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from the editor Before anything else in this world, I am a mother.
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I can change a diaper in under a minute, depending on its contents of course. I can sing every word of the Bubble Guppies and Sesame Street theme songs, and do most of the day. I find all of the Facebook ads on my profile are for toys and diapers, not grown up things. I talk poop more than I ever thought I would. I count every tooth, measure every growth spurt, record every new word. I will give her age in months rather than years as long as I can, just so I can hold on to her being my baby. I boast a diaper bag as my permanent accessory. I pick her up to smell her “bootini” on a regular basis. And I consider it normal. I melted when she said “Mama” for the first time. I ask for a kiss every chance I get. I love my daughter more than I knew was possible. And I dream about her future, while trying to keep her my baby girl forever. I am a mom, and I wouldn’t change a thing. And I am confident all of the mothers reading this issue feel the same way. Happy Mother’s Day!
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parent talk In this month’s ParentTalk question, we asked: what does your mother mean to you? As a mom yourself, what do you strive to mean for your children? What is your best memory of Mother’s Day? These are some of our favorite responses! My mother and my grandmother were my sole supports during my fight with leukemia when I was younger. My mom used to come in and rub my “little bald head” (due to chemo) every day, and it was so soothing. So for Mother’s Day that year, I had a nurse put some makeup on me, and take a picture of me with no hair so my mom could always remember my “little bald head” that she loved to rub. To this day, she still displays that picture proudly because it reminds her of a time when we were a team and fought together- and survived. Twenty two years later, we are still a team! Thanks, Mom! - Casey Hamilton My best Mother’s Day was in 2008. As Foster-to-Adopt parents, we found out that a sweet two-year old little boy we had provided respite care for was coming to live with us. Now he is ours forever! - Alecia Potter Meyer
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Being a mother is such a huge responsibity! I pray that one day my sons will remember me as someone who loved them, kissed boo boos, made surprise living room tents, but more importantly that I taught them God’s love. I strive daily to raise them as upstanding men and leaders in whatever they do! My boys are so precious to me! - Felecia Piper Being a mother is an amazing feeling and responsibility. Waking up every morning and getting hugs and kisses and knowing that your children see you as their role model makes me want to work harder and strive to show my girls that if you believe you can do something, than you can. I strive to make sure that I raise my children with good morals, how to treat others with respect, and to know God. All while they teach me how to love more and more each and every day. My girls are my angels, my world, and my role models just as I am theirs. Being a mother truly is a blessing. - Chelsey Donovan
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the best mother
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s the daughter of the best mother in the world, I had always
But I don’t see how my kids could remember me as anything but
harbored a little bit of guilt when Mother’s Day rolled around.
harried, hassled and frazzled. Not perfect.
I compared myself to my own mother, and came up woefully
Certainly not the best mother in the world.
short, and certainly undeserving of the praise and tributes my
Then, two years ago, everything changed.
children heaped on me on that special day.
My daughter and my daughter-in-law both brought new babies into
the family – two little girls.
Hadn’t my children noticed that the three little words I said
most often were not “I love you,” but “Clean your room!”?
Didn’t they remember how many times they had
tugged at my sleeve to tell me “something ’portant” and I brushed them away with a “not now, later, I’m busy”? Had they forgotten about all the times I had taken the easy way out and popped a tape into the VCR instead of cuddling up with them on the couch to read a bedtime story?
And yet, on that second Sunday in May every year,
Looking back at my own Mom through wistful mists of nostalgia, I remember her as gentle, patient and kind - the perfect mother, the best mother in the world.
I was secretly relieved that the attention was now focused elsewhere on Mother’s Day. Oh, my kids still remembered me – the cards and boxes of candy show up faithfully just the same – but now it’s Beth and Danielle in the spotlight as I willingly step aside into the shadows. As I stand on the sidelines, however, I’ve seen the most amazing thing unfold. I’ve watched as Beth and Danielle have flowed smoothly from their roles as daughter and daughter-in-law to that of mommies.
my four children paraded in with cards, flowers, gifts
I watch them juggle responsibilities and all
and hugs, and after they got old enough, they took
the people and things clamoring for their time
me out to eat and picked up the check.
and attention – keeping the laundry done, getting supper on the
Looking back at my own Mom through the wistful mists of
table, paying bills, getting the car to the shop, going to their best
nostalgia, I remember her as gentle, patient and kind – the perfect
friend’s wedding, taking the dog for his shots, spending time with
mother, the best mother in the world.
family, getting everyone up and dressed and off to church on time,
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indulging their husbands’ sports addictions, working every day … And yet, even while doing all this and much, much more –
My granddaughters can sing their A-B-C’s … they say “please”
and “thank you” … they always have a cute bow in their hair … they know the cow says “moo” and the sheep says “baa” … they shriek with laughter as they splash in the pool or zip down the slide or peddle their little go-cars.
I look on as Briley flings her arms around Beth’s neck or as Lyla
snuggles in Danielle’s lap.
Maybe Beth doesn’t think so as the sink fills with dirty dishes,
or as she hands her daughter a doughnut instead of a cup of yogurt. Maybe Danielle doesn’t think so as weeds threaten to take over the back yard, or as her daughter falls down and scrapes her knee.
But I know, without a shadow of a doubt, that one of these days,
both Briley and Lyla will look back and realize that each one of them had the best mommy in the whole wide world.
Beth and Danielle may not be perfect. I sure wasn’t perfect. And
I guess maybe my Mom wasn’t really perfect either.
But we all really are the best mommies in the world – because
we love our children.
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Lora Wimsatt is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday blessings and adventures of life, especially her family.
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{ Q&A with christina dalton,
M S S W, C S W
parental control Q: I have a 6-year-old daughter and we fight all the time. If I say the sky is blue, she will argue with me that it’s green. I am so quick to lose my temper and yell and then I feel like I’m 6 years old. How do I deal with a child that likes to argue?
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A. This is what I like to call the strong-
telling them they threw a much better
willed child. The strong-willed child
and bigger tantrum last time. The
is someone who you think could very
main thing to remember is don’t lose
possibly become a lawyer someday.
your cool because that is the whole
They either want to disagree with
point for them. And when they see that
everything you say or they are always
you can’t handle them, why would they
trying to renegotiate the terms of the
think anyone else in this world could.
deal. Anyone that has children knows how easily they can be brought down
Q. My 3-year-old whines constantly.
to the elementary level. I once argued
It drives my husband and me crazy.
with my then, 4-year-old that anything
Do you have any tips to stop the
times zero equals zero for a good fifteen
whining?
minutes. And I had to stop myself and think what am I doing? So don’t feel
A. Whining to a parent is like nails
bad, a toddler can take down the best
on a chalkboard. It grates on the
of us and bring us to their level even
nerves. Children this young think that
on your best day. A very common Love
whining is the way to get what they
and Logic© term is…I love you too
want and I often think they don’t even
much to argue. And this is something
realize they are doing it. It reminds
that you just keep repeating until they
me of my own child when she says,
get the point. Another suggestion is
“But I said I was sorry!” Thinking
telling the child what to do. If there is
this is the magic answer to all her
one thing a strong willed child hates,
problems and it fixes everything.
it is someone telling them what to do.
There are options to whining, such
It is a loss of control for them. You could tell them what to do or encourage
as, you can put the child in time out, a little swat on the bottom or taking away a toy or just ignoring their
the unwanted
request, but most of the time I don’t
behavior
think that these options are all that
by
helpful. My suggestion is to teach your children the difference between a whiny voice and a big voice. You can model the difference for them and make a game of it. In your best whiny voice you can say, “But mommy…I want it now! Pleeezzzzzzzz!!!!!” Then you can say, “Mommy may I please
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have this?” Another technique is to pretend you can’t hear them
better parent. I have been teaching parenting classes for over six
when they whine. You can tell them that you only hear children
years and I have had parents of all ages of children from toddlers
that use their big voice and not the little squeaky, whiny one.
to teenagers. I will say I think it’s something that you have to be
And if this still continues you can become a broken record and
serious about and you really need to want to change. I completely
repeat over and over, “Why can’t I hear you?” Eventually they
understand working and then being tired and piling on all the
will understand that you only listen to children who use their big
extras after work. My biggest piece of advice is that you have to
voices.
start enforcing what you say. If you say that the homework better be done by a certain time and it’s not then they have to go to bed.
