Parenting ● Education ● Assistance ● Support February 2012 Edition
One Year Later: Joshua Davis Jr., Still Missing RILYA Alert Kevin Dray Anderson Ashani Karin Creighton Aarone Thompson Michael Anthony Bennett Monica Renita Bennett Jaquilla Evonne Scales Ptah Ka’amen Diamond Kimberly Nicole Arrington
Dear Pastor Many months ago, I sent a letter to dozens of Pastors around the nation. However, I never did hear back from anyone. So, I thought it would be fitting to publish my original letter in hopes that I might be able to garner a more favorable response.
Dear Pastor, My name is GaĂŠtane Borders, and I am President of Peas In Their Pods, which is a nonprofit organization that aims to educate the nation about the epidemic of child abduction in the African American community. Sadly, the statistics show that a child is abducted every forty seconds. Moreover, 42% of these children are Black. Yet despite these astounding numbers, children of color receive the least media coverage when they go missing. The reasons for this disparity are vast, as a variety of issues come into play. One of the factors is that parents sometimes have limited resources such as a computer with Internet capabilities, or sometimes even a phone. In addition, with all the emotions that they face when their child goes missing, it is very difficult for these parents to think effectively. With the statistics as they are, it is very probable that a family within your area will be faced with the unconscionable truth that their child is missing. This is why we are reaching out to you and your congregation. We are asking many churches around our nation to agree to support these families in their communities. Examples of how you and your congregation can help include helping to pass out missing persons flyers, providing meals, and making calls on their behalf if needed. The ways to support these distraught families are endless! We sincerely hope that you will consider joining us in our efforts to help those in distress. Please contact us at your earliest convenience so that we can talk more in depth. We look forward to hearing from you. Sincerely,
GaĂŠtane F. Borders, Ed.S. President, Peas In Their Pods www.peasintheirpods.com
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Editor’s Note
Denise Bethune Were you aware that a child is abducted every 40 seconds in this country? Moreover, did you know that over 40% of these children are African American? If not, you are not alone because few people are aware of this epidemic. The truth is that African American children receive limited media coverage when they go missing. Sadly, without this exposure it is less likely that they will be safely found. The staff at Peas In Their Pods works diligently to spread awareness about this issue by alerting media outlets as needed when African American children are missing or abducted. The media play a critical role in getting news and information out to the public, maybe in the future the role of reporting will include the safety of our children by alerting the public when one of our children are in danger, especially our African American Children, the response time ; immediate. Our mission is to bring awareness to our communities the plight of these children, and to make them a national priority.
Janice Lowery - Founder In 2007 God stopped me in my tracks and told me He called me to do Peas in their pods. I prayed about it and after 6 month of praying, I told God no. One night at Midnight I was waken to a child crying "Help Me" I thought the child was in my leaving room. I got up and could not find her and realize it was God having me hear a child cry. With lots of pray Peas In Their Pods was up and running. We have relied on God forever thing. We know it's all about our missing children. He has send Peas A wonderful staff. We are so appreciated for all of you who have taken a interest in Peas because we know you were sent by God. Our prayer is someday there will be no need for Peas but until then we will keep on bringing awareness and trying to protect your children.
Hope Becton - Intern - Missing Children Articles My name is Hope Becton and I currently serving as an Intern with Peas in Their Pods this Spring 2012 Semester. I am a stay at home mom and full time student majoring in Communications. I am so excited to be working with Peas in Their Pods and so happy to know that the work I do for the organization is serving a meaningful purpose while receiving real practical experiences in the areas of my degree. I thank Peas in Their Pods for this wonderful opportunity. I know that this will be a truly blessed experience. www.peasintheirpods.com hfmbc@hotmail.com
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In This Edition
Peas In Their Pods ●
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Janice Lowery Chief Executive Officer
Dear Pastor President/Peas In Their Pods, Inc. - Gaetane Borders
Gaétane Borders President Training Specialist
What About Us?” - Deatra L. Harris
Denise Bethune Editor - P.E.A.S. Magazine Publicity Manager
Young Visioners - Terrance L. Stone
Pattie Fitzgerald Safety & Prevention Advisor
Future Executives, Inc Simone-Monet Wahls My Box of Chocolates Author Sharon Fox Good Cooking For The Mind, Body & Soul C.U.L.T.I.V.A.T.E. (Cultured Urban Learning Teaching Innovative Values Achievement Targeting Excellence) Felicia Roach
Paula Whitebear Administrative Assistant Sherry Sophia Researcher Missing Children Mildred Nixon Researcher Missing Children Nancy Fairbanks Webmaster
Eve’s Circle - Tafeni English Almond Pasty Fingers - Pat Holmes Safety Star Media Jill Starishevsky Assistant District Attorney New York City ALWAYZ LADYLIKE - Eboney Johnson
Teri Kendle Researcher Hope Becton Intern ● Contact Information Peas in Their Pods P.O. Box 390296 Snellville, Ga 30039 Business: 770-686-4612 Missing Kids: 516-338-6873 or 301-501-7595 http://www.peasintheirpods.com hfmbc@hotmail.com
