Oxford Magazine Jan/Feb 2024

SANCUTARY ARTIST FEATURES | VALENTINE RECIPES

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FEATURES

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FIVE QUESTIONS

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WEDDING GIFT TRENDS

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ANNIVERSARY GIFTS

home & style 9 Unveiling The Oliver

arts & culture 20 Sanctuary Arts Festival Featured Artist

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The Harrington-Holman Duo lights up local gatherings

food & drink 32

Wedding Cakes

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Valentine Recipes

OM in every issue 4 Contributors

5 Letter from the Publisher 8 Events

14 Book Picks

84 Out & About 88 Marketplace

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contributors

EDITORIAL

Joey Brent, Photographer

Joey Brent is a local photographer in Oxford, Mississippi.

Jake Davis

CONTRIBUTORS Davis Coen Angela Cutrer Joey Brent Jim Dees Bruce Newman Lyn Roberts

Allyson Duckworth, Contributor

Allyson Duckworth is a graduate of the University of Mississippi and a lifelong resident of Mississippi. She owns interior design firm Pearly Peacock in Oxford. She draws inspiration for design from her world travels.

DESIGN

Allison Dale

ASSISTANT EDITOR Amelia Ott

MARKETING

Clifton Clements Odom Mike Haskins

ADMINISTRATION

Davis Coen, Writer

Davis Coen is a freelance writer and newspaper reporter from Oxford by way of South Carolina. He’s had stories published in various local publications including Oxford Eagle, Oxford Citizen and Daily Journal. He also maintains a music career with over a dozen tours of Europe and regular airplay on SiriusXM Satellite Radio.

Rebecca Alexander, Publisher Emily Presley, Audience Development

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ON THE COVER SANCUTARY ARTIST FEATURES | VALENTINE RECIPES

In the timeless words of Mahatma Gandhi, "Where there is love, there is life." As we embark on this new year, our hearts resonate with the profound echoes of agape—the highest form of love, infusing positive energy into the tapestry of weddings and the lives touched by them.

Love, in its purest essence, is a joyous simplicity to celebrate. However, the orchestration of weddings demands countless hours of meticulous planning, transforming the dreams of couples into the grand spectacle of their lives. One delightful revelation has been the exploration of new traditions, such as the post-ceremonial dinners that grace the newlyweds with moments of intimate connection.

Step into the embrace of the recently refurbished Oliver Hotel—an oasis that beckons you to kick back and immerse yourself in its opulent ambiance.

With sumptuous rooms, culinary maestro Joel Miller, and the allure of a new, swanky speakeasy named "Nightbird," this haven is poised to become Oxford's latest heartbeat.

Journey with Zoe Fitch as she unveils the vibrant and modern ceramics of Rosa Salas, a beacon of artistic brilliance hailing from Venezuela and gracing the halls of Ole Miss. Salas, an artist who discovered her passion in the crucible of the university's arts program, crafts pieces that transcend the tangible, weaving threads that bind people together. Her creations, both descriptive and alluring, promise to kindle a desire for more.

Zoe guides us further into the artistic realm, this time exploring the work of Bradley Gordon, a soul rooted in the Mississippi Delta. Gordon, a maestro in conjuring beauty from the void, carried the echoes of his creative mind across countries like Japan and Taiwan before returning to Mississippi. His gallery, an ode to Mississippi's wildlife, landscapes, and the imprints of global sojourns, stands as a testament to the boundless spirit of creation.

As you immerse yourself in the following pages, let the essence of love envelop you with the spirit of Valentine's Day—a celebration that extends its embrace to all.

Amelia

amelia.ott@oxfordeagle.com

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WHAT TO DO IN OXFORD Oxford Community Market Old Armory Pavilion January - March | Every Tuesday | 12 - 3 p.m.

Ole Miss Men’s Basketball Vs. Arkansas The Pavilion at Ole Miss January 24 | 8 p.m.

Ole Miss Women’s Basketball Vs. Florida The Pavilion at Ole Miss January 25 | 6 p.m.

Ole Miss Women’s Basketball Vs. Tennessee The Pavilion at Ole Miss January 28 | 2 p.m.

Ole Miss Men’s Basketball Vs. Mississippi State The Pavilion at Ole Miss January 30 | 7:30 p.m.

Ole Miss Men’s Basketball Vs. Auburn The Pavilion at Ole Miss February 3 | 5 p.m.

Ole Miss Women’s Basketball Vs. Texas A&M The Pavilion at Ole Miss February 8 | 6:30 p.m.

Ole Miss Men’s Baseball Vs. Delaware Swayze Field Febraury 17 - 19 Ole Miss Men’s Basketball Vs. Mississippi State The Pavilion at Ole Miss February 18 | 2:30 p.m.

Ole Miss Men’s Basketball Vs. South Carolina The Pavilion at Ole Miss February 24| 2:30 p.m.

Ole Miss Women’s Basketball Vs. Mississippi State The Pavilion at Ole Miss February 18 | 3 p.m.

Ole Miss Men’s Baseball Vs Arkansas State Swayze Field February 21 | 4 p.m.

Ole Miss Women’s Basketball Vs. Georgia The Pavilion at Ole Miss February 22 | 6:30 p.m.

Ole Miss Men’s Baseball Vs High Point Swayze Field February 23 - 25 | times vary

JANUARY 17 – 24

Oxford Fiber Arts Festival Powerhouse Community Arts Center

The festival celebrates the fiber arts with both in person and virtual events. The 24 different makers, menders, and creatives to our 2024 In Person Market. There is something for everyone! From yarns to bags to tools and quilts, we hope to inspire you. Market hours are 9-5 on both Friday (Jan 19) and Saturday (Jan 20). Join our Market Crawl for a chance to win fun prizes and Meet Our Makers all day on Saturday with scheduled hours for meet and greets.

Go to https://www.oxfordfiberfestival.com/ for a full schedule of online workshops and shop tours.

JANUARY 15TH

My Fair Lady

Gertrude C. Ford Center 7:30 PM From Lincoln Center Theater and director Bartlett Sher comes “a sumptuous new production of the most perfect musical of all time” (Entertainment Weekly), Lerner & Loewe’s My Fair Lady. Boasting such classic songs as “I Could Have Danced All Night,” “The Rain in Spain,” and “Wouldn’t It Be Loverly,”

JANUARY 28TH

On Your Feet: The Story of Emilio and Gloria Estefan 7:30 PM

On Your Feet! is the inspiring true story about heart, heritage and two people who believed in their talent—and each other— to become an international sensation: Emilio and Gloria Estefan. Now their story is an all-new exhilarating original musical winning the hearts of critics and audiences alike, with the Chicago Tribune declaring “it’s a hit!” and The New York Times cheering, “The very air in the room seems to vibrate in this undeniably crowd-pleasing musical!”

JANUARY 23-28

Princess Ball

Powerhouse Community Arts Center 5:30 - 7:30 PM The Princess Ball is open to any parent and child. Tickets include a meal from Chick-

fil-A, beverages, art activities, music and dancing, photo booths and special gift for the child(ren). The Powerhouse will be transformed into a royal palace! Presented

by Chick-fil-A and the Yoknapatawpha Arts Council. Tickets are $25 per person.

FEBRUARY 5TH

Marie Osmond in concert with special guest David Osmond Gertrude C Ford Center 7:30 PM

Marie Osmond has spent over 6 iconic decades in the entertainment business performing as a successful singer, television performer and talk show host, dancer, actor, author, entrepreneur and public speaker.

She has continued to maintain relevance, remaining an instantly recognizable figure across the globe. Her debut single “Paper Roses” reached the #1 spot on two Billboard charts, a feat that not only placed her among an elite class of musical royalty, but instantly catapulted her into international superstardom.

FEBRUARY 10TH

Arrival from Sweeden: The Music of ABBA 7:30 PM

Arrival from Sweden: The Music of ABBA has been called the most authentic ABBA show touring. They have sold out arenas and venues all over the world since their founding in 1995. Hits like: “Dancing Queen,” “Mamma Mia,” “Does Your Mother Know,” “Take A Chance,” and “SOS,”

FEBRUARY 24TH

The Cher Show 7:30 PM

The Tony Award®-Winning Musical! Her Life. Her Story. Her Legend. Superstars come and go. Cher is forever. For six straight decades, only one unstoppable force has flat-out dominated popular culture – breaking down barriers, pushing boundaries and letting nothing and no one stand in her way. THE CHER SHOW is the Tony Award®-winning musical of her story, and it’s packed with so much Cher that it takes three women to play her: the kid starting out, the glam pop star, and the icon.

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Oliver Unveiling The

BY ALLYSON DUCKWORTH PHOTOS BY BRUCE NEWMAN

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Y’all, Oxford, MS is blooming like a sunflower in summertime! This sweet town is Mississippi’s hottest spot for football fanatics, friend getaways, weddings, or even a cozy staycation. And guess what? There’s a shiny new hotel in town! The newly refurbished Oliver Hotel is the crown jewel of the Oxford square, marking a fresh start for this beloved corner of our Oxford, MS world.

This spot has been a busy hub for businesses over the years! Once upon a time, in the land of the 90s, there was a spot called Four Corners. It was home to a gas station that was always playing second fiddle to its rival, the legendary “Chicken on a Stick” joint across the street owned

by Chevron. Later, it had a flirtation with a Checkers Drive-Inn before getting bulldozed down to make way for the swanky Chancellor’s House Hotel. That’s what it was called for six years, at least!

Picture this: Nashville’s charming Oliver Hospitality swept into Oxford and gave it a fancy makeover! The Oxford

property was snatched up in a jiffy back in April 2022, and since then, the South Lamar and University Avenue corner has been shimmering with a fresh new look.

