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A comprehensive listing of your neighborhood’s classes, performances and events.

Increase Fertility.................................................... 14 Enjoy Our Fabulous Indoor Tips to help you thrive and improve your health.

Skating Facility and The Nutrition Q & A: Round 2.......................................

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Current Events............................... 34 Talking to kids about today’s tough topics.

Contributing Writers Stacey Antine, Julia Darrenkamp, Kim Guiley, K.T. Korngold, Kelsey Layer, Victoria Maizes, Phyllis Ohr, Teresa Tayler, Louise Weadock

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Young kids will love being Spiderman, Thor, Wolverine, Iron Man, The Hulk and many more in LEGO® Marvel™ Super Heroes.

Created for the PlayStation 3, Wii U, Nintendo DS, and XBOX 360, the action-packed game brings together all of the most well-known heroes and villains from the Marvel Universe. LEGO® Marvel™ Super Heroes is available in stores and online now.

A Halloween Treat

Just in time for Halloween, The Weinstein Company keeps young audiences on the edge of their seats with The Trick or Treaters. The animated feature focuses on a group of bad guys whose outlook begins to change when they encounter an orphan girl. The Trick or Treaters opens nationwide on October 25.

Beach Bonanza

Two teen surfers are magically transported into an old-school 1960s beach flick in Teen Beach Movie. Audiences of all ages will love the music, dancing and nostalgia as Brady and Mack try to save the day and make their way back home. Including behind-the-scenes footage and bonus features, Disney Channel’s Teen Beach Movie is available now.

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Flying Free

Two turkeys from the opposite side of the tracks have to put aside their differences and team up to change the course of history in Free Birds (Relativity Media). The unique, animated buddy comedy follows the birds back in time as they try to get turkey off the holiday menu forever. Go along for the ride with Free Birds, in theaters beginning November 1.

It’s a Snap

Chicago-based software company TIP Solutions is proud to present CallSnap. The free, downloadable app provides users with a chance to communicate by responding instantly to an incoming call with a photo. The innovative app is available to download in the Google Play store. Visit www.callsnapapp.com for more information.

Painting a Picture

Meet 9-year-old Saige, a talented artist with a passion for horses, in An American Girl: Saige Paints the Sky (Universal Studios). Perfect for the brand-new school year, this modern-day story featuring the newest member of the American Girl family is all about facing your fears and finding your own voice. The live-action feature is available now on DVD.

Nightengale’s Tale

Musical Mischief

Game On

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Things go wrong for young witch Cassie Nightengale’s family and friends just days before her birthday in The Good Witch’s Destiny.

Now Cassie has to rely on her charm to destroy a curse and pull off the party she has always wanted. The Good Witch’s Destiny premieres on the Hallmark Channel on October 26. Check your local listings.

It’s that time of year again. Basketball season is in the air and NBA 2K14 is in stores. Raising the bar for sports fans and gamers everywhere, the brand-new release features state-of-the-art graphics, amazing features, and all of your favorite NBA stars. Score a slam dunk with your family by picking up your copy of NBA 2K14 today.

Kindie favorites Baze and His Silly Friends celebrate the school year with their third CD, The Best Day Ever! Joining Baze and His Silly Friends on the new release is an all-star kindie lineup, including Lucky Diaz, Kira Wiley, Dave Lambert, and many, many more.

A portion of the band’s CD sales will go to help raise autism awareness. Order your copy today at www.mysillyfriends.com.

Director Nick Ryan takes viewers to the top of the most challenging peak in the world in The Summit (IFC Films).

The amazing documentary explores the physical and emotional ascent of K2, as well as some of the successful and unsuccessful attempts to the top.

The Summit opens in select theaters on October 4.

Donald McDermott is the managing editor.

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There’s something for everyone when the Pumpkin Festival comes to town every weekend through October 27. The annual celebration includes delicious food and drink, live music, a maze, a lavender labyrinth, friendly farm animals, pumpkins to pick, and much more. Catch all of the action at the Garden of Eve Organic Farm & Market, 4588 Sound Ave., Aquebogue. Questions? Call (631)523-6608 or log onto www.gardenofevefarm.com.

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Apple-theme contests, crafts, and more take center stage on October 12 when the Apple Festival comes to Islip Grange, 10 Broadway Ave., Sayville.

Open to visitors of all ages from 10am to 4:30pm, this spectacular event also features carnival-style entertainment, handmade crafts for sale, live music, pony rides, and amusements. Rain date is October 13. Find out more by calling (631)224-5430.

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t’s a customizable world these days, particularly when it comes to Halloween. While there are many options this season for readymade costumes, your kids can look just as spectacular with outfits right from their closets — and a little help from your local party store.

course! Then, get geeky with glasses that rock a white-tape stripe on the nose bridge, a bowtie, and a pocket protector — all of which should be in stock at a party store in your nabe.

Personalize your costume designs with store-bought accessories to complete your kids’ trick-or-treat looks. Here are what costume experts recommend.

Head down any number of aisles during October, and you’ll notice that accessories come in every color of the rainbow and many shades in between. Can’t decide on a color scheme for a costume? Good!

Your kids will be on trend this holiday in their spectacular mish-mosh of hues. Let your children choose whatever basic color shirts and pants they want to display, and then play them up with accessories like a rainbow bow tie, colorful wig, and mismatched suspenders, or bold tutus, vibrant hair clips, and cozy-but-cute leg warmers.

BuzzIng BumBleBee

This classic concept is always sure to make a buzz during All Hallow’s Eve. Inspired by sugar and spice and everything nice, this costume can be thrown together with black leggings and a black shirt as a base. Build onto the theme by picking up a bee antennae headband, or creating one, and fairy wings at a nearby retailer. Finish off the garb with a black-and-yellow tutu and socks in the same color scheme.

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Let’s face it: It’s cool to be a nerd in this technology-driven world.

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With minimal planning, these outfits are sure to make your child’s spooky season an outstanding one.

tops kIds’ Costumes for 2013 1) Superheroes 2) Disney Princesses 3) Minnie Mouse 4) Hello Kitty

5) Monster High 6) Strawberry Shortcake 7) Despicable Me 8) Monsters University

Julia Darrenkamp is a Party City spokesperson. Party City is a leader in the party goods industry with more than 850 locations and 1000 costumes.

It is one of America’s largest, specialty party goods chains and a premiere Halloween retailer.

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Fertilit y Tips to help you thrive and improve your health.

With growing excitement, you and your partner decide the time is right to have a child. While pregnancy is a natural event, getting your health in order will increase the likelihood of conception and of giving birth to a healthy child. What follows is some of the most important advice that I give to my patients when preparing for pregnancy.

Eat a healthy diet.

The Mediterranean diet has been shown to reduce the risk of heart disease, cancer and Alzheimer’s. It is also a diet that increases the likelihood of conception — both au natural and when using IVF. Mediterranean diets include abundant unrefined grains, legumes, fish, vegetables, and fruit. Olive oil is the principal oil in the diet, and meat is consumed sparingly if at all.

Other specific dietary recommendations that have been shown to reduce infertility include eating more vegetable protein and less animal protein (substitute beans and nuts for meat or poultry), choosing whole fat rather than low or non-fat dairy products, and avoiding soda and simple carbohydrates.

Fish is complex. While you will want to reduce exposure to mercury by avoiding shark, swordfish, king mackerel and tilefish, you don’t want to avoid all fish, as it’s one of the best sources of omega-3 fatty acids in our diet. So enjoy your wild salmon, sardines, herring, and black cod.

Take a good multivitamin.

The American academies of family medicine, obstetrics and gynecology, and pediatrics all recommend that women of childbearing age take a multivitamin. Prenatal multivitamins reduce the risk of neural tube, heart, and other birth defects. They make it easier to conceive and less likely to miscarry. And, three recent studies revealed an association between the use of folic acid prior to conception and a 40-percent lower risk of autism.

Choose your multivitamin and supplements with care. They can vary tremendously. You will want it to contain: folic acid, 400-600 mcg; iron, 18 mg; and iodine, 150 mcg, among the various ingredients.

I also recommend that most women take an omega-3 fatty acid supplement. These essential fats are scarce in the American diet. While omega-3 is abundant in some fish, many women avoid fish to reduce their exposure to mercury. Look for molecularly distilled fish oil with both DHA (for your baby’s developing brain, about 300-400 mg) and EPA (to prevent postpartum depression, about 500-600 mg) and take it with your largest meal of the day.

