Peace Ideas - Issue No. 76

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76

peace ideas

‘’If five percent of the people work for peace, there will be peace.’’ A Quarterly Publication of the Peace Center Theosophical Society in the Philippines, 1 Iba Street, Quezon City, Philippines

Tel. No. 741-5740; Fax: 740-3751; E-mail address: philtheos@gmail.com; Webpage: http://www.theosophy.ph

Interpersonal Relationships

Beginning Anew Being human, we all make mistakes. We harm ourselves and those around us with our unskillful thoughts, words, and actions. Hence, renewing our relationships on a regular basis is well-advised. In his book, Creating True Peace, renowned peace writer Thich Nhat Hanh suggests the following practice of renewing rela tion ships called "Be gin ning Anew." Its three basic steps are: 1. Share appreciation. Recognize and acknowledge the positive at trib utes of the other person. When you do this, you give him the opportunity to recognize his positive qualities and you also water those very qualities in your own consciousness. 2. Express regret. Share with the other person your regrets for the things you have done or said that might have caused him pain. This requires humility and the willingness to let go of your own pain and pride. 3. Express your own hurt with mindful loving speech, without blaming or criticizing. Speak in such a way that the other person can lis ten and re ceive your words. Be careful not to speak words of blame or condemnation lest he close his heart and ears. Ask him to help you understand why he spoke or acted the way he did even though you love him. Source: Thich Hhat Hanh, Creating True Peace. (New York: Simon and Schuster, Inc., 2003).

Peace Perspective______________________________

Why We Go to War "Since wars begin in the minds of men, it is in the minds of men that the defenses of peace must be constructed" is a wise UNESCO peace quote that accords with the timeless spiritual teaching and modern scientific discovery that all material reality emanates from consciousness, and we all co-create our reality as conscious beings. Interviewed by Tricycle magazine about his take on why we humans go to war, David Loy points out that-1. Our sense of a false, separate self is the root cause of war. We experience our false self (or ego) as hollow or groundless because it is al ways chang ing, separate and incomplete. Consequently, life often becomes a futile quest to make ourselves more real. Individually, we seek symbolic being in our possessions or achievements, or through the eyes of our beloved. Unfortunately, these ultimately fail because of their transitory nature.

2. Our collective sense of lack feeds ideologies such as nationalism and group struggles such as war. In war, one of the things outside us that we think is lacking is personified in the enemy. The fear that arises from our sense of separativeness and incompleteness leads to hatred and violent intention. We think we need to defeat the enemy to become whole and healed.We are unable to listen to and understand the enemy's suffering. 3. Ultimately, our individual and collective sense of lack can only be resolved spiritually because that is the only way we can realize our true being--our essential oneness with all that makes us whole and complete--or find "the Kingdom of God" within us. Universal love, peace and compassion arise from an awakened unitive consciousness. Source: "Peace: How Realistic is It?" -- interview by Tricycle magazine (Summer, 2003)

Inside ____________________________________ The Worldwide Scourge of Child Labor Are You Pushing Your Kid to Internet Addiction? Using the Pen to Heal Three Things That Money Cannot Buy Dance Meditation Anyone? Humor and Laughter Maximize Learning Caregiver's Bill of Rights

Timeless Wisdom Tips for Inner Peace Mind-Boggling Enviro-Facts and Stats Can Animals Tell Right From Wrong? Parenting with Peace and Poise Doomsday Clock: Five Minutes Left And More…


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