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Issue 52, SUMMER 2022
M A G A Z I N E
AFRICA
HEADLINING THE PRIDE STAGE DOPE ST JUDE
Diva’s13 Years at Pride
2023
Mr & Miss Pride Pageant Pride Challenges the world record CAPE TOWN PRIDE
DR INK R ESPONSI B LY. N O T F O R PE R SONS UN D E R THE A GE O F 18 .

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46 OUT ON FILM: Equal 47 OUT ON FILM: My Father Marianne 50 OUT ON FILM: 3 Great films to watch with friends
20 - 23 Fashion - THE ADDICTED range 6 - 8 Pride Launch Cape Town
FEATURES
Mag 1 44 Cover: Dope St Jude 2 Editor’s Comment 3 Cape Town Pride unveils the calendar 4 PRIDE MONTH Calendar of Events 11 FEATURE: Headlining Pride - Dope St Jude 12 FEATURE: 13 Years on the Pride Stage 15 Guy Candy - Men at Pride around the World 18 The Mr & Miss Cape Town Pride Pageant 26 5 Reasons why Pride matters 29 Message from the DA 30 Celebrating Our Heroes 35 Nkoli House Needs Your Help 36 Pride Challenges the World Record 37 Learn About Will, Donations & Marital Rights 38 Meet Inspirational Authors at Pride 2023 40 HEALTH: Mental Health Issue at Pride 48 Queer Reading Room 49 Important Numbers 52 OUT TAKES 36 12 18 30 11 20
REVIEWS FASHION
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THE EDITOR

Welcome all

Pride month in Cape Town has arrived!

Flip to page 4 for the full Cape Town Pride 2023 calendar ... correct at the time of going to press, there are inevitably going to be a few changes so it is important to keep updated via social media, especially the Pride Facebook page, Instagram and the Cape Town Pride website: www.cptpride.org

Cape Town Pride 2023 was launched at an event hosted by the Embassy of Belgium, where the consul-general was in attendance and addressed the crowd. The day was a sampling of what would be on offer at Pride 2023, with live entertainment by Manilla, Jarrad Ricketts and 3 Diva’s who will all be performing on the Pride stage on the 4th March.

In this issue there is a heap of information on the headline acts on the Pride stage, to all our Heroes who will be receiving awards at the Pride Hero Awards, a glittering gala evening, at the Protea Fire & Ice! Hotel in Tamboerskloof. Go to page 30

The Parade this year will be biggest to date - starting at 11am in Prestwich Street in de Waterkant and ending at the Green Point track where the gates to the Festival Mardi Gras will open at 12H00... Get tickets online as there will be no cash payments at the gate - there will be card payments, but make your life easier and buy you ticket to Pride 2023 online!

One of the biggest events at the Cape Town Pride Festival Mardi Gras is a dragathon - challenging the world record for the most performing drag kings and queens on stage at one time... the record, currently held by Toronto Pride will be smashed this year at Cape Town Pride 2023...

The fashion spread in this issue celebrates the ADDICTED range of swimwear, underwear and sports wear ... turn to pages 20 - 23.

This year’s Pride movie nights are being sponsored by the US Embassy with a screening of the 4-part docuseries Equal ... this will happen at the American Corner at Cape Town Library on 16th February.

The second film My Father Marianne is being hosted by the Swedish Embassy and will be screened at the Labia Theatre in Gardens on the 1st March - tickets are free but must be

booked on Quicket.com - go to page 44 to read all about these fabulous LGBT+ films.

The book nights are always popular ... turn to page 38 to find out more about the featured authors at this year’s Pride.

Pride is time to meet, mix and be a part of our diverse community ... don’t miss Pride 2023!

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UNVEILS FESTIVAL CALENDAR

Cape Town Pride Festival has revealed details of this year’s 3 week-long Pride Festival which runs from the February 9th to 5th March. There is a wide range of interesting events including book readings, film screenings, workshops, mountain hikes, gay line dancing, lesbian sundowners, drag shows, a three-night boat cruise, a Pride Promenade Pet walk, and more.

The high point of the festival is always the Pride Parade which will be happening on Saturday 4th March, starting as it usually does in de Waterkant district of Green Point.

This is always a great occasion where members of the diverse LGBTQI+ community march to celebrate their Pride. The Parade culminates at the Green Point A Track, where festivities continue at the Pride Mardi Gras.

Tickets for the Pride Mardi Gras are available at Quicket.com Note that there will be no cash at the door, so it is advisable to get your Pride tickets online before Saturday.

Here are some highlights featured on the calendar, including some very exciting new additions:

The Mr and Miss Cape Town Pride Pageant is one of the most anticipated events of the Pride season, where new Pride royalty is crowned at a glittering and glamorous affair. Tickets are R130 and available at Computicket

The Sanlam Pride Heroes Awards recognise and honour those people in the community who have gone the extra mile in a number of different fields from entertainment to social work.

A first on the Cape Town Pride calendar is the Pride Cruise for LGBTIQA+ family and friends. The 4-day cruise to Mossel Bay and back to the Mother City on the MSC Sinfonia takes place from Friday 17th February to Monday 20th February. Some of Cape Town’s best loved drag performers, Manila von Teez, Kat Gilardi, Maxine Wild and Emogen Moore, will be providing onboard entertainment. For more info and to book contact: pride@grandeur-travel.co.za

The American Corner at the Cape Town City Library, courtesy of the Embassy of the United States, will be screening Equal, a riveting four-part docuseries which chronicles the landmark events and forgotten heroes of the LGBTQ+ civil rights movement. The screening will be at 3.00pm and admission is free,

The Pride Roller Disco last year was such a hit that we’re doing it again on Friday 17th February at the Rollercade in Battery Park at the V & A Waterfront. Meet up at 7.00pm for the most fun on eight wheels!

R150 - 2-hour session includes rental of skates and safety gear. R80 - bring your own skates. *No metal wheels allowed.

R40 - attendance fee for spectators. Bookings are essential to reserve your shoe size. Socks are necessary

Timeless Festival @ Cape Town Pride on Friday 17th is an exciting new event on the calendar. Timeless Festival and Cape Town Pride in association with The Death of Glitter are presenting a sexy club night at Club Paradise, in District 6. Cuttingedge club sounds and queer performance from the underground will be rising to the fore, with several of South Africa’s most prominent underground DJs and drag artists appearing on the line-up. These include Das Kapital, KDollahz, Queezy, AngelHo, Phijos, Odidiva and Ina Propriette. Tickets are available at Howler.

For lovers of gay ballroom and line-dancing, the Pride GAT Party takes place on Friday 24th February, at the Bellville Cricket Club. In case you didn’t get your fill, there will be a Pride edition of the LGBTQIA+ Dance Party at the Milnerton Hall on Saturday 25th February, another langarm sokkie.

