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From the Editor From the Board Advertisers Calendar News Briefs Improving Outcomes for the Next Generation Youth Pride Inc. Turns 25 News from AIDS Project Rhode Island Out on the Town PVD Gay Flag Football League RI Pride Honors Interview: Dreya Catozzi Transgender Day of Remembrance Felicitations Transosaurus Rex Report from SAGE/RI Open Door Health

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From the Editor-in-Chief Dear Reader, My message to you this month is one of apology, gratitude, and recognition. First, we apologize for our hiccup in publishing; our August/September 2019 issue was cancelled when Options’ board of directors faced a dilemma. Board members (present at the time of the decision) were committed to financial solvency, and wouldn’t push a $7,000 issue to print without knowing how the bills would be paid. We understand that we especially disappointed subscribers and advertisers. As we seek to restore trust and consistency, we face the reality that we need not only more resources (people power and dollars), but also an innovative approach to how we deliver this news. The current board can surely incorporate your talents into their plan of attack, so hear their message with an open mind (p. 6), and plan to join us on Sunday, October 20, 1-3pm, at Project Weber/RENEW for an overdue community meeting to discuss the future of this cherished 37-year-old publication. Options has knocked on death’s door several times, but angels always seem to answer -- this time with a generous sponsorship from Blue Cross Blue Shield of RI, for which we are most thankful. More heartfelt thanks go out to some names that have come off the masthead this issue. Former Board President TC Rogers and Vice President Melissa DaSilva gave so much of their time and resources to jump-start Options and set us on solid footing. We’re also grateful to designer Reese Barzyk, whose work was worth much more than we could pay. I’d lament the “retirement” of longtime community photographer Jack HartweinSanchez, if he hadn’t found the perfect protege in Jen Bonin all those years ago. As our team moves forward, I’m especially grateful to welcome back Kim Stowell who, as any avid Options reader

knows, expertly ran this magazine for many years. She’s helping to design this go-round. It’s the unwavering editing team and contributors who I lean on the hardest and am most grateful to whenever I give them a deadline, and they say, “Sure!” Almost all of Rhode Island’s LGBTQ nonprofits hold major annual events each autumn. Check out our packed Calendar (p. 8) and mark yours for events such as Project Weber/RENEW’s annual benefit (October 25, p. 4), and RI Pride Honors, when this editor will gratefully receive the Pyramid of Pride (November 3, p. 21). We’re excited to feature Youth Pride Inc. (YPI), which celebrates 25 years of support and services to area youth at their gala on October 10. It’s a comfort knowing current YPI participants were born into a world in which YPI already existed (p. 14). November 20 marks the most somber of annual events -- the Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR), when the names of murdered victims of transphobia are said aloud in memoriam. 2019’s U.S. victims are acknowledged here by the TGI Network, though we fear names will be added between press and the TDOR ceremony (p. 24). For a first-hand account of trans struggles and triumphs, we hope you’ll appreciate our interview with the openhearted Dreya Catozzi (p. 22). Though we cancelled our post-Pride issue, we couldn’t let a year of Options go by without sharing some favorite photos from RI PrideFest, which you’ll find alongside photos from September’s Worcester Pride (p. 18). Enjoy! In solidarity,

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FROM THE OPTIONS BOARD OF DIRECTORS Board of Directors Joty Allison Ashley Delgado Dr. Mike Marrapodi Arthur Snow Interested in joining the Options Board of Directors? Write to Joty at info@optionsri.org. People with marketing, design, fundraising, and legal expertise are especially encouraged!

For over 37 years, Options Magazine has been the media hub for the LGBTQ+ community in Rhode Island and southeastern Massachusetts. While we are proud of this heritage and all of the individuals who have supported Options in the past, we are now looking to the future of this publication. We are seeking to create a sustainable organization that will ensure Options is available to future generations in our community who need the resources, support, and information Options provides.

• Advertising Manager – Join our paid staff in this vital role securing advertisers for each issue.

We are asking the community to actively participate in moving this beloved resource forward. Here are specific ways you can help. Could YOU become our next...?:

• Donor – As a free publication, Options depends on the generosity of the community to meet its annual budget. Your gift, of any size, is greatly appreciated at Optionsri.org.

• Issue Sponsor – Provide a onetime contribution to be named an issue sponsor. We are grateful that Blue Cross Blue Shield of RI has stepped up for this October/November issue, and look forward to other organizations and/or businesses supporting us in the future. Write to info@optionsri.org to learn more. • Advertiser – If you own a business or run an organization, place an ad in Options to reach a target audience – the LGBTQ+ community of Rhode Island and southeastern Massachusetts.

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• Designer – Join our paid staff in this creative role using Adobe InDesign software to prepare the final copy of the magazine. • Board Member – Join our volunteer team as we steer the organization in the months and years ahead. We are particularly in need of individuals with expertise in nonprofit management, marketing, and fundraising.

Reach out to friends or colleagues who might also be a good fit for these positions and encourage them to join us. Write to info@optionsri.org to learn more about any of these roles. As always, we appreciate each of our readers, advertisers, staff members, and volunteers. You’re continued support helps make Options the dynamic organization it is today. To the future, Mike, Ashley, Arthur, and Joty The Options Board of Directors

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CALENDAR: October

Wed. 2, 9, 16, 23, 30 Yoga Wellness Wednesdays with Project Fearless, 7:30pm. Free. Mats provided. Hope Artiste Village, unit #7080, 999 Main Street, Pawtucket. For updates, facebook.com/ProjectFearlessRI. Thu. 3, 10, 17, 24, 31 LGBT Bereavement Support Group, 4-5:30pm. Wamsutta Club, 427 County Street, New Bedford, MA. Sessions running on Thursdays during October. For more info, 508-992-6278. Thu. 3, 10, 17, 24, 31 Frontrunners RI weekly run/walk, 6pm. Meet at the north end of Blackstone Blvd. path near Three Sisters Restaurant. Runs are 3-5 miles. All levels welcome. For weekly updates, frontrunnersri.com/calendar or email frontrunnersri@gmail.com. Thu. 3 RuPaul’s Drag Race champion Bianca Del Rio’s Jester Joke Comedy Tour, 8pm. The VETS, One Avenue of the Arts, Providence. Tix $41-80 at The VetsRI.com. Sun. 6 Drag Brunch, 12-2pm. Massimo Restaurant, 134 Atwells Avenue, Providence. Glitz, glam, and humor with Drag in RI girls Jacqueline DiMera, LaDiva Jonz, and Vi’let. Reservations encouraged at 2730650. Mon. 7, 14, 21, 28 Free Play Arcade GAYme night, 7pm1am. Free Play, 182 Pine Street, Providence. Over 115 vintage arcade games, pinball, skee ball, and drag shows. All games set to free play. 18+. $4 cover to benefit RI Pride. For more info, freeplayri.com. Thu. 10 Feminist & Queer Happy Hour, 6-8:30pm. Location TBD. For details, facebook.com/feministandqueerhappyhour. Thu. 10 Thundermist Health Center's 50th Anniversary Gala, 6-9pm. Roger Williams Park Botanical Center, 1000 Elmwood Avenue, Providence. Food, drinks, and dancing. Tickets $150 at Eventbrite.com. Thu. 10 Youth Pride Inc. 25th Anniversary Gala, 6-9pm. Skyline at Waterplace, 1 Finance Way, Providence. Benefits YPI’s programs and services. Live music, cash bar, three-course meal, awards, valet parking, and beautiful views of Providence. Tickets $65 at Secure.givelively.org. For more info,

Fri. 18 SAGE LGBT Café, noon-2pm. youthprideri.org. Thu. 10 Sweet Little Variety Show, Church of the Transfiguration, 1665 Broad 8-10-pm. Askew, 150 Chestnut Street, Street, Cranston. A delicious, low-cost lunch in a gay-friendly setting on third Providence. &7. 18+ Fridays sponsored unless accompanied by Meals on Wheels, by an adult. Food and the Department of drink available. For Elderly Affairs, and details, facebook.com/ SAGE-RI. $3 donation sweetlittlevarietyshow suggested for LGBT and people 60+ and people sweetlittlevarietyshow. with disabilities; $6 com. donation suggested for Fri. 11 National all others. Reservations Coming Out Day. Be required. Call Diane at out and proud! 351-6700 x105. Sat. 12 Zombie Night Sat. 19 Womxn's 10.19 13: The Final Chapter, Night: Batgirl Cave: 7pm-2am. Dark Lady, Queer Costume and 19 Snow Street, Goth Party, 8pm-midnight. Askew, 150 Providence. Dress as a zombie and enjoy Chestnut Street, Providence. A cabaret drinks, boolesque, live bands, drag queens, and club night for womxn featuring queer and cash prizes. performance. Partners, friends, and allies Sun. 13 RI Prime Timers, 4:30-7pm. welcome. 21+. $10 cover. For more info, Social, dinner, and networking group for Facebook.com/WomxnsNight. older gay and bi men on second Sundays. Sun. 20 SAGE-RI Annual Meeting, 3-5pm. For more info, www. Brooklyn Coffee & Tea House, 209 Douglas riprimetimers.org or Avenue, Providence. For info, sageriinfo@ call Steve at 996-3010. gmail.com. Wed. 16 Queer Sun. 20 Options Magazine Community Book Club, Meeting, 1-3pm. Project Weber/Renew, 640 7-9:30pm. Reading: Broad Street, Providence. All are welcome The Miniaturist to join the Options team as we discuss the by Jessie Burton. possibilities for Options’ future and consider Third Wednesdays how we can best serve the diverse identities at Books on the within the LGBTQ community. For more Square, 471 Angell info, contact jen@optionsri.org. Street, Providence. For more info, email Interweave potluck and queerbookclub@gmail.com or join the Sun. 20 programming, 5:30pm. Parish Hall of Providence Queer Book Channing Memorial Club Facebook group. Church, 135 Pelham Street, Thu. 17 Drag Bingo: Newport. All welcome. Night of the Living Drag, Bring a dish to share. 6-9pm. Riviera Bingo Interweave is Channing's Palace, 1612 Elmwood group for LGBTQ people Avenue, Cranston. Hosted and allies. For more by Haley Star and LaDiva information, contact Jonz. $20 gets you in all Rex at interweave@ games with over $2,000 in channingmemorial.org. cash and prizes awarded M E E T I N G Fri. 25 GLAD’s 20th monthly. 18+. No alcohol. Annual Spirit of Justice $100 cash prize for best O C T O B E R 2 0 Award Dinner, 6:30costume. All funds raised 11:30pm. Boston Marriott, benefit AIDS Care Ocean State and AIDS Project RI. For reservations, email bingo@ Copley Place, 110 Huntington Ave, Boston, aidscareoceanstate.org with name, number MA. Honoring civil, disability, and LGBTQ rights legal pioneer Chai R. Feldblum. Tix of people, and phone number.

