Park Cities People July 2019

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OF U.S. FLAGS AND PECAN TREES

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hank you to Douglas Scott and others who submitted photos for last year’s Fourth of July Parade Memories special section. Readers can still find that multipage look at the parade’s history at parkcitiespeople.com.

On Page 10 of this edition, find one of Scott’s submissions. Last year, we weren’t able to use his mid-1970s photo of the parade passing Highland Park Village, but it was one of my favorites, so I couldn’t resist sharing it this year.

Automotive designs have changed plenty since then, but the community’s enthusiasm for all things red, white, and blue remains as consistent as ever.

Public safety officials in Highland Park and University Park along with the parade organizers at the Rotary Club of Park Cities wanted me to provide one more reminder about exercising appropriate caution to keep this the safe and fun event we all love.

Don’t enter the road or let your children do so to retrieve candy or other thrown items. Keeping a clear buffer between parade watchers and participants protects us all, as does following the instructions of peace officers and parade volunteers.

Also, Rotarian Stan Wright wanted me to share a few tips about flag etiquette.

There’s no need to stand or salute those handheld flags many will wave on Independence Day, but even those should get

respectful treatment. Please do not throw them on the ground.

There’s also no need to salute every larger flag W I L L I A M TAY LO R that may pass during the parade, but when those carried by an honor guard or presented in a grouping with other flags pass, stand up to show respect, Wright reminds us.

Keeping the celebration respectful and safe helps all of us create more great memories of this wonderful community tradition.

Sadly, another community tradition is facing significant changes. Check the story on Page 6 about the Big Pecan Tree.

The once grand monarch has played its role for years in Dallas County’s oldest community Christmas tree lighting celebration.

With the ailing tree in irreversible decline, town leaders are looking to remove it. They have talked about finding a way to thank the tree for its long service to the community.

Watch for details in the months ahead and stay grateful that life in the Park Cities remains so special.

See you on the Fourth.

William Taylor, Editor william.taylor@peoplenewspapers.com

Contents Crime ............................ 4 News .............................. 6 July Fourth ................... 10 Community.................. 12 Sports .......................... 18 Business ....................... 22 Schools ........................ 32 Society .......................... 36 Living Well & Faith ..... 41 Wedding ....................... 44 Obituary ....................... 45 Classifieds ..................... 47

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Crime S KU L D U G G E RY of the MONTH

KEY FOB, EASY JOB

A resident who left the key fobs in his vehicles at his home in the 4400 block of Lorraine Avenue found his 2017 Land Rover and 2015 Cadillac Escapade missing at 6:49 a.m.

May 15. OnStar shut down the Cadillac, allowing Dallas police to locate it and arrest the driver. Dallas police also arrested the driver of the Land Rover who crashed the vehicle.

Highland Park Lt. Lance Koppa said, “Always lock your car doors, and key fobs should be stored in a safe place away from the vehicle.”

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UP ADDS MORE DIGITAL CRIME FIGHTING

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he University Park Police Department, in another effort to boost resident participation in keeping the city safe, has enrolled in the digital program Neighbors to Ring to help monitor crime and provide real-time updates and safety alerts to the community.

The city also uses posting on Nextdoor and the UPPD Community Camera Program.

“These tools all bolster UPPD’s crime-fighting efforts and strengthen our partnership with residents who continually work with us to keep our neighborhoods safe and our crime rate low,” said Steve Mace, the city’s communications and marketing director. “It just makes sense to use the reach of social media and the popularity of home surveillance video to fight crime and distribute information of

interest to the community in a timely way.”

The Neighbors app acts as a digital neighborhood watch to create an efficient flow of communication between a community and the po-

lice. Residents can use Neighbors to send a notification or video to UPPD in real-time, with their contact information kept private until they allow the app to release it.

“Two or three sworn officers in our department are now monitoring Ring posts in our neighborhoods,” Mace said. “If any one of them sees a post or a video, and they want to gain more information, the department must notify Ring.

“Ring will then reach out to the people who posted,” Mace said. “Once those individuals give Ring their OK, Ring will provide contact information to the department.”

Fans of the Ring camera or doorbell may recognize this technology in their homes, but neither is necessary to join, Mace said. Residents can text ‘StaySafe’ to 555888 or download the app on their cellphones from shop. ring.com/pages/neighborsapp.

There was no cost for the city to join the program.

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CRIME REPORT MAY 6 - JUNE 9 MAY 6

A laptop, valued at $2,500, and the charger, valued at $500, were reported stolen from a Starbucks at Mockingbird Lane and Central Expressway at 4:10 p.m.

MAY 10

Between 1:30 p.m. May 8 and 10 a.m. May 9, a thief took a package full of expensive inventory off a front porch in the 4500 block of Emerson Avenue. Reported missing at 7:49 a.m. May 10: five items valued at $40,000, $15,000, $5,750, $3,000, and $1,000.

MAY 11

At 5:46 p.m., a man fled in a tan 1998 Ford Explorer after shoplifting three stacks of Reserve brand designer jeans – $436 worth – from Jos A. Bank in The Plaza At Preston Center.

MAY 15

At 6:30 a.m., officers responded to reports of gunshots in the 3000 block of Westminster Avenue and discovered several vehicles broken into around the 7000 block of Durham Street.

The burglaries included a black

2010 Toyota Tundra, a beige 2003 Chevy Malibu, and a white 2008 Ford 250. Among the items stolen from the vehicles: an $800 Colt 380 firearm.

thief took a money clip, three credit cards, and a Colt .45 firearm from the unlocked pickup truck.

MAY 17

Reported at 9:27 a.m.: Between March 30 and April 28, a fake social media account using the name and photo of a Highland Park Middle School administrator was created. Many of the posts have been anti-Semitic.

Reported at 9:03 a.m., from the 4200 block of Stanhope Drive: Between May 29 and June 3, an online account was f raudulently opened and used to wire $9,800 through a billpay account. A $162,000 closing cost was also fraudulently wired through the account.

MAY 29

JUNE 6

Reported at 8:05 a.m.: A grey 2019 Audi Q8, worth $78,000, was stolen from the 4600 block of Belclaire Avenue sometime after 11 p.m. on May 16.

MAY 20

A May 18 dog bite initially went untreated and unreported, but then the 17-year-old blind and arthritic Chloe was put on home quarantine after her owner went at 12:05 p.m. to Quest Care on Milton Drive with a swollen foot. Chloe’s owner got bit accidentally at home in 3600 block of Euclid Avenue while trying to separate her two dogs who had begun fighting over the scrap hamburger she gave them.

MAY 21

Between 5:45 and 6 p.m., while the owner of Ford F250 went into his home in the 3600 block of Mockingbird Lane to change clothes, an opportunistic

MAY 28

It was quite an evening at the CVS at Mockingbird Lane and Central Expressway. At 1:59 a.m., a black 2002 Ford F250 crashed through the front door of the store and the wouldbe thief attempted to steal the ATM. The damage to the front door totaled around $10,000.

MAY 31

A black cat in a pink collar was still at large after biting a woman at 5:30 p.m. on a porch in the 3500 block of Lindenwold Avenue. The woman had gone outside to greet her daughter when the cat confronted the family’s dog.

The woman picked up the dog,

but the cat bit and scratched the back of the woman’s leg.

JUNE 3

A white 2012 Ford F150, worth $5,000, was stolen from a construction site in the 3500 block of Wentwood Drive at 2 p.m.

JUNE 7

Reported at 4:31 p.m. from the 3300 block of Rosedale Avenue: Fraud was committed via use of a name and credit card to make purchases.

JUNE 9

The rear passenger window of a white 2019 Audi SUV was broken in between 9:43 and 10:43 a.m. at the 4600 block of Abbott Avenue.

A brown Louis Vuitton purse was taken from inside the vehicle.

6 July 2019 | parkcitiespeople.com

News

Targeted For Demolition

HOW DO YOU SAY GOODBYE TO A TREE?

Council rules on dangerous home

By William Taylor People Newspapers

Monarch’s Months Are Numbered

By William Taylor People Newspapers

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he obit for Highland Park’s historic monarch pecan hasn’t been published yet, but the writing can begin.

Crews are unlikely to remove it in the next few weeks, but in a matter of months, town leaders should have a plan for cutting down the more than 150-yearold landmark at Armstrong Parkway and Preston Road.

“It’s going to be very emotional,” town administrator Bill Lindley said.

The town’s website, hptx.org, identifies “The Big Pecan Tree,” as a true treasure and the site of the oldest community Christmas lighting in Dallas County. Civil War veteran Joseph Cole nurtured the plowed-over tree as a “testament to life” and to counter the destruction he saw during the war.

But the mammoth monarch – once listed as 75-foot by 75foot – continues to decline, losing height and width as limbs die and its canopy shrinks.

The Big Pecan Tree continues to develop deadwood.

“I think anyone in town who’s looked at it – anyone out of town who’s looked at it – recognizes it’s not what it was,” Lindley said.

In 2017, the town employed Preservation Tree Service to address the decline. The company applied fungicide and began a regime of seasonal deep root feedings. Crews removed the lawn from around it and fenced it to keep people from walking on the roots.

But Preservation Tree arborist Micah Pace concluded the tree wouldn’t get better.

going to remain until it is removed,” he said.

Town officials will look at options for lumbering the wood in hopes of using it to make podiums for the schools, commemorative pens, or other keepsakes.

“We are not going to just chip the wood and be gone,” Mayor Margo Goodwin said.

In the short term, the area where the tree stands would be sodded to let the community get used to the pecan’s absence. Eventually, town leaders could consider turning the area into a park or buying a replacement tree.

A near by large tree, believed by some to be related to the landmark pecan, could serve as a “successor” in the annual December tree lighting.

We are not going to just chip the wood and be gone.

Mayor Margo Goodwin “The tree is in severe decline, and I believe that is where it is

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Highland Park town attorney Matthew Boyle describes a recent addition to the code of ordinances as a new tool in the town’s enforcement toolbox.

This one’s more like a backhoe or bulldozer than an Allen wrench.

It gives the Town Council the authority to hammer property owners who are slow to address dangerously substandard buildings – including houses – with demolition orders. “ I t ’s m o re powerful than writing a ticket, and it’s not as onerous as a lawsuit,” Boyle said.

The council adopted the change in May with a specific property in mind: a home at 4509 Mockingbird Lane.

“I’ve heard from neighbors that the property is in a state of degradation, that they are concerned about their property values and property safety,” said Kirk Smith, the town’s assistant director of town services and building official.

On June 10, the council gave Scott Brei 30 days to make substantial progress toward bringing his house into compliance. He’ll need to get an engineer’s report, take out building permits, and

have a timeline for correcting deficiencies for the town to give him more time instead of taking further action.

Demolishing the building would cost an estimated $18,200, an amount the town would assess in the form of a lien on the property.

Town officials began investigating the property March 11, issued a notice of violations March 26, and asked Oncor to shut off power to the property on April 11. A wide range of issues include a bowing roof along with deteriorating walls and fencing in danger of collapse.

Council members expressed doubts about Brei’s ability to make repairs.

He’s unemployed, has gone through federal bankruptcy proceedings, and is behind on child support payments, two WILLIAM TAYLOR mothers, including an ex-wife, told the council.

“I want to fix my home,” Brei told the council. “I’ve raised four children at this address.”

He said he would use insurance money, a loan, and/or assistance from family to make repairs.

“None of us like to see a citizen in this situation,” council member Craig Penfold said. “I’ve yet to see action begin, and that’s why we are here today.”

8 July 2019 | parkcitiespeople.com

Disunited Methodists

Global church could split over this spring’s LGBTQ decision

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In a show of support of LGBTQ people, Northaven United Methodist Church tweeted out this photo of a rainbow flag covering up the word ‘Methodist’ on its sign.

By Bill Miller

Special Contributor Sadness and uncertainty are palpable throughout the global United Methodist Church, including congregations in North Dallas, after a vote this year affirmed bans on gay clergy and same-sex weddings.

During February’s Special General Conference in St. Louis, conservative delegates outvoted progressives 438 to 384 for a “Traditional Plan” that upholds the bans.

Now many Methodists on all sides agree their church is headed for a split.

“As a church historian, this has been fascinating to watch,” said Ted Campbell of the Perkins School of Theology at Southern Methodist University. “But as a church member and church leader, it’s very upsetting.

“We don’t want to see the church divided.

But U.S. society is polarized, and the more polarized we become, the more we can’t avoid division.”

Campbell, an ordained UMC minister, specializes in Methodist history. He explained that church conservatives point to 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 and Romans 1:26-27 as proof that God rejects homosexuality.

Progressives, Campbell added, believe some Scripture may not be binding for modern times. He noted, for example, that the Apostle Paul thought women’s voices ought not to be raised during worship.

“If that were the case today, women couldn’t sing in choirs,” Campbell said. “It’s very clear that was part of the culture at that time, but not for all time.”

Campbell said he supports same-sex weddings and ordaining gay clergy.

He’s not alone, noting that United Methodist ministers in Dallas tend to be liberal-progressive.

He referred to a recent full-page ad in the Dallas Morning News that expressed apologies for the vote. It contained 177 signatures from the clergy. Many of them represent the largest United Methodist congregations in Dallas, Campbell said.

“We are sorry,” the letter stated, “for the untold pain that churches bring to LGBTQ+ persons, intentionally and unintentionally.”

“We’re to love everyone,” Campbell said.

“And those of us who are close to LGBTQ people, and love them, believe that being gay is

Ted Campbell

William Abraham

THE APOLOGY An apology to LGBTQ+ people for a denominational vote upholding United Methodist prohibitions against gay weddings and ordinations received 177 signatures from North Texas clergy, including many from this area: Alexandra Robinson, Walnut Hill UMC Jeff Hall, Cochran Chapel UMC Marti Soper, Northaven UMC Michael Baughman, Union Coffee Paul Rasmussen, Highland Park UMC Stanley Copeland, Lovers Lane UMC Tom Waitschies, UMC of Preston Hollow not a choice, but genetically determined.

“It’s hard to say we can’t accept these people because of how they were born.”

Speaking for conservatives is a colleague of Campbell at Perkins—William Abraham, the Albert Cook Outler Professor of Wesley Studies.

Abraham was unavailable for an interview, but in a lengthy essay on peopleneedjesus.net, he said that opponents had unfairly assailed the conservative position.

“We are portrayed as wolves in wolves clothing,” Abraham wrote. But, he added, “conservatives are not for sale precisely because they believe, for better or worse, that they cannot among other things walk away from our Lord’s teaching on marriage.”

Campbell and Abraham agreed that if the church divides, it could someday reunite, but that likely wouldn’t happen for at least a generation.

Abraham said, however, that the current turmoil makes the church “ungovernable” and conservative and progressives face more traumas as they negotiate fair divisions of church assets.

“The divorce lawyers have been called,” Abraham wrote, “and the only question is what kind of settlement can be arranged, whether amicable or angry.”

10 July 2019 | parkcitiespeople.com

July Fourth THE PARADE IS COMING

Grand marshal Moody-Dahlberg inspired by grandmother

July Fourth Schedule • 7:30 a.m. – Parade entries begin lining up near Euclid Avenue and Drexel Drive • 8 a.m. – Family bicycle judging contest at the Moody Family YMCA • 9 a.m. – Parade begins at Highland Park Town Hall • 9:30 a.m. – Patriotic family festival begins in Goar Park COURTESY PHOTO DOUGLAS SCOTT | CIRCA MID - 1970’S

By Jaxx Artz

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ach year, the Rotary Club of Park Cities selects one impressive, difference-making resident to serve as grand marshal for the Fourth of July Parade, the largest single-day event in Highland Park and University Park, attracting more than 10,000 residents and guests.

