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16 5 From the Executive Director 7 From The Editor 10 Calendar 13 Remembering Abe Gershman 14 Conversion Therapy 16 Imperial Court 22 Walk for Life 23 Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Jonathan 24 AIDS Care Ocean State 26 Out On the Town 28 RIWA 30 Overcomer 31 Youth Pride 32 Resources 39 Poetry 39 Transosaurus Rex

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From the Executive Director Dear Readers, With a new month upon us, the Options calendar got busy! Some fantastic events in March celebrate all our community has to offer. I hope you’ll check out our calendar listings and attend a few things throughout the month. The nonprofits, people, and businesses that put them on would love to have your support. Our cover story highlights the Imperial Court of Rhode Island (ICRI) as the organization prepares to celebrate its 25th coronation at the end of this month. Bradford Greer begins the ICRI story in 1992 when it was formed. He provides an insider’s look as to why the court was founded, the great work they’ve done throughout the years, and what to expect over Coronation Weekend. If only I had this article as a resource before walking into my first Coronation several years ago, I may have been less overwhelmed by all of the pomp and circumstance that ensued! I hope you’ll join us at Coronation XXV, March 30 through April 2, to support this unorthodox organization, which has so benefited many. I’m pleased to say that Options is a beneficiary, along with the Born This Way Prom. Purchase your tickets soon. There are two other upcoming events that we’d like to make a special mention of in hopes you’ll join us. On Thursday, March 23 we’re hosting our Annual Meeting at The Village. Join us from 5:00-7:00pm as we highlight the organization’s accomplishments in 2016, vote in the board of directors, and discuss future plans for Options. This is a great opportunity to learn more about the organization and ways that you can be involved as a volunteer. In preparation for our 35th year in print, we’re planning the biggest party Options has ever hosted! Start thinking of your outfit, because on Saturday, May 20, we’re hosting the Black & White Ball: A Celebration of Options’ Past, Present, and Future. You’re going to love the venue: the brand-new Skyline located in Waterplace Park. Come enjoy the food, drinks, and entertainment as we celebrate the great work of this publication; and pay tribute to the people who have helped shape it throughout the years. In our April issue, we plan to highlight LGBTQ community members’ preferred workout regimens and fitness tips, as well as the many activities we have available to us all to stay active. If you own a business that focuses primarily on health and fitness, we want you to advertise in this issue! Contact us at advertising@optionsri. org to get your ad in. I hope to see you around town soon. Be sure to say hello and share your thoughts on the work Options is doing. Onward, Kyle McKendall

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From the Editor Dear Readers, This month, I have had the pleasure of participating in the process and development of putting this great publication together. It is with joy that I introduce myself as the managing editor here at Options Magazine beginning with this issue. I am a graduate of Brown University. I have more than a decade in magazine editorial experience and a great love of writing and literature. As a native Rhode Islander, I recognize that Providence and surrounding communities have always been a hotbed of change and excitement in the arts; but more importantly here, they represent a supportive environment for the LGBTQ community. It is my goal to help continue the mission of Options as a thriving publication bringing you the news, humaninterest stories, and resources that it has provided for decades. Looking forward, 2017 promises to be an exciting year for us here at Options. We have plans for success as we work to grow the organization. More than a few surprises are in store as the year unfolds.You can help us as we forge ahead. Written contributions are always welcome and very much encouraged. As you know, we are a non-profit organization, largely dependent upon advertising, donations, and volunteerism. Please contact us to become involved; and if you have a small business, we welcome your ad!

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This monthâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s issue is packed. I hope you enjoy the layout and find yourself engaged in the articles we have chosen. I want to thank Kyle McKendall for his guidance and support in bringing me onboard. I want to thank the out-going interim editor Brendan Chipley Roane for his work, and I want to thank the writers, staff, and contributors I have met. Options has an amazing team that come together each month to provide you, the readers, with interesting and relevant content. My inbox is always open. Please contact me at editor@optionsri.org. Cheers, Marie Hopkins

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NEWS BRIEFS

Trump Administration To Keep LGBT Workplace Protections Implemented By Obama Administration The White House announced last month that President Trump will be leaving in place the order set by the Obama administration in 2014 that created new workplace protections for employees. The announcement came soon after stories arose regarding Ivanka Trump and husband Jared Kushner’s effor ts to quash a draft executive order that would have over turned many of the Obama-era LGBT protections that have been put into place. The Obama order banned companies performing federal work from discriminating against gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender workers. This was the first time the government has ever offered protection to federal workers on the basis of gender identity. “President Trump continues to be respectful and suppor tive of L.G.B.T.Q. rights, just as he was throughout the election,” the White House statement said. However, Trump still remains in opposition to the right of same-sex couples to marry, and many gay rights activists have criticized the Trump administration’s decision to praise themselves for this lack of change. Chad Griffin, President of the Human Rights Campaign, thought that the bar was being set very low and that regardless of this decision, “Donald Trump has done nothing but undermine equality since he set foot in the White House.”

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Providence Announces Plans to Strengthen Relationship Between Police Department and LGBT Community Providence Mayor Jorge Elorza and Police Chief Colonel Hugh T. Clements Jr. jointly announced a formal par tnership between the Providence Police Depar tment’s LGBTQ liaisons, its training academy, the Sojourner House, the Rhode Island Commission on Prejudice & Bias, and the Providence Human Relations Committee in an effor t to form a stronger connection between Providence’s LGBT community and law enforcement. The group came together for the first time following the attack at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando, Florida last June, and will now meet once a month. The group’s goal is ensure that each member of the community feels protected, safe and respected and they hope to have training sessions with each member of the police depar tment within the next year. “We want our law enforcement and community service providers to be equipped to respond to this increased need,” said Dr. Jodi Glass, coordinator of the RI Commission on Prejudice & Bias, and the woman who spearheaded this par tnership.

NFL Threatens To Boycott Texas If Transgender Discriminatory Bill Passes Just days after Houston hosted Super Bowl LI, NFL spokesman Brian McCarthy said in a statement that the NFL would consider boycotting the state of Texas as a future Super Bowl location if the state passes its proposed “bathroom bill.” The Texas Privacy Act, or SB6, was first introduced in January and would require people to use the bathroom that correlates with the gender appearing on their birth certificates.The bill is extremely similar to North Carolina House Bill 2 which was passed in March 2016. Just last month, lawmakers filed a bipartisan bill to repeal that law. McCarthy said that the NFL does everything they can to embrace inclusiveness and SB6 would be “discriminatory and inconsistent” with their current values. As such, the NFL would likely not consider the state as an option for a Super Bowl event in the future if the bill ends up passing, which would mean millions of dollars of lost revenue for the Lone Star State. In response, Texas Republican Governor Greg Abbott took to Twitter to criticize the NFL’s threat of boycotting. In an interview with Glenn Beck, the conservative radio host, Abbott ranted that the “snowflake” NFL was “walking on thin ice” with its recent statements and should, instead, “concentrate on playing football and get the heck out of politics.” Currently, the NFL has selected its venues for upcoming Super Bowls through 2021 and none are located in Texas.

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Sri Lanka Pressured To Remove Anti-Discrimination Laws Before Signing E.U. Trade Deal As the island country of Sri Lanka negotiates a preferential trade deal with the European Union (E.U.), effor ts to decriminalize consensual same-sex activity have been gaining momentum. Sri Lanka, located off the coast of India, is one of 72 countries where sexual activity between same-sex par tners is still considered illegal. Signing this kind of trade agreement with the E.U normally requires compliance with human rights conditions such as removing LGBTQ discriminatory laws, but Sri Lankan LGBTQ activists are worried that the E.U. has waived this requirement following objections from Sri Lankan government officials. ALL OUT, an LGBTQ magazine, published a petition from activist Rosanna Flamer-Caldera, the head and founder of Sri Lanka’s pioneering LGBTQ rights organization Equal Ground, that called on European Parliament, currently debating the issue, to insist that Sri Lanka eliminate their LGBTQ discrimination laws before the trade deal is signed. Of the three separate discriminatory laws that are in place, two punish those convicted of same-sex activity to anywhere from 10 to 20 years in prison, while the other is used by police to harass transgender and gender-nonconforming people under the idea that they are only impersonating their gender. Although these laws are rarely used nowadays, the very fact that they exist demeans and undermines the human rights of LGBTQ Sri Lankans and gives authority figures free reign to punish the community whenever they see fit.

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Boy Scouts Open Their Membership To Transgender Boys The Boy Scouts of America announced that it will star t accepting members based on their gender identity, thus allowing transgender boys to join. The new policy, effective immediately, states that membership in Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts will be based solely on the gender indicated on a child’s application whereas previously the organization used an individual’s bir th cer tificate to determine eligibility. This change is thought to have been brought about after an eightyear-old Cub Scout accused the Boy Scouts of America in New Jersey for expelling him for being transgender. While the Boy Scouts didn’t make reference to this incident in their recent statement regarding the new policy, Chief Scout Executive Michael Surbaugh admitted the organization had been challenged by “a very complex topic” when referring to gender identity versus assigned gender. “We’ve taken the oppor tunity to evaluate and update our approach. I hope you’ll join with me in embracing the oppor tunity to bring scouting to more families and children who can benefit from what our organization has to offer,” he said in a video statement. “This is an area that we will continue to thoughtfully evaluate to bring the benefits of scouting to the greatest number of youth possible all while remaining true to our core beliefs.” The Boy Scouts of America now joins the Girl Scouts of the United States of America in welcoming transgender members, though the Girl Scouts have prided themselves on their inclusivity for quite some time. q

CALENDAR OF EVENTS MARCH

RI Pride Goddess Show March 5

Guys as Dolls Drag Extravaganza March 12

Wed. 1 SalsaConSoul by TeamFusionRI, 8pm-1am. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. Open to dancers of all levels of experience. No partner needed. $15 cover, includes lessons. $10 after 10pm. For more info, facebook.com/ SalsaConSoul. Fri. 3 Homegrown Comedy with Poppi Kramer and John Kelley, 8pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $10. Reservations www. thevillageri.com or 228-7222. Sat. 4 Third Annual RI Trans Health Conference, 8am-4pm. Alpert Medical School at Brown University, 222 Richmond Street, Providence. Co-sponsored by TGI Network, Brown University’s Alpert Medical School, and the Rhode Island College School of Social Work. For more information and to register, visit www.tginetwork.org. Sun. 5 Drag Brunch, 12-2pm. Massimo Ristorante, 134 Atwells Ave, Providence. Join the ladies for a mix of comedy, music, and cocktails. Definitely for adults only! For reservations, call 273-0650 or visit www.massimori.com.

Queer Book Club The Gods of Tango March 15

RISE Discotheque March 19

Sun. 5 18th Annual RI Pride Goddess Show, doors noon/ show 1-6pm. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. A celebration of women in the arts featuring Adrienne MackDavis, the Becky Chace Band, Tammy & Jeana, Bettysioux Tailor, Ms. Lesbian RI 2016 Aly P. Sha, Miss Gay RI 2016 Neoki Feytal, and hosts Lulu Locks and Reece Cotton. $20 in advance at www. prideri.com, $25 at the door. Thu. 9 Sweet Little Variety Show, 8pm. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. A queer-produced potpourri of entertainment. $7. Find Sweet Little Variety Show on Facebook. Fri. 10 Baby Oil, Jodie Treloar,

and Nymphidels, 9pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations can be made at www.thevillageri.com or 228-7222.

