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june 2012 Publisher/Creative Director Jason Tanner jason@owensboroparent.com Editor Ashley Sorce ashley@owensboroparent.com

from the publisher It’s funny how the small things in life seem to make the biggest impact. Although most memories are attributed to major events, I feel it’s those moments most consider ordinary that define who we are. My life has been shaped by a father who never took for granted the small things. As my baseball coach, my music instructor and my spiritual mentor, my dad poured himself into everyday life. Combining all those moments into what would become a foundation for my life. And now, as I raise my children, it’s my hope that I can learn to make every small thing count. Every morning prayer said with Ella Grace on the way to school. Every wrestling match with Ethan while we laugh until it hurts. And with Lydia Jane, who will soon enter this world to find a dad who is set on pouring everything he has into her life. I hope this issue of Owensboro Parent, filled with ways to enjoy the small things, inspires you to make every moment count. After all, this life is fragile and tomorrow is not promised.

Publisher, Owensboro Parent Magazine jason@owensboroparent.com

Account Executives Jeff Sorce jeff@owensboroparent.com Jodi Tanner jodi@owensboroparent.com Jonathan Tanner jonathan@owensboroparent.com Robert Williams robert@owensboroparent.com Graphic Designer Taylor West taylor@owensboroparent.com Contributors Christina Dalton Dean Ehrenheim Dr. Brian Gannon Cam Matthews Danny May John Moore Jaime Rafferty Christy Ramey Jan Ward Lora Wimsatt Contact Information Owensboro Parent Magazine PO Box 23237 Owensboro, KY 42304 (270) 314-5240 www.owensboroparent.com facebook.com/owensboroparent twitter.com/owensboroparent issuu.com/owensboroparent Cover Photography Jason Tanner Cover Model James, son of Jimbo and Kristen Rhineburger. Advertise Owensboro Parent is a FREE magazine because of community support.

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Jacob Helwig 1 9 9 4 - 2 0 1 2 Owensboro Parent would like to offer the Helwig family our deepest sympathy with the loss of their son, Jacob. Diagnosed at age 16 with Rhabdomyosarcoma, a cancerous tumor that attacks the soft tissue of the body, Jacob was known for his faith, strength and courage.

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june features celebrating fatherhood [8] playing it safe this summer [10] daddy’s girl [12] drastic measures [14] a princess named stefanie [16] sports and parents [20]

[27] take me out to the ballgame [28] romp [30] facebook photos [32] off to the races [34] plan your family’s stay-cation [37] kids eat free

dive into swimming [24]

[38] calendar of events

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[26] discovering disc golf

it’s about having fun [22]

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parent talk Father Knows Best-- We asked our Facebook fans to post the best advice they ever received from their dad. These are a few of our favorites, short and simple, but perfect fatherly advice. Thanks for contributing!

“Patience is finding something to do in the mean time.”

“Check your oil.” (Advice before every road trip from my dad.)

- Lisa Spencer Grigsby

- Michelle Nebel

“Keep your ears open and your mouth shut and you will learn more.”

“Put God first, your family second, and work hard. Your integrity is in your control.”

- Jillianee Roberts Starks

- Alecia Potter Meyer

“Always keep God first in your life and NO CREDIT CARDS!”

“If it was meant to be... Love will always come back. If not, let it fly.”

- Katie Case

- Julie Carrico Hodges

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celebrating fatherhood { by: lora wimsatt }

he day everyone takes Dad out to eat … and he picks up the

anything, no matter what it is, and I will always be there for her,”

check. Or the family holds a cookout … with Dad at the grill.

said one first-time dad.

But that’s the way Dad wants it.

an absent father: “It showed me how I didn’t want to be,” he said

Ask any guy how he felt when his wife first announces the

Another young dad said he learned one positive thing from

news – “We’re going to have a baby” – and chances are, he’ll say his

simply.

emotions were a mix of excitement … and fear.

Men who previously considered their most important job

A lot of men are overwhelmed as they realize they will be

around the house to be taking out the trash once a week now say,

responsible for raising a baby – a child.

“The biggest responsibility of being a father is teaching what’s

right and what’s wrong, and for my child to grow up and know how

For some new fathers, this is an opportunity to relate to their

own dads in a new way. One young father said it this way: “I had

important family is.”

a newfound appreciation for my Dad. I’m sure he felt anxiety

through the years, but as a child, I can say I never felt that or sensed

those ‘parent shoes’ must be,” another man said. “For the first time

that from him. I began to also reflect on the things he taught me,

in my life, a little person was going to look to me for their every

by word and by deed, and then how large a responsibility I felt in

need – what an awesome responsibility this was and is!”

attempting to do the same for my children.”

Dads quickly realize that their children depend on them

For other men, however, the trepidation of impending

for more than food, clothing and shelter – little ones also learn

fatherhood is increased because they didn’t have a close relationship

important “life lessons” from Daddy. That prompted one father

with their own dad, or their father was not involved in their lives.

to reflect: “I want my children to live by the Golden Rule – ‘treat

“Me and my dad didn’t ever have a strong relationship, so one

others as you would like to be treated yourself.’ I make the effort

thing I want to do is make sure my daughter knows she can tell me

to live life this way, and honestly, I’m not as close to perfecting this

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“I began to think about how great my parents were and how big

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as I want to be. But I’d want my children to know this about me in

says the father of two girls. “I constantly remind myself that my

an effort that they would live this out in their own lives as they grow

relationship with my daughters will have a great impact on what

up and mature into adults.”

they look for and expect in a man.”

Being a “Daddy” changes everything. As one man said: “It

Although many men struggle to put their feelings into words,

makes me excited every day I get to wake up and see her little face

the love for their children comes through.

in the morning. Now there is never a day I am down because I know

when I get home, she will be there waiting for her Daddy.”

a first-time Daddy.

One of the best ways a man can take care of his children is by

“My little girl is the best thing that ever happened to me,” said Even though the lifelong adventure of fatherhood might begin

taking care of their mother, as shared by this Daddy: “The one

with uncertainty, many men find guidance in remembering their

thing I want my daughter to know is that her mother is the most

priorities: “I learned that a Dad has to have a heart that seeks to

loving and caring person I have ever met in my life, and that her

please God first in his life. If my kids can say their Dad tries very

father is a lucky person to have married her mom. We have the best

hard to please God, then I’ll consider my role as a Dad a success.

child in the world and we love watching her grow every day.”

All the other ‘Dad qualities’ hinge off of this one.”

There is a special relationship between fathers and sons as the

One Dad said it all when he replied, “I love my children more

dad sets the expectation for what kind of man he wants his son

than life itself and I consider them a gift from God.”

to be. However, those blessed with daughters quickly discover that

Even if that gift involves grilling your own burgers on Father’s Day. . OP

“Daddy’s Little Girl” has taken over his heart.

“I have always believed that a father sets the example for who a

man should be and how he should act, especially toward a woman,”

Lora Wimsatt is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday blessings and adventures of life, especially her family.

Here’s a great father’s day gift idea. Learn more at www.r ompfest.c om.

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playing it safe over

summer break

Ahhhh, the warmer days of summer are finally here! The smell of the grass, the crack of the bat, and the splash of the pool are upon us. But summer fun can

{ b y : d r. b r i a n g a n n o n }

also mean hidden dangers, if parents let down their guard. Here are some simple reminders to keep us and our children injury-free all summer long.

Most summer activities are outside, meaning

under the blazing sun. So sunburn is a real risk, especially when children are outside for such long periods during the heat of the day. Sunscreen should be reapplied every 1-2 hours when outside and active (in other words, sweating), more often if children are in the water. We usually remember this at the beach, but itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s exactly the same sun, even at the baseball diamond or the playground. Hats and shade are also helpful to prevent sunburn, and have the added advantage of being easier on the eyes than full sun. The best time of day for infants is early morning (before 10 a.m.), when the temperature has not reached its peak, and the sun is not as bright.

â&#x20AC;&#x153;To educate a person in mind and not in morals is to educate a menace to society.â&#x20AC;? Theodore Roosevelt

Hydration is always important with

physical activity, but when the outdoor temperature hits triple digits, the fluid requirements go even higher. Believe it or not, the best sports drink occurs in nature, manufactured by God: water.