Reconsider your exercise routine.

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ou had even more questions about your family’s eating habits, and Registered Dietitian Stacey Antine is back to answer them in this delicious sequel to last month’s enlightening piece. Keep reading to find out what kinds of soy foods are best and how to keep junk food at bay.

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Is there a limit to the amount of soy foods, such as edamame and tofu, that my 1 year old should be eating?

Soy foods, such as edamame and tofu, are delicious, plant-based sources of protein that contain no cholesterol. They are loaded with healthy fats, including omega-3 fatty acids, as well as vitamins and minerals. For healthy kids and adults, moderation is the best approach. Eat one serving a day (1 cup) and stick with edamame or other natural forms of soy, not highly processed soy food products. Also, since soybeans are high on the list of genetically modified organisms (GMOs) crops, look for non-GMO labels on frozen and fresh soy products in your supermarket.

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My 2¼-year-old daughter has always been a good eater for the most part. Recently, she is refusing to eat foods she’s always loved. It seems that it’s just a control issue with her.

What do you think?

Many children begin to flex their independence through their food choices at age 2 or even younger. This is a great opportunity to empower your daughter to choose a variety of foods and help with the cooking process. She can help you mix, pour, and stir ingredients. In some cases and with supervision, she can use a plastic knife to help chop soft veggies, such as bell peppers, to develop gross motor skills, too! Lastly, make sure to eat with your daughter at the table so she can model your eating behavior.

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What’s the most important nutrient for a growing 5 year old?

Does it change as he gets older?

Growing children need nutrition from a variety of whole foods that provide energy, protein, healthy fats, vitamins, and minerals. The following are great options: a medley of fruits and vegetables, whole grains (quinoa, brown rice, popcorn that’s not from a microwavable bag), lean proteins (fish, chicken), healthy fats (avocado, olive oil, nuts, and omega3 fatty acids from salmon, flax, and hemp), low-fat dairy for protein, as well as calcium and vitamin D (yogurt, milk, cheese, or dairy alternatives like soy, rice, almond, and coconut). Singling out nutrients is not a good practice, especially for children. It’s the combination of nutrients in their natural state that provides the body’s best nourishment.

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If most of my child’s diet is well rounded, does it matter that he has a rewarding dessert here and there?

After all, he’s a kid!

I’m all about dessert, especially homemade sweets, but not with the word “reward” attached to it. Rewards for good behavior, school grades, etc., should not be linked to food, but rather to a new book or privilege at home (extra playtime).

After dinner, a square of dark chocolate with fresh fruit or berries gets my stamp of approval!

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While I make my 7 year old’s packed meal for school, how do I know she’s not eating other kids’ junk foods during lunch hour?

The best way to find out if food items are being traded is to ask your daughter. Having an honest dialogue with kids is a lot easier than you think.

Also, don’t emphasis healthy or junk foods because then kids want the forbidden stuff that satisfies their salt cravings or sweet tooth. Rather, talk about natural foods that come from the farm (or garden) and the artificial foods that are made in factories. Read the ingredients on snack labels, determining if they contain beneficial ingredients.

If your child likes the artificial stuff, spy for healthier alternatives.

For more questions and answers, visit www.parentguidenews.com/Articles/NutritionQA. Stacey Antine, M.S. R.D., is the author of Appetite for Life (HarperOne), founder of the popular HealthBarn USA, and co-host of the Family Food Expert Internet Radio Show. She has been recognized among the top 10 dietitians nationally by Today’s Dietitian magazine for her work with HealthBarn USA. Learn more about Antine’s ventures at www.healthbarnusa.com and www.staceyantine.com.

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Sensory Processing Disorders

Asensoryprocessingdisorderisaconnectivitymalfunctionofthe neural pathways in the body. When this happens, stimuli can’t predictably flow to the brain where information is coded and stored, information is not consistently received by the senses, and a child can’t learn how to appropriately recognize the data and react accordingly. When the child needs to use information to respond, he can’t retrieve it because it wasn’t adequately sorted, properly identified, or stored.

Does your child have one?

by Louise Weadock

Is there anything you can do to help if your child has a sensory processing disorder?

Yes. Vast improvements have been observed in children who had been diagnosed with sensory processing disorders. We’ve seen firsthand how sensory stimulation can make a difference.

When I say, “senses,” I am referring to centers within our body that uniquely register information about our world in the brain. This includes our nose for smelling, ears for hearing, mouth for tasting, skin for touching, eyes for seeing, and our radar, which determines our sense of self in space.

Children learn using all of their senses to respond to what they see, smell, hear, touch, and feel. They use observation, experimentation, and problem solving — sensory play — to lay the groundwork for life in the classroom and the world at large.

Counting, sequencing, sorting, constructing, and scientific thinking are all the result of sensory play experiences.

Sensory processing: A disorder or a disability?

For every type of sense, there are “hypersensitivities” and “hyposensitivities.” Hypersensitive children can’t filter out information and become overwhelmed with too much information. Hyposensitive children are defensively hard-wired to block out stimuli and can be unresponsive when asked to retrieve information in order to act.

If a child’s processing ability can’t be amped up or calmed down, he is said to have a “challenge” to overcome, or a special need on which to focus. Depending on the complexity of the neural pathway disruption, the child may demonstrate learning or behavioral disorders such as dyslexia, ADD, ADHD, OCD, PDD, or autistic behaviors.

How can a parent help? The following tips offer ways to exercise various senses.

Challenge to sight: The child can’t see objects in

the way or patterns of words on a page, can’t judge objects in motion, or has no depth or peripheral perception. There can also be degrees of blindness, peripheral obstruction, and inaccurate light refraction.

Sensory exercises: Expose the child to LED

lighting. Engage in activities with light and sound combinations such as light patterns with music and water, as well as activities aiming to develop eye-hand coordination.

Challenge to hearing: The child can’t hear surrounding motions but can feel surrounding sounds; is super sensitive to loud, buzzing, pitchy, or sudden noise; perceives sounds differently than others do and is often misunderstood. The child may require a different language, like sign or Braille, to communicate.

Sensory exercises: Use an intensive auditory

earphone system with classical music at night.

Try having the child play drums, sing karaoke, or practice wildwood instruments.

Challenge to sense of self in space: The child bumps into objects, trips, falls, and has difficulty with balance tasks like bike riding. He’s not generally a good athlete. He often misses his mouth when eating or drinking and has problems with logic and decoding puzzles.

Sensory exercises: Joint movement, sports, and exercise, like jumping, running, hopping, etc., may boost academics.

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Challenge to taste: The child may be

Challenge to smell: The child is easily

Sensory exercises: Accompany food

Sensory exercises: Aromatherapy or oxygen bar

deemed a “picky eater;” have issues with food consistency, color, or look; be adamant that “other foods can’t be touching;” and experience lactose allergies, or obesity from self-soothing. with a favorite song or activity. Let the child make his own meals and encourage weightcontrol challenges.

Avoid unhealthy snacks.

distracted by different smells, sometimes finding them intolerable and forcing him to leave an area. The child may perceive an item to have a putrid smell that is unlike the real smell detected by others. scents entice the child to hyper-stimulate his nose so he learns how to sort information. Cooking activities can stimulate memories of mom in the kitchen. Smells are “historical memory pegs” that enhance our ability to retain and recall information.

Challenge to touch: The child’s skin may be super-sensitive (ouch!) or hyposensitive (can’t feel a thing).

Some children can’t tolerate certain textures or people touching them. The hypersensitive child is cautious, delicate, and fearful. He doesn’t mingle in a group. Hyposensitive children may not realize they’re in danger because they don’t feel.

Sensory exercises: The hyposensitive child craves stimulation. He probably enjoys a good back scratch, a tight

hug, or a scalp massage. Any sticky-touchy-prickly-vibrating sensations on his skin are more than welcome.

Hypersensitive children do well with squeeze machines, cocoon swings, bubble baths, warm water, and creams.

Louise Weadock is a Registered Child Psychiatric Nurse; 30-year ASD/SID researcher; and the founder of 16,000-square-foot family gym, WeeZee… World of “Yes I Can!” at 480 Bedford Road, Chappaqua, NY. Weadock recently launched an autism/sensory learning research nonprofit, Sensory Bullets, for the purposes of researching the equipment featured at WeeZee gym. Learn more at www.weezeeworld.com.