Sat. 11 Jodi Jolt & The Volt, 9pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations can be made at www.thevillageri.com or 228-7222. Sun. 12 RI Prime Timers, 4:30-7pm. Social, dinner, and networking group for older gay and bi men on second Sundays. For more info, www. riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010. Sun. 12 Guys as Dolls Drag Extravaganza, 7pm. The Comedy Connection, 39 Warren Ave, East Providence. $20. RI’s premiere drag divas present an evening of entertainment sure to tickle your funny bone and dazzle your senses. The heels are high, the sequins are sparkly, and attitudes are irreverent. Come see why this is the longest running drag show in RI - now in it’s 10th season. Partial proceeds to benefit AIDS Care Ocean State’s Needle Exchange Program. Doors at 6pm. For tickets, www. ricomedyconnection.com. Wed. 15, Queer Book Club,79:30pm. Books on the Square, 471 Angell Street, Providence. Reading: The Gods of Tango by Carolina De Robertis. Discount if book is purchased at Books on the Square. For more info, email queerbookclub@gmail.com. Thu. 16 Drag Bingo: St. Paddy’s Day Bingo – wear green! 6-9pm. Riviera Bingo Palace, 1612 Elmwood Avenue, Cranston. $20 gets you in all games with over $2,000 in cash and prizes awarded monthly. Hosted by Haley Star and LaDiva Jonz. All funds raised benefit AIDS Care Ocean State and AIDS Project RI. Fri. 17 SAGE LGBT Café, noon-2pm. Church of the Transfiguration, 1665 Broad

Street, Cranston. A delicious, lowcost lunch in a gay-friendly setting sponsored by Meals on Wheels, the Department of Elderly Affairs, and SAGE-RI. Programming after lunch. A $3 donation is suggested for LGBT people 60+ and people with disabilities; a $6 donation is suggested for all others. Reservations required. Call Pauline at 351-6700. Fri. 17 St. Paddy’s Day with Allston Police, 9pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations can be made at www.thevillageri.com or 228-7222. Sat. 18 Sister Funk, 8:30pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations www.thevillageri.com or 228-7222. Sat. 18 – Sun. 19 Sexual Attitude Reassessment Seminar (SAR). The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health SAR leads participants through the process of evaluating their feelings, values, and attitudes around sexuality, and applies the lens of intersectionality to human sexual behavior, and examines societal attitudes about a variety of sexuality topics. Email info@ thecsph.org for more information. Sat. 18 Bachata/Kizomba Fusion Night by TeamFusionRI, 8pm2am. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. Open to dancers of all levels of experience. No partner needed. $20 cover, includes two lessons. $15 after 10pm. For more info, facebook. com/SalsaConSoul. Sun. 19 RISE Discotheque with DJ Andy Morris, 3pm. Rooftop at the Providence G, 100 Dorrance Street, Providence. LGBTQ tea dance atop Providence with live show at 6pm. 18+. No cover. Sun. 19 Interweave Potluck Dinner and Programming, 5:308pm. Parish Hall of Channing Memorial Church, 135 Pelham Street, Newport.All are welcome. Bring a dish to share. At 7pm, a former member of ACT UP

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tells stories of the rallies, protest marches, collaboration, arrests, and shootings that took place surrounding the AIDS crisis. For more information, contact Rex at 595-9068 or interweave@ channingchurch.org. Tue. 21 Heavenly Gingers, 6:30pm.Twin River Event Center, 100 Twin River Rd, Lincoln. $15 for adults, $5 for children 12 and under. Hosted by LaDiva Jonz and Haley Star, this variety show is a benefit for the memorial funds of Keri Anne O’Donnell and Jessica Morris which provide scholarships to young children who demonstrate a passion for performance. Tickets available at the door. Tue. 21 Point Street Reading Series featuring Garrard Conley, author of Boy Erased, 7:30pm. Point Street Dueling Pianos, 3 Davol Square, Providence. $5 cover charge at the door. Reading series featuring 4 or 5 authors every third Tuesday. Boy Erased: A Memoir recounts the author’s childhood in a fundamentalist Arkansas family who enrolled him in gay conversion therapy. Doors at 7pm, event at 7:30pm. Thu. 23 Options Magazine’s Annual Meeting, 5-7pm. The Village, 373 Richmond St, Providence. Free event. Join us as we discuss Options’ achievements in 2016, vote in the board of directors, and discuss the future of RI’s LGBTQ community publication and how you can become involved. Fri. 24 Dreams featuring Keturah, 9pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations www.thevillageri. com or 228-7222. Thu. 30 The Imperial Court’s In Town Cocktails, a kickoff to Coronation, 8-10pm. The Village, 373 Richmond St, Providence. No Cover. 18+ event. Fri. 31 The Imperial Court’s Out of Town Show, 8pm. The Dark

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Lady, 19 Snow St, Providence. $10 at the door. Door at 7pm, show at 8pm. Fri. 31 Sticky Stories, doors 8pm/show 9-11pm. AS220, 115 Empire Street, Providence. Fifth comedic storytelling event that has included live readings of diary entries, sex adventures gone hilariously awry,and the challenges of sexting. Submit a story at http:// bit.ly/MyStickyStory. For tickets: http://bit.ly/StickyStoriesV. Fri. 31 Pesky J. Nixon, 9pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations www.thevillageri.com or 228-7222.

APRIL

Sat. 1 Sarah Rich &The Invincible We, 8:30pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations can be made at www.thevillageri.com or 2287222. Sat. 1 The Imperial Court’s Coronation XXV: The Silver Jubilee, 6pm. The Providence Biltmore Grand Ballroom, 11 Dorrance St, Providence. $90. Cocktail reception at 6pm, voting from 6pm-9pm, doors to the ballroom at 7pm, show at 8pm. For tickets, visit www.icriprov.org. Sun. 2 The Imperial Court’s Victory Brunch, 10am. The Providence Biltmore Garden Room, 11 Dorrance St, Providence. $40. For tickets, visit www.icriprov.org. Sun. 2 Drag Brunch, 12-2pm. Massimo Ristorante, 134 Atwells Ave, Providence. Join the ladies for a mix of comedy, music, and cocktails. Definitely for adults only! For reservations, call 273-0650 or visit www.massimori.com. Sun. 2 The Imperial Court’s Victory Party, 2-4pm. The Providence Eagle, 124 Snow St, Providence. No Cover.

Wed. 5 SalsaConSoul by TeamFusionRI, 8pm-1am. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. Open to dancers of all levels of experience. No partner needed. $15 cover, includes a lesson. $10 after 10pm. For more info, facebook.com/ SalsaConSoul. Fri. 7 Rent Opening Night Benefit for AIDS Care Ocean State. ACOS ticket includes cocktail party at 6pm with open bar, hors d’oeuvres, and deserts; and premium seating for the 7:30pm show and Q&A meet and greet with the cast after the show. Tickets $115-$150: bit.ly/ RENT2017 Fri. 7 Homegrown Comedy with Amy Tee and Kelly MacFarland with host John Kelley, 8pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $10. Reservations www.thevillageri. com or 228-7222. Sat. 8 A Child’s Sparkle, 2-8pm. The Stable Providence, 125 Washington St, Providence. A benefit for The Tomorrow Fund Clinic at Hasbro Hospital. Silent auction and raffle items to be called at 7pm. 21+.

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The Imperial Court’s Coronation XXV: April 1

Sun. 9 RI PrimeTimers, 4:30-7pm. Social, dinner, and networking group for older gay and bi men on second Sundays. For more info, www.riprimetimers.org or call Steve at 996-3010. Sun. 9 21st Annual RI Pride Triple Crown Pageant, 7-10:30pm. The Colosseum, 150 Pine Street, Providence. Contestants compete for titles such as Mr. Gay RI 2016, Ms. Lesbian, and Miss Gay. VIP tables and advanced tickets are available at www.prideri.com.

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Sun. 9 Drag Brunch, two seatings at 10:30am & 1pm. Opa Restaurant, 230 Atwells Ave, Providence. $35. A benefit for Youth Pride Inc.

CALENDAR OF EVENTS Thu. 13 Sweet Little Variety Show, 8pm. Aurora, 276 Westminster Street, Providence. A queer-produced potpourri of entertainment. $7. Find Sweet Little Variety Show on Facebook.

The Holographics with Rachel & Tori April 14

Divas of Drag April 21

Fri. 14 The Holographics with Rachel & Tori, 9pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations www.thevillageri.com or 228-7222. Sun. 19 RISE Discotheque with DJ Andy Morris, 3pm. Rooftop at the Providence G, 100 Dorrance Street, Providence. LGBTQ tea dance atop Providence with live show at 6pm. 18+. No cover. Wed. 15 Queer Book Club, 7-9:30pm. Books on the Square, 471 Angell Street, Providence. Reading: Breakfast on Pluto by Patrick McCabe. Discount if book is purchased at Books on the Square. For more info, email queerbookclub@gmail.com. Sun. 16 Interweave Potluck Dinner and Planning meeting for the Born This Way Prom, 5:308pm. Parish Hall of Channing Memorial Church, 135 Pelham Street, Newport. All are welcome. Bring a dish to share. For more information, See add on page 2 for details or contact Rex at 595-9068 or interweave@ channingchurch.org.

Fundraiser at Flatbread April 25

Thu. 20 Drag Bingo: Easter Bonnet Bingo, 6-9pm. Riviera Bingo Palace, 1612 Elmwood Avenue, Cranston. $20 gets you in all games with over $2,000 in cash and prizes awarded monthly. $100 cash prize for best bonnet. Hosted by Haley Star and LaDiva Jonz. All funds raised benefit AIDS Care Ocean State and AIDS Project RI. Fri. 21 SAGE LGBT Café, noon-2pm. Church of the Transfiguration, 1665 Broad Street, Cranston. A delicious, low-

cost lunch in a gay-friendly setting sponsored by Meals on Wheels, the Department of Elderly Affairs, and SAGE-RI. Programming after lunch. A $3 donation is suggested for LGBT people 60+ and people with disabilities; a $6 donation is suggested for all others. Reservations required. Call Pauline at 351-6700. Fri. 21 Vulgarity 80s & 90s Dance Party, 9pm.TheVillage, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations www.thevillageri. com or 228-7222.

Fri. 21 Divas of Drag, 8pm. Stadium Theater, 28 Monument Square, Woonsocket. $26. Order up a double dose of glitz, glamour, sass and class with RI’s premier drag stars Haley Star and LaDiva Jonz. Be prepared for aching cheeks as you laugh the night away. Haley and LaDiva will dazzle you with a host of surprises hidden up their sequined sleeves. Adult content. For tickets, www. stadiumtheatre.com. Sat. 22 Coppola-Turner Overdrive, 8:30pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations www.thevillageri.com or 2287222. Sun. 23 AIDS Walk RI, noon2pm. RI State House lawn. Registration and vendor checkin, 10am-12pm; speakers, 1212:30pm; Walk, 12:30-1:30pm; raffle and closing, 1:30-2pm. For more info, http://www.firstgiving. com/aidswalkri.

Providence. $5. Reservations www.thevillageri.com or 228-7222. Sat. 29 RI Women’s Association Dance, 7pm. Events on Main, 999 Main Street, Suite 1230 in the Hope Artiste Village, Pawtucket. Featuring DJ Sharon and potluck. $12 - free to members. For more info, www.riwa.net. Sat. 29 Mary Day, 8:30pm.The Village, 373 Richmond Street, Providence. $5. Reservations can be made at www.thevillageri.com or 228-7222. Regularly Scheduled Support Groups: ACOS (HIV/AIDS): youth,Tue. 4pm/gay males, Wed. 1:30pm LGBT Alcoholics Anonymous: Tue. 7pm PFLAG (parents, friends, allies): 1st & 3rd Wed. 6:45pm TGI Network (trans): 1st & 3rd Tue. 7pm/Sat. 1pm TransFamily New England: 2nd Mon. 6:30pm YPI (youth): Way Out,Thu. 4pm/Gender Spectrum,Tue. 4pm/youth 13 and under:Thu. 5pm See Resources on page 32 for complete information

Tue. 25 Fundraiser at Flatbread to benefit the Pride Center of RI, 5-9pm. Flatbread Company, 161 Cushing St, Providence. The Flatbread Company will donate a portion of all sales, including takeout and delivery, to the Pride Center of RI. Fri. 28 Sister Speak, 9pm. The Village, 373 Richmond Street,

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Obituary Abe Gershman As announced by Shalom Memorial Chapel

Abraham Gershman, 92, died Friday, February 17, 2017 at Linn Health Care Center in East Providence. Son of Isadore and Jennie Gederman Gershman, he was born September 21,1924 and was a longtime resident of Providence. Abe was a retail display designer for Filene’s in Boston as well as several local department stores and specialty shops in Rhode Island and Massachusetts for 47 years, until he retired in 1994. He served in WWII in the US Navy serving

in Cuba and stateside. Abraham was a devoted member of Temple Emanu-El, where he took great delight in helping to arrange and cater various events, as well as assisting at the Temple museum. He was a member of Kulanu, the temple’s service organization. He was honored for his active support of the Rhode Island AIDS Quilt Project and was an active community volunteer for many years for Options and AIDS Project RI. Dear brother of the late Harry, George, Paul, and