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some advantages if you need extra salt or sugar for energy, but really

currents and assessing the depth of the water. Always

hydration, pure and simple, is the key. Experts recommend taking a

be sure there is a designated driver for the boat, who

water break every 20 minutes during hot, humid weather, especially

will not be drinking. At least one supervising adult

for athletes involved in vigorous activity (like football or baseball).

must be sober, in the case of emergencies. Most bad

After the first hour of practice, children may benefit more from sports

boating injuries are directly related to impaired drivers.

drinks, since the sugar boosts energy levels. 6

Regardless of the activity planned, an emergency medical kit

3 Swimming lessons are wonderful to help children conquer fear

should be a key part of packing. I would suggest making sure you take

of water, but they should not be used to “drown-proof ” a child.

bug spray, sunscreen, pain relievers, itch relief medicines, bandages for

Children younger than about 7 still need “touch supervision,” with a

minor injuries, and any routine medications, especially an EpiPen (with

responsible adult within arm’s distance at all times.

a current expiration date!) for any serious allergic reactions to foods or

Pools also should have locked gates, so children

insect bites. Topical antibiotic ointment is helpful for cuts and scrapes,

cannot gain access to them without the help and

and topical hydrocortisone is available without a prescription to relieve

supervision of an adult (This includes inflatable

itching from bug bites or poison ivy. Take a pair of tweezers for tick

pools, which present their own set of dangers.)

removal if going camping or to a wooded area. And if carsickness is an issue, don’t forget the antinausea medicine for any car

If visiting a beach on vacation, please note the flags that show

ride longer than an hour or so. Avoiding milk can

how safe the water is on a given day. Children should NEVER be in

prevent some of the unpleasantness of cleaning car

the water when the red flags are out, because of the danger of choppy

seats during the vacation.

seas, and potential riptides.

Riptides are extremely

dangerous waves, occurring when the water at the bottom is pulling out to sea even though the water on top appears to be calm or going toward shore. Every year dozens of people (often adults) drown at beaches prone to riptides, many of which have no lifeguards. If faced with a riptide, where you feel yourself being pulled away from shore by the undercurrent, try to float to the surface and swim parallel to shore

Outdoor fun in the summer is loads of fun, whether traveling long distances or playing at home. A few basic precautions can help families avoid an unplanned trip to the hospital or clinic, which may tarnish your cherished memories.

until the water is calmer. NEVER FIGHT AGAINST A RIPTIDE; YOU WILL LOSE EVERY TIME!

For more information visit the American Academy of Pediatrics online: http://www.aap.org/

Waterskiing and other boating activities can be lots of fun

for older children and teenagers, but they still require careful supervision. Always remember life jackets, even for strong swimmers,

Dr Gannon is a seasoned traveler with children, having cleaned lots of car seats and gone through dozens of tubes of sunscreen the past few years.

because rivers and lakes are notoriously unpredictable when it comes to

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daddy’s girl In the spring of 2012 Amy Arnold Bellamy became a published author, along with her Daddy, at the release of “their” book, “Kentucky Family.” Photos by Jason Tanner

{ by:

jaime rafferty}

ife changed for Amy Arnold Bellamy and family in spring

met with her own self-doubt. As her biggest fan, Pete urged that

of 2010.

with God all things are possible.

Amy’s father, Pete passed away suddenly from a heart attack

With his passing, Amy realized both of their dreams. God

during a tennis match with friends.

gave her clarity as she would finally write that book that once

seemed only a dream.

Pete left behind his wife Gail and two grown children, Russ

and Amy, Amy’s husband, Jason, and precious granddaughter

Amy began her “homework” compiling stories while also

Savannah.

reaffirming a commitment to faith, family and fun that her dad

Amy was “Daddy’s girl” and felt growing up in the Pete

instilled. With that in mind, a theme resonated she couldn’t

Arnold home was special. In fact, she boasts, “It was fun to be

overlook-- Pete was just a good ole’ boy that loved the Lord,

his daughter!”

his family and life. It may not be fancy, but it’s funny and faith

filled.

Pete worked hard to be a good Dad, but also played hard

with his children. He often said, “Russ and Amy, you are the

best toys I’ve ever had.”

want know him, thanks to his daughter.

Amy can’t deny the characteristics she and Pete shared. Both

In the spring of 2012 Amy Arnold Bellamy became a

outgoing and talkative, making their bond more iron clad. Both

published author, along with her Daddy, at the release of “their”

loved music, especially playing their instruments together. Both

book, “Kentucky Family.”

had an affinity for reading and writing, Amy became a middle

school language arts teacher while Pete wrote songs and short

moments later Amy provides his humorous retelling of boyhood

stories.

antics with his brothers like flying a paper airplane, on fire, into

a pile of clothes, while Mom wasn’t home.

Writing a book was on Amy’s “bucket list,” a list compiled

This lives on in those who knew Pete and now those who

Readers may shed a tear recounting Pete’s sudden death, but

at her dad’s encouragement. Pete wanted his girl to pursue her

Amy shares, how moments before walking the aisle to be

dreams; none were out of reach, so her list was long. He would

married, her bridesmaids have a giggling fit. Worried she had

affectionately tell her to “get busy.”

something out of place that could cause embarrassment, she

inquires about their laughter, only to turn and see her daddy in

Amy shared her authoring aspirations with her Dad but was

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a clown nose, lovingly reminding her that she told him his job for

readers

the

the day was to make sure there were no tears. He had done his job!

opportunity

Even in death God is using Pete’s gifts to provide laughter.

to know the

As funny as he was, Pete was serious about raising children

daddy

who

who loved the Lord and respect others. Being raised by a single

encouraged

mother helped him become a better husband and father. He

her, guided her

wasn’t too prideful to admit he didn’t have all the answers.

and took time to

show her how to live

Amy recalled a time in teen angst she behaved badly and

Pete had to address the situation. In broken honesty he told his

a faith-filled yet fun life

daughter, “I don’t have a dad – sometimes I don’t know what I’m

in marriage and parenthood.

doing and you’ve got to help me out.”

It’s this vulnerability provided by Amy (and Pete) that gives

perfect, but Pete tried to give the family nothing but his best, a

a glimpse into the life of a real family. By the last page, every

goal his daughter also has now. Amy would agree, it was close

person may wish they too would have grown up an Arnold.

enough to perfect for her because she learned about what really

matters in life from being her Daddy’s girl!

Feelings surrounding her father’s passing are still “fresh” for

Life growing up as an Arnold wasn’t

Amy, but being raised by him was an honor, and she is thankful

for the time he was in her life.

please contact Amy at amybellamy31@bellsouth.net or at

www.amazon.com.

They never left anything unsaid, including “I love you.” Her

For more information about “Kentucky Family,”

book is just another “I love you” to her parents, brother, her husband and daughter.

Pete kept his love for God, his wife and children alive through

the memories he left in their hearts and on paper. Amy gives

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Jaime Rafferty enjoys writing, as a hobby. She lives is Owensboro with her husband, Paul and their two children.

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drastic times call for drastic measures { by: christina dalton,

mssw, csw

}

There are times when a parent may need to take drastic measures. By drastic, I don’t mean shooting your child’s laptop full of bullets or publicly humiliating them on a street corner. I recently watched a program highlighting parenting gone too far and the events I described are real. As I watched each story, I thought to myself-it doesn’t have to be this difficult, does it? Often times kids act out because they simply can. They don’t respect parental authority. They may not believe the warning that you’ve given out for the hundredth time and why should they?!

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This is the story of a family--Mom,

along the way. The biggest problem

Dad and their three boys (all of

that these parents faced was fighting

elementary age)--that took drastic

in the car. Imagine, if you will, three

measures to regain their credibility.

boys arguing, fighting and bickering

These parents took control back and

on the way to each and every place

in return gained enormous respect

you went. Just the thought sends a

that may have been lost somewhere

little shiver down my spine. This

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particular family had a trip to the “Happiest Place on Earth” rapidly approaching. Luckily for them, they were taking my parenting class and at the time we were covering something called, Strategic Training Sessions. To summarize a training session, you pick an issue that is a huge problem for you and devise a detailed plan to eradicate it, planning for every twist and turn that may happen.

So….back to my family. They decided to do a “fake” trip to

Disney before the real one, and fingers crossed, the boys would argue and Dad would turn the vehicle around and rip Disney from their tiny, little fingers. This is exactly what took place, suitcases were packed, loaded in the car and they headed for Disney on a lovely Saturday morning. Not a mere 20-30 minutes into the trip the fighting began and Dad said, “I will turn this car around if you guys don’t quit fighting!” How many times had they heard that before?! About 10 minutes later, Dad gets off on an exit ramp, turns around and gets back on the interstate, only this time headed in the opposite direction of Disney. He never spoke a word. These were the words they heard coming from the backseat, “We’re so SORRY! We’ll never fight again! Dad! Mom! We promise!!!! [insert sobbing and loud wailing] Pleeeeeaaaasssseeeee……..”

Dad told the class that he didn’t know what he would have

done if they had actually behaved that day! Back in the car, Dad wasn’t angry. He didn’t raise his voice. He didn’t even have to explain why he had turned around. They knew! Dad told them when they returned home that hopefully they would make better choices next time and maybe they could try again next year. Just imagine being an 8- or 9-year-old thinking that you are headed to Disney World and because of YOUR bad behavior it’s ruined. No Mickey. No Minnie. Space Mountain, buh-bye! The devastation would run deep and hurt badly. Turns out that the boys ended up calling their Dad’s boss and asked if their Dad could please have more vacation time because they had ruined their trip. The end of the story is that Dad, Mom and the three boys went to Disney World two weeks later, on the original planned date and I quote, “It was the best vacation we’ve ever been on as a family and no one argued!”

Moral of the story: When Dad says he will turn the car

around…HE WILL!