Q. I am the mother of three children ages, 5, 8, and 11. I feel
Or there is some type of consequence. If you say, we are going to
like I’ve always let them do what they want and I never follow
leave this party if they can’t behave, then leave the party if they
through on anything I say. My husband and I both work. I’m
don’t behave. Every single time a child misbehaves you have a
not trying to make excuses, but we’re both tired at the end of
blank slate to change your ways. You need to set limits once and
the day and by the time you fix supper, do homework and baths,
follow through. It’s not easy to do and some days you will do
we’re done and I think the kids think they can get away with
better than others, but every day is a new day to make a change.
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whatever. Is it too late to change our ways? A. I’m a firm believer that it’s never too late to change and be a
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family life { by: elaine martin }
the day my kids
drank bath water W
hen I think about one specific day’s activities transforming
in the house in tears.
my life, I think back to September 2002. My third daughter
This evening’s cleaning time was instead spent with me saying,
was lying on the examination table at the pediatrician’s office while
“You make quite a loud sucking sound with that washcloth” and
my older two daughters were wiggling in their assigned seats. The
“Here’s another spoon so you can share the bubble soup you created.”
doctor had just given my two-week-old her once-over, when she
The humidity level of our bathroom was the same as normal, but the
asked me if I had any questions about the precious cargo I had carried
atmosphere was entirely different. My husband could hear laughter
into her office.
coming down the hallway instead of my loud commands. It was
wonderful!
I was a seasoned mom – I knew about diaper rash, nursing, and
thrush; however, I had a burning question that I was embarrassed to
ask for fear that my trusted doctor would label me as a Loser Mom. As
have adverse effects from the gray water they had ingested the night
I rocked my baby in her car seat, I took a deep breath and asked her
before. I was looking for spots on their skin, bumps in their throats,
if it was a medical crime to let my kids drink bath water. She smiled,
and panties full of “loose” stool. Instead, I found my normal, giggly,
looked at my two oldest kids, and told them to drink all they want – it
springy kids. I was dumb-founded. I had based my ban on consuming
would do no harm. The doctor left the sterile cramped square room
bathwater because of the information I had gathered from books,
while my chin hit the diaper bag strap I had thrown over my shoulder
playground conversations, and my gut instincts. Could there be other
– did she just give me permission to have bath time that included
Mom-isms I had created that were also faulty?
sucking down tainted water?
I spent the rest of the day mulling over the morning epiphany
role. I wanted to change from being a controlling mother to a more
– my kids could do something I had thought was off-limits, and it
nurturing one. It wasn’t going to be easy, so I started with baby steps.
wouldn’t harm them. More importantly, I realized that I would not
My 5-year-old was enrolled in preschool, and I had picked out her
be viewed as an inept mother. I tested my theory at bath time that
clothes and hairstyle every day. “Why not let Sally dress herself?”,
evening. While my husband was on baby duty, I handled bath time
I asked my husband one morning. He raised his eyebrows at me,
with our 3 and 5 year old. You must realize that normal bath time
shrugged his shoulders, and left early for work. Sally was thrilled with
consisted of screaming and whining – mostly on my part. “Don’t
her new freedom, as she bounced into her room in her nightgown
splash!” “Quit standing up in the tub!” And of course, “Don’t drink
and emerged confidently wearing her personal ensemble…horizontal
the bath water!” When the water was drained, I was the lone female
striped shirt with polka-dot tights under a plaid skirt. I was shocked
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To give the doctor credit, she was right on. My girls did not
The next few months started a new season for me in my maternal
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by the patterned buffet on my daughter’s body but also at her
self-esteem. She was darned proud of herself, as I was of both her
did with Greg. The big surprise to me was that I discovered what
and me. Together, we walked into preschool as new women.
a great guy he had become! I had this false expectation of what I
Many things changed in our household after these two
thought my children needed in a perfect father, but my eyes were
successful incidents. As I learned to release control of my family’s
opened to this amazing daddy that had been leading our family
actions, I started to gain an appreciation for their individuality
the whole time. His biggest gift to me was his miraculous ability
and humor. My time was now being spent enjoying watching
to allow me to discover that for myself.
my little ones discover things for themselves instead of me being
It has been six years since my bath-water transforming
a helicopter parent structuring their every move. With safe
day. As my kids have grown, so has my desire to release more
boundaries in place, I allowed my girls to become independent
and more control of my surroundings. To help with our family
and carefree.
budget, I actually started babysitting other people’s children
The positives of releasing myself from my self-appointed role
in my home. It’s ironic to me that my house, where stifling
as Junior God spilled over to another very important relationship
rules were as bountiful as the stars in the sky, has become a
as well – my marriage. I realized that I had placed my husband in
play place for kids to help me roll sticky sugar cookie dough
a symbolic “playpen” right along with our offspring. For example,
and make glitter saturated pieces of art. When parents come to
I had always encouraged him to read leadership books to further
pick up their happy toddlers at my tornado-stricken doorstep, I
his career, even though he hated reading more than receiving
occasionally hear “I wish I could be as relaxed like you are. My
root canals. He had surely grown tired of always hearing me talk
kids absolutely love coming to your house to play.” I just smile,
about the necessity of cutting back his caloric intake. I cringe
hug their precious toddlers goodbye, and think that maybe they
when I recall the many times I was angry because he played
need to do something special with their bath water.
board games with our girls in a way that was far different than was printed on the included instructions.
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Martin views each day as an adventure in her roles as wife, mom, owner of Pigtails and Cowlicks, and writing coach at Meadow Lands Elementary School.
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oft-spoken
but
dynamic
and
energized,
this
to the project’s impact.
threesome—Calli Young, Katherine Logan, and
Gracie Broughton—embraced an International
be attending Taylor Swift’s “The Red Tour” concert April
Baccalaureate
impressive
27 at Lexington’s Rupp Arena. Some have placed orders for
enthusiasm and equally impressive success. They chose a
red tutus to wear that night, according to Kim Logan, who
real-world problem—leukemia—that they would like to have
will be attending the concert with five other moms and their
an impact solving.
daughters. Kim’s home serves as one of the work and storage
“I am so proud of these girls for taking their learning
centers for the tutu project.
outside of the classroom. At Deer Park, we often read stories
or talk about helping others, but through their own choices,
girls making the majority of their sales to their friends,
these girls have discovered a way to make a difference in
neighbors, and relatives. They tried setting up a website, but
the lives of others,” said Mischelle Falloway, the girls’ fifth-
decided against it because of concerns about public display
grade Social Studies teacher and breast cancer survivor who
of contact information and over-reaching what they could
directed the assignment.
realistically produce. After all, these three hard-working,
That difference comes via the girls’ TUTU Cure Leukemia
conscientious gals “have quite a bit of homework,” according
project, with a goal of raising $300 to donate to St. Jude’s. Or,
to Carrie Broughton, who provided her expertise in cutting
to put it more accurately, “We have two different goals: Our
the tulle and guided the girls in the construction of their first
goal is $300. Ms. Falloway’s goal is $500,” said Katherine,
tutu.
with the other girls and moms agreeing and laughing in
the background. The idea took root in early January after
on making a tutu. The girls watched several videos, with
the girls noticed the popularity of tutus at a high school
Carrie coming alongside them to assist as needed. “She’s
basketball game. From there, the threesome brainstormed
kinda been like the leader. She taught Gracie how to make
how they could make and sell tutus to give a super-sized
it, and then she [Gracie] taught us,” Katherine explained.
check to benefit leukemia patients. Although they do not
Bouquets were flying all directions, as Carrie added, “We
personally know anyone who has had leukemia, they were
kind of thought through it together.”