Graceful Journeys John Hope Settlement House

Anna’s Workshop St. George’s School

Edward Gershman, Anna Gerson, Edith Matusow, and Ruth Kimel. Beloved brother-in-law of Ruth Davis Gershman of Warwick. Abraham also had many devoted great-nieces and great-nephews. Contributions in his memory may be made to The Museum Fund, c/o Temple Emanu-El, 99 Taft Ave., Providence, RI 02906. q

International AIDS Candlelight Memorial Beneficent Church

“Abe was a dear friend of the Quilt. We met when he attended one of the first Seders of Hope at the Jewish Community Center in Providence. The Quilt moved him to tears, and he immediately asked what he could do to help. “We’ve got a live one” is always our first thought in this situation, but Abe was as good as his word. He became a devoted volunteer helping with Anna’s Workshops, assisting at our events, and attending NAMES Project national conferences and serving as a monitor at the Washington, DC displays, all while serving as a NAMES RI Steering Committee member as a faith outreach coordinator.” -Beth Milham, AIDS Quilt RI

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EMOTIONAL TESTIMONY AGAINST CONVERSION THERAPY TARGETING LGBTQ YOUTH By Steve Ahlquist, first published by RI Future Photos by Selene Means House Bill 5277, which, if passed, would prohibit “conversion therapy” by licensed health care professionals with respect to children under 18 years of age, was popularly supported at the Rhode Island House Health Education and Welfare Committee meeting Wednesday, February 15. Conversion therapy, as defined in the bill, includes any practice that “seeks or purports to impose change of an individual’s sexual orientation or gender identity, practices which attempt or purport to change behavioral expression of an individual’s sexual orientation or gender identity, or attempt or purport to eliminate or reduce sexual or romantic attractions or feelings toward individuals of the same sex.” Over a hundred people, members and allies of the LGBTQ community, packed the halls outside the House Lounge and Chairman Joseph McNamara said over

eighty people signed up to speak on the bill. In the end, 28 people testified in favor of the bill and only one man spoke in against it. The bill was introduced by Representative Edith Ajello, who spoke briefly before introducing Dr. David Savitzky, MD, who said that conversion therapy is a “harmful treatment and Rhode Island should not be putting up with this practice against our youth.” Savitsky said that, “one of the leading proponents in the country [of conversion therapy] has been practicing in Rhode Island; a pediatrician in South County.” Savitsky did not know her name. “Change towards a holy and healthy lifestyle that honors God is possible,” said the one man testifying against the bill. “I just sat in an overflow room with many young people and I want them to know that escape, freedom, real truth and light are realizable

rather than capitulation and surrender to darkness.” He received conversion therapy not as a minor, but in church, with fellow Christians. Representative Moira Walsh pushed back against the idea of bringing a religious argument for conversion therapy into the State House. “I would like to thank you for coming out and taking the time,” said Walsh, “I recognize that with eighty-three in support it takes a bit of bravery to be the one person opposing and I recognize and appreciate that. As one of, I think the only, non-Christian members [of the committee] it is one hundred percent my duty to uphold the Constitution and I cannot make legislation based on the Bible or the Koran just as you could not enforce a traffic violation…not all of my constituents fall under that very specific box.”

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Wendy Becker volunteers weekly at Youth Pride Inc. and crafted her testimony from what the youth there asked her to communicate to the committee. The stories she conveyed are beautiful, tragic and important. She spoke for a youth who underwent conversion therapy to please a beloved grandmother and she spoke for a youth who sees his whole life as conversion therapy whenever he’s told to act differently, speak differently, or bullied for being himself. Becker mentioned that she knew of two local therapists who practice conversion therapy. Under questioning from Chair McNamara, she gave the name of Dr. Daniel Harrop, who ran as a Republican for mayor of Providence against Jorge Elorza and Buddy Cianci in the last election. Harrop, on Twitter, said that wasn’t true. Then came a steady stream of people to testify in favor of the bill and against conversion therapy. The Rhode Island ACLU turned in written testimony against the bill on free speech grounds. However, Roger Williams University Constitutional Law Professor Jared Goldstein, “the only free speech professor in the state,” explained that the bill is constitutional. “The fact the conversion therapy is often conducted through speech does not make the bill a speech restriction,” said Goldstein. When asked about religious exemptions by Chair McNamara, Goldstein said that nothing in case law is based on religious exemptions but have all been brought on free speech grounds. The bill would limit the conduct of professionals, specifically therapists, and there is a vast body of law surrounding the regulation of professional conduct. The present bill only regulates professional therapists licensed by the state of Rhode Island, who are already regulated by a number of laws. “The ACLU thinks there’s a free speech problem, and I love them, I respect the ACLU, they’re always here to defend free speech, but they’re not right in this case.” q

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IMPERIAL COURT The Imperial Court System began in 1965 when the Tavern Guild of San Francisco joined together in solidarity against police harassment. They produced the Beaux Arts Ball â&#x20AC;&#x201C; the largest drag ball in history. In its third year, JosĂŠ Julio Sarr, a World War II veteran and the first openly gay candidate for public office, was declared the Queen of the Ball as The Widow Norton. She promptly declared herself Empress. With that declaration, the Imperial Court System was born and the charitable organization grew across the country, embracing the formality and protocol of the English monarchy. Their camp titles underscore a joyous spirit to accomplish their goals, which are to raise money and social awareness. The Court is governed by a ninemember board of directors who are in charge of the activities. The Widow Norton was honored in Providence with a Ball on her 90th birthday and passed away in 2013.

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The mission and purpose of the Imperial Court of Rhode Island is to raise charitable funds and perform noble deeds for the community at large, as well as offer an outlet for social interaction among those who share the same interests. BB Hayes (Brian Leguerre) was the drag protégé of Lee Daniels (Brian Perico). He was friendly with Ralph Martino when both worked the RI Pageant Circuit. They decided to attend an Imperial Court event in Connecticut to see what it was all about and were impressed with the pageantry and dedication to fundraising. They became the first Baron and Baroness of Rhode Island under the Connecticut Courts reign.

“It is a Silver jubilee celebration for an unorthodox organization that has come to the financial rescue of so many in our community for so many years.” It was AIDS in the 90s and people were afraid to shake hands or kiss on the cheek, much less anything else without significant protection. Ryan White had died and Matthew Shepard was murdered. We were Acting Up! The gay community needed serious money. No one was funding AIDS research. Our friends, our lovers, members of our chosen families, and members in our community were dying. They were losing their jobs, their homes, and their motor skills. Money was needed for necessities such as expensive pharmaceuticals, housing, food, and utilities. No one had the time or temperament for dilettantes. Not in fundraising. Not in the Imperial Court.

Lee Daniels, left, and BB Hayes, right, are crowned the first Baron and Baroness of Rhode Island,1991. The ICRI had not been formed at this time, but instead the titles were under the Connecticut Court reign.

The two Brians teamed with Ralph Martino and Fitzgerald Himmelsbach, who owned Union Street Station and was the gay liaison to Mayor Cianci, to give the Court the proper organizational structure it required. They became a 501(c) (3) organization, then put together the applications and sponsorships required to open the first reign of the Imperial Court of Rhode Island in 1992.

BB Hayes, center, is crowned Her Imperial Majesty Empress I, the Underwire Empress, at Coronation I, 1992.

The newly minted Court threw the first Coronation Ball by the seat of their pants. They really had no idea how to put one together that would honor all the majesty and protocol that was required. The Stephen Sondheim lyric, “Never Judge a Book by its Cover” sung by Cleo Lane was the song BB Hayes sang to win the title Her Imperial Majesty Empress I, the Underwire Empress. Ralph Martino was crowned His Imperial Majesty Emperor I, Raffeale Domenico DeAngelisio Martino: The White Orchid and Diamond Emperor I. It was a prophetic song for an organization that seemed frivolous to those had never heard of it. The organization raised enough money to turn heads in astonishment. The ICRI was able to bring financial relief to many of the suffering within the gay community of Rhode Island. There were many who wrote checks which were greatly needed and appreciated. The ICRI were the people who got the people to write those checks and contribute copious amounts of cash. While HIV/AIDS is not the vitally urgent crisis it was in the ‘90s, people are still contracting the disease. AIDS Care Ocean State and AIDS Project RI are still disbursing funds to those affected by it. The ICRI has extended its work further into the community to help other organizations in need such as Options Magazine and Interweave at Channing Memorial Church who sponsor the Born This Way Prom, both beneficiaries of this year’s Coronation. From March 30 to April 2, Rhode Island will host an impressive list of Imperial Court Emperors, Empresses, Lords, Ladies, Princes, and Princesses performing and on display. They will come from New York, Canada, Boston, DC and across the country to celebrate Coronation XXV. It is a Silver jubilee celebration for an unorthodox organization that has come to the financial rescue of so many in our community for so many years.

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Organizing the celebration will be Austen Bourassa, perhaps more popularly known as Emperor XVIII, Big Daddy Austen Daniels. Austen, a past president and four-time vice president, will be coordinating the festivities for the ninth time. May will mark his sixteenth year as a member of the court. During that time he has also been a Lord, twice an Imperial Crowned Prince, and a Prince. According to Austen, planning for the Ball takes over a year. It has happened that the dates for one ball are finalized before the current ball takes place. Preparations happen throughout the year to create a solid theme, plan the food, design and put together the ball book, and handle performance requests for the weekend. Later, planning rehearsals and the essential set-up and break-down of the ball itself become quite timeconsuming. As the day draws nearer, it is truly an all-handson-deck situation for members of the Court. The excitement and sense of collegiality is so contagious that when visiting dignitaries from other courts arrive, some can be found behind the scenes helping each other out. They all know how difficult it can be when you’re entertaining visiting royalty for the weekend.

“What is underneath all that pomp and pompadour? The heart and soul of the men and women of the Imperial Court” And what a weekend it is. It begins with cocktails Thursday at The Village to meet and greet, followed by the Out of Town Show at the Dark Lady Friday night. Saturday morning sees more hospitality. Saturday evening brings the much anticipated ball. It is a strictly formal event held at The Biltmore with dinner, the crowning ceremony, and the presentation Protocol to be presented to the outgoing Monarchs. An Empress being crowned must wear a white gown that touches the floor and white gloves are required. The men must wear a tux, military dress uniform, kilt, dress leather or equivalent, and dress gloves. The Court is investigating a gender neutral line of dress which would be just as formal as the men’s and women’s style. Despite his evening’s busy schedule, Austen makes time to see a bit of every performance and tips every entertainer. Most meaningful for him is the announcement of the winner of the $1,000 scholarship that he created along with Empress XVIII Jaqueline DiMera. The scholarship supports an LGBT college applicant or one who was raised by a parent or guardian who identifies as LGBT. On Sunday there is the Victory Brunch for handing out titles and making proclamations. That is followed by a relaxed

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wind-down party at The Eagle. The ICRI bestows a crown to winners. It must be returned but they may keep the scepter. The cost of the jewelry and the extensive wardrobe needed for performances and appearances during the year are the expense of contestants and winner. This can easily exceed a monthly mortgage or car payment. Travel to other Coronations around the country is also on their tab, attendance at no fewer than three other events is required. Being a member of the Imperial Court is an extensive commitment of time, finances and fashion, all for charity. And glamour. What is underneath all that pomp and pompadour? The heart and soul of the men and women of the Imperial Court For twenty-five years they have pledged themselves to raise money and promote social awareness from monarchy to monarchy, each in their own unique way. The glitter and glamour, music and dance are the make-up that enables their generosity to come out in larger than life form. That’s important when you’re raising larger-than-life money: nearly $500,000 according to their website. There is not a current candidate for Emperor. The court will canvass the regents of Past Emperors for a willing and suitable candidate to appoint. However, for the first time in over ten years there are two candidates running for Empress.