Christina Dalton, MSSW, CSW is the Family Resource Center Coordinator for Daviess County Public Schools. www.OwensboroParent.com

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a princess named

stefanie Luke and Cam Matthews lost their daughter, Stefanie, just 26 years old, on April 21, 2012.

She was no ordinary child, touching the lives of anyone she encountered. Owensboro Parent was happy to welcome Cam as a special writer for this month’s issue. This is Stefanie’s story, told by a proud mother, forever changed by the life and positive spirit of her daughter.

Photo by True Reflections Photography

{ by: cam matthews }

nce upon a time there was a princess named Stefanie who was

knowing it, the adventure had begun. Stefanie had a bone marrow

born a beautiful 6-pound, 15-ounce bundle of joy. Initially, she

transplant at 21 months with the donor being her dad, who actually

had no problems, or so it seemed. We wouldn’t discover her limitations

matched her almost perfectly, the first of many miracles for her. By

until she was 15 months old, when she developed hydrocephalus,

the first anniversary of her bone marrow transplant, the hydrocephalic

fluid on the brain that has only a few causes. In Stefanie’s case, the

shunt was removed.

cause was Hurler’s Syndrome, an inherited metabolic disorder and the

kindergarten, she had her first corneal transplant for the clouding of

prognosis was very bleak. No cure. Hurler’s also comes with a variety

the corneas. She wore a cute pink eye patch to school to protect it from

of other issues, including diminutive stature, mental retardation, joint

injury or infection. The next year the other eye was repaired. More

stiffness and bone malformation, and clouding of the corneas. But

miracles.

hope arrived one afternoon when she was seen by a geneticist at the

health department. The same doctor had mentioned the possibility

me, she was perfect. But most of all she found her own way around every

of a bone marrow transplant when he made the initial diagnosis, and

single obstacle. Stefanie hardly ever complained, but some times her

I asked again about it. He felt it wouldn’t even be a possibility for her

shortness bothered her. I remember praying with her one night when

as she had no living siblings. (Her only brother had died of pneumonia

she asked God to just make her medium. She didn’t have to be large.

as an infant.) A nurse who overheard the conversation gave me the

But Stefanie’s power came across best in a miniature body. I don’t know

number of another mother who knew about bone marrow transplants

how many times Luke and I were told that she had us wrapped around

and might be able to connect us with a doctor.

her little fingers. But I didn’t care; nothing she asked of us was ever

Back at home that afternoon I called the number the nurse had

hard. We weren’t the only ones captivated by her. Her smile and laugh

given me and told our story to a doctor who would listen, and without

were contagious. She could and would talk to almost everyone. Once

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Four years later right before she started

Her limitations were always in the eyes of others. To her dad and

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she had met you, she never forgot you. Tell her your birthday once and

thoughtful by her example. She has kept the Matthews clan connected

it was saved permanently. Everyone was equal in Stefanie’s eyes, which

to each other with frequent phone call updates as to what is going on

allowed her to sit in the lap of a principal (without asking first), play

with each family. We’ve always joked that if you didn’t want particular

with the ears of a superintendent at a ballgame, hug the custodians

news to circulate, you’d best not let Stefanie know because it would be

every day, buddy up to the lunch ladies, console teachers through hard

national news in moments.

times, make friends with a fellow students of all walks, ignore that

some folks were giants compared to her, and in general make everyone

was part princess, part spunky fairy, part child, part wise old woman.

who ever met her even once fall in love with her. She gave love freely

She dated the passage of the year by how close to “Disney Time” it was.

and was rewarded many times over. Every aunt and uncle and cousin

She once told us that the best part of Disney was that we three were

was her “favorite.” One was the favorite in Utica, another Handyville,

together all the time, focused on each other and nothing else. No work

yet another in Glasgow, or Owensboro, or Orlando, or Birmingham.

or household chores or other obligations to distract us from her. And we

She was never the diplomat, so whoever was with her at the time was

loved that, too. After one trip, we made her room and bathroom over,

her favorite. Thank goodness Luke and I were with her all the time,

Stefanie loved everything Disney, but especially Tinker Bell. She

so we had permanent favorite status. As my sister-

She was totally in awe of the characters at the parks,

in-law so aptly said, “To know Stefanie was to love

kissing their noses, cautioning them about certain

Stefanie.”

behaviors, wishing them happy birthday, tickling

Stefanie was never afraid to let anyone know

their bellies, dancing with them, and basically,

what she needed or wanted, and we’re pretty sure

loving on them. She had favorite restaurants, too:

she always got it. But she was neither greedy nor

Chef Mickeys, Garden Grill, and The Crystal Palace

selfish, often giving away stuff.

Stefanie once

– though food took second place to the characters.

proclaimed that shopping was her life, but she was

Her favorite park was Magic Kingdom with it’s a

one of the most generous people I have ever known.

small world and Haunted Mansion as her favorite

She was always willing to share her stuff because

rides.

truthfully people were her life. She loved attention

and she loved to give attention. Stefanie had a deal

“sweetheart,” or any other substitute for her name.

with her Papaw that if she gave him a hug she’d

She would declare she was “Stefanie.” In fact, at

always find a dollar in his pocket. She shared this

Kosair Children’s Hospital recently the doctors

She did NOT like to be called “honey,”

little game with several uncles and great uncles and before we knew it,

told her that she was a puzzle. She was 26, which meant she was an

she was reaping dollars everywhere she went. When one great uncle

adult. Trust me, she made sure everyone understood that despite her

died, everyone in his family made up for his absence and the missing

diminutive size she was an adult. But the doctors stated that she was

dollar. One of Stefanie’s hobbies was making coasters with Perler

also tiny like a child. So they asked her to tell them what she felt she

beads, many of which she would design especially as a gift for someone.

was-- a child or an adult. Her response was, “I’m Stefanie.” And that

She was prolific, making 10 or so any given week. Eventually, we had

summed her up perfectly.

a surplus of these, so I purchased a plastic storage box to keep them in.

Whenever she needed to give a gift, she would sort through that box

marrow transplant, amazed at how well she had been all those years.

until she found the exact right one. Her first year at Apollo, Luke and

She hardly ever caught anything worse that a little cold. Then in

I deposited enough money in her lunch account for a month, but two

February she had to undergo dental surgery to repair several teeth with

weeks later, I was told she needed more funds. When I asked where all

cavities. Unfortunately, when the dentist got in there, he discovered

the money had gone, I was told she was getting breakfast each day, too.

that because her teeth had very short roots, seven teeth had to be pulled.

That afternoon in the car, I asked her why she was getting breakfast

He was also amazed that she had a monster abscess on one tooth that

at school when she refused to eat at home. (She was never much on

would have had most adults groaning in excruciating pain. We knew

breakfast.) Stefanie informed me that she was buying breakfast for

Stefanie had a high tolerance for pain, acting both as her enemy and

some of the special needs kids in her class that wanted it. I told her

her friend. Her little body did not alert her (or her Mom and Dad) that

we probably couldn’t afford to keep doing that, but I also told her

it had had big problems going on for some time. She seemed to recover

that I loved her giving spirit. I learned to be much more giving and

well at first as the gums healed up, eating her favorite foods-- chicken

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Last November we celebrated her 24th anniversary of her bone

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caring for Stefanie has always been teamwork for us. We three entered

eat a tiny meal took an hour. As she began to lose weight, we took her

the hospital on Monday, April 9, praying that the cancer would be

in to see the doctor. Except for the failure to eat, Stefanie seemed fine.

treatable, and Stefanie even seemed a bit perkier that morning. The

Then one day her little tummy, which was always a little chubby due

next three days were spent enduring one test after another with the

to the Hurler’s, ballooned out. An emergency room visit showed some

prognosis looking bleaker with each one. Through it all, Stefanie kept

issues in her liver. Before we knew it, Stefanie and I were in the back of

that incredibly positive attitude that had characterized her all her life.

an ambulance headed to Louisville with Luke following behind in our

When doctors, nurses, or visitors asked how she was doing, she said,

car. Five days later her stomach was still very swollen, a colonoscopy

“Okay” or “Fine.” One time she answered, “I don’t know,” and my

had uncovered a cancerous polyp (which they felt had been contained),

heart ached. She was a little warrior, attempting without complaint to

and we were joyfully headed back home with a long list of discharge

do whatever we or the doctors were asking of her in order to get better.

orders for us and her primary care physician.