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Celebrating a child’s birthday is undoubtedly a reason for celebration, but marking that milestone can quickly add up in cost if you aren’t mindful. However, with a little creativity and imagination, you can prepare an affordable, convenient, and fun party for kids of all ages. Read on for expert party planning tips and ideas for the budget-conscious planner.

First, think about what type of event you’re looking to plan. Determine whether you want guests to enjoy a casual or formal event, as well as whether you want the event to be focused solely on the children or have an opportunity for parents to join in the fun, too.

Next, think about your theme, which will set the tone for your event. Consider a theme like clowns, trains, animals, princesses, or

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pirates that will help you stay within budget for your party while getting all the necessities you want. A basic theme can also be enhanced with a little imagination. For example, a princess theme offers the opportunity to host a fun tea party, and an animal theme can easily be turned into a jungle adventure.

After choosing a theme, it’s time to consider location, location, location! If you plan to hold the event at your house, you’ll have the opportunity to creatively decorate to your liking. Consider the number of invited guests to determine whether this option is a possibility. Cook or secure catered food to match the theme. And, if the weather is nice, consider a camping party in your backyard.

Set up tents, build a campfire, and make S’mores and priceless memories — all at a low financial impact!

If you prefer not to hold the party at your home, shop around for locations such as indoor swimming pools, gymnastics venues, inflatable parks, sports centers, bowling alleys, skating rinks, children’s salons, cooking or pottery places, etc., where you can rent an event room for a specific time and engage guests in planned activities.

Rain or cold pending, scope out your area’s parks for a fun pavilion party, and have the kids play on the playground while you grill.

Let your imagination wander. Celebrations can be held anywhere, anytime, on any budget with a little creativity.

Decorations are a key part to making a celebration come alive.

For simple decorations, try finding printable cards and cutouts you can use and prepare from your home computer. You can create a celebratory piñata out of colorful tissue paper and cardboard of any shape and size. Look online for do-it-yourself tutorials to create fun and affordable decorations.

When it comes to the birthday cake, some parents only consider store-bought cakes from the local bakery or grocery store. To save money, bake a cake in your kitchen with icing, sprinkles, and other edible decorations that match your theme or color scheme. If you want a layered cake, simply make multiple small cakes and use icing to “glue” them together. You can layer with different icing flavors for a unique effect. Add streamers, figurines, or homemade cake toppers to your party pastry once complete. Making your own dessert means you’ll get the exact cake size you need and stay within budget. parentguidenews.com

Lastly, goodie bags can be expensive, but you can set whatever price limit for them you think is reasonable. Try going to your neighborhood dollar store to find colorful lunch bags in packs that match your decorations. Buy a bulk bag of candy and split it into each goodie bag along with stickers, cool erasers, or age-appropriate trinkets that go with your party theme. If you don’t want to fill up your goodie bags with toys, consider baking your favorite cookies and putting about three in each bag, tied up with streamers and a bow to add decoration.

Imagination and creativity are the key ingredients to help make any celebration inexpensive and affordable.

Kelsey Layer is a freelance writer and works for Dollar General. For inexpensive party decorations, gifts, baking materials, and cleaning supplies, visit a local Dollar General or www.dollargeneral.com to find all of your needs within budget. Additionally, take advantage of coupons and deals to help make your shopping experience more affordable.

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BounceU Smithtown Country View Commons, 62 Lake Ave., Nesconset, NY 11767 (631)265-JUMP (5867) nesconset.ny@bounceu.com www.bounceu.com BounceU of Smithtown (Nesconset) specializes in perfect party ideas. It offers amazing inflatable structures, unbeatable customer service, and a clean and climate-controlled environment, so all you have to do is show up and take pictures. Throwing a private party couldn’t be easier, as BounceU takes care of the food, cleanup, and everything else. Party packages also include: the Spectac-U-Lar Birthday, which provides games, bouncing, goodie bags, balloons and a souvenir T-shirt for the birthday child; the Premier Private Birthday, featuring two dedicated party pros, non-stop bouncing, video games and more; and the U-Junior Birthday, offering games,

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Birthday DIRECTORY music and inflatable fun along with a party pro. Add on the Cosmic Bounce option to any party and experience out-of-this-world lighting and glow-in-the-dark accessories. Favors run the gamut from stuffed water bottles to princess themed. Parties are only the beginning at BounceU, where families enjoy a plethora of programs, classes, events, and more. Get your bounce on!

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Celebrations in the Kitchen 63 E. Old Country Road, Hicksville, NY 11801 (516)396-2193 celebrationsinthekitchen@gmail.com www.celebrationsinthekitchen.com Celebrations in the Kitchen offers delicious and exciting professional baking parties, classes, children’s activities and more. Since 1997, thousands of children have had joyful memories at baking birthday parties, classes, camps, and Girl or Boy Scout visits. Celebrations in the Kitchen activities are held in a unique, state-of-the-art facility.

It includes a large, clean and safe exhibition kitchen; private party room; and a beautiful cafe with an espresso bar. A variety of party themes are offered, including: Cookie Baking, Cookie Decorating, Chocolate Candy Cottage, Cake Decorating, Cupcakes and More, Scone Baking Tea Party, Pies and Crostadas Party, and more. Parties, led by an expert staff, offer colorful and vibrant ingredients, dairy- and nut-free options, as well as fresh and certified Kosher ingredients. All-inclusive parties feature an array of projects, a birthday cake to be decorated by your child at the event, a choice of food and drinks for guests, aprons, invitations, a dedicated staff team, and more. Full catering options with a diverse menu of delicacies prepared on premises are provided for adult guests, making Celebrations in the Kitchen a terrific venue for your next party or family affair!

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Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor, NY 11724 (516)692-6768 www.cshfha.org Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium is a nonprofit center that educates visitors about New York’s freshwater ecosystems.

Throughout two buildings and eight outdoor ponds, it offers the largest living collection of New York State freshwater reptiles, fish and amphibians. The aquarium also offers one-and-a-half-hour birthday parties with live animal presentations, fish feedings, outdoor picnic tables or indoor ones, goodie bags, cake lighting and cutting supplies and cleanup. As many as 12 children ages 3 and older along with six adults are invited to celebrate at the Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium. Parties are held Monday through Friday in the afternoon and select weekends. Space is also available for after-hours event rental. Call for additional details about birthday bashes or events.

Cool Crafts, Inc. 3479 Merrick Road, Wantagh, NY 11793 (516)735-2007 www.coolcraftslongisland.com Are you looking for the perfect location to host your child’s next birthday party or group gathering? Cools Crafts, Inc., is the answer for all your crafting needs. After serving its Levittown location for the past nine years, Cool Crafts has moved to a larger space in Wantagh. Parties are one and a half hours and include a large selection of one-of-a-kind crafts, your choice of pizza or bagels, soda and juice, coffee for adults, paper goods, invitations, video games (age appropriate), music, dancing, balloons, nail polish and tattoos. All parties are led by party hosts that keep the fun going, your needs, your neighborhood

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and as a special gift for the birthday child, a photo is taken of the entire group as a keepsake. You can also host your perfect party at home and Cool Crafts, Inc., will supply all the materials needed for your special day. Cool Crafts hosts numerous school groups, Scout troop events, special needs groups as well as pre-k/toddler parties. Call for a schedule of daily walk-ins. Individual classes are available. Light-up Halloween and Christmas pieces are available for special order. Cool Crafts has it all, so call, visit the website and “Like” it on Facebook at www.facebook.com/coolcrafts to learn more about all of the crafts available to you!

Darlings & Divas 65 Merrick Road, Amityville, NY 11701 (631)608-4710 info@darlingsanddivas.com http://darlingsanddivas.com Calendar Regularly Choose From Professionally Created Projects There’s darling and NY diva in every girl, so let both sides for Special Fall & 419 ParkDesigned Avenue South, New York, NY 10016 • 212-213-8840 • Fax 212-447-7734 419 Park Avenue South,a bit 13thofFloor, New York, 10016 • 212-213-8840 • Fax 212-447-7734 To Give A TRUE Baking Experience Holiday Classes shine at Darlings & Divas party place and boutique. There’s & Feeling of Accomplishment! something there to make your little girl feel fabulous, whether • Cookie Baking & Decorating TO: FAX # TO: FAX #or the awesome dance floor • Cupcake Baking & Decorating it be the diva-licious dress-up room • Extreme Cupcake Designs and stage. The all-new store was reinvented by two Long Island • Cookie-Chocolate Candy House Creation moms. Darlings & Divas is theISSUE answer to your party-planning FROM: ISSUE DATE: FROM: DATE: • Brownie Baking needs because its staff makes throwing a bash easier than ever.