This beauty is named after its big sister, The Oliver Hotel in Knoxville, TN, established over a decade ago. The lobby is the real stunner here - a modern take on Southern hospitality that’ll make you feel like you’re on cloud nine. Inside, you’ll get a load of the eclectic design that’ll have you feeling right at home. Mel & Co Interior Architecture Design Studio worked their magic, sticking to the original architecture but jazzing it up with Schumacher wallpaper and fabrics and rich colors that’ll make you want to kick back and soak in the luxurious vibes.

Attention, foodies and cocktail lovers!

The new Oxford hotspot, Kingswood, is the place to be for lunch, dinner, and signature drinks. Their patio and indoor dining areas are a perfect representation of the city’s vibe. And guess what? The culinary genius Joel Miller, former chef

and owner of Ravine, is in charge of the kitchen. His farm-to-table creations are so finger-licking good, you’ll want to make a reservation right away. But wait, there’s more! Once you’re done with your meal, sneak into the newly opened speakeasy, Nightbird. This place is dripping with coolness, but you might need a treasure map to find the hidden entrance. Behind the walls adorned with Schumacher Le Grand Tour wallpaper lies a world of Granatapple Schumacher wallpaper, splashed with yellow and orange pomegranates, and the Pantone color of the year 2024, peach fuzz! The luxurious textures and fabrics make this place a paradise for the senses. And if you’re not ready to leave, don’t worry, there’s more in store. They’re planning to expand to the rooftop for an even more magnificent view of the sunset over Oxford. And hey, if you’re looking for a spot to throw a party or reception, Nightbird has got you covered.

Oh, the many faces of this stunning

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venue! If you’re tying the knot in Oxford, The Oliver Hotel is the answer to all your prayers. It’s a one-stop-shop for all your wedding needs, from your bridal suite to brunch and welcoming guests. And that grand ballroom?

It’s a showstopper, perfect for the rehearsal dinner or the big day reception. Say your “I do’s” to The Oliver Hotel!

Hey Brides-to-be, have you heard about the ultimate pampering palace, The Bridal Suite at the Oliver? Get ready to be wowed with not one, but TWO luxurious bathrooms, enough space for your glam squad to transform you and your besties into true goddesses for the big day. And the cherry on top?

A stunning patio overlooking South Lamar, perfect for you and your posse to gather and bask in the prewedding excitement!

The Oliver is not just a

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wedding venue, it’s a peoplewatching paradise! Your guests can soak up the buzz, unwind, and emerge refreshed from their stay at the recently renovated Oliver Hotel. It’s like a double treat for your big day!

“Location, location, location!”

Park your ride and let your feet do the talking, as Oxford’s finest attractions are just a few steps away. Whether you’re in town for business or pleasure, or just exploring the university scene, staying at The Oliver Oxford means you can leave the car keys behind and soak up the city’s vibe with ease. From top-notch dining to cultural hotspots, it’s all within reach!

If you’re ready to explore Oxford, MS, then look no further than The Oliver of Oxford! Your ultimate destination for a luxurious stay. Don’t wait, visit oliveroxford.com to book your stay right now!

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READ THIS BOOK

BOOKS FOR January/February Recommended by

Maya Martin and Cody Morrison, Square Books Mostly What God Does

by Savannah Guthrie In her first trade book, Emmy and Edward R. Murrow Award recipient, Savannah Guthrie, co-anchor of the TODAY show, shares reflections on faith and life and offers inspiration for all of us to do what God does--love. Guthrie turns her journalistic eye toward the power of faith in everyday life. Using personal stories of motherhood, love, her career, being a daughter, grief, and even the mundane moments that have shaped her faith, she illustrates the profound role that belief in God has in helping us find real hope in this life.

Cold Victory

by Karl Marlantes From New York Times bestselling author Karl Marlantes comes a propulsive and sweeping novel in which loyalty, friendship, and love are put to the ultimate test.

Helsinki, 1947. Finland teeters between the Soviet Union and the West. Everyone is being watched. A wrong look or a wrong word could end in catastrophe.

Natalya Bobrova, from Russia, and Louise Koski, from the United States, are young wives of their country's military attaches.

When they meet at an embassy party, their husbands, Arnie and Mikhail, both world-class skiers, drunkenly challenge each other to a friendly - but secret cross-country wilderness race. Natalya is worried, Louise is excited. The outcome of this race could change their future for the better or worse.

The Waters

by Bonnie Jo Campbell A master of rural noir returns with a fierce, mesmerizing novel about exceptional women and the soul of a small town. On an island in the Great Massasauga Swamp—an area known as “The Waters” to the residents of nearby Whiteheart, Michigan—herbalist and eccentric Hermine “Herself” Zook has healed the local women of their ailments for generations. As stubborn as her tonics

are powerful, Herself inspires reverence and fear in the people of Whiteheart, and even in her own three estranged daughters. The youngest—the beautiful, inscrutable, and lazy Rose Thorn—has left her own daughter, eleven-year-old Dorothy “Donkey” Zook, to grow up wild.

Donkey spends her days searching for truths in the lush landscape and in her math books, waiting for her wayward mother and longing for a father, unaware that family secrets, passionate love, and violent men will flood through the swamp and upend her idyllic childhood.

Medgar and Myrlie

by Joy-Ann Reid The host of MSNBC’s The ReidOut and New York Times bestselling author of The Man Who Sold America traces the extraordinary lives and legacy of civil rights icons Medgar and Myrlie Evers, situating Medgar Evers’s assassination as a catalyzing moment in American history. Myrlie Louise Beasley met Medgar Evers on her first day of college. They fell in love at first sight, married just one year later, and Myrlie left school to focus on their growing family. Medgar became the field secretary for the Mississippi branch of the NAACP, charged with beating back the most intractable and violent resistance to black voting rights in the country. Myrlie served as Medgar’s secretary and confidant, working hand in hand with him as they struggled against public accommodations and school segregation, lynching, violence, and sheer despair within their state’s “black belt.” On June 12, 1963, Medgar Evers became the highest profile victim of Klan-related assassination of a black civil rights leader at that time; gunned down in the couple’s driveway in Jackson. In the wake of his tragic death, Myrlie carried on their civil rights legacy; writing a book about Medgar’s fight, trying to win a congressional seat, and becoming a leader of the NAACP in her own right.

Eli Harpo’s Adventures to the Afterlife

by Eric Schlich Award-winning author Eric Schlich’s Eli Harpo’s Adventure to the Afterlife is an accessible and big-hearted novel that explores belief and forgiveness as a boy grapples with his faith and sexuality on a rollicking family road trip to Bible World.

When Eli Harpo was four, he underwent emergency open-heart surgery, flatlined on the operating table, and for a brief time, went to heaven and met Jesus. Or at least that’s what his father, a loving but devout Baptist minister, has raised him to believe.

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FIVE QUESTIONS FOR

Q&A with Shell Laser MedSpa Dr. Dan Shell

Face Forward Advice on looking your best on your special day Q: What skin care services would you recommend for brides who want to look their best on their wedding day?

Starting an effective medical grade skincare regimen several weeks before a bride’s big day is the first step in making sure she will look radiant on her big day. A

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professional facial like a HydraFacial is another way that a bride can make sure her skin stays in optimal condition.

Q: Is there an optimal time prior to the wedding for a facial, lip injections and other med spa services?

Shell Laser MedSpa offers recommends scheduling an appointment about six months before the wedding day to be sure we address any concerns and/or meet the expectations that the bride has to prepare for her big day.

We offer complimentary skincare consultations at the bride’s convenience.

Depending on the services needed to achieve desired results there could be a little bit of downtime. Some treatments such as microneedling, a laser

treatment, or an injection may require a few days of more of downtime before the optimal results are visible. Dr Shell recommends Botox 3 weeks or so prior to the big event.

Q:What is the advantage of having MedSpa services in a practice owned by a plastic surgeon?

Dan H. Shell IV, M.D., FACS is board certified by The American Board of Plastic Surgery, and a member of The American Society of Plastic Surgeons.

He has been in practice for over fifteen years and has spent a considerable amount of time researching the safest and most effective treatments before offering them to his patients. Critical evaluation of a product or treatment by an experienced

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and board certified Plastic surgeon is critical to ensuring a safe and desirable outcome. Dr. Shell only use injectables such as Botox from companies like Allergan whom we trust. It is important to distinguish the difference between cost and value when choosing a service. Patients should be very skeptical when a procedure or treatment that is offered at a low cost. It is important to ask questions such as : 1) Is the product being used from a legitimate source ? 2) How much experience does the person administering the procedure have? 3) What are the expected outcomes and if I have concerns will someone be available to address them?

Q: Do you see whole bridal parties book sessions at the

MedSpa so they look their best?

Our MedSpa services are customized for each individual patient. A bridal party may make appointments to come in on the same day but the treatment may not necessarily be the same for each patient. Each of our skincare regimens and treatments are based upon skin type and concerns of each client.

Q: For the mother of the bride, what kind of med spa services are most popular?

The mother of the bride most routinely chooses a HydraFacial, microneedling treatments such as SkinPen, or a resurfacing laser treatment to address fine lines and wrinkles. Botox and fillers are very popular as well.

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Sanctuary Arts Festival Featured Artist 2023-2024 Rosa Salas: Venezuela in the ‘Sip

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Mississippi is home to many including those who were not born here. The ‘Sip is a place that is home to all. Though the hospitality state has a long history, both positive and negative, there is still room to grow and blank canvas to compose something new. The sense of home is largely connected to place. This connection is specific to southerners but is an objective human experience. As an artist, “place” is influential in finding one’s identity and message in their work. The future of our state includes a continuous flourishing art community that welcomes open conversation and new ideas. The arts here range anywhere from music to painting, from sculpture to fiber art, and from dance to ceramics. And the artists are from Mississippi and other countries such as Venezuela.