“Someone who exemplifies service above self,” explained Cleve Clinton, who chaired the Rotary committee that helped the club select Frances “Francie” Moody-Dahlberg as this year’s honoree.

As chairman and executive director of the Moody Foundation, which was established by her great-grandparents in 1942, Moody-Dahlberg oversees the foundation’s activities throughout the state and is seen as a champion of women’s and children’s issues.

“We’re very broad in terms of where we give,” she said, sharing that the foundation has provided grants to support

• 11-11:30 a.m. – Goar Park Gazebo program medical research, the arts, and children’s coming from a small town in Galveston, I wanted to be in a big city,” she said. programs.

The parade will pass the Moody At the foundation, Moody-Dahlberg Family YMCA, another example of the continues her family’s legacy of supfoundation’s impact and the location porting projects that benefit and emfrom which participants in the bicycle power Texans, a mission she is proud of devoting her life to. decorating contest will fall in But who is she, behind the floats. outside of her philHaving grown anthropic endeavup in Galveston, ors? She is simply Moody-DahlFrancie, Park Citberg was able to ies resident, wife see the work her to Kevin Dahlberg, and mother to family’s foundation was doing Alexis, 10, and Ashton, 8. in the state and Moody-Dahlknew she wanted to continue berg also sits on the boards of numerous it. Part of that Frances Moody-Dahlberg organizations and started by being inspired by her grandmother, whom institutions, including the AT&T Pershe was named after, to go to college at forming Arts Center.

SMU. She makes frequent trips out to Gal“I wanted to follow in her footsteps, veston for the foundation. Sometimes and that’s what led me to Dallas. And she goes as often as three times a month.

“It’s worth it,” she said of traveling home. “My parents still live in Galveston, and I’m happy and very blessed to be part of the businesses that have been part of my family for generations. You just manage to balance it all.

“I’m a mom, and that’s got to come first,” she said. “Luckily, I’ve got a great partner.”

Any off time she has, though, is spent doing what anyone likes to do.

“I love spending time with my family. I love traveling,” she said. “And I love food. I’m a foodie, I guess you could say.”

Food Bank Giving Did you know? Each year gifts by parade participants and supporters provide thousands of meals through the North Texas Food Bank. Visit rcpcjulyfourth.causevox.com to donate.

12 July 2019 | parkcitiespeople.com

Community RISE SCHOOL CHAMPION INSPIRED BY HIS SON

Developmentally-delayed young adults need opportunities, too

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Daymark Living, a residential community for intellectual and developmental delays, opened this spring in Waxahachie.

TOP RIGHT: John Poston and his son Michael embrace at the Daymark Living ribbon-cutting ceremony.

By Alex Lyda

Special Contributor

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sking John Poston to narrow down his heroes is like trying to cut a lawn with tweezers.

Those he credits with the support and encouragement he needed to not only succeed in business but to overcome trying circumstances for his family are so numerous that he prefers instead to thank the Park Cities at-large.

The tight-knit friendships he formed as a child growing up in Highland Park led to a career in commercial real estate in the footsteps of his father.

Those same friends and close associates were there for his family as life took an unexpected turn in 1995 when one of his twin children was born with Down syndrome.

The father of three decided he would not only be intensely devoted to fathering a boy with special needs but also to improving the lives of other children like his son.

“I knew early on that staying on a path to independence would be important for Michael,” John said. “People with Down syndrome and other ‘intellectual and developmental delays (IDDs)’ want nothing more than to be productive community

members whose skills can also be deployed in the workplace.”

People with Down syndrome and other ‘intellectual and developmental delays (IDDs)’ want nothing more than to be productive community members whose skills can also be deployed in the workplace.

John Poston The Postons visited with parents, schools, institutions, doctors, hospitals, and homes for people with special needs.

They found inspiration at the University of Alabama in Tuscaloosa, where the Rise Center aims to enrich the lives of infants and preschoolers with and without special needs through music, physical, and speech and language therapies.

The Postons assembled a team and secured

funding to open similar schools in Dallas and Houston.

The nonprofit Rise School of Dallas opened in 1998 and in 2016 joined the YMCA of Metropolitan Dallas, making its new home in the Moody Family YMCA. It became the Ashford Rise School of Dallas in 2017 with a donation from Ashford Incorporated.

John consulted on expanding the model to five other cities and started the TouchDown Club of Dallas, which has raised $20 million for Rise.

“There are two ways John could have approached the challenge that lay ahead of him and his family,” said longtime friend and businessman Tolbert Marks. “Instead of crawling into a hole, John radiated nothing but joy and hope for his son, and Michael defined ( John’s) life of service from day one.”

John’s latest venture, Daymark Living, comes at a crossroads for Michael, who has finished high school and is now embarking on what life holds while many of his peers go off to college.

John developed the concept and secured $28 million in financing for the first community in North Texas built for people with IDD. It has room for more than 200 and

includes more than one million tulips off Interstate 35 in Waxahachie to provide jobs for residents who sell them.

“None of this would have been possible without my network of friends and family,” he said. “These adults want the kind of life that everyone should expect to enjoy, and that I’ve been fortunate enough to have: to be a happy, healthy, contributing member of the community.”

RESUME 2018 – Governor’s Lone Star Achievement Award in recognition of John Poston’s passion for serving those with developmental disabilities 2014-present – founder/president Daymark Living 2009-2014 – partner, Lincoln Property Company, Austin 2005 – MBA, Acton School of Business 1998 – BS, communications, University of Texas at Austin 1983 – Graduated, Highland Park High School

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Thermostat Gender Wars

Hot enough for you? From Memorial Day until the Fourth of July, Americans are happy and proud, as both events are bookended with a salute to our troops over the centuries, our freedoms, dining on burgers while watching fireworks.

It’s the first LEN BOURLAND half of summer when Texans go outside, enjoy the sunshine, find a pool, eat out, vaycay or staycay but acclimate to what is inevitable after the Fourth: That unbearable heat.

Fleeing inside, there is more heat as tempers flare. Yet another study was released in May showing the ongoing war of the sexes at the thermostat.

In the 1960s the commercial buildings were designed to cool the average indoor worker, a white male in his 40s about 155 pounds due to some study. That temperature was determined to be between 65 and 68 degrees where it is set to this day.

These temperatures are widely used in churches, government buildings, and movie theaters.

Changes in the workforce and construction design, notwithstanding, money continues to be wasted for refrigerating much of the population despite a study by two Dutch scientists that was widely dispersed in all the major U.S. and British newspapers in 2002. It was reinforced by another study in 2015.

It seems women function ideally at temperatures ranging from 7277 when identically clothed as men.

It’s not whining or hormones when out come the sweaters, jackets, and in some cases, space heaters in July.

It’s physiology and something about musculature, white fat versus brown fat, and metabolism, which nobody can explain.

The thermostat is back in the news and again all over TV and newspapers after an article in late May released in PLOS One, a scientific research journal. This time a professor at Southern Cal and another in Berlin discovered unequivocally that women’s test scores rise at 72 plus degrees while men’s fall.

Holy cheating parents who paid for their daughters to get into competitive colleges! All they needed to have done was to pay somebody to set the thermostat to 77 degrees.

Will common sense prevail? Nah. I asked for the AC to be turned up at a bridge tournament in a public facility as the gents in charge snickered. I returned the next day with an article on performance and temperature and threatened discrimination. The AC went off as did the women’s fleeces and sweaters. (My score went up.)

Speak up, ladies. Let freedom ring.

Len Bourland can be reached at lenbourland @gmail.com.

14 July 2019 | parkcitiespeople.com

Families Enjoy UP Fishing Derby June arrived with a sunny day, and enthusiastic University Park residents showed up in such numbers that the fish should have been scared away.

But in the stocked waters at Caruth Park, catfish kept biting all morning, giving young anglers opportunities to reel in their catches and collect hourly prizes for the largest and smallest ones.

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“We had our biggest turnout in 13 years,” said Gerry Bradley, director of parks and recreation. “It was wall to wall people.”

In addition to the catch-and-release fishing, the annual Children’s Fishing Derby included entertainment, a photo booth, and various businesses on site.

“A lot of people had a good time,” Bradley said.

18 July 2019 | parkcitiespeople.com

Sports

SCOTS HOPE STRONG SPRING FUELS FOURTH TITLE RUN

Team works to build depth after graduation of several starters

By Todd Jorgenson

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People Newspapers

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fter winning its third consecutive Class 5A Division I state championship in December, Highland Park might have earned the right to rest on its laurels a bit.

When you’re an underdog, you want to prove them wrong.

When you’re a favorite, you want to prove them right.

Coach Randy Allen However, any such complacency was nowhere to be found during the Scots’ spring workouts and scrimmages.

“We’ve had really strong leadership in the spring,” said HP head coach Randy Allen. “We haven’t had a bad practice. Every practice, we thought we were a better team

Date Opponent

Time

Aug. 30 at Rockwall

7:30 p.m.

Sept. 6

at Mesquite Horn

7:30 p.m.

Sept. 13 Frisco Lone Star

7:30 p.m.

Sept. 20 Bryan Adams*

7:30 p.m.

Sept. 27 at Woodrow Wilson* 7:30 p.m.

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Oct. 11

Mansfield Legacy*

7:30 p.m.

Oct. 18

at Samuell*

7:30 p.m.

Oct. 25 Sunset*

7:30 p.m.

Nov. 1

at Lancaster*

7:30 p.m.

Nov. 8

Mans. Timberview* 7:30 p.m.

* — District 11-5A game

Chandler Morris will return as Highland Park’s quarterback after leading the Scots to the Class 5A Division I state title as a junior.

when we came off the field.”

One of the primary goals of HP’s three-week schedule of onfield workouts and scrimmages was to establish a preliminary depth chart for next season.

Along with standout returnees such as quarterback Chandler Morris and defensive lineman Prince Dorbah — who each won MVP awards during the state championship victory over Alvin Shadow Creek — the Scots must

fill several holes in the starting lineup due to graduation. For example, HP will have four new offensive linemen and three new defensive backs next season.

“We got a lot of looks at some really good players. We feel good about our depth right now,” Allen said. “We’ve got a lot of work to do, and we’ve just got to work hard this summer at getting stronger and faster. Those guys need to work together to get some chemistry, but

we’re optimistic.”

HP will return to the practice field on Aug. 12, with a scrimmage slated for Aug. 23 at Plano East.

Other important dates include the regular-season opener on Aug. 30 at Rockwall, the home opener on Sept. 13 against Frisco Lone Star, and the start of District 11-5A play the following week versus Bryan Adams.

Allen said HP stuck with a familiar formula during the spring

because of past success, but the Scots still might have some surprises in store in the fall as they aim for a historic fourth straight state crown.

“When you’re an underdog, you want to prove them wrong. When you’re a favorite, you want to prove them right. We’ve got to be good enough to be able to prove them right,” Allen said. “Everybody will have our game circled, so we’ve got to be ready every week.”

Scheffler Starts Pro Career at Byron Nelson

Former Scots standout, UT grad enjoys playing alongside Tony Romo

By Todd Jorgenson People Newspapers

Scottie Scheffler is anxious to break through for his first professional victory, but his golf game is headed in the right direction.

That’s how the Highland Park graduate was feeling after an encouraging performance at the Byron Nelson Invitational, where he finished in a tie for 35th place. He played all four rounds below par at Trinity Forest Golf Club.

professional season after graduating from the University of Texas. He has competed regularly on the second-tier Web.com Tour, where he’s ranked in the top five overall.

While he’s still awaiting his first win, it feels inevitable after a series of close calls.

Scheffler was the runner-up at tournaments this spring in Savannah and Nashville and has placed in the top 10 in more than half of his starts.

He’s also made the cut in all three of his PGA Tour appearances this season, including a top-20 showing at the Texas Open in San Antonio in March.

“My game is in a good spot.

I just need to play good, consistent golf,” Scheffler said. “I just need to put it all together for one week. I’ve been close.”

After leading the Scots to multiple state championships, Scheffler had a decorated amateur career before turning pro, which means a much busier schedule of travel, practice, and competition.

It’s been a lot of fun. Playing week to week suits me better than practicing a lot at home.

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Scottie Scheffler is enjoying success during his first full professional season, playing primarily on the Web.com Tour.

“We got some tough conditions the first couple of days, and I thought I played all right,” Scheffler said. “I kind of struggled on the weekend and couldn’t really get anything going, but overall, not a horrible week.”

Scheffler, 23, is playing his first full

“It’s been a lot of fun. Playing week to week suits me better than practicing a lot at home,” Scheffler said. “I spend too much time on the range sometimes, so it’s nice to get out and play and figure things out that way.”

Scheffler received a sponsor’s exemption for this year’s Byron Nelson, just like he did during his previous appearance in 2014 when he was still in high school. He tied for 22nd place that year when the tournament was still at TPC Las Colinas in Irving.

This year’s Byron Nelson was Scheffler’s second competitive tournament on the linksstyle course at Trinity Forest, after a college event there a couple of years ago.

He was followed by large crowds during each of his rounds, in part because he played the first two days alongside former Cowboys quarterback Tony Romo, who also received an exemption.

“I had a lot of support. It was a good experience. I saw some old friends,” he said.

“It’s nice to have a week to catch up with everybody. It’s great playing at home.”

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How Softball Became a Year-Round Sport in the Park Cities Bombers program provides continuity, skill development for Lady Scots

By Todd Jorgenson

The growth has been slow but steady. The Bombers started with a single team of 12 or 13 girls, and now have almost 50 players spread out among three or four squads, generally ranging in age from 11 to 18. About 90 percent of them are from the Park Cities.

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It’s no coincidence that the rise of the Highland Park High School softball program has coincided with the success of the HP Bombers club team.

The Lady Scots have been to the playoffs three times in the past five years, and during that stretch have shattered program records for wins, district titles, and postseason success.

Steve Orr envisioned those results when he started the club about 15 years ago. It’s why he structured the Bombers differently from other year-round club programs in the Dallas area.

“Our mission is to buttress the high school team — sort of as a farm team,” Orr said. “That’s one of the primary reasons we wanted to get into it.”

The Lady Scots struggled to compete in the program’s infancy due in part to a competitive disadvantage. While other high school players were learning and playing throughout the year, most of HP’s talent was only on the field from February through April.

The Park Cities YMCA offered a softball program, but only for girls in elementary school. Highland Park ISD does not have a middle school softball program.

“There was no place to play competitive softball past the Y,” said Orr, whose three daughters have played for the Bombers and Lady Scots during the past decade.

They grow up playing together. That’s part of the reason we’ve seen success recently.

HP coach Michael Pullen

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Steve Orr is the founder and head coach of the HP Bombers, an organization that fields competitive softball teams year-round.

The teams play in leagues and tournaments in both the spring and fall, up to 10 months per year, aided by experienced skills coaches. The 18-and-under squad structures its season around the HP varsity schedule.

“We’re a first-choice sport for a lot of girls now,” Orr said. “Both in the competitive product that the high school has, and the number of girls who are playing softball, we’re feeding more girls into the program.”

HP head coach Michael Pullen said the Bombers have had a valuable impact on skill development and chemistry among players as they transition to the high school level.