INTRODUCING GINGAH RAYLE Jeremy Giroux was terrified of drag queens when he was a bartender at The Loft. In 2001 he met Kitty Litter at a fundraiser there who talked him into a dress and some hair. Another bartender made fun of his RI accent and christened him Gingah Rayle. Kitty Litter and Jade Love made her their drag-daughter and Jeremy embraced a whole new adventure. Back in 2005 there was an uproar concerning the accuracy of the results of RI Pride’s Triple Crown Pageant, where she was competing to be crowed Miss Gay RI. A recount of the votes became necessary and Gingah sashayed off with her first crown. The drama later turned into a soap opera farce when Gingah declared she was pregnant and registered at Babies R Us and Target. She announced that her water broke at the Who’s-the-Baby-Daddy shower; incidentally, the triplets were fathered by the reigning Emperor of the ICRI. The scandal played out in monthly installments written by Gingah in Options Magazine. The attention and publicity were another brick in building the bridge between RI Pride and the Imperial Court. Lee Daniels and Jade Love brought her into the house as The Lady Gingah Rayle and from there she became Empress XV: The Dizzy-Fizzy, Fuzzy Slipper, Effervescent, Pink Diamond, Girl Next Door Empress in 2007. This time around she is hoping

to invigorate the court, improve visibility and give a boost to the membership as HIM Empress XXV.

PROCLAIMING LORD KEVIN RoxiieVan Cartier is an iconic amalgamation of characters from Kevin Camara’s two favorite movies: Roxie from “Chicago” and Delores Van Cartier in “Ghost.” Emperor I Ralph Martino gave him his first costume for the “Rome Invades Egypt” event. It was a toga; Ralph cut it too short and it looked like a dress. Kevin had such a great time that he joined and was later proclaimed “Lord Kevin.” He was just 18 – the youngest member of the court when he joined. Kevin traveled with his job and under the cover of anonymity decided to try drag. He placed first-runner-up in the Miss Gay Philadelphia contest. Since, Lord Kevin has been a member of the Court for the last ten years, he thinks the time is right for him to step up and give more to the community. Sojourner House has a special place in Kevin’s heart. They have opened their doors not just to gay men who have been in abusive relationships but to straight men as well. He is also looking into substance abuse charities in an effort to help members of the community embrace better health. He would like to expand the charitable hand of the ICRI to include more housing and providing food. He has been inspired and supported by Gia Devereaux who started doing drag at about the same time. Kevin’s boyfriend Antonio has also been a main support for him.

STEPPING DOWN Regent Empress Gia Devereaux, The Black Diamond Bombshell Keeper of the Silver Jubilee, joined the court in 2009 when he worked as a host at Club Gallery. He was encouraged to join because of his talent and it turned out to be a great fit. He and Vi’let used to perform duets together. Eric Cimochowski became Empress XXI prior to turning age 30. As a young drag queen he has had some uncomfortable moments in dress shops where he was told they didn’t have any gowns in a size larger than a 10, or awkwardly refused service at all. Others were more kind or embracing and offered a private dressing room. The ICRI has given him close friendships and the family he never had. Gia was tapped as a

April 16, 2 Empress XII Jade Love, left, and Emperor VI & XVII Scott Connery, center, of the ICRI, with Empress IV Verna Turbulence of the Imperial Court of Massachusetts, right, at Coronation XIX, April 16, 2011.

regent to step in as Empress XIV. Keep it simple was Gia’s advice. Compromise. Focus on the community. Regent Emperor Belle A Pellagrino, the Lion King Emperor of Fetish and Pleasure, Keeper of the Silver Jubilee, was born when Franklin D. Roosevelt was the president. She has never had a stage name, has been mistaken for a man for most of her life and has been one of the only two Drag Kings of the ICRI for 13 or 14 years. Ryder Hard, Emperor XXII was the other. She has always been active in the community as a member of SAGE, a speaker with the Metropolitan Community Church, and one of the original 76ers: first participants in the first RI Pride Parade. Her first song was the Battle of New Orleans, a hit from 1959. She was Emperor XVI and had not expected to do it again, but it has been a good year. With the change in Washington politics, Belle has decided that she would still like to continue working for the community. q

From left to right, Emperor XVIII “Big Daddy” Austen Daniels, Ms. Lesbian RI 2010 Tara Gianfrancesco, Empress XVIII Jacqueline DiMera, Mr. Gay RI 2010 Benjamin Huber at Coronation XVIII “Gangsters, Girdles & Glitter,” April 17, 2010.

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Kenneth Cote, left, and LaDiva Jonz, center, are crowned Emperor and Empress V, 1996.

Angela Soprano-Butana, left, being crowned Empress XXIII while Empress I BB Hayes, center, holds the state crown and Emperor XVIII “Big Daddy” Austen Daniels, right, leads the ceremony at Coronation XXIII, April 18, 2015.

Rafaelle D. Martino — Emperor I BB Hayes — Empress I W. Fitzgerald HImmelsbach — Emperor II & IX Lee Daniels — Empress II & XVII Stephen Hartley — Emperor III Nicole — Empress IV William Elliano — Emperor IV Kenneth Cote — Emperor V LaDiva Jonz — Empress V Scott Connery — Emperor VI & XVII Jazzmine Taylor — Empress VI & XI Star Marquette — Empress VII Todd Warren — Emperor VII Michael Souza — Emperor VIII, XI, & XX Candy WILLs duBarry — Empress VIII Taya Houston — Empress IX Raymonday Quinn — Emperor X Mahogany_Lite — Empress X Lee Daniels — Emperor XII Jade Love — Empress XII Early Taylor — Emperor XIII Vi’let — Empress XIII Ray Fay — Emperor XIV Gabriel — Emperor XV Gingah Rale — Empress XV Belle Pellegrino — Emperor XVI & XXIV Diana Prince — Empress XVI & XX Jacqueline DiMera — Empress XVIII Big’ Daddy Austen Daniels — Emperor XVIII Gia Devaroux — Empress XXI & XXIV Scott Diamond-McMahon — Emperor XXI Jealousy Jonz — Empress XXII Ryder Hard — Emperor XXII Angela Soprano-Butana — Empress XXIII

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This year’s walk is tagged, “Fighting HIV One Step at a Time.” Registration opens at 10am, a speaking program begins at noon, and the walk steps off at 12:30 from the steps of the State House. Immediately after will be a raffle and other fun activities. Individuals, families, and pets are all invited to participate, and the event will take place rain or shine. This year’s event was scheduled at a time that makes it easier for college students to attend, as it is critical that young people develop a better understanding of HIV/AIDS.

greatly weakens the immune system, increasing the opportunity for serious infections and cancers. Treatments for AIDS, and to prevent HIV from turning into AIDS, have greatly improved over the years, so infected persons can often have normal lifespans with proper care. Free, fast, and anonymous HIV testing is available at AIDS Project Rhode Island, AIDS Care Ocean State, and other organizations. If you test positive for HIV, medical care is available to prevent a transition to AIDS. Preventative steps can be taken to help stop the spread of HIV.

On the fundraising webpage, people can register individually or as a team. Those who raise a minimum of $250 dollars will receive a free walk tee-shirt. Funds raised benefit AIDS Project Rhode Island; AIDS Care Ocean State is creating walk teams that will raise money for that organization. AIDS Project Rhode Island offers an array of services to prevent the spread of HIV, facilitate testing, and provide assistance to people living with HIV/AIDS.

More information is available at www.aidsprojectri.org or by calling 831-5522. AIDS Project Rhode Island’s office is at 9 Pleasant Street in Providence. q

This year’s event chair is Anthony F. DeRose, chairman of the Rhode Island Democratic Party’s LGBT Caucus, and also known as Rhode Island’s drag Sweetheart, Jacqueline DiMera. “This is our year, this is our time,” said DeRose. “Sunday, April 23 will be a day of unity and support among all participants as we fight HIV and AIDs as well as the haters one step at a time.” Stephen Hourahan is serving as a co-chair of the walk, along with AIDS Care Ocean State’s development director George Evans Marley and community volunteer Timothy Rondeau. “It’s a partnership between these two AIDS service organizations that reflects the partnership in our monthly Drag Bingo event,” said Marley. “We are pleased to work with our friends at AIDS Project Rhode Island and many others from across the state to make this a success.” “The walk has been a signature local happening for decades and continues to be, ” said Rondeau. HIV stands for “Human Immunodeficiency Virus.” HIV can lead to AIDS, “Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome,” which

“We’re energized, we’re united and we’re committed,” said Stephen Hourahan, executive director of AIDS Project Rhode Island, speaking about the upcoming AIDS Walk for Life; “Fighting HIV One Step at a Time”. “This year, perhaps more than ever, it is important to come together at the walk to show solidarity, unity, inclusivity, and strength. The happenings in Washington D.C. frighten many of us in the LGBT community and beyond,” he said. “Let’s stand up to ignorance and hatred. One way is a strong showing at the AIDS Walk for Life.”

AIDS Project RI is a division of Family Service of RI, providing case management, various healthrelated services, advocacy, prevention education, and HIV and Hep-C testing. APRI’s location is 9 Pleasant Street, Providence. Call (401) 831-5522 or visit www.aidsprojectri.org for more info.

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YOUTH VOICE

It’s Jonathan Have you ever watched a romantic movie with a group of your friends? If so, at the climax of the movie where the main characters share that passionate kiss, do all your friends either fawn, cat call, or drool at the scene? If you’re anything like me, you get super awkward and uncomfortable. When I see a straight couple get “jiggy” on screen, it just makes me get all bent out of shape and feel weird. I’m not so sure but part of that could be that as a teen, I am still quite insecure with my sexuality. It’s true that we are going from a more old-fashioned society to a more broad and accepting one, but not everyone equally embraces these changes yet. Growing up gay can be quite hard, simply because in this day and age there are so many different viewpoints on what is and is-not acceptable. It’s tough to be okay with who you are when some others may not be okay with it.

It is hard to adapt. It is hard to balance what we see in ourselves versus what we see reflected in society. But there is a little secret to finding that balance and that comfort zone. It’s easier said than done. But here goes: As the wise RuPaul once said, “If you can’t love yo’self, how in the hell can you love somebody else?” So true. Accepting who you are helps others to accept you, and it also opens you up so being less insecure with relationships. So as some final words, if you are uncertain of who you are as a person and you do not know where to go or what to do, do not be scared. Do not be afraid to explore and discover yourself. Try to find like-minded, similar people. Try new things, get involved, and remember that as you love yourself, lots of that old insecurity will melt away. Stay true. Be you. ‘Cause no one can do you better than you. q

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On April 23, join ACOS in the AIDS Walk RI 2017. This year’s theme is “Fighting HIV One Step at a Time.” This venerable event, which has raised both awareness and much-needed funds for over three decades, begins at the Rhode Island State House and walks in a loop around the city of Providence. Registration begins at 10:00am. To register for AIDS Care Ocean State’s Walk for Life Team visit bit.ly/AIDSWalk2017 (case sensitive). There will be a brief speaking program, followed by participants proudly marching to support HIV/AIDS awareness. ACOS is asking our supporters, friends, and followers to join in and walk for our team. Everyone who signs up to walk with AIDS Care Ocean State and raises a minimum of $25 will receive a Drag Bingo tee shirt to wear the day of the walk. Come Lend A Hand! ACOS relies on financial donations to help people in Rhode Island affected by HIV and AIDS, but there are also other ways to become involved and to contribute. ACOS is currently seeking volunteers for a wide variety of programs, events, and initiatives. Volunteers can enjoy the camaraderie that comes from working with others who want to help out. Many students can fulfill educational requirements or school service credits, and those who are not students have the benefit of excellent resume-worthy experience. Opportunities vary in scope and time commitment, so there is surely something suited for everyone and anyone interested. Email Chris Cedroni at ChrisC@AIDSCareOS.org for more information or check it out on the web www.AIDSCareOS.org. One Delicious Event! Paint the Town Red, a Celebration of Food and Hope, will be held on April 27. Local participating restaurants, bars, and

clubs plan to donate up to 30 percent of the day’s sales to help support ACOS programs. This event is a collaboration among food blogger David Dadekian of Eat Drink Rhode Island, Jamie Coelho of Rhode Island Monthly, and ACOS. The list of restaurants keeps growing and growing, so visit www.AIDSCareOS.org to find out where to supporting ACOS while enjoying a great meal. Are you a restaurant owner who wants to participate? It’s not too late to sign up. Visit bit.ly/PAINTitRED2017 (case sensitive) to find out more, or contact George Marley at 521-3603 or GeorgeM@AidsCareOs. org. Establishments that sign up before March 1 will have their names and logos added to all print materials and online advertising, while those who sign up after March 1 will be featured in online advertising only. Opening Night of RENT to Benefit ACOS: Time (and Tickets) are Running Out! There are still a limited number of tickets for the presentation and opening night reception for the award-winning Broadway musical, Rent. ACOS and PPAC are proud to partner for the event. The show, now in its twentieth year, features characters affected by HIV and AIDS as they struggle to thrive. Rent tells the story of a group of friends as they search for love, artistic expression, and human meaning. It was the first Broadway musical to deal with the AIDS crisis headon. Set in the gritty backdrop of 1990’s New York City, the show remains topical even after 20 years. Guests who purchase tickets through ACOS using the link found below will be eligible for excellent orchestra or first dress balcony seats and, after the show, will have priority seating at a special “Meet and Greet” session with members of the cast and creative team. Tickets may be purchased online at Bit.ly/RENT2017. Ticket prices range from $50-$150.