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Every day in America thousands of children go missing in America many of them never receive any media coverage. YOU can help change that. 10% of every dollar we raise goes directly Peas In Their Pods a not-for-profit dedicated to helping the families of those with missing loved ones. Release Date: 2012 Drama Visigoth Pictures “What About Us?� is a film about the abductions of superstar athlete Ty Johnson and middleclass businessman, Brad Fuller daughters, which occurred one day a part. One of these families is provided with unlimited resources and support, while the other family struggles to be heard. Will they simply accept societies criteria of whose child is worthy of attention or will they take matters into their own hands? Starring: Jasmine Guy Directed/ Written/ Screenplay: Deatra L. Harris Produced By: Deatra L. Harris, Alrick Brown, Bryan K. Johnson, Sharon N. Williams Website: http://www.whataboutus-themovie.com 5
Official Press Release
Peas In Their Pods Helps Joshua Davis' Family Peas In Their Pods will assist the family of Joshua Davis in their attempt to find him. Atlanta, GA January 21, 2011 – Peas In Their Pods, Inc. has announced that the organization will provide assistance to the family of Joshua Davis, Jr. following his disappearance on February 4, 2011. Joshua’s case has failed to receive adequate media coverage, despite the family and community outcry. Sabrina Benitez, the 18-month-old's mother who joined Peas In Their Pods on their weekly podcast on 1/22/12, said she believes Joshua was abducted, as the toddler would not have left on his own. Yet, his missing person’s case has not received the attention that it deserved. On the tail of his year anniversary, Peas In Their Pods, Inc. is making a plea to the media to help spread awareness about his case. Peas In Their Pods is an incorporated not-for-profit organization that provides a specific service to those who have missing loved ones. The organization is self-funded, and is comprised of a team of volunteers who work diligently to assist families during their time of greatest need. The organization does so through their monthly online magazine, weekly radio podcasts, media appearances, and social media efforts (http://ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-735229). For further information, contact the organization at 770-686-4612. Peas In Their Pods is an organization that helps to spread awareness about the epidemic rate at which African American children are abducted.
Peas in Their Pods Staffer
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One Year Later: Joshua Davis Jr., Still Missing February 4, 2012 marked one year Joshua Davis Jr. has been missing. An 18-month old toddler is still missing, despite the best efforts of New Braunfels Police and nearby neighbors who went out into the cold night searching for the young boy. Police officials say they were first called out to the 26hundred block of Savannah Hill Circle (which sits off of Klein Road, on the east side of I-35) just before 9 o’clock last night after the mother of the 18-month old boy reported him missing. She had last seen him inside their residence about 20-minutes prior to calling police, and responding officers searched the home multiple times, then added a grid search of the entire neighborhood, with no luck finding the toddler. So a DPS helicopter was called in to search by air, while 24-hundred residents in the surrounding area were notified of the incident through the city’s Emergency Notification System. Dozens of neighbors then poured into the streets, helping New Braunfels Police and Guadalupe County Sheriff’s Officers look for the young boy, but to no avail. The 18-month old remains missing. His name is Joshua Davis, 18-months old, 2-feet tall, weighing 30-pounds, last seen wearing a blue and red long sleeve shirt and a grey long sleeve tshirt, a beige and white onesy and beige jeans, and black and white socks. Anyone locating Joshua or knowing his whereabouts, please contact New Braunfels Police immediately at 830-221-4100.
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President/Young Visionaries Youth Leadership Academy Terrance L. Stone is Founder/President/ CEO of Young Visionaries Youth Leadership Academy and C.E.O. of Stone Consultants, an ex-gang member who has turned his life around and dedicated it to GOD and the recovery of our youth's inno¬cence. Though gang life proved fierce and, most times, even short lived Terrance was loyal to a fault. Ultimately, the consequence of this delinquent life-style was a collective 10 years of incarceration rang¬ing from the juvenile facilities to the state penitentiary. With the danger of spending the remainder of his young life in prison, the thought that he'd never have an opportunity to watch his children grow and assist in their development opened his eyes to what was truly important. Today, Terrance is a loving father who has since served as Minister & Youth Leader at Worship In Truth C.O.G.I.C. Stone is today has served as a youth counselor and graduated Cal State LA for State Certified Gang Intervention Specialist, serves on Sherriff Rod Hoops I.E. Committee, Chief Kith Kilmer African American Community Leader Committee San Bernardino and Barstow Kiwanis Member, Board Member of the San Bernardino County Gangs and Drugs Task Force, Past Board Member of the African American Chamber of Commerce, and San Bernardino Chapter NAACP, picked by Mayor of San Bernardino Pat Morris to join his office on the California Cities Gang Prevention Network. He is committed to steering young peo¬ple away from the life that cost him much of his precious youth. In essence, Terrance is allowing his life mistakes to help others discover their personal worth and true life purpose. Stone's change in heart, spir¬it and action has resulted in his reaching many otherwise lost youth He is now CEO of Young Visionaries Youth Leadership Academy multiple locations in the Inland Empire from the High Desert to the West End of San Bernardino County, Atlanta, Arizona, Texas and Colorado and growing. Stone's sincere efforts have result¬ed in his receiving multiple awards http://www.yvyla-ie.org/