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Also check out the Darlings & Divas boutique, featuring the brand-new Posh Polish bar by appointment, cool gifts, complimentary wrapping, wish lists for the birthday girl, one-ofa-kind pop artist handbags, Charm It jewelry, American Girl Doll clothing, dress-up sets, fashion accessories and more. Visit Darlings & Divas for a free tour, or have them come to you for your next event!

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Kangaroo Kids Inflatable Party Center Deer Park, NY 11729 (631)871-8762 rich@kangarookidsparty.com www.kangarookidsparty.com The price is right at Kangaroo Kids Inflatable Party Center.

Private, two-hour parties start in the Inflatable Fun Room, where amazing in­flatable bouncers, slides and obstacle courses delight kids ages 2-12. There are also many other free attrac419 Park Avenue South, New York, NY 10016 • 212-213-8840 • Fax 212-447-7734 tions included in the same room, such as air hockey, foosball, Nok Hockey and basketball. Little guests ages 1 and older enjoy to: riding in small rescue vehicles or playing on the foam crawl- FAx # Check out our around and slide. Free pizza and juice are served to the children WEBSITE for by helpful staff in the brightly decorated Refresh­ment Room.

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Kanga­roo KZAM!!! call or fax your comments and/or oK. Kids helps you save money by giving you the option of bring­ ing in or purchasing your cake, favors and food for adults. A SigNAture oF APProvAl: bubble machine and characters such as Explorer Girl and the Red Monster are fun add ons. Call to find out about Kangaroo Kids flexible Open Play hours too!

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The Lanyard Ladies 21 Ryder Place, East Rockaway, NY 11518 (516)578-2248 thelanyardladies@yahoo.com www.thelanyardladies.com The Lanyard Ladies provide a new and unique birthday party idea.

Friendship Bracelet and Lanyard birthday parties feature awesome ways to have fun and be creative. They offer a wide variety of crafts. There are 26 beautiful colors of string and lanyard from which guests may choose. Kids learn to make all of their favorite patterns and have the best birthday party at the same time. The Lanyard Ladies can travel to you or you can come to their location.

Check the website to discover the many fabulous partner locations that can hold your next party or event. Your guests are sure to have a “stringtastic” good time.

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419 Park Avenue South, New York, NY 10016 • 212-213-8840 • Fax 212-447-7734 The Meadowlands Castle www.parentguidenews.com • 212-213-8840 149 Polito Ave., Lyndhurst, NJ 07071-0327 FAX # (888) 935-6878 www.medievaltimes.com Register Now Multi-Sports Gaga In the mood for some old-fashioned Medieval Times invites Classes for Fall 2013 FROM: ISSUEfun?

DATE: you to come celebrate more than 20 years of feasting, fighting and Classes! fun! A popular dinner attraction for all ages, Medieval Times Castles features dinner andcomments live show based upon OK. authentic mePleasea two-hour call or fax your and/or dieval history. Guests enjoy a four course medieval banquet while A CLASS OR witnessing brave knights compete on horseback in games of skill, BIRTHDAY PARTY! SIGNATURE jousting OF APPROVAL: WITH THIS AD. matches and swordfights. Admission includes a four course dinner, beverages and a live show. Parking is free. In addition to 575 Underhill Blvd. (at Jericho Tpke) • Syosset, NY 11791 their regular daily schedules, Medieval Times is the perfect place 516-921-GAGA • www.ultimategaga.com to cel­ebrate the next birthday of the young Lord or Lady of your

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Calling all ghosts and goblins, spiders and bones, the Hatchery’s open for an evening roam.. Trick or Treat at many fun filled stations throughout the Hatchery.

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Celebrate while exploring the aquarium, feeding fish & enjoying a live animal presentation!

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Birthday DIRECTORY own castle! Their special action-packed birthday party packages in­clude preferred seating, an individual photo with the King or Queen, a cheering banner, birthday cake, and an announcement in hon­or of the birthday child during the perfor­mance! Medieval Times is located west of Giants Stadium and just minutes from mid-town Manhattan. Other locations include Hanover, MD; Lawrenceville, GA; Kissim­mee, FL; Schaumburg, IL; Myrtle Beach, SC; Dallas, TX; Buena Park, CA; and To­ronto, Ontario. Call the number above for reservations and further information.

more. Additional Music Together centers are located in Huntington, Plainview, Garden City and Manhasset. The relaxed, child-friendly environment and approach accommodate a wide range of ages and learning styles. Whatever the program, children will experience respectful, nurturing teachers, cozy class sizes, and moments of joyful wonder and discovery!

Oh My Girls!

140 Jericho Turnpike, Syosset, New York 11791 (516)802-5800 Not Just Art®/Music Together® www.ohmygirls.com 183 South St., Oyster Bay, NY Oh My Girls! is the first-ever girl’s health club that is all (516)922-8300 about creating a revolution in girlhood. Its goal is to keep www.notjustart.com girls fit and fabulous for life, which even includes changing Now celebrating its 20th anniversary, Not Just Art offers lovethe way girls “party.” Have your next event for your spely, creative parties that are a warm and memorable way to celcial girl at Oh My Girls! so she can celebrate in a way that ebrate birthdays and other special occasions. With more than supports her body, mind, and soul. Oh My Girls! has some a dozen music, art, and science parties available for children of the most unique, intimate and fun birthday celebrations Park Avenue South, upon New York, NY 10016 •in212-213-8840 • Fax 212-447-7734 ages 1-12 years, and other 419 projects available request, the metropolitan area. Oh My Girls! believes that havthere is something for everyone! Open-ended activities are deing fun is about much more than getting a bag full of candy signed to ensure childrenTO: of all ages, needs, and abilities feel FAX and# aims to provide the “real” goodies that will keep girls successful. Staffed by experienced teachers, each celebration feeling confident and empowered both inside and out! Paris a unique and personalized one. The beautiful specialty toy ties may include any combination of cooking, baking, fitness store is the perfect placeFROM: to find high-quality toys and tools ISSUE and DATE: smoothie-making. Parties are 90 minutes to two and a to spark creativity. It has an eclectic and handpicked collechalf hours in length and include invitations, party favors, celtion of children’s toys, instruments, science and art kits, infant ebratory sweet (for cooking or baking parties), paper goods, Please callinorOyster fax your OK. Oh My Girls! additionally runs a full gifts and creative supplies for all ages.

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Birthday DIRECTORY Pump It Up Parties 1750 Arctic Ave., Bohemia, NY 11716 (631)563-3100 135 Dupont St., Plainview, NY 11804 (516)575-2300 info@piuny.com www.pumpitupparty.com You won’t want to miss out on all of the fun at one of Long Island’s number 1, original, biggest, inflatable party zones! Plan your little one’s next party at this hot spot, which has 180 locations in more than 38 states. The massive 15,000-square-foot climate-controlled facility has the latest inflatable designs set up in an indoor arena.

Also available is Motion Mania, the interactive floor game played with your feet. Attractions range from a gigantic 20-foot slide and obstacle course to inflatable boxing and jousting arenas. Try Pump It Up’s one-of-a-kind inflatable the Slippery Slope. Pump It Up has tons of options to keep your kids engaged, challenged, active and safe. Host a Classic 90 Party and your guests enjoy one and a half hours of bouncing fun with pizza and soda included. Trained staff members supervise, set up and clean up every party. Pump It Up is the perfect location for any private children’s party, birthday party, corporate team-building party, moms’ club meeting or other special event. Kids of all ages can’t resist a little bouncing fun! Call to plan your special event at either of Pump It Up’s incredible locations or visit www.pumpitupparty.com.

The Rinx 660 Terry Road, Hauppauge, NY 11787 (631)232-3222, ext. 310 info@therinx.com www.therinx.com Birthday parties at The Rinx are the coolest— literally! Kids will love celebrating birthdays, bar mitzvahs, bat mitzvahs and more on one of The Rinx’s two full-size NHL skating rinks. They’ll enjoy 1¼ hours of skating and fun on the ice. Also available for an additional fee are half-hour group lessons led by skating instructors trained to work with first-time skaters and children. Guests then enjoy a party at The Rinx’s Time Out Cafe, with a choice of pizza or hotdogs, and, if the parents choose, a Carvel cake. The party package includes special Icing on the Cake invitations, balloons, skate rentals, paper goods, and a free skating pass and gift for the birthday child. Admittance for parents of the birthday child is free (skate rentals are extra). The Rinx can accommodate any size group of more than ten people and whatever your needs— its staff caters to them! The Rinx is available for church and synagogue socials, Girl Scouts and Boy Scouts gatherings, school groups, corporate parties, summer picnics, or for any crew out for fun! Reserve your party now, because reservations are on a first-come, first-serve basis.