Also on Saturday 25th February is the Pride Vogue Ball. Inspired by TV series’ such as Pose, Vogue Balls have taken Cape Town by Storm. And the category is……

The Pride Promenade Pets Walk takes place on Sunday 26th February. Show you Pride with your Pooch. Prizes for best dressed pet and owner. Even if you don’t have a furry friend of your own, some doggies from the Mdzananda Animal Clinic, who are also up for adoption, will be available to accompany you on the walk. Bring your family and pets and make a day of it. Meet at the Mouille Point Lighthouse at 10am. Walking to Sea Point Pavilion and back. Entry: R50. and the proceeds will go to Mdzananda Animal Clinic in Khayelitsha

The Queer Reading Room takes place on Wednesday 1st March. This has been described as a nude literary parlour event, celebrating art, queer bodies, queer literature, and the intimacy of being read to. This event is happening at Waves Theatre Café, 62 Hout St., Cape town CBD.

The Embassy of Sweden will be hosting a screening of the film My Father Marianne at the Labia Theatre at 6.00 pm on Wednesday 1st February. After breaking up with her boyfriend, Hanna returns to her hometown. When her beloved father, the priest with the big beard, reveals that he now wants to be Marianne, Hanna’s world is turned upside down. One critic said, “A wonderful movie that brought laughter and tears! Its not without reason that this film is an award winner.” Admission is free but seats must be reserved at Quicket.

For updates please visit: Website: https://cptpride.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/capetownpride

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THURSDAY 9 FEBRUARY LIGHT UP! The light up of the Cape Legislature Building in Wale Str CAPE TOWN #OwnyourTruth CALENDAR OF EVENTS THURSDAY 9 FEBRUARY PRIDE VILLAGE DRINKS • The Village Bar, 32 Loop • 6pm SATURDAY 25 FEBRUARY VOGUE BALL • The District • 8 pm WEDNESDAY 01 MARCH QUEER READING ROOM • A nude literary event celebrating art, queer bodies, queer literature, & the intimacy of being read to... • Venue: TBC Times: 19:00 & 21:30 TUESDAY 21 FEBRUARY CT LESBIANS SUNDOWNERS • Kapstadt Brauhaus, V&A Waterfront • Time: 18:00 MONDAY 13 FEBRUARY PRIDE WORKSHOP • Gender Dynamix • Venue & Time tbc WEDNESDAY 15 FEBRUARY PRIDE TALENT SHOW • Zer021 @ 7 pm • Venue: Waves Long Str, CT • Time: 19:30 THURSDAY 23 FEBRUARY PRIDE COMEDY NIGHT “BREAKING THE CLOSET” SUNDAY 19 FEBRUARY PRIDE HIKE • Chapman’s Peak Dr Hiking Trail • Meet 6:30am for 7:00 start SATURDAY 25 FEBRUARY
PARTY • Milnerton Hall, Jansen Rd • Time: 20:00 - R60 • BYO - no bar facilities SATURDAY 25 FEBRUARY LADIES TOUCH ENT • Lesbian Pride Party • Decodance Night Club. Albert Rd, Woodstock @ 21:00 SUNDAY 26 FEBRUARY PRIDE PRIDE • 5 km’s walk Promenade Bring your Mouille Point THURSDAY 02 MARCH DIVA’S NIGHT • Zer021 • 7 pm THURSDAY 23 FEBRUARY PRIDE MOVIE NIGHT • “EQUAL” • American Corner • CT Library @ 15:00 SATURDAY 04 MARCH PRIDE PARADE • Parade starts in De Waterkant • Time: 11:00 Information correct at time of print - keep checking social TUESDAY 14 FEBRUARY SANLAM PRIDE HERO AWARDS • Fire & Ice Hotel, Tamboerskloof • Time: 19:00
LGBTQIA+ DANCE

TOWN PRIDE 2023

SATURDAY 11 FEBRUARY

PRIDE PAGEANT

• Joseph Stone

• Auditorium

• 7 pm

• R130 - Tickets fm Computicket

FRIDAY 17 FEBRUARY

PRIDE CRUISE

• All aboard the

• Sinfonia

• Cape Town

• Harbour

FRIDAY 17 FEBRUARY

PRIDE ROLLER DISCO

• At V&A Roller Rink

• V&A Waterfront

• 7 pm

FRIDAY 17 FEBRUARY

TIMELESS FESTIVAL @ CT PRIDE

• Venue: Club Paradise,

• 9 Albertus St, District Six

• Time: 8pm Fee: R80-R100

MONDAY 27 FEBRUARY

PRIDE WORKSHOP

• Hosted by I AM

• Aunty Suzies Coffee Shop, Kuils River

SATURDAY 04 MARCH

PRIDE FESTIVAL MARDI GRAS

• Green Point Track

• Fritz Sonnenberg Rd

• Time: 12:00

• Join Roger &

• featured author Barbara Kingsley

• By Jodi Creations Events

- Tickets R150 at Quicket

• 40 Woodlands Rd. Woodstock

WEDNESDAY 01 MARCH

PRIDE MOVIE

• Hosted by Swedish Embassy

• Labia Theatre @ 6 pm

• “Dance With Me To The End Of Time”

• Labia Theatre @ 18:15

• Tickets are available at: www.webtickets.co.za

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VILLAGE DRINKS Village
THE
THURSDAY FEBRUARY
Idiot Loop Str, CT FRIDAY 10 FEBRUARY
PRIDE PARTY • Zer021
EKASI
SUNDAY
• From 7 pm • Tickets @ the door SATURDAY 25 FEBRUARY • 37 NY 112 GUX • Time: 6pm
PRE-PRIDE PARTY
12 FEBRUARY DRAG BRUNCH
Waves Cafe, CT 19:30
FEBRUARY COMEDY
CLOSET” FRIDAY
PRIDE
• Venue: Fire & Ice Hotel • Time: 11:00
THURSDAY
“BREAKING
24 FEBRUARY
GAT PARTY
• Bellville Cricket Club, Durban Rd, Bellville • Time: 19:00
SATURDAY 25 FEBRUARY PRE PRIDE FEST
SUNDAY FEBRUARY PRIDE WALK
PRIDE PETS walk along Sea Point Promenade your pooch Point Lighthouse
&
TUESDAY 28 FEBRUARY PRIDE BOOK NIGHT
• Zer021 @ 6pm SUNDAY 05 MARCH PRIDE INTERFAITH SERVICE Service of Thanks Rondebosch Utd Church, Belmont Rd., @ 6.00pm
SUNDAY 5 MARCH MOVIE NIGHT
social media for updates and any changes to the calendar

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HEADLINING PRIDE DOPE ST JUDE

Dope Saint Jude is an electro-hip hop artist from Cape Town. She began her career as a drag king, soon moving to producing and performing her own music.

In 2016 she released her first EP, Reimagine. Her second, Resilient, was released in 2018 with the lead single Grrl Like being featured in Dreamworks, Kipo and the Age of Wonderbeasts, a Renault commercial, McDonald’s commercial and an Apple TV commercial. Her third EP, Higher Self, released in 2022, has had music featured on two Netflix shows and a MAC ad.

After touring extensively throughout Europe and the US, performing at festivals such as Terre Du Son (France), Dour Festival (Belgium), Esparanzah (Belgium), Boreal (Spain), Shambala (UK), Dope St Jude is back in her home town and will be performing at Pride 2023.

