Council of Economic Advisers Chair Christina Romer http://www.whitehouse.gov/administration/eop/cea/ Environmental Protection Agency Administrator Lisa P. Jackson http://www.epa.gov Office of Management & Budget Director Peter R. Orszag http://www.whitehouse.gov/omb

United States Trade Representative Ambassador-designate: Ronald Kirk http://www.ustr.gov United States Ambassador to the United Nations Ambassador Susan Rice White House Chief of Staff Rahm I. Emanuel

Department of Energy Secretary Steven Chu http://www.energy.gov

Department of Education Secretary Arne Duncan http://www.ed.gov

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he sign of a perfect dish is the balance of textures and flavors,” explains chef and cookbook author Virginia Willis, author of “Bon Appetit, Y’all.” Willis thinks two family favorites pair especially well together: USA Pears and USA-grown peanuts.

Warm Peanut Crusted Goat Cheese With Roasted Pears Over Mixed Baby Greens

“You have the crisp texture of pears and the crunchy texture of peanuts, as well as the slightly savory taste of the peanuts and the sweetness of the pears,” says Willis. “Altogether, it makes for a perfect combination that can be enjoyed by the whole family at any meal of the day.” USA-grown peanuts and peanut butter are staples of cuisines across the globe because they deliver a flavor people love. They have more than 30 essential nutrients and phytonutrients and heart healthy monounsaturated fats — with zero trans fats or cholesterol. They can be part of a balanced diet that promotes good health and a healthy weight. USA Pears come in a range of colors, flavors and textures to please any palate. They are an excellent source of fiber, and a good source of vitamin C, too. At 100 calories per serving with no fat, no sodium, and no cholesterol, they’re a healthy option for active families.

Try topping sliced pears with peanut butter for a convenient and delicious snack. Or, combine pears and peanuts in recipes such as these to bring the family together for a tasty and healthful meal.

For more information, tips and recipes, visit www.nationalpeanutboard.org or www.usapears.org. Serves 4 1 cup very finely chopped peanuts Salt and pepper 1 4-ounce log of goat cheese 2 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted 2 firm-ripe USA Pears such as Bosc, Concorde or Anjou, halved lengthwise and cored 2 tablespoons finely chopped shallot 2 teaspoons Dijon mustard 1 tablespoon red-wine vinegar 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil 1 tablespoon aromatic peanut oil 10 ounces mesclun (mixed baby salad greens)

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Heat oven to 400°F. Place peanuts in shallow dish. Season with salt and pepper. Roll goat cheese log in peanuts to evenly coat. Refrigerate until firm if necessary, then cut evenly into 4 rounds.

Arrange pears, cut sides down, in baking pan. Pour butter over pears and toss to coat. Return pears to cut side down position. Roast until tender, about 25 minutes. Arrange pears cut side up in baking dish. Place rounds of peanutcrusted goat cheese on top in the scooped center. Continue to roast 5 minutes more, until cheese is melted and soft. Meanwhile, whisk together shallot, mustard and vinegar for dressing. Add oils in a slow stream, whisking until emulsified, and season with salt and pepper. Just before serving, toss salad greens with just enough dressing to coat. Remove pears from oven and serve each salad topped with a roast pear topped with goat cheese.

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Sautéed Pears With Vanilla Yogurt and Honey Peanuts

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Serves 4 to 6 1 tablespoon unsalted butter 4 large USA Pears, such as Bosc, Concorde or Anjou, peeled, cored and sliced 1 tablespoon sugar 1/4 teaspoon ground cinnamon 1/4 teaspoon ground ginger 1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice Pinch of fine salt 1/4 cup smooth peanut butter 1 tablespoon honey 1 cup low fat vanilla or plain yogurt 1/4 cup honey roasted peanuts, coarsely chopped Melt butter in large heavy-bottomed sauté pan over medium high heat. Add pears and cook, stirring occasionally, for 5 minutes, or until softened. Sprinkle with sugar, cinnamon, ginger and lemon juice. Season with a pinch of fine salt. Cook over medium heat, stirring occasionally, until tender, about 5 to 7 minutes. Keep warm. In small bowl combine peanut butter, honey and yogurt; stir until smooth. Set aside.

To serve, place pears in a shallow bowl. Top with yogurt mixture. Sprinkle peanuts on top. Serve immediately.