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Kevin Dray Anderson Missing Since: March 31, 2004 from North Hollywood, California Classification: Family Abduction Date Of Birth: July 8, 2001 Age: 2 Height: 3'0" Weight: 33 lbs. Hair Color: Brown Eye Color: Brown Race: Black/Hispanic Gender: Male Distinguishing Characteristics: Purplish birthmark on lower right side of back. Kevin Dray Anderson was last seen on March 31, 2004 at home in North Hollywood, California. Kevin’s photo is shown age-progressed to 7 years of age. Kevin is biracial (Black/Hispanic). It is suspected that Kevin’s mother, Maria Lujan abducted him. Abductor: Maria Lujun Date Of Birth: January 4, 1960 Age: 41 Height: 5'3" Weight: 130 lbs. Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Race: White/Hispanic Gender: Female Distinguishing Characteristics: Wears eyeglasses. May go by the alias birthdate of January 1, 1959. Kevin was not returned on April 2, 2004 after his visit with his non-custodial mother. A felony warrant for Child Abduction was issued for Maria Lujun on May 21, 2004. Both may have traveled to either Mexico or San Francisco, California. If you have any information on the abduction of Kevin Dray Anderson or know his whereabouts please contact the Los Angeles County District Attorney's Office or The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. : Los Angeles County District Attorney’s Office (213) 974-3607 The National Center For Missing and Exploited Children (800) 843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST)
Ashani Karin Creighton Missing Since: March 21, 1997 from Orlando, Florida Classification: Endangered Missing Date Of Birth: August 16, 1992 Age At Time Of Disappearance: 5 Height: 4'0" Weight: 50 lbs. Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Race: Black Gender: Female Distinguishing Characteristics: Pierced ears. AKA: "Karin"
Details of Disappearance Ashani was last seen by her mother on March 21, 1997 in Orlando, Florida. Her photo is shown age-progressed to 17 years old. Ashani may also go by the name of Karin. Ashani was abducted by her noncustodial grandparents Ernest S. Jackson and Kaia Jackson. In August, 1998 the Jacksons moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma. The Jacksons were arrested in October of 2000 on unrelated child abuse charges of one of their sons which took place in 1998. When they were located there was no trace of Ashani and to this day they refuse to give any information on her whereabouts. They are the prime suspects in Ashani’s disappearance. If you have any information concerning the case of Ashani Karin Creighton please contact The Orange County Sheriff’s Office (Florida) (407) 836-4357 or The National Center For Missing and Exploited Children (800) 843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST)
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Aarone Thompson Missing Since: November 14, 2005 from Aurora, Colorado Classification: Lost, Injured, or Missing Date of Birth: November 30, 1998 Age At Time Of Disappearance: 6 Height: 4'0" Weight: 60 lbs. Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Race: Black Gender: Female Distinguishing Characteristics: Missing top right canine tooth . Details of Disappearance Aarone was last seen near her home on November 14, 2005 from Aurora, Colorado. Her photo is shown age-progressed to 8 years old. Aarone was last seen wearing a white sweater, a gray hooded sweatshirt, pink sweatpants, white sneakers, and a pink rubber band in her hair. Her father, Aaron Thompson, reported her missing. He said that Aarone had run off after an argument over a cookie. After investigating Aarone’s case and going to her home police discovered far worse. Law enforcement concluded that Aarone may have been killed years ago. After checking with area schools police discovered Aarone had never been enrolled nor had she been registered as homeschooled. While searching the home investigators could not find any recent photos of Aarone, no bed for her, and none of her DNA was found in the home. They concluded that Aarone had been dead for at least 18 months. To make matters worse Aarone’s father and then live in girlfriend Shely Marie Lowe were very uncooperative. They wouldn’t allow the police to search certain parts of the home or interview their other children who were also living in the home at that time. Aarone’s mother, Lynette Thompson, was living in Detroit, Michigan at the time and did not know the whereabouts of her daughter as Aaron Thompson refused to tell her. She admits that she struggled with drug abuse in the past but is now clean. Lynette Thompson has long been cleared as a suspect. On November 10, 2009 Aaron was sentenced to 114 years in prison charged with 31 counts ranging from conspiracy to commit child abuse, false reporting to authorities, concealing death, conspiracy to conceal death, child abuse resulting in injury and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Just before the trail he admitted that his daughter was dead. During the trail the remaining children told horrific stories of their lives growing up in the home of Aaron Thompson and Shely Lowe. Lowe died suddenly at the age of 33 of heart disease. She refused to speak to the police involving the case and was never formally interviewed. On November 30th, 2009 on what would have been Aarone’s 11th birthday, just 20 days after her father’s sentencing, a memorial was held in her memory. On September 18, 2011 Peas in Their Pods featured Aarone Thompson’s story on our BLOG TALK RADIO Channel. Aarone Thompson’s body has never been found and her case remains open as a lost, injured, and missing child. We need to bring this precious girl home. The Aurora Police Department (303) 627-3100 or The National Center For Missing and Exploited Children (800) 843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST) 11
