P.E.A.S Magazine 18th Edition by Gaetane Borders

Editorâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Message: Were you aware that a child is abducted every 40 seconds in this country? Moreover, did you know that over 40% of these children are African American? If not, you are not alone because few people are aware of this epidemic. The truth is that African American children receive limited media coverage when they go missing. Sadly, without this exposure it is less likely that they will be safely found. The staff at Peas In Their Pods works diligently to spread awareness about this issue by alerting media outlets as needed when African American children are missing or abducted. Our mission is to bring awareness to our communities the plight of these children, and to make them a national priority. Peas In Their Pods are concerned about all our children, the organization strives to bring awareness to any child missing, no matter, race color. The commitment is to keep the public on alert and aware. There are many organizations across this country whose missions are to provide resources to families in helping to build stronger and healthier communities. Community based organizations are key factors in developing opportunities that will help our children advance to higher levels of achievement, without these additional support systems our children and families would lack the most. It still takes a villageâ&#x20AC;Ś!!! Denise Bethune Editor-In-Chief Whitesboro, New Jersey

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Peas In Their Pods Staff

In This Edition * All individuals, organizations featured in this edition are at the approval of its authorized agent.

KEEP A CHILD ALIVE

Janice Lowery Chief Executive Officer Gaetane Borders President Training Specialist

The Dove Foundation

Mildred Nixon Vice President

Shyra Smith Team Up for Youth

Linda Glover Treasurer

New2Need

Parenting Corner

Denise Bethune Editor in Chief P.E.A.S. Magazine Grant Procurement

Adeleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Literacy Library

Pattie Fitzgerald Safety and Prevention Advisor

Men II Boys

Southern Hospitality

Paula Whitebear Administrative Assistant

Escaping Abuse Community FoodBank of New Jersey

Delilah Jones Publicity Manager Nancy Fairbanks Webmaster

Monthly Tasty Treat The Teen Toolbox LLC

Annette Chesson Researcher

Angel Wings Publications, LLC Center for American Progress

Amy Matthews Researcher

Thomas Bridgmon Outreach Ministeries

Pamela Hester-Jones Researcher

Saul To Paul Dance Ministry

Teri Kendle Researcher

Through Future Eyes, Inc.

There is a profound difference between living and life. Living may extend time for another day. But life is far more than sleeping and waking. Life is more than merely existing. And, although it would be easier, life cannot be bought in a pill. That is why Keep A Child Alive buys more than just the pills needed to fight HIV/AIDS in Africa and India. It buys the essential nutrition, shelter, support and education to help ensure those pills are taken properly and effectively. It buys the things we all take for granted, but that make all the difference. A bed. A roof. A ride. A book. A smile. KCA offers children, their families and entire communities a shoulder to lean on and a heart that beats for them. Because KCA believes we can do something far bigger and better than buy the ability to live. We can buy the dignity that is life. We can buy compassion. Buy love. Buy the cure. Buy life. Because the more you buy, the more you save.

KEEP A CHILD ALIVE. http://keepachildalive.org/

Leigh Blake Founder and President

Alicia Keys Co-Founder and Global Ambassador

Lakisha Danielle Jones Case Type: Endangered Missing DOB: Aug 25, 1984 Sex: Female Missing Date: Dec 15, 1999 Race: Black Age Now: 26 Height: 5'1" (155 cm) Weight: 125 lbs (57 kg) Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Missing City: NASHVILLE Missing State : TN Missing Country: United States Case Number: NCMC917915 Circumstances: Lakisha's photo is shown age-progressed to 25 years. She may be in the Nashville or Memphis, Tennessee areas. She has a scar under her left eye and a tattoo of "C47" on her right thigh. Lakisha was last seen wearing a black shirt, green pants, a black jacket, and black shoes. If you have any information concerning this case, please contact: Nashville Metro Police Department 615-862-8600

Natasha Paula Corley (Age Progression) Case Type: Family Abduction DOB: May 1, 2005 Sex: Female Missing Date: Aug 28, 2006 Race: Biracial Age Now: 5 Height: 2'0" (61 cm) Weight: 30 lbs (14 kg) Hair Color: Brown Eye Color: Brown Missing City: SCOTTSDALE Missing State : AZ Missing Country: United States Case Number: NCMC1052329 Circumstances: Natasha's photo is shown age-progressed to 4 years. She was allegedly abducted by her mother, Anabel Allende. A federal warrant for Unlawful Flight to Avoid Prosecution was issued for Anabel on September 27, 2007. They may travel to Mexico. Natasha is Biracial. She is Black and Hispanic. Anabel has a mole above her left eyebrow. She may go by the alias name Ana Leon or Anabel Corley. Natasha may use the alias last name Allende. Scottsdale Police Department at 480-312-5000

The Dove Foundation How a Few Parents Launched a Movement that is Influe

If you're like a handful of parents from Grand Rapids, Michigan chances are you've friendly films at your local movie theatre.

According to Dick Rolfe, Dove Foundation co-founder and CEO, (pictured) "We we lections on behalf of our children without watching the films themselves beforehan PG, PG-13 and R."

So in 1990, Rolfe and several other parents started reviewing and assigning their ow laundry list of movies they liked and handed it out to friends, family and church me pand the idea and created the non-profit Dove Foundation dedicated to advocating friendly direction.

The Dove reviews, posted online at www.dove.org and www.FamilyEntertainmentC values. There is a content chart and descriptions that gauge six criteria: Sex, Langu card reviews online are what Dove is probably best known for, the Foundation is m

"We commissioned an industry-wide study in 2005 that revealed the fact that over yet, during that same period of time the average G rated film was 11 times more pro Study to every major studio exec in Hollywood...to show them that yes, family movi get back in the theatres.