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$250 at Glad.org. For more info, contact Chris Rainville at crainville@glad.org. Fri. 25 Project Weber/RENEW’s 3rd Annual Celebrating Community Benefit: Through Our Eyes, 7-9:30pm. Rooms & Works, 55 Cromwell Street, Providence. Tickets $50 at PWRCommunity2019.Eventbrite.com or call 383-4888

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Sat. 2 & Sun. 3 Stranger Kings: A Randy Andy Drag Spooktacular, 8pm Sat./7pm Sun. Askew, 150 Chestnut Street, Providence. 80's nostalgia/spooky sci-fi horror Halloween show. Tix $10-$28 at Eventbrite.com. Sun. 3 Drag Brunch, 12-2pm. Massimo Restaurant, 134 Atwells Avenue, Providence. Glitz, glam, and humor with Drag in RI girls Jacqueline DiMera, LaDiva Jonz, and Vi’let. Reservations encouraged at 273-0650. Sun. 3 RI Pride Honors, 6pm. Marriott Downtown, 1 Orms Street, Providence. Honoring Pyramid of Pride recipient Jen Stevens, Spirit of Pride recipient Yolandi Fizzure, and Parade and Volunteer Awards. Cocktail hour with performances starting at 7pm. Tix $20 at prideri.org. For more information, joe.lazzerini@prideri.org. Mon. 4, 11, 18, 25 Free Play Arcade GAYme night, 7pm-1am. Free Play, 182 Pine Street, Providence. Over 115 vintage arcade games, pinball, skee ball, and drag shows. All games set to free play. 18+. $4 cover to benefit RI Pride. For more info, freeplayri. com. Wed. 6, 13, 20, 27 Yoga Wellness Wednesdays with Project Fearless, 7:30pm. Free yoga and mats provided. Hope Artiste Village, unit #7080, 999 Main Street, Pawtucket. For updates, facebook.com/ ProjectFearlessRI. Wed. 6 Ani DiFranco, 8pm. The Strand, 79 Washington Street, Providence. Tix $45-$55 at Etix.com. Thu. 7, 14, 21 Frontrunners RI weekly run/walk, 6pm. Meet at the north end of Blackstone Blvd. path near Three Sisters Restaurant. Runs are 3-5 miles. All levels welcome. For weekly updates, frontrunnersri.com/calendar or write to frontrunnersri@gmail.com. Sat. 9 RI Women’s Association Dance, 6:3011:30pm. The Nelson, 225 Niantic Avenue, Cranston. DJ Karen, cash bar, food menu. Members free/guests $12. For info, riwa.net.

Sat. 9 Womxn's Night, 8pm-midnight. Askew, 150 Chestnut Street, Providence. A cabaret and club night for womxn featuring queer performance. Partners, friends, and allies welcome. 21+. $10 cover. For more info, facebook.com/WomxnsNight. Sun. 10 RI Prime Timers, 4:30-7pm. Social, dinner, and networking group for older gay and bi men on second Sundays. For more info, www.riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010. Wed. 13 SAGE/Care workshop (Series 1, Workshop 1): Hospital and Primary Care, 8am-noon. Radisson Hotel, 2081 Post Road, Warwick. An initiative to improve the quality of care for LGBT older adults in Rhode Island. Health care and social service providers welcome. Registration $35 at Eventbrite.com. For more info, sageriinfo@ gmail.com. Thu. 14 Feminist & Queer Happy Hour, 6-8:30pm. Location TBD. For details, facebook.com/feministandqueerhappyhour. Thu. 14 Sweet Little Variety Show, 8pm. Askew, 150 Chestnut Street, Providence. A queer-produced potpourri of entertainment performed monthly on second Thursdays. Featuring comic Karen O’Donnell and host Eva Destruction. $7 to pay the artists. For info, facebook.com/sweetlittlevarietyshow and sweetlittlevarietyshow.com. Fri. 15 SAGE LGBT Café, noon-2pm. Church of the Transfiguration, 1665 Broad Street, Cranston. A delicious, low-cost lunch in a gay-friendly setting on third Fridays sponsored by Meals on Wheels, the Department of Elderly Affairs, and SAGERI. $3 donation suggested for LGBT people 60+ and people with disabilities; $6 donation suggested for all others. Reservations required. Call Diane at 351-6700 x105. Fri. 15 Sojourner House 9th Annual Masquerade Ball: Moonlight Serenade, 7pm. The Graduate Hotel, 11 Dorrance Street, Providence. Tix $100 at Eventbrite.com. Sat. 16 Becky Chace Band, 7:30pm. Sandywoods Center for the Arts, Tiverton. Roots rock. BYOB/BYOF. Tix $20 at BrownPaperTickets.com. Sun. 17 Old Lesbians Organizing for Change, 3-5pm. Characters Café, 82 Rolfe Square, Cranston. Lesbians age 60+ invited to discuss the national OLOC organization and how it’s establishing in RI. This space is accessible. Please refrain from wearing scents. $10 suggested donation covers food.

*No one turned away for lack of funds. RSVP to olocinri@gmail.com. Sun. 17 Surge Tea Dance, 4-9pm. Rooftop at the Providence G, 100 Dorrance Street, Providence. Sun. 17 Interweave potluck and programming, 5:30pm. Parish Hall of Channing Memorial Church, 135 Pelham Street, Newport. All welcome. Bring a dish to share. Interweave is Channing's group for LGBTQ people and allies. For more information, contact Rex at interweave@ channingmemorial.org. Sun. 17 Transgender Day of Remembrance service to memorialize the transgender murder victims of 2019, time TBD. Channing Memorial Church, 135 Pelham Street, Newport. For more info, interweave@ channingmemorial.org or call Rex at 5959068. Wed. 20 SAGE/Care workshop (Series 1, Workshop 2): Long Term Care & Assisted Living, 8am-noon. Radisson Hotel, 2081 Post Road, Warwick. An initiative to improve the quality of care for LGBT older adults in Rhode Island. Health care and social service providers welcome. Registration $35 at Eventbrite.com. For more info, sageriinfo@ gmail.com. Wed. 20 Queer Book Club, 7-9:30pm. Third Wednesdays at Books on the Square, 471 Angell Street, Providence. Reading: Tales of the City #1 by Armistad Maupin. Discount on books purchased at Books on the Square. For more info, email queerbookclub@gmail. com. Wed. 20 TGI Network’s annual Transgender Day of Remembrance service to memorialize those who have been murdered as a result of transphobia, time TBD. Beneficent Congregational Church, Providence. Thu. 21 Drag Bingo: All the Trimmings, 6-9pm. Riviera Bingo Palace, 1612 Elmwood Avenue, Cranston. Hosted by Haley Star and LaDiva Jonz. $20 gets you in all games with over $2,000 in cash and prizes awarded monthly. 18+. No alcohol. Theme dress encouraged. Collecting Thanksgiving-related, non-perishable foods. All funds raised benefit AIDS Care Ocean State and AIDS Project RI. For reservations, email bingo@ aidscareoceanstate.org with name, number of people, and phone number. t

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NEWS BRIEFS: by Myra Shays

place at the Novo in Los Angeles. One debater will be South Bend, IN, Mayor Pete Buttigieg, the nation's first-ever openly gay presidential candidate.

Photos: Steve Ahlquist, upriseri.com

Mass. Officials Spar over Straight Pride Parade Charges In Boston on Aug. 31, marchers and floats organized by a group arguing that straight people are an "oppressed minority" formed a Straight Pride Parade, and were protected by police. Large groups of protesters lined the route, claiming the parade mocked the LGBTQ Pride Parade. Four officers suffered minor injuries, and thirty-four people were arrested. Suffolk County D.A. Rachael Rollins moved to prosecute only eight of those because they had prior arrests or were charged with violence, and dismissed the rest. But Municipal Court Judge Richard Sinott refused to recognize the dismissals, even handcuffing and placing in custody a defense attorney who interrupted him and objected. D.A. Rollins said the judge’s actions were "unprecedented," and filed an emergency petition challenging his constitutional

ability to do so. The Appeals Court agreed with her and overruled Sinnott on September 9. Rollins remarked that the entire fight was "a colossal waste of time."

CNN to Broadcast HRC Presidential Candidates' Forum On October 10, CNN will air the HRC Foundation's Presidential Candidates' Town Hall. The evening, expected to draw the largest-ever audience for a Democratic presidential event devoted to LGBTQ issues, will mark the first time that a major cable network will air such an event. It will take

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Said Human Rights Campaign President Alphonso David: "We are eager to hear from the Democratic candidates how they plan to defend the fundamental equality of LGBTQ people and protect the most vulnerable of us – here and around the globe – from discrimination and violence."

Administration Asks Court to Legalize Firing Workers Based on Sexuality In a brief filed with the Supreme Court in late August, the Justice Department argued that three cases set to appear before the Court this fall should be used to limit Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which prohibits discrimination "because of sex." The brief echoes one submitted recently seeking to legalize firing trans workers based on their gender identity. The original bill didn't define "sex" as a term, and the Trump administration is using that ambiguity to argue that lawmakers' original intent was solely to protect women, not people who are not heterosexual. Previously, the administration undertook a similar action in pursuit of legalizing discrimination against trans workers. If the Court agrees with the DOJ when it hears the cases in October,

transgender and LGBQ Americans could find themselves at greater risk for discrimination, not just in the workplace but in housing, healthcare, and education .

First LGBT Senior Cohousing in North America Under Construction Cohousing is a unique style of living. Residents have their own cottages but share elements like a common house with a kitchen, dining/meeting

room, lounge, laundry, exercise and art studios. Its values are social and environmental sustainability. Village Hearth Senior Cohousing in Durham, NC, is on course for occupancy in Spring of 2020. All but four of the 28 units have been bought. More than a group of structures, it represents community and safety for the residents.

LGBT seniors may face more than the usual hurdles as they age. Some go back "in the closet" for fear of discrimination in healthcare and nursing facilities. Many do not have the support of their families and do not have children. Village Hearth seeks to be a model for others across the nation to come together as "out and proud" seniors who support one another while living among those who share similar life experiences.

Sam Smith Wants You to Use They/Them Pronouns Grammy Award-winning musician Sam Smith announced in March that they closely identified with being “nonbinary” or “genderqueer” on the Instagram show I Weigh Interviews, though had continued to use he/him pronouns. On September 13, Smith posted on social media, “After a lifetime of being at war with my gender, I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out…. I understand there will be many mistakes and misgendering, but all I ask is you please, please try. I hope you can see me like I see myself now.” Smith is arguably the most well-known celebrity with they/them pronouns. t

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Working Toward an Accepting and Inclusive Environment for the Next Generation by Guillaume Bagal, Diversity & Inclusion Lead, Blue Cross & Blue Shield of Rhode Island

any may assume, as I did, that younger generations are increasingly more accepting of the LGBTQ community, but a recent report tells a different story. The number of Americans aged 18 to 34 who are comfortable interacting with LGBTQ people slipped from 65 percent in 2016 to 53 percent in 2017, and further again to 45 percent in 2018, according to the annual Accelerating Acceptance Report. The study also found that in 2018: t

36 percent of young people said they were uncomfortable learning a family member was LGBTQ, compared with 29 percent in 2017. 34 percent were uncomfortable learning their doctor was LGBTQ compared to 27 percent a year earlier. 39 percent were uncomfortable learning their child had a school lesson on LGBTQ history compared to 30 percent in 2017.