Seating for this fantastic, one-of-a-kind experience is expected to sell out. “Do I hear $69?” Indulge your naughty side at Jocktion 2017 on March 11. There will be plenty of eyecandy as this year’s contestants show the audience why they should be crowned International Mr. Leather 39. Russell Sweeney, Mr. Leather New England 2017, will be there to auction off jockstraps donated by the contestants. In previous years the event has proved wildly popular, with jockstraps being auctioned off for as much as $500. Auction proceeds will benefit ACOS programs. As in years past, the event will be held at the Eagle Providence, 124 Snow Street. The fun starts at 9pm, and might not stop until the sun comes up. Current title-holders Joe DiMauro, Mr. Gay RI; Neoki Feytal, Ms. Gay RI; and Ally P. Sha, Ms. Lesbian RI; will each perform to entertain the crowd. This event will also feature raffles, promotions, and other surprises throughout the night. So whether you’re an athlete, an athletic supporter, want to add to your priceless jockstrap collection, or just enjoy looking at scantily-clad men, join ACOS and be sure to bring your friends. q

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RISE’S UN-PRESIDENTED DAY WEEKEND February 19 - Rooftop at the Providence G New England’s only queer monthly rooftop tea dance. Hosted by Pulp Friction, Joe DiMauro, Forrest Elliot,Annie B. Frank, and Brendan Chipley Roane. Music by DJ Andy Morris. Photos by Ryan Welch.

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COMMUNITY By Donna-Marie Frappier

What began in 1978 as a small group of women seeking an alternative to bars, and creating a safe and welcoming place to socialize, has developed into an expansive social scene where members are encouraged to expand their circles and meet new friends. RIWA is a diverse group of proud professional women of all ages meeting in a common space to celebrate a sense of community, friendship, and camaraderie. Six times a year they gather to celebrate and honor their founders, to recognize the strides that have been made over the past 38 years, and to keep those efforts alive for future generations. Current leaders are committed to work to enhance the lives of the membership. In 2016 RIWA began their New Beginnings commitment to the RI lesbian community. In 2017 there are even more changes ahead. The past year was a phenomenal

success for the organization whose membership grew from 85 in 2015 to 113 in 2016. The upcoming 2017 Dance/Event Season has a new home and with it comes a great number of possibilities. The new venue is the beautiful, eclectic, and historic space located at the Hope Artiste Village in Pawtucket. (999 Main Street, Second Level ). There is plenty of room to accommodate the current members as well as guests. There is a fantastic restaurant, Hope Village Kitchen, on the first floor where members are able to dine prior to the dance. Dance events have become very popular, with last yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dances ranging from 130150 members and guests in attendance. Due to that success, RIWA has decided to make it even better this year. The Kick-Off dance held in February featured comedian Poppy Champlin and brought in 134 attendees from Rhode Island, Connecticut,

and Massachusetts. Plans are in process to bring more live entertainment and fun, such as the speed-dating scheduled for April. Special guest performer information may be obtained from the web site as the information becomes available. The following are the dance event dates for 2017: April 29, June 24, September 23, November 18, and December 9. The dances run from 7:00-11:30pm. When one arrives at a RIWA dance, it is a little like walking into a private club. The Steering Committee is there at the door to greet arrivals. If it is the personâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s first time, and they are alone, the Chairwoman will provide introductions to other members and even other first-timers. The music is modern and the disc jockey is ready to take requests for anyone who wants to enjoy the generously-sized dance floor. The atmosphere is friendly with potential friends. And of course, there is a full-service bar that also has free coffee

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and water. Comfortable seating is available for anyone who wants to sit and chat.

ready to become a member, single event memberships are also available at a cost of $12. New guests are welcome. RIWA strongly encourages Options readers to take a chance and join them. It is likely to be the first of many future visits. q

Annual Membership for RIWA is $35.00 and includes entrance to all six scheduled dance events. Membership forms will be available at the door or on the RIWA website at www.riwa.net. For those not

The 2016 steering committee includes

Donna-Marie Frappier, Chairwoman; Lynn F., Treasurer; Leslie Baker, Webmaster; Lisa Abreau, Secretary; Sharon Cavalloro, Membership Coordinator; and Jennifer Heald, Rose Thompson, Jasmine Appleberry and Lisa Koulibaly as Members-at-large.

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that very first day I entered the system. These are the people who I’ve felt were at my side when things got tough they are also the people with whom I share happy times. I am pleased to say that, now, at age 28, I have ultimately overcome my childhood challenges. Despite the many bumps in the road along the way, I have successfully made it out on my own.

By Michael Wynn

OVERCOMER There is a tremendous need for adoptive families in our state. Here is the first-hand account of a young man growing up in foster care. He shares some of the discomfort and challenges that he faced while in the statesystem. These sorts of challenges may be eased when kids have the proper support.

I recently completed an online quiz titled, “What word describes your life.” The result was “Overcomer,” which I do not think is an actual word, yet I think it would describe anyone who has gone through state foster care, as I have. I entered the Rhode Island foster care system before the age of five and initially was placed in a group home with about eight other boys, ages four through twelve, all strangers to me. Over the span of my childhood, I ended up living in a total of ten foster and three group homes. Looking back, if I were to offer any advice to any youth in state care I would say that the biggest help in my situation was building up a supportive network of friends and family, but also people in the adoption and foster care field. Through it all, these people were my lifeline; especially after I left state care. Whether it was just to talk or offer support in some other way, they remained the one constant in my life. They stood by me without judgment, when things felt rough.

Unfortunately, even with a great support network, I cannot say that all challenges were easily handled. Growing up in state care comes with a great many challenges, not the least of which are feelings of uncertainty, insecurity, loneliness, and fear about the future. But for me, there was an additional struggle of figuring out who I was… not only as a person, but also as a gay individual. I look back and can recall one especially difficult time when I was a teen. The group home staff discovered several kids, including me, with adult material. But, because mine showed an interest in males, rather than females, I was ridiculed and joked about, not only by my housemates but by the staff as well. When I eventually came out of the closet as a gay male, I was labeled “Sexually Acting Out” (SAO). This unfortunate label led me to even more ridicule and humiliation. (For the record, I am not saying all gay people in state care face these challenges, I am speaking only of my own experiences.) I actually ran from the system at age 16 and drifted from state to state trying to figure out my life and what I wanted to do with it. Still, the connections I’d made and people I relied on remained on my mind, in my heart. I am especially thankful for my aunts and my friends at Adoption Rhode Island, a few of whom I have known since

As for the future, I want to help bring back programs that have been erased or cut from the child welfare system. I’d like to see improvements to the Independent Living Program, a program that helps teens reach a viable level of independence so they will be better prepared if they do age out of the system. I want to help improve life skills programs that teach cooking and nutrition, as well as how to do taxes, bank responsibly, drive a car, and learn to build healthy relationships. As for acceptance, encouragement, and advocacy for LGBTQ youth in the system, I am happy to hear that things have improved since I left almost 12 years ago. I want to make a difference. I am hopeful that the goals I set for myself and my future will someday, in some way, help the thousands of children and teens in state care to become “Overcomers” too. q Adoption Rhode Island is committed to creating and supporting permanent family connections for youth in foster care. They work to improve the wellbeing of foster and adopted youth and their families. They advocate for the right to a safe and affirming environment, which is especially important to at-risk youth. Adoptive families need to stay resilient and create strong bonds; and with this in mind, Adoption RI provides services to find and sustain family connections. This support improves outcomes for youth as they transition out of the state system and into adulthood. To learn more about adoption from foster care, Adoption Rhode Island’s Youth Transition Services, their Family Preservation and Support programs, or how you can help make a difference in the life of a child in state care, contact Adoption Rhode Island at 401-864-6000 or adoptionri@adoptionri.org or visit their website at www.adoptionri.org

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By Christopher Lauth, Executive Director YPI

YPI don’t grow up invisible

Youth Pride Inc.

Youth Pride Inc. is pleased to introduce its newest team members, Stephen Alexander and LaTonya Pete, who will be helping to coordinate state-wide education efforts though the Gender and Sexuality Alliance (GSA). Stephen Alexander is thought to be America’s first openly transgender high and middle school coach. Along with Mo’Ne Davis, Michael Sam, and Jason Collins, Stephen was named as a “Trailblazer of the Year” by Sports Illustrated in 2014. Stephen has been profiled by many news outlets; including NBC, the Huffington Post, SB Nation, the Advocate, Compete Magazine, Art New England and the Washington Blade. He is a national speaker who has consulted for ESPN focusing on trans diversity and LGBTQ rights within the sports arena. He also works with leaders at the national, state, and local levels to address problems and solutions for today’s youth in schools and sports. As an educator himself, Stephen holds degrees in psychology, religious studies, social work, and education. Stephen currently works with K-12 students and their parents as a teacher, tutor, and mentor. Please visit transitiongames.com to learn more.

New Faces at Youth Pride LaTonya Pete is an outstanding intern who is passionate about LGBTQ rights. As a social work student at Rhode Island College, she seeks to broaden her experience through making positive changes for kids. She believes it takes a community to raise a child and therefore advocates to fill the need for more community engagement, especially targeting positive role models. LaTonya is dedicated to helping the most vulnerable of our youth and that is why she sought an internship at Youth Pride Inc.. She finds motivation in environments where opinion is respected and valued. LaTonya aspires to obtain her Master’s Degree in Social Work to become a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker in private practice. She is a proud mother and wife. The annual GSA Conference is to be held on Saturday, April 8 from 10-2pm at Youth Pride. You may reach out to Stephen at stephen@youthprideri.com or LaTonya at tonya@youthprideri. com if you have questions about how to start or make your GSA more successful. q

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RESOURCES Options originated in 1982 as the offical newsletter of the Rhode Island Gay Task Force. Editor Jos Fayette explained, “The RIGTF wants to make the homosexual community aware of their options as gay men and women in Rhode Island. And it’s only because we live, work, love, and play in this state that there are such a large number of options available to all of us.” Options has always, and will continue to print LGBTQ resources so that you can, as Fayette went on to say, “Exercise your OPTIONS

Addiction Support Groups

AA Brothers in Sobriety: Saturday 7:30pm. 372 Wayland Avenue, Providence. 751-9328. AddictionCenter.com: Web information guide for addiction resources nationwide. Or call 1-877-830-2915. Alcohol/Drug Helpline: RI Council on Alcoholism & Drug Dependence. 24hr. (866) 252-3784. RI LGBT AA Group: Tuesdays 7 -- 8 pm Bell Street Chapel, 5 Bell St., Providence, 273-5678. All are welcome. Seven Hills Behavioral Health: Addiction support services and Narcan. 1173 Acushnet Avenue, New Bedford, MA, 508999-4159. 310 S. Main Street, Fall River, MA, 508-235-1012. Leonard Amaral, Program Manager, lamaral@sevenhills.org. Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous: 12-step program. Fridays at 7pm. Providence Presbyterian Church, 500 Hope Street, Providence, side entrance, downstairs to the left. Gay, but all are welcome. YPQT (Young People Queer, Trans) meeting of AA. Fridays 7:30 -- 8:30pm., Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, 250 Main St., Pawtucket. 489-5513.