inspired by Good Morning America’s Robin Roberts and
Jennifer Rudd’s recent story in Owensboro Parent Magazine.
for these students, who have demonstrated a conscientious
“The project is completely student initiated and driven. As
commitment to making others’ lives better through their
a teacher, watching my students take the research, learning,
efforts, and their parents, who have provided transportation,
and communication skills that they have been taught the
encouragement, and a little financial assistance along the
last six years and put them into action has been one of the
way. “We wanted to give 100 percent of the money that we
greatest rewards of the school year,” said Mischelle in regard
made to St. Jude’s, so they [parents] have kindly donated the
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school
project
with
Speaking of impact, a few local moms and daughters will
Most of the sales have come by word of mouth, with the
YouTube videos provided the primary how-to instruction
From all observation, the project seems to be a perfect fit
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community tulle, all of the tulle, to us,” said Katherine, with a strong
When one girl is working independently, construction
sense of appreciation.
seems to take longer. Teamwork pays the higher dividends,
“All tutus are $10. You pick your colors or you can have one
with two girls focused on cutting the strips of tulle and the
solid color…or we have white,” Gracie said. In addition, the
third girl looping the strips of tulle onto the elastic band. To
tutu closure varies according to size and personal preference.
finish the tutu, the band is either sewn together (by hand)
To date, the girls have raised $200, with new tutu orders
or connected with a bow, Katherine’s specialty, which is hot
coming in weekly.
glued onto the elastic band. So how do you know if you have
It has truly been a family affair, with even younger
a great-looking tutu? “If the tutu is fluffy and the edges look
brothers, ages 5-8, drawn into the action to “model” on an
even,” said Katherine, with special emphasis on f-l-u-f-f-y.
as-needed basis. Gracie said that she sometimes has to corner
her little brother. “Well, he tries to kinda run away… I just
give us homework on the weekends, so it gives us time to
make him stand still and he’ll finally let me do it,” she said
make tutus. It’s not like work; it’s just having fun making
with a giggle.
these,” Katherine said.
The added bonus is that “our fifth-grade teachers don’t
But it’s not all work and no play. By her own admission,
Their admirable work ethic and positive energy are
“We’re three 11-year-old girls; we get distracted—easily!”
evident in their attitude about payment. “I like it (payment)
said Gracie, in regard to some of their work sessions when
when we give the tutu to them, because I don’t want to get
they didn’t have much to show for their time together.
their money and have it for a really long time and then get
their tutu to them,” said Katherine, who keeps an organized
On one particular occasion, Calli recalled thinking, “Time
is up and we didn’t make a tutu. We made zero tutus.”
record of sales and deliveries. By the way, a really long time
That’s where parental leadership steps in: “Ms. Young
is in excess of a week…PRICELESS.
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picked us all up [to take us to her house] and said, ‘Go straight downstairs—don’t do anything else. tutus’,” Gracie said.
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Gail recently retired from DCHS, where she taught journalism and English. She is a mother of twins, a Meme, and sports enthusiast.
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community
A
s Mother’s Day approaches, it brings about many different feelings for many different women. For
some, it is the simple joy of receiving flowers or enjoying a nice meal while holding a new baby or boasting a proud belly. For others it’s receiving finger-painted masterpieces and greeting cards of adoration, all while being surrounded by loving children and grandchildren. Yet some women would not mind if this day simply vanished from the calendar for a moment. Some are wishing they could pick up the phone and call their own mothers for advice on life, love, and parenting. There are those whose greatest heart’s desire is to simply hold the title of “Mommy,” if only for a moment. This day however may be the most bittersweet for those mothers that have loved and lost. These mothers will no longer be able to hold their children on this day, but instead will cling tightly to bold color memories that are engraved in their minds and cherish them in their hearts. Courtney VonGunten is one such mother. When you speak to Courtney you immediately see a beautiful, warm, selfless woman with an incredible love for her children and a wonderful support system. She won’t take any of the credit though. She says she owes it all to her daughter Madelyn, “She makes you a better person. She already worked her magic on me.” Madelyn Rae was born on August 20, 2007. While Courtney was still pregnant she and Madelyn’s father, Ray, went for the ultrasound to find out the sex of the baby. After “what seemed like forever,” the doctor revealed that it appeared Madelyn would be born with a cleft lip. As parents they were able to come to term with this reality and
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see it as something that could later be fixed. When Madelyn was born, however, their outlook changed. They were hit with an overabundance of large words and diagnoses and informed of all the things that their daughter would never be able to do. “We were devastated,” recalls Courtney after hearing the news. The main diagnosis was that of holoprosencephaly (HPE), a type of birth defect in which the brain does not divide into two separate halves during development as it should. This condition is characterized by a difference in facial features and often a cleft lip or palate. Madelyn was also diagnosed with Chromosome 18p deletion. These two diagnoses often go hand in hand, and both are known to cause a delay in development, speech, and cognitive skills. Some children with similar diagnoses never even make it out of the hospital. Her parents were
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informed that Madelyn would probably
saying that hung over her bed, “Every
indescribable for Courtney, but Easter
never be able to walk, talk, feed herself,
day holds the possibility of a miracle.”
Sunday brought with it a new set of
or comprehend information.
She was a miracle, each day of the five
blessings. “I can’t describe it,” Courtney
and a half years that she spent on this
recalls, “but I knew she was going to be
all of the things Madelyn shouldn’t be
earth.
okay.” No longer would Madelyn have
able to do, she consistently responded
Although some people may have the
to endure the numerous injections that
with, “But she could.” And that she did.
misperception that her parents were
she received each night or the frustration
The little girl that shouldn’t have been
somehow anticipating this day due to her
of trying to communicate what her
able to walk did. She used sign language
earlier diagnosis, Courtney says, “The
body could not interpret. Courtney
to communicate, fed herself in a high
idea of her dying never crossed my mind.
has renewed strength in the fact that,
chair, was able to turn off the light switch
I thought, ‘She’s going to live with me
“she never cried and never frowned…[I
when asked, and comprehend more than
forever’…and I loved that thought.” Just
realized] she never wanted us to.”
we will ever fathom. Madelyn’s smile was
like anyone might imagine, getting the
The amount of love and support displayed
contagious, even “strangers would start
phone call that her daughter was gone
for Courtney and her family over the
smiling” when they saw her. Her brother
was the worst moment in Courtney’s life.
last few weeks has been overwhelming.
Maddox was “her biggest fan.” There
The memories of the days following are
During visitation, the line was so long
were many times that Maddox would be
blurred with images of sleeping by her
that it extended past the door. An
offered an opportunity for an activity or
daughter in the funeral home one last
extra room had to be used to house the
an experience and he would turn it down
time, doing her hair for visitation, and
overflow of “truly heartfelt gifts.” Not to
because Madelyn couldn’t participate
laying by her gravesite to be as close to
mention the phone calls, Facebook posts,
too. Madelyn was a living example of the
her as possible. Those first few days were
and inbox messages from close friends
As doctors continued to tell Courtney
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and family members, as well as perfect strangers. As far as the outpouring of support after losing Madelyn, Courtney said that you do not truly realize “how many people love you” or “how many people she touched.”
the right thing to say Kristen Jones is the mother of
What you can do:
two healthy young boys, ages
Offer a hug. Say, “I’m thinking
10 and 13. Kristen is also the
of you.” Show up with a meal
mother of a beautiful baby girl
or a trip out of the house. Do
uncomfortable about the subject than she is. The blessing in
named Lindsay who appeared
not treat her any differently.
all of this is that some old friendships and family relationships
to be born completely healthy.
This is still your friend, co-
When her parents took her
worker, family member, etc…
home they never dreamed
she is just hurting.