Rosa Salas is from Venezuela and moved to Oxford, Mississippi to further her education. She first pursued her Bachelor of Arts, then the Bachelor of Fine Arts degree with an emphasis in ceramics. Once graduating in her home country and taking a gap year Salas made her move to the American Southeast after learning about the program from a friend that attended the University of Mississippi (Ole Miss).

When Salas first entered the program she actually did not have her sights specifically on pottery but visual arts and history in general. She then fell in love with the medium of ceramics after taking her first class in Meek Hall.

Salas describes her style as outspoken, vibrant, and sunny. Being born and raised in a very visually vibrant, as well as culturally sirited, has influenced Salas’s aesthetic and palette used in her artwork.

Salas says, “[the] colors should be in your face”. She is influenced by artists such as Betty Woodman (American ceramicist) and Elizabeth Murray (American painter),

as well as traditional Mayan pottery forms such as tripod feet.

Ceramics is a community-driven medium. As Salas recalls, pottery is like a festival. Eating and sharing dishes and meals with others brings artists together to learn and share with one another. This idea is at the very core of pottery. Historically pottery was used for utilitarian purposes while styles, decorations, and colors were added to reflect the artist and cultural expression. Utility in her pottery is the intention and interaction is encouraged, while the forms still carry a sculptural visual aesthetic.

Salas refers to kinetic art, art that offers the illusion of movement, in her research.

This movement gives life to the forms and reflects the liveliness that is in the process

of making the work as well. Every step of the process involves human interaction whether it is mixing large amounts of clay, building or throwing the forms in communal studios, learning from mentors and each other, or attending the culminating kiln-firing parties. This medium is like no other in the world of fine art. There is no other medium that is so reliant and reflective of human culture because it is the only one that benefits more from the human-to-human experience rather than a singular one. While single human reflection has historically made notorious fine art, pottery creates a home and art that is multipurpose. And though Salas is a long way from her home in Venezuela, she has found a new one building pottery in the ‘Sip.

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Sanctuary Arts Festival Featured Artist 2023-2024 Bradley Gordon: Art is Reflective of Home

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In the South the land, wildlife, flora, and way of life find their way into the creative space. An artist finds inspiration in the small things; a place you’ve been many times before but see it in a new way, viewing an animal in the wild at an unusual time, or finding an old tool that sparks nostalgia in your mind.

Place is an anchor in creativity. Place is where discovery is made and identity is created, creativity is fueled and one connects soul to land. And sometimes no matter how far you go, your “place” is always home.

Bradley Gordon is from Clarksdale, Mississippi, one could say the heart of the Mississippi Delta. Gordon spent his childhood in the Bayou which became his playground. He grew up on his family’s farm playing outside and finding materials for his creations.

He recalls constantly having access to a multitude of tools, so he was always building things. It is no wonder Gordon became a career artist when you hear how he speaks of growing up playing on a cotton trailer and making something out of nothing for the pure joy of it. In the South there is a saying, “You have to laugh to keep from crying”. And, also in this region, sometimes you have to make something out of nothing to feed the creative mind.

While Gordon’s attraction to fine art came about organically, promoted by his intuition to make things out of materials that he had access to, this extended into his desire to further his knowledge of fine art. He attended Delta State University in Cleveland, MS for photography. After graduating from Delta State University Gordon

attended the University of Mississippi (Ole Miss) for art education. He later went into teaching to share his knowledge of the craft.

After his time in the Delta Gordon had the opportunity to travel to multiple countries all over the world including Japan and Taiwan, a bucket list goal for most. He accomplished this goal and brought his experiences, knowledge, and inspiration home to Mississippi with him. After moving home to Clarksdale, MS he opened a gallery.

He notes that his gallery in Clarksdale allowed him to get on his feet, so to say, as an artist. Gordon’s success grew, and he and his family decided to move north to Oxford, MS to raise their family and continue their professional lives. He now lives and works in Oxford where he is an active member of the community and continues to paint his artwork based on Mississippi’s wildlife and landscape. His home and studio are located right off the Oxford Square, the heart of the town. While Gordon draws inspiration from multiple experiences and places in his life, the throughline in his work is home.

Home means to Gordon painting what he knows, and this inspires his compositions and the overall feeling of his artwork. Gordon says that though he uses multiple mediums including paint they all reflect home and Mississippi. Every aspect of his process is reflective of this concept including his studio helper, his daughter. Home is a broad term, but when place is your identity and you paint what you know the canvas becomes a mirror to your environment.

Gordon’s wildlife and landscape paintings are vibrantly colored and use bright and dark contrasts to pull the viewer in. He implements a unique hand in the painting where the texture and pattern are discovered as one moves closer (fig.1). Looking closely provides an experience in its own right, but moving outward the paintings introduces an experience like no other. The lively depictions of the American South provide new life to a very old, historical, and traditional region.

Though the artist lives and primarily works in Oxford, his Water Valley, MS gallery is always open. Gordon’s artwork has been

welcomed and embraced by Mississippians and southerners alike because even though there is a modern aesthetic, a very recognizable spirit emerges through the acrylic paint. He presents a modern take on a familiar scene that is appreciated and encouraged.

Southerners are ultra connected to land and the organisms that call it home. There is a spiritual connection to being a southerner, and some would argue that this is heightened in Mississippi. In the South the landscape and time move constantly through and within one another like shifting planes. There is just something about going to your family’s farm and welcoming discovery of the most benign things.

The smallest findings can hold the most weight, especially as a visual artist. Perhaps this is the inspiration to use every material to its fullest potential or to be less wasteful.

Simply using a scrap material or finding a herd of caterpillars right before the first day of Summer can inspire your own creation. Place is influential not just on way of life and outlook, but offers a lens to view the creative realm.

Bradley Gordon is an “artist-asobserver” artist. By this I mean, he recreates what he knows, and he knows deeply what he paints.

Gordon is inspired by his home, where he is from, his travels, and his southern way of life. While he is a cosmopolitan person, Gordon’s roots find their way into the threads of his canvas and are stimulated by the fibers of his brush. His large paintings envelope the viewer and offer an insight into his modern take on an old world, Gordon’s world, his home, Mississippi.

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MUSIC FOR INTIMATE OCCASIONS The Harrington-Holman Duo lights up local gatherings

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Oxford acoustic guitar & vocal duo Lee Harrington and Emily Holman get most of their gig offers through word of mouth.

This tends to bring about more interesting and intimate occasions than if they were inclined to play at just bar venues.

“I don’t have the time these days to walk around the Square knocking on doors,” Harrington joked.

The Harrington-Holman Duo began drawing some local attention to their act in 2019, when they were doing frequent performances at the centrally located Chancellor’s House Hotel, on the corner of South Lamar Blvd. and University Ave. The duo got booked to play on Fridays before Ole Miss Football games, then soon became one of the more sought-after cover acts in town.

Their regular performances at Chancellor’s House (which has recently made cosmetic changes and been renamed The Oliver Hotel) came from an opportunity they had one day to show their talents, at a dedication party in the hotel’s large event

room.

They were asked to play the popular hit “Shallow” from the film “A Star is Born,” and hotel management happened to be on hand to witness the terrific impromptu performance.

“Emily has a fantastic voice, and she could pull off the Lady Gaga part of it,” said Harrington. “We were just kind of having fun with it - but the girls loved it!”

The duo, who have known each other since freshman year at Ole Miss, when Emily was dating Harrington’s roommate and still-best friend Kevin, have been performing together in the MidSouth for over a decade.

Before breaking ground in Oxford five years ago, they played numerous gigs in both the Jackson, MS, and Memphis areas.

Harrington notably was also part of another popular local group Trowbridge & Harrington, who played frequently at Syd & Harry’s back in the day.

The Harrington-Holman Duo took on somewhat of a musical residency at

Chancellor’s House in late 2018, and their frequent evening appearances continued until the pandemic took hold in early 2020.

Harrington described that the shows started to become a reunion destination for friends from their college days, who enjoyed stopping by to reconnect while also enjoying good music.

“It became a gathering place, and we just happened to be the ‘cherry on top,’” he said.

The duo has been asked to take part in a number of weddings, but typically their role is playing at the rehearsal dinners, which are slightly better suited for their acoustic guitar & vocal harmony-based music.

Harrington remarked that he and Holman have played at wedding receptions as well as rehearsal dinners, but that receptions tend to be more of a “dance band kind of thing.”

The duo has also performed what Harrington calls the “special music” at the wedding, which will lean more towards the sentimental selections.

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Duo’s go-to song during tender moments of a wedding has been Bob Dylan’s 1997 deep track “Make You Feel My Love,” which resurged after pop singer Adele released a rendition on her debut album.

The duo also enjoys performing songs recorded by Robert Plant & Alison Krauss, who released a pair of seminal rock & country-tinged albums in the 2000s.

The multi-Grammy winners’ meld of rock/country and male-female vocal harmonies hit home for the duo.

“We love harmony,” he said. “The main focus of what we really do is harmony.” Harrington remarked that he and Holman found a certain kindred spirit in the chemistry that Plant and Krauss had on their albums.

Holman’s voice is also showcased on a handful of Fleetwood Mac songs, particularly those featuring singer Stevie Nicks, like “Landslide” and “Dreams.”