AIDS/Health Resources

Afia Center for Health & Wholeness: Meals, food pantry, HIV support groups, recreational and social activities. Sponsored by AIDS Project RI. Free to clients.. Wed. and Thurs. 12 -- 3pm. 134 Mathewson St., Providence. John Fruscella, 831-5522, Ext. 3835. AIDS Action Hotline: MA only. (800) 235-2331. www.aac.org. AIDS Care Ocean State: Confidential HIV & Hep C testing, safersex supplies, case management, emergency funds, clinical services, assisted and supportive housing for people living with HIV/AIDS, street outreach, ENCORE, HIV+ support groups. Speaker’s Bureau, 18 Parkis Ave., Providence. 521-3603 (call 781-0665 to schedule an appointment). www.aidscareos.org. AIDS Project RI: Division of Family Service of RI. Case management, buddies, COBRA and dental services, emergency fund, mental health counseling, nutrition support, assessment and referral, wellness programs, advocacy, strength training, prevention education, HIV testing. 9 Pleasant Street, Providence. 831-5522 www.aidsprojectri.org.

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AIDS Quilt RI: Displays local AIDS memorial quilt panels, panelmaking programs including Anna’s Workshop, HIV/AIDS education for young people. PO Box 2591, Newport. 434-4880. admin@ aidsquiltri.org. www.aidsquiltri.org. Brown University AIDS Program: Clinical trials, public policy, research, lectures, conferences, patient and community education. 121 South Main Street, Second Floor, Providence. 863-6790. brunap@brown.edu. brown.edu/Departments/BRUNAP. Community Care Alliance: Case management, support, personal care items for people living with HIV/AIDS in northern Rhode Island. 245 Main Street, Woonsocket. 235-6092. lcohen@famresri.org. Comprehensive Community Action Programs: Medical, mental health, dental, social services, LGBT outreach. 311 Doric Avenue, Cranston. Also Coventry, Pawtucket, and Warwick. 467-9610. Gabriel Care, LLC: Nursing/social worker case management and financial compensation for assistance and supervision for those living with HIV. MassHealth funded for MA residents. 376 South Main Street, Fall River, MA. Contact Jenn, (508) 678-1002. HIV Antibody Testing: Anonymous. Free or sliding scale. RI Department of Health. Providence, Newport and other locations. 222-2320. Home and Hospice Care of RI: Medical care management for HIV/AIDS. 24hr nursing staff for treatment. 1085 North Main Street, Providence. Referrals: 782-0725. Bereavement groups: Contact John Charette, 727-7079. Main Office: 415-4200 or toll-free 800338-6555. www.hhcri.org. House of Compassion: HIV/AIDS housing. 2510 Mendon Road, Cumberland. 658-3992. LGBT Caregiver Online Support Group: For LGBTs caring for someone with chronic health problems. www.caregiver.org Luis E. Martinez House CHS, Inc.: Supportive, permanent housing for 10 adults living with HIV/AIDS and/or substance abuse. New Bedford, MA. Contact Joe Taylor. (508) 984-7514. Partners in Learning About AIDS: Outreach to minorities, women of color, and LGBT community at clubs and other locations. North Providence office provides free condoms and information about STIs and post-exposure prophylaxis for HIV. 1006 Charles Street, Suite 5, North Providence. 484-7523. info@plaidsproject. org. www.plaidsproject.org

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Planned Parenthood of So. New England: Confidential, lowcost, same-day & walk-in STD and HIV testing. Commonsense approach to health. 111 Point St., Providence. 800-230-7526. www.ppsne.org. Prima CARE Transgender Clinic: Fall River, MA. Counseling, hormonal reassignment, referrals for surgery. Kishore Lakshman, MD. 508-235-0481. Seven Hills HIV Prevention & Screening: TWIST program, HIV and STI prevention and testing, partner care. 1173 Acushnet Avenue, New Bedford, MA, 508-999-4159. 310 S. Main Street, Fall River, MA, 508-235-1012. Contact Leonard Amaral, lamaral@sevenhills.org. SSTAR (Stanley Street Treatment & Resources): Counseling, drug treatment, detox, domestic violence programs, free and confidential HIV, HEP C, and STD testing, education, case management and support. MA and RI locations. 386 Stanley Street, Fall River, MA. (508) 679-5222. Project Aware (HIV/HCV); (508) 324-3561. Family Healthcare Center; (508) 675-1054. www.sstar.org. Steppingstone, Inc.: Welcome Home Medical case management program. One-on-one peer support in Somerset to Wareham area. HIV support groups available. Free and open to any HIV+ person 18+. 5 Dover Street, New Bedford, MA. (508) 984-7514. www.steppingstoneinc.org. Tranquil Mind & Wellness: Counseling, alternative healing, yoga, Pilates, meditation.109 Rhode Island Road, Lakeville, MA. (508) 947-1683. www.tranquilmind.net. Thundermist Health Center: Provides HIV/AIDS services including medical care and treatment by an HIV specialist, dental care, behavioral health counseling, nutritional assessment and counseling, pharmacy consultation, free and confidential HIV testing. 450 Clinton Street, Woonsocket. Contact Philip Kane. 7674100 ext. 3516.

Information/Education The Center for Sexual Pleasure & Health: Education, pleasure, health, advocacy. Tues. -- Sat. 12 -- 6 and by appointment. 250 Main Street, Unit 1, Pawtucket. 489-5513. www.thecsph.org. Fenway Community Center LGBT Helpline: Support, information and referrals. Fenway Community Health Center, Boston. Open daily 6-11pm. (617) 267-9001 or 888-340-452 GLBT National Help Center Hotline: Local resources nationwide provided by social services agency. 888-843-4564. www.glbtnationalhelpcenter.org. Newport Out: LGBT website for Newport. www.newportout.com. RILGBT-News: Low-volume email distribution list for LGBT & AIDS news from RI. Not a discussion list. To subscribe: tinawood@cox.net. South Coast LGBTQ Network: Information & advocacy network for individuals of all ages. 774-371-0711. info@ sclgbtqnetwork.org. www.sclgbtqnetwork.org. United Way of RI Referral Line: 2-1-1 on your telephone.

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Nightlife The Alley Cat Providence: Downtown neighborhood bar. Monday-Thursday 3pm-1am, Friday 3pm-2am, Saturday 2pm2am, Sunday 2pm-1am. 19 Snow Street, Providence. 272-6369. Bobby’s Place: Dancing, pool, video lounge, karaoke. SundayWednesday 5pm-1am, Thursday-Saturday 5pm-2am. 62 Weir Street, Taunton, MA. (508) 824-9997. www.bobbysplacema.com. Brooklyn Coffee Tea House: 209 Douglas Ave., Providence: public/private venue for music, art, film screenings, weddings, showers, etc. RHODYWOOD@yahoo.com; 359-0192. Club Body Center: Gay men’s sauna. Membership required. One-day pass available. Open 24hr. 257 Weybosset Street, Providence. 274-0298. www.cbcresorts.com. The Dark Lady: Downtown bar and nightclub. TuesdayThursday 9pm-1am, Friday & Saturday 9pm-3am, Sunday 9pm1am. 17 Snow Street, Providence. 272-6369. EGO: Providence’s newest gay nightlife performance/event space. Sunday and Thursday 9pm-1am, Friday and Saturday 10pm-3am, 73 Richmond St, Providence. 383-1208. www.egopvd.com. Indigo Lounge: 599 Tiogue Ave, Coventry RI 02816. Breakfast buffet, specialty pizzas, T Dances, live entertainment, karaoke Thurs. Hours vary, closed Mon. www.indigopizza.com. Mirabar: Downtown bar and nightclub. Monday-Thursday 3pm-1am, Friday and Saturday 3pm-2am, Sunday 3pm-1am. 15 Elbow Street, Providence. 331-6761. www.mirabar.com. Providence Eagle: Leather, Levi, bear cruise bar. MondayThursday 2pm-1am, Friday 2pm-2am, Saturday-Sunday 12pm2am. 124 Snow Street, Providence. 421-1447. The Stable: Downtown video bar. No cover. Monday-Thursday 2pm-1am, Friday 2pm-2am, Saturday 12pm-2am, Sunday 12pm1am. 125 Washington Street, Providence. 272-6950. The Village: Downtown Providence’s newest LGBT owned and operated restaurant and live entertainment venue. Lunch & dinner Wednesday through Sunday for varying hours. 373 Richmond St. 228-7222, www.thevillageri.com

Political & Legal Groups American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU): 128 Dorrance Street, Suite 220, Providence. 831-7171. riaclu.org. Amnesty International OUTfront: Program to campaign globally for LGBTQ human rights. (212)807-8400. Cvohs18904@yahoo.com. www.amnestyusa.org. Brown University Queer Alliance: Student advocacy and support organization. queer@brown.edu. Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD): LGBT/ HIV legal info hotline. Weekdays 1:30-4:30pm. 30 Winter Street, Suite 800, Boston, MA. (617) 436-1350 or (800) 455-GLAD. gladlaw@glad.org www.GLAD.org. Lambda Legal Defense & Education Fund: 120 Wall Street, Suite 1500, NY. (212) 809-8585. www.lambdalegal.org. Lawyers for Equality and Diversity (LEAD): Advocates for LGBT causes. lawyersforequality@gmail.com.

National Lesbian & Gay Journalists Assoc./New England: Works for fair and accurate media coverage of LGBT issues. info@nlgja.org, www.nlgja.org. The Next Thing (TNT): Political and support group for queer people of color located at Brown University. 863-3062. tnt@brown.edu. RI Commission on Prejudice and Bias: Hate crime awareness training program. www.hatecrimeri.org. RI Socialist Action: 952-5385, adgagneri@gmail.com. Spanish: 351-3514, walsil@cox.net. RI Human Rights Commission: Anti-discrimination law enforcement agency with jurisdiction in employment, housing, public accommodations, and credit. 180 Westminster Street, 3rd floor, Providence. 222-2662 TTY: 222-2664, richr.ri.gov. Scouts for Equality: An organization composed largely of Boy Scouts of America alumni dedicated to ending the BSA’s ban on gay members and leaders. Contact Carol Crowther. ccrowther1@gmail.com. Facebook.com/riscoutsforequality. Servicemembers Legal Defense Network: Serving LGBT military personnel and veterans. PO Box 65301, Washington DC. (202) 328-3244. or (800) 538-7418. sldn@sldn.org. www. sldn.org.

Religious & Spiritual All Saints Memorial Church: 674 Westminster Street, Providence. 751-1747. asmcri@verizon.net. www.allsaintsmemorial.org. Amicable Congregational Church: UCC. Open & Affirming. Pastor William Sterrett. Sunday 10am. 3736 Main Road,Tiverton. 624-4611. amicablechurch@aol.com, www.amicablechurch.org. Association of Welcoming & Affirming Baptists: robin@awab.org, www.awab.org. Barrington Congregational Church: UCC. “The white church.” Sundays 10am. 461 County Road, Barrington. 246-0111. office@bccucc.org, www.bccucc.org. Bell Street Chapel: Unitarian Universalist. A Welcoming Congregation. Rev. Margaret Weis. Sundays 10am. 5 Bell Street, Providence. 273-5678. www.bellstreetchapel.org. Beneficent Congregational Church: UCC. An Open & Affirming congregation in the heart of Providence. Sundays 10am. 300 Weybosset Street, Providence. 331-9844. BeneficentChurchUCC@ gmail.com, www.beneficentchurch.org. Berean Baptist Church: A safe and welcoming place for all God’s children. Sunday 10am. 474 Chapel Street, Harrisville. 568-5411. bereanbaptist@verizon.net. www.bereanri.net Calvary United Methodist Church of Middletown: LGBTQ early dementia support group. Contact Amy. Sundays 10:30am. 200 Turner Road, Middletown. 847-6181, www.middletownmethodist.com. Central Congregational Church: UCC. An Opening & Affirming Congregation. Sundays 10:30am. 296 Angell Street, Providence. 3311960. www.centralchurch.us. Channing Memorial Church: Unitarian Universalist. A Welcoming Congregation. Sundays 10am. 135 Pelham Street, Newport. 846-0643. administrator@channingchurch.org. www.channingchurch.org. The Chapel of the Holy Spirit: Independent Old Catholic. Fr. Jakob Lazarus. Sunday 9am and 6pm. 155 Douglas Avenue, Providence. 413-4821. www.holyparaclete.org. Charter Oak Grove ADF: An Open andWelcoming Congregation