Moving forward, Courtney has gone back to work, and on
with life, the best that she can. She said that sometimes people aren’t sure how to act around her and others appear more
have been rekindled and renewed throughout this experience. Courtney believes in her heart that Madelyn is now “looking
they would only be able to
over all of us” and somehow has a hand in the good things that
enjoy six days with her due to
Most importantly – Just
happen.
an undiagnosed heart defect.
listen. This might be
Lindsay would be seventeen
uncomfortable at first, but
As far as advice for other mothers, Courtney simply had
this year and a junior in high
sometimes a parent that
this to say, “Don’t take it for granted. Hug em’. Kiss em’. Tell
school. After attending various
is grieving just needs to
em’ you love em’. You never know when you’ll get another
support groups and being a
talk about it. By just simply
support for other mothers
listening, without offering any
over the years,
advice at all, you are doing
Kristen recalls the things
a powerful thing - allowing
also be saving a special place in her heart to celebrate being
people would try to say to
them to heal and move
Madelyn Rae’s mommy.
comfort her during her loss
forward.
chance.” While Courtney will be able to share this coming Mother’s Day with her 8-year-old son Maddox, Courtney will
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Melody Wallace is a reading and language arts teacher at Daviess County Middle School who finds new happiness each day in her roles as teacher, wife, mom,
and offers words of wisdom when trying to console a
Moving forward – Be
parent that has lost a child.
sensitive and attentive. Realize that each birthday,
Use caution when saying:
each milestone in that child’s
“I know how you feel” - This
life is thought of by their
is often said by parents who
mother. They will always
have lost children themselves,
wonder: What kind of student
though some have not.
would they be? What would
Regardless, everyone grieves
they be like as a grown-up?
differently and individually,
What would they be doing
no one can really understand
now? Because to a mother,
how someone feels when
“it doesn’t matter at what age
their child dies.
you lose a child, that memory will stay with you forever.”
“You’re young…You can always have other children”-
Support:
Although there may be truth
There are many online blogs
to this statement, no child can
and support groups for
replace the one that is gone.
parents who have lost a child. In the Owensboro area, there
“It’s all a part of God’s plan”
is Compassionate Friends
– While many parents have a
Support Group for parents
sense of faith and believe that
who have lost a child of any
their children are waiting for
age. Meetings are held on the
them in heaven, no parent
4th Thursday of each month
wants to believe that God has
at 6:30 p.m. in the HealthPark
a plan to cause harm to their
Chapel Conference Room.
child or their family.
Contact Jean Julius (270) 688-4856.
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big courage (little girl)
{ by: jaime rafferty }
T
he petite, soft-spoken, Cinderella-look-alike with big,
who is a kindergarten student at Audubon Elementary, had a
fluttering hazel green eyes, porcelain skin, and luscious
care in the world. She has two supportive parents along with
blonde curls cascading to her mid-back is more than your
two precious sisters. What could 5 year-old Kaylie have to
average Disney World enthusiast—much more. She is a
worry about?
cancer survivor.When people meet Kaylie, they see the old
adage “good things come in small packages” is true.
that potty-trained Kaylie began having accidents. Up to the
You are greeted by an infectious smile and sparkling eyes
point the accidents began this was not a regular occurrence.
from a very shy little girl. It’s hard not to scoop her up when
This prompted an exhaustive search for the culprit causing
you hear such an inviting giggle.
Kaylie’s issues.
From first glance, you wouldn’t dream that this little girl,
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It was just under a year ago when mom, Laura, noticed
What began with visits to the pediatrician lead to seeking
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more answers from specialists in Louisville.
relationship between mother and daughter is proof of that.
Kaylie seems to touch everyone she meets. In fact, Laura said
Kaylie’s medical history started as she was born six weeks
prematurely. Her lung development was only about 20% and
that her husband’s co-worker and his wife could see the toll
thus a fight for survival began. Laura says that each year has
the repeated trips to doctors was having on the family both
brought different challenges with her daughter’s health but
financially and emotionally and graciously gave the family a
that she is a “fighter.”
financial gift to use as they saw fit during a hospital visit to
Louisville. But that’s not all. They also gave Kaylie a darling
What’s her latest battle? Doctor’s have concluded that
Kaylie not only has a dysfunctional voiding bladder (a
baby doll. Kaylie has affectionately named it “Ladybug.” Just
bladder that cannot empty out), but recently tests revealed a
like Kaylie, Ladybug is one tough doll as she has received IV’s
99% chance that she also has a tethered spine (causes bladder
and surgery too. She’s been at Kaylie’s side since given to her.
incontinence as well as motor and sensory impairments).
Though separately big challenges, together they are a lot for
from the family and go to her room and lay on her bed with
this family to comprehend.
Ladybug to cope. When Laura goes to her daughter, she will
comfort her and encourage her to share those feelings. Kaylie
In less than a year, Kaylie has been seen by three
Often during times of pain Kaylie will excuse herself
specialists, looking for answers. She has had 20 urine
kindly responds, “You worry enough, Mommy.” Laura says,
cultures, all of which came back infected. This little ball of
“But isn’t that a mother’s job?”
courage has undergone eleven different tests as well as three
surgical procedures, two didn’t take and the family is now
perspective forever about her daughter’s battle.
waiting to see if the last one was successful.
bothered her that she was a big girl but had to revert back to
When asked how often Kaylie hurts she quietly
It was an experience in public that changed Laura’s As Kaylie began to have issues with her bladder, it
replied, “Every day.” As Laura watched her daughter she
toddler measures of wearing a diaper. That day, before leaving
tearfully said, “She makes me emotional with a smile.” The
the house, Kaylie begged her mom to let her wear panties
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community instead of the pull-ups they were now having use due to the
honey, even big girls have accidents sometimes too.” They left
unpredictable nature of her bladder. Laura reluctantly let
hand in hand with their family. Laura wanted her daughter to
little Kaylie wear her “big girl panties” so that she could feel
feel no shame, accidents happen!
“normal” again. Kaylie beamed and promised she wouldn’t
have an accident.
with remarks of, “you did what?” or looks of disbelief, but
she firmly believes, “A mother has to do, what a mother has
While dining at a local fast food restaurant Kaylie asked
When Laura shared this with others, initially she was met
to go to the restroom. Mom let her go, as she could see the
to do.” If her daughter endures physical pain every day, along
restroom from her seat. After several moments Kaylie had
with the emotional pain of accidents, Laura believed her
not emerged and Laura went to check on her. Though the
“accident” paled in comparison to the bravery her daughter
door was locked, Laura knocked announcing it was her and
shows.
asking if she was okay. Kaylie refused to the unlock the door
at first. Laura pleaded that she couldn’t help her if she didn’t
month, she will see her surgeon again to continue to explore
let her in. After a few moments, the saddened Kaylie opened
her medical options. However, right now she lives with
the door. She stood there protesting, “I’m sorry Mommy,
courage and a loving family that has learned not to take their
I’m sorry.” Laura looked down saw that she indeed had an
children for granted and that accidents are not the end of the
accident. Laura stood there trying to offer a solution knowing
world!
she only had a pull-up with her and this would not help her
daughter’s dampened clothing.
carrying courage and strength.
After a few moments Laura decided what she was going
to do. She selflessly had an accident on herself to ease her daughter’s pain. Kaylie looked up at her and Laura said, “See
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All of Kaylie’s story has yet to be written. Later this
Laura says that when you see Kaylie you see a little girl who is Though she may be a little girl, Kaylie lives out big courage!
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babyroo baby care fair B
{ by: jamie rafferty }
eing a parent can be equal parts joy and frustration, especially
quality formulas, diapers and other incentives to participate. It has
during infancy.
been a win-win for Mother, Baby and science.
Unfortunately babies do not come with a manual on what pacifies
In addition to being a part of a well regulatedwell-regulated study,
them when they are upset, what sounds soothe them or what formula
participants also receive counseling, thorough evaluation, and personal
won’t hurt their tummy. However, there is a local organization that
care.
can actually help with giving your baby individual attention while also
helping ease some of those parenting woes.
place, it was time, after years of attending health fairs, that they hosted
an event of their own to educate families on the benefits of clinical
Pedia Research has been assisting Owensboro families for 16
Because Pedia Research has a quality established program in
years as a dedicated research site providing quality oversight while
research studies and more importantly on caring for your newborn.
conducting clinical studies of pharmaceuticals and other health
products. This is accomplished by working with study participants to
Fair” for expecting or recent parents. From 9am-12 noon at Lewis
improve the benefits and safety of the products being evaluated.