A birthday party on skates? Now that’s great!

Winner’s Edge Sports Training (W.E.S.T.) Huntington Station, NY (631)367-WEST (9378) www.winnersedgesportstraining.com Winner’s Edge Sports Training (W.E.S.T.) is a 12,000-square-foot, indoor sports facility. W.E.S.T. offers year-round, private and group, training classes in baseball, softball, soccer, and lacrosse. W.E.S.T. is also home to some of Long Island’s best sports-theme birthday parties for children ages 3 and older. Its reasonably priced, full-service parties give parents a stress-free option for celebrating their child’s special day. All parties at W.E.S.T. include full use of the turf field and a private party room, as well as hosts to organize and lead guests through fun, active games. If you are looking for real sports action for your child’s next party, then call W.E.S.T. to reserve your party date! W.E.S.T. also offers batting cage and turf field rentals, open 30 I parentguide News I October 2013

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The Funny Man (516)551-2797 www.thefunnyman.org The Funny Man makes sure children and adults are all smiling when he entertains with his jokes and clowning. With 28 years in the business of fun and ongoing experience as an early childhood teacher, Ellis, a.k.a. The Funny Man, is a truly special performer who makes unforgettable memories for your child. When in his clown clothes, The Funny Man can make even the most tentative children laugh at his transformational show, which is also an enriching learning experience. Audiences watch as the process of becoming a clown happens before their eyes. They’ll see The Funny Man warm up with laughter, go to clown school and learn basic clown concepts, and even pet a rabbit who does tricks. The show is complete with balloon sculptures for each child. If you’re looking for a little outside-of-the-box entertainment, Ellis also takes on the role of Melvin the Nerd, a silly-looking character complete with pull-up polyester pants and a toothbrush in his pocket. Melvin can put on a roast for your guest of honor and add a truly personal touch to the experience.

The Funny Man additionally performs as Santa. Visit the website for more information.

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The Lanyard Ladies 21 Ryder Place, East Rockaway, NY 11518 (516)578-2248 thelanyardladies@yahoo.com www.thelanyardladies.com The Lanyard Ladies provide a new and unique birthday party idea.

Friendship Bracelet and Lanyard birthday parties feature awesome ways to have fun and be creative. They offer a wide variety of crafts. There are 26 beautiful colors of string and lanyard from which guests may choose. Kids learn to make all of their favorite patterns and have the best birthday party at the same time. The Lanyard Ladies can travel to you or you can come to their location.

Check the website to discover the many fabulous partner locations that can hold your next party or event. Your guests are sure to have a “stringtastic” good time.

Madeleine The Magician (212)475-7785 / (516)733-0373 madeleine@madeleinethemagician.com www.madeleinethemagician.com www.dazzical.com Close your eyes and imagine a kids’ magic show really for the kids, but the adults enjoying it as well. Where kids are riveted and do not move until the magic show is over. Where kids get excited in an interactive magic show and your child is “the star.” Now open your eyes and see Madeleine The Magician. This charismatic, multi-talented female magician brings kids’ magic shows to a brand-new level. Her magic shows change with the age groups. Magic birthday parties, communions, christenings, bar and bat mitzvahs, weddings, schools, camps, every occasion, and special magic shows for kids with disabilities. Madeleine The Magician, The Harry Potter Magician, performed for J.K. Rowling. In her Harry Potter Magic Shows, the kids and adults become students at your needs, your neighborhood

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Taking to Tantrums The case for a good cry.

by K.T. Korngold It’s important to give children, especially toddlers, the correct information about crying. We need to let our children know it is okay to cry and recognize that there are benefits to tantrums.

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ccepting a crying child increases the child’s self-esteem. Children who cry as needed are often better learners, and after a crying session or a tantrum, toddlers usually become more pleasant. It’s true that a long cry or temper tantrum is not very agreeable to adults. They can be difficult and draining for everyone involved. However, after a good cry or tantrum, children are typically happy, relaxed, cooperative, and easy going.

The transformation can be dramatic. The toddler who was previously moody or inflexible becomes a delight.

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oung children need to release tension, and temper tantrums are a way to help them ease stress. They allow your toddler to let go of emotions at a stage when language skills and the ability to self-modulate have not been fully developed. There is a lot of energy exploding in the midst of a tantrum, so be very careful.

Sometimes children appreciate a comforting hug after it has passed, and other times they don’t want to be touched. It is important to respect the needs of the child.

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uring a tantrum, stay right beside your toddler and pay close attention. Help your child through the situation by fostering an emotionally and physically safe space for tears and tantrums. Pat her back and give her a reassuring hug if she lets you. Let her know you are there for her with phrases such as, “Crying makes you feel better,” “It’s okay to cry,” “I’m right here,” and “I’ll stay with you while you cry.”

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or a child who frequently cries or has tantrums, provide support when she’s not crying or expressing her temper by using the following tips: 1) Give the child plenty of physical closeness. Pat, hold, hug, hum to, sing with, gently cuddle, and smile at her.

2) Be present and available.

3) Give the child plenty of deliberate attention. Look into her eyes and at her face to let her know you are there. Take your time when bonding.

4) Listen intently when the child talks. Wait for her to speak and look at her face while doing so. Don’t ask too many questions or interrupt.

Repeat what the child says back to her and let the child lead the way.

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ometimes, there’s a specific trigger for crying or a tantrum, like tiredness, hunger, frustration, a sensory issue, being too hot or cold, a transition or interruption, etc. Other times, stress has been slowly building, and the trigger is just what causes the outburst at that moment.

When a child needs to release tension, a temper tantrum enables her to do that.

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et go of your own feelings about a child crying or having a temper tantrum. We don’t need to control children; we need to control our own feelings and our own behavior. We are here to guide our kids and to be with them.

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s a caring and loving parent, you can support your child and enable her to feel and be safe while she releases what she needs to release. Try to accept the oncoming tantrum next time it starts. You and your child might just be relieved that you did!

K.T. Korngold is the C.E.O. of the Center for Montessori Education|NY, which offers programs for adults in Montessori teacher education and Montessori school administration and operates the Montessori Children’s Center, a model child-care center in White Plains. K.T. is a trained Montessori Infant and Toddler Specialist and has a master’s degree from Columbia University.

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by Dr. Phyllis Ohr With news stories so accessible on TV, cell phones, tablets, and other media, children are frequently informed on all sorts of topics, sometimes without parental discretion. While children may learn about compassion and forgiveness from uplifting news stories, researchers, such as Dr. Barbara J. Wilson, have shown that negative news stories may contribute to children’s emotional upsets.

Parents are powerful guides who can help children gain socially and emotionally from the positive aspects of the news and can also model emotion regulation when their child is faced with its more negative aspects.

Here’s how you can talk with children about news events.

Tip 1: Let your child know you are always available to talk

about what is going on in the news. In fact, you and your child can set up a daily ritual of discussing the news, whether it’s good or bad.

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of current events. They can then ask their child if there is something he wants to know more about or have explained. If so, stick to pointedly answering follow-up questions or clarifying. Adding on or digressing may confuse your child.

Tip 2: Use news events to teach children about their positive and negative emotions. However children are affected by a news event, validate their emotional experience without minimizing or judging it.

Much of the time, children can recognize that they are upset, but they can’t label their emotions. Asking them to identify how they feel may be more frustrating to them than helpful. Try not to guess or assume how your child is feeling. You can point out to your child that he looks or sounds upset, but telling him how he feels is invalidating.

Tip 3: Be a positive coping model for your child. You can

disclose to your child how you may feel after hearing about a news item, but tell him that not everybody feels the same way about such topics. Sharing how the news affects you and labeling your feelings is a great way to teach your children how to label their own emotions. As children get older, they often gain the insight to recognize their own emotional state. If your child tells you exactly how he’s feeling, one way you can show him you understand is to restate what he said.

Tip 4: Monitor your child’s emotional reactions to the news.

According to Dr. Wilson, children will react with fear and anxiety when the news is particularly threatening. If parents recognize mild levels of distress, they can demonstrate calm breathing or relaxation techniques.