"Our influen to our Grand says Rolfe. "O might offend Dove Family Allan as “the

The Dove we guidance wh says she'll tru

"When we re different perspective," says Vermeer. "They're looking more at the quality or artistic content for the movie; whereas The Dove 8 Foundation’s guidelines are more in line w our entertainment.” http://www.dove.org

n encing the Movie Industry for Good

e complained more than once about the lack of family-

ere frustrated because we felt inadequate to make send. And we didn't trust the Motion Picture ratings; G,

wn ratings to films. At first they just made a sort of embers. The list was such a hit that they decided to exg for families and moving Hollywood in a more family-

Central.org, are based on traditional Judeo-Christian uage, Violence, Drug and alcohol use, Nudity, and Other. And while Doveâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s scoremaking waves behind the scenes, too.

the last 15 years, Hollywood produced 12 times more R rated movies than G. And ofitable than its R rated counterpart." Rolfe sent a copy of the Film Profitability ies can be profitable...and yes, there is a large family audience out there waiting to

nce with the movie studios has grown to the point where some films are being sent d Rapids office to review well in advance of release, sometimes even in rough cut," On a couple of occasions we have expressed concern about a few things we thought d the family audience. Studios cleaned them up and we were able to give them our y-Approved Seal" The Dove Seal was referred to by entertainment legend, Steve e Good Housekeeping seal for family entertainment.â&#x20AC;?

ebsite is visited by parents like Vickie Vermeer. She logs on to www.dove.org for hen it comes to choosing which movies her kids can see. Ten times out of ten she ust Dove's scorecard review over one written by a film critic in the general media.

ead a review in our local paper or in the NY Times, the reviewers are coming from a c value of the film. They have more tolerance for the violence or language or sexual with our own familyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s values and that makes 9 us feel comfortable when choosing

Tiffany Michele Goines Case Type: Endangered Missing Missing City: FREDERICK Missing State : MD

Circumstances of Disappearance: Goines was last seen in Frederick, Maryland on December 5, 1987, getting into a red convertible. Tiffany left home in the morning, to run errands for neighbors. When she hadn't returned home by the evening, her mother searched the area, then called the police. Tiffany was a 6th grade student at the time of her disappearance. Investigators: If you have any information concerning this case, please contact: Frederick County Police Department Detective Michael Hansell 301-624-1227 OR 301-694-2100

Society Has Changed, Why Won’t You? By Shyra Smith

I recently learned there was a widow about to lose her land and home because of no home was paid for, but her property taxes were so far behind that she only had a co her mind, she felt that there was nothing she could do, she didn’t want to ask anyon deal with what was about to happen. Well, there was a listing in the paper that had pened to see it.

That relative placed a call to the widow who was depressed and sad about what was building for her and their family. This woman lived in a very small country town an her out of this bind. She didn’t know how to go about finding out there were option that she could obtain would require something that she just didn’t have to give. Sh matter what… at least that's what she comprehended. She wasn’t aware of the diffe many in the world today. Because of them “not knowing”, they’re facing a lot of hea

Something as simple as the internet, can be so powerful! There are still so many wh when they need to know “how to do” something. No longer do you have to pay expe Because of that relative reading the paper that one particular day, the internet was and land.

It’s important that as society changes, we change. When we don’t know, we allow o up to us to take the time to utilize what is given to us to get ahead. People have no e victim” attitude anymore. If we want change, we have to take the actions to make it because when you really think about it, when you’re not taking action….the negativ

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ot having the funds to pay for her delinquent taxes. The ouple of weeks left to move out according to the notice. In ne for any money to help her and she would just have to d her property information in it and a relative of hers hap-

s about to happen to what her husband put his heart into nd was just not aware of the options available to her to get ns to help her resolve this situation. In her mind, any help he basically got her letter in the mail and what it said was what she had to do no erent programs available to help people in her situation. That is the case with so alth issues resulting from stress.

ho do not realize that they have the resources they need right at their fingertips ensive money to attorneys to find out simple answers that are available online. utilized to locate a company who would be able to help the widow save her home

ourselves to be hindered. We are given the tools and the resources we need and itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s excuse anymore to sit and complain about their situation or to use the â&#x20AC;&#x153;Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m just a t happen and stop letting everything or everyone else control what happens to us ve outcome allows the finger to be pointed right back at you.

WHO MURDERED 9 YEAR OLD MYA LYO#S?

It has been 2 ½ years since little Mya Lyons was brutally stabbed, then left to die in Southside Chicago home. Still no arrests have been made, and the family and the co monster is still able to walk the streets? Why hasn’t an arrest been made? Where is blaming the Police they know that they are working hard to find who did this. The p ing that someone will come forward with new information that will help them solve during the summer at his South Chicago home. She was supposed to go back home w stay another night. Her mother agreed, and that was the last time Ericka Barnes wou

It was a hot July night when around 11:00 Mya’s father; Richard Lyons, heard a doo and discovered his daughter Mya missing. He went outside to look for her, and wha ever, and change the lives of not only Mya’s family but a community.

On July 14th, 2008, Richard Lyons discovered his beautiful the brush and weeds. Mya had been stabbed multiple times in t to die alone. He rushed her to the Hospital where she died 2 ho the police questioned a person of interest; however he was relea

On Saturday November 8th 2008 Mya’s mother, friends a hood going door to door in hopes of finding her killer or killers.

The detectives say that whoever did this must have been familiar with the area and c from plain sight next to the rail tracks and a dead end road. The alley is not known b weeds and trees. After Mya’s death the city sent out crews to clear the overgrowth al METRA's elevated train tracks runs along the alley. The METRA is a commuter rail Wisconsin and Indiana places of interest as well.