But none of us realized the day we entered the hospital that we’d only

Over Spring Break, she and I spent our time either watching Disney

have two more weeks together. The worst news came on Thursday after

movies or running to various labs for one test after another. On Friday,

the results of a CT scan of Stefanie’s liver showed what one doctor

April 6, her doctor called to tell me the test results. The CAE test for

called a nightmare. Stage 4 metastatic cancer throughout her abdomen,

cancer cells is at 0.0 – 3.0 normally, but Stefanie’s was over 700. The

including her liver, colon, and ovaries with an unknown origin. I sat

doctor and I discussed when to admit her as it was Easter weekend.

at a nurse’s station listening over the phone as the doctor continued

Since he felt nothing significant would be done until Monday, we made

his gruesome description and praying that in spite of all I was hearing

the decision to wait until Monday to admit her, allowing her and us to

that God would perform one more miracle for a little girl who was

enjoy time at home with more Disney movies. When I turned to tell

the epitome of all God wants of each of us. The process of caring for

her what the doctor had said, I began to cry and my sweet little girl

Stefanie sped up at this point. She was scheduled for surgery early the

said, “This is a shock to you, Mom.” As always she was more worried

next morning, but until the surgeon opened her up we had no idea of

about me than herself. I called Luke who immediately came home as

how extensive the procedure would be. The fluid on her belly that had

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discover prompted our concern was drained and the surgeon removed a tumor

In the afternoon, she announced she wanted to sit on my lap, and I

on her colon (ultimately the origin of her cancer) and re-sectioned it

was so ready to hold her again. Most moms donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t get the opportunity

so that she did not have to have a colostomy. He also removed one

to hold their adult kids in their laps, but it is still one of my fondest

cancerous ovary, though nothing could be done for the liver. We felt

memories of her. Late in the evening just as a blood transfusion was

hope and our goal became to get her to Disney World one more time.

almost complete, Stefanie became very agitated and uncomfortable;

The very next day, Friday the 13th, Luke and I learned that Stefanieâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s

her speech slurred and her blood oxygen levels plummeted. Luke and

cancer had spread into the connective tissue, which is worse than in the

I were holding her hands, reminding her over and over that we loved

liver, and in someone as small as she was, basically untreatable. But

and would always love her. Within a few short minutes, she was gone.

the hope was still there that weâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d get her out of the hospital and off to

No fear, no pain. Except for all of us left behind whose lives she had

Orlando. At the time she was in CCU for close monitoring, but doing

forever changed.

very well after major surgery. Her only complaint at that moment was

the catheter. She wanted it out. In fact, when she learned that it would

day. She has taught me that for all my organized lists, nothing is more

come out Friday morning, she woke me at midnight to let me know

important than people. She treasured every day and helped me see

it was Friday, and it needed to come out now. She was remarkable.

beauty, fun, and happiness in so many little things. Her impact on

By Saturday we were back upstairs, she was walking, talking, watching

people is difficult to explain; however, all of us long to be cared about,

movies, playing with stickers, and even eating a little. Stefanie was

and Stefanie did just that for everyone she met. In the days since, we

more herself than she had been in a month. And the days progressed

have heard so many Stefanie stories, and each resounds with her love

pretty much in that fashion with us learning we might get to go home

and joy for life. Our home was never quiet when she was there; instead,

Sunday or Monday.

it was a warm place full of laughter, hugs, and talk. Our home is quieter

now, but the overwhelming warmth of so many Stefanie memories

Saturday, April 21 began well with Stefanie taking a walk, doing

physical therapy for her legs, and drinking her favorite, Dr. Pepper.

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Though I am a school teacher, Stefanie was my teacher every single

remains.

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sports

and why parents do what they do

{ by: john moore }

ver wonder if all the travels, hotels, team meals, uniforms, and

seems to come and go at times. Regardless, I don’t know where I

other sacrifices we make for our kids so they can play sports

would be if I did not have my experience from sports to draw from.

are really worth it? How about all the time away from family?

Again, my mother set the example. How many times do you not

Summer vacations no longer feel like vacations, and those family

feel like getting out and taking your child to practice or missing

dinners and good, old fashion, last minute get-togethers don’t seem

a game because of a social event so they can play in a game?

to come around as often.

Somehow you find the will power to get up and do it.

So why do we do it? It is often said that our kids learn much

Discipline includes will power, hard work, and persistence. In

more from our actions than our words. All these actions described

the competitive real world we all live in, these traits are almost

above are teaching two very good lessons, sacrifice and discipline.

a must. Your child is learning this first hand. There will be

There were countless hours of transporting me to practice, not just

plenty of days they will not feel like playing, maybe even seasons.

local games, but often drives to other states even before the sun

Regardless, if they truly want to be the best they can be, they will

came out. Uniforms always washed, food packed, and all the while

need discipline to overcome these negative forces and continue to

trying to encourage me to give my best effort. I’ll admit it wasn’t

work towards their ultimate goals.

until later in life when I started running my own kids around that

I realized all the sacrifices my mother had made.

time you feel a little tired or start looking for reasons to encourage

But it is this same sacrifice that when your child becomes an

your child not to participate, remember it may not be until years

adult they will need to draw from to manage their lives. Whether it

later that all the rewards are reaped. Dig deep, be willing to sacrifice

is at home, advancing their educations, or even their careers, there

a little more, and know the discipline you are demonstrating and

will be plenty of times they will need to make sacrifices, and your

they are living can have a positive impact on their lives for years to

example will be living proof. We can only hope they remember,

come. You are building a base that your child can draw on, all the

but again that’s what makes this an even greater sacrifice!

while getting to enjoy watching their development first hand.

Sports really do teach us many important life lessons. The next

Even more important than the sacrifice we demonstrate may

be the discipline we are encouraging. Discipline is the ability to motivate oneself in spite of negative forces or ideas. We can all use more discipline in our lives, and I will be the first to admit, mine

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There are thousands of families waiting anxiously for that special person to make a sacrifice in order to save a life. You can explore for yourself at www.donatelife.net andwww.organdonor.gov

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advice from an

ordinary dad

it’s about

{ by: dean ehrenheim }

having fun

outh sports can evoke many images…good and bad. I

that T-ball was not about baseball. T-ball is backyard fun for kids

remember an “Aha!” moment that reminded me about the

and parents. Of course it should teach the fundamentals of baseball

true nature of sports. My second son was playing center field on his

(hitting, catching, running), but for kids it’s not about winning or

first T-ball team. He had his game face on. He anxiously bounced

losing, it’s about having fun! After seeing this episode, I realized

back and forth from one foot to the other, just waiting for the kid on

what a challenge these parent coach volunteers had in coaching

the other team to whack one out his way.

T-ball. It was like herding cats.

Then it happened. The ball was hit and bounced out near the

Coaching your child in T-ball has its own set of challenges and

unmanned pitching mound (remember, this was T-ball). The ball

is very different from coaching your children in more sophisticated

dribbled out past second base into center field. Trevor snatched

levels of athletics.

up the ball and readied his throw. But he stopped in mid-swing.

Without moving his lips, his body language shouted, “What the

swimming. I enjoyed having that shared experience and felt I could

heck?” Then I looked at his target. Why was anyone surprised… the

help them reach their potential. But I was not their main coach and

first baseman was chasing a butterfly and oblivious to any baseball

felt awkward sharing too much information with them at meets

game being played. The runner passed by first without a challenge.

and practices. They were good about dad helping out, but as my

Then Trevor looked to his next mark, second base. There sat his

little T-ball outfielder Trevor, now 21, said to me the other day, “I

second base players, twin girls scooping up dry dirt in their hands

don’t know that I was always ready to hear what you had to say back

and making perfectly shaped pyramids. Runner rounded second.

then.” And it was true, not bad nor good, just true.

By this time, Trevor, clever 4-year old that he was, saw the reality of

the situation and began running after the hitter, arm stretched out,

that great experience sports can create.

ball in glove, racing to make the tag. By this time it was too late and

the hitter gained, what I am sure, was his first infield home run.

Tony Rowe of Daviess County High School. He coached both of

Frustrated beyond belief, Trevor dropped the ball, slapped his leg

his boys at County. Not only was he “dad,” he was a productive

with his glove and walked back to center field pushing his chin into

coach, having 10 Kentucky State Championships and numerous

his chest and shaking his head the whole way.

individual state champions.

It couldn’t have been scripted any funnier. I learned that day

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I was able to help coach my two oldest sons in high school

It is important to determine if coaching your child will build One parent coach success story is track and cross country coach

Mark Rowe is currently following in dad’s footsteps and has www.OwensboroParent.com

coached track and cross country at Owensboro High School since

them differently

2010.

because

didn’t make their

“I liked running for my dad. It was an exciting time and I didn’t

they

know any other way,” Mark said. “I knew if I ran I would run for

bed; don’t focus on

him. My best memories are cross country and track meets growing

what happened in the

up.”

‘parent world’ when you

are coaching.

Coaching when things are going great is easy. But when your

child athlete hits an athletic plateau, things could be strained.

“I know it had to have been tough at times for my dad,” Mark

said. “Especially my senior year; I didn’t run as strong as I had

Advice for those ready to step into the parent-coach role.

Talk Openly wit h Your Child

Treat your child like an athlete. But also explain

hoped. But we both worked through it together.”

that there may be times when the roles between parent and coach

Coach Rowe says, “I tried not to put too much pressure on my

become blurred. Allow your child to respectfully share when they

boys. I tried to be dad at home and not talk too much about running

believe that is happening. As coach, you have an opportunity to

there.”

watch and shape your child like no other time, but creating good

Second son Matt, now coaching with his father at Daviess

communication is essential to benefit from this opportunity.

County, mirrored the comments from brother Mark, but added, “On those times when you just think your Dad (coach) is being too hard on you because you are his kid, you just have to learn to brush

Establish Rules of Conduct

Part of communication is establishing some clear expectations.

that off-- I mean don’t take it personally.”