With younger children, for example, parents can practice calm breathing by blowing bubbles with them. When they hear upsetting news, children may initially feel helpless. Having them run for a cause or help clean up a neighborhood can teach your children to be resilient.

Look for verbal and nonverbal cues that may signal extreme reactions, such as a child refusing to participate in family or social events or not wanting to sleep alone. If these behaviors occur, it may be wise to put a limit on the amount of exposure to the news where possible. If you are concerned with your child’s emotional state after a news event, you can find something to do with your child that is distracting, such as taking a walk, drawing, singing and dancing, even watching a funny video.

When an upsetting event doesn’t personally affect the child, you can reassure him that everything is okay with his loved ones and that nothing has changed for him. Any parent who is concerned about their child’s reactions should consult with a mental health practitioner.

Dr. Phyllis Ohr holds a doctorate in clinical psychology and is the Assistant Clinical Director of the Ph.D. program in clinical psychology at Hofstra University, Hempstead, NY. She is the director of the Hofstra Child and Parent Psychological Services Clinic, specializing in parent-child interaction therapy. Dr. Ohr is also a consultant at News-O-Matic. parentguidenews.com

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efore getting pregnant, I was sure I’d be one of those glowing, Earth-mama types who’d spend nine months in prenatal bliss. After all, I’d spent years as a nanny, read tons of books on birth and pregnancy, and had major baby fever. But it wasn’t long after that positive pregnancy test that I realized: Growing a baby is full of surprises!

The First Trimester

Morning sickness is a misnomer. A few of my

friends have skated through pregnancy without a wave of nausea and I am quite happy for them (and a bit jealous). For the rest of us, morning sickness can put a real wrench in the excitement of early pregnancy. I spent much of the first 16 weeks in bed, and not just in the morning — it was an all-day, every-day affair. I even lost weight, which was super nerve wracking, but apparently quite common.

You might not be that busty. I’ve always been a

small-chested lady, so when my husband and I started trying for a baby, I was not-so-secretly excited for the enviable “pregnancy boobs” that everyone talks about. Granted, my breasts have grown over the past nine months, but not by more than half a cup size — not what I had in mind!

The “glow” won’t come until later. Another aspect The beginning of pregnancy can be a difficult time — your body is working nonstop and the physical and emotional adjustment can be bumpy. It’s normal for the initial excitement to wane as you navigate the ups and downs of these first few months, and don’t be surprised if it’s not as magical as you thought it would be.

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of pregnancy I was looking forward to: the radiant pregnancy glow. But the first trimester is your body’s time to adjust to the demands of a growing baby. And that means there will be kinks to work out. My early pregnancy “glow” consisted of nausea-induced sweating and chin acne...not so glamorous. parentguidenews.com

The Second Trimester The Third Trimester

By the time I hit the second trimester, I was drained and sure that all the books on “what to expect” had it 100-percent wrong. But they call this part of pregnancy “the honeymoon” for a reason. And although it’s never easy to grow a baby, months 4 through 6 are pretty magical most of the time.

Feeling the baby move is as wonderful as they promise. Though you may second guess yourself the first

few times you feel that flutter or poke, you’ll soon realize that it’s indeed your sweet baby wiggling around and making her presence known. And suddenly, you’re in love. I spent countless hours on the couch enjoying those subtle (and then not-so-subtle) movements.

Your partner’s excitement will increase. When

you’re growing a baby, you’re involved in the process every step of the way. But it can be difficult for your partner to feel included when there’s nothing he can do to help out. Don’t be discouraged if at first it feels like your other half is disconnected; the second trimester milestones will get him involved.

Have him pitch in on the nursery projects (nothing makes the reality of a baby sink in like having a designated room for her!). And once your significant other feels the baby kick from the outside, he’ll be hooked to your belly and full of excitement.

Embarrassing moments happen. Though the second trimester is typically the easiest part of pregnancy, your body is still rapidly changing and your baby is growing bigger by the day. Sometimes these changes can create embarrassing situations (like audibly breaking wind in public or peeing your pants a little every time you sneeze...oops!). Do your best to roll with it, and maybe keep a change of underwear in your purse, just in case.

My pregnancy felt like it was going by so slowly for the first 30 weeks or so. In fact, every time someone mentioned how quickly I seemed to be progressing, I’d snap back with, “That’s because you’re not the one growing a human inside your body!” (We’ll blame those less-thansweet remarks on pregnancy hormones). Although time speeds up in the final stretch, I found that my body started to slow down, and the transition wasn’t always easy.

Grooming is hard! Seriously, try bending over to shave your

legs while holding a watermelon at your torso and you’ll swear off shorts entirely. (A little tip: It’s easier if you’re sitting down in the bathtub, though not by much). As you near the end of pregnancy, it’s nice to feel groomed and put together, since so much of your body can get uncomfortable while you grow at an exponential pace. But take it from someone who attempted to paint her own toenails at 34 weeks pregnant: It’s worth investing in a little help.

Sleepless nights arrive before your newborn does.

Everyone knows to expect very little sleep in the first few months of parenthood. However, I was shocked to find that sleeping toward the end of pregnancy is no easy task either! My very active baby often chose the middle of the night to practice her karate moves, and let me tell you, it’s impossible to sleep when someone is kicking you in the ribs. Add to that the achy shoulders and hips that come with sleeping on your side and frequent trips to the bathroom, and you’ll likely forget what a good night’s sleep feels like.

Strangers get friendly. This starts to happen in the second

trimester and becomes even more pronounced in the third, when your belly gets so irresistibly round that strangers can’t help but comment.

Yes, the constant advice and attempted belly rubs from random ladies at the grocery store are not always so fun. But the benefit is that people go out of their way to open doors, give up their seats, and check in to see how you’re feeling. It’s really lovely!

Despite the ups and downs, pregnancy is a sacred time and a wonderful gift. Perhaps the biggest surprise of all? Even with all the mishaps and surprises, I’d do it again in a heartbeat just to snuggle my sweet babe!

Kim Guiley is a freelance writer who lives in San Francisco with her husband and baby daughter.

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e are always searching for that one magical solution to manage our time and to help us feel like a good parent, spouse, employer, boss, or friend. We crave one way to perform better and be more efficient.

However, it takes multiple, layered techniques to successfully manage time and integrate our work, family, and personal lives together. Think of the techniques like layers of clothing, and add or subtract as needed to help you personally and professionally thrive.

Since we are never actually “off the clock,” time-management layers help guide the constant ticking toward greater success and enjoyment. Layers also provide choices; and more choices eliminate frustration and the potential for a “mommy meltdown.”

The following five time-management tips will help mothers excel at home and at the office. They are written from my personal and professional experiences.

Layer #1: Set time limits.

Just how do you “make the time” to accomplish everything on your list that you set out to do? Since the list is only effective if the items on it can be realistically completed, assign a time limit for completing every item on your list. Be present in what you’re doing, finish it, and move on. I have my list of things to do, and I’ll assign time slots to it. If I have one hour to work on a presentation at work or one hour to clean at home, I do the best I can for that one hour.

Layer #2: Stay in the moment.

When you’re at work in a meeting, be there. When you’re at home, be there. If you’re in a business meeting, don’t wish to be somewhere else. Be present where you are, and don’t feel guilty about where you’re not.

Layer #3: Create one calendar.

I used to keep two different calendars, one for home and one for work; but I was missing work deadlines, my kids’ activities, and other events. So, I combined the calendars, which caused me to start talking about my family at work and integrating my two lives. It’s one life and one calendar! And, now, I don’t miss a thing.

Layer #4: Watch the clock.

It sounds simple, but an awareness of time gives you superpowers! Pay attention to how much time “until…” and how much time “since…” for every meeting, errand, chore, and task. Many of us use our phone as a clock these days, but a wristwatch helps you manage your time better.

Layer #5: Systemize childcare.

When we have childcare in place on certain days for certain hours, we can define that time for work and/or for ourselves. With numerous back-up and contingency plans, we can also secure and systemize the value of childcare and the predictability of planning for that time.

Find your layers, and then integrate them. The right combination will help you manage your time while feeling successful at home, at work, and in life.

Teresa Taylor is a nationally recognized, Fortune 200 executive who brings integrity, focus, vision, and agility to corporate leadership while advising companies, government agencies, and others on a successful business model. Her book, The Balance Myth: Rethinking Work-Life Success (Greenleaf Book Group Press), inspires women to succeed professionally and personally. Learn more at www.teresataylor.org.