She is an outspoken advocate for the queer community and has spoken on panels around the world about her experience as a queer, black African woman. Dope Saint Jude has been involved

in campaigns for H&M, Ballantines, Levis, Kurt Geiger, Adidas and Nandos.

She currently sits on the board as an advisory member for Bridges For Music, an NGO based in Cape Town.

After 4 years touring and living abroad, artist Dope Saint Jude is back in her home town and will perform her first show in South Africa since 2019.

This show is especially significant to her, as Cape Town Pride was her first exposure to the queer community as a teenager. “I started attending Pride at the age of 16, I snuck into town without telling my parents, because I wanted to be around my people”. Having started her career as a drag king in Cape Town, she had one of her first opportunities performing on a mini pride stage at the age of 19.

As one of the headline acts on the Pride stage get ready to be blown away by this remarkably talented performer when she steps on to the stage at Pride 2023.

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CELEBRATING 13 YEARS ON THE PRIDE STAGE

THE TALENTED, ENTERTAINING, LIPSYNC-PERFECT 3 DIVAS HAVE BEEN PERFORMING AT CAPE TOWN PRIDE FOR THE PAST 12 YEARS ... THIS YEAR THEY ARE ON THE STAGE ONCE AGAIN CELEBRATING THEIR 13TH ANNIVERSARY AT CAPE TOWN PRIDE 2023 ...

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After winning a talent show where the prize included a live performance on the Pride stage, 3 Divas have never looked back.

That year, Pride 2010 saw them blow the crowd away with their energetic performance, once again, 13 years later, the group will once again celebrate their birthday with another crowd-pleasing performance on the Pride stage ...

They said that they always look forward to celebrating Pride every year cause it’s the group’s birthday.

The trio consists of the legendary Kat Gilardi, Angel Lalamore and Jayde Kay Johnson and have been branded as the “Destiny’s Child” of Cape Town.

Becoming very well known After their first Pride perfance they went on to feature at local hot-spot 169 in Long Street, where they were resident performers for 4 years.

After that they appeared regularly at Valeries in Kuil’s River, taking a loyal following and “the pink crowd” with them. This happened where ever they went, including performances over the years at “straight club venues”.

This was quite a feat especially as 12 years ago it was a big deal for our gay community and LGBT+ entertainers to take up spaces in straight venues. Whilst attitudes are more relaxed nowadays, it is still an achievement to appear and be welcomed in some of the straight community venues but the group kept pushing and creating those spaces.

The group also did a road show with the ever popular, PJ Twins. They have shared the stage with local legends including, The Rockets, Mi Casa, Emo & Lukmaan Adams, Jimmy Nevis, Salome & Craig Lucas and their favourite Judy Boucher.

They also had the opportunity to perform at Goudini Spa for vacation goers, a highly successful gig, which goes down as a milestone in their repertoire.

Three Divas was also part of the Abfab show, directed by well known director Basil Appollis which featured Solly Philander as well as other local drag legends. The programme at the Artscape Theatre showcased personal stories, and was a feature for part won the Women’s Month celebrations in August.

3D has travelled all over South Africa including Pretoria, Johannesburg, some well-known coastal towns and appeared at the very popular Paarl Goes Bos annual festival.

Three Divas have been referred to as The Legends in Drag, but the group says performing is all about the music, the crowd and how much FUN they have with their audiences.

This year the group will be receiving a Cape Town Pride Hero Award for their contribution to drag entertainment, an honour they richly deserve.

Don’t miss their extraordinary performance at Pride this year on the 4th March at the Green Point Track ... slick, perfectly choreographed, this talented trio will once again have the Pride crowd on their feet shouting for more ...

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FESTIVAL

GREEN POINT TRACK PARADE STARTS AT 11H00 FESTIVAL MARDI GRAS STARTS AT 12H00 #OwnYourTruth SATURDAY 04 MARCH 2023
PRIDE IS FOR EVERYONE! CAPE TOWN PRIDE
MARDI GRAS 2023 PARADE AND
Pride is a great opportunity to show your true colours! Mag 15 Flying the Pride Flag
GUY CANDY MEN AT PRIDE AROUND THE WORLD
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Pride - NYC
Anthony Mackie && Yahya Abdul-Mateen II lock lips in Pride London Pride Jerusalem Pride Toronto
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Pride Miami Pride Thailand Pride Leathermen - San Fransisco Pride Magic Kingdom Photo by nappy - www.pexels.com.

THE MR & MISS CAPE TOWN PRIDE PAGEANT

For the Fifth time, MVT Productions, Miss Sovereign Western Cape and Cape Town Pride, have joined forces to bring you Mr and Miss Cape Town Pride 2023. We are super excited to be back at the Joseph Stone Auditorium on the 11th February 2023.

16 Contestants will be vying for the Miss Title and 15 Contestants in the Mr Title and will be strutting their stuff in both Swimwear and Evening Wear.

From this the Top 5 of each category will be chosen whereafter the contestants will have to answer a Question posed by one of the judges. Scores are tallied and the new King and Queen announced.

Entertainment will be provided by the likes of Robyn Reid, Belinda Qaqamba KaFassie and others. MC Naythan Kayser always keeps the crowd well entertained as well and the show flowing flawlessly.

Still reeling from losses within the Pageant Community over the past few years, a moment of Silence will be held to honour the memory of these lost ones.

This show promises to deliver high voltage entertainment and great vibes and even some great Give-Aways!

Show takes place on 11th Saturday February 2023 starting at 7pm, doors open at 6pm, so get your Computicket tickets NOW for only R130! Limited Tickets Available

Ticket sales: https://computicket-boxoffice.com/e/mrand-miss-cape-town-pride-libzk0

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THE HOTTEST PRIDE FASHIONWEAR

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JOIN US AS WE MARCH THE STREETS AT CAPE TOWN PRIDE ON SATURDAY 4 MARCH 2023 TO CELEBRATE OUR LGBTIQA+ COMMUNITY IN SOUTH AFRICA AND AROUND THE WORLD

FASHIONWEAR THIS SUMMER

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5 REASONS WHY PRIDES MATTER

AS WE PREPARE TO CELEBRATE PRIDE 2023, WE LOOK AT WHY PRIDE EVENTS ARE STILL IMPORTANT FOR LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, TRANSGENDER AND INTERSEX (LGBTI) PEOPLE AND ACTIVISTS ACROSS THE WORLD.

1. People are still attacked because of their real or perceived sexual orientation and gender identity

Threats, violence, and harassment against LGBTI people happen every day, including during Prides. In a number of countries, events cannot go ahead without a heavy police presence. I many countries

Pride marchers are attacked and harassed, they bear the brunt of hate speech and have religious zealots shouting how their future is a life of eternity in hell. These insults and attacks amount to hate speech, but they demonstrate that the freedoms we, as a community, enjoy, are not recognised by everyone.

Homophobic and transphobic hate crimes have a devastating impact on LGBTI communities. The fear of being targeted pushes people to hide their identity. When attackers go unpunished it spreads distrust towards the police and the courts. What’s more, many of these hate crimes are under-reported, which means people don’t get the protection they urgently need.