There is ongoing discussion about these statistics and what could be driving the decline in acceptance among younger Americans. One reason could be the fact that more people are coming out at an increasingly younger age,

creating more opportunities for abuse and bigotry. Coupled with this, 18 to 34 year olds are inundated by social media, where hate speech and bullies “hiding” behind their keyboards are at an all-time high. This toxic environment could sway young minds on what is acceptable and ultimately cause negative perceptions and behavior. The FBI released statistics late last year showing a 17 percent increase in hate crimes in 2017. Of the 7,175 reported crimes, more than 1,200 were based on sexual orientation or gender identity bias. On the one hand, this statistic could reinforce my last point. On the other hand, it’s possible that LGBTQ people are more comfortable reporting abuse now than in prior years. Additionally, with the inundation of content on social media – providing us with the “24-hour news cycle” – we may be hearing more about these crimes, not that they are actually happening more often. Nevertheless, it’s important to continue our efforts to push back against LGBTQ discrimination and provide support to those in need. Blue Cross & Blue Shield of Rhode Island (BCBSRI) is committed to a safe and inclusive

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environment for our LGBTQ members, colleagues, and neighbors. Some of our initiatives include: Youth Pride, Inc.: Celebrating their 25th anniversary this year, YPI’s mission is to meet the unique needs of youth and young adults impacted by sexual orientation and gender identity/expression while working to end the homophobic and transphobic environments in which they live, work, learn, and play. BCBSRI is a proud sponsor of YPI’s 25th anniversary event, and our employees have spent more than 400 hours volunteering with YPI, including serving on their board. LGBTQ Safe Zones: The BCBSRI Safe Zone Program helps LGBTQ members identify safe, affirming, and inclusive healthcare practices around the state. Certification requirements include: staff training specific to the care of LGBTQ people; protection for patients and staff from discrimination based on gender identity or expression; genderinclusive bathrooms; inclusive forms and procedures; and a public commitment to connecting with and serving the LGBTQ community. There are currently Safe Zone locations in 12 towns and cities

across the state of Rhode Island: www.bcbsri.com/safezones. Blue pRIde EBRG: Blue pRIde is our employee business resource group comprised of more than 70 employees, lending a concentrated yet diverse point of view to support the LGBTQ community and allies through BCBSRI’s products, services, policies, and procedures. This year, this group worked closely with colleagues throughout the company to introduce a third gender option to BCBSRI’s insurance claims process – a non-binary “X” gender marker for transgender and gender non-conforming members is now included. Although we’ve made strides in equality for the LGBTQ community (and those strides, no matter how small, should be celebrated), there is still much to be done. BCBSRI is committed to working with our community to continue fostering education and acceptance, and promoting safe spaces for the LGBTQ community. t Blue Cross & Blue Shield of Rhode Island is the state’s leading health insurer and covers more than 450,000 members. The company is an independent licensee of the Blue Cross and Blue Shield Association. For more information, visit www.bcbsri.com, follow us on Twitter @BCBSRI, and like us on Facebook at fb.com/ bcbsri. To learn more about Safe Zones, visit bcbsri.com/safezones.

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Twenty-Five Years of Youth Pride Inc.

wenty-five years ago, when I was in high school, I’d never met anyone under the age of 45 who spoke of themselves as anything other than straight. I thought I couldn’t be gay until I was “old.” In hindsight that seems ridiculous, but I was young and living in the south. If I had lived in Rhode Island at the time, I’m sure I would have found a way to be a part of a newly forming organization, Youth Pride, Inc. (YPI). Luckily, I was mostly surrounded by family and friends who loved me for myself, no matter who I was or how long it took me to figure it out. I found my way through adolescence and young adulthood, despite the odds. I’ll say it again: I was lucky.

considered attempting suicide, and 29% reported having attempted suicide within the year. (CDC, 2015)

- More than 40% of lesbian, gay, and bisexual students have seriously

120% higher than youth who identified as heterosexual and cisgender. And

- More than 87% of LGBTQ youth report having experienced harassment or assault based on personal characteristics,

LGBTQ youth make up roughly 40% of the homeless youth populations. (Missed Opportunities: Youth Homelessness in America, National Estimates: 2017)

- LGBTQ youth are at a higher risk for sanctions, such as being stopped by the police, expelled from school, arrested, or convicted. As a result, LGBTQ youth are over-represented in the justice system, making up 20% of the general population and almost 40% of girls in juvenile facilities. Additionally, of LGBTQ and gender nonconforming youth in juvenile justice facilities, 85% are youth of color. (Center for American Progress, Movement Advancement Twenty-five years Left to right: Ava (she/her, 15), Ryan (he/him, 17), Josh (he/him, 21), Nielle (she/ First. ago, many other young her, 19), Jen (she/her, 13), Albert (he/him,16), X (seated, they/them, 20), Mason Project, Youth Unjust: LGBTQ Youth LGBTQ+ folks weren’t (seated, he/him, 15). Incarcerated in the Juvenile as lucky, and many still aren’t as lucky today. LGBTQ+ youth including sexual orientation, gender Justice System, 2017.) suffer the effects of family rejection, social expression, gender, religion, actual or At its inception, the idea for YPI was isolation, and lack of access to supportive perceived race and ethnicity, and actual simply to form a support group, but the educational, mental, and medical health or perceived disability. (GLSEN, 2017) depth of need soon became clear. At a resources. The result? The statistics are LGBTQ youth reported minimum, LGBTQ+ youth needed to staggering, and speak for themselves: experiencing homelessness at a rate regularly connect with one another and

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with supportive adults. In December of 1992, in the middle of a snowstorm, four

youth and an adult facilitator held their first daily to provide one-on-one counseling. meeting at the Brown University Sarah Staff build connections with youth, Doyle Women’s Center. They shared directing them to resources at YPI and their experiences, built community, and in the surrounding community. Youth named themselves “The Way Out.” This build strength by participating in the small weekly group grew quickly, soon OUTSpoken leadership development overtaking program, In December of 1992, in the planning the Women’s middle of a snowstorm, four activities and Center’s living room, with youth and an adult facilitator events with dozens of held their first meeting at the the Youth young people Brown University Sarah Doyle Programming sitting on laps, Council, and Women’s Center. tables, and holding seats the floor. In on YPI’s board of directors. order to meet the needs of this rapidly To meet the very basic needs of growing group, “The Way Out” became youth, YPI offers access to a pantry Youth Pride, Inc. (YPI) and obtained its stocked with food, clothing, toiletries, and own tax-exempt status as a not-for-profit school supplies. The pantry is supported organization in 1994. The youth found through community and corporate strength in one another and in their donations. In the past year, YPI has visibility, and they expanded to include distributed over 2,000 pounds of goods social activities. to youth in need. By responding to the needs and voices of YPI youth, the organization has evolved over the years to become what we are today. YPI’s mission is to meet the unique needs of youth and young adults impacted by sexual orientation and gender identity/ expression while working to end the homophobic and transphobic environments in which they live, work, learn, and play. At our dropin center on Westminster Street, YPI currently offers Josh (he/him, 21) four weekly peerto-peer support groups, including one for gender nonconforming youth and one for youth ages 9 to 13. Counselors are on site

In addition to the services offered in-house, YPI provides hundreds of workshops each year to educators, parents, non-profit organizations, police stations, businesses, corporations, and others interested in learning how to best support LGBTQ+ youth. YPI staff and young leaders provide technical assistance to the more than 45 Gay/ Straight Alliances in middle schools, high schools, and colleges across the state, and work with state agencies and law makers to create policies to better serve LGBTQ+ Rhode Islanders. As YPI reflects on our 25th

anniversary of becoming an organization, we will take a moment on October 10 to celebrate some of the many successes we’ve had as a community, and recognize some of the folks who continue to make that possible, with a gala at Skyline at Waterplace. We expect the event to sell out, so I hope you have your ticket already. If not, you can find more information at youthprideri.org. Exciting things are

X (they/them, 20) & Mason (he/him, 15)

happening at YPI every day, and as we prepare to roll out our new strategic plan in 2020, we invite you to connect with us and find ways to be a part of the solution. The photos accompanying this article showcase a few of the current YPI youth, staff, and board members, capturing the beauty, joy, and strength that young folks find when they become a part of YPI. t Youth Pride Inc. provides support, education, and advocacy for LGBTQQ young people ages 9-23. Our Drop-in Center is at 473 Westminster Street, Providence, RI. Visit www.youthprideri.org, email info@ youthprideri.org,

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Age & Experience: APRI’s 35th Anniversary and the Beauty of Asking “What Next?”

by Mikel Wadewitz, Director, AIDS Project Rhode Island (APRI)

uring a recent APRI staff meeting, we were speaking of how an older generation living with HIV today is in uncharted territory. They are, to put it bluntly, the first to live this long. What does that mean? What services may be helpful? What is our plan to make sure they get the care they need in the future? And did we ever think we’d be here talking about all of this? When AIDS Project Rhode Island started in 1985, this didn’t seem possible. From the documents we have detailing the history of the organization, it’s clear that almost everyone involved was thinking about giving the public accurate information about AIDS, and taking care of the sick and dying while making sure they knew they were loved. It was impossible to imagine a world with PrEP, the Undetectable = Untransmittable campaign, one-pill-a-day HIV medication, and the Ryan White Care and Affordable Care Acts. As we plan how we will commemorate both the 31st World AIDS Day on December 1 and the 35th anniversary of APRI in early 2020, we’ve been thinking a lot about the passage of time, the things that have been accomplished in the fight against this epidemic, and how it has taken a passionate community advocating for

themselves to get to where we are today. And we’ve been asking, “What next?” We still have no cure for HIV, but we have had amazing advances in medicine, programs, and policies that ensure people are living longer, healthier lives. It is not perfect by any means. Inequality, lack of access to services, and pervasive stigma, remain large hurdles that we must work toward overcoming. Those hurdles will be surmounted by communities made up of people living with, at risk for, and affected by HIV coming together once again. Patient-activists and advocates shaped the early response to the HIV/ AIDS epidemic, ensuring people living with the virus were treated like human beings. In that spirit, now is the time for new alliances, grassroots efforts, support of local organizations, and communicating with legislators and officials about what we need—from competent long-term care for an aging population, to funding for social services that support good health outcomes and fight stigma. Just as we have the biomedical tools to help us end the epidemic, we have the people power and the voices to help shape the answer to: “What next?” Let’s not forget that. By honoring the past, we also plan for the future. A Rhode Island-based World AIDS Day event will take place the week of

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Dec. 1 and will be organized by the RI HIV/STI Prevention Coalition. Please follow them on Facebook at facebook. com/RIHIVSTIPrevention to stay updated. APRI will commemorate our 35th anniversary the evening of February 20, 2020, at the G Ballroom in Providence. More information will be available this fall. Sign up for email updates at www. aidsprojectri.org. t APRI is dedicated to providing a compassionate, nonjudgmental, and collaborative response to the needs of people living with, affected by, and at risk for acquiring HIV. APRI, a division of Family Service of Rhode Island, currently provides the largest number of support services in the state for individuals living with HIV/ AIDS, as well as comprehensive prevention and testing services. For more information, please visit aidsprojectri.org, facebook.com/ AIDSProjectRhodeIsland, or twitter.com/ AIDSProjectRI.