Lane Baptist Church. The fair will highlight the work being done
These clinical studies are a way for volunteers to receive new
through clinical studies, but also will include vendors that will provide
medical treatments in a highly controlled atmosphereenvironment.
information about a myriad of topics surrounding caring for your baby.
Doctors and researchers gather information about the benefits as well
The public is welcome to attend.
as side effects of products used for further medical breakthroughs and
treatments. These findings can lead to improved methods of detection,
is for you. It’s a one stop shop for baby care information, a chance to
diagnosis, cures, as well as disease management of health conditions.
win amazing door prizes, but more importantly it is a great opportunity
to become of a part of a research study that could benefit your little one
Pedia Research has found much success in their infant formula
studies. Though breast milk is the gold standard, these studies have
Saturday, June 1, Pedia Reseach will have its first “Baby Care
If you are expecting a child or have recently given birth, this event
but also generations to come.
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protecting our children C
hildren nowadays are bombarded with many more messages and images than children of earlier generations, and parents are often uncertain how to teach their children about personal safety, not only from car accidents and poisonings, but also from invasions of privacy and individual space. According to Terri Crowe, of New Beginnings Support Services in Owensboro, awareness of child endangerment is growing, but parents still have a lot to learn about protecting their children from “bad touch,” either by other children or adults. She suggests several strategies for talking to your children about this important issue. 1 Talk about “body safety” early and often.
he has ultimate control of his own personal space.
Children understand the concept of “good touch/
Otherwise he will learn that he must do what the
bad touch” by the age of about 3 years. A good
adults say, even if it makes him feel uncomfortable.
example is that a hug from a grandparent feels good,
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so is ok, but the touch of a stranger may be scary,
2 When children are newly potty-trained, they
so the child should report this to the parent. On
often do not respect their own or others’ privacy
the other hand, children should never be forced or
when in the bathroom, so little girls may walk in on
coerced into submitting to invasion of their personal
little boys, etc. This may be innocent, but it is also
space just because refusing might hurt the adult’s
a teachable moment to discuss how that made her
feelings. If Johnny does not want to let Aunt Martha
feel. It gives parents a chance to teach politeness,
give him a hug, he should learn that he has the
like knock before entering, but also that nobody
right to choose another interaction, such as shaking
should touch her private areas except the child and
hands or waving. This does not mean the child is
the parent, only related to bathing or going potty. I
allowed to be rude, but he should be taught that
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children that doctors only need to look if the parent is present and agrees it’s ok, and only to check out the child’s health. 3 As children mature, the best thing a parent can do is to be open to children’s body issues and listen carefully when children talk about their concerns. Never minimize the child’s concerns, because you hope that if a bigger issue comes up during the teenage years, your child will still come to you for advice. 4 Internet safety presents a special challenge to today’s families. Parents really must track their tweens and teens as they explore the Internet, and proper controls should be in place to prevent kids from revealing identifying information to strangers or in public cyberspace. Naïve children often do not understand how the information they share may be used by strangers in ways that may endanger the child or the family, so parents have a responsibility to monitor this activity carefully, even if it means saying no to Facebook or a personal cellphone for their sixth grader. 5 If your child shows any of the following signs, seek help from a professional. These are possible signs of abuse or other mental health problems: sudden change in appetite or weight; new sleep disturbances or nightmares; new fears of specific people; interest in or knowledge of adult matters beyond that expected for age; regressing to more childlike behaviors like thumb sucking or bedwetting; or expressing affection in ways inappropriate for age. 6 Terri from New Beginnings has lots of resources for parents who have questions about how to present all this scary material to their children. She speaks at schools all the time to get the word out, and New Beginnings is also a great resource for children, parents, and adults who may have been affected by assault or other unwanted touching. If you have suspicions about inappropriate contact, the staff at New Beginnings (24 hour help line 800-226-7273) can help you navigate the system of law enforcement, social workers and forensic nurses, and they provide emotional support and practical advice at every step of the way to help with the healing process, no matter what the situation. She suggests the following websites as excellent sources of information about preventing abuse: www.rainn.org, www.kasap.org/children_and_teens.html, www. preventchildabuse.org/advocacy. The most important message: Listen to your children and take them seriously. Children rarely lie OP
about inappropriate contact. If your child reports such activity, seek help immediately. We are here to listen and help.
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improve your life with a college degree A
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HOPE stands for Hybrid Online Pathway for Education. Here’s
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Make your dreams a reality with OCTC’s HOPE 411. Through
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to offer this program. This initiative is another great offshoot of our
“We continually strive to make higher education more
“Our growing online and hybrid course options have allowed us
accessible to the people in our region, and we are very excited about
Title III grant,” said OCTC President Jim Klauber. “HOPE 411 is
offering this program,” said OCTC Vice President of Academic
an ideal option for folks who need to keep their full-time job but
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WKU-O interviewed Cathie Guinto, a WKU-O Health Sciences major, and her son, Joey Guinto, a graduate biology student. This mother-son duo are exemplary WKU-O students. What is it like pursuing your education at the same time?
ask him some questions about the computer but other than that, we
I believe we have helped each other through some challenging
are a mainly a support system for each other.
times. If I am in a panic about something, Joey has always offered great support and I believe that I have done the same for him. When
What has made the difference in your education?
we share good news about the outcome of an assignment, we both
Being able to pursue a prestigious education at a well-respected
understand, and if we share some disappointing results, we can relate
institution close to home and to be able to capture some online classes
to that as well.
as well has been a great inspiration. The instructors are knowledgeable and expect excellence, but they are very willing to answer and explain
Can you talk about how proud you are of each other?
any questions that may arise.
I am very happy for Joey that he is about to graduate with his master’s degree in biology. I am proud of that for him, but it makes it sound
What is special about WKU-O?
like I had a part in it and I didn’t. He has worked very hard. I am
All of the office staff, and the students as well, are so very helpful
proud of Joey because of the person that he is and always has been.
and nice. Familiar faces and people who smile when they call you by name is very comforting in this ever so stressful world in which we
Do you help each other with homework?
live. Anyone wanting to further his or her education at any age will
I could never begin to help Joey with his homework. He is so far above
feel at home at WKU-O.
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Western Kentucky University in Owensboro has been educating students for over 40 years.
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experience pioneer village “W
hen
people
hear
‘pioneer
village’
they
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authenticity to the village.
immediately think I’m talking about Indiana
I experienced this firsthand when I took one of my sons
or some other state,” says executive director of Friends of
to “Patriot Days” living history weekend last summer. With
Pioneer Village, Sean Dysinger.
“We’re still trying to get
smoke wafting in the air, we took our time and saw it all,
the word out about this place so people can come out and
the barns, the cabins, the one room school house, even a
enjoy the Pioneer Village because it truly is a treasure for
doctor’s tent and a tee-pee set up by re-enactors! It was like
our community.”
reading a history book in real life.
Located in a back section of Yellow Creek Park, the
“Walking through the Pioneer Village takes me back in
Pioneer Village is designed to look like a frontier community
time,” says Christie Payne, a mother of two boys. Payne and
around 1890-1910.
The Friends of Pioneer Village are
her family have been involved with the Pioneer Village from
constantly making improvements to their facilities and
its early days and she has greatly enjoyed making memories
adding new projects. This spring they started a gardening
with her sons there. When asked what her favorite thing
project highlighting historically correct plants like flax
about the village is from a parent’s perspective, she said, “It
and cotton, which were very important to frontier life.
makes history tangible. When kids get to help a blacksmith
They have also recently obtained wood from two old barns
in his forge or taste real churned butter it’s a history lesson
in Daviess County that will be re-used to create a space
they won’t forget. We’re at a pivotal point in history where our
for a permanent forge. All of this will just add even more
youth need to learn about their forefathers like never before.”
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And that’s exactly what the organizers hope to happen.