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Health All-Natural Food Coloring

Artificial food coloring is known for being unhealthy for your children. Nature’s Flavors is now offering Natural Colors food coloring. Offered in a variety of hues, Natural Colors are kosher, vegan, gluten free, and free of artificial ingredients and additives. For perfect use in all of your cooking adventures, Natural Colors are made to keep your children healthy and happy. Visit www.naturalflavors.com for more information.

Oldie but a Goodie

CamelBak’s Eddy water bottle has undergone a cap redesign. For a faster flow and more durability, the Eddy bottle is still 100-percent BPA free. It comes equipped with a patented flip top to preventing spilling. The bottle is also dishwasher safe and comes in three different sizes with a loop handle for easy carriage and storage. Stay hydrated wherever you are and check out www.camelbak.com.

Family-Owned Farm

Devoted to health and wellness, Lundberg Family Farms offers a long list of rice products great for every brood. It offers more than 150, whole grain rice products, including organic and gluten-free varieties. Products range from rice, rice cakes, rice chips, risottos, rice couscous, and pasta to syrup and flour. Kosher and vegan options are available. Head to www.lundberg.com to search and purchase products.

Itches Be Gone

BeKoool Itch Relief Patch is designed to keep your children from scratching nasty insect bites or poison ivy itches. The patches are clear and relieve the itchiness your children may face. The protective barrier also helps fight what scratching leaves behind, including infection. Each patch is easy to apply and leaves no mess behind. Head to Walmart or Dollar General stores to pick up a pack today, or online at www.walgreens.com and www.drugstore.com.

Fit at Any Size

Yoga is great because there are so many ways to enjoy it at any ability level, size, age, and shape. Registered nurse and yoga instructor Ingrid Kollak has penned Yoga XXL (Demos Health), which explains how to enjoy the activity at any size. The modified postures and props ensure progression to increased flexibility, strength, stamina, balance, and energy. Find this title and others including Yoga and Scoliosis, Yoga and Fertility, and Yoga and Breast Cancer at www.demoshealth.com.

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Stay Cool

Who doesn’t love ice cream or a little bit of frozen sweetness?

Yoyonas is a new kitchen gadget that uses a high-torque blade to emulsify frozen fruits into a sweet, healthy, creamy treat! It’s easy to use and easy to clean, making it a great addition to any kitchen. Your family will thank you for this treat machine. Visit www.yoyonas.com to learn more and order your own.

Easy Weight Management

With the school year underway, parents are running around between activities, performances, and everything else that occupies kids’ busy schedules.

It’s easy to put their own needs on the back burner. Bulu Box makes weight management easier by delivering four or five dietary samples, including protein formulas, energy and cleansing supplements, vitamins, and more. The inexpensive service is available various subscription time frames. Visit www.bulubox.com to learn more.

Hoop, There It Is

Hooping has become popular in recent times, and it’s the perfect way to burn calories and stay fit. Check out Hoopersize from Kid Tribe, a fitness kit that includes a full size ProHoop, 12 instructional games, and a CD to help your clan burn up to 310 calories per 30-minute workout.

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The More You Know

With child allergies seemingly on the rise, it’s important to know what allergies children have.

Beware Bandits are an effective medical alert wristband for children that playfully announce health issues. Informative characters such as Billy the Bee, Poker Face Peanut, and Saloon Shelly are featured on the durable, adjustable bands, which are latex and nickel free. Find one for your child online at www.bewarebandits.com.

Growing Up

Pacifiers are great but can impact oral development in children. Introducing the Difrax 3-Stage Pacifiers for preemies and newborns all the way through children 18 months and older. The unique design is a result of years of research and development. It helps stimulate the development of the palate and muscles in the jaw and mouth.

The third stage of the pacifier is even designed to help break your child of his pacifier habit.

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October 5: A Taste of Port Jefferson, The Port Jefferson Village Center, Port Jefferson, (631)473-1414, www.portjeffchamber.com. The Greater Port Jefferson Chamber of Commerce presents their tasty annual event. 12 - 4pm.

October 6: Fall Festival at Sagtikos Manor, 677 Montauk Highway, Bay Shore, (631)854-0939, www.sagtikosmanor.com. Sagtikos Manor hosts a great festival for the whole family. 11am-4pm.

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October 6: The LI Expecting Parents & Baby Expo, Hilton Long Island, Melville, (516)415-2229, www.expectingparentsbabyexpo. com. Expos Your Business hosts its first ever parenting expo that features educational seminars, sessions and exhibits dedicated to expecting parents, new parents and couples planning to start their family. Experts will answer questions about fertility, adoption, healthy routines, day care/pre-school, employment rights, and saving for college. 10am-4pm.

October 8 - 16 October 11: Family Sleepover - Halloween Spooktacular, The Long Island Aquarium and Exhibition Center, 431 East Main St., Riverhead, (631)208-9200, ext. 105, www.longislandaquarium.com. Bring a flashlight and take a rare glimpse into the nighttime habits of the animals in the Creatures of the Night exhibit. Come dressed in Halloween costumes and bunk down for an exciting night of creepy crawly craft time, a haunting movie presentation of Monster House, and some monster mash dancing! 6pm - 7am. Advance registration required.

October 11-14: The Long Island Fall Festival, Heckscher Park, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington, (631)423-6100, www.huntingtonchamber. com. Live entertainment, carnival rides, international foods, vendors galore, and activities for kids are all on the agenda for this four-day, family-theme event presented by the Huntington Township Chamber of Commerce.

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October 12 and 13: The Montauk Fall Festival, Montauk Chamber of Commerce, 742 Montauk Highway, Montauk, (631)668-2428, www. montaukchamber.com. Families are invited to be a part of the annual festivities that include contests and activities, delicious foods, carnival games, live music, fundraising auction, raffles, and more.

October 17: Explore Spirit - Psychics, Healers, and Shamans, The Boulton Center for the Arts of the Great South Bay-YMCA, 37 West Main St., Bay Shore, (631)969-1101, www.boultoncenter.org. A special evening with Shamanic healer Peter Maniscalco, psychic medium Isabella Randazzo, and sound healer Andrea Garvey. Hosted by Jack Licitra of Jack’s Waterfall, the healing adventure will give the audience a true experience of these three unique disciplines and features a psychic gallery reading, a shamanic journey as well as a sound healing demonstration. 7pm.

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October 14: Arts & Crafts Fair, The Old Town Arts and Crafts Guild, Main Road, Cutchogue, www.oldtownguild.com. Uncover a unique destination where consumers of all ages can take advantage of bargains galore during an extravaganza that features an array of handmade jewelry, original artwork, and handmade crafts. Find out more by paying a visit to www.oldtownguild.com. 10am - 5pm.

October 13: The Riverhead Country Fair, Main Street along the Peconic River, Riverhead, (631)727-1215. Downtown Riverhead comes alive with amazing sights and sounds on October 13 during a fun-filled afternoon that includes 400 craft vendors, live entertainment, contests and competitions, carnival rides, hands-on activities, music, and more.

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October 16: Pursuit of Freedom, The Suffolk Center on the Holocaust,

October 19: Bats-n-Brews, The Seatuck Suffolk County Environmental Center, 550 South Bay Ave., Islip, (631)581-6908, www.seatuck. org. Don’t miss out on this signature event showcasing bat lore, local food, tasty brews and live music!

October 19: Center Moriches Fall Festival, Main St., Center Moriches, (631)874-3849, www.moricheschamber,com. Vendors and Main Street’s merchants will be on hand selling goods and raffles, artists, petting zoo, and activities for children. Rain date October 20th. 9am-5pm.

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October 19: Oktoberfest, The German American Settlement Clubhouse Private Road, off Mill Road, Yaphank, www.brookhavenchoral. org. The Brookhaven Arts and Humanities Council invites you out for fabulous food and entertainment by The Stately Gentlemen, a wonderful bluegrass band! 7-10pm.

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October 24: Unity Day, The Suffolk Center on the Holocaust, Diversity & Human Understanding, Sagtikos Theatre on the Grant Campus at Suffolk County Community College, 533 College Road, Selden, (631)451-4113. Coming to America - The Immigrant Experience is the theme for this eye opening morning program. 9:30am - 12:15pm.

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October 26 - November 2 October 26: Ghost Stories and Legends of Fire Island, The Fire Island Lighthouse Terrace, Fire Island, (631)661-4876, www.fireislandlighthouse.com. Gather on the Fire Island Lighthouse Terrace and listen to eerie tales of happenings along the Barrier Reach. Dress warm, and bring a blanket and flashlight. 7pm.