2. Prides are an opportunity to challenge homophobic and transphobic legislation

LGBTI rights activists have been prevented from holding Pride

events in a number of countries. In Moscow, Russia, for example, since 2006. In Ghana, Uganda, and other African nations, anti LGBT+ legislation is being tabled to remove the few rights LGBT+ people have in these countries

Prides are an opportunity to highlight these legislative issues and pressure the authorities to act on behalf of the community.

3. Rights can never be taken for granted

Even in countries where in the past Pride events were allowed to go ahead, we cannot take things for granted. Legislation can and in many countries does get repealed. Whilst LGBT+ rights are written into the South African constitution; the constitution can be changed if those tabling the motion get the necessary majority required by the law to do so.

4. Prides contribute to changing hearts and minds

Change is possible, even when homophobic and transphobic attitudes exist. When 70 LGBTI activists marched in the streets of Riga, Latvia, for the very first Pride event in 2005, they were met by over 2,000 counter-protestors, and many of them were attacked. Ten years on, more than 5,000 people took part in EuroPride 2015, with only 40 counter-protestors and no serious incidents reported. “The marchers as well as the people watch-

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ing us were happy, many of them were waving hands,” said Rupert, an activist from the German Queer Amnesty group, who also took part in one of the first Prides in Riga.

Similarly, after being banned three years in a row, Belgrade Pride in Serbia took place successfully in 2014 and 2015. In both instances the event went ahead peacefully and according to the organizers’ plan, with proper protection from the police. This sends a strong message to the local population as well as other cities and neighbouring countries. It demonstrates a commitment from authorities to uphold LGBTI rights and shows that activism can bring change.

And here in Cape Town the first Pride celbrations were relatively small street parties in de Waterkant and today, Pride is attended by thousands of people and is one of the main events on the City of Cape Town’s events calendar.

5. Prides are empowering

Pride events are about human rights; they empower LGBTI individuals to reclaim the rights and freedoms they are denied, and the public space they are often excluded from. Visibility is crucial, especially when the State and opposition groups go to considerable lengths to put LGBTI people at the margins of society.

The first ever Pride in South Africa in Hillbrow, Johannesburg, marchers wore brown paper bags over their heads to avoid being recognised – today we march openly and proudly.

Fighting shame and social stigma, and marching in the face of threats and violence – Pride parades are not only inspiring celebrations of difference but also a declaration of intent. Through these events, demonstrators assert that they will not to be intimidated, that they will continue to demand equality, and that LGBTI rights are human rights.

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Awards Gala Evening CAPE TOWN PRIDE HERO

& Charity Auction

TUESDAY 14 FEBRUARY 2023 - 7:00pm

TheProtea Fire & Ice! Hotel, 64 New Church St,Tamboerskloof

Apart from the glamorous venue and superb cuisine – you will be entertained by top local LGBT+ artists and performers with the charity auction being hosted by Cape Town Pride CEO Tommy Patterson.

Their will be a range of auction items - paintings, hampers, weekends away, restaurant vouchers donated by friends and allies from all over Cape Town.

The beneficiary project is the Nkoli House Project. Cape Town Pride have identified the need for a community centre aimed providing a home and safe space for our diverse LGBTIQ+ community to gather, meet and mix with like-minded people – with special emphasis on the often overlooked needs of the silver seniors in our community.

This is a wonderful opportunity for a superb night out and at the same time support a truly worthwhile community project.

The price per person is R285

This includes:

3-course dinner

Welcome drink on arrival

Live entertainment

Charity Auction

TICKETS AVAILABLE AT www.quicket.com
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OUR HEROES CELEBRATING

For the past three years Cape Town Pride has presented the Hero Awards in recognition of those people in the community who have done exeptional work in a variety of fields ... This years hero awards will be celebrated at a gala evening at the Protea Hotel Fire & Ice! in Cape Town

The glamorous evening will include a 3-course buffet-style dinner with live entertainment and a charity auction with the proceeds going to the Nkoli House Project - an Outreach Africa initiative to establish a community centre with emphasis on the “silver” seniors as well as a youth crisis centre. The City of Cape Town have been approached regarding a property that will be suitable but unfortunately to date none have been confirmed. Negotiations are on-going and we they to have something concrete to report in the near future.

Each year there are 10 heroes who are recognised and celebrated. This year an 11th award - a lifetime achievement award has been added to the list of honourees.

Without further ado, lets introduce you to this years award winners ...

THE HOMETOWN HERO AWARD

Barry Reid

Barry has for many years worked tirelessly for both Pride and the wider community and is especially well-known on the pageant circuit in the city hosting and organising a number of pageants throughout the year including the annual Mr & Miss Cape Town Pride ...

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OUTSTANDING SUPPORT FOR CAPE TOWN PRIDE Award

Mathias Bogaert

Mathias Bogaert is the Consul General in Cape Town for the Embassy of Belgium.

Since the Covid pandemic, Mathias on behalf of the Embassy of Belgium in South Africa, has volunteered to enable Pride events, by making the Consular residence in Newlands available for the last two Pride launch events.

Mathias personally intervened with the City of Cape Town to enable these events to take place and is dedicated to inclusivity and diversity for all the citizens of our city..

For his unfailing support of our community and invaluable help, and a true ally, we have great pleasure in honouring his commitment with this award.

OUTSTANDING CONTRIBUTION TO CAPE TOWN PRIDE Award

Günther Kriel

Günther Kriel approached Cape Town Pride and offered to redesign and relaunch its website in the name of cptpride.org. He is the director of Rueko Studio, an awardwinning design studio that specialises in graphic design, website design, and legal design.

Günther offered his services and web-design costs free of charge, which often escalates into the six-digit costs. He also dedicated several hours of his time in making the website a pleasure, user-friendly site that will take Cape Town Pride to new heights in the cybersphere.

For his outstanding effort, talent, time and willingness to help Pride go from strength to strength, we are proud to give this award to Günther who has made the effort to go the extra mile.

LGBTQIA+ ACTIVISM IN THE COMMUNITY Award

Belinda Qaqamba Ka-Fassie

A deserved recipient of this award, Belinda Qaqamba KaFassie is a genderqueer (art)ivist and activist.

Belinda is a social justice warrior centred in Intersectional Feminism, decoloniality and trauma informed. They have proven experiences facilitating robust engagements among young and old people in communities regarding issues of racial justice, human dignity, gender justice and belonging.

They were also actively involved in the #FeesMustFall and #OpenStellenbosch student movements, leading the queer collective that formed part of the movement in Stellenbosch University.

Belinda comes with vast experience and knowledge in education, student leadership, community engagement and handson field activism.

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OUTSTANDING CONTRIBUTION TO YOUTH ADVOCACY Award

Limpho Makapela

The Gender Equity Unit’s activities and programmes are geared towards making sure that no one is discriminated against, harassed or hurt because of their gender, race, ethnicity and sexual orientation, and to facilitating the empowerment of particularly women and other marginalised groups, both on campus and within society at large.