April 26, 2009“ If you know anything at all, we are pleading that you come fort you feel most comfortable, but come forward with that information. It’s hard t could have come back home clean, that they could have gotten back in their house you’ve seen anything it’s worth the call to say; ‘hey I’m not sure but I saw somebo on them that needs to be looked at.’ All information is welcome information, all t anything let that information out let that information be known and if you are the coming for you and you will be caught.” 14

n an alley, yards away from her father’s ommunity want answers. How is it that a justice for Mya Lyons? The family is not police need more to go on and they are hopthis case. Mya was staying with her father with her mother that day, but she wanted to uld see her “Baby” alive

or shut. He went to check on his children at he discovered would change his life for-

daughter lying in the overgrown alley in the throat and the in the abdomen and left ours later. Within the week after her death, ased and never charged with anything. There have not been any others.

and family along with several members of the community, canvased the neighbor.

could not have left the area without being seen. The alley is secluded; it is hidden by outsiders it was barely visible to passersby due to the overgrowth of brush, long the alley, and METRA installed fencing along their property line. Chicago system that connects Wisconsin, Indiana and Illinois suburbs to Chicago making

th with that information in any way that to imagine that the person that did this e without somebody seeing something. If ody come home, and they had something tips are good tips. So please if you know e person and watching, know that we are Richard Lyons, Mya’s Father sends a message to his daughter’s killer, and asks for the communities help.

July 15, 2010 On the second Anniv her memory alive. Ericka Barnes sen

“There is not a day that goes by that I don’t hurt for my dau still out here that’s what devastates me. I never gave up on to continue to be out here passing out fliers, I’m going to co here, and I’m going to continue to be here. You are going to caught, until you are where you belong, so know that. And where because I love my daughter and you took her life.”

“I will be out there every chance I get. Somebody did that to my baby, and someb

You are deeply loved, and will be missed by more people than you could ever imag REST IN PEACE “Precious Angel” Mya Lyons. You will not be forgotten. By Amy Matthews http://vanishedmissinglost.wordpress.com

versary of Mya’s Death a Prayer Vigil was held in Mya’s Honor and to keep nds a strong message to her daughters killer.

ughter. But just knowing that the person responsible for my daughter’s murder is n my daughter when she was here, and I refuse to give up on her now. I am going ontinue to talk to the neighbors, and I’m going to continue to go block to block. I’m o continue to see my face until you are understand that I am not going no-

body out there knows what happened”.

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Team-Up was founded in 2001 by Wally mer owner of the Oakland A’s he saw firs tive impact that sports could have on the life of a child. In mid ent communities across the country, parents pour a great deal ergy into organized sports programs for their kids. They don’t them for the NFL or the WNBA. They do it because sports teac values and skills that help them succeed in school, at work, and

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Melvin Bowles Endangered Runaway DOB: July 12, 1994 AGE: 16 SEX: Male RACE: Black HAIR: Black EYES: Brown HEIGHT: 5’06” (168 cm) WEIGHT: 135 lbs (61 kg) PIERCED ears MISSING SINCE: July 23, 2010 MISSING FROM: Ambridge, Pennsylvania May travel to the Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania area. CONTACT: Ambridge PD 724-266-3270 NCMEC 1-800-THELOST

Marcus Dwayne Crenshaw Case Type: Endangered Runaway DOB: Apr 28, 1993 Sex: Male Missing Date: Nov 13, 2010 Race: Black Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Age Now: 17 Height: 5'10" (178 cm) Weight: 125 lbs (57 kg) Missing City: DEERFIELD BEACH Missing State : FL Missing Country: United States Case Number: NCMC1160674 Circumstances: Marcus was last seen on November 13, 2010. He may still be in the local area. CONTACT: 850) 410-8543 or writing to the Missing Children Florida Department of Children and Families, 1317 Winewood Blvd, Building 1, Room 206E, Tallahassee, Florida 32399-0700.

Janks Morton (Producer) From the producers of the best black documentary of 2007 comes the next installment in the landmark series "WHAT BLACK MEN THINK" What would the world be if you never saw your father while growing up? Do you think you could reach you true potential? Can a single mother impart the skills necessary for a young boy to ascend to manhood? MEN TO BOYS is an attempt to reveal the consequences of a 69.7% out of wedlock birthrate and a divorce rate in excess of 50% has had on a generation of young boys of color.

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PARENTING CORNER

Gaétane is President of Peas In Their Pods, and also a certi parents. She is an advocate of children’s rights and strives t ments for their children. She is a sought after media consul

Holiday

Thanksgiving marks the beginning of the holiday seaso and socializing with friends and family. However, for o these countless individuals, sadness and depression ta doctors say that while depression is a year long problem tant to be able to recognize symptoms of depression in Here is are some signs that you

Loss of interest in normal daily activi Sleep disturbances (sleeping less or more than u Changes in weight Fatigue or slowing of body mo Diminished interest in se

Children, teens and older adults may react differently to depression. In th other conditions. Kids may pretend to be sick, worry that a parent is going ioral problems. Seniors may be more willing to discuss the physical manif

If you have been experiencing any of the symptoms mentioned above for t of these behaviors in your loved one, make sure to talk to them about it an treated. Therefore, intervention is key! Gaétane F. Borders, MA., A.B.D. President, Peas In Their Pods 22

ified School Psychologist who works closely with the inner-city youth and their to help parent achieve healthy, harmonious, and emotionally stable environltant, and is often featured in print, radio, and television.

Blues

on for most Americans. Many people look forward to shopping for gifts others the holiday season triggers emotions that are far from joyous. For ake over and they dread all the hoopla and festivities. In fact, although m, it hits more people during the holiday season. It is incredibly imporn ourselves and/or in our loved ones. or loved one may be depressed:

ities Depressed mood (sad and weepy) usual) Impaired thinking or concentration t Irritability ovements Low self-esteem ex Thoughts of suicide

hese groups, symptoms may take different forms, or may be masked by g to die, perform poorly in school, refuse to go to school, or exhibit behavfestations of depression, instead of its emotional ramifications.

two weeks or more, please seek the guidance of a clinician. If you see any nd get them the help that they need. Symptoms may worsen if left un-

Adele Ann Taylor At the age of thirteen, Adele Taylor wanted to make a difference in the world. She decided to take what she loves, reading books and created a nonprofit organization called Adele’s Literacy Li brary®. Since A.L.L’s inception, Adele's Literacy Library® Has successfully given away thousands of brand new books and bookmarks the young and old, schools, libraries and charitable organizations.