2009. Living history participant Chris Holt explains
According to Dysinger, family friendly fun is the goal of
its growth: “Our first year we had about 200 people. We
the Pioneer Village. Through a schedule of events called
doubled it the second year. Then last year we even had
the “Village at the Creek Arts Series,” Dysinger envisions
some students from different schools come, which is great
families making memories together by having picnics,
because our Patriot Days event really is for the kids. It’s
listening to music, enjoying the beautiful setting at
a very hands-on way to learn. They get to come out here
Yellow Creek Park, and just generally having a good time
and see a blacksmith heating and shaping metal; a candle
experiencing the village. The series includes a “Songwriters
maker dipping candles; someone weaving baskets; a potter
in the Village” night (June 1st) where local musicians can
spinning bowls; things like that. Last year we had some
jam and tell stories by the campfire, a Daughters of the
trappers set up a hunting camp and the kids got to ask them
American Revolution annual meeting (June 14th) in the
questions.”
school house that is open to the public, and a “Bluegrass
in the Village” night (May 18th) featuring live music on
been a great success over the past several years,” Dysinger
the front porch by bluegrass group King’s Highway. Roy
said, “but we’re really excited about these new events
Henry, finalist on TV’s “BBQ Pitmasters” will have barbecue
because they show different aspects of community life on
dinners available that night too.
the frontier.”
The art series hopes to attract area families to the village
For more information about the Village at the Creek Art
for the first time and welcome returning friends from
Series events, or to volunteer, please contact Sean Dysinger
Patriot Days or ROMP to see the new improvements to the
at 926-1100.
“Obviously, the Patriot Days living history events have
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Patriot Days events have actually been going on since
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may 2013 Informing parents about fun, local events is a priority for Owensboro Parent. Our magazine compiles events from across the city and county. So when your family is looking for something to do, check out the Owensboro Parent calendar, where you will find information on local events, including event descriptions, locations, dates, times and price. Want to include your event? Contact the editor at ashley@owensboroparent.com.
WEDNESDAY, MAY 1
THURSDAY, MAY 2
THE PRICE IF RIGHT LIVE the hit interactive
FREE COMMUNITY WELLNESS EVENT
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
stage show that gives contestants pulled
Featuring Dr. William Sears Top Health Tips
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
right from the audience the chance to
for All Ages Come learn about simple ways
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library,
“Come On Down” to win appliances,
to lead a healthier life from one of America’s
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
vacations and even new cars by playing
foremost wellness physicians at a special
classic games from television’s longest
event hosted by Owensboro Dance Theatre.
HIGHWAY 54 YARD SALE Shop for bargains
running and most popular game show.
William Sears, M.D. has been advising busy
all along Highway 54 from Leitchfield to
From Plinko to Cliffhangers to the Big
parents on how to raise healthier families
Owensboro, Kentucky for three days of yard
Wheel, and even the fabulous Showcase, all
for over 35 years. He received his pediatric
sales; www.hwy54yardsale.com or (270)
the favorite games are played just like the TV
training at Harvard Medical School and
256-3934.
show. Playing to near sold-out audiences
currently serves as a associate professor
for nearly nine years, the Price Is Right
of pediatrics at the University of California,
BLUEGRASS JAM On the first Thursday of
Live! has given away more than 10 million
Irvine School of Medicine. Together with his
each month, head to the Bluegrass Museum
dollars in cash and prizes and sold more
wife Martha, Dr. Sears has written more than
to jam with other musicians. Jamming is for
than 1.2 million tickets. If you enjoy the rush
30 best selling-books and countless articles
musicians of all levels and begins at 7 p.m.
of emotions experienced while watching
on parenting and childcare. He serves as a
For more information, contact the Museum
the show on television, just imagine the
medical and parenting consultant for Baby
at (270) 926-7891 or visit their their website
possibilities if you were actually in the
Talk and Parenting magazines, and his ask
at www.bluegrassmuseum.org.
audience watching it live; (270) 687-2787 or
Dr.Sears.com website is one of the most
riverparkcenter.com.
popular health sites on the Internet. “Dr. Bill”
FRIDAY, MAY 3
- as his patients call him - has been a guest
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
on over 100 television shows including
wear socks; $7 per child, children under
wear socks; $7 per child, children under
20/20, Good Morning America, Oprah
2 are free, unless they are the only child,
2 are free, unless they are the only child,
Winfrey, Today Show and Dateline; 7 – 8:30
adults always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-
adults always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-
p.m.; Jody Berry Theatre, RiverPark Center.
1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
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calendar 5TH ANNUAL DERBY TROT 5K RUN/WALK
This weekend the family can discover the
see how special she is. But Mossy misses
A night race taking place around and in
world of bees. Kids can make a decorative
her friends. Who will help Mossy get back
the Towne Square Mall parking lot. Race
pot to take home, create their own grass-
home to Lilypad Pond? Lab: Making a
begins at 11 p.m. All proceeds benefit New
head to take home and watch grow,
terrarium. After the story, participants will
Beginnings and their programs for child
play in the Family Fun Acre, ride on the
create a terrarium; 1:30 - 2:45 p.m. Story
and adult abuse survivors. Door prizes
pedal carts, bounce on the Bouncy Balls,
Lab: Mossy; 3 - 4 p.m. Open Lab: Dissect
and snacks will be available. For more
pet and feed the animals at the Animal
a plant and learn about the parts that
information, contact New Beginnings at
Barnyard, master the Rope & Tile Maze,
make a plant using real plants; Owensboro
(270) 926-7091 or (270) 926-7278 or visit
have their face painted, or take a ride on a
Museum of Science and History, 122 East
www.newbowensboro.org
pony. Families will have a blast mining for
Second Street; (270) 687.2732 or www.
gems and arrowheads in the Gem Mine
owensboromuseum.org.
HIGHWAY 54 YARD SALE See event
Adventure. Live Entertainment, Great Food
description on Thursday, May 2.
and more “Absolutely Farmtastic Fun;” 11
OWENSBORO HEALTH REGIONAL HOSPITAL
a.m. – 6 p.m.; Trunnell’s Farm Market, 9255
COMMUNITY OPEN HOUSE See event
SATURDAY, MAY 4
US Highway 431, Utica; (270) 733-2222 or
description on Saturday, May 4.
OWENSBORO HEALTH REGIONAL HOSPITAL
www.trunnellsfarmmarket.com.
COMMUNITY OPEN HOUSE You are invited for
MONDAY, MAY 6
a behind-the-scenes look at the Owensboro
DOWNTOWN OWENSBORO CRUISE-IN Head
FREE MOTHER’S DAY CARD DROP-IN CRAFT
Health Regional Hospital Open House on
Downtown every 1st Saturday from April
Drop in anytime to create a Mother’s Day
Saturday and Sunday, May 4 and 5. Located
to October and enjoy classic cars! Free
card to take home; Ages 12 and younger;
at 1201 Pleasant Valley Road, the hospital
admission and fun for the whole family!
Daviess County Public Library, 2020
can be is easily accessed from the US 60
Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
Bypass or from Pleasant Valley Road off
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the
US 60 East. Doors will open at 10:00 am
library every Saturday morning from 10:00—
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
Saturday and noon on Sunday with tours
12:00 for self guided fun and educational
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
offered continuously through 6:00 p.m.
activities with a focus on literacy and school
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library,
each day. Visitors will have the opportunity
readiness; Daviess County Public Library,
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
to see patient rooms, operating rooms,
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org
the Mother-Baby unit, and Emergency Department among other areas. In addition
JULEPS & JOCKEYS, A DERBY PARTY Sip a
to tours, area bluegrass bands will provide
mint julep, taste some delicious food,
music throughout the two-day event. Bands
and watch the 138th Run For the Roses,
include Kings Highway, The Merritt Sisters,
The Kentucky Derby. Enjoy mint juleps, a
Wild Mountain Theme, Higher Ground,
bourbon bar, a cigar tent, auctions, and
Blackberry Jam, and more! (270) 685-7192
the 2nd Street Big Band. 4-9 p.m. at the
or www.owensborohealth.org.