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Gay Flag Football League Gets it Right for Trans Players by Chris Cedroni

stin, a 30 year-old trans man, has a mohawk-like head of hair – long down the center and buzzed on the sides – which he dyes to match the season or his mood. He has bright eyes, a full beard, and two piercings under his lower lip, which he moves around when he is thinking. He spent a fair amount of time moving them back and forth as we chatted about the co-ed Providence Gay Flag Football League (PGFFL). We are both members, and I wanted to learn what the experience was like for him. Growing up in Florida, he played flag football until the fifth grade, but there weren’t opportunities for girls to play football beyond grade school. “I joined the marching band in high school and played right through college,” he tells me, “just so I can be close to the action.” His travels eventually took him to Rhode Island, where he married a woman, but the relationship didn’t end well. Ostin had dealt with anxiety and depression for many years.The stress of coming to terms with his gender identity and a tumultuous divorce made Ostin feel isolated, even from the LGBT community. It was around this time that the Providence Gay Flag Football League formed. Someone suggested that Ostin join. It seemed like a natural outlet to deal with some of the issues he was experiencing, but Ostin still had a measure of trepidation. “I didn’t know if I was going to step into a heteronormative situation – a ‘masc4masc*’ kind of thing.” Football, as a culture unto itself, has a certain measure

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of toxic masculinity that Ostin wondered if he would encounter. Even among gays and lesbians, Ostin had experienced a certain amount of transphobia, misunderstanding, and insensitivity. How would football and the “T” of the LGBT community mix? Right away, Ostin saw signs of a well-thought out, inclusive atmosphere at the PGFFL. The registration forms gave people an array of choices to identify (or not identify) their sexuality and gender expression. And the league has a robust statement on inclusion. His first day on the field, Ostin sensed that he was one of several transgender members of the league. In fact, almost 10 percent of members identified as trans. “Once I joined, I got a sense that there were a lot of people on the field that were educated about the LGBTQ community.” He quickly became comfortable enough to come out as a trans man, ready to answer the

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questions that many people had. “I have always tried to find my voice in the conversation and this was a place to do it…. I like to think of myself as a resource, someone who can help shape the questions that many people have, so that they can understand what they're asking.” Ostin is quick to point out that his story, like that of any trans person, is unique to him. He cultivates an air of approachability, and encourages questions about his experience. “Sometimes, they can get really personal.” But Ostin gets as much out of the league as he contributes. “Joining saved my life,” he says. It bolstered him against the anxiety and depression that had bedeviled him for years. It provided him with an opportunity to be himself. “We had an event at the beach, and it was the first time I felt comfortable publicly going bare-chested,” he tells me, “I had my team, my league there. I wouldn’t be judged from within, and I wouldn’t be threatened from outsiders. It feels like my chosen family,” he says. “I didn’t really know my dad, but I always wanted to have that experience of tossing around a football in the backyard with my father.” The members of the league, along with dozens of social opportunities, have brought Ostin a sense of camaraderie and belonging. The PGFFL is an inclusive place for people who just want to play football with friends – just as Ostin did as a child. t *“Masc4masc” indicates a masculine gay man seeking a masculine gay man, as in an online dating profile.

RI Pride to Honor Supporters at Annual Gala by Joe Lazzerini

new this year – Parade MVP Allison Alder. Our volunteers are the heart and soul of our organization and we can't do anything without their love, support, and dedication.

hode Island Pride invites you to celebrate the outstanding "Live Your Truth" accomplishments of members of our local LGBTQIA+ community and our allies at the annual Rhode Island Pride Honors Gala on November 3 at 6pm in the Grand Ballroom at the Providence Marriott Downtown. The event will feature performances by local drag queens, a cocktail hour with music by DJ Mario, and a cash bar. This year we are honoring longtime Rhode Island Pride volunteer Jen Stevens with the Pyramid of Pride award for her enduring commitment to the Rhode Island LGBTQIA+ community. Jen has spent her entire career advocating for the queer community, since becoming the first community organizer for Marriage Equality RI in 2004. She has also served RI Pride as an office manager and board member. Jen has co-produced the annual Pride Goddess Show and the monthly queer-friendly Sweet Little Variety Show for about a decade each, and currently serves as Editor-in-Chief of Options Magazine.

We’re also proud to present the following Illuminated Night Parade awards: t Best Illuminated: Unicorn Ink t Most Original: Intergalactic Alliance t Best Use of Theme: Youth Pride Inc. t Best Walking Contingent: Boston Colorguard Pride t Committee Award: Fear Town Haunted House

Spirit of Pride: Yolandi Fizzure

We hope to see you at RI Pride Honors on November 3 to acknowledge those who have given so much to making RI Pride and the community it serves something to be proud of! Tickets are available at Prideri.org/honors. t

Yolandi Fizzure will receive the Spirit of Pride award for their continued commitment and dedication to Rhode Island Pride and the broader LGBTQIA+ community.Yolandi is a community activist who is never afraid of using their voice to advocate for others. In addition to those awardees, RI Pride will also present volunteer awards to Volunteer of the Year Paul Biello, Rookie Volunteer of the Year Wini Lambrecht, PrideFest MVP Ostin Linnehan, and –

t President's Award: Moms Demand Action, RI Chapter

Pyramid of Pride: Jen Stevens

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Spotlight Interview: Dreya Catozzi by Jen Stevens

reya Catozzi, Thundermist Health Center’s Trans Health Empowerment Specialist and steering committee member of the much anticipated Open Door Health, is passionate about providing critical resources to the trans community, particularly to those “living in survival mode,” as she once had to. She created the Trans Women Resource Center as a platform through which to offer speaking engagements and resources to the trans women she meets through her activism. Options: What led you to launch your website, the Urban Trans Women Resource Center (UTWRC) in late 2017? Dreya: I was working as an insurance rep in a call center and was asked to be on their LGBTQ committee [and] to speak to employees about being a transgender woman of color. I told my story, and it seemed to help answer questions that a lot of my colleagues had about being transgender. My story seemed to have inspired those who heard me speak, and I learned that other employees either had a family member or knew someone who is transgender. As I made connections, I was asked to be on panels and speak at various events. I decided to go all in and created the UTWRC. My vision has yet to be carried out, but I am getting closer. I have been working with other organizations to assist me in my mission. The challenge is finding sponsorship or assistance in

getting my 501(c)(3) set up so that I can start applying for grants and hosting fundraisers. I know once I am over that barrier there is no stopping me. On your website you say, "I am a survivor of addiction, abuse, and an ex-worker in the sex industry.... I could not obtain the resources needed." Do you see trans women today as being trapped in

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similar circumstances, or are there better resources today? I worked in the sex industry while living in Colorado and Vegas. I was in survival mode. I escorted and worked in adult films as a way to keep my head above water. I feel if I had access to basic resources – a job, stable housing, and health care – it may have kept me

from going in the direction I did just to survive. But I did what I had to. I held down regular jobs until the issue of me being transgender would come up and my employer would fire me. Sometimes I was able to keep my job if my supervisor was a guy, and I would basically be used on the side for his pleasure, which would buy me time on the job and put extra money in my pocket. I guess I knew how to play the game. Today, there are [more] resources, but not enough to save the lives of my trans sisters of color, [who] have been lost within the LGBTQ community. [We] are at higher risk of experiencing homelessness, employment discrimination, and violence, and being infected by HIV. [Society] is not focusing enough on how to assist this community, to keep them from becoming a victim of circumstance. Bottom line is [we need] proper access to the basic resources needed to live and thrive in this life. The barriers to employment, health care, and housing, if [left unaddressed], will continue to put this community at risk. [Trans lives are in danger when] they are in constant survival mode.

living proof that when given a chance and resources, anything is possible.

murdered outside of the United States, [in places] such as Brazil.

If a trans woman living on the streets came to you for support today, where would you direct her?

You serve on the steering committee of Open Door Health, which will be Rhode Island’s first LGBTQ-focused health center when it opens this autumn in Providence. How can Open Door Health best serve trans women, and trans women of color in particular?

How did you leave sex work and eventually find stability?

Since 1999, the annual Transgender Day of Remembrance has shone a light on transphobia by memorializing transgender murder victims, many of whom are women of color. Is the public getting the message?

It seems everyone is directed to Crossroads; unfortunately I have not heard good things about this shelter. You absolutely cannot place trans women in the same facility as men. This is a very vulnerable population and extra safety and security is needed. We need to look

I believe Open Door will be a breath of fresh air, and I am very excited about what is to come. The location is perfect and accessible. I look forward to working with Open Door with the goal of UTWRC and Open Door addressing the needs of this population that I feel gets lost in translation. I have hope and faith that Dr. Phil Chan and his team will be open to implementing my ideas, and this organization will be the goto for the LGBTQ community.

If I had access to basic resources – a job, stable housing, and health care – it may have kept me from going in the direction I did just to survive.

My saving grace was when I went against all my instincts and took a bad call from a client. I was part of a prostitution ring and was arrested. I sat in my jail cell, knowing I could no longer live my life this way. When you get arrested as a sex worker you are required to get tested. I guess getting busted and finding out I was positive saved my life in some weird way. It was hard, but I created the resources I needed while being in survival mode. I had to advocate for myself, to live the life I knew I deserved. So, I say to people that I no longer have life and death problems, just your basic everyday life stuff. I am

into grants [for] a shelter that is trans specific. It hurts my heart when I [meet a woman in “survival mode” knowing] that once she is out of my presence she is going back to a place that is not safe.

If the message was getting across in the way it should, we would have more programs and resources in place to assist this community. As of Labor Day, 17 trans women of color [have been murdered in] 2019. And that is just here in the United States. Don't even get me started on the deaths of trans women of color who have been misgendered that we don't know about, or the thousands of trans women of color who are being

What are some simple ways members of RI's LGBQ community can support the local trans community? Recognize the needs of trans women, especially trans women of color, and really work together to put in place programs to assist this vulnerable community to live their best lives. [The trans community] is at the bottom of the food chain when it comes to getting funding for the obvious resources that are needed. At the end of the day we are all working to create change and opportunity. I am [hopeful] to see we are all open and willing to work together. t To connect with Dreya regarding her speaking engagements, or to get involved with UTWRC or her other projects, please write to dreya@utwrc.org.

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News from TGI Network of Rhode Island:

Remembering Trans Lives Lost in 2019 by Ethan Huckel

Dana Martin Jazzaline Ware

s of September 9, these twenty transgender souls, the vast majority of whom are black transgender women, have been violently taken from us in 2019. Still more deaths will go unreported.As we do each year, we will gather together on the Transgender Day of Remembrance, November 20, at Beneficent Congregational Church in Providence, to mourn these losses and unite as a community. This horrific violence falls at the intersection of transphobia, homophobia, and racism. It is imperative that we commit to fighting for racial justice, as it is integral to defending our trans siblings’ lives. t TGI Network of Rhode Island is the only statewide organization providing support, advocacy and education for the transgender, gender-diverse, and intersex community (aka trans community). Incorporated in 2011, our mission is to be a resource for TGI people navigating their lives and the medical and legal systems; to serve as a resource for professionals working with TGI people; and to serve as a liaison between the TGI and LGB communities and the community at large. Visit us at www.tginetwork.org.

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Felicitations By Felicia Nimue Ackerman

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It doesn't take a lot of sense To see what's wrong with Michael Pence. He thinks that if you're gay or trans You're out of line with godly plans. He wants to leave you in the cold Unless you fit his narrow mold. So, all in all, it's plain to see He's biased to the nth degree.