Adele's goals are to open A.L.L. centers Globally and to offer scholarship while continuing to donate brand new books and bookmarks, "making a sociA.L.L.y conScious teen also hosts "Storytelling with Adele," vis

Because of Adele’s philanthropic efforts, she has been featured in variou Lip Gloss Teen Magazine, GEMS magazine Gloucester County Times to n Michelle Obama, featured on a commercial sponsored by Nickelodeon fo tion, Twinkie Award recipient, and is one of inaugural M.A.D.

Black Girl recipient on BET’s Black Girl’s ROCK Awards. Adele is the 201 Business Category and the silver medalist in the nation respectively.

Adele is now in High School in the Business and Finance Academy. Her s her school’s store. A few of Adele’s hobbies include roller-blading, rock c younger siblings.

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ps to high school graduates who want to pursue their educational dreams difference" in the lives of others through the power of a good book. The siting schools and reading to classrooms.

us publications such as Stanford Social Innovation Review, Amazon Blog, name a few. Additionally, Adele has received a letter from the first Lady or their Big Help Service Shout Out Campaign, Kids are Heroes recogni-

10 NAACP ACT-SO gold medal winner for the state of New Jersey in the

school activities include Student Senate and DECA; she also runs a shift at climbing and shopping. Adele’s lives with her mother and father and two Milo De Laine-Taylor/ Marketing/Operations Adele’s Literacy Library™ C: 856-889-3026/ P: 856-875-0608 P.O. Box 1272 Williamstown, New Jersey 08094 http://www.adelesliteracylibrary.org/ http://ALLforBooks.amazonwebstore.com 25

Southern Hospitality - Sharon Fox

Looks like another Chrismas season is here. I am so thankful to be able to share i year, God has still blessed us to be here again. When we think of Christmas, we s itself is a gift. It's our gift from God. When you give someone a gift, you want to ability. You want to see a smile on their face when they open it. Well God is the s be happy with that gift. Use your life in a way that pleases God. It's not all about you seriously think that God gave you life just to sit back and be selfish? No, He w look at your life as a gift from God, and use it daily to show Him how much you a pleased. Think about that gift this Christmas season and use it to please God.

Here are a few special recipes that I love to make every Christmas! Wake up on C and a hot cup of Hot Butterscotch Mocha! Maybe some asparagus and scrambled after dinner, how about those delicious macaroons covered in butterscotch and cho blessed Christmas!! I love you all!!

CHRISTMAS EGGNOG FRENCH TOAST 2 cups fat-free or regular eggnog 1 egg, slightly beaten 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon 6 croissants, split or thick sliced bread 2 tablespoons unsalted butter, or as needed 3/4 cup maple syrup, or to taste

Turn on oven to warm or lowest setting. In a shallow bowl, mix eggnog, egg cinnamon, stirring well. Slice croissants in half lengthwise. Over medium-h heat, melt 1 tablespoon butter in a 12-inch skillet (or use a griddle).

Dip 2 croissant halves or sliced bread in eggnog batter and place in skillet. C a serving platter, and place in warmed oven. Repeat process with remaining syrup. 26

it with you all. No matter what we've been through this sometimes think of "gifts". If you really think about it, life o know that they appreciate it and use it to the best of their same way. He gave us the gift of Life and He wants us to t "you". Life is about the way you use it to help others. Do wants you to spread love and tell of His goodness. If you appreciate it, then you will know in your heart that He is

Christmas morning with this delicious Eggnog French Toast d eggs with toast will suit your fancy! And for a sweet treat ocolate!! These are simply delicious recipes that I know you will enjoy. Have a

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SCRAMBLED EGGS AND ASPARAGUS 1 1/2 pounds fresh asparagus, trimmed and cleaned 2 tablespoons olive oil 1 teaspoon sea salt, plus more for seasoning Freshly ground black pepper 6 eggs 3 tablespoons milk 2 tablespoons butter Preheat your oven to 425 degrees F. Clean and trim the asparagus by breaking off 1 asparagus end at its natural breaking point and lining up the tip end next to the remaining stalks. Trim them to the broken asparagus' length. Compost the woody ends. Lay the asparagus out on a rimmed sheet pan. Drizzle with the olive oil and season with salt and pepper. Place them in the preheated oven and cook for 15 minutes or until tips are browned and starting to crisp. In a small cup, crack each egg. Add each egg to a mixing bowl, stir in the milk, and season with salt and pepper. Beat the egg mixture with a whisk, in a figure 8 pattern until the ingredients are completely blended together. In a nonstick saute pan, melt the butter over medium-low heat. Once butter has melted, add the eggs and cook over low heat, stirring gently with a silicone spatula. Keep the eggs moving, continuing to cook until they are cooked but soft, about 15 to 20 minutes. Warm the serving platter or serving plates in a preheated low temperature oven, or microwave the plate for 6 to 10 seconds. Scatter roasted asparagus on the heated plate, and spoon the scrambled eggs over the asparagus. Eat immediately.

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FUDGY BUTTERSCOTCH MACAROONS 1 pouch (1 lb 1.5 oz) sugar cookie mix 1/2 cup butter or margarine, melted 1 egg 1 to 1 1/2 cups flaked coconut 1/2 cup butterscotch topping 3/4 cup hot fudge topping Directions: Heat oven to 375°F. In large bowl, stir cookie mix, melted butter and egg until soft dough forms. Shape dough into 1-inch balls. Roll balls in coconut. On ungreased cookie sheets, place balls 2 inches apart. Bake 9 to 11 minutes or until edges are light golden brown and coconut starts to toast. Cool 3 minutes; remove from cookie sheets to waxed paper. Drizzle each warm cookie with butterscotch topping. In small microwavable bowl, microwave hot fudge topping uncovered on High 15 to 30 seconds or until spreadable. Carefully spread on top of each cookie. Serve warm or cool. Store loosely covered.