Sautéed Pears With Vanilla Yogurt and Honey Peanuts

In small bowl combine peanut butter, honey and yogurt; stir until smooth. Set aside.

To serve, place pears in a shallow bowl. Top with yogurt mixture. Sprinkle peanuts on top. Serve immediately.

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Poached Pears With Vanilla Caramel Sauce and Toasted Peanuts

Serves 6 3/4 cup sugar 1 750 ml bottle dry white wine 1 cinnamon stick 2 tablespoons black peppercorns 1 1-inch wide piece lemon zest 6 USA Pears, such as Bosc, Concorde or Anjou, with stems Vanilla Caramel Sauce, see recipe 1 cup Runner, Virginia, Spanish or Valencia peanuts, toasted and chopped Place sugar, wine, cinnamon stick, peppercorns and lemon zest in a small deep pan and bring slowly to a boil.

Meanwhile, peel pears, leaving stems and scooping out flower ends with a melon baller. Immediately immerse pears in syrup, standing upright if possible.

Set small heatproof plate on top to keep them completely immersed in syrup.

Bring just to a boil then reduce to simmer. Cook until pears are tender when pierced with a knife, 30 to 40 minutes. Remove from syrup. Divide pears among 6 plates. Drizzle with Vanilla Caramel Sauce and sprinkle with toasted peanuts. Serve immediately.

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Vanilla Caramel Sauce

Makes about 1 1/2 cups 1 cup sugar 1/2 cup water 2 teaspoons freshly squeezed lemon juice 1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter 3/4 cup heavy cream 1 teaspoon vanilla In medium heavy-bottomed saucepan, heat sugar, water and lemon juice over low heat until sugar dissolves. Bring syrup to a boil, and continue to boil without stirring until it begins to turn golden around the edges. (It is important not to stir, as the syrup may crystallize.)

Meanwhile, combine butter and heavy cream in small saucepan. Heat until butter melts. When syrup begins to color, lower heat, and continue boiling to a deep-golden color. It will darken rapidly. Remove pan from heat, and let cool for 30 seconds. Add butter and cream, being careful as syrup will bubble up in the pan.

Place pan back over heat, stirring until caramel is completely dissolved. Add vanilla and stir to combine. Serve warm or at room temperature.

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ellness expert, Asha Praver, can help readers find and maintain a loving marriage. Praver, the author of Swami Kriyananda as We Have Known Him, has been married for more than 26 years and has been living in community for nearly 40 years.

"Everyone wants to have joyful relationships," Praver says. She will share specific tools for staying happy with ourselves and our partners.

Praver has provided 6 tips to Finding & Maintaining a Loving Marriage:

Respect. People talk a great deal about love, but over the long term, respect is more fundamental. As long as you have respect for your partner, you can always be friends. Once respect is lost, even friendship is hard to maintain. To respect someone is also an act of will. Courtesy. Courtesy is not dishonesty or hypocrisy. It is simply treating the most important person in your life with the consideration and respect they deserve. It is shocking to see how often people treat their partner with a rudeness they would never show even a perfect stranger! Many arguments start from a simple lack of courtesy.

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Unique Individuality. Your partner is a fully functioning human being with a karmic trajectory of their own that has to be fulfilled according to the unique flow of their energy. Don't just project upon your partner your idea of who they are and what they need. Whatever future you have together will be more harmonious if you make a deep and sincere effort to understand how your partner sees the world and why he or she may think whatever they are committed to is a good idea.

Be a Cheerleader. No one wants a teacher for a partner, not for the long haul. The relationship is too close to be a place of constant criticism and correction. Even silent, mental criticism gradually drains the joy out of being together. Don't be insincere. If you don't agree, you can express that disagreement, but kindly, carefully, and with respect for your partner's need to come to truth in his or her own way.

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To Thy Own Self Be True. As long as you can do it cheerfully, support your partner in whatever he or she wants when it is only a matter of preference or opinion -- the color of the couch, where you take your vacation, hairdo, clothing style. But if principles are at stake -- including the principle of feeling valued as an individual in the relationship - you must stand your ground -- respectfully, courteously, but firmly nonetheless. If you compromise your core values, you set in motion a dissonant wave that sooner or later will break your relationship into pieces.