Founded in 1989, Future Executives, Inc. (FE) is a non profit organization that provides services for children and young adults. In 2009, FE launched futureexecutives.org. This website is a free international resource center for 825 year old to explore, cultivate, develop entrepreneur behaviors and personal development using a multimedia platform. The organization partners, collaborates, develops workshops lesson plans and panels to support the process. Future Executives Inc. wants it's members to learn and share information that will build enterSimone-Monet Wahls prises all over the world via Founder/CEO profitable social businesses. Future Executives, Inc Our web's interactive activities such as blogging (with over 40 content language translations), vlogging, educational entrepreneur games, and our podcast offer engaging and differentiated paths for our 3 tier targeted groups (8-12, 13-17, 18-25). Our virtual volunteers share their stories of non-traditional career paths and devote time to help our target groups understand the many skill sets needed to be successful. In 1994, Future Executives, Inc received it’s NYS incorporation and 501(c)(3) tax exempt status. Our in person services have included but are not limited to workshops, tutoring, internships, career training and exploration. FE has worked with general and at-risk students in the NYC-tristate area. FE has sponsored career-day field trips including; concerts (a look behind the scenes), Yankee and Knick games, media corporations such as VIBE and MTV as well as other businesses. In addition, the founding members facilitated a panel “I Don’t Wanna be a Rapper”; Alternative Careers in Entertainment: at high schools, New York University, The NAACP youth division, The Albany Black Caucus, several workshops and entertainment conferences. On November 4, 2011, the White House Business Council invited our Founder/CEOand a group of business leaders from around the country to the White House to talk about jobs and President Obama's plan for moving our economy forward. Several of the business owners in the room talked about how the Jobs Act could help grow, hire and succeed. http://futureexecutives.org
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My Box of Chocolates Author Sharon Fox
Everywhere I look near Valentine's Day, there are boxes of chocolates in all the stores and chocolates on television, promising to be the only love you need. I even see chocolate roses and chocolate diamond rings! I think that's what led me to remember the famous quote from Forrest Gump: "Life is like a box of chocolates...you never know what you're gonna get." In reality, that phrase can be true in many ways. We wake up every morning completely unsure of what the day may hold for us. We've made our plans. Sometimes they even happen the way we make them. But we never know for sure, do we?
as His hope of heaven in the future. Listen to how the verse above continues to encourage us: (vs.19-20) "We who have run for our very lives to God have every reason to grab the promised hope with both hands and never let go. It's an unbreakable spiritual lifeline, reaching past all appearances right to the very presence of God where Jesus, running on ahead of us, has taken up His permanent post as high priest for us, in the order of Melchizedek." I love the visual picture of grabbing on to Him with both hands as He runs ahead of me to the Father. That makes me able to get up today and praise Him for whatever comes my way. This faith, this confidence, this hope is our unbreakable spiritual lifeline--HIS love for us no matter what, when, how or why. Let's binge on His priceless box of chocolates today...the sweetest and most satisfying of them all. "Taste and see that the Lord is good; Blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him." Psalm 34:8
Some days are like the chocolates that come with caramel in the middle, they're my favorite. The ones with the strawberry goo are just so-so. Then there are the ones with coconut--YUCK! I'd rather go back to bed. Then there's the days where tragedy or difficult times come out of nowhere, these days are like the chocolates that sit in the pantry untouched...there's no sweetness to be had in those moments, it seems. God knows that life, as it pertains to circumstances, is uncertain for us. That's why He comforts us and reminds us so many times that He is our constant companion, our steadfast friend, our consistently loving God and Savior. He doesn't keep promises the way we do. "When people make promises, they guarantee them by appeal to some authority above them so that if there is any question that they'll make good on the promise, the authority will back them up. When God wanted to guarantee His promises, He gave His word, a rock-solid guarantee--God can't break His word. And because His word cannot change, the promise is likewise unchangeable." (Heb. 6:16-18, the Message) You see, no matter what chocolate we are "in the middle of" right now, He is there--with the certainty of His promise today as well www.goodcookin4u2.webs.com 13
SASSY SHRIMP Serves 6 to 8 as an appetizer or 4 as a main course 1 tablespoon butter 1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil 1/4 cup diced onion 1 large clove garlic, minced 1 red or green bell pepper, seeded, diced 1 rib celery, diced 1 (14.5-ounce) can stewed tomatoes 1/4 cup dry white wine 1/4 teaspoon Tabasco sauce (optional) 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper 1/2 teaspoon celery seed 1 teaspoon dried thyme 1-1/2 tablespoons fresh parsley 1 pound shrimp, shelled, deveined
Directions: In large skillet over medium-high heat, melt butter and swirl in olive oil. Add onion, garlic, bell pepper and celery and saute until tender. Add tomatoes, wine, Tabasco, and seasonings and bring to a simmer. Reduce heat to low and continue to simmer for 30 minutes, stirring occasionally. Add shrimp and simmer until shrimp are pink. Serve hot.
PASSION CAKE ½ lb. Dark Godiva or Ghirardelli chocolate, 5 Eggs, 1 tsp. vanilla extract, 3/4 cup sugar, 6 Tbsp. butter, 1 tsp. chocolate liqueur. Melt chocolate and butter. Whisk eggs and sugar; add vanilla. Add eggs to chocolate slowly. Divide batter into four lightly buttered and floured, eight-ounce ramekins. Bake at 375 for approximately 18 minutes. Turn out into a soup bowl, serve with vanilla ice cream. Dust with powdered sugar and garnish with mint leaves. Makes 4 servings.
