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Destination Puerto Vallarta - Grindr and Other Hookups
from Destination Puerto Vallarta - 2021 LGBTQ Travel Guide
by Out and About Puerto Vallarta - LGBTQ Puerto Vallarta Magazine
Being in a very popular worldwide LGBT destination, you will find without a doubt guys from all over the world and of all colors, shapes and sizes - and most of them are using Grindr. Expect to find the unexpected in this app. Sweet Dream’s “Everybody’s looking for something” line sure is fitting in this case. You will find anything from your average guy just looking for casual sex, to the horny couple looking for a third, calls for orgies, and guys looking to be “sugar daddy” - your normal Grindr day-to-day business, basically.
Something else that is commonly found in the app are escorts. They might not all be so obvious in stating so, but they will leave hints in their profile. The clearest hint would have to be a money sign smiley of course. Others might also just write “Available”, or “Disponible” which is the Spanish equivalent. Many guys who offer massages in the app also are likely to offer ‘special services.
If you happen to be looking for a hooker, follow the below tips, they are a standard globally and will help in making the experience more enjoyable:
Be clear about what you want to do – Figure out exactly what you want and communicate that to the escort. Define details such as times and rate. Make sure both of you understand what is going to happen during. This is all to avoid any misunderstanding and conflict. You never know if a small detail that perhaps was left out could trigger them and turn the situation violent.
Let someone know your whereabouts – This also applies with a regular hookup, but for higher sense of security, let a friend know the location of your rendezvous. If you rather not let anyone know, you could also leave information behind with as much information as possible, like escort and location details. Be respectful – Your escort will appreciate it and its just common decency.
If you don’t like something, speak up – Remember that you are paying for a service and you are the client. It is not about his pleasure. A good escort is willing to adapt and even asks what you enjoy.
Don’t freak out if he asks for the money upfront – This is a norm, so don’t be wary. Also, make sure he counts the money so there are no baseless complaints later.
Google him – Get your escort’s name and look him up to see if you can find anything on them to be on the safe side. You could also ask your neighborhood’s friendly bar man to see if they know them. It’s always best to find out the reputation.
In conclusion, if you are going to do the naughty while in PV, practice caution as you would in any other town, if not even more so if you are visiting and not very familiar with the town. Follow these simple guidelines already mentioned and enjoy Puerto Vallarta!