Harrington mentioned that Holman also sings a fantastic rendition of “Rhiannon,” although chooses not to

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sing it in certain settings - because Nicks’ song was about a woman from a novel that she read who gets possessed by a witch.

Other known artists in their set include Bonnie Raitt, Shawn Colvin, Simon & Garfunkel, and Carole King. They’ve also found “Gasoline and Matches” by Buddy and Julie Miller to be a time-tested and good fit.

In February, the duo celebrated the 60th anniversary of The Beatles’ appearance on The Ed Sullivan Show by performing a set of the British rock band’s music at the Penny Bar, located below Moe’s BBQ right off the Square.

Harrington has been a lifelong fan of The Beatles and was excited to adapt the Harrington-Holman Duo’s sound to the band’s famous harmonies.

He recalled growing up and sitting in front of a record player, learning Beatles songs with his brother, and said he always had a soft spot for George Harrison’s original songs.

“It’s funny how ‘Here Comes The Sun’ and ‘While My Guitar Gently Weeps’ are in their top songs on Spotify,” said Harrington.

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for 2024 WEDDING GIFT TRENDS

BY MISSY WILSON, OWNER OF PROVISION OXFORD

1. What wedding gift trends do you anticipate in 2024?

I think we will see brides add more casual items to their registries; less formal dinnerware and more items for everyday living.

2.

What do you recommend for those who wish to give a timeless treasure?

My “go-to” for a classic timeless piece is Simon Pearce hand hand-blown glass made in Vermont.

Their pieces are gorgeous, classic shapes with a modern flare; great for the casual bride, the traditional, and the formal bride!

3. What items do new couples show the most

interest in?

When the bride and groom register together, most of the items they choose are for entertaining purposes such as barware, nice stemware, and charcuterie/cooking items.

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I am a Southern girl and my motto is, “Everything is better with a monogram.” So, we monogram anything and everything from bed linens to towels to table linens and anything in between! We also offer beautiful personalized stationery.

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love to help them find something we can personalize with the bride and groom’s initials!

Made just for them!

*Monogrammed Towel Sets *Simon Pearce Stemware/Barware *Montes Doggett Dinnerware and Serving Pieces

6. Wedding gift ideas under $100 *Monogrammed Dinner Napkins

7. Wedding gift ideas under $50 *Colorful Hand-Blown Stemless Wine

Glasses *Monogram Cocktail Napkins *Barbara Biel Hand-Made Blessing Crosses to Bless Their New Home *Picture Frames *Charcuterie Boards for Entertaining

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Cakes WEDDING

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Too Pretty To Eat

We asked readers to submit photos of their wedding cakes in Oxford from 2023. We had a tremendous response and gorgeous cakes of all sizes.

We wish we could have included them all, but here is a sample of our favorites.

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Childress-Middleton wedding at The Graduate

Rogers’ Wedding Cake by Nana

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The Giardinos, Stacy Cakes LLC

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WEDDINGS CHAMPAGNE COCKTAIL Ingredients •1 bottle dry champagne or sparkling white wine •1 oz strawberry simple syrup •1/2 cup water •1/2 cup sugar •1 cup strawberries •Strawberries and blackberries to garish •cocktail picks for garnish

Instructions for Strawberry Simple Syrup 1.Add the water, sugar, and strawberries into a saucepan.

2.Let the mixture simmer until sugar has dissolved and berries are tender, about 20 minutes.

3.Remove pan from heat and let it cool completely.

4.Strain into a bottle/jar making sure to squeeze any excess juice from berries.

Instructions for cocktail 1.Add 1 oz of strawberry syrup (or more to taste) in champagne coupe or glass 2.Top off with chilled champagne or sparkling white wine 3. Cut extra strawberries into hearts and skewer the hearts and the extra blackberries on a cocktail pick. (as shown in the photo of the cocktail) 4. Garnish the cocktail with a finished pick and enjoy. Cheers!

CLASSIC SHRIMP SCAMPI Ingredients •4 tablespoons unsalted butter, divided •1 tablespoon extra virgin olive oil •1 shallot, minced (about 3 tablespoons) •3 garlic cloves, minced •1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper flakes •1 pound extra large shrimp, peeled and deveined with tails intact •1/2 cup dry white wine •zest from 1 lemon •2 teaspoons minced parsley •salt and pepper to taste Instructions 1.Place a large skillet over medium heat. Melt 2 tablespoons butter and the oil together.

2.Add shallots, garlic and pepper flakes and sauté for 2 to 3 minutes.

3.Add shrimp and continue to sauté for 3 minutes, until shrimp begin to turn pink.

Season with salt and pepper.

4.Transfer shrimp to plate.

5.Pour wine into skillet and simmer for 1 minute.

6.Melt remaining butter and return shrimp back to skillet.

Continue to cook until shrimp has just cooked through, 2 to 3 minutes. Season with salt and pepper. Remove skillet from heat and top with parsley and lemon zest.

Serve.

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WEDDINGS STRAWBERRY TARTLETS Ingredients •1 sheet puff pastry •1 pint strawberries •¼ cup granulated sugar •¼ teaspoon rosewater •1 tablespoon powdered sugar •1 teaspoon dried crushed rose petals Instructions 1.Preheat the oven to 400 degrees F. 2.Slice the strawberries into rounds. Toss them with the granulated sugar and rosewater in a small mixing bowl. Allow them to rest for at least five minutes.

3.Cut the pastry into 12 hearts using a 3 ½ inch wide cookie cutter or cut into 10 to 12 rectangles.

4.Lay the hearts or rectangles on a parchmentlined baking sheet and top with the cut strawberries. Shake any excess sugar or moisture off the berries. Leave a ¼ inch border on each tart.

5.Bake the tarts for 15 to 20 minutes, or until they are golden brown and puffed on the edges.

6.Remove the tarts from the oven, allow them to cool for 2 to 3 minutes before dusting with the powdered sugar and dried rose petals.

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Anniversary

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WITH TRADITIONAL GIFTS E STAFF REPORT

very year of marriage is a milestone to celebrate, and there are special gifts that correspond to each anniversary. These gifts have a long history and symbolism, dating back to the Victorian era or even earlier. Whether you want to follow the traditional or modern themes, or mix and match them, here are some ideas to inspire you for your next anniversary celebration.

FIRST ANNIVERSARY: PAPER

Paper represents the first year of marriage because it symbolizes a blank page, ready to be filled with your memories and stories. Paper also signifies the fragility and strength of your relationship, as it can be easily torn but also holds together when folded or glued.

Some paper gift ideas are: A personalized photo book or calendar with your favorite pictures from your first year of marriage.

A journal or scrapbook where you can write down your thoughts, feelings, and plans for the future.

A love letter or poem expressing your gratitude and affection for your spouse.

Tickets to a concert, movie, or show that you both enjoy.

A subscription to a magazine or newspaper that interests your spouse.

If you want to follow the modern theme, the first anniversary gift is a clock. This symbolizes the time you have spent together and the time you have ahead of you. You can give your spouse a watch, a wall clock, or a personalized clock with your wedding date or a meaningful message.

SECOND ANNIVERSARY: COTTON

Cotton is the traditional gift for the second anniversary because it represents the comfort and durability of your marriage.

Cotton is soft and cozy, but also strong and

resilient. It can adapt to different seasons and situations, just like your relationship.

Some cotton gift ideas are: A cozy blanket or quilt that you can snuggle under together.

A set of matching pajamas or robes that you can wear on lazy mornings or nights.

A personalized pillow or cushion with your names, initials, or a sweet message.

A cotton canvas with a painting or print of something meaningful to you, such as your wedding venue, your honeymoon destination, or your favorite quote.

A cotton tote bag or backpack that you can use for your travels or adventures.

The modern theme for the second anniversary is china, which symbolizes the elegance and sophistication of your marriage. China is also fragile and delicate, so it requires care and attention, just like your relationship.

Some china gift ideas are: A set of fine china dishes or cups that you can use for special occasions or everyday meals.

A china figurine or ornament that

represents something you love or admire, such as an animal, a flower, or a character.

A china vase or bowl that you can fill with fresh flowers or fruits.

A china plate or platter that you can personalize with your names, wedding date, or a message.

A china tea set or coffee pot that you can enjoy together.

THIRD ANNIVERSARY: LEATHER

Leather is the traditional gift for the third anniversary because it represents the protection and security of your marriage.

Leather is durable and flexible, and it can withstand wear and tear. It also ages well, becoming more beautiful and valuable over time.

Some leather gift ideas are: A leather jacket or coat that you can wear on chilly days or nights.

A leather wallet or purse that you can use to store your money and cards.

A leather belt or bracelet that you can accessorize with your outfits.

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A leather journal or notebook that you can use to record your thoughts, dreams, and goals.

A leather keychain or luggage tag that you can attach to your keys or bags.

The modern theme for the third anniversary is crystal or glass, which symbolizes the clarity and sparkle of your marriage. Crystal or glass is also fragile and transparent, so it requires honesty and trust, just like your relationship.

Some crystal or glass gift ideas are: A crystal or glass vase or bowl that you can fill with flowers or candies.

A crystal or glass figurine or ornament that represents something you cherish or admire, such as a heart, a star, or a butterfly.

A crystal or glass wine glass or champagne flute that you can toast with on your anniversary.

A crystal or glass picture frame or mirror that you can display with a photo of you and your spouse.

A crystal or glass pendant or earrings that you can wear to add some sparkle to your look.

4TH ANNIVERSARY: LINEN OR SILK

Linen or silk represents the smoothness and comfort of your marriage. Some linen or silk gift ideas are: A set of luxurious linen or silk

sheets or pillowcases for your bed.