Simple Jerk Chicken with Rice and Peas 4 Servings 1 cup long-grain white rice ¼ cup cider vinegar ¼ cup spiced rum or orange juice 2 tablespoons jerk sauce 1 tablespoon grated fresh ginger 4 6-ounce boneless, skinless chicken breasts Kosher salt and pepper 1 tablespoon olive oil 1 15-ounce can black beans, drained and rinsed 8 ounces fresh pineapple, cut into 1-inch pieces 1 bunch scallions, sliced Cook the rice according to the package directions. Combine the vinegar, rum, jerk sauce, and ginger in a measuring cup or small bowl; set aside. Pound the chicken to an even thickness. Season it with 1/2 teaspoon salt and 1/4 teaspoon pepper. Heat the oil in a skillet over medium heat. Add the chicken and cook until browned, about 4 minutes per side. Remove from heat and add the vinegar mixture. Return the skillet to low heat and simmer until the chicken is cooked through, about 2 minutes. Divide the chicken and sauce among plates. Stir the beans into the rice. In a medium bowl, combine the pineapple and scallions. Serve both with the chicken. Tip: The chili peppers in jerk sauce shouldn't overwhelm the other ingredients. Taste yours before adding it to a dish. 14
Felicia Roach, Social Entrepreneur Ms. Roach has worked in various capacities as a Human/Social Service professional for over 16 years. She held various leadership and managerial roles with youth in residential settings before realizing that she could be a much better asset to today's youth if she could establish contact with them before they entered "the system" so she began to provide community based services in 2005. As a social entrepreneur and independent contractor since 2007, Ms. Roach facilitates skill-building workshops for youth and adults, provides intervention and support services for youth and families in addition to providing technical support/ training to non-profit youth serving organizations, which includes grant writing, curriculum development, and program development and implementation. She has written and developed training modules for court-involved youth, attorneys, and social workers for the Baltimore City Circuit Court-Juvenile Division for the last 3 years. Today, she is the CEO/Founder of C.U.L.T.I.V.A.T.E. (Cultured Urban Learning Teaching Innovative Values Achievement Targeting Excellence), a full service community preservation organization. The Owner of Creative Genius Designs, a boutique style design company that provides custom apparel and special event planning services. She is also the Founding Visionary of GEMS International (Gaining Empowerment through Morals & Support), a women’s empowerment ministry who’s mission is to unite women and promote exchanges of wisdom that will improve the quality of life in our homes, communities, and societies. www.cultivateinfo.com www.gemsinternational.weebly.com 15
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Michael Anthony & Monica Renita Bennett DOB: May 14, 1975 Age At Time Of Disappearance: 14 Missing: Jun 21, 1989 Sex: Male Race: Black Hair: Black Eyes: Brown Height: 5'7" (170cm) Weight: 125lbs (57kg) Missing From: BRUNSWICK GA United States
DOB: Oct 27, 1973 Age At Time Of Disappearance: 16 Missing: Jun 21, 1989 Sex: Female Race: Black Hair: Black Eyes: Brown Height: 5'5" (165cm) Weight: 130lbs (59kg) Missing From: BRUNSWICK GA
Details of Disappearance Michael Anthony and Monica Renita Bennett both went missing on June 21, 1989 from Brunswick, Georgia. They were last seen around 5:00 p.m. at their home. Michael’s photo is shown age-progressed to 32 years and Monica’s photo to 34 years. Michael has a scar on his left knee and Monica’s ears are pierced. This case is truly a mystery because these two beautiful children, who were in their teens when they went missing, disappeared at the same time never to be heard from again. Monica and her younger brother, Michael, were last seen at Heritage Apartments, now known as Merritt Landing Apartments, in the 5700 block of Altama Avenue. They reportedly went to help their stepfather, who was separated from their mother, move into another apartment on the day of their disappearance. The stepfather told police he dropped the two off at the apartment complex, but their mother said she never saw them. No one else has either and there were never any solid suspects in the case. There is little evidence in this case and it remains unsolved to this day. Where are Michael and Monica? Anyone having information concerning Michael and Monica Bennett should contact The Glen County Police Department (Georgia) or The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. The Glen County Police Department (Georgia) (912) 554-7800 The National Center For Missing and Exploited Children (800) 843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST)
No Girl Left Behind Radio Show Airs Tuesdays 8-9pm Starting Dec 6th No Girl Left Behind is a "Girl Talk" radio Show that discusses the issues that teen girls are facing daily. The Host Geneva Farrow is the Executive Director of A Young Mother's DREAM, a mentoring program for young teen mothers. The production team and co-hosts are teen girls and they play a tremendous part in the content and topics for the show. This is an opportunity for them to have their voices heard. The show will also help bridge the communication gap between women and girls. Our hope is that as we bring the issues to light we will help girls make the right choices and find the right solutions to their problems. Tune in! To Call in to Comment 718-797-1392 This is an A Young Mother's DREAM program. http://www.youngmothersdream.org 17