One coach set a rule that any parent who yelled at an umpire would

Remember, it’s their memory and experience you are trying to

get their kid benched. That meant, even as coach, he couldn’t yell

shape. For those ready to step into the parent coach role, here is

at the umpire because he didn’t want to bench his own son. In

some ordinary advice to consider:

addition, make sure you set those same clear rules of conduct for

Separate the Parent from the Coach

Don’t bring the game or practice home. Make sure when you leave the field, pool, court or track you take some time to shift gears into parent mode.

Treat Your Child Fairly

Parents know more about their own kids than they do other kids. Don’t use that against them. Allow them to be kids and act like kids. Even though your expectations may not be unreasonable, you can’t expect perfection all of the time. The natural tendency may be to push them harder because of that special insight. Don’t treat

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your child and for you.

Keep First Things First

Remember your primary role is parent. Don’t let anything interfere with that. Keep in mind that sports are an experience for the kids and they should enjoy that experience. If you can coach and help create that positive experience-- all the better. These memories, good or bad, will be for a lifetime.

jor life. Embrace the moments you share with your dad.” Dean Ehrenheim, with his wife Jeanette, is raising four great kids. He regularly writes about his experiences in parenting, coaching and wellness. His email is dmeymca@gmail.com.

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dive in to

Many children will watch the Olympics and get inspired to give competitive swimming a try.

swimming { by: jan ward }

he fittest and fastest swimmers in the world will soon be on

swimming scholarship--at Transylvania University. These were

world view in the 2012 Summer Olympics. Many children

four of the best years of my life. I learned what it was truly like to

will watch the Olympics and get inspired to give competitive

be part of a team, how hard work and dedication could really pay

swimming a try, with gold medal stars in their eyes.

off. Literally, sometimes.

While the reality is that very few of them will ever realize

Not only was swimming my primary sport for most of my life,

that dream, that doesn’t mean they shouldn’t give competitive

it was also my primary source of income. I started teaching lessons

swimming a try. My favorite book as a child was “The Olympic

at age 13, lifeguarding at age 14, and at 18, I served as head coach of

Dream.” I can’t even find a copy now, but when I was 9, 10, and 11,

the local club team I had swum for all my life. I started a master’s

I read this book over and over until it fell apart. I was nationally

swim team (yes, for “old” people) while attending occupational

ranked as a 10-year-old (in the top 10 in a few events). Yet, I am

therapy school in Nashville. I ended up coaching a summer club

not sitting here today writing about my time in the Olympics.

team as well.

That dream was never realized. So why would anyone choose

competitive swimming as a sport?

water. After college, I continued with swimming by competing in

A Life Shaped by Swimming

When I look back over my lifetime, I would not be the person

I have continued to find ways to be around the pool or open

triathlons. I was a little unusual because most triathletes start with running or biking and then pick up swimming. So I often coached triathletes on swimming, their weakest link.

I am today if it hadn’t been for competitive swimming. I took

lessons at age 3, and at 5, joined the local USS swimming team, the

1997 and 1998. Many people thought this was an impossible feat,

Ashland Aquabears. I started swimming for the Paul Blazer Varsity

but swimming prepared me by showing me that working hard and

High School team in 3rd grade, which led to receiving 10 varsity

dedicating myself to an end goal, anything was possible.

letters. The rules were a little different back then!

As I was beginning my career in Occupational Therapy, I

just couldn’t stay away from the water. Not long after moving to

After high school, I continued my swimming career--with a

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I qualified for the Hawaiian Ironman World Championships in

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Owensboro to pursue my career as an occupational therapist, I got the opportunity to be an assistant coach for the local USA swim team, the Owensboro Marlins. Then, as fate would have it, the Aquatics Manager position opened up at the OMHS Healthpark, and with that job, the position as the assistant coach would continue!

Why NO T Swimming? I have a hard time seeing why most kids don’t choose swimming over other sports. Physicians and physical therapists praise swimming as one of the best ways to stay in shape.

Swimming • works most muscles in your body all in the same workout due to water resistance, promoting a toned, strong body; • creates a strong body “core,” because the hips, back and

abdominal muscles must work together to create effective and efficient swimming; • promotes greater lung capacity and a consistent intake of oxygen since both aerobic and anaerobic systems are worked; and • boasts one of the lowest injury rates of all sports!

The Best of Team and Individual Sports

One great aspects of competitive swimming is that everyone on

the team gets to participate! It is a team sport in which individuals compete. Most USA swim meets offer 12-15 events per age group, so everyone can compete and find something at which they are successful.

Children can begin with lessons, transition to summer league,

join a year round club team, compete in high school and even continue their career through college. It is sport that rewards hard work and dedication unlike any other.

The efficiency of swimming doesn’t come easily to most. To be

exceptional, you have to put in the time. Not everyone will make the Olympic Team, and that’s true of any sport. But swimming is one sport where you and only you are responsible for your individual success. And, by dedicating your life to swimming, you never know what awaits you later in life!

Jan Ward is the Aquatics Manager at the OMHS HealthPark and the Assistant Coach of the Owensboro Marlins. www.OwensboroParent.com

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How To P lay

Here’s how it works: it’s basically golf with Frisbees. Instead of a flag in a hole on the green, you have a basket that catches the disc when you get close enough to “putt.” Just like in regular golf, each basket has a par depending on the length and level of difficulty. Instead of “teeing off,” each basket has a starting “box” that gives you a few steps to wind up and throw. The strategy comes in how you throw. The two most common methods are the side-arm-throw or the across-the-body-throw. Serious disc golfers have fancy bags full of discs for certain shots: drivers, putters, short range, long range, discs that curve left, discs that curve right, etc. But I’m a weird one: I have two discs that I really like and that’s all I ever use. It may not sound like all that much fun just throwing a disc, chasing it, and then throwing it again. But I’m telling you, once you see that first nice throw fly perfectly and land right where you aimed it, you’re hooked!

Where to P lay

The two most popular courses in Owensboro are at Panther Creek Park (South entrance) and Yellow Creek Park (back by the trails), but you can also find some baskets strewn across campus at KWC. Branching out a little further, Vastwood

discovering

disc golf

Park in Hancock County has a really nice course and there’s also a course over at Mesker Park in Evansville. Once you’ve mastered the local courses, Bowling Green has seven courses or something ridiculous like that.

Getting Started

The most important thing about disc golf is you can’t use regular Frisbees. Disc golf discs are designed with a special material

{ by: danny may }

and weighted so they fly low and straight or curve a certain direction. You can buy discs at Legends or order them online. Innova and DiscKraft are two of the most popular brands and

I won’t lie-- I probably haven’t thrown my discs

prices start around $12 and up, depending on brand and range.

since our kids were born. But there was a time when

disc because they’re even more difficult to find in the weeds or

Word to the wise: never buy a green, brown, or camouflage woods. My friend made that mistake. Trust me, you’ll save time

I played twice a week or more. And I can’t wait until our boys are old enough to play with me. Because that’s the thing-- anyone can play disc golf! And after you have your discs it’s free to play.

and frustration buying really bright discs. That is until I can patent my next million dollar idea: discs with a built in locator that whistles back when you clap for it. (Man, I’m a genius!) So get out there and discover disc golf! Maybe I’ll see you on the course this summer.

Danny May is a husband, father of two boys (4 and 2), and works at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church.

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take me out to the ballgame { by: danny may }

The “Great American Pastime” is in full swing. You can always drive to St. Louis or Cincinnati for some major league action, but if you’re just looking for some good ole fashioned baseball, then you have to look no further than Chautauqua Park to “root, root, root for the home team.”

The Owensboro Oilers are ready to start their 40-game season

You could also travel just down the Natcher Parkway, to Bowling

competing against four other teams in the Ohio Valley Summer

Green. Playing off the Corvette claim to fame, the Bowling

Collegiate League (OVL for short). Oilers president Charlie

Green Hotrods have a new stadium (built in 2009) and lots of

Pierce said the Oilers recently moved to Chautauqua for

promotions to fill the stands, including fireworks every Saturday

several reasons: the lighting is better for night games, there’s

night home game. Recent guest celebrities include “Mr. Belding”

more parking and there are better bathroom facilities. The

from Saved by the Bell for teacher appreciation night and 80s

Oilers definitely have a hometown feel, featuring several local

wrestling star “Sergeant Slaughter” for military appreciation

graduated high school and college players. And here’s the best

night. One of my favorites is bark at the park night, where you

news: general admission tickets are $5, 55+ are $4, and kids

can bring your pets along. Christian Family Radio WCVK also

12 and under are free! Season tickets start at $40 and this year

sponsors Faith and Family nights a couple times a season, which

they’ve started a brand new family season pass, which gets your

include a concert. The Hotrods are a class A minor league team

whole family into to every home game for just $75! You can check

and they are actually the farm team for the Tampa Bay Rays.

the schedule at www.owensborooilers.com or call Charlie Pierce

Tickets start at $7. Check www.bghotrods.com or call (270) 901-

at 929-6203.

2121 for more details.