“It’s how Highland Park is able to have a softball program. It’s our lifeline,” Pullen said. “They grow up playing together. That’s part of the reason we’ve seen success recently. . . because of that continuity.”

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Business

JUST CALL HER AN AFICIONADO

Preston Hollow mom creates granola line after a cancer diagnosis PA R K L A N E PA N T RY Where to buy: Enlighten Living, 5232 Forest Lane; Cooper Aerobics; and at Saint Michael’s Farmers Market, 8011 Douglas Ave. Website: Parklanepantry.com Phone: 469-406-4377

JENNA VANZANT CLINT BREWER

FROM LEFT: Elaine Pearman and Tiffany Lustig launched Park Lane Pantry in April.

By Keyui Parab

People Newspapers

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laine Pearlman considers herself a granola conousseur.

The Preston Hollow mom has been cooking up granola for the last 30 years and has tried it in every country she’s traveled.

“But two years ago I was diagnosed with breast cancer, so after that, I had to become even more discerning in how I ate,” Pearlman said. Ingredients such as dairy, gluten, soy, and unrefined sugars were stricken from her diet. She also limited sodium and other sugars.

At her Park Lane home, Pearlman and her daughter played around with ingredients that fit her dietary needs.

“My daughter was like, we’re gonna figure this out, you know, we’re going to do something fun together, make something you could eat, and so we started making it,” Pearlman said. “And soon my daughter’s friends were eating it, my neighbors were eating it, and my friends were eating, and everyone in my life was eating it.”

Late April, Pearlman and SMU student Tiffany Lustig launched Park Lane Pantry.

The duo has marketed the new granola as a snack food that can be enjoyed “anywhere or everywhere” like on yogurt, in a smoothie, or on-the-go.

The owners met through a family connection, while Lustig was looking to write a business plan for a startup company for her executive MBA program. After a blind taste test at SMU featuring several types

of granola, Park Lane Pantry’s scored the highest in taste and texture, and the owners decided to launch the business.

Pearlman describes the vegan granola as having the perfect ratio of protein, snack, and healthy fat, just like a hardboiled egg.

It is made with gluten-free oats, nuts, and fruits and sweetened with monk fruit, which has a low glycemic index.

The granola is also approved by the Cooper clinic which is a massive endorsement because of its standard for health, Pearlman said.

Lustig added that there’s also a special part to the story and the name, Park Lane Pantry, “because it’s rooted in the home, it’s rooted in family, it’s something that would be in your pantry because it serves your family.”

CLINT BREWER

Park Lane Pantry has partnered with the Dwight Powell Children and Family Support Fund, a nonprofit created by Dallas Mavericks forward Dwight Powell. Powell, who lost his mother to cancer as a freshman in college, said he created the organization because he realized many charities raise money for cancer research, but the support is missing. Park Lane Pantry will donate a portion of proceeds to the nonprofit.

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Comings and Goings COMING SOON Nosh Bistro

8611 Hillcrest Road Renowned Dallas chef Avner Samuel is re-opening the last restaurant he had in Dallas after spending the past two and a half years in Israel. Located at the northwest corner of Northwest Highway, the evolved restaurant concept will open late summer 2019. Open for lunch and dinner daily, Nosh will feature an extensive menu and rotating specials that are a fusion of globally inspired cuisine with strong Mediterranean, American, and Asian cultural influences. Diners can expect chef-driven, yet approachable cuisine with an emphasis on incorporating fresh ingredients into every dish, such as Wagyu Kobe burgers, Seared Divers scallops, and Black Maine lobster ravioli. The eatery will also offer brunch every Sunday and will feature distinctive twists on popular favorites, such as Eggs Benedict with Beef Tenderloin, French Thin Crepes, and Steak and Eggs.

NOW OPEN

Picture Park Studio

5331 E. Mockingbird Lane, Suite 175 A brand new Instagrammable experience with 15 unique installations has popped up at Mockingbird Station in the space between Verizon and Accents. Open Thursday through Sunday through Aug. 18, guests will find everything from beautiful flower walls and neon displays to a whimsical, candy-themed room in the 4,500 square-foot pop-up. Tickets are $20 for adults and $5 for children 10 and younger.

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NOSH BISTRO

favorites, such as house-made Focaccia with whipped ricotta cheese and a salad designed for its new home called “The Plaza,” a roasted chicken dish with golden beets, pancetta, and Marcona almonds.

The Little Gym

6465 E. Mockingbird Lane An internationally recognized gymnastics program that helps children build the developmental skills and confidence needed at each stage of childhood is now open at Mockingbird and Abrams Road. This opening, though, is unlike any other, as The Little Gym has partnered with local swim school, Dallas Swim Kids, for a combination of gym and swim programs.

The Scent Room

3699 McKinney Ave. Highland Park resident and former model and actress Deborah Turner has just opened a new niche perfumery in West Village, the first of its kind in Texas. Designed to be a destination shopping experience, there are no counters, so shoppers are free to interact directly with the scents and the knowledgeable store associates who are specially trained in helping shoppers discover their unique scent. The Scent Room carries more than 30 independent, hard-to-find niche perfumes lines, and more than 300 fragrances.

CLOSED Gather Kitchen

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PICTURE PARK STUDIO

Clothes Circuit

Preston Center Now under new ownership, the 35-year-old luxury consignment store unveiled a renovated shop at a grand re-opening party in late May. It features a clean, bright color palette, and a more open layout complete with new flooring, updated dressing rooms, and comfortable seating areas. This upgrade also encompasses an overhauled consignment experience, including updated consignment quarters and intake process.

Consignors will now enjoy a more engaging, personalized experience and have the luxury and convenience of consigning all seasons.

Preston Center Not quite a year after opening in Preston Center, the healthy downtown Dallas restaurant specializing in bowls and nutritious, affordable foods closed the doors at its 6135 Luther Lane location. The restaurant said goodbye to its North Dallas location at the end of May but remains open at Thanksgiving Square.

il Bracco

The Plaza at Preston Center The highly anticipated Italian-inspired neighborhood restaurant offers a fresh take on classic Italian dishes with everything made from scratch, including bread, pasta, and sauces; fresh fish is delivered daily, and all proteins are butchered on-site. The menu includes Italian

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GATHER KITCHEN

Pendery’s

Briggs Freeman Sotheby’s International Realty

Mutual of Omaha

King Aerospace Commercial Corporation

Balloons Everyday

Pegasus Bank

Frost Bank

Sewell

Park Cities Short Stop

Bank of America

Allie Beth Allman & Associates

State Farm – Kathy Wall

Park Cities People

Bubbas

Vista Bank

Hawkins-Welwood Homes

Burger House

Vintage Car Wash

Methodist Dallas Medical Center

Culwell & Son

The Rhodes Group

Robert Elliot Custom Homes

Fair Texas Title

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HOUSE OF THE MONTH 4300 Armstrong Parkway

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COURTESY BRIGGS FREEMAN SOTHEBY’S INTERNATIONAL REALTY

his is an opportunity 80 years in the making — one of the finest homes in Highland Park on one of the most coveted corners in town. On a property in the same family since 1939 is sited this iconic Italian Renaissance villa, designed

by Richard Drummond Davis and built

by Sebastian Construction Group. It gets no finer than this: nearly 12,000 square feet of sophisticated luxuries, including four bedrooms, five full baths, guest or staff

quarters, a large chef ’s kitchen, a bookshelflined paneled library, a grand entry hall, and multiple living areas. The workmanship is beyond compare, with detailed millwork, elegant finishes, and superb fittings. The heavily-treed grounds offer 1.6 acres of lush landscaping, a sparkling pool, and a charming pool house — perfect extensions to the exquisite living and entertaining areas of the home. It is a grand yet comfortable setting for a grand yet casual life.

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Schools

GO 2019 SCOTS

Highland Park High School Graduation Ceremony

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ighland Park High School celebrated on May 31 the graduation of its 2019 senior class at SMU’s Moody Coliseum. Graduates crossed the stage and received their diplomas clad in traditional Highland Park blue and gold.

Scholarships offered to the class of 2019 totaled

$10.7 million.

The top 10 graduating seniors, based on grade point average, were: Anna Chung, Matthew Healy, Enayat Kapadia, Richard Luo, Luke Martin, Benjamin Olness, Cameron Poe, Angela Wu, Michael Zhan, and Raymond Zou.

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Valedictorian: Richard Luo

Salutatorian: Enayat Kapadia

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Blanket Award Winners: Sam Sloan and Claire Kozmetsky

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District Moving Forward with Hyer Demolition

By Tim Glaze

People Newspapers As far as Highland Park ISD officials are concerned, demolition of the original Hyer Elementary building is going to begin this summer, with an eye on the campus opening for the 2020 - 2021 school year.

However, an odd sort of limbo hangs in the air, as the district awaits word from the State Historical Preservation Association and Texas Board of Review on whether the building will be named to the National Register of Historic Places.

The school, which sits on land purchased in the 1930s, was nominated several months back for a historical designation; if named, it would go through several other channels before being officially declared historic in Texas. This, in turn, could prevent any demolition planned for the elementary school.

It puts the district in a bit of a holding pattern, said spokesman Jon Dahlander, adding the plan remains to proceed with the demolition.

“As far as we know, the nomination is still considered active and could be considered by the state board of review at a future meeting, but the district is moving forward with its plans to begin building a new Hyer this summer,” Dahlander said.

The district capped spending on the new Hyer at $36.3 million.

For the 2018-19 school year, Hyer students were temporarily relocated to the

Site work is underway on the Hyer Elementary School campus.

TIM GLAZE

district’s newest elementary school on Durham Street. Bradfield Elementary students attended Hyer’s original location on Caruth while that school was rebuilt. Hyer students will remain at the new campus on Durham for the 2019-20 school year while Hyer is rebuilt.

Superintendent Tom Trigg has long opposed a nomination, saying recently that any historic announcement could delay construction by up to a year. “[Being named to the Register] doesn’t keep the building from being demolished, but it is the first step in being named a State Antiquities Landmark, which could keep it from being demolished against the wishes of our community, which voted for new schools more than three years ago,” he said. “That was a concern to us. If we are forced to do anything different than what we have planned for Hyer, it would cause a delay for us, and most likely a lot of money.”

District-formed “legacy” committees also are concerned, as well as current and former teachers, faculty, PTA members, and students, who have only known one Hyer for several years. The goal of the legacy committees is to make sure the architects embrace the unique elements of Hyer and the other HPISD schools – or, in the case of the state, that the elements are also preserved.

The Hyer Legacy committee’s wish-list of saved elements include the building’s red brick and white trim, the courtyard, and the engraved bricks.

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Cotton Candy Scouts

Troop 35 serves at tree lightings, National Night Out, July Fourth

By Jordan Kiefer

Special Contributor Boy Scout Troop 35 has been an important part of the Park Cities Community for more than 82 years.

Founded in 1937 at Armstrong Elementary, this smaller, boy-led troop has now produced more than 150 Eagle Scouts.

But earning its nickname is a more recent achievement.

The troop has become known as the “The Cotton Candy Scouts” in recent years through participation in such events as Highland Park’s annual National Night Out.

It’s a great way to understand, at an early age, what it will be like to have your own business.

Jessie O’Brien At National Night Out, which promotes police-community partnerships and neighborhood

involvement in making the communities safer, the Scouts were tasked with working the cotton candy and popcorn station.

The boys had no idea what they were doing at first but loved working the booth and have been doing it every year since.

“Word has really gotten out about our cotton candy talents, and we’ve been asked to bring it to events often enough that, financially, it only made sense for us to invest in purchasing our very own cotton candy machine, rather than continuing to rent one,” volunteer mom Jessie O’Brien said.

The troop now has half a dozen events on the calendar where Scouts bring the cotton candy machine.

Those also include Snider Plaza’s annual tree lighting and Goar Park’s annual movie night.

O’Brien explains how the Scouts must put plenty of effort into preparing for those events.

“They have to access inventory and make a list of what to purchase and the costs involved, as well as the number of Scouts required to keep things running smoothly, sometime in shifts,” she said, adding they get

JESSIE O’BRIEN

The boys serve cotton candy at so many events, Troop 35 decided to buy, instead of rent, a machine.

more than just the Merit Badges for participating. “It’s a great way to understand, at an early age, what it will be like to have your own business.”

Soon, Troop 35 will attend the annual Park Cities Fourth of July Parade and Picnic, their biggest event. They will walk in the parade with the Garrison Flag and be at the Boy Scouts of America Tent passing out Cotton Candy to the 10,000 people that attend.

O’Brien explained why it is more

important than ever for children to be a part of a troop.

“Scouting can be a great place,” she said. “Whether your child is athletic, scholastic, or both, Troop 35 is a great place to build friendships, learn valuable lifelong lessons, and have lots of fun.

“Campouts are both fun and educational, but our weekly meetings are where our community and Scout-building begins. Seeing these young boys (A girl troop is forming

in the Park Cities now, too.) grow into fine young men is such a blessing. The hope is that you are making a positive impact along the way.”

WANT TO BE A SCOUT? Email Jessie O’Brien at troop35dallastexas@ gmail.com or visit troop35dallastexas.com to learn more.

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Society

VOLUNTEER ADVOCATES MAKE SURE CHILDREN IN NEED GET A VOICE

I F YO U G O

What: Dallas CASA’s 24th annual Parade of Playhouses When: July 12-28 Where: NorthPark Center Tickets: $5 each or five for $20 for a chance to win a playhouse

Did you know? Dallas CASA serves 86 percent of Dallas County children in protective care. Visit dallascasa.org to learn more.

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Stephanie Roberts

Each year, builders volunteer to create unusual playhouses for display at NorthPark Center where they are raffled to raise money for Dallas CASA.

By Maria Adolphs

Special Contributor

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ast year in Dallas County, 26,424 children were reported abused or neglected, according to Dallas CASA statistics.

Dallas CASA, founded 40 years ago by The National Council of Jewish Women-Dallas as a spin-off nonprofit, addresses the needs of the more than 4,700 children in protective care by ensuring those children always have a voice.

When children are removed from their homes, judges assign Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) to work closely with the child. Advocates make monthly visits, work with Child Protective Services and foster families, contact schools and doctors to secure the child’s needs are being met, then present their report to the judge with their recommendations.

“Our advocates provide the current, detailed information our judges need to make

sound decisions impacting child victims of abuse,” said Kathleen M. LaValle, president and CEO of Dallas CASA. “We love what we do, we just don’t love the fact that there is a need for us,” said Stephanie Roberts, a former elementary school teacher and veteran volunteer advocate.

She and her Park Cities neighbor Marian Glass will mark their 10th anniversary as the first co-advocate team at Dallas CASA. Glass majored in adolescent and developmental psychology and after her children were grown, got involved with Dallas CASA. Advocates undergo an initial 30 hours of training and continuing education to work with the children and navigate the court system. The children are often scared or angry, Glass said. They have been physically, emotionally, and sexually abused, abandoned, or neglected — enduring distressing environments such as no running water, heat, or air, maggot-covered kitchen counters, and padlocked refrigerators. Many suffer such conditions as lice-ridden hair and never being held or hugged.

Once the children understand the advocate is there to help them, they get excited, Roberts said.

“We just do everything to make sure they have what they need to heal and

thrive,” she said, explaining close bonds are often formed between the children and advocate. “It’s hard not to get emotionally involved… but once they are placed with a family and become part of that family – that’s a good feeling.”