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SAGE-RI News Update by Cathy Gorman, SAGE-RI Steering Committee

ince its relaunch in 2018, SAGE-RI has enjoyed a busy and successful year, thanks to support from the LGBT community and opportunities to partner with other organizations. The August 23 SAGETable Intergenerational Dinner, co-sponsored by RI Pride, Thundermist, and the Renaissance City Softball League, was well attended and truly intergenerational. A generous buffet, good company, and music contributed to an enjoyable are needed; success will depend on the evening. A series of questions posed contribution of your knowledge and skills. A new LGBT History Club will meet to spark discussion led to engaging conversations about ageism and social from 2-4pm on fourth Wednesdays change, providing an opportunity to learn each month at the Church of the Transfiguration in from someone In an extremely important Cranston. Topics newly met. state-wide initiative, we are of conversation SAGE-RI’s launching a series of trainings are to be annual meeting determined by will be held for social service and health participants with Sunday, October care providers focused on the intention 20 from 3-5pm the needs and concerns of of learning and at the Brooklyn LGBT older adults. preserving LGBT Coffee & Tea history. Events House (209 will be discussed Douglas Avenue, Providence). This from the standpoints of social change recently renovated space is accessible with ample parking. Delicious refreshments and personal perspective. Bring pictures, will be catered in-house and time will memorabilia, and recollections. All are be set aside for socializing. In addition to welcome, and light refreshments will be the customary annual reports, members, served. SAGE-RI’s LGBT Cafe continues friends, and allies will learn about SAGE- to be held at noon on third Fridays, also RI goals and objectives for 2020. A at the Church of the Transfiguration. number of important projects are in development, and community feedback will set priorities. Additional volunteers

In an extremely important statewide initiative, we are launching a series of trainings for social service and health

care providers focused on the needs and concerns of LGBT older adults. This program is supported by a grant from the Rhode Island Foundation through the Equity Action Fund.The presenter for the first series will be SAGECare’s trainer for New England James Ashton, whose curriculum was developed by SAGE/ USA with resources from the National Center on LGBT Aging. This two-part program offers a series of workshops aimed toward service settings: hospital and primary care, long term care, and assisted living and community- based agencies. Part two will be offered in April. Participants who attend a workshop this fall and the follow-up in April will receive a certificate of completion, and may become resource specialists for their setting. (CEU credits are TBD.) Registration is open to all, and participants may choose to attend the session most relevant to their work setting. For further information and registration information, write to sageriinfo@gmail.com. t SAGE-RI (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) addresses issues of concern to LGBT elders and is an organization of diverse people of all ages. For information on programs or to join SAGE-RI, drop us a line at sageriinfo@gmail.com; find us on Facebook as SAGE-Rhode Island; or send correspondence to SAGE-RI c/o the Church of the Transfiguration, 1665 Broad Street, Cranston, RI 02905.

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Open Door Health: Pioneering Holistic Care for LGBTQ Individuals by Abigail Nilsson

ivulging details about your personal life to a stranger can feel uncomfortable, especially when it comes to sexual health. That risky behavior that you indulged in with that super sexy stranger last Saturday night may leave you with a lingering question in the back of your mind: “Should I have been more careful?” Now, the right thing to do is get tested, but the fear of judgment from your doctor, or admitting that part of your sexual history to the health care professional you barely know is enough to deter most people from having an STD test. Never mind the stress of waiting for the results. Many people ignore the health risks until symptoms surface, and thus many STDs go untreated before diseases are already transmitted. Local health care professionals have decided it’s time to offer Rhode Islanders an alternative to the avoidance and fear around taking control of one’s sexual health. Open Door Health (ODH) is a new 501(c)(3) non-profit health care center scheduled to open in November with a mission to provide quality holistic care to the LGBTQ community in and around Providence. This will be the first LGBTQcenterd health clinic in the area. ODH will offer primary care as well as express STD screens and HIV and AIDS testing.

The ODH facility, located at 7 Central Street in Providence, was still under construction when Options came to visit, but it is easy to see that there is a comfortable, chic, and welcoming feel as you walk in. Amy Nunn, Executive Director of the Rhode Island Public Health Institute (RIPHI), says the design

of the clinic was inspired by the Dean Street Clinic in London, and they hope to have local artists decorate the inside and outside of the building to enhance the welcoming environment they’re creating.

Cassandra Sutten-Coates, project director at Open Door Health, Guiallaume Bagal, Lead, Diversity and Inclusion at BCBS of RI, RIPHI board member, Dr Philip Chan, Chief Medical Officer, Open Door Health, Richie DiFilipo, RIPHI board member, Dr. Amy Nunn, executive director, RIPHI and Open Door Health

Primary care and sexual health are currently the main focuses at ODH, but they plan to expand to have mental health counselors, and will recruit professionals who specialize in women’s health and transgender health. Dr. Philip A. Chan said, “There is a focus on sexual health and we also want to ensure that all LGBTQ needs are addressed.” The flexibility and convenience of this clinic may surprise you. They offer to travel to clients for STD screens, and they’ll provide free health care to those in need, walk-in rapid testing and appointments, and access to expert medical specialists. And they pledge to treat everyone as an individual. Dr. Chan said, “Honesty and open communication is key when working with people. Hopefully we will be a fit for those who don’t feel comfortable with their doctors so everyone can communicate openly.” ODH has an impressive list of community and municipal partners well beyond the expected health care organizations, including church groups, housing authorities, Community Action Programs, and food-related organizations. The ODH board of directors agree that the aim is to treat the whole person, and a variety of resources will be available including housing, nutrition, and support groups. “We hope to be cutting edge nationally with our leadership and our

board,” said board member Leonard Green. They want everyone to feel safe and comfortable when confiding in the health professionals at ODH. There is a Community Advisory and Action Board (CAAB) that met in August to provide feedback on ODH services and to maintain connections within the community. Board member Mark Tracy said, “We are very lucky to have a very diverse state. To me the way to solve intractable problems is to have vibrant and different perspectives. I am very optimistic because of Rhode Island’s size that we will export Open Door Health outside of Rhode Island. I hope we can actually change health care in this country.” Rhode Island has one of the highest rates of LGBTQ-identifying people per capita in the country, and all board members agree that it’s high time that an innovative clinic specializing in LGBTQ health opens in Providence. As the first health center of its kind, Amy Nunn said, “we want to get it right by serving the public the best way.” t Open Door Health aims to make healthcare more accessible for everyone, and is committed to providing high-quality, patient-centered care to LGBTQ Rhode Islanders and the community at large. To learn more, visit the RI Public Health Institute’s website: RIPHI.org.

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RESOURCES Options originated in 1982 as the offical newsletter of the Rhode Island Gay Task Force. Editor Jos Fayette explained, “The RIGTF wants to make the homosexual community aware of their options as gay men and women in Rhode Island. And it’s only because we live, work, love, and play in this state that there are such a large number of options available to all of us.” Options has always, and will continue to print LGBTQ resources so that

you can, as Fayette went on to say, “Exercise your OPTIONS today to make positive changes in your life tomorrow.” Help us help you! Email info@optionsri.org if you come across a resource listing that needs updating. New, updated, and featured resources are highlighted. Phone numbers are in the 401 area code and addresses are in Rhode Island, unless otherwise indicated.

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AIDS Quilt RI: Displays local AIDS memorial quilt panels, panelmaking programs including Anna’s Workshop, HIV/AIDS education for young people. PO Box 2591, Newport. 434-4880. admin@ aidsquiltri.org. www.aidsquiltri.org. Brown University AIDS Program: Clinical trials, public policy, research, lectures, conferences, patient and community education. 121 South Main Street, Second Floor, Providence. 863-6790. brunap@ brown.edu. brown.edu/Departments/BRUNAP. Community Care Alliance: Case management, support, personal care items for people living with HIV/AIDS in northern Rhode Island. 245 Main Street, Woonsocket. 235-6092. lcohen@famresri.org. Community Care Alliance-Agape Providence: Transitional housing, drop-in center, testing, intensive case management, counseling, peer support for people living with HIV/AIDS. 292 Elmwood Ave, Providence. 572-3800. www.communitycareri.org. Comprehensive Community Action Programs: Medical, mental health, dental, social services, LGBT outreach. 311 Doric Avenue, Cranston. Also Coventry, Pawtucket, and Warwick. 467-9610. Gabriel Care, LLC: Nursing/social worker case management and financial compensation for assistance and supervision for those living with HIV. MassHealth funded for MA residents. 376 South Main Street, Fall River, MA. Contact Jenn, (508) 678-1002. HIV Antibody Testing: Anonymous. Free or sliding scale. RI Department of Health. Providence, Newport and other locations. 222-2320. Home and Hospice Care of RI: Medical care management for HIV/AIDS. 24hr nursing staff for treatment. 1085 North Main Street, Providence. Referrals: 782-0725. Bereavement groups: Contact John Charette, 727-7079. Main Office: 415-4200 or toll-free 800-3386555. www.hhcri.org. House of Compassion: HIV/AIDS housing. 2510 Mendon Road, Cumberland. 658-3992. LGBT Caregiver Online Support Group: For LGBTs caring for someone with chronic health problems. www.caregiver.org. Luis E. Martinez House CHS, Inc.: Supportive, permanent housing for 10 adults living with HIV/AIDS and/or substance abuse. New Bedford, MA. Contact Joe Taylor. (508) 984-7514. Miriam Hospital HIV & STD Testing Clinic: For gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, HIV, Hep C, and trichomoniasis. Linking to

AA Brothers in Sobriety: Gay men's open meeting -- all welcome. Saturdays 7:30 -- 8:30 pm. 296 Angell St., Providence, basement, 2nd door on side street (Diman Place). 419-0051 AddictionCenter.com: Web information guide for addiction resources nationwide. Or call 1-877-830-2915. Alcohol/Drug Helpline: RI Council on Alcoholism & Drug Dependence. 24hr. (866) 252-3784. RI LGBT AA Group: Tuesdays 7 -- 8 pm Bell Street Chapel, 5 Bell St., Providence, 273-5678. All are welcome. Seven Hills Behavioral Health: Addiction support services and Narcan. 1173 Acushnet Avenue, New Bedford, MA, 508999-4159. 310 S. Main Street, Fall River, MA, 508-235-1012. Leonard Amaral, Program Manager, lamaral@sevenhills.org. Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous: 12-step program. Fridays at 7pm. Providence Presbyterian Church, 500 Hope Street, Providence, side entrance, downstairs to the left. Gay, but all are welcome. YPTQ (Young People, Queer, Trans) meeting of AA: Wednesdays 7:30 -- 8:30pm, “common room” of Brown University Alumni Hall, 194 Meeting Street, Providence.

AIDS/HEALTH RESOURCES Afia Center for Health & Wellness: Meals, food pantry, HIV support groups, recreational and social activities. Sponsored by AIDS Project RI. Free to clients.. Wed. and Thurs. 12 -- 3pm. 485 Plainfield St., Providence. Info: Kim Clohecy, 744-4735. AIDS Action Hotline: MA only. (800) 235-2331. www.aac.org. AIDS Care Ocean State: Confidential HIV & Hep C testing, safersex supplies, case management, emergency funds, clinical services, assisted and supportive housing for people living with HIV/AIDS, street outreach, ENCORE, HIV+ support groups. Speaker’s Bureau, 18 Parkis Ave., Providence. 521-3603 (call 781-0665 to schedule an appointment). www.aidscareos.org. AIDS Project RI: Division of Family Service of RI. Case management, dental services, emergency fund, mental health counseling, nutrition support, assessment and referral, wellness programs, advocacy, prevention education. Free HIV, syphilis, Hep C rapid testing. 9 Pleasant Street, Providence. 831-5522 www.aidsprojectri.org.