The Gender Equity Unit promotes Women and Gender equity and social justice through feminist research, education and advocacy in the University of the Western Cape and beyond.

Limpho is the Student Projects Officer at the Gender Equity Unit department. and for their resolute work in promoting gender equality, particularly in regard to young people in disadvantaged communities, Cape Town Pride wishes to recognise their effort and dedication with this award.

OUTSTANDING CONTRIBUTION TO COMMUNITY HEALTH Award Herman Samuels (Lalla)

Herman Samuels aka Lalla works for Wits RHI where they provide HIV testing and counseling education for the transgender and sex workers community in regard to the use of Prep.

Lalla also assists at the clinic with HRT follow-ups and deals with new clients interested in HRT.

Through Wits RHI, they also educate, distribute and encourage the use of condoms and lubes in the LGBT+ community

In recognition of the dedication for the work Herman does in the community we are proud to give him this award

OUTSTANDING WORK IN EDUCATION IN DISADVANTAGED COMMUNITIES Award

Jevonn Cloete

Jevonn Cloete is a teacher at Rusthof School for Learners with Special Educational Needs, specialising in teaching learners with severe intellectual disabilities and autism. He also works part-time as a facilitator at the Cape Teaching Leadership Institute under the Inclusive Educational section, where he handles the training with topics such school based support team functioning. These trainings are aimed at disadvantaged schools in low-socio economic development areas.

It is for his passionate dedication to education, particularly in disadvantaged areas and with students with learning disabilities, that we feel that Jevonn is a worthy recipient of this award

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MUSICIAN OF THE YEAR Award

Jarrad Ricketts

Well known to Cape Town audiences, Jarrad Ricketts is a steadfast supporter of our community. Jarrad, who grew up in Athlone in Cape Town is a tireless ambassador for the city and it’s diversity, both in the people who make the city the most tolerant and welcoming on the continent, but the city’s natural beauty as well.

Jarrad who is always willing to perform at LGBT+ events, has been on the Pride stage in the past. He stepped in at the last minute at the Pride Proms last year, receiving a standing ovation fro his rendition of Barcelona with Lynelle Kenned.

Most recently, Jarrad performed at the Launch of Cape Town Pride 2023 ... Jarrad was nominated for this award in recognition of his unfailing support of our community, his amazing talent and willingness to show his support for the LGBT+ people of our beautiful city.

BEST NEWCOMER IN ENTERTAINMENT Award

The TRANS-formaers

The TRANS-formers have been selected as the best LGBT+ newcomers in entertainment.

The trio will be performing on the Pride stage this year ...

The group strives to be transformative and to be vehicles for change through performance art, visual art, cabaret and dance. The group is grounded in the cornerstone of Sisterhood. This is important as it creates strong connections, whilst also bringing a sense of belonging and trust within the group dynamic, which is the secret behind the Transformers success.

We hope that this award will encourage them to go from strength to strength in a field which they are passionate about succeeding in.

CONSISTENT SERVICE TO CAPE TOWN PRIDE IN ENTERTAINMENT Award

Three Divas

Three Divas (3D) first performed on the Pride stage 13 years ago after winning a talent night. Since then, this trio - Kat Gilardi, Angel Lalamore and Jayde Kay Johnson,

The trio, branded the Destiny’s Child of Cape Town have perfected their routines, with flawless choreography, perfect lip-syncing, a highly energetic and hugely entertaining performances which always have crowds on their feet calling for more.

Well known on the entertainment circuit in Cape Town it gives us great pleasure in acknowledging their contribution to the LGBT+ community of the city with this award.

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THE LIFETIME ACHIEVEMENT AWARD

PROFESSOR JAMES MCINTYRE

A true LGBT+ hero, Professor James McIntyre has worked tirelessly throughout his life with health issues affecting the LGBT+ community in South Africa.

Prof James McIntyre (MBChB, FRCOG) is the founder & CEO of Anova Health Institute, Honorary Professor in the School of Public Health & Family Medicine at the University of Cape Town, Honorary Senior Lecturer in the Mailman School of Public Health at Columbia University and Vice-Chair of the US NIH-funded International Maternal Paediatric and Adolescent AIDS Clinical Trials (IMPAACT) Network.

James previously worked for 25 years at the Chris Hani Baragwanath Hospital in Soweto, South Africa setting up the first HIV treatment centre and was instrumental in the fight against HIV/AIDS in the country.

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CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL THESE WORTHY RECIPIENTS ...

PRIDE DRAGATHON

CHALLENGES WORLD RECORD

These days you cannot swing your handbag around without knocking out a drag queen or two, thanks to RuPaul. But how often would you get 80 Drag Performers on stage at the same time? The answer up to now is: Never! This is all about to change as Cape Town Pride will be attempting to make history by breaking the Guinness World Record for “Largest Drag Artist Stage Show”. This honour is currently held by Toronto Pride, in Canada, who in July 2016 managed to get 73 drag queens and kings lined up for a record-breaking performance. This distinction was previously held by GSWS Columbus, who organized a show of 55 drag artists at an Ohio club in 2014.

Can Cape Town muster more than 73 Queens to challenge the record? What with The Mother City being the Drag Capital of Africa, with drag pageants happening almost every weekend all over Cape Town, and with drag performances happening regularly in some of the most unlikely places (especially since lockdown), we are confident that we will have no problem rallying more than 73 drag performers together in one place at the same time to break the world record. After all, we’ve got them all, from Pageant Queens, Look Queens, Lip Sync Assassins, Comedy Queens, Drama Queens….and not forgetting our Drag Kings! You want them, we’ve got them! And they can be seen, at least 80 of them, in their fabulous glory, on stage at the Pride Mardi Gras on 4th March. We have a great performance lined up including appearances from Cape Town’s top

drag artistes, up and coming queens and some of the Doyennes of Drag from yesteryear. This will be a Dragathon of note!

The Challenge will be happening at 4.00pm at the Cape Town Pride Mardi Gras, at the Green Point A Track on Saturday, 4th March 2023.

Tickets for the Pride Mardi Gras are available at Quicket: https://www.quicket.co.za/events/194935-cape-town-pridefestival-mardi-gras-2023/#/

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MEET TWO INSPIRATIONAL

AUTHORS AT PRIDE BOOK NIGHTS

FOR A NUMBER OF YEARS THE CAPE TOWN PRIDE BOOKNIGHTS HAVE BEEN A POPULAR EVENT ON THE PRIDE CALENDAR ... AND THIS YEAR IS NO DIFFERENT.

THE BOOK NIGHTS ARE A UNIQUE OPPORTUNITY TO MEET WITH AUTHORS WHO ARE MAKING WAVES ON THE LGBT+ LITERARY FRONT.

PRIDE 2023 SEES 2 OPPORTUNITIES FOR READERS TO MEET CELEBRATED AUTHORS - THE FIRST ON THE 18TH FEBRUARY AND A SECOND NIGHT ON THE 28TH FEB ...