A linen or silk scarf or tie that matches your spouse’s style.

The modern theme for the 4th anniversary is appliances, which symbolize the convenience and practicality of your relationship.

Some appliance gift ideas are: A coffee maker or electric kettle that you can use to brew your favorite drinks.

A toaster oven or air fryer that you can use to make delicious snacks.

The 4th anniversary color is blue or green, which represent calmness and growth. The flowers are geraniums or hydrangeas, which signify friendship and gratitude. The gemstone is blue topaz, which is a light blue stone that symbolizes love and fidelity.

5TH ANNIVERSARY: WOOD

Wood represents the strength and stability of your marriage.

Some wood gift ideas are: A wooden picture frame or plaque that you can engrave with your names, wedding date, or a message.

A wooden chess set or board game that you can play together.

The modern theme for the 5th anniversary is silverware, which symbolizes the elegance and refinement of your relationship.

Some silverware gift ideas are: A set of silver spoons, forks, or

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A silver necklace or bracelet that you can wear to accessorize your outfits.

The 5th anniversary color is turquoise or pink, which represent joy and romance. The flowers are daisies or roses, which signify innocence and love. The gemstone is sapphire, which is a dark blue stone that symbolizes wisdom and loyalty.

6TH ANNIVERSARY: IRON

Iron represents the durability and resilience of your marriage.

Some iron gift ideas are: A cast iron skillet or dutch oven that you can use to cook your favorite dishes.

A wrought iron candle holder or wall art that you can display in your home.

The modern theme for the 6th anniversary is wood, which symbolizes the natural and organic nature of your relationship. Some wood gift

ideas are: A wooden wine rack or cheese board that you can use for your entertaining needs.

A wooden watch or ring that you can wear to show your timelessness.

The 6th anniversary color is purple or white, which represent royalty and purity. The flowers are calla lilies or orchids, which signify beauty and elegance. The gemstone is amethyst, which is a purple stone that symbolizes peace and protection.

7TH ANNIVERSARY: WOOL OR COPPER

Wool or copper represents the warmth and coziness of your marriage. Some wool or copper gift ideas are: A woolen sweater or blanket that you can cuddle under together.

A copper mug or pitcher that you can use to serve your favorite drinks.

The modern theme for the 7th

anniversary is desk sets, which symbolize the productivity and organization of your relationship.

Some desk set gift ideas are: A desk organizer or calendar that you can use to keep track of your tasks and appointments.

A pen or pencil holder or case that you can use to store your writing tools.

The 7th anniversary color is yellow or off-white, which represent happiness and harmony. The flowers are freesias or jack-in-the-pulpits, which signify trust and faith. The gemstone is onyx, which is a black stone that symbolizes strength and courage.

8TH ANNIVERSARY: BRONZE OR POTTERY

Bronze or pottery represents the beauty and creativity of your marriage. Some bronze or pottery gift ideas are: A bronze statue or sculpture that represents something you love or admire.

A pottery vase or bowl that you can fill with flowers or fruits.

The modern theme for the 8th anniversary is linen or lace, which symbolize the delicacy and grace of your relationship. Some linen or lace gift ideas are: A linen tablecloth or napkin that you can use for your dining table.

A lace dress or lingerie that you can wear to spice up your night.

The 8th anniversary color is bronze or pottery, which match the traditional themes. The flowers are clematis or lilacs, which signify admiration and confidence. The gemstone is tourmaline, which is a multicolored stone that symbolizes diversity and balance.

9TH ANNIVERSARY: WILLOW OR POTTERY

Willow or pottery represents the flexibility and adaptability of your marriage. Some willow or pottery gift ideas are: A willow basket or hamper

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WEDDINGS that you can use to store your belongings or picnic items.

A pottery mug or plate that you can use to enjoy your morning or evening meals.

The modern theme for the 9th anniversary is leather, which symbolizes the protection and security of your relationship.

Some leather gift ideas are: A leather jacket or coat that you can wear on chilly days or nights.

A leather wallet or purse that you can use to store your money and cards.

The 9th anniversary color is terracotta or brown, which represent earthiness and stability. The flowers are poppies or bird of paradise, which signify remembrance and joy. The gemstone is lapis lazuli, which is a blue stone that symbolizes truth and wisdom.

10TH ANNIVERSARY: TIN OR ALUMINUM

Tin or aluminum represents the durability and preservation

of your marriage. Some tin or aluminum gift ideas are: A tin or aluminum box or container that you can use to keep your valuables or mementos.

A tin or aluminum sign or poster that you can hang on your wall or door.

The modern theme for the 10th anniversary is diamond jewelry, which symbolizes the sparkle and brilliance of your relationship. Some diamond jewelry gift ideas are: A diamond ring or necklace that you can wear to show your love and commitment.

A diamond cufflink or earring that you can wear to add some shine to your look.

The 10th anniversary color is silver or blue, which represent elegance and serenity. The flowers are daffodils or narcissus, which signify rebirth and hope.

The gemstone is diamond, which is a clear stone that symbolizes love and eternity.

11TH ANNIVERSARY: STEEL

Steel represents the strength and durability of your marriage.

Some steel gift ideas are: A steel knife or cutlery set that you can use for your kitchen or dining needs.

A steel watch or bracelet that you can wear to tell the time or accessorize your outfits.

The modern theme for the 11th anniversary is fashion jewelry, which symbolizes the style and flair of your relationship.

Some fashion jewelry gift ideas are: A fashion necklace or pendant that you can wear to complement your outfits.

A fashion ring or brooch that you can wear to add some color or sparkle to your look.

The 11th anniversary color is turquoise or yellow, which represent joy and energy. The flowers are tulips or morning glory, which signify love and

happiness. The gemstone is turquoise, which is a blue-green stone that symbolizes healing and protection.

12TH ANNIVERSARY: SILK OR LINEN

Silk or linen represents the smoothness and comfort of your marriage. Some silk or linen gift ideas are: A silk robe or nightgown that you can wear to relax or sleep.

A linen shirt or dress that you can wear to stay cool and casual.

The modern theme for the 12th anniversary is pearls, which symbolize the beauty and value of your relationship. Some pearl gift ideas are: A pearl necklace or earrings that you can wear to show your elegance and grace.

A pearl cuff or anklet that you can wear to show your playfulness and charm.

The 12th anniversary color is oyster white or jade, which represent purity and harmony.

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The modern theme for the 14th anniversary is gold jewelry, which symbolizes the richness and beauty of your relationship.

Some gold jewelry gift ideas are: A gold ring or necklace that you can wear to show your love and commitment.

A gold cufflink or earring that you can wear to add some shine to your look.

The 14th anniversary color is ivory or red, which represent elegance and passion. The flowers are orchids or dahlias, which signify love and admiration.

The flowers are peonies or hollyhock, which signify romance and abundance. The gemstone is jade, which is a green stone that symbolizes luck and prosperity.

13TH ANNIVERSARY: LACE

Lace represents the delicacy and grace of your marriage.

Some lace gift ideas are: A lace tablecloth or doily that you can use to decorate your table or furniture.

A lace scarf or shawl that you can wear to keep warm or stylish.

The modern theme for the 13th anniversary is textiles or furs, which symbolize the warmth and coziness of your relationship. Some textile or fur gift ideas are: A textile quilt or blanket that you can use to snuggle under together.

A fur coat or hat that you can wear to stay warm and fashionable.

The 13th anniversary color is white or citrine, which represent light and joy. The flowers are chrysanthemums or sunflowers, which signify optimism and loyalty. The gemstone is citrine, which is a yellow stone that symbolizes happiness and success.

14TH ANNIVERSARY: IVORY

Ivory represents the rarity and elegance of your marriage. Some ivory gift ideas are: An ivory figurine or ornament that represents something you love or admire.

An ivory comb or brush that

15TH ANNIVERSARY: CRYSTAL

Crystal represents the clarity and sparkle of your marriage.

Some crystal gift ideas are: A crystal vase or bowl that you can fill with flowers or candies.

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WEDDINGS champagne flute that you can toast with on your anniversary.

The modern theme for the 15th anniversary is watches, which symbolize the timelessness and precision of your relationship.

Some watch gift ideas are: A watch that matches your spouse’s style and personality.

A personalized watch that has your names, wedding date, or a message engraved on it.

The 15th anniversary color is ruby red, which represents passion and romance. The flowers are roses, which signify love and beauty. The gemstone is ruby, which is a red stone that symbolizes love and courage.

20TH ANNIVERSARY: CHINA

China represents the elegance and sophistication of your marriage.

Some china gift ideas are: A set of fine china dishes or cups that you can use for special occasions or everyday meals.

A china figurine or ornament that represents something you

cherish or admire, such as an animal, a flower, or a character.

The modern theme for the 20th anniversary is platinum, which symbolizes the strength and durability of your relationship. Some platinum gift ideas are: A platinum ring or necklace that you can wear to show your love and commitment.

A platinum cufflink or earring that you can wear to add some

shine to your look.

The 20th anniversary color is emerald green or white, which represent freshness and purity.

The flowers are daylilies or aster, which signify devotion and wisdom. The gemstone is emerald, which is a green stone that symbolizes hope and faith.

25TH ANNIVERSARY: SILVER

Silver represents the radiance

and brilliance of your marriage.

Some silver gift ideas are: A silver picture frame or plaque that you can engrave with your names, wedding date, or a message.

A silver candle holder or tray that you can display in your home.

The modern theme for the 25th anniversary is silver, which matches the traditional theme.

Silver is a versatile and valuable metal that reflects the qualities of your relationship. Some silver gift ideas are: A silver anniversary album or scrapbook that you can fill with your photos and memories.

