Mediation Planning for Parenting and Family

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8055 W. Manchester Ave., Suite 201 Playa del Rey, California 90293 310-301-2100 Fax:310-301-2102 Email: diana1159@aol.com www.peace-talks.com

Diana Mercer, Esq Attorney Mediator Tara Fass, LMFT Therapist-Mediator Lic. #MFT 35078

Mediation Planning Copyright 2005 by Diana Mercer, Attorney-Mediator, Peace Talks Mediation Services, Inc. Diana Mercer Attorney-Mediator Peace Talks Mediation Services 8055 W. Manchester Ave., Suite 201 Playa del Rey CA 90293 (310) 301-2100 Diana Mercer, Attorney-Mediator, is the founder of Peace Talks Mediation Services in Los Angeles (www.peace-talks.com) and the co-author of Your Divorce Advisor: A Lawyer and a Psychologist Guide You Through the Legal and Emotional Landscape of Divorce, (Fireside 2001). ____________________________________________________________ Mediation planning helps you become a strategic mediator. No longer just grateful that a client has come in the door, and no longer flying by the seat of your pants, you’re thoughtfully planning out your office procedures, case management procedures, and your actual mediation sessions in a thoughtful and ever-expanding way. We were introduced to the concept of the strategic mediator by Forrest Mosten at his May 2004 advanced family mediation training. Mosten is also quick to credit Christopher Moore’s The Mediation Process (Wiley/Jossey Bass 2003) and Michael Lang and Allison Taylor’s The Making of a Mediator. (Jossey Bass 2000) with these ideas and we’ve summarized them here before telling you what we’re doing in our own practice. A strategic mediator approaches each mediation as follows: Develop a theory; Develop a goal for the case (in most cases, the goal is an agreement); Develop a strategy to get to the goal (you may do this individually for each issue); Develop an intervention based on the strategy; Reflect on what went well and what the mediator could have done; differently after the parties are gone. Each strategy may have many possible interventions, but it’s good to have a few thought out beforehand.


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