HERE’S THE THING HAJI MOHAMED DAWJEE

Here’s the Thing is a new collection of thought-provoking essays from Haji Mohamed Dawjee. Filled with stories and insights that are contemplative, comedic and controversial, you will find a touching letter to her father, the honest truth about the pain in the arse that is parenting and ponderings about struggling with the vicissitudes of the modern world filled with cancel culture and the controversies of appreciating the wrong artists. There is also a serving of the many wise lessons the game of tennis has to offer as well as hilarious insights and observations on dustbins, yes dustbins, and ageing, that ring true. Here’s the Thing is relatable, relevant, entertaining, soothingly self-deprecating and, at times, morally challenging.

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Who finds out they have HIV and then starts running ultra marathons? An accomplished athlete, maybe. But Barbara Kingsley had never run before testing positive almost two decades ago. Coming to terms with her diagnosis proved to be the motivation the paralegal secretary needed to complete both the Comrades Marathon and the Two Oceans Ultra Marathon.

Barbara Kingsley discovered she was HIV positive in 2000, it wasn’t easy, the stigma of being HIV-positive was rife and the process of coming to terms with the disease has not been an easy one. But, as time has passed, she slowly come to terms with her status and tries to tackle it with a positive attitude. For eight years she showed no signs of the illness, which fuelled her denial and refusal of medication. “To start treatment meant acknowledging that I was sick. No one told me what the antiretrovirals could do for me,” she says. “I was determined to do it on my own”.

In 2007, she developed persistent flu-like symptoms, headaches, a nagging cough and sores that wouldn’t heal. Her skin felt as if it was crawling, her legs ached, she felt nauseous and lost weight. Then exhaustion hit. “It was an indescribable tiredness and no matter how much I slept I never felt rested.”

Then in 2008, her CD4 count plummeted to 86 and she had to be hospitalised. Barely able to move, Kingsley finally began taking ARVs. Within two weeks, her strength grew and she couldn’t wait to start doing the things she had previously taken for granted.

Then she says came another pivotal moment in her life when she watched the 2008 Comrades Marathon on TV. She was inspired by the determination and mental and physical strength of the runners. It seemed each runner had their own personal battle and suffering en route and each saw it through in their own way. “It gave me goosebumps to watch their determination and iron will. I wanted to be like that too. I had all this energy thanks to the medication and I wanted to run so badly.”

Then one day she woke up and thought, why not? “I bought a pair of running shoes and began running five kilometres in the mornings before work. I felt like Wonder Woman. I couldn’t believe I could run that far even though it was at a snail’s pace. Five quickly became eight then 10 then 15 km. Before long I was running half-marathons and I’ve run 30-km and 36-km events.”

Occasionally she would pick up a cold after a race. Thinking that long-distance running wasn’t for her because of her HIV-positive status. “Then I read about Evelina Tshabalala, an HIV-positive woman who runs marathons and has conquered some of the highest peaks in the world including Mount Kilimanjaro.” This she says was her second major life-changing moment.

“Evelina’s positive attitude was infectious; she had amazing energy. She has endured so many more hardships than I have and risen above them all. She made me believe I could do anything I set my mind to.”

She decided that she wanted to be like that; “I wanted to come out and be an Evie to someone, to inspire others the way she inspired me. So I became part of Positive Heroes’s Ultra-Marathon Team alongside HIV-positive runners Evelina, Masibulele Gcabo, Kenneth Methula and Willie Engelbrecht.”

All come from different backgrounds but share the same illness; the virus knows no social status, financial status, colour or culture. We also share our positive attitudes. They have been brave enough to take a stand by going public. She felt that if they can do it she could as well.

Her first run with the Positive Heroes team was the half marathon at the Two Oceans Marathon in April 2010. Unfortunately she sustained a running injury while training so wasn’t able to complete the Cape Town or Soweto marathons, but was able to take part in Two Oceans Marathon 2011. “After Evie finished her race and came back to fetch me. It was amazing running across that line with her at my side – my first ultra!

Her goal remains to run marathons and accomplish even greater work as a Positive Hero. “It means so much to me to be able to show myself, and others, that I’m able to do this. I’m living proof that HIV isn’t the end of the world. My CD4 count has climbed to 800 since I started taking antiretrovirals. In fact, recovering from my illness opened a whole new world for me. It is because of my illness that I’m running today.”

She says that by applying some of the lessons learnt through being sick to life in general, she has learnt that she is stronger than she thought. “If someone had told me before I became ill that I’d one day run a marathon I’d have laughed. Impossible! I’ve since learnt nothing is impossible.”

Barbara says she loves running – “it’s my life.”

Aside from the health benefits the sense of accomplishment crossing that finish line compares to nothing on Earth. Adding, “We all run our own race, whether we come first or last. We all run across the same line as the guy who comes first. Young or old, black or white, rich or poor – people from all walks of life can come together and run side by side. I acknowledge, appreciate and am grateful every single day for everything that’s good in my life and I try not to take anything for granted. HIV isn’t something to be ashamed or afraid of; through a positive attitude and responsible living we can all be heroes.”

I AM HUMAN is the story of hope, courage, persistence, vision, self love, acceptance, forgiveness, and of course greatness. A must read to bring clarity and courage to those that need it, and those that think they don’t.

“Barbara’s being, her advocacy, send out a powerful message of hope, of what the seven plus million South Africans, the 30-40 million Africans, can achieve.” EDWIN CAMERON – (Retired Justice of the Constitutional Court - Inspecting Judge of Prisons - Chancellor, Stellenbosch University)

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NKOLI HOUSE*

CAPE TOWN PRIDE COMMUNITY CARE CENTRE

WE NEED YOUR HELP

ABOUT US

Cape Town Pride in conjunction with OUTREACH AFRICA is a registered NPO (157-896 NPO) serving the needs of the LGBTI+ community in Cape Town, South Africa

VISION

#youmatter

The Nkoli House* Project, so named in honour of the late Simon Nkoli, a gay activist and anti-apartheid campaigner, who fought tirelessly for freedom, equality and social justice.

We have identified the need for a community centre aimed at providing a home and safe space for our diverse LGBTI+ community to gather, meet and mix with like-minded people – with special emphasis on the often-over-looked needs of the silver seniors in the community.

AIM

We are currently in negotiations with the City of Cape Town, and Provincial and National Government and other stake-holders, to secure the premises which have been ear-marked and exist, However, it is in dire need of renovation in order for it to be fit for purpose.

To achieve this goal in getting the Nkoli House* Project up and running we NEED to raise R1 million

To this end we appeal to the international LGBTI+ funders for their help.

It does not matter how small your donation is – every amount matters.

We hare hoping to have this funding in place by 1 June 2021

TO MAKE YOUR DONATION ...

Please pay using your credit or debit card to our paypal account at: paypalpayments@capetownpride.org

or pay on line by EFT to:

First National Bank (FNB) South Africa

Branch Code: 201809, Account Number: 62578991278

Account Name: Outreach Africa, Swift Code: FIRNZAJJ

Our Ref: Nkoli House Fund (+ your Name)

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MENTAL HEALTH BENEFITS OF CELEBRATING PRIDE

Since the end of the apartheid era, much progress has been made in promoting LGBTQIA+ rights and acceptance. However, LGBTQIA+ people continue to cope with stigma and discrimination.