A silver anniversary cake or dessert that you can enjoy together.

The 25th anniversary color is silver, which matches the traditional and modern themes.

The flowers are irises or roses, which signify faith and love. The gemstone is silver, which is not technically a stone but a precious metal that reflects the value and beauty of your relationship.

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ANDREA GONZALEZ LEVI GAZAWAY FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

My favorite moment was after our ceremony! We chose to eat together privately and that really allowed us time to take everything in and just have some quality time together at our wedding. It is something I’ll always recommend to brides, because it certainly wasn’t something I thought of on my own but I’m so so glad we decided to do that!

CEREMONY DATE November 11,2023

VENUE

The Jefferson Oxford

FLORIST

Ava Sue’s Flowers & Lisa Gant

CATERER

Nathan Fondren

WEDDING DRESS

Lows Bridal & Engagements in Grenada

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES Birdy Grey

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Rosario Gonzalez for Hair & Lauren Aldridge for makeup

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE Jos. A Bank

MUSIC

DJ Connection

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ANSLEY PLUNK WALT PILLOW HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

We met at Ole Miss. The first time we met was at the Ivy League Spring Party our Freshman year. Our first date was at a Phi Delta Theta Date Party at the beginning of our sophomore year.

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

Walt proposed on his family’s farm outside Greenwood, MS in Minter City, MS. Walt told me he needed to stop by the farm to grab a “weed eater” for his dad on the way to dinner.

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DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

My Wedding Dress is a strapless sweetheart neckline and ballgown silhouette. The fabric for the entire dress is very delicate handmade lace. I fell in love with the antique look of the lace and the princess ball gown felt very fitting for me. I purchased it from The Bridal Path in Madison, MS.

CEREMONY DATE

December 2nd, 2023

VENUE

The Isom Place

RECEPTION VENUE The Isom Place

WEDDING PLANNER Anna Haley Purvis

FLORIST

Oxford Floral

CATERER

Tallahatchie Gourmet

CATERER

Brides Cake - Lisa Whitehead Bakery / Groom’s Cake Grapevine Cakes

WEDDING DRESS The Bridal Path

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES Bella Bridesmaids

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Libby Kyle Ragland Dallas Nut (Hair)

(MUA)

MUSIC

Groove Factor Band

BAR

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BRIAUNNA GALEY ZAC JENKINS HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

On a mission trip in Cuba with Cru

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

He proposed in January in the middle of the square

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

I bought my dress from Maggie Louise and it is a strapless corset-style bodice with a sculptured neckline with floral lace embellishment and added on the neckline for that garden party/ cottagecore look.

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

Getting to say I do!! Then dancing the night away with all my close family and friends :)

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

My flowers!! So many of my friends put the whole wedding together. It was so special to see everyone that I love had a special hand and part in my wedding.

WHAT YOU'RE DOING NOW

We both moved to Orlando shortly after getting married and we love it here!

CEREMONY DATE August 12th, 2022

VENUE

Isom Place

RECEPTION VENUE Isom Place

FLORIST Amy Cole

CATERER Fergndans

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES

Bella Bridesmaids - light pink/ champagne Draped twist halter dress.

HAIR AND MAKEUP

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CHANNING DAVIS REAGAN MARTIN TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

Rea said he wanted to go check out Phi Mu Fountain because there was an engraving of a former Southern Miss SAE (Reagan’s school and fraternity) and an Ole Miss Phi Mu (my school and sorority) who had donated money to the fountain.

Little did I know, my sister was hiding in the bushes at Bondurant Hall and captured Reagan getting down on one knee and asking me to marry him in front of Phi Mu Fountain.

The Paris-Yates Chapel bells rang and I was just so excited - I couldn’t stop smiling! It was a surprise because I didn’t think we would be engaged until later

that spring. We went to dinner at Oxford Grillehouse afterwards and then met up with friends and family at the Coop for cake and drinks and to celebrate my birthday and our engagement!

Describe your Wedding Dress My dress truly felt like Hollywood glam meets Cinderella. I felt like a princess, but also timeless!

My custom toile tablecloths that featured places that were and still are special to Reagan and I. My mom had the pattern made into fabric for a couple of table cloths at the wedding. She also made sure we were given the extra fabric to be made into pillows and other accents for our home.

FLORIST

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

CEREMONY DATE August 8, 2023

WEDDING DRESS

I will never forget walking down the aisle and knowing that it was finally time to marry Reagan.

While Rea was overwhelmed with tears, I couldn’t help but smile because I was so giddy and ready to be each other’s, forever!

Favorite Wedding Details

VENUE

Castle Hill of Oxford

RECEPTION VENUE Castle Hill of Oxford

WEDDING PLANNER Emily Burton

Kelly Freeland

PHOTOGRAPHER

Taylor Square / Florist

CATERER

Brides Cake and Grooms Cake Bremmas Cakery

Invites - Surcie // Dress - The Bridal Path

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES

Show Me Your Mu Mu

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Amanda Kent and McKenna Goddard

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CHRISTY DEARIE JARED FARLOW TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

While on a beach vacation on 30A, Jared popped the question! Jared took me to my favorite restaurant in Alys beach and asked if I’d go watch the sunset with him afterwards.

It was so beautiful on the beach and while I thought in my head how perfect of a time it would be for him to propose, I didn’t think it was going to happen then. Jared caught me by surprise when he pulled out my dreaming and asked me to marry him! It was the perfect moment!

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

I got my wedding dress from

Grace Loves Lace in Nashville, TN. After trying on what felt like hundreds of dresses, I instantly knew this dress was the one when I tried it on. It was elegant, stunning, and felt like it was made for me. The fabric was made out of a stretch crepe material, which made the dress super comfortable. At the end of the night, I changed into a gorgeous sparkly wedding dress from Olivia Bottega.

exchange private vows, and pray with each other before the ceremony.

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

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Instead of doing a first look, Jared and I did a first touch and prayer together- this was my favorite wedding detail! We were separated by a wall and were able to hold hands,

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

Jared and I are still living in Oxford, and we are loving it! While working with Ole Miss FCA, Jared got the opportunity to become the Ole Miss football team chaplain.

We are so blessed! We look forward to staying in Oxford and seeing where life takes us!

March 25, 2023

VENUE

Castle Hill

RECEPTION VENUE Castle Hill

FLORIST

Bankhead Flower Shop

CATERER Castle Hill

WEDDING DRESS Grace Loves Lace

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES Six Stories

HAIR AND MAKEUP Lindsey Saenz

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE The Black Tux

BAR

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EMMARAE NEWMAN JAKE FRANKLIN HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

We met at our high school, Kirk Academy in 2018 when I was a sophomore and he was a junior. We didn’t start dating until college though!

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

Last November, Jake drove me to my parents house for a dinner we had planned for that evening. When we pulled up, he took the road out to my dad’s shop instead of the driveway. Behind the shop, there was an arch that was lit up with candles. It was perfect!

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

I loved my dress!! It was a ballgown fit with lots of tulle. It had tiny pearls sewn into the bodice to match the pearls on my veil!

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

My favorite moment definitely was immediately after the ceremony when I finally got to hug Jake and just take it all in with him for the first time because we chose not to do a first look.

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

We got married on my late Uncle’s birthday so we had a birthday cake for him as well (red velvet because that was his favorite!)

CEREMONY DATE

Saturday September 23, 2023

VENUE

First Baptist Church of Water Valley, MS

RECEPTION VENUE

First Baptist Church of Water Valley, MS

FLORIST

Zandra Walker

CATERER

Bride and Grooms cake- Baked by Birdie

by Alana Josh Harris

WEDDING DRESS David’s Bridal

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES David’s Bridal

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Alaina Quarles (also my maid of honor!)

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE

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GARROW MILES CONNOR MCKAY HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

We met at the first wedding I did flowers for in my home town, Union City, TN. Back story, I started my own flower business while in college, Garrow’s Garden.

The wedding I did flowers for happened to be Connor’s distant cousin’s wedding.

We met at the reception.

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

Connor proposed to me in Sea Island, GA at the Cloister under the oak trees. It was the most beautiful scenery.

It was the same place he asked me to be his girlfriend.

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

My wedding had three different venues and I wanted each dress to echo the surroundings and feel of each one. Therefore, I had three dresses. My ceremony dress was simple and understated to go along with the simplicity and elegance of the chapel. My reception dress had a petal applique from head to toe. This was perfect considering I had a flower feature that rained Calla Lilies from the ceiling to floor. The third dress was decked with beads that would flow with movement.

It was the perfect party dress for the after party and DJ.

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

Favorite Wedding Details My favorite wedding detail

had to be the raining Calla Lilies. I met with David from Oxford Floral several times for hours figuring out the structure and how we would accomplish the attraction.

As a retired florist, I knew I wanted to do something different and something that made a statement without too much chaos. I think David executed my vision perfectly.

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

I am currently the principal designer at my firm Garrow Interiors based out of Nashville, TN. Connor is pursuing his career in professional golf.

We stay busy, but we love to travel together in our free time.

CEREMONY DATE 6/2/23

VENUE

The Chapel at Plein Air, The Lawn at Plein Air, and The Mill at Plein Air

FLORIST

Oxford Floral

CATERER

A&N Catering

WEDDING DRESS

Maggie Louise, afterparty dress- The Showroom

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES Bella’s Bridesmaids

HAIR AND MAKEUP Gina Marie

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GRACE ALFORD CHRISTIAN SHUPE HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

We were set up on a date by mutual friends in Nashville.