In 2007, deeply concerned with the welfare of young girls, without hesitation, Tafeni English invested her entire savings and started Eve's Circle. Like many of you, Tafeni was asking, "What is happening with our young girls?" In some cases they were acting out, engaging in risky behaviors, little to no support at home and declining academics. In other situations, girls were simply looking for guidance and direction during a critical time in their lives. Tafeni realized many girls were simply growing up without the resources that would help them grow and thrive into healthy women. Eve's Circle serves a glaring need in communities. It is our goal to remove all barriers and limitations that undermine any girls’ ability to exceed in life. We believe in addressing issues at the root and in doing so, our girls grow into bold, strong & courageous women. Eve’s Circle, mission is to educate, equip and empower young girls as they transition through adolescence by reinforcing core values and challenging girls to resist negative social pressure, enhance self-esteem and their self-image. We promote the psychological, emotional, spiritual, physical & social well being of girls and their families. We are committed to maintaining a safe & supportive environment where girls can find their path in life and pursue their dreams, regardless of their circumstances. Eve’s Circle, values and respects the unique needs of young girls and we strive to help build resiliency in each of them. We envision a society where our girls, especially those in need will embrace growth and change to reach their full potential, achieve their goals and pursue their life dreams. Our website is http://www.evescircle.org
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Jaquilla Evonne Scales DOB: Mar 2, 1997 Age At Time Of Disappearance: 4 Missing: Sep 5, 2001 Sex: Female Race: Black Hair: Black Eyes: Brown Height: 3'0" (91cm) Weight: 40lbs (18kg) Missing From: WICHITA KS United States
Details of Disappearance Jaquilla’s photo is shown age progressed to 13 years. Jaquilla was last seen on September 5, 2001 at 12:30 a.m. in her bed of her home in Wichita, Kansas. She was discovered missing around 3:00 a.m. and was last seen wearing a knee-length flowered nightshirt and tan barrettes in her hair. Jaquilla has a scar on her upper right leg, a brown birthmark on her face, and her upper teeth are decayed. She may also answer to the name Grammy-Boo. There were no signs of forced entry, no signs of a struggle, and the family dog did not bark. The back door was currently broken, therefore it was not locked during the time of her disappearance. Jaquilla and her mother, Eureka Scales, lived with her maternal grandmother, Mattie Mitchell, and two uncles in a small ranch house at 1618 N. Volutsia, north of 13th and west of Hillside. Jaquilla's dad was not in the picture. Jaquilla’s mother was staying at a friend’s house that evening and regrets she was not there at the time her daughter went missing. On September 4, 2011 Eureka Scales was interviewed about her daughter’s disappearance and expresses the sadness she experiences every day since her daughter went missing. Jaquilla is described to be a very talkative happy child and loved a doll that could turn over by itself. Jaquilla’s case remains unsolved. If you have any information concerning the case of Jaquilla Evonne Scales please contact The Wichita Police Department (Kansas) (316) 2684220 The National Center For Missing and Exploited Children (800) 843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST)
by Grace Mercy She was abused as a child. Raped as a teenager. Her life was spiraling down. She just wanted to be loved. She had 3 children but had no clue who their fathers were. She decided if people could not love her, no way God would. Tonight was going to be the last. She kissed her children goodnight and told them she loved them. She got a glass of water and pill bottles. As she was ready to take them, h...er phone ring. She wondered who would call her so late at night. It was almost midnight. She listen to message it said. Please don't harm yourself, God loves you so much. He does have a plan for your life, you just have to find it. Please read John 3:16 and put your name in there. He gave his name and phone number and hung up. She wondered how could he have known what she was about to do. She had no Bible so she got on the computer and this is what she read: For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. She put her name in there: For God so loved Mary that He gave his one and only Son, that if Mary believes in him she shall not perish but have eternal life. The next day was Sunday she and children went to church. They received her with open arms and loved her. Months went by and she was not the same person. She decided to call the person and ask what led him to call her. Pastor T said "I am so sorry I meant to call someone else, I hit a 7 instead of a 4". She told him the story and they both knew it was not a accident that he called but it was God. What are you going through today? Can I let you know that God so loves you19so much that He gave His Son just for you.
Where are you Baby Rilya!!
ALMOND PASTRY FINGERS By Pat Holmes
1 17.3 ounce package frozen puff pastry sheets, thawed 1 12.5 ounce can almond pastry and dessert filling 1 ½ cups white chocolate chips 2/3 cup silvered almonds, toasted and finely chopped Preheat oven 400. Line a large cookie sheet with parchment paper; set aside. Unfold pastry sheets onto a work surface. Cut each sheet lengthwise into two rectangles (four rectangles total). Using a fork, generously prick pastry rectangles all over. Spread the almond filling over rectangles (about ¼ cup each), spreading to within ¾ inch of the edges. Top evenly with the white chips and almonds. Brush edges of rectangles with water. Fold each rectangle in half lengthwise; gently press edges with fork to seal. Place rectangles 2 inches apart on the prepared cookie sheet. Bake for 20-25 minutes or until golden brown. Transfer to wire rack; let cool for at least 4 hours. Generously sprinkle with powdered sugar and cut into strips.