Preston Hollow resident Leslie Wayne, a neurologist and mom to three, began volunteering at Dallas CASA in 2014 on the Children’s Council, becoming an advocate in 2016.

“You look at your own children and the opportunities you can provide them, and knowing that a lot of children don’t have access to any of those opportunities, it’s very motivating to get involved and make it better,” she said.

LaValle described the advocates as a “lifeline” for the kids.

“We hear from adults who were in the foster care system that their Dallas CASA was the one who stayed by their side, listened to them, and provided support throughout a frightening and uncertain time… the one adult, the child knew, would always show up when they say they would,” she said.

Dallas CASA’s upcoming Parade of Playhouses raises awareness of the need for volunteer advocates. Last year 1,400 volunteers served more than 3,300 children, LaValle said, “but the reality is we need more volunteers.”

Marian Glass

Leslie Wayne

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PARTNERS CARD KICKOFF AT MARKET

Alex Kline and Katie Harris

Heather Anderson and Megan Saustad

Tiffany Davros and Keenan Walker

Hendrika Diehl, Victoria Snee, and Natalie Westbrook

Robert Weatherly and Stephanie Seay PHOTOS BY GEORGE FIALA

Nolan Kiser and Carlos Parada

Diane Fullingim and Meg Bittner

Nina Sachse, Rachel Michell, and Stephanie Seay

Melissa Sherrill with Ross, Lily, and Harker Martin

Megan Sterquell and Elizabeth Dacus

Bela Cooley, Vodi Cook, and Sierra Cooley

Dallas-based family violence agency The Family Place celebrated among family and friends and raised glasses to an exciting new year of Partners Card on May 21. The 27th annual premier fundraiser, presented by Bank of Texas, kicked the new season off at storied Highland Park Village boutique Market. The crowd was in good spirits as they shopped for the cause and visited with The Family Place CEO Paige Flink and chairs Rachel Michell, Nina Sachse, and Stephanie Seay, and honorary chair Robert Weatherly.

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ANNOUNCEMENT WEEKEND FOR DSOL DEBUTANTES

Katie Kottwitz, Margaret Smith, Sara Tacito, and Georgia Hallam

2019 - 2020 Debutantes

Amanda, Beth, and Brint Ryan

John Gilmore and Linda Burk Lisa, Savannah, and Kenny Troutt

Susan and Maddy Duvall

Melissa Lewis, Crawford Brock, and Kim Brannon

Catherine Magee

Karen, Matthew, Isabella, and Kevin Cox

Julia Tribolet and Spencer Hardin

Ellie King

PHOTOS BY GITTINGS

The Dallas Symphony Orchestra League introduced the 2019-2020 debutantes during announcement weekend festivities held June 6-8. The weekend marked the official start of a season of events culminating with the 34th Presentation Ball, which will be held Feb. 8, 2020. The weekend began with the announcement party and a hosted couture gown show featuring the gowns of designer Mackenzie Brittingham at Stanley Korshak, followed

by Neiman Marcus hosting a brunch and gown show.

Common Unknown REASONS Why People Fall Or Have Balance Problems. It’s Never Because Of Age... There’s Always A REASON! – Now What To Do About It?

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Living Well and Faith COUPLE PREPARES FOR U.S. CAMPING TOUR

Converted school bus ‘Champ’ becomes tiny home for two adults and a dog

By Mitch Gruen

Special Contributor

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allas native and Highland Park High School alumnus Wes Cole always knew he wanted to go on a long-term camping adventure.

Then he met his future wife, Nicole, at the University of Texas.

Though she shared his passion for adventure, she was not exactly down to spend a year roughing it in a rooftop tent.

Vans were affordable but would be too small for the couple and their dog, Booker. New RVs were too expensive and used RVs had dated stale interiors.

Frustrated by their options, they searched for ideas online and settled on an unusual solution.

School buses provide many advantages over tents, RVs, and vans. They’re well-built, reliable, and cheap — buses in good condition can be had at auctions for $10,000 or often less. And they provide ample interior space for total customization, Wes said.

After months of searching, Wes and Nicole found their bus in Choctaw, Oklahoma, and named it Champ.

After turning down eight other buses, they knew the 1997 International 3800 was the one.

They bought it on the spot and drove it back to Dallas, adding 200 miles to its 150,000.

Though the bus already ran well, their mechanic got it ready for a 30,000-mile adventure.

Next, Wes and Nicole pulled out the seats and recouped some of their initial investment by selling the wheelchair lift that was mounted at the back.

With the bus gutted and running, they could begin the real fun of designing and

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After working the last few years at Camp Ozark, where many Park Cities and Preston Hollow children spend the summer, Wes and Nicole Cole are ready for a camping trip of their own. The couple and their dog, Booker, will depart in July. Champ, the school bus, didn’t look like much when the Coles bought it in Oklahoma.

building the interior. They had help from Nicole’s dad, who lent them tools and DIY wisdom, and their friend Brett, a professional van customizer and owner of Austin-based Chewy Design Co. Nicole’s preference for clean and natural looks guided the interior design process. She chose to paint the walls white. “It makes the space look a lot bigger,” she said.

Sunlight from the many windows adds to a bright, open feel.

Natural wood flooring, counters, and accents help to create a fresh, at-home vibe.

The kitchen features four gas burners, an oven, a full-size sink, and a Yeti cooler, making it easy to go beyond standard camping fare.

“I’m excited to be able to cook full, normal meals,” Nicole said.

The custom couch cushions in the front provide ample space for entertaining and fold out into a guest bed. A king-size bed is in a private bedroom at the back.

Wes is most proud of the rooftop deck he built.

“It’s just a cool place to either look at the stars, watch the sunset, just take in different moments and scenery,” he said.

The bold blue and white exterior paint was a Christmas gift from Nicole’s mom.

They will set off for the first leg of their trip in July, spend the Fourth in Arkansas, then head off to explore the eastern United States.

They’re not totally sure about every destination — they’ll have the freedom to improvise and detour as they travel. But no matter where Champ takes them, they’ll always be right at home.

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Tips To Stay Safe This Summer in the Water Texas leads nation in child drownings in pools and spas

With school out of session and summer in full swing, neighborhood and backyard pools are teeming with children and families trying to stay cool and active in the summer heat.

However, along with summer fun, experts say water safety must be top of mind.

Drowning is the No. 1 cause of accidental death in children under the age of 5, and according to the USA Swimming Foundation, Texas leads the nation in child drownings in pools and spas.

Greg Laird, CEO of Emler Swim School and Highland Park parent of three, reminds us that many of these accidents are preventable through formal swim lessons, focused supervision, pool barriers, and CPR skills.

Launched in 1975, Emler Swim School, with two Dallas locations – Preston/Forest and Walnut Hill/Central, teaches a technique called “Jump, Turn, and Swim,” which trains swimmers to return to where they entered the water.

The school provided the following drowning prevention tips: • Teach children how to swim at

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Emler Swim School instructors teach more than 45,000 students every year the life-saving skills they need to be safer in the water at dozens of instruction centers across Texas.

the youngest possible age because “it’s more difficult if they get old enough to start fearing the water.”

• Assign a water guardian to watch children around water and learn how to recognize a swimmer in trouble. Different than a lifeguard, who is trained in rescue, a guardian prevents emergencies.

• Choose a swim lesson provider like you would a pediatrician or child care provider – do your research, watch them give a lesson in action, and ask lots of questions (style, student-to-teacher ratio, etc.).

• Wear a properly-fitted life jacket – do not use foam or airfilled toys – and practice in the water wearing a life-jacket while supervised.

• Teach children to stay away from drains. A defective or out of date drain may trap a swimmer’s hair, jewelry, clothing, or extremities.

• Always check water sources first when a child is missing by checking water surfaces as well as the bottom. Children who drown can quickly sink to the bottom and appear to be a shadow.

• Timely and effective CPR can save a life. Refresh skills yearly.

– Staff Report

Shabbat Around Dallas

Rabbi Heidi Coretz helps Jewish SMU students, professional millennials feel at home

By Mitch Gruen

Special Contributor Hillel campus programs are special to Rabbi Heidi Coretz — she credits her experiences in Hillel at the University of Florida for ultimately inspiring her to attend rabbinical school at Hebrew Union College.

Now, between her work with

We’re not looking to go into a synagogue and have services in the pews. Kind of the opposite.

We’re looking to have Shabbat in a variety of very interesting places.

Rabbi Heidi Coretz Hillel at SMU and WE, a program for Jewish millennials, she gives back much of what she gained in her own experiences as

GILLEA ALLISON

Rabbi Heidi Coretz prepares to light candles as she leads Shabbat for young professionals at the D Magazine offices in downtown Dallas. a Hillel student, helping young adults adjust to the demands of college and new careers, all while maintaining a focus on their Jewish faith.

Hillel means praise.

As a freshman at the University of Florida, Coretz found her classes on Hebrew and Judaism to be the most inspiring.

She got involved in Hillel, the largest Jewish campus organization

in the world, and became president of the Jewish Student Union while still a freshman. She eventually switched her major to Jewish studies and decided to attend rabbinical school at the Cincinnati campus of Hebrew Union College.

She was ordained in 1995 and met her husband while working as an assistant rabbi in Tulsa.

In 2000, the two moved to

Dallas where she began her work as the director of Hillel at SMU. Increasingly, SMU students from across the country choose to stay in Dallas after graduation. Coretz found many of her former Hillel students, as well as recent graduates of other schools who moved to Dallas for their first job, were dissatisfied with the limited options available for postgraduate fellowship.

Coretz felt she might best be able to serve these millennials by starting a new program.

Coretz approached the Jewish Federation of Greater Dallas, and after presenting a grant proposal was able to secure $10,000 in funding for a new program to serve Jewish millennials.

The program was named WE, which stands for “We Engage” and reflects the group’s goal to engage through social programs, education, and study groups.

Other organizations in Dallas also work with Jewish millennials, and while Coretz emphasizes that it’s not a competition, part of what helps the WE program stand out is that it is not associated with a synagogue and doesn’t have a dedicated building.

“We’re not looking to go into a synagogue and have services in

the pews — kind of the opposite.

We’re looking to have Shabbat in a variety of very interesting places,” Coretz said.

WE recently held Shabbat at D Magazine and before that celebrated the first night of Passover with a Seder in Thanksgiving Square where 40 young people attended.

“In the first year that we’ve been operating, we’ve reached and engaged well over a hundred Jewish young adults that are active in our organization now,” Coretz said.

Coretz said she is passionate about Hillel, WE, and her faith.

“I absolutely love the amazing students I get to work with at SMU,” she said. “They are smart, hard-working, creative, caring, and driven. They are ready to make a difference in the world in their careers and outside of their work.”

LEARN MORE Visit facebook.com/ wejewishdallas/ and facebook.com/groups/ smuhillel or email hcoretz@ smu.edu to get involved in WE or Hillel at SMU.

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Dive Into A Young Chef’s Light When she was 30, Franchesca Nor had her first baby, an aqua, navy, and seafoam progeny named Dive Coastal Cuisine.

Her son, Archer James, was born in 2016.

Both have matured and evolved; KERSTEN RET TIG nourished the body, soul, and heart; and given back.

Dive continues to be a restaurant phenom, serving f resh, sustainable, nonGMO, organic salads, seafood, and sandwiches.

Chef/Owner Franchesca has beaten the odds as a restauranteur a few years before her 40th birthday.

Though she is well educated and trained, graduating top of her class at Johnson & Wales culinary school, and has worked in virtually every restaurant position, she doesn’t directly attribute her blessings to those things.

Rather, she credits always believing in her passion and vision. She’s allowed herself to make mistakes and learn from them. She’s loyal and believes in taking care of those who take care of you.

Dive has more than 25 employees, many of whom have been there since Day 1, an almost unheard-of feat in the high-turnover industry.

Franchesca’s exacting standards in food quality and preparation are understood by every member of her team, and she credits their consistency for Dive’s loyal customer base.

The new Grilled Peach and Prosciutto Pizza on a cauliflower crust.

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Dive Coastal Cuisine serves fresh, sustainable, non-GMO, organic salads, seafood, and sandwiches.

When I asked what she loves most about this business, she paused and got a little choked up.

“I’m feeding 25 families,” she said, referring to her employees. “That’s the most fulfilling thing about this.”

“You are a leader if your actions create a legacy that inspires others to dream, learn, and become more.” That daily affirmation popped up on my phone the day I interviewed Franchesca at Dive, where I devoured her new Grilled Peach and Prosciutto Pizza on cauliflower crust, and she inhaled her Tuna Melt. When she told me about the work she does with Youth With Faces, a Dallas-based organization

that provides practical life and work skills to youth in the juvenile justice system, the quote immediately came to mind.

By any definition, Franchesca is a leader. She and others help the teens discover a passion, purpose, and a view of their potential far greater than what their environments have offered so far.

She introduces new foods, like the time she served a group of uneasy teens quinoa and calamari (they loved it) and has written and cataloged recipes for the program. She recently was invited to join the Dallas chapter of Les Dames d’Escoffier, an international philanthropic group for women in the culinary arts.

Dive Coastal Cuisine 3404 Rankin St. divecoastal.com Throughout our lunch, Franchesca was full of optimism, passion, and light, appropriate since her surname means ‘light” in Arabic. She exudes gratitude and stokes a dream that will go beyond Dive’s current footprint. Her priority today, of course, is Archer; a little boy who, she humblebrags, prefers to chew leaves from his mama’s backyard chocolate peppermint plant rather than bubblegum.

Kersten Rettig is a Park Cities-based writer with more than 30 years’ experience in food and beverage marketing and PR. She is a member of Les Dames d ’Escoff ier and the VNA Board of Trustees. Follow her on Instagram @KickshawPapers.

WEDDING

ELIZABETH ADAMS & CHAP BERNET

R O X D E LU N A P H O T O G R A P H Y

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lizabeth Jo Adams and Edward Chappell Bernet were united in holy matrimony March 23, 2019 at the Rosewood San Miguel de Allende, high in the mountains of Central

Mexico. Their sunset ceremony was officiated by Elly Ferrell Hutchings. The parents of the bride also hosted the reception at Rosewood San Miguel de Allende. Guests enjoyed tacos,

tequila, music and breathtaking views of the Parroquia. Members of Chap’s family played their first dance, “Tonight I’ll Be Staying Here With You” by Bob Dylan.

Several guests took their turn at the mic including the groom.

A rehearsal dinner, hosted by the parents of the groom, was held on the Thursday before the wedding at Casa San Pancho. A welcome parade and party, hosted by several Dallas families, was held on the eve of the wedding at the Rosewood San Miguel de Allende.

The bride is the daughter of Ann and Frank Adams of Dallas.

She is the granddaughter of Jo and Bob Scroggs of Hawarden, Iowa and the late Jean and Major General Milton Adams of Austin, Texas.

The groom is the son of Clemmie and Brant Bernet of Dallas. He is the grandson of Susie and Ed Bernet of Dallas, Hilda Hardcastle of Bath, Maine and A. Hardcastle of Austin, Texas.

The bride was presented in marriage by her parents. She was escorted down the aisle on the arm of her father. Elizabeth wore a stunning, Spanish lace, strapless gown by Monique

Lhuillier. Her earrings were her late grandmother’s, her pearl ring was borrowed from her other grandmother, and lace from Chap’s grandmother’s wedding gown was sewn into the hem of her dress.