HOT BUTTERSCOTCH MOCHA MIX 2 cups powdered sugar 3 cups nonfat dry milk ½ cup powdered coffee creamer ½ cup instant coffee ¼ teaspoon salt 1 ½ cups Nestle Nesquik cocoa mix 1 ½ cups butterscotch chips Combine all ingredients in large bowl. Pulse 2 to 3 cups at a time in a food processor or blender, until finely ground. Store in airtight container for up to 3 months. To make hot cocoa, stir 1/3 cup of mix into 1 cup of hot water or milk. 29

William Walter Brooks Jr. Age Progression (right) Case Type: Endangered Missing DOB: Aug 6, 1975 Sex: Male Missing Date: Aug 24, 1992 Race: Black Age Now: 35 Height: 6'0" (183 cm) Weight: 150 lbs (68 kg) Hair Color: Brown Eye Color: Brown Missing City: FREDERICK Missing State : MD Missing Country: United States Case Number: NCMC964565 Circumstances: . He was last seen at home on August 24, 1992 and has not been seen or heard from since. William has a pierced left ear. His nickname is BB. He has a pierced left ear. Scar on right shoulder, scar left knee, scar right hand, scar left hand, scar chin, scar left finger, pockmarks, scar right knee, dimple right cheek, discoloration on chest, discoloration on left shoulder, discoloration on right shoulder. Clothing: Last seen wearing a black ball cap, black and purple tshirt with design, black baggy jeans, black and purple sneakers. Frederick Police Department Detective Alston 301-624-1269 30

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The parent must have contacted law enforcement to report child missing.

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A RILYA Alert may also be issued if the child is classified as a runaway by the police. If the parent has reported missing child and has convincing evidence that child does not have a history of running away, an alert will be initiated within the 1st hour. We recognize that at times, not all information is readily available (ie. license plate numbers, name of abductor, or witness to abduction. In such cases, the available information will be reviewed and verified prior to RILYA Alert.

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The law-enforcement agency believes the child is in imminent danger of serious bodily injury or death.

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All children of color meeting the criteria for the Amber Alert will also receive the RILYA Alert If these criteria are met, alert information is assembled for public distribution. This information may include descriptions and pictures of the missing child, the suspected abductor, and a suspected vehicle along with any other information available and valuable to identifying the child and suspect. *The staff at Peas In Their Pods respectfully requests that once a child is found that any organization posting information remove their pictures from their sites.

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Escaping Abuse After 5 years of marriage, I divorced an emotionally abusive man in 1984. Getting out of my first mess, I proceeded to jump into a frightening physically abusive marriage in 1986. I thought I had found a man who cared for me and supported me, who told me I was smart and beautiful. He was a recovering alcoholic on his best behavior during our courtship. He was attractive; I was in love. We married, blended our families, and I thought we would live happily ever after. The first warning sign after we were married came the day he slapped me for not honoring some request. Quickly I learned to make sure I did everything he asked, when he asked, and how he wanted it. I learned that in order to stay happy and safe, I had to please him. I learned to cower and hide when he was angry. He was controlling, not supportive and loving, but I really did not realize the difference at that time. I managed not to get hit anymore, but I had to work hard at it. Many times I had to stand in the way of his anger and the children, trying to prevent him from hurting them. I saw him hit his own children, as they were teenagers and in that testing phase. I believed that if we had a baby together, that would show him how much I loved him, ignoring the warnings of my friends and family. I thought I was in control of the situation. We had our baby in May of 1990 and were ecstatically happy for a few months. Then he started drinking again. It was just a little alcohol in the beginning, in fact I first noticed that he was drinking a full bottle of NyQuil every day. That soon turned to whiskey and soon after that he was out all night on a weekly basis. During that time, he became more and more threatening. He made it clear on a daily basis that if I tried to leave him, he would kill me, and that I was never going to take that baby from him. He began ignoring the baby and placing demands on the older children to take care of her when I was at work, while he lay in bed drunk or hung over. He became more and more demanding, expecting me to wait on him hand and foot. A successful nurse working the night shift at a local hospital, sleep deprived and miserable. He had been violent with an ex-wife after their divorce; in fact he had shot through the windows of her house one night and beaten her bloody on several occasions. Friends told me to get out of the situation, but I was scared to death for my life, and my childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s safety. I had not told my family how bad it had become. Being abused causes shame (somehow you just know you are doing something wrong) and tends to isolate you, just what the abuser wants. I was scared to death, and did not know how to get out of this mess I found myself in, or who to turn to for help, but in October of 1991, I did made the decision to try to figure it out. My children and I had to have a safer and happier existence than this! I had a full time job, and I owned the small house we lived in. I had a credit card in my name and an empty bank account, as well as making payments on a car. So beginning in October, I began to hide a little money every 32 payday, whenever I could.