Many people experience social isolation, harassment, and violence. Anti-LGBTQIA+ laws in some African countries increase the barriers that these community members from those countries face.

“This stigmatised and discriminated-against status often leads to minority stress for LGBTQ+ people,” Pamela Lannutti, PhD, a professor and the director of the Centre for Human Sexuality Studies at Widener University, USA. “Minority stress is chronic psychological stress experienced because a person is a part of a stigmatised group,” she said. “Research has shown that it negatively affects personal and relational health and well-being.”

Finding safe spaces where LGBTQIA+ people are not only accepted but also celebrated is important for members of this community.

Increased risk of mental health challenges

“Members of the LGBTQ+ communities are at increased risk for a number of mental health issues, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorders, misuse of substances, hopelessness, and suicide,” said Eddy Fagundo, PhD, CRC, CVE. (a certified rehabilitation counsellor)

“Many of the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ people face is a result of the discrimination and lack of acceptance they experience on a daily basis,” he said.

Stigma and discrimination can also negatively affect the wellbeing of older LGBTQAI+ community members. A 2016 study in the USA found that when same-sex couples were exposed to campaigns against same-sex marriage, it negatively affected their psychological well-being and relationship satisfaction.

Some LGBTQIA+ community members experience intersecting forms of discrimination that may increase the challenges they face. For example, LGBTQIA+ community members who are Black, Indigenous, and People of Colour (BIPOC) face racism as well as homophobia, transphobia, or both.

A 2020 review found that people who reported experiencing more than one form of discrimination were more likely to have symptoms of depression, compared to people who reported only one form of discrimination.

Many LGBTQIA+ people also face barriers to accessing support services, including mental health treatment.

“Data indicates that greater proportions of LGBTQ+ lack health insurance and have less access to care and preventive services, thus limiting their options for help,” said Fagundo.

Potential benefits of celebrating Pride

For LGBTQIA+ community members who face discrimination and social isolation, Pride events offer important opportunities for connection, support, and belonging.

This may bring mental health benefits. For example, a 2019 study found that LGBTQ people who reported more connected-

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ness to the LGBTQ community were less likely to report suicidal behaviour.

“Pride events help connect members of the LGBTQ+ population to others and to support within the community. They give members of the LGBTQ+ community an opportunity to participate in an event where they are totally included and accepted,” said Fagundo.

“These events may also help counter marginalisation by making society more accepting of the LGBTQ+ population.”

Tips for making the most of Pride

How can members of LGBTQIA+ communities get involved and make the most of Pride?

Take part in a variety of events

Pride is a festive and fun time of year for many LGBTQIA+ people. It also provides a space for community mobilisation and outreach.

“Pride can function as a way to meet and interact with other members of the community socially, to build and act upon political goals, to explore one’s own sexual and/or gender identity development, and just to have fun,” said Lannutti.

“To make the most out of Pride, I would encourage LGBTQ+ community members to take part in the full spectrum of Pride events,” she continued.

“Go to parties, but also consider volunteering for Pride-related community service, connecting with political groups, and learning more about the various LGBTQ+ organizations in your area who are present at Pride.”

Find your own way to mark the occasion

While some people love big parties and parades, others prefer smaller social gatherings in quieter settings. Both approaches can make for a meaningful Pride celebration.

Even if you want to attend a big event, you might not be able to do so. For example, people who are not out to their families or other community members might feel unsafe publicly participating in Pride. Scheduling conflicts, challenges with travel, or other barriers may also keep some people from large community events.

Fortunately, there are many ways to mark the occasion and celebrate your identity during Pride.

“Coming out to yourself and being authentic with others in a safe, intimate space is a way to celebrate your personal Pride,” said Jared Sulc, APC, a psychotherapist in Atlanta, Georgia.

“This type of Pride celebration could be a personal self-care practice. Think yoga practice or meditation dedicated to your authentic self or a small gathering of friends you trust to watch your favourite [LGBTQIA+] film.”

Connect online

Taking part in online Pride events is another way to participate while connecting with fellow community members and LGBTQIA+ organisations.

Connecting with others through social media platforms like Facebook, and Instagram can help promote the same feelings of safety, support, and community.

“Also, many cities participating in Pride have added virtual events over the last 2 years that people can participate in from around the world.”

You may also find media focused on LGBTQIA+ topics to stream or download online. In some areas, local libraries and stores stock this media as well.

“Listen to affirming podcasts. Read books by LGBTQIA+ authors. Watch shows or movies made by queer folks,” - to this end attend book nights and poetry nights on the Pride calendar.

Foster inclusive spaces

Not all community members feel equally safe or welcome at Pride events.

“In some areas, BIPOC and other marginalized members of the LGBTQ+ community have been excluded from or discriminated against by Pride organizers. For these individuals, Pride may be a source of additional minority stress,” said Lannutti.

For white LGBTQIA+ community members, learning about the ongoing legacy of racism that affects people within and outside of LGBTQIA+ spaces is an important step in fostering more inclusive spaces.

Actively listening to marginalized members of LGBTQIA+ communities, supporting anti-racism initiatives, and mobilizing against other forms of discrimination may help create more equitable and empowering Pride events.

Celebrate safely

If you plan to drink alcohol during Pride, it’s important to practice moderation and avoid driving while intoxicated.

If you have a substance use disorder, avoiding alcohol and drugs during Pride can help support your recovery. Sulc encourages people with substance use disorders to develop a proactive plan for supporting their recovery during Pride events.

“This plan could include taking a sober friend with you or planning to attend a support group after the event,” he told Healthline. “Give yourself permission to take a break [from the event] so you can get back in touch with your recovery if you become overwhelmed.”

Pride can be a great time to tap into support resources. Many community organisations engage in outreach efforts during this time. Many NGO’s will be represented at the Pride Festival. Pride is an opportunity to get out information about what’s available in communities. Educate yourself, find your resources, and do not ever think that you’re by yourself.

If you think you may be experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, or another mental health condition, talk with a doctor as soon as possible. They can refer you to a mental health specialist for counselling or other treatment.

“The process of counselling can decrease isolation and provide a safe space to express concerns,” said Hammer, “but it’s also important for people to ensure that they find a therapist that makes them feel safe and that they feel a connection with. They should try people out, and if someone doesn’t feel good, trust that.”

LGBTQIA+ community members have fought hard for equal rights, opportunities, and treatment in the world, especially in Africa - and the fight continues.

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CAPE TOWN PRIDE 2023 IS FEATURING TWO MOVIE NIGHTS DURING THIS YEAR’S PRIDE CALENDAR.

THE FIRST IS ON THE 16TH FEBRUARY WHERE THERE WILL BE A SCREENING OF THE HBO SERIES EQUAL WHICH CHRONICLES THE LANDMARK EVENTS & FORGOTTEN HEROES OF THE LGBTQ+ CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENT.