Elizabeth borrowed her veil from her older sister. The blue sapphire fashioned to her bouquet was her father’s first wedding anniversary gift to her mother. Assisting the bride as maids of honor were her sisters, Caroline Adams and Stacy Hicks. Her bridesmaids included Melanie Proctor, Georgie Ferrell, Mary Margaret Shamburger, Erica Hubble, Francis Nolan, Laura Wright, Ellie O’Neil, Daisy Bernet, Phoebe Bernet, and Elizabeth Bernet. Among the members of the house party were Casey Yates, Dulaney Archibald, Ellen Toland, Clare Holden, Erin Costello, Ashley Fatjo, Andrea Pond, Sarah Holden, Kellye Thomas, McBride Oden, Emily Vaughan, Christina Dabney, Hilary Holmes, Brenna Seifert, Laine Deutscher, Robin Brock, and Katie Williamson. Eloise and Scarlett Hicks were the flower girls.

Attending the groom as best man was Charlie Bernet, the groom’s brother. Chap wore a custom Knot Standard dinner

jacket. His groomsmen included Mack Hicks, Ben Stevens, Billy Langhenry, Steve Lander, Chris Calandro, Matt Bonano, Dodge Carter, Edward Neblett, Madison Oden, Tyler Riek, and Craig Archibald. Serving as ushers were Stewart Stinson, Nick Masinter, Briggs Montgomery, Dillon Zweifel, Fritz Deichert, James Warburton, Martin Proctor, Mckenzie Jones, Tom Mackell, and Murphey Henk. Mack Hardin Hicks and Bodie Bernet were ring bearers.

The bride is a graduate of Highland Park High School.

She received a Corporate Communications degree from the University of Texas. Elizabeth works for Suretone Management as a digital marketing director which has taken her social media marketing career into the music industry.

The groom is a graduate of Highland Park High School.

He received a degree in English f rom Texas Tech University.

Chap is employed by APA in the corporate division of talent booking.

Following their wedding trip to French Polynesia, the couple have made their home in Nashville, Tenn.

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Celebrate Independence Day with Red, White, and Blue Cake My family moved every few years while I was growing up, so my memories of July Fourth celebrations vary according to where we lived at the time.

In the early years, we gathered with CHRISTY ROST aunts, uncles, HOME + KITCHEN and cousins at my Grandmother Kathryn’s home in Pittsburgh. I recall images of grilled burgers, a large watermelon floating in a tin bucket of icy water, Grandmom’s freezer stocked with banana, cherry, and blue raspberry popsicles, and flying almost to the sky on the swing set in the park.

In my early teens, my parents purchased a small, two-story shingled summerhouse on Cape Cod. From mid-June until early September, we summered at the beach and celebrated each Independence Day with the family next door. Between their three kids and our four, July Fourth kicked off with swimming and picnics at Old Silver Beach and ended with a two-family backyard cookout, games of hide-and-seek, and dashes through our yards with sparklers.

What these two very different childhood scenarios have in common is a sense of family and tradition. Nowhere are these qualities more evident than the annual Park Cities Parade and Picnic. Winding through the streets of Highland Park and University Park, it’s a grand celebration of family, neighbors, community, and patriotism.

Following the parade, many fami-

lies will return to their homes for an old-fashioned backyard barbecue.

Tables laden with chilled salads of every description, deviled eggs, hotoff-the-grill favorites, bean casseroles, and ice-cold lemonade will be the order of the day.

For a memorable grand finale, my Red, White, and Blue Layer Cake is a showstopper. This beautiful two-layer confection, iced in fluffy buttercream, is garnished with a patriotic motif of fresh blueberries and strawberries. A generous jolt of ruby-red, cherry preserves hidden between the layers provides a tangy counterpoint to the tender vanilla cake and sweet buttercream frosting. Use heavy whipping cream instead of milk in this frosting for an extra fluffy texture that’s positively sublime.

Visit christyrost.com more from cookbook author and public television chef Christy Rost, or follow her on Facebook and Twitter @ChristyRost.

Cake Ingredients:

2 ¾ cups sifted cake flour 2 teaspoons baking powder 1 teaspoon salt ¾ cup unsalted butter, softened 1 ½ cups sugar 4 eggs, at room temperature ½ cup milk 2 teaspoons vanilla

Directions: Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. In a medium bowl, stir together flour, baking powder, and salt; set it aside.

In the large bowl of an electric mixer, cream butter and sugar until they are light, about 8 minutes. Add eggs, one at a time, beating well after each addition.

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Gradually add the flour mixture to the butter mixture, alternately with the milk, beating to form a thick batter. Stir in vanilla.

Grease and flour two 9-inch round cake pans, divide the batter between the two pans, and bake 25 to 28 minutes, or until a cake tester inserted into the center of the cakes comes out clean.

Remove them from the oven and cool 20 minutes. Remove cakes from the pans and cool completely on a wire rack.

Frosting Ingredients:

¾ cup unsalted butter, softened 8 cup sifted confectioners’ sugar 2/3 cup heavy whipping cream Dash of salt

O B I T UA RY

O B I T UA RY

CHARLIE SLEDGE, MD

R. ROLPH FLETCHER

02/09/1937 - 05/02/2019

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harlie Sledge, MD, 79, a lifelong resident of Dallas, born October 10, 1939, passed away peacefully on April 30, 2019, surrounded by family and friends.

A graduate of Highland Park High School, SMU, and UT Southwestern Medical School, he served in Korea and at Brooke Army Hospital. He did Internship and residency at Dallas VA Hospital, he was Chief Resident

and on the teaching staff. He was a founding member of Dallas Diagnostic Assoc. Charlie cared for residents at Walnut Place for three decades and was Medical Director.

Survived by his wife of 59 years, Mary Jane York, daughters Mary Beth Troutt (Chris) and Ellen Hogan: grandchildren Lauren Mason (Peter), Lindsay Wilson Preston (Donovan), Hannah and Sam Troutt, and Amanda Hogan; great-grandchildren Jayce Wilson, Elizabeth and Madilyn Preston, and Peter, John Charles and Kaitlyn Mason.

The Memorial Service was held at St. Michael and All Angels Church, 8011 Douglas, Fri. June 7, 2019, 2 pm. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations to Genesis Women’s Shelter, or a charity of your choice. Visit the full obituary at www.AriaCremation.com.

02/09/1937 - 05/02/2019

R.

Rolph Fletcher was born in Wichita Falls, Texas February 9, 1937 to Robert Grady and Sybil Nancy Mayes Fletcher.

Rolph was a man of the highest integrity, and incredible knowledge. He received a bachelor’s degree from Baylor University and three masters degrees, from Baylor, Rice and SMU, in addition to obtaining his Southern Baptist Ordination. He spent 35 years with the

1 ½ teaspoons vanilla 1 cup cherry preserves Fresh strawberries, rinsed, hulled and dried on a paper towel Fresh blueberries, rinsed and dried on a paper towel

Directions:

In the large bowl of an electric mixer, beat butter until smooth, gradually adding confectioners’ sugar alternately with heavy cream to form a thick, fluffy frosting. Add salt and vanilla, beating well to mix.

Place the bottom cake layer on a serving plate and spread the top with frosting. Spoon 1 cup frosting into a cake decorating bag fitted with a large

Billy Graham Association, ministering through the Motion Picture Department. He was married to Ann Messersmith in 1976. He was the proud father of three children, Montgomery Smith, Jeannie Boh and Nancy Jennings.

After his retirement, he focused his time teaching English though the Dallas Community College district and various other universities online. He used his incredible and vast detailed knowledge of the Bible to teach Sunday School classes, bible studies and many other avenues of ministry.

Together Rolph and Ann traveled all across the world, including 17 African Countries, Australia, New Zealand, Alaska, multiple countries in the Middle East and extensively in Europe all the while spreading the good news of our Lord and Savior everywhere they went.

They facilitated numerous marriage

round tube, pipe a bead of frosting around the outer edge of the cake, and fill the center with cherry preserves, spreading it just to the edge. Place the remaining cake layer on top, frost the sides of the cake, then the top, reserving enough frosting for garnish.

Spoon the remaining frosting into a cake decorator bag fitted with a large star tube. Pipe stars around the outer edge of the top layer and around the lower edge of the cake. Decorate the top of the cake with a ring of strawberries and fill the center with blueberries. Chill several hours or overnight.

Yield: One two-layer 9-inch cake

enrichment workshops in Africa, India and the Middle East to missionaries and pastors. He was a fearless leader, knowledgeable teacher and kind-hearted father and friend.

He was welcomed into his father’s loving arms and joined Ann in the kingdom of heaven on May 2, 2019.

He is survived by his 3 children and 9 grandchildren, Grayson Smith, Alex Smith, Celia Smith, Mitchell Boh, Mason Boh, Carter Boh, Chelsea Boh, William Jennings and Ryan Jennings, in addition to his countless “adopted children” including, Ferry Stepancic, Abi O, Ivory and Thelma Haynes. The world is a far better place because of the man he was, the life he lived and the example he set every day of his life.

A celebration of life was held in the Cox Chapel of Highland Park United Methodist Church on June 8, 2019 @ 10am.

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In addition to featuring some of Dallas-Fort Worth’s premier luxury properties, the 27th edition of Grand Vie: Luxury in Living magazine also includes a special section highlighting nearby lake properties.

Nothing brings family together like a lake home a short distance from your primary residence.

Long, relaxing weekends await at the remarkable lake homes featured in the pages of Grand Vie, the luxury-home publication of Ebby Halliday Realtors and Fort Worth-based Williams Trew Real Estate.

The 27th edition of Grand Vie also offers a plethora of inspiring editorial content, including “At Home with Cary Deuber,” featuring a Q&A with the Bravo Real Housewives of Dallas star; “Weekend Getaways: Austin,” offering travel advice for a visit to Texas’ most-Instagram-able city; “Houses of Art,” featuring some of the area’s top cultural events of the season; and special sections for lake, farm, ranch and recreation properties. Also in the spring/ summer edition: Partner and designer at IBB Design Fine Furnishings, Shay Geyer, shares insight into how to revitalize your kids’ room this summer.

To view the digital version of Grand Vie, visit grandviemagazine.com. Visit the award-winning, mobile-friendly ebby.com.

DAVE PERRY-MILLER REAL ESTATE

Stewart Lee lists West Highland Park home with pool

This Cape Cod-style residence at 4660 Beverly Drive (4660beverly.davepmerrymiller.com) is offered

by Stewart Lee. With three bedrooms (all upstairs), three baths and a pool, this 2,637-square-foot home (per appraiser) was built in 1948 and is updated, yet still retains original charm. Offered for $999,000.

Changes made have been to enhance spaciousness and create an inviting environment. The den’s large sliding doors open to the outdoor living area with kitchen — perfect for pool parties and year-round living. A large carport also serves as additional space for guests or for outdoor play on a hot or rainy day.

Plantation shutters, hardwood flooring and a neutral palette create a sense of uniformity throughout. Rooms are nicely sized, and there are two living rooms downstairs and a bonus room upstairs.

The island kitchen with picture window overlooking the backyard has plentiful storage, separate Sub-Zero fridge and freezer, double ovens and more.

To schedule a showing, please contact Lee at 214707-7784 or stewartlee@daveperrymiller.com.

Dave Perry-Miller Real Estate (daveperrymiller. com) is a division of Ebby Halliday Real Estate, Inc., a Berkshire Hathaway affiliate, with four locations that specialize in Preston Hollow, Park Cities, North Dallas, Lakewood, East Dallas, Uptown, Kessler Park and Farm & Ranch properties.

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3845 Greenbrier Drive, represented by Holly Krug and Meredith Houston for $1,995,000 Traditional architecture is a broad term for a style that incorporates modern-day elements of many classic styles, especially the structure of doors, windows and roofing elements. Its design cues are distinctive: gabled roofs, tall chimneys and, often, windows with rounded or arched tops. Inside, Traditional homes often feature open archways, French doors, fireplaces and detailed moldings.

Famous examples include Julia Roberts’ character’s family home in Steel Magnolias (a red-brick Traditional in Natchitoches, Louisiana) and, in North Texas, the one and only Southfork, the Ewing family home in the blockbuster TV show Dallas, which taps into Greek and Colonial architecture but isn’t slavish to either.

Beautifully updated, the Traditional-style home at 3845 Greenbrier Drive is in University Park, in walking distance to Robert S. Hyer Elementary, Smith Park and Caruth Park. With four bedrooms and four full baths, it offers a first-floor master suite, a chef’s kitchen, multiple entertaining spaces and two fireplaces. The backyard is an entertainer’s dream, complete with screened porch, sparkling pool, builtin grill and cozy guest quarters.

To see all the luxury homes, ranches and land offered by Briggs Freeman Sotheby’s International Realty — in North Texas and around the world — go to briggsfreeman.com.

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Time for a Pool

Didn’t you always want to play at the neighbor kid’s house that had a pool? Now with the temperatures rising you can be the lucky neighbor kid with the pool. Your friends will want to come over or just enjoy a refreshing dip.

Allie Beth Allman & Associates has found these five homes with pools for you to enjoy this summer.

In University Park the traditional-style, five-bedroom home at 3612 Greenbrier Dr. features elegant living with French doors leading to the pool and spa. If you don’t want to get wet, enjoy the covered patio and putting green.

Imagine relaxing this summer on a shaded 2,100-squarefoot deck beside a private lake with a fountain. A pool is built into the deck. And a covered living and grilling area overlooks both the pool and the lake. This is the extraordinary home Lori Sparks is marketing at 11808 Forest Lakes Ln. in Preston Hollow.

In convenient West Highland Park is 3931 Fairfax Avenue.

Located on an oversized lot, you don’t lose any space by having a 48-foot, L-shaped diving pool. You can overlook the pool from the downstairs master.

To find your home with a gorgeous pool, visit www. alliebeth.com.

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4604 Lakeside Drive 4 Bedrooms | 4.1 Baths | 6,950 SqFt Offered For $6,750,000 This Colonial Federalist designed landmark estate offers the discerning buyer a rare opportunity to own an amazing property. Featuring a private front azalea courtyard canopied by mature trees. Formal foyer with original oak stairwell sets the tone for the breathtaking rooms of the first floor. Two master suites, overlooking Exall Lake & rear gardens with sitting rooms that connect these large bdrms with en-suite baths are an exceptional touch to the second level. The estate’s large double garage has front & rear access, allowing for tandem parking. A porte-cochere connects to a second front entrance to the home. Full guest suite with living room, bedroom, 2 kitchenettes, and 2 full baths.

For more information please contact Kyle Crews (214) 5381310 or Juli Harrison (214) 207-1001.

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Find the Right Size Home for You

Featuring 5 bedrooms, 5.2 baths, & 6,215 SF, 3412 Wentwood is being offered for $2,395,000.

Allie Beth Allman & Associates continued to be the leader in estate sales in Dallas County during the first quarter of the year. That follows its success last year, when the firm closed over 60% of the estate market sale in the county.

Here are current estates on the market.

The custom-designed estate at 3617 Crescent Ave. impresses in every detail. Venetian plaster walls and ceilings, limestone and wood flooring and windows are throughout. The luxurious master suite is downstairs.

Other amenities include a temperature-controlled loggia, pool, gym and wine room.

For the avid golfer, check out the Santa Barbara-style home in the heart of Preston Hollow. The remarkable home at 5600 Park Ln. has a private center courtyard.

There is a pool, fountain, spa and fire pit. Golfers will relish the putting green, chipping area and an inside hitting bay adjacent to the master suite.