of Neo-pagan Druids in CT. charteroakadf@gmail.com, www.charteroakadf.org. Christ Church in Lonsdale: Episcopal. 1643 Lonsdale Avenue, Lincoln. Services 8am and 10:30am. 725-1920. office@christchurchlincoln.org. www.christchurchlincoln.org. Church of the Ascension, 390 Pontiac Ave., Cranston, RI 02910. Sundays at 10am. 461-5811. www.ascensioncranston.org. Church of the Epiphany: A diverse Open & Affirming Episcopal congregation. 1336 Pawtucket Avenue, East Providence. 434-5012. info@epiphanyep.org, www.epiphanyep.org. Church of the Redeemer, a Welcoming Episcopal church. 655 Hope St., Providence. www.redeemerprovidence.org. office@ redeemerprovidence.org. Rev. Patrick Campbell, 331-0678. Concordia Center for Spiritual Living: A diverse community welcoming all spiritual paths to God. Sunday Celebration 9:15am. 292 W. Shore Rd., Warwick. Rev. Ian Taylor, 732-1552. info@concordiachurchri.com. www.ConcordiaCSL.com. Edgewood Congregational Church: UCC. Open & Affirming. Service 10am. 1788 Broad Street, Cranston. 461-1344. office@edgewoodchurchri.org. www.edgewoodchurchri.org. Emmanuel Episcopal Church: Sundays 8 and 9:30am. 120 Nate Whipple Highway, Cumberland. 658-1506. office@emmanuelri.org. www.emmanuelri.org. First Unitarian Church: A welcoming congregation. Sunday 10:30am. 1 Benevolent Street, Providence. 421-7970. admin@firstunitarianprov.org, www.firstunitarianprov.org. First Unitarian Church: Service 11am. 71 8th Street, New Bedford, MA. (508) 994-9686. admin@uunewbedford.org, www.uunewbedford.org. First Universalist Society: UU. Welcoming congregation. Samegender weddings. 262 Chestnut Street, Franklin, MA. (508) 5285348. fusf@verizon.net, www.fusf.org. Foxboro Universalist Church: UUA. Service 10am. 6 Bird Street, Foxboro, MA. 508-543-4002. chair@uufoxborough.org. www. uufoxborough.org. Grace Episcopal Church in Providence: 175 Mathewson Street, Providence. 331-3225. hello@gracechurchprovidence.org. www. gracechurchprovidence.org. Hopedale Unitarian Parish: Sundays 10:30 am. 65 Hopedale St., Hopedale, MA. www.hopedaleunitarian.org, 508-473-0745. Rev. Tony Lorenzen. Immanuel Lutheran Church: A Reconciling in Christ congregation. Pastor Sandra Demmler D’Amico. 647 North Main Street,Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-2898. www.immanuellc.org. Interweave at Channing Memorial UU Church: Organization for the spiritual, political and social well-being of LGBTQ persons, and their allies, confronting oppression. 135 Pelham Street, Newport. 846-0643. Lutheran Church of the Good Shepherd: A “Reconciling in Christ” congregation (Welcoming). 3383 Old North Rd., Kingston, RI. Sundays 9 am. Pastor Mary Hansen-Joyce. 7897776; office@goodshepherdri.org Mathewson St. Church: United Methodist. 134 Mathewson Street, Providence. 331-8900. MathewsonStUMC@gmail.com. Mercy of God Community: Christian, inclusive religious order. mercycomm@yahoo.com, www.mgc.org. Murray Unitarian Universalist Church: Marriage and commitment ceremonies for all. Rev. Bob McKetchnie. 505 North Main Street, Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-0505 www.murrayuuchurch.org.

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Newman Congregational Church: Open & Affirming. 100 Newman Avenue, Rumford. 434-4742. www.newmanucc.org. Newport Congregational Church: UCC. Open & Affirming. Rev. Hayes and Rev. Baker. 73 Pelham Street, Newport. 8492238. Park Place Congregational Church: 71 Park Place, Pawtucket. 726-2800. office@ppucc.necoxmail.com, www. parkplaceucc.com. The Pub Church: An Open & Affirming church that meets in a pub. Location may change. Saturday 5pm. The Dugout, 722 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston, MA. thepubchurch@gmail. com. Pilgrim Lutheran Church: An inclusive congregation. Sundays 8 and 9:30am. 1817 Warwick Avenue, Warwick. 739-2937. parishasst@pilgrimlutheranri.org, pilgrimlutheranri.jimdo.com. Pilgrim United Church of Christ: Open and Affirming. 635 Purchase Street, New Bedford, MA. (508)-997-9086. Riverside Church: UCC.15 Oak Avenue, Riverside. Service 10am. 433-2039. www.rcc-ucc.com. St. Augustine’s Church and Episcopal Center at URI: 15 Lower College Road, Kingston. 783-2153. Sundays 8am and 10am. StAugustinesChurch@necoxmail.com, www.staugustineuri.org. St. James Church: Episcopal. 474 Fruit Hill Avenue, North Providence. 353-2079. St. Martin’s Episcopal Church: Sundays 8 and 10am. 50 Orchard Avenue, Providence. 751-2141. StMartinsNB. Secretary@gmail.com, www.stmartinsprov.org. St. Martin’s Episcopal Church: Welcoming Church. Monthly LGBT Eucharist. 136 Rivet Street, New Bedford, MA. (508)9948972. stmartins1887@comcast.com, www.stmartinsma.org. St. Paul’s Episcopal Church: Sundays 9am. 50 Park Place, Pawtucket. 728-4300. office@stpaulspawtucket.org, www.stpaulspawtucket.org. St. Paul’s Church: A welcoming Episcopal church. Sundays 9am. 2679 East Main Street, Portsmouth. 683-1164. stpaulsportsmouthri.org. St. Peter & St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church: 25 Pomona Avenue, Providence. 272-9649.stpanda25@verizon.net. www.stpeters-standrews.org. Saint Therese Old Catholic Church: Open & Affirming. Fr. David Martins. Sunday 10:30am. 1500 Main St., W. Warwick, RI 02893. 680-9076. stocc134@gmail.com, www.saintthereseocc.org. Second Congregational Church of Attleboro: UCC. Open & Affirming. 50 Park Street, Attleboro, MA. Sunday 10am. (508) 222-4677. office2nd@verizon.net. www.attleborosecondchurch. org. Seekonk Congregational Church: Open & Affirming. Sundays 9 and 10:30am. Rev. Joy Utter, 600 Fall River Ave., Seekonk, MA. (508) 336-9355. sccucc@verizon.net. www.scc-ucc.com. Soka Gakkai: Buddhist association for peace, culture, and education. Contact for weekly meetings in Providence. 930 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston. (617) 264-2000. www.sgi-usa.org. Temple Agudas Achim: Reconstructionist congregation. 901 North Main Street, Attleboro, MA. (508) 222-2243. office@agudasma.org, www.agudasma.org. Temple Beth-El: Rabbi Sarah E. Mack. 70 Orchard Avenue, Providence. 331-6070. info@temple-beth-el.org, www.temple-beth-el.org.

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Temple Emanu-El: A welcoming Conservative congregation. Rabbi Wayne Franklin. 99 Taft Avenue, Providence. 331-1616. info@teprov.org, www.teprov.org. Temple Habonim: A warm, Welcoming Reform congregation. Rabbi Andrew Klein. 165 New Meadow Road, Barrington. 2456536. office@templehabonim.org, www.templehabonim.org. Temple Sinai: A Welcoming Reform temple. Rabbi Jeff Goldwasser, 30 Hagen Avenue, Cranston. 942-8350. webmaster@templesinairi.org, www.templesinairi.org. Unitarian Church in Fall River: Sunday 10:30am. 309 North Main Street, Fall River, MA. 508-678-9700. office@unitarianchurchfr.org, www.unitarianchurchfr.org. Unitarian Universalist Society of Fairhaven: Service 10:30am. 102 Green Street, Fairhaven, MA. (508) 992-7081. www.uufairhaven.org. Unitarian Universalist Congregation of South County: 27 North Road, Peace Dale. 783-4170 or Val 789-7282. uucscri@ yahoo.com. www.uusouthcountyri.org. United Congregational Church, 524 Valley Rd., Middletown RI 02842. A Welcoming congregation. Sunday, 10 am. www.UCCMiddletown.org. 849-5444. Westminster Unitarian Universalist Church: A UUA Welcoming Congregation. 119 Kenyon Avenue, East Greenwich. 884-5933. www.westminsteruu.org.

Social Organizations

Bisexual Resource Center: PO Box 170796, Boston, MA. (617) 4249595. brc@bicresource.net www.biresource.net. Biversity Boston: Mixed-gender social events for Boston and the surrounding area. (617) 424-9595. biversity-subscribe@biversity.org, www.biversity.org. Boston Bisexual Women’s Network: Social activities including monthly brunches, coming out groups and quarterly newsletter “Bi Woman Quarterly.” www.biwomenboston.org. Cape and Islands Gay & Straight Youth Alliance (CIGSYA): 56 Barnstable Road, Hyannis, MA. (508) 778-7744. info@cisgsya.org, www.cigsya.org. Communisong: For unity through song. Non-performance monthly singing session. www.communisong.net. Gay Men’s Social Group: FirstTuesdays,6 -- 9pm,Seven Hills Behavioral Health, 1177 Acushnet Ave., New Bedford, MA. Refreshments. Info: Lenny Amaral, 508-999-4159 or lamaral@sevenhills.org. Imperial Court of RI at Providence: Drag and non-drag performers raise funds for local charities. All welcome to general membership meetings on first Monday at Dark Lady, 17 Snow Street, Providence. icri.prov@gmail.com. www.icriprov.org. Mixed Borders Gardening Group: Gardening and more. Monthly meetings, all welcome. Mixedborders@cox.net. www.mixedborders.com. Opera Club: Enjoy hearing and attending. Last Sunday of each month at 1pm. BrettCornellpi4@aol.com. Providence Gay Men’s Chorus: New season rehearsals begin in January and August. Singers and non-singing volunteers welcome. Monday 7-9:30pm. Beneficent Church, 300 Weybosset Street, Providence. www.provgmc.org. Queer Book Club: 3rd Wednesday, 7pm. Books on the Square, 471 Angell Street, Providence, queerbookclub@gmail.com.

RI Association of Gay Professionals: Networking and philanthropy. www.riagp.com. RI Parents Pride: Gay parents socializing together with their children. Contact Melanie. 464-2288. saphicangel120@yahoo.com. RI Pride: Open house 4th Wednesdays. Festival & Parade 3rd Saturday in June. Office: 1055 Westminster St., Providence 02903. Mail: PO Box 1082, Providence, 02903. 467-2130. info@prideri.com, www.prideri.com. RI Prime Timers: Social and networking group for older gay and bi men. Second Sunday. Call Steve, 996-3010. www.riprimetimers.org. RI Skeptics Society: Yearning to talk with someone rational? Refreshing discussion. Fourth Saturday. East Providence restaurant location. www. meetup.com/skeptics-133/. RI Women’s Association: Lesbian social group. 21+. Dances & events. www.riwa.net SAGE/RI (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders): Advocacy, education and social events for LGBT seniors. SAGE-RI at CareLink, 1 Virginia Ave., Providence, RI 02905. 443-4451. sageriinfo@gmail.com. www.sage-ri.org. SEMASSMEN: Social group for GBQ men of southeastern MA & RI to foster strong friendships. Semassmen-subscribe@ yahoogroups.com. rlevass@yahoo.com. Smart Monkey Gay Men’s Support Group. Meets twice monthly in Cranston to learn about integrity, intimacy and male roles. Write Paul (ctripaul@yahoo.com) or Steve (43dadzone@gmail.com). South Coast Social Club for Gay & Bisexual Men: Social and networking opportunities for gay & bisexual men in S.E. Mass. www. southeastsocialclub.com. Yankee Lambda Car Club: Regional club for GLBT vintage and specialty car enthusiasts. www.yankeelcc.com.