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physicians for PrEP. Wed. -- Fri. 12:30 -- 3:30. 1125 N. Main St., Providence (rear of building). 793-4715. Partners in Learning About AIDS: Outreach to minorities, women of color, and LGBT community at clubs and other locations. North Providence office provides free condoms and information about STIs and post-exposure prophylaxis for HIV. 1006 Charles Street, Suite 5, North Providence. 484-7523. info@plaidsproject.org. www.plaidsproject.org. Planned Parenthood of So. New England: Confidential, low-cost, same-day & walk-in STD and HIV testing. Commonsense approach to health. 175 Broad Street. 800-230-7526. www.ppsne.org. Prima CARE Transgender Clinic: Fall River, MA. Counseling, hormonal reassignment, referrals for surgery. Kishore Lakshman, MD. 508-235-0481. Seven Hills HIV Prevention & Screening: TWIST program, HIV and STI prevention and testing, partner care. 1173 Acushnet Avenue, New Bedford, MA, 508-999-4159. 310 S. Main Street, Fall River, MA, 508-235-1012. Contact Leonard Amaral, lamaral@sevenhills.org. SSTAR (Stanley Street Treatment & Resources): Counseling, drug treatment, detox, domestic violence programs, free and confidential HIV, HEP C, and STD testing, education, case management and support. MA and RI locations. 386 Stanley Street, Fall River, MA. (508) 679-5222. Project Aware (HIV/HCV); (508) 324-3561. Family Healthcare Center; (508) 675-1054. www.sstar.org. Steppingstone, Inc.: Welcome Home Medical case management program. One-on-one peer support in Somerset to Wareham area. HIV support groups available. Free and open to any HIV+ person 18+. 5 Dover Street, New Bedford, MA. (508) 984-7514. www.steppingstoneinc.org. Tranquil Mind & Wellness: Counseling, alternative healing, yoga, Pilates, meditation.109 Rhode Island Road, Lakeville, MA. (508) 9471683. www.tranquilmind.net. Thundermist Health Center: Provides HIV/AIDS services including medical care and treatment by an HIV specialist, dental care, behavioral health counseling, nutritional assessment and counseling, pharmacy consultation, free and confidential HIV testing. 450 Clinton Street, Woonsocket. Contact Philip Kane. 767-4100 ext. 3516.

RILGBT-News: Low-volume email distribution list for LGBT & AIDS news from RI. Not a discussion list. To subscribe: tinawood@cox.net. South Coast LGBTQ Network: Information & advocacy network for individuals of all ages. 774-371-0711. info@ sclgbtqnetwork.org. www.sclgbtqnetwork.org. United Way of RI Referral Line: 2-1-1 on your telephone.

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POLITICAL & LEGAL GROUPS

The Center for Sexual Pleasure & Health: Education, pleasure, health, advocacy. Tues. -- Sat. 12 -- 6 and by appointment. 250 Main Street, Unit 1, Pawtucket. 489-5513. www.thecsph.org. Fenway Community Center LGBT Helpline: Support, information and referrals. Fenway Community Health Center, Boston. Open daily 6-11pm. (617) 267-9001 or 888-340-452 GLBT National Help Center Hotline: Local resources nationwide provided by social services agency. 888-843-4564. www.glbtnationalhelpcenter.org. Newport Out: LGBT website for Newport. www.newportout.com.

American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU): 128 Dorrance Street, Suite 400, Providence. 831-7171. riaclu.org. Amnesty International OUTfront: Program to campaign globally for LGBTQ human rights. (212)807-8400. Cvohs18904@ yahoo.com. www.amnestyusa.org. Brown University Queer Alliance: Student advocacy and support organization. queer@brown.edu. Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD): LGBT/HIV legal info hotline. Weekdays 1:30-4:30pm. 30 Winter Street, Suite 800, Boston, MA. (617) 436-1350 or (800) 455-GLAD. gladlaw@ glad.org www.GLAD.org. Lambda Legal Defense & Education Fund: 120 Wall Street, Suite 1500, NY. (212) 809-8585. www.lambdalegal.org. Lawyers for Equality and Diversity (LEAD): Advocates for LGBT causes. lawyersforequality@gmail.com.

NIGHTLIFE The Alley Cat Providence: Downtown neighborhood bar. Monday-Thursday 3pm-1am, Friday 3pm-2am, Saturday 2pm2am, Sunday 2pm-1am. 19 Snow Street, Providence. 272-6369. Bobby’s Place: Dancing, pool, video lounge, karaoke. SundayWednesday 5pm-1am, Thursday-Saturday 5pm-2am. 62 Weir Street, Taunton, MA. (508) 824-9997. www.bobbysplacema.com. Brooklyn Coffee Tea House: 209 Douglas Ave., Providence: public/private venue for music, art, film screenings, weddings, showers, etc. RHODYWOOD@yahoo.com; 359-0192. Club Body Center: Gay men’s sauna. Membership required. One-day pass available. Open 24hr. 257 Weybosset Street, Providence. 274-0298. www.cbcresorts.com. The Dark Lady: Downtown bar and nightclub. TuesdayThursday 9pm-1am, Friday & Saturday 9pm-3am, Sunday 9pm1am. 17 Snow Street, Providence. 272-6369. EGO: Providence’s newest gay nightlife performance/event space. Sunday and Thursday 9pm-1am, Friday and Saturday 10pm-3am, 73 Richmond St, Providence. 383-1208. www.egopvd.com. Mirabar: Downtown bar and nightclub. Monday-Thursday 3pm-1am, Friday and Saturday 3pm-2am, Sunday 3pm-1am. 15 Elbow Street, Providence. 331-6761. www.mirabar.com. Providence Eagle: Leather, Levi, bear cruise bar. MondayThursday 2pm-1am, Friday 2pm-2am, Saturday-Sunday 12pm2am. 124 Snow Street, Providence. 421-1447. The Stable: Downtown video bar. No cover. Monday-Thursday 2pm-1am, Friday 2pm-2am, Saturday 12pm-2am, Sunday 12pm1am. 125 Washington Street, Providence. 272-6950.

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National Lesbian & Gay Journalists Assoc./New England: Works for fair and accurate media coverage of LGBT issues. info@ nlgja.org, www.nlgja.org. The Next Thing (TNT): Political and support group for queer people of color located at Brown University. 863-3062. tnt@ brown.edu. RI Commission on Prejudice and Bias: Hate crime awareness training program. www.calloutprejudiceri.org RI Socialist Action: 952-5385, adgagneri@gmail.com. Spanish: 351-3514, walsil@cox.net. RI Human Rights Commission: Anti-discrimination law enforcement agency with jurisdiction in employment, housing, public accommodations, and credit. 180 Westminster Street, 3rd floor, Providence. 222-2662 TTY: 222-2664, richr.ri.gov. Scouts for Equality: An organization composed largely of Boy Scouts of America alumni dedicated to ending the BSA’s ban on gay members and leaders. Contact Carol Crowther. ccrowther1@ gmail.com. Facebook.com/riscoutsforequality. Servicemembers Legal Defense Network: Serving LGBT military personnel and veterans. PO Box 65301, Washington DC. (202) 328-3244. or (800) 538-7418. sldn@sldn.org. www.sldn.org.

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All Saints Memorial Church: 674 Westminster Street, Providence. 751-1747. asmcri@verizon.net. www.allsaintsmemorial.org. Amicable Congregational Church: UCC. Open & Affirming. Pastor William Sterrett. Sunday 10am. 3736 Main Road, Tiverton. 624-4611. amicablechurch@aol.com, www.amicablechurch.org. Association of Welcoming & Affirming Baptists: robin@awab.org, www.awab.org. Barrington Congregational Church: UCC. “The white church.” Sundays 10am. 461 County Road, Barrington. 246-0111. office@bccucc.org, www.bccucc.org. Bell Street Chapel: Unitarian Universalist. A Welcoming Congregation. Sundays 10am. 5 Bell Street, Providence. 273-5678. www.bellstreetchapel.org. Beneficent Congregational Church: UCC.An Open & Affirming congregation in the heart of Providence. Sundays 10am. 300 Weybosset Street, Providence. 331-9844. BeneficentChurchUCC@ gmail.com, www.beneficentchurch.org. Berean Baptist Church: A safe and welcoming place for all God’s children. Sunday 10am. 474 Chapel Street, Harrisville. 568-5411. bereanbaptist@verizon.net. www.bereanri.net. Calvary United Methodist Church of Middletown: LGBTQ early dementia support group. Contact Amy. Sundays 10:30am. 200 Turner Road, Middletown. 847-6181, www.middletownmethodist.com. Central Congregational Church: UCC. An Opening & Affirming Congregation. Sundays 10:30am. 296 Angell Street, Providence. 331-1960. www.centralchurch.us. Channing Memorial Church: Unitarian Universalist. A Welcoming Congregation. Sundays 10am. 135 Pelham Street, Newport. 846-0643. administrator@channingchurch.org. www.channingchurch.org. The Chapel of the Holy Spirit: Independent Old Catholic. Fr. Jakob Lazarus. Sunday 9am and 6pm. 155 Douglas Avenue, Providence. 413-4821. www.holyparaclete.org. Chapel Street Congregational Church UCC: Open & Affirming.

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185 Chapel St., Lincoln, RI. 722-7934. www.chapelstreetucc.com. Charter Oak Grove ADF: An Open and Welcoming Congregation of Neo-pagan Druids in CT. charteroakadf@gmail.com, www.charteroakadf.org. Christ Church in Lonsdale: 1643 Lonsdale Avenue, Lincoln. Services 8am and 10:30am.725-1920.office@christchurchlincoln.org. www.christchurchlincoln.org. Church of the Ascension, 390 Pontiac Ave., Cranston, RI 02910. Sundays at 10am. 461-5811. www.ascensioncranston.org. Church of the Epiphany: A diverse Open & Affirming Episcopal congregation. 1336 Pawtucket Avenue, East Providence. 434-5012. info@epiphanyep.org, www.epiphanyep.org. Church of the Redeemer, a Welcoming Episcopal church. 655 Hope St., Providence. www.redeemerprovidence.org. office@ redeemerprovidence.org. Rev. Patrick Campbell, 331-0678. Concordia Center for Spiritual Living: A diverse community welcoming all spiritual paths to God. Sunday Celebration 9:15am. 292 W. Shore Rd., Warwick. Rev. Ian Taylor, 732-1552. info@concordiachurchri.com. www.ConcordiaCSL.com. Edgewood Congregational Church: UCC. Open & Affirming. Service 10am. 1788 Broad Street, Cranston. 461-1344. office@edgewoodchurchri.org. www.edgewoodchurchri.org. Emmanuel Episcopal Church: Sundays 8 and 9:30am. 120 Nate Whipple Highway, Cumberland. 658-1506. office@emmanuelri.org. www.emmanuelri.org. First Unitarian Church: A welcoming congregation. Sunday 10:30am. 1 Benevolent Street, Providence. 421-7970. admin@firstunitarianprov.org, www.firstunitarianprov.org. First Unitarian Church: Service 11am. 71 8th Street, New Bedford, MA. (508) 994-9686. admin@uunewbedford.org, www.uunewbedford.org. First Universalist Society: UU. Welcoming congregation. Samegender weddings. 262 Chestnut Street, Franklin, MA. (508) 5285348. fusf@verizon.net, www.fusf.org. Foxboro Universalist Church: UUA. Service 10am. 6 Bird Street, Foxboro, MA. 508-543-4002. chair@uufoxborough.org. www. uufoxborough.org. Grace Episcopal Church in Providence: 175 Mathewson Street, Providence. 331-3225. hello@gracechurchprovidence.org. www. gracechurchprovidence.org. Hopedale Unitarian Parish: Sundays 10:30 am. 65 Hopedale St., Hopedale, MA. www.hopedaleunitarian.org, 508-473-0745. Rev. Tony Lorenzen. Immanuel Lutheran Church: A Reconciling in Christ congregation. Pastor Sandra Demmler D’Amico. 647 North Main Street, Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-2898. www.immanuellc.org. Interweave at Channing Memorial UU Church: Organization for the spiritual, political and social well-being of LGBTQ persons, and their allies, confronting oppression. 135 Pelham Street, Newport. 846-0643. Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd: A “Reconciling in Christ” congregation (Welcoming). 3383 Old North Rd., Kingston, RI. Sundays 9 am. Pastor Mary Hansen-Joyce. 789-7776; office@ goodshepherdri.org. Mathewson St. Church: United Methodist. 134 Mathewson Street, Providence. 331-8900. MathewsonStUMC@gmail.com. Mercy of God Community: Christian, inclusive religious order. mercycomm@yahoo.com, www.mgc.org. Murray Unitarian Universalist Church: Marriage and commitment ceremonies for all. Rev. Bob McKetchnie. 505 North Main Street, Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-0505 www.murrayuuchurch.org.