The gated southern-style estate at 9346 Sunnybrook Ln. in old Preston Hollow has been re-envisioned by the owner. This estate has a downstairs master suite, a gentlemen’s bar and study, four living areas and six fireplaces. Outside, relax with a resort-style pool. There is a private guest quarters and a motor court.

To fine more estate homes, visit alliebeth.com/estates.

Every seller wants to get the highest price for their home and sometimes there are a couple of things sellers might need to do to help set up their home in the best way possible. Listen to what prospective buyers are saying about your home. If price and updates are an issue then these are things you can control and fix.

Spending money to update can often times be the difference of how a buyer experiences a home. 3412 Wentwood is ready to sell after making such updates.

The most transformational update were the Maple hardwood floors that were completely redone. Hardwoods were also added in the master suite, office area and upstairs hallway - completely transforming the home.

The updated flooring completely changed the experience a prospective buyer has when viewing this home.

The seller also completed a remodel of the garage by installing low pile carpet (used in showrooms), installing floor-to-ceiling storage with modernist custom cabinets and added a TV line. This has provided a clean garage experience and a “man cave” area.

Along with taking action on these items, the sellers also reduced their price by approximately $100,000.

Thus creating one of the most compelling opportunities on the market.

Contact Laura Michelle (laura@daveperrymiller.com) or Ryan Streiff (ryan@daveperrymiller.com) for more information or visit DPMFineHomes.com.

Its summer in North Texas where living on one of its many lakes offers a robust lifestyle.

When it is hot outside, a lake is one of the best places on Earth to take a dip to cool off. Depending on the lake, there is a variety of water sports from boating and skiing to kayaking and wakeboarding.

Or just listening to waves lap at the shore is soothing, almost hypnotic. Lake properties are also good investments, often rising faster in value than other homes.

Learn more about two exceptional lake homes for sale.

One of the best ranch properties in Texas has 1,500 feet of Lake Athens shoreline. The 210-acre ranch at 3773 County Road 4805 has a five-bedroom main estate, a five-bedroom guest house, a garage apartment and a floating cabin. Bring the family to enjoy swimming, hiking or riding horses and ATVs. On Eagle Mountain Lake is an eight-bedroom home that sleeps 20 people in a casual, luxury setting. The lakefront home at 13180 Miller Rd., in Azle, includes more than 200 feet of waterfront views. It can accommodate five watercrafts on a lake that allows fishing, skiing and wakeboarding.

To find your lake house, visit www.alliebeth.com.

Sometimes bigger isn’t better. A grand estate may be beautiful, but does is it fit your lifestyle?

A “right size” home is one that meets your needs and complements your lifestyle. Housing goals change through our lives. At one point when kids were running around space may have been a priority. Now maybe it’s convenience and maintenance that take precedence. Many people have discovered that a townhome or condominium better suits them today.

Before making a change, consider where you spend time in your current home. Start by quantifying the square-footage you use and search for properties of similar size. If you are a collector, maybe extra room is necessary. If you are willing to part with some of your treasures, a smaller home may be a good option.

One of the keys to successfully moving into a “right size” home is planning for what to do with your belongings. Only bring things that have a place. It may be necessary to donate items or even hold an estate sale. While it can be hard to part with some possessions, most people find that the benefits of their newly streamlined lifestyle make it worthwhile.

Visit alliebeth.com to find an agent who can help find your “right size.”

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MAYA DELGADO HEARTS OF MAYA* Education: Home School

By Bianca R. Montes People Newspapers

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aya Delgado is filled with a passion for the arts – it oozes out in her singsong voice and animated energy as she talks about reading a script or crooning her favorite songs.

She’s that little girl who was performing for family and friends, singing her favorite songs and acting out her favorite shows, as soon as she could walk and talk.

“Everyone has that feeling where something gets their blood rushing, and they would do anything for that; mine just happens to be music and dancing,” Maya said. “I feel like if I got the arts taken away from me, I don’t know who I would be.”

However, early in life, Maya realized that luxuries like acting classes and vocal coaches are things that are taken away from children every day.

“From a very young age, I started taking classes and would notice that some of my friends wouldn’t come back.

I realized it’s because they didn’t have enough money to pay for the classes.”

Maya took her concerns to her father, a business executive, and at 9 years old learned what a nonprofit was. Later that night she did something one usually wouldn’t expect from a girl her age, she called a business meeting during a family dinner and told her mom, dad, and

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brother that “I know this is a problem, and it doesn’t make sense to know you can do something and not do it.”

Since creating Hearts of Maya, the Park Cities preteen has given out more than $20,000 in scholarships to youth in financial need. Maya and her ambassadors often raise the money by teaming up with local businesses like Kidbiz at Inwood Village and Swoozie’s, and Kendra Scott, both in The Plaza at Preston Center, for pop-up events, or through donations made on her website, heartsofmaya.org.

Through it all Maya said she has learned everyone is born with a passion and anyone can make a difference, “there is no excuse that you can’t make a difference because you can,” she said.

Thinking back to the first time she gave a scholarship, Maya said she wasn’t able

to fully grasp the impact she was making on the recipient’s life, “but after giving scholarships to 34 kids, I am very proud to say that I am making a difference.”

One recipient she fondly remembers is a young girl who had a beautiful voice with a soft tone but lacked confidence.

After one semester of classes the nonprofit put her through, Maya said the same girl returned with certainty to her voice and a dynamic stage presence. Her hope for the nonprofit’s future is to grow large enough to reach children all over the country.

“I feel like the arts is more important than people make it out to be,” she said.

“Creating is the most important thing, and it is the highest level of thinking you can do.”

Q: If someone made a movie of your life, what would the title be and who would play you?

A: “World Changer” because ultimately, that’s my goal.

I want to change the world for the better, even if it’s one person at a time. I would love for Ana Villafane (who recently portrayed Gloria Estefan in the Broadway Musical “On Your Feet”) to play as my character because she’s of Cuban

can still fondly remember one of my first interviews after being hired to work for People Newspapers B I A N C A R . M O N T E S nearly two years ago. It was at a plaque dedication for a beloved Highland Park ISD teacher who was tragically killed in 1995 when rushing waters flooded McFarlin Boulevard. I first realized that day, how much our readers cared about their communities and how impressed they were with their neighbors – as they should be.

Nearly every person I spoke with at the dedication took a moment to lavish about someone “I needed to meet,” and that community boast has continued through the hundreds of interviews I’ve had since then. It’s why creating our 20 Under 40 special section last year was well deserved and why we chose to continue the tradition. The Park Cities and Preston Hollow neighborhoods are filled with locals who are changing the game in a list of industries, who give tirelessly to improving the lives of others through philanthropy work and volunteering, and who continue to make their respective communities flourish.

Like last year, this year I was blown away with the stellar nominations that poured into our office and am so proud to present the 20 young professionals our panel, which was comprised of a voice from each department at the newspaper, has selected. Some standouts include a woman who turned her own personal tragedy into a burgeoning nonprofit; those in the real estate game benchmarking innovative ways to propel the industry; and the youngest principal hired in Dallas ISD who led the first elementary school into the district to achieve IB authorization. In addition to our 20 Under 40, we also highlight two power couples (page 9B and 10B) that take squad goals to the next level and three local students as Youth on the Rise (pages 3B, 4B, and 6B).

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descent like me and is an amazing actress and singer.

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JACK SMITH JACK SMITH PAINTINGS Education: Highland Park High School

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ack Smith made $100 when he was a child by selling a painting he made to a friend of his parents.

That’s not chump change for an elementary student, and at an early age, Jack knew what he wanted to do when he grew up. Or, continue doing immediately.

“The business just sort of fell into my lap,” he said. “It really snowballed when I began having art shows.”

Now officially a professional artist – he recently turned 18 – the Blue Print Gallery represents Jack in Uptown for his sculpture work, keeping a portion of the proceeds. He also regularly provides commissioned paintings for individuals in and around Dallas.

Jack also said his paintings are usually requested by clients that want to hang them in their offices or homes. For other orders, he has a printmaker who scans his paintings to sell.

Many clients request specific types of paintings, but more often than not, Jack creates the pieces all on his own.

“While commissions comprise a large portion of my revenue, I would say more often than not I sell paintings that were not commissioned by anyone but came from my own head,” he said. “Every artist is different in technique, style, and taste. My business is unique because my artwork is unique to me.”

Recently, Jack had what he called the

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When Daren Dunkel was in high school, he worked at a moving warehouse where he unloaded tractor trailers that sizzled inside at 120 degrees in the middle of the summer. On his last day of work, a front-line veteran told him to go and get his degree and graduate college because this wasn’t a job he wanted to do his entire life. “That really stuck with me,” the Preston Hollow resident said. In high school, he started studying cybersecurity – a topic you could barely research at

most successful art show of his young career: In October, Blue Print sold 100 percent of his sculptures and, he estimates, 75 percent of his paintings.

“I had been working for months on finishing all the pieces and getting prints made, and the show was a massive success,” Jack said.

As a high school student working full-time on art, scheduling conflicts can make things tricky – not to mention, the day-to-day activities that come with being an 18-year-old. Jack still has homework, always goes to school, and still lives with his parents. But, he said, the ability to interact with adults and work in “the real world” has been exciting – a challenge he embraces.

“I don’t really notice the age gap between my clients and me,” he said.

“I have done business for thousands of dollars and even tens of thousands of dollars with careered adults throughout high school. I will say that running my own business while I am still a student has its challenges. While my peers are playing video games or relaxing, I work in my studio, organize, and price inventory, and talk to clients. But I would say I rather enjoy doing business with mature adults because it provides me experience in the real world of business, and [offers] experience in cultivating professional relationships.”

the time – and was the first incoming student at Oklahoma State to ask the business school about their cybersecurity program. Today, he is the manager for the global strategy of McAfee’s commercial sales business unit and holds a seat on SMU’s cybersecurity advisory board. His continued efforts to excel in an industry that today has a 2 million-person job shortage allowed Darren to make McAfee’s President Club and be the only person in his Executive MBA class at SMU working for a cybersecurity company. “I am passionate about cybersecurity because it is so critical to everything we do, personally and professionally.”

Q: What is your favorite local store?

A: I really enjoy supporting local retailers. Everything from Lucky Dog Barkery in Preston Center to men’s attire at Mizzen + Main. I was raised in a family that had an appreciation for shopping local, and it is still very important to me.

Q: If you could, what advice would you have for your teenage self and why?

A: Be the hardest worker in the room and continue to stay true to my roots and ethics, and good things will continue to happen.

Did You Know?

I once won a Golden Ticket at work that allowed me to meet Ted Koppel and Ashton Kutcher.

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Q : What advice would you give yourself?

A : I am still learning all kinds of lessons from my

failures and anxieties. I often find myself bogged down in worry about my future, and I seem to forget sometimes that the best cure to mental pain is prayer and family. In times of worry and pain, I ask Christ to walk with me and guide my life in his image.

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Haynes and Boone Education: SMU Deadman School of Law A native Texan, Erin England knows what makes the Midway Hollow community so energizing. “You combine the neighborhood pride with the pride of being a Texan and living in the Big D, and it makes you feel unstoppable.”

Erin has worked at Haynes and Boone since 2008 and is now a partner in the finance practice group. Her dedication and strong work ethic helped her make D Magazine’s Best Lawyers in Dallas list, but she doesn’t stop at prac-

ticing law. Erin is also on the board of several community organizations, such as the Town North YMCA and the Dallas Women Lawyers Association. Though she considers delegation the hardest leadership skill she has had to learn, Erin knows it is necessary to keep her life manageable, especially as part of a two-attorney household and a mom to 3-year-old daughter, Alexandra. Though her younger self may roll her eyes, Erin now considers parenthood as her most rewarding accomplishment, or at least tied for first with becoming a partner at Haynes and Boone.

Q: What was your first job, and what did you learn from it?

A: Working the cash register and folding clothes at a store called County Seat in the Longview Mall. I learned to be a more considerate customer; always refold the shirt you pick up to inspect and always bring your clothes out of the dressing room when you’re finished.

Q: If you could buy a book for your neighbor, what would it be and why?

A: All seven Harry Potter books. No explanation needed.

Did You Know?

My favorite place in the Park Cities for lunch is Rise. “The entrée is not nearly as important as the cheese cart and the chocolate soufflé.”

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Heath Cheek

Bell Nunnally & Martin Education: Baylor Law School

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If you had told Heath Cheek in high school that he’d be recognized as one of D Magazine’s “Best Lawyers Under 40 in Dallas,” representing a wide range of clients from start-up businesses to Fortune 500 companies, he wouldn’t have believed you.

As a first-generation college student who grew up in the small town of Chillicothe, Heath is no stranger to hard work. In fact, his first job began at 8 years old when he would help his father and grandfather on the family farm. It helped develop his strong work ethic, as well as teach him that work isn’t nearly as hard when there’s an air conditioner running.

His love of family has transferred over to his life in the Park Cities, where he and his wife Andrea are raising their two children, Charlotte and Gage. Living here has allowed Heath to give his children the small-town feel he grew up with combined with living in the fourth largest metropolitan area in America.

Q: What leadership skills were the most challenging for you to develop and why?

A: I’m an introvert, so socializing is not something that comes naturally to me. So since moving to Dallas, I’ve ended up joining a lot of organizations to force me into situations where I have to socialize and make connections that I normally would not make.

Q: If there was one thing that you could change or improve in the community, what would it be?

A: My philanthropic passion is raising money for scholarships for needy kids. I was a first-generation college graduate, and I would not have been able to achieve that without the generosity of scholarship donors. I want the door of opportunity to be open for every student in Dallas who is willing to put forward the effort to advance his or her education.

Did You Know?

I have a Corgi named Rosie.

The Episcopal School of Dallas Education: Wheaton College

Pony Oil Education: University of Oklahoma

As both the assistant head of middle school and history at The Episcopal School of Dallas and a course instructor for the nonprofit Students Shoulder-to-Shoulder, it’s safe to say that Meg Fahrenbrook is a born educator. Her journey started in high school, working as a nanny for two young children.

“The experience gave me the confirmation that I love being around children. I love learning beside them, and that I wanted to pursue a degree in education.”

Her decision to work with nonprofit organizations came from her summer teaching English to students in a rural community in South Africa. She remembers being jittery with excitement and nerves and just knew that this is what she wanted to do. She wanted to help others. Meg also is growing her own nonprofit Expeditions of Hope, for which she hopes to establish in partnership with a Nepali nonprofit sustainably run medical clinics in Nepal’s remote communities in the next few years. It’s tough work, but her husband Michael, rescue dog Aster, a “total mutt,” and her students make it all worth it.

Q: If you could, what advice would you have for your teenage self and why?

A: Don’t be so serious about everything — lighten up, keep an open mind, and be open to new things and new people.

Q: What, to date, has been your most rewarding accomplishment in both your professional personal life?

A: Having the opportunity to work as a teacher and now the assistant head of the middle school that I attended and graduated from.

From growing up in Oklahoma City where he learned all about hard work as a fifth-grader helping his father make and sell Christmas wreaths out of wire grid panels and cedar tree branches to building his own company, John Paul Merritt’s journey can easily be summed up as an All-American success story. With its headquarters firmly rooted in Dallas, Merritt has built his land-focused oil and gas company, Pony Oil, from a laptop in Starbucks five years ago to more than 35 employees and $145 million in revenue for 2018. He also opened a family office, Merritt Plus that invests in Dallas businesses like Unleavened Fresh Kitchen in Snider Plaza. The Highland Park father of four also is heavily involved in his children’s schools (Armstrong Elementary and Westminster Presbyterian), Christ the King Catholic Church, and several nonprofits. His Golden Rule: Work and live like your children are watching. “My faith and family is the most important thing in this world to me, and just as I followed my father’s examples, so will my children.