A trial date has finally been set in the murder case of little Rilya Wilson. The 4-year-old foster child disappeared in South Florida in 2000, sparking a shakeup at the state's child welfare agency. Miami (Miami-Dade, Florida) Wilson's foster mother Geralyn Graham will go on trial March 26. Graham maintains her innocence in Rilya's death. Rilya's body was never found, and authorities have little physical evidence. They aren't even sure whether Geralyn Graham is the defendant's name or one of her 47 aliases.
Rilya Alert Criteria • The abduction is of a child age 17 years or younger • The parent must have contacted law enforcement to report child missing. • A RILYA Alert may also be issued if the child is classified as a runaway by the police. If the parent has reported missing child and has convincing evidence that child does not have a history of running away, an alert will be initiated within the 1st hour. We recognize that at times, not all information is readily available (ie. license plate numbers, name of abductor, or witness to abduction. In such cases, the available information will be reviewed and verified prior to RILYA Alert. • The law-enforcement agency believes the child is in imminent danger of serious bodily injury or death. • All children of color meeting the criteria for the Amber Alert will also receive the RILYA Alert If these criteria are met, alert information is assembled for public distribution. This information may include descriptions and pictures of the missing child, the suspected abductor, and a suspected vehicle along with any other information available and valuable to identifying the child and suspect.
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Safety Star Media was formed in 2009 by Jill Starishevsky, an Assistant District Attorney in New York City, who has prosecuted hundreds of sex offenders and dedicated her career to seeking justice for victims of child abuse and sex crimes. As a prosecutor of child abuse and sex crimes in ,ew York City for more than a decade, Ms. Starishevsky often encountered children who were sexually abused for lengthy periods of time and suffered in silence. One case in particular had a profound impact on her and compelled her to write My Body Belongs to Me. She prosecuted the case of a 9-year-old girl who had been raped by her stepfather since she was 6. She told no one. One day, the girl saw an episode of "The Oprah Winfrey Show" about children who were physically abused. The episode, "Tortured Children," empowered the girl with this simple message: If you are being abused, tell your parents. If you can't tell your parents, go to school and tell your teacher. The girl got the message and the very next day went to school and told her teacher. Ms. Starishevsky prosecuted the case for the District Attorney's office. The defendant was convicted and is now serving a lengthy prison sentence. It occurred to the prosecutor that after three painful years, all it took to end her nightmare was a TV program encouraging her to "tell a teacher." Ms. Starishevsky wrote My Body Belongs to Me to continue that message. It endeavors to teach children that they don't have to endure abuse in silence. Parents and educators should use it as a tool to facilitate an open dialogue with youngsters. By educating girls and boys about this taboo subject, My Body Belongs to Me will prevent them from becoming victims in the first place. http://www.pediatricsafety.net/2011/12/erins-law-teaching-children-to-recognize-avoid-sexualabuse/ Jill Starishevsky Author, My Body Belongs to Me www.MyBodyBelongsToMe.com .....In only 19 sentences, this simple book will empower children while promoting open communication. - School Library Journal April 2011 Oprah Winfrey Show Appearance 21
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Eboney Johnson is the President and founder of a nonprofit organization for young girls between the ages of 9-17 appropriately called alwayzladylike we offer mentorship and expose girls to different positive things that build character to promote self-confidence , self worth & encourage self~love that most young women do not possess. I started this organization because I personally know that the womanly attention that I desperately needed at a certain time in my young life truly made me into the woman I am today , my late aunt cared for me after my mother became a drug addict with no proper home guidance I ended up a teen mom my Aunt influenced me to finish school and stressed the importance of truly behaving like a lady which encouraged me to do other positive things. It is my heartfelt goal to be the voice in this crisis and give these girls the opportunity that I was once given and turn their life around and change the negative way they interact with one another and encourage their self-worth as individuals and teach them to be Alwayzladylike.
Mission Statement : ' 'Teaching Girls of Today to be Ladies of Tomorrow '' This is a website that was created for girls by girls .! Everyone who enters the program is featured on our website with a brief desription of themselves this is a website designed for the girls in our group & others to check on our upcoming events and contests. http://www.alwayzladylike.webs.com This is my blog and it allows people to make comments and ask questions about topics concerning young girls of today .! www.alwayzladylike.tumblr.com Alwayzladylike Apparel is our clothing line that offers an array of t~shirts in diffrent styles that all promote a positive message ALWAYZLADYLIKE.! Alwayzladylike Inc is a non~profit organization 501(c)3 girls group ,All proceeds from Alwayzladylike Apparel fund our organization we would like to introduce our season 1's line of Alwayzladylike T's are available www.alwayzladylikeshop.bigcartel.com Tanks will be available for purchase online Follow us on twitter @Alwayzladylike Like us on facebook Alwayzladylike Alwayzladylike Apparel is available for purchase these are customized T~shirts with authentic swarovski crystals and signature of Alwayzladylike founder Eboney Johnson periodically we will feature a different celebrity signature shirt that will be available for bidding on ebay beginning September 30th In conjunction w/ Ebay mission fish charities. (Alwayzladylike Inc.) Youtube channel. This is a channel that promotes a positive message in its Raw form as well as drops from our favorite Celebs speaking on our positive movement and clips from different Events and a chance to meet our Girls in the group and witness the growth and the difference positive exposure can make on a young girl.