THE SECOND MOVIE NIGHT IS ON THE 1ST MARCH AT THE LABIA THEATRE WHERE THERE WILL BE A SCEENING OF THE AWARD WINNING SWEDISH FILM MY FATHER MARIANNE ...

BOTH SCREENINGS ARE FREE TO THOSE OF YOU WHO WANT TO ATTEND, HOWEVER IS IS IMPORTANT TO GET YOUR TICKETS ON QUICKET.COM ...

Equal is an American docuseries in four-parts which chronicles landmark events and leaders in LGBTQ history and consists of a mixture of archival footage and scripted re-enactments.

The gripping and true backstories of the leaders and unsung heroes, who, pre-Stonewall, bravely challenged the laws, social discrimination changing attitudes and consequently the path of America’s future, and consequently ours as well, through their tireless activism.

“By day we were ordinary people,” says one founding member of 1950s gay group the Mattachine Society, “but by night we became wild radicals, determined to change the world.”

For those viewers who may feel that the Americans were not the be-all and end-all when it comes to LGBT+ liberation, as there were movements afoot in Europe and elsewhere, we must agree that the LGBTQ+ liberation movement started making real change across the world once the United States got on board in the fight for LGBT+ equality.

Gay icon, actor Billy Porter, narrates the documentary series paying tribute to the founders of the modern LGBTQ+ movement.

The 4-part series was nominated for the GLAAD Media Award for Outstanding Documentary in 2021, and as such is a fascinating and important record of the movements and people who worked tirelessly, against seemingly overwhelming odds to win us the rights we enjoy today.

There is a belief that Stonewall was the start of the LGBT+ liberation movement, but before Stonewall there was Compton’s Cafeteria, and before Harvey Milk there was José Sarria. Portrayed by Cheyenne Jackson, Shannon Purser, Jamie Clayton, Jai Rodriguez, Samira Wiley, and other actors, each episode captures the origin stories of trailblazers who changed the course of American history, giving a voice to millions of people yearning to be out, proud and equal.

Equal tells the stories of a very diverse set of people from the standpoint of race, ethnicity, gender and sexual expression and

Above: Jai Rodriguez as José Sarria. In 1961 José became the first openly gay candidate for public office in the United States, running for a seat on the SF Board of Supervisors 16 years before Harvey Milk. He is also remembered as a beloved and inspiring drag performer at SF’s Black Cat Bar, with his rousing anthem “God Save Us Nelly Queens”!

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Above: Shannon Purser & Heather Matarazzo as Del Martin & Phyllis Lyon. Del & Phyllis were a lesbian couple (together for 56 years until Martin’s death in 2008) who founded the Daughters of Bilitis in San Francisco in 1955

identity, and socioeconomic status; all are given due respect and dignity. Significant themes of courage and integrity are visible. Viewers will definitely learn more about LGBTQ+ history and are likely to feel more empathetic with those who struggle and the struggle itself.

For those viewers who are interested in and acknowledging the history of those activists who came before us, this docu-series is essential viewing.

Directed by Mårten Klingberg, and starring Rolf Lassgård, Hedda Stiernstedt, Lena Endre, the film is the story of newly single, twenty something aspiring journalist Hanna who leaves Stockholm to move back in with her parents in her small hometown. Already feeling adrift after breaking up with her boyfriend, her world is turned upside-down when her father, a respected priest, informs his family that he wants to come out as Marianne. From this point on there is no going back for father Marianne, who insists on being her true self.

How can Hanna, who hardly believes in herself, accept her father for who she really is? It’s a tumultuous journey for Hanna, who didn’t know herself or her father as well as she thought she did.

Charming and heartbreaking, the film is inspired by awardwinning writer Ester Roxberg’s 2014 autobiographical novel. Lena Endre (Hanna) was awarded a Best Actress in a Suporting Role at the Guldbagge Awards, Sweden’s leading film awards presented since 1964 for outstanding contributions to Swedish film.

The film is in Swedish with subtitles and will be screened at the Labia Theatre in Gardens on the 1st March at 18:00. Tickets are free and available online at Quicket.com ...

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Above: Cheyenne Jackson as Dale Jennings. Dale was a gay rights activist, playwright and author. He was one of the founding members of the Mattachine Society in the early 1950s, one of the earliest gay rights groups in the United States Above: Alexandra Grey as Lucy Hicks Anderson. Socialite, chef, and prohibition-era entrepreneur – and one of the first documented Black transgender persons in the USA. Below: The series is narrated by Billy Porter

The Queer Reading Room is a brand new nude literary event celebrating performance art, queer bodies, queer literature and the intimacy of being read to. A small cast of unclad readers will saunter through a literary landscape of all things queer, sharing readings curated to be magical, funny and sometimes heart wrenching. We invite you to experience this alchemy of vulnerability and storytelling.

(And yes, the readers are completely naked!)

There will be 2 sessions, one at 7,00pm and the next at 9.30pm

Tickets: R100 Pre -Sold Early Birds(Very Limited), R200

Pre-Sold available at Quicket: https://www.quicket.co.za/events/204996-queerreading-room/?ref=events-list#/

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FIRE ISLAND

The area is a historic gay vacation getaway on Long Island, partially because, for decades, it gave LGBTQ+ people a place to socialize outside of the eyes of straight society.

Fire Island, is a gay take on Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice and has already been deemed a queer classic. The film follows best friends Howie (Bowen Yang) and Noah (screenwriter Joel Kim Booster), as well as their chosen family, as they set sail for their annual vacation on Fire Island.

Queer joy is front and centre in Andrew Ahn’s rom-com. While matter-of-factly dealing with topics of race, body image, and selfworth, Fire Island manages to authentically depict the uplifting nature of what it is to be a part of a loving chosen family. Fire Island is a hoot, the perfect pick for a collective movie night.

BROS

Bros made history as the first R-rated gay rom-com ever made by a major Hollywood studio. The film follows the will-they, won’t-they romance of podcaster Bobby (co-writer Billy Eichner) and lawyer Aaron (Luke Macfarlane). The pair wrestle (sometimes literally) with the potential of their compatibility alongside their conflicting desires.

With a whole host of LGBTQ role models and pop cultural references, the film’s contemporary context allows for timely humour and poignancy. Balancing a comedic streak with a sentiment about the state of the modern LGBTQ community, Bros hits classic romcom beats while bolstering the narrative with a much-needed, refreshing update. Brilliant!!

IN FROM THE SIDE

A muddy rugby drama following the inner conflict of a London gay rugby club, In From the Side is a lo-fi sports drama. The film centres on the simmering attraction between Mark (Alexander Lincoln) and Warren (Alexander King). However, things are not simple. Mark is in an open relationship, but Warren’s in a monogamous relationship with another teammate.

With a large part of the cast coming from the LGBTQ community, In From the Side presents a grounded authenticity to the romance. The clandestine love affair causes friction as the team’s loyalties and sporty togetherness begins to unravel. With heightened adrenaline, Matt Carter’s film tackles men’s emotion head-on.

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2022 was a great year for LGBT+ cineama and we’ve picked three films for you to srream or download ... so get the popcorn and crisps, a few friends and enjoy!
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