Q: What was your “lightbulb moment” that lead you to your career?

A: Not sure there was a “lightbulb moment,” but I truly believe that my failures and my ability to learn from them have provided me a unique skill set that has helped propel Pony Oil to what it is today.

Q: What do you love most about the Park Cities?

A: This is an easy one. Community. (My wife) Kriti and I constantly tell ourselves how lucky we are to be able to live in a community that cares so much about their city, friends, and families.

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Meg is a member of the Church of Incarnation, where she served as a member of the Vestry for three years, She and her husband teach a Sunday School class on marriage and help run the pre-marriage course.

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Cassin & Cassin Education: SMU Deadman School of Law

Two things you can tell immediately about Courtney Bristow from her Facebook account are that she loves posting about her children, Davis, 8, and Taylor, 7, and that she’s always decluttering the house. She is also the managing partner of Cassin & Cassin and has been since she was hired to open their Dallas office in 2013. A fellow of the Texas Bar Foundation and named a Texas Rising Star from 2014-2016 and in 2019, one would think that her focus is her career, but in fact, her real joy comes from spending time in her community.

Having grown up in the Park Cities area,

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If there were one thing I could change about the community, it would be that by law all Mexican restaurants have to give free queso along with the salsa and chips. where she now lives with her husband, James, she considers the community full of wonderful people, some of whom she has known since high school. “It’s a little town in a huge city,” she said. Courtney is part of the University Park PTA and Highland Park United Methodist Church, donating her free time in any way she can. Despite the busy schedule, though, you can often find her at Hillstone, munching on her favorite cheeseburger.

Q: What was your “lightbulb moment” that led you to your career?

A: When I was growing up, both of my parents invested in real estate, and we were always driving around to various properties.

While an SMU undergrad, I was in a business law class, and that’s when the lightbulb turned

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Winston & Strawn Education: SMU Deadman School of Law

Katrina Eash originally wanted to be an investigative reporter; that is until she realized her journalism skills made her an even better lawyer. At Winston & Strawn, Katrina consistently goes above and beyond the amount of pro bono hours her firm requires and considers that work to be one of her greatest professional accomplishments. Advocating for her clients’ lives and showing their humanity makes the hard work she has put into her career worth it.

Outside of her legal life, Katrina is also a mom to two daughters, Reagan and Logan, whom she enjoys taking out with her husband, Dustin. Having grown up in Dallas, she is no stranger to the many wonderful places that make the Park Cities home to thousands of families, but she also has her personal favorites, too. Carlo’s Bakery is one of her go-to spots. “I have a massive sweet tooth,” she said. Though Katrina would love if the sidewalks in the area could get more attention, the community in Park Cities and smiles of her many friends and neighbors make her call the area home.

Q: If we looked at your social media accounts, what would we learn and why?

A: I am absolutely in love with my children and husband, and I think they are all really cute. Yes, I am one of those moms!

Q: Where do you see your career 10 years from now?

A: I see myself in the courtroom battling for my clients when the company knows that the stakes are high, and only the best will do.

Did You Know?

Growing up, I was a competitive gymnast. on, and I knew I wanted to go to law school. It wasn’t until I was enrolled in several real estate transaction classes that I realized that real estate finance law was a perfect fit for me.

Q: If there was one thing that you could change or improve in the community, what would it be?

A: More parking spaces. Everywhere I go, I feel like there is not enough parking.

Did You Know?

In high school, I had to get a job to pay for the damage I caused after backing my car into two parked cars at the old Blockbuster across from SMU. At 17, I learned the importance of customer service; even minimum wage earners have to pay taxes, and to always make sure I look twice when driving in reverse.

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Matthew Ruffner

Preston Hollow Presbyterian Church Education: Presbyterian College

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It was on a train in Munich his senior year of college that the now Rev. Matthew Ruffner realized he had no idea, metaphorically, where he was going.

“We got off the train, went hiking in the Bavarian Alps, and I thought to myself, ‘Have I been on a train my whole life with no idea where I’m going?’” Reflecting on a time when his life where he did know, the moments that came up were when he was discussing – or debating – theology and politics. That moment led to him taking a year off after college to live in a tiny Honduras town for three months where he worked on a dairy farm in the morning and helped build desks for the elementary school and taught English at night. When he returned to the states, Matthew enrolled in seminary. About four years ago, the Zick Preaching Scholar was named senior pastor at Preston Hollow Presbyterian Church where he leads a staff of 33 and a congregation of 2,700 – and knows exactly where he is going in life, “shaping the trajectory of our great city through the life and ministry of ” his church.

Q: What is the best advice you’ve ever received?

A: Being a leader is trying to decide whether to overreact or underreact. Underreacting is the right answer 90 percent of the time.

Q: What is your favorite place to eat, and what do you order?

A: Meso Maya and Herradura salmon.

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REAGAN VAN EATON

I learned the value of hard work and education” through my first job where “I hauled hay in South Carolina for $6 an hour.

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BEAM BRACELET Education: Highland Park High School

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er mother calls it an entrepreneurial heart, she calls it being stubborn, but whatever the adjective, Highland Park High School senior Reagan Van Eaton has always used her creativity to solve problems.

Most recently, she took a challenge and locked up a provisional patent on a bright idea that tackles a problem that’s relatable to anyone who’s worn a retainer or Invisalign adjuster.

And it all began in the trash can.

“It was embarrassing,” she said about the act of furtively recovering her retainer at the lunch table as a freshman and then carefully wrapping it in a napkin while she ate. The awkward way of dealing with her retainer worked until she accidentally threw it away.

That incident – and a stern lecture from her mother – was the lightbulb moment that led to the creation of what Reagan has named a BeAM Bracelet. Simple in design, almost resembling a headband, the fashionable bracelet lined with food-grade material

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Underwood Commercial Properties, The SANE Initiative Education: SMU This year marks the 16th that Courtney Underwood has fought to expand services for victims of sexual violence, both in our community and across the state. Deemed “the Dallas area’s most prominent advocate for sex crimes” by the Dallas Morning News, the Highland Park resident still remembers how terrified she felt the first time she publically shared her story about being a rape victim. In the March 2009 issue of D

serves as a storage device.

After researching patents and the process, Reagan took it upon herself to write her own and was recently awarded a provisional patent for her creation and is going into mass production this summer – all while battling typical high school deadlines, managing an award-winning yearbook, interning with a communitywide interdenominational Christian ministry, and catering to clients from her digital scrapbook business.

“I like a project, and I like a challenge,” Reagan said. “I’m the kind of person that

once I have something, I’m like this is what I’m doing now.”

Preparing to attend the University of Missouri to study journalism next year, Reagan doesn’t just stand out as a youth on the rise because of her tenacity to invent something meaningful before graduating high school. Her heart for others also is impressive.

As she prepares to commercialize her bracelet, Meagan already has promised to donate 10 percent of profits to those who do not have access to dental care.

Reagan also was awarded a Presidential Service Award for her community service and completed a life-changing mission trip to Haiti. She is adventurous and curious about the world around her. She is a Cornerstone Scholar Athlete and a member of the National Honor Society and Quill & Scroll International Journalism Honor Society.

With myriad interests and the rest of her life in front of her, Reagan said developing her bracelet is a passion she wants to keep for life.

“That is the one thing that I don’t have to do,” she said. “This is the one thing I am doing because I enjoy it.”

Q : If you could buy a book (or rent a movie) for your

neighbor, what would it be and why?

A : “Leaders Eat Last” by Simon Sinek. Reading this

book has changed my perspective on leadership and caused me to begin to become more passionate and have a better understanding of what it means to be a leader in and out of the workplace.

Magazine, she talked about her mission and bringing SANE’s (Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner) to the city – and she would still do it all “to help one single survivor.”

Between her work with the initiative and becoming the owner and CEO of Underwood Commercial Properties four years ago after closing out her mother’s estate, Courtney calls her day-to-day life crazy but blessed. And she’s dreaming big for the future; her goal is to establish the first Family Advocacy Center in Dallas – the largest city in the country without one, open more SAFE Clinics across the U.S., and ensure all hospitals have SANEs in their ERs. Q: What leadership skills were the most challenging for you to develop?

A: Definitely patience in addition to learning that success is built upon the back of failure.

Q: What did you learn from your first job?

A: Working in the service industry not only gave me an enormous appreciation for everyone who works in the industry but it also taught me that one of the best ways to judge a person’s character is to watch how they treat servers in those in the industry.

Did You Know?

Brooks was a therapy dog for sexual assault victims before being trained as my service dog. He’s also the mascot for Courtney’s SAFE Place, and he’s always sporting a bow tie.

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Deloitte Consulting Education: University of Texas at Austin

Being named the CoreNet Global Luminary in 2018 and completing two Ironman triathlons are what Kevin Shtofman considers his most significant accomplishments professionally and personally, respectively. “And although I wouldn’t call the birth of my daughter an ‘accomplishment,’ it has been the greatest single moment of my life. However, those in his industry know him as a digital technology evangelist. For the past two years, he’s traveled to 31 cities and eight countries to tell executives in the real estate space why Blockchain Technology is the future – think of it like a general ledger that has transaction histories, purchases, sales of assets, and other data. Kevin said he found himself passionate about the space two weeks into his MBA program. “Lehman Brothers collapsed. This company, which had been around for over 150 years, was brought down because of an opaque real estate market.

I knew right then that the industry was going to experience a ton of change over the ensuing decades.” With technology now sought after in the industry, Kevin said he has his eyes set on running a company at the executive level in the real estate space within the next decade.

Q: What big issue are you watching in the community?

A: The Preston Center parking garage – very closely. After the success of Klyde Warren Park, I’d love to see an active project that supports more residential development and green space for community events.

Q: What is the best place for a power lunch, and what do you order?

A: Pretty hard to beat the Thai Steak Salad at Hillstone in Preston Center, although Montlake Cut comes a close second.

Did You Know?

I am a member of Gen Next, a small, invitation-only network across the U.S. advocating for criminal justice reform, education reform, and common sense national security efforts.

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Central Dentist Education: UT Houston Dental Branch

A fourth-generation dentist, it’s no surprise where Jill Ombrello developed a passion for oral healthcare. However, her confident decision-making skills were developed at TCBY at Preston/Forest – her first job. “I would patiently wonder how in the world these people would function in their jobs and life when it would take them 15 minutes to choose between four flavors and six toppings,” she said. “I was always impressed with those customers that would walk right in with confidence and order their yogurt with a specific topping. I decided at that job that I would be one of the confident decision makers who walked in and knew what she wanted.” Today, the Preston Hollow mother of four has used her sharp instincts and heart for giving back to others in both her private dental practice and in her family-run mobile dental company that services those who cannot travel to a traditional dental office. Jill also is an international lecturer, trainer, and consultant for Healthy Start/Orthotrain and travels around the world to teach and train other dentists in how to evaluate a child’s growth and development to provide a holistic, comprehensive approach to their needs.

Q: If you could improve one thing about your community, what would it be?

A: The litter in our community. I live off Northaven and witness drivers throw trash out of their windows. I would also make Preston Hollow a smoke-free community.

Q: If we looked at your social media accounts, what would we learn about you?

A: You would see that I am not afraid to throw out a motivational Monday quote now and then.

Did You Know?

I have the most amazing 15-year-old Maltese named Notorious BIG, but we call him “Biggie” for short.

Lauren Morehead

Gartner Education: Pepperdine University

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If Lauren Griffin Morehead could choose any actress to portray her in a movie, it would be Reese Witherspoon, whom she says strikes the perfect balance between an adventurous spirit and a giving soul, traits that match up pretty well to the real deal. For example, if you scrolled through Lauren’s social media, you’d see that she’s a foodie, travel, and adventure junkie and that her family dogs are the center of her world. Professionally, you’d be impressed with how fast this 24-year-old has climbed the ranks at Gartner from an associate to a manager in her first 11 months. She considers herself

Kyle Coburn

The Photo Bus DFW, Coburn Photography Education: University of Missouri

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Kyle Coburn learned a lot about the photo industry from a photographer most Park Cities residents remember and love, the late Phil Stephens. “Learning the journalism industry from Phil and other journalism professionals on the sidelines of Scots sporting events, and the encouragement from my Bagpipe newspaper advisor, Sandy Hall-Chiles, led me to pursue journalism and photography in college.

While starting his career as a sports photographer, Kyle’s talents took him around the world as a wedding photographer. He also launched The Photo Bus DFW, a mobile photo booth in a vintage VW Bus, with his college roommate. Their first event was at the HPISD Centennial Celebration in October 2014. The duo has since licensed the concept across the country to 11 cities. You might have seen it at local events like the Snider Plaza Christmas Tree Lighting, the Fourth of July Parade, and HP National Night Out. While Coburn loves to travel and find beauty in random corners of the world, he also has a heart for giving back to the community. Each year he volunteers for the Take Steps Walk of Dallas and Fort Worth, benefitting the Crohns and Colitis Foundation, a disease that affects his girlfriend.

Q: What do you love about the Park Cities community?

A: I love that it is a timeless community that is consistent in its values and more progressive than people give it credit for. Whether you are inspired or intimidated by success, you may find your motivation in this North Dallas community.

Q: Which is your favorite local store?

A: JDs Chippery. Don’t order from the counter. Just ask what is fresh out of the oven and get a dozen of those. You won’t regret it.

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Rawles Bell

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Rawles F. Bell learned all about hard work and responsibility working as a ranch hand in Colorado, where he spent most of his days bailing hay. “As a high school kid, experiencing the satisfaction of a hard day’s work and having to take responsibility for my job were two excellent growth opportunities,” the Park Cities native said. Today, he is an associate director and client advisor, specializing in wealth advisory services and portfolio management – a career he fell in love with during an internship nearly a decade ago. Getting to see how wealth management marries the world of investing with the world of personal counseling and helping people is why he said he loves the profession. “It sounds dramatic, but from that moment, I knew what I was going to do with my life.” When he’s not working, spending time with his wife and newborn daughter, or shopping at Saint Bernard, Rawles serves on the board of PureHope, a nonprofit seeking to equip parents and leaders to point people to Jesus amid an over-sexualized culture.

Q: Which leadership skills were the most challenging for you to develop and why?

A: The skill of delegating. I am a terrible delegator. Maybe I’m controlling or arrogant – probably both – but I have always found it hard to hand off or teach tasks to others when it would be faster to do it myself. It is still something I am learning.

Q: If we looked at your social media accounts, what would we learn about you?

A: I don’t use social media. I can be a very non-millennial, millennial.

Did you know?

While I don’t have any pets of my own, I am the ‘uncle’ to my neighbor’s dog, Winnie.

If I were to win the lottery, I would still do what I am doing right now.

lucky to have had mentors at the beginning of her corporate world career – mentorships she said helped steward her early career and instill in her a passion for helping others in the same way. “From the moment I started here, I’ve felt the genuine interest of surrounding leaders in my own life, aspirations, and well-being, and I plan to pay that forward throughout the rest of my time here and across my career,” she said.