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community

romp

bluegrass roots & branches festival

{ by: ashley sorce }

he last weekend of June, Bluegrass music will take over

the whole weekend event.

Owensboro at the 9th annual ROMP: Bluegrass Roots &

“This is a good family-friendly event,” Clark said.

Branches Festival.

The Kentucky All-Stars is a featured, kid-centered event. The

`The festival, unique to the Owensboro community, will feature

concept is simple, the museum hopes to grow the biggest Bluegrass

a “mesh of traditional Bluegrass Americana and country music,”

band on Earth, holding Saturday lessons for several months! The

said Danny Clark, International Bluegrass Museum Marketing

group, consisting mainly of children, not only have great fun

Director.

playing great music together, forming

Last year ROMP introduced a new,

family bands and youth bands, but

more modern line-up, according to Clark,

also aim to preserve our bluegrass

which tapped into a larger fan base,

music, indigenous to the state.

introducing new people to Bluegrass

music. Clark says that a third of the

doubled since last year. During the

ROMP audience will be from out of state

festival, 200 to 300 young musicians

and expects over 12,000 people to come out

will perform.

to Yellow Creek Park for music and a full

pallet of activities.

free and a new discount for high

The Kentucky All-stars have

Kids age 14 and under are

Clark says around 30 craft vendors will set up shop at Yellow

school students was implemented this year.

Creek for the festival, selling handmade, quality items, including

crafts made from recycled goods.

primary fundraiser. All money from the festival directly funds the

This year, ROMP will debut numerous organized children’s

museum.

The International Bluegrass Museum produces ROMP as a

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THURSDAY

• 7:20 Lonesome River Band

• 5:00 Snap Jackson and the Knock on Wood Players

• 8:40 The Deadly Gentlemen

• 6:00 Some Rye Grass

• 10:00 Punch Brothers

• 7:00 Jesse McReynolds & Friends,Tribute to Jerry Garcia,Songs of

• 11:45 After Party: Bawn in the Mash, Belfry Fellows

the Grateful Dead • 8:15 Vince Gill

SATURDAY

• 10:00 Greensky Bluegrass

• 10:00 County Line Bluegrass

• 11:45 After Party: Farewell Drifters, Renegade String Band

• 11:00 Kentucky BlueGrass AllStars and Arnold Shultz Revival • 11:45 Snap Jackson and the Knock on Wood Players

FRIDAY

• 1:00 The Expedition Show

• 10:00 Grandview Junction

• 2:15 Newtown

• 11:00 Higher Ground

• 3:30 NewFound Road

• 12:00 Don Stanley & Middle Creek

• 4:45 Bearfoot

• 1:00 Renegade String Band

• 6:00 Pokey LaFarge and the South City Three

• 2:15 Belfry Fellows

• 7:20 The 23 String Band

• 3:30 Monroeville

• 8:40 Carolina Chocolate Drops

• 4:45 Town Mountain

• 10:00 Old Crow Medicine Show

• 6:00 The Farewell Drifters

• 11:45 After Party: The Deadly Gentlemen, The 23 String Band

You may purchase tickets for ROMP online at rompfest.com or by calling (270) 926-7891

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facebookphotos Touchdown! Home run! Goal! Here are some of our favorite photo submissions of your kiddos playing their favorite sports. Thanks for sending us your photos!

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off to the

races Photos by Jason Tanner

Ron Leonard believes his wife, Connie, who lost her battle to breast cancer in February, is present at every race. “Though she is not here with us today she still continues to to push us down the hill,” Leonard said. { by: ashley sorce }

or Ron Leonard, The Owensboro Lions Club Soap Box

Soap Box Derby in Akron, Ohio, following a rulebook that all

Derby is a family affair.

racers must follow when building a car.

The family began their racing career in 2002, when Lenoard’s

“Soap box derby becomes your life,” Leonard said.

nephew, James, entered for the first time. In 2003, they added

The Soap Box Derby is a great opportunity for family

another car with niece, Lauren, who was the first to go to Akron

involvement with a child’s interest, according to John Austin,

for national competition. In 2005, another niece, Kelsey, entered

one of the Owensboro Lions regularly involved.

a car in the race. Soon Leonard’s sons, Aaron and Jacob, both

entered the race, with daughter Kaylee designated as family

was supposed to build the car themselves. Early car kits were not

cheerleader.

like the kits today, which include fiberglass or composite bodies

with floorboards and hardware that usually requires the help of

Leonard even believes his wife, Connie, who lost her battle to

When soap box racing began in the 1930s to 1950s, the child

breast cancer in February, is present at every race.

a parent or other adult.

“Though she is not here with us today she still continues to to

The All American Soap Box Derby Association is the

push us down the hill,” Leonard said.

sanctioning body of the races. Based in Akron, Ohio, the

This family believes that Soap Box Derby brings them closer

association began in 1933. They govern the conduct of races as

together, noting the quality time, communication and team work

well as the rules of the sport including car construction, weight

from each member strengthens their family unit.

limits and distributions. Racers range from 7 to 17 years of age

“It’s fun, you get to be with family, and you get to travel to

and compete in one of three divisions-- Stock, Super Stock and

exciting places, like racing in a mall,” according to Aaron, Jacob

Masters. There is also a Super Kids division for developmentally

and Kaylee Leonard.

challenged children, a race that will hopefully return to

The Leonards buy their cars as a kit from the All-American

Owensboro in 2013.

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Winners in each division of a sanctioned local race earn a trip

to Akron Ohio to participate in the Nationals, which are held in July each year. The young drivers are treated like racing stars that entire week, addressed as “champions.” Additionally, drivers can earn points by racing throughout the year on the Rally Circuit and thereby also earn a trip to compete in the Nationals. The Owensboro Lions Club re-introduced the Soap Box Derby race in the Owensboro community in 2001 as a fundraising activity. The funds generated by the race are used in efforts to serve the community through traditional Lions Club eye care fundraising as well as contributions to various charities and scholarships in the community. The new, local track in Owensboro will host Rally races and draw competitors from a broad geographical area. “There were drivers from Tallahassee, Indianapolis, Chattanooga and St. Louis at our first two Rally races,” Austin said.

Ashley is a first-time mommy, a not-so-newlywed, an organizational freak and the editor of this awesome magazine. (Which is, of course, a totally unbiased opinion.)

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plan your family’s

stay-cation With input comes ownership and more joy in the journey! { by: christy ramey }

ith summer here, it’s time to rest, rejuvenate, and spend

· Free close events (See OPM’s calendar of events each issue)

quality time together. However, increasing prices for

· Library visits

gasoline, airfare, lodging, and entertainment may make this

· A farm visit

year’s summer getaway shorter or scaled back some. But that

· Trip to an orchard

doesn’t mean that you have to do without a vacation, just take a

· A picnic in the park

stay-cation.

· Backyard activities

Have a family meeting:

· Swimming · Water games at your house (Ask others over to play.)

Every vacation begins with a plan, so bring the family together,

· Board game nights

maybe around a bowl of popcorn, and give everyone a calendar

· Make homemade ice cream. (Call the Extension Office at

to fill out. {Remember: Making memories does not have to

685-8480 for directions to prepare Bag in a Bag Homemade Ice

involve spending money. It just needs to be an experience you

Cream - no equipment needed.)

share together.}

· Plan a scavenger hunt one evening. · Watch 4th of July fireworks.

At your family meeting, plan a calendar of events that might

· Plan back-to-school shopping and events.

include:

· Build a birdhouse.

· Trips to visit relatives · Visits from friends

You will be surprised at how fast your calendar fills up and how

· Vacation Bible School

excited your children will be as they look forward to each day.

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P lan theme weeks:

Here are some examples: Airplanes · Go to the airport and watch the planes land and take off. · Read books about World War II planes. · Watch movies that involve planes. · Investigate the Wright Brothers. · Build a model airplane from recycled items. · Tour the Owensboro Science Museum. Plan lots of outside activities One of my son’s favorite activities was to lie down in the grass at night and watch the sky. He, of course, would not do this alone, but with his dad, who could point out planes, stars and satellites! · Catch lightening bugs. (I promote catch and release.) · Catch frogs. · Look for a praying mantis. · Watch ants build and carry dirt. · Go fishing. · Bird watch; name them by keeping a record; and then research their tweet!

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Farm Animals · Visit a farm with animals. · Visit a petting zoo. · Go to a pond and observe all the bugs, frogs, fish, turtles, etc. · Draw pictures. · Check out books from the library. · Watch Charlotte’s Web. Other Activities · Make an obstacle course and time the team or individual. · Teach kids how to use the stopwatch to see how fast they can do it. Then challenge them to improve their time. · Do fun relay races. (Use spoons, brooms, balloons, ping pong balls, clothes, etc.) All of these are activities that teach us to look and listen. Let the family decide where to go, what to do and how much it could cost. Then everyone contributes to the “vacation fund” in some small way. With input comes ownership and more joy in the journey!

Christy Ramey is the Daviess County Extension Agent for Family and Consumer Sciences. She has been married for 38 years and have three children and three grandchildren.