Newman Congregational Church: Open & Affirming. 100 Newman Avenue, Rumford. 434-4742. www.newmanucc.org. Newport Congregational Church: UCC. Open & Affirming. Rev. Hayes and Rev. Baker. 73 Pelham Street, Newport. 849-2238. Park Place Congregational Church: 71 Park Place, Pawtucket. 726-2800. office@ppucc.necoxmail.com, www.parkplaceucc.com. Pilgrim Lutheran Church: An inclusive congregation. Sundays 8 and 9:30am. 1817 Warwick Avenue, Warwick. 739-2937. parishasst@pilgrimlutheranri.org, pilgrimlutheranri.jimdo.com. Pilgrim United Church of Christ: Open and Affirming. 635 Purchase Street, New Bedford, MA. (508)-997-9086. Providence Presbyterian Church: 500 Hope St., Providence. Service 10 am. 861-1136. www.provpresri.org. provpresri@ verizon.net. The Pub Church: An Open & Affirming church that meets in a pub. Location may change. Saturday 5pm. The Dugout, 722 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston, MA. thepubchurch@gmail.com. Riverside Church: UCC.15 Oak Avenue, Riverside. Service 10am. 433-2039. www.rcc-ucc.com. St. Augustine’s Church and Episcopal Center at URI: 15 Lower College Road, Kingston. 783-2153. Sundays 8am and 10am. StAugustinesChurch@necoxmail.com, www.staugustineuri.org. St. James Church: Episcopal. 474 Fruit Hill Avenue, North Providence. 353-2079. St. Martin’s Episcopal Church: Sundays 8 and 10am. 50 Orchard Avenue, Providence. 751-2141. StMartinsNB.Secretary@gmail.com, www.stmartinsprov.org. St. Martin’s Episcopal Church: Welcoming Church. Monthly LGBT Eucharist. 136 Rivet Street, New Bedford, MA. (508)9948972. stmartins1887@comcast.com, www.stmartinsma.org. St. Paul’s Episcopal Church: Sundays 9am. 50 Park Place, Pawtucket. 728-4300. office@stpaulspawtucket.org, www.stpaulspawtucket.org. St. Paul’s Church: A welcoming Episcopal church. Sundays 9am. 2679 East Main Street, Portsmouth. 683-1164. stpaulsportsmouthri. org. St. Peter & St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church: 25 Pomona Avenue, Providence. 272-9649.stpanda25@verizon.net. www.stpeters-standrews.org. Saint Therese Old Catholic Church: Open & Affirming. Fr. David Martins. Sunday 10:30am. 1500 Main St., W. Warwick, RI 02893. 680-9076. stocc134@gmail.com, www.saintthereseocc.org. Second Congregational Church of Attleboro: UCC. Open & Affirming. 50 Park Street, Attleboro, MA. Sunday 10am. (508) 2224677. office2nd@verizon.net. www.attleborosecondchurch.org. Seekonk Congregational Church: Open & Affirming. Sundays 9 and 10:30am. Rev. Joy Utter, 600 Fall River Ave., Seekonk, MA. (508) 336-9355. sccucc@verizon.net. www.scc-ucc.com. Soka Gakkai: Buddhist association for peace, culture, and education. Contact for weekly meetings in Providence. 930 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston. (617) 264-2000. www.sgi-usa.org. Temple Agudas Achim: Reconstructionist congregation. 901 North Main Street, Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-2243. office@agudasma.org, www.agudasma.org. Temple Beth-El: Rabbi Sarah E. Mack. 70 Orchard Avenue, Providence. 331-6070. info@temple-beth-el.org, www.temple-beth-el.org.

Temple Emanu-El: A welcoming Conservative congregation. Rabbi Wayne Franklin. 99 Taft Avenue, Providence. 331-1616. info@teprov.org, www.teprov.org. Temple Habonim: A warm, Welcoming Reform congregation. Rabbi Andrew Klein. 165 New Meadow Road, Barrington. 2456536. office@templehabonim.org, www.templehabonim.org. Temple Sinai: A Welcoming Reform temple. Rabbi Jeff Goldwasser, 30 Hagen Avenue, Cranston. 942-8350. webmaster@templesinairi.org, www.templesinairi.org. Unitarian Church in Fall River: Sunday 10:30am. 309 North Main Street, Fall River, MA. 508-678-9700. office@unitarianchurchfr.org, www.unitarianchurchfr.org. Unitarian Universalist Society of Fairhaven: Service 10:30am. 102 Green Street, Fairhaven, MA. (508) 992-7081. www.uufairhaven. org. Unitarian Universalist Congregation of South County: 27 North Road, Peace Dale. 783-4170 or Val 789-7282. uucscri@ yahoo.com. www.uusouthcountyri.org. United Congregational Church, 524 Valley Rd., Middletown RI 02842. A Welcoming congregation. Sunday, 10 am. www.UCCMiddletown.org. 849-5444. Westminster Unitarian Universalist Church: A UUA Welcoming Congregation. 119 Kenyon Avenue, East Greenwich. 884-5933. www.westminsteruu.org.

SOCIAL ORGANIZATIONS Bisexual Resource Center: PO Box 170796, Boston, MA. (617) 4249595. brc@bicresource.net www.biresource.net. Biversity Boston: Mixed-gender social events for Boston and the surrounding area. (617) 424-9595. biversity-subscribe@biversity.org, www.biversity.org. Boston Bisexual Women’s Network: Social activities including monthly brunches and quarterly publication, Bi Women Quarterly. www.biwomenboston.org. Cape and Islands Gay & Straight Youth Alliance (CIGSYA): 56 Barnstable Road, Hyannis, MA. (508) 778-7744. info@cisgsya.org, www.cigsya.org. Communisong: For unity through song. Non-performance monthly singing session. www.communisong.net. Gay Men’s Social Group: FirstTuesdays,6 -- 9pm,Seven Hills Behavioral Health, 1177 Acushnet Ave., New Bedford, MA. Refreshments. Info: Lenny Amaral, 508-999-4159 or lamaral@sevenhills.org. Imperial Court of RI at Providence: Drag and non-drag performers raise funds for local charities. All welcome to general membership meetings on first Monday at Dark Lady, 17 Snow Street, Providence. icri.prov@gmail.com. www.icriprov.org. Mixed Borders Gardening Group: Gardening and more. Monthly meetings, all welcome. Mixedborders@cox.net. www.mixedborders.com. Opera Club: Enjoy hearing and attending. Last Sunday of each month at 1pm. BrettCornellpi4@aol.com. Providence Gay Men’s Chorus: New season rehearsals begin in January and August. Singers and non-singing volunteers welcome. Monday 7-9:30pm. Beneficent Church, 300 Weybosset Street, Providence. www.provgmc.org. Queer Book Club: 3rd Wednesday, 7pm. Books on the Square, 471 Angell Street, Providence, queerbookclub@gmail.com.

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RI Association of Gay Professionals: Networking and philanthropy. www.riagp.com. RI Parents Pride: Gay parents socializing together with their children. Contact Melanie. 464-2288. saphicangel120@yahoo.com. RI Pride: Open house 4th Wednesdays. Festival & Parade 3rd Saturday in June. Office: 1055 Westminster St., Providence 02903. Mail: PO Box 1082, Providence, 02903. 467-2130. info@prideri.com, www.prideri.com. RI Prime Timers: Social and networking group for older gay and bi men. Second Sunday. Call Steve, 996-3010. www.riprimetimers.org. RI Skeptics Society: Yearning to talk with someone rational? Refreshing discussion. Fourth Saturday. East Providence restaurant location. www. meetup.com/skeptics-133/. RI Women’s Association: Lesbian social group. 21+. Dances & events. www.riwa.net. SAGE/RI (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders): Advocacy, education, social events for LGBT seniors. Steering Committee meets first Saturdays at Church of theTransfiguration, 1665 Broad St., Cranston 02905. All members and friends welcome. Write us at the church or sageriinfo@gmail.com. Facebook: SAGERhode-Island. www.sage-ri.org. .SEMASSMEN: Social group for GBQ men of southeastern MA & RI to foster strong friendships. Semassmen-subscribe@ yahoogroups.com. rlevass@yahoo.com. South Coast Social Club for Gay & Bisexual Men: Social and networking opportunities for gay & bisexual men in S.E. Mass. www. southeastsocialclub.com. Yankee Lambda Car Club: Regional club for GLBT vintage and specialty car enthusiasts. www.yankeelcc.com.

SPORTS & RECREATION PrideSports Boston: Network of twenty-plus gay sports leagues/teams in Boston area. www.pridesportsboston.com. Boston Gay BASKETBALL League: ksg.bgbl@gmail.com, www.bgbl.com. BOATING: Yankee Cruising Club, New England’s club for LGBTQ boaters. www.yankeecruising.org. yankeecruisingclub@ gmail.com. Keith (508) 423-6123. Big Gay Al’s Duckpin BOWLING League: Proceeds benefit AIDS causes. Tuesday 6:30pm. 1463 Atwood Avenue, Town Hall Lanes, Johnston. Contact Frank Ferri. 831-6940.www. bgalbowling.com. www.townhalllanes.com. FIELD HOCKEY: Teamworks Somerset, 732 Lee’s River Ave., Somerset, MA. New season every 10 weeks. (508-676-3956) info@teamworkssomerset.com. GALA Bowling League: Sundays 5:50 p.m., E. Providence Lanes, 80 Newport Ave., E. Providence. Season begins in Aug. View us on Facebook or email galabowling1990@gmail.com. FLAG (For Lesbians And Gays) FOOTBALL: Bostonbased recreational football club. All skill levels are encouraged to participate. Saturday mornings in the fall and spring. www. flagflagfootball.com. Boston Pride HOCKEY: www.bostonpridehockey.org. Providence Gay Flag FOOTBALL League: spring and fall leagues, Saturdays in Warwick. LGBTQIA, all skill levels welcome. Visit www.pvdgffl.org or email info@pvdgffl.org. Rondeaus KICKBOXING: 272-5425. www. rondeauskickboxing.com.