I wanted enough to be able to provide for my children if we had to suddenly leave. I applied and received another credit card that I did not tell him about. These were just small ways that I could ensure I had some cash reserve saved for the day we had to go. While he was working, I made calls to crisis hotlines, and womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s shelters. I researched what my resources were, and where I could go to feel safe. Here is what I knew for sure: If he knew where his baby and I were, he would come after us. He continued to threaten it and with his history, I believed him wholeheartedly. I suspected that I would lose everything, and have to leave town, my friends, and my job to leave the situation safely. I was right. The turning point finally came in early December. The moment that I was sure I was going to die at his hand. He was drunk and began screaming at me while we lay in bed. I was still very submissive so that I did not get beaten, but his anger continued to escalate, until he jumped up stating that he was going to kill me, and went running to the basement. We had a pistol kept in the basement and I knew I could not beat him down the steps, so he would get to that pistol first and shoot me in my bed. I did not have time to run and get the kids too, so I just lay there and prayed. He was gone a few minutes and when he returned to our bed he told me he had hidden the gun from me so I would not hurt him with it. Such is the mind of a violent drunk. It made no sense but it spurred me to action. Finalizing my plan, I picked the day we were to leave him that week and began the last minute preparations. The next day I met with my boss at work and finally told her my whole story. I explained that I could not give proper notice, but that I would have to leave that day and never return, or he would come there to find me. No one would be safe there, especially me! She was supportive and promised a good reference for my future job searches. I talked to my best friend and she helped me develop a plan. So the next night when I dropped him off at work, I emptied our bank account of cash, and went home and packed the 10 year old some clothes and belongings and packed the supplies needed for the 18 month old we shared. I took a few small valuables (in case I needed more cash), the credit cards, and found the pistol. Better I had possession of that than he. We fit what we could in the trunk of the car and I said goodbye to my house and things and life as it had been. His 15 year-old daughter begged me to take her with me so that she did not have to feel his anger when he knew I had left. 33

She was so frightened, that I could not bring myself to leave her at his mercy and took her too. We drove to a women’s shelter across town, after calling the crisis hotline and getting the address and we checked in. I cannot begin to explain the despair I felt or the fear of my children but we were safe at last, and free, and I knew I could never go back to the life I had. I had no job, no home, and very little money. I called my husband that night and said to him “I have left you. I have taken the kids and the gun. If you ever darken my doorstep or come looking for me, I will shoot you.” He said, “I believe you would”. I was sure I would too. It was at this point that I called my mother and asked for help. She was never supportive of this marriage, and the call was tough. I asked to come home. I had been living 150 miles away from her for 13 years and now I needed a friendly town to move to. Of course my mother loved me and she said “come home honey”, but she remained terrified that he would follow us there too, and now I was putting her in harm’s way as well. I called his daughter’s mother and left his daughter with her own mother, before putting my two children in the car and heading for “home”. When I got to my hometown, I stayed in a hotel for a few weeks instead of jeopardizing my mother and father. I used the credit card to pay the bills and looked for a job and an apartment. We found an apartment right before Christmas and I was lucky to find a nursing job in a local hospital. It was not over yet though, because all of the furniture, and all our possessions were still in my old house with him! I had to make a plan to move my things out without jeopardizing my safety. I could not afford to buy all new things for the kids and myself. My best friend made the drive to my new apartment to pick me up one day that we knew he was to be at work. Before we approached my old house, we called his work to make sure he answered the phone there, so as not to put us in any jeopardy when we got there. I rented a 22-foot truck and hired a group of men from a shelter to move me quickly from my house. We did all the packing and moving out of my old house in about an hour and I drove that rental truck back to my new home. Now I just had to sell the house and file for divorce. The judge in Omaha would not take away visitation rights from a father, not even one who threatened to take the baby and kill the baby’s mother. I had to return every other weekend back to Omaha and provide the baby to this man for visitation. The judge order supervised visitation but that was not much safety when the supervisor was his brother. You guessed it. It didn’t take many visits before I went to pick up my little daughter from his house and find his brother NOT THERE! When I entered the house that afternoon, my husband was alone with my baby and some whiskey. He locked the door behind me, trapping me inside, and began to demand I never leave. He held me hostage in that house for a few hours before he was too drunk to stop me from a sudden escape out the front door, into the cold with my child; no coats, no purse, no car keys. 34

We ran to a neighbor, banging on the door to let us in and called the police from inside her house. When the police came, and I called my lawyer to tell that story to her, she said, â&#x20AC;&#x153;thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s it, you will never have to go backâ&#x20AC;?. It required my being held hostage to convince the judge that this man was, in fact a danger to me and to my children. I never did have to go back. The following years were a struggle to regain my life. Declaring bankruptcy, allowing my car to be repossessed, and being a single mother were all difficult, but my children and I could live without fear again. After 19 years, I still carry some of the emotional scars but I now have a wonderful marriage, grandchildren, a good career, and serenity in my life. None of it was easy but every bit of it was worth it!

Kali Soleil Athukorala Case Type: Family Abduction DOB: Aug 25, 2007 Sex: Female Missing Date: Apr 13, 2009 Race: Biracial Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Age Now: 3 Height: 1'6" (46 cm) Weight: 26 lbs (12 kg) Missing City: BELCHERTOWN Missing State : MA Missing Country: United States Case Number: NCMC1135175 Circumstances: The child is believed to be in the company of her mother. They may have left the country and traveled to the Dominican Republic. The child is Biracial. She is White and Asian. She has scars on her legs. If you have any information please contact: Belchertown Police Department 1-413-323-6685

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What was to become the Community FoodBank of New Jersey began when founder and Executive Director, Kathleen DiChiara, began distributing groceries out of the trunk of her car in 1975. The FoodBank was soon established the same year as part of the Archdiocese of Newark. Our Vision - The Community FoodBank of New Jersey will be the leader in raising awareness of hunger and poverty in New Jersey. We will bring all sectors of our society together to provide the short-term responses and the long-term solutions. Our Mission - Our mission is to fight hunger and poverty in New Jersey by assisting those in need and seeking long term solutions. We will engage, educate, and empower all sectors of society in the battle Today, the FoodBank distributes over 35 million pounds of food and groceries a year, ultimately serving 1,656 non-profit programs including 436 programs served by its Partner Distribution Organizations (PDOs). Through their combined efforts, they assist three-quarters of a million lowincome people in 18 of New Jerseyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 21 counties. 37