Lauren also pays it forward in her personal life, from serving on the Children’s Health One Society Board – having volunteered with the Jr. Leadership Board through high school – and on the board of directors for Students Shoulder to Shoulder, a nonprofit that partners with global nonprofits to do service work.

Q: If you could, what advice would you

have for your teenage self, and why?

A: I would tell myself to enjoy the lack of responsibility more and spend more time with family and friends. Your teenage years are a time to learn and grow and develop … to begin to flex leadership skills … but they’re also a time to simply enjoy the small things.

Q: If you could rent your neighbor a movie, what would it be?

A: “Father of the Bride.” They have a tightknit family, and their granddaughters would love it.

Did You Know?

In addition to her Preston Hollow neighborhood, Griffin’s heart also belongs to East Texas, where her family ranch is, and Switzerland where she studied abroad.

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Tim Newman

Haynes and Boone Education: Texas A&M University

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Two things you’d learn looking at Tim Newman’s social media presence is that he’s ardent about being a parent to his 19-monthold son and that he recently traveled the state campaigning for president-elect of the Texas Young Lawyers Association after being nominated to run. What you might not realize is that he’s wanted to be a lawyer for as long as he can remember. Growing up in a small East Texas town, he said, “lawyers were the movers and shakers and had a real impact on the community.” Now a partner at Haynes and Boone investigations group, Tim began his career with the firm in 2008 as a summer associate and went full time after graduating from law school in 2009 and working for a federal judge for one year. He is the current president of the Texas Aggie Bar Association and serves on the boards of the Dallas Association-Young Lawyers and Texas Young Lawyers Association. Tim also serves on the CONNECT Board of Capital for Kids, a network of volunteer professionals who support an organization that educates, protects, and encourages the development of North Texas children.

Q: What has been your most rewarding accomplishment in both your professional and personal life?

A: My professional and personal lives converged in a special way on Thursday, Nov. 30, 2017. My son had just been born and was spending a few days in NICU. My wife was holding him for the first time when I got the news that I had made partner at Haynes and Boone. There was a real sense of personal and professional abundance.

Q: What is your favorite local store?

A: Hands down, Interabang Books. I love that place and wish I could go there every day.

Our son Danny loves the kids’ section.

Did You Know?

I worked at a Christmas tree farm in high school.

Katie Eska

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North Dallas High School Education: Harvard Graduate School of Education

Hewitt & Habgood Group with Dave Perry-Miller Real Estate Education: University of Dallas

Katie Eska may have been the youngest principal of her time hired by Dallas Independent School District, but her accomplishments quickly measure up to the most tenured of staff. During her first year as principal, Katie launched the International Baccalaureate Primary Years Programme at Arthur Kramer Elementary, which soon became the first elementary school in DISD to achieve IB Authorization and is still only one of four to offer an IB education to the district’s youngest learners. Last year, she was one of 11 principals selected to participate in the Superintendent’s Principal Group. Daily, she is responsible for 116 employees and the safety, well-being, and progress toward graduation of nearly 1,100 students. “A leader has to be thinking ahead to ensure that every short-term decision aligns to the long-term goal by “sweating the small stuff ” and absolutely taking care of their people,” she said. Katie’s passion for education also can be seen in her community civic work with Incarnation House through North Dallas High School.

Q: If you could, what advice would you have for your teenage self and why?

A: Enjoy the journey. Driven and goal-oriented people love to rush the process, but the path is an enormous part of making us ready for the challenges and success we have in the future.

Q: If you could buy a book for your neighbor, what would it be and why?

A: A book I am loving right now is “Just Mercy” by Bryan Stevenson, as it reminds us all that “each of us in more than the worst thing we have ever done.”

Jason Saucedo’s lightbulb moment that propelled him into his career was realizing the only person that could hold him back from accomplishing anything in life was himself.

Once that was clear, setting and achieving goals became second nature. Ten years from now, Jason hopes to look back on his life and know he’s continued efforts to grow and help as many people as he can – not just as a partner at his job, but also through philanthropic work raising money for Alzheimer research and community service through his alma mater, Jesuit College Preparatory. “I want to look back and know that I’ve made this world a better place … and hopefully, have a positive impact on those around me,” he said. The 2017 Five Star Professional Rising Star and three-yearin-a-row D Magazine top producer, among other accolades, also is a strong advocate for top-notch education and donates to Jesuit’s scholarship fund because he believes all children “should have the same opportunities that I was so fortunate to receive, regardless of cost, if they qualify.”

Q: If you could buy a book for your neighbor, what would it be and why?

A: “Winning with People” by John C Maxwell. This is a great book on how to communicate that will help anyone in all facets of life.

Communication is so important whether it is with your spouse, friends, children, boss, or employee.

Q: If you could, what advice would you have for your teenage self?

A: Trust in yourself. God built you the way you are for a reason, and while you don’t see it now, he put everything you need inside of you.

It’s your responsibility to learn and grow to be the best version of yourself.

Did You Know?

My very first job was working as a gymnastics coach in my hometown of Marietta, Georgia. This is where I solidified my love for working with children.

Michael Wong

Briggs Freeman Sotheby’s International Realty Education: Texas Tech University

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Life came into focus for Michael Wong after closing his first real estate deal. “I now had a purpose and decided to learn everything I possibly could and fully immerse myself in the world of residential real estate. It’s what God put me on this Earth to do.” His passion for real estate can also be seen on his Instagram feed (@michaelwongdallas). In fact, he’d be the first to tell you that social media has revolutionized his career in the industry. “You have to make it as little about you and bring something to

Did You Know?

My first job was at the YMCA as an umpire for tee-ball games. the table that appeals to everyone; and who doesn’t like looking at a pretty house.” The Turtle Creek resident began his feed in 2012 by taking photos of homes he liked.

That quickly grew to him turning down every street to photograph as many homes possible – looking up the stats; the year built, the owner, and architecture on each home. Today, that page boasts 19,000 followers. Michael’s love for homes also spills over into his philanthropic work, serving as a member of Preservation Dallas and Park Cities Historic and Preservation Society.

Q: What do you love about the Park Cities?

A: I love the old homes and architecture. I can’t imagine growing up with-

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Perry-Miller Streiff Group Education: Savannah College of Arts & Design

Holly Aldredge leads the development and implementation of marketing for The Perry-Miller Streiff Group, the top producing real estate group at Dave Perry-Miller Real Estate. Her career lightbulb moment “was knowing a marketing presentation and strategy I spearheaded and designed helped the company earn business that may not have happened otherwise,” she said. While her day job allows Holly to help real estate agents showcase the beauty of the Park Cities and Preston Hollow, the foundation she started in the wake of losing her first child during a full term reminds her of what’s essential in life.

One Wing Foundation raises and distributes funds to other nonprofits that provide resources to bereaved parents who have or will endure pregnancy or infancy loss. “It is important to the family that just had their third miscarriage, and to the parents who have to explain to a child that the little brother or sister they thought they were getting is in Heaven,” the now mother of two said.

Q: If we looked at your social media accounts, what would we learn about you?

A: Family and Friends are the most important thing to me. After losing both of my parents by the age of 29 and then our first child, I’ve learned you cannot take them for granted. Every day is precious.

Q: If someone made a movie of your life, what would the title be and who would play you?

A: “Imperfectly Balanced” with Kristen Bell. I love her because she brings real emotion, rawness, but with a relatable way with some underlying humor.

Did you know?

My husband is from the Park Cities, and his families are old Dallas names. Aldredge House on Swiss was his great grandparent’s house, and Munger is his great grandmother’s maiden name. out mature trees and being surrounded by houses that differ from each other so much. I don’t do cookie-cutter. I believe that every home should be different and reflect each owner’s personality.

Q: Where is the best place for a power lunch, and what do you order?

A: Bistro 31 in Highland Park Village.

My team gets a lot of business done there, and it’s always great running into clients or people you know. I usually get the Nicoise Salad – seared Ahi tuna – what could be better?

Did You Know?

My first job was painting address numbers on curbs throughout the Park Cities area? I loved it because I was my own boss.

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Jing Leng

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: What was your first

job, and what did you learn from it?

I was a food service sales representative in charge of the Beijing Hotel niche for Hormel China.

Working in a big corporate company, I learned how to coordinate with a different department, from the factory to accounting, and always find my way to reaching the sales goals and solving problems.

Brian Li

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Where do you see yourself and career 10 years from now?

I see growing ModeSens into the next Google and becoming the digital shopping assistant for everyone. Shoppers will just need to tell ModeSens what they wish to buy, and ModeSens will take care of the rest.

ModeSens Education (both): Bejing Union University VELVET AND WIRE

Keith Conlon

Allie Beth Allman & Associates Education: TCU

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If you think being a real estate agent is a tough job in the Dallas industry, try being the general manager of a large firm. Keith Conlon oversees 400 local agents, runs the sales department at Allie Beth Allman & Associates, and manages three offices. He does that all while serving as a board member at the Shelton School, on the advisory committee of Young Chancellor, and as a volunteer with Genesis Women’s Shelter and the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. So where exactly did he learn how to be disciplined,

have a good work ethic, character, mental toughness, and hard work? Playing professional baseball. “Baseball is a game of failure, and you can get too high or too low, and I felt like mentally, it was very similar to real estate … You have to stay evenkeeled at all times.” However, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t dream big; the father of two said 10 years from now he would like to become the CEO of Allie Beth Allman & Associates, growing the brand’s footprint by expanding into other markets.

Q: If you could, what advice would you have for your teenage self and why?

A: That just because you have dyslexia, it doesn’t mean you won’t be able to accomplish everything you want in life.

When I transferred into Highland Park High School from the Shelton School, I was told that I wouldn’t go to a great college because I didn’t take AP classes. However, I graduated with a 3.4 from TCU and was a student-athlete, so I feel like I have overcome some adversity in my life. I was always worried about my future when I was a teen.

Q: What do you love most about the Park Cities?

A: I love how supportive the community is of the schools and the local businesses.

Did you know?

If I could rent his neighbor any movie, it would be the original ‘Karate Kid’ because that movie is greatness.

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he marriage of Jing Leng and Brian Li brought together an ideal business model.

Jing, a personal fashion shopper, struggled for years juggling the amount of time spent finding the perfect outfit for her clients, often going to several stores for one contact. Brian, a software engineer, knew an internet platform would help speed the process along. So, he built one.

That grew into ModeSens, a thriving digital shopping assistant helping people shop for fashion around the world.

“ModeSens aggregates information from more than 200 global luxury stores, and adds a service layer to help our users shop efficiently, save time, and save money on the styles they love,” Jing said.

The company has been a revelation not only for the Highland Park couple but for their clients, as well. ModeSens helps shoppers who visit the site every step of the way, and purchase decisions are also made “pretty quickly,” Jing said.

“Everything they wish to know or do during the shopping process is available to them in one place,” she said. “We now serve more people, who also love fashion, by allowing them to feel more knowledgeable and smarter when shopping online, or in store, with ModeSens on their side.”

Working for themselves, Brian said, has been fulfilling, exciting, and rewarding.

“There is always so much to do, and you never feel bored,” he said. “We have a big vision for the future and are working hard to make it happen. Seeing people using ModeSens and saving time and money with our help makes all the hard work worth it and makes me feel very accomplished.”

Once completed, Brian introduced the site to Jing with a rather romantic gesture.

On the day ModeSens launched, Brian sent Jing a link. It was to a page on the site that had a pair of shoes Jing had been looking for: a pair of LeSilla crystal sandals, in her size, marked down 60 percent from the original price. Immediately, ModeSens had come through.

“I felt so surprised and lucky that my husband, using the website he coded by himself, found exactly the right style I wanted,” she said.

Later, Jing said, she began receiving member comments on how easy it was to use ModeSens, and how the site led directly to finding designer items for fair prices. “[Members] were finding their loved pieces too, such as Valentino dresses, and Jimmy Choo shoes,” she said. “Working for myself was my dream since I was in middle school. I feel so lucky that I could turn my love of fashion into a career and a profitable business.”

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MARISSA ALVARADO

By Marissa Alvarado People Newspapers

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n 2006, Lilly and Markus Neubauer found themselves working together at a Domino’s Pizza in Lubbock where they spent time at a large sink, washing pots and pans at the end of the workday.

Years later they found themselves at another sink – the one in their first home – washing dirty bottles for their daughter, Heidi.

“We should all have to meet our life partner next to a sink in a commercial kitchen washing dishes because if you can respect each other, talk, have gratitude, and find fun in that, that’s more of what marriage is like than dates in helicopters,” Lilly said.

The Preston Hollow couple will soon be married a decade, a journey that has brought them to their latest endeavor, the family and lifestyle blog “Open Hearted Home.”

Lilly works in marketing and business development for Frame, a dance fitness studio, and Markus works as an associate principal and civil engineer at Pacheco Koch.

Together they own and co-author their blog about family life, mindfulness, and their lessons in life.

Raised in Preston Hollow, Lilly graduated from Ursuline Academy and said she inherited a particular definition of success.

“I was a successful person if I grew up and had the corner office, and the biggest house on the block, and a boat, or awesome vacation photos, and I think all of that is amazing,” she said. “We learned through our 20s that we were working in overdrive to earn these things. They weren’t even really things we wanted, we just kind of felt that once we had them, we would be validated, and we would feel like we were good.”

Lilly and Markus were at the height of their professions, volunteering in the city, reading all of the parenting books but were both unhappy. Despite having these textbook definitions of success, something was missing from their home.

They had to reevaluate their relationship with their parents’ definition of success.

“Maybe that’s not ours anymore,” Markus, an SMU alumnus, said. “Well, what is ours? Where do we create that? It starts here at home with the family and

Markus Neubauer

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: What has been your most rewarding accomplishment in your personal life.

Creating the open family that Lilly, Heidi, and I share. It’s a space where we can each express what we feel and need and where we help each other grow and improve. Most of all, it’s a place where we can share the biggest laugh about something or absolutely nothing – and every time, it’s the best, most heartwarming moment of my life.

Lilly Neubauer

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: If you could, what advice would you

have for your teenage self and why?

Grace, authenticity, and integrity will take you a lot farther than hustle.

Hard work and self-sacrificing values were propped up in my academic upbringing as qualities of a successful person, but I’ve found those come naturally when I’m honoring myself and using my creativity.

Open Hearted Home Markus’ Education: SMU Lilly’s Education: Texas Tech having that be the first priority.”

Through their blog and a new approach towards life, the duo has created their definitions of accomplishment.

“American families just really aren’t in tune with their feelings anymore and so since we’re not following our feelings and our hearts, and our intuition, we’ve built and idolized these versions of success that aren’t attainable,” Lilly said.

The blog was a way for the couple to start a dialogue of following an authentic path, rather than finding gratification through outwards goals, approval, or objects.

While they continue to work as a couple and family, they said their desire to keep creating content is sparking more indepth conversations in their marriage.

“We’re just inviting people in to see hopefully themselves and just the regular struggles and triumphs,” Lilly said. “To end every day and be thankful for any failures we had and proud of any efforts that we put forth.”

We’re an under

standout too!

People Newspapers will turn 38 in August

We’ve been honored with awards from the National Newspaper Association in the following categories:

General Excellence (1st Place)

Story Series - ESD Algae (1st Place)

Best Multiple Advertiser Section - 20 Under 40 (2nd Place)

Best Special Section - 2018 Scots Chamionship (Honorable Mention) ..and more!

Special honors go to Bianca R. Montes, who was individually recognized.

Additionally, congratulations to our entire team for outstanding work and accomplishments.

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