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Ptah Ka’amen Diamond Missing Since: May 27, 2001 from Eloy, Arizona Classification: Endangered Missing Date Of Birth: April 8, 1998 Age: 3 Height: 3'0"-3'1" Weight: 37 lbs. Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Race: Black Gender: Male Distinguishing Characteristics: Ptah's two front teeth are discolored. Details of Disappearance Ptah’s photo is shown age-progressed to 13 years. Ptah’s nickname is Goo-goo. Ptah Ka’Amen Diamond went missing with his father, James Malcolm Diamond, on May 27, 2001 from Elroy, Arizona. Date Of Birth: February 3, 1959 Height: 5'9" Weight: 160lbs. Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Race: Black Gender: Male Distinguishing Characteristics: James may have a beard. He has a scar under his right eye and a strawberry birthmark on the right side of his face. Caution is advised when approaching James for unspecified reasons. James’ nickname is Mickey. They were last seen at the residence of James Diamond. It is believed that they may have traveled to Cleveland, Ohio where James has family. Very little is known about their disappearance. Neither Ptah nor his father have been seen or heard from since the day they went missing. If you have any information on the disappearance or whereabouts of Ptah Ka’Amen Diamond please contact the Eloy Police Department or The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. Eloy Police Department (520) 466-7324 The National Center For Missing and Exploited Children (800) 843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST)
R. Lee Gordon "Only 2 percent of the nation's estimated 5 million teachers are black men." when children aren't getting what they need at home or in school, our communi ties of men and women need to step in and step up . . . and if more of us (adults) help more of our children, more of our children will "believe, achieve and succeed" . . . 25
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Kimberly Nicole Arrington Missing Since: October 30, 1998 from Montgomery, Alabama. Classification: Endangered Missing Date Of Birth: May 23, 1982 Age: 16 Height: 5'2"-5'4" Weight: 110 lbs. Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Race: Black Gender: Female Distinguishing Characteristics: Scar on abdomen. Pierced ears. Details of Disappearance Kimberly was last seen at the CVS Pharmacy on Third Street and Forest Avenue in Montgomery, Alabama on October 30, 1998. Kimberly's photo is shown age-progressed to 26 years. At the time of her disappearance she was wearing a gray Bugle Boy shirt, Levi Jeans and Reebok tennis shoes with white and gray trim. Kimberly was also wearing two rings at the time of her disappearance. One was an emerald ring with two diamonds on each side and a double heart ring with a diamond. Kimberly also went by the names “Kim” and “Kiwi.” When last seen Kimberly had told her mother she was going to the CVS pharmacy at around 4:00 or 5:00p.m. to purchase candy and a soft drink. She was planning her Christmas shopping on the day of her disappearance and spoke to her father about it. In an interview conducted by Philip Rosenbaum in 2010 Kimberly’s father Walter Arrington stated, "I've been going through this for the last 12 years, and I feel like this might be my last chance of ever seeing my daughter or somebody recovering her." He describes his daughter as "a good girl" who enjoyed listening to music, dancing and learning computers at school, where she was well-behaved. He also believes that it is because of her good nature and kindness that may have led to her disappearance. He believes that someone may have stopped to ask her for directions and then when they got her close enough to their vehicle they grabbed her. Mr. Arrington also stated, "and I can't go on any further, because I'm at a standstill until I find out what happened to her. It is something that I carry with me every day.'' It seems as though her mother felt the same way because although see was ill and died in 2005 many say it was not the illness but a broken heart that lead to her death. Capt. Keith Barnett of the Montgomery Police Department stated, "We had nobody that saw her get snatched up. Nobody found her purse or jacket or anything on the side of the road,'' Barnett said. "She just disappeared. She left home and disappeared.'' Montgomery police officials have stated that they have interviewed everyone possible including known sex offenders in the area. There were no surveillance videos from the store, no signs of a struggle, nothing. Someone had to have seen something. If there is someone out there who knows something about the disappearance of Kimberly Nicole Arrington please contact the Montgomery Police department or The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children. It’s time to bring Kimberly home. Montgomery Police Department (334) 241-2708 The National Center For Missing and Exploited Children (800) 843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST)
Tips for Fathers and Daughters, Be a positive influence - Always encourage healthy living and acceptance of her looks. Boost her self-esteem by reminding her that big or not, what's important is how wonderful of a character she exhibits. She should know you raised her to become a good-hearted person, not to become a supermodel or a pin-up girl. Make her feel good about herself. by Dana Quaco www.wrightvisionfoundation.org ONE LIFE CHANGED, ONE FAMILY SAVED 27
Thank You The Community In Helping To Bring Awareness For Our Missing Children
Peas in Their Pods P.O. Box 390296 Snellville, Ga 30039 Business: 770-686-4612 Missing Kids: 516-338-6873 or 301-501-7595 http://www.peasintheirpods.com hfmbc@hotmail.com
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