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kids eat free

Who doesn’t love to save money? We have compiled a list of restaurants offering children discounts. If you see one we missed, Contact the editor at ashley@owensboroparent.com. *Please be sure to contact the resturant for specific details. Discounts are subject to change and Owensboro Parent is not responsible for incorrect listings.

Saturday

Tuesday

Denny’s (after 4:00 p.m.)

Applebee’s (all day)

Texas Roadhouse (11:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.)

Fazoli’s (all day - kids eat for 99 cents)

RocaBar (11:00-2:00 p.m.)

Pizza By the Guy (all day) Salsarita’s (all day)

Sunday

Denny’s (all day)

Tumbleweed (all day)

Beef O’Brady’s (4:00 to 8:00 p.m.)

Texas Roadhouse (11:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.) RocaBar (11:00 a.m. to 2:00 pm)

Wednesday

Salsarita’s (all day)

Ole South BBQ (4:00 to 8:00 p.m. 2 kids eat buffet w/ adult purchase)

Monday Shoney’s (up to 2 kids eat free with adult purchase)

Thursday

T.G.I. Fridays (all day)

Bee Bop’s (after 5:00 p.m. w adult meal)

Zaxby’s (5:00 to 8:00 p.m. - kids eat for 99

Captain D’s (2 kids w adult meal)

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june 2012 Informing parents about fun, local events is a priority for Owensboro Parent. Our magazine compiles events from across the city and county. So when your family is looking for something to do, check out the Owensboro Parent calendar, where you will find information on local events, including event descriptions, locations, dates, times and price. Want to include your event? Contact the editor at ashley@owensboroparent.com.

FRIDAY, JUNE 1 FLIGHT SIMULATOR The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732. FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Familiar Faces (R&B Dance Band) on the BB&T Plaza; Heath & Molly Eric in the Courtyard; Street Fair: Soap Box Derby Festival; 6 -10 p.m.; (270) 687-2787 or fridayafter5. com. U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 10 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com. THE SOUND OF MUSIC Theatre Workshop of Owensboro brings “The Sound of Music” to the

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stage at The Opryhouse for their 2012 Summer Musical; Performances are at 7:30 p.m. on Fridays and Saturdays, and 2 p.m. on Sundays. 418 Frederica Street; (270) 683-5333.

SATURDAY, JUNE 2 FREE SOAP BOX DERBY The annual contest for youth racing, using home-built cars. The winners here go on to compete in the Akron, Ohio National Championships. This year is the inaugural race at the new track at Ben Hawes Park and also features demos and workshops by the USA Luge Team. Contact John Austin, (270) 852-3823 for details or visit www. owensborolions.com. FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational activities

with a focus on literacy and school readiness; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. BURNS PLAYGROUND FUN DAY There will be a craft/yard sale with several booths set up including vendors such as Tastefully Simple, Avon, Tupperware, Thirty-One Gifts, etc. There will be a car wash, scrimmage games, basket raffle, 50/50 raffle and more. THE SOUND OF MUSIC See event description on Friday, June 1.

SUNDAY, JUNE 3 JOHNSON’S DANCE STUDIO RECITAL Summer recital from Johnson’s Dance in RiverPark Center’s Cannon Hall; 101 Daviess Street; (270) 687-2787.

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OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Fulton Railroaders at Owensboro Oilers, Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com. FREE SUMMER MOVIE ON THE RIVER “The Muppets”, on the BB&T Plaza at RiverPark Center; 8 p.m.; 101 Daviess Street; (270) 687-2787 or www.riverparkcenter.org. THE SOUND OF MUSIC See event description on Friday, June 1.

MONDAY, JUNE 4 FREE SUMMER READING KICK OFF WEEK All day, every day through Friday, June 8; Monday, June 4--Amazing monster bookmark drop. Tuesday, June 5 All day--Big Foot Scavenger Hunt. Wednesday, June 6, 2– 3 p.m.-- Halloween in June Costume Contest. Come dressed in a wild and creative costume…best dressed wins! Thursday, June 7, 10 – 11:30 a.m.-- Meet Skippyjon Jones. Instead of our regular storytime, the library will have a very special visitor; Judith Schachner’s famous character, Skippyjon Jones; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. THEATRE WORKSHOP DRAMA CAMP The weeklong drama camp include lessons on teamwork, theatre games, stage make-up, lighting and sound, costumes, confidence building, and always include our fantastic scavenger

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hunts! Each week will end with an evening performance in our brand new outdoor theatre! June 4 – 8; 11 a.m. – 12 noon; Grades K – 2; $50; theatreworkship.org or (270) 683-5333. THE SOUND OF MUSIC See event description on Friday, June 1.

TUESDAY, JUNE 5 FREE SUMMER FOOD SERVICE PROGRAM at The Museum of Science and History All children 18 and under are welcome to partake of a lunch at no additional charge, 11:30 a.m. – 12:30 p.m., Tues. – Fri.; food must be eaten on site; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 6872732. FUN IN THE SUN Come help us celebrate the kickoff for the summer feeding program! Create amazing artwork using the power of the sun and lean sun safety. Owensboro Dermatology will be present to sun safety tips and provide sunscreen samples. We will also be giving out summer-themed door prizes; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732. KIDS IN THE KITCHEN The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732. U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2

are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com. THE SOUND OF MUSIC See event description on Friday, June 1.

WEDNESDAY, JUNE 6 THE ABCS OF BEES The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732.

THURSDAY, JUNE 7 FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Hoptown Hoppers at Owensboro Oilers, Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com. THE SOUND OF MUSIC See event description on Friday, June 1.

FRIDAY, JUNE 8 FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Discfunktn’l Groove (Disco Band) on the BB&T Plaza; Darby Haas in the Courtyard; Street Fair: Disco Party; 6 - 10 p.m.; (270) 687-2787 or fridayafter5.com.

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family fun U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 10 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com. THE SOUND OF MUSIC See event description on Friday, June 1. OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Marion Bobcats at Owensboro Oilers, Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com.

SATURDAY, JUNE 9 HISTORYFEST 2012 The second annual HistoryFest takes place at Yellow Creek Park. Featured will be WWII re-enactments at the park, as well as showcasing history from the 1600’s through WWII in the Pioneer Village. For more information, contact Jim Goodall at (270) 2754487. FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational activities with a focus on literacy and school readiness; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. THE SOUND OF MUSIC See event description on Friday, June 1.

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SUNDAY, JUNE 10 OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Tradewater Pirates at Owensboro Oilers, Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com. THE SOUND OF MUSIC See event Description on Friday, June 1.

MONDAY, JUNE 11 MYSTERY AT BIOTECH SUMMER CAMP The Western Kentucky Botanical Gardens and the Owensboro Museum of Science and History wants you to Come solve the mystery! The Professor is missing and the lab techs are sick. The activities for the week, can the students help find Professor Nico Tiana (tobacco scientific name) determine what is making the lab techs sick while also having fun and learning about basic botany and biotechnology? 9 a.m. – 12 noon; For ages 9 – 12; Cost $1; Call for information and reservations WKBG (270) 8528925 or OMSH (270) 687-2732. FREE STORYTIME WEE Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.

TUESDAY, JUNE 12 GREEN SMOOTHIES The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.;

owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732. U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com. OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Fulton Railroaders at Owensboro Oilers, Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com.

WEDNESDAY, JUNE 13 FREE BALONEY…OR NOT??? Meet legendary explorer Sir Richard Ripoff who has travelled the world in a quest for strange and unique objects. Sir Ripoff will narrate his journeys and display some oddities from his vast collection. This program will be weird…recommended for ages 6 and up; 2 - 3 p.m. & 3 – 4 p.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.

THURSDAY, JUNE 14 ART HEROES: BAT FLIERS The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732. FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.

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family fun FREE COMIC BOOK WORKSHOP WITH TED NATHANSON Multiple sessions for ages 6-8 and 9 & up. Registration is required. Times to be announced. For further info, visit www.dcplibrary. org or call (270) 684-0211 ext. 5. INTERNATIONAL MYSTERY WRITERS’ FESTIVAL The 4th Annual International Mystery Writers’ Festival returns in 2012 to RiverPark Center. Original mystery plays performed in Cannon Hall and the Jody Berry Cabaret Theatre. Check the RiverPark website for schedules; 101 Daviess Street; (270)687-2787.

FRIDAY, JUNE 15 JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH on stage at Trinity Center, Theatre Workshop of Owensboro; Sponsored by Reid’s Orchard; June 15 – 24; theatreworkshop.org or (270) 683-5333. FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Mudd River Union (Country) on the BB&T Plaza; Barbara Santora in the Courtyard; Street Fair: Bourbon Festival & Colgate Country Showdown; 6 - 10 p.m.; (270) 687-2787 or fridayafter5.com. U-Bounce Open Bounce Night; All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 10 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.

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INTERNATIONAL MYSTERY WRITERS’ FESTIVAL See event description on Wednesday, June 13.