October 26: Halloween Parade and Pumpkin Carving Contest, East Quogue Village Green, East Quogue, (631)728-5555. Join the East Quogue Chamber of Commerce and the entire village for the annual Halloween-themed event that offers something for everyone.

October 26: Spooktacular Celebration, The Seatuck Suffolk County Environmental Center, 550 South Bay Ave., Islip, (631)581-6908, www.seatuck.org. Come and take part in a collection of Halloweenthemed activities for the entire family!

October 27: The Addams Family, Staller Center at Stony Brook University, Nicholls Road, Stony Brook. For tickets, call (631)632-7250.

A smash hit Broadway musical based on the bizarre and beloved television family comes to life on stage near you. The Addams Family follows Gomez, Morticia, Uncle Fester, and the rest of the cooky clan in a delightful comedy that audiences are sure to love.

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October 27: Harvest Festival, The Greater Port Jefferson Chamber of Commerce, 118 West Broadway, Port Jefferson, (631)473-4724, www. portjeffchamber.com. Celebrate Halloween with a day filled with a haunted building walking tour, seasonal costumed characters and music performances! Join a marshmallow roast, take a hay ride and trick or treat around the village. Noon to dusk. Free October 27: Owl Prowl 5K Run/Walk, Seatuck Suffolk County Environmental Center, 550 South Bay Ave, Islip, (631)581-6908, www. seatuck.org. Take part in a 3.1 mile run through scenic Hamlet of Islip that will start and finish at the Environmental Center. Running in costume is encouraged!

October 31: Halloween Festival, The Stony Brook Village Center, Main Street on the Harbor, Stony Brook, (631)751-2244, www.sto-

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November 2: Christmas Craft Fair, St. Anthony’s High School 275 Wolf Hill Road, South Huntington, (631)271-2020. Find great bargains and unique gift ideas just in time for the holiday season during a day-long event featuring more than 150 vendors. 10am-4pm. Free admission.

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October 31: Trick or Treat Program, The Heckscher Museum of Art, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington, (631)351-3250, www.heckscher.org.

Provide your little ones with a fun, safe Halloween celebration this year during the Trick or Treat program. Children who visit the museum in costume will receive a special “treat” and can enjoy a hands-on art activity. 10am-4pm.

Saturday and Sunday Through October 27: Weekend Music at Baiting Hollow Vineyards, 2114 Sound Ave., Baiting Hollow, (631)3690100, www.baitinghollowfarmvineyard.com. The vineyard makes every weekend an event to remember with great music, delicious food, horse tours, and a lovely setting to sit and enjoy.

w.parentguidenews.com • 212-213-8840 November 1: First Friday, The Heckscher Museum of Art, 2 Prime Ave., Huntington, (631)351-3250, www.heckscher.org. Celebrate First Friday at The Heckscher Museum of Art. Explore the Museum’s exhibitions during extended viewing hours and enjoy special musical performances. 4 - 8:30pm. Free admission.

November 2: Beauty and the Beast, The BayWay Arts Center, 265 East Main St., East Islip, (631)581-2700, www.broadhollow.org. Audiences of all ages will be captivated by a tale as old as time in this delightful retelling of the beloved story.

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Weekends Through October 27: Pumpkin Festival, The Garden of Eve Organic Farm & Market, 4588 Sound Ave., Aquebogue, (631)5236608, www.gardenofevefarm.com. The annual celebration includes delicious food and drink, live music, a maze, a lavender labyrinth, friendly farm animals, pumpkins to pick, and much more.

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Ongoing Daily Through October: The Atlantis Explorer Tour Boat, Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center, 431 East Main St., Riverhead, (631)208.9200, ext. H2O (426), www.longislandaquarium.com.

The Center offers and interactive cruise aboard the Atlantis Explorer that includes plenty of time for hands-on exploration. Tours depart at noon, 2pm, and 4pm.

Ongoing Through January 2, 2014: Children’s Programs at the Aquarium, The Long Island Aquarium and Exhibition Center, 431 East Main St., Riverhead, (631)208-9200, ext. 105, www.longislandaquarium.com. Your little ones will learn about the many fascinating creatures that live under the sea in a series of 4-week programs that include hands-on activities, stories, songs, crafts, and live animal encounters. Wednesdays for ages 2-3. Thursdays for ages 3-4. 9:15-10am or 3:15-4pm.

Mondays: Adult Day Care Program, Suffolk Y Jewish Community Center, 74 Hauppauge Road, Commack, (631)651-8900. The Jewish Association for Services for the Aged (JASA) has a Social Adult Day Care Program for cognitively impaired senior adults. This program provides movement classes, music and art, reminiscence activities and inter-generational programs at an affordable, sliding-scale fee.

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National Carve A Pumpkin Day

October 31 isn’t only meant for trick-or-treating, it is also National Carve A Pumpkin Day. Take time to carve a pumpkin and get the full Halloween experience. Add National Carve a Pumpkin Day to your list of family traditions this year.

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Candy Alternatives

Handing out candy on Halloween is tradition, but it isn’t very healthy.

Packets of goldfish crackers, small boxes of raisins, and natural fruit snacks are all healthy alternatives to candy and loved by most children.

Buying these products in bulk makes them even more affordable and appealing. This year, provide a healthy change in your community.

Trick-or-Treat Dinner

Looking for a fun Halloween dinner that will make the whole family smile? Breadstick Mummy Dogs offer a sure way to get your kids excited for trick-or-treating. Visit www.picky-palate.com for more fun Halloween recipes.

What you’ll need: •1 package Pillsbury Breadstick dough •12 hot dogs •ketchup and/or mustard How to make it: Preheat the oven to 375°F. Unroll the dough, and cut each section into three strips. Wrap each hot dog with the three strips, one at a time, starting at the top of the hot dog. Leave a small space at the top of the hot dog for the “eyes.” After all of the hot dogs are wrapped like mummies, place them onto a greased baking sheet and bake for 10-15 minutes or until golden brown. Let them cool for five minutes, then use two small dots of ketchup and mustard for eyes.

World Teacher’s Day

Celebrate your child’s teacher on October 5 for World Teacher’s Day. This is a day dedicated to those women and men who help develop the minds of children. Send your son or daughter to school with a nice note or small, homemade gift. For more information, head to www. worldteachersday.org.

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Create a Fire-Breathing Dragon costume for this season’s festivities.

For a tutorial with images, check out www.spoonful.com.

Materials: •Pencil •Scissors •Several large sheets of corrugated cardboard •Acrylic paints and paintbrushes •Clear packing tape •Masking tape •Several sheets of colored cellophane •Small flashlight •Bubble wrap •Ribbon •Child’s belt •Green clothing How to make it: From the cardboard, draw and cut out two, 26-by-20-inch pieces for the profile of a dragon’s head. Cut four rows of teeth measuring 11 inches by 2 inches. Cut two strips to connect the two sides of the head. These are placed at the chin and along the length of the top of the head. Cut a strip measuring 30 inches for the tail. Cut four, 4-inch spikes to attach to the top of the tail. Cut one, 13-inch triangle for the tip of the tail. Once all of your cardboard is cut, paint both sides of the teeth strips white. Attach the teeth inside the upper and lower dragon jaws with clear packing tape. Assemble the head by using masking tape to secure the head and chin strips in place between the head pieces. Make sure your child’s head can fit inside this space. Paint the dragon’s head, and the tail pieces with a base coat of green. Paint both sides of the tail spikes. Allow all the pieces to dry, then paint on eyes, nostrils, and scales. Add a fire-breathing effect by wrapping the cellophane around the end of the flashlight and securing it with clear packing tape. Tape the flashlight onto the lower jaw of the head.

Use two pieces of 2-by-3-foot bubble wrap to create wings and attach them with the ribbon. Attach the tail spikes to the tail strip. Use clear packing tape to attach the larger triangle to the end of the tail. Have your child dress in green. Finally, set the dragon head on his shoulders and turn on the flashlight.

National Fire Prevention Week

Join forces with your local fire department to educate your children about fires during National Fire Prevention Week, October 6-12. Every year, the National Fire Protection Association focuses on a new topic, and this year it is “Prevent Kitchen Fires.” Help teach important lessons about kitchen fires and how to put them out. More information about getting involved with National Fire Prevention Week may be found at www.nfpa.org.

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