Hines Center, 1 Wellness Drive, Philpot. For more information, contact the Owensboro
TRUNNELL’S FESTIVAL OF FLOWERS “It’s a
Symphony Orchestra at (270) 684-0661.
Blooming Good Time for the Entire Family”. Trunnell’s will be alive with color during
HIGHWAY 54 YARD SALE See event
this Festival. This festival will excite the
description on Thursday, May 2.
entire family with live music, pulled pork BBQ, and activities for the young and old.
SUNDAY, MAY 5
Our guests can watch and learn about
STORY LAB Mossy by Jan Brett; Mossy is a
Outdoor Container Gardening: How to
turtle with a beautiful garden growing on
Plant a beautiful pot of flowers, or learn
her shell. Mossy is found by a biologist who
how to start your own back-yard garden.
takes her to live in a museum so others can
www.OwensboroParent.com
TUESDAY, MAY 7 FREE MOTHER’S DAY CARD DROP-IN CRAFT
See event description on Monday, May 6. U-BOUNCE TODDLER TUESDAY; All must
wear socks; Children 5 and under get in for $5 all night; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com. WALK, TALK & LUNCH IN THE GARDEN “THE NOT SO NUTTY PROFESSOR”. Enjoy lunch and
a walk through the Western KY Botanical Garden; 25 Carter Road; 11:30 a.m. -.1 p.m.; (270) 852-8925 or www.wkbg.org.
WEDNESDAY, MAY 8 FREE MOTHER’S DAY CARD DROP-IN CRAFT
See event description on Monday, May 6.
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calendar U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE
festival with more than 10 tons
NIGHT; All must wear socks;
of mutton, 1,500 gallons of
$7 per child, children under 2
burgoo and 5,000 chickens
are free, unless they are the
prepared and sold during the
only child, adults always free;
festival. Musical entertainment,
5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
children’s activities, car show,
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
pageants, arts and crafts and more are available for the
THURSDAY, MAY 9
crowd’s enjoyment. This festival
FREE MOTHER’S DAY CARD DROP-
has been featured in Discovery
IN CRAFT See event description
Channel’s Travelers, Inside
on Monday, May 6.
Edition and Southern Living. Come enjoy “Two days of
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for
barbecue Heaven!”
ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30
FREE MOTHER’S DAY CARD DROP-
a.m.; Daviess County Public
IN CRAFT See event description
Library, 2020 Frederica St.;
on Monday, May 6.
dcplibrary.org. U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE
FRIDAY, MAY 10
NIGHT; All must wear socks;
INTERNATIONAL BAR-B-Q
$7 per child, children under 2
FESTIVAL On the second
are free, unless they are the
weekend in May, the
only child, adults always free;
Owensboro riverfront becomes
5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
a hub of activity when cooking
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
teams gather to compete with their secret recipes for
SATURDAY, MAY 11
barbecue. These teams are
INTERNATIONAL BAR-B-Q
vying for best chicken, mutton
FESTIVAL See event description
and burgoo titles, as well as the
on Friday, May 10.
Governor’s Cup for the “BEST
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OVERALL BAR-B-Q COOKING
FREE MOTHER’S DAY CARD DROP-
TEAM.” All total, more than
IN CRAFT See event description
80,000 people will attend the
on Monday, May 6.
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calendar LANHAM BROTHER JAMBOREE This family-
MONDAY, MAY 13
FREE CHILDREN’S BOOK WEEK DROP-IN
fun and interactive show will feature
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
CRAFT To celebrate Children’s Book Week
Bluegrass, Country, Clogging and Comedy.
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
(May 13 – 19), children and drop in and
Showtime is 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. CST. The
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library,
decorate a bookmark; Daviess County
Jamboree will be held in the Good Time
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary. org.
Theater at Diamond Lake Resort. Tickets are general admission at the door and are
TUESDAY, MAY 14
$10 per person, $5 for ages 6-12 years
FREE LEGO BLOCK PARTY Build, play and
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
and 5 years and under are free. Discounts
learn with LEGO! 6:30 – 7:30 p.m.; Daviess
wear socks; $7 per child, children under
offered for groups of 15 or more people.
County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St..
2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-
Group tickets may be purchased by calling (270) 314.4331; 301 Hobbs Road; www.
U-BOUNCE TODDLER TUESDAY; All must
lanhambrothersjamboree.com.
wear socks; Children 5 and under get in for
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE!
$5 all night; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
THURSDAY, MAY 16
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
FREE STORYTIME WEE READ for ages 2 and
Visit the library every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational activities with a focus on literacy and school readiness; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary. org
SUNDAY, MAY 12 MOTHER’S DAY
1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
WEDNESDAY, MAY 15
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library,
STORY LAB Mossy by Jan Brett; Mossy is a
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
turtle with a beautiful garden growing on her shell. Mossy is found by a biologist
FRIDAY, MAY 17
who takes her to live in a museum so
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
others can see how special she is. But
wear socks; $7 per child, children under
Mossy misses her friends. Who will help
2 are free, unless they are the only child,
Mossy get back home to Lilypad Pond?
adults always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-
Lab: Making a terrarium. After the story,
1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
FREE MOTHER’S DAY CARD DROP-IN CRAFT
participants will create a terrarium; 11 a.m.
See event description on Monday, May 6.
- 12:30 p.m. Story Lab: Mossy; 12:45 – 1:30
FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Friday After 5 is a
p.m. Open Lab: Open Lab: Make a Barge
summer-long series of FREE outdoor
MOTHER’S DAY AT THE GARDEN Treat the
Create an aluminum foil barge to hold the
concerts held every Friday on the BB&T
Mother’s in your life to a delicious brunch at
maximum number of pennies; Owensboro
Plaza at RiverPark Center overlooking the
the Western KY Botanical Garden. Call for
Museum of Science and History, 122 East
Ohio River. The main stage bands play on
reservations and more information; (270)
Second Street; (270) 687.2732 or www.
the plaza, acoustic entertainment is in the
852-8925 or www.wkbg.org.
owensboromuseum.org.
Courtyard, Gospel on the River performs in Cannon Hall, and weekly Street Fairs offer activities for everyone. (fridayafter5.com.
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AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY RELAY FOR
Bring your camera and autograph books to
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
LIFE Support your favorite walkers or get
capture all the excitement; Proceeds benefit
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library,
a group together and walk the track at
Imagination Library’s literacy efforts. Tickets
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
Diamond Lake Resort to raise money for the
are $5 per person (Children 2 and under are
American Cancer Society; (270) 229-4900
free); 8 – 11 a.m.; Settle United Methodist
TUESDAY, MAY 21
or www.relayforlife.org/daviess.
Church, ROC Center, 201 E. 4th St.; For
U-BOUNCE TODDLER TUESDAY; All must
further information, contact Nancy Roberts
wear socks; Children 5 and under get in for
at 686-1688.
$5 all night; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
ECHOES OF ELMWOOD For those who might
have missed Voices of Elmwood in past
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
years, ten of the popular “voices” from the
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE!
first year will be performed again for two
Visit the library every Saturday morning
nights only, under a tent. Two shows each
WEDNESDAY, MAY 22
from 10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
night at 7 and 9 pm; (270) 687-2732 or
educational activities with a focus on literacy
wear socks; $7 per child, children under
www.owensboromuseum.org.
and school readiness; Daviess County
2 are free, unless they are the only child,
Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.
adults always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-
org
1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
SATURDAY, MAY 18 BLUEGRASS IN THE VILLAGE Featuring live
music on the front porch by bluegrass
STORY LAB Mossy by Jan Brett; Mossy is a
group King’s Highway. Roy Henry, finalist
turtle with a beautiful garden growing on
on TV’s “BBQ Pitmasters” will have barbecue
her shell. Mossy is found by a biologist who
dinners available with ticket purchase;
takes her to live in a museum so others can
Tickets $12, kids 12 and under $6; 6 - 9 p.m.;
see how special she is. But Mossy misses
Pioneer Village, Yellow Creek Park.
her friends. Who will help Mossy get back home to Lilypad Pond? Lab: Making a
STORYBOOK BREAKFAST Calling all
terrarium. After the story, participants will
princesses, pirates and storybook characters
create a terrarium; 10:30 - 11:45 a.m. Story
of all ages. All the Fairy Godmothers are
Lab: Mossy; 12:30 - 1:30 p.m. Open Lab:
busy preparing for the 1st Annual Storybook
Open Lab: Floating and Sinking Discover
Breakfast. This is a fin-filled event designed
what things sink and what things float;
to emphasize the importance of reading
Owensboro Museum of Science and
to young children. Kids will get to meet
History, 122 East Second Street; (270)
dozens of storybook characters, enjoy a
687.2732 or www.owensboromuseum.org.
hot pancake breakfast and even receive a free book. Children are also invited to dress
MONDAY, MAY 20
up as their favorite characters for the day.