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

Christian asked me to be a part of their family photos in June. We showed up to one of the most beautiful places in Nashville called Percy Warner Park and there was a picnic set up in a green space. Christian asked to marry me, and then we celebrated with friends and family after!

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

I fell in love with my dress from the moment I put it on. It was simple, elegant, and classy! It was everything I wanted and more. I’ve always loved a strapless fitted gown, and it was a fully laced dress.

WEDDING DRESS

It is hard to pick one! Our ceremony was so special, from the beautiful music, to serving communion, and worshiping the Lord. It was everything we hoped for and more!

Parlour 3. Christian is in pool construction, and works for his family owned company, Patriot Pools.

CEREMONY DATE

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

Oxford University Methodist Church

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

During our ceremony we had an antique family heirloom Bible walked down the aisle. In my bouquet I carried a brooch that belonged to my late grandmother.

And we got married in the church where my parents, grandparents, and many other family members have been married.

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

I work as a hairstylist in Nashville at a wonderful salon called

12/9/2023

VENUE

Bella Bridesmaids United

RECEPTION VENUE The Isom Place

FLORIST

Mary Kate Steele florist- Oxford Floral

CATERER

A&N Catering

CATERER

Invitations - Fresh Ink ; Wedding Dress- Monique Lhuillier purchased at Maggie Louise

Brides Cake- Ellen Cookies; grooms cake: Debbie’s cakes

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Hair- La Rousse Salon and Spa; makeup - me!

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE Finch and Kelly

MUSIC

The DMP Band

BAR

Transportation Trolly - Rebel Ride; Getaway car: Hotty Toddy wedding cars; BarA&N Catering

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KARA COOK FORD GORDON HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

Ford and I met through mutual friends in the seventh grade, and we were friends for a few years before we started dating in the fall of our sophomore year of high school.

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

Ford and I both felt that our ceremony was really special, and we are thankful for that because we knew it was the most important part of the day. In the months before the wedding, we spent some time doing premarital counseling with Eddie Rester, our officiant, so we all had the opportunity to get to know each other well. Although we were standing before a chapel of 300 people, it felt as if it was just the three of us in the room at

some moments.

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

I really love a clean and classic wedding look, and with almost every design decision made, I tried to choose timeless over trendy. I hoped to be able to look back on my wedding photos decades from now and have no regrets. I did decide to push myself outside of the classic box a bit by incorporating a little color.

For our July wedding, I envisioned pale blue mixed with whites, creams, and lots of greenery.

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

Ford and I are both in our last semester of school at UMMC in Jackson. In May, I will graduate from dental school and he will graduate from medical school.

We are looking forward to

moving into the next phase of life together!

WEDDING DRESS

CEREMONY DATE

wedding dress - Elle James; invitations - ASAP Printing

July 8, 2023

VENUE

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES

Castle Hill Oxford

Bella Bridesmaids Ridgeland

RECEPTION VENUE

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Castle Hill Oxford

WEDDING PLANNER

Emily Burton - wedding planner Photographer - Mackenzie Rue of Taylor Square Photography

Fresh Cut Catering and Floral

Adam Collier - AJC and the Envelope Pushers

Castle Hill Oxford

and

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE

MUSIC

CATERER

Bride

April Epps (Makeup); Heart and Soul by Ally Nicole (hair)

Squires Formalwear

FLORIST

CATERER

Bremma’s Bakery

BAR Groom’s

Cake

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KATHRYN DAVIS ROBERT NANCE HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

Robert and I met during our Senior year of college at Ole Miss in 2017.

Funny enough, I met Miley (his dog and our future flower dog!) before I met Robert. One of my roommates was watching Miley and she actually ended up staying with me that night and got all the belly rubs and cuddles. A week later, we were hanging out at Robert’s house which was always known as the “Warren Street house” and I was reunited with Miley again. I was giving Miley all the pets and love and her owner walked up to me (which was Robert) and asked how I knew Miley which resulted in us talking the rest of the night. Fast forward, 6 years later and Miley is still as smiley as ever and even helped us celebrate our marriage by walking down the aisle as one of our flower girls. So it’s safe to say that Miley was our match-maker.

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

Elegant strapless satin wedding ball gown with a draped heart-

shaped cut with a very long train and custom bow in the back. The original dress was supposed to have off the shoulder straps but I had my seamstress remove the straps as well as sew on the belt and make a larger and more prominent bow. I truly felt like a princess! My veil was cathedral length with 3D florals (pearls in the center of each flower).

ball flower extravaganza above the dance floor truly blew me away.

Oxford Floral did an amazing job! I also loved every detail that we incorporated Miley into -- the napkins, the cups, the signature drink signage. We even had a cutout of Miley’s head for the photobooth that also ended up on the dance floor!

FLORIST

Melange Bridal - Austin,TX

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

We’re living in Austin, TX, settling into married life together.

Working, eating and hiking our way through Austin. You never know -- we may end up back in Oxford sometime soon!

It’s so hard to just choose one! But I would say as soon as we said our vows and walked back down the aisle as husband and wife was truly the best feeling in the world. We went back to our private room to have a private meal before we joined in on the reception fun and we both looked at each other and held up our rings and said “we did it!!!” Such a surreal feeling that we both will never forget.

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

Disco, disco and more disco balls!!

I have always been obsessed with disco, flowers and blues. The disco

Oxford Floral

CATERER

Stan Gibson Culinary Events

CATERER

Alice Chow - Bride’s Cake

WEDDING DRESS

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES Birdy Grey

HAIR AND MAKEUP

CEREMONY DATE

Hair -- DMR Salon & Extensions Bar and Makeup - Mary Shields Hunter

VENUE

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE

The Jefferson

The Black Tux

RECEPTION VENUE

MUSIC

The Jefferson

Band - Soul Shockers

WEDDING PLANNER

BAR

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Transportation -- Oxford Trolley Company

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MARGARET HORTON COLIN KEGEL HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

Funny story - we actually reconnected through Facebook during quarantine!

We both grew up in the same home town (Memphis). Colin was currently living in Atlanta at the time, but we still made time to see eachother during all the crazy Covid madness.

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

I remember mentioning to Colin months prior how fun it would be to get engaged in front of the tree at The Peabody during Christmas time. Of course he made it happen! I thought I was meeting some family friends for a girls night, little did I know I would be getting engaged. My best friend pulled me aside to take a picture in front of the tree and the next thing I knew Colin came out from behind the tree and proposed! Such a surreal experience and he made it so perfect. He had all of our friends and family waiting on the mezzanine above. Seeing them and being so surprised was one of my favorite moments of the night!

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

One of my favorite details was our incredible florals! David and crew at Oxford Floral executed my vision so perfectly!

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

We are currently living in Memphis! Colin works in medical device sales and I am an Esthetician at a local medispa called The Well by Pavo.

CEREMONY DATE January 14 2023

VENUE

Castle Hill of Oxford

RECEPTION VENUE Castle Hill of Oxford

WEDDING PLANNER Rebekah Page

FLORIST

Oxford Floral

CATERER Castle Hill

WEDDING DRESS

Nicole Barre bridal boutique

Satin fit to flare gown with a sweetheart neckline

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Being whisked away during cocktail hour to the peace and quiet of the parlor with my new husband! Just the two of us. It was such a special moment where we were able to really take it all in.

Bella bridesmaids Memphis

Makeup - Cozy hawkinson, Maddie Merwin HairCheyenne Harper, Jessica Mikulski

MUSIC

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MARY CANNON BARRETT TREVOR WALTERS HOW DID YOU TWO MEET? Tell us proposal

about

the

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

My dress was a candle light colored satin gown with pleats at the waist.

It had a lace overlay with a boat neckline so beautifully crafted by Julia Ray. The dress itself was a remake of my grandmother’s wedding dress. All of the material that was used to make my dress was from her dress. It was both my something old and new.

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

My favorite moment was our first look. It was just so magical and special to both of us!

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

Our favorite wedding details were our Cigar Bar provided by Anu Amen-Ra aka The Sartorial Tobacconist.

He was accompanied by his brother, Dokk, who wrote custom poetry pieces for each of our guests. They truly created a p e r s o n a l i z e d experience.

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW Ceremony date 06/10/2023

VENUE

St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church

RECEPTION VENUE

The Chancellor’s House (Oliver Hotel)

WEDDING PLANNER Ellen Thomas

FLORIST

Oxford Floral (David Naron)

CATERER

Elizabeth Heiskell & Sushi Jimmi

WEDDING DRESS

Custom dress made By Julia Ray

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES Bellas Jackson

Bridesmaids

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Katie Jo at Amara Salon

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE

Thomas Brothers

MUSIC

The Memphis Review

Soul

BAR

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MARY SLOAN MORRIS MICHAEL SMART HOW DID YOU TWO MEET? We are actually middle school sweethearts! He was my first kiss in the 7th grade. We went our separate ways for about 10 years and then reconnected in 2020.

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL We were on vacation with my family in 30A and we had all gotten dresses up to go out to a nice dinner and take pictures at sunset on the beach. He totally surprised me believe it or not! It was so special to have my family there to

celebrate with us.

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

My wedding dress was a form fitting sleek white flare dress. I added large detachable puff sleeves and a cathedral-length pearled veil.

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

Dancing all night with all of my favorite people! We had the best band.

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

So hard to choose! I would say my

dress, our florals, and the disco balls!

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

WEDDING PLANNER Ellen Thomas

We live in Orlando, FL where I work in Advertising and Michael runs his own high end car detailing business - Smart Mobile Detailing.