SATURDAY, JUNE 16 FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational activities with a focus on literacy and school readiness; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. NHRA SUMMIT SERIES DRAG RACING Super Pro, Powder Puff Street Car Race; 4731 Windy Hollow Road; (270) 836-2921; www. windyhollowdragway.com. JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH See event description on June 15. INTERNATIONAL MYSTERY WRITERS’ FESTIVAL See event description on Wednesday, June 13.

SUNDAY, JUNE 17 FATHER’S DAY JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH See event description on June 15. INTERNATIONAL MYSTERY WRITERS’ FESTIVAL See event description on Wednesday, June 13.

MONDAY, JUNE 18 Theatre Workshop Drama Camp The weeklong drama camp include lessons on teamwork, theatre games, stage make-up, lighting and sound, costumes, confidence building, and always include our fantastic scavenger hunts! Each week will end with an evening performance in our brand new outdoor theatre! June 18 – 22; 11 a.m. – 12 noon; Grades K – 2; $50; theatreworkship.org or (270) 683-5333. JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH See event description on June 15. FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. OWENSBORO OILERS Home Game Hoptown Hoppers at Owensboro Oilers, Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com.

TUESDAY, JUNE 19 KIDS IN THE KITCHEN The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732. FREE LEGO BLOCK PARTY For kids ages 6 and up; Registration is required; 6:30 – 7:30 p.m.;

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family fun Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH See event description on June 15. U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT; All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com. OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Marion Bobcats at Owensboro Oilers, Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com.

WEDNESDAY, JUNE 20 FREE FANCY NANCY TEA PARTY Come dressed in your best glitz and glam for a very fancy tea time; For ages 6 & up; 2 – 3 p.m. & 3 – 4 p.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH See event description on June 15. OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Hoptown Hoppers at Owensboro Oilers at Chautauqua Park, 7 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com.

THURSDAY, JUNE 21 PENELOPE THE BAY ZEBU The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732. FREE STORYTIME WEE READ for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH See event description on June 15. OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Tradewater Pirates at Owensboro Oilers at Chautauqua Park, 7 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com.

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FRIDAY, JUNE 22

Park, 7 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com.

THE CHEMISTRY OF LIGHT The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732.

JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH See event description on June 15.

THE DAZZLING DAYLILIES: BALLOONS OVER THE GARDEN This event brings beautiful blooms plus multiple activities for everyone to enjoy! Hot air balloons will be at the Garden June 22-24; Dazzling Daylilies Festival June 25-30; Check the Western KY Botanical Garden’s website for a complete schedule; 25 Carter Road; (270) 8528925; www.wkbg.org. U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 10 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com. JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH See event description on June 15. OWENSBORO QUILT SHOW The Owensboro Area Quilters Guild brings their Quilt Show to Brescia University at 717 Frederica Street, opening at 9:30 a.m. on Friday and closing at 5 p.m. on Saturday. FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Caribou (Rock & Roll Oldies Dance Band) on the BB&T Plaza; Rachel Timberlake in the Courtyard; Gospel on the River in Cannon Hall with Childress Family, Living By Faith, and Deena Ashley. Street Fair: Big Red Bash, DCHS 1971, WKU-O reunion; 6 - 10 p.m.; (270) 687-2787 or fridayafter5.com.

THE DAZZLING DAYLILIES FESTIVAL See event description on Friday, June 22. OWENSBORO QUILT SHOW See event description on Friday, June 22.

SUNDAY, JUNE 24 JAMES AND THE GIANT PEACH See event description on June 15. THE DAZZLING DAYLILIES FESTIVAL See event description on Friday, June 22.

MONDAY, JUNE 25 FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. THE DAZZLING DAYLILIES FESTIVAL See event description on Friday, June 22.

TUESDAY, JUNE 26 AGRICULTURE ADVENTURES The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732.

SATURDAY, JUNE 23

U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.

FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE! Visit the library every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational activities with a focus on literacy and school readiness; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.

WALK & TALK & LUNCH IN THE GARDEN “DAYLILIES & THEIR PALS” Enjoy lunch and a walk through the Western KY Botanical Garden; 25 Carter Road; 11:30 a.m. - 1 p.m.; (270) 8528925 or www.wkbg.org.

OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Fulton Railroaders at Owensboro Oilers at Chautauqua

THE DAZZLING DAYLILIES FESTIVAL See event description on Friday, June 22.

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WEDNESDAY, JUNE 27 TINY TRAINS The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732. FREE DRAGONS, DRAGONS, DRAGONS Learn the fiery history of the dragon while making a cool dragon craft to take on parade; 2 – 3 p.m. & 3 – 4 p.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. FITNESS PALOOZA A day of fitness and the great outdoors at the Western Kentucky Botanical Gardens; 9 a.m. – 1 p.m.; Check the Western KY Botanical Garden’s website for a complete schedule; 25 Carter Road; (270) 852-8925; www. wkbg.org. THE DAZZLING DAYLILIES FESTIVAL See event description on Friday, June 22.

Old Crow Medicine Show, Carolina Chocolate Drops, Punch Brothers featuring Christ Thile and many more! For more information about the festival, visit the Museum’s website at www. bluegrassmuseum.org, or by phone at (270) 926-7891. ART HEROES: FINGER PAINT The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732. FREE STORYTIME WEE READ for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org. THE DAZZLING DAYLILIES FESTIVAL See event description on Friday, June 22.

ROMP: BLUEGRASS ROOTS & BRANCHES FESTIVAL The 9th Annual River of Music Party brings three days of bluegrass music! Thursday will bring jamming and storytelling at the Museum. Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights bring concerts to Yellow Creek Park. This year’s lineup includes headliner Vince Gill,

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OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Marion Bobcats at Owensboro Oilers at Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com. ROMP: BLUEGRASS ROOTS & BRANCHES Festival See event description on Thursday, June 28. THE DAZZLING DAYLILIES FESTIVAL See event description on Friday, June 22.

SATURDAY, JUNE 30

MINI HERB GARDENS The Owensboro Museum of Science and History; 11 a.m.; 122 East 2nd St.; owensboromuseum.com or (270) 687-2732.

FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 The Jimmy Church Band (Motown Sound & Dance Band) on the BB&T Plaza; Jeff Wildman Hardesty in the Courtyard. Street Fair: Sunset Celebration; 6 - 10 p.m.; (270) 687-2787 or fridayafter5.com.

NHRA SUMMIT SERIES DRAG RACING 1st Annual JR Dragster Freedom Race; 4731 Windy Hollow Road; (270) 836-2921; www. windyhollowdragway.com.

FRIDAY, JUNE 29 THURSDAY, JUNE 28

U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 10 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.

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family fun OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Hoptown Hoppers at Owensboro Oilers at Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com. ROMP: BLUEGRASS ROOTS & BRANCHES FESTIVAL See event description on June 28. THE DAZZLING DAYLILIES FESTIVAL See event description on Friday, June 22.

FAMILY FREEDOM FIREWORKS FESTIVAL

THURSDAY, JULY 5

Fireworks and family fun at Panther Creek Park.

FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and

Vendors open at 5 p.m., fireworks begin at 9:15

younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 –

p.m.; 5160 Wayne Bridge Road; (270) 685-6142

10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020

or www.daviesscountyparks.com.

Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.

OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Marion Bobcats at Owensboro Oilers at Chautauqua

FRIDAY, JULY 6

Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com.

FREE FRIDAY AFTER 5 Old School (Rock/R&B/ Motown Dance Band) on the BB&T Plaza; Aly’an

SUNDAY, JULY 1 FREE SUMMER MOVIES ON THE RIVER “Happy Feet 2”, on the BB&T Plaza at RiverPark Center; 8 p.m.; 101 Daviess Street; (270) 687-2787 or www. riverparkcenter.org.

WEDNESDAY, JULY 4 INDEPENDENCE DAY! FREE A CELEBRATION OF THE AMERICAN SPIRIT View the fireworks from English Park

MONDAY, JULY 2 FREE STORYTIME Wee Read for ages 2 and younger and Circle Time for ages 3-5; 10 – 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.

TUESDAY, JULY 3 U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 8 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.

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on the Ohio River as the City of Owensboro celebrates the Fourth of July with music from the Owensboro Symphony Orchestra and concludes with fireworks shot off from a barge in the Ohio River. Gates open at 6 p.m., followed

in the Courtyard. Street Fair: Couples Night; 6 - 10 p.m.; (270) 687-2787 or www.fridayafter5. com. U-BOUNCE OPEN BOUNCE NIGHT All must wear socks; $7 per child, children under 2 are free, unless they are the only child, adults always free; 5 - 10 p.m.; (270) 685-1255 or ubouncepartyhouse.com.

by speeches, Color Guard, and fireworks

SATURDAY, JULY 7

accompanied by patriotic music at 9 p.m.; (270)

FREE SATURDAY MORNING LIVE!Visit the library

687-8700 or www.owensboroparks.org.

every Saturday morning from 10:00—12:00 for self guided fun and educational activities

OWENSBORO OILERS HOME GAME Tradewater Pirates at Owensboro Oilers at Chautauqua Park, 7:05 p.m.; www.owensborooilers.com.

with a focus on literacy and school readiness; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org.

www.OwensboroParent.com

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