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
www.OwensboroParent.com
THURSDAY, MAY 23 FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
FRIDAY, MAY 24 U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 6851255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com. FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Friday After 5 is a
summer-long series of FREE outdoor concerts held every Friday on the BB&T Plaza at RiverPark Center overlooking the Ohio River. The main stage bands play on
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calendar the plaza, acoustic entertainment is in the
12:00 for self guided fun and educational
THURSDAY, MAY 30
Courtyard, Gospel on the River performs in
activities with a focus on literacy and school
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
Cannon Hall, and weekly Street Fairs offer
readiness; Daviess County Public Library,
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
activities for everyone. (270) 687-2787 or
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library,
fridayafter5.com.
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
MONDAY, MAY 27 SATURDAY, MAY 25
FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and
STORY LAB Mossy by Jan Brett; Mossy is a
STUDIO SLANT PRESENTS THE WORK OF HANK
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
turtle with a beautiful garden growing on
HOLLAND Art Show by Hank Holland, an
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library,
her shell. Mossy is found by a biologist who
acclaimed Louisiana folk artist. Holland was
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
takes her to live in a museum so others can see how special she is. But Mossy misses
born with Cerebral Palsy, but never let his disability hold him back and taught himself
TUESDAY, MAY 28
her friends. Who will help Mossy get back
to paint. His original art hangs in homes and
U-BOUNCE TODDLER TUESDAY; All must
home to Lilypad Pond? Lab: Making a
businesses in all 50 states, 102 countries,
wear socks; Children 5 and under get in for
terrarium. After the story, participants will
and the private Vatican collection. The show
$5 all night; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or
create a terrarium; 10:30 - 11:45 a.m. Story
is open to the public and refreshments
ubouncepartyhouse.com.
Lab: Mossy; 12:30 - 1:30 p.m. Open Lab: Open Lab: Floating and Sinking Discover
served. 40% of sales the night of the show
what things sink and what things float;
will go to The Wendell Foster Center. For
WEDNESDAY, MAY 29
more information, contact Studio Slant at
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
270-684-3570. www.studioslant.com.
wear socks; $7 per child, children under
History, 122 East Second Street; (270)
2 are free, unless they are the only child,
687.2732 or www.owensboromuseum.org.
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the
adults always free; 5 – 8 p.m.; (270) 685-
library every Saturday morning from 10:00—
1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
Owensboro Museum of Science and
MENOPAUSE THE MUSICAL This hilarious
musical parody staged to classic tunes
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calendar from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s will have you
Cannon Hall, and weekly Street Fairs offer
SEAARK BOATS OWNERS INVITATIONAL
cheering and dancing in the aisles. See
activities for everyone. (270) 687-2787 or
CATFISH TOURNAMENT The 3rd Annual
what millions of women worldwide have
fridayafter5.com.
SeaArk Boats Owners Invitational Catfish Tournament will have fishermen competing
been laughing about for over 10 years!Set in a department store, four women with
SATURDAY, JUNE 1
from all over for the title of 1st place.
seemingly nothing in common but a black
VILLAGE AT THE CREEK ARTS SERIES
Fishermen will also be competing to win
lace bra on sale, come to find they have
“SONGWRITERS IN THE VILLAGE” will feature
the title of Big Fish (awarded to the person
more to share than ever imagined; (270)
local musicians jamming and telling stories
who catches the largest catfish). Bring your
687-2787 or www.riverparkcenter.com.
by the campfire; Pioneer Village, Yellow
family to watch these fishermen bring in
Creek Park; For more information contact
their biggest catches when they weight
Sean Dysinger at 926-1100.
in throughout the day. Children can even
FRIDAY, MAY 31
watch the fish be sent back to the water
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
wear socks; $7 per child, children under
FREE BABYROO A baby care fair for
with our Fish Slide. There will be food,
2 are free, unless they are the only child,
expecting families; 9 a.m. to 12 noon; Lewis
t-shirts for sale, boats to look at and a great
adults always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-
Lane Christian Life Center, 2600 Lewis Lane;
atmosphere. For more information you can
1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
For more information call (270) 685-4589.
visit our website www.seaarkboats.com or visit our Facebook page SeaArk Boats.
FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Friday After 5 is a
OWENSBORO DANCE THEATRE’S 30TH
summer-long series of FREE outdoor
ANNIVERSARY GALA The Owensboro Dance
DOWNTOWN OWENSBORO CRUISE-IN Head
concerts held every Friday on the BB&T
Theatre celebrates their 30th Anniversary
Downtown every 1st Saturday from April
Plaza at RiverPark Center overlooking the
with a Gala at RiverPark Center; 7-10 p.m.;
to October and enjoy classic cars! Free
Ohio River. The main stage bands play on
http://www.owensborodancetheatre.org.
admission and fun for the whole family!
the plaza, acoustic entertainment is in the
FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the
Courtyard, Gospel on the River performs in
library every Saturday morning from 10:00—
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12:00 for self guided fun and educational
THURSDAY, JUNE 6
Plaza at RiverPark Center overlooking the
activities with a focus on literacy and school
FREE STORYTIME WEE READ for ages 2 and
Ohio River. The main stage bands play on
readiness; Daviess County Public Library,
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
the plaza, acoustic entertainment is in the
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library,
Courtyard, Gospel on the River performs in
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
Cannon Hall, and weekly Street Fairs offer activities for everyone. (270) 687-2787 or
MONDAY, JUNE 3
fridayafter5.com.
FREE STORYTIME WEE READ for ages 2 and
BLUEGRASS JAM On the first Thursday of
younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –
each month, head to the Bluegrass Museum
10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library,
to jam with other musicians. Jamming is for
SUNDAY, JUNE 9
2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.
musicians of all levels and begins at 7 p.m.
FREE SUPER SPORTS SUNDAY Kidcentric
For more information, contact the Museum
Sports and Owensboro Parent Magazine
TUESDAY, JUNE 4
at (270) 926-7891 or visit their their website
are hosing an event that’s all about having
KIDS SUMMER FILM Fest Enjoy “Rio” at Malco
at www.bluegrassmuseum.org.
family fun! Activities include punt, pass and kick, pitch, hit and run, golf, tennis, soccer,
Owensboro Cinema! A portion of the proceeds will benefit various children’s
FRIDAY, JUNE 7
volleyball, disc golf, obstacle course and
hospitals throughout the Mid-South. Arrive
U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must
much more. Enjoy children’s sports clinics,
early, seating is limited; 10 a.m.; $2 per ticket;
wear socks; $7 per child, children under
photos with your favorite mascots and a
Malco, 5333 Frederica St.; malco.com.
2 are free, unless they are the only child,
guest speaker; 2 - 6 p.m.; Moreland Park;For
adults always free; 5 – 9 p.m.; (270) 685-
more information visit owensboroparent.
WEDNESDAY, JUNE 5
1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.
com/supersportssunday.
KIDS SUMMER FILM FEST See event
FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Friday After 5 is a
description on Tuesday, June 4.
OP
summer-long series of FREE outdoor concerts held every Friday on the BB&T
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