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Main Street MARTIAL ARTS: Non-profit. Welcoming dojo and community center. 1282 North Main Street, Providence. 274-7672.www.mainstma.org. Chiltern Mountain Club: OUTDOOR recreation club in New England. events@chiltern.org. www.chiltern.org. Boston Gay ROWERS: Worldwide online community for gay and lesbian rowers, coxies, coaches, and race officials. www.glrf.org. Boston Ironsides RUGBY Football: www.bostonironsides.org. Providence Women’s RUGBY Club: Competitive and recreational. www.providencerugby.com. Frontrunners Rhode Island RUNNING Group: Running and walking group. Newcomers welcome. Meet at the end of Blackstone Boulevard at Hope Street, Providence. Thursday 6pm. Contact Brian. 751-7643. bripm@cox.net, frontrunnersri@gmail.com. Frontrunners Boston RUNNING Group: Morning walk/ run along the Charles River. Saturdays,10am. Club Cafe, 209 Columbus Avenue, Boston, MA. www.frontrunnersboston.org. OutRyders SKIING: New England’s largest gay and lesbian ski and snowboard club. www.outryders.org. Boston Strikers SOCCER Club: Non-profit social organization to learn and improve soccer skills in a relaxed, congenial environment. www.bostonstrikers.com. Renaissance City SOFTBALL League: New players and boosters always welcome. www.providencesoftball.org. Beantown SOFTBALL League: Friendly competition. 27 teams in four divisions of play: competitive, intermediate, and recreational. (617) 297-7490. www.beantownsoftball.com. LANES (Liquid Assets New England SWIMMING): Fitness and/or competition. (617) 937-5858. www.swim-lanes.org. TENNIS-4-All: Boston area tennis organization. www. tennis4all.org. Cambridge Boston VOLLEYBALL Association: Players of all skill levels welcome. secretary@cbvolleyball.net www.gayvolleyball.net. Ocean State Pride VOLLEYBALL League: Adult coed indoor league following USVBA rules. No try-outs. Fee applies. Kent County YMCA, 900 Centerville Road, Warwick. ospvolleyball@gmail.com. East Coast WRESTLING Club: (617)937.5858 x6. ecwc@juno.com. www.eastcoastwrestlingclub.org.

STUDENTS & YOUTH Bristol Community College The Lambda Connection: (TLC@ BCC) Robert Delaleu, Advisor; BCC-G118, 777 Elsbree St., Fall River, MA (774)357-4056. Brown University Queer Alliance: Umbrella organization at Brown University for LGBTQ groups. 863-3062. queer@brown.edu or lgbtq@brown.edu. CCRI Gender Equity Initiative: SafeZone & Trans* 101 training. Support, info for LGBTQ people and allies. www.ccri.edu/genderequity. CCRI Triangle Alliance: an LGBTQQ student-run group at CCRI, on the Flanagan, Liston, and Knight campuses. www.ccri.edu/triangle/. Home to Hope: Support for housing-insecure LGBT youth 13 -- 24. Crisis intervention, medical and other services. At YPI (743 Westminster St., Prov.) and Mathewson St. Church (134 Mathewson St., Prov.) varying days and times. For info/appointments: ayanna@ rihomeless.org or 484-7720. LGBT National Youth Talkline: 800-246-7743. Private one-to-one chat and info on local resources.

Peer Listening Line: Youth-staffed hotline for GLBT youth. Support, info and referrals. 5-10pm. Fenway Community Health Center, Boston, MA. (617) 267-9001 or (800) 399-PEER. www.fenwayhealth.org. Queer & Trans Thursdays: 6-8pm. Space for LGBTQ and heterosexual youth (24 and under) of color to foster coalition-building and organize to address intersections of oppressions. 669 Elmwood Ave., Rm. B7, Providence. www.prysm.us. 383-7450. Rhode Island College LGBTQ+ Office: works towards inclusion of gender, gender identity/expression and sexual orientation in all appropriate aspects of campus life. 401-456-9033 www.ric.edu/lgbtq Salve Regina University – The Alliance: 100 Ochre Point Avenue, Newport. Contact: Benjamin Mead, benjamin.mead@salve.edu S.H.E.P.A.R.D. (Stopping Homophobia, Eliminating Prejudices and Restoring Dignity): Providence College, 1 Cunningham Square, Providence. 865-1631. shepard@providence.edu. The Trevor Project: The only nationwide, around-the-clock crisis and suicide prevention helpline for LGBT youth. Also offers social networks. (866)4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386). thetrevorproject.org. University of RI LGBTIQ2: Alumni association. 874-5808. gsimonelli@uri.edu. URI LGBTQ Center: A cultural department for students, faculty and staff. Florence Badejo. 874-2894. Youth Pride Inc.: Support, education & advocacy for LGBTQQ young people ages 13--23. Tues. -- Fri. 2 -- 8pm. The Way Out peer support group Thurs. 4pm. Gender Spectrum support group Tues. 4pm. Visit our website for full calendar of events. 743 Westminster St., Providence. 421-5626. info@youthprideri.org. www.youthprideri.org.

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Abuse Victims and Survivors: Support on phone for LGBTQ victims & survivors of partner abuse. Confidential peer-led groups. Hotline: (617) 742-4911. TTY: (617) 2274911. advocate@tnlr.org. Adoption Options: Non-sectarian help. Jewish Family Service, 959 North Main Street, Providence. Contact Betsy Alper. 331-5437. www.adoptionoptions.org. Blackstone Valley Advocacy Center: Offering resources for victims of domestic violence. 723-3057. www.bvadvocacycenter.org. Child & Family Services: Counseling, young parent support, adoption, more. LGBT groups beginning July. Open six days. 66 Troy St., Fall River, MA. (508) 676-5708. www.child-familyservices.org Community Care Alliance: Stipend, assistance, training provided by Family Resources Community Action. 2356095. www.famresri.org. Community Care Alliance-Agape Providence: Transitional housing, drop-in center, testing, intensive case management, counseling, peer support for people living with HIV/AIDS. 292 Elmwood Ave, Providence. 572-3800. www.communitycareri.org Compass: FTM trans info, support and social group. Boston first Thursday 7-9pm. compassftm@gmail.com. www.compassftm.org. Crossroads RI Hotline: (800) 367-2700. Day One: Counseling & legal aid for victims of sexual assault/ abuse & incest. 24hr hotline. (800) 494-8100. 421-4100. www.dayoneri.org.

Domestic Violence Resource Center of South County: Support, court advocacy, counseling, safe home, info for women and men in abusive or controlling relationships. 24hr free and confidential helpline. 782-3990 or toll free 800-494-8100, www.dvrcsc.org. Family Service of RI: Training, stipend, support provided for nurturing adoptive families. Family Service of RI. Contact Gregary Wright. 331-1350 ext. 3305. www.familyserviceri. org. Foster parents needed: For newborn to age six. 276-4300. www.childrensfriendri.org. Foster Parents wanted: Devereux Therapeutic Foster Care offers generous tax-free stipend, free comprehensive training, 24-hour support. To make a difference, call 734-9680. www.devereuxri.org. Gay Fathers of Greater Boston: Support. 738 Main St. #323, Waltham, MA. (781) 333-8429. info@ gayfathersboston.org, www.gayfathersboston.org. Gay Men’s HIV+ Social Group: Third Tuesdays, 6 -9pm. Refreshments. Seven Hills Behavioral Health, 1177 Acushnet Ave., New Bedford, MA. Info: Lenny Amaral, 508-999-4159 or email lamaral@sevenhills.org. Gay Officers Action League (GOAL)/New England: Law enforcement officers (sworn & civilian), fire, rescue & publicly employed EMS. Confidential. P.O. Box 171587, Boston, MA 02117. www.newenglandgoal.org. On Facebook at NewEnglandGOAL. Gay Share: Coming Out? Gay men’s support group. No fee. Wednesday 7:30pm. Contact Tom or Mike. 369-9448. info@gayshare.org, www.gayshare.org. LGBT Grief Support: Monthly meetings, usually 3rd Wed. 3:330 -- 5pm at Hope Hospice, 1085 No. Main St., Providence. Center for Hope & Healing (888-528-9077). Helpline for LGBT Youth: Trevor Helpline and social networks for crisis and suicide prevention. 24/7. (866) 4-U-Trevor. HIV+ Gay Men’s Support Group: Refreshments served. AIDS Care Ocean State, 18 Parkis Avenue, Providence. 521-3603. New members contact Scott. 640-3108. LGBTQ+ Pregnancy & Parenting Group: Free support group for people (partnered or not) parenting or considering it. First Saturdays at Open Circle in East Providence. Visit Facebook or email LGBTQpregnancyandparenting@gmail. com. Mantalk of S.E. Mass: Thurs. eves. in Taunton, MA. Social support for gay, bi, and questioning men from Mass. and RI. Confidential, drug- and alcohol-free. Find us on Facebook and MeetUp. MentalHelp.net: National directory of inpatient treatment options for those with substance abuse problems. www. mentalhelp.net/care/substance-abuse/ri/. Partner Support Group at Fenway Health: A ten-week support group with the purpose of building community and connections for anyone who identifies as non-trans, ages 18+, and is in a relationship with a trans* person(s). 1340 Boylston Street, Boston, MA. Contact Sarah Eley, LICSW. 857313-6551. seley@fenwayhealth.org. PFLAG (Parents, & Friends of Lesbians & Gays): Attleboro Chapter serves Southeast Mass. Third Wednesday 6:45 p.m., Second Congregational Church, 50 Park St. (side door). email pflagattleboro@gmail.com. Greater Providence Chapter serves all R.I. First Wednesday at 6:45 p.m., Met School, 325 Public St., Providence. 751-7571. PFLAGprovidence@gmail.com. www. pflagprovidence.org.

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Project RENEW: Support, employment services, HIV prevention for male and female sex workers. Amos House, 415 Friendship St., Providence. 272-0220.Trans support group meets Thurs. Info: transoutreachpwr@gmail.com. Queer Transformative Roots (QTR): Queer & trans people of color organize campaigns to support stability for our communities. 669 Elmwood Ave., Suite B13, Providence 02907. www.prysm.us. 383-7450. Rape Crisis Center for S.E. Mass: New Hope, Inc. Advocacy, shelter, services for domestic abuse survivors. Hotline (800) 323-HOPE. Office (508)226-4015. RI Coalition Against Domestic Violence: 24hr helpline: (800) 494-8100. 467-9940. RI Rainbow Support Group: For people with disabilities who identify as LGBTQ. Last Tuesday. 98 Rolfe Street, Cranston. 6-7:30pm. Contact Ken Renaud. 785-2100. Samaritans: 24hr hotline for suicidal, lonely, despairing, depressed. (800) 365-4044. 272-4044 (RI only). www. samaritansri.org. Seven Hills Behavioral Health: HIV Prevention and Screening. 310 South Main Street, Fall River, MA. (508) 2351012. T.W.I.S.T. (508) 672-0378. Sexual Health Education & Advocacy Program: HIV, sexual wellness, domestic violence risk reduction. Free, confidential, bilingual (Spanish). No caller ID used. Calls blocked for safety. 861-6191 ext. 121. Sojourner House: Call for confidential support group. Support, shelter, advocacy and information for people in abusive relationships. Including specific LGBT services. No

caller ID used. Outgoing calls blocked for safety. 24hr helpline. 765-3232. 861-6191. Office 861-6191. www.sojournerri.org. St. Mary’s Home for Children: Sexual abuse treatment for children. 450 Fruit Hill Ave., No. Providence. www. smhfc.org. Adam Cable, 353-3900. Straight Spouses: Groups and online support. www.straightspouse.org. TGI Network of RI: Support, advocacy for transgender, transsexual, gender-variant and/or intersex people. Borderlands peer group 1st & 3d Tues. and 1st & 3d Sat. of the month. Location & information: 441-5058. info@ tginetwork.org. www.tginetwork.org. Trans* Partners New England: Gives romantic partners of transgender people a confidential, safe space to explore the impact of a loved one’s gender identity on their relationships, and to connect with other loved ones of transgender people. First Wednesday 6:30-8:30pm. Providence. Location unpublished for privacy. partners@tginetwork.org. Trans* Youth Family Allies: Support for gender-variant and transgender children ages 3-18. info@imatyfa.org, www.imatyfa.org. Transgender American Veterans Association (TAVA): Growing organization to address the concerns of fair treatment of transgender veterans and active duty service members. www.tavausa.org. Women’s Resource Center of Newport and Bristol Counties: Offering services to victims of domestic violence. 846-5263. www.wrcnbc.org. t

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