Self-Honesty. Most difficulties in relationships are not really between the two people, but within each one individually. If you don't know yourself, if you aren't clear on your core values, fundamental needs, strengths, and limitations you will always be blaming your partner for unhappiness that is actually self-generated. The effort required to make a relationship successful is the energy and courage it takes to get to know yourself. The partner is the mirror in which you see your own reflection. March / April 2009

FLORIDA SCOPE

Meek Endorsed by Florida's Largest Teacher Union

On Monday, Meek was endorsed by Florida's Service Employees International Union in Tallahassee.

This week, Congressman Meek has held campaign stops in Tallahassee, Gainesville, Orlando and South Florida.

U.S. Rep. Kendrick B. Meek is serving his fourth term in the U.S. House of Representatives, representing the 17th Congressional District of Florida, which includes parts of Miami-Dade and Broward counties. He is the lone Florida Democrat sitting on the powerful House Ways and Means Committee. Meek also serves on the NATO Parliamentary Assembly and is a member of the Democratic Steering and Policy Committee. Prior to his election to Congress, Meek served eight years in the Florida House and Senate and was a captain in the Florida Highway Patrol.

MIAMI GARDENS, FL – U.S. Rep. Kendrick Meek (D-FL) was endorsed by United Teachers of Dade on Thursday in his bid for the United States Senate. UTD is Florida's largest teacher union.

"I am honored to receive this endorsement from my hometown teachers," Meek said. "As a graduate of Miami-Dade County's public school system, I know full well how deeply committed teachers are to improving the lives of their students. Teachers are on the front lines of preparing our young people for the future, and I will continue to fight on behalf of educators in Miami-Dade and throughout Florida who need our support during these troubling economic times." The endorsement was announced by UTD President Karen Aronowitz.

"Kendrick Meek has been a resourceful and effective advocate for teachers, for our children, and for our public schools," said Karen Aronowitz, UTD president. "He has earned our support, and our respect." 34

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JACKSONVILLE, FL - I wanted to address this issue with no disrespect, for the views of kids hanging out in front of homes. If Jacksonville Sheriff Office (JSO) or some other law enforcement organization is going to dictate who can or where our children can "hang out," we will be moving towards a society such as that of China or the Soviet Union. Past history informs they dictated who could assemble publicly or privately.

This also happened during the 50's, 60's and 70's where minorities who were "hanging out" talking about social issues, playing chess or checkers, etc and not causing a disruption, yet, they were taunted, verbally harassed and "shaken down" and in some cases arrested and held for hours and days. The solution is for parents to take charge and let their children know what is expected of them. The should insist on family time together –– such actions begins in the home. Our children and teens must be encouraged to participate in positive programs and organizations that serve to redirect their energies. There are enough programs in our cities where our children can become involved. Churches, leisure services (sports teams), libraries, PAL, etc are here in Jack-

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sonville, Florida at our disposal.

Working at Edward Waters College (EWC) and Florida Community College at Jacksonville (FCCJ), I have, on several occasions, spoken to young men about "hanging out." If they are going to do it, there is a proper place and proper way. Their acceptance of advise depends on the way they are approached and the way one talks to them.

JSO is already overwhelmed by the drugs and weapons that are being brought into our city.

No wonder they are nervous and overly cautious when stopping and searching vehicles as there are young men on the streets who may potentially commit crimes. These young men are carrying serious firepower (AK 47's) and are not afraid to use them. Parents, I understand your frustration, but do we want the government to start dictating to us and our children where to assemble? We have a constitutional right of free assembly in this country, but we cannot dictate to whom it applies and to whom it does not.

When it is all said and done you know what group will be hurt and targeted in the end.

Kids Hanging Out Written by William Jackson

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Governor Crist Names Adora Obi Nweze Special Advisor on Minority Affairs

Deltas in Brevard County Celebrate Black History Month

The members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Incorporated, celebrated Black History Month in Eau Gallie, Florida on February 14 with a dinner, African American displays, and an inspiring program. Scenes from the event are shown below.

Adora Obi Nweze

Governor Crist

TALLAHASSEE, FL - Governor's Press Office News Release: February 12th On the 100th anniversary of the creation of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP), Governor Charlie Crist today called on Adora Obi Nweze of Miami to serve as Special Advisor to the Governor on Minority Affairs. Nweze will serve as a representative for the state’s minorities by advising Governor Crist on strategies that will ensure Florida’s government is accessible to these populations. She will continue as president of the Florida State Conference of the NAACP. The Governor's appointment of Nweze is believed to be the first state partnership with the NAACP through an official appointment in the administration.