Sports & Recreation

PrideSports Boston: Network of twenty-plus gay sports leagues/teams in Boston area. www.pridesportsboston.com. Boston Gay BASKETBALL League: ksg.bgbl@gmail.com, www.bgbl.com. BOATING: Yankee Cruising Club, New England’s club for LGBTQ boaters. www.yankeecruising.org. yankeecruisingclub@ gmail.com. Keith (508) 423-6123. Big Gay Al’s Duckpin BOWLING League: Proceeds benefit AIDS causes. Tuesday 6:30pm. 1463 Atwood Avenue, Town Hall Lanes, Johnston. Contact Frank Ferri. 831-6940.www. bgalbowling.com. www.townhalllanes.com. FIELD HOCKEY: Teamworks Somerset, 732 Lee’s River Ave., Somerset, MA. New season every 10 weeks. (508-676-3956) info@teamworkssomerset.com GALA Bowling League: Sundays 5:50 p.m., E. Providence Lanes, 80 Newport Ave., E. Providence. Season begins in Aug. View us on Facebook or email galabowling1990@gmail.com. FLAG (For Lesbians And Gays) FOOTBALL: Bostonbased recreational football club. All skill levels are encouraged to participate. Saturday mornings in the fall and spring. www. flagflagfootball.com. Boston Pride HOCKEY: www.bostonpridehockey.org. Rondeaus KICKBOXING: 272-5425. www. rondeauskickboxing.com.

Main Street MARTIAL ARTS: Non-profit. Welcoming dojo and community center. 1282 North Main Street, Providence. 274-7672.www.mainstma.org. Chiltern Mountain Club: OUTDOOR recreation club in New England. events@chiltern.org. www.chiltern.org. Boston Gay ROWERS: Worldwide online community for gay and lesbian rowers, coxies, coaches, and race officials. www.glrf. org. Boston Ironsides RUGBY Football: www.bostonironsides.org. Providence Women’s RUGBY Club: Competitive and recreational. www.providencerugby.com Frontrunners Rhode Island RUNNING Group: Running and walking group. Newcomers welcome. Meet at the end of Blackstone Boulevard at Hope Street, Providence. Thursday 6pm. Contact Brian. 751-7643. bripm@cox.net, frontrunnersri@ gmail.com Frontrunners Boston RUNNING Group: Morning walk/ run along the Charles River. Saturdays,10am. Club Cafe, 209 Columbus Avenue, Boston, MA. www.frontrunnersboston.org. OutRyders SKIING: New England’s largest gay and lesbian ski and snowboard club. www.outryders.org. Boston Strikers SOCCER Club: Non-profit social organization to learn and improve soccer skills in a relaxed, congenial environment. www.bostonstrikers.com. Renaissance City SOFTBALL League: New players and boosters always welcome. www.providencesoftball.org. Beantown SOFTBALL League: Friendly competition. 27 teams in four divisions of play: competitive, intermediate, and recreational. (617) 297-7490. www.beantownsoftball.com. LANES (Liquid Assets New England SWIMMING): Fitness and/or competition. (617) 937-5858. www.swim-lanes.org. TENNIS-4-All: Boston area tennis organization. www. tennis4all.org. Cambridge Boston VOLLEYBALL Association: Players of all skill levels welcome. secretary@cbvolleyball.net www.gayvolleyball.net. Ocean State Pride VOLLEYBALL League: Adult coed indoor league following USVBA rules. No try-outs. Fee applies. Kent County YMCA, 900 Centerville Road, Warwick. ospvolleyball@gmail.com. East Coast WRESTLING Club: (617)937.5858 x6. ecwc@juno.com. www.eastcoastwrestlingclub.org.

Students & Youth Bristol Community College The Lambda Connection: (TLC@BCC) Robert Delaleu, Advisor; BCC-G118, 777 Elsbree St., Fall River, MA (774)357-4056. Brown University Queer Alliance: Umbrella organization at Brown University for LGBTQ groups. 863-3062. queer@brown. edu or lgbtq@brown.edu. CCRI Triangle Alliance: an LGBTQQ student-run group at CCRI, on the Flanagan, Liston, and Knight campuses. www.ccri. edu/triangle/. LGBT National Youth Talkline: 800-246-7743. Private oneto-one chat and info on local resources. Peer Listening Line: Youth-staffed hotline for GLBT youth. Support, info and referrals. 5-10pm. Fenway Community Health Center, Boston, MA. (617) 267-9001 or (800) 399-PEER. www. fenwayhealth.org.

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Queer & Trans Thursdays: 6-8pm. Space for LGBTQ and heterosexual youth (24 and under) of color to foster coalitionbuilding and organize to address intersections of oppressions. 669 Elmwood Ave., Rm. B7, Providence. www.prysm.us. 383-7450. Salve Regina University – The Alliance: 100 Ochre Point Avenue, Newport. Contact: Benjamin Mead, benjamin.mead@ salve.edu S.H.E.P.A.R.D. (Stopping Homophobia, Eliminating Prejudices and Restoring Dignity): Providence College, 1 Cunningham Square, Providence. 865-1631. shepard@providence.edu. The Trevor Project: The only nationwide, around-the-clock crisis and suicide prevention helpline for LGBT youth. Also offers social networks. (866)4-U-TREVOR (866-488-7386). thetrevorproject.org. University of RI LGBTIQ2: Alumni association. 874-5808. gsimonelli@uri.edu. URI LGBTQ Center: A cultural department for students, faculty and staff. Florence Badejo. 874-2894. Youth Pride Inc.: Support, education & advocacy for LGBTQQ young people ages 13--23. Tues. -- Fri. 2 -- 8pm. The Way Out peer support group Thurs. 4pm. Gender Spectrum support group Tues. 4pm. Visit our website for full calendar of events. 743 Westminster St., Providence. 421-5626. info@youthprideri.org. www.youthprideri.org.

Support Groups & Social Services Abuse Victims and Survivors: Support on phone for LGBTQ victims & survivors of partner abuse. Confidential peer-led groups. Hotline: (617) 742-4911. TTY: (617) 227-4911. advocate@tnlr.org. Adoption Options: Non-sectarian help. Jewish Family Service, 959 North Main Street, Providence. Contact Betsy Alper. 3315437. www.adoptionoptions.org. Blackstone Valley Advocacy Center: Offering resources for victims of domestic violence. 723-3057. www.bvadvocacycenter.org. Child & Family Services: Counseling, young parent support, adoption, more. LGBT groups beginning July. Open six days. 66 Troy St., Fall River, MA. (508) 676-5708. www.childfamilyservices.org Community Care Alliance: Stipend, assistance, training provided by Family Resources Community Action. 235-6095. www.famresri.org. Compass: FTM trans info, support and social group. Boston first Thursday 7-9pm. compassftm@gmail.com. www.compassftm.org. Family Service RI: Training, stipend, support provided for nurturing families. Family Service of RI. Contact Gregary Wright. 331-1350 ext. 3305. www.familyserviceri.org. Foster parents needed: For newborn to age six. 276-4300. www.childrensfriendri.org.

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Crossroads RI Hotline: (800) 367-2700. Day One: Counseling & legal aid for victims of sexual assault/ abuse & incest. 24hr hotline. (800) 494-8100. 421-4100. www.dayoneri.org. Domestic Violence Resource Center of South County: Support, court advocacy, counseling, safe home, info for women and men in abusive or controlling relationships. 24hr free and confidential helpline. 782-3990 or toll free 800-494-8100, www.dvrcsc.org. Gay Fathers of Greater Boston: Support. 738 Main St. #323, Waltham, MA. (781) 333-8429. info@gayfathersboston.org, www.gayfathersboston.org. Gay Men’s HIV+ Social Group: Third Tuesdays, 6 -- 9pm. Refreshments. Seven Hills Behavioral Health, 1177 Acushnet Ave., New Bedford, MA. Info: Lenny Amaral, 508-999-4159 or email lamaral@sevenhills.org. Gay Officers Action League (GOAL)/New England: Law enforcement officers (sworn & civilian), fire, rescue & publicly employed EMS. Confidential. P.O. Box 171587, Boston, MA 02117. www.newenglandgoal.org. On Facebook at NewEnglandGOAL. Gay Share: Coming Out? Gay men’s support group. No fee. Wednesday 7:30pm. Contact Tom or Mike. 369-9448. info@ gayshare.org, www.gayshare.org. LGBT Grief Support: Meets regularly at Hope Hospice, 1085 No. Main St.., Providence. Rebecca Sizelove, 415-4301. Helpline for LGBT Youth: Trevor Helpline and social networks for crisis and suicide prevention. 24/7. (866) 4-U-Trevor. HIV+ Gay Men’s Support Group: Refreshments served. AIDS Care Ocean State, 18 Parkis Avenue, Providence. 5213603. New members contact Scott. 640-3108. Kathys’ Group: Free support group for lesbians with cancer or any life-threatening illness. Partners and caregivers welcome. Meets monthly in Providence. 888-5KATHYS. Mantalk of S.E. Mass: Socializing and discussions for gay, bi and curious men. Confidential. Drug and alcohol-free. 18+.Thursdays in Taunton and first Tuesdays in New Bedford. 7-8:30pm. mantalksouthcoast@yahoo.com. MentalHelp.net: National directory of inpatient treatment options for those with substance abuse problems. www. mentalhelp.net/care/substance-abuse/ri/ Partner Support Group at Fenway Health: A ten-week support group with the purpose of building community and connections for anyone who identifies as non-trans, ages 18+, and is in a relationship with a trans* person(s). 1340 Boylston Street, Boston, MA. Contact Sarah Eley, LICSW. 857-313-6551. seley@fenwayhealth.org. PFLAG (Parents, & Friends of Lesbians & Gays): Attleboro Chapter serves Southeast Mass. Third Wednesday 6:45 p.m., Second Congregational Church, 50 Park St. (side door). email pflagattleboro@gmail.com. Greater Providence Chapter serves all R.I. First Wednesday at 6:45 p.m., Met School, 325 Public St., Providence. 751-7571. PFLAGprovidence@gmail.com. www. pflagprovidence.org. Project RENEW: Support, employment services, HIV

prevention for male and female sex workers. Amos House, 415 Friendship St., Providence. 272-0220. Trans support group meets Thurs. Info: transoutreachpwr@gmail.com. Queer & Trans Thursdays: Space for LGBTQ and heterosexual youth (24 and under) of color to foster coalitionbuilding and organize to address intersections of oppressions. 6-8pm. 669 Elmwood Ave., Rm. B7, Providence. www.prysm. us. 383-7450. Rape Crisis Center for S.E. Mass: New Hope, Inc. Advocacy, shelter, services for domestic abuse survivors. Hotline (800) 323-HOPE. Office (508)226-4015. RI Coalition Against Domestic Violence: 24hr helpline: (800) 494-8100. 467-9940. RI Rainbow Support Group: For people with disabilities who identify as LGBTQ. Last Tuesday. 98 Rolfe Street, Cranston. 6-7:30pm. Contact Ken Renaud. 785-2100. Samaritans: 24hr hotline for suicidal, lonely, despairing, depressed. (800) 365-4044. 272-4044 (RI only). www. samaritansri.org. Seven Hills Behavioral Health: HIV Prevention and Screening. 310 South Main Street, Fall River, MA. (508) 2351012. T.W.I.S.T. (508) 672-0378. Sexual Health Education & Advocacy Program: HIV, sexual wellness, domestic violence risk reduction. Free, confidential, bilingual (Spanish). No caller ID used. Calls blocked for safety. 861-6191 ext. 121. Sojourner House: Call for confidential support group. Support, shelter, advocacy and information for people in abusive relationships. Including specific LGBT services. No caller ID used. Outgoing calls blocked for safety. 24hr helpline. 765-3232. 861-6191. Office 861-6191. www.sojournerri.org St. Mary’s Home for Children: Sexual abuse treatment for children. 450 Fruit Hill Ave., No. Providence. www.smhfc.org. Adam Cable, 353-3900. Straight Spouses: Groups and online support. www. straightspouse.org. TGI Network of RI: Support, advocacy for transgender, transsexual, gender-variant and/or intersex people. Borderlands peer group 1st & 3d Tues. and 1st & 3d Sat. of the month. Location & information: 441-5058. info@tginetwork.org. www. tginetwork.org. Trans* Partners New England: Gives romantic partners of transgender people a confidential, safe space to explore the impact of a loved one’s gender identity on their relationships, and to connect with other loved ones of transgender people. First Wednesday 6:30-8:30pm. Providence. Location unpublished for privacy. partners@tginetwork.org. Trans* Youth Family Allies: Support for gender-variant and transgender children ages 3-18. info@imatyfa.org, www.imatyfa. org. Transgender American Veterans Association (TAVA): Growing organization to address the concerns of fair treatment of transgender veterans and active duty service members. www.tavausa.org.

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