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Case Type: Family Abduction DOB: Nov 6, 2002 Sex: Male Missing Date: Dec 8, 2002 Race: Black Hair Color: Brown Eye Color: Brown Age Now: 8 Height: 1'8" (51 cm) Weight: 10 lbs (5 kg) Missing City: WILMINGTON Missing State : DE Missing Country: United States Case Number: NCMC951543 Circumstances: The picture on the right is a composite image of what Sean may look like at age 6. He was last seen with his father on December 8, 2002. The child's father has since been located but the child's whereabouts remain unknown. Sean was last seen wearing green and white pajamas and a gray Mickey Mouse snowsuit. He has long eyelashes and

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Fatherhood Policy and the Well-Being of Low-Income Mothers and Child Joy Moses , Jacquelyn Boggess, and Jill Groblewski October 2010

One of the challenges in thinking about the relationship between women and the who consider themselves to be modern and progressive. Put in easily digestible te Themselves” by the Eurythmics and Aretha Franklin. The tune reflects feminist n

This spirit of strength and independence may seem at odds with the second notion spired the title of a 1996 book authored by then-First Lady Hillary Clinton. Altho versus community, at a minimum the proverb and the book seem to suggest that s

Yet these two progressive views can coexist—that women, including mothers, ca raise their kids—because the realities of child rearing suggest that one person (wh mothers rely on the help of their parents, other relatives, and friends. And, as this tion without limiting women’s choices about career and family.

The tension between progressive notions about strong independent women and th tion underlying the debate about the relationship between women and fatherhood Others include:

• Do policies that promote responsible fatherhood fail to recognize that women also face sig • Do all women and families have the same stake in fatherhood responsibility policy withou • Do discussions about fatherhood amount to attacks on single mothers?

The Center for American Progress is a nonpartisan research and educational insti nity for all. We believe that Americans are bound together by a common commitm these values. We work to find progressive and pragmatic solutions to significant d government that is "of the people, by the people, and for the people". Center for American Progress / Center for American Progress Action Fund 1333 H Street, NW, 10th Floor Washington, DC 20005 To read the entire article: 46 http://www.americanprogress.org/issues/2010/10/fatherhood.html

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fatherhood movement is two seemingly contradictory notions held by women erms, the first notion is embodied in the 1985 hit song “Sisters Are Doin’ It for notions about women standing on their own two feet.

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an make it on their own, and that mothers need a community, including fathers, to hether female or male) would find it extremely difficult to do it alone. Many s paper argues, co-parenting relationships can figure significantly into that equa-

he benefits they get from help with child rearing is just one philosophical quesd policy.

gnificant financial hardships and structural barriers on the road to self-sufficiency? ut regard to differences associated with socio-economic status and race?

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Rylan Alakai Untalasco Case Type: Family Abduction DOB: May 18, 2000 Sex: Male Missing Date: Jul 2, 2009 Race: Asian Age Now: 10 Height: 3'11" (119 cm) Weight: 60 lbs (27 kg) Hair Color: Black Eye Color: Brown Missing City: LAS VEGAS Missing State : NV Missing Country: United States Case Number: NCMC1128401 Circumstances: Both photos shown are of Rylan. He may be in the company of his mother and an adult male companion. They may travel to the Bulacan Province in the Philippines. Rylan's nickname is Ry Ry. ANYONE HAVING INFORMATION SHOULD CONTACT The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children at 1-800-843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST) or The Las Vegas Metropolitan Police Department (Nevada) 1-702-828-3111

Thomas Bridgmon Outreach Ministeries My sister and I (Melvin Bridgmon) started Thomas Bridgmon Outreach Ministries (Thbom) to help fill a void in our community. Most of the feeding programs or soup kitchens are closed on the weekends, leaving people who depend on those resources hungry during those days. We provide food in lunch bags to help them get some form nourishment. During the winter month’s we distribute coats, scarves, hats and blankets to those on the streets and in the shelters. Our focus is on the homeless who are isolated from the public. I travel to various parts of the city. Looking for areas where homeless individuals or families reside. In order to evaluate the areas where there is a greater need for our services. In 1990 I suffered an on the job injury while crossing the street at 47th and Indiana. The driver of the car that caused my injuries never stopped, because he was running from the police. The accident shattered my right femur. I was expected to be in a wheelchair for the rest of my life. My career as a tractor –trailer driver had suddenly come to a screeching stop. I couldn’t envision the mental trauma and physical recovery I would have to endure in the future. I was very anxious to get back to work and resume my former life. But my doctor told me I would to go through therapy in order to walk again. My job’s insurance didn’t pay my medical bills and it wouldn’t give me workman’s compensation. I ended up losing my apartment and eventually my family. The last step in this spiral of events was living on the streets of Chicago. During the next ten years I struggled with homelessness and the injuries from a hit and run accident. I lived in doorways, boxes in alleys, abandon cars and vacant buildings. I had run the whole gambit that goes with being homeless. My life made a 180 degree turn when I moved to lower Wacker Drive. One the guys who befriended me told me about PGM (Pacific Garden Mission). He told me I could take a shower and eat three meals during the weekday. Early the next morning, some guys who slept next to me ask me was I hungry. Of course, I was hungry I hadn’t eaten anything during the previous day. A fellow Viet Nam veteran was passing out lunch bags with food in them. My bag contained a sandwich, an apple, a bag of chips, a cupcake and big hug drink. 50