“The Sunshine State benefits from its diverse population in many ways, and a wide variety of cultural perspectives gives our state a unique advantage when pursuing economic opportunities in many different markets,” Governor Crist said. “Adora will help ensure that my administration is reaching as many of Florida’s diverse populations as possible.”

Speaker

Governor Crist announced Nweze’s appointment during a civil rights roundtable discussion with leaders of Florida’s AfricanAmerican community. Joining Governor Crist and Nweze were representatives of the Urban League of Florida, the Southern Christian Leadership Conference, Florida A&M University and leaders of the Florida Conference of Black Legislators. Governor Crist invited leaders to provide suggestions for increasing minority access to state government. Later today, Governor Crist will meet with the full membership of the Florida Conference of Black Legislators to hear their priorities for the state. March / April 2009

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Announcing the Completion of the Villas at Carver Park

ORLANDO - The Orlando Housing Authority will complete construction of the Villas at Carver Park in March. We are taking applications for persons who are 62 and older to occupy the units. The Carver Park development is at the corner of Westmoreland and Gore Street just south of downtown Orlando.

The apartments at the Villas at Carver Park will look like the units at Hampton Park where we hold our Links meetings. There are 64 units. There is space for group activities: a computer lab, a chapel, a dining area for group functions, etc. The rent is based on "ability to pay." If you know of someone who is eligible, have them contact Ms. Gaile Plowden at 407-895-3300 extension 4002 for more information.

Each apartment has ceiling fans, a garbage disposal, porcelain tile floors, dishwasher and on-site laundry facilities. To apply, we need photo identification and a social security card.

(407) 425-3001 For more information call

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Happenings in Tampa

March 19, Thursday - George Benson comes to Ruth Eckerd Hall in Clearwater with An Unforgettable Tribute to Nat King Cole @ 8P. Tickets on sale now. FMI: www.ruthereckerdhall.com.

March 21, Saturday - Join the 5th Annual Heart and Spirit of a Woman Conference at the Hilton St. Pete Carillon Park, 950 Lake Carillon Dr in St. Pete from 8:30A-1:30P. This is a FREE faith-based conference. The church or organization with the most women in attendance wins a prize. Lunch included, Registration required. FMI/Register: 727-563-8087 or dianna.king@heart.org.

March 22, Sunday - Join the 2009 Tampa Bay Black Marriage Day (BMD), when the inaugural members of the Tampa Bay Marriage Hall of Fame will be announced at a FREE reception at the Carter G. Woodson Museum's Legacy Garden in St. Pete from 2P-4P. To NOMINATE A COUPLE, complete an application online at www.youandmewe.org (click on "Black Marriage Day"). Apps must be received by Friday, 3/6/09. Attire is casual. FMI/RSVP: www.youandmewe.org or 727-528-5831. March 23, Monday - The powerhouse advocacyy group known as FAST (Faith and Action for Strentgh Together) Oranization convene a Rally at Mt. Zion AME, 1045 16th St. So. in St. Pete to get the latest information on creating more affordable housing, reducing school discipline problems, helping first time offenders and preparing for the Nehemiah Action @ 7P.

March 25-27, Wednesday-Friday - New Hope Missionary Baptist Church in St. Pete will host a Spring Revival featuring the Rev. Kevin Adams of Chattanooga, TN, 7P nightly.

March 27 & 28, Friday & Saturday - It's time for the Too Smooth 9th Annual Birthday Bash Celebration at the W. Tampa Convention Center, 3005 W Columbus Dr. in Tampa. Friday, 3/27 - the party starts with R&B recording artist Miles Jaye. Tickets: $20/Adv., $50/VIP. Saturday, 3/28 - Comedy Explosion with comedians Light Foot, Just June & Double D. Tickets: $20/Adv. FMI: 813-244-7474. March / April 2009

April 1-4, Wednesday-Saturday - Atlanta Spring Break College Tour hosted by Mt. Zion Progressive MB Church & Childs Park YMCA visiting Clark Atlanta University, Morehouse College, Spelman College, Morehouse School of Medicine, Georgia State University, and Georgia Tech. Cost: $230 PP ($50 non refundable deposit due 2/15/09). Cost includes teen summit, transportation, breakfast & lunch, hotel, Georgia Aquarium, World of Coca Cola Tour, & MLK Jr. Center. FMI: 727-209-9622 x302 or 727-894-4311 x216.