FLORIST

CEREMONY DATE

Fresh Cut of Jackson

06/25/2022

Fresh Cut of Jackson

CATERER HAIR AND MAKEUP

VENUE

The Jefferson

Tiffany with The Parlour Room in Orlando, FL

RECEPTION VENUE

MUSIC

The Jefferson

Flavor Big Band

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MEREDITH PRESCOTT JACK COOPER HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

I don’t remember meeting Jack!

Our parents have been friends since before we were born, and I’ve just always known who he was because New Albany is a small town. We started dating in 2015!

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

My wedding dress was a silk fit and flare with a deep sweetheart neckline. The elegant Rivini gown from Maggie Louise Bridal was accented in the back with a single loop, draped bow and buttons to the waist. My silk trim, cathedral length veil extended delicately past the train of my dress. Complete with “Cooper Hoop’’ diamond earrings and a graduated diamond tennis necklace from Van Atkins Jewelers, I felt like a bride in every way!

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

The summer after my junior year in college, I traveled to Greece for a study abroad program. My family and Jack flew out at the end to join me for vacation. My brother kept joking that buying me ice cream, coffee, or a purse would be cheaper

than marrying me. Little did he (or I) know yet that Jack had plans to propose in Santorini. For months, my mom had been talking about taking family pictures in Santorini, so I thought nothing of it when she told us to be up and dressed early for pictures. After an hour in the sunshine taking family photos, during which I told Jack to empty his pants pockets, he and I went to take pictures on top of a secluded church. That’s where he proposed!

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

Jack and I had a private last dance to “I Don’t Dance” by Lee Brice as our guests exited the venue for our sparkler goodbye. The DMP Band was so sweet to sing one of our favorite songs and simply allow us to soak in the last few moments of our wedding day together.

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

Some of my favorite wedding details were those unseen by most guests.

Two fabric hearts were sewn into the hem of my dress. One was from the gingham dress my late grandmother wore when she and my grandfather eloped. The other heart was from a button down shirt of my late honor-

ary grandfather. The hearts were embroidered with the wedding dates that represented over sixty years of marriage. It was very special to honor such special people and strong examples of love in this way. I also wore my late grandmother’s wedding band, so she was celebrating with us the entire day.

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

CATERER

Tallahatchie Gourmet - Bride and Groom’s cake: Creative Cakes Tupelo

INVITATION

I designed the invitations and programs myself! Barber Printing in Tupelo printed them, and my mom and I assembled them.

Jack, our dog Marley, and I moved to Gluckstadt, MS in July. I am in my first year of medical school at The University of Mississippi Medical Center School of Medicine. Jack has been hired as a pilot for NetJets and recently completed his training for the Phenom 300.

WEDDING DRESS

CEREMONY DATE

Hair: Illume Salon - Makeup: Amanda Kent with Mississippi Wedding Stylists

June 10, 2023

VENUE

The Jefferson Oxford

Maggie Louise Bridal - Rivini (brand)

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES Dessy

HAIR AND MAKEUP

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE

Ellen Thomas Event Designs -

Thomas Brothers Formalwear Oxford

PHOTOGRAPHY

MUSIC

Taylor Square Photography

The DMP Band

FLORIST

JEWELRY

WEDDING PLANNER

Oxford Floral

Van Atkins Jewelers

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PARKER KENNEDY WILLIAM WILDMAN HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

At Brighton Village in Oxford, MS, while we were both undergrads.

William spotted Parker popping a bottle of Veuve Clicquot champagne across the pool, and he was smitten. We connected on social media a few days later, and the rest is history.

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

On Christmas Day 2020, William proposed to Parker at their favorite spot in Audubon Park in New Orleans. Throughout the pandemic, we would eat lunch together at a specific park bench in the park overlooking the duck ponds. It was our favorite place to retreat from the chaos of COVID, and this spot formed so many special memories for us early in our relationship, so our proposal there seemed appropriate. We had a busy day and were on the way to Parker’s grandparents’ house for Christmas Day festivities when William took a detour toward the park. Parker was frustrated as we were already late to lunch, so much so that William

eventually had to ask Parker to chill and go along with it. We, along with our dog Remington, made our way to our favorite spot where William asked Parker to marry him. Little did Parker know, the party at his grandparents’ house was also for our engagement, so they knew we we’d be a little late!

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

tee, which is essentially a tower of creme puffs encased in solid sugar.

We adopted this tradition in light of our wedding venue. We’d brought a beautiful cake knife with us that was gifted to us by David and Katie Naron at Oxford Floral, but per French tradition, we were actually to cut our cake with a sword from the chateau! It was a unique and memorable experience for everyone!

WEDDING PLANNER

Sarah Thomas and Guillaume Bernard, Sarah Thomas Events

FLORIST

Sarah Thomas Florals

CATERER

Lovage and Pumpernickel

WEDDING PARTY ATTIRE

All of our wedding party wore varied shades of emerald in formal gowns.

The transition from wedding reception to New Year’s Eve party. Our guests dressed to the nines for our wedding, which made for a swanky, chic New Year’s Eve party to ring in the new year. We danced until just before midnight when we all went outside of our venue to watch an amazing fireworks display. It was remarkable and symbolic to watch so many people we love enter a new chapter and also a new year with us in France!

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

Chateau le Chereau

Evan Xerri (harpist), Ensemble Obligato (string quartet)

RECEPTION VENUE

BAR

Our favorite detail had to be our wedding cake. In France, the traditional wedding cake is a Piece Mon-

Parker is the Owner and Founder of Pique by Parker Kennedy, a full-service luxury interior design firm and lifestyle boutique in the Historic Magazine Street District in Uptown New Orleans. William is an Associate Attorney in Baker Donelson’s New Orleans office.

CEREMONY DATE December 31, 2022

VENUE

Chateau le Chereau

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE

The grooms wore bespoke, black, double-breasted tuxedos from Indochino for the ceremony before changing into classic white dinner jackets for the seated dinner and green velvet jackets for the reception and New Year’s Eve party.

MUSIC

In Cocktail We Truck

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WEDDINGS

SHELBY EGERSON ANTAVIOUS HEROD HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

We met at Lafayette High School in 2010. We were the best of friends at that point!

TELL US ABOUT THE PROPOSAL

He proposed to me at El Agave. I was under the impression that we were bringing both sides of our families together for a “meet and greet.” They brought our daughter out in a shirt that said “Mommy, will you marry my DaDa?” It was so special!

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

I actually had my dress custom made by an online company called Amanda Novias (super scary). The dress turned out so much better than I could have ever imagined! I talked to Ms. Amanda for MONTHS before making a decision. I ultimately went through her entire site and put two dresses together.

She saw my vision and recreated it perfectly!

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

Other than marrying the man of my dreams, I believe my favorite moment of the day was my mom reading a heart felt letter that she wrote to me. It was so special because we have always been so close and she has always been by my side throughout every milestone.

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

I absolutely loved everything about the wedding and how it

turned out. As far as decorations, I think my favorite part was the arch, which was built by my husband and decorated by our decorator. Another favorite detail of mine was our dessert table. It was so beautiful and delicious! We also had canvases lined along the road leading up the ceremony!

CEREMONY DATE September 30, 2023

VENUE

Colonel’s Landing - Water Valley, MS

RECEPTION VENUE

Colonel’s Landing- Water Valley, MS

FLORIST

Mary Caldwell

CATERER

Helen Pettis

CATERER

Helen Pettis

WEDDING DRESS Amanda Novias

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES David’s Bridal

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Makeup- Anecia Robinson

GROOM AND GROOMSMEN ATTIRE Thomas Bros

MUSIC

Lemarcus Rhodes

BAR

Happy Hour Mobile Bartending

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SHURDEN GARRETT JOHN PILEGGI HOW DID YOU TWO MEET?

We met in college at a fraternity flag football fundraiser!

John was the coach of my sorority’s team.

DESCRIBE YOUR WEDDING DRESS

My vision was timeless, elegant, and simple. We got married in late November and I loved the clean look of long sleeves. My dress was simple crepe, high neck, and long sleeves, but with an open back.

FAVORITE MOMENT FROM YOUR BIG DAY

There are so many special moments from our wedding day, but my favorite moment was walking down the aisle with my dad and looking at all of the people who mean so much to John and me, from all over the country and from all chapters of our lives. We felt so loved!

FAVORITE WEDDING DETAILS

My Aunt Debbie is an artist and specializes in calligraphy.

She designed our wedding suite, painting of our venue (The Isom Place) that we used as a backdrop for our seating chart, menu, and a large velvet hand-beaded and hand-painted banner of our monogram.

Our wedding colors were vibrant lilac and moss green and she incorporated little elements of our florals and table settings so beautifully! My mom Kathey, owns Wagnolia Bells- a wedding day pet service, and worked with my Aunt Debbie to include our dog, Wendall, in parts of our wedding weekend (on a hand-

drawn map of Oxford, our welcome sign, cocktail sign, and koozies). This meant so much to us!

WHAT YOU’RE DOING NOW

John and I live just outside of Philadelphia, Pa. I am a fifth grade teacher and John works in industrial real estate.

CEREMONY DATE November 19, 2022

VENUE

First Baptist Church, Oxford

RECEPTION VENUE The Isom Place

WEDDING PLANNER

Ellen Thomas Event Design Photographer

FLORIST

Kamille Betts of Betts Made

CATERER

A&N Catering

CATERER

Bride’s Cake- Lisa Whitehead

WEDDING DRESS

Bhldn; Reception dress: Rime Arodaky

BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES Dessy Group

HAIR AND MAKEUP

Mary Shields Hunter (makeup) Allie Faith Styled (hair) Groom and Groomsmen attire

MUSIC

The Soul Tones- Oxford

BAR

A&N Catering

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