I decided Viet Nam’s food bag was a good model to use in my ministry. I have made some modifications to his model by adding banana’s, peanuts, a small bag of cookies, water with a package of drink mix. We put a tract in the bag that has our phone number on it. During the holiday we will throw in some extra treats. Our food distribution route starts at 31st and Archer. There are four adults and a child living in a straight truck box sitting on the ground. The next area we will visit is 2300 block of Halsted there are three men who live in the back of a vacant lot. One of the men is a stroke victim. I couldn’t forget the place where I stayed when I was homeless, lower Wacker drive. It is the residents of about twenty homeless people. There is a young couple we visit frequently. They have been living there for about eight months. Their request consists of asking for blankets to stay warm at night and winter clothing. There is a chill in the air in lower Wacker everyday of the year. Thbom services shelter transients at two locations on Chicago’s Westside; the Franciscan House, Wall Memorial and Pacific Garden Mission in the South Loop. Most of the homeless we provide our services too have been wounded mentally or physically. There is a female transient at the Franciscan House. Who tells the other transients we are trying to take over their mind. Therefore our interaction with them has to be authentic and impartial. I walk through around and talk to our clients while volunteers are passing out the food. This has helped me to start a relationship with the people we see on a regular basis. I talked to one guy who told me he left his family. He said he was tired of his wife putting her hand on him and he didn’t want to go to jail. She would use a lot of profanity when she would talk to him and their kids. The situation depressed him to the point he tried to kill himself. I advised him to think about his kids. I asked him to think about what they are going through without him in their life. I am hoping he will take my advice and get some help. Occasionally, there is a call from young women with kids looking for a place to stay. I place calls to various family shelter or homes to find out if it has room for her and family. In the future, we want to add a referral service, making a direct connection with family homes and intervention services to cover a wider range outreach methods. http://thbom.org/ 51

Kimberly Nicole Arrington (Age Progression Right)

Date of Birth - 5/23/82 Date Mis Missing from - Montgomery, Alab L.E.A. - Montgomery Police Dept R.N. Fennie Telephone Number

ID Info - NCIC #M-230758229. and brown eyes. She has a scar on collar, light blue Levi jeans and w

Circumstances - Kimberly wen heard from since 10/30/98Kimb ing Person/Involuntary.

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Case Type: Non Family Abductio Sex: Male Color: Black Eye Colo lbs (48 kg) Missing City: PHOEN NCMC601924

Circumstances: Myron's photo is his grandparents' house and he s been seen since. He has a 1/2 inc (Arizona) - Missing Persons Deta Local FBI

ssing - 10/30/98 bama t. Contact - Sgt. - (334)241-2790

. Kimberly is a black female, 5'4" tall, weighs 110 pounds, has black hair n her abdomen and was last seen wearing a gray Bugle Boy shirt with a white with gray trimming Reebok sneakers.

nt to the store, however, never returned home. She has not been seen or berly was 16 when she came up missing and is listed in the NCIC as Miss-

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s shown age-progressed to 30 years. He and his mother were walking to stopped to get a soft drink while his mother continued on. He has not ch scar on the right side of his head. Phoenix Police Department ail - 1-602-261-8042 (daytime) or 1-602-262-6141 (nighttime) or Your

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Timothy Adcock DOB: Dec 8, 2004 Missing: Feb 12, 2009 Age Now: 6 Sex: Male Race: Biracial Hair: Blonde Eyes: Brown Height: 3'6" (107 cm) Weight: 45 lbs (20 kg) Missing From: SMITHVILLE TN United States Timothy was last seen on February 12, 2009. He was allegedly abducted by his mother, Daisy Adcock. A felony warrant for Kidnapping was issued for the abductor on November 13, 2009. They may be traveling in a red 2002 Ford Taurus with Tennessee license plates 432THS. They may travel to Honduras, Central America. Timothy is Biracial. He is White and Hispanic. Daisy may use the alias first name Deisy and the last name Lacompte. ANYONE HAVING INFORMATION SHOULD CONTACT National Center for Missing & Exploited Children 1-800-843-5678 (1-800-THE-LOST) Smithville Police Department (Tennessee) 1-615-597-8210

It Was God...

In our everyday struggles we always tend to sit back and wonder why it is that we a break. We all know what it is to deal with financial troubles, even when we are d to lose someone that we love, regardless of where that loved one may fall on the an even though we know that God will see us through. In all of those statements, wha

Let me break this down for everyone. In all the things that we experience, do they the way even though at the beginning of dealing with them we thought that there w that I know, that I know...God works it out!

As we are in the midst of the holiday season, there are so many people that are wi ing turmoil on every hand and they don't know which way to go, some that right n that they begin to believe that they deserve the things that they are dealing with. F is nothing, and I do mean nothing, that God can't fix and that He won't do. You jus seed. Sure, I bet there are a lot of you reading this saying to yourselves, "Prayer do experienced so much, more than this smile on my face lets on, but I know that God prayer is what has been my heartbeat. I was told that I'd never make it, and now I even supposed to earn my Bachelor's...but Amen it was God that allowed me to ma wants you to do is give Him all of your worries, all of you burdens. You have to let

In everything that we deal with, in all of the storms that we must go through, thro on our knees....It Was God. Much Love and God Bless, Paula Whitebear-Burton Warrior's for Christ (W.F.C) Founder, Coordinator, and Organization Manager

e must endure hardships, and why it is that we can't seem to get doing halfway alright in that department. We all know what is ncestral tree. We all know what is to worry or to have fears at do they have in common?...they all have life in common.

not have an end? Do things not at some point get better along was no light at the end of the tunnel? Well, I must tell you all, I know that I know,

ithout jobs, some that have lost loved ones back to back, some that are experiencnow are saying "there will be no Christmas this year",and some who are so broken FALL ON YOUR KNEES!! Yes, you heard me right...FALL ON YOUR KNEES!! There st have to trust and believe, even if you only have the faith the size of a mustard oesn't fix everything." Well, I can tell you that I am living proof that it does. I have d has kept me which is why I can still smile. I shouldn't even be here today, but I am in the starting process of earning my Master's degree...mind you I wasn't ake it this far in spite of it all. There is absolutely nothing that He can't do, all He t Him be who you trust in.

ough all of our losses, it is God that carries us through. For every time that we fall

May The Dawn Of This ew Year Bring Promises Of ew Joy For You & Your Families. May Your Each Day Be Blessed, With Peace, Prosperity & Happiness Too!

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