April 4, Saturday - Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. St. Petersburg Alumnae Chapter invites you to its 10th Annual Prayer Breakfast at the Hilton Carillon, 950 Lake Carillon Dr. in St. Pete @ 8A, featuring the dynamic Nat'l Delta Sigma Theta President, Dr. Cynthia Butler-McIntyre as the keynote speaker. Cost: $35PP. Color and B/W advertisemnt available. Ad prices range from $10-$135. FMI: tamika_leeks@hotmail.com.

April 25, Saturday - Walkers, Runners, Sponsors & Donations are needed for the 3rd Annual Charity Benefit 5K and 10K Run/Walk for Willa. Come out and support Health Care for the uninsured and underserved at the Willa Carson Health Resource Center, 1108 N. MLK Jr. Ave. in Clearwater. FMI: 727-467-9411.

April 25, Saturday - Enjoy 100 premium wines paired with 20 eclectic cuisines from the Bay Area's best restaurants at the Sea Grapes" Florida Aquarium's Eighth Annual Fine Wine and Food Festival Fundraiser, 701 Channelside Dr. in Tampa @ 6P. Tickets: $85PP, $150/VIP. FMI: www.flaquarium.com.

May 2, Saturday - The men of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Theta Eta Lambda Chapter will host its 18th Annual Golf Tournament at the Pasadena Yacht & Country Club, 6300 Pasadena Point in Gulfport. Shotgun begins @ 1P. Cost: $85PP. FMI: 941-9244683 or 727-867-2464. October 15-26, Thursday-Tuesday - Journey to the Mother Land and visit Ghana West Africa, visit 4 major cities, museums, slave forts, art centers, and a national park. The journey will depart from Florida. Cost: $3,500PP. FMI: www.akwaabatourism.com or 407-426-7355.

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Michelle Obama smiles as her husband takes the Oath of Office

President Elect Barack Obama places his hand upon the same burgundy velvet-bound Bible that was used by President Lincoln as he is sworn in as the 44th President of the United States of America.

THE PROMISE OF A BETTER DAY Enough already, canʼt we just get on with it?

EXCERPS FROM PRESIDENT OBAMA’S INAUGURAL ADDRESS: “My fellow citizens:

I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition...

...That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.

These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land — a nagging fear that America's decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.

Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America — they will be met. On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.

On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics.

We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness. 38

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Congratulations, Mr. President, Now letʼs make America the leader of all nations.

In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of shortcuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted — for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of Thank you, Heavenly Father, for allowing me to see this day riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things — some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labor, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom. For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life.

For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth. For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sanh.

Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.

This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions — that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America... ...America, in the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children's children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God's grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations. Thank you. God bless you. And God bless the United States of America.”

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LIVE TAPING Saturday, March 14, 2009 6 o’clock in the Evening Rosen Plaza Hotel Orlando, Florida Florida’s Premier African American Event

Onyx Magazine, on behalf of LBS Foundation Incorporated, invites you to its seventh annual Onyx Awards Gala. The Onyx Awards has become Florida’s signature African American awards celebration of “Black Trailblazers” and corporations that promote inclusion and diversity in the workplace. This signature black tie, red carpet event serves as a funding engine to support health and education initiatives of the foundation. Currently, the major focus of the foundation is sickle cell disease and early literacy. In addition to recognizing outstanding Floridians, this year, the Onyx Awards is proud to salute the presidents of all four of Florida’s Historically Black Colleges and Universities. Dr. Trudie Kibbe Reed of Bethune-Cookman University, Dr. James H. Ammons of Florida Agricultural and Mechanical University (FAMU), Dr. Karl S. Wright of Florida Memorial University, and Dr. Claudette Williams of Edward Waters College, will be honored for their continued support and commitment to the legacies and missions of these valuable institutions of higher learning. We are excited to announce that the Public Service (Organization) Ovation will be awarded to Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated and received by their International President, Ms. Barbara McKinzie.

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